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  Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.
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  Speaker 3: Should the husband have told his wife about the strip club?
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  Speaker 3: Before I give you any context or details... Just based
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  Speaker 3: on the singular question, Trey, should the husband have told
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  Speaker 3: the wife about the strip club?
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  Speaker 1: If you have to ask, probably not.
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  Speaker 2: Well said. Very well said.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to hold off on my response on the
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  Speaker 3: question for now. Because This context gets real convoluted real fast.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm going to give you just the brief first
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  Speaker 3: part of this, okay? Am I the a-hole for confirming
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  Speaker 3: to my friend that her husband... Okay, so the person
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  Speaker 3: writing this is a female, all right? She says, am
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  Speaker 3: I the a-hole for confirming to my friend that her
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  Speaker 3: husband went to a strip club after my husband told me.
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  Speaker 2: About it privately?
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  Speaker 1: Okay? Okay. All right.
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  Speaker 3: Now, now that I've added a little bit of context
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  Speaker 3: to this. So let's let's make it personal. You, Trey,
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  Speaker 3: are married. I know it's a wild fantasy. And you
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  Speaker 3: and me go to a strip club for a bachelor
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  Speaker 3: party weekend. And I tell you, dude, don't say anything
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  Speaker 3: because my wife wouldn't like it. And then you go
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  Speaker 3: home and tell your wife, yeah, we went to a
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  Speaker 3: strip club. Oh, and Dan's not supposed to wasn't supposed
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  Speaker 3: to be there. So don't tell Tara.
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  Speaker 2: Would you have told your wife what we did?
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  Speaker 1: That's a tough one because I wouldn't want to lie
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  Speaker 1: to her. And I'm just going off my, let's say,
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  Speaker 1: last relationship where it wouldn't have been I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that would have been an issue. I mean, going to
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  Speaker 1: a strip club certainly isn't an issue with me, but...
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  Speaker 1: If she asked, I probably wouldn't have lied, but maybe
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't divulge. Fair.
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  Speaker 2: So... An omission type of lie? Not a full lie,
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  Speaker 2: but just, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean... I don't know. Yeah, I probably would
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  Speaker 1: tell her just because I wouldn't... But... It would also be,
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  Speaker 1: so if I knew my friend would be in trouble, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it would come with a deal of, okay, you cannot
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  Speaker 1: tell his wife. We never had this discussion. If she asked,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you have no knowledge of this whatsoever.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know how everyone else's relationships work, but
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  Speaker 3: I try to default to common sense and, and, sometimes
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  Speaker 3: worst case scenario. What I mean is, if I tell
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  Speaker 3: a buddy something and he's married, I'm automatically assuming he
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  Speaker 3: will tell his wife.
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  Speaker 2: I just am.
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  Speaker 3: That's just how my brain works, the way I view
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  Speaker 3: a marriage, is I'm just going to assume that me
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  Speaker 3: telling Fred, Fred will tell Jane.
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  Speaker 2: Just period. I'm just assuming it outright.
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  Speaker 3: And so because of that, if there's something that I
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  Speaker 3: don't want someone else down, down the line to know,
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  Speaker 3: and it's connected by Jane, Fred's wife, then I'm just
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  Speaker 3: not going to tell Fred. Cause I'm assuming he will
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  Speaker 3: tell her because whether by coercion, fear, or just outright relationship,
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  Speaker 3: openness and honesty, I assume she's going to find out
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  Speaker 3: whatever's inside his head. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I've, If this gets so complicated, because if
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  Speaker 1: it's going to cause, if going to a strip club
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  Speaker 1: is going to cause that much friction in your marriage,
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  Speaker 1: there is obviously something else going on. And if it's
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  Speaker 1: your buddy, then, because chances are, if it's going to
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  Speaker 1: a strip club is an issue, like you're, you're doing
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  Speaker 1: it too much or something has happened that has made
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  Speaker 1: your wife uncomfortable. Now there are a few, there, there
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  Speaker 1: are couples where that's just off limits period, the end.
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  Speaker 1: But for the most part, people I know, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think their wives would have like, if their relationship is solid,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think their wife's going to have a really big,
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  Speaker 1: you know, especially at our age now, 20 years ago,
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  Speaker 1: you know, maybe something different. Um, but that's just, if
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  Speaker 1: that one thing is really going to get your buddy
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  Speaker 1: in trouble, your buddy's probably fucking up. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Your buddy's already in trouble.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: For any number of other things. So here she says, uh,
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  Speaker 3: so basically everyone's in their thirties. She says, my husband
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  Speaker 3: and I are close friends with another married couple, Sarah
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  Speaker 3: and Mike. We've known them for a couple of years.
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  Speaker 3: Sarah has become a close friend of mine independently of
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  Speaker 3: our husband's About a month ago, my husband and Mike
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  Speaker 3: went on a bachelor party trip. Some of the guys
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  Speaker 3: went to a strip club. My husband told me afterward.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't care that he went, but he also told
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  Speaker 3: me Mike went and specifically did not want Sarah to
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  Speaker 3: know because.
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  Speaker 2: She would be upset. I never told Sarah.
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  Speaker 3: Recently, we learned Sarah and Mike were having marital problems,
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  Speaker 3: but I had no idea how serious they were or
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  Speaker 3: what they were about. Before I saw her, my husband
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  Speaker 3: asked me that if the strip club was what she
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  Speaker 3: was upset about to downplay what happened on the trip.
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  Speaker 3: I interpreted that as, Don't volunteer information or make it
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  Speaker 3: into a bigger deal. He apparently meant that I should
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  Speaker 3: not confirm Mike was there at all. When I saw Sarah,
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  Speaker 3: she told me they've actually been separated for over a month.
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  Speaker 3: A major issue in their marriage is Mike repeatedly lying
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  Speaker 3: to her about things involving other women and going to
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  Speaker 3: strip clubs. During the conversation, she said, and the guys
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  Speaker 3: went to a strip club on the bachelor trip, right?
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  Speaker 1: I said, yes.
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  Speaker 3: Based on how she asked, I genuinely thought she already knew.
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  Speaker 3: Turns out she strongly suspected it, but didn't know for sure,
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  Speaker 3: so I ended up accidentally confirming it. My husband is
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  Speaker 3: now extremely upset. He feels he trusted me with information privately,
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  Speaker 3: and I broke that trust. He thinks I should have said,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, or otherwise not answered, and now feels
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  Speaker 3: like we've inserted ourselves into their marriage problems. I understand
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  Speaker 3: why he's upset. I genuinely regret being the person who
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  Speaker 3: confirmed it. If I'd realized.
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  Speaker 2: She didn't know, I probably would have said, something you
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  Speaker 2: need to talk to Mike about.
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  Speaker 3: Where I'm struggling is that Sarah's also my close friend,
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  Speaker 3: I had kept this information to myself for a month,
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  Speaker 3: but now I'm sitting across from her while she told
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  Speaker 3: me her marriage may be ending largely because her husband
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  Speaker 3: was repeatedly lied about this exact behavior. I understand keeping
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  Speaker 3: something from my husband told me privately to myself, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm uncomfortable with the idea that doing so means I'm
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  Speaker 3: obligated to actively lie to my friend when she directly
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  Speaker 3: asked me a question. Now that you have all the context,
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  Speaker 3: do you change the answer to your question at all
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  Speaker 3: about whether or not you as the husband should tell
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  Speaker 3: your wife that you and the boys went to the
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  Speaker 3: strip club?
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  Speaker 1: No, because... The truth of the matter is, your buddy
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  Speaker 1: is already on thin ice, and this is one of
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  Speaker 1: those points where, and I say this now with the
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  Speaker 1: wisdom of 52 years on this earth, 20 years ago
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  Speaker 1: as an alcoholic, probably would have been in Mike's shoes,
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  Speaker 1: of if it's that, if your marriage is on the line,
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  Speaker 1: you probably shouldn't have gone on the bachelor party trip, period.
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  Speaker 1: And And you can't be mad at the wife because
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  Speaker 1: that's her friend. You can't ask her Cause then if
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  Speaker 1: she lies and the, what the other, her friend finds out,
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  Speaker 1: then you just ruin their friendship too. And that's not
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  Speaker 1: really fair. It's like at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: Mike's the F up.
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  Speaker 2: Bingo.
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  Speaker 3: That's my answer. That was my answer. You know, like
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  Speaker 3: almost 10 minutes ago. And it's my answer now. So
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  Speaker 3: if you, the husband, should you tell your wife that
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  Speaker 3: you and the guys went to the bachelor party?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Whether you say it or not, I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: This is all Mike's problem. This is all the root
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  Speaker 2: problem is Mike. Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike.
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  Speaker 1: Dan, hit pause.
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  Speaker 3: Look, you can have this consternation about whether or not
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  Speaker 3: you should tell your wife about something that you did,
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  Speaker 3: but at the end of the day, you, the husband,
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  Speaker 3: and your wife, you're now in the middle, both of you, right?
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  Speaker 3: It's because of something Mike did, and then he wanted
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  Speaker 3: you to keep the information away from his wife, On
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  Speaker 3: the other side of it. So you're being bookended by
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  Speaker 3: a relationship drama that you.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't ask for. Well, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 2: this is all Mike's fault.
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  Speaker 3: Because he doesn't want anything getting back to his wife.
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  Speaker 3: If you don't want anything getting back to your wife,
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  Speaker 3: don't do the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Bros before hoes ends when you say I do.
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  Speaker 2: That is absolute facts.
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  Speaker 1: And it sounds like, and again, I say this, I've
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  Speaker 1: had I ever been, have been married in my late twenties,
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  Speaker 1: early thirties, I probably would have been Mike. Uh, but
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  Speaker 1: you know, Mike still sounds like it wants to be
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  Speaker 1: single and, uh, he's about to be. So there's just.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Good, good news, Mike.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You want to live a single's life. You're about to
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  Speaker 2: get it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. You, you want to hang out at strip clubs. Well,
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: guess what? You're about to be, have all your nights
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  Speaker 1: free and you'll soon find out that, uh, All your
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  Speaker 1: friends are going to be like, yeah, I can't do
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  Speaker 1: that crap anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Not going to happen.
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  Speaker 3: And then you're going to be that guy at the
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  Speaker 3: strip club.
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  Speaker 2: If you keep it up.
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  Speaker 1: I never.
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  Speaker 1: We've all had friends who love strip clubs. I was
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  Speaker 1: never that guy. I had some fun nights in strip clubs,
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  Speaker 1: but I never had.
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  Speaker 1: Like this burning desire to just night after night, go to.
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  Speaker 3: A strip club. I, I am with you. I've, I've
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  Speaker 3: never understood that mentality. I mean, there's a deep seated
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  Speaker 3: issue there where you're just looking for acceptance or something.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a shrink. I don't know, but.
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  Speaker 3: My official assessment is if you're at a strip club
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  Speaker 3: every single night, there's something going on.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Internally in you that you need to seek help for.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, unless, unless, Unless. Now, if you're a billionaire
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  Speaker 1: and you're pulling, you know, you just want to have
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  Speaker 1: one night stands with strippers. Okay, I understand.
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're pulling a Roman orgy with the whole club. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's you. Yeah, you go for it, buddy. I feel that.
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  Speaker 3: If you want to move the entire strip club to
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  Speaker 3: your yacht for the weekend, and you can make that
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  Speaker 3: happen financially, then I get it.
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: Then absolutely go off.
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: If your backyard looks like the scene out of Roadhouse....
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: While keeping in mind, as an outsider... I'll watch the movie.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: I'll watch the show. But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't want that life. That's too much to keep
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  Speaker 2: up with.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Even, even if I had that amount of money, I'd
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  Speaker 3: be like, I can't do this every day.
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  Speaker 2: Like even I've got limits, but it sure. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: if you want to have a fun, just unhinged weekend,
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  Speaker 2: then fine. I get that.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, no, at the end of the day, Mike
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  Speaker 3: caused all of this and, uh, It's a horrible position
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  Speaker 3: to be caught in the middle, and it's hard enough
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  Speaker 3: as one person. But if you're friends with other couples,
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  Speaker 3: and now you're stuck in the middle of this with
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  Speaker 3: your partner, and now you're both stuck in it, that's
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  Speaker 3: a horrible spot to be in. I had a similar
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  Speaker 3: situation to this years and years ago. My ex-girlfriend, her
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  Speaker 3: best friend, friend for years. My ex found out, I
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  Speaker 3: can't remember how that he had cheated, done something or something.
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  Speaker 3: And I can't remember maybe a strip club was involved
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  Speaker 3: or not, whatever. The main point is she found out
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  Speaker 3: he had cheated. She asked me, do I tell her?
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, man, I don't know. So we talked
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  Speaker 3: through all of the possibilities.
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  Speaker 2: Um, And the main thing I.
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  Speaker 3: Told her was, if you tell your friend that he cheated,
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  Speaker 3: you have to be prepared to never talk to her again.
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  Speaker 2: For a number of reasons. One, kill the messenger.
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  Speaker 3: Two, she decides not to believe you and listens to
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  Speaker 3: whatever thing he says. Friendship over. I mean, there's so
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: many different reasons, but you have to be prepared. If
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  Speaker 3: you're going to tell her this, you may never talk
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  Speaker 3: to her again. So if you're willing to accept that,
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  Speaker 3: then tell her.
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  Speaker 1: Well, and there's also, if there's time lapse between when
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: you found out and when you tell her, then that
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  Speaker 1: becomes the whole issue too.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: That's where you need to lie. You need to say, Hey,
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: I just heard this. I'm going to tell you about
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: it right now. Um, But, yeah, and she ended.
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  Speaker 2: Up telling her.
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  Speaker 1: And it's funny.
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  Speaker 2: And it ruined the friendship. She ended up staying with
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  Speaker 2: the guy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's, you know, always. And this is just a
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  Speaker 1: general rule. If you say anything bad about someone's partner
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  Speaker 1: or tell a secret or anything else, you have to
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  Speaker 1: be prepared to lose that friend because they very well
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  Speaker 1: may pick the partner over you. But it's funny, at
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  Speaker 1: 52 years of age, I just realized that someone I
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  Speaker 1: used to be friends with, he never brought his wife
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  Speaker 1: to anything, never introduced her, never ingratiated her in his
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  Speaker 1: social circles. And I just figured out why, because we
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: all knew he was cheating. And I swear it's probably
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: because she had no ties to any of his friends
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  Speaker 1: group that knew what he was doing.
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  Speaker 3: Isolationism works really, really good. If you're trying to get
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  Speaker 3: away with stuff, it makes it a lot easier.
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  Speaker 1: They also ended up divorced. So I'm guessing she eventually
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: found out.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the other thing to keep in mind. She
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: will always find out.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: All right, today is Tuesday. September 8th, 2026. Let's celebrate today.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: With some birthdays.
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: Singer-songwriter Gracie Abrams is 27 today. She won a Grammy
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: because she co-wrote a song with her buddy-old pal Taylor
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Swift called Ush. It's actually called Us, but I've heard
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: the song a number of times, and she's got a
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: little bit of a shh. thing going on her s's
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: and i don't know if it's intentional or not so
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: on a song called us she sings a lot and
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: it's a good song but it drives my wife nuts
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: i don't have a clue who that is so uh
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: she's a singer songwriter she's 27 today and a lot
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: of people also refer to her as a big old
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: nepo baby because her dad is jj abrams yeah that's
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: uh And to her credit, you know, she recognizes and
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: acknowledges and says, look, yeah, I get it. I have
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: advantages that other people don't. The good thing for her
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: is she's actually really talented, which you better be.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I don't begrudge any Nepo baby if they actually have
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: the talent and do the work. And yeah, if you
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: used your name to get in the door, more power
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: to you.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to hate on that.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: I might be envious of it, but I'm not going
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: to hate on it because you can't help what you're
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: born into, right? You're like, look, there's a reason why
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: Hollywood is a constant cycle of feeding it back into
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: itself with probably one of the biggest nepotism engines.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: In the world next to Saudi oil.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: And you get where all the children of these successful
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: people also become successful for two reasons. One, they themselves
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: are actually talented. Look, not every Baldwin brother is phenomenal, okay?
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: And Dolly Parton has like 10 or 11 siblings that
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: were not Dolly Parton, right? But when you are in
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: a position where you're born into a family, like say
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: a Gracie Abrams, your dad's JJ Abrams, you don't have
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: to do certain things that other kids had to do
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: when you're growing up.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: You are allowed.
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: because of financial freedom, to really pursue interests that some
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: of us may not have been able to, right? Like
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: some of us, you know, had piano lessons or certain
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: things like that, but they can devote a whole lot
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: of time to it if that kid is really, really
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: into it and say, you know, it doesn't matter about
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: anything else. You can do this and focus on it
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: and focus on nothing else. You don't have to go
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: get a job at Sonic slinging fries, right? You can
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: focus on this.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: It's a lot easier to chase your dreams if you
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: don't have to worry about rent surviving.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: That's exactly what it is.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: It's like, I don't, I mean, two actresses that come
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: to mind. Is it Maya Hawk? Phenomenal. Great actress. But
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: I'm sure who her parents are, Uma Thurman and Ethan
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Hawke certainly have opened some doors for. On the other hand,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: and I cannot think of her name, but I think
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: it's Bryan Cranston's daughter that was on, I think she's
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: on the pit. She's phenomenal. And she uses a different
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: name just to try to escape the Nepo baby thing.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: So I tip a hat to her because that's impressive.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: If you got to this point and people really didn't
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: know who you were.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: It really is.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: And then when I see that, It is sort of
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: like an extra, oh, good on you. Like, I respect
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: that even more. But I'm not going to begrudge someone
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: because they were born into a really fortunate situation.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: That's just luck, right? Is it fair?
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: Not entirely, but I can't control that. You know, look,
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: I could have had it way worse. I mean, me specifically,
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: because when I got adopted, I almost ended up in
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: Southwestern Oklahoma and God knows where. And instead I got
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: picked up and went to Northeastern Oklahoma, which sounds, it
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: sounds odd to say it's so much better, but it was.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean, you talk about how your life
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: could be different in so many different ways instead of
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: like just focusing on, Oh, this person has this and whatever.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: It's like, you'll drive yourself crazy if you keep comparing
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: yourself to others and what you feel like you should
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: have versus what they got.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: I think a great saying is comparisons is the thief
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: of joy. And that's absolutely true.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: Sorry to get so deep on it. Let's go back
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: to birthdays. So anyway, Gracie Abrams, 27. Congratulations to her
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: for being from JJ Abrams balls.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Gloria Gaynor is 83. She is still surviving. Good for her.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: Julie Kavner, voice of Marge Simpson is 76. Now she's
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: done a lot of other stuff in her career. She's been,
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: not just a voiceover actress, but a regular, like in
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: front of a camera actress, a lot in her career.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: But I mean, she's made a healthy living playing Marge Simpson,
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: just like all the voices of the Simpsons have.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I think she's like, I mean, I think she started
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: on the Tracy Ullman show as a character, you know,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: on the, which most people don't realize that's where the
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Simpsons started. It was like a skit comedy show. And yeah,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: that's certainly, man, that's been a good role for her. Yeah.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: That's a great gig, man.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: And is it because like people like Julie Kavner, Harry Shearer,
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: for the most part, have just done the Simpsons stuff
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: while also occasionally doing some in in front of camera stuff.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: But then there's someone like a Hank Azaria who's done
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: all over the place in front of in front of
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: the camera and doing Simpsons voices. It's like the whole
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: whole Simpsons cast, man. I just I give him a
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: big thumbs up. I'm happy for him. It's one of
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: the greatest gigs of all time.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: And it won't stop. I can't blame him.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Corbin Bernson is 72 from LA law from psych and
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: one of the worst, best third baseman in major league history.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: Pretend in major league.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: How do you shortstop?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Third base.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: He didn't have enough range to play short. Then Toby
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Jones is 60. He's from Infamous Detectorists and the Marvel
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: Cinematic Universe. He was in the first Captain America, the
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: first Avenger. He was the Red Skull's little assistant scientist guy,
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: the short dude with the big forehead, Toby Jones.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: He's one of those guys. He's a character actor. You
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: look him up, you'd be like, oh, that guy got it.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: And Leslie Jones, comedian and former SNL cast member, 59.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: And now we're going to get to some really hardcore
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: 90s birthdays. It's a weird day. And this is associated
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: with some weird, weird movies. Shannon Elizabeth is 53, most
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: famous for her role in American Pie, playing a topless
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Russian exchange student. Then she had a great turn as
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: a poker player. And then she ended up on Dancing
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: with the Stars.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Well, I think before American Pie, she kind of was
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: on Arliss as the Russian tennis player.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: That's right. I forgot about that.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: And then I believe just recently started an OnlyFans. She did.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: She is part of the new sort of Gen X
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: cougar corner of OnlyFans from, you know, actresses and celebrities past.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: It's like, I'm going to do OnlyFans now.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: Don't know what she's doing, what she's showing, but I'm
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: sure she's living a fine life there on OnlyFans.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: If I was a hot chick, I would so do OnlyFans.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Here you go, baby.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Right there. All day.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Here you go. 20 bucks. There you go.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: What they make. Yeah.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: By the way, she was very nice in person. I
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: was very excited to meet her back in the day.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: We're doing the radio show and she came in town.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: Can't remember what for. And she was very sweet.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Very nice.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: I believe if I remember right, she's from Texas. She's
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: from like the Waco area. And and of course, our
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: old buddy and pal, R.I.P.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: Russ Martin.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: When we specifically told him she doesn't want to talk
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: about the Dancing with the Stars drama, don't bring it up.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: If you bring it up, she'll leave. What's the first
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: thing he brings up? That.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: And it wasn't because he was being some sort of
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: rebellious shock jock.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: It's because he was so damn drunk.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: He was just that's the only thing he could remember
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: to ask her about because that was the last thing
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: he had heard. He hadn't done any research into anything
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: she'd ever done. He never even asked her about American Pie.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: That's how into the bottle he was. We had Shannon
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: Elizabeth in the studio, and he never asked her. He
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: never brought up American Pie. That's what alcoholism does, kids.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: Don't do it.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Well, let's be honest. I mean, he was a jewel
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: when it came to guests.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: Also that.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Now take that and multiply it by a handle of
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: Tito's in the morning.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay?
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: And for anyone thinking I'm embellishing on that, I'm not.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: I saw the footage.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, now we're going to get to some weird 90s birthdays.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Are you ready? Here we go.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Tom Everett Scott is 50. You know what? I'm going
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: to save him.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: I'm going to save him. I'm going to go instead
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: to Devin Sawa. Devin Sawa is 48 today. Best known
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: for Final Destination. He was in the first couple of
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: those movies. Final Destination changed.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: Your life, man.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: You watch those movies, you will no longer look around
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: you I mean, that's one of those movies that affects
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: you for a day or so afterwards because you start
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: seeing things around you differently. Like, oh my God, is
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: this piece of glass going to end up in my
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: throat because a thumbtack fell and a butterfly wing happened
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: in the next scene of Final Destination? I'm still shook
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: on roller coasters because of Final Destination 3.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever seen those. Do it.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: They're really good. Start with the first one. Devin Sawa,
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: 48 Today. Final Destination is one of the all-time great
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: horror franchises.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Trust me on this. He was also in a little
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: movie called Idle Hands. You remember that?
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: He starred in because his hand was possessed. This is
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: the kind of stuff that got made in the 90s.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: His hand got possessed and they made an entire 90s
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: movie about it.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I think this is where the age gap between us
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: comes into play.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: You don't need to have seen the movie or even
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: heard of the movie just to know that Hollywood back
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: in the day made a movie about a possessed hand.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Mainstream.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Not silly. Not novelty.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: Like, no, this is a real thing. That's pretty weird.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: And then it gets dark. Tom Everett Scott is 56.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: Actor probably best known for That Thing You Do. He
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: also was in American Werewolf in Paris. Sort of the
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: remake of the London one from back in the day.
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: But he was also in a little movie called Dead
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: Man on Campus, opposite Mark Paul Gosselaar. Zach from Saved
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: by the Bell.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: Do you remember Dead Man on Campus?
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I do not.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: Came out in 1998, the year I graduated high school.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: College freshman Josh, played by Tom Everett Scott, and Cooper,
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: Mark Paul Gosselaar, are more interested in hitting the bottle
• 31:50
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• 31:53
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• 31:56
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• 32:02
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• 32:08
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• 32:15
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• 32:18
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• 32:23
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• 32:25
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• 32:28
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• 32:33
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• 32:36
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• 32:40
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  Speaker 2: Bruised up sex dolls. It is a real thing.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: AI vaginas, customizable personalities, and fake bruises. The sex doll
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: market is booming. But does it matter how the dolls
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: are treated? Two weeks ago, two distressed citizens stumbled across
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: what they assumed was the mangled corpse of a woman
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: stuffed into a suitcase in a small town about three
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: hours south of Sydney in Australia. They called the local police,
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: who in turn issued a statement that a body in
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: a suitcase had been found. The wider public waited somberly
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: for Australia's tally of dead women to tick up by one.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: But instead, a day later, after forensic analysis, it was
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: determined that the woman in question wasn't a woman at all.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: It was that of a sex doll marked with fake
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: bruises left to rot on a lonely dirt road. In
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: Australia and in the UK and some other European countries,
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: it is not illegal to own a sex doll unless
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: it resembles a child. Given the doll's seemingly mature presentation,
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: police investigations were called off. And the sex doll trade
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: is flourishing. 2026 estimates global market value at $ 6. 6 billion,
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: with a projection that it will more than double to
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: over $ 13 billion by 2033. As the market booms and
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: involves increasingly lifelike facsimiles of women, does how these dolls
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: get treated matter?
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: No.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: A guy named Johan Fuss, who's the chair of forensic
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: psychiatry and sex research at the University of Duisburg-Essen, told
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: The Guardian that the disposability and desecration of the female
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: form in these contexts cannot be viewed entirely in isolation
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: from broader cultural hostilities toward women. It says, we currently
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: lack robust longitudinal data to definitively prove whether such doll
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: use is protective or conversely is a behavioral stepping stone
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: that increases real world offending risk. So in other words,
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: if you're bruising up your sex doll, does that mean
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: you're going to bruise up a real person later? Or
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: is bruising up your sex doll mean you're not going
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: to bruise up a person later?
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I would assume not, but I guess
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: I can't see the other side of it where You
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: might think that would lead to the real thing.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: I look at it this way.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: I feel like if you're going to bruise up the
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: sex doll and then that leads to doing it to
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: a person, I feel like you were going to get
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: to a person eventually.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely. I can't. And I'm sure in this day
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: and age where they've come up with an excuse for everything,
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: someone will say, but I can't see how. a sex
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: doll is a stepping stone to the real thing. I
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: think it's more of a delay.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: I think it would be a delay.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: I think it might be, and it might, look, it
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: may not completely cure the source problem, but you're right,
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: it might delay it. It might cause it to never
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: happen in the first place. I'm not a forensic psychologist
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: like that guy is who's talking about it. I'm just
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: a common sense dork. And to me, I feel like
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: I don't think that the doll will be the stepping stone.
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: I feel like it's got a better chance at either
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: delaying or curbing the behavior. At least carrying over to
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: an actual human.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: I mean, look, if you're spent on the doll, you're
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: not going to be roaming around looking for a person.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: At the same time, can we stop making these AI
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: robots humanoid? Because, look, I'll yell at my Yuffie vacuum
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: cleaner all goddamn day because it's a little flat disk.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: The other day I saw a humanoid robot.
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: Some guy pushed it and then it decided to kick
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: him back, which I thought was awesome.
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  Speaker 2: And now they're saying there's a problem with the robot. Well,
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: I think there's a problem with the dude.
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  Speaker 3: I have a hard time not humanizing the humanoid robot
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  Speaker 3: because it looks person-ish. And so I have empathy for
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: it when someone's pushing it around. I feel bad for
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  Speaker 3: the robot, even though I know the robot can't feel anything.
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  Speaker 3: But I've also seen enough movies to think, well, that
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  Speaker 3: dude's going to die.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, there's a greater problem with AI robots becoming more lifelike.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: And that is the reproduction rate in a lot of
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: first world countries has dropped to a point where it's
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  Speaker 1: literally not sustainable. I think South Korea is going to
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  Speaker 1: be the first one that really is going to put
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: it to limits that they're within like three generations of
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: not existing. Jesus. And some people surmise that AI robots
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: are going to expedite that because it's especially with men.
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  Speaker 1: If you have something that's going to give them companionship
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  Speaker 1: and everything they need and none of the BS....
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  Speaker 2: Then we'll die off happy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying I do it, but I understand.
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  Speaker 2: Very well said.
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  Speaker 3: And last up today, what happens when a Florida man
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  Speaker 3: goes skinny dipping? Now, I remember back when Tara and
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  Speaker 3: I were about to buy our first house and we
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: were saying.
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  Speaker 2: All right, we got to get a pool. And I
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  Speaker 2: remember very specifically, Trey, you saying you.
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  Speaker 1: Don't want a pool.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, Trey, I really do. We really want
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: a pool. And we did. We got a house, had
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: a pool.
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  Speaker 1: Loved it.
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  Speaker 2: Loved that pool. There is something you have to keep
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: in mind, though, when you have a pool. That is.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: the attractive nuisance reality.
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  Speaker 3: I forget how long ago it happened, but basically some
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: kid drowned in someone's pool. And it was because they
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: snuck into it and they drowned in the pool and
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: the family of the victim sued the homeowners because they
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: didn't have proper protections in place for their pool because
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: they said it was an attractive nuisance. Having the pool
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: was enough to draw someone in to then drown in it.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: It became mandatory to have a fence around a pool. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So... That's BS for one. That's just stupid.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: But.
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  Speaker 2: It is what it is.
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  Speaker 3: You can't change it. So as a homeowner, you have
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: to keep that in mind. If you have a pool,
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: someone may end up in it that you don't want there.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: And if you live in Florida, I now realize, because
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: you ever watch House Hunters and you see different homes
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: around the country and think, man, they look kind of weird.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Whenever you would see House Hunters on TV, the Florida
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: homes always had the glass domes and stuff over their pools.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: I think it was mainly to keep wildlife out, like
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: gators and stuff.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: But now you think about it, it's also a good
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: protection from Florida man.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Because the ocean just isn't enough.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: It's not.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: Look, a lot of Florida men are in the interior
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: of the peninsula. A 24-year-old Florida Keys man is facing
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: charges after deputies say they found him naked in a
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: private swimming pool in Marathon, Florida. They say Roshan Rakjan
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: was reportedly walking naked in public before deputies located him
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: trespassing on private property. Investigators say he was combative and
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: deputies used a taser to take him into custody.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: I want to see that body cam.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, man. A wet, naked Florida man getting tased?
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: Hell yes. I need LiveLeak to come back now. I
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: want to see that video.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: The incident did not end there.
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: After being taken to the hospital, deputies say Jean bit
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: a sheriff's deputy on the arm, sending the deputy for
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: medical treatment. He now faces charges including battering on a
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: law enforcement officer and criminal mischief. According to the sheriff's office,
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: it's the second encounter involving him on the same day.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: Because earlier they responded to a business where he was
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: reportedly acting strangely and was ordered to leave the property.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: So they saw him earlier in the day and said, hey,
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: get out.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: And he said, okay, fine.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: And he left.
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  Speaker 3: And then he ended up in someone's pool, butt-ass naked.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: And when they pulled him out, he bit a deputy.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Meth? Bath salt? Do we have a toxicology yet?
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: We don't have a toxicology report yet, but you know
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: it's going to.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Be a good one.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: Oh, you know it's a good concoction. It's not just one.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: It's got them all.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: It's the Florida cocktail right there. With a lime wedge.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: Maybe a maraschino cherry.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: A coca Libra.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: A florida iced tea it's just.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: The whole bar and one big gallon jug all right
• 42:42
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