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- Gunhild Torleivsdotter: you Welcome to the break the taboo. wow. I look out the window, it's so nice weather today. today it felt so right to make an episode. I felt like, am I ready to do this? And I've spent so many days trying to find the time. The time is right. Hashtag break the taboo I have wanted to have a podcast I decided that I will have a podcast where I can switch between Norwegian and English without it becoming like... It's a bit So, that's I This will be a podcast that will be in English and Norwegian. So that's cool. I want to tell you something. I actually a podcast from before. Which I did three years ago. I it starts now. It was one episode where I interviewed people. The first episode he actually was in. But I only it on sound file. Or audio file, maybe that's it's called. And it's on Spotify. It's about me. I'm being interviewed by my then real husband. This episode is very special. I almost don't what it's about. But that's the same, I And then I an interview, and then I have two solo episodes. And together it's about 13 episodes. But reason I ended this podcast was because I felt that... Det ble et skille der. Vi gjorde det litt sammen, og ektemannen, eller nå eksmån. and it was like... We planned together when we did it. I had the but he helped me out. And then it happened that we left each other. And it was a very difficult period for me. I went to the wall again. I was exhausted. had nadanics capacity and was actually just in survival. So, the fact that I the podcast again was just... Or, the episodes in this case, just impossible. But I tried, so I think the sixth, seventh and so on is where I try. But I felt that it like... It was half way there. And then it's a bit with that, that when you start something with a man, or someone you may not have, or that you have a special relationship with, and then you're not to have it anymore, then it very... It's a very strange energy. So then it naturally ends in episode 13. But what I think is cool about 13 is that it's about taboo and empowerment. And I think that's cool, because three years later I started the Break the Taboo. It's like... I saw a frog for the first Three years ago and here I am. It's a bit cool to see. So then it was just the And a bit of reason for me start a podcast now because I write books. yeah, I And then I feel that it's very natural for me to... Both draw in some inspiration from others in my But also maybe get a little confirmation that what I write, what comes in the is something people recognize or need to hear. And me, this is about having all the answers and having everything in place. I don't everything. I'm not a genius who knows everything about this earth. Nope. But I have many thoughts and I've found out that when I say something loudly, becomes true. But is also something else that happens. It's like when I've said it, I'm done. I don't need to my anymore, because I've said it out loud. And then can move on. I notice that putting words on my thoughts and feelings, it makes me understand little more who I am and can move on. I'm just to do some I brought a little exercise kit here. Who was that? It's typical that when you have opened something, you come out of everything again. Let's see. So... So hashtag break the taboo. What is it really about? It's about body, it's about shame, limits, self-feeling. relationer nytelse It's being yourself. and what happens when we start listening again. And I feel that these topics are so relevant to life, to the life we are through. And often these things are quite personal. or like I have experienced from my when I was little, I wasn't to so much about afterlife. I supposed to talk so much about things that were taboo And I don't know how far taboo can go, but I feel that isn't much that needs to before something becomes taboo. And I have had this thing in many years where I have talked a lot about it the girl's Because the girl's law became very clear that I was to a nice girl, was going to good, I was going to help others. I was going help others lot. But I felt that it came very little to the point that I was to listen to my own body. It felt like I whisked away. And where does that actually from in the Jante law? That you should think of yourself. So thinking about myself, I felt very egoistic. And if I, for example, said no to a party, I felt like, no, I can't do that. if I say no to that, then it be... then I'm really... idiot who didn't say yes to that? Or... I say no to a date and that I don't want to sex on first date. I would rather wait until we have met a and then we can have sex. But instead I say ok. And if it that I felt good about my I would have... I'm to my own body, because I'm to please him. Is that right?