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False memories · Chuck Douglas

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Speaker 1: I was trying to finish googling and getting information on
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Speaker 1: this pervert. Where was this It was a Walmart parking lot,
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Speaker 1: but he was scheduled to be in court today and
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Speaker 1: I cannot find anything that says what happened in court today,
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Speaker 1: and that is really bugging me. Larry Kelly Junior, by
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Speaker 1: the way, he's act just in case, but you know,
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Speaker 1: the sickos, the mental illness stuff, it's just all over
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Speaker 1: the place. And I don't know if this guy's got
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Speaker 1: mental problems or if he's just a sicko. It could
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Speaker 1: go either way. In twenty twenty six, but a woman
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Speaker 1: was in the the parking lot at Walmart and she
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Speaker 1: fell asleep in her car. That's really not uncommon, and
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Speaker 1: because it's you know, it's big, it's well lit. Their
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Speaker 1: security people out there, and people have a tendency to
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Speaker 1: go in there, especially if they've you know, been on
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Speaker 1: the road for a while or whatever, and catch a
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Speaker 1: few ease. They used to let semi drivers do that,
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Speaker 1: but I think Walmart now has a policy against that.
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Speaker 1: But anyway, this woman said she was in her car
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Speaker 1: and she fell asleep and some guy comes up to
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Speaker 1: the window and she woke up and said, it's okay.
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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm catching a little nap. I'm okay. And
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Speaker 1: then he goes back, gets in his car. He's part
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Speaker 1: next to her, gets back in his car and uh
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Speaker 1: and uh and and he's he's he's doing things, and
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Speaker 1: she said, hey, hey, quit that, I'm calling the police. Man,
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Speaker 1: you can't. He invited her over to the car. She
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Speaker 1: took off. She called the police. Well, he was gone
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Speaker 1: by the time they got there. But then he comes back.
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Speaker 1: He comes back to the same walmart and he actually
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Speaker 1: apparently head Dup had placed online order and a woman
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Speaker 1: brings his order out and she she was given in
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Speaker 1: the you know, the the stubby, and he gave her
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Speaker 1: a complaint and she commiserated with him, and he came back.
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say what he said because it's it's
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Speaker 1: it's crass, but anyway, uh, she said something back to
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Speaker 1: him and he goes, yeah, well and then he's doing
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Speaker 1: it again.
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Speaker 2: I saw this, so what he said.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds actually like something you would say, and
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Speaker 1: uh to you, yeah, I know, but I did. Can
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Speaker 1: you find what happened to him in court? Because I
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Speaker 1: although you know, this wasn't a gun This wasn't a murder,
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Speaker 1: this wasn't a mass shooting, this was not him selling
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Speaker 1: drugs to school children. I'm still sick of the dirt
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Speaker 1: balls getting away with dirt ball stuff. I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I know he got taken away. That's why.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, they arrested him. He was scheduled to be in
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Speaker 1: court today. I want to know what happened.
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Speaker 2: Bill Cosby's accused again.
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Speaker 1: No he's not. Yeah, no, he's not.
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Speaker 3: A new civil trial digging in allegations of Bill Cosby
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Speaker 3: drugged and raked a woman more than half a century ago.
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Speaker 1: Fifty years Oh my gosh, bowed.
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Speaker 3: By an eighty four year old Donna. So and so
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Speaker 3: excuses Cosby. But as far as the other guy.
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Speaker 1: If you've waited fifty years, how traumatized are you? Eighty
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Speaker 1: four year old woman has filed this complaint. Yeah, I
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Speaker 1: have a feeling that eighty four year old woman has
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Speaker 1: great and children. That said, really grandma, and they filed
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Speaker 1: the complaint. We might get some money. I'm not at
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Speaker 1: all diminishing what might have happened to her. But look,
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Speaker 1: he hasn't been hiding. And when everybody else came out
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Speaker 1: of the woodwork and started making accusations, and he admitted
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Speaker 1: to some things that he had done. Okay, if you
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Speaker 1: would have said at that time, yeah, well I got
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Speaker 1: abused by him too, Okay, But now he's gone to prison,
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Speaker 1: he's out of prison. Cosby's how old is he?
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Speaker 2: Like eighty eight?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's Cosby's on his last legs too. Can't see?
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Speaker 1: And now now is when you I'm sorry, I got
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Speaker 1: a problem with that. Anyway, if you can find out
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Speaker 1: anything about the pervert, let me know, because I seriously
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Speaker 1: I do want to find out that hopefully, hopefully he
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Speaker 1: was given some ridiculous bond that he won't be able
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Speaker 1: to play and he will be sentenced to something that
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Speaker 1: is you know, appropriate, and by appropriate, I mean harsh,
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Speaker 1: because we just got We had a cab driver over
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Speaker 1: on my beloved West Side a few years ago, and
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Speaker 1: this guy, I mean, he was on video. Somebody pulled
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Speaker 1: out their cell phone and got him. He pulled the
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Speaker 1: cab over in a parking lot and he's there with
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Speaker 1: the door of the cab open, and he doesn't care
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Speaker 1: passing traffic. He doesn't care, and I don't think anything
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Speaker 1: ever happened. I think he got a ticket public in
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Speaker 1: decency or something like that. I don't think there was
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Speaker 1: any jail time involved or anything else. And see, letting
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Speaker 1: this kind of stuff go is what creates other stuff.
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Speaker 1: I know that sounds harsh, and I don't want to
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Speaker 1: sound you know, like Jack Webb and Dragnet. You know.
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Speaker 1: So it's a gateway, but it is. It is a reality.
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Speaker 1: When we don't when we don't deal with harsh the
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Speaker 1: what we consider to be small in fractions in society,
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Speaker 1: then the large infractions continue to occur and become more
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Speaker 1: more often and more heinous. And I really hope they
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Speaker 1: threw the book at this guy.
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to find it.
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Speaker 3: But if you just google Walmart pervert, there's a lot
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Speaker 3: of Walmart perverts.
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Speaker 2: Just FYI really, oh yeah, yeah there.
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Speaker 1: I mean there's maybe they maybe it's a congregating spot form.
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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe a call, it's like a siren.
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Speaker 1: There was a there was a park that I used
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Speaker 1: to enjoy going to. It's a metro park here in
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Speaker 1: central Ohio, but it's largely wooded, and uh, I used
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Speaker 1: to you know, I'd get lunch or whatever and I'd
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Speaker 1: just chill out there for half an hour. And it
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Speaker 1: got to the point where I would go in there
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Speaker 1: and then you know, some guy would pull over and
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Speaker 1: he's looking at me and I'm like, oh what. And
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Speaker 1: apparently this was a meet up spot for men who
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Speaker 1: were looking for for companionship. Sorry, and I'm like, I don't,
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Speaker 1: I don't think so, you know. So I quit going
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Speaker 1: to the park because of that. I wasn't scared of them,
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Speaker 1: but if somebody that said or done something inappropriate towards me,
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Speaker 1: I could very well be behind bars at this point.
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Speaker 1: If I don't know, you live your life and be
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Speaker 1: what you want to do what you know, but you
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Speaker 1: stay away from me, and it just happening. Yeah, it
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Speaker 1: was happening, you know a lot. And after like three
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Speaker 1: times of me going to the park and getting the
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Speaker 1: eyes if you will, I said, no, I'm not. I
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Speaker 1: can't go back there anymore. And sadly there's a police
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Speaker 1: substation in the park, but that's where they choose to go.
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Speaker 1: And you can't take your kids to play without having to,
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Speaker 1: you know, look around and see what's going on in side.
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Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, we got to deal with this stuff
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Speaker 1: a lot more harshly than what apparently we have been
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Speaker 1: So far, so far, it's pretty good. It's been long,
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Speaker 1: but it's pretty good. Awesome.
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Speaker 4: I wanted to throw something at you about the eighty
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Speaker 4: four eighty nine year old woman that was accusing Cosby.
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Speaker 4: I wanted to present that maybe it was a regressed memory.
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Speaker 4: The reason why I say regression is if something traumatic
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Speaker 4: really happens and your ID buries it deep within your conscious,
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Speaker 4: you can completely forget about it. But as you start
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Speaker 4: reaching a stage of your life where you're going to
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Speaker 4: how can I put this start passing away, and sometimes
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Speaker 4: it's going to happen quickly, but other times that procedure,
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Speaker 4: that process lasts maybe a couple of weeks or couple
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Speaker 4: of months. But when that happens, your brain was always
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Speaker 4: fighting to keep itself alive. So when you're when you're
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Speaker 4: neuron start firing off. So what you'rre we'll start doing
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Speaker 4: it was We'll start firing off neurons and those neurons
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Speaker 4: will activate maybe memories from a long time ago. Now,
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Speaker 4: some of those memories could be regressed and that might
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Speaker 4: have brought a forefront into her conscious from her subconscious.
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Speaker 4: And typically when you die, they really start triggering very
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Speaker 4: fast when you're like minutes or sometimes hours away from
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Speaker 4: passing away. But that whole process can start over a
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Speaker 4: period of time. So all I'm saying was it could
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Speaker 4: have been regressed and she might be reaching her final
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Speaker 4: stages and those memories came back.
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Speaker 1: The whole concept of regress memories is it's still a
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Speaker 1: borderline issue for me. I don't say it's not a reality,
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Speaker 1: but I also know that there's a lot of concern
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Speaker 1: out there on the other side of the argument that
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Speaker 1: many times the power of suggestion creates memories and.
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Speaker 4: Correct and that can happen when the person's older.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, until we get that through a more specific science,
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Speaker 1: I'm still but I know, and I would be here's
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Speaker 1: a chauvinistic remark to make. I would at you that
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Speaker 1: if this does, you know, become a standard, a standard
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Speaker 1: science and we really do delve into it, women are
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Speaker 1: probably more apt to uh, to fall victim to these
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Speaker 1: regress memories than men, just from my experiences with humans.
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Speaker 1: I actually I told the story before I had a
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Speaker 1: girl been twenty years ago, twenty five thirty, I don't know,
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Speaker 1: long time ago, but I used to see was a
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Speaker 1: waitress and she worked at a place where me and
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Speaker 1: my buds would go when I was spinning records at
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Speaker 1: a bar and and me and my buds would go
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Speaker 1: and eat after we close the bar. And she was fun,
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Speaker 1: you know, she'd sit down at the table with us.
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Speaker 1: But she saw me out someplace and oh, I haven't
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Speaker 1: seen you in a long time. Yeah, it's good to
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Speaker 1: see you too, And then she starts talking about that
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Speaker 1: time that we went to the Mary and Popcorn Festival
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Speaker 1: and I met her mother and we none of this
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Speaker 1: ever happened, Man, none of this she she was. She
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Speaker 1: scared the crapla out of me, is what she did,
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Speaker 1: because I mean she was a young girl, you know,
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Speaker 1: thirty thirty five years old maybe at that time. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: And she was absolute that we had done all this
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Speaker 1: disk and I had even met her mother. And I thought,
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Speaker 1: that's yeah, that's that's a couple of baskets and nuts
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Speaker 1: right there.
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Speaker 4: I have a challenging thing currently going on with a
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Speaker 4: family member where they were trying to help someone with
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Speaker 4: someone who was a bit older and everything was going well,
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Speaker 4: but I started seeing some red flags and then they
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Speaker 4: started accusing some of my family members of doing things
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Speaker 4: they did not do, and the police had to get involved.
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Speaker 4: So I know you're or you're on the fence about
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Speaker 4: memories and you have the exposure of like things imagining things.
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Speaker 4: But I can say from a subgression standpoint, it does
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Speaker 4: happen if there's an extreme trauma that's involved psychiat I
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Speaker 4: know that you'll probably want to wait for the science
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Speaker 4: to happen.
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Speaker 1: Are you a psychology student by chance?
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Speaker 4: No, this is just common knowledge of just educating myself,
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Speaker 4: just knowledge over the years of what I've been exposed to,
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Speaker 4: things that I've read, papers that I've read. I'm a bookworm.
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Speaker 4: So you present this is not my field, This is
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Speaker 4: not my field.
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Speaker 1: You present the argument very well, very articulate. I appreciate it. Sean,
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Speaker 1: thanks very much. Man. That's you know, people call up
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Speaker 1: and they've got an opinion on something, but they're well,
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Speaker 1: many times very disorganized in the way they presented. Sean
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Speaker 1: was very concise. I like that. Have you ever had
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Speaker 1: anybody tell you something happened that you know absolutely didn't happen.
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Speaker 1: I'm talking to you, Uh, not that I know, okay,
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Speaker 1: because you know so many strange people. I'm sorry, but
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Speaker 1: you do. It was it was a really scary thing
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Speaker 1: because there was no threat to it. It was not
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Speaker 1: you know, she wasn't acting like she was gonna boil
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Speaker 1: my pit rabbit while I was away at work or
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Speaker 1: anything like that. It was just normal conversation between two
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Speaker 1: people that hadn't seen each other in a while, and
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Speaker 1: it sounded from the outside completely reasonable. But the stuff
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Speaker 1: she was saying, and I didn't know even how what
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Speaker 1: do you say? What do you say because somebody starts
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Speaker 1: talking like that, If you say you know that never happened,
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Speaker 1: they go crazy and their eyes roll back in their
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Speaker 1: head and they pull out a knife and stab it
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Speaker 1: in your forehead or something. I don't want that. I've
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Speaker 1: seen those movies. I don't want that to I like
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Speaker 1: my forehead. So you can't really tell them they're nuts,
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Speaker 1: But that's what you're thinking, and you're like smiling, Well,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to go now and to get away
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Speaker 1: from them. And you know, she was a small built girl.
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Speaker 1: I was a big boy, but I was scared of
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Speaker 1: her because she was absolute about her memories.
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Speaker 2: Crazy doesn't have. I'm not calling her crazy.
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Speaker 3: Crazy doesn't she was Okay, crazy doesn't have a size.
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Speaker 3: Crazy can run over you, Yes, it can stab you.
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Speaker 3: It could again boil your pet rabbit on the stove
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Speaker 3: when Michael Douglas gets home.
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Speaker 2: They could do a whole bunch of stuff.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, just that was That was a really really odd uh.
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Speaker 1: And I know my buddy Frank listens to the show
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Speaker 1: and he may very well know who I'm talking about,
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Speaker 1: because she used to eat his French fries all the time.
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Speaker 1: And it was her. And there was another waitress at
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Speaker 1: the place. I can't even remember her name. She looked
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Speaker 1: like a ohoh no, she looked like Lily Tomlin with
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Speaker 1: red spiral curls. She was she is very cute. And
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Speaker 1: she'd sit down at the other table and we like
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Speaker 1: have a booth and she'd sit there and eat, you know,
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Speaker 1: eat some of my stuff, and the other one would
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Speaker 1: eat some of frank stuff. And they there was just
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Speaker 1: like a game we played when we'd go in there
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Speaker 1: at night. It's three o'clock in the morning, man who cared?
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Speaker 1: And it was it was normal for the time. But
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Speaker 1: I had no idea that this woman was going to
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Speaker 1: pop back up in my world ten years later and
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Speaker 1: tell me I met her mother and took her to
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Speaker 1: the Mary and Popcorn Festival. I'm scared to go out
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Speaker 1: to the parking lot now well, the sun's still out.
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Speaker 1: I'll be okay.