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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey everybody, this is the been An
- 0:08Speaker 1: Ashley I almost there this podcast, but you've got half
- 0:11Speaker 1: of me today. I am so sick. I've got the flu.
- 0:15Speaker 1: So if you're if I sound stuffy, if I'm coughing
- 0:17Speaker 1: over the mic, forgive me. Um. But we you know
- 0:22Speaker 1: Ari doesn't stop dating, so we're not going to keep
- 0:24Speaker 1: stopped talking. This is so sad, like there's like a
- 0:29Speaker 1: flu epidemic. It's actually insane. I don't want it. I
- 0:33Speaker 1: got I got a shot and you didn't get a shot.
- 0:36Speaker 1: And I want to know why so many people out
- 0:38Speaker 1: there don't get shots. I mean, I know it doesn't
- 0:40Speaker 1: fully prevent it, but it means it increases your odds
- 0:44Speaker 1: of being saved. You really want to know. So I
- 0:51Speaker 1: am not a conspiracy theorist at all. I really am not.
- 0:53Speaker 1: I have one theory that I have always had since
- 0:56Speaker 1: I was a little kid, I mean since I was
- 0:58Speaker 1: in elementary school. I fought this. I believe that if
- 1:02Speaker 1: there's gonna be a mass sickness spread across in the world,
- 1:05Speaker 1: it's going to be through the flu shot. And I
- 1:07Speaker 1: would rather build up my immune system by not getting
- 1:10Speaker 1: the flu shot, been getting it. So I'll take getting
- 1:13Speaker 1: sick every year for four or five days as long
- 1:16Speaker 1: as internally I am as healthy as I can be.
- 1:19Speaker 1: So like zombie Apocalypse, like you think the walking Dad's
- 1:22Speaker 1: gonna happen from flu shots? Yeah, and just wait till
- 1:25Speaker 1: that happens. And I'm laughing at everybody because I've never
- 1:27Speaker 1: gotten a flu shot. But hey, Ben, what about like
- 1:30Speaker 1: other vaccines? Are you very like Jenny McCarthy about it?
- 1:32Speaker 1: Are you just not not down with vaccines? Not really?
- 1:36Speaker 1: I mean I go to Central America all the time,
- 1:39Speaker 1: and I'd never get take any of the like malaria medication.
- 1:42Speaker 1: I never I don't take a lot of medication. Um,
- 1:45Speaker 1: that's probably your responsive to me, And I really don't
- 1:47Speaker 1: know why. I though, I just feel like if something's
- 1:50Speaker 1: gonna happen, it's gonna happen, saying anyway, Okay, that cool,
- 1:55Speaker 1: Yeah I think that anyway, moving on, so you think, yeah,
- 2:00Speaker 1: I gotta tell everybody about what's going on. So Ashley
- 2:03Speaker 1: is so nervous about this, and I want to tell
- 2:06Speaker 1: you that it's really endearing because my co host cares
- 2:09Speaker 1: so much about everybody listens to this show that we
- 2:12Speaker 1: have a really big segment that we're going to talk about.
- 2:15Speaker 1: And the only thing she's worried about through text emails
- 2:18Speaker 1: and offsos be prepared for this podcast was, Hey, we
- 2:21Speaker 1: gotta warned everybody that we're gonna be slightly spoiling the
- 2:26Speaker 1: ending of this year's backs. They're not fully spoilant, but
- 2:29Speaker 1: we're going to talk about what happens because it became public,
- 2:32Speaker 1: and so now because of actually, I want to warn
- 2:35Speaker 1: everybody for the next five minutes, we're gonna be slightly
- 2:40Speaker 1: spoiling the ending. So if you don't want to listen,
- 2:43Speaker 1: pose it and tune back in after this small segment.
- 2:48Speaker 1: A spoiler. Spoiler, now hold on things a spoiler because
- 2:51Speaker 1: a lot of fans we're tweeting, tweeting, yeah, tweeting this
- 2:56Speaker 1: theory towards me the spoiler whatever you wanna call it.
- 2:59Speaker 1: And I even gotta know what. I was like, you guys,
- 3:01Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep this season secret because I don't
- 3:04Speaker 1: know Ari whatsoever, and I don't even know well other
- 3:06Speaker 1: than Bibby and Lauren g you don't know anyone on
- 3:09Speaker 1: his season. So I was like, this is going to
- 3:11Speaker 1: be the perfect season for me to not have to
- 3:15Speaker 1: know what goes down the last episode. But here's the theory, guys.
- 3:21Speaker 1: So here's the spoiler. Okay, ready, you have five seconds. One.
- 3:24Speaker 1: I'm not going to name names. I don't name I
- 3:27Speaker 1: still don't know names. This is what how I'm going
- 3:29Speaker 1: to keep this secret to myself or this is it's
- 3:33Speaker 1: not going to be spoiled because I am not going
- 3:35Speaker 1: to know these two girls names apparently, and I don't
- 3:39Speaker 1: know our source on this. Who's our source on this? Amy, Well,
- 3:42Speaker 1: you don't reveal your source, that's the point I okay,
- 3:46Speaker 1: well not always. So our secret source is revealing that
- 3:54Speaker 1: Ari pulls a Jason Mesnick and he picks one girl
- 3:59Speaker 1: in the finale and now is currently with another girl. Ben,
- 4:03Speaker 1: do you think about this? I mean, I heard he
- 4:07Speaker 1: pulled a Jason Mesnick and I also heard he he
- 4:10Speaker 1: pulled a jerk move like that. Ben Higgins, Fella, we
- 4:16Speaker 1: know that that is a fact he Ari has admitted.
- 4:19Speaker 1: He says I love you to two people, or he
- 4:21Speaker 1: fell in love with two people. Okay, so this is
- 4:23Speaker 1: very confusing having seen the fact that you got for that,
- 4:28Speaker 1: it's shocking that he did it. Yeah, I'm pretty shocked
- 4:32Speaker 1: to a poor guy. UM So, here's what happens. Let
- 4:36Speaker 1: me run everybody through this. Uh. During the season, it
- 4:39Speaker 1: was revealed early on, Are actually revealed it himself that
- 4:43Speaker 1: he fell in love with more than one woman. UM,
- 4:46Speaker 1: I'm going to speak on that for a second. I
- 4:48Speaker 1: get it. I obviously Uh did the same thing. I
- 4:52Speaker 1: would say that it wasn't something that I felt was
- 4:55Speaker 1: beneficial long term to my relationship. I actually kind of
- 4:57Speaker 1: wish that I would have just communicated those feelings a
- 5:02Speaker 1: little differently. I wouldn't have told both women, even though
- 5:04Speaker 1: I was feeling a certain way towards both women. Um,
- 5:07Speaker 1: but let's focus on Ari, because the last thing I
- 5:09Speaker 1: want to do is focused on myself in this. Um
- 5:13Speaker 1: So Are falls in love with more than one woman?
- 5:15Speaker 1: He woman, he tells both women. Um, yes, he's going
- 5:18Speaker 1: to get slacked for it. I am surprised that that
- 5:21Speaker 1: came out, because you would think he would learn from
- 5:24Speaker 1: his mistake. But from what I hear, Are didn't really
- 5:27Speaker 1: watch my season, so I don't even know if he
- 5:30Speaker 1: knew the repercussions of what could happen. I get the
- 5:33Speaker 1: honesty that he was trying to communicate and There's one
- 5:36Speaker 1: thing actually that you and I have always said about
- 5:38Speaker 1: Ri from the beginning of the season is he's been
- 5:40Speaker 1: very authentic and genuine. Even for his fault on maybe
- 5:44Speaker 1: not being as charismatic as we like or as funny
- 5:46Speaker 1: or is engaging, He's always been authentic and genuine, and
- 5:49Speaker 1: I think that's what he was doing in communicating his love. Yeah,
- 5:52Speaker 1: I actually don't see a problem with telling two people
- 5:55Speaker 1: you love them. It seems almost logical with the way
- 5:58Speaker 1: this show goes. The pro problem with it is, and Ben,
- 6:01Speaker 1: you can maybe attest to this is the girl is
- 6:04Speaker 1: like forever more upset about it. Right. I think that
- 6:08Speaker 1: it's totally normal to fall in love with two people.
- 6:11Speaker 1: I think it's the saying out loud that that they
- 6:14Speaker 1: get in trouble for, Like, why did you have to
- 6:17Speaker 1: say it out loud? You know, just feel it and
- 6:19Speaker 1: feeling eventually you'll be able to let it go. Joe,
- 6:21Speaker 1: Joe is not upset you told her you loved her.
- 6:24Speaker 1: It was only I think she probably was. What do
- 6:27Speaker 1: you think. I don't think Jojoe cares very much at all,
- 6:31Speaker 1: not anymore, not anymore. I think I think he's pretty happy.
- 6:36Speaker 1: But uh, yeah, I think saying it out loud is rough.
- 6:40Speaker 1: But here's the situation, and I explained it a couple
- 6:43Speaker 1: of times, and I don't know if I've ever been
- 6:44Speaker 1: able to explain it well. Is You've gone through this
- 6:46Speaker 1: whole experience. You fought off feelings, you've developed feelings, You've
- 6:50Speaker 1: fought off emotion the whole time. And at the end
- 6:53Speaker 1: of it, you see the light at the end of
- 6:55Speaker 1: the tunnel, and the light looks good, the light looks exciting,
- 6:58Speaker 1: light looks fun. For the first time in three months,
- 7:01Speaker 1: you're not gonna have to break up with anybody. And
- 7:03Speaker 1: so you sit here at the very end of this
- 7:06Speaker 1: whole experience, and you're so thankful that there's two women
- 7:09Speaker 1: do you care a lot about? Who has fought with you?
- 7:12Speaker 1: Who is stat beside you, who who has watched you
- 7:14Speaker 1: kiss other women? And the whole time you're sitting here thinking,
- 7:17Speaker 1: I am so incredibly lucky, And yes, I might have
- 7:21Speaker 1: a stronger feeling towards one of these women. I might
- 7:23Speaker 1: know that one of these women are probably going to
- 7:25Speaker 1: be my wife, or at least I hope there are
- 7:27Speaker 1: not going to be my wife. But I feel a
- 7:32Speaker 1: little bit. I feel like I should communicate fully what
- 7:35Speaker 1: I feel for the other ones, just so they know.
- 7:37Speaker 1: I felt like I was giving and when I said
- 7:39Speaker 1: that to Jojo, I almost felt like I was giving
- 7:41Speaker 1: her validation. I don't know or not or if it
- 7:45Speaker 1: was even my job to do this. I just felt
- 7:47Speaker 1: like I was giving her validation and trying to tell her, Jojo,
- 7:50Speaker 1: what we've done together, what you've done for me through
- 7:52Speaker 1: this is very real and very special, and I need
- 7:56Speaker 1: you to know that because I don't know if I'll
- 7:58Speaker 1: ever get the opportunity to tell you this again. See, yeah,
- 8:01Speaker 1: way to figure out, like you should definitely think say
- 8:04Speaker 1: I didn't mean to figure out. I didn't tell her, Hey,
- 8:07Speaker 1: I'm gonna propose you. Hey, I'm gonna marry you. What
- 8:09Speaker 1: I was telling her is hey, like in any other
- 8:11Speaker 1: given world when there's not somebody else here, like, I
- 8:15Speaker 1: need you to know how much I care about you.
- 8:17Speaker 1: I don't think it was smart to me. I don't
- 8:18Speaker 1: think communicating it was the right decision. I'm not saying
- 8:21Speaker 1: that I don't regret it, because I feel like at
- 8:23Speaker 1: least afterwards Joe, Joe knew how I felt, and that
- 8:27Speaker 1: she said, Okay, I have a little bit of respect
- 8:29Speaker 1: for men, but I don't think I would communicate it,
- 8:31Speaker 1: just like I all right, don't communicate your feelings, buddy
- 8:33Speaker 1: holding in. Don't be an idiot like the other loser
- 8:36Speaker 1: that did this. I don't. I think we're concentrating a
- 8:40Speaker 1: little bit too much on the I love you and
- 8:41Speaker 1: not the huge. So here's something for everybody to think about.
- 8:46Speaker 1: When I heard about this, I rewatched Jason Mesnicks after
- 8:51Speaker 1: the final never seen Jason Mesnick season, So maybe I
- 8:54Speaker 1: should go hit up iTunes and watch this. Yes you
- 8:57Speaker 1: all have. Everybody listening should go just YouTube or iTunes
- 9:00Speaker 1: or whatever you have to do to watch his after
- 9:03Speaker 1: the final rows. Because he actually told Melissa they were
- 9:07Speaker 1: basically done. I think she kind of knew, but he
- 9:10Speaker 1: told Molly Live like she had no idea. Molly Mesnick
- 9:15Speaker 1: is the one he ends up marrying, so he she
- 9:17Speaker 1: didn't know. On the after the final Rose she was
- 9:19Speaker 1: now going to be asked if he could date her instead.
- 9:22Speaker 1: Correct she comes out. I was like, way, because I
- 9:26Speaker 1: just rewatched it because I remember it. But then now
- 9:28Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. She comes out to
- 9:30Speaker 1: sit down to think she's just going to talk to
- 9:32Speaker 1: him about like breaking up. Wait, Ben, did you watch it?
- 9:37Speaker 1: I have so much to stay bout this, and we'll
- 9:38Speaker 1: let you too, kind of thick her back and forth
- 9:40Speaker 1: because I can tell actually is so excited about this
- 9:43Speaker 1: that like, so I'm not going to get a word
- 9:45Speaker 1: in for a second. So whatever you guys are doing.
- 9:48Speaker 1: So Molly comes out and Mesnick tells her like, I
- 9:52Speaker 1: ended things with Melissa because I have feelings for you,
- 9:56Speaker 1: and she like can't talk, like she just sort of
- 10:00Speaker 1: sits there, like, huh, smiling. She's obviously not like devastated,
- 10:05Speaker 1: she's sort of smiling shocked where she's like but and
- 10:08Speaker 1: at one point she says, I dreamed of this, but
- 10:11Speaker 1: like like an actual dream or just like a hope dream. Kay,
- 10:16Speaker 1: I like that a hope dream, lots of hope dreams.
- 10:19Speaker 1: So she's like and then she's like, I never stopped
- 10:24Speaker 1: having feelings. And they have this awkward conversation and it's
- 10:27Speaker 1: so much silence, and Chris Harrison just lets the silence,
- 10:31Speaker 1: just lingering, Oh, this is so crazy. So Melissa is
- 10:37Speaker 1: off stage. She gone like she has been dumped, and
- 10:40Speaker 1: she gone, she did he break up with her on
- 10:43Speaker 1: the show? But I think on the show. But I
- 10:46Speaker 1: think she knew I was like trouble. I don't know.
- 10:49Speaker 1: I didn't rewatch that. How in the world did he
- 10:51Speaker 1: go along with this? Like I'm judging him as a
- 10:54Speaker 1: human for being okay about one dumping and girl on
- 10:58Speaker 1: live TV and then two asking for another girl back.
- 11:02Speaker 1: He thought he had no other option. He hadn't spoken
- 11:05Speaker 1: to Molly because I don't. They're like, we're never giving
- 11:07Speaker 1: you her number. You will never be gun right there?
- 11:10Speaker 1: So he this is like probably he thinks in his head,
- 11:12Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just guessing, making this up. But
- 11:14Speaker 1: I thought instead, like, this is my moment I have
- 11:17Speaker 1: to tell her. Maybe, like Ben is saying with us,
- 11:19Speaker 1: all as I love you is I don't know? And
- 11:21Speaker 1: now they've been married for like eight years? How insane.
- 11:24Speaker 1: The one thing I will say is it did work out, okay, Ben,
- 11:27Speaker 1: share with us. I'm glad I predicted the fact that
- 11:30Speaker 1: I wouldn't get a word in because for the last
- 11:32Speaker 1: three minutes I timed this, it was three minutes no way.
- 11:36Speaker 1: Yet what p s A guys are spoiler alert is
- 11:39Speaker 1: going a little bit over time. So if you still
- 11:42Speaker 1: don't want to know spoilers password a little bit more.
- 11:44Speaker 1: Just keep listening. It's not a spoiler. Actually, I have
- 11:49Speaker 1: a feeling that this is going to be a huge
- 11:51Speaker 1: storyline in the show. Yeah, do you think they're going
- 11:54Speaker 1: to make it. They think they're going to make it
- 11:55Speaker 1: known at it, I will say, my source said, and
- 11:59Speaker 1: it's a deep inside Oh I know. It is the
- 12:02Speaker 1: most dramatic ending in a decade. So what the reason
- 12:07Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about it is I think people
- 12:09Speaker 1: should watch so they see it, so that when it happens,
- 12:12Speaker 1: we can all talk about like, well there was a sign. No,
- 12:16Speaker 1: that's true. My sister, who you know, she's always going
- 12:18Speaker 1: to like at the show, but she's like, now I'm
- 12:21Speaker 1: going to be even more invested in the show because
- 12:23Speaker 1: I'm going to look for clues and it's just gonna
- 12:24Speaker 1: be so juicy. It's horrible for the two girls involved
- 12:28Speaker 1: and maybe are, but it's such good tv for us.
- 12:31Speaker 1: I can't wait now that that. Yeah, that spends time
- 12:37Speaker 1: we're not going to talk. Okay, thank you guys listening
- 12:43Speaker 1: to YouTube. I really could just listen to YouTube the
- 12:45Speaker 1: whole time. It's like me listening to your podcast. It's
- 12:46Speaker 1: really great. Um, Hey, so I talked to Jason Mesnick
- 12:50Speaker 1: this week. Actually, so Jason. This is so crazy because
- 12:57Speaker 1: Jason is one of the most respect respectable people I
- 13:00Speaker 1: thing to ever do the franchise. I really like Jason.
- 13:02Speaker 1: He's been so good to me. I've done a lot
- 13:04Speaker 1: of things with him since my time as the Bachelor.
- 13:06Speaker 1: So I called Jason and and I talked to him
- 13:08Speaker 1: just because I didn't really know what's going on. He hasn't,
- 13:11Speaker 1: you know, fully been aware of what's happening. And all
- 13:14Speaker 1: the tone I got from him, you didn't talk about
- 13:17Speaker 1: this forever was gusting. It Like now I have to
- 13:19Speaker 1: get thrown back into this whole world ship Like he's
- 13:23Speaker 1: out of it, he's done. And I think, actually he
- 13:27Speaker 1: made a great point, like how in the world did
- 13:28Speaker 1: they get Jason to do this? I asked the same
- 13:31Speaker 1: question because Jason really is somebody that lives above reproach
- 13:34Speaker 1: of the show, Like he did this show to meet somebody,
- 13:37Speaker 1: to find a wife, to find a partner for life,
- 13:39Speaker 1: and he did that. I mean to take everything else
- 13:42Speaker 1: out of the considerations. He found his partner, which we
- 13:45Speaker 1: have to celebrate, and it's one of the most celebrated
- 13:47Speaker 1: couples in the franchise. However, they did. He did do
- 13:51Speaker 1: this on TV um and I think for that he
- 13:54Speaker 1: will always always have to be called back in and
- 13:58Speaker 1: we'll always have to get his opinion an in situation
- 14:00Speaker 1: similar to that. I think that's a hilarious it's it's
- 14:04Speaker 1: really great. It's really great TV. And I just need
- 14:07Speaker 1: to say one more thing before we move on. It
- 14:09Speaker 1: does seem like this situation will be different than the
- 14:12Speaker 1: Mesnic situation in the way that I do believe that
- 14:14Speaker 1: Ari probably switch a rude them off camera like that
- 14:18Speaker 1: We're not gonna see from what I'm hearing, I see
- 14:21Speaker 1: a lot of it. We're going to see a lot
- 14:23Speaker 1: of it on the actual series or on the after
- 14:25Speaker 1: the final rose. I don't know. I can't I don't know.
- 14:27Speaker 1: I can't answer that. There's some things that can't answer.
- 14:29Speaker 1: Okay already, but I do love what Ben saying that
- 14:32Speaker 1: Mesnic was like clean from this, and he is so
- 14:36Speaker 1: sucked back in, not only sucked back in, it's called
- 14:39Speaker 1: pulling a Mesnic. Yeah, it's actually it's so bad for him.
- 14:44Speaker 1: I really I feel bad for Jason because he is
- 14:47Speaker 1: married with kids, and I'm sure his wife is not
- 14:50Speaker 1: thrilled about the idea of him coming back on the
- 14:52Speaker 1: show and her reliving it. I remember at the beginning
- 14:54Speaker 1: of this season even Emily Maynard had a tweet that said,
- 14:57Speaker 1: I cannot wait to you no longer pick anybody from
- 14:59Speaker 1: my my seasons be married with kids. She doesn't want
- 15:02Speaker 1: to see herself kissing. You can never escape it. You
- 15:05Speaker 1: know about Molly that she does a radio show for
- 15:07Speaker 1: I Heeart Radio too. That's right, she's like our she's
- 15:11Speaker 1: our colleague if yeah, sorry, okay, Molly. Molly is such
- 15:17Speaker 1: a strong, like self confident woman to just be married
- 15:22Speaker 1: to a guy who proposed to somebody else because he
- 15:24Speaker 1: thought he liked the other one more in that moment.
- 15:27Speaker 1: Like how how tough do you have to be emotionally
- 15:31Speaker 1: to like accept that your husband one time wanted another
- 15:34Speaker 1: woman over you. I know that is kind of a
- 15:37Speaker 1: great topic. Yeah, you should ask her. Maybe she liked
- 15:43Speaker 1: him so much, she was just so happy, Like whatever,
- 15:46Speaker 1: I got him in the end. I guess who cares
- 15:47Speaker 1: if you get it in the end, that matter? Okay,
- 15:51Speaker 1: And she got him for real? Yeah, well it sumb
- 15:54Speaker 1: this up. Okay. So here's the thing before I move
- 15:56Speaker 1: on the neck is this is going to be one
- 15:58Speaker 1: of the most dramatic endings of any Bachelor's season ever.
- 16:01Speaker 1: And I think all of our listeners out there, if
- 16:02Speaker 1: you're a Bachelor fan, which I don't know why you
- 16:04Speaker 1: listen to this podcast or not, uh, you're in for
- 16:09Speaker 1: a really exciting season. But I also want to remind everybody,
- 16:12Speaker 1: and I always seem to do this in defense of Ari,
- 16:14Speaker 1: in defense of the show, and defense of the women involved,
- 16:16Speaker 1: that this is real emotions being um being felt here.
- 16:21Speaker 1: There's real things happening, no matter what his feelings where
- 16:23Speaker 1: we have to give Ari credit that he followed this part,
- 16:26Speaker 1: but we also have to feel for the women involved
- 16:29Speaker 1: because somebody's heart has been broken and somebody's heart is
- 16:32Speaker 1: now confused because they're saying, Ari, how in the world
- 16:35Speaker 1: did you choose somebody else originally over me? So with
- 16:38Speaker 1: that said, I want to remind all the listeners this
- 16:40Speaker 1: might be fun to watch, it might need ramagic to watch.
- 16:43Speaker 1: We might, you know, cover our eyes and awkwardness at
- 16:47Speaker 1: the finale of the show, but remember, these are real people.
- 16:51Speaker 1: This is a real stories could this could be the
- 16:56Speaker 1: the start of somebody's life, and it could define their
- 16:58Speaker 1: life justlike it's defined asans and so as I talked
- 17:01Speaker 1: to Jason this week. We gotta feel for the guy.
- 17:03Speaker 1: He's married with kids and he's gonna have to come
- 17:05Speaker 1: back on and relive one of the most awkward moments
- 17:08Speaker 1: of his life. Alright, guys, we have a very exciting guest.
- 17:12Speaker 1: She was definitely a fan favorite in the first three
- 17:14Speaker 1: episodes that she was on our season, and now Ben
- 17:17Speaker 1: and I get got to experience the Bachelor Winter Games
- 17:21Speaker 1: with her. Her name is Viviana. She's spicy, and she's emotional,
- 17:25Speaker 1: and she's a kid gass girl, and I'm so excited
- 17:27Speaker 1: for you guys to get to know her more through
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- 20:21Speaker 1: incredibly fun person with almost famous podcast. Thank you for
- 20:29Speaker 1: fighting guys. You're so excited to have you here. Everybody
- 20:33Speaker 1: was so upset that you left week three because we
- 20:36Speaker 1: did not get enough Babiana. So of course the smart
- 20:39Speaker 1: Bachelor producers were like, this girl is getting on Winter Games. Yeah,
- 20:43Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for that. Um baby that has Astley said,
- 20:48Speaker 1: actually has been so excited to have you on this
- 20:50Speaker 1: podcast podcast because, believe me, she loves you so much.
- 20:53Speaker 1: I love you as well. I think you were great.
- 20:55Speaker 1: I watch you on The Bachelor, actually after I got
- 20:58Speaker 1: to know you on Winter Games, and I've always been
- 21:00Speaker 1: a huge fan of you, and I was actually even
- 21:01Speaker 1: a bigger fan after watching you on the Bachelor because
- 21:04Speaker 1: I felt like you spoke truth. Now, yeah, I gotta
- 21:07Speaker 1: be honest. You spoke truth, sometimes very direct and very harshly,
- 21:11Speaker 1: but you spoke truth the whole time. So I didn't
- 21:14Speaker 1: learn a little bit of truth right now about what
- 21:17Speaker 1: you think so far of this dison of the batchelor
- 21:20Speaker 1: after you've left. Um, she's speechless. Yeah, so okay. I
- 21:30Speaker 1: mean for me, it was just like obviously I struggled
- 21:33Speaker 1: and you know, I just didn't really get a chance
- 21:36Speaker 1: to get to know Ri. So it's really good to
- 21:39Speaker 1: see now that you know there's much more than just
- 21:42Speaker 1: kissing and you're getting to see that, like especially with
- 21:46Speaker 1: this episode. Um, I'm just what's really taking me back
- 21:52Speaker 1: is just like, well back this age, right. I didn't
- 21:55Speaker 1: mean my time there. I didn't even know how old. Yeah,
- 21:59Speaker 1: I mean I knew was young, but I never I
- 22:01Speaker 1: never sat down to be like, yeah, how old are you?
- 22:03Speaker 1: You know, like that wasn't a thing for me. No,
- 22:09Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I mean you can tell that
- 22:12Speaker 1: she just surprises me so much in every episode. And
- 22:17Speaker 1: I never even knew you would have you would have
- 22:19Speaker 1: never known that she had such a strong connection with
- 22:22Speaker 1: this guy. Um, she's really smart. She has like a
- 22:27Speaker 1: little bit of this old soul she knows. She just
- 22:30Speaker 1: does so well, and like it's really uncomfortable when you're
- 22:33Speaker 1: just like with all the cameras, it's it's not that easying,
- 22:35Speaker 1: like from night one, she was just really comfortable with him. Um,
- 22:39Speaker 1: I don't think that her age is an issue at all.
- 22:42Speaker 1: She's but I think she makes up for her age
- 22:45Speaker 1: with her confidence. Honestly, I think as actually and I've
- 22:49Speaker 1: talked in the podcast, take her age at the consideration here,
- 22:52Speaker 1: you know, it doesn't really matter. She just has She
- 22:54Speaker 1: exudes a confidence that I haven't seen on this show
- 22:58Speaker 1: in a long time. I agree, Um, I don't think
- 23:02Speaker 1: that her age is an issue at on. I think
- 23:04Speaker 1: that she kind of either when he is concerned, she
- 23:08Speaker 1: knows how to just put him in his place, you know,
- 23:11Speaker 1: just to kind of reassure him that, you know, age
- 23:14Speaker 1: is really nothing but a number, and that confidence is
- 23:17Speaker 1: just she surprises me every episode. I'm just like wow,
- 23:21Speaker 1: because just so I think that you thought Becca was
- 23:24Speaker 1: cool even when you were in her presence. Yeah. Is
- 23:28Speaker 1: there anyone on this show that it's coming across differently
- 23:30Speaker 1: on TV than you experience in the house. M hm No. Interesting,
- 23:37Speaker 1: Well that that leads us into something that I mean,
- 23:39Speaker 1: you know, one thing Astley has always said about you
- 23:41Speaker 1: be beana to my on the podcast, and also uh
- 23:44Speaker 1: and and private is she know she respects you so
- 23:47Speaker 1: much because if you're confident and in your ability to
- 23:50Speaker 1: communicate your feelings, well, Um, one one situation, kind of
- 23:54Speaker 1: the way we we best got to know you on
- 23:56Speaker 1: the Bachelor is through your relationship with Crystal, And so
- 23:59Speaker 1: kind of all of want to ask you this question
- 24:01Speaker 1: there after now watching a few weeks after you've left
- 24:04Speaker 1: and seeing more of Crystal, is this a surprise to
- 24:07Speaker 1: you the person that she's coming off as or is
- 24:10Speaker 1: this who you knew during the show. Um, it doesn't
- 24:14Speaker 1: surprise me, but it's not the person that I saw.
- 24:19Speaker 1: Like I never had an issue with Crystal ever. Um,
- 24:22Speaker 1: it's not like I didn't like her or um she
- 24:28Speaker 1: was like that with me at all. I just felt
- 24:30Speaker 1: the need to kind of just I kind of became
- 24:33Speaker 1: like this protector over the girls, and everybody was really
- 24:35Speaker 1: frustrated with her, and I spoke a lot of truth
- 24:39Speaker 1: and she clearly. I mean, you would think that someone
- 24:43Speaker 1: confronting her that early on would be would have been
- 24:45Speaker 1: like a good kind of like a hint like hate.
- 24:47Speaker 1: People are already feeling this way, like maybe you should
- 24:49Speaker 1: fall back a little bit. Um, But she's she's not. Um,
- 24:55Speaker 1: And I understand, and I respect the fact that she's
- 24:57Speaker 1: there for Ari I do. I totally see that. But
- 25:00Speaker 1: you know, you are in this really unique um situation
- 25:03Speaker 1: and environment with all these other women that are trying,
- 25:06Speaker 1: like other women are really trying to be respectful. So
- 25:09Speaker 1: when you have that one person that's just like not cooperating,
- 25:14Speaker 1: it just you know, you're seeing that a lot now,
- 25:17Speaker 1: you know where it's just people are really starting to
- 25:19Speaker 1: get frustrated. I don't know if I wouldn't been able
- 25:22Speaker 1: to hang on that long, I was gonna say that, Actually,
- 25:26Speaker 1: you have always been somebody that I think has kept
- 25:29Speaker 1: their cool through this whole franchise. You've know' listen, yeah, no,
- 25:35Speaker 1: you showed emotion and you've gotten upset, but you've also
- 25:38Speaker 1: been able to logically kind of see everything for what
- 25:41Speaker 1: it is. Um I want to hear, and I know
- 25:43Speaker 1: Crystal's kind of rubbed you at times the wrong way
- 25:47Speaker 1: during the season, and not her personally. We're not let's
- 25:49Speaker 1: not attack Crystal personally, but her behavior and the things
- 25:52Speaker 1: she's doing. I want to kind of live it up
- 25:54Speaker 1: to YouTube as women who have done this show what
- 25:56Speaker 1: kind of causes that or what kind of rubbed you
- 25:58Speaker 1: the wrong way about her behavior. Well, I definitely think
- 26:01Speaker 1: it was condescending. I think she always thought that she
- 26:04Speaker 1: was the top of the girl gang, like she was
- 26:06Speaker 1: the number one and like everybody else was kind of
- 26:08Speaker 1: runner up to her. And then there are some weird
- 26:11Speaker 1: things that make you a villain in the house. One
- 26:15Speaker 1: of those is not telling the girls the standus of
- 26:17Speaker 1: your relationship, like coming home from a date and being like,
- 26:20Speaker 1: you know, that's private between us. That's like number one
- 26:23Speaker 1: rule of becoming a villain. Um. There's another thing, her
- 26:27Speaker 1: pity party, staying home from the date. That was where
- 26:30Speaker 1: I was like, uh, and when she interrupted the rose ceremony.
- 26:33Speaker 1: Those are my two things where I'm like you, I
- 26:36Speaker 1: can't even like you. I've been trying. Yeah, I I
- 26:40Speaker 1: completely agree that, Like I can respect someone not feeling
- 26:42Speaker 1: comfortable sharing all the details of a date like you
- 26:46Speaker 1: don't have, Like that's just not a comfortable thing, Like
- 26:48Speaker 1: if that's what she felt she needed to do, Like
- 26:50Speaker 1: that didn't rub me the wrong way, now, no, it was.
- 26:53Speaker 1: I think it's more just what you just said, like
- 26:55Speaker 1: interrupting the role ceremony, like that's not fair to everybody else,
- 26:58Speaker 1: you know, it's it's not supposed to be. I get
- 27:01Speaker 1: the whole idea, like she's just trying to talk to him,
- 27:03Speaker 1: but that conversation didn't need to happen. Okay. Another way
- 27:07Speaker 1: of becoming a villain is probably making sneaky ways to
- 27:11Speaker 1: get alone time when you're not supposed to have one.
- 27:13Speaker 1: So hence, you know, interrupting a rose ceremony in my season,
- 27:17Speaker 1: Kelsey faked or something, a fainting spell, like it's just
- 27:22Speaker 1: trying to get the attention of the bachelor in a
- 27:24Speaker 1: way that is not conventional. Bugged me. It's like, I
- 27:28Speaker 1: don't care she grabs him first, or grabs him eight times.
- 27:31Speaker 1: In fact, a ten year old last night said to me,
- 27:33Speaker 1: oh yeah, Crystal, the one who takes all the time
- 27:37Speaker 1: steal time stealer. That's a villain. They can handle that.
- 27:40Speaker 1: But when she interrupted the rose room, and it's like,
- 27:42Speaker 1: wouldn't everybody want to do that? Why are you special?
- 27:46Speaker 1: You gotta like follow the rules kind What obviously was
- 27:49Speaker 1: worse than interrupting the rose ceremony was her being a
- 27:52Speaker 1: total diva when it came to skipping out on the
- 27:55Speaker 1: group date because Ari was a liar. Well, here's most
- 28:00Speaker 1: in all three of you should already have gone up
- 28:02Speaker 1: to her room. I think absolutely not. That was giving
- 28:05Speaker 1: into what she was hoping was going to happen. That
- 28:08Speaker 1: was that. But I think he was just doing a
- 28:10Speaker 1: respectful thing. I don't know, I don't know if that's
- 28:12Speaker 1: respectful to the other girls. I think that was giving
- 28:17Speaker 1: her exactly what she planned on getting from that move.
- 28:22Speaker 1: I think it was a yeah, sorry, no, UM. I
- 28:27Speaker 1: think you can start to see how she's beginning to manipulate.
- 28:31Speaker 1: And I just I don't think that it was wrong
- 28:35Speaker 1: of him to go up and talk to her, you know,
- 28:39Speaker 1: and check in UM. I mean, he was really honest
- 28:42Speaker 1: with the women and was like, I don't want it
- 28:44Speaker 1: to affect the ninth So it's something that he needed
- 28:48Speaker 1: to address. UM. And I kind of heres that to
- 28:52Speaker 1: me was I didn't I didn't get a chance to
- 28:54Speaker 1: talk to Rits. I didn't know like a lot about him,
- 28:57Speaker 1: and to see him kind of handle that was do
- 29:00Speaker 1: we attracted to me? Because he's just like, let me
- 29:03Speaker 1: go up and talk to her, and even the way
- 29:04Speaker 1: that he liked their conversation and you know, everything he said.
- 29:09Speaker 1: I thought that that was good of him to kind
- 29:12Speaker 1: of just let her know, like, this is not cool,
- 29:14Speaker 1: you know, and then he's like, you need to stay
- 29:16Speaker 1: in your room. Yeah, yeah, I'll see you in a
- 29:21Speaker 1: couple of days. He was a couple of days. So
- 29:25Speaker 1: then I have a question. Did she go then down
- 29:27Speaker 1: to the party but never saw Ari? Yeah? So she
- 29:30Speaker 1: did end up going down to the party and Becca
- 29:32Speaker 1: like scared her? What? And then she only showed up
- 29:34Speaker 1: for a brief time until Yeah, I guess Becca was like,
- 29:37Speaker 1: what are you doing here? You said you weren't going
- 29:39Speaker 1: to come? Okay? Yah? Um? Can we talked about Winter Games? Now? Yeah?
- 29:44Speaker 1: All right, let's do it. Bibby. You left Ari season.
- 29:48Speaker 1: You didn't really like Ari, right, you just didn't. Yeah,
- 29:54Speaker 1: I mean it's just I can't. I didn't. I didn't
- 29:57Speaker 1: get to know him, you know, so you threw some
- 30:00Speaker 1: mad shit on him on Instagram? What do you think
- 30:02Speaker 1: of Nick Vile's name for you? No chill? No? I
- 30:06Speaker 1: love it? Yeah, that's like what That's what Nick says
- 30:11Speaker 1: to me? And I'm like, Nick, do you really want
- 30:13Speaker 1: a girl with chill? Those are they're boring? I he
- 30:17Speaker 1: nailed it though, when his girls, Like I knew that
- 30:24Speaker 1: I was no Chill, but I didn't really realize how intense. Like,
- 30:27Speaker 1: I'm just such an intense human being. And it's kind
- 30:31Speaker 1: of when you finally see yourself and your personally like
- 30:34Speaker 1: on TV, you're just like, oh, that's what my best
- 30:36Speaker 1: friend says that, Like my eyes get crazy, and then
- 30:39Speaker 1: I'm just like you speak with this intensity. I'm just oh, gosh,
- 30:42Speaker 1: that's what my dad, you know, my dad. My dad
- 30:45Speaker 1: was like how my first season or like every season,
- 30:48Speaker 1: my Dad's like, why is she still there? How is
- 30:50Speaker 1: she still there? You? Yeah, Like she's so dramatic, like
- 30:55Speaker 1: how is this guy? I like saying though she learned
- 30:59Speaker 1: something about herself that other people had maybe pointed out
- 31:02Speaker 1: to her that she didn't believe until she watched it. Yeah,
- 31:05Speaker 1: I don't mind, no Chill. I mean, you've got to
- 31:08Speaker 1: own it. You know, it's my personality. And I can
- 31:11Speaker 1: sit here and be like kind of just shut off
- 31:15Speaker 1: about it, but really it's just it shines and I'm like, Okay,
- 31:18Speaker 1: well I'm no Chill, and maybe I just need to
- 31:21Speaker 1: meditate and pray a little bit more. It just means
- 31:25Speaker 1: you're passionate and your vocal about it. Yeah, alright, so
- 31:30Speaker 1: maybe we obviously got to spend some time. Uh. You know,
- 31:33Speaker 1: actually I get spend some time with you at Winter Games.
- 31:36Speaker 1: I really respected you and Ashley had a very uh
- 31:40Speaker 1: let's just say this Winner game is gonna be a
- 31:42Speaker 1: lot of fun. There's some great relationships with form and
- 31:44Speaker 1: you would actually have a situation that comes up during
- 31:46Speaker 1: Winter Games that could have completely destroyed your friendship, but
- 31:50Speaker 1: the two of you handled it so well. And I
- 31:53Speaker 1: think and and to to be very vague here, this
- 31:56Speaker 1: situation happens in the real world a lot, and they
- 32:00Speaker 1: oftentimes destroys friendships. But the two of you, I think,
- 32:04Speaker 1: build a relationship around this common interest during Winter Games. Bibby,
- 32:10Speaker 1: how close do you feel that actually based on that
- 32:12Speaker 1: experience during Winter Games, I mean we instantly connected and bonded.
- 32:16Speaker 1: I feel like we come from the same planet. Yeah. Um,
- 32:24Speaker 1: you know, for me, it's so important to just be
- 32:26Speaker 1: completely open with people. And I think a lot of
- 32:28Speaker 1: the times when you're just not vocal about where your
- 32:31Speaker 1: feelings are at, it leads others to just like it
- 32:34Speaker 1: leaves it to the imagination, right, So I wanted to
- 32:36Speaker 1: make sure that we tackle this head on. And you know,
- 32:40Speaker 1: like if she was seeing a certain way that she
- 32:42Speaker 1: was always honest with me, and we continuously kept checking
- 32:45Speaker 1: in with each other and seeing where we were at.
- 32:48Speaker 1: And I was really happy that she spoke up because
- 32:50Speaker 1: the first you know, obviously she's she's like friends with
- 32:54Speaker 1: all the guys, and that's intimidating as well. And so
- 32:57Speaker 1: the first few days we didn't really get a chance
- 32:59Speaker 1: to talk about at it. And then as time went on,
- 33:02Speaker 1: you know, I it was just good to see, like
- 33:07Speaker 1: we it's easier really, like if you just if women
- 33:10Speaker 1: were to talk to each other more, they probably just
- 33:13Speaker 1: like get through so much. Um. Yeah, you allowed me
- 33:16Speaker 1: to be so open with it. Yeah, I think it's
- 33:18Speaker 1: just and then you see, right, so like as we
- 33:21Speaker 1: were talking, I don't know, I can I don't. I
- 33:23Speaker 1: don't know if I'm saying too much, but like we
- 33:25Speaker 1: would talk about it, and you could tell like her
- 33:28Speaker 1: relationship was forming a lot more and I wasn't feeling
- 33:31Speaker 1: it either. You know, I think this is a quite No,
- 33:35Speaker 1: it's it's perfect, it's fine. You feel just feel comfortable. Well,
- 33:39Speaker 1: everything is good here. I want to ask the two
- 33:40Speaker 1: of you then to talk about it, um because man
- 33:44Speaker 1: or woman, what you two did is a very difficult thing.
- 33:47Speaker 1: So I want to leave it up to YouTube. Why
- 33:49Speaker 1: were you two so open with each other? Why did
- 33:52Speaker 1: you choose to communicate in the way that you did?
- 33:54Speaker 1: Because I respected it and I felt like it because
- 33:57Speaker 1: of the decisions you made and then I'll stop your
- 34:00Speaker 1: if they don't want to speak for you. It allowed
- 34:02Speaker 1: less conflict to enter in. So why did the two
- 34:04Speaker 1: of you decide to communicate the way you did. I
- 34:07Speaker 1: just think that we hit it off so immediately, like
- 34:09Speaker 1: on day one, that I knew that she would giving
- 34:12Speaker 1: you one of my closest girlfriends in the house. And
- 34:15Speaker 1: maybe it's like not easily angered. Actually, she's just like
- 34:18Speaker 1: such an emotional person that you can just talk to
- 34:22Speaker 1: her about anything, and you think that the normal person
- 34:25Speaker 1: would be like, okay, wait what and then she doesn't
- 34:28Speaker 1: react like that at all. Maybe that's that's if that's
- 34:32Speaker 1: the priding to hear because you are fiery, you are
- 34:35Speaker 1: intense and actually sitting over there saying that you're not
- 34:38Speaker 1: easily angered. And I think for most most of the
- 34:41Speaker 1: viewers out there and the listeners this podcast, they would
- 34:44Speaker 1: associate no chill with anger. She puts you are you
- 34:48Speaker 1: not easily angered? She puts girl friends first. She really
- 34:51Speaker 1: is like girl power, really girl power. Um, I don't
- 34:56Speaker 1: you know, And this is how I explain it to people, Like,
- 35:00Speaker 1: you're not going to see every detail of you know
- 35:04Speaker 1: what of my night during that road ceremony right where
- 35:07Speaker 1: Crystal and I kind of just had our like things,
- 35:10Speaker 1: but because there's so much more going on that you know,
- 35:13Speaker 1: people need to see as well. So like me getting
- 35:17Speaker 1: to that point came from somewhere. You know. It wasn't
- 35:20Speaker 1: just like I snapped. It wasn't that. It was just
- 35:23Speaker 1: a build up and a series of things that had
- 35:26Speaker 1: happened that I felt strongly like to just tell Crystal
- 35:32Speaker 1: what was happening. And yeah, I was. I was really
- 35:34Speaker 1: angry and I could have taken I could have killed
- 35:37Speaker 1: a lot um But for me, like when you're continuously
- 35:46Speaker 1: talking to each other and being open and vulnerable, like
- 35:48Speaker 1: you just see that you're I don't know, I just
- 35:51Speaker 1: I connected with Ashley and I always wanted her to
- 35:54Speaker 1: feel comfortable around me, and by not talking, that's when
- 35:57Speaker 1: you kind of shut people off. And I am someone
- 36:01Speaker 1: who puts um my girlfriend's first, you know, I think
- 36:05Speaker 1: that it's extremely important too to just it's like a
- 36:11Speaker 1: girl power thing. It's really it's a girl power things
- 36:13Speaker 1: you put. You very much respect women and their feelings. Yeah,
- 36:16Speaker 1: and I definitely do. And and I think it's super
- 36:19Speaker 1: nice that actually is just saying like, I'm not this
- 36:21Speaker 1: like angry person. I actually I take my time. Um,
- 36:26Speaker 1: even my relationships. I'm so open. I'm such an open
- 36:30Speaker 1: person Like communication to me is the most important thing,
- 36:35Speaker 1: because then how do you build a foundation and a
- 36:37Speaker 1: friendship or anything, you know. So I'm I'm so happy
- 36:43Speaker 1: that I gained a friend. Yeah, I mean that's pretty good.
- 36:47Speaker 1: With my last question, then it's Ashley and Vidriana YouTube
- 36:50Speaker 1: obviously had a very personal experience at Winter Games. Why
- 36:55Speaker 1: are you excited for our listeners out there and for
- 36:58Speaker 1: the fans of the bachor now to watch Winter Games?
- 37:00Speaker 1: What about Winter Games meant so much to you two? Um,
- 37:04Speaker 1: I'm most excited. Uh. I think that I was a
- 37:08Speaker 1: lot more of myself at Winter Games. It was comfortable,
- 37:11Speaker 1: I was comfortable. We had such a good time. Um.
- 37:16Speaker 1: And I think that people will see that, you know,
- 37:18Speaker 1: I think people see that I'm not just like just
- 37:22Speaker 1: fiery um over the opinionated woman. I also know how
- 37:28Speaker 1: to have fun and goof around and you know, can
- 37:33Speaker 1: just have a good time and be myself. So I'm
- 37:37Speaker 1: really excited to see how it all plays out. So
- 37:41Speaker 1: I just wanted to say that I like the way
- 37:44Speaker 1: that you can see two girls just really support each other,
- 37:48Speaker 1: um before anyone else. Yeah, yeah, I mean that's it,
- 37:52Speaker 1: And I think that's what I saw in the two
- 37:54Speaker 1: of you as you support each other. You're communicated with
- 37:56Speaker 1: each other in a situation that is formed to cause
- 38:00Speaker 1: unflicked and it is formed jealousy. You two fought through
- 38:05Speaker 1: that and you rose above it. And for me, as
- 38:07Speaker 1: a friend of both of you, I really respected that
- 38:10Speaker 1: and I learned a lot from the way you treated
- 38:12Speaker 1: each other. So I'm excited for people to watch from
- 38:14Speaker 1: their games because they're gonna see conflict, they're gonna see
- 38:17Speaker 1: the drama, they're gonna see the relationships. They're going to
- 38:20Speaker 1: see the excitement and the intrigue of what a Bachelor's
- 38:23Speaker 1: show brings. But they're also going to see two people
- 38:26Speaker 1: right above it all and say, Okay, we want what's
- 38:28Speaker 1: best for each other here, and that's what you two did. Yeah. Thanks,
- 38:32Speaker 1: when you really put that, well, yeah, thank you, Amy, Amy.
- 38:36Speaker 1: I know that you have talked to you know, the
- 38:39Speaker 1: producers of the Winter Games. I know you that you
- 38:42Speaker 1: know a lot of what's going on there. What are
- 38:44Speaker 1: you excited for people to watch about Winter Games? What
- 38:46Speaker 1: do you excide to watch all? Y'all? I just like watching,
- 38:52Speaker 1: you know. I think one thing the reason Paradise is
- 38:56Speaker 1: so successful is we're watching people we already have gotten
- 38:59Speaker 1: to know. It is a lot more fun to watch
- 39:02Speaker 1: when we know you guys. Somewhat the hardest part about
- 39:05Speaker 1: Bachelor is I'm like, who is that? Who is that?
- 39:08Speaker 1: Who is that? Who is that? So that's why those
- 39:10Speaker 1: spinoff shows are so enjoyable, because we're watching friends or
- 39:14Speaker 1: people we already hate, are people we already like, and
- 39:17Speaker 1: it makes it way better. Yeah, I totally agree. What's
- 39:20Speaker 1: going to be? Um? What's going to be? I have
- 39:23Speaker 1: to have a little preview. Um. The people that I
- 39:26Speaker 1: worked with over at ABC for The Bachelor Instagram they
- 39:29Speaker 1: said that they got to watch the first episode a
- 39:31Speaker 1: couple of days ago, and the girls were like running
- 39:34Speaker 1: up and down the cubicle hallways being like Batchlor Winter
- 39:37Speaker 1: Games is the best Batchelor spinoff ever. They're like, we
- 39:40Speaker 1: promised we weren't saying that because we're biased. Ords you like,
- 39:43Speaker 1: it's actually fantastic. Oh that's yeah, right, you guys kill it.
- 39:49Speaker 1: I mean you're a great representation during Winter Games of
- 39:52Speaker 1: how this whole show can actually be real, it can
- 39:56Speaker 1: actually be good, it can be beneficial, and it represents
- 40:00Speaker 1: at some level what life could look like outside of
- 40:02Speaker 1: the show. So I think Amy speak as she said,
- 40:05Speaker 1: something that really resonated me. And what I loved about
- 40:08Speaker 1: being on Win our game is there's people from all
- 40:10Speaker 1: of the world, people we don't quite know yet that
- 40:12Speaker 1: come in to Vermont and they experienced something, um that
- 40:18Speaker 1: a lot of us has gotten experience before a Bachelor's
- 40:20Speaker 1: spinoff show. However, for them they're new to it. We
- 40:24Speaker 1: get to meet them, we get the For some of us,
- 40:26Speaker 1: we get to build relationships with them. And I think
- 40:28Speaker 1: it's going to be so exciting for the fans of
- 40:31Speaker 1: the Bachelor here in the United States to see how
- 40:33Speaker 1: awesome some of the contestants from all of the world
- 40:35Speaker 1: are as well. Yeah, it's it's truly a demonstration of
- 40:38Speaker 1: utity and love. As they like to say. Yeah, I agree,
- 40:43Speaker 1: all right, Babby, thank you so much for joining us today.
- 40:46Speaker 1: That was clean and emotional talk. I really just feel
- 40:48Speaker 1: like we haven't been broadcasting, but we love you so
- 40:53Speaker 1: much and we cannot wait for fans to see more
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- 43:23Speaker 1: You want to be left out? Guys? We have a
- 43:26Speaker 1: villain here. A villain is right next to me. He's
- 43:29Speaker 1: here to talk about the other villain that we're familiar
- 43:32Speaker 1: with right now, which is Crystal and her authenticity as
- 43:35Speaker 1: a as a true villain. Chad, Chad Johnson, what's come on, guys?
- 43:40Speaker 1: Nice to have you back here. Yeah, thanks for having me.
- 43:43Speaker 1: Your teeth are insanely white, sleep in it? What okay?
- 43:50Speaker 1: I just got some trays dr cupcakes. Set me up
- 43:52Speaker 1: with some zoom something. You know that you know the
- 43:55Speaker 1: in the in dental office, he's still actually a dentist.
- 43:57Speaker 1: I thought he was like doing TV talking now No, no,
- 44:00Speaker 1: he goes on the doctor sometimes, but he is an
- 44:03Speaker 1: actual dentist. And your teeth, he said that my teeth
- 44:06Speaker 1: can get any waiter, And now I know that that's
- 44:08Speaker 1: a lie, Saint nuts Chad, what do you think about Crystal?
- 44:15Speaker 1: Is she a true villain? Is she too? Is she
- 44:19Speaker 1: is she authentic in the way she's truly evil? Is
- 44:24Speaker 1: it all an act? I was gonna say before we
- 44:27Speaker 1: hop in, and I just want to say congrats to Ben.
- 44:28Speaker 1: I see all the stuff you've been doing with the
- 44:30Speaker 1: people in Honduras. That's really cool and yeah, for sure,
- 44:35Speaker 1: man and um also, you know, congrats to you on
- 44:37Speaker 1: the Winter Games, as it's both of us. But anyway, yeah,
- 44:43Speaker 1: I you know, I'll be the first to say that
- 44:46Speaker 1: when I first saw Crystal, I called her out. Like
- 44:48Speaker 1: we we were videoing. I was with you know, my
- 44:50Speaker 1: manager here, and we were videoing me doing a little
- 44:52Speaker 1: like commentary about the show, and before anybody else has
- 44:56Speaker 1: seen it, I was like, she's fake. Everything she's doing
- 44:58Speaker 1: is planned out, and she's going through all the bachelor's
- 45:01Speaker 1: steps right like, you know, doing the Miss American thing.
- 45:04Speaker 1: And then after a while, then it became less fun
- 45:07Speaker 1: after this episode two or three, because then everybody else
- 45:09Speaker 1: saw it, and I was like, okay, well now everybody's
- 45:11Speaker 1: playing into it. So then I immediately started like backing
- 45:14Speaker 1: her up because you support somebody with the plan exactly.
- 45:18Speaker 1: I was. I was like, you know, okay, so now
- 45:20Speaker 1: everybody else is hating her, how can I be the
- 45:22Speaker 1: Devil's at kit the kit for that and so um,
- 45:26Speaker 1: you know, now I feel like, you know, she started
- 45:28Speaker 1: off so fake and she had this whole plan, and
- 45:31Speaker 1: then once she realized that everyone was kind of attacking her,
- 45:34Speaker 1: now she's kind of gotten real and everyone else it's like,
- 45:37Speaker 1: why are you still attacking her? She looks bad already,
- 45:39Speaker 1: like you know, she looks bad. And then like Becca, Becca,
- 45:46Speaker 1: she just kept going at it when she should just
- 45:48Speaker 1: have let her ruin herself exactly. It was like she
- 45:50Speaker 1: had already you know, ruined herself pretty bad, just in
- 45:52Speaker 1: the one episode alone. And Becca was like, you look
- 45:55Speaker 1: horrible like and no one likes you anymore. And I
- 45:59Speaker 1: was like, god, Becca, And if you think about it too,
- 46:01Speaker 1: what what how can twenty two year old that came
- 46:04Speaker 1: onto the show relate to you know, a twenty nine
- 46:06Speaker 1: year old or something where whether she is being fake
- 46:08Speaker 1: or real, those two different people have two totally different
- 46:11Speaker 1: aspects of life. And at thirty you're kind of, you know,
- 46:14Speaker 1: chomping at the grip to maybe find somebody, whereas you
- 46:16Speaker 1: got Becca, who's like whatever I got, I got a
- 46:19Speaker 1: lot of years of hot in this left is really
- 46:23Speaker 1: interesting take because I hadn't thought of that, and hearing
- 46:27Speaker 1: you say that, it's like she was creating herself to
- 46:30Speaker 1: be this villain or fool or whatever word you want
- 46:32Speaker 1: to use. But when the girl's ganged up on her
- 46:36Speaker 1: and each person was pulling her aside to be like
- 46:38Speaker 1: you suck, it's true you did feel a little bit
- 46:41Speaker 1: like to pile on. Yeah, it was like why, what's
- 46:45Speaker 1: how is that necessary? I still will never understand what
- 46:48Speaker 1: the point is of people talking to the lead about
- 46:52Speaker 1: how terrible a person is, or sitting down in someone's
- 46:55Speaker 1: face and telling them, hey, you're you're pretty horrible, like
- 46:57Speaker 1: thank you, Like, I'm not sure why you felt the
- 46:59Speaker 1: need to tell me that. The whole world just saw it. Okay,
- 47:03Speaker 1: So but you you were a planned villain, right You
- 47:05Speaker 1: went in knowing that you had fun pushing buttons. No,
- 47:10Speaker 1: it was the opposite on mine. On mine, I went
- 47:13Speaker 1: in totally real. I'd never watched the show before, and
- 47:16Speaker 1: I was actually trying to do it for real, which,
- 47:18Speaker 1: like you know, when they're calling, like all right, fifteen
- 47:20Speaker 1: of us are going on a date, and everyone's like yeah,
- 47:22Speaker 1: I'm like, this doesn't make sense. I don't want to
- 47:24Speaker 1: go on a date with fifteen people. Like. I had
- 47:27Speaker 1: never watched it, so I was really trying to do
- 47:29Speaker 1: it the way someone in a real dating scenario would.
- 47:32Speaker 1: I mean, I always said things that you said were like, wow,
- 47:35Speaker 1: well you know what, He's just saying it the way
- 47:38Speaker 1: it is. And it took a turn after a while
- 47:40Speaker 1: because what happened was when I saw these guys sitting
- 47:43Speaker 1: around like, you know, oh my gosh, if I can't
- 47:45Speaker 1: see her to day, I don't know what I'm gonna do.
- 47:47Speaker 1: And I was like, we're a bunch of thirty year old,
- 47:49Speaker 1: good looking dudes, like I'm pretty sure we've dated girls before,
- 47:52Speaker 1: and we don't freak out if like we don't get
- 47:54Speaker 1: called the first day. So once I started seeing that happen,
- 47:57Speaker 1: I was like, oh, okay, there is playing the role
- 48:01Speaker 1: and they're being fake, and I realized it looked bad
- 48:04Speaker 1: for me trying to be real, so I was like,
- 48:06Speaker 1: all right, well I'll out fake them. Then you know,
- 48:08Speaker 1: I'm already the bad guy. I can't go back now.
- 48:10Speaker 1: So you caught on and you're like, Okay, well, now
- 48:12Speaker 1: that I've been pigeonholed into the villain, I'm going to
- 48:15Speaker 1: continue with that exactly. And I tried to come back
- 48:17Speaker 1: a few times, and you know, I was working with production.
- 48:20Speaker 1: I was like, I can't come back? Can And they're like, no, man,
- 48:24Speaker 1: what do you think will happen to Crystal? Like is
- 48:26Speaker 1: she going to be, you know, on Paradise or is
- 48:30Speaker 1: she going to be so villainy that we're like get lost?
- 48:33Speaker 1: You know, I I'm not sure what christ I can
- 48:36Speaker 1: assume she's gonna be on Paradise for sure, just because
- 48:38Speaker 1: of she is kind of a big presence. Um. I
- 48:42Speaker 1: think that she'll probably get some type of you know,
- 48:45Speaker 1: what's it called redemption story, you know, where maybe she
- 48:48Speaker 1: is being real or she learns to take it a
- 48:50Speaker 1: little more real versus the whole just the voice thing
- 48:53Speaker 1: in general. N no matter what she says and how
- 48:55Speaker 1: real it is, the voice is going to ruin it, right,
- 48:57Speaker 1: that baby whispery talkie thing, Yeah you think that exaggerated
- 49:02Speaker 1: and that's her real voice? No, I don't know. I
- 49:05Speaker 1: supposedly if you watch her Instagram stories and I'm not
- 49:07Speaker 1: being mean, it just isn't her voice, but I think
- 49:10Speaker 1: I think she uses it with Ari in a flirty way,
- 49:13Speaker 1: and then she uses it with the girls to be like,
- 49:15Speaker 1: see I'm soft, I'm not. You don't need to yell
- 49:17Speaker 1: at me. So what are you think is going through
- 49:19Speaker 1: her head? Because I kind of can't wait to talk
- 49:21Speaker 1: to her while she's watching Oh man. I think she
- 49:25Speaker 1: at first thought like I killed it. Oh man, everyone's
- 49:29Speaker 1: gonna love me. Look at all these good things I
- 49:31Speaker 1: do I've said, so everything's perfect. And then I think
- 49:34Speaker 1: as it went on, you know, she was probably getting
- 49:36Speaker 1: calls like it's not gonna look so good for you today.
- 49:40Speaker 1: But you know, I don't think she's bad girl or anything.
- 49:43Speaker 1: I think she just came into it a little too calculated,
- 49:46Speaker 1: and maybe she wasn't even was real about actually looking
- 49:50Speaker 1: for a relationship. But I think she came in trying
- 49:52Speaker 1: to portray herself in such a way and so hard
- 49:56Speaker 1: that it made everything about her seem fake. Ben, were
- 49:58Speaker 1: you surprised Ari kept her last night? Did you think
- 50:01Speaker 1: it was her time to go home? Uh? No, I
- 50:04Speaker 1: think it made a lot of sense actually for his behavior.
- 50:08Speaker 1: And I and I actually we talked about it in
- 50:10Speaker 1: our last segment, Chad with and you're in studio, so
- 50:13Speaker 1: you heard this with Viviana. Is why in the world
- 50:15Speaker 1: would already go up and give Crystal attention after she's
- 50:19Speaker 1: kind of thrown her fit. And it's obvious now because
- 50:22Speaker 1: he kept here that he really cares about her, and
- 50:23Speaker 1: he's probably super confused now because this might have been
- 50:27Speaker 1: the first time that he's seen her. I don't know
- 50:30Speaker 1: else to say, a crazy side. And that's the one
- 50:32Speaker 1: thing that that the viewers have to understand is as
- 50:35Speaker 1: a bachelor, you're closed off the most things until it
- 50:39Speaker 1: kind of blows up in your face. And so he
- 50:41Speaker 1: is just getting his first education and what we know
- 50:44Speaker 1: as Crystal. So for me, I think, and Chad, I
- 50:48Speaker 1: know you know Joe. Joe has asked about you a lot,
- 50:50Speaker 1: and you're able to speak on this. And I want
- 50:52Speaker 1: to take a second here and paused, because your commentary
- 50:56Speaker 1: in every podcast that you've done with us has been incredible.
- 50:59Speaker 1: It's been really bought on, and you speak to things,
- 51:02Speaker 1: um that that I know if you're think about sometimes
- 51:04Speaker 1: and I want to give you a little shout out here, Uh,
- 51:06Speaker 1: you have created a YouTube channel, um that you're gonna
- 51:09Speaker 1: be doing commentary on your own commentary on the Bachelor
- 51:14Speaker 1: each week. It's hilarious, it's lighthearted, it's fun and and
- 51:18Speaker 1: if tell me if I have this wrong, it's at
- 51:20Speaker 1: www dot dot chat dot TV. Am I correct, that's right,
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- 54:32Speaker 1: So producer Amy, as you can tell, it's really excited cat.
- 54:36Speaker 1: She loves herself some chat and so she's came up
- 54:40Speaker 1: with a round robin a fire questions Trust. So she's
- 54:43Speaker 1: gonna fire some questions we're all gonna answer, and she's
- 54:46Speaker 1: gonna get her goodies off of it. I really don't
- 54:47Speaker 1: know why we're doing this, but she's doing it because
- 54:49Speaker 1: it just pleases her. And the people want to know
- 54:53Speaker 1: your thoughts on these things from the show. So first question,
- 54:57Speaker 1: long haired Becca in the hotel room, what do we
- 55:00Speaker 1: think that are? He brought her to that hotel room
- 55:02Speaker 1: and also their barfi lovey conversation Chad. First, I'm going
- 55:08Speaker 1: to say, honestly, he looked like he just kind of
- 55:10Speaker 1: wanted to tickler or something. They didn't even really talk
- 55:16Speaker 1: or convey anything. He literally was just like grabbing at
- 55:18Speaker 1: every piece of her body and then they started making
- 55:21Speaker 1: out like two minutes into it, right, thanks, Chad. He's like,
- 55:23Speaker 1: I really need a loan time to get to know
- 55:25Speaker 1: you better. And then it was just like, I want
- 55:27Speaker 1: to get to know you better too. Everything's amazing, let's
- 55:30Speaker 1: make out. I wonder if, like how much conversation was
- 55:35Speaker 1: really taken out of that scene, but if it was,
- 55:39Speaker 1: that's like the way one caveat about The Bachelor. It's
- 55:41Speaker 1: all like, we need to get to know each other better,
- 55:44Speaker 1: and then it's like, I know we do. This place
- 55:47Speaker 1: is so amazing. It's the best place to get to
- 55:49Speaker 1: know each other better. Okay, man, what do you think? Honestly?
- 55:55Speaker 1: I mean the hotel stuff pretty nice to me. Honestly,
- 55:58Speaker 1: it kind of separates everything. It takes you away from
- 56:01Speaker 1: the group, and so I'm a huge fan of any
- 56:03Speaker 1: time you can get away. Fair enough, Okay, Frog eating
- 56:07Speaker 1: Raven friend Tia. I want to know what everybody thinks.
- 56:10Speaker 1: And I can't remember if they're from Kansas or where
- 56:13Speaker 1: she's from Arkansas, Arkansas? So what does everybody think about Tia?
- 56:15Speaker 1: Because I feel like last night she kind of emerged
- 56:17Speaker 1: or tonight whatever as a front runner. I think she's
- 56:20Speaker 1: been a front runner for a while. I think, first,
- 56:22Speaker 1: you're not playing the came as. I think honestly, like
- 56:27Speaker 1: they were just like, hey, Raven, we kind of want you,
- 56:29Speaker 1: but like can you just clone yourself and send a
- 56:31Speaker 1: friend I know Raven two point Oh seriously, same boys,
- 56:35Speaker 1: same hair, same everything. Like literally, it was just like
- 56:38Speaker 1: all right. She even said she was like, I actually
- 56:40Speaker 1: live in the city, and he was like, oh, well, um, yeah,
- 56:45Speaker 1: we're gonna swamp eating frog legs. Okay, So okay, Ashley,
- 56:48Speaker 1: go okay. So yeah. I think Tia was actually a
- 56:50Speaker 1: frontrunner of the entire time, and I think that they're like,
- 56:54Speaker 1: you know what, we really like the Raven caricature from
- 56:57Speaker 1: last season, So let's just do it. Let's ask even
- 57:00Speaker 1: if she has any friends like her, Ben, what do
- 57:02Speaker 1: you think of Tia? I have a thousand things to
- 57:05Speaker 1: say about this date, so I'm gonna take my time
- 57:08Speaker 1: here and talk about it. Tia has been a front
- 57:10Speaker 1: runner for me since the beginning. I think Tia is, uh,
- 57:13Speaker 1: it's just herself. I think she's pretty, she's confident, so
- 57:16Speaker 1: I always thought, Okay, in this group of women, she
- 57:19Speaker 1: stands above the rest. I love this day, and let
- 57:21Speaker 1: me tell you why. For one second, I love alligators.
- 57:24Speaker 1: It is my favorite thing in the world. I absolutely,
- 57:28Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not kidding you. I'm a chest with alligators.
- 57:31Speaker 1: When I see an alligator, I get giddy, I get excited,
- 57:33Speaker 1: and I don't get giddy and excited very often in
- 57:35Speaker 1: life right now, And so is this date to me
- 57:38Speaker 1: might have been and I have this in my notes
- 57:39Speaker 1: in the episode, this date is one of my favorite
- 57:42Speaker 1: dates ever done on The Bachelor because here's and here's
- 57:45Speaker 1: my theory behind it, and we'll move on. Is this
- 57:49Speaker 1: is a type of date. It looked like to me
- 57:50Speaker 1: that is an experience that you could do in your
- 57:54Speaker 1: real life, but it would be one that you would
- 57:56Speaker 1: remember forever. And I just felt like this was one
- 57:58Speaker 1: that I could relate with. Is I would enjoy it
- 58:00Speaker 1: so much. I would eat frog legs. I would go
- 58:02Speaker 1: out and eat legs. Um, this is a really cool
- 58:06Speaker 1: day for me. And so I thought from I really
- 58:08Speaker 1: enjoyed watching Tea on this day because she fit in well,
- 58:11Speaker 1: so are obviously knew what he was doing, and I
- 58:14Speaker 1: got I got one thing to say on her too,
- 58:17Speaker 1: because I don't know a whole lot about Tia. I've
- 58:19Speaker 1: been kind of zoning out this season. But the one
- 58:22Speaker 1: thing that I noticed on this last episode and the
- 58:24Speaker 1: one thing that I always noticed that kind of gives
- 58:26Speaker 1: you a clue to what the people are really thinking
- 58:27Speaker 1: when somebody says I think I'm falling in love with
- 58:29Speaker 1: you and they're not looking at the person when they
- 58:32Speaker 1: say that. If you notice, they'll immediately like go hug
- 58:35Speaker 1: their chest and put their head down. What's the first
- 58:37Speaker 1: thing you do when you really are falling in love
- 58:39Speaker 1: with someone? You look at that person's eyes right to
- 58:42Speaker 1: see what they're thinking. So I got a little bit
- 58:44Speaker 1: of you know, fraud out of that. She was saying it,
- 58:48Speaker 1: but she really wasn't quite there. Yeah, like that, this
- 58:51Speaker 1: is my move, it's my time. We didn't even talk
- 58:53Speaker 1: about the fire. She said, I love you when we five, Like,
- 58:58Speaker 1: is that not the one thing you do if you're
- 58:59Speaker 1: falling in of someone? You want to see the way
- 59:01Speaker 1: they looked at She was so nervous about it that
- 59:03Speaker 1: she's like, I can't look at you. I don't think
- 59:05Speaker 1: you're actually I don't know. I don't know about that one. Okay,
- 59:08Speaker 1: next question, Okay, so my last two questions. I love
- 59:10Speaker 1: everybody's thoughts quickly. I call her Yale, I don't know
- 59:13Speaker 1: her name, but she's very smart. Yale cne. And then
- 59:17Speaker 1: Chelsea the mom. I want to know each of your
- 59:19Speaker 1: thoughts on her. I don't even know sa which want
- 59:22Speaker 1: to see. Yeah, she's Yale, she went Did you watch
- 59:26Speaker 1: the episode where they went to Taho she went parasailing
- 59:28Speaker 1: and Taho? No, I missed that part. Okay, Well, I
- 59:30Speaker 1: like Cienne and I actually like Chelsea. Chelsea want to turnaround.
- 59:34Speaker 1: First couple of episodes, first two episodes, we definitely thought
- 59:37Speaker 1: she was gonna be a villain. Definitely not a villain
- 59:39Speaker 1: um and Cenne is. Yeah, she's great. She seems almost
- 59:43Speaker 1: too smart for him. I hate saying things like that.
- 59:46Speaker 1: I don't like saying things like that. I mean, but
- 59:49Speaker 1: she she's smart, she's got a pleasant personality, She's beautiful.
- 59:53Speaker 1: I see nothing wrong with Cenne yet right, never and
- 59:57Speaker 1: I hopefully, I mean, like everything's right. Yeah, she just
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: seems a good catch. Amy you want a headline? Yea,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: If Sienna is a bachelor, I would seriously consider going
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: back on tell us more, tell us more. What do
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: you like about? I mean, how what do you not
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: like about Cna? I mean, honestly, I think we can
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: all agree that she is beautiful, she's so smart. She
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: has kind of stayed under the radar when it comes
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: to the drama. This season, but yet she's engaged herself
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: enough into the commentary to know that she actually has
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: an opinion. I think watching CN for me is somebody
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: I'm saying that is a great partner for anybody in life.
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: As she is, she is going to be a leader
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: in the house. She's going to be able to to
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: support her partners, They're gonna be able to work together,
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: and she's gonna be able to bounce. Like. The cool
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: part about that I think Ari isn't taking advantage of
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: in this is I feel like she's full of so
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: much wisdom that she could really help him along this experience.
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: So I have always been a sne fan. I am
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: just becoming even more of a CN fan over the
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: last couple of weeks. Ben. You know you wouldn't have
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: to go on her season at the Bachelor. You could
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: just did her and roll. Yeah? Would you? Would you
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: ask her out? Uh? You know? I would not, And
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: I'll slide them for you. Man, I got this. You'd
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: go on her episode her show, she's the bachelortte, but
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: you don't. You wouldn't ask her out? No, I mean
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: I would. I was just trying to help you out, Amy.
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: So here's the thing. Yeah, I guess I obviously would
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: ask her out. She she's great. Uh, she has caught
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: my interest since the beginning. I think she's caught a
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: lot of people's interest. Would I ask her? Yeah, that
- 1:01:33Speaker 1: I shouldn't say no, of course I would. But I'm
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: just saying that if she was a bachelotte as much
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: I would never want to do the Bachelor or Bachelor,
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, that would make me tempt I
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: would be tempted to think about it because she's that great. Wow, wow,
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: I love your love. She's gonna know now, Yeah, I
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: don't know who you know, We don't know spoilers, but
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: if she doesn't win, I would expect it that you'll
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: hear from her in your d N. Hey, I'll follow
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: on the storte for this podcast any day. Well, ben, Um,
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- 1:03:37Speaker 1: code famous. Speaking of famous, before we say goodbye to you, Chad,
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: you have literally been one of the most famous villains
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: ever on the Bachelor franchise. And before you go, I
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: have one last question to ask you after watching this season.
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: You know, I know the likes of the Olivia Treaties
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: of the World and and Crystal have both spoken out
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: against Bully, especially coming from this franchise. I want to
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: hear one your thoughts on that and to you know,
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: the common phrase as we watched this and I know
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: I've always said it and I want to know if
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: I'm right or wrong is that, you know, sometimes our
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: behavior on the show can we can learn from it
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: when we watch it back. Did you learn anything from
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: being on the Bachelorette? And then we're gonna say good
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: bye to you. Absolutely, you know. And the one good
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: thing that I have had is I had the opportunity
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: on both Famously Single on E and Celebrity Big Brother
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: UK to give myself a redemption. Unfortunately, I don't think
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: many people in America saw celebrity Big Brother UK, so
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: I still hold my villain to edit. But yeah, I
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: think it does teach you a few things about yourself obviously,
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: you know, maybe don't lash out at people, or even
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: if you don't feel like lashing out, and maybe don't
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: play the guy lashing out because people will assume that
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: you are that person in real life, do you Okay?
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: So you're hoping now if you were to give Crystal
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: any advice, because this is your moment, she's gonna listen
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: to the podcast. I promised, um, what would your advice
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: be for her now moving out of this onto this
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: show for the next couple of weeks? Moving out of
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: the show? I was, I mean, you mean, like on
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: the show or dealing with like hate off. I don't
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: think for her on the show, but when she leaves
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: the show, what do you think? How would you deal
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: with it? You know, I think the number one thing
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: to do is not read your comments. Um. You know,
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: everybody gets so wrapped up in Instagram and Twitter and
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: everything that people are saying online. But at the end
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: of the day, it doesn't matter what people say, that's
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: not affecting your life. And the only thing that can
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: affect your life is if you allow the things that
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: they say to change the way you think of yourself.
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: So don't read into it and just keep doing what
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: you always do day to day. That's right, that's right. Well, hey, Chad,
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: we appreciate you, man. And in the famous words of
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: Crystal Uh, let me read this quote directly as she
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: said last nights, these girls don't operate at my level.
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: I'm done. That was glitter. We'll talk to that. Hey.
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know I'll be doing
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: on Instagram live during the show at eight o'clock Pacific
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: time on Monday night. So I'm just gonna give a
- 1:06:05Speaker 1: little commentary live, So thanks for having me. I'll be
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: tuning in. Glad you plugged that because now I have
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: a new favorite thing. We'll see how it goes, all right, guys,
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening to the Almost Famous podcast.
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: We love you so much, we love our sponsors, and
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: we love feedback. So continue to tweet at US, review
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: us on iTunes and we'll see you next week. Or
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: we're gonna talk more about the Bachelor Winter Games. That's right, Yeah,
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: we're gonna be here. As are excited. You're gonna see
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: a little bit of us on TV. I don't think
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: either of us are that nervous about it. Maybe we
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: should be. That might be a problem. I might be
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: unaware of what's to come. That's a good point. We
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: want to thank our producer Amy for all the time
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: that she spends on this podcast. Want to thank Easton
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: who's in studio today helping the sound out with all
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: this because I'm sick and so he's probably moving the
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: levels all around to make sure this works for us. Ashley,
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: as always, you're great. Until next week, We'll miss you
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: all um, but hey, I'm excited to have a little break.
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: I've been Ashley. See you. Follow the Benn and Ashley
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