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Here Scrubs the Bride · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Screbb scrub scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub.
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Speaker 3: Scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub scrub scrub scrub
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Speaker 3: scrub crub scrub.
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Speaker 2: Wow.
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Speaker 4: Although that will not be part of the wedding.
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Speaker 2: That's why I did it here. Yeah, I needed it
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Speaker 2: somewhere in the journey. Yeah, yeah, yeah, this is Friday
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Speaker 2: before the wedding. We're a week out. Yes, how are
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Speaker 2: we doing? Uh, you know, where's the bride chill a level?
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Speaker 4: I'm very bride chill up. But I have this level
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Speaker 4: of stress that's just been on me for the past
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Speaker 4: like I'd say the past like week and a half.
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Speaker 4: And I can't quite pinpoint like why or where.
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I hate that.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels like there's just a chemical in your
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Speaker 3: brain just kind of dripping right, like, yeah, it's.
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Speaker 4: Like a stress literally, and and like Robbie can really
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Speaker 4: bring me back back, like he's like he's not stressed
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Speaker 4: at all, and he has to do the same amount
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Speaker 4: of stuff that I have to do, and he's like
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Speaker 4: we're totally fine, And he's like, if we didn't do
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Speaker 4: anything from now until our wedding, it would also be fine.
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Speaker 2: Mmmm hmmm. Yeah, it's all it's like detail stuff eight
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Speaker 2: from what you've told me.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and also stuff that like I guess I don't
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Speaker 4: really need to think about, like it'll get done.
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Speaker 2: Like what give the give the brides to be something
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Speaker 2: to be prepared about.
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Speaker 4: Well, like, okay, so yesterday I like totally didn't realize
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Speaker 4: I probably need like a ton of mirrors in my
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Speaker 4: room for my bridesmaids to get ready with. So that
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Speaker 4: like stressed me out because I was like I didn't
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Speaker 4: request that from the hotel. Is it too late? Do
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Speaker 4: they have extra mirrors? Like we need extra mirrors?
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Speaker 2: Where where does one Where does a hotel howl's extra mirror?
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I have no idea, but like you
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Speaker 4: know those vanities like a vanity, Yeah, they just have those.
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Speaker 4: We'll see my wedding planner checking. But she did say
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Speaker 4: she's like if they can't do it, I'm gonna be
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Speaker 4: there and I can go get some you know. Like
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Speaker 4: so she kind of calmed me off that like I
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Speaker 4: haven't created my playlist for getting ready, like my getting
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Speaker 4: ready playlist, which feels like really important I didn't even
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Speaker 4: think about.
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Speaker 2: Okay, I can help with that, yes, the vibes of that.
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Speaker 4: I just want to have it be like calm or
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Speaker 4: like gurly fun girly, like maybe like throw in like
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Speaker 4: a going to the chapel, but with like some fun
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Speaker 4: current like you know.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can. I can source like some already made
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Speaker 2: playlist and pick from there some of the popular ones.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then like throw in like a saprind of.
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Speaker 2: Carpenter, Oh, Ariana Grande, Yes, Taylor Swift, yes, exactly, the girls, Yeah,
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Speaker 2: the girls, okay, easy?
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Speaker 4: Yeah?
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Speaker 2: What else?
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Speaker 4: I also, when I got my Boudoir album back, I
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Speaker 4: wrapped it in like wrapping paper, and I hit it
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Speaker 4: somewhere and I don't remember where I hit it hit
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Speaker 4: it no, So I'm stressed about that. But I know,
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Speaker 4: like basically I put I put everything wedding in my office,
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Speaker 4: so my office just looks like a total tornado went
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Speaker 4: off in there. But I know it's somewhere in there, Okay,
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Speaker 4: I just don't remember where.
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Speaker 3: I'm thinking of the boys being like, oh my god,
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Speaker 3: a birthday present early.
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, they're not gonna be they don't put
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Speaker 4: rummaging in there. And it's like wrapped in like heart paper,
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Speaker 4: so it's like not like birthday.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that turned out great, turned out so good. Let
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Speaker 2: me tell you something. I have a new found appreciation
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Speaker 2: and respect for photographers.
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Speaker 4: I think you could like literally do this for.
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Speaker 2: Aside the pressure and like making sure. I like editing
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Speaker 2: each because in my mind I thought, oh, I'll just
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Speaker 2: I'll create a preset and then I'll just put that
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Speaker 2: edit on every photo. But they all had different lighting
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Speaker 2: and different they were just all different. So I was
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Speaker 2: like trying to figure out how to edit each one,
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Speaker 2: and it took so long, and I was like, gosh,
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Speaker 2: if I had to do like a whole wedding album.
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Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, how was it? Editing my bare ass?
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Speaker 2: I stared at her bear ass for like hours for
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Speaker 2: a few days, and I was just in Haley walking.
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Speaker 2: Me'd be like whoa, and I'm like I'm sorry because
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Speaker 2: I had it on my computer.
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Speaker 4: Up on her TV and get in her house and.
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Speaker 2: I mean I was just like sitting at the kitchen counter,
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Speaker 2: so she'd like come out from the hallway. Who But yeah,
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Speaker 2: I just I got to where I was numb to it.
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Speaker 5: A little bit.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was good. I mean they came was gorgeous.
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Speaker 4: Yes, and like I swear, I think that maybe it
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Speaker 4: was like a lot of pressure because it was like me.
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Speaker 4: But I think if you started doing it for other
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Speaker 4: people and it became more like your side job, I
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Speaker 4: don't know if you'd be so emotionally invested. Oh yeah, Becca,
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Speaker 4: I was about to pay five thousand dollars to get
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Speaker 4: one of those done three to five.
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Speaker 2: I bet it would have been a little bit better
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Speaker 2: than whatever.
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Speaker 4: What I got is amazing and I paid nothing. Yeah, no,
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Speaker 4: I pay the book. Yeah, but I think it was
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Speaker 4: like fifty bucks.
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Speaker 2: A steal steel. Yeah, No, it was good. I was
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Speaker 2: it was I was glad that I was able to
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Speaker 2: get this to you and and be a part of
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Speaker 2: staring at you.
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Speaker 4: I cannot wait to give him that.
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Speaker 2: I think he's gonna love it.
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Speaker 4: I think he's gonna love it.
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Speaker 2: I think he'll look at it fondly.
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Speaker 4: And like, we didn't discuss getting each other gifts, so
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Speaker 4: I don't think he's gonna expect a gift. And then
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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna like lay this on.
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Speaker 5: Him when you give it to him again.
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Speaker 4: The morning of the wedding.
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Speaker 2: Oh wow, will you be sad if he doesn't give
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Speaker 2: you a gift?
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Speaker 4: I don't think he's going to give me a gift?
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Speaker 2: Will you be sad?
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Speaker 4: No, because like there's no way he's going to give
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Speaker 4: me a gift. Like there's just no way.
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Speaker 2: He's all this this wedding this Yeah, because we've talked
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Speaker 2: about it a while ago, Like I was like, do
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Speaker 2: we because it's like tradition to give each other gifts.
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Speaker 4: But I was just like, we've gone so far over
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Speaker 4: our budget that I'm like, what's what? What am I
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Speaker 4: gonna you know? But I really wanted to do the
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Speaker 4: Boudoor photo shoot.
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Speaker 2: I saw this really funny video of this couple and
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Speaker 2: they're like when you get fully delusional right before a
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Speaker 2: week before your wedding like things, and the girls like, okay,
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Speaker 2: I'm able to get one of the chainsmokers for three
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Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars and he's like great, and then she's
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Speaker 2: like they just keep doing things in it. They look
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Speaker 2: at the budget and they're like, Okay, we're three hundred
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Speaker 2: percent over our budget. It's like that's Tanya right now,
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Speaker 2: just like at it. Yeah, add it to the list.
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Speaker 2: Why not?
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Speaker 4: Why not. Sure. Yes, there's some other things too that
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Speaker 4: I'm like, I think we need to add a bar,
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Speaker 4: like a full bar for this, and they're like an
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Speaker 4: extra whatever. I'm like, do it a full bar for what?
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Speaker 4: So for cocktail hour? I think I don't know. I
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Speaker 4: have to like look into the details. I think it's
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Speaker 4: just like wine and like sh it's like that type
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Speaker 4: of stuff like wine champagne. I think we need a
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Speaker 4: full bar.
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Speaker 2: Can but are you saying like you like it would
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Speaker 2: be an open bar.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but but.
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Speaker 2: Could people still just go and get their own drink?
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Speaker 4: What do you mean that they pay for? No? No, no, no, no, oh,
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Speaker 4: it's just they're.
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Speaker 2: Only serving baron one Yeah, I think. I mean, I
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Speaker 2: think that's fine. I don't know how much more it is.
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Speaker 4: It's like no, no no. To me, that was like
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Speaker 4: the food and the alcohol was like number one priority.
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Speaker 4: We were like we need all the we need all
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Speaker 4: the food and all the alcohol, like period.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 4: That was like, but I didn't think about the cocktailer
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Speaker 4: because it's just one hour, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I think people can survive one hour.
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Speaker 4: Without hard liquor. I think so, I don't know. I
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Speaker 4: don't know about that.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have some problems that we need to address.
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Speaker 2: Any update on your ovulation cycle as we have.
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Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna get my period the day after my.
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Speaker 2: Wedding, the Kabana pool day, Yes, which is perfect convenient.
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Speaker 4: I don't know though, because I feel like people say
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Speaker 4: stress delays.
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Speaker 2: The period might just not come.
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Speaker 4: But also I heard lymphatic we're getting lymphatic massage, beck
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Speaker 4: and I and I heard that that stimulates it to
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Speaker 4: come sooner. So who knows. I could get it on
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Speaker 4: my I could get it on my Oh. Actually, I
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Speaker 4: need to add that to my list. I need to
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Speaker 4: get like jumbo tampons.
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Speaker 2: Should we not do jumbo?
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Speaker 4: Should we not do the lymphatic massage, then no, we
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Speaker 4: need it?
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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, I hear those things are great. Yeah, I
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Speaker 5: don't think it's those all the time.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, they're amazing. It's the must. I have to
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Speaker 4: get jumbo tampons. I want to be like fully prepared,
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Speaker 4: big thicker, jumbo size.
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Speaker 2: It's called jumbo.
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Speaker 4: It's like bigger than super plus. It goes like it
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Speaker 4: goes what's the skinniest one light light light regular, super, super,
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Speaker 4: super plus and Jumbo.
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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I've never delved into the Jumbo land.
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Speaker 4: I don't think I have either, but it feels the safest.
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Speaker 5: Tam PACs uses Ultra as they're sizing, but it looks like.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, Ultra ultra um.
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Speaker 5: There's Jumbo, there's other jumbo ones, but.
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Speaker 2: Something about Ultra sounds a little nicer than jump bo. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: Jumbo's giving Alci. What's been the most emotional moment so
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Speaker 2: far leading up to this? Because I feel like there's
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Speaker 2: been lots of emotions, as we would expect from the
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Speaker 2: cancer Queen herself.
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Speaker 4: Honestly, I think the most emotional part was like when
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Speaker 4: we picked our venue and we picked where we were
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Speaker 4: going to do the ceremony and I walked down the aisle,
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Speaker 4: that was like really emotional. Yeah that makes sense as
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Speaker 4: it's like falling.
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Speaker 2: What's your plan? Are we gonna who's going to see
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Speaker 2: you before you walk down the aisle anyone? Because you're
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Speaker 2: doing a first look ye know, but Robbie's going to
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Speaker 2: see you?
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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I know. I want to go
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Speaker 4: to the cocktail hour, but all my bridesmaids were like,
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Speaker 4: you can not go to the cocktail hour, Like nobody
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Speaker 4: can see the bride until the ceremony.
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Speaker 2: This is so funny that you which I'm my whole
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Speaker 2: thing is whatever you want. It's your wedding, so however
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Speaker 2: you want to do it is how you should do it.
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Speaker 2: I've always been like, the reveal of the bride is
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Speaker 2: just like the best part of the wedding. And so
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Speaker 2: Ali did this too at her wedding, where she just
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Speaker 2: wanted to get out there and mingle with people, and
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Speaker 2: we were just like, okay, she was.
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Speaker 4: So I wouldn't go in my dress. I wouldn't go
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Speaker 4: in my wedding dress. I would go in like a
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Speaker 4: little like robe or something I haven't thought through, but
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Speaker 4: I would go in something like.
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Speaker 2: Your hair and makeup would be done. Yeah, I mean, yeah,
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Speaker 2: do what you want. I personally, I would prefer everyone
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Speaker 2: to see you like the grand reveal.
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Speaker 4: And then the other topic of conversation last night was
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Speaker 4: because I did my hair and makeup trial the blusher,
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Speaker 4: which is like the veil that goes like over your head,
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Speaker 4: you know, it goes like over I do that.
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Speaker 2: I'm curious about did Alison do this, like when she
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Speaker 2: walked down the aisle, did she have the veil covering
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Speaker 2: her No, okay.
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Speaker 4: Because that's technically what it's for. Yeah, otherwise it's just
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Speaker 4: like a hair piece. Who wants a hair piece? The
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Speaker 4: veil Huh, it's no, it's so beautiful. It's like such
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Speaker 4: a part. Like the whole point of the veil is
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Speaker 4: to like like like.
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Speaker 2: I get it.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, so the groom doesn't see you until that very
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Speaker 4: moment when like in.
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Speaker 2: Theory traditional yeah, but my thing is it's just the
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Speaker 2: you walking down the aisle. Every single photo will be
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Speaker 2: the veil covering your face, so you won't see like
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Speaker 2: your emotion as much as you would see it without
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Speaker 2: the veil.
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Speaker 4: So that's my whole thing is I'm like I feel
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Speaker 4: like it's going to take away from that. But like
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Speaker 4: my hair and my makeup and Robbie all last night
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Speaker 4: were like it's so powerful that you just like you're
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Speaker 4: just like this vision standing there with like the veil
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Speaker 4: over your face and then like I like pull and
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Speaker 4: I was like, well, what if like my lips it
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Speaker 4: gets all messed up? And then I'm like all my
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Speaker 4: photos are with like my makeup all whack. I'm gonna
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Speaker 4: be pissed.
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Speaker 2: Well, I think that it's not gonna be like up
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Speaker 2: against your face? Is it isn't it off your face?
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Speaker 4: I mean in theory, but it's like such a little
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Speaker 4: piece of fabric. You're just the one swoop of the
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Speaker 4: wind and it's.
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Speaker 2: Like yeah, it's like you're sweating and it's like.
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Speaker 5: Fly favor we did because we did a first look.
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Speaker 3: So we did photos with the veil down and it
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Speaker 3: looks cool, but then we walked when she walked down
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Speaker 3: the aisle, no veil.
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Speaker 2: Maybe just take some photos with it, yeah, over your face.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then when you're walking.
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Speaker 2: I don't I get their v I get what they're
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Speaker 2: saying is like the power of it of being.
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Speaker 4: Covered and is like on I'm like gonna come to
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Speaker 4: the top of a staircase, so it's like on top
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Speaker 4: of the staircase with like the thing.
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Speaker 2: Okay, I have an idea, tell me because your dad's
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Speaker 2: walking you, right, I think so like down the stairs
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Speaker 2: or he could meet you at the bottom.
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Speaker 4: Of this That's what I don't know. I don't know
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Speaker 4: if he's gonna meet me at the bottom of the
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Speaker 4: stairs or if he's gonna start with me at the
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Speaker 4: top of the sto.
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Speaker 2: Okay, either way, you start with the veil over you.
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Speaker 2: You walk down the stairs with the veil and then
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Speaker 2: when you get to your dad, he lifts it and
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Speaker 2: then you walk down the aisle. Huh, because then you
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Speaker 2: could get the photos of you walking down the stairs
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Speaker 2: with the veil covering you, right, and then you when
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Speaker 2: Robbie sees you.
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Speaker 5: If her dad does it, though, is that going to
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Speaker 5: give the illusion that he's the groom?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, like people are going to be lifted, I.
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Speaker 5: Think traditionally, like you walk down, then the groom lifts
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Speaker 5: it up to present his new bride.
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Speaker 2: Do some trial runs with Robbie lifting that if you're
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Speaker 2: gonna do it, because that feels like a very tedious,
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Speaker 2: delicate process.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, it's like all these for all these
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Speaker 4: little things like I just didn't think about, you know
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Speaker 4: what I mean, Like I just didn't think about.
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Speaker 2: I haven't seen anyone walk down the aisle with the
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Speaker 2: veil over those, so I don't.
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Speaker 4: It's very traditional. I know I'm very traditional weddings.
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Speaker 2: Well, I haven't seen it, so I don't know if
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Speaker 2: i'm I don't know where I stand on it because
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Speaker 2: I get both sides of the reveal being so cool,
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Speaker 2: but then it's like your make hair and makeup is
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Speaker 2: gonna be so beautiful, and like your photos of walking
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Speaker 2: down the aisle, are you going to be covered the
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Speaker 2: whole time? Right?
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Speaker 5: I don't want to add to your list of stresses.
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Speaker 3: But the thing that went wrong, no, I don't didn't
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Speaker 3: go wrong, but like the thing I wish we could
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Speaker 3: do over in our ceremony is a yours.
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Speaker 5: You know, you hand the bouquet to your maid.
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Speaker 3: Of honor right when you get up there, and like Allison,
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Speaker 3: my sister was Allison's maid of honor, and like she
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Speaker 3: she didn't give it back to her at the end.
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Speaker 3: So then like my sister walked down with the bouquet
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Speaker 3: and Alison didn't have anything, and then the officiant getting
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Speaker 3: out of the way for the kiss. I think that's
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Speaker 3: like like our if she didn't do that, and we
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Speaker 3: didn't really think about that. But then like I've officiated
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Speaker 3: a couple of weddings now and now I know, like
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Speaker 3: get out of I pronounce you man and wife whatever,
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Speaker 3: and then you bolt, So like Ryan has to know
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Speaker 3: to like tumble out of the first so he's not
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Speaker 3: just standing up there like, oh, you know when you
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Speaker 3: and Robbie are kissing.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're gonna have multiple kisses.
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Speaker 2: Oh, multiple kiss Kim for the audience.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's gonna be a kiss when he when we
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Speaker 4: were a man and wife. Then there's gonna be a
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Speaker 4: kiss before we walk down the aisle. Then we're gonna
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Speaker 4: go down the middle of the aisle and take another kids.
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Speaker 4: Make sure we get a good kiss shot. That's all
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Speaker 4: I want. It is like a good kiss shot with
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Speaker 4: like all of our friends and like family around.
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Speaker 5: That's why you're doing this, that's the whole Thing's.
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Speaker 4: So yeah, a lot of kiss shots. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: When so Allie didn't have her veil on, it wasn't secure.
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Speaker 2: So when she walked down the aisle and she had
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Speaker 2: to kind of like go down this narrow path, it
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Speaker 2: got stuck and so it was kind of like loose.
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Speaker 2: So when she got I was already seated because we
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Speaker 2: didn't stand next to her. So when she got situated,
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Speaker 2: I went up and I grabbed her bouquet and I
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Speaker 2: just wrapped her veil as if it was part of
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Speaker 2: like the plan, Like I was just gonna take the
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Speaker 2: veil so she didn't have to mess with it because
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Speaker 2: it was like dangling out of her hair.
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Speaker 5: That's quick.
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Speaker 2: I had to just like get like think on my
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Speaker 2: feet and grab grab the veil with the bouquet, and
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Speaker 2: then she I had to run up like when when
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Speaker 2: they announced them and she was about to walk down
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Speaker 2: to handle the bouquet. Because I think you're so excited
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Speaker 2: and like you're adrenaline s pumming.
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Speaker 4: That you don't think of it. So you don't think
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Speaker 4: of that whoever you.
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Speaker 2: Give it to. If it's me or sister Paulina.
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna give it to you. It seems like you're ready.
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Speaker 4: Feels like you're ready and you're on it.
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Speaker 2: She's warmed up.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, And then also like the vows, like I was
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Speaker 4: just like, oh, I'll have them on my phone. But
16:41
Speaker 4: then I'm like that looks gross to like no offense
16:44
Speaker 4: to anybody that's done that to like have them on
16:46
Speaker 4: my phone. So then I was like, do I need
16:47
Speaker 4: like a book, d like a bowe book to like
16:49
Speaker 4: write my vowels in.
16:50
Speaker 2: I would just have like or like a little notebook
16:54
Speaker 2: or a piece of paper.
16:55
Speaker 4: And tiny notebook. I have those laying around.
16:58
Speaker 2: I weirdly do like you just like yeah, just like
17:01
Speaker 2: either like a small little white one or just like
17:04
Speaker 2: a lined piece of paper, so you can like keep
17:06
Speaker 2: track of what you're reading. You know. I was thinking
17:10
Speaker 2: about my speech and I was like just you know,
17:12
Speaker 2: just pondering some ideas, and I was like, I want
17:15
Speaker 2: to go go back on my phone and see what
17:18
Speaker 2: Tanya said when she first met Robbie, because it's such
17:22
Speaker 2: a blur in my mind. And I was dying at
17:26
Speaker 2: the text messages.
17:26
Speaker 5: I'm going to read.
17:27
Speaker 4: Messages are so good? Do you have more?
17:30
Speaker 2: I do, But we'll take a break and then we'll
17:33
Speaker 2: come back and I'll read them. All right, So we're back.
17:56
Speaker 2: So I don't know if y'all know you can do this,
17:58
Speaker 2: but if you go to your text messages, yeah, you
18:00
Speaker 2: have to teach me this. So you go to your
18:02
Speaker 2: text messages. At the top, it says search.
18:03
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you just searched blanket hinge.
18:06
Speaker 2: I just searched. First I searched Robbie, and then I
18:10
Speaker 2: searched hinge. Just I did a few searches. And so
18:14
Speaker 2: when you type in that word, so I'm going to
18:15
Speaker 2: type in hinge, you go to see all next to
18:18
Speaker 2: conversations and then you scroll down all the way till
18:23
Speaker 2: the date.
18:24
Speaker 4: So still what I was missing because I was like
18:26
Speaker 4: how I've seen them. There's like three text messages here. Ah,
18:30
Speaker 4: I see it.
18:30
Speaker 2: Boomer, you didn't think let me go see all? No?
18:36
Speaker 5: Wow, okay.
18:38
Speaker 2: So anyways, it was really funny because so Tanya text
18:43
Speaker 2: me it was November fifth, twenty nineteen, and this is
18:46
Speaker 2: at five forty two pm. This is important. And she
18:50
Speaker 2: goes about to meet a hinge guy. Lord help me
18:54
Speaker 2: and I said, OMG, doctor, question mark and she said
18:57
Speaker 2: lawyer and I'm late. We said five and I said
19:01
Speaker 2: where arey' all going? And she's a black market so
19:03
Speaker 2: close to you? Okay, walking in love? You so scared?
19:06
Speaker 2: I know zero. I don't what did that mean? You
19:10
Speaker 2: said I know zero? And I said have fun, love you?
19:12
Speaker 2: And you said, like legit zero zero about him.
19:16
Speaker 4: Zero about yeah and zero about him.
19:19
Speaker 2: And then she texts me at seven thirty three that
19:21
Speaker 2: night and said he's so cute. But she had a
19:25
Speaker 2: type and said he's so low cute and I said really,
19:29
Speaker 2: and she goes, I'm in bathroom, yes, so cute. Lots
19:34
Speaker 2: of typos and I said are you having fun? And
19:37
Speaker 2: then she said you e s s says he says yes,
19:41
Speaker 2: but us okay, putting phone back down by I said, okay, bye,
19:46
Speaker 2: and then she said home.
19:47
Speaker 5: Wow.
19:48
Speaker 2: Shocked. And then she sends me a photo of Robbie
19:50
Speaker 2: laying out with his abs a lounger.
19:57
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that is Was this a Hingeline Darius
20:02
Speaker 4: for baby Cows? Yeah, because he's playing bab profile. That
20:06
Speaker 4: was like one of his profile photos and like things. Yeah.
20:10
Speaker 2: So then this was November sixteenth, and you said he
20:15
Speaker 2: just left, and I said, how was it? And you said,
20:17
Speaker 2: I'm hard eye, hard eyes, hard eyes. And I sent
20:21
Speaker 2: you eggs, which I was confused by, and you said
20:24
Speaker 2: what is that? And I said eggs. All the eggs
20:27
Speaker 2: going into that one basket. Wow, And you said, yep,
20:31
Speaker 2: he's got them. He told me last night he had
20:33
Speaker 2: a couple of Hinge dates lined up after me and
20:35
Speaker 2: he canceled them. Wow.
20:37
Speaker 4: I forgot about that. Yeah, he was lining them up.
20:41
Speaker 2: And then this was my favorite one. I don't know
20:44
Speaker 2: at what point this was, but she goes, you're gonna
20:47
Speaker 2: love this, and you said, you're gonna find this hilarious,
20:51
Speaker 2: and you go, he ate a starburst out of this
20:54
Speaker 2: jar and it was a red one, and it was
20:55
Speaker 2: a jar of all her starbards.
20:57
Speaker 4: But they were like regularly were all regular flavors, but
21:00
Speaker 4: picked the red one.
21:01
Speaker 2: Well, there were pink and reds whatever.
21:04
Speaker 4: There wasn't just read better.
21:06
Speaker 2: It was actually every single type of star VERSU.
21:08
Speaker 4: There fathers, yellow and green, ye existing red one.
21:15
Speaker 2: So it was really fun to go back and read those.
21:17
Speaker 4: I was show Robby that screenshot last night and I
21:20
Speaker 4: was like, oh my gosh, because I remember we were
21:22
Speaker 4: meeting at whatever, five something, and then I texted you
21:24
Speaker 4: at seven something and he goes, you text from the
21:26
Speaker 4: middle of our date, and I was like, yeah, either
21:28
Speaker 4: you probably went to the bathroom or I went to
21:29
Speaker 4: the bathroom. Yeah, and then yeah, I was like so excited.
21:34
Speaker 4: I remember being so excited after that date.
21:36
Speaker 2: I remember too, and you had gone on a few
21:39
Speaker 2: dates and you were actually kind of talking dating someone
21:42
Speaker 2: else at the time.
21:43
Speaker 4: Yes, and then I was going to New York where
21:45
Speaker 4: I was going on a date with someone else.
21:47
Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. Yeah. Yeah.
21:49
Speaker 4: The next day, I was.
21:51
Speaker 2: Like, which we can say because we've talked about this
21:53
Speaker 2: story that you've dated him before, have we Well, yeah,
21:55
Speaker 2: because you remember when we all went to.
21:57
Speaker 4: Nashville, right, Yeah, Michael, Yeah, so you.
22:01
Speaker 2: Were kind of dating him. Yeah, but you were in
22:04
Speaker 2: some of the text You're like, I don't even want
22:07
Speaker 2: to go because I just want to see Robbie. You're like,
22:09
Speaker 2: I like Robbie. Yeah.
22:11
Speaker 4: It was crazy. I remember. I remember it so vividly
22:14
Speaker 4: because I was there for something. Oh As Ryan was
22:16
Speaker 4: getting aducted into the Radio Hall of Fame and so
22:19
Speaker 4: Sysney was there, and we were saying at this hotel
22:21
Speaker 4: and I was like, this guy's coming to pick me
22:24
Speaker 4: up for a date, and all I can think about
22:26
Speaker 4: is the Hinge guy. Like I was like, I can't
22:27
Speaker 4: stop thinking about the Hinge guy. And funny enough, fast
22:31
Speaker 4: forward five years and Michael and Robbie like love each other.
22:34
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's my favorite part. Yeah, but some of
22:37
Speaker 2: the texts, I don't know at what framing this was.
22:39
Speaker 2: I think it was end of November. You were like,
22:41
Speaker 2: I'm feeling kind of down on Robbie. I don't think
22:43
Speaker 2: he's as into me as I'm into him. He's not
22:46
Speaker 2: texting me as much. And then y'all went to a
22:48
Speaker 2: concert I think at the Forum, y'all's first photo together
22:51
Speaker 2: and smokers, and you sent me the photo and I
22:53
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, you guys look so cute together,
22:55
Speaker 2: and you're like, yeah, I'm kind of bummed he's not
22:57
Speaker 2: texting me as much or making plans. So I think
22:59
Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna like basically remove some of the eggs
23:02
Speaker 2: from the basket and and like disperse them. And then
23:07
Speaker 2: literally later that night you go is runny and cute
23:09
Speaker 2: or Griffith observatory cute for a date And I was
23:12
Speaker 2: like with who and you were like Robbie And I
23:14
Speaker 2: was like why, and you were like, change of plans.
23:18
Speaker 4: Eggs went back in the basket and eggs.
23:20
Speaker 2: I don't even think the hand was out of the
23:22
Speaker 2: basket with the eggs before dropped in there.
23:28
Speaker 4: That's crazy.
23:29
Speaker 2: I know. It was fun to go back and look
23:31
Speaker 2: at those because there was a time in between where
23:36
Speaker 2: where he hadn't made it official, and you were kind of.
23:39
Speaker 4: Like how long am I going to? What am I doing?
23:41
Speaker 2: And then we got you like really hot for your
23:43
Speaker 2: date with him?
23:43
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I thought he was breaking up with me and.
23:45
Speaker 2: He asked you to be his girlfriend.
23:47
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have a So we named all of our
23:49
Speaker 4: tables for the reception. We didn't want to give them numbers,
23:52
Speaker 4: so we gave them all names, and one of the
23:54
Speaker 4: names is Delilah, because that's like the restaurant that he
23:58
Speaker 4: asked me to be his girlfriend at.
23:59
Speaker 2: Oh, I realize that's where he asked you. Yeah, Mark
24:03
Speaker 2: said goodbye to you today because he thought it was
24:05
Speaker 2: going to be the last time he saw you before
24:08
Speaker 2: the wedding.
24:08
Speaker 4: Yes, spoiler alert, it is not the last time that
24:11
Speaker 4: I'm going to see Mark, but we thought that its Yeah,
24:14
Speaker 4: I wasn't going to come to work on Monday, but
24:15
Speaker 4: I am going to come to work on Monday, And
24:18
Speaker 4: so he hugged me like saying like next time I
24:21
Speaker 4: see you, we'll be in Mexico and I we both
24:25
Speaker 4: just started crying, just full blown crying, tears in the eyes,
24:31
Speaker 4: two cancers, Yeah, feeling it all. Yeah, I was like, wow,
24:37
Speaker 4: he's really.
24:38
Speaker 2: Been a part of the journey. Yeah, you know, navigating
24:42
Speaker 2: how you talk about it on the radio, the dating
24:45
Speaker 2: process everything.
24:47
Speaker 4: So yeah, it's like a weird working relationship because it's.
24:49
Speaker 2: Like, y'all are like so funny because it's like brother
24:52
Speaker 2: and sister.
24:53
Speaker 4: Yeah, and also like fatherly yes yes, brother sister yes.
25:00
Speaker 4: Also co workers. So it's like it but it's so
25:02
Speaker 4: weird because it's like not coworker do you know what
25:04
Speaker 4: I mean. Yeah, so like I take things really personal. Yeah,
25:09
Speaker 4: but it's nice because he'll like acknowledge, like, oh I
25:11
Speaker 4: snapped and like I shouldn't have done that. I'm sorry. Yeah. Yeah,
25:14
Speaker 4: he's good about that. Yeah.
25:16
Speaker 2: Do you have any goals for yourself on the wedding
25:18
Speaker 2: day up besides like getting married and committing the rest
25:22
Speaker 2: of your life to Robbie? Like, do you have any
25:24
Speaker 2: other goals then? During the wedding process while we're there,
25:28
Speaker 2: just like visions of like how you see things going,
25:32
Speaker 2: or like the vibe that you want to the headspace
25:36
Speaker 2: you want to be in.
25:37
Speaker 4: I'm I'm really My goal is to I kind of
25:41
Speaker 4: want to turn my phone off, like fully, just be
25:45
Speaker 4: unplugged and like in the moment and be present because
25:48
Speaker 4: I do feel, like everybody says, it goes by so
25:50
Speaker 4: fast and I don't want to be looking at my
25:54
Speaker 4: phone at all, So I'm going to try to turn
25:57
Speaker 4: it off.
25:58
Speaker 2: What. Yeah, everyone who needs you is going to be
26:01
Speaker 2: at the wedding and no one should be needing anything.
26:04
Speaker 4: If anybody needs anything, they know all my friends and
26:07
Speaker 4: they can text my friends. They can text my wedding planner.
26:09
Speaker 4: Like people can figure it out. I have somebody, my
26:14
Speaker 4: friend that's coming out Ashley, to do specifically social media content,
26:18
Speaker 4: so like I told her everything I want her to
26:20
Speaker 4: film and like, so that I don't have to do anything.
26:24
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. I think that's smart. It's just one thing
26:28
Speaker 2: to not have to think of if your phone's off.
26:30
Speaker 4: But it's not even I don't even want to be like,
26:31
Speaker 4: I just want to be so in the moment.
26:34
Speaker 2: So that your goal is to just be present, take
26:36
Speaker 2: it all in, make sure you're like really look around,
26:40
Speaker 2: embrace it. Everyone's there celebrating you guys.
26:43
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, and I don't want to, Like I feel
26:46
Speaker 4: like people keep telling me that you get pulled into
26:48
Speaker 4: different directions, and I really want Robbin and I to
26:50
Speaker 4: be as much together for everything as as we can.
26:55
Speaker 4: I've heard that, Yeah.
26:57
Speaker 2: At the reception, like people are pulling because everyone will
27:00
Speaker 2: to say hey, so like sometimes the bride and groom
27:02
Speaker 2: will separate just to like disperse and get more accomplished
27:07
Speaker 2: and see more people. But I maybe it was Jojo
27:11
Speaker 2: who was like saying that she couldn't find Jordan at
27:13
Speaker 2: one point, and she was like, I gotta like I
27:15
Speaker 2: want to be with him, Like let's be together, you know. So, yeah,
27:18
Speaker 2: I would say that's a good thing to note.
27:21
Speaker 4: I feel like it's going to be different because we
27:23
Speaker 4: do have multiple events, so it's not like all hinged
27:26
Speaker 4: on hinged. It's not all hinged on like one night,
27:30
Speaker 4: you know, Like we'll have like really some time to
27:33
Speaker 4: spend with people, right, So I don't feel like that
27:35
Speaker 4: much pressure at the actual reception. The reception, I just
27:38
Speaker 4: want to be on the dance floor dancing the whole time, right,
27:40
Speaker 4: whoever wants to come to me can come dance with me.
27:42
Speaker 2: Well, you have the welcome party and then we have
27:44
Speaker 2: the everyone's kind of staying nearby, so everyone's going to
27:47
Speaker 2: be around, Yeah, which will be great. What is the
27:51
Speaker 2: first thing that you want to do as a married couple.
27:57
Speaker 4: That's a great question. Wow, turn in our marriage license,
28:03
Speaker 4: romantic top on the priority list. Change his name in
28:07
Speaker 4: my phone to husband.
28:09
Speaker 3: Oh, that was so fun when we did that. I
28:11
Speaker 3: have a screen recording of doing that.
28:12
Speaker 5: It was a blast.
28:13
Speaker 4: I guarantee you he's gonna keep me as tea in
28:15
Speaker 4: his phone.
28:16
Speaker 2: He's just tea.
28:17
Speaker 4: I'm just tea for that's what you've always been, not
28:22
Speaker 4: like lame.
28:23
Speaker 2: I mean Haley's Haley.
28:25
Speaker 4: She's just Haley in your not like l O m L.
28:28
Speaker 2: Just Haley?
28:30
Speaker 4: Sure? And are you just Becca?
28:32
Speaker 2: I think I'm Becca Tilly in her?
28:35
Speaker 4: Why put a briefcase next to your name? Make it
28:38
Speaker 4: like so corporate?
28:41
Speaker 2: That's so funny. I gotta see what I'm in her.
28:44
Speaker 2: I think I'm in there is Becca Tilly?
28:48
Speaker 4: Oh that would upset me?
28:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, No it doesn't. I don't think I've never thought
28:53
Speaker 2: about it until this moment.
28:55
Speaker 4: Yeah. I My prediction is that he will not change
28:57
Speaker 4: my name in his phone.
29:00
Speaker 5: Is it just tea? No emojis or anything?
29:02
Speaker 4: No emojis, just just a tea?
29:04
Speaker 5: Cool?
29:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, why don't you just put a detective face next
29:08
Speaker 2: to it? Who is tea?
29:10
Speaker 5: Mister T Wow?
29:12
Speaker 1: Yeah, T my wife, tea my love of my life,
29:17
Speaker 1: tea my life, my wife, MELO m L wife Yeah,
29:21
Speaker 1: like anything a hard emoji.
29:23
Speaker 2: Yeah, We'll give him some ideas, troubleshoot, some ideas. See
29:26
Speaker 2: what he what connects to him?
29:28
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I'm going to change my name. And
29:29
Speaker 4: I heard that process kind of sucks too.
29:31
Speaker 5: Big time. Yeah's a big time.
29:35
Speaker 2: Are you all going to use tongue when you kiss? Yeah?
29:40
Speaker 2: Like are you going to go French kiss? Yeah?
29:43
Speaker 4: Maybe like a little yeah.
29:45
Speaker 5: I don't think you'll be in control of that slip.
29:47
Speaker 4: Like a slip of the time, but not like tongue
29:50
Speaker 4: yeah yeah yeah, and be gauys. We're doing three, like
29:53
Speaker 4: I feel like one of them might be a little looser,
29:55
Speaker 4: which one I don't know, But I definitely want to
29:58
Speaker 4: have a little sit of alcohol before I go down
30:00
Speaker 4: the No, like a like sip of wine or something, Okay,
30:05
Speaker 4: just to like take the edge off.
30:08
Speaker 2: What about an edible No?
30:11
Speaker 4: Are you out of your mind? I don't want to
30:15
Speaker 4: drink that much.
30:16
Speaker 2: That's fair until the night of Theresa reception is when
30:22
Speaker 2: Balls the Walls begins. Correct, Okay, yeah, wait, I was
30:25
Speaker 2: gonna say something, Oh are we standing up there with you?
30:28
Speaker 4: So you know, it's funny you ask because we've been
30:32
Speaker 4: toying with that. We definitely think we're gonna have everybody
30:36
Speaker 4: like walk down the aisle and then like stand on
30:39
Speaker 4: the sides, you know, like Robbie's grooms when will go
30:41
Speaker 4: behind him, my bridesmaids will go behind where I will be,
30:45
Speaker 4: and then when I come down the aisle, come down
30:48
Speaker 4: the aisle to like everybody and then when the ceremony starts,
30:54
Speaker 4: have everybody sit down. Oh interesting, that's kind of what
30:58
Speaker 4: we're thinking right now.
30:59
Speaker 2: So we walk down stand there, do everybody stay standing?
31:02
Speaker 4: Not behind him, across from him, like where I would
31:05
Speaker 4: be standing, but like behind me, I know.
31:07
Speaker 2: So like off to the side behind him. I'm saying,
31:09
Speaker 2: his crimson, we're behind him. Yeah, and then we get
31:12
Speaker 2: to watch you walk down the aisle. Yeah. I love that.
31:14
Speaker 4: Yeah, So like everybody like watches me come down and
31:17
Speaker 4: I like meet you guys, and we're all there, and
31:19
Speaker 4: because I want to have that moment, and I also
31:21
Speaker 4: like want to have that photo of like all of
31:22
Speaker 4: our bridal party and then have everybody sit for the ceremony.
31:26
Speaker 2: That sounds so good because I always have to tell
31:28
Speaker 2: myself not to lock my knees when I'm standing up
31:30
Speaker 2: and in front of it. It's so it's crazy. How
31:33
Speaker 2: like do you do you get nervous.
31:35
Speaker 4: Doing that standing up at a wedding?
31:37
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, Oh interesting, I get really nervous.
31:40
Speaker 4: I don't like standing up at a wedding because I
31:42
Speaker 4: feel like I'm blocking people's views, you know what I mean.
31:44
Speaker 4: Like I'm like i feel like I'm standing here and
31:47
Speaker 4: somebody doesn't want to see me. They want to see
31:49
Speaker 4: the bride and groom.
31:50
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, who are you blocking if
31:53
Speaker 2: you're up at the front, you mean the other bridesmaids?
31:55
Speaker 4: No, like people who are like maybe on the edge
31:57
Speaker 4: of the aisle of that you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,
32:01
Speaker 4: like they don't want to see me.
32:03
Speaker 2: That sounds lovely because I would love to watch you
32:05
Speaker 2: walk down from that view. Yeah, and then get to
32:08
Speaker 2: see you both getting married. Yeah from my seat. Right,
32:13
Speaker 2: So that's the Okay, great, well we'll rehearse that.
32:16
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, there's gonna be rehearsal. But like, isn't
32:18
Speaker 4: it like like we still don't have these little like
32:20
Speaker 4: we also just figured out yesterday when we were gonna
32:23
Speaker 4: like change.
32:26
Speaker 2: Oh after the wedding. Yeah, I mean yeah, these are
32:28
Speaker 2: just things that that I feel like naturally happen now,
32:32
Speaker 2: Like I don't think you could plan this too far.
32:34
Speaker 4: And then and then when we come in at the reception,
32:39
Speaker 4: they like announce us. They announced the father daughter dance,
32:43
Speaker 4: the mother's son and our dance. I thought that this
32:46
Speaker 4: would just be like the MC of the like the
32:49
Speaker 4: band member, but I was like, I think it should
32:53
Speaker 4: be somebody that knows us and like can pronounce our
32:55
Speaker 4: names and like be hype. So we're still picking that person.
33:00
Speaker 2: You should Mark do that. He's so good at that.
33:03
Speaker 4: I was thinking Paulina.
33:05
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know if Pauline's I'm sure she's.
33:07
Speaker 5: Great at it.
33:09
Speaker 4: I just don't want to add like to her load,
33:11
Speaker 4: Like I don't want to like stress her out. But
33:12
Speaker 4: I don't think I think she would like it? Would
33:16
Speaker 4: you like it?
33:17
Speaker 2: No?
33:17
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't think so.
33:18
Speaker 2: Thank you. Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in, mister and missus.
33:28
Speaker 2: All right, well, I feel like all that stuff is
33:31
Speaker 2: Should we talk about my dress? Okay, let's take a
33:35
Speaker 2: break and we'll come back. All right, we're back. So,
34:01
Speaker 2: in typical Becca fashion, I am the last two have
34:08
Speaker 2: my bridesmaid's dress.
34:11
Speaker 4: But I don't think you're the last. I haven't seen Sophia's.
34:14
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Sofia's gonna she has, like yeah, not worried
34:16
Speaker 2: about yea she has. She goes, yeah, I might do
34:19
Speaker 2: my fitting in Paris. I'm like cool, same, same. So
34:25
Speaker 2: I thought I was like being very on top of it,
34:29
Speaker 2: and I hired a stylist because I was like, oh,
34:31
Speaker 2: I'd rather not have to think about it. I can
34:34
Speaker 2: just pick something off the rack. The whole point of
34:36
Speaker 2: hiring a stylist was so that I could just like
34:40
Speaker 2: rent or borrow a dress from like a showroom, and
34:43
Speaker 2: then wear it and then return it like I would
34:45
Speaker 2: an event, right, and this is an event, yes, the
34:48
Speaker 2: main event, main event.
34:50
Speaker 4: Technically not really though. I feel like, can you pull
34:53
Speaker 4: a dress for my best friend's wedding is not the
34:55
Speaker 4: same as can you pull a dress for Tom Cruise's
34:58
Speaker 4: new Red Carpet movie?
34:59
Speaker 2: But you can them. But you can rent dresses?
35:02
Speaker 4: Oh you can't.
35:02
Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 4: Oh so it was just like, oh I can.
35:04
Speaker 2: It's almost like you can. Yeah. I was gonna say,
35:07
Speaker 2: it's like rent the runway, except someone in person.
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Speaker 4: You can rent them.
35:11
Speaker 2: Yeah.
35:11
Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: A lot of the like high design like yeah, renting
35:15
Speaker 2: or just uh pulling for free. They'd probably be like no,
35:20
Speaker 2: but renting address is a thing. Anyways. There was a
35:25
Speaker 2: huge miscommunication between me and the style.
35:28
Speaker 4: I was already stressed Becca like plans this stot the
35:32
Speaker 4: the fitting for March third, and I'm like yeah, because
35:37
Speaker 4: feeling a little tight on time there.
35:40
Speaker 2: Oh see, I felt I was like, this is ideal
35:43
Speaker 2: because I'm I have time to get it tailored if
35:47
Speaker 2: I need to.
35:48
Speaker 4: I was already stressed about the time of your fitting.
35:50
Speaker 4: I didn't know this, so when she hit the fan,
35:53
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, hell to the no. So I'm
35:57
Speaker 4: panicking and I'm like, like looking on everyone website, I'm
36:00
Speaker 4: sending back a link after link after link.
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Speaker 2: Stop I can handle this, like you're you're you're stressing
36:06
Speaker 2: me out that you're stressed out.
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Speaker 4: I was very stressed. It's still not totally chill about it,
36:13
Speaker 4: but I figure it's fair.
36:14
Speaker 2: But I've got to. I mean, I'm gonna figure it out.
36:17
Speaker 2: I have options. Anyways, I still don't have a dress.
36:22
Speaker 2: I've ordered every I've ordered every dress off of the internet.
36:26
Speaker 2: I'm not kidding. My home looks like a Revolve warehouse.
36:30
Speaker 2: I literally boxes everywhere. I had to tell Haley. I
36:34
Speaker 2: was like, I promise these will all be gone, like
36:37
Speaker 2: I know, it's chaos and here. Yeah. Because also I
36:39
Speaker 2: didn't have a dress for the welcome party, so that
36:42
Speaker 2: was gonna do that as well. And those words. So
36:46
Speaker 2: Tony wants colorful outfits at the welcome party, so every
36:50
Speaker 2: like colorful cocktail dress just going crazy. So yeah, it's
36:55
Speaker 2: all good. But anyways, I was trying to be productive.
36:58
Speaker 2: I was trying to handle like bride chilla.
37:01
Speaker 4: Everybody wear what they want, here's the color palette and
37:04
Speaker 4: joy to be continued, and now I should just give
37:08
Speaker 4: them all one dress and been like, here you go.
37:10
Speaker 2: Yeah, the color pellet is so the color pellet's like
37:15
Speaker 2: champagne color white off white champagne.
37:18
Speaker 4: Though, like it's shimmering and it doesn't need to have
37:22
Speaker 4: a shimmer.
37:23
Speaker 2: Anyways, most of the dresses are like a satin material,
37:26
Speaker 2: so there's this shimmer, a slight shimmer. So Paulina sence
37:31
Speaker 2: her dress first, okay, and I'm thinking, okay, it's just
37:34
Speaker 2: gonna be an array of champagne hues, which I was like,
37:37
Speaker 2: that's gonna beautiful.
37:38
Speaker 4: But like, you would have gotten that exact same dress,
37:42
Speaker 4: you know that, right?
37:43
Speaker 2: If I picked out a dress and then another bridesmaid
37:46
Speaker 2: had the choice to choose any dress and they chose
37:49
Speaker 2: the one that I got, I'd be pissed.
37:51
Speaker 4: But you're like comos. I thought it'd be like cute
37:53
Speaker 4: if you're in the same dress.
37:56
Speaker 2: We would work through it. But I would not do
37:58
Speaker 2: that to her personally. Anyways. I find a dress, I'm like,
38:02
Speaker 2: this will do, and then everyone else sends their dress
38:05
Speaker 2: and they're all like matching perfectly basically, and I'm like,
38:09
Speaker 2: the one I chose is way too dark. I must
38:11
Speaker 2: stand out like a sore thumb. So that's where I'm up, which.
38:15
Speaker 4: I'm fine with too. Like I was like, I'm fine
38:17
Speaker 4: with that color, ride Chilla, bring it on.
38:22
Speaker 2: I don't know why you're fine with everyone having the
38:24
Speaker 2: same color except for me.
38:27
Speaker 4: Because I don't think it's the exact same color there.
38:31
Speaker 4: And also Sophia doesn't have hers. Hers might be a
38:33
Speaker 4: different color too, and my sisters is a little bit
38:36
Speaker 4: of a different color too.
38:37
Speaker 2: Anyways, they're all more similar than they were different. So
38:41
Speaker 2: that's where I'm at. I do have my welcome party dress, nice,
38:48
Speaker 2: not the one that was that important, but I do
38:51
Speaker 2: have that, and there's some more coming in this afternoon.
38:54
Speaker 2: So TV continuing.
38:55
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, but I saw.
38:57
Speaker 2: A tailor today and he was like, you can just
39:00
Speaker 2: bring me anything tomorrow and I'll get it to you.
39:01
Speaker 2: So yeah, I feel great.
39:03
Speaker 4: Shout out Reggie, shout out Reggie. Yeah.
39:05
Speaker 2: So anyways, oh so those the stylist just got gifting stuff.
39:11
Speaker 2: So that's why there was a it was a miscommunication.
39:14
Speaker 2: She didn't rent stuff. She she just got gifting in it.
39:18
Speaker 2: It unfortunately didn't worry out. So that's a little bit
39:23
Speaker 2: about me.
39:24
Speaker 4: I'm so stressed about you.
39:26
Speaker 2: So don't be stressed. I'm doing my best. Yeah. So
39:31
Speaker 2: Mark and Suelos said that one person loves the other
39:37
Speaker 2: more in a relationship. I thought this was interesting because
39:45
Speaker 2: he and Kelly. That's Mark Mark and Soylis is Kelly
39:47
Speaker 2: Ripp's husband. Yes, just letting the people know. And I
39:50
Speaker 2: just realized that Mark and Soylos, that's uh, Phoebe's the
39:54
Speaker 2: uh what's her something? Con soilers? Banana? Banana hammock? Oh
40:00
Speaker 2: what's Phoebe's Oh yeah, bana.
40:05
Speaker 4: Yeah.
40:05
Speaker 2: Anyways, he was saying the average man takes a little
40:08
Speaker 2: over four weeks to fall in love with a woman,
40:10
Speaker 2: and the couple debate. They were debating the definition of love.
40:13
Speaker 2: And so I find that interesting because I've always heard
40:17
Speaker 2: to find someone who loves you a little bit more. Yeah,
40:19
Speaker 2: but I feel like Hayley and I love each other equally.
40:24
Speaker 4: Do you really what do you think of you guys? Yeah, hmmm,
40:29
Speaker 4: I don't know. I wouldn't know. I wouldn't know because
40:32
Speaker 4: I'm not like in it.
40:33
Speaker 2: I know. So, why do you like so shocked?
40:35
Speaker 4: Because I think that Robbie and I go like back
40:37
Speaker 4: and forth.
40:37
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's all I was gonna say. Yeah, I
40:39
Speaker 2: think it depends on the season of life where I
40:42
Speaker 2: feel like one of us is a little more.
40:44
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I feel like it's usually me right now,
40:48
Speaker 4: it's like really him.
40:49
Speaker 2: It's really him.
40:50
Speaker 4: He's locked in.
40:51
Speaker 2: He's like he's like hert eyebsessed.
40:54
Speaker 4: With me right now. I'm like, all right. I think
40:57
Speaker 4: I would be the same way if I wasn't like
40:59
Speaker 4: so strung. I think because he's like no stress for
41:01
Speaker 4: the wedding, Like he's like obsessed with me right now.
41:04
Speaker 2: Wow, that's so nice going into the wedding.
41:06
Speaker 4: It's so nice because there could.
41:09
Speaker 2: Be tension from the stress and instead he's just like,
41:13
Speaker 2: give me more.
41:15
Speaker 4: Give me so much more. How much more can I get?
41:18
Speaker 3: Like I feel like Mark may have said this on
41:22
Speaker 3: this show, but like it an ideal situation is the
41:25
Speaker 3: man loves the more that.
41:28
Speaker 5: I think that's for success. I think that's the.
41:30
Speaker 4: Right I think, so, though I don't think so, I
41:34
Speaker 4: do think there are times where it's like me in
41:37
Speaker 4: our relationship, but it does bounce back and forth.
41:40
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think ours bounces back and forth too, But
41:43
Speaker 2: I feel like we're pretty equal for the most part.
41:46
Speaker 2: Maybe that's maybe it's a difference of two women versus
41:49
Speaker 2: like a man and a woman in a relationship. Maybe
41:51
Speaker 2: Mark and Swaylos wasn't talking about the LGBTQ.
41:55
Speaker 4: I A maybe not? Maybe not?
42:00
Speaker 2: Okay? Before we go, and did anyone watch Paradise New Okay?
42:06
Speaker 2: Did anyone watch with Love Meghan?
42:09
Speaker 4: No?
42:10
Speaker 2: No, Oh my gosh.
42:11
Speaker 3: I did start watching Apple Cider Vinegar based on your recommendation?
42:14
Speaker 4: Is it not?
42:15
Speaker 2: Like it? Insane?
42:16
Speaker 5: Insane? I can't stop watching it.
42:18
Speaker 2: I hope she wins all the awards. Yes, she is amazing.
42:21
Speaker 4: I watched Are you watching Traders?
42:23
Speaker 2: Oh?
42:23
Speaker 4: Yeah, we watched the Traders the finale? Don't tell me,
42:27
Speaker 4: don't tell me watching the finale tonight?
42:29
Speaker 2: Wow?
42:30
Speaker 4: I watched the penultimate. That's the one before the finale, right,
42:33
Speaker 4: that is correct? Yeah? Okay, and we watched that one
42:35
Speaker 4: last night. Oh okay, So tonight's the finale. Wow? Is
42:39
Speaker 4: it a good finale?
42:42
Speaker 2: You?
42:43
Speaker 4: I hate that.
42:44
Speaker 2: We were kind of like meh hate. I don't know
42:48
Speaker 2: if that's the general consensus. That was just where we were.
42:51
Speaker 2: We were lying.
42:52
Speaker 4: I have to find you this season and the of
42:56
Speaker 4: Traders where the ending is like blows or I.
43:00
Speaker 2: Think Hayley watched it. It was one of the UK ones.
43:03
Speaker 4: I think I don't remember. I'd have to ask Robbie or.
43:06
Speaker 2: Like Australia do google.
43:07
Speaker 4: It was one that was like not us and it
43:09
Speaker 4: was Banana.
43:11
Speaker 2: I think I remember Haley, wasn't it the one that
43:13
Speaker 2: Aaron from Love Island was on.
43:17
Speaker 4: I don't know if this happens to you guys, but
43:19
Speaker 4: when I watch reality shows like these, these contest shows,
43:22
Speaker 4: somebody could win Survivor yesterday and I will have completely
43:25
Speaker 4: forgotten them the next day.
43:26
Speaker 2: It's just so funny because you were so invested in
43:30
Speaker 2: did all you want to think and talk about?
43:33
Speaker 4: Yeah, and yet I go to get you to recall
43:37
Speaker 4: nothing gone. It's like literally like goes into just purgatory.
43:40
Speaker 2: I think that's what reality TV is for.
43:41
Speaker 4: Though, Yeah, like I could, I couldn't tell you who
43:44
Speaker 4: won last season of Survivor and I watched every episode
43:47
Speaker 4: in real time.
43:48
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm the same with competition shows like that. Yeah,
43:51
Speaker 2: unless it's The Bachelor or something where you're like seeing
43:54
Speaker 2: more of them, but like like Survivor people aren't going
43:57
Speaker 2: on like media tours or any that is correct. Okay,
44:03
Speaker 2: So I just want to let you know this is
44:06
Speaker 2: the end of this podcast. However, we have two more
44:09
Speaker 2: podcasts coming out this week leading up to the wedding,
44:13
Speaker 2: and so don't don't be sad, because we'll be back.
44:16
Speaker 4: Don't be sad, be glad.
44:18
Speaker 2: Be glad because we have wedding Q and A that
44:20
Speaker 2: y'all submitted the questions for. And then we have a
44:23
Speaker 2: little game episode. So TBC, TBC, we love you so much,
44:30
Speaker 2: love you, Bye bye.
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Speaker 4: To be continued