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How To Know Someone Is Flirting · Billy & Lisa in the Morning

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  Speaker 1: Now, best morning show in Boston.
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  Speaker 2: Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a great start to my day.
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  Speaker 3: On Kiss 108.
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  Speaker 1: Well, good morning, everybody. Today is Friday. It is November 6th,
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  Speaker 1: and it is the big Friday show, Lisa.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, it is. Bigger and better than ever.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, it's massive.
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  Speaker 1: It's colossal. It's gigantic Friday show today. First and foremost...
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  Speaker 1: It's my son Chris's birthday.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yes. Chris Costa celebrating a birthday today.
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  Speaker 4: Is he coming in?
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  Speaker 1: He's definitely coming in right after 9 o'clock this morning. And, Chris,
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  Speaker 1: if you're listening, you better be bringing breakfast.
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  Speaker 2: On his birthday?
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  Speaker 4: No, you mean you're going to be buying breakfast for him.
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  Speaker 1: No, I mean he should bring us some breakfast.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I'm wearing a Card Vault shirt today, funnily enough.
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  Speaker 6: See what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: We're celebrating him.
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  Speaker 4: All right. Do we have his age?
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  Speaker 1: Why did I know you were going to go there?
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  Speaker 1: Are you doing this on purpose?
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  Speaker 4: We've had some issues with Bill and his kids' ages.
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  Speaker 1: 27 today? No, 28. I'm sorry. Oh, maybe he's 29.
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  Speaker 1: He's 37.
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  Speaker 4: 37. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: I think.
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  Speaker 2: I think you're right, though.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Isn't it funny that you guys know my kids'
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  Speaker 1: ages more accurately than I do? I'm always in the ballpark.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I believe it's 37 years old, but he'll
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  Speaker 1: be in here right after nine o'clock this morning. And
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  Speaker 1: we always get some fun stories from my son, Chris.
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  Speaker 4: Well, is he in town? I know he's all over
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  Speaker 4: the country. Is he in town for this weekend? The
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  Speaker 4: broadcast with Brady and the Gronk Hall of Fame?
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  Speaker 5: You know what?
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  Speaker 2: He must be.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I can never be sure about the whole weekend, but
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  Speaker 1: I know he's at least in town today.
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  Speaker 4: He hasn't been in a while because he's traveling, opening
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  Speaker 4: cardboard stores across the country.
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  Speaker 1: With Tom Brady.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But it makes sense. Tom's in town. There are a
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  Speaker 3: couple of card vaults in this area.
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  Speaker 4: So let me get this straight. When Tom's in town,
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  Speaker 4: he'll make an appearance.
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  Speaker 1: I guess so. I don't think Tom is in town yet.
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  Speaker 1: I think he's going to be flying in this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: For the weekend.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. He's in the broadcast booth. Sunday for the past.
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  Speaker 2: And plus the big Gronk thing is happening tomorrow.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He's going to be there for Gronk.
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  Speaker 4: Well, we'll get the scoop at 910 from Chris.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. If there's any questions at all you have
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  Speaker 1: about Tom Brady, my son Chris will give you the answer.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Tom.
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  Speaker 1: He basically lives with Brady.
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  Speaker 9: Tom. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So, yeah, we got that going on. So we have
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  Speaker 1: a birthday party on the show this morning. And yesterday
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  Speaker 1: was the first full day on the job for our
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  Speaker 1: Voice of Logan winner, Chris Donisi.
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  Speaker 4: God, how one day can change somebody's life.
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  Speaker 2: He was everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Everywhere.
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  Speaker 4: Everywhere. The Bruins reached out to me to get him
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  Speaker 4: to the garden, to one of the games.
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  Speaker 1: Boy, he's been rocking the Bruins jerseys.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, that was so cool. So cool.
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  Speaker 1: Lisa, did you see him in a Celtics jersey yesterday, too?
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  Speaker 3: You know, at Boston.com, the picture on their homepage has
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  Speaker 3: him in a Celtics jersey.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's the Boston vibe. That's one of the reasons
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  Speaker 1: he won.
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  Speaker 4: I got to say, I know there were eight finalists.
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  Speaker 4: All of them were amazing, right? But I feel like
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  Speaker 4: reading through all the thousands of comments, people are happy.
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  Speaker 4: They think that the right person was picked, the right
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  Speaker 4: voice of Logan. 100%.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Seems across the board, everybody's pleased.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning and welcome to Boston Logan Airport.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, it's the mayor of the South Bend.
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  Speaker 4: How does he do that? Do you hear that?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: How does he change his voice like that?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning and welcome to Boston Logan Airport.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, it's the mayor of the South Bend. That Boyce
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  Speaker 2: O'Logan guy's been on every show going.
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  Speaker 1: Billy and Lisa, you've been on David Muir ABC News
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  Speaker 1: twice now.
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  Speaker 2: And I want to warn people, be careful of the
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  Speaker 2: rain today.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot of wet leaves out there.
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  Speaker 2: So be careful driving and be careful walking.
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  Speaker 1: Have a great weekend, everybody. Or wet leaves are danger.
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  Speaker 2: They can be slippery.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, they can be slippery. Yeah. And, yeah, we were
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  Speaker 4: on ABC, ABC Tonight News Tonight with David Muir again.
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  Speaker 1: It was insane when Chris was sitting here in the studio.
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  Speaker 1: We spent a few minutes with him yesterday just knowing
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  Speaker 1: that he was leaving the studio and instantly going down
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  Speaker 1: the hall to be live on Good Morning America and
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  Speaker 1: then CBS this morning. He's been on the nightly newscast.
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  Speaker 4: They had a big press conference.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: At Logan.
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  Speaker 5: At Logan.
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  Speaker 1: And now he goes to work.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I love how GMA is taking full credit for
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  Speaker 4: the big reveal.
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  Speaker 1: Can we talk about that?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, they had the exclusive. Back off, GMA. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: The exclusive lives here.
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  Speaker 2: It started here.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. It grew here.
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  Speaker 1: Chris is our guy. He's from Arlington, Mass.
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  Speaker 5: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: We loaned Chris DeNisi to you.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, America.
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  Speaker 4: God, they stole it. He's our guy. Born and raised
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  Speaker 4: in East Ellington. Yeah, we know. We got the exclusive.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go to Boston now. Live with our guy.
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  Speaker 7: What?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, good guy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a local guy. Local. So anyway, yeah, he's going
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  Speaker 1: to be busy for the next several weeks. Big press
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  Speaker 1: conference at the airport yesterday. You know what else you
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  Speaker 1: got to know about as comics come home? Now, that's
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  Speaker 1: tomorrow night. Lisa, you're going.
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  Speaker 2: I am. I can't wait. I go every year.
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  Speaker 1: Every year. And Justin, you're going.
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  Speaker 4: I'm going. I'm very excited.
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  Speaker 2: It's the 30th anniversary.
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  Speaker 4: It's going to be a big show.
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  Speaker 1: Complete sellout. And coming up at 840 this morning, we've
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  Speaker 1: got front row seats.
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  Speaker 4: Which is a good and bad. It's a great thing,
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  Speaker 4: but can be dangerous.
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  Speaker 2: Especially when Bobby Kelly's on stage.
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  Speaker 4: Exactly.
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  Speaker 3: He tends to like go right to the front row.
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  Speaker 4: If you win these front row tickets at 840, you
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  Speaker 4: want to be Careful of things like what you wear.
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  Speaker 4: Don't wear a crazy shirt. If you have a crazy
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  Speaker 4: shirt in the closet.
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  Speaker 1: Don't pull it out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's going to talk about it.
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  Speaker 4: It could be any of them, too. Lenny does it sometimes, too.
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  Speaker 1: Lenny Clark. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It's an incredible lineup. Alex Edelman, Jimmy Fallon, Jon Stewart,
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  Speaker 2: Ray Romano.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: John Mulaney.
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  Speaker 1: It's always an incredible lineup. That's why it sells out
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  Speaker 1: every year. But again, we make a good point. If
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  Speaker 1: you're sitting down front, know that you're a potential target.
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  Speaker 4: But that's not a reason not to try to win them.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 4: You want to be front row.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Most people have never been in the front row for
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  Speaker 1: a show of any kind.
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  Speaker 9: Never.
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  Speaker 3: Never.
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  Speaker 2: I've never.
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  Speaker 1: Once in my whole life. Front row, Bruce Springsteen, Gillette Stadium.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Bella.
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  Speaker 1: Stop bragging. No, I'm just saying how rare it is
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  Speaker 1: to be. It's one thing to be up front, but
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  Speaker 1: front row?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a big deal. Plus, you get to see
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  Speaker 4: kind of side stage, too.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: You can see people standing around, other comics, other celebrities.
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  Speaker 4: It's very cool.
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  Speaker 1: You feel like you're in the show.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know, so, yeah, 840 this morning. We've got tickets
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  Speaker 1: in the front row.
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  Speaker 4: Amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Amazing.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Jingle Ball, two shots this morning, 710 and 810. That
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  Speaker 1: means you qualify for the grand prize, Lisa, which is a.
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  Speaker 3: Shot at one hundred and eight thousand dollars. And for
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  Speaker 3: front row, we were just talking about that ticket to
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  Speaker 3: Jingle Ball.
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  Speaker 4: OK.
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  Speaker 1: OK. Just say it.
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  Speaker 6: Elisa!
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  Speaker 3: Now, the entertainment update with Billy Costa on Kiss 108.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, we've got Jingle Ball tickets for Call of 25.
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  Speaker 1: That would be nice to win on a Friday morning,
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  Speaker 1: the big Friday show, right, Lise?
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And besides the tickets, you qualify for the grand prize,
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  Speaker 1: which includes.
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  Speaker 3: Elisa Donovan? $ 108, 000 and four front row seats to sold
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  Speaker 3: out Jingle Ball.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to need a keyword, and the keyword right
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  Speaker 1: now is hysterical. And the key word is hysterical because
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  Speaker 1: the always hysterical Comics Come Home is in the TD
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  Speaker 1: Garden tomorrow night. A completely sold out show. And we
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  Speaker 1: have front row tickets at 840 this morning. So stand
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  Speaker 1: by for that. And we've talked about it all week.
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  Speaker 1: The Olivia Rodrigo Christmas song. It's her first ever.
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: And now we've got it. It's called Take Me Home
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  Speaker 1: for Christmas.
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  Speaker 9: Now.
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  Speaker 1: Now, Lisa Dunham and believe she has uncovered some controversy.
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: As soon as producer Riley and I heard the song,
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  Speaker 3: we were like, this sounds like something else.
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  Speaker 2: So we did a deep dive.
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  Speaker 3: And it sounds to us exactly like the waitresses Christmas wrapping.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 2: It's the same song.
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  Speaker 7: Hmm.
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  Speaker 1: You could play them over each other. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Now, they're there. The waitresses were a punk rock band.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Back in the day. And obviously that's her vibe. So
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  Speaker 2: it makes sense. But it's it's identical.
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  Speaker 1: What do you suppose the waitresses are right now?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Dating tables.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And happy that Olivia is basically covering their song.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Or maybe they've moved on and bought their own restaurant.
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  Speaker 4: They do sound similar. Let me hear this. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: It's the same song.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Well, she probably, I didn't look at the credits yet.
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  Speaker 4: She might have said, she probably gave them credit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We don't want to accuse her of anything.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'll bet she gave them credit.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So The Weeknd just wrapped up his record-breaking tour, his
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  Speaker 1: stadium tour. He wrapped things up in Kuala Lumpur. And
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  Speaker 1: four years on the road, highest-grossing tour ever by a
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  Speaker 1: male artist. The Weeknd from The Tour donated more than
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  Speaker 1: $ 8 million to humanitarian causes, which is very good. And
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  Speaker 1: The Tour also broke venue records all over the world,
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  Speaker 1: including Los Angeles, Toronto, Paris, and Hong Kong. Boy, that's
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  Speaker 1: quite a run. Quite a run. Didn't we have something
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  Speaker 1: from him last week in Hong Kong?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he debuted a new song. Yeah. so i think
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  Speaker 4: he's gonna probably take a little break and then come
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  Speaker 4: back with new music wow that's what they.
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  Speaker 1: Do four years on the road but he got the
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  Speaker 1: record and how about this remember when taylor swift canceled
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  Speaker 1: her shows in vienna because of a terrorist threat back
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  Speaker 1: in 2024 That story and those cancellations are now part
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  Speaker 1: of a documentary. The project is going to deal with
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  Speaker 1: how Austrian authorities teaming up with U.S. authorities stopped the
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  Speaker 1: planned attack. That was a scary moment. I remember Taylor
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  Speaker 1: responding to that, too. And it got people thinking, God,
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  Speaker 1: is this going to happen everywhere? What is going on
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  Speaker 1: out there? But that was scary. The documentary will premiere
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  Speaker 1: on German TV next year, and then it'll roll out
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  Speaker 1: in the U.S., Producer Riley, to the best of our knowledge,
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  Speaker 1: Taylor's not involved in it, right? It doesn't sound like it.
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  Speaker 7: I honestly don't think that she'd want to be involved
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  Speaker 7: because she did speak out about it and how heartbreaking
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  Speaker 7: it was and how it gave her a lot of
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  Speaker 7: anxiety through the rest of the tour.
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  Speaker 2: And she was really working through it.
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  Speaker 7: I doubt she'll have anything to say about it because
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  Speaker 7: she's kind of said her piece, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Must be hard to get over something like that, right, Lisa?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: You know, there's a terror threat, an active terror.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Well, I always think about Ariana Grande. I can't believe
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  Speaker 7: that she continues to tour after what happened to her.
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  Speaker 1: That was tragic.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That was in London, was it not?
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  Speaker 4: Manchester, yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Meantime, Cat's Eye, of course, canceled shows this week in
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  Speaker 1: Chicago and in Minneapolis because of illness and Megan apparently
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  Speaker 1: too sick to perform. And yet, Lisa, Megan this very
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  Speaker 1: same week teamed up with Selena Gomez and her beauty
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  Speaker 1: brand and also Warby Parker sunglasses. So she's working it.
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  Speaker 1: But she just isn't taking the stage.
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  Speaker 4: Was that done before? She got sick?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just weird that they're in the
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  Speaker 1: news for all different reasons almost every different day.
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  Speaker 2: It seems like maybe they did this before.
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  Speaker 4: There was sickness when they were here in Boston. I
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  Speaker 4: heard that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So it must be spreading through the crew. That's what
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  Speaker 4: I think.
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  Speaker 1: And I think they're doing one of our jingle balls,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm not mistaken. They are. In Dallas? They are.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I always think it's interesting to see band members kind
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  Speaker 7: of split off and do their own little things because
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  Speaker 7: I'm a little bit like.
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  Speaker 1: Is there jealousy?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute. Where's my beauty brand?
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  Speaker 2: Usually they would do it all together, right?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Do you want an update here? I certainly do. I
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  Speaker 4: did a little research. Thank you for that. This is
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  Speaker 4: actually a bigger story than we thought.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So Olivia did the song because people have noticed it
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  Speaker 4: sounds like Christmas rapping. It does. So she did the
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  Speaker 4: song and she contacted Chris Butler who wrote the waitress's
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  Speaker 4: song and let him hear it before she released it
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  Speaker 4: and asked for his permission.
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  Speaker 9: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: He gave her permission. He did not know who she was.
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  Speaker 4: He gave her permission to use the song, but did
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  Speaker 4: not take credit for it. He didn't want any credit.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Why wouldn't he want the credit?
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  Speaker 4: He just started listening to her music, it says. He
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  Speaker 4: likes that she, all the work that she does, the
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  Speaker 4: charity work, and she likes that she has like a
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  Speaker 4: female band.
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  Speaker 2: And plus she's helping to bring back the waitress's song.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Yep.
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  Speaker 4: So they did not get credit. But it's a play
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  Speaker 4: on the song.
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  Speaker 9: It is.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know what we just did? We took you behind
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  Speaker 1: the music list.
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  Speaker 5: We really did.
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  Speaker 1: Lisa, the annual Met Gala has a new theme. What
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  Speaker 1: was wrong with the original?
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  Speaker 3: We're taking you behind the Met Gala. So the original
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  Speaker 3: theme was announced. It was John Galliano. But John Galliano
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  Speaker 3: was canceled because he had made some anti-Semitic and racist remarks.
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  Speaker 2: So that theme was canceled.
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  Speaker 3: They have announced the new theme, which is extraordinary fashion
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  Speaker 3: and the poetics of the everyday, which means they're going
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  Speaker 3: to lean into the mundane fashion. blue jeans, white t-shirts,
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  Speaker 3: puffer coats, hoodies, and reimagining them.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my God. Wow. I don't care about the Met
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  Speaker 4: Gala at all. I mean, we cover it, but like
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  Speaker 4: the style stuff, I care about this.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to be interesting.
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  Speaker 4: Bill and I wear hoodies.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, you do.
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: Well, we're going to be reimagining hoodies and a lot
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: of other things.
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: Hypothetically, we could go to the Met Gala right now
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: in our hoodies.
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: You could.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: Just not on the guest list. That could be a
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: problem when you arrive at the front entrance. But okay,
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: so that's all changed. That typically will happen in May, right?
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: It's the first Monday in May.
• 14:12
  Speaker 4: Oh, thank you.
• 14:12
  Speaker 7: I ain't wearing skinny jeans. Nope.
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: Nope, that was Riley.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: It's okay. In a world where everything is something to
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: get upset about, people on social right now are hating on,
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: are you ready for this? The Savannah Bananas and their owner,
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: Jesse Cole, who, by the way, is a local guy.
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: Fans are upset with the Banana Bowl draft that happened
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: this past week.
• 14:38
  Speaker 9: Now there is a full-blown mutiny in Banana Bowl. You
• 14:40
  Speaker 9: got kids crying and moms and dads apparently sending hate
• 14:43
  Speaker 9: mail and death threats saying, how come our favorite Banana
• 14:46
  Speaker 9: player is not in the league anymore?
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: And it's like, I don't know, Cheryl, it's probably because
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: your favorite player sucks. Now, I understand that this is
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: a gray area.
• 14:51
  Speaker 9: Banana Bowl is not real, true competitive sports in the
• 14:54
  Speaker 9: sense that people really care about the performance and the
• 14:57
  Speaker 9: outcome and the records and the championships.
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out to KFC at Barstool. That's where I
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: spotted this story.
• 15:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, the poor guy's been getting death threats to his family.
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: Jesse Cole. Yeah. People know it's like not.
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: It's the happiest thing on earth. It's supposed to be
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: a fun thing. It's nothing but happy.
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: It's like WWE for baseball.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: It's not real baseball.
• 15:18
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: I mean, it's amazing.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: It's like the Harlem Globetrotters.
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, the poor guy had to do a press conference.
• 15:23
  Speaker 8: This week was one of the hardest weeks in my
• 15:25
  Speaker 8: professional career, and I can only imagine how some of
• 15:28
  Speaker 8: our players felt as well. The attacks I received on
• 15:31
  Speaker 8: social media, the text messages, the calls, and even the
• 15:34
  Speaker 8: death threats hurt more than I can even share.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: Death threats.
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: Thanks.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Over the Savannah Bananas.
• 15:40
  Speaker 5: God.
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: This is why we can't have nice things. People just
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: ruin it.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: Unbelievable when I think of it. Tomorrow, this is happy.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: Gronk gets inducted into the Patriots Hall of Fame. Yesterday,
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: Gronk and Edelman did a promo for their Gronk and
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: Jules podcast. We have a clip. And I've been thinking
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: about football. And if somebody paid me to. That is
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: so goofy that it's cool. And Tom Brady arrives in
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: town today. He's going to be in the Fox broadcast
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: booth for the Pats Packers Sunday in Foxborough. And the
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: Bruins are on a three-game winning streak. They beat the
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: Penguins 6-2. You're a Bruins producer, Riley.
• 16:22
  Speaker 9: Woo-hoo.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: And again, time is running out to get your high
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: school team into the turkey toss. You need to go
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: to kissrunaway.com slash turkey toss. I talked with the people
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: involved out front, and they said, yeah, we're halfway filled
• 16:37
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• 16:39
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• 16:42
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• 16:46
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• 16:47
  Speaker 4: We have a now this?
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: Now this.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: We take you to the world of women's college basketball.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: The LSU women's basketball team yesterday beat the Texas Southern
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Lady Tigers. Wait for it. Here comes the score. 131 LSU. Texas.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: 131. Shouldn't there be.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: A mercy rule?
• 17:24
  Speaker 9: Yes.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: Seems like it.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: 131 to 22.
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: Oh, that would have been a good real or fake
• 17:29
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• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Good point.
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: Is it no mercy rule?
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: There should be, right? I mean, or the coach is
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: right there courtside. There should be a moment at which.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: He can throw the towel in. Yeah. Out onto the floor.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: You know, they do it in boxing sometimes, or at
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: least they used to. Just throw it out.
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: We're done. In my son's baseball league, Salem Youth Baseball,
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: they have a mercy rule.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Five runs.
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Five runs an inning, and then they end the inning.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Let me repeat. Okay. LSU, 131 points. Texas Southern, the
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: Lady Tigers, by the way, total score of 22.
• 18:07
  Speaker 7: Yeah, that was a bloodbath last night.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 18:10
  Speaker 7: They set a Division I record for it.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Like, that's crazy.
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: That's what they call a big win. It's like when
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: it gets to like 100.
• 18:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: They get 100 points. Stop the game.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: I can't imagine being a spectator. You're just like going
• 18:26
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• 19:36
  Speaker 10: is 877-617-1108 question.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: This morning what are some good or not so good
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: ways to flirt because lisa you have a dm.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah this is from one of our listeners a guy
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: his name is neil So we're going to hear from Neil.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: OK.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: He needs our opinion on whether or not a woman
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: he likes is flirting with him or not or just
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: being friendly because. He says he can't tell the difference.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: This woman is very friendly and bubbly. And I was
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: convinced she was flirting with me. She was even giving
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: me physical cues like touching my arm when talking to me,
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: always telling me I look great, throwing compliments around.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: And then Neil says he was all set to ask
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: her out.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: But his friends who know her better than he does
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: told me that she's just being friendly. And she talks
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: and does that to everyone. And they said I should
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: not ask her out again. So he doesn't know what
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: to do. Is she flirting with me or is she
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: just being friendly?
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Wow. And he doesn't want to be shot down.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: So she might be the flirt.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's definitely the flirt.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: The touching.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: No, but he can't tell.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: He can't tell the difference.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out to Nail, man. I'm with Nail. I
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: do not know when girls are flirting. I'm terrible with this.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: I've never been a flirter ever.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: You're very straightforward.
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: Well, I just don't. I feel like I'm being creepy
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: if I try to be flirty. Some people are just
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: good at it.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: So you've never used creepy lines or anything?
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: No. I'm not like you, Bill. Never have.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: Never, never have. I'll give you an example, okay?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: This happened twice at the radio station. Now I'm a
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: married man, right? So I'm not trying to flirt. But
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: two times, this is a legendary story here.
• 21:19
  Speaker 7: What?
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: There were two females, two separate females. One was a
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: sales girl. The other worked somewhere in programming. Different times,
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: years apart. The first one started working here. I met her,
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: said hello.
• 21:30
  Speaker 9: Hello.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: I would see her in the hallways. She'd be super
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: friendly to me. And I thought to myself, is she
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: flirting with me? I was asking myself. And then I
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: was convinced that she was. She was very bubbly to me.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: And so then I started to bring it up to
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: other people here. And they told me, well, no, Justin,
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: she's a lesbian.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I didn't see this coming. OK, because I had somebody
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: else in mind. But go ahead.
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: Fast forward a couple of years ago. The same exact
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: thing happened. We were at the company holiday party. There
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: was a new salesgirl. I introduced myself. She said hello.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: And the whole night she was being very like friendly
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: with me and kind of touchy feely on my shoulder.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: It's a different woman.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: Different woman.
• 22:09
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: Same exact thing.
• 22:11
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: And I said to somebody here, I think that girl's
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: flirting with me. Maybe she doesn't know I'm married. They said, no,
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: she's married, Justin, to a female.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: So, Neil. I feel your pain.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: So the lesbians are loving you.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: I guess so. I just don't know. How do you
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: know when someone's flirting? I'm just not good at it.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: How do you know?
• 22:31
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: I guess this guy has the same problem.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: So he thinks she's flirting with him. Right.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: And he wants to ask her out, but he doesn't
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: want to get shot down if she's just sort of
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: flirty with everybody.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, he can just ask her out. What's
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: the harm? The worst she could say is, no, not really.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: You sound like my mother. My mother growing up. Well,
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: the worst I can say is no. No one wants rejection.
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: No, right.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: You don't want to be deflated.
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 22:56
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: But it's not about him. If she rejects him, it
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: might be because she's spoken for. She's with somebody.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: She could absolutely be.
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: It still doesn't feel good.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: It doesn't. Never.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: This could totally just be your personality.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Producer Riley, do you consider yourself a flirter?
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: She is not a flirter.
• 23:10
  Speaker 7: So this actually happened to me, but I was the
• 23:13
  Speaker 7: flirter guy at work thought that I was flirting with
• 23:16
  Speaker 7: him because I am very if I'm like talking to somebody,
• 23:20
  Speaker 7: I if I get excited, I'll touch your arm.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: Like, I'll be like, oh, my God.
• 23:23
  Speaker 7: Like, I do talk like that. And I I don't
• 23:26
  Speaker 7: feel like I'm like flirting, but like.
• 23:29
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: Maybe people just think that I'm like very intensely like, oh,
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: my God, it's all about you.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you the story or whatever.
• 23:35
  Speaker 7: And he like texted one of my friends and was like, hey,
• 23:37
  Speaker 7: I'm like catching a vibe.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Should I ask her out?
• 23:40
  Speaker 7: My friend was like, oh, probably not.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: And you had no interest.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I had no interest.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I didn't even realize that I was doing it.
• 23:46
  Speaker 7: And then he said something and I was like, oh, no,
• 23:48
  Speaker 7: that's not what I meant. Like, I didn't mean to
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: be coming off like that.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: I was just being friendly.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: So in general, you're kind of touchy feely.
• 23:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, like I feel like I do that to you
• 23:57
  Speaker 7: and Justin all the time. I'll like grab your arm
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: and be like, oh, my God, did you see like, da, da, da, da, whatever.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: I definitely thought you were flirting with me.
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: I know you weren't flirting with me. The other guy
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: thought you were, though.
• 24:08
  Speaker 9: Sup, Riley?
• 24:10
  Speaker 7: I was flirting with Bill, but no.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: We all flirt with Bill.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: So I have this short list here about flirting. So
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: some nonverbal cues. I have some verbal cues and nonverbal.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: So some nonverbal cues are eye contact, making direct eye contact,
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: Holding a gaze for a moment, that can be considered flirting.
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: Smiling and then looking away. Facial expressions, a slow, genuine
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: smile or playful facial expressions can be a form of flirting.
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: It's Riley smiling at Bill.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Creepy smile.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: And like Riley said, a light casual touch.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: Brief, non-intrusive contact, such as a light brush on the
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: shoulder while walking, can be considered flirting. Those are non-verbal cues.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Or not.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Or it's just like that person's vibe.
• 24:53
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: It's such a hard line to walk.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: It's a hard line.
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: So some verbal cues, some verbal styles of flirting.
• 25:00
  Speaker 9: Okay.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: The most common overall style is being warm, friendly, and
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: clear about your intentions. So kind of not beating around
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: the bush. Playful teasing and banter. I feel like you
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: do that when you're young. Lighthearted jokes, gentle teasing, sassy comebacks,
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: genuine compliments, offering specific thoughtful compliments that can be considered flirting.
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: And then we frames and shared scenarios using hypothetical situations
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: or language that groups both people together. To build a
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: sense of a private world. Oh, wow.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: So, Bill, do you think you flirt with everybody?
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah. He flirts with Jenny Johnson all the time. Okay. No,
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: I don't. At least on the TV show. It's like playful,
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Make no mistake about it. It's the hottest ticket in town.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: It is the hottest table in town. And Jenny Johnson
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: is the hottest lady in town.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 25:55
  Speaker 7: Oh, yeah.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: There you go.
• 25:57
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Did you get that?
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: Lisa, where would that be considered?
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: Genuine compliments.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Genuine compliments. I was just trying to be nice. My God,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: you're a monster. I'm sorry.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry. All right. So I think with Neil, what
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: do we think here? By the way, you can leave
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: a talk back on this.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Neil, Neil, Neil.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: I don't know, Neil.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, Neil, if you have to ask. Take a shot, right? Yeah,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: why not?
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: Or it could be she could play for the other team.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: That's okay, and she could just say so.
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: You know what? Anything's possible, Justin. Yeah, that's true. 877-617-1108
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: is our phone number, or leave a talkback on the
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: iHeartRadio app. No flirting at work, guys. Yeah, I flirt
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: at work. We all do. It's nice to feel desirable,
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: you know? It's harmless fun, like eating grapes at the supermarket.
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: I actually have a nickname around here. The ladies gave
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: it to me because of my legendary derriere.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Hard, right?
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: Like two rocks kissing over the mouth of a coyote den.
• 26:53
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• 27:06
  Speaker 1: The Billy and Lisa Morning Show is 877-617-1108. You can
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: also send a talk back because, Lisa, you got a
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: DM about flirting.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: We did.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: So our guy, Neil, he's a listener. He is confused.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: He really thinks that this.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: Woman is nice. He thinks she's friendly and bubbly.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: She's given him physical cues by touching his arm, always
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: telling him he looks great, throwing compliments at him. But
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: then his friends told him that she does that with everyone.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: So don't take it like she's flirting with you. And
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: he's like, what should I do? Should I ask her
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: out or not?
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: This is Tennille. Buddy, take the shot. If she says no,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: she says no. It's okay. At least you asked.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: And just don't be awkward about it after.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Because this recently happened to me.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: I'm a flirt. I don't realize it.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: And he asked me out, but I'm not interested in
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: him that way. And I explained it nicely to him.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: And we're fine. We're friends.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: We still hang out.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: And by the way, isn't it a compliment to take
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: a shot? I mean, for you to deliver a shot?
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he should.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Flirt?
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you just don't want the other person, the rejecter,
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: to feel awkward then.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: It doesn't feel good to get rejected, but then if
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: you kind of make it awkward, then you're working with
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: the person every day. That's why they say don't mix
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: them two together.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Neil, honey, we're not going to mix work and pleasure.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: Leave it alone.
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this guy, it doesn't say whether this person works
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: with him or not. It doesn't say specifically.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: If she does, Neil, walk away.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: Neil, Neil, Neil.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, come on.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I agree with Neil. It's hard to tell if people
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: are flirting with you. I mean, I'm just naturally friendly and,
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: you know, touch people on the arm.
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: She's being chased by the cops there?
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: What's going on?
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: I say hello and compliment, and I'm just friendly and
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: not flirting.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: But I guess it could be taken that way.
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: But what does he have to lose?
• 29:02
  Speaker 5: I would just ask her out anyway.
• 29:04
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: I agree with her.
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: Well, that's why he wrote in to us to ask
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: our opinion and our listeners' opinions.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Well, we're giving him some strength here.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: Something to think about.
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: My ex and I went out for two years. He
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: thought I was flirting with him. I thought he was
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: flirting with me. Turns out two years of dating later,
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: he just felt bad for me.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: And that's why he asked me out.
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: Happily married now. If you're wondering if someone's flirting with you,
• 29:31
  Speaker 5: just wait for the right one. It's definitely worth the wait.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: God, that's so sad.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: I worked out for her, though.
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: I just can never tell. I can't play the flirting game.
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: I never have been able to do that. I don't know.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: I couldn't flirt because I have no game. It just
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: would have been embarrassing for everybody involved.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of awkward with you. Like, you say, like,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: awkward things. Like, you walk in and say, like, the
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: B word.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: You're like, what's up?
• 29:57
  Speaker 9: Oh, yeah.
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: No game at all. The reaction I get most of
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: the time is what? No, we like laugh. Like literally.
• 30:07
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: We don't take them serious. But I'm very, I'm actually
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: similar to you. I don't really have any game like that.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: Some people just have it. A friend of mine was
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: in Jiffy Lube recently. Okay. He was talking to a
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: girl in the waiting room. He felt like she was
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: flirting with him. He asked her for her number and
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: they've hooked up and gone on several dates.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: At Jiffy Lube. At Jiffy Lube. He told me the story,
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, that would never happen to me.
• 30:31
  Speaker 9: Never.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: No.
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: I just need someone to be just very direct with me.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Hop on anytime, Jackson.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: You know? Just very direct.
• 30:39
  Speaker 10: You know, there.
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: Really is nothing more annoying than when a man thinks
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: a woman is flirting when she's.
• 30:45
  Speaker 6: Just being kind to him.
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: Mm-hmm.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Don't ask her out.
• 30:49
  Speaker 7: Leave the poor woman alone.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Enjoy her company.
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: And until she gives you, like, a real clue that
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: she's flirting with you.
• 30:55
  Speaker 8: Just be nice to her back.
• 30:57
  Speaker 5: Like, just because somebody's nice to you doesn't mean they're flirting.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: That is true. Yeah, that is true.
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: I agree with what she's saying, but Neil, our listener,
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: did not just ask her out. He doesn't know. He's unsure.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Well, but his friends are chiming in, though. That's the part.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: They're telling him to do it. No, they're telling him
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: not to.
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, they're telling him not to do it, and
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: he wants to know, should he do it?
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: So I'm kind of on Neil's side here. I'd be
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: kind of.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: And a lot of guys tend to be conceited, so
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: they assume everybody's flirting with them.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Justin, are you Neil?
• 31:25
  Speaker 9: I know.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: Are you?
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: Oh, my God.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Good one, Liz. I am not Neil. He's Neil.
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: I am not Neil. I am not. Let's go to John.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: He's in. Oh, look at this. Ogunquit, Maine.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Oh, beautiful Ogunquit.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right out there on the Maine coast.
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: What's up, Johnny?
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: Johnny.
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: Morning. Morning.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: I just think that Neil should either let her know that.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: He's uncomfortable with what's going on or try to confirm
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: what's going on. Yeah, but I don't know. Then you
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: feel kind of lame.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: A little bit.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: You know? Yeah. Like if you're uncomfortable just because she's
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: touching your hand or your arm and it turns out
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: she wasn't meaning anything by it, then you just seem
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: overly sensitive.
• 32:10
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: I mean, I know that like my older son, Max,
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: we had a conversation last year about this. Like he
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: like was like talking to this girl and he didn't know, like,
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: cause she was giving him social cues that were flirty.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: And then he was like, I don't know. And then
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: it ended up being sort of like a letdown.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Like, because she was just doing that to everyone.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: And meanwhile, if Neil does what John is suggesting, well,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: the woman will never speak to Neil again.
• 32:40
  Speaker 7: Hmm.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: You know, because if she wasn't flirting, she said, really?
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: I don't think that's necessarily true.
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: If he's polite about it, I don't think.
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: It changes stuff.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: He said, look, you know, you're kind of touching me
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: a lot and it's bothering me. Like, of course she's
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: never going to be in the same room with him again.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, look, people are nice and people are friendly,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: men and women.
• 32:59
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: It can be mistaken as flirty.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: It can be.
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: I get that. Years ago, I was working at Marshall's
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: and I was flirting with my coworker and now he's
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: my fiance and we get married next May. So anything
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: is possible. Don't take advice from me.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Have a great day, guys. Oh, she took a shot.
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: Well, there you go.
• 33:16
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: Flirting happens at work a lot. You ever notice that?
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: It's because you're bored. You're bored at work.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: You don't want to have a friend.
• 33:23
  Speaker 7: And you're like, let me just, you know, be a
• 33:26
  Speaker 7: little friendly.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:28
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: She's a bad mama. I don't know. I'm just going
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: to start flirting a lot more.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Well, there's only three of us here.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: So please do.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: Don't flirt with me, please.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: I'm in a different studio for a reason.
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: Happy Friday, everybody.
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: It's Lucy.
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: One sure way to tell if a person is flirting
• 33:48
  Speaker 6: with you, this used to happen to me all the time,
• 33:51
  Speaker 6: is if that person slugs you on the arm, pulls
• 33:54
  Speaker 6: your hair, takes the chair out from underneath you, and
• 33:57
  Speaker 6: you're in second grade. They are definitely flirting with you.