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DLHS Hour 2 | Should man pay for date’s babysitter · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the deal.
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  Speaker 2: Jasmine Sanders, is a man's responsibility to pay for a
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  Speaker 2: woman's babysit? No, we did different iterations of this argument,
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  Speaker 2: like should he pay for an uber or should I
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  Speaker 2: think whatever you whatever he feels comfortable doing. Well, first off,
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  Speaker 2: whatever she feels comfortable asking for and he feels comfortable doing,
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  Speaker 2: is that destined here and deal?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 1: That would be what it is.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I don't like the word responsible. It's not your responsibility.
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  Speaker 4: It's not your responsibility to pay for babysitters. Yeah, well,
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  Speaker 4: I think if you want to, if you have the
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  Speaker 4: money and you know that that's an issue for her
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  Speaker 4: in terms of being able to go out, and you
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  Speaker 4: really like her.
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  Speaker 2: Right you know, then hey, paper, that would make me
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  Speaker 2: look it would make me look at her differently.
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  Speaker 5: Well, of course that's why I said that.
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  Speaker 4: If she puts it on you and says it's your
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  Speaker 4: responsibility to it, I don't like that but I think
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  Speaker 4: if you ask a woman out and she said, well,
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  Speaker 4: I would love to go, but I don't have a babysitter,
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  Speaker 4: and he offers, yeah, I don't know why it's two
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  Speaker 4: hundred and fifty dollars.
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  Speaker 5: But again, I don't know what're going right for the babysitter.
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  Speaker 2: You can't get more for babbyitter than child before it.
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  Speaker 2: You can't that case, they can't have it. Bye, let
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  Speaker 2: me tell you something that's what surprised them with it,
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  Speaker 2: like two or three hour day two JJ were two
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  Speaker 2: to four hours sometimes fair?
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  Speaker 5: Like what is the price per hour?
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  Speaker 1: Fifty an hour?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, two hundred fifty dollars. You could get
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  Speaker 2: a good hooker for that. I'm telling you. I have
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  Speaker 2: you ever been on Instagram? I'm just telling what there
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  Speaker 2: will be. No, I think, oh.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, what national average rakes about nineteen fifty per hour?
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  Speaker 5: Nineteen dollars. So I'm an average.
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  Speaker 1: So you want double the average?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Now in California it's twenty three almost twenty four hours
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  Speaker 4: an hour, but.
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  Speaker 1: You want double the average?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah you do?
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  Speaker 2: Hell no, hell no? And how many kids are we
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  Speaker 2: talking about? And who wouldn't do that for two hundred fifty.
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  Speaker 2: Most people don't make two and fifty dous a day.
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  Speaker 5: Tw hundred dollars. If it is date, we're just gonna
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  Speaker 5: stay at your hair.
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  Speaker 2: That's you know when we're on yeah something. Most people
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  Speaker 2: in America do not make two on fifty thousand.
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  Speaker 5: A day, especially now.
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  Speaker 1: No, what do you think, Junior? Would you do it?
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  Speaker 6: That would be new? But I think it's for two
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  Speaker 6: hundred and fifty. It was probably for a mama. You know,
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  Speaker 6: you get a mama to watch the kids. You know,
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  Speaker 6: I got to suck on. I don't care who was for.
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  Speaker 6: I could see I could say a hundred, I could
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  Speaker 6: see a hundred. Yeah, yeah, I could see a hundred.
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  Speaker 7: And you know what that Just like Jasmine said, you
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  Speaker 7: talk about that when I ask you out on a date.
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  Speaker 5: Don't pull up and say, all right, well we leave.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, say hey, I love to go out with you,
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  Speaker 7: but I don't have a babysitter, and okay, we'll talk
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  Speaker 7: about it.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Imagine a kid, because a lot of people back
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  Speaker 2: in the day used to make money babysitting, right, yepes right.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine a kid.
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  Speaker 2: If a kid got two hundred fifty dollars for babysit
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  Speaker 2: kids that he wouldn't make that in a in a day,
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  Speaker 2: in a good job, he.
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  Speaker 5: Might make more than his daddy right days.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying he might a couple of hours.
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  Speaker 5: Couple of hours he might.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe if I'd have known that, I'd have brought my
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  Speaker 7: teenage kid. We watch these kids while I break.
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  Speaker 1: Off the mama.
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  Speaker 6: Wait a minute, they some badass kids and they need
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  Speaker 6: extra protection.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what's that eighty five dollars hour? Man,
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  Speaker 1: Come on.
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  Speaker 4: And I also think it was again very inconsiderate to
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  Speaker 4: springing on him at the at the last minute, like
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  Speaker 4: you just show up. Of course, I'm fair you springing
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  Speaker 4: on at the last minute instead of when he asked
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  Speaker 4: you. You should have said, well, I don't know, let me
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  Speaker 4: see if I can get a babysitter, and if not,
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  Speaker 4: you don't have to work around that.
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  Speaker 2: And if I picked Cooke come to pick you up
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  Speaker 2: and you already know how much the baby's is gonna be,
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  Speaker 2: then you already you're trying to hustle me. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: if you already know what the baby that means you
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  Speaker 2: already arranged this person for this amount.
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  Speaker 4: And why are you still paying this particular babysitter, who's
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  Speaker 4: charging you fifty dollars, you know, for a couple of hours.
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  Speaker 5: Why are you go get somebody out right, Jimmy down
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  Speaker 5: the block. She's available.
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  Speaker 1: And then she wanted a high end restaurant.
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  Speaker 5: I thought we go to a higher risk. Well, baby,
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  Speaker 5: you just knocked it down to it. They got that,
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  Speaker 5: just knocked it down.
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  Speaker 2: To Have you ever been have you ever had steamy
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  Speaker 2: hoigh churches, chicken in the parking lot?
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  Speaker 6: Let me tell you, Let me tell you no.
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  Speaker 1: No, First off, I don't know if I like you
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  Speaker 1: at all? Right, at all?
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  Speaker 2: That is very presumptuous. But what do you think? So
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  Speaker 2: the question we're asking this is.
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  Speaker 5: The scenario you want to take me on a date?
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  Speaker 8: So these high end restaurants you can't pay to fifty
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  Speaker 8: for a day.
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  Speaker 9: And the money I got for the date though, one
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  Speaker 9: for your baby. So won't you have your baby? Daddy
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  Speaker 9: paid for the key?
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  Speaker 1: What do you think it was his responsibility going to.
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  Speaker 10: That right to the phones, hell to the non non,
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  Speaker 10: Absolutely not unless the guy has offered in advance. I
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  Speaker 10: will pay your babysitter, you know, whomever is going out
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  Speaker 10: with him.
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  Speaker 11: That is your responsibility. The woman's responsibility to make arrangements.
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  Speaker 11: That is absolutely wrong and it's wrong for anything. They
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  Speaker 11: to think that it's okay that he should pay. No,
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  Speaker 11: what you should do is you should stay home.
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  Speaker 12: If you just apt the date, you should be able
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  Speaker 12: to have You should have a dackcare every set up.
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  Speaker 3: The man's already paying for the dinner in the show,
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  Speaker 3: you at least take care of her own kids. That's
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  Speaker 3: what I feel about it.
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  Speaker 12: Absolutely not. And then one side for a woman, first off,
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  Speaker 12: she must got to have five or ten kids, come
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  Speaker 12: about two hundred and fifty four dollars. First off, who's
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  Speaker 12: on pay two hundred and fifty four dollars to go
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  Speaker 12: out of the date. This is not his responsibilities. Those
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  Speaker 12: are not his children.
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  Speaker 3: And at the first date, who does that?
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  Speaker 12: He needs to leave her at the door and keep
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  Speaker 12: it moving. I think that man should not be responsible
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  Speaker 12: for paying for the babysitter. To say, the man shows interest.
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  Speaker 12: He asked the woman out on the tea. Now the
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  Speaker 12: woman heed to decide that she wants to go on
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  Speaker 12: the tea. If he is interested in going, she needs
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  Speaker 12: to look at her personal life and agenda in her
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  Speaker 12: personal world and see if she is able to going today,
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  Speaker 12: But that's not his responsibility. He just expressed interest for
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  Speaker 12: those are her kids, so she needs to figure out
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  Speaker 12: what she wanted to do to do what she wants
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  Speaker 12: to do.
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  Speaker 13: I have charged a man to, you know, to go
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  Speaker 13: out on the date for him to watch my kids.
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  Speaker 14: But the difference was when we went.
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  Speaker 12: Out it had to be the first date.
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  Speaker 13: I would choose a price like Applebee's, you know, somewhere
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  Speaker 13: where tul could dine at a minimum price, and that's
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  Speaker 13: how I compensated him paying for the for the babysittle.
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  Speaker 13: But I wouldn't charge an outrageous price like two under.
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  Speaker 9: The fifty dollars. That's just crazy.
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  Speaker 14: Well, my whole thing is I mean, first of all,
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  Speaker 14: two hundred and fifty dollars, that's an expensive babysitter in
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  Speaker 14: my opinion. Now, you know, maybe maybe the race have
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  Speaker 14: changed since last time I had to have a babysitter.
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  Speaker 14: That seems kind of expensive to me. But at the
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  Speaker 14: same time, did this young lady tell this man that
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  Speaker 14: was that he was gonna have to pay for a
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  Speaker 14: babysitter before she agreed to go out with him. And
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  Speaker 14: I'm just wondering if he went ahead and paid fifty
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  Speaker 14: for the baby should and then took out for a date,
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  Speaker 14: because I know if it were me, I would probably
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  Speaker 14: have reservations about taking this young lady out on a
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  Speaker 14: date if she sprung this two hundred and fifty dollar
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  Speaker 14: thing on me as I'm coming to the door to
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  Speaker 14: pick her up.
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  Speaker 1: So the question we're asking this is the scenario.
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  Speaker 9: Why don't you get in the car, like, come on, you,
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  Speaker 9: I can't just leave my kids we were talking about
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  Speaker 9: all week though. Okay, so you ain't got two fifty baby,
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  Speaker 9: so I'm paying for the day.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm saying, listen, I can't.
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  Speaker 9: I can't get you to fifty.
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  Speaker 5: Now you want to take me on a date.
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  Speaker 8: So these high D restaurants, you can't pay to fifty
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  Speaker 8: for a day.
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  Speaker 9: And the money I got for the date though, one
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  Speaker 9: for your baby. So why don't you have your baby?
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  Speaker 9: Daddy paid for the kids?
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  Speaker 8: Okay, so then he should be taking me on a
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  Speaker 8: day day.
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  Speaker 9: I'm saying, like, come on, you should have had that
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  Speaker 9: to care before I pull it up.
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  Speaker 8: What Okay, So then I think you should pull off
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  Speaker 8: cause that's how you feel.
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  Speaker 3: We ain't.
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  Speaker 9: Right because that's not my responsibility.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, if you want to take me on to day.
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  Speaker 8: It's going to be your responsibility you're talking about it's
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  Speaker 8: not your responsible you know what. Yes, you can't pull
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  Speaker 8: off because why are you talking about my kis that's
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  Speaker 8: your responsibility. Well, baby came up obviously not obviously flag
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  Speaker 8: obviously not Ye huh, you got by goodbye?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think he was responsible? I was going to
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  Speaker 1: the phones.
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  Speaker 12: I don't think she really wanted to go, not with
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  Speaker 12: not with two hundred and fifty dollars on the sleeve.
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  Speaker 12: She didn't want to go.
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  Speaker 3: That was a red flag for him to run.
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  Speaker 10: If I came to a man and said two fifty
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  Speaker 10: before my children, before you take me out, I'm fitting.
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  Speaker 12: I'm fit to play you. I'm fitting.
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  Speaker 11: I'm figuring rope with dope, you brother. So he need
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  Speaker 11: to go ahead and run while he got a chance,
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  Speaker 11: because that was a red flag.
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  Speaker 12: It all depends this is the first date or not
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  Speaker 12: it was the first date.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I go and pay the babysit that I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to hit, But that that hit ain't no more babysit
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  Speaker 3: not going out my pocket.
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  Speaker 14: I do believe he has a point, But I will
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  Speaker 14: tell you one thing.
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  Speaker 12: Women and men who leave with their money. Now, they
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  Speaker 12: opened themselves up.
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  Speaker 9: For a whole lot of usury.
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  Speaker 12: Now, if I was a man, I would take a
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  Speaker 12: woman out and I would spend a.
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  Speaker 5: Minimum mouth, you know, a reasonable amount.
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  Speaker 9: Just to see where her head is really it.
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  Speaker 11: Because these women out here are ferocious. I mean, they
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  Speaker 11: don't give the damn some of.
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  Speaker 9: Them, not all now huns.
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  Speaker 14: Some of them will.
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  Speaker 10: Just take and take and take and take and expect
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  Speaker 10: you to pay for them, their children and their friends.
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  Speaker 12: Which is ridiculous.
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  Speaker 9: You know, the man he's.
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  Speaker 12: Dating you, he's trying to get to date you. You know,
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  Speaker 12: you know, everything else comes secondary, you don't. You have
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  Speaker 12: to get chants that first. But anyways, I say, you know,
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  Speaker 12: just be careful because no matter who you are, these
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  Speaker 12: people out here nowadays, they will rip you all the
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  Speaker 12: way off.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy when the dating becomes such a chore. Now
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  Speaker 3: it's a woman whoever has the kids, that's your responsibility,
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  Speaker 3: or maybe you shouldn't be going on dates if you can't,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean. I mean, But it's not
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  Speaker 3: the man's responsibility to do it.
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  Speaker 12: It's absurd.
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  Speaker 3: The thing that I see these young people go through
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  Speaker 3: now in dating. It's like they forgot what the whole
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  Speaker 3: purpose of dating is for. So no, you need a
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  Speaker 3: you need someone a babysit your kids, stay at home
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  Speaker 3: and stay with your kids to stop dating.
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  Speaker 11: I think that's insane.
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  Speaker 3: Why someone pay a babysitter just to take them out
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  Speaker 3: or just to pay the girls babysitter to take them
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  Speaker 3: out there, that's asking for way too much.
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  Speaker 11: Does he even know the kid?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 12: Why am I paying for the child services? And this
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  Speaker 12: this is not my child?
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  Speaker 11: Like that's crazy, that's crazy.
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