Latest / Hurdle with Emily Abbate / 332. From Recovery Tourism To 'Hard' Wellness: An Expert On The Top Wellness Trends That Will Shape 2025
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- 0:00Speaker 1: When we talk about habits, sometimes the framing of it
- 0:02Speaker 1: it can sound a little bit boring if I call
- 0:04Speaker 1: it a ritual instead, does that make it feel better? Hey?
- 0:21Speaker 2: Everyone, exciting day because this is actually although numbered episode
- 0:27Speaker 2: three hundred and thirty two Hurdles, eight hundredth episode, which
- 0:31Speaker 2: is wild, absolutely wild. I am Emily a body and
- 0:36Speaker 2: that whether you have been here for all eight hundred
- 0:39Speaker 2: or you are new to the squad, I am beyond
- 0:43Speaker 2: happy that you're here.
- 0:46Speaker 3: You know.
- 0:46Speaker 2: The Drill Hurdles a wellness focused podcast where I talk
- 0:49Speaker 2: to inspirational people about everything from their highest hies and
- 0:52Speaker 2: toughest moments to essential tips on how to live a healthier, happier,
- 0:57Speaker 2: more motivated life. We all go through our fair share
- 1:00Speaker 2: of hurdles. My goal through these discussions is to empower
- 1:04Speaker 2: you to better navigate yours and move with intention so
- 1:07Speaker 2: that you can stride towards your own big potential and
- 1:10Speaker 2: of course have some fun along the way.
- 1:14Speaker 1: For today's episode.
- 1:16Speaker 2: I'm bringing in my dear friend, the head of content
- 1:19Speaker 2: over at Well and Good Amy Iisinger. Well and Good
- 1:23Speaker 2: is launching their annual Wellness Trends Report this coming week,
- 1:27Speaker 2: and I wanted to know what are we looking out for,
- 1:31Speaker 2: what's going to be big and buzzy in the next
- 1:34Speaker 2: three sixty five and it really has me thinking about
- 1:38Speaker 2: what I personally want to prioritize in the new year. Seriously,
- 1:42Speaker 2: we cover so much, including the concept of soft versus
- 1:46Speaker 2: hard wellness, words that I have never heard before associated
- 1:50Speaker 2: with things like journaling or hit classes. We're also talking
- 1:54Speaker 2: about the rise and recovery tourism, alone time and how
- 1:58Speaker 2: that's getting a little bit of a rebrand, and of
- 2:00Speaker 2: course an emotional relationship that so many of us have
- 2:03Speaker 2: to our money and the term biophilia. I love the
- 2:09Speaker 2: opportunity to chat with anyone. I feel like you can
- 2:12Speaker 2: truly learn something from every single person that you come across,
- 2:16Speaker 2: which is an amazing component to what I do. But
- 2:19Speaker 2: it is always really fun to have a friend in
- 2:22Speaker 2: the studio catch up and having Amy on the show
- 2:26Speaker 2: was truly so meaningful to me. She had the nicest
- 2:29Speaker 2: things to say about our career paths and the time
- 2:32Speaker 2: that we have spent together through our crossing paths within
- 2:37Speaker 2: the wellness journalist space here in New York, and I'm
- 2:40Speaker 2: so appreciative of what she does, the content that they
- 2:44Speaker 2: are putting out on Well and Good and really really
- 2:48Speaker 2: loved this conversation. Make sure you check out their wellness trends.
- 2:52Speaker 2: I will link to it in the show notes when
- 2:54Speaker 2: they are live, and also catch up with us over
- 2:57Speaker 2: on social media hurdles over at Hurdle Podcast, I am
- 3:00Speaker 2: over at Emily a Body and one more reminder, if
- 3:03Speaker 2: you are not yet a subscriber to the weekly Hurdle newsletter,
- 3:07Speaker 2: I would love the opportunity to bring so much of
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- 3:13Speaker 2: your inbox every single Friday. And the best part is
- 3:17Speaker 2: that it's absolutely free to subscribe. The link to do that.
- 3:21Speaker 2: The link to subscribe is in the show notes. With that,
- 3:26Speaker 2: let's get to it. Let's get to hurdling.
- 3:40Speaker 1: Today.
- 3:40Speaker 2: I am sitting down with Amy Eisinger. She is the
- 3:43Speaker 2: head of content over at Well and Goood.
- 3:45Speaker 3: How are we doing.
- 3:46Speaker 1: I'm doing well. Thanks. How are you doing?
- 3:48Speaker 3: I'm good.
- 3:48Speaker 1: I'm geeked that you're here. I'm really excited because I
- 3:51Speaker 1: feel like our paths have almost crossed like professionally for
- 3:55Speaker 1: a very long time, and we've always seen each other
- 3:57Speaker 1: around and seen each other in New York media events,
- 4:00Speaker 1: but we've never really like actually gotten to like sit
- 4:03Speaker 1: down and work together. Were we at self at the
- 4:05Speaker 1: same time, though, I don't think we were, no, just
- 4:08Speaker 1: barely didn't overlap. Oh my god, I was convinced that
- 4:11Speaker 1: we were. So this is like news to me.
- 4:13Speaker 2: Well, but we were working on very different teams exactly
- 4:15Speaker 2: at the time when I was the Fitness editor itself.
- 4:19Speaker 3: This was eight years ago, Oh my god, nine years ago.
- 4:24Speaker 2: And that is when print and digital were like completely separate,
- 4:28Speaker 2: which was a sign of the times, like which was
- 4:30Speaker 2: a sign that we should have known it was going
- 4:32Speaker 2: south very soon.
- 4:33Speaker 1: It was. It was a time. Yeah, I came on.
- 4:36Speaker 1: I think I came on right after the print publication
- 4:38Speaker 1: folded and came into the role of special projects director, which,
- 4:44Speaker 1: if you know what that means, I'm still trying to
- 4:46Speaker 1: figure out what people are like, what did you do?
- 4:48Speaker 1: What a special project? So I'm like, I have no idea,
- 4:50Speaker 1: I have no idea what I did. But it was
- 4:53Speaker 1: a great job. It was super super fun. It was
- 4:54Speaker 1: a great time to be.
- 4:55Speaker 3: Itself, great time to be itself.
- 4:57Speaker 2: And so your background in media give us some insight
- 5:02Speaker 2: on the road that led you to well and good.
- 5:04Speaker 3: So we have a context for where we're going today.
- 5:07Speaker 1: Okay, I feel ancient even talking about this, but I
- 5:11Speaker 1: came here. Let me see. In two thousand and seven,
- 5:15Speaker 1: I moved to New York and went to NYU for
- 5:17Speaker 1: graduate school, and I sort of graduated into the first
- 5:22Speaker 1: media recession, which meant that there were about three jobs
- 5:25Speaker 1: available and everybody was going for the same ones, and
- 5:27Speaker 1: I somehow landed a job at the New York Daily News.
- 5:30Speaker 1: And I always like to talk about it because I
- 5:33Speaker 1: think that there is a tendency for people to look
- 5:36Speaker 1: down a bit on tabloids, and I'm always like, tabloids
- 5:39Speaker 1: are the best training ground, Like you will develop such
- 5:42Speaker 1: a thick skin. You will be out on the streets
- 5:44Speaker 1: of New York, you will be doing the reporting. You
- 5:46Speaker 1: will be running back and trying to write a story.
- 5:48Speaker 1: And it was really exciting to work on a newspaper
- 5:51Speaker 1: in a way because I came in every morning not
- 5:53Speaker 1: really knowing what the day was going to hold, and
- 5:55Speaker 1: I left every afternoon or every evening or every night
- 6:00Speaker 1: like having created a publication. And it's very different than
- 6:03Speaker 1: the way that we work now, where it sort of
- 6:04Speaker 1: feels continuous and it feels like you're on this twenty
- 6:06Speaker 1: four hour clock. But anyway, So I worked today, I work.
- 6:09Speaker 1: I have a background of news, and then probably a
- 6:12Speaker 1: little over a decade ago, I got I got into
- 6:15Speaker 1: health and wellness media and I worked at Hurst on
- 6:18Speaker 1: a project called Cosmo Body with Liz Plosser, who we
- 6:22Speaker 1: both know as well, and then kind of you know,
- 6:25Speaker 1: bounced around from there and this opportunity came up at
- 6:28Speaker 1: Well and Goood and it is a brand that I
- 6:30Speaker 1: have admired for so long. It's just it's such a
- 6:34Speaker 1: cool brand, it's got a great history, and I was
- 6:36Speaker 1: so so excited to go out for this role. And
- 6:39Speaker 1: it feels like, in many ways the culmination of what
- 6:43Speaker 1: I've been working toward for so long. And I know
- 6:47Speaker 1: that you have this saying of remember when you wanted
- 6:50Speaker 1: you know what you have now? And I truly feel
- 6:53Speaker 1: like that, like this has been really something that I've
- 6:56Speaker 1: wanted for a long time, to be like the head
- 6:57Speaker 1: of content or an editor in chief kind of roles.
- 6:59Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really cool. Oh my god, I'm buzzing for you.
- 7:02Speaker 2: I'm so excited, and so much has happened since we
- 7:05Speaker 2: first met. Now you're a mother of two, as well.
- 7:09Speaker 1: Yes, I know. I think the last time I might
- 7:11Speaker 1: have seen you in person, I'm not kidding. I think
- 7:13Speaker 1: I might have been pregnant with my first baby.
- 7:15Speaker 3: Oh my god.
- 7:16Speaker 1: But now I have a four and a half year
- 7:17Speaker 1: old and I have an eleven month old. His birthdays
- 7:20Speaker 1: at the end of this month. So they are Indigo
- 7:23Speaker 1: in Mars.
- 7:24Speaker 2: So special, so special, and the best names like thank you.
- 7:28Speaker 2: I doubt that Indigo or Mars are going to have
- 7:30Speaker 2: another Indigo or Mars in their classes.
- 7:32Speaker 1: I mean that was our hope. That was our hope.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Not that I have anything against my parents for naming
- 7:37Speaker 1: me Amy. I just wanted creative names. I wanted creative names.
- 7:42Speaker 3: Tell them how you really feeling me?
- 7:43Speaker 2: Well again, I'm so elated to have you here in
- 7:46Speaker 2: the studio, and it is super interesting for me to
- 7:50Speaker 2: sit here knowing all that we've both been through professionally
- 7:54Speaker 2: that have ended us in these seats right here, right now.
- 7:57Speaker 2: They say that, you know, high is twenty twenty, and
- 8:01Speaker 2: I would have never thought eight nine years ago, when
- 8:03Speaker 2: our paths first crossed, that we'd be sitting here in
- 8:06Speaker 2: this capacity, But here we are, and I'm elated.
- 8:08Speaker 1: Really quick, Do you remember I when I saw you
- 8:10Speaker 1: once previously, and I remember asking you because you're still
- 8:13Speaker 1: doing a lot of freelancing, and I was like, what's
- 8:15Speaker 1: what's the ultimate goal with hurdle, Like what do you
- 8:17Speaker 1: want to And you were like, Hurdle is the thing,
- 8:19Speaker 1: Hurdle will be the full time thing. Hurdle is going
- 8:22Speaker 1: to be so and you had this vision for like
- 8:24Speaker 1: how big an amazing hurdle was going to be, and
- 8:27Speaker 1: so it's just been so so cool to like watch
- 8:29Speaker 1: your trajectory and watch that. It's just it's such a
- 8:32Speaker 1: testament to like having the vision and then manifesting that
- 8:35Speaker 1: thing and like making it a reality.
- 8:37Speaker 3: So you're so sweet to me.
- 8:39Speaker 2: I still have a vision for hurdle to be like
- 8:41Speaker 2: a bigger thing, but I appreciate you making my ego
- 8:45Speaker 2: like blow up like a balloon right now.
- 8:47Speaker 1: So we're just going to roll with that. Hurdle is
- 8:49Speaker 1: the thing.
- 8:49Speaker 2: It's the thing, and today the thing that we're here
- 8:52Speaker 2: to talk about twenty twenty five's wellness trends.
- 8:54Speaker 1: Yes, I'm so excited. Yeah, Wellingood has such a history
- 8:58Speaker 1: of trend spotting. This is the about the fifteenth year
- 9:02Speaker 1: that we have announced our wellness trends, and yeah, I'm
- 9:06Speaker 1: really excited we have some good ones this year, some
- 9:08Speaker 1: good ones this year.
- 9:09Speaker 2: So also before we jump into them, I want to
- 9:12Speaker 2: give some context on what women, because the audience is
- 9:17Speaker 2: ninety percent women, what women can expect when they go
- 9:20Speaker 2: to Well and Good if they're not familiar with the
- 9:22Speaker 2: property already, So give us some insight as to what
- 9:25Speaker 2: Well and Good's all about.
- 9:26Speaker 1: Yeah, So I think Well and Good is the premiere
- 9:29Speaker 1: destination for wellness content and also trends and also wellness shopping.
- 9:35Speaker 1: So we're really here to meet you wherever you might
- 9:38Speaker 1: be on your wellness journey. And in fact, one of
- 9:40Speaker 1: the threads that I'll be weaving through this whole conversation
- 9:43Speaker 1: is really that we're here for the journey. That we
- 9:46Speaker 1: recognize that wellness in and of itself is a journey.
- 9:50Speaker 1: It's constantly evolving, it's nuanced, it's different for you now
- 9:53Speaker 1: than it is, you know, in a decade than it
- 9:56Speaker 1: was a decade ago. And I think that Well and
- 9:58Speaker 1: Goood really recognizes that, and our content is really suited
- 10:01Speaker 1: to meet you wherever you are.
- 10:03Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of meeting you wherever you are, eleven month old,
- 10:07Speaker 2: what has been the let's say, biggest component of your
- 10:12Speaker 2: personal wellness journey this year?
- 10:14Speaker 1: Oh man, I would say drinking lots of water.
- 10:19Speaker 3: I need to get on this portion of your journey, yes.
- 10:22Speaker 1: But truly, like on the days that I am not hydrated,
- 10:26Speaker 1: I feel it so much. I have like the brain fog.
- 10:28Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not fully there, and I'm like,
- 10:31Speaker 1: I just need to when was the last time I
- 10:33Speaker 1: had a drink of water? And I feel like Mom's
- 10:34Speaker 1: out there will know this. That, Like you get into
- 10:37Speaker 1: this mode where you're just running around and then you're like,
- 10:39Speaker 1: when did I stop and have a glass of water?
- 10:41Speaker 1: So I'll say that, and then I'll say the other
- 10:43Speaker 1: biggest practice that I have tried to cultivate. And I'm
- 10:46Speaker 1: not always great at this, but I'm trying to slow
- 10:49Speaker 1: down a bit more, live, a bit more intentionally, live
- 10:52Speaker 1: with a bit more compassion and a bit more empathy
- 10:55Speaker 1: when I feel myself getting angry or frustrated, which is
- 10:58Speaker 1: often sometimes as a you know, when you've asked your
- 11:01Speaker 1: child to put on their jacket for the twenty seventh
- 11:02Speaker 1: time and you're telling yourself, no, I'm still going to
- 11:06Speaker 1: be that gentle parent. It's really challenging, But I really
- 11:11Speaker 1: do find that when I greet the world with compassion,
- 11:14Speaker 1: with empathy, that that's how I feel the world is
- 11:19Speaker 1: greeting me back. And when I slow down and I
- 11:22Speaker 1: really stop and think, and I try not to be
- 11:24Speaker 1: so reactionary, Like sometimes I'll stop and ask myself, do
- 11:27Speaker 1: I really need to answer this immediately? Can I take
- 11:30Speaker 1: five minutes? Can I take ten minutes? Can I take
- 11:32Speaker 1: the night and really think about it and come up
- 11:35Speaker 1: often with a much more thoughtful response. And I think
- 11:39Speaker 1: that that has been extremely.
- 11:40Speaker 3: Helpful, respond instead of react.
- 11:43Speaker 2: Yeah, And that whole concept that you just throughout their
- 11:46Speaker 2: energy attracts like energy. Right, So if you're meeting the
- 11:50Speaker 2: world with this compassionate, slower approach, you're more than likely
- 11:53Speaker 2: going to find compassionate people in your line of sight.
- 11:57Speaker 2: They're going to be greeting you exactly where you're at. Okay,
- 11:59Speaker 2: I like these two things. Water and being a little
- 12:02Speaker 2: bit slower and more intentional. I would say, God, what's
- 12:05Speaker 2: been the most poignant part of my twenty twenty four
- 12:10Speaker 2: wellness journey? Probably strength training. It's changed everything for me.
- 12:14Speaker 2: I am no stranger to strength training, but this is
- 12:17Speaker 2: the first year and it's funny because I'm about to
- 12:19Speaker 2: say in my adult life. But it's not that I
- 12:21Speaker 2: wasn't an adult when I did this like ten years ago.
- 12:23Speaker 2: But I'm just in a very different phase at thirty
- 12:26Speaker 2: six than twenty six. Approaching strength training in my mid
- 12:29Speaker 2: thirties has changed everything for me in terms of how
- 12:33Speaker 2: I feel in my body, certainly my body composition. I
- 12:37Speaker 2: just feel finally like I have almost a better control
- 12:42Speaker 2: or grip on what I'm capable of than I did previously.
- 12:45Speaker 2: And so I would say my wellness journey definitely refostering
- 12:50Speaker 2: this relationship with strength training. And then also, I'm with
- 12:53Speaker 2: you on the slowdown note for sure, for sure, for sure,
- 12:56Speaker 2: for sure, one hundred percent. I know that it is
- 13:00Speaker 2: easy to get very emotionally involved in my work because
- 13:03Speaker 2: my work is such a huge part of who I
- 13:05Speaker 2: am and like I am my work, And so by
- 13:10Speaker 2: giving myself the time and space to slow down, I
- 13:12Speaker 2: recognize that I have this opportunity to separate.
- 13:16Speaker 3: Those two a little bit. Yeah, and that feels really good,
- 13:19Speaker 3: you know.
- 13:19Speaker 1: In strength training is such a wonderful metaphor for so
- 13:23Speaker 1: many things, right, Like we're talking about physical strength, but
- 13:26Speaker 1: through that physical strength. You find that mental tenacity as well,
- 13:30Speaker 1: you find that ability to like rise up and tell
- 13:33Speaker 1: yourself again and again, I can do hard things. I mean,
- 13:36Speaker 1: you recently ran a marathon. You can do hard things.
- 13:38Speaker 1: You can show up and do those things. So I
- 13:40Speaker 1: think that, yeah, they're just they're great lessons that come
- 13:43Speaker 1: out of trying to lift up a heavy object. Yeah, no, totally.
- 13:47Speaker 2: And I mean anyone who's an avid hurdler has heard
- 13:50Speaker 2: me say this so many times. But how it does
- 13:52Speaker 2: a muscle strengthen you give it something to push up against.
- 13:54Speaker 2: How does your will strengthen you give it something to
- 13:56Speaker 2: push up again? So that concept of learning your true
- 14:00Speaker 2: strength through lifting heavy things is I mean, it's an
- 14:03Speaker 2: understatement for sure. Okay, I'm loving us back to Well
- 14:06Speaker 2: and Goods. Let's trend us here, let's do it. So
- 14:08Speaker 2: the reason that I get so excited about this conversation,
- 14:10Speaker 2: and I've had it, this isn't the first time that
- 14:12Speaker 2: we've spoken about well and Goods annual trends on the show.
- 14:15Speaker 2: But the reason why I love bringing someone from the
- 14:18Speaker 2: team in to do this is because I think it
- 14:20Speaker 2: is a really interesting picture into what's coming down the
- 14:23Speaker 2: line and so there are a slew of them that
- 14:25Speaker 2: you guys are highlighting this year. But I want to
- 14:27Speaker 2: start us off with this concept of soft versus hard wellness.
- 14:33Speaker 3: What is soft and hard wellness? Please enlighten me?
- 14:36Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is a great one. I think that
- 14:39Speaker 1: we are really facing this kind of duality and a
- 14:41Speaker 1: lot of places in our life right in a lot
- 14:43Speaker 1: of different facets. But soft and hard wellness is on
- 14:46Speaker 1: the one hand, we have soft wellness, which we look
- 14:48Speaker 1: at as journaling, going outside for walks, leaning into anything
- 14:53Speaker 1: that's like non metric based, right, how do you feel?
- 14:56Speaker 1: But like how do you really feel deep down in
- 14:58Speaker 1: your bones? Right, and exploring that the cozy cardio, the
- 15:03Speaker 1: forest bathing, the pottery retreats. I also like to bring
- 15:06Speaker 1: up dumb phones, people just sort of leaning out of
- 15:09Speaker 1: technology and really leaning into the softer parts of wellness.
- 15:12Speaker 1: Why have I never heard of? Do you call a
- 15:15Speaker 1: dumb phone? Dumb phone? Dumb? Like you have a smartphone
- 15:18Speaker 1: and then there's a dumb phone.
- 15:19Speaker 3: What's a dumb phone.
- 15:20Speaker 1: It's the kind of phone that in only texts and
- 15:23Speaker 1: calls people, so you don't have like an Internet connection
- 15:25Speaker 1: on it.
- 15:25Speaker 3: I am so out of the loop.
- 15:27Speaker 1: Oh these are really cool.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Yeah, your own one.
- 15:29Speaker 1: I do not, but some people invest in them for
- 15:31Speaker 1: like their teenagers for instance. So you can call and text,
- 15:35Speaker 1: but you don't have the whole Internet at your fingertips. Okay,
- 15:38Speaker 1: so yeah, dumb phones kind of making a little bit
- 15:40Speaker 1: of a comeback aka the phones we grew up with
- 15:43Speaker 1: exactly like the razor right, exactly exactly. So that's kind
- 15:47Speaker 1: of on one hand, and then on the other hand,
- 15:49Speaker 1: we have a hard wellness which I look at as
- 15:52Speaker 1: tracking everything. What was your sleep score? Did you pr like?
- 15:56Speaker 1: You know, you're you're keeping detailed notes about how you're
- 15:59Speaker 1: feeling your You've got your Apple Watch on maybe twenty
- 16:02Speaker 1: four to seven. You're biohacking. Another term that I heard
- 16:05Speaker 1: recently at the Global Wellness Summit was the synth of
- 16:08Speaker 1: scene human right, which is truly just a way of
- 16:11Speaker 1: saying that we are becoming like that, we're integrating machines
- 16:14Speaker 1: more and more into into our person right. So I
- 16:17Speaker 1: think that we have this kind of duality and wellness,
- 16:20Speaker 1: and I think that you know, you can fall at
- 16:22Speaker 1: either one of the extremes. I think most people, I
- 16:24Speaker 1: hope they find a little bit of a balance in
- 16:26Speaker 1: between the two. Maybe you love wearing your Apple watch,
- 16:29Speaker 1: you also love journaling, right, you go for that walk
- 16:32Speaker 1: to help you unwind, and then you have the other
- 16:34Speaker 1: days where you're like, I'm going to push it today
- 16:36Speaker 1: and I really want to see how fast I can
- 16:38Speaker 1: run and how much I can time myself. Right, It's
- 16:40Speaker 1: all about balance.
- 16:41Speaker 3: It's all about balance.
- 16:42Speaker 2: I would say that what I appreciate about mostly twenty
- 16:46Speaker 2: three and twenty four is the hype surrounding soft wellness,
- 16:51Speaker 2: and that it is now something that isn't surprising when
- 16:55Speaker 2: someone says, part of my wellness routine is journaling, or
- 16:58Speaker 2: part of my wellness routine meditating or breathwork or taking
- 17:02Speaker 2: walks in nature, Whereas before it was like, well, what
- 17:05Speaker 2: do you do for your health, and it's like it
- 17:07Speaker 2: has to be an answer like run, bike, whatever you
- 17:10Speaker 2: know the case may be. And so I appreciate that
- 17:12Speaker 2: over the last few years we have accepted soft wellness
- 17:16Speaker 2: as an integral part of our regular wellness routine.
- 17:18Speaker 1: Absolutely, it's the mental health component, right, It's trying to
- 17:22Speaker 1: live more intentionally, slowing down, living more mindfully. And I
- 17:25Speaker 1: just think that it's cool. We have the hard data
- 17:29Speaker 1: to back that up now, right, and in a way
- 17:31Speaker 1: we have now we're starting to see the hard science
- 17:33Speaker 1: around things that we need to be intrinsically true all along,
- 17:36Speaker 1: which is if I stop and take five deep breaths,
- 17:39Speaker 1: maybe I feel a little bit better, you know.
- 17:40Speaker 3: Right exactly. Oh, we love a five deep breath.
- 17:43Speaker 2: I'm a big if I just start to feel like
- 17:45Speaker 2: the world is falling around me and it's not. I'm
- 17:48Speaker 2: sitting at my desk like it's life is okay, I'm fine.
- 17:51Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of four rounds of box breath,
- 17:54Speaker 2: Like I'll just stop dropping box breath all the time.
- 17:56Speaker 2: So for in, hold, for exale, hold and just repeat,
- 18:00Speaker 2: and it truly makes me feel like everything is more doable.
- 18:03Speaker 1: It's so true. That's a good one. That's a good technique. Okay.
- 18:06Speaker 2: In terms of hard wellness, do you have a favorite
- 18:09Speaker 2: way to integrate hard wellness into your routine?
- 18:11Speaker 3: Do you have a Are you an or ring person?
- 18:12Speaker 3: Are you an Apple watch woman? What's up?
- 18:14Speaker 1: I mean I'm an Apple watch woman? Yes, I you know,
- 18:17Speaker 1: it's really funny. I'm such a virgo, but I need
- 18:21Speaker 1: to make sure that I take my Apple Watch off
- 18:23Speaker 1: and I try to make sure that I have one
- 18:25Speaker 1: day a week where I don't wear it, because otherwise
- 18:27Speaker 1: I will start to get really in my head around
- 18:30Speaker 1: making sure I've closed my rings every single day. And
- 18:32Speaker 1: then I realized a while ago that it was like
- 18:36Speaker 1: my mental health suffered on days that I did not
- 18:38Speaker 1: close my rings. And maybe that was a hectic day,
- 18:41Speaker 1: or maybe I was on a flight for six hours,
- 18:43Speaker 1: or you know what I mean. Maybe there were just
- 18:45Speaker 1: things that made it not really possible that day. Yeah,
- 18:47Speaker 1: but then I would like get into my head about it.
- 18:50Speaker 1: And so I have come to a place and this
- 18:52Speaker 1: again is when I talk about finding that balance. I
- 18:54Speaker 1: take my apple Watch off probab usually Sundays, and I
- 18:57Speaker 1: just enjoy not knowing, and it's like and then I
- 19:01Speaker 1: think about, Oh, man, I ran around, I ran after
- 19:04Speaker 1: my kids today. I played at the playground with them.
- 19:07Speaker 1: How do I feel. Do I feel like I got
- 19:08Speaker 1: in some good movement? Yeah? I feel like I did.
- 19:11Speaker 3: Wow.
- 19:11Speaker 2: I am questioning my almost three hundred day Apple Watch
- 19:15Speaker 2: streak at this moment.
- 19:16Speaker 3: I'm wondering if I'm too hard on myself.
- 19:18Speaker 1: They're so seductive though, right, the streaks are, and like
- 19:21Speaker 1: people who have run streaks as well, and I'm not
- 19:23Speaker 1: trying to knock this at all. If you do what's
- 19:25Speaker 1: right for you, right, it's all about fun, It's all
- 19:28Speaker 1: about your personal journey.
- 19:29Speaker 2: Hurdler called In called In left a voicemail the other
- 19:32Speaker 2: day and asked me my perspective on run streaks because
- 19:36Speaker 2: she's been running a lot as a tool to cope
- 19:40Speaker 2: with some difficult stuff in her life. And my response
- 19:42Speaker 2: to her was, if you're doing it in a way
- 19:44Speaker 2: that's responsible, and you feel like you can recover and
- 19:47Speaker 2: it feels good for you, then you can keep going.
- 19:50Speaker 2: But I would advise that maybe you speak to someone
- 19:52Speaker 2: one on one about what you're dealing with so that
- 19:54Speaker 2: we can make sure that you're being safe in your body.
- 19:57Speaker 2: But to your point, everybody's different, Yeah, and so you
- 20:00Speaker 2: need to do the things that enable you to put
- 20:03Speaker 2: your own oxygen mask on first so that you can
- 20:05Speaker 2: then show up, vote for yourself and for the people
- 20:08Speaker 2: that you care about. Okay, hard verset soft wellness. I'm
- 20:10Speaker 2: into it. We both have aspects of both in our routine,
- 20:13Speaker 2: both equally important.
- 20:15Speaker 3: We love to find that balance.
- 20:16Speaker 2: The next thing I want to highlight from the wellness
- 20:18Speaker 2: trends recovery tourism. I did a fair amount of recovery
- 20:22Speaker 2: tourism myself this year.
- 20:24Speaker 1: I love this one because I think that it's a
- 20:27Speaker 1: trend that has been around for a little while, but
- 20:30Speaker 1: we're really talking this year about restorative tourism. So have
- 20:34Speaker 1: you ever come back from a vacation and you feel
- 20:36Speaker 1: like I need a vacation from my vacation. Yes, And
- 20:39Speaker 1: I know this feeling that like maybe and this is
- 20:43Speaker 1: not a wellness thing necessarily, but like you go on
- 20:45Speaker 1: vacation and you're finally like, oh my gosh, I'm away
- 20:47Speaker 1: from the responsibilities in the day to day and then
- 20:50Speaker 1: you just kind of like party hard, you stay up
- 20:52Speaker 1: all night or do you know what I mean. You
- 20:54Speaker 1: may be like you're not actually giving your body a break,
- 20:57Speaker 1: you're not actually vacationing, or maybe you just pack your
- 21:00Speaker 1: day full of activities so you want to check everything
- 21:03Speaker 1: off the bucket list, you want to see every site
- 21:05Speaker 1: in the town that you're in. You want to do
- 21:06Speaker 1: it for the gram, right, And so this is all
- 21:09Speaker 1: about maybe a little bit of a rejection of that,
- 21:12Speaker 1: just like leaning out a little bit more slowing down.
- 21:16Speaker 1: So what if you sleep until eleven am one day?
- 21:18Speaker 1: What if you say, in your hotel room and you
- 21:20Speaker 1: order room service, right, you actually come back from your
- 21:23Speaker 1: vacation feeling truly rested, truly restored, and you know, showing
- 21:29Speaker 1: up like ready then to show up for the people
- 21:31Speaker 1: around you even more.
- 21:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I love this sentiment.
- 21:34Speaker 2: I am someone who when I commit to going on vacation,
- 21:37Speaker 2: I truly try to set it up so I don't
- 21:40Speaker 2: have like any second thoughts about the things that I
- 21:42Speaker 2: want to do. And so a tool that I use
- 21:44Speaker 2: to make sure that my vacations are actually restorative. And
- 21:47Speaker 2: I'm not like, oh, should I have that glass of
- 21:49Speaker 2: wine or should I go get this massage. I'm like, no,
- 21:52Speaker 2: you do exactly what you want to do. And that
- 21:54Speaker 2: is because I have a separate vacation bank account. So
- 21:58Speaker 2: every month I put a certain amount of money into
- 22:00Speaker 2: this separate account, and so by the time that I
- 22:03Speaker 2: finally go on my vacation, I don't think twice. I'm like,
- 22:06Speaker 2: this is exactly what this money is for. And now
- 22:08Speaker 2: I have no qualms about doing the things that I
- 22:11Speaker 2: want to do, and that helps to make it more
- 22:13Speaker 2: restorative instead of like having an inherent amount of guilt.
- 22:16Speaker 2: It's like, well, I'm already in this nice place, and
- 22:18Speaker 2: I already spent this much to come here, and I'm like, no,
- 22:20Speaker 2: but now you're really going to go all in, right?
- 22:22Speaker 1: Yeah? Right. Financial wellness is also one of the trends
- 22:25Speaker 1: that we're looking at this year. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But
- 22:28Speaker 1: the one other thing too that I will add on
- 22:30Speaker 1: that is just from an accessibility perspective. When we talk
- 22:33Speaker 1: about restorative tourism too, we don't even mean that you
- 22:36Speaker 1: have to go somewhere totally exotic, right, Like this could
- 22:39Speaker 1: be a staycation as well. Like this could be you
- 22:42Speaker 1: block off a weekend where you say to yourself, I'm
- 22:44Speaker 1: going to give myself permission to go to bed at
- 22:47Speaker 1: eight pm. Right, I'm going to give myself permission to
- 22:51Speaker 1: enjoy that restorative moment and give myself that break. Maybe
- 22:54Speaker 1: it's like you just slow down, Like I know, sometimes
- 22:56Speaker 1: it's really hard with young kids to do that. But
- 22:59Speaker 1: maybe you make a week d where you don't make
- 23:00Speaker 1: any plans, right, you just try to hang out and
- 23:04Speaker 1: go to bed early, drink lots of water, have some
- 23:06Speaker 1: home cooked meals.
- 23:07Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you're basically talking about my every Sunday
- 23:10Speaker 2: night going to bed at APM. So I am all
- 23:13Speaker 2: about restorative living. Candidly, the dream, the dream EIGHTPM bedtime.
- 23:19Speaker 3: Is oh dream.
- 23:19Speaker 2: Sometimes I just get there and I'm like, it's time.
- 23:22Speaker 2: It's time to crash at APM. But in terms of destinations,
- 23:27Speaker 2: maybe for someone that is interested in embracing recovery tourism,
- 23:31Speaker 2: we've of course addressed that you don't need to go
- 23:33Speaker 2: anywhere exotic. But have you noticed or seen a rise
- 23:36Speaker 2: in any specific locations that people are seeking this recovery vibe?
- 23:39Speaker 1: You know, I don't know that we've seen a huge rise,
- 23:42Speaker 1: but I do think that like the Caribbean and sort
- 23:44Speaker 1: of the tropical places always lend themselves to this type
- 23:47Speaker 1: of travel more than other places. I mean, even however
- 23:51Speaker 1: many you know, more than a decade or so ago
- 23:53Speaker 1: now since e Prey Love right, we've seen that like
- 23:57Speaker 1: people seem to find themselves, or that the tropical locations
- 24:01Speaker 1: seem to lend themselves more to this type of restoration
- 24:05Speaker 1: I guess of the soul and of yourself and maybe
- 24:09Speaker 1: you know, again not to get to woo woo about it,
- 24:11Speaker 1: but sometimes I think like there's a link there with
- 24:14Speaker 1: seeing water, with being on the beach, with being in
- 24:17Speaker 1: a really beautiful location. But look again, if you love
- 24:20Speaker 1: the mountains and you love the cabin in the woods
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- 26:03Speaker 3: Do you, you do you well.
- 26:04Speaker 2: You said that there's a tie here with our money journey,
- 26:08Speaker 2: the emotional relationship that we have with money. I talked
- 26:10Speaker 2: about how I have set some parameters in terms of
- 26:13Speaker 2: travel with my bank accounts. But what else is there
- 26:16Speaker 2: to highlight about our emotional journey with money as a
- 26:19Speaker 2: trend heading into twenty twenty five.
- 26:21Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that we know a lot of people
- 26:22Speaker 1: are nervous about their finances. We've seen from various surveys
- 26:26Speaker 1: that's something like forty three percent of women actively worry
- 26:29Speaker 1: about their finances. We've also seen like the next generation
- 26:32Speaker 1: of you know, Gen Z of people coming up that
- 26:35Speaker 1: they're sort of rejecting a lot of the traditional milestones
- 26:38Speaker 1: in life, like buying a home, having kids, these sort
- 26:41Speaker 1: of really big expenditures potentially because they're they're worried about
- 26:45Speaker 1: their finances. So I think because we're living in that
- 26:49Speaker 1: climate now, we were starting to finally see the reaction
- 26:52Speaker 1: to that, which is people saying we need to take control.
- 26:55Speaker 1: We need to have these conversations around financial onness because
- 26:58Speaker 1: it is so intrinsically linked to your mental health and
- 27:01Speaker 1: to your overall wellbeing. Right Like, if you know where
- 27:03Speaker 1: your next paycheck is coming from, if you know you
- 27:05Speaker 1: can put food on your table, right, you're not living
- 27:08Speaker 1: in a food and secure environment, This is going to
- 27:11Speaker 1: help your mental health so much more, right Like, it's
- 27:14Speaker 1: a no brainer. So I think that I think that
- 27:17Speaker 1: that's really where we are starting to link these financial
- 27:21Speaker 1: conversations to an overall sense of wellness.
- 27:24Speaker 3: How do we get there?
- 27:26Speaker 2: It sounds so great and buzzy and wonderful, right for
- 27:30Speaker 2: so many people they think financial freedom is literally the
- 27:34Speaker 2: biggest goal of my entire being. But for so many
- 27:38Speaker 2: because of so many different considerations, it feels impossible.
- 27:42Speaker 3: So the question is how do we find financial freedom?
- 27:45Speaker 1: Yeah? I think this sounds really boring, But a lot
- 27:48Speaker 1: of the financial advisors that we spoke to for our trends,
- 27:51Speaker 1: they said it starts very simply it starts with a budget. Yeah,
- 27:55Speaker 1: I know, that is the un sexiest advice in the world.
- 27:58Speaker 1: You're like, this is so mundane. We're here to talk
- 27:59Speaker 1: about ten This is not buzzy, but it's so true.
- 28:02Speaker 1: Whether you're going to write it down, whether you want
- 28:05Speaker 1: to keep a spreadsheet on your computer, but keeping track
- 28:08Speaker 1: of what are you spending your money on, how much
- 28:10Speaker 1: do you have to spend every month? If you're looking
- 28:12Speaker 1: to save, where can you cut where can you cut back?
- 28:16Speaker 1: This is something I know personally that you know, I
- 28:19Speaker 1: was very lucky for a while. I had a partner,
- 28:21Speaker 1: we had a dual income, we didn't have kids. And
- 28:24Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, we do have kids, and
- 28:25Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, we are much much much
- 28:27Speaker 1: more conscious of keeping track of that budget every single
- 28:31Speaker 1: month and kind of like doing the boring work right
- 28:35Speaker 1: of saying like, you know what, maybe maybe we don't
- 28:37Speaker 1: do that this month. You know, maybe we save a
- 28:39Speaker 1: little bit, maybe we tuck something away for a vacation fund. Right,
- 28:42Speaker 1: And so then you're making those decisions about what are
- 28:44Speaker 1: the priorities in your life, what's going to serve your
- 28:47Speaker 1: mental well being? Not necessarily in the moment, but for
- 28:50Speaker 1: the long term. Is it better for you to save
- 28:52Speaker 1: a little bit now for that restorative vacation that you
- 28:55Speaker 1: really want to take, or for you to have that
- 28:58Speaker 1: lurge purchase or to out for that class of wine.
- 29:01Speaker 1: And the answer can be different on different days. Right
- 29:03Speaker 1: maybe there is the day where you're like, you know what,
- 29:05Speaker 1: I really need this class of wine. I'm gonna go
- 29:07Speaker 1: I'm going to go out to a restaurant and do
- 29:09Speaker 1: that right now. But it's all about making those decisions.
- 29:11Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely.
- 29:12Speaker 2: I think that as we see with habits too, Sometimes
- 29:15Speaker 2: it's easier to exercise a bad habit because you get
- 29:18Speaker 2: that immediate payoff, whether that is a bad habit like
- 29:21Speaker 2: smoking or a bad habit like alcohol consumption or something.
- 29:25Speaker 2: But in the long term it's not so good. Whereas
- 29:28Speaker 2: good habits are harder to foster. They're harder to commit
- 29:31Speaker 2: to because you might not get that immediate payoff. It's like, Okay,
- 29:34Speaker 2: I go for a run, but I'm still not down
- 29:37Speaker 2: the twenty pounds that I was hoping, and so keeping
- 29:39Speaker 2: running as a part of your active routine might feel
- 29:41Speaker 2: really difficult. The same goes with budgeting and spending. It's
- 29:44Speaker 2: like in that moment that spend might feel really good,
- 29:47Speaker 2: but it might not get you where you want to
- 29:49Speaker 2: be in the long term.
- 29:50Speaker 1: I can appreciate this. Yeah, and it's unsuxy, right. Like
- 29:53Speaker 1: That's the other thing too. It's like when we talk
- 29:55Speaker 1: about habits again, sometimes the framing of it it can
- 29:58Speaker 1: sound a little bit boring. If I call it a
- 30:00Speaker 1: ritual instead, doesn't that make it feel better? Buzzy? Right? Yeah? Right?
- 30:04Speaker 1: But if I told you, like if I said, I
- 30:06Speaker 1: sit down with my Excel sheet and I light a
- 30:08Speaker 1: candle and I have my tea and my ritual of budgeting, right,
- 30:12Speaker 1: do you know what I mean?
- 30:13Speaker 3: It's all of a sudden so sexy at me, so sexy.
- 30:16Speaker 1: So I think you do what you need to do
- 30:18Speaker 1: to kind of like make this possible in your life,
- 30:21Speaker 1: knowing that you're making an investment in your future.
- 30:23Speaker 2: Of note, there's a podcast that I listen to sporadically
- 30:25Speaker 2: called Money with Katie, and Katie has really great budgeting
- 30:28Speaker 2: tools for anyone that is seeking an Excel spreadsheet.
- 30:31Speaker 3: So let's make sure I'm giving Katie a little bit
- 30:33Speaker 3: of love. Unhurdle. I got to give some love to
- 30:35Speaker 3: a fellow podcast I love that I love that.
- 30:37Speaker 2: Okay, So we've talked about money, We've talked about travel,
- 30:40Speaker 2: We've talked about soft versus hard wellness. I want to
- 30:43Speaker 2: talk about the solo journey. This is something I am
- 30:47Speaker 2: heavily integrated in myself. Alone time gets a rebrand, what's
- 30:52Speaker 2: the rebrand? Talk to me about this trend.
- 30:54Speaker 1: This is party of one, right, So we are talking
- 30:57Speaker 1: about celebrating the individual, celebrating time to yourself in an
- 31:02Speaker 1: overbooked and overcrowded world. Right, Really, finding that time to
- 31:07Speaker 1: be by yourself, to be with your thoughts, to look
- 31:09Speaker 1: inward is so so important. I know you're you can
- 31:14Speaker 1: speak about this personally obviously, because you do a lot
- 31:16Speaker 1: of solo travel. On the other hand, for me, I
- 31:20Speaker 1: consider myself to be part of the Sandwich generation, where
- 31:23Speaker 1: I'm caring for older parents and I'm caring for very
- 31:26Speaker 1: young children. And you know, there's the joke among moms
- 31:30Speaker 1: of like locking yourself in the bathroom is like the
- 31:32Speaker 1: only way that you get solo time. But it is
- 31:35Speaker 1: very true that like the only like like finding that time,
- 31:39Speaker 1: carving out that time for myself. For me, it's still
- 31:41Speaker 1: a workout. It's a morning workout and having that time
- 31:44Speaker 1: to myself is so so vital to feel recharged, to
- 31:47Speaker 1: feel like I can come back and show up for
- 31:50Speaker 1: my friends and family. But yeah, we're talking about doing
- 31:53Speaker 1: everything solo right, making those solo restaurant reservations. We know
- 31:56Speaker 1: according to Open Table, they said that solo restaurant dining
- 31:59Speaker 1: is up like twenty nine percent year over year. There's
- 32:02Speaker 1: a huge percentage of people that have also said that
- 32:04Speaker 1: they have booked they're planning to book more than five
- 32:07Speaker 1: solo trips in twenty twenty five. Wow. And then the
- 32:10Speaker 1: other types of solo time too, right, masturbation, just like
- 32:14Speaker 1: enjoying pleasure on your own. I think all of these
- 32:17Speaker 1: things are really important to talk about in our wellness conversation.
- 32:20Speaker 2: In our wellness conversation, I think that the thing that
- 32:23Speaker 2: really clicked for me years ago, and I've been doing
- 32:25Speaker 2: solo travel, solo living for a better part of the
- 32:28Speaker 2: last ten years.
- 32:29Speaker 1: At this point.
- 32:30Speaker 2: But what worked for me was when I stopped viewing
- 32:34Speaker 2: it as though I was doing something wrong because I
- 32:36Speaker 2: couldn't find someone to do the things that I wanted
- 32:39Speaker 2: to do with me. I got tired of being like, well,
- 32:43Speaker 2: I want to go to this place for dinner. I
- 32:44Speaker 2: want to go to this destination. And yes, there are
- 32:47Speaker 2: perks about doing those things with somebody else, but there
- 32:50Speaker 2: are just as many perks when you take the time
- 32:53Speaker 2: to do it on your own.
- 32:54Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I think it's and it can be such
- 32:56Speaker 1: an empowered experience to know that you can do these
- 33:00Speaker 1: things on your own. I think you know something really wonderful,
- 33:02Speaker 1: and I know that you have talked about this, so
- 33:05Speaker 1: I want to hear what you have to say because
- 33:07Speaker 1: something that I get a lot of questions about. And
- 33:09Speaker 1: as we were talking about this trend among the staff,
- 33:11Speaker 1: people were saying, how do I but how do I
- 33:13Speaker 1: go to a restaurant by myself? Like, like, how do
- 33:16Speaker 1: I go in and feel confident? Like telling the waiter
- 33:18Speaker 1: and like nope, just me And I think, and I
- 33:21Speaker 1: know this is something that you have posted about before,
- 33:23Speaker 1: so I'd love to hear your.
- 33:24Speaker 3: Advice on this.
- 33:25Speaker 2: I'm like, Amy, do you want me to set up
- 33:27Speaker 2: a solo date for you? Because I can give you
- 33:29Speaker 2: all of the parameters for me there are. It depends
- 33:32Speaker 2: on the date because sometimes it's the end of the
- 33:35Speaker 2: day and I'm coming from like point A to point
- 33:37Speaker 2: A or point B. But I decide, like I really
- 33:39Speaker 2: want to treat myself, and so I'll take myself out
- 33:42Speaker 2: to dinner and then I will like have my phone
- 33:44Speaker 2: with me at dinner. But if it's something that I
- 33:46Speaker 2: can plan far enough in advance, and maybe I say, today,
- 33:50Speaker 2: I'm looking at my calendar for the next three weeks.
- 33:52Speaker 2: I actually have three different trips for work in the
- 33:54Speaker 2: next three weeks.
- 33:55Speaker 1: It's going to be a bit hectic.
- 33:56Speaker 3: I'm going to when I'm in Austin.
- 33:59Speaker 2: Next week on Wednesday night, take myself to dinner at
- 34:03Speaker 2: this restaurant that was featured on Chef's Table. Okay, cool,
- 34:07Speaker 2: I know this. I'm excited about going there for dinner.
- 34:09Speaker 2: When I'm there, I'm probably going to go with a
- 34:12Speaker 2: book or with my journal so that I can write
- 34:14Speaker 2: and be like where I'm at and be where my
- 34:17Speaker 2: feed are. And also I want to be open to
- 34:19Speaker 2: what's happening around me, because I think that that is
- 34:22Speaker 2: such a critical component of doing things on your own,
- 34:25Speaker 2: is truly being immersed in the experience. And if you're
- 34:28Speaker 2: going to sit there and you're going to scroll on
- 34:30Speaker 2: your phone or you're going to be looking at social media,
- 34:32Speaker 2: then in my eyes, it's kind of like, what's the
- 34:35Speaker 2: point now. I do recognize that there needs to be
- 34:39Speaker 2: a entry point, right, So, if you are someone who
- 34:44Speaker 2: is getting accustomed to the idea of spending time on
- 34:47Speaker 2: your own, you might go to dinner by yourself. And
- 34:50Speaker 2: that's a huge step as it is, so maybe you
- 34:52Speaker 2: will use your phone, but I would encourage you as
- 34:55Speaker 2: you get more comfortable with this idea of doing things
- 34:58Speaker 2: one on one with yourself, that you just spend the
- 35:01Speaker 2: time with yourself truly, don't involve anyone else into your experience.
- 35:04Speaker 3: This is your time, it's your gift.
- 35:07Speaker 1: I totally agree, and I love that you talk about,
- 35:10Speaker 1: you know, journaling and or having a book with you,
- 35:13Speaker 1: but doing something that's not on your phone. I think
- 35:17Speaker 1: that it is It does allow you to be more present.
- 35:19Speaker 1: You're more likely to kind of look up, consider the
- 35:22Speaker 1: atmosphere around you, enjoy. Right, You're probably in a beautiful
- 35:25Speaker 1: location and a beautiful restaurant, and I think that it's
- 35:29Speaker 1: so important. I mean, and the other thing allded to
- 35:30Speaker 1: that too is through that process, then being more present
- 35:35Speaker 1: as you're eating and taking the time to really enjoy
- 35:38Speaker 1: the flavor and the taste of your food and appreciate
- 35:41Speaker 1: all of the hard work that went into preparing that meal.
- 35:43Speaker 1: That kind of mindful eating can also just be a
- 35:45Speaker 1: really wonderful experience.
- 35:47Speaker 2: My favorite thing about solo travel also is like the
- 35:49Speaker 2: people that you meet along the way and just being
- 35:51Speaker 2: open to your surroundings. I have a crazy story. I
- 35:55Speaker 2: have gone to Florence a handful of times now. It
- 35:58Speaker 2: started on the first trip with my family, and I've
- 36:00Speaker 2: since been back three or four times on my own.
- 36:03Speaker 1: And I have these spots that.
- 36:04Speaker 2: I go to every time I'm in Italy, and one
- 36:08Speaker 2: of them is this small panini shop near the ponte
- 36:10Speaker 2: Vecchio called Eno. It's owned by this adorable man named Alessandro.
- 36:15Speaker 2: I The last time I was there was maybe a
- 36:18Speaker 2: year ago. I'm just like, I'm not positive, but maybe
- 36:21Speaker 2: let's say it was a year ago. And him and
- 36:22Speaker 2: I follow each other on Instagram, et cetera. I am
- 36:26Speaker 2: walking on Tuesday night of this week by Italy in
- 36:30Speaker 2: Madison Square Park and I'm on the phone and I
- 36:34Speaker 2: hear my name and it is Alessandro from Eno. He's like, Emily, like,
- 36:40Speaker 2: oh my god, Lauren, I must go. When I hang
- 36:42Speaker 2: up my call, and I'm like, what are you doing here?
- 36:44Speaker 2: And it was just like such like I felt like
- 36:47Speaker 2: I was in a movie. I was like, who's filming this?
- 36:49Speaker 2: Who's here? But he's so cute. He's here for work.
- 36:52Speaker 2: He's opening up an eno in Los Angeles. So everyone's
- 36:54Speaker 2: stay tuned. He told me, gave me the life update.
- 36:57Speaker 2: But I was like, this is what's so magical about
- 37:00Speaker 2: being where your feet are and meeting new people, And
- 37:02Speaker 2: just like it was, Yeah, that was wild.
- 37:04Speaker 1: It's really cool. That is an amazing story. It's because Mett, like,
- 37:07Speaker 1: that's that's so cool. And I think again to your point, like,
- 37:11Speaker 1: it's only when you start to slow down. It's only
- 37:13Speaker 1: when you start to sort of you know, open yourself
- 37:15Speaker 1: up and I think, like live a bit more intentionally
- 37:18Speaker 1: that you start to see these connections on your journey
- 37:21Speaker 1: right on your on your on your actual literal journey
- 37:23Speaker 1: to Florence and back to New York, but on a
- 37:26Speaker 1: more you know, metaphoric sense too.
- 37:29Speaker 2: And now for our last trend, we are going to
- 37:32Speaker 2: talk about the nature journey. Society embraces biophilia. Tell us
- 37:37Speaker 2: what biophilia is.
- 37:38Speaker 1: Yeah, biophilia is just a love of nature, right, so
- 37:43Speaker 1: you know, we know that going out into nature helps
- 37:46Speaker 1: us heal. I think we know that on an intrinsic level,
- 37:50Speaker 1: like deep down, that when we go outside and we
- 37:52Speaker 1: see trees and we see birds and we breathe some
- 37:55Speaker 1: fresh air, that we feel better and we actually now,
- 37:57Speaker 1: of course, we have a lot of hard you know,
- 37:59Speaker 1: sign it's a lot of hard data to kind of
- 38:01Speaker 1: back this up. I think during the COVID pandemic, for example,
- 38:06Speaker 1: people really did start to discover again the wonder of
- 38:09Speaker 1: being outside and the beauty of like being out in nature,
- 38:12Speaker 1: and that is a trend that we have not seen
- 38:15Speaker 1: slow down in a post pandemic world. We know that
- 38:18Speaker 1: people are going outside now more than ever. I think,
- 38:23Speaker 1: you know, from a brain perspective, right, like humans from
- 38:27Speaker 1: an evolutionary perspective, have spent like ninety nine percent of
- 38:30Speaker 1: their evolutionary lives like living outdoors, and now all of
- 38:33Speaker 1: a sudden, we spend ninety percent of our time indoors,
- 38:36Speaker 1: and our brains haven't really caught up, Like they're still
- 38:38Speaker 1: craving to see that green space, to see that nature.
- 38:41Speaker 1: So I think this is a trend that we've seen
- 38:43Speaker 1: growing over the past couple of years, and I think
- 38:46Speaker 1: it's just going to continue to take off.
- 38:48Speaker 2: Yeah, I think for me, I often start my day
- 38:51Speaker 2: with a run outside, but even after that moment, I
- 38:54Speaker 2: have established it for myself that I need to be
- 38:57Speaker 2: outside before I come back in and be at my
- 38:59Speaker 2: dad and in a slower capacity. Like it's one thing
- 39:02Speaker 2: to be sprinting past a certain landmark near my apartment,
- 39:06Speaker 2: but it's a completely different thing to like get outside
- 39:09Speaker 2: and be like and like literally just take a deep
- 39:12Speaker 2: breath and be like, Okay, this is my five minutes
- 39:14Speaker 2: in nature. And I'm using air quotes because my nature
- 39:16Speaker 2: in Brooklyn is very different than nature nature, but it's
- 39:19Speaker 2: what I have, and it's what's available to me, and
- 39:21Speaker 2: it helps me feel like my best self. So that
- 39:24Speaker 2: again we talked about this before my oxygen mask is on,
- 39:26Speaker 2: and then I can help everybody else with what they've
- 39:28Speaker 2: got going on.
- 39:29Speaker 1: Yeah, and you actually you bring up such a great
- 39:30Speaker 1: point too, because it's you don't have to go far, right.
- 39:34Speaker 1: We talk about living in this urban jungle or whatever, right,
- 39:37Speaker 1: but we also know that just having a water element
- 39:40Speaker 1: in your apartment, just having a plant in your apartment,
- 39:43Speaker 1: like having these little elements of nature, maybe you're starting
- 39:45Speaker 1: to put up a Christmas tree. I don't mean it's me,
- 39:48Speaker 1: but like, these are the things that will improve your mood.
- 39:51Speaker 1: They will help to kind of like reset your mind
- 39:53Speaker 1: a little bit. We all know plant parents and the
- 39:56Speaker 1: joy that they get from taking care of those plants.
- 39:58Speaker 3: You know.
- 39:59Speaker 1: I read something the other day that it was like
- 40:01Speaker 1: the hiking economy is going to reach something like an
- 40:04Speaker 1: estimated nine point one billion globally by twenty twenty eight.
- 40:07Speaker 1: So people are craving this and there, and consumers are
- 40:11Speaker 1: willing to invest in it. Right, So just you know,
- 40:13Speaker 1: again speaking from a little bit more of the business
- 40:15Speaker 1: side of things, we know that this is something that
- 40:17Speaker 1: people care very deeply about because they're willing to spend
- 40:20Speaker 1: like their hard earned money on it.
- 40:22Speaker 2: What do you when you think about the year to come,
- 40:26Speaker 2: and you think about your hard earned money, and you
- 40:28Speaker 2: think about everything we've just talked on, is there a
- 40:32Speaker 2: certain aspect or a certain thing that you're more likely
- 40:35Speaker 2: to invest in in twenty twenty five?
- 40:40Speaker 1: You know, I think it is. I think it's going
- 40:42Speaker 1: to be experiences and time with my family. I think
- 40:47Speaker 1: if I could attach myself to one of the trends,
- 40:49Speaker 1: I would say that I might try to go for
- 40:51Speaker 1: the biophilia one, just like getting outdoors more often, be
- 40:55Speaker 1: more present with them in outdoor places, and getting outside
- 40:58Speaker 1: of our time. You know, we live in New York, say,
- 41:00Speaker 1: getting outside of our tiny apartment. And I am also
- 41:03Speaker 1: such a baby in the winter. I'm from Florida originally,
- 41:07Speaker 1: so when the temperature drops below like sixty, I'm just like, well,
- 41:10Speaker 1: I'm indoors until May of next year. So I think
- 41:14Speaker 1: it's also just about like me getting outside of my
- 41:16Speaker 1: actual comfort zone to go outside, to embrace the cold
- 41:20Speaker 1: air in the cold weather, and to play, right, play
- 41:24Speaker 1: a little.
- 41:24Speaker 3: Bit more, play a little bit more.
- 41:26Speaker 2: I have to know before I let you go today,
- 41:28Speaker 2: when you guys are solidifying these wellness trends, like what's
- 41:31Speaker 2: that look like? Is there a debate who is like
- 41:34Speaker 2: advocating for a certain one? Do things get shoved to
- 41:37Speaker 2: the side, like how does this work for us? Oh?
- 41:38Speaker 1: Wow, things absolutely get shoved to the side. There are
- 41:42Speaker 1: so many trends that I think like could have gone
- 41:45Speaker 1: into this or things that we're also kind of keeping
- 41:47Speaker 1: on the periphery that we're keeping an eye on that
- 41:49Speaker 1: are not part of our consolidated list this year, but
- 41:52Speaker 1: that you know, might make an appearance on the website
- 41:55Speaker 1: throughout next year, throughout twenty twenty five. But there's a
- 41:57Speaker 1: lot of research that goes into it. There's you know,
- 41:59Speaker 1: a lot of this is so nerdy, this is so geeky.
- 42:02Speaker 3: I'm ready.
- 42:03Speaker 1: But there are a lot of you know, research and
- 42:06Speaker 1: sort of like brand groups that are doing these kinds
- 42:09Speaker 1: of insights into consumer behavior, into spending patterns, you know,
- 42:14Speaker 1: looking at all kinds of global market trends, and yeah,
- 42:18Speaker 1: and we're digging into that research. It's kind of it's
- 42:20Speaker 1: kind of nerdy, it's kind of geeky, it's very it's
- 42:22Speaker 1: very B to B feeling. But that's that's genuinely how
- 42:25Speaker 1: we look at trends.
- 42:26Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. It's so interesting.
- 42:28Speaker 1: I just imagine it intuition, right, because we're journalists, and
- 42:32Speaker 1: so there's also this like guts feeling about it. I'll
- 42:34Speaker 1: add that as the last one too.
- 42:36Speaker 2: I like envision it being like a big conference room
- 42:38Speaker 2: and everyone is like, I think this is a trend,
- 42:40Speaker 2: now I think this is the trend, and going back
- 42:42Speaker 2: and forth. But then like also the terminology like hard
- 42:45Speaker 2: versus soft wellness. I was sitting down with one of
- 42:49Speaker 2: your writers. The other day, CR Lucas and we were
- 42:51Speaker 2: talking and she was telling me about this concept, and
- 42:54Speaker 2: I was like, I've never heard it called soft wellness before,
- 42:57Speaker 2: and I appreciate whoever came together and grouped it in
- 43:00Speaker 2: that way.
- 43:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. I love it. Yeah, it's like
- 43:02Speaker 1: I mean, you know, as editors, we're always kind of
- 43:05Speaker 1: trying to package things and to put a word on
- 43:10Speaker 1: a thing in a way that will make it feel
- 43:11Speaker 1: appropriate and digestible and accessible and accessible.
- 43:14Speaker 2: Well, I'm so happy that you were able to come
- 43:16Speaker 2: through the studio today and talk to me about these trends.
- 43:18Speaker 2: For those that want to either follow along with you,
- 43:21Speaker 2: follow along with Well and Good, give them the details
- 43:24Speaker 2: so that they can keep up.
- 43:26Speaker 1: So all of the trends will be on Well Andgood
- 43:29Speaker 1: dot com. You can find us on Instagram at I
- 43:32Speaker 1: Am Well and Good and you can find me on
- 43:35Speaker 1: Instagram at a I Singer.
- 43:37Speaker 2: Don't say it like a question like that, like I
- 43:39Speaker 2: want to find you and your cute kids and your
- 43:42Speaker 2: cute outdoor wellness routines on the socials.
- 43:45Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you can find me there at a I
- 43:48Speaker 1: Singer and our trends are out in December beautiful.
- 43:52Speaker 3: I love it.
- 43:53Speaker 2: I'm over at Emilybody and at Hurdle Podcast another hurdle conquered.
- 43:57Speaker 1: Catch you guys next time.
- 44:00Speaker 2: An in the d