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- 0:00Welcome to TKO Talk Radio! Thank you for listening!
- 0:21Good morning and welcome to Points
- 0:24of View on Teachers Talk Radio with myself, Liz, Carl, Ray and Lucy.
- 0:30This morning we are talking about quite a hot topic in education generally,
- 0:35in the country generally, which affects young people and it will naturally feed
- 0:40into schools so we thought we'd talk about it this morning.
- 0:42So the House of Lords is back to move to ban under 16s in the UK from social media platforms.
- 0:48By 261 votes to 150, opposition peers voted to support a ban through an amendment
- 0:54to the government's schools bill.
- 0:55The government, however, has indicated it will try to overturn the amendment
- 0:59in the Commons whilst it holds its own consultation on a potential ban.
- 1:04What are everyone's thoughts on this move? It's really gained momentum this week.
- 1:11We feel like we've been talking about something similar for a while,
- 1:13But all of a sudden it feels quite serious and impending and quick.
- 1:20Well, I mean, I'm always happy to start. So I support this wholeheartedly.
- 1:26My children are all adults now. I've said before on this show,
- 1:30I've got two sons, 27 and 24 and a 19-year-old daughter, and they refer to her as the iPad generation.
- 1:38And she's not even, she wasn't even in the thick of it, if you see what I mean,
- 1:43because it's the kids now that are the real iPad generation.
- 1:47You know, from the time they're in their push chairs and prams,
- 1:49they've got a screen in front of them.
- 1:51And I do understand it when you're out and about and you need to get on with things.
- 1:55I do understand that temptation, but we know that children are picking up books
- 2:00in classrooms at school and trying to swipe them and things because they don't know what books are.
- 2:04And this of course leads on to the next thing and the next thing.
- 2:07And so children are getting social media younger and younger.
- 2:11They're getting around all the controls in terms of you have to be 13.
- 2:14I think one of my sons might be celebrating something like his 30th birthday
- 2:18now because he signed up before he was at the right age.
- 2:22And so he's now about 30 when he's actually not because all you had to do is type in your name.
- 2:27The difference is back then when they were looking into it, there was no algorithm.
- 2:31There were no, it was just what.
- 2:33Somebody else posted that you read and
- 2:36we know now that it's completely different and and
- 2:39it's the algorithm rhythms have been deliberately designed
- 2:43to make this addictive and what they do
- 2:45is they start off with something so say if you look at i'm trying to pick a
- 2:50topic that's not that's not within children but say if it's looking at celebrities
- 2:54and and how they look and and it transgresses to how they become sithin what
- 2:59treatments are they getting what what diet are they eating?
- 3:03How did they lose so much weight for it? And before you know it,
- 3:06those kids have been shown and introduced to concepts of weight,
- 3:11of vanity, of appearance, and given a false impression of how they should look.
- 3:16And you can see it in classrooms. You can see it amongst young girls in particular, but even young boys.
- 3:22You know, girls who are getting, I remember a student of mine used to get up
- 3:25at five in the morning and she was so tired because she had to put her makeup
- 3:28on and she had the kind of stuff that you would put on for a once-in-a-year party.
- 3:34You know, this was your regular daily look in case someone took a photo.
- 3:38And it's damaging children. It's causing them harm because at the other end
- 3:41of the day, she would have been sat there the night before scrolling and scrolling
- 3:45and scrolling because there's another video or there's another article or there's
- 3:49something else and it's quick and it comes up.
- 3:51And it's taking young people's opportunity to...
- 3:56To get lost in their own world because
- 3:59they're being shown into other worlds and so for that
- 4:02reason I entirely support this ban it's
- 4:05no good for young people's mental health if I had my
- 4:08own way I'm an avid user of Twitter I'm on there typing stuff
- 4:12in and you know posting stuff all the time I I
- 4:16couldn't give it up but I wish it never started I wish I'd never joined and
- 4:20I don't I haven't joined other than Facebook I've got Instagram but I won't
- 4:24use it and I won't use any other I won't go on to TikTok or any of it now because
- 4:28I just feel it's like a Pandora's box and once you've opened it it's just so
- 4:33hard to get out and I'm an adult.
- 4:35I mean I love that you said that
- 4:38it's taking their opportunity to get lost in their own world way because I think
- 4:41there are two main issues there's the content of social media which is damaging
- 4:46and then that splits off there's the actual damaging content that they're being
- 4:50exposed to that they shouldn't it's the way that it influences their views of
- 4:54themselves and the world around them.
- 4:56There's the addiction element of it and the dopamine kicks and the fact that
- 5:00these apps are engineered to...
- 5:02Manipulate that and take advantage of it. But then there's the opportunity cost of social media.
- 5:06If they're scrolling TikTok, they're not outside. They're not socializing in the real world.
- 5:11It takes away so much of what is so important at a crucial developmental stage.
- 5:17These young people have to learn how to engage face-to-face socially with individuals
- 5:24and groups and people in different places.
- 5:26And if you're online, you're not doing any of those things.
- 5:31And so many people like i'm on i'm on i am on facebook because i'm old and it's
- 5:38more old right then it doesn't leave a lot of hope for me i'll ask my students
- 5:42the first to tell you yeah i miss you look like you'd be on facebook well i am.
- 5:47I'm in a lot of local facebook groups because i think they're hilarious like
- 5:52sometimes they're useful right sometimes it's useful information for the community
- 5:56but 90 of the time it's just,
- 5:59hysterics I scroll these local Facebook groups because it just it's so
- 6:02funny it's the conversations anyway it's it's a
- 6:04laugh but a lot of the posts on the these these local Facebook groups where
- 6:10old people are complaining about things is you know so many are there was a
- 6:16group of youths outside and these boys in the park and he's gotten like yeah
- 6:20sometimes they're actually doing things that they shouldn't be doing but,
- 6:23I love it. I love like when I'm walking around, and maybe this is because I
- 6:26work in a secondary school and I'm not scared of teenagers, but when I'm walking
- 6:30around and I see groups of young people, no matter what they look like,
- 6:33what they're wearing, et cetera,
- 6:35just outside or BMXing in the park or hanging around in a corner and talking
- 6:41to each other, I'm so happy about that.
- 6:45If they don't have their phones in their hand when they're congregating and
- 6:48socializing, I'm like, yes, that's a win.
- 6:51Because you see it so much less often now than you did 10, 15 years ago.
- 6:59I first got here in 2010. So that's kind of my only point of reference for this country.
- 7:03But it feels rare that you see a group of youths.
- 7:08Loitering outside without phones in
- 7:11their hand i don't give them monkeys what they're loitering as long
- 7:14as they don't have their phones and they're not scrolling i'm like great cool you're
- 7:17being teenagers and there's all this data now
- 7:20about and i'm about to say something it's probably get me in real trouble as
- 7:23a teacher but why stop now there's so much data saying that like teenage drug
- 7:30use and teenage alcohol use is plummeting and i'm like it's because they're
- 7:34not they're not getting drunk in a field with their friends like what's the point of being
- 7:38a teenager in this country if you can't get pissed in a field with your friends
- 7:41isn't that the point of being a teenager in the uk so these kids are not and
- 7:45so there are benefits of it i guess.
- 7:48But at the same time i'm like you're missing you're missing valuable not to
- 7:53say every 15 year old needs to go to the park with a bottle of wine but for
- 7:56god's sake please go outside please socialize please make real life questionable
- 8:01decisions please learn please grow oh,
- 8:05please have these experiences that we all had when we were young because it's part of growing up.
- 8:11And I just feel like so many things are being taken away from them,
- 8:14the good and the bad, because of their phone addictions and they just want to
- 8:20sit in their house and scroll.
- 8:21But I'm going to keep talking and then I will shut up, I promise.
- 8:23The other side of this, right, it's not just the social media.
- 8:28It's the parenting and the parenting. I will always come back to the parents.
- 8:33And I'm not even talking about the parents not monitoring their social media use or their screen use.
- 8:39I'm talking about the culture of parents helicoptering and micromanaging and
- 8:43feeling that they need to know where their kid is every second of every day
- 8:45and not allowing them out of their sight.
- 8:47So what we actually have in this country is a mixture of social media and screen
- 8:52addiction, which is warping our brains.
- 8:54Every study shows that. And the younger you are, the worse it is.
- 8:57And combined with that, we have a culture of...
- 9:00Like parents see themselves at the center of this panopticon where they have
- 9:04to monitor all of their children constantly and they're absolutely terrified
- 9:08of giving their kids any kind of freedom.
- 9:10So no, they're not getting pissed in a park because they're on TikTok,
- 9:13but also their parents never let them out of their sight anyway.
- 9:15So they don't have any freedom. They don't have any ability to learn and grow
- 9:22on their own and develop any kind of independence. They're literally trapped
- 9:25in their houses in the room.
- 9:26So these two things feed off each other, right? Parents look at social media
- 9:29and they get scared of the world.
- 9:31So they lock their kids in their house. Kids get locked in their house.
- 9:33They spend more time on social media.
- 9:34And it's just like the whole thing just snowballs. And then you have these kids
- 9:38that come to school and they don't know how to function with other people their own age.
- 9:44They don't know how to problem solve. They don't know how to resolve conflicts.
- 9:46They don't know how they don't haven't developed any sort of social skills because
- 9:50the only time they're in a social
- 9:51environment is when they're in school monitored by staff who are also in.
- 9:58Like there's increased pressure on staff to monitor kids every
- 10:01second of every day because of safeguarding so they're never
- 10:04like they're never out of sight they're never allowed to
- 10:07just exist and learn themselves the the
- 10:10they're never let off the lead so that's my
- 10:13thought on it the whole thing can i ask a question there is an argument out
- 10:17there that allowing young people to explore social media whilst they're still
- 10:25at school enables school to support them to learn how to negotiate that risk.
- 10:33So there was an article recently in the TES which made this point that it's
- 10:38the only place where young people could negotiate the world of social media,
- 10:45but also have the support of responsible adults that will give them advice and
- 10:50guidance to understand how to use it in a responsible way.
- 10:55How would you respond to that argument?
- 10:58Well, I think I've got a view on that. There is one teacher,
- 11:03roughly to 30 students in a school, that's going to break down to something like that.
- 11:09How many of those students are going to reach out?
- 11:12Probably the ones who are asking for a second opinion, having spoken to their
- 11:16parents, not the children who have no one to speak to and aren't used to speaking
- 11:20to anybody and don't trust other people, i.e.
- 11:23Teachers. so I read that article and
- 11:26none of it gelled I genuinely I felt
- 11:30as though the writer had been told could you write an alternative
- 11:33view on this because nobody seems to be able to
- 11:36come up with a reason for young people to be on social media and he's thought
- 11:40could greet the most tenuous link is that teachers can guide them through it
- 11:45because very few very few young people are going to a teacher and saying I just
- 11:49wonder should I stop looking before I you know see something I shouldn't They're just not doing that.
- 11:54So for me, no, I don't think schools are the place to do that.
- 11:57And let's not forget that young people are supposed to be in school,
- 12:01education or some sort of training or employment until they're 18.
- 12:05So if they get it at 16, there's still going to be an environment where if that
- 12:10really was something they needed, they could access it. And I'll stop there.
- 12:14I find that a really, like, like you say, Lucy, I find it quite tenuous because
- 12:19obviously we teach about a lot of things like drug use, alcohol use, things like that.
- 12:24We're not encouraging them to go out and use it in order to find out whether
- 12:28or not it's good for, you know, so I don't think they need to use social media
- 12:31for us to be able to teach them about the dangers of those things.
- 12:36It I mean it's do you know what it's it isn't
- 12:39even just the social elements of it I think that are problematic I think it
- 12:45has absolutely changed their brain chemistry and the way that they learn like
- 12:50for us in education I saw a video on social media ironically about about it this week about.
- 12:58Effectively the dumbing down of education and what
- 13:00has happened as a result because we're dealing with young people who
- 13:04deal with everything in such bite-sized chunks
- 13:07because the longest video that they're looking at
- 13:10quite often is a minute long 60 seconds and so their attention spans have become
- 13:15so low and I did I did an activity with my year 11s last week and it was a 10
- 13:22minute activity which I think is a reasonable chunk of time like to chunk down
- 13:26some learning so it was a 10-minute activity,
- 13:29right, this is a task, explained it, set them off.
- 13:32I did not have them on task for 10 minutes. They were gone within 90 seconds.
- 13:36And so I spoke to one of my colleagues and she suggested chunking it down even further.
- 13:41So what I did was I broke it down and I broke, so it was annotation of a poem.
- 13:47And so I broke it down into 30 seconds, look at the title, 90 seconds, consider the context.
- 13:54Two minutes, look at the first stanza, two minutes, look at the second stanza
- 13:57they did stay on task better but I was like what have I done the exam's an hour
- 14:04and 45 minutes the exam is an hour and 45 minutes.
- 14:08Two hours and 15, one of them, two hours and 15. We can't do this.
- 14:13It's absolutely insane. And it just, it makes me understand why they say everything's
- 14:18boring because they're not getting the dopamine hit from us because we're asking
- 14:25for too much of their attention for too long.
- 14:27So it obviously, like I'm not minimizing any of the absolutely catastrophic
- 14:33effects on depression, like mental health.
- 14:36Like we've got the highest levels of mental health issues among
- 14:38young people that we've ever had of course social media is playing an absolutely
- 14:41massive part in that but they also are
- 14:45seeing school as this absolutely horrendous place
- 14:48that they're suffering because they're not getting their dopamine hits because
- 14:52of what social media has done to their brain chemistry but what really frustrates
- 14:56me is and I do agree with you right I do think it does start at home I think
- 15:00as parents I mean the irony of this is that I'm keeping my child occupied on
- 15:04a screen right now while I'm.
- 15:06I will take it away after it's over I promise there's a time and a place it's fine and but.
- 15:14So why is nobody cracking down on the companies that are actually the ones creating this problem?
- 15:22Like nobody's regulating them. Nobody's making sure that they are not pushing
- 15:27this harmful content onto young people.
- 15:29There was a family, wasn't there, of the young girl who took her life who was
- 15:33suing Instagram, I think, because they blamed the company for pushing the suicide ideation.
- 15:42Molly Russell I think is the case Yes I think that was it Carl and I agree with
- 15:48that family I understand why they blame social media,
- 15:51for that because what was the documentary with Matt and Emma Willis where I
- 15:56think they joined fresh they said that they were young people and I think it
- 16:01was within half an hour in their algorithm was suicide ideation,
- 16:05like even though they hadn't looked at anything remotely linked
- 16:09to that it was still pushed into their algorithm and they were
- 16:11being fed information on that you just think it's it
- 16:15is so dangerous as a
- 16:17medium what i fully support ban what what about those who say that social media
- 16:25is a lifesaver for young people who would otherwise feel completely isolated
- 16:32from their peer group young people who suffer from.
- 16:38Social anxiety, young people who have various mental health conditions,
- 16:44which mean that social media is their only means of escaping from what is otherwise
- 16:51a particularly cold and unfeeling world.
- 16:55And it acts as a prop to keep them connected to people who are feeling similar
- 17:01to themselves or able to support them. What about that argument?
- 17:05Because I've come across people who fiercely have
- 17:08defend social media for under 16
- 17:11on the grounds that their child
- 17:14went through a period like this and social media was was in their words a bit
- 17:20of a lifesaver i get that and i also sorry lisa no no no you go i promise i
- 17:27get that and i also get you know i've taught a number of students i was ahead
- 17:30of you for eight years so i know we'll.
- 17:33Spoken to a lot of students about this outside of the classroom.
- 17:36I've taught a lot of students,
- 17:39particularly queer students, LGBT students who grew up in extremely rigid or
- 17:46conservative with a small c or unwelcoming, unaccepting homes.
- 17:54And if it weren't for social media and connecting with people and realizing
- 17:57that there was actually hope and there was a world out there where they could
- 18:00be themselves and be happy, and they just needed to get there,
- 18:03they would have been in a very dark place or worse.
- 18:06I'm well aware that for some students, particularly if their daily lives are extremely difficult,
- 18:13social media can absolutely be a lifeline, and it can connect everybody,
- 18:18including young people, to information that's valuable, individuals that's valuable.
- 18:22It can give them a wider worldview. It can kind of get them out of their lives in a good way.
- 18:29But I think we have to look at the numbers and I think we have to look at the
- 18:34overall impact and I think we have to try to make decisions based on the biggest picture.
- 18:41And that sounds really horrible.
- 18:43And I'm aware of that. I'm aware that a ban for under-16s would take that lifeline
- 18:48away from some students. So maybe there's some compromise or some nuance that
- 18:54needs to be looked into. However...
- 18:58I just, I feel like there are bigger issues and, you know, the rewiring of our
- 19:02brains and the impact that is having on our ability to function,
- 19:07I feel needs to take priority right now.
- 19:11So I want to come back on that in a second, Carl, because it's a really good question.
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- 19:58And I'll be really brief on that the question that you posed about young people
- 20:03who might be in ice you know living in isolation because of their their sort
- 20:08of you know issues their social anxieties and things like that and and I just
- 20:13wanted to say before we look at Neil's comment I just wanted to say that.
- 20:18Those children are probably some of the most vulnerable children in our society
- 20:22and probably the children we most need to protect in some ways from the harms
- 20:29of social media because if they're struggling with communications in the real world,
- 20:35then probably going online, they're more open to manipulation.
- 20:39There's a very creepy person on social media,
- 20:43I don't know what site but I see from time to time who says
- 20:47they're their friend I'm your friend don't forget
- 20:50I'm your friend and I'm here for you and you don't have to talk to your parents
- 20:55because I'm in it's really creepy and yet I can see how for some young people
- 21:00they would really really buy into it I mean I was talking to my son last night
- 21:05about things that I rabbit holes I went down in terms of books You know,
- 21:09I read a book called The Borables, a series of books, and these kids had run
- 21:13away from home and they lived in sheds and garages.
- 21:16And I wanted to sleep in our garage.
- 21:18I mean, when young people, they immerse, well, I did anyway,
- 21:21completely immerse themselves in things.
- 21:23And so that would really concern me. I didn't know if somebody wanted to respond
- 21:28to Neil's comment, because I think it's quite a pertinent comment,
- 21:31to be fair. Has anyone got anything?
- 21:33Well, let's read it.
- 21:37If people are listening. Neil has said, if teachers do not respond to the child
- 21:41that's in front of them, for example, their attention span, then they are fighting
- 21:45a losing fight from the start.
- 21:46The problem is that by doing that, we are actually colluding with the lack of
- 21:48attention span. Neil's comment.
- 21:52I think that's a fair comment. I think that's true. But how do we break the cycle?
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- 22:43he's added something there social media marijuana can relieve anxiety carl but
- 22:48that doesn't make it good for teenagers.
- 22:50We keep making the mistake that we think a phone is harmless.
- 22:53Just to be clear, I'm not necessarily saying that these are my views,
- 22:58putting forward views that I've heard, because I think it's important that in
- 23:01this discussion we address those points of view as well.
- 23:05I just want to throw in something. Sorry, Liz, I'll be very quick.
- 23:08I promise you. That's right.
- 23:11When I was young, back in the Jurassic period, we had a lot of people saying
- 23:20very similar things about people watching television.
- 23:25And me and probably most young people of my age, when I was about sort of 11
- 23:31or 12, would get up on a Saturday morning and invariably sit and watch TV,
- 23:36unless there was anything interesting happening otherwise.
- 23:39We'd sit and watch tv from sort of like 10
- 23:42o'clock in the morning through to possibly early
- 23:46evening and then our parents would come and watch a bit of tv could
- 23:49be watching tv for for 10 12 hours a day and the argument that was thrown forward
- 23:55routinely was young people's attention spans have dropped considerably it's
- 24:01affecting their ability they've got square eyes they can't possibly focus on the world.
- 24:08And in fact, what's happened is that to the best of my knowledge, my eyes aren't square.
- 24:14So I'm just putting the argument that some people may say that this is just
- 24:20another classic rehash of middle-aged moral panic because they're a bit frightened
- 24:27about the things that in the modern world are happening.
- 24:30And whereas they used to moan about TV and punk rockers, now it's people on
- 24:35social media and algorithms.
- 24:37What do you think about that viewpoint? I feel, right, so I hate sounding like
- 24:46some old art who hates everything new and young.
- 24:51And I really, really, really, like, my life goal is to just not turn into...
- 24:55An old person, whatever. I hate it. And I hate hearing myself say things that
- 25:00my parents used to say when I was a kid or I hear my grandparents.
- 25:03I hate it coming out of my mouth. But I don't hate this because all of the data
- 25:08supports exactly what we're saying.
- 25:10All of the studies that have been done have shown just how much social media
- 25:16and constant screen time is affecting our brains and it is affecting our attention span.
- 25:23It is affecting our ability to engage with people. It is affecting our social
- 25:26and problem-solving abilities. Like, everything shows this.
- 25:29There is no, like, this is literally different because we've proven that it's
- 25:34different. And I understand.
- 25:3610, 15 years ago, I remember my first couple years of teaching,
- 25:38and all the old, older teachers were lamenting the phone use and whatever.
- 25:42And I thought, like, no, I get why they shouldn't be in schools. I get that.
- 25:45But you can't, like, times are changing. The world is changing.
- 25:47Technology is changing. Embrace
- 25:49it. Oh, wow, this is great. You can communicate with people in China.
- 25:52Like, I thought it was a good thing. And the internet in general is a good thing.
- 25:57But we didn't have the data yet.
- 26:01And I hadn't seen the regression across the past 15 years of my own students
- 26:08and their ability to focus on anything.
- 26:10I hadn't seen it long. I mean, 15 years isn't long term, but you know what I
- 26:15mean? I hadn't witnessed it and we didn't have the data yet.
- 26:17And now we do. So this is different. This is literally different from television.
- 26:21This is literally different even from
- 26:23video games, which are notorious for dopamine-addicted people as well.
- 26:27It's even worse than that. And everything...
- 26:31Proves it so yeah i'm gonna
- 26:34sound i'm gonna sound like a complaining boomer and and that's and
- 26:37that's fine because it is different and
- 26:40we know it's different so we have to do something otherwise we're like we're
- 26:46we are in so much trouble we are but also television is produced and edited
- 26:53it has to go through quality control certainly used to and so.
- 27:00So so you know what we were being fed
- 27:03was one directional we absorbed it but we were you know i mean good grief carl
- 27:10you're probably a similar age to me when we were children we were watching adverts
- 27:14these adverts where a group of children were pulling little dinghy with a sail across a,
- 27:23Then it hits the power lines and they all die. A little girl who picked up a
- 27:28sparkler in her glove and then her hand.
- 27:31We were shown some terrifying, terrifying stuff that genuinely has made,
- 27:38you know, so it's not as if, you know, we weren't given messaging or important
- 27:43information because we were.
- 27:46But the thing is, we were told it.
- 27:48We chose to listen or not. And invariably, we just did because the telly said.
- 27:53And so you will die if you touch a sparkler.
- 27:55It's as simple as that. But, you know, so we learned stuff from it in the same
- 27:59way that we might say we young people learn things from social media,
- 28:03but we couldn't interact back.
- 28:06And it couldn't morph the message into something different.
- 28:10The more somebody watched it, the more it gained traction or interest.
- 28:14And so it was a, I mean, you're right.
- 28:18I mean, I remember the square eyes sitting too close to the television.
- 28:21It's bad for you. All of these things. I remember it well, but it was a one dimensional thing.
- 28:28You watched the telly and then you turned in, you got told, I mean, good grief.
- 28:31You know, I got told off having my head in a book, you know,
- 28:34you get your head out of that book, go outside and do something,
- 28:36you know, and, and talking of books, I've got my diaries from when I was 13
- 28:40years old and I was reading Wuthering Heights.
- 28:43So I've got in there, Poldark, Wuthering Heights, all these books.
- 28:48And I'm not kidding. I've got Wuthering Heights.
- 28:49And I've tried to sit down and read it. And even I don't have the attention span to read it now.
- 28:55And I'm ashamed of myself for that. I can't believe it.
- 28:59And Liz, your point about the teaching and breaking it down into really small
- 29:03chunks, okay, it's like...
- 29:06If you're training for a marathon, you don't run 26 miles on the same day.
- 29:10And if we want to get them back to having some kind of attention span,
- 29:14I used to say to my daughter, none of my kids read, but my daughter in particular
- 29:18never, ever has liked reading.
- 29:19And I said, just five minutes a day. And then you've got to put the book down
- 29:23after five minutes and then you'll be cross because you wanted to read more.
- 29:27But that will bring it. No, she hasn't even tried.
- 29:29It's just gone. So much of those skills and
- 29:32that interest is gone because it's been replaced by a
- 29:35phone on a laptop but this is what upsets me about
- 29:38the schools like you you actually have people out there
- 29:41who are advocating for schools to change their entire approach
- 29:44and for teaching to change and to accommodate and i think this is what neil
- 29:48was saying to accommodate the shrunken attention spans and just embrace that
- 29:54somehow as if we don't have a professional duty to prepare the students for
- 29:59the exams that everybody has to take whether you like it i hate them i think
- 30:02the system's ridiculous,
- 30:03but I want my students to be as prepared as they can be because the exam grades
- 30:07open doors for the future.
- 30:08And that is literally my job. So I'm not going to.
- 30:12Reduce everything to 90 second chunks. If you're training for a marathon,
- 30:16you don't run for 90 seconds and stop and then on the day show up and expect to run 26.
- 30:20So you have to build them up. We have to fight against this.
- 30:25We have to increase their focus again.
- 30:27But the more these students become addicted, the more time these young people
- 30:32spend on their phones and on social media in particular, the harder and harder and harder that gets.
- 30:36And the less and less likely it is that they're going to eventually, by the end of year 11,
- 30:40get to a point where they can reach their potential and get
- 30:43the grades are capable of getting and have the most doors open for
- 30:45them for their future options it starts
- 30:49so young and it's it we cannot be like
- 30:52people who sit there saying times have changed school hasn't changed
- 30:55since the victorian time okay and school the school is not the problem here
- 31:01the education i mean there are a lot of things wrong with the education system
- 31:03i'll be the first to say but expecting kids to focus for more than 90 seconds
- 31:07at a time or sit still at a desk is not one of them at all.
- 31:13Liz, I jumped in a little bit earlier and you were just about to start something.
- 31:17I just want to give you a chance.
- 31:19Perimenopausal brain means I cannot remember at all what it is that I was going to say.
- 31:26I do wonder if it's a bit of a chicken and egg situation with the social anxiety.
- 31:32And I don't know whether it's the social media that has effectively started
- 31:36that social anxiety And then by this kind of self-medicating with social media,
- 31:41if it's this just perpetual thing.
- 31:43I mean, I've had emails sent to me about students' comfort and coping strategies
- 31:49being scrolling social media.
- 31:51Like, you know, they find comfort
- 31:52in that. They find that that constant scroll makes them feel better.
- 31:56And while I understand that it's important for us to help young people, yeah.
- 32:05Would we advise, you know, if midweek glass of wine helped a 14-year-old cope
- 32:10with their social anxiety, would we suggest that they did that? No, we wouldn't.
- 32:15So scrolling social media feels a little bit like we are perpetuating the problem.
- 32:21And if we are going to say, okay, they find their comfort in social media,
- 32:25it keeps them connected with the world around them.
- 32:27Isn't that more argument for regulating the companies in the first place so
- 32:32that the content that then is being pushed to young people is healthy,
- 32:38supportive, not kind of this brainwashing...
- 32:44Nonsense, filth, whatever it is, filth. Gosh, how old am I?
- 32:50Mary.
- 32:56Oh, Liz, I've got the surname for words like that, not you.
- 33:02Make it healthy content, for goodness sake. I just feel so sorry for young people now,
- 33:08growing up in this environment where they already,
- 33:12like the very condition of being a teenager means
- 33:16that you don't know who you are and you really struggle to find out
- 33:19who you are and your peer group is enough of a
- 33:21pressure in that circumstance of trying
- 33:24to work out who you are then when you add this other dimension
- 33:28of what people on social media who you see for 60 seconds
- 33:31are telling you what you should be as well just not knowing who you are or how
- 33:37to be without everybody else it's so difficult like I would not want to go back
- 33:42now and be 15 and live the life that they live. Be 15 now.
- 33:49Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I'd love to go back and be 15 in the 90s. Top notch.
- 33:55Because we didn't have these pressures. It wasn't the same. It wasn't like this.
- 33:59And I think we're looking at the wrong solutions, I think.
- 34:07This is the only solution that I think we actually reasonably will do because
- 34:10no one's going to regulate the companies.
- 34:12They are going to be allowed to carry on and do what, because that's just the
- 34:15way that it is because they just have such a monopoly over the market.
- 34:21We're not going to interfere with that. So we have to take whatever strategies
- 34:25we can to, to do it. And I think.
- 34:30I agree. Parents do have a part to play in it, but I think it needs to be bigger.
- 34:36And on the topic of being bigger, you know what I said before about the content
- 34:41being the issue, but also the opportunity cost of if they're on their phone,
- 34:44they're not doing something else.
- 34:45I think we need investment in third spaces for young people.
- 34:52Where are they supposed to go? okay so yes we want them outside and but ideally
- 34:58ideally right there's more to do than just hang around in a street corner like
- 35:01there's there's a park by my house where kids bmx and kick a ball around and
- 35:05stuff and you see them wandering around and that's great that's that's wonderful.
- 35:09Not everybody lives next to a park like that there are
- 35:12so few spaces where teenagers can go
- 35:15and hang out and exist without spending exorbitant amounts of
- 35:17money that most of them don't have that are relatively safe
- 35:21and clean if you live in a
- 35:25large city in particular in in a tower block you probably don't have a garden
- 35:29you don't have one of those those spaces nearby where are where are young people
- 35:34meant to go i grew up on an island where there wasn't anything to do you could
- 35:38go to the beach which i couldn't do because i got migraines from the sunlight.
- 35:42You could go to the cinema, which gets really boring if there's nothing out that you want to see.
- 35:48You could walk around a horrible mall. And expensive. A lot of people didn't have money for that.
- 35:51Or if you could see over the bar, at a bar, they would serve you.
- 35:55So what you had was people from the age of about 14 going out drinking in clubs
- 36:01that they had absolutely no business in, were incredibly dangerous.
- 36:04Getting up to all sports.
- 36:06And that was just the culture. That was just what people did.
- 36:09And obviously, that's not an option. that shouldn't be an option so what i know
- 36:14what it's like to be a teenager and be like i want to do like i don't want to
- 36:17be at home i don't want to i want to go out with my friends but there's
- 36:21nothing to do except get up to to trouble and that's part of the reason it just
- 36:26comes back it just feeds back on itself there's nowhere to go as they see inside
- 36:29as well can i can i can i raise two points just because i think it it's important
- 36:33that at some point they're aired not that,
- 36:36again, they're necessarily my point of view.
- 36:39One is the accusation of bad science.
- 36:43There's a lot of what I've heard, and I'm not an expert in these matters,
- 36:47but what I've heard is there's a lot of bad science involved in things,
- 36:52discussions about this issue, and much of it that has been replicated by Jonathan
- 36:58Haidt in his book, bestselling book, the anxious generation.
- 37:02For example, we all use, and I'm as guilty as anybody, of the phrase dopamine hit.
- 37:09Apparently there is no such thing. Dopamine does not spike when you are in a,
- 37:15it's a phrase that's been injected into popular understanding because it helps
- 37:21us to understand a feeling or a concept that we have.
- 37:25But actually, that's not how the brain works.
- 37:29Dopamine does not spike when we have a pleasurable experience in that way.
- 37:34That's my understanding from science. and
- 37:38similarly there is a an idea that that's
- 37:41thrown around that young people's brains are plastic insofar as they're very
- 37:47malleable they're growing they're developing they're still shaping in lots of
- 37:51different ways and consequently their brains are at a particularly vulnerable
- 37:55stage of development and their exposure to.
- 38:00You know, things like social media can warp that development in a manner that
- 38:04then can be difficult to undo when they're older.
- 38:08But I've heard, and again, I am very welcome to be, you know,
- 38:14put right on this, but I've heard that there's no real evidence that that's
- 38:20actually true. There's any proper signs behind that.
- 38:22And that a lot of the studies into the impact of social media,
- 38:26one a very short term because of
- 38:30course it's not been around that long two they're
- 38:33on very short samples small samples so it's
- 38:37very difficult to extrapolate beyond that and three
- 38:41that when you try to analyze something like this you have to untangle it from
- 38:46so many other factors that in the end any causal connection is almost impossible
- 38:52to prove so what about those people that argue that the science here is actually not backing up what,
- 39:00and the studies are not backing, really backing up what people say.
- 39:04This is basically us saying, or society saying, we don't like this.
- 39:09It doesn't look or feel good to us.
- 39:11So we're going to use some quasi-science to just back it up.
- 39:15What would people say in response to that view?
- 39:19Okay, so if we say that the science doesn't provide us enough evidence that it's causing harm,
- 39:25what is causing harm, and it cannot be denied that it would cause harm,
- 39:30is young people seeing ideologies in terms of size, appearance.
- 39:36Seeing pornography, being exposed to things that they shouldn't see.
- 39:41Now, maybe that causes no harm whatsoever, but I very much doubt it somehow.
- 39:46So even if the science isn't there, just the algorithms and how they work is
- 39:53leading children to see things that they shouldn't see.
- 39:55So even if it's not causing harm, and I would argue every day of the week that
- 40:00it is causing harm and that the science not being able to entirely substantiate
- 40:06that due to there's not been enough time,
- 40:08yet social media is still relatively new in the sort of whole evolution of humans, etc.
- 40:13Etc but there is we are seeing
- 40:16evidence in our own eyes and
- 40:19ears and and the problem is you can say we should leave it up to the parents
- 40:25it's up to parents to decide if they want their children to go on social media
- 40:28and if they don't then then they can take control of that and it's just not
- 40:33so straightforward and and and so I feel like somebody does have to step in
- 40:37and just in case it's harmful,
- 40:39just in case it's not good for them, I would still support banning it.
- 40:44I personally wonder who is questioning the science and whether they have some
- 40:48involvement in either pushing their own narratives through social media or if
- 40:54they work in the tech industry.
- 40:55Because let's not forget that all of the people who've created these things,
- 40:59I think there's a person, my husband read a book called Stolen Focus.
- 41:03Now, I haven't read it yet, but it talks...
- 41:05He said it's fantastic and I must read it. And in that, he talks about how,
- 41:10you know, even as an adult, when social media was taken away from him,
- 41:14he went to a cabin or something somewhere, you know, he was unable.
- 41:18You know, it took him a long time to deal with not having something to reach
- 41:22for, something to look at. Do you see what I mean?
- 41:24And I think anybody who is living like that, I do it.
- 41:28First thing I do in the morning is pick up my phone and I tell myself,
- 41:31I want to see what the time is, but I haven't bought myself a clock radio or
- 41:34something that would tell me without picking up my phone, because I know that
- 41:37that's where I'm going to go to.
- 41:39If I had a clock on my wall, I would look at my clock and then I would pick up my phone.
- 41:43So really, you know, we have become slaves to it. It buzzes.
- 41:47I pick it up if I'm available.
- 41:49The only thing with me is I am able to go for long periods of time without checking
- 41:54in on social media if I'm doing something.
- 41:56And I can live with that mostly.
- 41:59But yeah, I don't care for the.
- 42:03Anti-science argument until science turns around
- 42:07and says do you know what we have looked at this and
- 42:10there is no evidence that it causes harm then
- 42:13I think we have to probably run along the lines
- 42:16that it does I think that we are safer protecting children from an unknown than
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- 42:50Anthony's got a good one. He says, presumably, oh yeah, sorry,
- 42:53I was going to say, presumably young people, this is Anthony,
- 42:56presumably young people can still correspond with their friends via text-based
- 43:00services or chats via online games.
- 43:03If that's the case, I don't believe banning social media is a big deal.
- 43:06And that raises the whole question of what is social media? How do you define
- 43:11it? How do you define what the platforms are that you would ban? Sorry.
- 43:15No, I was just going to read Anthony's comment and say that's fair enough.
- 43:19One of the biggest pushbacks we have about, you know, going schools,
- 43:22banning phones and going phone free, like put them in a box or in a bag or something
- 43:26at the beginning of the day.
- 43:28Parents, I need to contact my child. Brick phones exist. Get a 10 pound one from Tesco.
- 43:32Problem solved. What did parents do before they could track with a little blue
- 43:37dot their kid walking on the way home from school?
- 43:39And by the same token, what did parents do who are struggling to keep roofs
- 43:44up their heads and going to work all the time and not spending time monitoring their kids?
- 43:49What did parents do to parent before they could just hand a screen to their children.
- 43:53Like people who say, make excuses saying, oh, we need to, parents need to know
- 43:58where the kid is every second of the day.
- 44:01We had 2,000 years without that just recently.
- 44:06Parents can't manage having to work two jobs because the cost of living and
- 44:10they don't have books in the house and they're really, really struggling.
- 44:15Cool. So have thousands of generations of human beings before they had screens
- 44:19to put their kids in front of. How do people cope that poverty isn't new?
- 44:23Struggling isn't new? Parenting isn't new? They're literally all just excuses.
- 44:28You do not need to have a phone a smartphone
- 44:31your child does not need access to a smartphone 24 7
- 44:34for them to be safe or you to parent properly you
- 44:38do not need to put your kid in front of a screen to do
- 44:41your job as a parent and if people are just making excuses and
- 44:43excuses and excuses I'm not I'd like
- 44:46I'm so far beyond not interested to listen
- 44:49to them like I don't I don't understand why we're giving
- 44:52those views any time or
- 44:55any energy it really comes back to this is
- 44:58a new technological development human beings have coped before
- 45:01you it's not necessarily making your life any better
- 45:04you don't actually need to use it please stop
- 45:07using it as an excuse and do your
- 45:10job as a parent because the parents they ain't parenting and it's coming back
- 45:13on the government to make regulations the companies to sort out their horrible
- 45:17stuff which they probably should do anyway because it's vile and there's another
- 45:20word for you it's coming back on the schools to manage a problem that is starting
- 45:25at home because the parents ain't parenting.
- 45:29So, again, yeah, get your kid a brick phone. They don't need social media.
- 45:33You don't need to check them.
- 45:34You really, really don't. But the schools that are taking the approach of,
- 45:39yeah, sure, you can have an iPhone, you can have an Android, great.
- 45:41Put it in this bag at the beginning of the day and check it out at the end.
- 45:44And then you can have it on the way to and from school. Like,
- 45:46I don't, that's the best of all worlds, surely. I don't understand why there's
- 45:52still pushback because you're going to have medical exemptions. My sister's diabetic.
- 45:56She has an app on her phone that monitors her sugars.
- 46:00It sends her alerts. I have diabetic students who have the same thing.
- 46:04Obviously, they'll be allowed, okay?
- 46:06People who need their phone for an actual, like, they have to for their physical
- 46:10health, they will be allowed to.
- 46:13We're not going to endanger. But that's not social media.
- 46:16So you can have a smartphone and by banning social media for under 18s,
- 46:22you know, like under 16, sorry, you can go into a supermarket when you're seven
- 46:28and you can buy things if you've got five pounds in your hand,
- 46:31but you can't buy a can of beer or a lager.
- 46:35So you can be in a world but not access all of the world in it.
- 46:41I mean, that's such a good point about, you know, some kids needing to have
- 46:45their phones to monitor blood sugars and things.
- 46:48The smartphone issue, the phones in school issue would be lessened enormously
- 46:54by not having social media access until they're older.
- 46:59Actually, a thing that I have a problem with and I have a solution to is the ability
- 47:06access to social media at 16 on your 16th birthday, because I'm an August birthday
- 47:13kind of person. So I would have been the last person.
- 47:17Everyone would have left school and I still wouldn't have been able to connect on social media.
- 47:22And I resent, and I didn't resent, you know, but I always felt that the time
- 47:27of year my birthday was because I had August the 3rd for presents and cards and things.
- 47:32But on August the 3rd, I turned 16 and I was chuffed to bits or 15, say.
- 47:38We went to school and on the first day, there were already two or three people
- 47:41having their 16th birthdays and it drove me mad. I hated it.
- 47:46So the idea that you've then got kids all throughout the year going,
- 47:50yay, I've got whatever the latest social media is and other kids who are still excluded,
- 47:55not to mention, I would probably do better in my GCSEs if I tried hard, obviously,
- 48:01but I would probably do better because I wouldn't have the distraction of this
- 48:04new shiny social media thing that's just come into my world,
- 48:07the same as the September birthdays and the October birthdays,
- 48:11etc, because I wouldn't have those distractions.
- 48:14And so my solution is not when you're 16, but when you finish year 11.
- 48:19And I would tie it in with, you know, when HMRC send your national insurance code,
- 48:27they are able to identify every person in this country who turns 16 in the following
- 48:33year because it comes when you're about 15.
- 48:35And so what my solution would be is that in the end of June or whatever.
- 48:41After all the GCSEs are over, HMRC sends a code, they can send it electronically,
- 48:46and you have to use that code to input all the social media sites to be able to access them.
- 48:53That way everyone gets it at the same time.
- 48:55Nobody in year 11 is on social media whatsoever so they can concentrate on their
- 48:59exams. And then when they go to sit
- 49:02form if they're going to be stupid and and you know prioritize social
- 49:05media over their a-levels then surely that's what
- 49:08we're doing anyway is sorting out who is right to
- 49:11go to university and and who isn't do you get what
- 49:14I mean actually make it dependent on the exam results no no no no no I just
- 49:21when they leave when they leave when they leave the end of your love it and
- 49:27then it's the same time because I was thinking that too if you make it 16 you're
- 49:31just going to have like all the younger kids in that year,
- 49:33it's going to be so excruciatingly horrible and you don't get rid of the problem
- 49:36in year 11 anyway. So yeah.
- 49:38Yeah. One of the things that's nice about the idea of a social media ban for
- 49:42me as a head teacher is that one of the issues about banning smartphones from
- 49:48schools is that actually,
- 49:50on the whole, the problem that young people experience is not one that they experience in schools.
- 49:58There are very very few schools where young
- 50:01people are regularly using phones these
- 50:05days i mean there are different ways in which schools achieve it
- 50:08and there are there are all sorts of issues about that but there are very few
- 50:12schools where you know young people have unfettered access to phones but of
- 50:17course the moment they walk out the door they do have unfettered access and
- 50:21at that point all manner of things happen which then do not have a knock-on
- 50:25effect in schools so the the idea of social media,
- 50:28a ban on social media has an appeal because it has an impact on what happens
- 50:34to a young person outside of school when they are literally unprotected and have free access to it.
- 50:41But can I ask, do you think WhatsApp is social media?
- 50:48Technically it is apparently, but you're
- 50:52you are in control to a
- 50:55certain extent on who you're in contact
- 50:58with whatsapp isn't really randomly pushing you
- 51:01information whereas any other like
- 51:04tiktok instagram facebook facebook they
- 51:07don't use facebook but that's just you know
- 51:11i always use the example of the the
- 51:14killing of charlie kirk like i would not have sought
- 51:17that out i would not have looked for
- 51:20that at all but on my social media there it was presented to me yeah because
- 51:27and there's nothing in my algorithm which would suggest that you know i get
- 51:31things about calligraphy and you know air fryer baking and all that sort of
- 51:34thing it just it wouldn't have ended up like.
- 51:38Being in my algorithm but I got it I saw it and with
- 51:42things like whatsapp that doesn't that doesn't
- 51:45I know that you know obviously you get the occasional
- 51:48unsolicited message or incorrect message or whatever
- 51:51but it's very very rare it wouldn't be daily so
- 51:55I don't think that whatsapp is and I just wanted to come
- 51:58back Carl to the the medical thing there was sorry the
- 52:00science thing there was an article in the British Medical
- 52:03Journal this week about doctors declaring social
- 52:07media use for young people a public health emergency so
- 52:11i do think there is so it
- 52:15might not be like the dopamine hit it might not be kind of the chemical imbalance
- 52:19element of it but the the effects that it's having and the pressures that it's
- 52:25putting on places like cams and things like that that are were already prior
- 52:30to social media already a massively stretched service,
- 52:34now we've got such a high number of people who inevitably are affected by their social media use.
- 52:40Those services are ineffective.
- 52:42Kids are on waiting lists for five years, their entire educational time. And it's because...
- 52:49There are things outside that we can try and do.
- 52:53I don't know if it's science-based. I don't know how we would quantify it,
- 53:00but I can't read the full article in the British Medical Journal,
- 53:03unfortunately, because I'm not a member.
- 53:05But it says that Ofsted have got immediate powers to check schools' mobile phone
- 53:10policies, with schools expected to be phone-free by default.
- 53:14The potential ban on social media for under-16 as far as Australia's introduction
- 53:17of a similar policy in December.
- 53:19France denmark and new zealand are considering similar measures
- 53:22like we're not talking about it's not unique to
- 53:25us it is an international problem yeah
- 53:28yeah okay whatsapp anybody
- 53:31else got a view because my view is that if you are defining
- 53:35if you are proposing a ban on social media i
- 53:38would argue that whatsapp does have enough of enough of
- 53:41the features of social media to be
- 53:44also included in the ban and i know that australia hasn't
- 53:48done that and that's a source of discussion and
- 53:51some would say as you say liz that whatsapp is
- 53:55not algorithm driven therefore content
- 53:59doesn't appear which you didn't
- 54:02necessarily ask for but it
- 54:04nevertheless facilitates many of the other dangers that
- 54:08social media possesses to young people in terms of a
- 54:11fear of missing out a requirement that they
- 54:14are constantly in contact with one another and also
- 54:18possibly as we say encouraging young
- 54:20people to stay indoors or at least in an insular world rather than in a more
- 54:27real interactive world i don't think because if you're sorry lisa because if
- 54:32you're if you're going to say what's up is social media based on that then you
- 54:35have to then like you can set up group chats.
- 54:39With your message, whatever your phone's default messaging services,
- 54:43you can set up group chats there.
- 54:45So then if you're banning WhatsApp on the ground that is social media,
- 54:49you might as well ban the whole smartphone.
- 54:50Because as long as they can create a group chat, then you still have that particular
- 54:53problem. But I'm with Liz.
- 54:55I think the issue is algorithm based. And WhatsApp, I think WhatsApp is a reasonable
- 55:00compromise for students to still be able to like create school chats and friend
- 55:05chats and family chats and stay in touch that way and receive information back
- 55:09and forth that way without having all this external stuff forced on them that they never necessarily.
- 55:15Even searched for. I think that's the main issue.
- 55:18And you don't have the constant scrolling on the feed.
- 55:21It's the scrolling on the feed and the bitty information.
- 55:25And then it's the actual content that's being shown to them.
- 55:29I think those are the two main issues, not the not the
- 55:32group chat thing i mean we've had before smartphones we were
- 55:35in group chats on msn messenger and aol and icq and
- 55:38we had all these internet base and
- 55:41those have those were like 10 years before any of
- 55:45the the phone-based group chats and i feel like yeah
- 55:49it had i mean cyber bullying happened that's for i'm sure there
- 55:52were some negatives absolutely some negatives there
- 55:55and people sharing photos you know when she wasn't invited
- 55:58like it still happens but i just
- 56:01feel like whatsapp is is clearly in the
- 56:04other side there's the algorithm algorithm based doom scrolling and then there's
- 56:09the group chat type apps and whatsapp's over there and i feel like if we ban
- 56:15those that is going to cause a whole separate set of problems and it's gonna
- 56:19like that is a slippery slope.
- 56:22But the algorithm-based doom-scrolling apps are what need to go, in my view.
- 56:28Yeah, I agree. I mean, it's a difficult one because when my daughter was,
- 56:33I don't know, 12 or 13, they started, they must, I don't know if it was WhatsApp
- 56:38or what, but that was how they.
- 56:41Sort of before social media was something, I don't know, maybe we'd all decided
- 56:46not to let them have it. But anyway, that was what they communicated on.
- 56:49And there would still be that bullying element because my daughter used to come
- 56:53down and say, so-and-so just said, you know, so-and-so.
- 56:56And I don't think that's very nice. And then I would say, well, you know
- 57:00I would leave it or whatever so you
- 57:03I guess you can't shield them from everything when I was at
- 57:05school my best friend Nikki who lived around the corner from me
- 57:08and I would go out all evening around
- 57:11the village on our roller skates or whatever and then we would
- 57:14go home and we would write a letter to each other like it is natural
- 57:17for young kids to want to contact and she always
- 57:20used to start mine yo loose and then there'd be all kinds
- 57:23of there'd be honestly it was so cute and I've gotten
- 57:25somewhere and then there'd be pictures and cartoons and oh
- 57:29my god Mikey's so handsome and stuff do you
- 57:32get what I mean it was just daft everything that came into your
- 57:34head and then we'd swap letters and you know so kids have always wanted to be
- 57:38in control and I guess that there were probably some kids who had nasty letters
- 57:42passed to them that they would have looked in their bags in the evening and
- 57:46found something mean so I mean you can't that those kinds of things probably have always existed.
- 57:53And, you know, we're much more public, actually, because kids could be bitchy
- 57:57to your face, whereas now they don't have to.
- 57:59The same as a bloke doesn't have to, you know, boyfriend doesn't have to tell
- 58:03you in person, really sorry, but that's the end of the relationship and just
- 58:06send a message and off it goes, you know.
- 58:09So it's that same kind of thing where it's removed that contact.
- 58:12That face-to-face contact.
- 58:14But I think that's already, I don't think WhatsApp should be banned.
- 58:19Okay, it's an interesting one, because I have a feeling that we are heading
- 58:24for some kind of formal social media ban, or at least a heavy restriction on
- 58:29social media use for young people.
- 58:31But I also have a concern that what we will be doing in two or three years'
- 58:37time is having exactly the same conversation with almost the same arguments
- 58:43against other platforms that have emerged in a sort of, you know.
- 58:48Multi-headed hydro approach where tech has developed better versions of WhatsApp,
- 58:54better versions of other platforms that don't have some of the features that
- 58:58are in the legislation, but nevertheless are very harmful.
- 59:01Because I've seen plenty of bullying on WhatsApp in school, plenty of young
- 59:06people who have been made to feel really bad about themselves in WhatsApp.
- 59:11So WhatsApp is by no means a harmless platform as far as young people's interactions are concerned.
- 59:18And I think that there is a danger that we, I mean, I know, Ray,
- 59:24you called it a slippery slope.
- 59:25We have to make decisions about where we draw the line on lots of things.
- 59:28And we we do make those decisions and constantly recalibrate
- 59:32them depending on our you know judgment of the evidence and our consideration
- 59:37of how you know much harm is being created and so on but nevertheless i mean
- 59:42i i have raised that question because i think there is a very real matter of
- 59:47deciding what is social media and what is not yeah where's the line.
- 59:52And where is the line? Yeah. And also, when you're doing that and you're defining
- 59:57it, there is the potential for bad legislation insofar as it defines things
- 1:00:03in a way that is either easily, you know,
- 1:00:07circumnavigated or is actually counterproductive.
- 1:00:10So that i think is why the government
- 1:00:13has decided not to immediately support
- 1:00:16the the lord's ban and instead take a
- 1:00:19six-month consultation and i think actually that approach is probably the right
- 1:00:25one and i now will come out and say i'm in favor of a ban i am in favor of a
- 1:00:31ban i know i put forward lots of arguments against but that's not me i'm just
- 1:00:35trying to offer a different view i am in.
- 1:00:38But I think that, you know,
- 1:00:41having said all of that, a ban is not a panacea.
- 1:00:45There are still dangers and it's getting the legislation right,
- 1:00:50making it sufficiently flexible so that as new technology drives new platforms and new developments,
- 1:00:58the legislation is able to cope with that because for sure, we all agree,
- 1:01:04there's a lot of things that
- 1:01:04big technology companies like big food companies
- 1:01:07their whole business model is premised
- 1:01:11on the basis of trying to get people coming keep coming back and consuming more
- 1:01:16and more and more and what you need is regulation to prevent that tendency because
- 1:01:21they're companies they want to make profits that's their reason for being and
- 1:01:25government and the state has a role in regulating And for far too long, we've, you know.
- 1:01:32Thrown out statements like the nanny state or you can't control things.
- 1:01:36It'll be a nanny state and so on. When actually in human history,
- 1:01:40we've always had to draw the line somewhere.
- 1:01:42We've always had to regulate, particularly with young people,
- 1:01:46because human nature is such that if you allow people complete unfettered access
- 1:01:51to something, then ultimately they will destroy themselves.
- 1:01:55They will become consumed by something which ultimately is not really in the
- 1:02:01best interest of wider society.
- 1:02:03And there'll always be a workaround, I feel like. So keeping up with the legislation
- 1:02:09and something like YouTube, like where does that fall?
- 1:02:12Because, you know, that's a medium that, you know, my son watches YouTube clips
- 1:02:19and things like that of things that he's interested in.
- 1:02:22Obviously like a monitored version because i
- 1:02:25want to be in control of it but that is
- 1:02:28that considered social media because that's a way of pushing material to young
- 1:02:33people does there then become work rounds on things like that and it's like
- 1:02:37right well if we can't use this platform we'll use this platform or we'll create
- 1:02:40a new platform that doesn't meet that definition of social media but we can
- 1:02:45still attract young people,
- 1:02:47it's a minefield,
- 1:02:50isn't it? And it's a very difficult.
- 1:02:53One to combat and we like you say carl
- 1:02:56we have to find a way the government has to find a way to keep
- 1:02:59up with it yeah there's no legislation probably
- 1:03:03can't be perfect and it can't cover everything
- 1:03:06and and all possibilities but i
- 1:03:09think that responsible government has to consider and
- 1:03:12reflect on the evidence enough having said that
- 1:03:15i do think it's right that we act and
- 1:03:18we act soon because I don't think we can spend
- 1:03:21the next two or three years pondering the rights
- 1:03:24and wrongs of this and the evidence and whether we're
- 1:03:27absolutely certain as to the long-term effects of it
- 1:03:30because ultimately we feel as
- 1:03:33a society I think pretty uncomfortable with
- 1:03:37what's happening not only with young people but let's
- 1:03:39be frank with with adults as well and I
- 1:03:42think the balance of power has moved too far
- 1:03:46towards the technology companies and too
- 1:03:49far away from the more responsible messaging
- 1:03:53that you know you and I Lucy were subjected to
- 1:03:56with those little public information films back in the day which actually although
- 1:04:02they did scare us a little bit at times they've lasted in the memory and they
- 1:04:07came from a place of saying adults have to be adults and their job is to help.
- 1:04:14Society to actually negotiate the worst aspects of human nature and to bring out the best.
- 1:04:21But you know what's interesting? Those adverts now, those ones that we were,
- 1:04:25they would never, ever dream of showing kids that.
- 1:04:28They would say they were harmful, the same as Lady Bird fairy tales books.
- 1:04:32You know, they would have to be sanitized and you would never have to see the
- 1:04:35end result, which was the boat, the sail, the mast hitting the pylons and things.
- 1:04:41And I think in some ways we're poorer for it because I think that young people
- 1:04:46don't, if you don't show them what they need to be scared of, they won't know.
- 1:04:51But in terms of having a consultation, now obviously I work in politics as a
- 1:04:57counsellor and everything has a consultation and very often consultation means very little.
- 1:05:05It's just something you have to do and very often the questions are written
- 1:05:09in such a way that the outcome doesn't have to be dependent on what comes out of this.
- 1:05:15And I really hope that if they are having a, well, they will have a consultation
- 1:05:19on this, I very much hope that it will be a meaningful consultation and not
- 1:05:23just a tick box exercise to be able to rubber stamp a decision that's made.
- 1:05:27It really is important that this is a consultation that takes into account a
- 1:05:33range of different ideas and opinions.
- 1:05:35I think that the discussions, you're absolutely right, is about YouTube.
- 1:05:38I hadn't even thought about YouTube. How does everything fit into this?
- 1:05:42How do we monitor what people can access? It's not going to be easy.
- 1:05:46And actually, I can't, you know, we can't be too hasty in this and then end
- 1:05:53up with a situation where it didn't work or it looks like it's not going to
- 1:05:58work and then it's completely pulled.
- 1:06:00And so, yeah, it's got to be done properly.
- 1:06:03Place to finish yeah place to finish thank you everybody thank you to everyone
- 1:06:08who's tuned in and joined in with us online we're really appreciative of your.