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Ashley's Girls Trip with UberEats · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio. Welcome everyone tonight we have an amazing
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  Speaker 1: rundown of guests. We have Claire Crawley, Tenley Leopold formerly
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  Speaker 1: moles On. We have Danielle McBride, who you may remember
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  Speaker 1: from Sean season. We have Heather Martin from um Colton
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  Speaker 1: season slash Matt James. This season, we have Beca Tilly
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  Speaker 1: and Kenda Long. We have Carly Waddell and Oh my goodness,
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  Speaker 1: and I is that it? And did I cover all
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  Speaker 1: of our guests tonight? Crystal Nielsen? How can I forget?
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  Speaker 1: Crystal Neilson. All these girls are gonna come on and
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  Speaker 1: chat with me. This episode is very special. It's sponsored
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  Speaker 1: by Uber Eats. I was packing last night and oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, our drug store is so far away. And
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  Speaker 1: obviously it's not easy for me to just pack up
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  Speaker 1: a car these days, you know, you know, pack up
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  Speaker 1: and get in the car and just run an errand
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  Speaker 1: you know it used to be no big deal, like
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  Speaker 1: I'll just go and it's nothing, but now it's like,
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  Speaker 1: do I have the diaper bag? Do I have formula
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  Speaker 1: and fresh bottles and diapers? Strap them into the car seat,
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  Speaker 1: go there, get in the like, put him in the stroller,
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  Speaker 1: put him in the carrier, keep him in the car seat,
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  Speaker 1: carry him in. Everything is lugging, logging logging. I try
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  Speaker 1: to run as little errands as possible. So when I
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  Speaker 1: realized that I didn't have any um like toilet trees
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  Speaker 1: that were travel size, because I didn't want to pack
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  Speaker 1: up like a checked bag, I decided to uber eats
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  Speaker 1: yesterday um I uber eats toiletries travel sized toiletries. It
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  Speaker 1: was awesome because the next morning, before my flight, I
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  Speaker 1: just got on the app and I taped up top
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  Speaker 1: and within an hour I had my toiletries to my door.
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  Speaker 1: So much easier. I was able to, you know, kind
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  Speaker 1: of go about my morning and they in the calmest
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  Speaker 1: way possible. The day that you know, me a mom
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  Speaker 1: takes off of her first baby free trip, and then
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  Speaker 1: we needize suber Eats again tonight for this Girl's Night podcast,
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  Speaker 1: we not only uber eats dinner, of course, and we
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  Speaker 1: got we got the best food. We got like onion rings.
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  Speaker 1: We got many sliders. We got tacos and nachos from
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  Speaker 1: our favorite places in these and for our favorite places
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  Speaker 1: in l a um. We also and we Uber Eats
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  Speaker 1: even things that that we needed for girls Night that
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  Speaker 1: wasn't food, because again, Uber Eats is not just for
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  Speaker 1: food anymore. They're there for convenience, They're there for toiletries,
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  Speaker 1: they're there for groceries. So we were able to actually
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  Speaker 1: Uber Eats last minute, some robes, some slippers, some face masks,
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  Speaker 1: even um, some nail polish, I think for our girls night,
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  Speaker 1: so that we would have not just some good food
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  Speaker 1: and drink, but also some you know, girls night spa essentials.
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  Speaker 1: And now it is time to bring in my guests
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  Speaker 1: after I blabbird about how we set the scene tonight.
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  Speaker 1: So let's welcome Claire Crawley, Danielle McBride, and Heather Martin.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm sitting around a table in California for the
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  Speaker 1: first time with some first time in many moons, with
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  Speaker 1: a couple of my favorite ladies from The Bachelor. We
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  Speaker 1: got Crystal Nielsen to my left. We have what's her
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  Speaker 1: new last name, although not her Instagram handle, which we
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  Speaker 1: are currently working on, and then we have Carly Woodell
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  Speaker 1: across from me. Carle, you never changed your name, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad you did it. Yeah, alright, So basically we
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  Speaker 1: have the mom crew here first, and it's so this
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  Speaker 1: is not just girls not out, it's mom'side out. Um
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  Speaker 1: we have besides me, Crystal is the freshest of the
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  Speaker 1: new moms. So yeah, yeah, it's what month do I
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  Speaker 1: have to look forward to the most? And which month
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  Speaker 1: do I have to dread the most? Oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I think? It honestly just gets better
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  Speaker 1: as you go on. I would say that five months
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  Speaker 1: became really fun. I think also very tedious because while
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  Speaker 1: he's becoming so much more aware and smiling and everything,
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  Speaker 1: he's also becoming like much more in need of entertainment constantly.
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  Speaker 1: Well you know what, does he notice you when you
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  Speaker 1: walk across the room yet? Oh yes, yes, okay, I
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  Speaker 1: found that so amazing and fascinating where I'm like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, she's like I can tell like I'm here
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  Speaker 1: in this room as opposed to just being an infant
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  Speaker 1: and baby just like staring into space. But I found
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  Speaker 1: that right at seven months, once she started becoming like
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  Speaker 1: really mobile and moving, it just became so much fun.
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  Speaker 1: And from there it just gets better and better. Cool.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm excited. I mean from my fourteen month
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  Speaker 1: experience right now, Well, then let's go around the circle,
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  Speaker 1: because now Timley has a two year old No, not yet,
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  Speaker 1: please don't rush it. She's the only one and a
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  Speaker 1: half's like almost twenty one months. When did you stop
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  Speaker 1: with the months thing? I think two years? Twenty four months? Right,
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  Speaker 1: two years? I don't know so much, Math, I think
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  Speaker 1: at one and a half so much. I mean, no offense,
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  Speaker 1: you just did it. But is it in a little
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  Speaker 1: silly to be like twenty two months? It's like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: she's almost two. Well, I don't know, she's like, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: at this moment. I totally am trying to like hang
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  Speaker 1: on to every moment that is like mentally four and
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  Speaker 1: a half year old month, Math, really four and a
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  Speaker 1: half year old month? No, I do agree. Every month,
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  Speaker 1: every month at this point and every month from there
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  Speaker 1: on out is very special. But I feel like there
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  Speaker 1: is such a there is something in each little month,
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  Speaker 1: and they're growing so much in that like from I
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  Speaker 1: feel like from birth, yeah, from birth to even two
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  Speaker 1: years old, there's so much that happens. But I feel
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  Speaker 1: like Rell in the last couple of months has just
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  Speaker 1: jumped from being like a baby to this little tiny
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  Speaker 1: human toddler thing monster amazing creation, Like she is so
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  Speaker 1: much fun and she has so much to say and
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  Speaker 1: do and it's so much fun. But like so I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it kind of counts to count the months.
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  Speaker 1: You don't you make it. You make an interesting point
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  Speaker 1: because I feel like, you know, like the big thing
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  Speaker 1: is to track like every month, like from like from
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  Speaker 1: birth until twelve months, like you notoriously post their monthly
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  Speaker 1: photo to show how much they've grown, and the mom
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  Speaker 1: failed at that every so as long as you have
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  Speaker 1: your own turn like a new month, I'm like, today's
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  Speaker 1: the day I'm going to do it. And that's like
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  Speaker 1: I haven't done It's when four months never done it,
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  Speaker 1: never done it. Yeah, And then but then I try
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  Speaker 1: to fake it a few times it was like we
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  Speaker 1: skip if I didn't want seven is month six, and
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  Speaker 1: one month eight comes, I'll doing month seven and then
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  Speaker 1: I'd like skip it on. Man, now it's all getting
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  Speaker 1: wacky for your mom, like for your mama, like hearts,
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  Speaker 1: like you have those photos because you're taking pictures like
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  Speaker 1: a thousand times. I don't have like lay him laying
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  Speaker 1: on a blanket. I totally you know what I did
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  Speaker 1: I actually tried to initially land right next to my
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  Speaker 1: dog's way and checking to show the size of her
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  Speaker 1: compared to my dogs, which only went like two months
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  Speaker 1: because trying to get an infant child and two dogs
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  Speaker 1: to lay on their back and make eye contact with
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  Speaker 1: the camera was a very gregarious task that did not work.
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  Speaker 1: There's probably like seven hundred photos in my camera role
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  Speaker 1: right now, and I've posted three storage. We have such
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  Speaker 1: a problem there. I was maxed out on eye cloud short,
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  Speaker 1: so the most you can buy before he was born,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, this is gonna get way worse now.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, like I have to
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how. I don't gotta upgrade, No, I
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  Speaker 1: can't the thing I'm up do you have? Like you
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  Speaker 1: gotta go through and delat year old brand deals and
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  Speaker 1: stuff like almost sentimentally attack You're like I might repropose.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, oh look there's like, oh there's a fat
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  Speaker 1: good fun box with the girl young Nick and I are.
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  Speaker 1: They're actually Nick's Benjamin button, so he looks younger and
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  Speaker 1: I look older. But six ninety thousand, then how do
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  Speaker 1: you have eye cloud space? What do you mean you
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  Speaker 1: have me on my eye cloud space. You remember when
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  Speaker 1: we met up with a lawn at that like comedy, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like like yeah, all the way back. Of course I
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  Speaker 1: can go back to eleven on my phone, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't want to delete. I really
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  Speaker 1: have to just do brand strands. But I don't delete anything. No,
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  Speaker 1: I mean neither of a digital pack rat. Yeah me too.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yay, Yeah, you do himsical attachments and all I've
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  Speaker 1: probably do. You want to talk about what a whimsical
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  Speaker 1: attachment is, just to remind the on it touch let's
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  Speaker 1: let's touch about it. Let's touch on it and talk
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  Speaker 1: about it. That's what you're trying to say. Yes, I
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  Speaker 1: was trying to whimsical a touchment about it? Yeah, So
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  Speaker 1: what is it? So when you have like a whimsical attachment,
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  Speaker 1: you're having like this, like it's I feel like so
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  Speaker 1: many women go through this. When you just have this
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  Speaker 1: desire and um ideal of somebody in your life, like
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  Speaker 1: totally being a part of your life, and you just
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  Speaker 1: attached to it. You are in a relationship in a
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  Speaker 1: sense in your mind maybe perhaps like the other person
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  Speaker 1: has given you a little bit of something and you
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  Speaker 1: just attach yourself to that. I've had a couple of
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  Speaker 1: different and I feel like, actually, you've totally taken that on,
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  Speaker 1: but you've also proved my whole whimsical attachment thing wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Like you whimsical attachment. And I said, you know, Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: I think you have a whimsical attachment to Jared. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I think you think the ideal of him and you're you,
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  Speaker 1: you have this ideal of love for him, and you're
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  Speaker 1: like you needed to meet him in order to know
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  Speaker 1: the qualities of people to be able to move forwards,
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  Speaker 1: to go and find it another person. And look at
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  Speaker 1: you now and you are married later and I have
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  Speaker 1: to go dig myself a hole in that sense. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. Guys know you don't love
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  Speaker 1: but a whimsical attachment. I really truly feel like a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people, any single girl like hanging out listening
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  Speaker 1: and going like I just haven't found that person, but
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  Speaker 1: I have this guy or currently do you have a
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  Speaker 1: single or a whimsical attachment in your minds? And Friday
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  Speaker 1: night lights? But oh he is such a time as
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  Speaker 1: like ten years ago, a whimsical attachment. Okay, well, so
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  Speaker 1: Carly has no one apparently, but Carly, have you been
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  Speaker 1: on a date in the past six months? No dates?
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  Speaker 1: Any dates since like you guys start split, No dates
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  Speaker 1: at all? Oh my god? So what's get you on
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  Speaker 1: a date? Do you want? You want to? Yeah? I do.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's really hard. It's hard, um, just situationally because
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  Speaker 1: I have the kids so much that I so I
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  Speaker 1: have like six nights a month that I can go
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  Speaker 1: out where Evan has the kids. So we have the
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  Speaker 1: kids every other weekend. So Fridays, I usually drop the
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  Speaker 1: kids off at three and then I come home and
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  Speaker 1: I order food and I watch TV. So like really
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  Speaker 1: have six nights, but you really have three because one
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  Speaker 1: of those nights right um, and then like like Saturday
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  Speaker 1: night is a good night, and then Sunday night. I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of like doing like things because I get the
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  Speaker 1: kids back in the morning on Monday, so I don't
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  Speaker 1: have a lot of time to I don't where do
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  Speaker 1: you find people? I don't know. I don't I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know how to do it, and I don't really
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  Speaker 1: know when I have the time to do it. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm like really doing okay alone. But yes, obviously it
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  Speaker 1: would be nice to have somebody around. Yes, Crystal, can
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  Speaker 1: we get you guys on the bandwagon of Carly for Bachelorette?
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  Speaker 1: Just like you guys should do a full one thing
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  Speaker 1: for Carly. Like, I don't know, Cary, would you want
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  Speaker 1: another season of the show, whether it be like Paradise
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  Speaker 1: about Cherette or either one? You guys, I haven't proved
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  Speaker 1: to be very successful. You know you did. You wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: take it back? Sorry? Sorry, I would. I would redo
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  Speaker 1: everything with Evan again. My children aren't like my most
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  Speaker 1: prize possession. They're the best thing that's ever happened to me. Um,
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  Speaker 1: But I'm I don't know. This show is so odd
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know that I don't know. I'm a mom.
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  Speaker 1: We're all moms, but like it's so weird. It's different
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  Speaker 1: when your mom maynard season and bring the kids aboard.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't know. But would you even want to
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  Speaker 1: go back onto a reality dates? Like? Like what if you?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I would love to watch it. I would
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  Speaker 1: love to watch everything go down Carly. I want to
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  Speaker 1: say recap her dates because she's so filter. She would
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  Speaker 1: come back terrible because I'd be like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: he was gross, and then they're like, you can't hate him,
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  Speaker 1: they have to like him for two more episodes. That
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  Speaker 1: would be so good. That would be so good. But
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  Speaker 1: I remember like our season of Bachelor in Paradise where
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  Speaker 1: you would come back and you you gave us all details.
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  Speaker 1: It was so good. Too many things. Oh well, you know,
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  Speaker 1: well because we only have so many minutes. But I
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  Speaker 1: think it would be so much fun to see you
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  Speaker 1: as a bachelorette, or at least to get to experience
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  Speaker 1: you going through it, as long as it was good
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  Speaker 1: for you, you know, who knows what the future? Holes?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think you'd be nervous going on dates? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Are you dreading it? Are you excited? I'm not dreading it.
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  Speaker 1: I definitely feel like I know people say this all time,
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  Speaker 1: but I do feel like it took me a really
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  Speaker 1: long time to figure out what I actually need as
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  Speaker 1: a human and what works with me. And I feel
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  Speaker 1: like what there was a lot of things that's that
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  Speaker 1: just previously didn't work, and like now now I know
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  Speaker 1: what that is, you know, And I feel like maybe
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  Speaker 1: I needed to, Like I hadn't had a lot of
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  Speaker 1: long relationships, you know, Evan was my longest relationship I've
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  Speaker 1: ever had, So I think I needed that kind of
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  Speaker 1: navigate the future. So at least I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: do feel like I know a direction now, which is good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and you've literally never looked better, Like she's getting hotter.
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  Speaker 1: Send me all your units and everything, all things, because
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to start soon. You haven't started, tidy, You're
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  Speaker 1: still nursing. Yes, do you see these? Really the longest
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  Speaker 1: time I've been away from my baby. So has breastfeeding
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  Speaker 1: come easy to you? It was like the hardest thing
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  Speaker 1: in the beginning. I hated it so much. I remember
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  Speaker 1: my mom wasn't down and I looked at her and
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  Speaker 1: I went, I don't know I'm gonna do this, Like
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  Speaker 1: I was seriously like so apart from my own body,
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  Speaker 1: like what is this that's happening? And since then though, um, yeah, no,
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  Speaker 1: I love it so much. I what do you love
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  Speaker 1: about it? I love that. I love that, I love
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  Speaker 1: that closeness. I love that I'm giving her something I
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  Speaker 1: I But at the same time, just so everybody out
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  Speaker 1: there knows, I think that is best. I think that
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  Speaker 1: it's so amazing whatever way you get to have that
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  Speaker 1: bond with your with your child. Carly and I are
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  Speaker 1: like we love Oulae, Like that's what Jade was always like,
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like such an attachment with my baby
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  Speaker 1: and I never felt that well. And I totally think
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  Speaker 1: that it's so cool to have that ability to have
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  Speaker 1: that freedom too. But um, this is new to me,
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  Speaker 1: like and maybe it has to do with the like
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  Speaker 1: last year and like or last two years even just
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  Speaker 1: to be most of our lives have dealt with just
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  Speaker 1: being in our own home space. Like I just beat
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  Speaker 1: her like and I don't have any other option. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I um had pumped for a long time and Taylor
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  Speaker 1: would give her a bottle like once a day for
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  Speaker 1: a while, and then I looked at him. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: why are we doing this? Like there's no point. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just gonna feed her, And so we stopped stopped giving
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  Speaker 1: her a bottle bottled milk and I kept nursing her
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  Speaker 1: and I just love it so much and I'm serve
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  Speaker 1: so much. But my filling up what's your biggest body
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  Speaker 1: insecurity post part of post baby, So you know, I
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  Speaker 1: would say she's showing her thanks guys, shout out to
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  Speaker 1: Pedal and Pop for the crop top. But I would say,
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  Speaker 1: on speaking of boobs, maybe we're just talking about it.
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  Speaker 1: But I think it has been like my breast because
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  Speaker 1: I nursed Sandara until eleven months, and I love nursing
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  Speaker 1: and I love the routine of it. Actually, I loved
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  Speaker 1: waking up. I love having dedicated breaks where I could
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  Speaker 1: just take a time out from work and just sit
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  Speaker 1: with her and be present. And then I also would
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  Speaker 1: sometimes use those blocks initially when she was in the
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  Speaker 1: very like newborn stage where I would kind of work
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  Speaker 1: or do emails like while she was nursing, because you're
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  Speaker 1: nursing for like forty five minutes. But um, coming off
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  Speaker 1: of of nursing, which has been like, I guess what
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  Speaker 1: five months now, I feel like my boo are are
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  Speaker 1: a lot different. And I put on this top actually
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  Speaker 1: and I had to adjust the straps and I was like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: the last time I wore this, I was like just
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  Speaker 1: five days off of weaning her, and to see like
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  Speaker 1: the difference. So I've noticed that, but I've also addressed
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  Speaker 1: it as an area where it's like, hey, my body
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  Speaker 1: has changed, and I'm gonna love myself no matter what.
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  Speaker 1: It's just an area for me to like to work
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  Speaker 1: on and work on those push ups and some chest
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  Speaker 1: presses and accept myself as I am and I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna think less of myself because of becoming a mom.
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  Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times I heard I
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  Speaker 1: was so scary to become a mom because of what
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  Speaker 1: you hear, how your body changes. It's really scary, like
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: until you know and then you go through it and
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: you're like it was so worth it, Like every little
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: change was worth it. Yeah, is that your insecurity and
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: not my boobs? I I feel like I honestly, right
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: after I had my baby, I felt sexier than ever,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: and I, um, she's one of those I felt pretty
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: good after giving birth. But like I as everybody who
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: follows me on social media, I think it's the biggest
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: bullshit ever to be like I felt so beautiful pregnet
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: like what this glowing color? No? I did not. I
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: was in so much pain when I was pregnant. I
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: was never told me why you were in pain because
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: you weren't nauseous, but you go sleep? We okay. Ben
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: was on the thing and I didn't want to talk
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: about what was it. My bones were like broken, like
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: I felt like my pubic bones were about to bust.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I have SPD, which is like I don't actually synthesis
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: pubic diacesis or something like that. Um, basically, you know
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: what happens to your abs they separate, your pubic bones separate,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: and I it's so debilitating to where I was basically
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: crawling to the bathroom like on my hands and knees,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: like could barely even do that. I couldn't even sleep
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: at night because I couldn't find a comfortable comfortable place. No,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: it's it's it's actually debilitating and um uh. And then
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I actually suffered through it for a couple of months
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: after Roll was born, but it was way easy in
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: your pregnancy fourteen for fifteen weeks, like all of a
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: sudden first weeks, so so I will take it. You
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: guys might have been throwing up. I didn't. I was like, oh,
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: I'm great. I'm just still running my normal like five
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: miles or whatever. And then all of a sudden, I know,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: and then all that was that was my normal, and
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I felt like a caveman, like
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: going on all fours calling back to my car to
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: get home from my My run turned into walk turned
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: into crawl because it was what, guess what I don't
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: understand what so what I what I understand is the
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: relax in your body that's made to create that separate
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: like to open up your hips and like open everything
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: up to help birth. The baby like set in really
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: like quick for me. But I also have like a
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: lot of dance and ballet like prior injuries, and my
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: hips are very slippery and a lot of like stability
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: is not in there. And then the pelvic floor comes
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: in and you're like, that's just a mess. So, um,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I've got a lot of stuff I have to deal with.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: And I know, do you wear a poise powdever? Ad? No,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: So it's not like I'm leaking. I actually have full
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: on like nice nice, nice drop but a huge fan
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: over the past couple of months. No, I love poise,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: but I haven't dropped anything for a while. Know, Um,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: you haven't drop some in a while? No, I haven't.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I can hold it out really good. But the boise
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: pats are there. Okay, boy, Then what else is going on?
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: You said that you're like you're dropping things? Was that mean? No,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not dropping anything dropping, I'm not dropping anything. I
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: can hold it all in my Everything's good. It took
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: me a while for recovery to feel like I could
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: even walk again. I remember coming back home after postpartum
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: past the six weeks and like sobbing, like Taylor, I
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: can't even walk around our house, like I was just
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: in distress, Like I can't even walk and this is
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: really hard and I don't even know what to do.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: My God, So everybody's story in their pregnancy and postpartum
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: is so different. Now I'm running again. I'm so happy.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I still have some of that SPD filling and I
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: feel like it should be talked about more because I
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: feel like they heard of it before and I thought
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I was like basically an honorary O b G y N.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: You are pretty much but it's no big deal. Oh
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: and I would come to you for derm for sure,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: but like, like my crotch hurts sometimes. Um, but it's
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: it's really hard to uh just be able to get
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: on and move forward with your body when it feels
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: like it's broken, Like it's so painful, but um sounds
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: so tough to deal with. Are you feeling good right now? Oh?
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I feel pretty good, And I'm like, I feel pretty good,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: but no, I don't even remember where that started from.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: But like that was my postpartum postpartum insecurities. Yeah, oh oh,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: so I'm going to tell you my insecurity was the
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: SPD was really really hard, but my insecurity was my
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: my lower abs. Like so that same with me because
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: like you and I both like we like showing off
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: our topic. You know, our tell me is are at
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: least for me, it's always my favorite part of my body.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: And it was definitely like I got back to my
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: I'm no, I'm blessed. And I can't believe I've even
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: saying this, probably because I feel bad about it, but
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: like I got back to my normal weight pretty fast.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I gained five bound during pregnancy, and um, I got
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: back pretty fast. Don't know how. I just kind of like,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: you know, thank you mom jeans my mom's she did um,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: but like yeah, there's just like extra skin and like
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: a little bit like just the tightness wasn't there my abs.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: So then I went to the med spot. I got
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: em sculpt neo and holy shi, it didn't work. You
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: guys want whatever crystals like crystals like you can also
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: do this in the gym. I have not. It was
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: amazing because I agree it was. I did the public
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Floord training. I worked with the public floor physiotherapy. It
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: worked for my pelvic floor after one g six sessions.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: It's basically like this weird thing that contracts your stomach. Guys,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: it's supposed to be the equivalent of twenty thousand sit ups,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Like with one thirty five minute session, and after one treatment,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I realized I wasn't peeing my pants anymore. Wow, I know,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: it was dribbling everywhere until my first that is, I
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: still have such an This is an off Brandy usage
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: for it. The M sculpt neo is like, this is
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: not what we are made for. But that what was
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: so amazing too, was like that, you know, I could
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: contract even when I was like eight months nine months pregnant.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I could still contract my upper apps, but my lower
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: apps zero control none, And so exactly when I did
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: the neo M sculpt, I could actually feel my lower
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: abs getting worked, which is so important. Not just I
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: mean there's like the material aspect of like you know,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: wanting to be tone and like pulling the muscles, but
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: like it's your core support. It supports your back, it
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: supports your publc floor. Like it's so critical for bending over, reaching,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: picking up baby, picking up the car seat in the stroller,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: like it plays such an important role in your overall lifestyle.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: It's like it's not just an aesthetic thing and like
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: your physical health. Yes, and rocking a crop top. Just
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: throw something in there for all the people who are
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: listening that never had apps. I've also never had apps.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: Ab to rock a crop top. You're doing okay, and
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: you don't. You don't. You also don't have to feel
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: like you have apps. Everybody is also different the way
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: that they lose the baby weight and all that. It's
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: it all happens in its own time, and if it
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: doesn't happen, it's also good. I will say my I
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: didn't really feel like myself until at least seven months postpartum,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: but really until I finished nursing in eleven months that
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I really felt like I was in my body. It
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: took a lot longer than I thought, surprisingly, but you
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: know what, it was such an amazing journey, and you know,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I don't regret a single second of it. It was
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: all really special. I love that. And I do remember
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: you asking about when like that would like kind of
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: hook with um, how you would feel yourself, and you
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: didn't have an answer because I sacrificing my body. But
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I love it so much too. I don't know, I
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: feel like there is really different ways to go about it.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I will say this, like for anyone listening as pregnant
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: or postpartum, and advice to myself for the next round
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: is that that postpartum period, I'm going to soak it
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: into so much more the next time, I'm not going
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: to stress and try to get my ams back as
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: fast and I think there's so much pressure as a
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: limited to do that, and also like you just kind
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: of want to feel like yourself again, right, Like there's
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: that element, there's just like yeah, and there is also
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: like a lot of pressure. But I'm so excited, like
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: for the next round where I just want to be
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: so much more in the moments with a baby because
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I know now how fast it really goes, and it's
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: like it's going to be great. I'm gonna enjoy that
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: first month where all they do is eat, sleep, and poop.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Like you're like, mother is so easy. All I do
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: is hold this baby, and then all of a sudden
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: they come away to the world at like five or
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: six weeks, and then you're like, oh man, motherhood is
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: definitely the opposite of easy. But I Okay. Actually, like
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: I feel kind of sad that you and I both
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: missed out on that. It sounds like like the sense
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: of like motherhood is easy, um, because I just don't
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: know what's going to happen that second round, and I
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: feel like we're gonna have these other little babies running
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: around going Mama, Mama, mama, and then oh my gosh
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: and that. Yeah. I know, I just and I just
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: just want to be able to soak it up the
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: same way. Yeah. Well, Carly, and my last question is
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: for you. Is for you because your mom of two,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: and sorry for everybody who's tired of the mom talk.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: You know, we're going to have lots of talk about
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: relationships and other girls stuff later. Um, Carly, how the
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: heck do you throw up while having another little one
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: around when you're pregnant round two? Uh? Well that's a
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: loaded question from my experience, but I would say, just
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: you have to have people to help you, Yeah, like
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: you can't. You cannot do it alone, Like you just
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: can't get an army. Okay, yeah, yeah, I agree. Okay, Mom,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: you're living with me, but but I'll does a fantastic job.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: You know, he has to work, you know, but I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: got a full time grandma here she got another job. Anyway, Okay, ready,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: let's get the next round of ladies in Carly's Henley Crystal.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: So fun chatting with you with you two girls, I
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: have a new panel of ladies. I'm so excited to
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: be joined by. We have Heather, Heather, what the heck
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: is your last name? Heather? Am okay that we have
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: dan Yellow McBride and you were on Shawn season season Okay,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: so you're a throwback in Paradise season one. Paradise season one,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: that's right, Oh my gosh, with Claire okay, and then
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: we have Claire Crawley next to me. This is an
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: amazing group of ladies. I love Tonight so much fun.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: I feel like I could do an hour podcast with
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: every panel. For this panel, let's do like not like
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: truth or Dare, but like sort of like like, okay,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: go around, I want to go around the circle. And well,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: okay for the two says okay. Daniella is in a relationship.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: She has to she has a set of twins that
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: were born eight months ago. Um, and you're in a relationship.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: How long have you been in a relationship? For? Seven years?
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Seven years. But you guys aren't married. We are not married,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: but we're but you're committed for life. Committed for life. Okay, Okay,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: now we have So my question was going to be
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: when was the last time you kissed a guy? So
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I'm talking because Danielle, I'm assuming you probably kissed. You're
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: probably today, probably today. Okay, So Heather, you're notorious notoriously
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: I kissed because it's a girl's night sponsored by Notorious
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: for It's not not She her first kiss was Colton.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: How does it feel it your first? That was like
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: the thing? So, now, how do you feel that he's
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: come out? I mean, I still everyone's like it doesn't count.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean it doesn't count? Are
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: you kidding me? Like why would that not? He's still
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: a hot DIY a lot of times, and like, yes,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: it counts. Are you kidding me? That was like the
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: best first kiss, Like it first sure counts. Okay, So
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: was that your last kiss? Because we all not even
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: try to kiss mad James. You try to kiss Mat
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: but not like you didn't make a move because I
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: don't know if you guys remember, She made a cameo
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: appearance on Matt season no, I literally am learning. She's
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: so beautiful. Okay, well she tried to make an appearance
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: and date Matt. It was it was a little late.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: It was late. Can I ask why why didn't you kiss?
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: I have no idea the background on. I mean, it
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: wasn't like, it wasn't anything like. I was like, I
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: just hadn't I just had Yeah, well, okay, it was like.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: It wasn't like I was going to kiss random person
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: in a bar. Yeah, And do you know what I was?
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Nineteen was my first kiss. And I've told this story
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: a number of times on this podcast. You know, it
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: has been five years in the podcast, so obviously stories
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: could be repeated. But I was in nineteen, and of
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: course my thing was I'm not just randomly get to
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: kiss a guy in a bar. A guy randomly kissed
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: me in a bar, and that was my first kiss.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Its sloppy, is it was not even any different straight tongue.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: It was like a hookah bar. It wasn't it was.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: It wasn't you guys. It was funnier than hookah bar.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: It was a burlesque club. Yes, so there could be there.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: One of the would not have been there at nineteen.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I knew the owner I knew and he was just
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: like dad. This guy was dancing with me and he
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: was like totally like you know, like a rocker dude,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: like long hair. He was not my type at all,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: but he was hot. And now at Hind I could
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: actually go Okay, So this is so silly, Like lots
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: of people keep tally's of like you know, the not
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: just on their bead like how many people they slept with? Right, well,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: because we all know that, Like I'm limited to that department.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I have, like I had before I was married, like
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: a kiss list, and I can go down my kiss
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: list and I'm darn proud of almost every single one
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: and it's like a good quality list. How many guys
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: If you're thinking, okay, so this is how I'm gonna
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: trick Heather again, how many guys can you think of
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: that you regret kissing or more? Then? Oh, well, first
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: of all, I'm I have so many years on you guys,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: that's not a fair question. Yeah, but you've also been
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: a long term relationship, so you have to knock them out,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: you know what. I would love to say. I mean,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: there's a few that were not the greatest, but they're
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: what I wanted at the time to find out, and
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: there's only one way to find out is by doing it.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: For sure, Do I regret it? No? Is there anything
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: I would take back? No, because at the time that's
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: what I wanted, and I would have not known that
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: if I hadn't gone for it. Okay, okay, so let's
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: just let's keep it to the Bachelor, now, Claire, where
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: did you kiss anybody on the on you know, any
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: of the seasons? Just give one name of all the
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: guys that you kissed on the show that you were like, nah,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: that one was a nah. Um. Oh, she kissed my husband.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: So that's funny. You should him on the list there.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: I actually kind of like love that. It's like really weird,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: like he's like, you know, he's For the record, I
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: don't remember it. It was pretty peck like, it was
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: pretty prepared. I remember that. I remember that. That's so funny.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: You guys are about to bungee jump. We did bungee
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. You know what. My ears were ringing,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: my toes were purple. I was not That's why I
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: don't remember, because I blacked out over the ocean. That's right. Oh,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: you just brought up a topic that I'm going to
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: bring around in Lizzie, my best friend Lizzie from She's
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: my best friend since nineteen so like half my life.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: She's gonna come on. We're going to talk about moments
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: we've blacked out with guys. And I don't mean blackout
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: because of drunk because it was so embarrassing. But Claire,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: one name, just keep one name. Oh my god, I
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: have a good name for you. Okay. Should I give
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: you that? You're probably your your most like the kiss
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: that you regret the most from the Bachelor franchise. Okay, um,
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: you can give it to me. What do you think?
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: What about that guy from Winter Games, the one with
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: like the accent? He was like, Claire, Claire Christian Christian?
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Did you kiss him? Don't? If I did, it was
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: not memorable. So maybe that's what Wait? Is that the
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: guy you dated on No engaged my fiance my ex fiance,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: But you don't regret that kiss? Yeah? Okay, Ben was amazing,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: it really all. He is one of the still to
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: this day, one of the greatest guys I know, Such
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: a gentleman. He is the perfect example of when a
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: relationship doesn't work. Out. He is so graceful, and he
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: is so humble, and he is the sweetest, kindest human
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: being in the entire world, so so wonderful. So if
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: you're two past fiances, do you like the most? Yes, Yes,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: that times ten. Yes, I will tell you even though
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: that relationship, because there's a lot of relationships that run
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: their course and serve their purpose, and not all relationships
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: are meant to last. But I think if a relationship
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: doesn't last, that's okay. You get what you get from
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: it at that time, and it serves some sort of purpose.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: And our relationship Benas and I did not work out,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: but just logistically and everything. But he has so much
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: respect for me and I have so much respect for him,
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: and we both just it was the most mature thing
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: ever because it was honest and real and genuine on
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: both sides. And that's what made it special. And that's
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: what's still makes it special. I love that so things
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: things don't always work out, it's it's the truth that matters.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: It's he's from brands, right from Canada, Canada. I was
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: gonna say, there's something about guys that I'm not trying
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: to stereotype because I'm with someone who's American, but who's
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: European or Canadian or something. They're like more real almost
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't know, like romance wise, I'm just thinking
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: like maybe that's where he brought in like a difference.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if it's it's authentic. I don't know,
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: it's a cultural thing. It's definitely. I think it's human
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: to human. It's human. You either have it or no
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: integrity or you don't, you know. So I don't think
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: it depends where you land on the map, you know. Yeah, true,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: But I don't know. Let's go around. I'm gonna let
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: off the hook. No, I'm gonna let her off the
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: hook because I used to hate. My biggest insecurity when
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: I was like super and I had no experience was
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: when people was Heather and Heather I was for a
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: very very long time. I didn't have my second kiss
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: until I was I guess I was twenty, Okay, oh no, no,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: maybe I was nineteen. Maybe I had two kisses at nineteen,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: But like, I was not experienced in that department until
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: like one sole season. It didn't seem like I had
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: too much experience going into that one either anyway. So, um,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: but yeah. My least everything was when people would like
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: play would you have you? Never have? You? Never have
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I ever? And I was like, oh my god, everybody
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: in this circle of people is going to know exactly
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: that I'm the most virginy world. So I'm not. I'm
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: not that I really care, but yeah, it's okay, of course. Okay,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: so let's go around the circle for a second and
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: talk about a moment in which we were so embarrassed
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: while flirting with a guy, or trying to be flirt
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: with a guy, because maybe you weren't successful in the moment. Okay, Feather,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: would that be mad? That's probably not down. That was
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: more embarrassing. Oh my gosh. Probably I'm trying to think.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, like you actually like I was a very
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: much fan girl of the show. No, just in general,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: it's like all things, just like, yeah, like your Jonas
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: brother is like, yeah, I was like, my story actually
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: has to do with a Jonas brother. I try to say,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell the story. Remember the story? Do
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: you never remember the jingle ball? Yes, yes, we're gonna
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: get to it. Oh my gosh. Okay, so the question
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: is when I was embarrassing. I've been so embarrassing, Like
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: I have the most embarrassing stories. I can't. I don't
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: even know what the most embarrassing. Just pick one. Um. Now,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I've done like a lot of like celebrity stalking, like
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: with like Teeny Popper. I didn't know we had this
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: in common that really yeah, like I came talked about
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: it embarrassed. But there was this one guy that I
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: was like obsessed, can you give us a hand? Like
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: you don't probably no one knows him. Probably anyways, I
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: was not twenty one yet, but he was. Um. I've
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: been to like three of his things, like his concerts,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: like they were he like didn't even a concerts, like
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: he was like he was like like had like like
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: something at Coupital Records. I was in college, like my
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: freshman year of college, and I went and there was
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: like me. I took my two sisters and like my
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: two best friends. I thought it was really a big thing.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: We were the group. There was no one else to
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: other people. I've been to like four of his things
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: and then I snuck in to his concert before I
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: was sending one with like a fake eddy because I
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: wanted to go so so bad. It was so very
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: just I feel like we're getting very flustered right now.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: So I ended up like knowing his cousin down the road,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: and did you like try to get in through the
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: cousin route. Don't worry, I've done such embarrassing things. I
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: feel embarrassed talking about this. Okay, I've done it. I've
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: made my sister hook up with guys that were like
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: siblings and teammates and all that. Anyways, yeah, like blong
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: through short, I went to like a million of this
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: kind of things, ended up like, yeah, seeking him before
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: I was anyone he knew. His mom said I was
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: a super fan, Like I went, but you're so pretty,
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Like was he like looking at you? I have no idea, No,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: probably not. I was embarrassing. I was so embarrassing, but
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: I just like I'm like, I'm just pointing to her.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: I just like, yeah, like went just so many things
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: and like snuck in stared at him like thought I
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: was the only one in the crowd. Yeah, I mean
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: I've definitely done yea cousin knew who I was. I
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: ended up like me and his cousin are still like
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: one of my best guy friends called me a super fan.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: But did he like ever give you, Like, did you
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: ever try to like talk to you? He like talked
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: to us. I remember like one time one time, like
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: I went to his third concert, like he knew who
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: you were, like we're super fans. Like he like said, like,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like beautiful darling. I went to the
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: bathroom and felt before like literally against the wall, knees down,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: the best thing in my life. Um yeah, that was
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: like my life. Okay, great, well that was my life too.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: So embarrassing. I've never related her like it makes me
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: so happy, like thinking about those memories. Oh yeah, I
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: still do it to this day. Oh yeah, I think
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: I think back on how embarrassing I was as well,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: so barely. I thought it was super cool too, Like
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: we would be like three years older than most Jonas fans, okay,
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: maybe like five years older than most, and we would
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: show up in like the sluttiest outfits and the highest
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: heels and be like they're not looking at you at us.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: It was like you gotta do what. She's so happy
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: want to die inside deeply because I did. Okay, daniela
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: embarrassing moment with a man. Okay, I actually have a
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: celebrity one. So I'm trying to relate to when you
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: guys said the dating one. Hope it's not the story
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: you just told me outside. I will definitely yeah, I
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: can't share multiple celebrity that was. That one's a really
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: good one, but I don't know if I could share that, um,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: but I will say that I was an intern at
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: Entertainment Tonight when I first moved to l A. And
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I remember I was at the bucket list for Sandra
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: Bullock and Tim McGraw's it was like a movie they
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: were doing. And Tim McGraw, I thought it was just like,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: obviously he's so much older. He's like, you know, but
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: he's just so sexy and cool and whatever. And I
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: was so young. I was an intern and I had
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: just seen him interview, and all of a sudden, like
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: somehow I'm gappy for the blind Side, Yeah, blind Side, Yes,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: it's blind Side. And somehow I end up at an
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: elevator with me and timergraw and I'm like, oh my god,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: timmergaw and me and elevator, no one else. And he's like, hey,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: how are you? And I was like I'm good, how
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: are you? And he's like and he's like, yeah, what
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: are you doing here and I'm like, I'm an intern.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: He's like, oh really, I'm like yeah, I'm like when
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: you did really great in there, Like you remember after
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: that like elevator ride, like he said, all right, well,
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: it is so great to meet you, and I was
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: just like I left it thinking like I am mortified,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Like why would I tell him he did so great
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: in his interview? And I just remember it was like
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: a moment for me. I'm like in the elevator with
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: Timergraw and I'm like, this is my one time and
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: I told him he did good in an interview, okay,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: because he's so married, so it's like be fan girly.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: One time I went up to Henry cavill at the
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: Justice League premiere and I said, you were so good,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: you were the most supermanny Superman, You've ever been, the
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: most Superman Superman Superman you've ever been and all that,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: and he was like thank you, and then I walked away.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: He had no interest. Although I feel like that's says
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: a lot. I feel like that I get what you're saying.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: You're always saying you're the most Christopher because there have
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: been so there are so many other options as Superman correct. Yes,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: it's not like he's the only one, right, So he's
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: the closest to like what you would idealize exactly. I
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: would agree, thank you. It's a proud mument right there.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: He does not know he's Superman, you know, trivia like
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: thank you. All right, So Claire, now now your story. Okay,
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: so tell me the question again. So like a time
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: that you blacked out because you were so embarrassed by
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: flirting or anything like that. Okay, so this one was
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: super embarrassing, but it ended up really at the time,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: really good. So there is this this it was a
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: while ago, but there was this actor that I just
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: like all celebrities celebrity story too, that's why they're so
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: that's why they're so cringe e because it was a
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: regular dude, we'd be like whatever, So this one he's yeah.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: So somehow we ended up talking on social media and
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: found out what city he was in, and it was
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: happened to be the weekend that I was going to
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: be in that city, and I just did a little
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: bit more research and I found out where he was,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Like I think with social media, was found out the
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: bar that he was going to be at, and you
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: and I'm telling you this definitely paid off. But I
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: walked and I was like, I could not play it cool.
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, what would you do? And he's like,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: you knew, you know, you knew I was here because
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: I had commented on his social media and he's like,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, I could not play it off
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: at all. But we ended up laughing about it because
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: I was not not even cool about it at all.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: It was very and then we ended up just talking
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: that night and then became friends. Oh that's awesome. And
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: when I say friends, yeah, we became friends. Okay, so
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: they should accomplished. So without going into too many details
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: of my friends, um like experience with um the Jonas brothers, um,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: let's just say that, like we were friendly at this point.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: You know, I had been on a couple of bachelor seasons.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: We had hung out with them at like, uh, they've
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: been hung out with them a few times, okay, and
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: she was always like having the best time, and Joe
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: was always Joe is like my guy. Okay, so you
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: understand that when we talked about like band guys, like
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: she had somebody and then I okay, so she was
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: her crush and like my Crush was a show. Yeah, so,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: but Joe always had a girlfriend and whenever, like the
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: few times that we hung out with them, he always
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: had their girlfriend there. So I was just like, you know,
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: at that point in my life, I was like, you
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: know what, I am just thrilled to be invited. Okay,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: I was just saying for a thrilled and we invited
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: and it's okay. But then there was a time when
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: I was single because I was always single until I
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: got married basically, and then and he was what I
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: presumed was single, but he was actually like dating Sopie
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: Turner for like maybe like I don't know, six weeks
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: or something bleeding up to this. It was a jingle
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Ball after party, so it's right across from Mathis and
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Square Garden our friend to the show and fellow I
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: heart up, amazing woman, Tanya Rad. She was like, you
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: could come to the d n C after party with me,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: and Joe was over by the and he like knows
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: my name and everything. Did you watch Bachelor or no?
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: This is like because I was a fan, because honestly
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: it started as I have known my name before the
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Bachelor because I was okay, remember when when my Bachelor
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: picture came out. It said Ashley Annetti has been to
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: over twenty seven Jonas Pillar concerts, so like he knew
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: me as a creepy fan, and then all of a sudden,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: it's like, oh, she's not Maybe she's not creepy anymore.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know. So anyway, I thought he was like single,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: and he was standing over by the bar by himself,
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: and like, my friends were talking to other people, and
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna okay. Oh and actually previously in the night, UM,
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: he was getting off stage and we were backstage and
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: we we um passed each other backstage, and he was
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: like I think he even said hi actually and gave
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: me a huh oh my god. Yeah, You're like this
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: is I'm like, this is worth the wait. So I
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: was like having feeling gutsy, you know yeah. And then
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: I went over to him by the bar and I go, hey,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: you know, my friends talking to your friend, um, and
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I thought, you know, we've always been in each other's presence,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: but we've never really talked, So Hi, what's up. Yeah,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: she's got game, okay, And right, I just went up
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: and I did, and I said it, and then he
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: turns to me and he goes hi, and just stairs
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: and then nothing else as you say, and then I
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: said hi, Hey, I walked away. Stop. Yeah. He literally
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: said high and in no way wanted to engage in
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: conversation with me. So I just took a sip and
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: I got out, are you sure he heard what you said?
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Did he hear what you The music has just taken.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: He's nodding over she knew, he knew, he knew. I
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: think that he was probably just like dating his future
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: wife and was like, I know this girl's trying to
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: flirt with me and I'm not not down right but
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: odds still, but at least you have the confidence to
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: go up and do it. Like do you look back
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: on that moment and you're like, I wish I wouldn't
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: have or do you look back on and going I
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: still did that, I'd still do it. It's a really
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: funny story. It's like blocked it out until my friends
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: brought it up a couple of weeks ago and I
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: was like, holy sh it, that is so funny, so embarrassing,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: but bold and like a story to always tell. And
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: here I am even like openly talking about on the
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: podcast because I think it's you know it. Did you
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: like to feel happy after? Like? No, I felt so moralized.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: I ran up to Lizzie and I was like, Yo,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: that wasn't it your friend? Yeah? No, no, let's get
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: out of here and I'm done. Oh my gosh. Did
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: you chalk it up to a winner loss? I definitely
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: at the time a loss, but I think, like now
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: in my more mature state, think it's probably of course.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: How many girls do you think the opportunity for sure?
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: You took it like that's like it never feels bad,
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: Like that's that's the thing. Like I went up and
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: my voice wasn't even shake it. You're so confident. Manifested
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: that moment the most fun ever. I don't want this
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: podcast to end, but it is time to say goodbye.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: You know it sounds like the Mickey Mouse Club song
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: and bring in another group of girls. Yes, I love
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: you guys, thank you. So we are now joined by
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Becky Tilly and Kenda Long, which both of you are
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: in like, well, you're not in new love relationships. Becca
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: is in an old love relationship which is still fresh
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: and beautiful and young, but publicly new and then Kendall,
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: you just also had like a hard launch with your boyfriend.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: It's like this hard launch thing, this is like this
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: is a new thing, right. They call it hard launch,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: the gen Z thing they were trying to pick up on. Yeah,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: so like we're saying that, like what is a hard launch?
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: So you just posted him like what am I supposed
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: to do? So that's you gave no hints beforehand that
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: you were in a relationship or did you know? I mean,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, no, it was for me. I
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: was just like I wanted to get confidence in him
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: in our relationship, like feel really solid, and I was
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: like then words, going for it. Yeah, and Becca had
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: the softest of launches for a long time. Lots of
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: little clues. I guess, yeah. I mean I talked about
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: being in a relationship, and I think there was speculation,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: but it was That's why I didn't even know. It
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: was like, is this a hard launch or a soft launch?
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. It's a launch. It was.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: It was a launch. You guys, if you're listening and
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: you're like I'm lost right now, well then you obviously
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: don't listen to the almost as Pot asked very regularly,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: because we talked about both of these uh newly released relationships.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: Beccau has been with Haley Kyogo for four years now,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: and Kendall has been with her boyfriend. I'm sorry, what's
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: his name? Mitch Stage, Mitch Sagely since Valentine's say, you
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: guys made official and Valentine's say, how long we view
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: dating before Valentine's Day? Um? Since early ish December on
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: his birthday, well the day before his birthdays when we met. Okay,
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: so you were telling us earlier this is girls night,
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: you know, this is thank you d Uber Eats for
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: the most amazing girl's night. We're going to have a
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: really cool mentalist in the next segment, but right now,
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: we've got to catch up on the girl talk, right,
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: and that's girl talk always has to do with relationships.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: So I gotta know about how you met and like
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: the sparks, so you fell early on and all that.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: So we met through a mutual friend, one of Mitch's
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: volleyball friends, and we did a little pregame before going out,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: and um, the one thing that really had me impressed
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: by him is that we were talking about life that
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: could potentially be on other planets. And I was like, oh,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: there's this moon off Jupiter that could potentially harbor alien life.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: He's like, oh yeah, Europa. And I was like, no
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: one knows that, or at least like for me. It's
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: like I'm like cool, people know that. So he automatically
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: I was just like, yes, he's a nerd. This is
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: me great. Uh he's an aerospace engineer, so knows way
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: more things about space than I can never imagine. Did
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: he say Hi, I'm Mitch and like quickly in the
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: conversation said I'm an aerospace engineer, in which case Kendall's like,
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Candle is like, okay, I'm officially completely. I was like,
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: thing inging, like this guy's honestly yes. So and then
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: he brought the whole thing about like you know, Europa,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: and I was like, this is just like in the bag. No,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: he's uh yeah, he's just like a sexy nerd, my
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: sexy nerds. So it's been lovely, so so cute. So
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, I love to jump ahead of things. But
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: we saw you very you know, there's lots of there's
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: lots to what happened in Paradise that of course we
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: didn't see and you were just on last season of Paradise.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: And I'm sure lots of people have thoughts on like
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: you going there and trying to ruin Joe's time blah blah,
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: but we all know that, like, despite whatever your thoughts
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: or whatever, the whole story was that like you definitely
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: left there like upset, still broken, you know, broken hearted
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: to a certain degree. You know, like were you did
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: you consider yourself fully healed from Joe after that? Or
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: did you get fully healed because of Paradise? Oh? I
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: mean I felt like I was fully healed from that
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: past relationship before I went, or else I wouldn't have gone. Um.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: And I think being back definitely brought up a lot
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: of feelings, but I left feeling really good about how
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: everything went, and um that it ended on more of
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: like a positive note with a lot of clarity. Um,
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: and both of us, neither of us were interested in
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: rekindling anything. It wouldn't have made any sense. Um. But
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: you know, I actually left the beach think like man like, Dang,
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: that was hard, but I feel a lot better because
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: of it. And I think we're both kind of like
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: on the right path to where we need to go. Um,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: And it wasn't until you know a little bit later
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: in that I was you know, there's always a different
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: interpretation of events and so um, that's when it kind
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: of became more of a because an interesting situation, like
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: reliving things in a different way than I had expected to.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: So we can safely say that you left Paradise knowing
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: that Joe was not going to be your person. So
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: now that you're with Mitch, I mean, give me the
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: t like your person forever. This is like the full
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: circle moment I'm trying to have right now. Oh my gosh,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: I really intense for him to hear if he ever
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: listens to No. I mean we I think we talk
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: started talking about baby since day one, so I mean
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: our first date. I think we're both on the same
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: path of where we went to be what we're ready for. Um.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: And he's just continues to impress me with who he
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: is and how he views life and how challenges me.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: So I'm really excited. I just keep getting excited to
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: move forward with him. You know, I don't think it's
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: ever like a definite like this guy's you know, husband babies,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: although like I definitely envisioned that, but Um, but I'm
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: just excited to take the next step, you know, and
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: I just can't wait to get to keep moving forward exciting.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: What what is the next step that you foresee? Well, Um,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: for me, I don't want to live with somebody until
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: I'm engaged. I think that's so smart. Somebody recently told
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: me I think I shouldn't live um with a future
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: boyfriend until we're engaged. And that was the ultimatum I
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: kind of gave Jared. It wasn't an ultimatum. We were
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: only together for three months, but I was like, I
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: don't think it's right for us to live together until
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: we're engaged. And that's what we did and it worked
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: out perfectly, and I hope the same for you. Thank you. Yeah,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm excited for it. We were already talking about
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: different places we'd want to live together. Um. But I
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: mean I've lived with a few people in the past,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: and it's always been when you move in with somebody,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: it just changes the dynamic of a relationship and it's
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: not anymore. It can be romantic, of course, but there's
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: a lot less romance and there's a lot less excitement
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: over like hearing their footsteps or like the knock of
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: the door when they get there, being two completely like
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: individual people and you know, really enjoying like our own
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: independence and doing whatever we you don't want to do
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: in our time being you know, a separated and we
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: have the rest of our lives to be together. So
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: I'm really excited for that to be. Um. The next
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: step I would love to live with him, but we'll see.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: So the next step is engagement. Okay, okay, So Becca,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: you've been with Haley for four years, but you guys
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: don't live together and why is that? And do you
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: have any plans to? We don't. We both have like
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: separate I have a house and she has her place too,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: and so I think, but we always like we spend
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: every night together just like so we basically too. Do
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: you feel like you're wasting money on mortgage or well,
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: not mortgage, I feel because I feel great about having
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: a house, but I think, um, it's kind of I
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: think eventually we will move in a direction where we
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: live in one home. Um, And I still like we basically,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, we essentially lived together, and I still feel
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: very much like excited. Now I feel horrible, actually, you
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: know what now that you say it like that, I
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: told Jerk. So I don't know if you remember during
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: our wedding ceremony along you guys know former Bachelor Bachelor
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: Paradise basically like founder like brain master, Um, he was
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: the ficial neur wedding and he said Ashley is a goldfish.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: You know, like you like heard her, you make her
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: happy or something happens, and then like she has like
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: a rebound rate of two seconds, and before you know it,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: she's like at it again. She's like she was rejected
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: and she sat for a second. She cries really hard,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: then she's at it again. I tell Jared all the
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: time ago this is this is what happens. So he
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: comes home really late. But every single night, like when
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: he comes from work, I get so excited for him
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: to come home. And then he comes home and he's
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: like a bump on a log. He's so tired, and
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, today wasn't the day. Today wasn't
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: the day that like we had like a great night together.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: It's such a blast. Like tomorrow, tomorrow he's gonna come
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: home and be excited again, and he's gonna fall asleep
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: on the couch. So yeah, I guess you know, I
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: still get very excited for him to come home. And
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: that's really cute that you guys are the same way
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: four years later. Yeah, it's I never thought I would
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: be someone who felt that way for someone after so
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: much time. Didn't we always say like we don't know
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: how we would ever live with someone? Yeah, because I
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: get so annoyed. I mean I get so annoyed with people,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: like I need my space and she's like the only
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: person that I don't need, like space from. Yeah, you
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: need like your fart bubble, like your good for you
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: for every hale to fart in front of you, either
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: or not. His name sounds like a rom calm like
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: the Star Wars does. Actually, it literally sounds like a
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: movie name. Yeah. I really like his last name. Yeah,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: it's a really good name. I steal it at some point.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: That's cute, all right. So, um, let's end this segment
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: with just saying the a couple of things one to
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: the three whatever you feel like things that your partner
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: has as a quality that you were always looking for,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: and another one that they have that you never even
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: thought you needed. It's a really good question. Really looking
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: at each other like you, Um, I'm gonna say the
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: one quality that I the first one is the one
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: that you felt you needed, and the second one didn't
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: need you didn't think you need, But like love having Okay, Um,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: I think the first one is um something that I've
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: always wanted to have in a partner, as someone that
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: challenges me and I learned something new from that them
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: and they can teach me new things. And with Mitch,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: he's so excited and so pumped to show me new
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: podcasts and different things, the things that he's learned. And
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: I do these little science videos and he always gives
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: me good ideas for them. And he loves researching and
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: just broadening our minds and discussing crazy topics. So I've
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: really admired that in him, and that we continuously um
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: challenge each other and stimulating each other in a lot
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: of ways. Um. And the one quality that I didn't
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: think that I needed, um, you know, I love that
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: he holds me accountable for what I believe and why
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: I believe it. And um, whenever I have an opinion
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: or a view about something, he always says, well, why
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: do you think that? Or what got you thinking that?
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: And sometimes I'm like, I don't know I just thought
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: it because maybe like that's what people are doing. And um,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: he really challenges me in uh like holding like standing
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: behind what I believe and actually researching why I believe
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: certain things. And UM, I just find that to be
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: really fascinating because I'm always continuously trying to under my
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: unders and myself like as he's understanding me. Um, and yeah,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: I'm just really impressed by that. That's that's amazing. Both
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: of those are actually come first, you had more time,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: uh question, I would kind of need a minute. Um.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I think the thing that I was like hoping it
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: was what was a question like something that you needed
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: that you're figure has, and then something that you didn't
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: know you needed that you love that they have. Okay,
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: something that I needed was someone who could, um help
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: me learn how to communicate. I'm like such I shut down,
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: like any I don't like confrontation, I don't like to
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: talk things out, and she's very much like, let's talk
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: it out, let's let's try to understand each other and
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: understand the situation before we move on from it. And
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: it's really helped me in so many ways, like with
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: every relationship in my life. Um, and the other thing
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: would be. She has brought different world views to my
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: attention that I never had before, and I don't think
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: I ever would have had had I not met someone
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: so different than me and I really I always thought
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: I wanted someone who had everything the same as me
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: and that we aligned on everything. And I think it's
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: it's really like, there's something really cool about getting to
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: learn about each other and hear each other and experience
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: different world views and views on different things and opinions
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: on different things that, um, I'm kind of the same
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: way that made me think broader. Yeah, yeah, that's a
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: great answer. Okay, well, next up, we have a mentalist
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: coming on and maybe he'll know more about our relationships
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: than we do on all right, we have a very
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: special guest. We have Nivo, the youngest mentalist in the world.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: How young are you that? Wow? Okay if you had
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: to say how old am I? Wait what I was
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: going to say? Two? Yeah, I would say like twenty
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: three ish. I I've guessed around there too. Yeah, but
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: that means you can you can pull, you know, you
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: can pull from all eight groups when it comes to
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: the dating pool. We need to have him another year.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: We encourage that. That's right, I'm so inappropriate. Well, i
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: am so excited that you're here. And I've never met
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: a mentalist before, and it's and we hear so much
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: about psychics mediums, but mentalists. Can you define what that means? Well, actually,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: it's a mindreading. So I'm saying, I'm use three main
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: techniques mind dreading, my influencing, and how much bullshit do
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: you do? Well, I can't tell you about. I'm an
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: entertaining I'm performing in front of big crowds, reading people's mind,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: having fun. So it's like it's very different than psychic
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: or stuff like that. Well, thank you for joining our
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: girls night. This is truly like the most unique cool
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: thing we could have for girls night, Like this is
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: a new thing that we should use for bachelorette parties now.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: Instead of bringing strippers in which no girl really want,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: let's bring in a mentalist's way more fun, way more fun.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: I'm from Israel and the as the world in the world,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: as we said, and I'm doing it. When I'm performing
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: in Israel, I'm doing a lot of like like a
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: lot of parties like that. That's awesome, that's so cool.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: All right, So we heard that you guessed our producers
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: first kiss, you knew the name of the boy who
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: gave her her first kiss, which is so amazing. So
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: we're going to keep with the theme and we're gonna
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: go I'm the circle here, it's me Ashley. My name
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: is Ashley, this is Kendall, and this is Becca, and
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: you're going to tell us the names of the person
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: that we first kissed. And can you give us more detail,
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: like can you tell us the environment in which we
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: were in if that's what we're thinking of, Like if
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: I were to put myself back in that place, are
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: you able to say, Ashley, his name was this, You
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: were in a room that looked like this, and you
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: were this old, or at least can you give me
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: the age that I was. Well, let's start with calmed down. Okay, sure,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: I told you a producer to bring an envelope. Still envelope. Yes, yes,
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: we have the envelope, Like, don't touch it, okay, okay, okay,
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: we see, we see, but he cannot see audience listening
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: NIVO cannot see the what's on the envelope? Paper? No,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: I know what it's on down a little paper. Actually,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: I have it here as well. Just put it face down.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: This would be the prediction. This will be the old game. Okay,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: let me let me tell the audience. Since this is
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: a podcast and it's audio. Danielle flashed a number that
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: was typed out on white paper for me, and it
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: was a long number. I'd say, there's like eight digits.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: I only remember one. Okay, remember one? And and apparently
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: Nebo is now going to in his house in Israel
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: is going to show us the same numbers on a
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: piece of paper halfway around the world. So we'll try
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: to do it. But just before that, I wrote something
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: here on this chot board. Let's say, actually, you can
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: go to anybody you want in the whole world. Which
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: can't you like to visit? Does give me the name
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: I'd like to go to France. That's the place I've
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: never been before that would really like to go. It's Frank,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: drank Sting and Kendell. Can you think of any person's
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: name would like to visit in France? With like any name?
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: It can be someone from your family, from your friend.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: I have a friend. I have a friend named Killian
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: that she supposed to say that you can just say, okay,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know his name is kills already wrote something.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: It's kind of a prediction. It's okay, what's the name?
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: His name is Killian and he lives in France. Very interesting,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: So Killian France. And what was your name? Against story? Becca? Becca?
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. First of all, I told you
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: I can go with the older girls for me. Becca.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: Just think of any amount of money you would spend
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: with Killian her friend in air France. Any amount of
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: money I can I say it out loud, Yeah, dollars.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: It's a big trip of me and kill And little
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: Killian is a very unique name. So if there's something
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: but you said and you said Killian, and you said France,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: I couldn't predict all of those. But I'll hold it
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: a chalkboard from the start of the show. And I
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: told you that I wrote something before the show started.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: And I must tell you that I wrote, friends, what
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: that is insane? Like my whole body? And he didn't
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: touch it. There was no way he touched it. We
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: were watching him the whole time. He did not touch
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: his board. How did you know this before you even
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: met us? Like I can even I could almost killing
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: you killing so so so so weird it out right
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: now I'm so weird it out because, Okay, Kendall's just
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: saying that her her X was a magician. This is
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: not Joe, Guys, another X and and this has been
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: the greatest magic trick of all time. This is yeah,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: this is actually on par with some of the best
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: magic tricks I've seen. It's been different than magic because
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: people are a bit confused about what is mentalist, what
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: it's like. Is it a magician? Well, I'm using an
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  Speaker 1: l piece that's ner linguistic programming. I'm using bad language reading,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm using more psychological techniques than it's not a man.
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  Speaker 1: That's different from agician. That's interesting. But but when did
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  Speaker 1: you write that down? Yeah? I thought you were that
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  Speaker 1: wort that down before you even met us. Call Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but then, how did you get her party language? How
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: did you get her party language? You've got our minds. No,
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  Speaker 1: that was how to influence you to think about the
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: certain things. But as I told you, if I'll tell
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  Speaker 1: her how to kill you actual story Lu's show. I
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  Speaker 1: told someone in the crowd, if I tell her how
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  Speaker 1: to kill you? And then it stood up and he said,
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  Speaker 1: can you please tell my wife? Oh? Okay, you said
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  Speaker 1: that was the warm up. So I am a good word,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: very very excited for conversation. Let's continue, so penvelop will
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  Speaker 1: still be here. By the way, this is my cell phone.
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  Speaker 1: We'll go and to do something with it in a
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: couple of seconds. But just before that, um, let's say
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  Speaker 1: back up. Can you think about just imagine in front
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  Speaker 1: of you and watch starts to spin and the shorter
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  Speaker 1: dial just to short it down, start to spin, and
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  Speaker 1: it's stopping a specific hour? One hour? Is it? Just
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  Speaker 1: tell me an hour? No? One, just don't don't say anything,
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  Speaker 1: just think with it, okay, okay, and Ashley, can you
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  Speaker 1: think of let's say, think of a number of minutes,
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  Speaker 1: so to get it, you'll create a certain time. Okay,
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: so she thinks of the hour, and I think of
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  Speaker 1: the minute hand exactly. Okay. Yes, I'm holding and my
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  Speaker 1: wrist watch and look at me. Don't change your mind. Please.
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  Speaker 1: Can you come a little closer to the hum so
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  Speaker 1: I'll be able to steal Yeah, okay, now I can
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  Speaker 1: see properly. Just think of they'd say it again and again.
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  Speaker 1: What is the number of what's the hour? Five five?
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  Speaker 1: What's the number of minutes? Thirty six? Thirty six? Five?
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  Speaker 1: Thirty six. Well, I said this watch, you'll go crazy
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: five thirty six exactly. There's no way, there's no way
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: that's insane in the same room with us for some reason,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: to be more believable, if you could like channel brain
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  Speaker 1: waves or something. But he's across the world. That's insane.
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  Speaker 1: And you guys, his watch, of course, as as our
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: reaction to it, says five pretty six, that's crazy. Wow,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: whoa play play more? Well, yeah, I'm actually in the
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  Speaker 1: whole part of the of the world, I mean Israel
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: right now. Actually have been the Israel's finalist of Israel's Talent,
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: and I'm a starting my career abroad and next week
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: I'm coming to Los Angeles to do some soul is there.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, very oh, we have to see you
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. Yeah, seriously, you've got Bill be there.
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  Speaker 1: I had like a few performances in the laugh Factory,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: you know. Oh yeah, that's right near where I live. Yeah. Actually,
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: in like three hours, I have a flight in Dubai.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: Good world traveler. So are we able to go around
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: and you think of the name of the boy that
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: we first kissed or were not? The last game we
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: get to play with you. I know we have to
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: let you go. No, no, then we'll do another one
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: because we still have that envelope there. But let's do it. Okay,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: multiple multiple games left for us. Okay, this is fantastic.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: All right, everybody think about think about your answer. Look
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: at me, I think I want to do it with.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: Who wants to try to do it? Who wants to
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: do now? I'll go for it. Yeah, look at me,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: just making sure Kenny, because of yours, will be sure
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: we set it up. Everything is like, didn't you tell
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: me anything before you started? No? No, I just I
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: met you as soon as the micros on. So do
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: we know ech other personally? No? He seems to be
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: very happy about it, but you know, you know nothing
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  Speaker 1: about me. Look at me. Just think of the name
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  Speaker 1: mm hmm sick. Yeah, well I'm gonna do Remember what
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: was your age back then? Oh gosh, uh not really
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: trying to think I know the great I was like
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: some some hair, am I write? I'm sorry, hey, like
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: a little hair, something unique maybe and still but yes,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: you know Kendall he had he did have hair, Yes,
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: that's himistic figure you stand looking at me. Yeah, I
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: can just tell many letters tell you the letter. Oh
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: don't don't just think how many? Okay, yeah, you don't
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: have to delay that. I was really trying to channel
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  Speaker 1: the brain waves, like my fingers and my temples, like
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  Speaker 1: you will know the name? Yeah, okay, Well I hope
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: By wrote it the right way. Yeah, I think it
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: for the first time. Can you say, what is the name?
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: Holding ladies first? Kyle Kyle? Yeah, and I couldn't predict
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: du so Kyle, right, you you couldn't know. There's no way.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: What was your age back then? I was in eighth grade.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: In eighth grade, you kissed the first time. This is
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  Speaker 1: what I wrote the name in the best day of
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: my life. I am so, I can't. I don't even
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: know how to react. I am so, how is this happening?
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: But that's actually brilliant. Before we got on the podcast,
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: I was telling the girls that, like, one of the
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: most like entertained moments of my life was at my
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: senior um like graduation party where we had a hypnotist
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: and like these kids really went under the spell of
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: the hypnotist. And now here I am about half my
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: life later, and I think I'm even more flabbergasted. Yeah,
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: that's pretty By the way. I have a surprise for you, Kendall.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: Oh you'll go crazy Kyle coming, Oh my gosh, yeah,
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: that would be insane. Wait wait, wait, what do you say, Kyle?
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: Come in? I have forever alright, okay, yes, yes, yes,
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: we need to wrap up, but we have to do
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: this envelope. Yeah, I'm very excited to see this here.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: I told you from the start of before even started
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: to write something and to put it inside the sealed Endlope,
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: I have an envelope here and on my cell phone.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: My cellphone is opened and it shows the calculator. I
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: wrote a number in the calculator. We will do some calculation.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: I hope the listeners can follow with us. Let's write
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: out of this. Ashley can open your calculator, my calculator
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  Speaker 1: on my phone. Yeah, okay, yes, and can you just
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  Speaker 1: give me two digits? Make sure to write the same
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: digits as we say as you tell me to. Okay, yes,
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: go for it. Just give me any two random digits. Okay,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: got it? Oh, sixty two six to sixty two okay, Ken,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: They'll give me three digits um eight one three eight
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: one three. Make sure I'm writing the same numbers you
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: say okay, okay, should I should I? Should I do
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: something with eight? One three? Yeah? You should those to
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: okay exactly Glass, I'd say, can you please get me
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: back up? Four digits five, four, eight, nine, five eight nine. Okay?
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: Do you have someone else with you in the room
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: you can see yes, right here? Okay, tell her to
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: think about five digits. Tell us wait, I hope I
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: just added right? Okay, yeah, for it out loud, say
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: it out loud, digit by digit, and make sure to
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: add those numbers. It's like downing. Okay, four six, nine
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: two seven okay, okay, So this number right? Did you
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: add this number? Yeah? I hope I didn't mess up
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: on the calculator if we did, does any do you
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: guys somebody else use a calculator? We can make sure
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: we will do one more time. Don't worry. And Canada,
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: can you give me six digits? Um? Okay? Nine seven, three,
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: eight two six okay. And for the last number I
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: would like, actually give me two digits two more digits okay,
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: thirty six thirty six, and we will continue this number.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: So don't press the quiet. Becca, give me five digits
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: eight six, four, five nine one. That's it. That's it.
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, my fingers are like six long number
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: mm hmm. Yeah. Okay, so you know what you said. One,
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: let's the one. Add one okay, plus one? Okay, so
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: this is what you did. This is what you told me, right.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: I couldn't predict all it, And I told you that
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: I wrote something on my calculator on my cell phone
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: before we started, and it's still here, right, I want
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: to show it to you. It's one seven to eight
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: four two. Can you add this number to this whole score?
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: Add that number to the ok Yeah, I definitely mess
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: up on my calculator somewhere along the line, but I'm
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna continue and if it's off, then we're
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: going to READD and it's okay, We're going to figure
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: this out. Okay. Let me see hold that close close
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: to the screen. Okay, so that's our number plus one
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: two eight four two three six zero. Okay, can you
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: show me this score? I must have messed up. What
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: what do you want me to show you? Cell phone
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: makes you it's close to the camera. This is the
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: score of all of it. Something happened. Something happened. Okay,
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: let's add let me add up start at the beginning,
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: real continue everything. Look at Danielle. Danielle, they're all making
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: fun of me. Guys. You know sometimes to add the
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: AD button that something happens and you forgot that you
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 1: pressed the AD button a couple of times before entering
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 1: the new number. Thank you, thank you. Sixty two plus?
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: Is that eight one after me? Okay? Right, you know, Candle,
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: I feel like she is the left brainer of all
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: of us. We'll see, okay, eight four two eight four
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: two three six zero. I had it from here here
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 1: in the start of Okay, do I have a number?
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: It's uh to one zero seven three four zero six eight.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: When I told the producer to bring an envelope with
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: the number, it can't be. It's impossible. It's impossible. Well,
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: we just all separately came up with a whole number.
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: Random open it. I want to show you what I
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: had in my envelope from the start of the show.
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: He's going to show us first. We should open at
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 1: the same time. Oh god, oh my gosh. I can
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 1: already see it. It will be the number yes for
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: zero six, aid exactly. That is insane, guys, I've mind blown.
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 1: I believe in everything now, you know, like everything in
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: this life. I believe that actually blows my mind. I'm
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: only science staying it is the score, but it's not
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: just the score. You created discumber and this is the Bachelor.
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 1: Oh my wait, so when you turn it around, why
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: in the world are you guys you need to screen
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: record that? Are we screen recording this up on our Instagram?
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: And a yeah, we can do it. Wow, you're inside
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: my brain, you guys, we just came up with the
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in number four. Actually really blows my banks. I
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: have no idea how that up. You guys if you're
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: interested in what we're seeing, because like, yes, numbers can
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: in your head look like letters, and he created and
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 1: we apparently all came up with numbers that looked like
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor. When you turn it around and we're going
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: to put it up on our Instagram, yeah, that's actually
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 1: pretty crazy. I have to say you have been our
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: most fascinating guests in all of five years. So congratulations
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: and thank you, Yes, thank you. That was incredible. Just
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: like a quick message to tell everyone keep thinking good
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: and positive thoughts because you can never know who might
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: do with them. What I think this podcast. Thank you
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: so so much. You are truly amazing. Where can people
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 1: find you and where can we come see you? Are
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: you going on a tour of the US? Yeah, I
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 1: am going on tour in ther Us from the tenth
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: of June. I'll be there at four and I'm coming
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: again and again. It should follow me on Instagram. It's
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: ethn affoia mentalist and if you own affoida mentalist and
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: that's it. Thank you too, fun, thank you so amazing,
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: Thank you. That was great. That was so great. Okay.
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 1: I could make a little bit more logic if like
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: there was some sort of energy vibes in the room.
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 1: But the fact that that guy, he put these numbers
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: together before he even saw our faces or even knew
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: that the three of us were going to sit down today,
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 1: you guys were you know, there's We've got lots of
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: girls here and we think they chose you guys for
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 1: this mentalist interview. He did not know. That's okay. I
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 1: was just thinking of numbers on the fly, even I
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 1: didnt even know the numbers were. When I was saying that,
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 1: I was like, is that six three a fortune teller
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: or a mind reader? I want him to be. I
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: want him to tell my fortune if he is a fortune.
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to imagine dating him. Imagine You're like, I'm
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 1: not even say it, I'm just gonna think it. He's like,
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 1: how do you think the evil thing about me? Oh
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 1: my goodness. All right, Well, the guys check that guy out.
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 1: I mean check him out. I'm so jealous. You guys
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: live in l as that you can go see him.
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: I needs to make a special, special trip out. This
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: guy needs his own podcast. Amy follow the Benn and
• 1:31:23
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