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- 0:08Dispersing in nineteen seventy. Robert John Bardo was born to an American father and
- 0:42a Korean mother, and as the youngest sibling of seven, his childhood was
- 0:47a bit chaotic. Robert's dad was in the US Air Force, causing that
- 0:51large family to move states several times before finally settling down in Arizona when Robert
- 0:57was in his early teens. The frequent moves weren't the only unstable aspect of
- 1:02Robert's childhood. One of his older siblings abused him and he became suicidal,
- 1:07causing him to be removed from his family and put into foster care. Several
- 1:11other members of Robert's family were diagnosed with mental illness, and eventually Robert was
- 1:18diagnosed with bipolar disorder when he was only fifteen years old. His emotional state
- 1:23was so bad that he was institutionalized. He attended high school up until the
- 1:29ninth grade, when he decided to drop out. During this time, Robert's
- 1:33life had been taken over by a deep obsession with a celebrity, Samantha Smith,
- 1:38an activist in her early teens who had become famous after her anti war
- 1:42letter to a Soviet ambassador received international attention. Robert's fascination with thirteen year old
- 1:49Samantha quickly snowballed out of control, and before long he was actively stalking her.
- 1:56He even traveled to Maine in the hopes of meeting her in person when
- 1:59she she returned from a trip to the Soviet Union, but after a run
- 2:02in with police, he lost his nerve and went back home regardless. Robert
- 2:07planned on continuing to stalk Samantha, but then in nineteen eighty five, bar
- 2:13Harbor Airlines Flight eighteen oh eight crashed with Samantha on board, killing her instantly.
- 2:20With the object of his obsession suddenly dead, Robert was left reeling.
- 2:24He tried to focus on a couple of female pop stars instead, but although
- 2:29he became briefly obsessed, he never ended up stalking any of them. Finally,
- 2:34in nineteen eighty six, he found somebody who made him feel the same
- 2:37way that Samantha Smith had, Rebecca Schaeffer, an actress on the popular sitcom
- 2:43My Sister Sam. At the age of sixteen, Robert watched an episode of
- 2:47the series, and he was immediately infatuated with Rebecca. Quote, she came
- 2:53into my life at the right moment. She was brilliant, pretty outrageous.
- 2:59Her innocence impressed me. She turned into a goddess for me, an idol.
- 3:04Since then I turned into an atheist. I only adored her. From
- 3:09that moment onward, Robert started writing to Rebecca to express his admiration. Although
- 3:15she didn't reply, he still felt like the two of them shared a close
- 3:19bond. The next year, Rebecca actually wrote a reply to one of his
- 3:23letters, sending a short note where she told Robert, your letter was one
- 3:28of the nicest I ever got. Although it was the only time Rebecca ever
- 3:31communicated with him, Robert believed that the note confirmed his feelings were mutual.
- 3:38Desperate to communicate with her in some way, Robert ended up arriving at the
- 3:42set where My Sister Sam was being filmed, and he tried to locate Rebecca.
- 3:47He was holding an enormous teddy bear at a bunch of flowers, which
- 3:52he hoped he would be able to give her as the next step in their
- 3:54romantic relationship. Instead, he was apprehended by the security team, who refused
- 4:00to allow him on the set. A Warner Brothers policy meant that all actors
- 4:04and actresses needed to be informed if a member of the public was making uninvited
- 4:09advances for their own safety. However, Rebecca was never told about Robert's arrival
- 4:14on set. Because Robert had cooperated when he was told to leave, and
- 4:18he didn't seem threatening or violent, the security team decided that it wasn't worth
- 4:24worrying Rebecca. In the thick of his obsession with Rebecca, Robert's emotional state
- 4:30was deteriorating. From nineteen eighty seven to early nineteen eighty eight. His neighbors
- 4:34expressed that he made them feel unsafe in their own neighborhood, and he was
- 4:39even arrested several times for disorderly conduct and domestic violence. He might have left
- 4:46without a fuss when he was refused access to the My Sister Sam set,
- 4:49but the incident didn't deter him from trying to meet Rebecca. Instead, he
- 4:54hired a detective to find out the actress's home address, and using motor vehicle
- 5:00records, they were able to find it. During this time, Robert wrote
- 5:03a letter to his sister, telling her quote, I have an obsession with
- 5:08the unattainable, and I have to eliminate what I cannot attain. He also
- 5:14decided to buy a gun, and when he was denied due to his mental
- 5:18illness, he got his brother to buy one for him instead. On the
- 5:23eighteenth of July nineteen eighty nine, Robert arrived at Rebecca Schaeffer's home with his
- 5:28gun. A few years ago, he might have met her and expressed his
- 5:31love and admiration for her, but now he was no longer viewing her in
- 5:35an affectionate light. He had been infuriated to see that she filmed an intimate
- 5:41scene in one of her recent films, causing him to describe her as just
- 5:45another Hollywood whore who had lost the sense of innocence that appealed to him.
- 5:49In his eyes, she had betrayed him. Robert rang the doorbell of Rebecca's
- 5:56apartment, told her his name, and showed her the note she written him
- 6:00in response to one of his letters. Rebecca didn't seem alarmed by Robert's presence.
- 6:05Instead, she was friendly, shaking his hand before telling him that she
- 6:10had an appointment that she needed to get ready for. After visiting a nearby
- 6:14diner and buying himself breakfast, Robert decided to visit Rebecca's apartment a second time
- 6:19to give her a CD that he'd bought her. He rang the doorbell,
- 6:24and once again Rebecca answered it herself. This time she wasn't as friendly,
- 6:29telling Robert to hurry up. Ultimately, Rebecca had no time to react.
- 6:34Robert pulled out a shotgun, fatally shooting her, and then fled the scene.
- 6:40He had been carrying a copy of the book The Catcher and the Rye
- 6:43with him throughout the entire ordeal, and for some reason he decided to throw
- 6:47it onto the roof of a nearby building when he ran away from the apartment.
- 6:51He was arrested for the murder after being found in a dazed state,
- 6:55stumbling through busy streets and narrowly avoiding being hit by cars. At Robert's trial,
- 7:01he said that the decision to murder Rebecca had been influenced by a song
- 7:06Exit by the band U two, which had lyrics that were written to portray
- 7:11the thoughts of a murderer. The song was played for the jury, and
- 7:15Robert sat in the courtroom mouthing the words. Another media influence brought up at
- 7:19the trial was the fact that Robert had been holding a paperback of The Catcher
- 7:24and the Rye during the crime. The prosecution pointed out that this detail was
- 7:29incredibly similar to another crime, when Mark David Chapman fatally shot John Lennon,
- 7:35he had been carrying a copy of the same book. Despite the glaring similarity,
- 7:41Robert insisted that the choice of the book was nothing but a coincidence.
- 7:45Later on, Mark David Chapman claimed that Robert had actually written to him in
- 7:48prison before killing Rebecca, asking him questions about what it was like to be
- 7:54in prison. The defense attorneys agreed that Robert had killed Rebecca, but argued
- 7:59that he should have a lighter sentence due to his mental illness. Psychiatrist and
- 8:03criminologist Parke Deets testified about his assessment of Robert, telling the jury that Robert
- 8:09was diagnosed with schizophrenia, which had caused him to commit the crime despite his
- 8:16significant history with mental illness. The jury found Robert guilty of murder in the
- 8:20first degree. He received a life sentence without parole. The crime caused intense
- 8:26public scrutiny of the state Department of Motor Vehicles because many people were concerned that
- 8:31Robert had been so easily able to obtain Rebecca's home address through her DMV records.
- 8:37This resulted in the Driver's Privacy Protection Act being passed by Congress forbidding the
- 8:43state departments from sharing home addresses. Rebecca's murder also resulted in the United States
- 8:48first laws aimed at preventing stalking. In two thousand and seven, Robert was
- 8:54walking from his cell to get breakfast when he was attacked by another inmate who
- 8:58had been convicted of set second degree murder. He was stabbed a total of
- 9:03eleven times with two different shives, but after a brief treatment at the UC
- 9:07Davis Medical Center, he made a full recovery. Eventually, Robert was moved
- 9:13from Mule Creek State Prisons maximum security units to a medium security unit at Avana
- 9:18State Prison, where he will likely remain for the rest of his life.
- 9:33That's ten minute murder for today, brief and binge able true crime. I'm
- 9:39Joe, that's my name. I'm the host, and thank you for taking
- 9:41the time to listen. And I know what you're thinking. Joe saw Baby
- 9:46Reindeer on Netflix, so of course he's going to do an episode about stalking.
- 9:50And that's partial that's partially true. I did not come up with this
- 9:52topic. Someone like one of you listening emailed me and said, hey,
- 9:56Joe, have you heard of this case? Would you like to cover in
- 10:00one of your episodes. I put it on the list to you to eventually
- 10:03get to and then I saw baby Reindeer, and I'm just like, oh,
- 10:07this reminds me a little bit of the Rebecca Schaeffer story. So I
- 10:11went back and found that and then boom, here we are today. It's
- 10:16not exactly the same, obviously, because the outcomes are very different, but
- 10:20they are both about stalking, and they are both pretty terrifying. And by
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