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594. Now Is the Time to Revisit Your Bucket List · Be It Till You See It

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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's fuck ya Friday!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck ya!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Get ready for some wins!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: My friends, action brings clarity, and it's the antidote to fear.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Each week my guests will bring bold, executable, intrinsic, and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and be it till you see it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's a practice, not a perfect, let's get started.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'd be a babe.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I have a fun and spoe, a fun affirmation.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's a fun episode, so welcome to the FYFs.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So if I get Friday, it's kind of like, okay, I did that, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I did that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I am in Kim, I'm home, Cambodia.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: This is, it's happened in Singapore, but obviously I record these beforehand.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: However,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'm really excited about it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'm really excited.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So here we go.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: This is the inspiration I saw online and this is just now I want to share with you all because I like giving information for you that can support you in your life.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So there's this guy on Instagram.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It says this guy's a modern-day hero helping people to feel safe while using ride hailing apps and taxis.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So his handle is underscore Joshua summer filled and he to him he's been he's an actor I guess and he usually plays like the protector role and so he basically created these reals where you could download the audio and he
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  [SPEAKER_01]: He's like, oh, he download this audio and then just turn your phone like loud and so it goes, hey, baby, what's up, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And he has this voice of like, just a sound like a big dude.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then you can go, oh, yeah, I'm on my own home.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then he has a script, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So you just have to pause and he'll talk.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And that way you're right, share a person knows that you have some big scary person waiting for you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So no matter what whom you love in this world or whom you're going home to,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You might need this audio, and to be honest, as a female who's been on ride chairing apps, I have been in other course, majority of the rides have felt very safe and very fine, and honestly unmemorable, which is what you want.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But there are the three times that I have been scared.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, actually scared.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And while nothing bad happened to me, bad things have happened, and there's tons of statistics that are out there.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And yes, there's apps now, and there's ride
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I live a probably where you live where there's driverless cars, which is like, yes, please.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then there's also like where we live, there's like a woman's only chauffeur, like when we're only driving and I love that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But just in case, you find yourself not able to use those things.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I would definitely hit up as a count.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I would definitely do on those audios and save them because it has been really helpful.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I've had it like Brad was probably one.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And this guy had picked me up right in.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: He was really gruff about it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And just sent my like hackles up.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, excuse me, I have to just call my husband and let him come in home.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I just sent him a voice text.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't actually like, because like, he was in camp.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: He wasn't a lot in the country.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I was like, answer his phone, way sleeping.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Anyways.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I, of course, was like, oh, yeah, yeah, drop me off over here and drop me off my neighbor's house and I like walk like I was walking up towards their house and like behind the van, you know, because like I'm just like, what is going on like this person gives me the creeps.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So this guy's voice would have really safe things for me.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So anyways, go check that out.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We have the link in the show notes for you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I just like when people do whole things sell by the people, he gets paid nothing for that, which is awesome.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I think what a win for that guy.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Just feel like help everyone out.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: They could have wins in their day.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So now a win of yours.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Let's see it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We have Christine Ivy.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: She's an elevator.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: She's just graduated.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I have been reading the Contrology Handbook and it is so good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It is getting me even more excited as if that was impossible to work with all my new classical equipment that is arriving this week.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Contrology Reformer, Arm Chair, Classical Springs by Cadillac, and for my upcoming happy hours, my studio.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I am absolutely thrilled for what has to come as I become more aware and more aligned with teaching and practicing the method as it was originally designed.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I love this because like, I think I don't think we all spend enough time celebrating like the learning we're doing, the being in the process of learning that we're doing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You know, sometimes we're like, oh, I won't celebrate until I've learned it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You know, until I am done.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I can't celebrate it, but she is like celebrating what she is in fact studying right now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And it's so, so cool.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And so my loves you are probably in the middle of something.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe you can celebrate that you did something like one use of red one chapter.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Right.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I read that one chapter or oh, I finally able to pronounce that word in the language I'm learning correctly.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You know, those are wins that you're not giving yourself credit for.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I love gratitude and we're coming up in a gratitude season but like my goodness we can be celebrating like oh that happened today you know that one thing happened today and would take some note for it because things that stand out are the things that like suck but if you're focusing on the things that like well I can't believe like not only did I
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  [SPEAKER_01]: did that email off that's been on my heart and I was struggling to write it, but I also have some laundry done.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I got two hard things on one day, win, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, so just trying to give you some ideas on all the things you can celebrate in your life.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Wait, my turn to celebrate.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I have another bucket list to check off.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So Brad showed me the spikitanical gardens and sing a port years ago.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I only think we'd actually even been to a Singapore airport when he had shown me this before, I can think he's by the movie or a short or something like that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Just look like this world craziness.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And we just keep saying, someday we'll be able to go to Singapore and do it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And we fly through Singapore a lot, but our leoves are rarely able to to go do anything and the last couple of times they were overnight and we could have dinner, but we couldn't do the gardens and dinner and sleep and get to the airport on time and all that stuff, but as I mentioned last time with this long layover and we were able to check off the bucket list and go to the technical gardens.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I have seen them, and I just, like, I feel like I'm a constantly a girl just like seeking out like fringely.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: If I just want to live in fringely, you know, but without the excess.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And if you don't know what I just said, then you have not seen one of the greatest cartoon movies ever.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: and it's Robin Williams playing batty and it is just wonderful and I might just watch it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Now that I've like reminded myself how cool it was, I hope it's as good as I was as a child, but anyways, I really hope it ages well.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But I just, there's something about
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  [SPEAKER_01]: being in these gardens and seeing plants from all over that you would never get to see.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It just feels like a wonder of this world.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And so, if you have a bucket list and you have it like, look at it recently, go ahead and give it a look.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You might find an opportunity to get to check one of those things often.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It feels really, really cool.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Have I seen anything else in Singapore?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: No, not really.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But that, yes, I have.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's a little bit, ah, what a win.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: What a win.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: When you start practicing seeking out what is possible, it's pretty easy to find out more possibilities than those things.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, I have a really funny affirmation.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So this, I came across and I'm pretty sure the person thought that they were like nagging this part like this thing about LA.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: but I actually thought of it as a great affirmation.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So what the post says is nothing will prepare you for LA small talk.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I asked someone today what they do and they said I'm in between blessings right now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And so I feel like this person is like trying to get like a shock out of people because like LA people do say some interesting things.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm in between blessings right now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But what an awesome affirmation or mantra if you are in that space.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like if you were going through something
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  [SPEAKER_01]: This is for you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I think we should just co-op this because it's great and there's some weird things LA people say as someone who's been in LA.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I will happily.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, there are but I'll die on the hill that like some of them aren't actually wonderful positive ways of thinking about your life.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So ready.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I am in between blessing right now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Listen, that sounds good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I'm in between blessings right now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then between Blessings right now.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, loves you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Go have a great weekend.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, you guys have a great weekend.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I hope that you are on the wait list for the upcoming Cambodia Retreat next year.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We will open up the doors in January.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta be on the wait list for that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Crowsnessretreats.com.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And, you know, if you've got wins, we wanna hear them.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Cinnamon to be at pod.com's last question.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So you can also send your questions there.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But we want your wins.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe you are in between Blessings and you wanna celebrate that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We would love to hear.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, have an amazing day.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Until next time, be a TAC yet.
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