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Chameleon, Healer, Outsider — Stacy of Grounded Energy Gets Her First Chart Reading | Astrology Ride of the Day · I Am Astrology Readings Podcast with Paul Heath

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Thank you for joining me for another episode of I am Astrology readings podcast.
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And today I'm sitting down with another shop owner, Stacy from Grounded Energy, another stop on your More Than the Sunshine tour.
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How you doing today, Stacy?
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I'm doing great.
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How about you?
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I'm doing well, I'm doing well.
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On these, on these talks, I usually get someone to walk, walk us through from origin to how you got to where you at now.
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And so where did you grow up, Stacy?
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Well, I grew up mostly in Indiana.
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Was born in Texas, but quickly hauled off to Indiana, spent most of my life there and about 10 years ago finally broke free and ended up in.
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In coastal Alabama.
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Wow.
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I wonder if that move came in 1976, just when you was three years old.
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It might have been.
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It might have been.
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I was young.
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Yep.
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All right.
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What was it like growing up in Stacy's household?
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It was, it was pretty wild.
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We, you know, I was, I was raised by a single mother.
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My father left when I was young.
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I had a brother with disabilities, so we moved a lot.
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We moved at least every year.
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So it was, you know, it was, it was a lot of change.
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A lot of change.
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What, what faith did you grow up in?
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Well, to begin with, I wasn't allowed really to have a faith.
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I had asked about church when I was young, but that was the day we went to visit my brother in a nursing home.
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So Sundays were off limit as far as any activities.
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So any friends that would bring up religion or, you know, going to church with them was usually off limits.
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As I, as I was graduating high school, I met the father of my children, who was a Christian.
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So he, he started me into Christianity.
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I fell head, you know, head first.
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Loved the whole concept of Christ, loved the whole concept of eternity.
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You know, I'd been pretty science minded up to that point.
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So it was, you know, it was a pretty interesting change for me, but I fell hook, line and sinker in.
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You said pretty science minded?
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Oh, yeah, I was very science minded.
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Do you think that is your Aquarius energy?
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Probably.
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Okay.
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Science and math.
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Yep.
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All right.
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So at what point did you, how long did you stay during the Christian thing?
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I was probably in it probably a little less than 10 years.
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I ended up marrying the, the man that brought me into it.
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We had children, you know, started raising my children in the church about the time that we divorced.
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Let's see.
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I think my daughter was about 10.
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Yeah.
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So I had to be at least 10 years.
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There was some, some falling out with me, divorcing my Husband.
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And then when my brother passed and they turned their backs on me, the church did.
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I left the whole.
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I left the whole business.
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I was done.
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Oh, how old were you when this happened?
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Let's see, 96, 2006.
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I would have been 33.
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The.
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The Christ age.
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Yeah.
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And so is that when you started to leave the.
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The whole idea of Christianity, or when did that start taking place?
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Yeah, I have to say that I was pretty brokenhearted over the way I was treated.
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You know, I.
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I guess I'm one of those that would say I was kind of hurt by the church.
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I didn't really understand it.
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I turned my whole back on it.
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Thought, I'll never do that again.
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It took me a while to.
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I mean, currently now.
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I love.
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I love Christ.
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I think he's great.
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I don't necessarily believe in the church and the religion of it all, but it took me a long time to even allow Christ back into my life.
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I'd kind of shut it all off.
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Oh, all right.
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Do you.
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Do you.
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Do you currently go to church?
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No.
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All right.
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Plan on going back?
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No.
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All right, all right, all right.
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At what point did you start getting into this field, the spirituality?
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Well, I have to say, I think the.
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The interest was there from a very small.
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From a very young age.
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When I was.
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When I was little, I.
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I distinctly remember wanting to grow up and be an angel.
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When I grew up, I thought that was a career path that I could have.
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I've always loved things like psychics and readings.
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You know, I heard my mom talk about them when I was little, going to New Orleans and having readings.
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And about my teenage.
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When I was about 12, actually, I bought my first tarot deck and played around with that.
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Had a.
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Had a seance with some friends, called something into a mirror, got terrified, asked immediately to turn it all off.
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So everything.
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Everything I was starting to get just stopped, you know, according to me, asking for it to stop.
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It did.
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And.
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But I never gave up the interest, but the fear kind of overrode me pursuing it at that time.
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So you had a early introduction and then a long hiatus.
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Yes, from 12 till when I'd say, gosh,.
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I would still.
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I was still very open to psychic readings as a young adult.
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So, like my early 20s.
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Like, if I could get one, I would totally do that.
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Yeah.
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All right, all right.
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When did.
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All right, so when did you start?
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What do you do?
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Do you do.
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What's your gifts?
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Do you have.
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I am working on it.
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So, you know, I'm working on just Connecting to messages.
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I.
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I've tried channeling, like, automatic writing, things like that.
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I just got back from the Gateway program from Monroe Institute, again, working on expanding my consciousness, allowing messages, working with guides, angels, things like that.
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So, you know, my gifts.
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I feel.
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I'm also an rn.
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I'm a nurse, and I feel like a lot of my gifts are kind of medically intuitive.
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Walking into a room, able to kind of scan somebody, you know, pick up my feelings on it as well.
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So part physical, part intuitive.
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You know, I've kind of been kind of noticing that for a while.
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Do you do readings at the shop?
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No.
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Oh, so I don't personally.
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You don't.
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You don't personally do reading, I guess.
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Okay, I'll take that back.
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So I've had to.
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To Reiki sessions, some reiki level 2.
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My instructor here at the shop is an intuitive Reiki, so she has me do Reiki on her and channel messages.
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So I'm.
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I'm a.
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I'm a baby.
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I'm a baby stepping into this.
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All right, so what.
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What goes down at grounded?
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What.
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What do y' all do at ground?
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What's.
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If somebody comes there, what would they see and get?
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Okay, we have all kinds of things grounded.
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So Grounded is kind of more of a, like a metaphysical energy store.
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So we have.
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We do have in house Reiki.
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We have in house massage.
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Both of them are intuitive.
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My massage therapist has a very, like, wonderful physical massage, and then she gets intuitive messages as well.
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My Reiki practitioner is full on into, you know, intuition from every chakra, front and back, you know, receiving and sending.
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She teaches classes as well.
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We have a library for people to come in, check out books, read, and bring it back when they're done.
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We have a community board.
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We have, of course, the store with all kinds of things.
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We have metaphysical book club every other Sunday, Meditations and sound math.
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You say the store with all kinds of things.
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All kinds of things.
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Like what?
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Like what?
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Okay, so the store, we have everything from books.
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All.
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All kinds of books, from all kinds of energy, from frequency healing to, you know, white spells to empath.
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You know, kind of like how.
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You know, how to deal with being an empath to astrology to.
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It's.
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It's kind of hard to explain because, you know, I realized recently, you know, everything's energy, so I want to have a little bit of everything.
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So I have books all over the place.
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I have tarot cards, oracle cards.
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We have crystals, candles, incense, sages of all kinds.
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Palo santo.
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We have bougie Witchy perfumes.
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We have meditation kits.
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I have a kids section.
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Yeah.
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With like little energy books for kids and yoga mats and things like that.
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So anything.
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So anything someone may need in a spiritual field that they could be looking for, they need like all that they can come to you and get that.
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Pretty much.
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Yeah, pretty much.
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Like, I have, I think I have pretty much all the basics.
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I try to keep pretty much love and light, like a high frequency vibe.
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But I have like, I have all kinds of tools that people could use.
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What made you want to open this, though?
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So being a nurse, I went from western medicine to functional medicine.
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I spent three years in functional medicine, which also included energetic medicine.
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We did things like pemf.
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Infrared.
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Yeah.
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What is functional medicine?
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So functional medicine is a form of, you know, using supplements, things like glutathione, vitamin C, ozone.
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The pills, huh?
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The pharmacy pills.
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Yeah, it's like kind of like supplements, you know, more supplements to have an optimal health to begin with.
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Oh, like the vitamins and.
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Yeah, we had.
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We had vitamin IVs.
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We did ozone therapy, which is a form of oxygen that goes in and kills things like parasites, viruses, you know, things like that.
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We were the type of clinic that a normal doctor wouldn't send somebody to because we were.
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We were going back to fixing the body, helping the body recoup so that it can do its own thing.
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So you, you in a way already was kind of into alternative things, was in the medical.
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But you ain't really want to do the traditional medical stuff.
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Yeah, yeah.
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So you went from functional medicine to what?
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I went from western medicine, which is what you go to, like urgent care.
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I worked at urgent care for years.
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Okay.
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Into functional medicine.
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And then.
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And then.
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So then love that.
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Learned a ton of things, a lot of helpful information.
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We used a lot of energy medicine there too.
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Things like pulsed electromagnetic fields, infrared therapy.
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We did a thing called AO scan, which is a bio, bioelectric field scan, voice scan.
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You know, we had all kinds of modalities there.
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So I learned that I really wanted to get into energetic medicine.
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So as I was finishing up my career there, I started to have a lot of anxiety going into work every day.
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And she, the lady that I worked for, was going more into dermatology, things that were more esthetic, the weight loss, the ozempics and things like that, which was not my field.
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I wanted to go the other way.
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So I decided as I kind of got sicker and sicker as I was trying, trying to continue to work, I ended up with a case of diverticulitis and my colon ruptured.
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So between the anxiety and my.
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My hospital stint, I quit.
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I was done.
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And I kind of felt like my soul was calling to leave, you know, repeatedly.
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And I.
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I finally.
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I finally decided that I.
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I had no choice.
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Like, it just kind of, you know, swept my feet, and I.
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And the way I was treated afterwards, I didn't want to go back.
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So I was about to do.
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I was going to do anything where I found.
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I felt like I was following my greatest joy.
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I'm a big Bashar fan.
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So I'm like, you know what that was?
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That was not my joy anymore.
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It used to be, but I was having so much anxiety.
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So as I was healing, I also own a coffee shop.
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I started working at the coffee shop with my husband and just kept throwing this idea of, like, a.
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An energy center that I had vision in my mind.
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It was like, where people could come and afford to be healed, like, afford, you know, health care, because health care is really, you know, within themselves.
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So the clinic I'd worked at before, you had to be pretty wealthy to afford the treatments that we offered.
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You know, insurance didn't take it.
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You know, if someone came in and needed ozone, you know, for cancer treatment, you know, it was going to be $5,000.
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I mean, you know, it wasn't cheap, and we turned away a lot of people.
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That really upset me.
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So, you know, the more that I learned as I kept going further and further into energy medicine, we can heal ourselves.
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We don't.
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We actually don't need modalities, you know what I'm saying?
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But, like, I felt like.
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I felt like if people could just figure out who they were, that would be the path that I need to go on.
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So you can have modalities.
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You can use infrared, you can use lights, you can use sound.
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You know, you can use it whether you go to a sound bed or whether you, you know, listen to YouTube.
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There's.
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There's things that you can work to heal yourself.
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And that's what.
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That's what I wanted.
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So that's why I called it an energy center to begin with, because I was going for that healing center.
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But I couldn't really afford the modalities when I started up.
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So I just started with the soul.
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I just.
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I just kind of stopped and reframed and said, we're gonna go with the soul path.
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This is who you are.
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You're electric, you're magnetic, you can heal yourself path.
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And then my store is basically a toolbox for that,.
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For lack of a better words, yeah, it sounds like you may have a beef, a bone to pick with traditional medicine.
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Maybe a little bit.
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Yeah.
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You know, and I was listening and it sounds like you started off behind enemy lines, learned all they tactics and then you came up out of that and it's like, I don't want no parts of that.
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I want to go the opposite way.
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Absolutely, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I mean, you need, I think everybody gets in nursing and health care to help people for the most part.
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You know, there's stability in the job and there's a lot of other great things.
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You get to wear scrubs every day.
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That's good.
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But like, you know, we get on it because we got that heart thing going.
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Like we want to help people.
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You know, I want to help, I want to help these people, but as, you know, as I was in there, the longer I was in there, you know, I just saw so many people on so many medications and
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they were just so sick and it just, it just ate at me, you know, and of course, you know, I can't open my mouth because as soon as the doctor comes in, they're giving them more medicines and you
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know, it's just, it was just a, it was always a tension, you know, within me now.
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There's, there's a time and place for it.
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I'm not saying it's all bad.
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You know, I think, I think there's a time and place for western medicine, but I'm just not sure that I really wish the two come together.
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But I don't think, I'm not sure if we're there yet.
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What do you think it'll take for us to get there?
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I feel like it, I feel like it's gonna have to start probably in the schools and the, you know, in the physician schools, you know, like in my nursing program, we had a, we had maybe a 20 minute
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lesson on Reiki, you know, and I was shocked that they even taught that.
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But I mean, you know, that was a start.
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That was 15 years ago.
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So, you know, the hands on healing, how important touch is, you know, things like that.
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So I think, I think in the medical world it's going to have to start probably in the school because there's so much programming that, you know, when you talk to somebody in the medical world, it's real hard to
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even kind of go into this world without them rolling their eyes.
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And, you know, how does your family and family feel that you're into?
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You know, I've got a great family, so is Anybody into this world that I am?
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No, but they all let me be here, so they don't chastise, you know, they.
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They're kind of.
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They just do their own thing and be like, all right, Mom.
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Okay, Mom.
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You know, my husband's like, all right, babe.
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But he usually.
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You know, my husband's pretty good.
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He lets me take care of him however I want with sound or.
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Or vitamins or whatever, you know.
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How about extended family?
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Like, out, like, you know, sisters, brothers, cousins, mom, dad.
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I really don't have anybody.
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I've got my mom, and.
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And she's, you know, she's open.
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She's also not into the world, but she's open to it.
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So I'm just.
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I'm surrounded by open people.
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Well, you know, when it comes to those older folks, we might have to give them a little grace because they've been believing what they've been believing for a long time.
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Yeah.
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And beliefs run deep.
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Yeah, some.
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Some.
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Well, I would say beliefs go all the way down to the bone marrow.
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That's right.
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It's.
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I mean, it's true.
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It's true.
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Huh.
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How many people or readers do you say you have at the shop and stuff like that?
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So how do you do it?
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So other than the, you know, the Reiki practitioner I have, she doesn't really do reading.
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She just does Reiki sessions.
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But I have what's called Soul session Saturday, and I'll have a reader come in on Saturdays, and, you know, from 11 to 5, and they offer sessions almost every Saturday.
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All right.
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Have you ever had your chart looked at?
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No, no.
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I've actually.
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I love astrology.
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I love the idea, and I've never even been able.
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Kind of been kind of crazy in this world.
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Like I said, there's so much to.
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To it that I'd like to learn it, but I haven't done that yet.
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Huh.
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Do you know your chart?
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Have you even seen your chart or pulled up your chart before?
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So I have co star.
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And a little, you know, it tells me a little bit, and then I start to get overwhelmed, and I usually be like, okay, yeah, I just need the message of the day.
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Overwhelmed.
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But what overwhelms you all the time?
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You know, because I haven't studied it yet.
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Like, all the.
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The risings and the moons and the planets and, like, I just.
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I guess, you know, I just kind of like, if I.
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If I don't know something, I get kind of overwhelmed easily.
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I'm one of those people has to sit down and figure out everything and Then like, oh, okay.
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Like, you know, when I learn to do something, I like to know exactly how it works kind of thing.
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I.
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I do feel very strongly that the stars are a map of our soul and we just have to figure out how to read it.
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I do believe in that.
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So it's just that I haven't had the time to sit down and figure it out yet.
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All right, well, I could show you a couple of things if you like.
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Love that.
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Yeah, let me see.
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All right, let me see your chart here.
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Yeah, let me figure out.
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My glasses are.
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Here we go.
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So you, you know, you are Pisces rising.
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Okay.
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What does that mean?
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Oh, you don't.
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You don't even know your rising sun.
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I don't.
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Oh, wow.
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How about your moon sign?
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No.
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Oh, wow.
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Oh, wow.
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I'm also dyslexic, so I can never remember which is which.
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All right, all right, well, let me see Pisces rising.
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Yes.
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Any.
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And my moon is Libra.
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Moon is Libra.
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My mom's a Libra.
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Yeah, so.
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So when you get emotional, you start acting like your mom's ego.
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Okay.
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What?
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Well, well, well, okay.
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I'm.
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I do traditional astrology, and in traditional astrology there are.
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It's called set, S, E, C, T.
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And in set, you have to pretty much two teams playing against each other, you know, working, working.
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You have.
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And.
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And so you are day birth, right?
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And so the planets that's working, trying to work in your favor would be the sun, Jupiter and Saturn.
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A lot of people are scared of Saturn, but, you know, if you are a day birth, in fact, Saturn is actually trying to work in your behalf.
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Okay?
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Now, the planets that is not working in your behalf, you know, would be Venus, the planet of love and desire, and Mars, the planet of action, aggression, anger, and your moon, which is Libra.
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Right?
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And so in a way, so when people first meet you, they meet Pisces Energy, they don't meet an Aquarius, okay?
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They meet Pisces.
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At first, they gotta start talking to you to see the Aquarius.
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And they really got to get close to you to see your moon, which would be Libra.
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Right?
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And so your two, your three, in astrology, they call majors, Somebody said, what's your three major signs?
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And they're talking about your sun, moon and rising.
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And so your answer to them would be Pisces rising, Aquarius, sun, Libra, moon.
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Now, Libra and Aquarius are air signs.
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Both of them are air.
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All right.
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Okay.
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Aquarius.
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Even though people.
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You see a man pouring out Some water.
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All right.
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The water bearer.
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Aquarius is not a water sign, people.
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It's an air sign.
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And it's fixed air fixed.
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Fixed means hold energy, sustained energy.
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Okay.
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Your moon is cardinal.
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Air cardinal is initiating.
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It likes to start things.
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The cardinal signs would be Libra, Capricorn, Aries and Cancer.
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Right?
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So, and you see this blue line here that is called a trine because your moon is sitting.
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So the thing you talk about, energy.
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So sitting a supporting energy toward your son right here in Aquarius.
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So your moon and your sun are kind of working together in the air sign.
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And so.
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Okay, question, Stacy.
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Yeah.
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Do you.
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Well, we all are work in progress.
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Right?
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So what I'm looking at is when you took your first breath.
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So do you think you may intellectualize emotions more than feel emotion?
24:12
100%.
24:14
100%.
24:16
Yep.
24:17
I've had self help books since I can remember.
24:20
You, you like talking emotion, but doing emotion, not so much.
24:28
I.
24:28
Well, I have to figure it out.
24:30
You know, I'm still working with a therapist.
24:32
I.
24:32
I'm in the emotional field of what energy is, is stuck in my body, you know, what frequency and emotions are stuck in my body.
24:39
You know, it's all.
24:40
Yeah, it's a thought.
24:41
It's all a thought.
24:42
I don't like sometimes the way I feel.
24:44
So I wonder.
24:45
I got to get to the root of it.
24:46
Why am I feeling that way?
24:49
All right, now, which is interesting.
24:54
Another thing that's interesting, you see this planet here?
24:59
This is Saturn, okay?
25:02
And that's a planet that's trying to work for you.
25:04
And it's also in an air sign.
25:07
Oh, really?
25:08
Yeah.
25:10
Interesting.
25:12
So what sign is my Saturn?
25:14
It's in the sign of Gemini.
25:16
Gemini.
25:17
Okay, Stacy, me and you are, we're kind of classmates in a.
25:22
In a way because I have Saturn in Gemini as well.
25:29
Different house, but same sign.
25:31
And mine is retrograde, just like yours is retrograde, right?
25:38
So Saturn, if you.
25:42
Saturn can be father time.
25:45
Saturn can be maturity.
25:50
Saturn can be lessons.
25:55
Saturn can also act as a blocker.
26:00
And your Saturn is in the fourth house of home, family roots, the emotional body,.
26:12
Okay?
26:12
And so you have the planet that likes to block in the house of emotional body,.
26:26
Okay.
26:27
In the sign of communication,.
26:32
Okay.
26:36
Do you think that, do you block your talking about your emotional body in a way.
26:48
To certain people?
26:49
But then I'm pretty free about it with other people, so kind of off and off.
26:55
All right?
26:56
Now each sign, It has a ruler.
27:05
So for instance, you know, the ruler of Leo is the sun.
27:12
The, The Ruler of Cancer is the moon.
27:18
The ruler of Taurus is Venus.
27:23
And Venus also rules Libra.
27:27
This Saturn rules Capricorn and Aquarius.
27:33
Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Pisces.
27:41
And that Pisces word should stand out to you.
27:44
Why should that Pisces word stand out to you, Stacey?
27:47
Because that's my rising.
27:49
Yeah.
27:50
So this Jupiter rules the sun that people see as soon as you walk in the door.
28:05
Now, I guess a question you should have is, what's Pisces energy about?
28:10
Right.
28:12
Pisces energy is about this rule by Jupiter.
28:21
Spirituality, Imagine.
28:25
Yeah.
28:27
Pisces is also about dreams.
28:31
Love, dreams and illusions.
28:34
Okay.
28:35
And fogginess.
28:40
Pisces is Disney World.
28:43
I live in Disney World.
28:45
Oh.
28:46
Oh.
28:48
What do you know about Disney World?
28:50
Well, I mean, not the real Disney World.
28:52
I create my own Disney World.
28:55
Is Disney World real?
29:01
You mean in Florida?
29:05
Like, I mean, I guess I create my own amusement park.
29:07
I guess that's what I'm saying.
29:08
Like, you know, like every day is an amusement to me.
29:11
Like, you know, it's all about.
29:14
It's all about having fun.
29:18
All right, stay with that thought.
29:20
Okay.
29:25
Which is interesting.
29:27
Your Jupiter is in the sign of Capricorn.
29:32
Okay.
29:33
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn.
29:37
Remember Father Time?
29:39
Oh, yeah, yeah.
29:41
And Capricorn Energy is.
29:45
Think corporate, think military, think government, think.
29:54
Interesting.
29:57
A hierarchy.
30:01
Your chart ruler.
30:04
If all your planets were going out drinking for the night, Jupiter.
30:08
Jupiter would drive the car home.
30:10
Jupiter would be the designated driver for all your planets.
30:15
And your Jupiter is in Capricorn.
30:19
That's strange.
30:20
Yeah.
30:21
You know, you want to.
30:22
You want to know what else is strange about it?
30:24
What's that?
30:27
Jupiter doesn't like Capricorn.
30:29
That's the worst place it could be, huh?
30:34
Yeah.
30:34
I'm not big on authority.
30:36
I was.
30:37
How did you know what my next question was going to be?
30:40
Hey, Stacy, what has been your relationship with authority?
30:45
It's not good.
30:46
I don't.
30:47
I don't care for it much.
30:49
That would be this Jupiter over here, your chart ruler.
30:53
Basically, this is you.
30:58
This.
30:58
This Jupiter and Capricorn tells me more about you than this Aquarius over here.
31:05
Oh, how funny.
31:08
And so the.
31:11
The condition of Jupiter in.
31:13
In Capricorn they call is called fall, Right?
31:20
What does fall?
31:22
Fall is kind of like being exiled.
31:33
Like, I put some blind photos on you, and I put you in the helicopter and we just fly away somewhere and I.
31:42
We land.
31:44
I put.
31:45
Get you out the car, out the helicopter, take the blindfolders off and say, bye, Stacy, and take off and leave you in a country with not knowing who, the language, not knowing anybody.
32:03
Stacy, have you felt that way in your life?
32:08
Oh, many times.
32:11
I'm pretty good at chameleon in anymore.
32:14
I can.
32:14
I can chameleon in.
32:15
You know, I just don't stay long.
32:19
Yeah.
32:19
Oh, wait.
32:22
This would show up in groups and friends you're connected to.
32:27
Okay,.
32:29
So.
32:31
And you said you used to move a lot.
32:34
Yeah.
32:36
When you would move, did you feel like you was exiled, trying to.
32:42
Inside?
32:43
Now you back into this group, trying to find just, like, friends and stuff like that.
32:50
How was moving for you all of a sudden?
32:53
You know, it was hard.
32:54
Like, I, you know, I just.
32:55
I always blamed it on the fact that everybody's friend groups were already made.
32:58
And so I just never.
32:59
I never fit in.
33:01
And by the time anybody ever got to know me, you know, me, you know, we'd move again.
33:05
So, you know, occasionally I'd have, like, one good friend, you know, pop up, you know, here and there, and then I'd move again.
33:11
So in high school, you know, I had, you know, like one or two good friends, usually a boyfriend and then.
33:17
But I never, you know, I never got in, fed into the groups and stuff.
33:20
I mean, to the point, you know, I never go to class reunions.
33:23
Like, it just.
33:24
It never was my thing.
33:25
You know, I was.
33:26
I couldn't be so glad to get out of school when I graduated.
33:30
So.
33:31
You know what Aquarius can be?
33:33
What's that?
33:34
The outsider, Definitely.
33:38
Yeah.
33:39
Yeah.
33:39
I was called eccentric.
33:43
How do you feel about.
33:44
How'd that make you feel?
33:47
I don't know.
33:47
I mean, I guess not bad.
33:49
And not bad because after a while, I figured out I didn't want to fit in.
33:52
I mean, I didn't like doing the things people were doing.
33:54
You know, I just wasn't into it.
33:56
So, you know, occasionally I guess I'd feel kind of lonely or whatever.
34:01
But honestly, I mean, even to this day, like, I just don't.
34:03
I just don't care to join groups and stuff.
34:06
It's just not.
34:07
I just never get into all the.
34:09
The hubbub of whatever they're excited about.
34:11
It's just never usually my thing.
34:12
Unless it's spirituality, like, you know, metaphysical book club.
34:15
We all get together, we talk.
34:16
That's a good time.
34:17
But, like, you know, even the football games.
34:20
What has your relationship inside groups been like with female?
34:34
I don't know.
34:34
I just.
34:35
I've never really liked it.
34:36
I don't like the competitiveness of it.
34:39
Usually.
34:39
Usually women are competitive.
34:40
Caddy not into it.
34:46
Now.
34:46
I avoid it.
34:47
You avoid it?
34:49
Yeah.
34:50
All right, all right, all right, all right.
34:53
I'm turning a bunch of things up now.
34:55
There's in the, in the chart, there's two planets.
34:59
It's called malefics that you know.
35:02
And the two malefics are Saturn and Mars.
35:06
Right?
35:10
Saturn we already talked about.
35:15
You have Saturn in the fourth house.
35:17
Your Mars is in the tenth house of career.
35:21
How you seen in the outer world and stuff like that.
35:25
And the reason I isolated this is because your malefics are in a tug of war with each other from home and work.
35:42
10Th house, how you seen in the outer world.
35:46
You have the planet of war in the outer world.
35:53
Okay.
35:53
Yep.
35:56
Earlier in life or whatever, could you have come across combative a little bit.
36:07
Or are you seeing more of ambitious going after what you want?
36:13
Definitely ambitious.
36:15
I've had people many times, you know, with the coffee shop and with this store, they're like, you know, kind of like they said they could never do something like this.
36:22
And I'm like, I don't see, you know, I just go for it.
36:25
Like, I guess I don't have that same kind of fear.
36:27
I'm just like, I don't see why not.
36:30
So I'm, I'm pretty ambitious.
36:32
Whether it comes to school or, you know, career, I've always been ambitious.
36:39
So what do you think this tug of war is happening right here?
36:44
Did you.
36:46
This is not just now.
36:47
This is all life.
36:49
You know, earlier in life and all that.
36:50
Do you think the conditions at home forced you to be more ambitious out there or push?
37:00
Not forced, but pushed you in a way.
37:02
I mean, it could be, it could be because I never really wanted to depend on anybody.
37:12
Kind of wanted to be, you know, self made, like be able to pay my own bills and all that.
37:18
The other thing reason I wanted to bring up this fourth house is because the fourth house is your, let's.
37:25
Let's say your foundation.
37:28
And with Saturn there retrograde.
37:33
Some of the reason with why it may be hard for you to speak deep emotion and stuff like that, because earlier in life he was always moving around and didn't have a secure foundation.
37:46
But now, I don't know, since maybe since you got married, y', all, you, you been more in one place.
37:55
Maybe that has helped you communicate though, from that emotional space.
38:01
Yeah, yeah, definitely.
38:02
He's my safe space.
38:08
I did want to ask you.
38:13
Everybody goes through something.
38:16
It's called a Saturn return.
38:19
It's a fork in the road.
38:21
Okay.
38:22
And it happens to Everybody in between the ages of 28 and 30.
38:29
And so your Saturn return would have been 01 to 03.
38:37
Do you remember anything going on during that time could have had something to do with the home, family roots, communication in the home?
38:49
You know, I was pretty, I was pretty ill through that time.
38:55
I was going through like a continuous migraine for a year and a half.
39:02
Lots of anxiety.
39:02
I was trying to think I hadn't, I hadn't left my husband yet, but we were getting there.
39:11
I don't really remember.
39:15
Let's see, my.
39:16
Well,.
39:18
I became a mother in 96, so I was parenting.
39:28
Your Saturn rules your 12th house.
39:31
The 12, 11th and 12th house and 12th house can be confined spaces, hospitals, prisons, hospitals, jails and stuff like that.
39:41
And so you said you was going through a sickness.
39:44
Yeah, had a hysterectomy in 2003 also lots of anxiety.
39:53
That could.
39:53
12Th House, mental health and stuff like that as well.
39:58
Yeah, there was definitely some anxiety and panic attacks for the first time and all that that I had never experienced.
40:04
Yeah, that was your fork in the road right there.
40:06
So the person you was just thinking about who you was at 27 and who you was at 30, it's kind of different.
40:15
Yeah, yeah, that was, that was.
40:19
You see this Saturn here?
40:21
That was that acting up.
40:26
Is it coming back?
40:27
Do I have to worry about another one?
40:29
Oh, yeah, well, the next one happens in between 56 and 60.
40:38
Oh, crap, that's coming then.
40:40
Yeah, 58.
40:41
So pretty much, Pretty much.
40:51
That, that window of time, what we went in, in through during that time is revisited in a way, but ramped up in a way.
41:06
Right.
41:08
So I'll give you a good info.
41:10
Like I've seen people start their career and whatever they doing at that time, by the second Saturday return, they're retiring from that career, right?
41:25
Yeah, some people, hey, they had kids around that time.
41:32
Now their role as parents, they're stepping into the grandparents stage now, which is different.
41:44
Going from a parent to grandparents.
41:46
You see what I'm saying?
41:48
Yeah, yeah.
41:49
And so if you look at what you was going through then, right.
41:57
Oh, oh, during that time, you was all wrapped up in the traditional western field.
42:10
Yeah.
42:11
Now, 30 years later, when the Saturn return come up at 58, what do you think your return might be about?
42:21
That's a good question.
42:22
That's a good question.
42:23
I hope just farther into this world, you know?
42:26
Exactly.
42:27
You or you could be speaking more about it.
42:30
Yeah, right.
42:35
The other thing I wanted to bring up is if I turn your ascending on, right?
42:44
Yeah.
42:44
This Big red square, a triangle.
42:49
This is called a T square.
42:50
You got the two malefics in the tug of war and at 90 degrees from that is your ascendant.
42:58
The, the, the.
43:00
The.
43:01
Your exact sin.
43:03
Ascendant.
43:04
Right.
43:04
Is that the Pisces?
43:06
Yes, that's the degree that actually represents you.
43:10
Okay.
43:12
And so I got a tug of war with a planet.
43:15
The planet of war.
43:19
In.
43:19
In the 10th House of Career reputation.
43:21
How you seen in the world and the planet of whole back and stuff in the fourth house of home, family and roots.
43:31
And it's at a 90 degree point with your ascendant.
43:36
This is called a T squared tension.
43:40
And the release of this tension is through the.
43:45
The pivot point, which would be your seventh house of relationships.
43:51
And so I wonder how the drive out there to get it.
44:00
How does that affect the energy in the home and how does those two actually affect you and how you connect with groups or lack thereof.
44:23
All right, question, first question.
44:24
Do you feel there's a tension there between home and work, homework and how does.
44:31
Does it affect you?
44:35
I just feel exhausted a lot of times trying to keep up everything.
44:40
So that would make me ask you, do you have a healthy work home balance?
44:47
I think so.
44:48
I think so.
44:48
We just.
44:49
Unfortunately, our home is also a project.
44:51
Yeah.
44:52
What, what if I.
44:53
What if I called the husband and asked.
44:55
Asked him that same question.
44:57
Does Stacy have a proper work home balance?
45:00
What do you think he'll tell me?
45:02
He'd say probably better than he does.
45:05
Oh yeah.
45:06
Yeah.
45:10
So the.
45:12
Here's the question.
45:13
How does that going out to get it to be make sure the home and stable.
45:21
That tension, it applies to you, but how is that releasing into the relationship.
45:31
Making cause it can cause tensions.
45:34
We.
45:34
I think we just kind of do our own thing and so we found a way that makes it work.
45:38
You know, he works in the.
45:40
He works very early in the morning, comes home about two.
45:42
I'm usually about getting up, getting out the house, you know, about 11 and coming home about seven.
45:46
So we have a lot of alone time but.
45:50
And then shared house duty.
45:51
So I don't know.
45:52
I guess we kind of fit that mold for each other because he's a.
45:56
He's a hard worker too.
46:00
What night is date night?
46:05
Sundays.
46:06
Nah, I don't believe that because you had to think about it too long.
46:10
Okay.
46:12
We try to make it Sundays, but it's not always Sundays because every other Sunday I'm here.
46:15
You could.
46:16
Stacey, I, I accept that's a work in progress.
46:20
It's a work in progress.
46:21
All right.
46:22
Now there's other things that, as you can see, I just turned on some other stuff.
46:28
One.
46:28
One of the things I did want to say is, you see, this is your Mercury.
46:34
This is how you think and communicate.
46:36
This Jupiter, we spoke about it, right.
46:41
Which represents you.
46:43
But the thing about it is your Mercury and your Jupiter are under the beams of the sun.
46:53
And things that are too close to the sun, that the.
46:58
Their light gets outshined by the sun.
47:01
And so this tells me when it comes to those things, some of that can be made hidden from the world.
47:14
Okay, what does that mean for you?
47:17
So when it.
47:19
Your Mercury rules your seventh house of relationships and 4,000 of home, family and roots.
47:25
And so when it comes to you in your home and your relationship, somebody has probably has to be really close to you to know exactly what's going on.
47:38
You.
47:39
You will hide that from the world.
47:41
Yeah, I feel that.
47:42
I feel like, you know, from a young age I just.
47:45
I learned to not tell everybody everything because usually got used against you.
47:49
So I have to be pretty close to people to talk to about what's going on with me.
47:54
Do you remember I told you this Saturn blocker?
47:57
What?
47:57
Yeah.
47:58
It's in the sign of Gemini.
48:00
What does Gemini represent?
48:03
Communication.
48:05
Yeah.
48:06
And what did you just say?
48:07
I learned not to.
48:09
Yeah.
48:10
Yeah.
48:10
To make myself.
48:11
I felt like I was making myself vulnerable.
48:14
Now, you see this here?
48:16
This is Pluto.
48:17
Okay?
48:19
Now Pluto is the planet of death and regeneration.
48:24
Awesome.
48:27
Okay.
48:29
Out of the ashes rises the Phoenix.
48:32
Right.
48:33
And you got that right next to your moon.
48:38
The Moon represents emotion.
48:41
So.
48:42
And then it's in the sign of Libra.
48:45
Right.
48:45
And Libra is the scales of balance.
48:48
Libra represents relationships.
48:52
Okay.
48:53
And it's in the eighth house of deep bonded relationships, shared assets, intimacy.
49:05
Hey, Stacy.
49:06
Yeah.
49:08
For intimacy to take place.
49:12
Intimacy is into you.
49:14
I see.
49:17
Okay.
49:18
Is that fearful for you?
49:23
Let somebody in to see.
49:27
Yeah.
49:28
Yeah.
49:28
I don't like people looking at me.
49:29
Yeah.
49:30
Now here's a question.
49:32
Do you think.
49:33
Do you think that may throw off the balance of relationships for you?
49:39
Yeah, probably.
49:42
Probably.
49:43
Hey, you.
49:46
I.
49:47
I would like a deeper bond with a friend, a family member, a co worker.
49:51
But how.
49:52
How can somebody get in if you're scared to let somebody see the scars and.
49:58
Yeah.
50:00
And, you know, the lack of communication, you know, is not.
50:02
It's not easy to have in relationships either.
50:05
Like, you know, I'm not used to being able to voice my.
50:08
My thoughts and concerns or anything.
50:10
You know, I suppress it.
50:12
My throat chakra is Way off, man.
50:14
I was just about to ask you what, what's going on with your throat chakra?
50:17
It's not, it's not good.
50:19
I'm learning to speak my truth, but unfortunately when I do that I, you know, I have to go through the fear of rejection and all that.
50:24
So I'm working on it.
50:26
Well, well, well, you just brought it up.
50:31
This Mars.
50:32
Mars here.
50:33
Right.
50:33
We talked about it.
50:34
Mars rules your ninth house.
50:38
Uhhuh.
50:39
Of higher learning belief philosophy in life.
50:42
And it's in the sign of Scorpio.
50:44
Right.
50:45
And you, your Mars is actually in Sagittarius, which is ruled by your chart ruler.
50:53
But this Mars also rules Aries down here.
50:58
And your Aries is down here in the second house of money, value, self esteem and self worth.
51:08
And you, you see this right here?
51:10
Yeah.
51:11
That's Chiron, the wounded healer.
51:16
Okay, so you got the, you got the wounded healer in the house of self esteem and self worth.
51:23
Yeah, my self esteem is poor.
51:27
Is that why.
51:30
Well, the ruler of this is.
51:36
All right.
51:39
Do you think your feelings or have value?
51:48
Not generally, no.
51:52
Everybody else's feelings have value in my mind, but I forget my own.
51:57
Well, it's e.
51:58
Well, somebody was.
52:01
Kept putting your feelings on front and center and you felt some type of way about it.
52:08
Yeah, yeah.
52:12
And I mean, you know, I just, I just know that like if you were to walk in my store, like everything, everything that you're feeling would be utmost importance.
52:21
But if I were to walk in my store like to my own self, I negate everything.
52:25
It's.
52:26
It's really bizarre.
52:27
I'm having to learn how to take up space.
52:30
I don't know how to take up my own space.
52:33
So is that that wound?
52:34
Is that that wounded guy there?
52:36
Well, well, well that's a little bit.
52:41
A little bit.
52:42
But then this is also Jupiter.
52:45
Jupiter.
52:45
You, you were ruled by a planet that's about growth and expansion.
52:52
But I just, but also your sun.
52:55
I just told you your Jupiter is under the beams of the sun.
52:59
Right, right.
53:00
And so in our actuality, you want to grow and expand, but you want to hide it.
53:08
Yes, I'm all about growth and expansion.
53:11
All about it.
53:14
But what if I told you the people around you couldn't tell?
53:18
That'd be sad.
53:22
That'd be sad because that's my whole purpose, I think.
53:26
But, but for you, for them to know about, know that you're all about growth and expansion, you know what you got to do?
53:34
What's that?
53:35
You gotta speak.
53:38
Yes, but you don't Want to speak?
53:45
I'll speak if they come in the store.
53:46
Yeah.
53:47
Unless it comes to my emotions and then I'm a little bit leery, but, like, you know, I can teach all day what I know, and it's just that.
53:55
It's just this is what I know.
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It may not be the truth, but.
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Stacy.
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But what if the real teaching comes from what you feel?
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That's.
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Yeah.
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Which I think it does.
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I mean, that's where my intuition kicks in, is where, you know, goes with my feelings.
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Right.
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And knowledge.
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I guess it goes together.
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But what does that have to do with the business?
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Like, going.
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I don't know.
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I'm going back and forth now, but I guess two major events was happening last April.
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So now I'm conf.
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Now I'm wondering what that means for the business.
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How's it going?
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Great.
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Seventh House is partnerships.
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Have you been thinking about partnerships in a way?
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I mean, I guess I already am in partnerships with my, you know, my two practitioners.
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So I'm always willing to grow.
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I don't know.
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You know, I don't know what's next.
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I feel like there's growth to be had.
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What type of group?
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Like, like maybe an annex, another building where there's just more healing modalities and things to, you know, like for people to, you know, like a room to do sound baths, a room to, you know, bring in practitioners to
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do different things.
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You know, just more.
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More hands on things.
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And then, like, this would be the store, and then that would be kind of more of the healing center that I had imagined.
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What if I said your growth may come from something you don't want to do?
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Will I have fun doing it?
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Depends.
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Depend.
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Because to me, it's all.
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That's what.
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That's what the most important thing is, is just enjoying it.
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So.
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All right.
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Question.
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Yeah.
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How do you feel about this conversation?
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This conversation?
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Great.
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You like it?
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Yeah.
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What you like about it?
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I'm learning.
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I'm learning, you know, some astrology, learning about myself.
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I like how knowledgeable you're on all these things and, you know, it just kind of wants me.
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Makes me want to, like, learn more.
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You know what, Stacy?
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What?
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I like to learn, too.
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Tell you what.
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Let's switch worlds.
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Okay.
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Teach me something about energy.
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Well, I can tell you, like, what my favorite thing is about energy.
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So one of my favorite things that I've learned recently, and I think it's extremely important, is that.
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That emotions are frequencies and our bodies become out of alignment when those frequencies get trapped in our Bodies because we don't know how to process them.
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So by learning to.
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Learning to, I guess, you know, figure out what your triggers are, what emotions are related to those triggers, what beliefs are behind those emotions, and then what counter beliefs are behind those emotions, we can heal ourselves.
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So that's.
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That's kind of like my.
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My favorite path right now is trying to figure out, you know, within me, you know, when an emotion comes up, what the trigger is, what the belief is behind that trigger, what the counter belief is, and how I
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can acclimate that into my normal life of.
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That of changing beliefs.
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So that's.
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That's kind of.
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That's one of my favorite things to.
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To talk about.
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All right.
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How did you feel communicating that to me?
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It seemed kind of jumbled.
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You know, I probably need to.
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I need to simplify.
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I didn't ask you what you think about how you did.
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Okay.
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How did you feel communicating that to me?
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How.
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How does that make you feel?
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Did that make you feel good?
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Telling me, Teaching me some stuff?
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Yeah.
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Excited?
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Because I'm excited about it.
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Oh, okay.
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Well, what if I told you your growth and expansion of the business comes from you communicating more?
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Okay.
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All right, then I can do that.
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I gotta open that throat chakra somehow.
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But you don't like.
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But you don't like to talk and communicate.
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And what if I said you have to open up and communicate more about yourself?
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Yeah, that's an obstacle.
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But I have to do.
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I know I have to do it.
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So this is the first time I've said yes to a podcast.
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I've been asked four times.
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I'm trying.
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I'm trying to get myself out there.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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When you came along, I was like, okay, that is the fourth time.
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And I.
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I don't even know why I would be on a podcast.
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And you're the fourth person.
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I'm like, I'm gonna do it.
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I'm just gonna do it.
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I just need to get over it.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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So now I just heard something.
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You just let me hear something.
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Yeah.
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Now we gotta go back.
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I love this.
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I love this.
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You remember I pointed here and I said.
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You said, what's that?
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And I said, that's Chiron, the wounded healer.
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Yeah.
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You remember where I said, ky, your Chiron is what house, what it's connected to?
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Oh, was it Sagittarius?
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No, it was another S word.
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Saturn.
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Self worth.
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Oh, self worth.
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Yeah, I.
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I have a hard time with that.
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Yeah.
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Now think about what you said.
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Hey, I've been asked to be on this podcast a couple of times and I keep turning it down.
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I don't know why, I don't know why they would want to talk to me.
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Yeah.
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Does that sound like, does that sound like a self worth thing?
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100.
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Yes.
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All of these, you listen to your story.
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You've been through this medical field western and all that stuff.
1:00:02
You don't think you got things to share?
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Okay, I do have some things to say.
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I guess.
1:00:10
I do have some things to share, I guess because I'm still learning, you know, which I think I'll always be learning.
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So it's just hard to be like, I don't know why one wants to talk to me about it, but people come in every day and talk about it too.
1:00:21
So I guess I, I, it's just my, my thinking it's my, it's my, my little guy down there, Chiron.
1:00:28
I'm one of those people that I never think I know enough to be a leader, you know?
1:00:35
Oh, Stacy.
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Ah, man.
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Why are you trying to trigger me?
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I feel the same way.
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I don't know why people would want to talk to me, you know, I'm just this guy who just sat down and read some books and watched some videos and had some conversations.
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I don't know why they would want to talk to me those days.
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See, I can see it in you.
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I'm like, see, you know what you're doing.
1:01:04
Oh, so you don't, you don't think when people look at you, they get the impression that you know what you're doing?
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You know, I, I'm starting to see it here.
1:01:14
Yeah, I do feel like, you know, I feel like they, they always put some trust in me and I appreciate that.
1:01:19
At the same time, I have to make sure that they know that, you know, I don't know the truths.
1:01:24
I don't know that I'll ever know the truth.
1:01:25
I don't know if you'll never know the truth, but I'll tell you what I know.
1:01:28
And that's, that's how I present myself.
1:01:30
This is what I've discovered in the last five mind blowing years of energy and energy work.
1:01:36
And I'm happy to share it with anybody that walks in the door.
1:01:40
But I also, you know, I'm very respectful of whatever other people believe as well.
1:01:43
You know, I don't know that I would never consider myself as in a religion of this world, you know, because I think that.
1:01:50
You know what?
1:01:50
Stacy?
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Yeah.
1:01:52
Why don't you put your moon up, please?
1:01:55
It's showing.
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See my, my Moon's showing.
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Yeah, your moon's showing right now.
1:02:00
Remember I said your moon's in Libra.
1:02:02
Yeah.
1:02:03
And it's the, it's the scales equal.
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Yes.
1:02:06
Yeah.
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So, yeah, A lot of times, Stacy, Libra energy can play on both sides of the fence.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Straddle the fence.
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Don't want to just call a shot here.
1:02:22
Well, I, I see it over here, but I just don't want to offend nobody over there.
1:02:28
Yep, yep.
1:02:30
But then how much do you believe it?
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If you worried about offending somebody, Someone can ask that question.
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Yeah, yeah.
1:02:47
I'm, I'm not, you know, I'm not saying, you know, I'm just saying.
1:02:50
Yeah.
1:02:51
If you don't, if you, if you hesitate to stand on something, you know, if they say if you don't stand for something, you can fall for anything.
1:02:59
Fall for anything.
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Yeah.
1:03:00
Hey.
1:03:00
Hey, Stacy.
1:03:01
And, and you the one early in the thing, I think you, you, you said Boy George was your favorite singer.
1:03:06
Come a comma, come a chameleon.
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Oh, I'm a chameleon.
1:03:13
I chameleon along just long enough to, you know, to get the function done and get out of there.
1:03:21
But.
1:03:22
No, but I will say when it comes to my, you know, like, standards and stuff, that that's never at play.
1:03:26
I'll just leave if I'm not, I'm not gonna, I'm not going to go into some crazy world just to fit in.
1:03:31
So, you know,.
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I didn't touch any of this.
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This part.
1:03:38
You see this thing that's sandwiched?
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This is your Venus here and this is your Jupiter.
1:03:44
You see this little horseshoe thing?
1:03:45
Yeah, I do.
1:03:47
Yeah.
1:03:47
That's the north.
1:03:47
No, let's, that's.
1:03:50
Let's just say what your, the energy, your soul came to increase.
1:03:55
This, this and your south node, which be.
1:03:59
Which be would be the opposite of that.
1:04:02
It's in Cancer.
1:04:05
And Cancer actually is ruled by the moon.
1:04:09
And this cancer is in your fifth household.
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Okay, Kids, hobbies, short love, relationships, creativity, the fun house.
1:04:19
Okay.
1:04:23
So.
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Do you ever felt, Stacy, do you ever feel or felt like you found your true tribe?
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I'm finding it here.
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Yeah.
1:04:37
Finding it.
1:04:38
What if I told you the reason you always felt like the outsider of the tribe of tribes and stuff like that is because you're not here to join no tribe.
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You here to create a tribe of your own.
1:04:56
Okay, that would make a lot of.
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Sense, but how I'm going to be connected to your tribe if you, if you won't stand for something and you.
1:05:08
And willing to Fall for anything.
1:05:11
You want to see both sides.
1:05:17
Yeah.
1:05:18
Yeah.
1:05:20
I'm out here.
1:05:20
I'm out here speaking my truth, you know, But I don't.
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I just said.
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Just wait.
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Yeah.
1:05:24
When you out here speaking your truth, are you saying it with your chest or you saying it and looking around, seeing who's listening?
1:05:32
I hope the wrong person ain't listening.
1:05:37
You know, I get.
1:05:38
Okay, so here's an example.
1:05:39
I got to do my social media, right, because I have the store door, all right?
1:05:42
So I am speaking out and.
1:05:45
And resharing everything I believe in, right?
1:05:47
But I am always watching for, you know, someone to come.
1:05:50
Someone to come in and, you know, and start.
1:05:53
Or whatever, you know.
1:05:54
So, you know, I'm handling pretty well.
1:05:57
I try to be fair about it, you know, but, you know, I kindly ask them to leave our page.
1:06:01
It's like, so.
1:06:03
Like, I am watching.
1:06:04
I guess I'm always watching behind.
1:06:06
Behind me a little bit.
1:06:07
Yeah.
1:06:07
All right.
1:06:08
Yeah.
1:06:09
Last.
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I got one more question for you.
1:06:12
Sure, sure.
1:06:14
And I.
1:06:14
You may find this interesting, of course.
1:06:18
All right, so here.
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Here, in here you have planets.
1:06:28
Okay?
1:06:29
That's all air.
1:06:32
Here you have planets.
1:06:36
That's Earth.
1:06:38
Okay.
1:06:39
Here, here, and here is fire.
1:06:46
Your ascendant is Pisces, which is water.
1:06:52
Okay.
1:06:54
Here.
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In it.
1:06:56
Here.
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No, water.
1:07:01
You know, water, the element.
1:07:03
Water is about.
1:07:05
What's water?
1:07:07
Fluidity.
1:07:08
Flowing.
1:07:09
Yeah.
1:07:10
You know, what else is connected to what?
1:07:14
Emotions.
1:07:15
Okay.
1:07:16
Okay.
1:07:18
So Earth would be grounded.
1:07:20
Practical.
1:07:21
Energy.
1:07:23
Fire.
1:07:23
Is it.
1:07:25
Well, enthusiasm.
1:07:27
Fun.
1:07:28
And air is like intellect and thoughts and all that.
1:07:34
Yeah.
1:07:34
Water is emotion.
1:07:37
Okay.
1:07:39
Now, my question to you, Stacy, is why do you think God, the universe, insert your entity that you follow.
1:07:50
Why do you think the universe didn't give you any water?
1:07:58
Is it.
1:07:59
You was good at it in the past life or something.
1:08:03
And hell, Stacy, don't need no water.
1:08:05
Or.
1:08:09
Is water something you really need to focus on?
1:08:14
That is a really good question.
1:08:17
That is a very good question.
1:08:20
I don't know, because he gave me a water husband and he gave me a water daughter.
1:08:23
I got two cancers surrounding me.
1:08:25
Oh, and, Stacy, I bet you hear out their mouth a lot.
1:08:30
Well, I feel like.
1:08:31
Well, I feel.
1:08:33
I feel, I feel.
1:08:35
Yeah.
1:08:35
Pay attention to how many times they say I feel when you talk to them.
1:08:40
Okay, I will.
1:08:42
All right.
1:08:43
Hey, what was that north node you mentioned?
1:08:45
My soul's path?
1:08:46
Capricorn.
1:08:47
Capricorn?
1:08:48
What's that mean?
1:08:48
Oh, that's the military.
1:08:50
No, no, Stacy, no, I can't let you do that.
1:08:56
Back to why do you think the universe didn't give you any water in your choice.
1:09:06
You.
1:09:07
You talked about.
1:09:08
And then they.
1:09:09
The universe surrounded you by water people.
1:09:12
Water people.
1:09:13
And the whole fact that, you know, my whole path has been understanding emotions and how their frequencies.
1:09:21
So I guess he wants me, wants me to know more about emotions.
1:09:26
You think he wants you to know more about emotion or do you think the universe wants you to do emotion?
1:09:35
Actually feel emotion?
1:09:38
Yeah, yeah, probably.
1:09:41
I need.
1:09:42
I need to feel some more emotion because I have a lot of thoughts and I have a lot of fun and I'm pretty grounded now.
1:09:48
The question is.
1:09:50
Now my.
1:09:51
I know I said that's the last question, but now I got a deeper question.
1:09:57
Why is Stacy fearful to feel if she starts feeling what may come up that she don't want to address?
1:10:09
Yeah, yeah, A lot.
1:10:12
A lot.
1:10:14
In order, in order to soldier on, you stuff them down.
1:10:18
So if I let them out, I could.
1:10:20
I could lose everything.
1:10:22
But to.
1:10:24
To stuff down.
1:10:25
When you stuff down, you press down.
1:10:29
As in to depress them.
1:10:34
Yeah, yeah.
1:10:37
So what do you have to do to let it come up and out?
1:10:44
You gotta feel safe with it.
1:10:47
Let it out.
1:10:48
Like let it out and be safe.
1:10:50
And knowing that how it comes out is.
1:10:54
I don't know, is the way it's supposed to happen.
1:10:57
I guess.
1:10:57
I don't know.
1:10:59
What if I told you that's what you here to communicate?
1:11:03
Yeah, I can believe that.
1:11:05
Could you.
1:11:05
Could you communicate?
1:11:07
Yes, 100%.
1:11:10
I know it.
1:11:10
I can communicate it.
1:11:11
I just have to work on doing it.
1:11:13
No, you couldn't communicate it.
1:11:15
You know why?
1:11:16
Why?
1:11:17
Because you're going to be worried about how that person going to make feel about what you had to say about.
1:11:24
About my emotions?
1:11:24
Yeah.
1:11:25
No, I was talking.
1:11:25
I can teach emotion emotions, but yeah, you're right about personally communicating my emotions.
1:11:32
About what happened in your life.
1:11:35
Yeah.
1:11:36
I got a question for you.
1:11:37
When the last time you cried?
1:11:40
Actually, this morning.
1:11:42
What?
1:11:43
Yeah, listening to old, old music made me cry.
1:11:46
Is that, Is that easy or difficult for.
1:11:50
It's difficult because I can only get a couple tears out.
1:11:53
I can't flow.
1:11:54
I can only trickle.
1:11:57
It needs to.
1:11:58
It needs to like, you know, break.
1:12:01
Break through.
1:12:02
Yeah.
1:12:03
A friend of mine, mental reset, would probably tell you right about now you need to sit by some water.
1:12:10
Running water.
1:12:11
Not in the bathtub, like.
1:12:13
Like a river or whatever.
1:12:15
Okay, I'll do that.
1:12:17
All right.
1:12:18
You got any questions for me?
1:12:21
No, I've written down some notes.
1:12:23
I'll have to think on it, but thank you so Much I appreciate it.
1:12:26
All right.
1:12:26
All right.
1:12:28
Well.
1:12:28
Well, this is.
1:12:29
Well, I want.
1:12:30
When I come to the grounded.
1:12:33
I won't be talking to everybody this long.
1:12:37
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1:12:39
What do you think about some of the things I said about to you?
1:12:43
I thought they're great.
1:12:44
I love it.
1:12:45
I've always.
1:12:46
I've always wanted to sit down and talk about my astrology, so, you know, it makes sense.
1:12:51
Did it resonate?
1:12:52
Yeah, absolutely.
1:12:53
Yep.
1:12:54
Yep.
1:12:57
All right.
1:12:58
Yeah.
1:12:59
Is there anything you want else you want to tell the people about what you do, the center where also tell people where it is and all of that?
1:13:11
Well, we're in the historic downtown Foley, Alabama.
1:13:16
You know, usually here we're open Wednesday and that.
1:13:19
Wait, Wednesday through Saturday, 11 to 5.
1:13:21
Like I said, we have readers come in on Saturdays, we have classes on Sundays, meditations on Sundays, our book club on Sundays.
1:13:29
Gonna start having like a metaphysical movie night one night a month.
1:13:33
You know, I would love to bring in teachers of all sorts.
1:13:37
All things energy, everything, you know, from astrology to.
1:13:41
We just started qigong.
1:13:44
You know, I'd love to.
1:13:45
Anything, you know, whatever.
1:13:47
Whatever people can come and teach.
1:13:49
That's.
1:13:49
That's kind of my bat signal right now.
1:13:51
So we're just growing and, you know, it's a.
1:13:56
It's a high frequency little place that people just love to come in and just sit down.
1:13:59
So sometimes they'll just sit down and just sit here and hang out and just hang out.
1:14:05
You know, I got little kids walk in, they're like, oh, the energy's so great in here.
1:14:08
And that is like the best thing I could ever hear on a daily basis, you know, like, just having.
1:14:13
Being able to provide that space.
1:14:17
Yeah, it's a space.
1:14:18
It's a, It's a safe space.
1:14:20
You come in, you can talk.
1:14:21
I've had.
1:14:22
I've had all religions in here.
1:14:23
I even have a Mennonite and his family that come in.
1:14:26
I mean, it's just.
1:14:27
It's absolutely a place where you can, you can come, you can talk, you can feel safe, you know, bringing up whatever it is that you believe and, and just, I don't know, just, you know, hanging out.
1:14:40
Hanging out.
1:14:42
All right.
1:14:42
Yeah.
1:14:43
Social media.
1:14:44
How.
1:14:45
How can people find you on social media?
1:14:47
Grounded Foley on Instagram and Facebook and we do have a tick tock.
1:14:51
I think it might be grounded Foley as well.
1:14:54
I'm trying to figure out at 53 how to do this tick tock world.
1:14:57
So muddling through it.
1:15:00
All right, all right.
1:15:02
And contact any other ways people can contact you.
1:15:07
Stacy.groundedahoo.com all right.
1:15:10
All right.
1:15:12
And I want to thank you for coming on.
1:15:15
Absolutely.
1:15:16
Reading.
1:15:17
Thanks so much for reaching out.
1:15:19
Oh, no problem.
1:15:20
And I will plan on showing up to Grounded and Foley, everybody.
1:15:30
Yeah.
1:15:31
Hopefully it's going to go well.
1:15:34
Stacy says she will host yours truly, I am Astrology readings and provide some readings for Stacy and the people.
1:15:44
And everybody knows how in all my episodes, know thyself, balance your energy.