Why Being the Most Reliable Person Is Ruining You
In this episode, Dr. K explores why default caregivers and hyper-dependable individuals suffer from chronic burnout, explaining that the root issue isn't just poor boundary setting but a deeply ingrained childhood schema. He details how early experiences like parentification or conditional affection train the nervous system to associate self-worth and safety with constant performance and self-sacrifice. This results in adults who compulsively over-function, feel intense guilt during relaxation, and struggle to receive care without feeling uncomfortable. To break free, Dr. K recommends…
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