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The Good Enough Host - Hosting Without the Stress · Getting to Good Enough

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  Hey
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  there.
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  Welcome
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  to
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  getting
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  to
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  Good
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  Enough.
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  I'm
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  Shannon
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  Wilkinson.
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  And
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  I'm
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  Janine
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  Adams.
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  We're
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  here
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  for
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  practical
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  and
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  fun
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  conversations
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  about
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  living
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  with
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  more
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  ease
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  and
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  way
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  less
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  stress.
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  Yep.
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  We're
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  all
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  about
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  embracing
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  progress
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  over
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  perfection.
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  So
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  grab
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  a
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  tasty
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  beverage
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  and
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  let's
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  get
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  started.
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  Hey,
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  Janine.
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  Hey,
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  Shannon.
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  How
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  are
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  you?
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  I'm
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  good.
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  How
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  are
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  you
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  doing?
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  I'm
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  good.
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  It's
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  so
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  nice
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  to
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  be
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  able
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  to
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  say
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  those
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  words
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  again
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  every
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  week.
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  I
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  know.
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  I'm
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  loving
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  it
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  so
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  much.
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  Yeah.
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  Lucky
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  us.
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  I
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  know,
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  I
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  know.
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  And
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  you
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  know,
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  it's
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  good
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  that
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  we
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  just
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  had
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  this
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  platform
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  available
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  to
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  us
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  to
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  be
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  able
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  to
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  pick
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  up
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  again
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  and
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  do
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  this.
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  And,
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  um,
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  apparently,
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  based
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  on
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  our.
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  Our
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  really
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  low
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  bar,
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  we
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  are
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  enjoying
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  this
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  and
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  helping
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  at
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  least
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  one
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  other
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  person.
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  Right.
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  Therefore
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  we
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  are
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  successful.
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  Can
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  we
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  rule?
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  Today
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  we
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  wanted
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  to
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  talk
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  about
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  Good
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  Enough
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  hosting.
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  Right.
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  About
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  not
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  stressing
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  about
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  having
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  people
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  over
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  or
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  having
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  people
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  stay
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  at
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  your
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  house,
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  which
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  is
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  even
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  more
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  stressful
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  than
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  having
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  people
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  over.
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  But,
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  yeah,
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  I
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  actually
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  had
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  three
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  house
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  guests
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  in
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  July.
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  I
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  think
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  that's
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  true.
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  Yeah.
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  Which
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  is
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  perhaps
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  unprecedented
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  in
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  my
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  whole
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  life.
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  Right.
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  Well,
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  you
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  had
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  a.
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  You
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  had
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  a
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  big
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  event
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  that
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  you
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  were
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  celebrating.
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  Right.
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  Had.
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  And
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  had
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  a
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  college
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  friend
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  in
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  at
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  the
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  beginning
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  of
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  July.
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  Another
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  one
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  for
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  the
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  big
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  event.
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  And
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  then
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  another
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  friend
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  from
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  my
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  first
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  job
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  who
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  happened
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  to
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  be
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  in
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  town.
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  And
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  she
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  actually
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  stayed
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  in
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  a
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  different
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  apartment
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  in
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  our
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  building.
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  But
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  she
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  was
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  hanging.
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  We
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  were
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  hanging.
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  And
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  believe
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  me,
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  she
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  could
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  tell
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  you,
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  I
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  did
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  not
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  overstress
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  about
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  that.
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  She
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  was
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  the
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  third
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  of
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  the
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  string.
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  And
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  it's
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  like
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  I
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  said,
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  let's
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  walk
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  to
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  Whole
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  Foods
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  and
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  find
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  some
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  lunch.
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  That's
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  how
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  that
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  went.
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  And
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  it
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  was
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  great.
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  It
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  was
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  just
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  fine.
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  We
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  both
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  got
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  what
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  we
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  wanted
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  for
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  lunch
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  and
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  worked
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  out
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  just
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  fine.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  I
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  just
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  had
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  the
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  opportunity
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  to
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  spend
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  some
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  time
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  with
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  college
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  friends
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  in
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  la
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  and
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  it
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  took
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  a
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  little
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  convincing
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  on
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  my
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  friend.
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  But
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  to
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  really
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  say
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  my
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  whole
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  goal
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  is
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  to
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  just
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  spend
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  time
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  with
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  the
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  two
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  of
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  you,
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  spend
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  time
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  with
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  your
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  family.
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  There
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  are
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  lots
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  of
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  fun
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  things
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  to
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  do
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  in
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  la
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  and
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  maybe
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  someday
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  we'll
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  do
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  some
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  of
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  them.
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  I
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  mean,
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  I
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  lived
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  there,
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  so
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  I
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  don't.
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  I'm
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  not
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  feeling
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  like
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  I'm
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  really
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  missing
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  out.
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  Um,
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  but
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  we
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  didn't
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  have.
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  We
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  didn't
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  need
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  to
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  over
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  schedule
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  our
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  time
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  together.
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  Like
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  we.
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  The.
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  The
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  purpose
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  of
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  our
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  trip
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  was
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  to
• 2:57
  see
• 2:57
  Bridget
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  Everett
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  live,
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  which
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  was
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  phenomenal.
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  And
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  I
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  mean,
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  she's
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  amazing.
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  And
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  it's
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  a.
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  Her.
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  What
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  she
• 3:09
  does,
• 3:09
  she
• 3:09
  does
• 3:10
  sort
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  of
• 3:10
  a
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  comedic
• 3:12
  cabaret
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  act.
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  Um,
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  and
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  it's
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  completely
• 3:18
  100%
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  over
• 3:19
  the
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  top.
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  And
• 3:21
  so
• 3:21
  enjoy.
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  So
• 3:22
  much
• 3:22
  fun.
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  Yeah,
• 3:23
  it's
• 3:23
  very.
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  It
• 3:24
  is
• 3:25
  in
• 3:25
  the
• 3:26
  faces
• 3:26
  of
• 3:26
  some
• 3:27
  people
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  up
• 3:28
  front.
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  Like,
• 3:30
  you
• 3:30
  gotta
• 3:30
  know
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  what
• 3:31
  you're
• 3:31
  getting
• 3:31
  into
• 3:31
  if
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  you're
• 3:32
  sitting
• 3:32
  in
• 3:32
  the
• 3:33
  front
• 3:33
  row
• 3:33
  or
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  on
• 3:34
  an
• 3:35
  aisle
• 3:35
  because
• 3:36
  it's
• 3:37
  interactive.
• 3:38
  There
• 3:38
  was
• 3:39
  whipped
• 3:39
  cream
• 3:40
  involved.
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  Oh,
• 3:41
  my
• 3:41
  God.
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  Yeah.
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  But
• 3:44
  so
• 3:44
  then,
• 3:45
  you
• 3:45
  know,
• 3:45
  one
• 3:45
  of
• 3:46
  my
• 3:46
  friends
• 3:46
  hadn't
• 3:46
  seen
• 3:47
  the
• 3:47
  third
• 3:47
  season
• 3:48
  of
• 3:48
  one
• 3:48
  of
• 3:49
  my
• 3:49
  favorite
• 3:49
  shows
• 3:49
  ever,
• 3:50
  Somebody
• 3:50
  Somewhere,
• 3:51
  which
• 3:52
  stars
• 3:52
  Bridget
• 3:53
  Everett.
• 3:54
  And
• 3:54
  so
• 3:55
  the.
• 3:56
  Our
• 3:56
  last
• 3:57
  day
• 3:58
  together,
• 3:58
  we
• 3:59
  had
• 3:59
  a
• 4:00
  long.
• 4:00
  Oh,
• 4:01
  no,
• 4:01
  it
• 4:01
  wasn't
• 4:01
  our
• 4:01
  last
• 4:01
  day.
• 4:02
  It
• 4:02
  was
• 4:02
  Saturday.
• 4:03
  It
• 4:03
  was
• 4:03
  our
• 4:03
  middle
• 4:03
  day
• 4:04
  together,
• 4:05
  and
• 4:06
  we
• 4:06
  spent
• 4:06
  all
• 4:06
  afternoon
• 4:08
  binging
• 4:09
  the
• 4:10
  third
• 4:10
  season
• 4:11
  of
• 4:11
  Somebody
• 4:12
  Somewhere,
• 4:12
  which
• 4:12
  was
• 4:13
  absolutely
• 4:14
  delightful.
• 4:15
  Sounds
• 4:16
  like
• 4:16
  a
• 4:16
  perfect
• 4:16
  weekend
• 4:17
  to
• 4:17
  me.
• 4:17
  Yeah.
• 4:18
  Yeah,
• 4:18
  it
• 4:19
  was
• 4:19
  so
• 4:19
  much
• 4:19
  fun.
• 4:19
  We
• 4:20
  ate
• 4:20
  good
• 4:20
  food.
• 4:21
  We
• 4:21
  did
• 4:21
  have
• 4:21
  some
• 4:22
  star
• 4:22
  sightings,
• 4:22
  which
• 4:23
  is
• 4:23
  always
• 4:23
  fun
• 4:23
  in
• 4:23
  la.
• 4:25
  And
• 4:26
  we
• 4:26
  went
• 4:27
  to
• 4:27
  some
• 4:27
  really
• 4:27
  great
• 4:28
  restaurants.
• 4:29
  We
• 4:29
  also
• 4:29
  ate
• 4:30
  in.
• 4:30
  And
• 4:31
  it
• 4:31
  was.
• 4:31
  Was
• 4:31
  just
• 4:32
  nice,
• 4:32
  like,
• 4:34
  making
• 4:34
  sure
• 4:34
  that
• 4:35
  she
• 4:35
  wasn't
• 4:35
  stressed
• 4:36
  about
• 4:36
  hosting
• 4:36
  us.
• 4:37
  Yeah.
• 4:38
  Yep.
• 4:39
  Well,
• 4:39
  I'm
• 4:40
  the
• 4:40
  same
• 4:40
  way.
• 4:40
  I
• 4:40
  mean,
• 4:41
  I
• 4:41
  love
• 4:41
  not
• 4:41
  doing
• 4:42
  anything
• 4:42
  when
• 4:42
  I
• 4:42
  visit
• 4:43
  someone.
• 4:43
  All
• 4:43
  I
• 4:43
  want
• 4:44
  to
• 4:44
  do,
• 4:44
  you
• 4:44
  know,
• 4:44
  I
• 4:45
  mean,
• 4:45
  I
• 4:45
  sometimes
• 4:45
  make
• 4:46
  you
• 4:46
  take
• 4:46
  me
• 4:46
  places
• 4:46
  in
• 4:47
  Portland
• 4:47
  when
• 4:47
  I
• 4:47
  come,
• 4:48
  because
• 4:48
  there's
• 4:49
  shopping
• 4:50
  that
• 4:50
  I
• 4:50
  like
• 4:50
  to
• 4:50
  do
• 4:50
  in
• 4:51
  Portland,
• 4:51
  but
• 4:53
  really
• 4:53
  I
• 4:53
  just
• 4:53
  want
• 4:53
  to
• 4:54
  sit
• 4:54
  around
• 4:54
  and
• 4:54
  talk.
• 4:55
  Yeah.
• 4:56
  And
• 4:56
  so.
• 4:56
  And
• 4:57
  so
• 4:57
  that's
• 4:57
  the
• 4:57
  thing.
• 4:58
  If
• 4:58
  you're
• 4:58
  the
• 4:58
  host,
• 5:00
  it
• 5:00
  might
• 5:00
  be
• 5:00
  nice
• 5:01
  to
• 5:01
  know
• 5:02
  that
• 5:02
  is
• 5:02
  true
• 5:02
  of
• 5:02
  your
• 5:03
  guests.
• 5:03
  It
• 5:03
  might
• 5:03
  may
• 5:04
  or
• 5:04
  may
• 5:04
  not
• 5:04
  be
• 5:04
  true,
• 5:04
  but
• 5:05
  you
• 5:05
  don't
• 5:05
  have
• 5:05
  to
• 5:06
  come
• 5:06
  up
• 5:07
  with
• 5:07
  the
• 5:07
  perfect
• 5:09
  options
• 5:09
  for
• 5:10
  sightseeing
• 5:11
  or
• 5:12
  the
• 5:12
  perfect
• 5:13
  food.
• 5:14
  I
• 5:14
  mean,
• 5:14
  it's
• 5:15
  kind
• 5:15
  of
• 5:15
  nice
• 5:15
  to
• 5:15
  know
• 5:16
  what
• 5:16
  hot
• 5:16
  beverage
• 5:16
  they
• 5:17
  like
• 5:17
  in
• 5:17
  the
• 5:17
  morning.
• 5:18
  So
• 5:18
  you
• 5:18
  can
• 5:18
  provide
• 5:19
  the
• 5:19
  caffeine
• 5:20
  if
• 5:20
  caffeine
• 5:21
  is
• 5:21
  required.
• 5:22
  You're
• 5:22
  an
• 5:22
  easy
• 5:23
  house
• 5:23
  guest
• 5:23
  because
• 5:23
  you
• 5:23
  don't
• 5:24
  require
• 5:24
  caffeine
• 5:24
  in
• 5:24
  the
• 5:25
  morning.
• 5:25
  Yeah,
• 5:25
  but.
• 5:27
  But
• 5:27
  really,
• 5:29
  everyone's
• 5:29
  more
• 5:29
  comfortable
• 5:30
  when
• 5:30
  the
• 5:30
  host
• 5:30
  is
• 5:30
  comfortable.
• 5:31
  Right,
• 5:32
  right.
• 5:32
  And
• 5:32
  if
• 5:32
  the
• 5:32
  host
• 5:33
  is
• 5:33
  stressing
• 5:33
  out,
• 5:34
  then.
• 5:35
  Yeah,
• 5:35
  then
• 5:36
  it's
• 5:36
  less
• 5:36
  fun
• 5:36
  as
• 5:37
  a
• 5:37
  guest.
• 5:39
  And
• 5:39
  maybe
• 5:40
  that's
• 5:40
  a
• 5:40
  good
• 5:40
  thing
• 5:40
  to
• 5:41
  remember
• 5:41
  when
• 5:41
  you're
• 5:41
  hosting.
• 5:42
  Is
• 5:43
  it,
• 5:43
  like,
• 5:45
  the
• 5:46
  more
• 5:46
  relaxed
• 5:47
  you
• 5:47
  can
• 5:47
  be,
• 5:48
  the
• 5:48
  easier
• 5:48
  it
• 5:48
  will
• 5:48
  be
• 5:49
  for
• 5:49
  your
• 5:49
  guest,
• 5:49
  the
• 5:50
  more
• 5:50
  pleasant
• 5:50
  the
• 5:51
  experience
• 5:51
  will
• 5:51
  be
• 5:52
  for
• 5:52
  your
• 5:52
  guest.
• 5:53
  Yeah,
• 5:53
  Yeah,
• 5:54
  I
• 5:54
  think
• 5:54
  that's
• 5:55
  true.
• 5:55
  Yeah.
• 5:56
  I
• 5:56
  just
• 5:56
  had
• 5:57
  three
• 5:57
  friends
• 5:57
  over
• 5:58
  to
• 5:58
  play
• 5:58
  a
• 5:59
  game
• 5:59
  last
• 6:00
  night,
• 6:00
  two
• 6:00
  nights
• 6:00
  ago,
• 6:01
  and
• 6:03
  the
• 6:03
  invitation
• 6:04
  was
• 6:04
  for
• 6:05
  cocktails,
• 6:06
  game
• 6:07
  and
• 6:07
  takeout.
• 6:08
  So
• 6:08
  expectations
• 6:08
  were
• 6:09
  set
• 6:09
  and
• 6:10
  we
• 6:10
  ordered
• 6:11
  in
• 6:12
  and
• 6:12
  the
• 6:13
  food
• 6:13
  took
• 6:15
  solid
• 6:15
  twice
• 6:16
  as
• 6:16
  long
• 6:16
  as
• 6:16
  they
• 6:16
  said
• 6:16
  it
• 6:17
  would.
• 6:18
  That
• 6:18
  was
• 6:18
  okay.
• 6:18
  It
• 6:19
  was
• 6:19
  at
• 6:19
  the
• 6:19
  end
• 6:19
  of
• 6:19
  the
• 6:19
  evening,
• 6:21
  and
• 6:21
  it
• 6:21
  was
• 6:21
  really
• 6:21
  fun
• 6:21
  and
• 6:22
  casual
• 6:22
  and
• 6:22
  we
• 6:23
  had
• 6:23
  a
• 6:23
  good
• 6:23
  time.
• 6:25
  Right.
• 6:25
  Well.
• 6:25
  And
• 6:26
  I've
• 6:26
  enjoyed
• 6:27
  some
• 6:27
  of
• 6:28
  your
• 6:28
  regular
• 6:29
  game
• 6:29
  nights,
• 6:29
  and
• 6:30
  it's
• 6:30
  so
• 6:30
  much
• 6:30
  fun.
• 6:31
  And,
• 6:32
  like,
• 6:33
  people
• 6:33
  aren't
• 6:34
  coming,
• 6:35
  I
• 6:35
  mean,
• 6:35
  unless
• 6:36
  they've
• 6:37
  been
• 6:37
  promised
• 6:37
  that
• 6:37
  Barry's
• 6:38
  gonna
• 6:38
  cook,
• 6:39
  that
• 6:40
  they're
• 6:40
  not
• 6:40
  expecting
• 6:41
  a
• 6:42
  gourmet
• 6:42
  meal.
• 6:43
  I
• 6:43
  mean,
• 6:43
  that's
• 6:44
  not
• 6:44
  why
• 6:44
  I
• 6:44
  wanna
• 6:44
  spend
• 6:45
  time
• 6:45
  with
• 6:45
  my
• 6:45
  friends.
• 6:46
  Right,
• 6:47
  Right.
• 6:48
  Yeah.
• 6:48
  Unless
• 6:48
  it's
• 6:48
  an
• 6:49
  invitation
• 6:49
  for
• 6:49
  a
• 6:49
  gourmet
• 6:50
  meal.
• 6:50
  Right.
• 6:50
  And
• 6:50
  then
• 6:50
  in
• 6:51
  our
• 6:51
  case,
• 6:51
  Barry,
• 6:53
  what
• 6:54
  did
• 6:54
  make
• 6:54
  the
• 6:54
  cocktails.
• 6:55
  So
• 6:55
  that
• 6:55
  was
• 6:55
  good.
• 6:56
  And.
• 6:56
  And
• 6:56
  he
• 6:56
  met
• 6:57
  their
• 6:57
  expectations.
• 6:58
  I
• 6:58
  do
• 6:58
  express.
• 6:59
  Expect
• 6:59
  a
• 6:59
  craft
• 7:00
  cocktail
• 7:01
  when.
• 7:01
  Yeah,
• 7:02
  when
• 7:02
  Barry's
• 7:03
  bartending.
• 7:04
  Right,
• 7:05
  Exactly.
• 7:05
  If
• 7:05
  I'm
• 7:05
  bartending,
• 7:06
  you'll
• 7:06
  get
• 7:06
  a
• 7:06
  nice
• 7:07
  glass
• 7:07
  of
• 7:07
  wine.
• 7:07
  Or.
• 7:08
  Yes.
• 7:08
  Maybe
• 7:09
  not
• 7:09
  even
• 7:09
  that
• 7:09
  nice
• 7:09
  a
• 7:10
  glass
• 7:10
  of
• 7:10
  wine.
• 7:11
  You'll
• 7:11
  get
• 7:12
  a
• 7:12
  glass
• 7:12
  of
• 7:12
  whatever
• 7:13
  wine
• 7:13
  is
• 7:13
  open.
• 7:14
  Open,
• 7:15
  and
• 7:15
  you'll
• 7:15
  be
• 7:15
  happy.
• 7:16
  And
• 7:16
  I
• 7:17
  would
• 7:17
  be
• 7:17
  happy.
• 7:18
  And
• 7:18
  I
• 7:18
  am
• 7:18
  happy,
• 7:19
  because
• 7:19
  I'm
• 7:19
  getting
• 7:20
  to
• 7:20
  enjoy
• 7:20
  a
• 7:20
  glass
• 7:20
  of
• 7:21
  wine
• 7:21
  with
• 7:21
  you.
• 7:22
  Exactly.
• 7:23
  That's
• 7:24
  the
• 7:24
  point.
• 7:24
  And
• 7:24
  then
• 7:24
  with
• 7:25
  the
• 7:25
  house,
• 7:25
  with
• 7:26
  people
• 7:27
  spending
• 7:27
  the
• 7:27
  night,
• 7:29
  that's
• 7:29
  another
• 7:30
  level
• 7:30
  of.
• 7:33
  Of
• 7:34
  stress.
• 7:35
  But,
• 7:35
  you
• 7:36
  know,
• 7:36
  setting
• 7:37
  some.
• 7:37
  Like
• 7:37
  in
• 7:38
  our
• 7:38
  case.
• 7:39
  Well,
• 7:39
  when
• 7:39
  we
• 7:40
  lived
• 7:40
  in
• 7:40
  our
• 7:40
  old
• 7:40
  house,
• 7:40
  we
• 7:41
  didn't
• 7:41
  have
• 7:41
  the
• 7:42
  guest
• 7:43
  room
• 7:43
  cleaned
• 7:43
  regularly
• 7:44
  by
• 7:45
  the
• 7:45
  cleaners
• 7:45
  because
• 7:45
  the
• 7:45
  house
• 7:46
  was
• 7:46
  so
• 7:46
  big
• 7:46
  and
• 7:46
  we
• 7:46
  didn't
• 7:46
  use
• 7:46
  it.
• 7:47
  So.
• 7:47
  So
• 7:47
  I
• 7:47
  would
• 7:48
  have
• 7:48
  them
• 7:49
  clean
• 7:50
  it
• 7:51
  the
• 7:51
  time
• 7:51
  before.
• 7:52
  The
• 7:52
  cleaners,
• 7:53
  not
• 7:53
  the
• 7:53
  guests.
• 7:55
  Right.
• 7:55
  Although,
• 7:56
  remember
• 7:56
  that
• 7:56
  one
• 7:56
  time
• 7:57
  you
• 7:57
  got
• 7:57
  in
• 7:57
  early
• 7:57
  and
• 7:58
  I
• 7:58
  hadn't
• 7:58
  vacuumed?
• 7:59
  Do
• 7:59
  you
• 7:59
  remember
• 7:59
  this?
• 8:00
  Vaguely.
• 8:02
  Yeah.
• 8:02
  It
• 8:03
  was
• 8:03
  mortifying.
• 8:04
  Like,
• 8:04
  I
• 8:04
  was
• 8:04
  about
• 8:05
  to
• 8:05
  vacuum
• 8:05
  and
• 8:05
  you
• 8:05
  said,
• 8:06
  oh,
• 8:06
  we
• 8:06
  just
• 8:06
  landed.
• 8:07
  I'm
• 8:07
  like,
• 8:07
  oh,
• 8:07
  I
• 8:08
  have
• 8:08
  to
• 8:08
  go
• 8:08
  pick
• 8:08
  you
• 8:08
  up
• 8:08
  at
• 8:08
  the
• 8:09
  airport.
• 8:09
  And
• 8:10
  I
• 8:10
  think,
• 8:10
  I
• 8:10
  don't
• 8:11
  know,
• 8:11
  maybe
• 8:11
  I
• 8:11
  never
• 8:12
  vacuumed.
• 8:12
  I
• 8:12
  don't
• 8:12
  remember.
• 8:13
  Maybe
• 8:13
  knowing
• 8:13
  you,
• 8:13
  you
• 8:14
  probably
• 8:14
  vacuumed.
• 8:16
  I
• 8:16
  have
• 8:16
  no
• 8:16
  recollection.
• 8:17
  I
• 8:17
  mean,
• 8:17
  I
• 8:18
  sort
• 8:18
  of
• 8:18
  have
• 8:18
  a
• 8:18
  vague
• 8:19
  recollection
• 8:20
  of
• 8:20
  you
• 8:20
  sort
• 8:21
  of
• 8:21
  being
• 8:21
  stressed
• 8:21
  out
• 8:22
  that
• 8:22
  you
• 8:22
  weren't
• 8:22
  able
• 8:22
  to
• 8:23
  do
• 8:23
  something
• 8:23
  that
• 8:23
  you
• 8:23
  wanted
• 8:24
  to
• 8:24
  do
• 8:24
  before
• 8:24
  I
• 8:24
  got
• 8:25
  there.
• 8:26
  No
• 8:27
  memory
• 8:27
  of
• 8:29
  a
• 8:30
  floor
• 8:30
  needing
• 8:30
  to
• 8:30
  be
• 8:31
  vacuumed,
• 8:31
  which
• 8:32
  is
• 8:32
  really.
• 8:33
  Disproves
• 8:34
  the
• 8:34
  point.
• 8:34
  Exactly.
• 8:35
  I'm
• 8:35
  not
• 8:35
  there
• 8:36
  for
• 8:36
  the
• 8:36
  clean
• 8:37
  house.
• 8:38
  That's
• 8:38
  right.
• 8:38
  And
• 8:39
  this
• 8:39
  is
• 8:39
  a
• 8:39
  dozen
• 8:40
  years
• 8:40
  later.
• 8:40
  And
• 8:41
  I.
• 8:41
  Or
• 8:41
  probably
• 8:42
  more
• 8:42
  than
• 8:42
  that.
• 8:42
  And
• 8:43
  I
• 8:43
  still
• 8:43
  remember
• 8:44
  it.
• 8:44
  I
• 8:44
  still
• 8:45
  remember
• 8:45
  the
• 8:45
  mortification.
• 8:46
  So
• 8:46
  I
• 8:46
  should
• 8:46
  get.
• 8:46
  I'm
• 8:47
  just
• 8:47
  gonna
• 8:47
  thank
• 8:47
  you
• 8:47
  for
• 8:48
  telling
• 8:48
  me
• 8:48
  you
• 8:48
  don't
• 8:48
  remember.
• 8:49
  I'll
• 8:49
  let
• 8:49
  it
• 8:49
  go.
• 8:50
  Yeah.
• 8:50
  And
• 8:51
  I'm
• 8:51
  not
• 8:51
  just
• 8:51
  saying
• 8:51
  that
• 8:52
  I.
• 8:52
  I
• 8:52
  Honestly,
• 8:53
  I
• 8:54
  don't
• 8:54
  remember.
• 8:55
  And
• 8:55
  it
• 8:56
  doesn't.
• 8:56
  It
• 8:56
  doesn't
• 8:56
  matter.
• 8:57
  I
• 8:58
  mean,
• 8:58
  but
• 8:58
  you
• 8:59
  know,
• 8:59
  I've
• 8:59
  stressed
• 8:59
  out
• 8:59
  the
• 9:00
  same
• 9:00
  way,
• 9:00
  like,
• 9:00
  oh,
• 9:01
  I
• 9:01
  wasn't
• 9:01
  able
• 9:02
  to
• 9:02
  do
• 9:02
  this,
• 9:02
  or
• 9:02
  I
• 9:03
  couldn't
• 9:03
  do
• 9:03
  that
• 9:03
  before
• 9:04
  you
• 9:04
  or
• 9:04
  someone
• 9:05
  else
• 9:05
  arrived.
• 9:05
  And
• 9:06
  then
• 9:06
  I'm
• 9:06
  like,
• 9:07
  whenever.
• 9:09
  Right.
• 9:09
  Not
• 9:10
  what
• 9:10
  they're
• 9:10
  here
• 9:10
  for
• 9:10
  matters.
• 9:11
  Yeah,
• 9:12
  that's
• 9:12
  not
• 9:12
  what
• 9:12
  they're
• 9:12
  here
• 9:13
  for.
• 9:14
  Yeah,
• 9:14
  it's
• 9:15
  hard.
• 9:15
  It's
• 9:15
  hard
• 9:16
  to
• 9:16
  remember,
• 9:16
  but
• 9:18
  I
• 9:18
  think
• 9:18
  it's
• 9:18
  so
• 9:18
  true.
• 9:20
  And
• 9:21
  you
• 9:22
  know,
• 9:22
  if,
• 9:22
  if,
• 9:23
  like,
• 9:24
  if
• 9:24
  I
• 9:24
  visited
• 9:25
  you
• 9:25
  and
• 9:25
  there
• 9:25
  was
• 9:25
  something
• 9:26
  like
• 9:26
  that,
• 9:27
  that
• 9:27
  need
• 9:27
  to
• 9:27
  be
• 9:27
  done,
• 9:28
  I
• 9:28
  would
• 9:28
  help
• 9:28
  you.
• 9:29
  I
• 9:29
  would
• 9:29
  rather
• 9:29
  help
• 9:29
  you
• 9:30
  do
• 9:30
  it
• 9:30
  than
• 9:30
  have
• 9:30
  you
• 9:31
  stress
• 9:31
  out
• 9:32
  ahead
• 9:32
  of
• 9:33
  time
• 9:34
  trying
• 9:34
  to
• 9:34
  do
• 9:35
  something.
• 9:36
  Yeah,
• 9:36
  Right.
• 9:37
  Thank
• 9:37
  you.
• 9:38
  That
• 9:38
  makes
• 9:39
  me
• 9:39
  think
• 9:39
  about
• 9:39
  how
• 9:39
  all
• 9:40
  the
• 9:40
  things
• 9:40
  you
• 9:40
  did
• 9:40
  when
• 9:40
  you
• 9:41
  stayed
• 9:41
  with
• 9:41
  me
• 9:41
  after
• 9:41
  Barry's
• 9:42
  surgery.
• 9:44
  And
• 9:44
  I
• 9:45
  also
• 9:45
  just
• 9:45
  thought
• 9:45
  of
• 9:45
  some
• 9:46
  of
• 9:46
  my
• 9:46
  organizing
• 9:47
  clients
• 9:47
  and.
• 9:48
  Do
• 9:48
  you
• 9:48
  know
• 9:48
  who
• 9:48
  Flylady
• 9:49
  is?
• 9:50
  Yeah.
• 9:50
  Yeah.
• 9:51
  So
• 9:51
  her.
• 9:52
  She's
• 9:52
  a.
• 9:53
  I
• 9:53
  don't
• 9:53
  know
• 9:53
  if
• 9:54
  she.
• 9:54
  Even
• 9:54
  if
• 9:54
  she's
• 9:54
  still
• 9:54
  around,
• 9:55
  but
• 9:55
  she
• 9:55
  used
• 9:55
  to
• 9:55
  advise
• 9:56
  people
• 9:56
  with
• 9:56
  messy
• 9:57
  homes
• 9:57
  on
• 9:57
  how
• 9:57
  to
• 9:58
  keep
• 9:58
  their
• 9:58
  homes
• 9:58
  clean.
• 9:59
  And
• 9:59
  she
• 10:00
  talked
• 10:00
  about
• 10:00
  chaos,
• 10:00
  can't
• 10:01
  have
• 10:01
  anybody
• 10:01
  over
• 10:02
  syndrome.
• 10:03
  And
• 10:03
  how
• 10:04
  I
• 10:04
  think
• 10:04
  I
• 10:04
  was
• 10:05
  this
• 10:05
  way
• 10:05
  at
• 10:05
  one
• 10:05
  point
• 10:05
  where
• 10:06
  I
• 10:06
  wouldn't
• 10:06
  want.
• 10:07
  I
• 10:07
  would
• 10:07
  be
• 10:07
  afraid
• 10:08
  someone
• 10:08
  would
• 10:08
  drop
• 10:08
  by
• 10:09
  and.
• 10:09
  And
• 10:09
  I
• 10:09
  have
• 10:10
  to,
• 10:10
  like,
• 10:10
  pick
• 10:11
  up
• 10:11
  the,
• 10:12
  I
• 10:12
  don't
• 10:13
  know,
• 10:13
  wrappers
• 10:14
  by
• 10:14
  the
• 10:15
  tv.
• 10:16
  Right.
• 10:16
  Or
• 10:17
  whatever
• 10:17
  was.
• 10:17
  I
• 10:17
  was
• 10:17
  embarrassed
• 10:18
  by.
• 10:18
  And
• 10:20
  what
• 10:20
  I
• 10:20
  learned
• 10:21
  in
• 10:21
  my
• 10:22
  life
• 10:22
  and
• 10:22
  then
• 10:22
  as
• 10:22
  an
• 10:23
  organizer
• 10:23
  is,
• 10:23
  yeah,
• 10:24
  people
• 10:24
  don't
• 10:24
  care.
• 10:24
  But
• 10:25
  also,
• 10:25
  you
• 10:25
  can
• 10:25
  probably
• 10:26
  pick
• 10:26
  up
• 10:27
  most
• 10:27
  people
• 10:27
  give
• 10:28
  you
• 10:28
  a
• 10:28
  little
• 10:28
  notice,
• 10:28
  and
• 10:29
  you
• 10:29
  can
• 10:29
  probably,
• 10:29
  in
• 10:30
  10
• 10:30
  or
• 10:30
  15
• 10:31
  minutes,
• 10:31
  whip
• 10:32
  your
• 10:32
  place
• 10:32
  into
• 10:32
  shape
• 10:33
  so
• 10:34
  that
• 10:34
  it's
• 10:34
  not
• 10:34
  embarrassing.
• 10:35
  Yeah.
• 10:35
  Yeah.
• 10:38
  Didn't
• 10:38
  we
• 10:38
  have
• 10:38
  a
• 10:39
  product
• 10:39
  once,
• 10:40
  the
• 10:40
  Quick
• 10:41
  Clutter
• 10:41
  Fix?
• 10:42
  Clutter
• 10:42
  Fix.
• 10:43
  We
• 10:43
  did,
• 10:44
  yeah.
• 10:44
  And
• 10:44
  it
• 10:45
  was
• 10:45
  sort
• 10:45
  of
• 10:45
  a
• 10:45
  15
• 10:46
  minute
• 10:47
  thing
• 10:48
  of
• 10:48
  how
• 10:49
  to
• 10:49
  kind
• 10:50
  of
• 10:50
  quickly
• 10:51
  declutter
• 10:52
  a
• 10:52
  space
• 10:53
  when
• 10:54
  you
• 10:55
  needed
• 10:55
  a
• 10:56
  clear
• 10:56
  space.
• 10:57
  That's
• 10:58
  right.
• 10:58
  I
• 10:58
  had
• 10:58
  forgotten
• 10:59
  about
• 10:59
  that.
• 10:59
  Was
• 10:59
  it
• 10:59
  an
• 11:00
  audio
• 11:01
  with
• 11:01
  a
• 11:01
  printed.
• 11:03
  I
• 11:03
  believe
• 11:03
  it
• 11:03
  was.
• 11:06
  It's
• 11:06
  probably
• 11:06
  something
• 11:07
  that
• 11:07
  we
• 11:07
  could
• 11:07
  make
• 11:08
  available
• 11:08
  again
• 11:09
  if
• 11:09
  that's
• 11:09
  useful
• 11:10
  to
• 11:10
  people.
• 11:11
  Yeah,
• 11:12
  maybe
• 11:12
  so.
• 11:13
  I'm
• 11:13
  sure
• 11:14
  we
• 11:14
  could
• 11:14
  resurrect
• 11:15
  it
• 11:15
  from
• 11:15
  the
• 11:15
  archives.
• 11:17
  Yeah,
• 11:18
  I'm
• 11:18
  sure.
• 11:19
  It's
• 11:19
  probably
• 11:20
  so
• 11:20
  dated
• 11:20
  we
• 11:21
  might
• 11:21
  want
• 11:21
  to
• 11:21
  listen
• 11:21
  to
• 11:22
  it
• 11:22
  again.
• 11:23
  But
• 11:24
  for
• 11:24
  sure
• 11:24
  we
• 11:24
  have
• 11:25
  a.
• 11:25
  I
• 11:25
  think
• 11:26
  we
• 11:26
  have
• 11:26
  a
• 11:26
  one
• 11:26
  pager
• 11:27
  that
• 11:27
  went
• 11:27
  along
• 11:28
  with
• 11:28
  it
• 11:29
  that
• 11:31
  we
• 11:31
  could
• 11:31
  make
• 11:31
  available
• 11:32
  to
• 11:32
  people.
• 11:32
  Yeah,
• 11:32
  we
• 11:32
  could
• 11:32
  put
• 11:32
  that.
• 11:33
  Stick
• 11:33
  that
• 11:33
  in
• 11:33
  the
• 11:33
  show
• 11:34
  notes.
• 11:34
  Yeah.
• 11:35
  I
• 11:36
  can't
• 11:36
  believe
• 11:36
  I
• 11:36
  forgot
• 11:36
  about
• 11:37
  that.
• 11:37
  Yeah,
• 11:38
  but
• 11:39
  it's
• 11:39
  just,
• 11:41
  as
• 11:41
  I
• 11:41
  recall,
• 11:42
  a
• 11:43
  quick
• 11:43
  way
• 11:43
  for
• 11:44
  a
• 11:44
  situation
• 11:44
  like
• 11:45
  this.
• 11:45
  Like
• 11:46
  you
• 11:46
  have
• 11:46
  company
• 11:46
  coming
• 11:47
  and
• 11:47
  you
• 11:47
  need
• 11:48
  to
• 11:48
  clear
• 11:48
  clutter.
• 11:49
  And
• 11:49
  it's
• 11:49
  a
• 11:49
  way
• 11:49
  to
• 11:50
  do
• 11:50
  it
• 11:51
  that
• 11:52
  lets
• 11:52
  you
• 11:52
  get
• 11:52
  it
• 11:52
  done
• 11:53
  without.
• 11:54
  Like
• 11:54
  I
• 11:54
  would
• 11:55
  be
• 11:55
  prone
• 11:55
  to
• 11:55
  do
• 11:55
  falling
• 11:56
  into.
• 11:58
  Instead
• 11:58
  of
• 11:58
  a
• 11:58
  15
• 11:59
  minute,
• 12:00
  you
• 12:00
  know,
• 12:00
  let's
• 12:01
  tidy
• 12:01
  things
• 12:02
  real
• 12:02
  quickly,
• 12:03
  you
• 12:03
  know,
• 12:03
  a
• 12:04
  three
• 12:04
  hour.
• 12:04
  I
• 12:04
  like
• 12:05
  have
• 12:05
  pulled
• 12:05
  everything
• 12:05
  out
• 12:06
  of
• 12:06
  my
• 12:06
  closet
• 12:07
  and
• 12:07
  right
• 12:08
  now
• 12:08
  things
• 12:08
  are
• 12:08
  worse
• 12:09
  than
• 12:09
  when
• 12:09
  I
• 12:10
  started.
• 12:10
  And
• 12:10
  then
• 12:11
  the
• 12:11
  doorbell
• 12:11
  rings,
• 12:12
  right?
• 12:18
  Yeah.
• 12:19
  It's
• 12:19
  funny
• 12:19
  that
• 12:21
  we
• 12:22
  have
• 12:23
  really
• 12:23
  close
• 12:23
  friends
• 12:24
  in
• 12:24
  the
• 12:24
  neighborhood
• 12:25
  that
• 12:26
  will
• 12:26
  sometimes
• 12:26
  drop
• 12:27
  by,
• 12:27
  but
• 12:28
  people
• 12:28
  don't
• 12:29
  really
• 12:29
  drop
• 12:29
  by
• 12:30
  the
• 12:30
  way
• 12:31
  they
• 12:31
  used
• 12:32
  to
• 12:32
  say
• 12:34
  before
• 12:35
  the
• 12:35
  Internet
• 12:36
  and
• 12:36
  cell
• 12:36
  phones.
• 12:38
  I
• 12:38
  remember
• 12:38
  when
• 12:38
  I
• 12:38
  was
• 12:39
  a
• 12:39
  kid
• 12:39
  and
• 12:40
  like
• 12:40
  someone
• 12:41
  would
• 12:41
  turn
• 12:41
  into
• 12:42
  the
• 12:42
  driveway
• 12:42
  and
• 12:42
  my
• 12:42
  mom
• 12:43
  would
• 12:43
  be
• 12:43
  like,
• 12:43
  oh,
• 12:43
  pick
• 12:43
  up
• 12:44
  the
• 12:44
  papers.
• 12:45
  Because
• 12:45
  also
• 12:45
  we
• 12:46
  had
• 12:46
  newspapers
• 12:47
  and
• 12:48
  did.
• 12:48
  You
• 12:49
  get
• 12:49
  more
• 12:49
  than
• 12:50
  one
• 12:50
  paper
• 12:50
  every
• 12:50
  day
• 12:51
  or
• 12:51
  is
• 12:51
  it.
• 12:51
  No,
• 12:51
  I
• 12:52
  think
• 12:52
  it
• 12:52
  was
• 12:52
  that
• 12:53
  there
• 12:53
  might
• 12:53
  be
• 12:53
  more
• 12:54
  than
• 12:54
  a
• 12:54
  day's
• 12:54
  paper
• 12:55
  hanging
• 12:55
  around
• 12:56
  that,
• 12:56
  you
• 12:57
  know,
• 12:57
  in
• 12:57
  various
• 12:57
  stages
• 12:58
  of
• 12:58
  having
• 12:58
  been
• 12:59
  read.
• 13:00
  And,
• 13:02
  and.
• 13:02
  And
• 13:03
  that
• 13:03
  was
• 13:03
  more
• 13:03
  of
• 13:03
  a
• 13:04
  kind
• 13:04
  of
• 13:04
  a
• 13:04
  fill
• 13:05
  in
• 13:05
  for
• 13:06
  like,
• 13:06
  you
• 13:07
  know,
• 13:07
  do
• 13:07
  a
• 13:07
  quick
• 13:07
  pickup
• 13:08
  of
• 13:08
  everything.
• 13:10
  The
• 13:10
  papers.
• 13:11
  Yeah.
• 13:12
  It's
• 13:12
  true
• 13:12
  that
• 13:13
  the
• 13:13
  houses,
• 13:13
  our
• 13:13
  houses
• 13:14
  are
• 13:14
  less
• 13:14
  cluttered
• 13:15
  than
• 13:15
  when
• 13:15
  we
• 13:15
  got
• 13:15
  a
• 13:15
  daily
• 13:16
  paper
• 13:17
  back
• 13:17
  then.
• 13:17
  There
• 13:18
  was
• 13:18
  always.
• 13:18
  There
• 13:19
  were
• 13:19
  always.
• 13:19
  My
• 13:19
  parents
• 13:19
  got
• 13:20
  two
• 13:20
  papers
• 13:20
  a
• 13:20
  day.
• 13:21
  Oh
• 13:21
  my
• 13:21
  gosh.
• 13:22
  So
• 13:22
  I
• 13:23
  know,
• 13:23
  right?
• 13:23
  The
• 13:23
  Walla
• 13:24
  Walla
• 13:24
  paper
• 13:24
  was
• 13:24
  huge
• 13:25
  and
• 13:25
  the
• 13:25
  Spokane
• 13:26
  paper,
• 13:26
  which
• 13:26
  was
• 13:27
  slightly
• 13:27
  less
• 13:28
  small,
• 13:29
  but
• 13:29
  they
• 13:29
  each
• 13:29
  got
• 13:29
  to
• 13:29
  do
• 13:30
  a
• 13:30
  crossword
• 13:30
  puzzle.
• 13:30
  My
• 13:31
  mom
• 13:31
  got
• 13:31
  the
• 13:31
  morning
• 13:31
  and
• 13:32
  my
• 13:32
  dad
• 13:32
  got
• 13:32
  the.
• 13:32
  They
• 13:33
  wrote
• 13:33
  morning
• 13:33
  and
• 13:33
  evening
• 13:33
  papers,
• 13:34
  so
• 13:34
  they
• 13:34
  each
• 13:35
  got
• 13:35
  to
• 13:35
  do
• 13:35
  a
• 13:35
  crossword
• 13:36
  puzzle.
• 13:37
  But
• 13:37
  yeah,
• 13:37
  that
• 13:37
  was
• 13:37
  always
• 13:38
  a
• 13:38
  thing
• 13:38
  was
• 13:38
  to
• 13:38
  pick
• 13:39
  up
• 13:39
  the
• 13:39
  papers.
• 13:39
  I'm
• 13:40
  remembering
• 13:40
  that
• 13:40
  now.
• 13:41
  Yeah.
• 13:42
  Yeah.
• 13:43
  You
• 13:43
  know,
• 13:43
  it's
• 13:43
  funny
• 13:44
  thinking
• 13:44
  about
• 13:44
  this.
• 13:45
  For
• 13:45
  a
• 13:45
  long
• 13:46
  time
• 13:46
  I
• 13:47
  had
• 13:47
  on
• 13:48
  sort
• 13:48
  of
• 13:48
  my
• 13:49
  goal
• 13:50
  list,
• 13:51
  like,
• 13:51
  you
• 13:51
  know,
• 13:51
  how
• 13:51
  I
• 13:52
  wanted
• 13:52
  to
• 13:52
  be
• 13:52
  living
• 13:52
  my
• 13:53
  life
• 13:53
  to
• 13:54
  have
• 13:54
  a
• 13:54
  guest
• 13:55
  ready
• 13:55
  home
• 13:56
  where
• 13:57
  I
• 13:57
  didn't
• 13:58
  have
• 13:58
  to
• 13:59
  get
• 13:59
  stressed
• 14:00
  out
• 14:00
  and
• 14:00
  do
• 14:01
  a
• 14:01
  bunch
• 14:01
  of
• 14:01
  stuff
• 14:01
  if
• 14:02
  someone
• 14:02
  was
• 14:02
  coming
• 14:03
  over
• 14:03
  that
• 14:03
  it
• 14:04
  was
• 14:04
  just
• 14:04
  sort
• 14:04
  of
• 14:04
  ready.
• 14:05
  And
• 14:05
  I
• 14:05
  hadn't
• 14:06
  really
• 14:06
  realized
• 14:07
  it,
• 14:07
  but
• 14:09
  my
• 14:09
  house
• 14:09
  is
• 14:09
  pretty
• 14:10
  guest
• 14:10
  ready
• 14:11
  most
• 14:11
  of
• 14:11
  the
• 14:12
  time.
• 14:12
  Like
• 14:12
  someone
• 14:13
  could
• 14:13
  drop
• 14:13
  in
• 14:14
  or,
• 14:14
  you
• 14:14
  know,
• 14:15
  someone
• 14:15
  could
• 14:15
  say,
• 14:16
  I'm
• 14:17
  gonna
• 14:17
  be
• 14:17
  in
• 14:17
  town
• 14:18
  tomorrow
• 14:19
  and
• 14:19
  I
• 14:20
  could
• 14:20
  easily
• 14:20
  welcome
• 14:21
  them
• 14:21
  in
• 14:22
  without
• 14:22
  feeling
• 14:23
  stressed
• 14:23
  about
• 14:23
  it.
• 14:24
  And
• 14:24
  that's.
• 14:25
  That's
• 14:25
  a
• 14:25
  big
• 14:25
  deal.
• 14:27
  Yeah,
• 14:27
  that's
• 14:28
  excellent.
• 14:28
  That's
• 14:29
  living.
• 14:29
  That's
• 14:30
  living
• 14:30
  with
• 14:30
  ease,
• 14:30
  isn't
• 14:31
  it?
• 14:31
  And
• 14:32
  that's
• 14:32
  about
• 14:33
  just
• 14:33
  sort
• 14:33
  of.
• 14:34
  You
• 14:34
  have
• 14:34
  your
• 14:34
  routine
• 14:35
  of
• 14:35
  putting
• 14:35
  your
• 14:35
  bed,
• 14:36
  your
• 14:36
  house
• 14:36
  to
• 14:36
  bed
• 14:37
  every
• 14:37
  night,
• 14:37
  and
• 14:37
  you're
• 14:38
  just
• 14:38
  that
• 14:38
  little
• 14:38
  picking
• 14:39
  up.
• 14:39
  And
• 14:41
  also
• 14:41
  maybe
• 14:41
  a
• 14:42
  little.
• 14:42
  I
• 14:42
  don't
• 14:43
  know
• 14:43
  about.
• 14:43
  For
• 14:43
  you,
• 14:43
  but
• 14:43
  for
• 14:44
  me,
• 14:44
  anyway,
• 14:46
  lowering
• 14:46
  of
• 14:46
  my
• 14:47
  standards
• 14:47
  a
• 14:47
  little
• 14:47
  bit.
• 14:48
  Like,
• 14:49
  it's.
• 14:49
  I'm
• 14:50
  just.
• 14:50
  Don't
• 14:50
  get
• 14:50
  embarrassed
• 14:51
  like
• 14:51
  I
• 14:51
  used
• 14:51
  to.
• 14:52
  But
• 14:52
  I
• 14:53
  also
• 14:53
  think
• 14:53
  maybe
• 14:53
  I'm.
• 14:54
  Maybe
• 14:55
  in
• 14:55
  the
• 14:55
  apartment,
• 14:55
  there's.
• 14:56
  We
• 14:56
  have
• 14:56
  less
• 14:56
  stuff,
• 14:57
  so
• 14:57
  it's
• 14:57
  a
• 14:57
  little
• 14:57
  easier.
• 14:58
  It
• 14:58
  has
• 14:58
  taken
• 14:59
  some
• 14:59
  time
• 14:59
  of.
• 15:01
  Of
• 15:01
  decluttering
• 15:02
  and
• 15:02
  organizing
• 15:03
  and,
• 15:04
  you
• 15:04
  know,
• 15:04
  making
• 15:05
  sure
• 15:05
  that
• 15:06
  everything
• 15:06
  has
• 15:07
  a
• 15:07
  place
• 15:07
  so
• 15:07
  it's
• 15:07
  easy
• 15:08
  to
• 15:08
  put
• 15:08
  it
• 15:08
  back
• 15:08
  in
• 15:09
  its
• 15:09
  place
• 15:10
  and
• 15:11
  getting
• 15:11
  in
• 15:11
  the
• 15:11
  habit
• 15:12
  of
• 15:12
  doing
• 15:12
  that.
• 15:12
  And
• 15:13
  as
• 15:14
  my
• 15:14
  husband
• 15:14
  likes
• 15:15
  to
• 15:15
  say,
• 15:15
  the
• 15:15
  job
• 15:16
  isn't
• 15:16
  done
• 15:16
  until
• 15:16
  the
• 15:17
  tools
• 15:17
  are
• 15:17
  put
• 15:17
  away.
• 15:18
  And,
• 15:19
  you
• 15:19
  know,
• 15:19
  sort
• 15:19
  of.
• 15:20
  Your
• 15:21
  husband's
• 15:21
  adorable.
• 15:22
  He's
• 15:23
  so
• 15:23
  cute.
• 15:23
  I
• 15:24
  am
• 15:24
  going
• 15:24
  to
• 15:24
  try
• 15:24
  to
• 15:25
  remember
• 15:25
  that.
• 15:25
  That's
• 15:26
  excellent.
• 15:26
  I
• 15:26
  think.
• 15:27
  I
• 15:27
  don't
• 15:27
  know
• 15:27
  what
• 15:27
  Barry
• 15:28
  would
• 15:28
  say
• 15:28
  if
• 15:28
  I
• 15:28
  said
• 15:28
  that
• 15:28
  to
• 15:29
  him,
• 15:29
  but
• 15:29
  I
• 15:29
  might
• 15:29
  try
• 15:30
  it.
• 15:31
  Well,
• 15:31
  it's
• 15:32
  really
• 15:32
  funny.
• 15:32
  For
• 15:32
  years
• 15:33
  he'd
• 15:34
  say,
• 15:35
  the
• 15:35
  job
• 15:35
  isn't
• 15:35
  done
• 15:36
  until
• 15:36
  the
• 15:36
  tools
• 15:36
  are
• 15:36
  put
• 15:37
  away.
• 15:37
  And
• 15:37
  he
• 15:37
  goes,
• 15:37
  that's
• 15:38
  my
• 15:38
  dad
• 15:38
  saying.
• 15:39
  And
• 15:40
  I
• 15:40
  thought
• 15:40
  that
• 15:41
  he
• 15:41
  was
• 15:41
  saying
• 15:41
  that.
• 15:41
  That's
• 15:42
  what
• 15:42
  his
• 15:42
  dad
• 15:43
  always
• 15:44
  said.
• 15:44
  Yeah,
• 15:44
  that's
• 15:45
  what
• 15:45
  I
• 15:45
  figured
• 15:45
  you
• 15:45
  meant.
• 15:46
  No,
• 15:47
  that
• 15:47
  was
• 15:48
  the
• 15:48
  phrase
• 15:49
  that
• 15:49
  he
• 15:49
  wanted
• 15:49
  to
• 15:49
  be
• 15:50
  what
• 15:50
  our
• 15:50
  kids,
• 15:51
  as
• 15:51
  they
• 15:52
  went
• 15:52
  off
• 15:52
  into
• 15:52
  their
• 15:53
  lives,
• 15:53
  like,
• 15:53
  oh,
• 15:54
  my
• 15:54
  dad
• 15:54
  always
• 15:54
  said,
• 15:55
  the
• 15:56
  job's
• 15:56
  not
• 15:56
  done
• 15:56
  till
• 15:56
  the
• 15:57
  tools
• 15:57
  are
• 15:57
  put
• 15:57
  away.
• 15:59
  Any
• 15:59
  idea
• 15:59
  whether
• 16:00
  they
• 16:00
  say
• 16:00
  that?
• 16:01
  They
• 16:01
  do.
• 16:02
  They
• 16:03
  mostly
• 16:03
  say
• 16:03
  it
• 16:04
  like,
• 16:04
  sort
• 16:04
  of
• 16:04
  jokingly.
• 16:06
  But
• 16:06
  it's
• 16:06
  stuck.
• 16:07
  Yeah,
• 16:08
  it's
• 16:08
  stuck.
• 16:08
  That's
• 16:09
  excellent.
• 16:10
  So
• 16:10
  I
• 16:10
  like
• 16:11
  that.
• 16:11
  I
• 16:12
  like
• 16:12
  that.
• 16:12
  That's
• 16:12
  a
• 16:12
  great.
• 16:13
  I
• 16:13
  mean,
• 16:13
  it's
• 16:13
  great
• 16:13
  for
• 16:14
  like,
• 16:14
  kitchen
• 16:14
  cleaning
• 16:15
  up.
• 16:15
  And
• 16:17
  when
• 16:17
  I
• 16:17
  write
• 16:17
  postcards
• 16:18
  to
• 16:18
  voters,
• 16:18
  I
• 16:18
  have
• 16:18
  this
• 16:19
  whole
• 16:19
  thing
• 16:19
  that
• 16:19
  comes
• 16:20
  out
• 16:20
  that
• 16:20
  I
• 16:21
  actually
• 16:21
  am
• 16:21
  good
• 16:21
  about
• 16:21
  putting
• 16:22
  away
• 16:23
  every
• 16:23
  time
• 16:24
  because
• 16:24
  otherwise
• 16:25
  it's
• 16:25
  just
• 16:25
  a
• 16:25
  big
• 16:25
  mess.
• 16:26
  But
• 16:26
  yeah,
• 16:26
  the
• 16:27
  key
• 16:27
  is,
• 16:27
  is
• 16:27
  like
• 16:27
  you
• 16:28
  said,
• 16:28
  having
• 16:28
  a
• 16:28
  place
• 16:29
  to
• 16:29
  put
• 16:29
  it
• 16:29
  away.
• 16:29
  Right,
• 16:30
  right.
• 16:30
  That's
• 16:31
  for
• 16:31
  me,
• 16:31
  that's
• 16:32
  where
• 16:33
  actually
• 16:33
  where
• 16:33
  I
• 16:34
  was
• 16:34
  able
• 16:34
  to
• 16:34
  get
• 16:35
  from
• 16:35
  messy
• 16:36
  to
• 16:36
  less
• 16:36
  messy
• 16:37
  because
• 16:37
  I
• 16:38
  had
• 16:38
  a
• 16:38
  place.
• 16:39
  And
• 16:39
  then.
• 16:39
  Right.
• 16:40
  Try
• 16:40
  to
• 16:40
  create
• 16:41
  the
• 16:41
  habit
• 16:41
  of
• 16:42
  putting.
• 16:42
  Stuff
• 16:42
  away
• 16:43
  and
• 16:44
  you
• 16:44
  don't
• 16:44
  have
• 16:44
  to
• 16:44
  get
• 16:44
  there
• 16:45
  overnight.
• 16:45
  It
• 16:45
  took
• 16:46
  me
• 16:46
  a
• 16:46
  long
• 16:46
  time
• 16:47
  of.
• 16:47
  Of
• 16:48
  sort
• 16:48
  of
• 16:48
  sort
• 16:48
  of
• 16:48
  setting
• 16:49
  that
• 16:49
  goal
• 16:49
  for
• 16:49
  myself
• 16:50
  to
• 16:50
  be
• 16:50
  there.
• 16:51
  And.
• 16:52
  And
• 16:52
  it's
• 16:53
  still
• 16:53
  like,
• 16:54
  you
• 16:54
  know,
• 16:54
  yesterday
• 16:55
  I
• 16:55
  was
• 16:55
  doing
• 16:55
  a
• 16:55
  big
• 16:56
  yard
• 16:57
  project
• 16:58
  and
• 16:59
  I
• 16:59
  was
• 17:00
  done
• 17:02
  and
• 17:02
  I
• 17:03
  did
• 17:03
  not
• 17:03
  want
• 17:04
  to
• 17:04
  put
• 17:04
  everything
• 17:04
  away,
• 17:05
  and
• 17:05
  I
• 17:05
  was
• 17:06
  really
• 17:06
  tempted
• 17:07
  to
• 17:07
  not
• 17:08
  do
• 17:08
  that.
• 17:08
  And
• 17:09
  then
• 17:09
  I
• 17:09
  said,
• 17:09
  in
• 17:09
  my
• 17:10
  head.
• 17:10
  And
• 17:10
  Mike
• 17:10
  will
• 17:10
  be
• 17:11
  so
• 17:11
  happy.
• 17:11
  I
• 17:11
  don't
• 17:12
  think
• 17:12
  I
• 17:12
  even
• 17:12
  told
• 17:12
  him
• 17:12
  that
• 17:13
  I
• 17:13
  said
• 17:13
  this
• 17:13
  in
• 17:13
  my
• 17:13
  head.
• 17:14
  Job's
• 17:14
  not
• 17:15
  done
• 17:15
  until
• 17:15
  you.
• 17:16
  The
• 17:16
  tools
• 17:16
  are
• 17:17
  put
• 17:17
  away.
• 17:18
  And
• 17:18
  I
• 17:18
  put
• 17:19
  everything
• 17:19
  away.
• 17:20
  And
• 17:21
  then.
• 17:21
  And
• 17:22
  then
• 17:22
  it
• 17:22
  allowed
• 17:22
  me
• 17:22
  to
• 17:23
  relax
• 17:25
  fully
• 17:25
  after
• 17:26
  having
• 17:26
  done
• 17:26
  it.
• 17:27
  We
• 17:27
  redid
• 17:28
  our
• 17:28
  backyard,
• 17:29
  and
• 17:30
  so
• 17:30
  it's
• 17:30
  not
• 17:31
  uncommon
• 17:31
  to
• 17:31
  have
• 17:31
  someone
• 17:32
  walk
• 17:33
  through
• 17:33
  the.
• 17:35
  The
• 17:35
  walkway
• 17:36
  on
• 17:36
  the
• 17:36
  side
• 17:36
  of
• 17:36
  our
• 17:36
  house
• 17:37
  where
• 17:37
  I
• 17:37
  had
• 17:37
  intended
• 17:38
  to
• 17:38
  leave
• 17:39
  all
• 17:39
  of
• 17:39
  my
• 17:39
  tools.
• 17:40
  And
• 17:40
  then
• 17:40
  I
• 17:41
  would
• 17:41
  have
• 17:41
  to
• 17:41
  feel
• 17:41
  like
• 17:42
  apologizing
• 17:43
  and
• 17:43
  making
• 17:43
  sure
• 17:43
  someone
• 17:44
  doesn't
• 17:44
  trip
• 17:44
  and
• 17:45
  all.
• 17:45
  And
• 17:45
  I
• 17:45
  didn't
• 17:45
  have
• 17:45
  to
• 17:46
  worry
• 17:46
  about
• 17:46
  it
• 17:46
  because
• 17:46
  I
• 17:47
  put
• 17:47
  everything
• 17:47
  away,
• 17:48
  rolled
• 17:48
  up
• 17:48
  the
• 17:48
  hose,
• 17:49
  and
• 17:49
  it
• 17:49
  was
• 17:50
  all
• 17:50
  clear
• 17:51
  should
• 17:52
  someone
• 17:52
  happen
• 17:52
  by,
• 17:53
  and
• 17:53
  I
• 17:53
  want
• 17:53
  to
• 17:53
  show
• 17:53
  them
• 17:54
  the
• 17:54
  backyard.
• 17:56
  There
• 17:56
  you
• 17:56
  go.
• 17:58
  You
• 17:58
  can
• 17:58
  show
• 17:59
  off
• 17:59
  your
• 17:59
  yard.
• 17:59
  I
• 18:00
  mean,
• 18:00
  that's
• 18:00
  great.
• 18:01
  Yeah.
• 18:01
  Yeah,
• 18:01
  I
• 18:01
  like
• 18:01
  it.
• 18:02
  And
• 18:02
  you
• 18:02
  could
• 18:02
  apply
• 18:02
  that
• 18:03
  axiom
• 18:03
  to
• 18:04
  your
• 18:04
  desk
• 18:04
  at
• 18:05
  the
• 18:05
  end
• 18:05
  of
• 18:05
  the
• 18:05
  workday,
• 18:05
  could
• 18:05
  you
• 18:06
  not?
• 18:06
  I
• 18:06
  certainly
• 18:07
  could.
• 18:08
  You're
• 18:09
  really
• 18:09
  helping
• 18:10
  me
• 18:10
  figure
• 18:11
  out
• 18:11
  what
• 18:11
  needs
• 18:12
  to
• 18:12
  be
• 18:12
  in
• 18:12
  place
• 18:12
  for
• 18:13
  me
• 18:13
  to
• 18:13
  clear
• 18:13
  off
• 18:14
  my
• 18:14
  desk
• 18:14
  at
• 18:15
  the
• 18:15
  end
• 18:15
  of
• 18:15
  the
• 18:15
  day.
• 18:16
  It's
• 18:16
  such
• 18:16
  a
• 18:17
  rewarding
• 18:17
  morning
• 18:18
  when
• 18:18
  you
• 18:18
  do
• 18:18
  it,
• 18:18
  so.
• 18:19
  I
• 18:19
  know.
• 18:20
  I
• 18:21
  know.
• 18:21
  Your
• 18:21
  future
• 18:22
  self
• 18:22
  will
• 18:22
  thank
• 18:22
  you.
• 18:23
  Oh,
• 18:24
  yeah,
• 18:25
  because
• 18:25
  right
• 18:25
  now,
• 18:25
  my
• 18:26
  future
• 18:26
  self
• 18:27
  curses
• 18:28
  her
• 18:28
  past
• 18:28
  self.
• 18:29
  Like,
• 18:30
  why
• 18:30
  didn't
• 18:31
  you
• 18:31
  put
• 18:31
  this
• 18:31
  away?
• 18:32
  Come
• 18:32
  on.
• 18:33
  How
• 18:33
  am
• 18:33
  I
• 18:33
  supposed
• 18:34
  to
• 18:34
  get
• 18:34
  to
• 18:34
  work?
• 18:34
  There's
• 18:34
  crap
• 18:35
  all
• 18:35
  over
• 18:35
  the
• 18:35
  place.
• 18:36
  Right.
• 18:38
  But
• 18:38
  all
• 18:39
  of
• 18:39
  this,
• 18:39
  like,
• 18:39
  feeds
• 18:40
  into
• 18:40
  this.
• 18:41
  This
• 18:41
  idea
• 18:42
  of
• 18:44
  making
• 18:45
  it
• 18:45
  easy
• 18:45
  on
• 18:46
  yourself
• 18:46
  to
• 18:47
  be
• 18:48
  a
• 18:48
  good
• 18:48
  host,
• 18:49
  you
• 18:49
  know,
• 18:49
  it
• 18:50
  is.
• 18:50
  It's
• 18:50
  lowering
• 18:51
  your
• 18:51
  expectations.
• 18:52
  But
• 18:53
  that
• 18:53
  doesn't
• 18:54
  mean.
• 18:56
  That
• 18:56
  doesn't
• 18:57
  have
• 18:57
  to
• 18:57
  mean,
• 18:57
  you
• 18:58
  know,
• 18:58
  like,
• 18:59
  not
• 18:59
  caring
• 18:59
  if
• 19:00
  your
• 19:00
  house
• 19:00
  is
• 19:01
  dirty
• 19:01
  or
• 19:01
  messy
• 19:02
  or
• 19:02
  whatever.
• 19:02
  It
• 19:03
  just
• 19:03
  means
• 19:04
  not
• 19:05
  worrying
• 19:05
  about
• 19:05
  the
• 19:05
  stuff
• 19:05
  that
• 19:06
  doesn't
• 19:06
  matter
• 19:08
  and
• 19:08
  reminding
• 19:09
  yourself
• 19:09
  what
• 19:09
  really
• 19:10
  matters,
• 19:10
  which
• 19:10
  is
• 19:11
  the
• 19:11
  connection
• 19:12
  with
• 19:13
  the
• 19:13
  people
• 19:13
  who
• 19:13
  are
• 19:13
  coming
• 19:14
  over.
• 19:15
  Right.
• 19:16
  And
• 19:16
  also
• 19:16
  making
• 19:17
  it
• 19:17
  easy
• 19:17
  so
• 19:17
  it's
• 19:18
  not
• 19:18
  stressful.
• 19:18
  So
• 19:19
  putting
• 19:19
  things
• 19:19
  away
• 19:20
  as
• 19:20
  you
• 19:20
  go
• 19:20
  and
• 19:22
  making
• 19:22
  sure
• 19:22
  you
• 19:22
  have
• 19:23
  a
• 19:23
  home
• 19:23
  for
• 19:23
  things.
• 19:25
  In
• 19:25
  our
• 19:26
  guest
• 19:26
  room,
• 19:27
  I
• 19:27
  put
• 19:28
  the
• 19:28
  sheets.
• 19:29
  There's
• 19:29
  a
• 19:30
  storage.
• 19:32
  Like
• 19:32
  a
• 19:32
  storage
• 19:33
  drawer
• 19:33
  under
• 19:34
  the
• 19:34
  bed,
• 19:35
  and
• 19:37
  I
• 19:37
  put
• 19:37
  the
• 19:38
  sheets
• 19:38
  for
• 19:38
  the
• 19:39
  bed
• 19:39
  in
• 19:40
  that
• 19:40
  storage
• 19:40
  drawer
• 19:40
  instead
• 19:41
  of
• 19:41
  where
• 19:41
  the
• 19:41
  rest
• 19:41
  of
• 19:41
  our
• 19:42
  sheets
• 19:42
  are.
• 19:42
  So
• 19:43
  it's
• 19:43
  super
• 19:43
  easy
• 19:44
  to
• 19:44
  change
• 19:45
  the
• 19:45
  linens.
• 19:46
  Yeah.
• 19:47
  And
• 19:47
  often
• 19:48
  I
• 19:49
  will,
• 19:50
  because
• 19:50
  we
• 19:51
  have
• 19:52
  overnight
• 19:53
  guests
• 19:53
  so
• 19:53
  infrequently.
• 19:54
  I
• 19:54
  feel
• 19:54
  like
• 19:55
  if
• 19:55
  I
• 19:55
  put
• 19:55
  clean
• 19:55
  sheets
• 19:56
  on
• 19:56
  and
• 19:56
  then
• 19:56
  I
• 19:56
  don't
• 19:57
  have
• 19:57
  someone
• 19:57
  stay
• 19:57
  for
• 19:58
  three
• 19:58
  months,
• 19:59
  I
• 19:59
  would
• 19:59
  need
• 20:00
  to
• 20:00
  change
• 20:00
  them
• 20:00
  again.
• 20:00
  I
• 20:01
  will
• 20:01
  often
• 20:01
  leave
• 20:01
  the
• 20:02
  dirty
• 20:02
  sheets.
• 20:03
  I
• 20:03
  mean,
• 20:03
  you
• 20:03
  know,
• 20:03
  they're
• 20:04
  not
• 20:04
  Dirty,
• 20:04
  but
• 20:04
  they
• 20:05
  use
• 20:05
  sheets
• 20:06
  on
• 20:07
  the
• 20:07
  bed
• 20:07
  until
• 20:08
  it's.
• 20:08
  Until
• 20:09
  I
• 20:09
  have
• 20:09
  a
• 20:09
  guest
• 20:10
  coming.
• 20:10
  That's
• 20:11
  exactly
• 20:11
  what
• 20:11
  I
• 20:11
  did,
• 20:12
  too,
• 20:12
  when
• 20:12
  I
• 20:13
  had
• 20:13
  a
• 20:13
  guest
• 20:13
  room.
• 20:14
  Yeah.
• 20:15
  Two
• 20:15
  things
• 20:15
  popped
• 20:16
  into
• 20:16
  my
• 20:16
  mind
• 20:16
  while
• 20:16
  you
• 20:17
  were
• 20:17
  talking.
• 20:17
  One,
• 20:18
  if
• 20:19
  you
• 20:19
  make
• 20:20
  it
• 20:20
  easy
• 20:20
  on
• 20:20
  yourself,
• 20:21
  you're
• 20:21
  more
• 20:21
  likely
• 20:21
  to
• 20:21
  have
• 20:22
  the
• 20:22
  pleasure
• 20:22
  of
• 20:22
  hosting.
• 20:23
  Right.
• 20:23
  So
• 20:24
  that's.
• 20:24
  That,
• 20:24
  that's
• 20:25
  nice.
• 20:25
  And
• 20:25
  two,
• 20:26
  if
• 20:26
  you're
• 20:26
  a
• 20:27
  person
• 20:27
  who
• 20:28
  loves
• 20:28
  going
• 20:29
  that
• 20:29
  extra
• 20:29
  mile,
• 20:30
  that's
• 20:30
  okay,
• 20:31
  too.
• 20:31
  So
• 20:31
  I
• 20:31
  like
• 20:32
  my
• 20:32
  friend
• 20:32
  Denise,
• 20:33
  who's
• 20:33
  the
• 20:33
  most
• 20:34
  amazing
• 20:34
  host,
• 20:35
  and
• 20:35
  she's
• 20:35
  just
• 20:36
  loves
• 20:36
  providing
• 20:37
  all
• 20:38
  the
• 20:38
  things
• 20:39
  and
• 20:39
  I
• 20:39
  love
• 20:39
  being
• 20:40
  a
• 20:40
  guest
• 20:40
  at
• 20:40
  her
• 20:40
  house,
• 20:42
  but.
• 20:43
  So
• 20:43
  I
• 20:43
  don't
• 20:43
  want
• 20:43
  to.
• 20:43
  I
• 20:43
  know
• 20:44
  she
• 20:44
  listens
• 20:44
  to
• 20:44
  the
• 20:44
  podcast.
• 20:45
  I
• 20:45
  don't
• 20:45
  want
• 20:45
  her
• 20:45
  to
• 20:45
  feel
• 20:46
  like
• 20:46
  her
• 20:46
  efforts
• 20:47
  are
• 20:47
  in
• 20:47
  vain
• 20:47
  because
• 20:48
  they
• 20:48
  are
• 20:48
  not.
• 20:49
  But.
• 20:49
  So
• 20:50
  it's
• 20:50
  great
• 20:50
  to
• 20:50
  do
• 20:50
  that.
• 20:50
  But
• 20:51
  if
• 20:51
  you're
• 20:51
  not
• 20:51
  that
• 20:51
  person,
• 20:53
  just
• 20:53
  making
• 20:54
  your
• 20:54
  guests
• 20:54
  comfortable
• 20:55
  is
• 20:56
  what
• 20:56
  it's
• 20:56
  all
• 20:56
  about.
• 20:57
  Yeah.
• 20:58
  Yeah.
• 20:58
  And.
• 20:59
  And
• 20:59
  I
• 20:59
  think
• 20:59
  that's
• 21:00
  it.
• 21:00
  It's
• 21:01
  doing
• 21:02
  whatever
• 21:03
  part
• 21:03
  of
• 21:04
  that
• 21:04
  makes
• 21:04
  you
• 21:05
  happy
• 21:06
  and
• 21:07
  letting
• 21:07
  go
• 21:07
  of
• 21:07
  the
• 21:08
  rest.
• 21:09
  So.
• 21:10
  Yeah.
• 21:11
  You
• 21:11
  know,
• 21:11
  if
• 21:11
  it
• 21:11
  feels
• 21:12
  stressful,
• 21:14
  what
• 21:15
  part
• 21:15
  of
• 21:15
  that
• 21:15
  can
• 21:15
  you
• 21:15
  let
• 21:16
  go
• 21:17
  of?
• 21:17
  Right.
• 21:18
  Rather
• 21:18
  than
• 21:18
  rejecting,
• 21:20
  rather
• 21:20
  than
• 21:20
  rejecting
• 21:21
  hosting
• 21:22
  altogether
• 21:22
  because
• 21:22
  it's
• 21:23
  stressful.
• 21:24
  Right.
• 21:24
  You
• 21:24
  can
• 21:24
  make
• 21:24
  it
• 21:24
  less
• 21:25
  stressful.
• 21:25
  Yeah,
• 21:27
  yeah,
• 21:28
  yeah.
• 21:29
  I
• 21:29
  think
• 21:29
  that's.
• 21:29
  That's
• 21:30
  great.
• 21:30
  And
• 21:32
  I,
• 21:32
  I
• 21:33
  always
• 21:33
  feel
• 21:34
  well
• 21:35
  cared
• 21:35
  for
• 21:36
  it
• 21:36
  as
• 21:36
  a
• 21:36
  guest
• 21:37
  in
• 21:37
  your
• 21:37
  home.
• 21:38
  Oh,
• 21:39
  Shannon,
• 21:39
  thank
• 21:40
  you
• 21:40
  very
• 21:40
  much.
• 21:41
  So
• 21:42
  that's
• 21:42
  very
• 21:42
  sweet.
• 21:42
  And,
• 21:43
  and
• 21:43
  of
• 21:43
  course
• 21:43
  that
• 21:44
  maybe
• 21:44
  it's
• 21:44
  not
• 21:44
  of
• 21:44
  course,
• 21:45
  but
• 21:45
  I
• 21:45
  feel
• 21:45
  the
• 21:45
  same
• 21:45
  way
• 21:46
  at
• 21:46
  your
• 21:46
  house.
• 21:47
  Well,
• 21:47
  that's
• 21:48
  wonderful.
• 21:49
  And
• 21:49
  you
• 21:50
  know,
• 21:50
  we
• 21:50
  are,
• 21:51
  we
• 21:51
  are
• 21:51
  not
• 21:51
  elevating
• 21:52
  the
• 21:52
  standards
• 21:53
  in,
• 21:54
  in
• 21:54
  how
• 21:54
  we're
• 21:54
  hosting,
• 21:55
  so.
• 21:55
  Right,
• 21:56
  exactly.
• 22:00
  So
• 22:00
  we
• 22:01
  would
• 22:01
  love
• 22:01
  to
• 22:01
  hear
• 22:02
  from
• 22:02
  you,
• 22:02
  our
• 22:03
  listeners.
• 22:04
  Do
• 22:04
  you
• 22:04
  enjoy
• 22:05
  hosting?
• 22:05
  Do
• 22:06
  you
• 22:06
  feel
• 22:06
  like
• 22:06
  you
• 22:06
  can't
• 22:07
  host,
• 22:07
  you
• 22:08
  can't
• 22:08
  have
• 22:08
  guests
• 22:08
  over,
• 22:09
  whether
• 22:09
  it's,
• 22:09
  you
• 22:10
  know,
• 22:10
  for
• 22:11
  an
• 22:11
  afternoon
• 22:12
  or
• 22:13
  a
• 22:13
  dinner
• 22:13
  or
• 22:13
  overnight
• 22:14
  because
• 22:15
  of
• 22:16
  how
• 22:17
  you
• 22:17
  feel
• 22:17
  like
• 22:17
  your
• 22:17
  home
• 22:18
  looks
• 22:18
  or
• 22:18
  whatever.
• 22:19
  You
• 22:19
  can
• 22:19
  let
• 22:19
  us
• 22:20
  know
• 22:20
  on
• 22:21
  Facebook,
• 22:22
  Instagram
• 22:22
  or
• 22:22
  YouTube
• 22:23
  at
• 22:23
  getting
• 22:23
  to
• 22:24
  Good
• 22:24
  Enough.
• 22:24
  You
• 22:24
  can
• 22:25
  send
• 22:25
  us
• 22:25
  an
• 22:25
  email@gettingtogoodenoughmail.com
• 22:29
  or
• 22:30
  you
• 22:30
  can
• 22:31
  let
• 22:31
  us
• 22:31
  hear
• 22:31
  your
• 22:32
  delightful
• 22:32
  voice
• 22:33
  and
• 22:33
  leave
• 22:33
  us
• 22:34
  a
• 22:34
  message
• 22:34
  at
• 22:35
  413-424-GTGE.
• 22:42
  Thanks
• 22:43
  for
• 22:43
  joining
• 22:43
  us
• 22:43
  on
• 22:44
  Getting
• 22:44
  to
• 22:44
  Good
• 22:44
  Enough.
• 22:45
  We
• 22:45
  hope
• 22:45
  you
• 22:45
  heard
• 22:46
  something
• 22:46
  that
• 22:46
  makes
• 22:46
  your
• 22:47
  life
• 22:47
  just
• 22:47
  a
• 22:47
  little
• 22:48
  bit
• 22:48
  easier.
• 22:49
  If
• 22:49
  you
• 22:49
  did,
• 22:50
  leave
• 22:50
  us
• 22:50
  a
• 22:50
  review
• 22:51
  or
• 22:51
  share
• 22:51
  this
• 22:52
  with
• 22:52
  someone
• 22:52
  who's
• 22:53
  looking
• 22:53
  for
• 22:53
  their
• 22:53
  own
• 22:54
  version
• 22:54
  of
• 22:54
  Good
• 22:54
  Enough.
• 22:55
  Thanks
• 22:55
  for
• 22:55
  listening.
• 22:56
  See
• 22:56
  you
• 22:56
  soon.
• 23:06
  And
• 23:06
  that's
• 23:07
  it.
• 23:09
  Hope
• 23:09
  to
• 23:09
  hear
• 23:10
  from
• 23:10
  you.
• 23:10
  Yeah.
• 23:12
  We
• 23:12
  need
• 23:12
  to
• 23:12
  go
• 23:13
  back.
• 23:13
  I
• 23:13
  guess
• 23:13
  I
• 23:14
  need
• 23:14
  to
• 23:14
  just
• 23:14
  say
• 23:14
  our
• 23:15
  old
• 23:15
  tagline.
• 23:15
  Because
• 23:15
  I
• 23:15
  like
• 23:16
  it.
• 23:16
  Yeah.
• 23:16
  Say
• 23:16
  it.
• 23:16
  Yeah.
• 23:17
  So
• 23:19
  for
• 23:19
  now,
• 23:20
  we
• 23:21
  hope
• 23:21
  that
• 23:21
  good
• 23:21
  enough
• 23:22
  is
• 23:22
  getting
• 23:22
  easier
• 23:23
  for
• 23:23
  you.
• 23:25
  Yeah.