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Black Girls Are Easy - How To Seduce & Get Spoiled · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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The more you make them wait and make them chase, the more valuable your
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vagina becomes. G L Lambert hell out how to seduce the whole way.
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Spartan's interview men intensely because the objective is to make sure he's honest and trustworthy
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enough to be a boyfriend or potential husband. Hoes substitute the interview process with
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the seducing stage because they know the way to a man's wallet starts with his
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dick. His life story and past relationships don't matter when you're trying to hustle
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a man because you're not looking to bond on a real level. All hoe
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needs to know is if he's paid, how paid, and how generous he
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is willing to be with that money. Once you establish that you have a
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guy who is willing to treat you to nice things, you dig the hooks
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in deeper by using what a man wants the most against him. Sex.
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The who's job is to be a fantasy woman. A woman that listens,
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isn't judgmental, never stresses for time or tension, and most importantly, knows
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how to be a filthy whore. I remind you that these are the non
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sex tactics. So if the way you've been taught to seduce is by letting
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him stick the tip in, you're going to need to throw that game plan
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out. You're about to learn to become a master of making a man come
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without using your pussy. Seducing is the progression of flirting, Yet girls who
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are good flirts often freeze when it's time to really get down and dirty.
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Earlier, I spoke of the first date as being the one where you hook
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him with a shot of your personality, which isn't about I went to this
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university, I'm starting this business, and I travel to this city last summer.
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Personality has nothing to do with the random facts about your life. To
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make a man see you as sexy, desirable, and indispensable, you have
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to show him that you are a good time. What makes you funny?
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What makes you edgy? What makes you nasty? What makes you different?
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Answer that in your head. Now, look back on the last time you
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were on a first date, and think about how you brought out those four
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things. Most of you can't answer the question or aren't sure, but the
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truth is in the results. Men aren't impressed with you, nor do they
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see you the same way you see yourself in your head. My personality is
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dope. No, it's dry. You don't project anything special, thus you
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don't separate yourself from the pack. The last first date I went on was
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with a very corny woman. Here's what made her During that dinner, she
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didn't say anything provocative or interesting. She just laughed at my jokes and played
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coy. When I made a perverted comment in the movie theater, I got
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my feels on, but she kept her hands to herself, not because she
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wasn't into me, but because she was afraid. After the date, I
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took her back to my apartment and proceeded to gasp her up about how fun
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it was spending time with her, lie how sexy she looked, she was
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pretty but not that pretty, and how I didn't want her to leave.
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Truth. After about forty minutes, I had her bra off in my hands
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down her pants, she stopped me and told me she had to go before
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she made a mistake. I tried to go back to sweet talking her into
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staying, but to her credit, she didn't give in. Although I wasn't
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impressed by her personality, I was excited by the prospect of having sex after
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seeing her half naked. The next weekend, I skip the going out to
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eat stuff because why waste my time when all I was doing was talking to
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myself. I got her right back over where we left off. A week
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of talking on the phone, flirting and gassing her up had won her over
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and she was willing to go all the way this time. I got head,
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had sex with her, and promptly got had one last time before telling
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her I was about to go to sleep. AKA she had to go asshole
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move. But this is how most men operate when they come across a cute
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girl who isn't exactly intriguing. The average woman is unsure of herself when on
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a date with a guy she likes, which leads to awkward behavior and a
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corny vibe. Men don't want to hang with a cornball, no matter how
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fat our ass is or how big her breasts are. Think if you do
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these things counter conversation, wait for him to talk, and you simply respond
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to he his question with the answer and a dry follow up about the same
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subject, never speaking your own topic. Over laugh. You don't have anything
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to add on to what he's saying, but don't want to be quiet,
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so you laugh. Harder than normal, or giggle when nothing's that funny,
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walk on eggshells. You don't want to say anything to offend this man,
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so you keep the conversation safe and inoffensive. It's like putting someone whose best
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jokes are about homosexuals in a gay bar. They don't want to offend,
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so they tone way down. Don't rape me body language. You don't point
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your body towards him or inch close. When walking at dinner, you sit
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across, not next to him. Walking to the car with him, you
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keep your distance. These things are understandable when you're not familiar with a person,
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But this isn't modesty tactics to get a man to see you as a
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sweet woman. This is whole tactics to eat these men alive. Those get
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real comfortable, real fast. And because it's such a different way for women
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to act on a date, men are taking off guard and easily impressed.
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But gl I can't help being nervous on dates. How can I hoe up
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when I'm naturally shy and reserved. You have the ability to get comfortable around
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any man because you've done this step before without knowing it. Most women have
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agreed to a date with a guy they don't really like, and I wager
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you're in that boat. Some dude gave chase. You saw them as okay,
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but you were bored, so you agreed to go out because you had
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nothing to lose. You were accidentally hoing, selling your company for a date
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with no intention of ever doing anything else. It's something that all girls do.
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A free dinner or movie with a man that doesn't look like your type,
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act like your type, or has a shot at winning you over.
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That's a mini hotel done out of boredom, back to being comfortable and embracing
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that exciting hoe personality. On a date with mister not my type, you
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didn't give a fuck, so there was no counter conversation. You said whatever
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as if he were a girlfriend. There was no overlaugh because you didn't want
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him to think you liked him by overlaughing. You didn't walk on eggshells because
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this guy was more like the Buddy than Prince Charming. As for body language,
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you probably kept your distance, but I'm sure you were relaxed, not
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bashful in regards to how close you got to him. That man wasn't a
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threat, so you didn't act awkward. You projected your true personality dope chick
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in response, you weren't seen as corny. You were seen as the fun,
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slightly goofy girl with good conversation skills. That clown is probably still trying
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to take you out again because you impressed him. Is to be that comfortable
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with men who are winners. Oh example, let's go visit our friend Maria
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the Hoe on our series of dates in which she seduces a mark. The
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first date is one she allowed him to select, and it's the Cheesecake Factory,
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a nice, inexpensive place that literally has food from every damn country and
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their menu. Maria doesn't usually do dinner here. Like most smart hoes,
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she comes to hang by the bar after the businessmen get off work, because
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sitting down with a girlfriend and splitting an order of Buffalo Blasts doesn't leave her
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room to flirt with a man like standing at a bar surrounded by stressed stockbrokers.
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Will They get a booth in the back, and Maria takes a seat
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across from the mark. She orders water, not liquor, because she has
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to be in tune tonight. Not turned up. Immediately, Maria spouts,
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you're gonna leave me all alone over here, is taken aback. He doesn't
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know this girl like that, yet she wants him right next to her.
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Of course, he rushes over and rearranges his silverware on her side of the
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table. Maria now rewards him by squeezing his arm with a hug, as
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if she's super excited to be next to him. The waiter comes over and
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asks about food. Maria begins to joke with the waiter about how the Mark
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couldn't stand not being close. The waiter, like anyone who wants a tip,
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plays along and adds on his own compliment about Maria being pretty. Maria
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continues to sass the waiter in a non bitchy or demeaning way, maybe saying
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that the Mark doesn't think she's that pretty, she had to beg for a
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date, etc. Self depreciation leads to compliments that's human psychology, one oh
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one. Of course, this attention horing technique puts the Mark on the spot
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in front of another man, and he must keep up with her wits by
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firing back his own teases and jokes. Less than ten minutes into the date
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and the ice has been broken. The Mark is now having fun and thinks
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Maria is a wild child. When it's time to be serious and order,
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Maria lays her head on the Mark's shoulder, fake flustered. Will you order
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for me anything but red meat? The Mark may not know how to react
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if he's not a decisive man, but Maria will urge him to order something
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that tastes as good as an orgasm. This shit is even making the waiter
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blush, and the Mark sees that he's gotten a hold of something special.
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Throughout the date, Maria keeps it playful and flirty. She touches him,
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sporadically, makes inappropriate jokes about people that walk by, and delves into his
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business and talks about what she knows about that industry as a light test.
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When he makes a corny joke, she doesn't mind saying womp, womp,
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but follows it up with one of her own corny jokes to show that she's
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on his side, but not a yes woman that giggles by default. The
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Mark likes her, and more importantly, he's having a good time. When
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the check comes, Maria grabs it first. If I look it means I
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have to pay it right. The Mark may play along, but isn't serious
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about her paying. The Mark pays, but Maria asks how much tip she
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could give their waiter friend. If the Mark tells her not to worry,
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it's a good sign. If he tells her the amount and makes her go
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on her purse, it could mean he's not a spender. It's only the
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first date, so she can let something as petty as asking her to put
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up a tip slide, but all of his actions will be inventoried for later
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analysis. After the date, Maria holds his hand as the exit and thanks
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him for taking her out and ordering the right type of meal. The Mark
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is going to be enamored by this time, and the night's still young.
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Maria now tests him about where he lives. She jokes that they're going to
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grab coffee back at casadela Buckhead. The Mark will be excited that he may
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fuck the first night, but play it cool with if you feel like it.
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Nevertheless, Maria was just checking for an excuse such as, oh damn,
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my cousin is standing over tonight. That response would tell her that he's
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full of shit about where he lives, or that he has a wife or
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girlfriend staying there that he hasn't been honest enough to talk about yet. In
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our example, the Mark invites Maria back, proving that he's not lying,
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but she plays it off as kidding, adding that it takes a while before
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she has coffee with new men. Strip tease bitches. After Maria has dropped
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off, she'll in the night with a kiss, no tongue, just a
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sweet kiss, followed by a slight suck on his bottom lip as she pulls
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herself away with those piercing I would fuck you like it was her last night
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on Titanic eyes. The Mark is riding high and most likely Maria will get
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a text from him when he gets home. She's not his text buddy,
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so she will respond with a brief follow up, it was great, can't
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wait to see you again soon. Good night baby. Now this man is
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reacting as if he's just hit a home run. Damn, this bitch is
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calling me baby already. I'm in there. He's not in anywhere, but
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Maria is all in that Mark's head. Her shot of personality even had the
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waiter wanting to fuck her. And now it's time to unload on the second
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date with her true ho test to make sure she's not wasting her time with
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a dude that can only afford cheesecake factory the kill shot, Maria now has
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the power. Further, dating is not about when a mark free, it's
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when she free, because a man who wants a new pussy will rearrange his
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schedule to get it. Maria is a seasoned whole tactician, so while she's
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spoken to the mark over the past week, it's been late at night,
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short and full of flirting. She hasn't given him phone sex, hasn't sent
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one nude or semi nude picture, and hasn't allowed herself to fit into his
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schedule. Guys will do things like call when they get off work, pop
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up wanting to grab dinner, or lure a girl to the house with a
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home cooked meal. Maria is educated in the ways of horny men, and
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since she isn't thirsty for love, she plays it cool. When he tries
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to be spontaneous and catch her off guard with bullshit dates or chill sessions.
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Maria will only go on that next date when she decides to, which assures
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her that he will do what she wants to do. Once she finally frees
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up her imaginary schedule, the markets excuses for a few days, and then
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finally gets an opportunity to see her again. A week later, Maria wants
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to go hear a singer at the House of Blues on Saturday. The Mark
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wants to take her to this hook ah louns around his way. Maria is
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in a hookah hoe and she doesn't need to be in a room full of
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locals who only go to the hookah spot. She demands live entertainment and a
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chance to dress sexy. The Mark agrees because if he doesn't play ball,
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Maria won't ask again and his window for new pussy will close. This fear
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that led to do what she says is a result of Maria using excuses to
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make her time seem valuable. The game isn't to chase men with money,
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it's to make them feel powerless. Maria and the Mark show up at the
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House of Blues. She was hot on the last date. This time she's
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show stopping hair in an updo, face, made up taste for her dress,
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showing her curves and heels fresh out of the box. She's impressive and
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she knows it. Therefore he knows it. More importantly, he will remember
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her luxury style and feed into it. This time, Maria orders for them.
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She wants to drink tonight, and she only drinks vintage chardonnay. She
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wants some food in her stomach, and she's going to get a sample of
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a few appetizers as opposed to a big meal. She's even touchier this time
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around. The conversation is more comfortable as well, because they know more about
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each other. Maria can bring up things that happen during the week, how
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happy she is to finally see him again, and even say that she had
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a dream about him. Isn't that crazy? This is all done to break
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the next level of ice and play into their chemistry. Maria isn't his girlfriend,
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but it feels like it because she's easy to talk to and doesn't mind
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letting him touch her. The music starts and Maria sways in her seat,
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not looking at the singer, but looking at the mark she's singing and directing
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her affection at him. As the night progresses, Maria's dancing in front of
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the table. It's a public place, but it's a private dance for her
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man. She's well aware that other men and women are watching her, but
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she's not shy. She's embracing her sexiness. If there's room for movement.
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Maybe. Maria pulls the Mark up to dance with him and quickly rubs her
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ass against him, which is the ultimate physical seduction. By the end of
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the night, Maria has run up a bill of two bottles of wine and
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food she did ne eat just to test him. The Mark happily pays because
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he thinks he's going to fuck in a few hours. Maria and the Mark
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go back to the car. She initiates the kissing, and this time it's
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all tongue. She even strokes the b and his pants and moans, you
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just do something to me, baby, I can't explain it. This guy
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is ready to drive her back to the spot and bust it all the way
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open. Maria tells him that she should go home. She's been drinking and
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doesn't want to bring out her in her Beyonce before she's ready. She shifts
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it on him, not being ready more so than her. Because this offends
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the guy and challenges his manhood in a way that spells out that she's not
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afraid of dick or celibate. They joke about sex, and all Maria says
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is, we're going to see how you take your coffee. Soon enough,
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baby, However, she turns serious and says she should get home. The
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Mark is worked up, but Maria has shown that she's not an easy lady.
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The Mark is headed home to take a cold shower, full of disappointment,
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but there's also hope. He spent money, but at each turn,
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Maria has rewarded him by intensifying her seduction, which means he has no reason
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to not keep dating her. Their next time out will be d day.
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He can feel it in his bones. Two dates down, Maria has touched
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him, kissed him, rubbed on him, and gave him an IOU on
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the pussy. No matter how smart this Mark is, he knows that these
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actions lead to sex. It always does. All he has to do is
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stay on task and keep her happy. Entering the next week. Between the
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second and third date, Maria rewards him with phone sex for the first time.
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The day after phone sex, she drops the headphone test on him.
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Phone sex would be a lot better if she had good earphones for her iPhone.
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Using the thought of sex, she then asks if he could grab a
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pair for her before they meet up on the next date. Of course,
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he does, and when Maria sees that he got a pair of brand new
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beat ear buds, not the generics or his old used ones. She recognizes
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that this dude isn't a waste of time, he doesn't mind tricking, so
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now begins her next step of becoming invaluable to this man so she can dig
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in his pockets for what she actually needs. Maria took all those basic flirting
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skills to the next level, from the personal space to the voice inflection.
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She upped the ante and used her sex appeal to excite him. At the
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same time she used compliments like baby to endear herself to him. The most
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impressive thing was that Maria was able to be sassy and fun in a way
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to put him at ease and made her seem cool, not corny. If
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Maria were a nervous chick or one who thought turning a man on was all
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about saying a bunch of nasty things, she would have failed. Maria played
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by her rules, but made him think it was his rules. The first
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date set the pace as she submitted to him and let him be a man
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by picking the place and ordering her food. The second date, she pouted
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and asked to be taken to a better place, then took it upon herself
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to get whatever she wanted right under his nose, as if it's just how
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she rolls. The Mark sees Maria as new pussy, but he also sees
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her as interesting that above the potential feeling of a new nut is what had
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him running to Target to grab a pair of one hundred dollars headphones. Understand
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that seducing a man isn't just about sex. It's about making him feel young
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and care free. A mark with money can go pay for an escort,
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he can go jerk off to a cam girl. He can go butter up
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an X is not about sex. Maria is making herself the best part of
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his week by being a good time girl. At the same time, she's
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still testing his path pockets. At each step, she's taking mental notes about
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his attitude and actions. There are men who would have complained about the cost
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of the show, the wine, and the food, which probably costs well
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over two hundred dollars. If a man doesn't have that to spend on a
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second date with a girl that's impressed him, made out with him, and
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who walks out of the house dressed like her pussy is worth a million dollars,
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then he's a window shopper that must be dropped immediately after the complaints about
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money or the price of something. Maria's mark went with the flow and had
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a good time, because anything worth doing is worth paying for if you have
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it to spend. Guys with money don't mind paying for a good time,
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even if it doesn't end with them dipping their dick in something at the end
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of the night. If a man does start to keep track of what he's
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spending, consider that a sign that he may not be holding as much in
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his bank account as he acts. It's okay to choose wrong. Men are
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good liars, and your intel may have been wrong. This is why you
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research him with three dates to be sure that he has money and has it
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to spend. Maria put in a good amount of work building up to the
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third date, and it would suck to have to start over, but she's
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not lazy. She can do it again with a new mark the next week.
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If this mark would have reacted by not showing up with headphones or by
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pressing her for sex because he's tired of being patient, then she would have
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lost his number at the end of the date. Never feel as if your
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seduction skills must be rewarded. That's ego. If he doesn't respond, it
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doesn't mean you're a bad seductress. He's probably a cheap bastard, So cut
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him off and go hunt for a new trick. Hoeing up. Do you
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understand how to seduce now? I doubt it. Maria the Hope perform these
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things so subtly and precisely that it's like trying to learn a magic trick by
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watching David Copperfield YouTube clips. I'm going to slow it down and point out
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precisely how to seduce men during the three date courting stage. And again,
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all of these are things any woman can pull off, no matter her looks
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or personality, as long as she's willing to erase fear from the equation and
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go full steam. Compliments kill men are rarely complimented. Use this to your
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advantage. Understand that a male goes through life getting very few verbal compliments from
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the opposite sex, no matter if he's an athlete that looks like he's cut
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out of stone, or just your average pretty boy. Very few women will
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confess to his attractiveness. Older women may call him cute because they're old and
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don't have any reason to fear being curved. Maybe some random drunk girl at
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a hearty will remark on him being hot, but nothing to the extent where
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he becomes used to it. Women don't like to put themselves out there because
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it makes them seem thirsty or overly interested. I've seen women on Twitter respond
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to a picture of Colin Kaepernick with damn, I'd suck his father's dick as
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a thank you. But in real life those things are reserved for private thoughts.
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Women think sexual all the time, but it's usually held back. There
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remains of vanity inside all men that any woman can exploit if she's willing to
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get a little dirty with her compliments. To engage a man and flirt with
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him in a way where you stroke his ego will always win him over.
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Men don't know for sure that they're the shit. They just think they are.
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To confirm his greatness under the pretense of flirting as if you like him,
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will put the biggest kool Aid smile you've ever seen on his face.
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When you're on a date with a man, drop these words at random,
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baby, handsome, sexy, and it'll put them in a different mind frame.
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Be sure to say these compliments casually, as if they aren't big things.
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Unlike words that need voice inflection, these adjectives are strong enough to live
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on their own. Men are constantly guessing does she actually like me? The
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same way women do. The typical non hoe is worried about if a guy
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thinks she's cute, funny, etc. Regardless of being taken out on a
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date. They don't know how a man really feels. A guy will have
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the same anxiety because he isn't sure if you are into him or just in
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it for a free meal because you're bored. You can flirt and sit close,
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but they still have doubt. To seduce is to erase that doubt by
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using compliments in a normal, nonchalant way. The sincereer this all feels,
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and the quicker it will break down his walls. Submission Expert, Do men
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like submissive women? Hell yes. Males like to be in control, take
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charge and dominate. Should you be submissive? Hell no? But tease that
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role at first. Play possum and give him that power over you. Then
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slowly start to take control and he won't know what hit him. When you're
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on a first date. Let him order for you, let him pick the
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place, Let him decide if you're driving together or meeting. Don't do this
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in a way that makes you seem indecisive, like I don't know where do
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you want to go? Be decisive in your submission and put the ball firmly
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in his court. Tell him to tell you where do you want to go?
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Somewhere good pick for us? Qtie Do you want to meet there?
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Or should I come get you? Do what's most convenient for you, daddy.
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I don't mind you planning our date even a half step in. Man
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will feel imp by you literally putting everything in his hands on the date.
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Maria let her mark order for her. You can try that trick, or
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you can just wait until the server comes over and be even more submissive.
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I'll let my boo decide for me. Now he must answer in front of
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another person. This builds up a position of power and confidence. You're seducing
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his ego and softening him up for the step where you begin to tell him
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in ways that make him think you're asking inside jokes. What separates you from
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the pack. These tricks will be talking to various women that have their eyes
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on his prize and are given up free pussy. How do you compete.
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Bonds destroy competition, and the fastest way to bond with a man is to
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relate on a personal level about tangible things. Give a man a nickname,
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or let him give you one. It doesn't have to be something he calls
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you all the time, just something that relates back to a shared experience.
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For instance, if you two meet at the supermarket, call him Aisle nine
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or something related to what he had in his cart that was funny or interesting.
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Reminding him of that first meeting connects you to create your own jokes early,
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and often. The first date will usually be out in a place where
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normal, everyday weird people are be it, waiting for a table and making
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fun of a song that keeps playing, or clowning on a person with a
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weird walk who passes by. You take those moments and make them inside jokes
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that you can bring up later. There's always someone or something that you can
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laugh at, so be aware that these things aren't just funny, they are
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seducing his brain in a way where he has to call or text you when
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he sees something similar in his everyday life. Friendship is built on comfort,
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laughing, further drops guard and being the only girl he can share certain things
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with makes you important. Kissing as a reward. Doggie treats are still being
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used, and kissing is the easiest treat to give out. There are women
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who don't like kissing strangers, and that's understandable. But if you refuse to
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reward his actions with affection, it will make a man feel as if you're
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putting on a front. Remember, these men aren't robots doing nice things for
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you just because so you have to give a little to get a lot.
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To go on a date and project a lack of attraction will leave you dead
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in the water. Be willing to kiss, but ration it. Some women
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kiss a man as soon as he goes in. Don't be that easy.
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Kissing should be used sparingly at first. The first date, if it goes
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well, should end with a kiss no tongue, short and passionate, leaving
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him begging for more. That's just a taste of what's to come. The
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second date, you should go French and really kiss the fuck out of him.
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Don't get into a makeout session like a drunk blonde during homecoming. There
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should be a two to three minute limit, then pull back before you say
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good night. Give him another kiss but this time you should initiate and pull
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him in. When it's time to stop kissing, pull back again, this
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time as if you don't want to stop. But you're a good girl,
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so you have to stop. This seduces his body and makes him instantly hard.
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That's gross. No, it's not gross. It's proof that your seduction
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is working. You need his dick to be hard. It's the final mission
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before you end the night, because if you're not going to have sex,
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you must at least inspire the thought in his head. Kissing, stroking his
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pants. It's all a seduction technique to get him associating you with desire as
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you go forward beyond the second date. Kiss him like that when he does
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something you approve of, and train him to only expect that level of kissing
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as a reward. He doesn't get to kiss you just because he wants to
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kiss. Pecks and cheek kisses are all he gets when he's not going the
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extra mile. You're not a teenager in love. You're softening him up for
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the hustle, so keep your kisses on a tight lock until he realizes that
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he doesn't get sugar until he makes you smile. Clitt clit, call,
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listen, ignore that text. It could be two days between dates or an
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entire week, but this is where women normally lose a man's interest, even
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after a good date. Waiting for him to call, being afraid to call
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him first, texting, and not talking. These things are product of fear.
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The most admirable thing about holes is that they are just like spartans when
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it comes to throwing caution to the wind and taking control of their fate.
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Spartan's call when they want because they made a connection and don't need to play
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games. Hoes call because they can't get paid with a dry phone. Same
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confidence, but they exist on different moral planes. After you wow him on
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the first date, call to check up on him the next night if you
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haven't heard anything during that day. Men usually have a rule that you call
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a girl a day or two later, but girls today overthink and get paranoid
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when they don't receive a call or text twelve hours later. Oh my god,
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he didn't like me. Maybe I should have done more to impress him.
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Stop being basic. Overthinking will kill your hustle. Some guys wait a
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few days, while some guys contact the same night. Neither is right or
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wrong, regardless of how he responds, fast or slow, he wants you.
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Don't wait on him to hit you up like some scared little initiate Late
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at night is perfect because it catches him winding down and vulnerable. Call and
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thank him for taking you out, Throw out some inside jokes, whisper about
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how you were daydreaming about kissing him earlier, and compliment his lips. If
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you do these things, his dick will be harder than fingerwave jail. He
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now wants to know what every man wants to know. When can I see
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you again? Don't react and be submissive this time and let him plan the
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date. Now is when you play hard to get unless he has something interesting
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coming up, like an awards, dinner, show, tickets, or some
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formal event that you should go to keep him in the dark. You're busy,
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you have a life. Tell him the weekend might work, but you'll
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have to let him know. This keeps him hungry. You denied him the
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right to see you, but only after you rode his dick about fantasizing about
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this kiss. That's not a mixed signal because the affection reward of kissing is
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the proof that you do like him. See how it's all coming together.
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Now you're challenging a man where most women throw themselves. He knows or thinks
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that you want his dick, but he just can't get to you. As
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a result, he will move heaven and earth to make Friday, Saturday,
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or even Sunday work as your next date night. This is all happening because
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you're always better at enticing a man over the phone than via text message.
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The power of excuses. Are you a woman that can say no, not
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tonight? Can you stop yourself in the middle of kissing? Can you stand
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your ground when a man is begging to take you back to his place,
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begging to sleep at your place, or offering to rent a hotel so you
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won't have to drive in bad weather. This is the part where you will
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be tested, so remember the earlier chapter on discipline and how to fight through
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impulsive thoughts that may put you in compromising positions. After the first date,
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a man will not want to go out again, but he does so he
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can get closer to sex. After the second date, a man will expect
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sex, so he will try to maneuver it to intimate places. A man
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will not complain directly about taking you out, he will simply go the alternate
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route and think of other ways to see you. Most likely, his ideas
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will be places where he doesn't have to spend money and where you two will
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be alone house dates, house parties, kickbacks, or pop up visits.
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In a man's world, this is the same as going on a date,
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because technically dating is just spending time, and that's what women who are looking
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for love need to see. That he's going to spend time consistently. Ha.
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Of course, it's a trap, and men end up ice elating these
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thirsty women and having sex after a few weeks. This is the world that
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basic bitches have created, not hoes. Basic bitches are afraid to turn a
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man down because they don't want to be seen as mean or uninterested. A
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hole doesn't give a fuck about the way she is perceived because she knows he
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wants her pussy. She's virtually put it in his face. And even if
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a man is annoyed with dating, he will continue to entertain the things she
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wants to do because she's not going to bend and fall for come over and
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chill. Forget all the basic love sick moves you normally make when trying to
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find a boyfriend and think like a hole trying to secure the gold. The
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more you make them wait and make them chase, the more valuable your vagina
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becomes. Be comfortable with the words not tonight. You are not going to
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lose his interest because he still wants to fuck you, and just as important, m