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Dirty Little Secret: “If you completely transformed your life would you tell your partner who you used to be?” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest to promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 2: Mix one on two point nine. Good Morning, Billy the Kid,
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  Speaker 2: Candas low Pez producer Pooh. I'm excited because tomorrow we
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  Speaker 2: have a special edition of Cannas Court right around seven thirty.
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  Speaker 2: And this is it's a personal one because well it's
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  Speaker 2: not even really Cannas Court tomorrow.
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  Speaker 3: It's a special edition.
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  Speaker 2: It's gonna be Billy's Court because Cannas is in the
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  Speaker 2: hot seat.
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  Speaker 3: That's fine, I am down.
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  Speaker 2: Pooh never gets angry and nobody ever gets mad at Candas.
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  Speaker 2: And now Pooh is a little upset with Cannas about
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  Speaker 2: something that happened.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well I thought he would understand.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we're not going to get into it. We won't
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  Speaker 2: get into it. Should we say it's about a Christmas gift?
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  Speaker 4: Sure, that's fine.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, let's say it's about that. It's always gonna be weakness,
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  Speaker 3: that's what it is. Wow, I feel like I'm taking
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  Speaker 3: advantage is barely Okay, all right, we don't want to
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  Speaker 3: get into it tomorrow. Cannis Court be fine. I think it's.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna be fine. It will be fine. We're a family. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we stick together no matter what. But I already have
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  Speaker 2: a kind of a notion of who I think's guilty.
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  Speaker 2: He'll know tomorrow, fine Goodley's Court. Okay, all right, dirty
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  Speaker 2: little secret. If you got one eight three three seven
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  Speaker 2: eight seven one two nine, now you do.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning? How are you?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning? I'm good. How are you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm good? Okay, So you have a secret. What's going on?
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  Speaker 3: I do?
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  Speaker 1: So? Okay, I have gotten really good at fighting things.
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  Speaker 1: I guess. I'm not talking about like cheating or lying
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  Speaker 1: about where I go, nothing like that, just my past.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So my boyfriend, I mean he thinks he knows me,
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  Speaker 1: and I mean he does know me, but he thinks
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  Speaker 1: I've always looked like this, like walked into rooms with
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  Speaker 1: this kind of confidence. I mean he had no idea
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  Speaker 1: that in the past, like three or four years, basically,
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  Speaker 1: I was a completely different person. I'm talking physically, not emotionally,
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  Speaker 1: but just like physically. Okay, okay, so you've changed fifty
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  Speaker 1: pounds of year.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, good for you, Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. I mean it was it was
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  Speaker 1: a dark you know, dark I would say time, but
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  Speaker 1: it was kind of all I ever knew. I was
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  Speaker 1: just like miserable in my own skin. For so long,
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  Speaker 1: I used to avoid mirrors. I hate to get in
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  Speaker 1: my picture taken. Basically just like avoided being seen, you know,
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  Speaker 1: my whole life. But then you know ozembic, okay being
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  Speaker 1: wrong and truly, I mean it did you all changed
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  Speaker 1: the whole game for me. And then you know, with
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  Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty pounds of weight loss, there's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of like loose skin. So then I had to
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  Speaker 1: have some surgeries, so you know, skin removal, sculpting procedures.
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  Speaker 1: I have never told anybody about and for I never would.
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  Speaker 1: And basically, I just like my whole appearance changed. I
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  Speaker 1: don't look like the girls you know I used to
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  Speaker 1: be at all, and people I haven't seen in the
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  Speaker 1: years literally would walk past me and have no idea
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  Speaker 1: it was even me.
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  Speaker 3: Not just not just a physical change.
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  Speaker 2: But when you change this month physically, you also I
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  Speaker 2: feel like your attitude changes. Your I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: see your personality changes, but your your confidence definitely changes.
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  Speaker 1: Well, yes, definitely, because honestly, people look at me for
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  Speaker 1: the first time. People overlook you when you're heaving that
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  Speaker 1: they don't look too Now people like look at me
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  Speaker 1: and when I walk in our room.
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  Speaker 3: So what do you hide? I like that, right? No, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: what are you hiding from your boyfriend? Then?
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  Speaker 1: Well, he doesn't know any of that. He's never seen
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  Speaker 1: the old me. I have hidden every picture of my
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  Speaker 1: old version of me, deleted anything off social media of
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  Speaker 1: like what I used to look like. And I'm just
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  Speaker 1: afraid that he sees the old me. He's think of
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  Speaker 1: me differently and not being you know, attracted or in
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  Speaker 1: love with me. What if he thinks I've like.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, thinks you deceived him?
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  Speaker 1: Like deceived?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but this is you and it's real, like the
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  Speaker 4: right weight, it's really gone.
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  Speaker 2: You know, he didn't even know you then, So I
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  Speaker 2: don't know why he would care, or would some guys care.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know why you was.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm altiole. You know. It's like the girl
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  Speaker 1: I was is still a part of me. So I
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  Speaker 1: don't want him to not like her, you know. And
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what if he prefers just this version of
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  Speaker 1: me and the person I built really, and that's not
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  Speaker 1: the person I was. I don't know. What if that's
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  Speaker 1: the only reason he liked me. It's for who I
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  Speaker 1: am now, and that's not who I was.
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  Speaker 3: But all different people than we were, you know, even
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  Speaker 3: twenty years ago. He only knows this you. He only
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  Speaker 3: knows this you.
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  Speaker 2: And honestly, I feel like if he loves you for
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  Speaker 2: you and he really does care, then he's going to
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  Speaker 2: love your story. And part of your story is that
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  Speaker 2: you know, at one point you but you were overweight
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  Speaker 2: and you had that you wanted to change and you did.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know why.
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  Speaker 2: Person in the relationship, I don't know why he would
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  Speaker 2: be turned off by it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's not yes, so we left it.
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  Speaker 1: I also like, like I said, I've had surgeries, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's some of it's surgical, lifted and touched
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  Speaker 1: and you know, it's it's I mean the way lot
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  Speaker 1: of course, but you know, I just I'm just really
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  Speaker 1: afraid that he's not gonna want to be a part
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  Speaker 1: of my future if he knows about myself.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, but if unless your attitude changes, I don't
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  Speaker 4: think he'll be upset.
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  Speaker 1: And no, would you guys be upset if your girlfriend
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden was like, hey, here's my before picture.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, no, I don't, but I like thicker girls.
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  Speaker 3: So it's gonna be. Yeah, it's gonna be. I'm just
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  Speaker 3: saying you always got to sneak that in there. I'm
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  Speaker 3: just saying I do. I mean, I'm sure she's a
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  Speaker 3: beautiful girl, but.
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  Speaker 2: All right, but thick and one hundred and fifty pounds
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  Speaker 2: of her weight is a little bit different. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. I'm just
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  Speaker 2: saying it's different unless that's what you consider thick.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, it just depends on how to talk to you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I just like I like big girls with meat on
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  Speaker 4: their bones. Okay, so she's seven eight and one hundred
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  Speaker 4: and fifty pounds. I don't think he'll care. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 4: don't think at some point, if you're with him long enough,
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  Speaker 4: he's going to know.
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  Speaker 1: And you don't think he's going to be.
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  Speaker 2: No, if he is, I'm sorry, but that's weird. That's
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  Speaker 2: on him and not on you. I mean, listen, you
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  Speaker 2: sound like a confident person. I think this is more
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  Speaker 2: in your head because you have an image of who
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  Speaker 2: you are and who you think you are and that
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  Speaker 2: and who you were and you're you know, it's just
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  Speaker 2: something that you probably still holding on to and some
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  Speaker 2: insecurities honestly, and that's okay.
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  Speaker 1: I see that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're always going to be changing to his people.
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  Speaker 2: So we're going to be different people in different phases
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  Speaker 2: of our life. It doesn't make you bad or different,
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  Speaker 2: just makes you. You know, that's normal. It's you evolve,
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  Speaker 2: So be you and be authentically you, and I think
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  Speaker 2: he'll love you no matter what.
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  Speaker 1: So scary, it's nice to hear from y'all. It really
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  Speaker 1: makes you feel a little little less nervous.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let us let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, thank you, all right.
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  Speaker 2: I just you know what, let's learn from this because
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  Speaker 2: I hope you that you treat me the same after
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  Speaker 2: I get my BBL this year.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm doing it. Why are you laughing?
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  Speaker 3: Doing it?
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm doing I think this is the year
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  Speaker 2: of the BBL. They say it's a year of the
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  Speaker 2: horse or whatever. Now I think it's a year of
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  Speaker 2: the BBL.
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  Speaker 4: No more flat.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm just sick of having a big text flat booty.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is the year. So if you're a doctor,
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  Speaker 2: hit me up. I think it's gonna happen. I think
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  Speaker 2: it's gonna happen by spring. And if I get into
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  Speaker 2: a new relationship, I'm not going to tell her that
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  Speaker 2: I used to have a flat button.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you won't. No, that's fair.
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  Speaker 2: And one day I'm just going to show up here
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  Speaker 2: with that big BBL. I'm just going to stick it
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  Speaker 2: out and be like