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DLHS Hour 2 | Stepdad not invited to graduation for absent dad · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: So Jasmine. She even take care of his little chick.
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  Speaker 1: She makes a decision like that, should he pay for it?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, first of all, I think it is incredibly petty,
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  Speaker 2: without question, it's petty, but it's understandable. It's understandable. But
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  Speaker 2: it's incredible. It's very petty. But but it's understandable. I
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  Speaker 2: get it. It's understandable. I mean, listen when I when
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  Speaker 2: my son graduated. You know, you get so many tickets, right,
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  Speaker 2: and my daddy wanted to be there, My uncle wanted
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  Speaker 2: to be there, but my newfound mother wanted to be
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  Speaker 2: there too. So I had to make a decision, and
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  Speaker 2: I chose to let my new found mother be there
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  Speaker 2: and not my uncle.
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  Speaker 3: M Yeah, but you were paying for everything.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, your uncleouldn't pay me.
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  Speaker 2: You would still, I mean, but but outside of the
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  Speaker 2: monetary aspect of it, it was more of my uncle
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  Speaker 2: had been there for my son his whole life.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, and you would think it was petty because
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  Speaker 3: that was paid.
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  Speaker 4: That was not petty of me.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to be able to experience her grandson that
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  Speaker 2: she he was fine with it. He sat in the
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  Speaker 2: back and he was all good. Then it was over.
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  Speaker 2: We all had a nice little dinner together. She was drunk,
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  Speaker 2: of course, but it was nice.
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  Speaker 4: Remember, and you gave it a good seat, ain't that something?
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  Speaker 2: Well, she don't remember it now because she's dead, So.
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  Speaker 3: There's that she's gone.
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  Speaker 1: They tend to not have memories exactly. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's petty at all. And I think
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  Speaker 1: that it's presumptuous of a little seventeen year old.
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  Speaker 3: To believe that you can you can, you can do so.
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  Speaker 2: A seventeen year old is going to make seventeen year
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  Speaker 2: old decisions, that's just the truth.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we all know that, and you did, and you
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  Speaker 1: know what, but you got to be ready for the
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  Speaker 1: ones that you're almost old enough to.
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  Speaker 3: Be drafted, almost but not quite. If you if you
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  Speaker 3: can go to war, you can go to the bank.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, seventeen is still not legal, not legal.
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  Speaker 4: Way, and she's about to have a birthday any minute,
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  Speaker 4: she might about to.
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  Speaker 2: Be But I'm telling you you're getting the wrong situation.
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  Speaker 2: The judge she's only seventeen, depends.
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  Speaker 4: But you know, I digress.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely, how do we get I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: We could just move of case, we could just move on.
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  Speaker 1: How do we get from from an ungrateful chick to
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  Speaker 1: a uh to a you know, to a b blesstation thing.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know who's doing a different show?
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  Speaker 3: Now, Well, you.
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  Speaker 1: Said if you, if you, if you, if you're the wrong,
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  Speaker 1: if you're seventeen years old, the judge to say she's
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  Speaker 1: not old enough.
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  Speaker 2: I would, right, but that's not that's yeah.
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  Speaker 3: What is talking about? Yeah, I'm wondering what else it
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  Speaker 3: was then?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know about exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 2: That's strong.
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  Speaker 4: What the hell?
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  Speaker 3: What else would have judge in the seventeen year old
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  Speaker 3: either that or not? Knock joke?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: You're right?
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  Speaker 3: So he is just scenario? What do you think?
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  Speaker 6: So you even tell me for the last seven two years,
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  Speaker 6: I've been taking care of you. This man never showed
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  Speaker 6: up for one birthday, and he shows up at your graduations,
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  Speaker 6: and now you want him to take my slot. No,
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  Speaker 6: it's not like that, And I thank you for being
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  Speaker 6: there for seventeen years, but I really have my.
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  Speaker 3: Real dad to be there.
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  Speaker 6: Your real dad, Your real dad wasn't there for the
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  Speaker 6: last seventeen years.
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  Speaker 3: How am I supposed to feel about that?
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  Speaker 7: Baby girl?
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  Speaker 6: I don't know what I thought you will understand it.
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  Speaker 6: I would understand you trade me for a man that
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  Speaker 6: hasn't been there.
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  Speaker 8: I just really wanted to.
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  Speaker 3: This is your decisions. Is that what you does? What
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  Speaker 3: you rock?
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  Speaker 8: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right?
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  Speaker 9: Cool, So MAYB We're gonna let you and your real
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  Speaker 9: dad go ahead and handle that.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm going ahead and counsel out.
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  Speaker 6: I paid for the graduation, but I'm taking that money back, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: I find did your mom how going to do this?
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  Speaker 4: My mom did about it?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, you talked to her first, Yeah, and
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  Speaker 3: what did she say? Y'all can have that conversation.
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  Speaker 7: You're right, we will.
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  Speaker 3: Julie's what do you think?
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  Speaker 10: Well, you know, if if I'm putting myself in it,
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  Speaker 10: of course, I think you made the right choice, because
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  Speaker 10: I mean, I try to be manevolent about these things,
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  Speaker 10: but right feelings are wrapped.
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  Speaker 4: Up in it also.
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  Speaker 10: And if I raised a little crumb hustler and went
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  Speaker 10: through all of this and got a way, she's graduating
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  Speaker 10: and everything set and right then here comes daddy come lately.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I think I'd feel some kind of way.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I hope that he has some tuition for
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  Speaker 3: college money.
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  Speaker 11: Too, matter of fact, I'm sending him an invoice for
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  Speaker 11: the last seventeen years. No, no, this welcome back, all this,
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  Speaker 11: take it all so soft whatever.
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  Speaker 3: So it would be soft if he did it anyway.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, son, relationships with the start playing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah you you, yeah, right you you. You did what
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  Speaker 3: you wanted to do. And why why why would you
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  Speaker 3: think that you should be entitled to do something? Why
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  Speaker 3: do you think this is the thing I don't understand.
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  Speaker 1: Why would somebody know or be aware of how painful
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  Speaker 1: that can be and still think that there would be
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  Speaker 1: no repercussions from it.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, well, I think when you're seventeen years old, you're
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  Speaker 2: incredibly selfish, so you're only thinking about what you want
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  Speaker 2: and if you want your real father to be there,
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  Speaker 2: it's what you want, and you're not thinking about you
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  Speaker 2: know that the fact that your step parent or whatever
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  Speaker 2: their feelings, will be hurt. Now again, I understand the
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  Speaker 2: pain of the step father. I understand, and I said,
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  Speaker 2: I totally understand it.
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  Speaker 4: I do.
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  Speaker 2: I totally get it, But I still think it's petty.
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  Speaker 3: We'll go right through the falls. What do you think?
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  Speaker 12: Quite frankly, I can understand him being disappointed in her,
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  Speaker 12: not realizing something but she doesn't realize is a man
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  Speaker 12: who created her was a sperm donor. The man who
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  Speaker 12: raised her was her father. Now, you know, when you're young,
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  Speaker 12: sometimes you don't always have a sense of appreciation about
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  Speaker 12: who really, you know, puts the butter on your bread.
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  Speaker 12: So he can be upset about it. But I think
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  Speaker 12: saying I'm gonna cut you off, you know, as her father,
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  Speaker 12: he should look beyond that. He could be heard about
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  Speaker 12: it and he can have that discussion with her. But
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  Speaker 12: I wouldn't take that approach that. You know, well, if
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  Speaker 12: you don't see me as your dad, I would cut
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  Speaker 12: you off because if that was his biological daughter, I
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  Speaker 12: don't think he would do that because she didn't appreciate
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  Speaker 12: who he was.
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  Speaker 13: I agree with her one hundred percent. With him, I
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  Speaker 13: wouldn't pay for anything. I mean you serious, Just because
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  Speaker 13: he's the donor of the child doesn't make him the father, Okay,
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  Speaker 13: I would I agree with him. I wouldn't pay for that.
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  Speaker 9: I would.
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  Speaker 13: You know, if your daddy want to come in and
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  Speaker 13: pay for your graduation, then let him do it. But
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  Speaker 13: you're not gonna disrespect me like that because you're not
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  Speaker 13: my bod's lologic daughter. Okay, you not, so you do it.
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  Speaker 13: You're not my blood daughter. So what I've done for you,
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  Speaker 13: I've been more a followed than you than your biological father.
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  Speaker 13: So I agree with him a thousand cent. I would
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  Speaker 13: take every down, every penny back and let her go
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  Speaker 13: on and do what she want to do. And her
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  Speaker 13: mother she can go with her.
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  Speaker 9: So I agree with y'all.
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  Speaker 8: Uh, she is dead wrong, and the father need to
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  Speaker 8: go ahead and.
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  Speaker 9: Take its money back.
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  Speaker 8: And if I'm about to deal with the mother, so
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  Speaker 8: the father was not wrong at all.
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  Speaker 9: The girl is totally wrong. I have a friend who
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  Speaker 9: is going through this current situation. He raised this woman's
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  Speaker 9: I mean this man's son from the age of seven
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  Speaker 9: till now has firmed on the drops in every now
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  Speaker 9: and then.
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  Speaker 14: Now he wants to have him at his graduation, buy
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  Speaker 14: a ticket, uh, and everything for the biological father and
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  Speaker 14: ex out the step matter.
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  Speaker 9: My boy. He then pay pays for the dudes, and
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  Speaker 9: I mean stepson's insurance paid for everything. And he told
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  Speaker 9: him turn the keys in. And the mother is like,
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  Speaker 9: he was wrong. You're like, no, you ain't gonna replace
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  Speaker 9: me with those farther after I hadn't been through all this,
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  Speaker 9: turn them keys in and now they in the big
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  Speaker 9: old argument. So I think she was wrong, and I
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  Speaker 9: don't think he being patty. Let let Tom doesn't do
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  Speaker 9: all that. I've been doing this all this time, So
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  Speaker 9: now I don't think you're being petty.
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  Speaker 3: So here's the scenario. Let me let you hear it.
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  Speaker 3: There's the idea of hope.
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  Speaker 6: So you even tell me, for the last seventeen years
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  Speaker 6: I've been taking care of you. This man never showed
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  Speaker 6: up for one birthday, and he shows up at your graduation,
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  Speaker 6: and now you want him to take my spot.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's not like that. And I thank you for
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  Speaker 2: being there for seventeen years, but I really want my
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  Speaker 2: real dad to be there.
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  Speaker 6: Your real dad, Your real dad was there for the
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  Speaker 6: last seventeen years.
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  Speaker 3: How am I supposed to feel about that, baby girl?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what.
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  Speaker 3: I thought you would understand it.
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  Speaker 6: I would understand you trade me for a man that
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  Speaker 6: has been there.
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  Speaker 3: I just really wanted to sell. This is your decision.
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  Speaker 3: Is that what you do? What you rock?
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  Speaker 8: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right? Cool? So then we're gonna let you
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  Speaker 3: and your real dad go ahead and handle that. And
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  Speaker 3: I'm going ahead and counsel out.
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  Speaker 14: I paid for the graduation, but I'm taking that money back, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: I find did your mom have going to do this?
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  Speaker 11: Mom?
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  Speaker 7: Dad?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right?
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  Speaker 11: Yeah?
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  Speaker 9: And what does she say?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 15: That oversation?
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  Speaker 12: You're right?
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  Speaker 3: Well, what do you think was he patty or was
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  Speaker 3: he justified? That was a question we posed to you. Uh,
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  Speaker 3: we got right to the phone.
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  Speaker 9: I think that she's wrong.
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  Speaker 5: I think that being her stepdad has taken care of
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  Speaker 5: her and her father have never been there for her.
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  Speaker 5: Then she's wrong, and she's seventeen and she knows wrong.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, she loved her dad, but her dance did
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  Speaker 5: in the audience, and her the one who raised her,
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  Speaker 5: the one walker she's simply is that right is right
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  Speaker 5: and wrong is wrong.
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  Speaker 8: I think that was horrible of her, and I've been
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  Speaker 8: in a situation like that. But I'm just glad that
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  Speaker 8: my son in law, Oh my god, I'm just glad
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  Speaker 8: that he saw my grandson as she's owned for since
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  Speaker 8: he's been in his life from three and my grandson
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  Speaker 8: is and his twenties followed in his footsteps as a
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  Speaker 8: merchant marine. I mean, I'm just glad my son in
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  Speaker 8: law didn't see my grandson as different, which this child didn't,
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  Speaker 8: this father didn't. But I'm also glad that my grandson
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  Speaker 8: saw him as a father in his life that should
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  Speaker 8: be there.
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  Speaker 5: So he did exactly what I would have done.
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  Speaker 9: So I don't think it's Peddy. If it's Peddy was
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  Speaker 9: to do what.
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  Speaker 5: He did, then I think a lot of us going
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  Speaker 5: to be petty because it sounded right about right what
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  Speaker 5: he should have done.
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  Speaker 12: So I have a.
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  Speaker 7: Stepmother who was amazing.
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  Speaker 9: She was at every event.
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  Speaker 16: Especially my high school graduation which was many moves though,
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  Speaker 16: and she was just a great stepmother and I gave
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  Speaker 16: her all the credit I could give her as a stepmother.
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  Speaker 7: My mom also was in my life. My mom did
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  Speaker 7: not mind it at all. But for this generation to
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  Speaker 7: be entitled to say this man has been in her
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  Speaker 7: life for seventeen years, he did what he needs to do,
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  Speaker 7: clearly the dead beat if her father was not there,
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  Speaker 7: I don't think the gentleman is wrong for taking it back.
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  Speaker 16: But I'm sure if he loved baby girl to be
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  Speaker 16: there for seventeen years, he can definitely change his mind
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  Speaker 16: and paying for her.
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  Speaker 7: Graduation, So she's wrong, not him.
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  Speaker 16: I will give my stepfather all the credit that is
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  Speaker 16: due for him all the seventeen years and leave the
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  Speaker 16: dead beat he's at period.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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