Latest / Brewsers / Brewsers #354- Alex McGee
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- 0:02Speaker 1: What Welcome to Bruisers, a podcast about beer, coffee, booze
- 0:22Speaker 1: and bruisers. I am Miro Shrouded John and today we
- 0:25Speaker 1: talked to Alex McGhee. We talked about how she got
- 0:28Speaker 1: into photography, what she's learned about MMA, and so much more.
- 0:31Speaker 1: Alex is doing absolutely amazing things again when it comes
- 0:34Speaker 1: to photography, when it comes to social media, when it
- 0:36Speaker 1: comes to MMA, and I can't wait to see what
- 0:39Speaker 1: else she's going to get into. So you don't hear
- 0:41Speaker 1: from me, you want to hear from her. So without
- 0:43Speaker 1: further ado, here is Alex McGhee. So yeah, I love
- 1:01Speaker 1: like we were just talking about before I hit record. Here,
- 1:03Speaker 1: your shelves have so much soul. I can see behind you.
- 1:07Speaker 1: Like you said, you have a new build, but you
- 1:10Speaker 1: want to give character to it? So why not go
- 1:11Speaker 1: to a thrist store and Goodwill. I want to put
- 1:15Speaker 1: this on the podcast because I did work in home
- 1:18Speaker 1: construction for a couple of years, and you are right,
- 1:21Speaker 1: it is very much just you know, copy paste, copy paste,
- 1:25Speaker 1: copy paste, and it's like, no, we need like that's
- 1:28Speaker 1: why people need to buy older homes and buy like
- 1:30Speaker 1: even like flipped homes or whatever. Just because there's more character,
- 1:33Speaker 1: more soul in them. We can't have the same thing
- 1:36Speaker 1: over and over again. You can't have the same thing
- 1:37Speaker 1: all your neighbors have.
- 1:38Speaker 2: I totally agree, And it kind of like it hurts
- 1:42Speaker 2: my soul a little bit. I love my neighbors so much,
- 1:45Speaker 2: and I love my neighborhood, but when I go into
- 1:48Speaker 2: like a neighbor's house, I'm.
- 1:49Speaker 3: Like, oh, like we have the same exact floor plan,
- 1:53Speaker 3: we have the same exact finishes, we have like everything
- 1:57Speaker 3: is the same, and it just hurts my heart a
- 1:59Speaker 3: little bit.
- 2:00Speaker 2: So yeah, I made it a point to go literally
- 2:04Speaker 2: to just my local goodwill and like one other thrift store,
- 2:08Speaker 2: and me and my best friend we just picked out
- 2:12Speaker 2: like so many unique pieces that were actually like really cheap.
- 2:16Speaker 4: Like way cheaper than going to like create barrel or any.
- 2:22Speaker 1: Goods or anything like that.
- 2:23Speaker 4: Yeah, and it just made it more special.
- 2:26Speaker 2: And it just the memory of us like scavenging for
- 2:28Speaker 2: things together that made it more special too.
- 2:30Speaker 1: So true. And then sometimes also each piece like you
- 2:34Speaker 1: could imagine like where did this come from? Like what
- 2:37Speaker 1: was the story behind? Oh yeah, for sure, just because
- 2:39Speaker 1: I have it now and starting new memories with it.
- 2:42Speaker 1: Where memories does it have before that?
- 2:43Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm kind of I feel like sometimes I'm
- 2:46Speaker 2: too sentimental because I will think about that stuff a
- 2:49Speaker 2: little too much and then I'm like relax a little.
- 2:51Speaker 1: Bit, like they didn't want it because well, welcome to
- 2:58Speaker 1: the show. This is Alex McGee. Everyone, and uh as
- 3:02Speaker 1: I see where you are. But for those listening kind
- 3:05Speaker 1: of paintings the word picture, where are you at and
- 3:06Speaker 1: what's going on around you?
- 3:08Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 3:08Speaker 2: So I'm in Springfield, Missouri, and I I'm I'm a
- 3:14Speaker 2: Midwest early born and raised here in Springfield, and I
- 3:17Speaker 2: love it here. It's a Springfield I think is the
- 3:20Speaker 2: perfect sized town, not too big, not too small.
- 3:23Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm in Missouri.
- 3:25Speaker 1: I actually have a friend that lives in I think
- 3:27Speaker 1: it's Labanion that she's not too far from leban See.
- 3:31Speaker 2: I also, yeah, it's such a weird dame.
- 3:35Speaker 4: Yah, it's hard to say. It's not an hour from me.
- 3:39Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I've known her for years, but I have
- 3:41Speaker 1: never met her in person. It's it's amazing.
- 3:44Speaker 4: Yeah, that's funny. Maybe I'll have to come out to
- 3:46Speaker 4: Missouri sometimes.
- 3:48Speaker 1: I'm in Faydeville once a month in Arkansas, so it's
- 3:51Speaker 1: not terribly far from there, right, that's not far at all.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Well there we go.
- 3:55Speaker 4: Okay, well then yeah, you can make a trip perfect.
- 3:58Speaker 1: Well let's go all the way back in time. What
- 4:00Speaker 1: is your earliest memory of art?
- 4:03Speaker 2: Oh, my goodness, of art? Okay, I this is so funny.
- 4:08Speaker 2: So I've been a photographer for eleven years, okay. And
- 4:12Speaker 2: I remember being a little girl and just wanting to create.
- 4:18Speaker 4: And do like photo shoots I did.
- 4:19Speaker 2: I did tons of photo shoots with like my cousins,
- 4:22Speaker 2: And I remember being in like the fourth grade and
- 4:25Speaker 2: my dream was to be a national geographic photographer. And
- 4:30Speaker 2: so I've always I've always loved photography and creating. I
- 4:35Speaker 2: was a dancer all growing up, so that's my background.
- 4:40Speaker 2: So I've just always had an appreciation for the arts,
- 4:43Speaker 2: whether that be photography or you know, theater or dance
- 4:49Speaker 2: anything like that. So so really I grew up loving it.
- 4:53Speaker 1: So what kind of dance did you do?
- 4:56Speaker 2: I specialized in like ballet and lyrical contemporary jazz, so
- 5:03Speaker 2: just like the main dance.
- 5:07Speaker 1: Yeah, you never knew that. So how did the photography
- 5:10Speaker 1: come into your life? Then?
- 5:12Speaker 2: So photography came into my life. I have a cousin
- 5:17Speaker 2: who was a very big YouTuber. She was in high school.
- 5:22Speaker 2: She was kind of one of the first daily bloggers.
- 5:25Speaker 4: Wow, And I mean she was making so.
- 5:28Speaker 2: Much money, like we had just we had no idea
- 5:31Speaker 2: like the money that could be made from doing social
- 5:33Speaker 2: media until she started it. And so I would always
- 5:36Speaker 2: help her with like photo shoots or like brand deals,
- 5:39Speaker 2: and from there, she like her friends would ask me
- 5:44Speaker 2: to do shoots, and then from there just kind of
- 5:46Speaker 2: turned into me like shooting for people and then brides
- 5:49Speaker 2: when I mad shot their wedding and I was actually
- 5:53Speaker 2: I used to be a middle school teacher, and so
- 5:56Speaker 2: I did that for a couple of years, and then
- 5:58Speaker 2: it didn't really make sense to keep doing both because
- 6:03Speaker 2: I was so busy with photography. And then eventually I
- 6:06Speaker 2: were shooting about forty weddings a year, well all throughout
- 6:10Speaker 2: the week. Yeah, it got a little crazy, So but yeah,
- 6:14Speaker 2: that's kind of it started.
- 6:17Speaker 1: That forty weddings is a lot, and that's almost one
- 6:22Speaker 1: a week. But then we also have to deal with, yeah,
- 6:25Speaker 1: so many different kind of characters when it comes to chill, brides, bridezillas,
- 6:31Speaker 1: everything in between. Obviously, you know, even when you work
- 6:35Speaker 1: Mma show days like they something always goes wrong and
- 6:39Speaker 1: not everything goes right, so weddings are even worse. So
- 6:42Speaker 1: what how was that experience?
- 6:45Speaker 2: I did it for about eight years, about twenty to
- 6:48Speaker 2: forty weddings a year, and a lot of times I would.
- 6:51Speaker 4: Stack that I've had weddings two in one day.
- 6:54Speaker 2: I've done Friday, Saturday, Sunday weddings where I've shot you know,
- 6:58Speaker 2: three weddings in a weekend, and it was crazy, which
- 7:02Speaker 2: is why I don't really shoot weddings anymore so, but
- 7:06Speaker 2: I do think it gave me the experience to be
- 7:09Speaker 2: able to shoot under pressure, to deal with any sort
- 7:12Speaker 2: of personality.
- 7:13Speaker 4: I've been cussed out at at weddings.
- 7:15Speaker 2: I've dealt with crazy a mother of the brides, mother
- 7:20Speaker 2: of the grooms, and you know what, surprisingly the brides
- 7:23Speaker 2: were fine to deal with. It was more of the
- 7:26Speaker 2: grooms being grumpy about the situation of you know, usually
- 7:30Speaker 2: it's like ninety degrees and they're in a suit and
- 7:32Speaker 2: tie and they just felt want they're too hot. And
- 7:35Speaker 2: so I really think it like I was able to
- 7:38Speaker 2: learn so many things and just work under pressure, and
- 7:41Speaker 2: I feel like that's only helped me in this industry
- 7:44Speaker 2: of media.
- 7:45Speaker 1: So right, so you enjoy taking the before wedding pictures
- 7:50Speaker 1: so like the engagements and the and then later with
- 7:52Speaker 1: the babies and stuff, but maybe the wedding maybe not
- 7:54Speaker 1: so much anymore.
- 7:55Speaker 2: Yeah, I only do select brides now, only like close
- 7:59Speaker 2: press and family and that's really it.
- 8:02Speaker 1: So that's totally understandable. Well, how did you get into
- 8:06Speaker 1: doing it for MMA?
- 8:08Speaker 2: So funny enough, I think the most ironic part about
- 8:12Speaker 2: me doing media for MMA is that I'm not a
- 8:16Speaker 2: part of this world.
- 8:17Speaker 4: I really don't know anything about the sport.
- 8:21Speaker 2: So I am kind of more petite person and I'm
- 8:25Speaker 2: single and I'm by myself a lot.
- 8:28Speaker 4: And my parents were like, we just want you to
- 8:31Speaker 4: do some sort of like self defense just in case you.
- 8:35Speaker 2: I don't know, the world like is getting crazier and
- 8:38Speaker 2: I think, I don't know, some crime was happening within
- 8:43Speaker 2: the country or something.
- 8:44Speaker 4: And my parents, yes all.
- 8:46Speaker 2: The time, but they were like, we just were concerned
- 8:50Speaker 2: and we want you to do some sort of self defense.
- 8:53Speaker 2: And I work out every day and I was kind
- 8:55Speaker 2: of getting bored of my workout schedule and so I
- 8:58Speaker 2: just made an Instagram story and a Facebook post about
- 9:05Speaker 2: any sort of like personal trainer that I could work with.
- 9:08Speaker 2: And Avery Wilson, who is an MMA fighter. He messaged
- 9:15Speaker 2: me and offered me a free session, and I had
- 9:18Speaker 2: no idea he was like an MMA fighter.
- 9:20Speaker 4: I really didn't know what that meant.
- 9:24Speaker 2: So yeah, I agreed to doing a free session with him,
- 9:29Speaker 2: and we hit it off great. We like instantly became friends,
- 9:33Speaker 2: and so he started training me and my best friend.
- 9:36Speaker 4: And then I was like, you know, I'm a photographer.
- 9:39Speaker 2: If you ever need any media done, just let me
- 9:42Speaker 2: know and maybe we could do like a trade or something.
- 9:45Speaker 2: And I started training with him in October and he
- 9:49Speaker 2: had a fight like a couple weeks later in Kansas City.
- 9:54Speaker 4: So he was like, well, come to one of my pro.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Classes and film it and you can just like see
- 9:59Speaker 2: you can just kind of get a feel for if
- 10:01Speaker 2: you want to do that. And so I went, and
- 10:05Speaker 2: I've been doing his media ever since. I took over
- 10:09Speaker 2: do like doing all of his media and tripled his
- 10:14Speaker 2: at least tripled his views. I think probably tripled is following.
- 10:20Speaker 2: And I think Avery he's such a big personality.
- 10:22Speaker 4: He's a heavyweight fighter. He's such a big, funny personality.
- 10:28Speaker 2: So he was just totally willing to do whatever crazy
- 10:31Speaker 2: idea that I had, and we just had so much
- 10:34Speaker 2: fun with it. So I've been doing his media ever since.
- 10:37Speaker 2: And I was very honest with him. I was like,
- 10:41Speaker 2: I don't know anything about your sport. I'm a primarily
- 10:46Speaker 2: a photographer.
- 10:47Speaker 4: I'm not really even a videographer.
- 10:49Speaker 2: I work with like brands and stuff, and I do
- 10:51Speaker 2: like fun content shooting, but I had to learn and
- 10:55Speaker 2: study how to film for fighting, and there's a there's
- 10:59Speaker 2: death only certain techniques that I had to learn. So
- 11:02Speaker 2: there's a lot of studying and a lot of practicing.
- 11:05Speaker 2: But it's been the most amazing journey. I've loved every
- 11:09Speaker 2: second of it.
- 11:10Speaker 1: Yeah, anybody who hasn't seen these videos, they're on your
- 11:12Speaker 1: Instagram and they are hilarious because, like you said, here's
- 11:15Speaker 1: this giant dude, and you get like, especially the one
- 11:17Speaker 1: about you Boston around is really funny, and then getting
- 11:21Speaker 1: him to dance and do all kinds of things, Like, yes.
- 11:23Speaker 2: They're hilarious, yep, he I mean he does what I
- 11:28Speaker 2: what I say, So I definitely around.
- 11:30Speaker 4: I'm not afraid to boss a heavyweight around.
- 11:34Speaker 1: No, I mean because he's like three of you. Yeah,
- 11:39Speaker 1: pretty much what are there? Things? Are there things that
- 11:42Speaker 1: he has said no to?
- 11:46Speaker 4: No, he is not.
- 11:50Speaker 2: And I do work with other fighters as well, and
- 11:54Speaker 2: I can kind of I can gauge energy of like
- 11:56Speaker 2: what they're willing to do. I never make him do
- 11:58Speaker 2: like anything like in a prod or anything like that,
- 12:01Speaker 2: but I pretty much know whenever I'm working with a
- 12:04Speaker 2: fighter what their boundaries are and like what they will
- 12:07Speaker 2: be willing.
- 12:08Speaker 4: To do as far as like goofy stuff.
- 12:10Speaker 1: So, yeah, certain trends work on certain people on social
- 12:14Speaker 1: media and other people know they're just like no, thank you.
- 12:17Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think we have to keep an open
- 12:19Speaker 2: mind as creators that like something's hit and some things
- 12:23Speaker 2: don't hit, and you just have to be willing to
- 12:26Speaker 2: put out the content. And that's kind of when we started.
- 12:29Speaker 2: I was like I I was kind of wondering what
- 12:34Speaker 2: direction to go with doing his media because I wanted
- 12:39Speaker 2: it to be I wanted a course to be about
- 12:43Speaker 2: the training and the fighting, but I didn't want that
- 12:45Speaker 2: to be the only thing, because there's so much more
- 12:47Speaker 2: to the sport than just that. And so I've I
- 12:52Speaker 2: kind of just took on the role of like this
- 12:55Speaker 2: is just Avery's like reality TV show and I'm using
- 12:58Speaker 2: his personality and what he does, and of course the
- 13:02Speaker 2: fighting is just amazing as well.
- 13:05Speaker 4: So there, what have you learn?
- 13:09Speaker 1: Yeah? Know, as human beings, most of the like ninety
- 13:12Speaker 1: something percent are the most amazing, nicest people on the
- 13:14Speaker 1: other on the planet.
- 13:15Speaker 4: Oh, the kindest people you will ever.
- 13:18Speaker 1: There are obviously some psychopaths, but you know that that's everywhere.
- 13:21Speaker 1: So's everywhere, that's everywhere. What what do you think you
- 13:25Speaker 1: learned the most? Now not only your training, but obviously
- 13:29Speaker 1: you're documenting what the sport is as well.
- 13:33Speaker 2: I I just there's so many different aspects to the industry,
- 13:38Speaker 2: and for.
- 13:39Speaker 4: Me not knowing anything, I think was an advantage for me.
- 13:44Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm like, what would an audience member want
- 13:49Speaker 2: to see that doesn't know anything about this, and how
- 13:52Speaker 2: can we get their attention and how how can we
- 13:55Speaker 2: make it more relatable? And from that it's been kind
- 13:59Speaker 2: of amazing. Just like so many females that reach out
- 14:03Speaker 2: to me saying that they want to start boxing because
- 14:07Speaker 2: they finally have like worked up the courage to start.
- 14:10Speaker 2: It's a very intimidating, intimidating sport and it's hard to
- 14:14Speaker 2: get into. So if they see like a normal kind
- 14:16Speaker 2: of girly girl like me get into it.
- 14:18Speaker 4: They're like, oh, you know, maybe I can also do
- 14:21Speaker 4: this as well.
- 14:22Speaker 2: And if anything, it's built my confidence up training and
- 14:28Speaker 2: it's just been so amazing. I'm super grateful. I I
- 14:31Speaker 2: it sounds cheesy, but every time I film a fight night,
- 14:34Speaker 2: I get kind of emotional because for for a fighter
- 14:39Speaker 2: to get into that cage and be so vulnerable and
- 14:43Speaker 2: to just put their whole heart into fighting, it is emotional.
- 14:48Speaker 2: Like we had fight Night in Kansas City, Kansas on
- 14:52Speaker 2: this last Saturday, and the main card it was like
- 14:56Speaker 2: a spiritual experience. It was very emotional and both fighters
- 15:00Speaker 2: were just like the kindest humans ever.
- 15:04Speaker 4: But you know, of course in the cage that a
- 15:07Speaker 4: job is to be done.
- 15:09Speaker 2: So it's just been amazing to learn about it, and
- 15:13Speaker 2: I'm super thankful.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Yeah. I know so many people don't think about the
- 15:18Speaker 1: family aspect of it either, because there's so many of
- 15:20Speaker 1: them that do have wife and kids or girlfriends and
- 15:23Speaker 1: whatever that boyfriends, whatever's happening, Like you just don't know
- 15:28Speaker 1: because they're most times there or they can't bear to
- 15:31Speaker 1: watch it, let alone on TV, or be their lives,
- 15:34Speaker 1: so you know, this person gets done fighting and then
- 15:37Speaker 1: they kind of just have their team, but they don't
- 15:39Speaker 1: have that love person. So it's you know, there's so
- 15:42Speaker 1: many different layers, Like you said, to this whole fight thing,
- 15:44Speaker 1: it's not just train, fight, get paid, you know, Rent repeat,
- 15:48Speaker 1: there's so many different we're all human as well, like
- 15:50Speaker 1: at the.
- 15:50Speaker 2: End of the day, yes, yeah, And so Synergy is
- 15:54Speaker 2: having me interview the fighters and so on Saturday, I
- 15:58Speaker 2: interviewed Nick Mackew's That May event and I actually I
- 16:02Speaker 2: had his girlfriend and his son come on the interview
- 16:06Speaker 2: just to kind of talk about what what how do
- 16:09Speaker 2: you what are the feelings and emotions that go into
- 16:12Speaker 2: watching your spouse go into the cage and and luckily
- 16:17Speaker 2: most spouses that I have talked to are so supportive
- 16:21Speaker 2: and and are they're cheering on their.
- 16:25Speaker 4: Their significant other. So I just think it's amazing.
- 16:29Speaker 1: Have you gone back and watched other fights to kind
- 16:32Speaker 1: of find out more about the sport and the little intricacies.
- 16:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I've definitely done a lot of studying just to
- 16:42Speaker 2: just to learn more about it, and just talking with
- 16:45Speaker 2: Avery and the other pro fighters that are at Teenfusion
- 16:49Speaker 2: and in Springfield Fight Club here locally, and I think
- 16:53Speaker 2: as I train more, I'll just be learning, you know,
- 16:58Speaker 2: learning as I go, And I think that's kind of
- 17:02Speaker 2: the most important role I can have right now, is
- 17:04Speaker 2: just having an open mind of being a sponge really
- 17:08Speaker 2: and learning not only about the business aspect of the industry,
- 17:12Speaker 2: but also the you know, the fighting part too.
- 17:16Speaker 4: There's so many different layers.
- 17:18Speaker 1: Like you said, yeah, yeah, the business aspect is very wonky.
- 17:23Speaker 1: I'll say that depending on where you are, and because
- 17:26Speaker 1: I mean, these men and women have to not only
- 17:29Speaker 1: figure out how they're going to continue to make their
- 17:31Speaker 1: money and pay for the training, but then also how
- 17:34Speaker 1: do I get sponsors? Does this you know, how do
- 17:38Speaker 1: I get more sponsors? How does this company actually allow
- 17:41Speaker 1: me to have sponsors? Like little things like that. And
- 17:43Speaker 1: then again, most of them don't get paid that well,
- 17:47Speaker 1: just by the companies themselves, so they have to continue
- 17:50Speaker 1: to try to get bigger and better sponsors so they
- 17:52Speaker 1: can hopefully make more money to Actually it's all juggling act.
- 17:56Speaker 1: And it's the fact that most of them have to
- 17:58Speaker 1: get managers and also get a cut of it as well.
- 18:01Speaker 1: So it's so weird, it.
- 18:04Speaker 4: Is quite crazy.
- 18:05Speaker 2: And that's that's what I tell fighters, especially younger fighters,
- 18:12Speaker 2: I'm always very honest, and I say, if you want
- 18:15Speaker 2: a future in this sport and you want sponsors, you
- 18:19Speaker 2: have to have a social media presence.
- 18:21Speaker 4: You have to have good media. It's essential, you know.
- 18:25Speaker 4: I feel like our source.
- 18:26Speaker 2: Of of media is US is online and non social
- 18:31Speaker 2: media TikTok and Instagram and Facebook.
- 18:35Speaker 4: It's it's kind of vital to have good media if
- 18:37Speaker 4: you if you want to go somewhere in this sport.
- 18:40Speaker 1: In my opinion, no, without a doubt. And again like yes,
- 18:43Speaker 1: we have regional fighters, but eventually they want to make
- 18:46Speaker 1: it up to the UFC or the like we're seeing
- 18:49Speaker 1: now the Netflix or even one over in Asia. So
- 18:52Speaker 1: I mean there's so many different bigger companies. However, are they,
- 18:56Speaker 1: you know, still getting paid the same but if some
- 18:59Speaker 1: of them are just reaching fightles and there'll always be
- 19:01Speaker 1: regional fighters, yeah for sure. But I mean that's same
- 19:05Speaker 1: thing with minor league baseball and the other sport like that.
- 19:07Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, And I think a lot of the fighters.
- 19:12Speaker 2: They do it because they love it, yes, and the passion,
- 19:16Speaker 2: and I've I've noticed that a lot of them do
- 19:18Speaker 2: have like full time jobs and they just you know,
- 19:20Speaker 2: train and fight because they love it, which I think
- 19:23Speaker 2: is really cool too.
- 19:24Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:24Speaker 1: I've had UFC fighters on here that still have full
- 19:26Speaker 1: time corporate jobs, so it's crazy.
- 19:29Speaker 4: I think that is crazy. I think it's great.
- 19:31Speaker 1: Yeah, well, so what do you think you? I mean,
- 19:35Speaker 1: I'm not going to ask if you ever want to
- 19:37Speaker 1: have a fight yourself.
- 19:37Speaker 2: Because I have been asked that that a lot.
- 19:42Speaker 1: No, I was good. What I was going to ask
- 19:46Speaker 1: was what aspect of MMA training is one of your favorites?
- 19:50Speaker 1: And then what's one that you're like? All right, I'll go,
- 19:52Speaker 1: but I hate this day.
- 19:54Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I just I love hitting mets with Avery
- 20:02Speaker 2: or whoever will hit mets with me.
- 20:04Speaker 4: I love it so much.
- 20:07Speaker 2: I think the hardest part is probably like the strength
- 20:09Speaker 2: and conditioning part.
- 20:10Speaker 4: Avery takes my ass. It was good. Yeah, back to
- 20:15Speaker 4: this past Saturday.
- 20:16Speaker 2: He trained me before I filmed twenty Nights and I'm like, why.
- 20:21Speaker 4: Did I do that? I was I could barely like
- 20:23Speaker 4: hold my camera up?
- 20:24Speaker 1: So how are the how is work and live shows?
- 20:31Speaker 4: It's amazing? I love every second of it. I feel
- 20:34Speaker 4: so thankful.
- 20:36Speaker 2: So Synergy reached out to me and they saw what
- 20:39Speaker 2: I did with Avery, and they were like, You'll be
- 20:42Speaker 2: such a great addition to our team. And really what
- 20:46Speaker 2: I was doing with Avery is what they wanted me
- 20:49Speaker 2: to be doing with them.
- 20:50Speaker 4: So I'm interviewing the fighters.
- 20:52Speaker 2: I'm kind of making them do some silly stuff too,
- 20:56Speaker 2: just to kind of showcase their personalities more and and
- 21:00Speaker 2: a lot of crowd work, so just kind of showing
- 21:02Speaker 2: more of not just the fights.
- 21:05Speaker 4: I do film the fights.
- 21:06Speaker 2: As well, and I edit, you know, like best hits,
- 21:10Speaker 2: best takedowns.
- 21:12Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm filming the fights, but I'm also like
- 21:14Speaker 4: in the crowd, which I absolutely love.
- 21:16Speaker 2: And I've gotten to know some really really amazing people
- 21:21Speaker 2: and sponsors just from doing that, so it's nice.
- 21:24Speaker 1: Well, first for people that haven't heard about Synergy Fights,
- 21:27Speaker 1: tell us about them.
- 21:28Speaker 2: Yeah, so they're a fight promotion here in the Midwest.
- 21:33Speaker 2: They're based out of Pittsburgh, Kansas, and then they do
- 21:36Speaker 2: Fight Night in Springfield and then at Kansas City, Kansas,
- 21:40Speaker 2: and then I mean they're just growing so much.
- 21:42Speaker 4: I'm sure they'll be I'm.
- 21:44Speaker 2: Sure they'll be growing and going to different cities. But
- 21:48Speaker 2: Chris Gregory and Zach Cummings are the owners and they
- 21:52Speaker 2: are just amazing to work for. They're so much fun
- 21:56Speaker 2: and they've really given me the freedom of just taking
- 22:01Speaker 2: on what I think will.
- 22:02Speaker 4: Be best for the role that they've given me.
- 22:05Speaker 2: So they gave me like a this is what we
- 22:08Speaker 2: want you to do, and we trust that you'll do it.
- 22:11Speaker 4: And then they've been really happy and for me, it's
- 22:14Speaker 4: nice that they have that confidence in me. So it's
- 22:17Speaker 4: been great.
- 22:18Speaker 1: Without a doubt that they are like, no, we can
- 22:20Speaker 1: see you can handle it. You're good.
- 22:22Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 22:22Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the biggest photoc conference you can get.
- 22:27Speaker 4: It is it is great.
- 22:29Speaker 1: Well, I mean, speaking of which, tell us more about
- 22:31Speaker 1: McGee Creative.
- 22:33Speaker 2: So McGee Creative is my I guess you say, like
- 22:37Speaker 2: my main business, my bread and butter that I've had
- 22:41Speaker 2: for almost twelve years now. I started when i was
- 22:47Speaker 2: twenty one, twenty two. I'm thirty two now, So I've
- 22:54Speaker 2: I've been doing photography for a very very long time.
- 22:57Speaker 4: Uh, and I've I've been.
- 23:00Speaker 2: With brands for a long time too, But the last
- 23:03Speaker 2: a lot, the last couple of years have really pivoted
- 23:06Speaker 2: into me kind of exclusively working with certain brands and
- 23:10Speaker 2: kind of being more in front of the camera, modeling
- 23:14Speaker 2: and also behind the camera as well, and I feel
- 23:16Speaker 2: like that is something that I really love that brands
- 23:21Speaker 2: will come to me with like an idea, and then
- 23:24Speaker 2: I essentially bring that idea to life. And you know,
- 23:30Speaker 2: I plan sets, I plan style shoots, I get the models,
- 23:35Speaker 2: I model myself, and then if I need to be
- 23:38Speaker 2: behind the camera, I can. But there's a lot of planning,
- 23:42Speaker 2: a lot of planning that goes into like style shoots
- 23:45Speaker 2: for brands, So it's really fun.
- 23:48Speaker 1: How do you enjoy being in front of instead of
- 23:50Speaker 1: behind the camera.
- 23:51Speaker 2: I think I've pretty much had to just do it,
- 23:56Speaker 2: you know. I I've had experience in front of the camera,
- 24:02Speaker 2: but really, like I said, like the last year year
- 24:04Speaker 2: and a half, it's been way more than I could
- 24:08Speaker 2: have ever asked for, and I love it so much.
- 24:13Speaker 2: It's just kind of one of those things where you
- 24:16Speaker 2: can either turn down opportunities.
- 24:19Speaker 4: Because you're scared, or you can just do it and.
- 24:23Speaker 2: Be afraid and just put yourself in uncomfortable situations and
- 24:28Speaker 2: the payoff is just incredible. So I've had some really
- 24:33Speaker 2: really fun experiences.
- 24:35Speaker 1: Yeah, there's the quote you can't grow from a comfortable.
- 24:37Speaker 2: Place, exactly, and I feel like I've definitely put that.
- 24:42Speaker 4: To the test the last year, like okay, and.
- 24:45Speaker 2: Even now I'm like, I've been presented with a couple
- 24:48Speaker 2: of different opportunities of like hosting, and I'm like, I
- 24:51Speaker 2: don't know who I'm really qualified with this, but I
- 24:54Speaker 2: will have to decide if I want to be uncomfortable.
- 24:58Speaker 4: And take the risk.
- 24:59Speaker 1: I guess hosting is it's not I think. I mean,
- 25:03Speaker 1: if you've done everything else, hosting's easy. Like it's just
- 25:07Speaker 1: obviously you're the main focus, but then you get to
- 25:09Speaker 1: you know, kind of pass them all to other people
- 25:11Speaker 1: and it's fun that way.
- 25:13Speaker 2: Yeah, for me, it's like terrifying, but you know, we'll
- 25:17Speaker 2: get there some training.
- 25:19Speaker 1: What is it about that that's that frightened you.
- 25:23Speaker 2: I think just because I've never done it before, and
- 25:25Speaker 2: I don't. I just don't have that experience. So I
- 25:30Speaker 2: think that's the biggest mentally, I think.
- 25:36Speaker 1: Just get the first couple of mistakes out and you'll
- 25:38Speaker 1: be fine.
- 25:39Speaker 4: Yes, exactly.
- 25:42Speaker 1: Well, so like show days and shoot days can be
- 25:44Speaker 1: long days. What are some standards you normally have in
- 25:46Speaker 1: your bag?
- 25:49Speaker 4: What do you like?
- 25:50Speaker 1: What are you talking about, like food or drink or
- 25:53Speaker 1: change of outfits or.
- 25:55Speaker 2: Yeah, so I try to I try to dress as
- 25:58Speaker 2: comfortably as possible but still look cute, because that is
- 26:02Speaker 2: you know, I want to I want to be looking
- 26:04Speaker 2: good for fight night or you know whatever shoot that
- 26:07Speaker 2: I have. So I am a small person. I'm only
- 26:11Speaker 2: five foot tall, and I don't really consume that much
- 26:16Speaker 2: like beforehand, because I want to eat very light. So
- 26:19Speaker 2: I'm just I'm not feeling doggy, so I'll have like
- 26:22Speaker 2: very lean meal with like you know, chicken and veggies
- 26:25Speaker 2: or something light.
- 26:27Speaker 4: And then I always have like.
- 26:28Speaker 2: A chomp in my bag in case I need to
- 26:30Speaker 2: have a little snack. I stay away from like the
- 26:35Speaker 2: concession stands.
- 26:38Speaker 4: And I'm too busy, like especially fight night.
- 26:40Speaker 2: I'm everywhere I'm and I try to drink a lot
- 26:43Speaker 2: of water waters and Mustang hydrated is a must.
- 26:46Speaker 4: And then I will eat like a lot after after.
- 26:51Speaker 2: I'm done, I'm eating a lot.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Do you normally grab the fire plate? So I know,
- 26:58Speaker 1: wrestling shows afterwards, most of us are normally hungry and
- 27:02Speaker 1: we want something to drink, And of course it's late
- 27:04Speaker 1: and so we had to figure out what is and
- 27:06Speaker 1: what isn't open After Mima shows that way too, where
- 27:09Speaker 1: a lot of the fighters are going out together.
- 27:11Speaker 2: And okay, yes, and I even got invited.
- 27:16Speaker 4: By one of the fighters.
- 27:18Speaker 2: He was from Miami and so his whole group invited
- 27:21Speaker 2: me and they were so kind, but I was just like,
- 27:24Speaker 2: I was so tired, I could barely keep my eyes open.
- 27:26Speaker 2: But yes, normally, if I'm you know, in Springfield or
- 27:30Speaker 2: you know, well, all the people that I knew in
- 27:34Speaker 2: Kansas City, they were like already out partying.
- 27:37Speaker 4: So by the time I got done.
- 27:38Speaker 2: So I just went through McDonald's and got like a
- 27:40Speaker 2: chicken sandwich and was like eating it in my hotel room.
- 27:43Speaker 4: But if I am in Springfield, I.
- 27:46Speaker 2: Go out with everyone and we have a good time afterwards.
- 27:49Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes fast food is the way to go on
- 27:52Speaker 1: the way home. That or a waffle house. You can
- 27:55Speaker 1: find one of.
- 27:56Speaker 4: Those, right, yes, exactly.
- 27:59Speaker 1: Now. I saw also that you're a foster mom and
- 28:02Speaker 1: you're you know, uh, I guess regularly your mom multiple ways.
- 28:06Speaker 1: I'll say that I am tell us, tell us how
- 28:10Speaker 1: that's how that is? Like how long have you been
- 28:12Speaker 1: in fostering, because that's amazing.
- 28:14Speaker 2: I've been a foster parent for about four years now.
- 28:18Speaker 2: It's something that I'm very passionate about, and I think
- 28:21Speaker 2: I will always be passionate about it. I think I
- 28:24Speaker 2: will always be a foster parent. I always struggled getting pregnant.
- 28:31Speaker 2: I've done IVF five times.
- 28:33Speaker 1: Whoa yeah, yeah.
- 28:35Speaker 4: So to get my son here, it was it was
- 28:39Speaker 4: a long journey.
- 28:40Speaker 2: And then I actually had to deliver him at twenty
- 28:43Speaker 2: five weeks gestation, so he was it.
- 28:46Speaker 4: Was about this big. He was one pound of eleven
- 28:50Speaker 4: ounces when he was born.
- 28:51Speaker 2: Oh so yeah, I've just kind of I think that's
- 28:57Speaker 2: kind of how I built my following is I was
- 28:58Speaker 2: always very vulnerable with my fertility journey and my journey
- 29:05Speaker 2: with being a nick you mom, and I from there,
- 29:10Speaker 2: I just I don't know, I've just always had a
- 29:11Speaker 2: passion for foster care. I think I think what changed
- 29:14Speaker 2: me is that I was in the nick You in
- 29:17Speaker 2: Saint Louis and I would see babies laying all day.
- 29:23Speaker 2: They would not have any visitors come and their parents
- 29:27Speaker 2: like abandoned them. So they would go into the foster
- 29:31Speaker 2: care system, but they would have to be released from the.
- 29:35Speaker 4: NICKU to get foster care placement.
- 29:39Speaker 2: And I think that just really changed me as a
- 29:42Speaker 2: person of these kids need love, and I really truly
- 29:48Speaker 2: think that if you want to change your community.
- 29:51Speaker 4: In a positive way.
- 29:52Speaker 2: In the world in a positive way, we have to
- 29:55Speaker 2: get involved with foster care and I just I know
- 29:59Speaker 2: that so many foster teens would benefit from boxing or MMA,
- 30:06Speaker 2: whatever sort of martial arts. So my dream is to
- 30:11Speaker 2: kind of incorporate the foster care system teams with the
- 30:16Speaker 2: sport of m m A. I just think it would
- 30:18Speaker 2: be great, great therapy for them.
- 30:21Speaker 1: So that thank you so much for sharing that with us.
- 30:25Speaker 1: And I know that that's not easy to because I
- 30:29Speaker 1: mean again, you're fostering and then hoping they find a
- 30:32Speaker 1: better home and they you know, you still got to
- 30:34Speaker 1: you still give your emotion and your time and your
- 30:37Speaker 1: energy and then they go.
- 30:39Speaker 4: So yeah, it's part of it. It's not easy.
- 30:42Speaker 2: It's hard, but the work has to be done by
- 30:47Speaker 2: some by humans.
- 30:49Speaker 4: So I'll be one of those humans.
- 30:54Speaker 1: Well, thank you for being one of those humans. That's
- 30:56Speaker 1: that's amazing.
- 30:56Speaker 4: Thank you.
- 30:57Speaker 1: And I'm totally with you about I think everybody at
- 31:00Speaker 1: some point needs to learn or just take some martial
- 31:03Speaker 1: art classes in general, like you said, whether it be
- 31:06Speaker 1: for self defense or whether it be for actual you know,
- 31:10Speaker 1: some kind of physical fitness, which everybody at some point
- 31:13Speaker 1: needs to do something for sure. Yeah, but also you
- 31:17Speaker 1: teach you a little bit of discipline as well, because yeah,
- 31:21Speaker 1: you can understand and roughly know how to throw a
- 31:24Speaker 1: punch and kicks or whatever and maybe defend yourself, but
- 31:28Speaker 1: you also have to know when not to do it
- 31:29Speaker 1: as well. And so I think a lot of teens unfortunately,
- 31:33Speaker 1: well all teens have so much angst in them and
- 31:37Speaker 1: so all these hormones and all this energy, so they
- 31:41Speaker 1: need to let it out. But again, they need to
- 31:42Speaker 1: let it out in a proper way. And there's so
- 31:45Speaker 1: many great teachers and coaches out there that I think, Yeah,
- 31:48Speaker 1: I love what you're thinking about that.
- 31:50Speaker 4: Oh agree, I totally agree.
- 31:54Speaker 1: I love that.
- 31:55Speaker 2: Well.
- 31:55Speaker 1: I have a segment I saw. I call it the
- 31:57Speaker 1: five count. It's just five random questions. Number one, what
- 32:01Speaker 1: are you nerding out on? Right now?
- 32:03Speaker 4: What am I nerding out on?
- 32:05Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 32:06Speaker 4: Oh man, hmmm what am I nerding out on?
- 32:15Speaker 2: Like?
- 32:15Speaker 4: I don't even know. Literally all I do is edit
- 32:20Speaker 4: maybe my edits, I don't know. I have like a
- 32:23Speaker 4: million things.
- 32:24Speaker 1: I have to edit. What program do you use for writing?
- 32:27Speaker 2: I use Final Cut, I use after Effects, I use cap.
- 32:31Speaker 4: Cut, I use whatever.
- 32:36Speaker 1: Number two, if you owned a liquor company, brewery, winery,
- 32:39Speaker 1: coffee shop, or dispensary, which one would you own and
- 32:41Speaker 1: what would the name be?
- 32:44Speaker 4: Oh hmmm, I don't know. Probably probably a coffee shop.
- 32:58Speaker 4: If I don't know what I would name it. Man,
- 33:00Speaker 4: you're really hitting me harder.
- 33:02Speaker 1: Than these questions.
- 33:04Speaker 4: I don't know what I would name it. I have
- 33:07Speaker 4: to think about that more, but it would be a
- 33:10Speaker 4: coffee shop.
- 33:11Speaker 1: I love that. Number three. Who is your first celebrity crush?
- 33:16Speaker 4: My first celebrity crush. This is gonna sound so crazy,
- 33:21Speaker 4: but Travis Barker.
- 33:24Speaker 1: I get it.
- 33:26Speaker 4: He's still my celebrity crush.
- 33:29Speaker 1: He's yeah, he's weirdly. I can see that he's weirdly attracting.
- 33:32Speaker 1: Apparently he's the nicest guy, will do anything for his
- 33:34Speaker 1: fans too.
- 33:36Speaker 4: It's sweet.
- 33:37Speaker 1: Number four, Who are what inspires you?
- 33:46Speaker 2: I think the person that inspires me the most are
- 33:49Speaker 2: my parents, because I became single at age thirty one.
- 33:58Speaker 4: And I was like, I'm going to go back to teaching.
- 34:01Speaker 2: I need more stability, I you know, I need to
- 34:05Speaker 2: you know, have like a safe option. And my parents
- 34:09Speaker 2: stapped me down and they were like, you are too
- 34:11Speaker 2: creative and too, you've worked too hard to because I
- 34:16Speaker 2: was going to like give up photography completely and go
- 34:20Speaker 2: back to teaching just so I could have like stability,
- 34:22Speaker 2: because it's scary. I don't have any sort of like
- 34:26Speaker 2: financial help.
- 34:27Speaker 4: At all, and so yeah, it's scary as a single mom.
- 34:32Speaker 2: And my parents were like, you are too talented and
- 34:36Speaker 2: creative to do that.
- 34:38Speaker 4: And they were like, we're not letting you.
- 34:41Speaker 2: And they're like we know that you have a future
- 34:44Speaker 2: and creating and you just have to follow that passion.
- 34:48Speaker 4: And so that I was like on my bedroom floor
- 34:51Speaker 4: like crying. I was like I can't. They're like, no,
- 34:54Speaker 4: you're going to stick it out and you're going to
- 34:56Speaker 4: keep going. And I'm so glad that.
- 34:58Speaker 2: I'm so glad that I listened to the because it's
- 35:01Speaker 2: led me to so many amazing opportunities and I know
- 35:06Speaker 2: that this is just the beginning.
- 35:09Speaker 4: I'm excited.
- 35:10Speaker 1: Shout out to your parents. That's awesome. And number five,
- 35:13Speaker 1: what would you tell your seventeen year old self?
- 35:16Speaker 4: I would tell my seventeen year old self.
- 35:22Speaker 2: To do.
- 35:25Speaker 4: Exactly what your heart is telling you to do.
- 35:31Speaker 1: Love that.
- 35:32Speaker 2: Yeah, so I got married at a very young age.
- 35:36Speaker 2: I got married at nineteen. It's barely nineteen, wow, And
- 35:40Speaker 2: I think that if I were to do it over again,
- 35:43Speaker 2: I wouldn't do.
- 35:43Speaker 1: That ye needfully developed yet exactly now, if people want
- 35:50Speaker 1: to find out more about you, follow you online, support
- 35:52Speaker 1: you in any way they can, how can they do so?
- 35:55Speaker 2: So I'm on Instagram at Alex McGee, but with four ease,
- 36:00Speaker 2: and then Alex Media on TikTok and then Alex Media
- 36:04Speaker 2: on Facebook, and.
- 36:05Speaker 4: Those three places are really where I post the most.
- 36:09Speaker 1: There we go, Alex. Thank you so much for your time,
- 36:11Speaker 1: and thank you for being so open about everything. So again,
- 36:14Speaker 1: like you said, this is just the beginning and I
- 36:16Speaker 1: can't wait to see what the future holds for you.
- 36:18Speaker 4: Thank you so much.
- 36:18Speaker 2: I appreciate you, and let me know if you're ever
- 36:20Speaker 2: in Springfield we can go hang out.
- 36:22Speaker 1: I love that. Thank you so much Alex for being
- 36:35Speaker 1: on the show again. Definitely make sure to follow her
- 36:38Speaker 1: on social media because she's doing absolutely incredible things and
- 36:41Speaker 1: I can't wait again to see what the future holds
- 36:43Speaker 1: for me, for her, not me. Thank you again, Alex
- 36:45Speaker 1: for being on the show, and thank you so much
- 36:47Speaker 1: for being so I'll open and honest about everything You've
- 36:49Speaker 1: gone through and again you are more than welcome back
- 36:52Speaker 1: to the show. I'll come up to Springfield. We'll do
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