Latest / Vanity Farah with Chris Farah / 90 Day The Single Life Season 5, Episode5 “The Art of Micro-Cheating” with Jake “Poodle” Anthony of Reality Gays
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- 0:04Speaker 1: Hi there, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name is
- 0:06Speaker 1: Chris Farah. I am super excited to talk to you
- 0:09Speaker 1: guys with my beautiful, very very close friend Slash co
- 0:13Speaker 1: host for today's episode, talking about one of the greatest
- 0:15Speaker 1: shows of all time. It's ninety Day to Single Life.
- 0:17Speaker 1: It's season five, it's episode five. It's the Art of
- 0:20Speaker 1: micro cheating with my friend and yours. It's Jake Poodle
- 0:24Speaker 1: Anthony from Reality Gaze. Hello him, Chris Sarah. If you
- 0:30Speaker 1: can be Farah, can I be Vanity? Of course you can.
- 0:34Speaker 1: If you are seeing this on like either Patreon or YouTube,
- 0:36Speaker 1: I will tell you you have a golden like I
- 0:38Speaker 1: can't tell if you're tan. Are you tan right now?
- 0:41Speaker 1: Or I'm delighting.
- 0:43Speaker 2: This is a little bit of lightning. But it's also
- 0:46Speaker 2: that my trainer beat the shit out of me. So
- 0:49Speaker 2: my face is a little red, and it's the glow
- 0:51Speaker 2: of survival that I survived whatever he threw at me
- 0:56Speaker 2: today in my training session.
- 0:58Speaker 1: The afterglow of after life. Yeah, yeah, it's it's me.
- 1:02Speaker 1: I doubt it.
- 1:03Speaker 2: I was going to live for a while and this
- 1:06Speaker 2: is me saying my body survived.
- 1:09Speaker 1: So there's no glow light survival. No, that's true, that's true.
- 1:13Speaker 1: That's why. I mean, the truth of the matter is
- 1:15Speaker 1: like pay people to terrify us, and then you see
- 1:18Speaker 1: all this show. The globe of some of the people
- 1:22Speaker 1: on the show is testimony to that. Look at Bully
- 1:25Speaker 1: and look at Liz, you know, like have her having
- 1:28Speaker 1: weather to storm of men? Yes, oh, come out Phoenixes. Honey,
- 1:32Speaker 1: looks so good, great highlights, both of them. I know
- 1:36Speaker 1: I won't.
- 1:36Speaker 2: I want so much better for Liz. I just want
- 1:39Speaker 2: I want the world for her me too. I also
- 1:42Speaker 2: don't need Sophie to be like a ridiculator.
- 1:45Speaker 1: I hate her. I can't wait, I can't wait. Okay,
- 1:47Speaker 1: I was gonna start with Kimbilly. Let's just go into
- 1:49Speaker 1: them because I mean, just I hate her. Oh my god, Okay,
- 1:52Speaker 1: let's I don't want to hate. Like, here's the thing.
- 1:55Speaker 1: Sophie is a traumatized woman who honestly hates her some
- 2:00Speaker 1: parts of herself that she should and then just now
- 2:03Speaker 1: is like, yeah, changing everything. She looks so vastly different.
- 2:07Speaker 1: She obviously has a lot of like things she has
- 2:09Speaker 1: to work on, but the way it comes out and
- 2:11Speaker 1: the way it's coming out at Liz, who is a
- 2:13Speaker 1: dealing with cancer right now. And the way that Julia,
- 2:16Speaker 1: who I usually like, is being roped into this very
- 2:19Speaker 1: mean girl situation, it's like a hard watch.
- 2:22Speaker 2: I I'm hesitant to label someone a mean girl unless
- 2:26Speaker 2: they completely go there.
- 2:28Speaker 1: Uh so he's a mean girl. Yeah, this is this
- 2:31Speaker 1: is bad.
- 2:32Speaker 2: This is it's also someone who gets in trouble and
- 2:35Speaker 2: immediately and where things don't go her way and immediately
- 2:38Speaker 2: blames another woman instead of all the other men that
- 2:42Speaker 2: are around her.
- 2:43Speaker 1: That part, Yeah, I hate that so much and it's
- 2:47Speaker 1: so true.
- 2:48Speaker 2: Yep, she's that's she'll she'll do that and even though
- 2:51Speaker 2: she'll she'll like and Pedro. The worst thing is Pedro
- 2:55Speaker 2: has kind of dismissed her and kind of is playing
- 2:58Speaker 2: with her, and she's she's constant texting him, y'all.
- 3:01Speaker 1: She's that girl, Yes she is. She's like never wanted
- 3:04Speaker 1: him more, you know, like she never wanted him more
- 3:07Speaker 1: until until she had him, and then she got like
- 3:11Speaker 1: a mild ick and then she wanted to be like
- 3:14Speaker 1: this guy like me so much that she gave off
- 3:16Speaker 1: a weird vibe to him and his friends. And then
- 3:20Speaker 1: instead of like owning up to it, was like, well,
- 3:22Speaker 1: I still want him to worship me. And then he
- 3:24Speaker 1: was a normal person and went to Liz, and Liz
- 3:27Speaker 1: is enjoying her whole ass life with Villa right now,
- 3:31Speaker 1: and the same time, it's so hot. Jesus, he's getting
- 3:35Speaker 1: hotter every episode. He's so hot to me.
- 3:38Speaker 2: I'm just like the hot the the red flag was
- 3:41Speaker 2: the giant libra tattoo.
- 3:45Speaker 1: As a Libra, I thought that was a red flag.
- 3:51Speaker 2: Yeah, and would you I've dated one before. I don't
- 3:57Speaker 2: recommend it. I'm still shocked that he was decisive enough
- 4:01Speaker 2: to figure out where to put that enormous labor tattoo,
- 4:03Speaker 2: because we're.
- 4:03Speaker 1: Usually not he committed at that one moment. Did Boy,
- 4:09Speaker 1: he committed? Did he? It's huge?
- 4:11Speaker 2: Yeah, it's as as one of the more quote unquote
- 4:15Speaker 2: problematic signs.
- 4:17Speaker 1: I don't know if I would advertise it. Oh, that's
- 4:19Speaker 1: so funny. I love that. I love that you guys
- 4:21Speaker 1: know that, because it's like, I'll be honest as I
- 4:24Speaker 1: think a completely unproblematic sign, like and you're not. By
- 4:28Speaker 1: the way, Libra's not the worst. Unproblematic's definitely not the worst.
- 4:31Speaker 1: We're not Leo's or Gemini's. Yeah, Leo Leo's.
- 4:37Speaker 2: There's some good things about Leo's. Leo's are known as
- 4:41Speaker 2: just the attention whoreors of the world. But in a
- 4:44Speaker 2: in a in a in a grounded Leo, it's you
- 4:46Speaker 2: can find a lot of good things. I've I've had
- 4:49Speaker 2: that and I've had my response different things with him. Geminis,
- 4:53Speaker 2: for specially, men, I've been kind of screwed. Uh, same
- 4:57Speaker 2: thing with male virgos. M Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was
- 5:01Speaker 2: gonna say virgos.
- 5:02Speaker 1: Virgos are known as being like anal retentive and like superstructured,
- 5:04Speaker 1: super organ organized, you know, usually big noses, strong notice
- 5:08Speaker 1: I should say strong noses.
- 5:10Speaker 2: That's true with the virgos. I know, my mother's a Gemini.
- 5:12Speaker 2: So that tells you everything you need to know.
- 5:14Speaker 1: Yeah, back of me, you have back and forth to face,
- 5:16Speaker 1: do you know? Like yeah, okay, so uh let's just
- 5:20Speaker 1: ook it. So this is where we are. They're obviously
- 5:22Speaker 1: fighting when we're talking about Sophie, we're talking about Julia,
- 5:25Speaker 1: we're talking about Liz. Sophie's obviously yelling at Liz about whatever,
- 5:28Speaker 1: and Liz has like been apologizing but also doesn't really
- 5:31Speaker 1: know what she's apologizing about because in her mind, her
- 5:34Speaker 1: conversation with Pedro was maybe crossing the line in the
- 5:38Speaker 1: sense that Sophie wished she didn't say shit, and Liz
- 5:40Speaker 1: was like, well, I was started being honest and trying
- 5:42Speaker 1: to juggle whatevery what had happened before us, and then
- 5:45Speaker 1: she was trying to soften the situation.
- 5:48Speaker 2: She was trying to kind of say, hey, she's healing,
- 5:51Speaker 2: give her some time.
- 5:53Speaker 1: And the thing is, Sophie wanted to be the one
- 5:55Speaker 1: because what Sophie wanted to do is the my favorite
- 5:59Speaker 1: move is the no, no no, but come here, no no, no,
- 6:03Speaker 1: but come here. And uh.
- 6:06Speaker 2: The thing is, with Liz kind of saying she needs time, Pedro.
- 6:09Speaker 1: Kind of went uh oh.
- 6:11Speaker 2: And so what happened was Sophie Sophie wasn't able to
- 6:16Speaker 2: handle it herself and and that so that she got
- 6:20Speaker 2: pissed off.
- 6:21Speaker 1: M M yeah, she feels like Liz cock or like
- 6:25Speaker 1: pussy blocker or whatever, you know, like in a way,
- 6:27Speaker 1: and you're right, Sophie would have loved a time in
- 6:30Speaker 1: which fan language was happening. Sophie would have loved like
- 6:33Speaker 1: a come hither, don't you dare? But at the same time,
- 6:37Speaker 1: you know, yes, so basically at this point, Liz literally
- 6:42Speaker 1: is like I could be dead in two years, which
- 6:45Speaker 1: is like, shut the fuck up, you stupid bitches. You know,
- 6:48Speaker 1: this is so dumb. And then Julie's like, do you
- 6:50Speaker 1: want to go see doctor? And for a moment I
- 6:53Speaker 1: forgot that there was a man that was a doctor
- 6:58Speaker 1: that the true certainly didn't. Yeah, like for some reason,
- 7:01Speaker 1: because this was like episode and that man had happened
- 7:03Speaker 1: the other episode, you really didn't see him. I forgot that.
- 7:05Speaker 1: And then I was like, Julie, are you asking her?
- 7:07Speaker 1: She's like, if she's that upset that she's gonna go
- 7:09Speaker 1: to a doctor.
- 7:10Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh no, remember y'all, that
- 7:13Speaker 2: is the doctor they found at a tourist bar by himself,
- 7:20Speaker 2: who just likes to go get drinks at a touristy bar,
- 7:24Speaker 2: who looks.
- 7:24Speaker 1: Like that, who looks like a goddamn model, smising up
- 7:31Speaker 1: and down, honey, who would have taken all the tyra
- 7:33Speaker 1: beatings in the early two thousand Yes, you know, yes.
- 7:36Speaker 2: Yes, so just like a homeless person, all of it. Yeah,
- 7:44Speaker 2: switch faces if you needed.
- 7:45Speaker 1: To, honey, whatever domestic violence, you know, like, oh it
- 7:50Speaker 1: was a wild time, says a different time. It's not
- 7:54Speaker 1: her fault. It was the time's fault and also probably
- 7:57Speaker 1: everyone and yours is the time gonna come for you?
- 8:01Speaker 1: So thank you for pointing a finger at me. Oh
- 8:03Speaker 1: oh that was my favorite quote.
- 8:05Speaker 2: Yes, I the time will come for you when you'll
- 8:08Speaker 2: have to be I love the threat. I love a
- 8:10Speaker 2: veiled threat mixed with nonchalance, complete and utter nonchalance. I know, y'all,
- 8:17Speaker 2: if you haven't watched this documentary, you must.
- 8:19Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all obviously referencing the America's Next Top Model documentary.
- 8:22Speaker 1: And something happened at the very end when this is
- 8:24Speaker 1: what she says. And I agree because at one point
- 8:25Speaker 1: I was like, we what does she have on me?
- 8:27Speaker 1: I mean, what's gonna come out?
- 8:29Speaker 2: Right?
- 8:30Speaker 1: Yes?
- 8:31Speaker 2: What about and they will come for you? I was like, okay, oh, do.
- 8:35Speaker 1: You have pictures of me and my last husband? I've
- 8:39Speaker 1: done nothing and nothing's happened, you know, I don't know anyway.
- 8:42Speaker 1: But so then okay, let me get back to this.
- 8:44Speaker 1: And I think this is so shitty that this was
- 8:45Speaker 1: is interesting about girlhood. So then what happens is so
- 8:49Speaker 1: Sophia this whole time is making a fucking mountain out
- 8:51Speaker 1: of mohill and then at the you know, making this
- 8:53Speaker 1: a whole thing. And now because Liz is awesome and
- 8:57Speaker 1: she's had this hot ass connection where she made out
- 8:59Speaker 1: in a hot wait last episode with Villa, and now
- 9:01Speaker 1: Villa's here, she's crying to I don't know, Pedro's like
- 9:04Speaker 1: fucking best friend and being like this bitchy ass coun
- 9:07Speaker 1: over now is yelling, yelling at me, well, I'm about
- 9:10Speaker 1: to tell you have cancer, so you're gonna, I mean,
- 9:11Speaker 1: and also making my life a goddamn hell for no reason.
- 9:14Speaker 1: We just had a great day kayaking. So now Sophie
- 9:16Speaker 1: even looks crazier and she like is only literally yelling
- 9:20Speaker 1: at Lisam across the bar and making herself look person
- 9:23Speaker 1: ever ever, shut up, shut up.
- 9:28Speaker 2: It also tells you this is this is not behavior.
- 9:33Speaker 2: By the way, Sophie is now twenty five years old
- 9:37Speaker 2: and she's still acting like she's fourteen. Now, as I've
- 9:42Speaker 2: said before, I don't know how much we can expect
- 9:45Speaker 2: that of someone who had to nark can her own
- 9:47Speaker 2: mother when she was growing up, because I know watched
- 9:51Speaker 2: her mother, she watched her mother od I mean, But
- 9:55Speaker 2: at the same time, she's still going on reality television,
- 9:58Speaker 2: and you gotta be aware of some of the things.
- 10:02Speaker 2: I'm just kind of over it. I'm over the the
- 10:05Speaker 2: mean girl like fourteen year old behavior. I'm over it absolutely.
- 10:09Speaker 1: Yeah, Like this woman has obviously worshiped the Kardashians this
- 10:12Speaker 1: whole time, so yes, she so at some point, you
- 10:16Speaker 1: know whatever. So yeah, that is what happens. And then
- 10:19Speaker 1: the next day we get a little like Julia and
- 10:22Speaker 1: Sophie playing to slide. I like a slide. Now I'll
- 10:26Speaker 1: say this about this picture. I do like this two
- 10:29Speaker 1: piece that Sophie's wearing Julia. Julia says, the better look
- 10:34Speaker 1: Julia looks like and I mean this in the best
- 10:36Speaker 1: possible way, a mother of four who like, laundry day
- 10:41Speaker 1: was last Monday, and unfortunately she has to clean the
- 10:46Speaker 1: house and she has to put two pieces of clothing
- 10:49Speaker 1: on that are left. And so she has a blue
- 10:53Speaker 1: cheetah bra and gray shorts with black like kind of
- 10:59Speaker 1: like high top kind of sneakers with ankle socks like
- 11:02Speaker 1: she's too young for ankle socks. Like. And I know
- 11:05Speaker 1: that she's pregnant, and I've been knowing she's pregnant, and
- 11:07Speaker 1: at this point, the timeline of not evenant for four years.
- 11:10Speaker 1: This altfit's hideous.
- 11:12Speaker 2: It's also very Russians on vacation. To be fair, if
- 11:15Speaker 2: you've ever seen Russians on vacation, she's.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Not but yes, I know, but she's a young woman.
- 11:20Speaker 1: When she was dancing in the jazzer size exercise, it's
- 11:24Speaker 1: always an excusable.
- 11:25Speaker 2: I also thought when you just showed that, my first
- 11:27Speaker 2: thought was someone dressed a mannequin in underwear, and then
- 11:31Speaker 2: they thought she needed more modesty, so they put gray
- 11:34Speaker 2: shorts on her.
- 11:38Speaker 1: It's not good, no good.
- 11:40Speaker 2: I would I think if I was on camera, I
- 11:43Speaker 2: gotta say, I understand why Darcy and Stacey do what
- 11:47Speaker 2: they do on camera. Because I was on camera like this,
- 11:50Speaker 2: every one of my fits would be thought out. I guess.
- 11:53Speaker 2: I guess people you just forget after a while. I
- 11:57Speaker 2: just would have never shown up that way. I give
- 11:59Speaker 2: a lot of pas to people who are Eastern European
- 12:01Speaker 2: because fashion is just not much on their radars.
- 12:05Speaker 1: It's just not especially Russians. It's always like like excuse me,
- 12:09Speaker 1: like that's a different thing.
- 12:12Speaker 2: That's a different thing. But a lot of a lot
- 12:14Speaker 2: of Russians it's like thirty years behind. It's just that's
- 12:17Speaker 2: what they do.
- 12:18Speaker 1: I I can hear you.
- 12:20Speaker 2: I travel in Europe and you will see the worst
- 12:22Speaker 2: fashions among among the Russian tourists.
- 12:24Speaker 1: You're not wrong, You're not wrong. You know. I don't
- 12:27Speaker 1: think Germans are that great. They're not.
- 12:29Speaker 2: They just wear really short things, the men and the women.
- 12:34Speaker 2: Shorts on the men as least shorts.
- 12:38Speaker 1: I do. I don't know how to a German accent.
- 12:40Speaker 1: Yeah I do, I felt, yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you?
- 12:43Speaker 1: Think you could? I fail some Oh my god, that's
- 12:47Speaker 1: why you're literally like a musical genius. You're an audit.
- 12:49Speaker 1: Twelies I got.
- 12:50Speaker 2: I lived in Austria for two years, so you got
- 12:54Speaker 2: oh when I was in my twenties.
- 12:57Speaker 1: I knew in your twenties.
- 13:00Speaker 2: No, after I knew you, Yeah, after you knew me,
- 13:03Speaker 2: I mean after I moved here, before I moved here
- 13:06Speaker 2: to laved in Germany for or lived in Austria for
- 13:10Speaker 2: two years.
- 13:10Speaker 1: Wow, you think you know someone? You think I got one?
- 13:14Speaker 2: I got so many secrets and stories.
- 13:17Speaker 1: Well, I was like, I knew you and your twenties,
- 13:19Speaker 1: like we're but do you know what that's so? That's great?
- 13:22Speaker 2: When I was twenty four, I've basically rid out of
- 13:25Speaker 2: grad school.
- 13:26Speaker 1: Wow, that's great, that's the time to do it.
- 13:28Speaker 2: Yep.
- 13:28Speaker 1: It was either go to New York or Europe or
- 13:30Speaker 1: wherever you want to go, do something, do something in
- 13:32Speaker 1: that pocket, honey.
- 13:33Speaker 2: I was working for Operetta, was working for an Operetta company,
- 13:36Speaker 2: and we toured. We were in Vienna, and then we
- 13:38Speaker 2: were in Gratz where we were based, and then Saltzburg
- 13:41Speaker 2: in the north.
- 13:42Speaker 1: Oh fancy, just roll around.
- 13:44Speaker 2: And then I met a lot of German speakers and
- 13:46Speaker 2: a lot of Germans, and a lot of checks and
- 13:49Speaker 2: a lot I banged a lot of them. Oh you
- 13:54Speaker 2: went tour, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it.
- 13:57Speaker 1: Was a grad that was a grad tour of a
- 13:58Speaker 1: different time. Good time. Oh my god. Okay. So basically
- 14:04Speaker 1: just you know, you know, God bless. At this point,
- 14:06Speaker 1: Sophie turns around to a victim because she's like, look,
- 14:08Speaker 1: all this happened because I don't really ever speak up
- 14:11Speaker 1: for myself. And obviously what I wish she would say
- 14:13Speaker 1: is about remember my fucking crazy as drunk addicted brother.
- 14:16Speaker 1: But at this point she's like, I was in a
- 14:17Speaker 1: relationship for five years where I couldn't speak up for myself,
- 14:19Speaker 1: and I was like, no, but okay, that's Rob's ful.
- 14:23Speaker 2: It maybe kind of feel bad for Rob, and that's
- 14:26Speaker 2: crazy to say that is wild.
- 14:30Speaker 1: What I was like, No, no, yeah, it's she.
- 14:38Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think this said it is
- 14:41Speaker 2: gonna come out the way she wants it to. Oh yeah,
- 14:44Speaker 2: I don't think this is going to be a good
- 14:46Speaker 2: edit for her.
- 14:47Speaker 1: You know what, I agree with you. I think that
- 14:49Speaker 1: all of this is usually what she does in her
- 14:50Speaker 1: social life, but she doesn't had to do it on
- 14:52Speaker 1: you know, like none of a fiance, because she only
- 14:54Speaker 1: had she got to do a common enemy against Rob.
- 14:56Speaker 2: But without without Rob next to her, she shows her
- 15:00Speaker 2: true colors.
- 15:01Speaker 1: Yes, because now her enemies are women and they she
- 15:05Speaker 1: and literally she picked a cancer fucking patient. She literally,
- 15:07Speaker 1: I mean I just would never. I can't even imagine
- 15:11Speaker 1: even thinking I would do that, or even as a
- 15:14Speaker 1: comedy writer even thinking it's like literally the no go
- 15:17Speaker 1: this This person is so vapidly unaware. And yeah, she
- 15:23Speaker 1: thinks that all this is kibneuver. Well that's why I
- 15:25Speaker 1: bring up her crying to Villas. I'm like, you don't
- 15:27Speaker 1: even know how bad that looks like yeah, if she should.
- 15:30Speaker 1: I mean, if if Paedro like ends up being with
- 15:32Speaker 1: her after all of this and after like seeing this,
- 15:34Speaker 1: like I think that you wouldn't be a dignified person,
- 15:37Speaker 1: you know, yeah, for sure, totally. Okay, let's move on.
- 15:41Speaker 1: I want to save Courtney for last, because of course
- 15:42Speaker 1: she's my favorite. Of what happens, Let's move on to Kimbali.
- 15:46Speaker 1: So she meants she meets up with Jamal her Son
- 15:48Speaker 1: and Josh, And now I realize, you know, yeah, like
- 15:52Speaker 1: Josh is on single life, and this is how he's
- 15:54Speaker 1: in it. You know, like he's he's there. He's not
- 15:57Speaker 1: dating anyone unless you miss Kimberly. You know, it's not
- 16:02Speaker 1: he is so flirty.
- 16:03Speaker 2: We met him at the Christmas party he did, and yes,
- 16:10Speaker 2: go ahead, he was extremely flirty, like with everybody there.
- 16:13Speaker 2: And I get it. I get the I get it.
- 16:18Speaker 2: I was kind of with you know.
- 16:20Speaker 1: It's it's interesting because when you get to see some
- 16:24Speaker 1: people in real life, you get to really experience they're
- 16:27Speaker 1: unabashed sexual energy in real life. And like as the podcasters,
- 16:30Speaker 1: if we listen to any of the podcasters, like across
- 16:33Speaker 1: the board, you've talked about Rob you know, or you know,
- 16:35Speaker 1: what was like to meet Rob in real life? Or
- 16:37Speaker 1: what's it like to meet you know, Florian in real life?
- 16:40Speaker 1: You know God? Okay, yeah, you obviously wouldn't you meet
- 16:45Speaker 1: anyone in real life? And that's like the visceral energy
- 16:47Speaker 1: of like, why you should Josh on your screens? Josh
- 16:51Speaker 1: has one two, Josh has one too. The thing about
- 16:53Speaker 1: Josh is I had an opinion about him going into
- 16:57Speaker 1: the show, which is that I never really thought that
- 16:59Speaker 1: he would. I think that he, you know, genuinely didn't
- 17:01Speaker 1: seem like he was making decisions from a like in
- 17:04Speaker 1: a place of goodwill, like of someone who wanted love
- 17:07Speaker 1: or wanted like a good relationship with someoneterists. Yes, I
- 17:09Speaker 1: don't know this person is you obviously wants to be famous,
- 17:12Speaker 1: and I don't always stand the modeling thing. And then I
- 17:15Speaker 1: just feel like it was just a lot of him
- 17:17Speaker 1: being kind of a weird looking fuck boy that like
- 17:20Speaker 1: was stringing her along but also want to make her
- 17:22Speaker 1: look crazy and then be like, look, look see it's
- 17:24Speaker 1: not me but us being like you're there, I don't
- 17:26Speaker 1: make it. And so when I met him, I could
- 17:29Speaker 1: not have like a little energy of being like I
- 17:31Speaker 1: only know what to think of you. Your I wouldn't
- 17:33Speaker 1: be I wouldn't do what you did, and I don't
- 17:35Speaker 1: know what to make of you. I will say that
- 17:39Speaker 1: it makes me happy to see Kimberly happy with him
- 17:42Speaker 1: because he's like flirting with her.
- 17:44Speaker 2: He's like, he's like the kind of guy who flirt
- 17:46Speaker 2: with your grandmother of course, uh and you know that
- 17:51Speaker 2: kind of but y'all, She's like, oh my bro. But
- 17:55Speaker 2: kim So kim Bally is gonna completely go for it.
- 17:59Speaker 1: Josh's let's make Jamal crazy.
- 18:01Speaker 2: And uh, I think you know what, I think maybe
- 18:06Speaker 2: our your your relationships a little tenuous as it is
- 18:09Speaker 2: after you catfished him saying you were you catfish your
- 18:13Speaker 2: adopted son.
- 18:15Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe take it easy on your kid for a while,
- 18:19Speaker 1: like his like bff, he's making videos with, you know.
- 18:22Speaker 1: At the same time, it's like also Kimberly's like, I
- 18:25Speaker 1: get to be the like a video ho you know,
- 18:27Speaker 1: like this time it's not him talk about that the
- 18:32Speaker 1: biggest views the most of you is I she listen.
- 18:35Speaker 1: She looks great and blue. By the way, the amount
- 18:37Speaker 1: of times I've seen her in blue, Like I'm so
- 18:39Speaker 1: happy that someone did her color theory for her and
- 18:41Speaker 1: then also makes you feel like someone should do for me.
- 18:43Speaker 2: What yes, right, I know, I totally agree. I love
- 18:45Speaker 2: the glow up, I like.
- 18:48Speaker 3: The hair, the bomb right, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's the
- 18:54Speaker 3: The umber is a little dated for me, but uh,
- 18:58Speaker 3: I feel like the things she had on.
- 19:01Speaker 1: You're probably gonna show clips of this.
- 19:02Speaker 2: But the white thing was I like better than the
- 19:05Speaker 2: the fit that she I.
- 19:07Speaker 1: Only have the fit. Yeah, I don't have the one.
- 19:09Speaker 1: This is the fit.
- 19:11Speaker 2: I can't say if I saw my mother going out
- 19:13Speaker 2: into it in it, I would say, well, my mother
- 19:18Speaker 2: is going to have sex with a stranger. That's what
- 19:21Speaker 2: I would think.
- 19:23Speaker 1: My first thought was, is Kipili wearing a bra? Because
- 19:27Speaker 1: I don't see one at all, and her titties look
- 19:31Speaker 1: really firm, which makes no sense for what fucking Jamal says,
- 19:36Speaker 1: which is if I brought home a date and her
- 19:39Speaker 1: Google googlees great goog Now. I when I heard that,
- 19:44Speaker 1: I was like, that's one of the rudest things I
- 19:45Speaker 1: ever fucking heard. Googly Google. You can't call a booby
- 19:47Speaker 1: a googly mog. They're called titties.
- 19:49Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think they have a very boundary rich
- 19:55Speaker 2: relationship I.
- 19:56Speaker 1: Wonder she got her titties done because because they looked great.
- 20:00Speaker 1: I think she did. Because he's not a bra. I
- 20:02Speaker 1: don't where's the bra?
- 20:03Speaker 2: Well maybe where like so I don't is I don't
- 20:07Speaker 2: they do look like they are standing at attention.
- 20:10Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, that's a good point there, that's true. Josh
- 20:14Speaker 1: Is you know, was like, what you know, I'm glad
- 20:22Speaker 1: he's not on this episode. No, it's just the joy
- 20:26Speaker 1: watch out for the tell All. Honeyb Yeah, by the way,
- 20:29Speaker 1: they call hot.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Jamal looks oh in that drill dress. Do you see
- 20:33Speaker 2: the meat he tuck?
- 20:34Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe me. I tried to take a picture
- 20:36Speaker 1: of it, but then I was like, you know what,
- 20:37Speaker 1: that's really awkward. Don't do that. But I thought about it.
- 20:40Speaker 1: I would say what he he is? I don't know
- 20:43Speaker 1: if we talked about this on our show.
- 20:45Speaker 2: He was at the hotel we were at just in
- 20:47Speaker 2: New York for because they were filming the tell All.
- 20:49Speaker 2: He was he was on my floor, Jamal, and because
- 20:52Speaker 2: I was walking out, Uh, this is lower, this is
- 20:55Speaker 2: straight up lore. I walked out because I was having
- 20:58Speaker 2: a hook up that night the Ambies when we didn't win.
- 21:01Speaker 1: Wait wait, yeah, Okay, this is amazing. You just happened
- 21:05Speaker 1: to be in the same hotel, but you guys saw
- 21:06Speaker 1: each other, Okay, on the same floor.
- 21:08Speaker 2: I walked out and I went hey, and he's like,
- 21:11Speaker 2: oh my god, and he came over and talking. I'm like, yeah,
- 21:15Speaker 2: I'm gonna go meet some guy. I'm gonna hook up.
- 21:16Speaker 2: But he's like, oh my god, I'm gonna go meet
- 21:18Speaker 2: a hook up too.
- 21:20Speaker 1: It wasn't a guy though. And do you guys see
- 21:22Speaker 1: each other? Do you guys each other's hook ups? Do
- 21:24Speaker 1: you guys go down?
- 21:26Speaker 2: I did, I was still meeting he went over here,
- 21:29Speaker 2: and I did see girls.
- 21:31Speaker 1: She's quite pretty. But later on, what's his type? What's
- 21:35Speaker 1: his type?
- 21:36Speaker 2: Petite kind of Asian girl. Yeah, but I don't think
- 21:42Speaker 2: that's specifically his type. But uh, well, I'm sorry I
- 21:45Speaker 2: should say that. I shouldn't say his type, I should
- 21:47Speaker 2: say what what.
- 21:48Speaker 1: Did this lad? That's who she was? And well, the
- 21:52Speaker 1: thing was because I wasn't like Veronica. I wanted to
- 21:54Speaker 1: be like she exactly. No. No. Then then then Matt
- 21:58Speaker 1: came down.
- 22:00Speaker 2: I didn't even tell him because this thing was in
- 22:02Speaker 2: her cups and get another glass of wine.
- 22:05Speaker 1: Saw Jamal and of course proceeded to talk.
- 22:07Speaker 2: He was facetiming kim Bali and then then it's like, here,
- 22:11Speaker 2: talk to my mom for a little bit while while
- 22:13Speaker 2: Jamal was like macking with the girl and he's like, so,
- 22:16Speaker 2: what do you talk about? And so Matt and Maddie and
- 22:19Speaker 2: kim Bally talked for like twenty minutes.
- 22:21Speaker 1: Did Matt like show kim Bally the fact that like
- 22:24Speaker 1: her son was.
- 22:25Speaker 2: Like, I don't think so. Yeah, but uh, anyway, but
- 22:28Speaker 2: that's our story. But Jamal Jamal is a total fuck boy.
- 22:33Speaker 2: But I will say that's times with Josh. There's something
- 22:36Speaker 2: charismatic about him too. I don't really like him, mostly
- 22:40Speaker 2: because I feel like I feel like he's he's a
- 22:43Speaker 2: fake sensitive guy who'll try to understand you, and girls think,
- 22:51Speaker 2: oh my god, this is a guy who's like has
- 22:53Speaker 2: empathy and blah blah blah, and you can tell he's
- 22:56Speaker 2: been to therapy enough. But he's still going to treat
- 22:58Speaker 2: you like a dirt bag. So that's the energy he
- 23:03Speaker 2: gives off. It's also gonna be just a boy at
- 23:06Speaker 2: the end of the day.
- 23:08Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's gonna he's gonna try to tell you
- 23:11Speaker 1: he's not like the others.
- 23:13Speaker 2: But I'm I'm telling you now, all the women women listening,
- 23:16Speaker 2: we're all like the others.
- 23:18Speaker 1: Unfortunately, that's so funny. We're all like that.
- 23:23Speaker 2: It takes a lot of energy for us to not
- 23:25Speaker 2: be like that, Like I consistently have to straighten or
- 23:30Speaker 2: constant like that. Gay men are a lot like that too,
- 23:33Speaker 2: but we're a lot like that unfortunately. If you're thinking,
- 23:36Speaker 2: are all men like this? Yeah, sorry to ruin it
- 23:40Speaker 2: for you. No, it's so here's the thing.
- 23:42Speaker 1: I know you've already. No, it's just okay. Everyone listens
- 23:46Speaker 1: to everything. Everyone watches everything. I just watched The Love
- 23:49Speaker 1: Is Blind weddings last. Oh okay, so what you're seeing
- 23:53Speaker 1: right now, But like you are saying things that are
- 23:55Speaker 1: now making me think about like obviously what happened with
- 23:57Speaker 1: like Ashley and stuff like that. Of like I think
- 23:59Speaker 1: that as women sometimes, like we're talking, if I can
- 24:02Speaker 1: from my experience, like heterosexual relationships like or whatever, like
- 24:04Speaker 1: somewhat traditional or like women like have this capacity for
- 24:07Speaker 1: being like what does he think of me? What is
- 24:09Speaker 1: he thinking of me? What am I being good?
- 24:10Speaker 2: For him?
- 24:10Speaker 1: Is like d da da da da, and like is
- 24:11Speaker 1: he I hope that he's okay. I hope that he's good.
- 24:14Speaker 1: I hope that this is right. And then there's always
- 24:16Speaker 1: just like this horrible, nagging, devilish, like fucking demon at
- 24:20Speaker 1: the very bottom of your fucking spine. That's like they
- 24:23Speaker 1: all are horrible. They all need you, they all think
- 24:27Speaker 1: you're ugly and fat, and they are wishing someone else
- 24:30Speaker 1: would come who's better in every way than you, and
- 24:33Speaker 1: the moment that person does, they will abandon you completely
- 24:36Speaker 1: and you're like, okay, honorable, Like there is a part
- 24:40Speaker 1: of that that like screams at you. You know, it
- 24:42Speaker 1: is the stragedy of love is blind. It is this,
- 24:44Speaker 1: It is the sole tragedy of love is blind.
- 24:46Speaker 2: Yeah, there's some men who aren't like that, and some
- 24:51Speaker 2: men can choose not to be like that, you can
- 24:55Speaker 2: choose to have more empathy.
- 24:57Speaker 1: But there are a lot of straight men who are
- 24:59Speaker 1: great at face making empathy. They're really getting good at
- 25:02Speaker 1: it with like therapy speak.
- 25:04Speaker 2: These are dangerous guys, and it's it's like it's like
- 25:11Speaker 2: how I talk about there's there's like a loophole, there's
- 25:14Speaker 2: a therapy empathy loophole for for straight men where they
- 25:18Speaker 2: can get by on it they know the things to
- 25:20Speaker 2: say to make women say, oh he goes to therapy.
- 25:22Speaker 1: He's like an god, I've had that happen. I've been
- 25:25Speaker 1: a yes. Yes, it is also the same.
- 25:27Speaker 2: It's also what I consider the loophole of the men's
- 25:31Speaker 2: hair transplant, where now nature has made it the play
- 25:37Speaker 2: the playing the playing field. Even yes, by giving you
- 25:42Speaker 2: being bald, you are cheating death by getting your hair transplant,
- 25:47Speaker 2: because these women out there don't know that that you
- 25:51Speaker 2: were bald, and now you're reinvigorated and you probably are
- 25:56Speaker 2: gross inside and now you're given new hair. And it
- 26:00Speaker 2: sucks because men's ed drugs. You can get those out
- 26:04Speaker 2: of a fucking vending machine. But good luck getting plan
- 26:07Speaker 2: b ladies.
- 26:08Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean preach on makeup. I mean I will
- 26:11Speaker 1: be your Yeah, let's go take over.
- 26:15Speaker 2: Anyway, Sorry I hijacked you, but I just I know
- 26:19Speaker 2: it's needed.
- 26:19Speaker 1: Guys like guys like Jamal, they seem kind of.
- 26:25Speaker 2: They seem harmless enough, but I'm telling you this kind
- 26:28Speaker 2: of this kind of cause playing a twenty first century guy.
- 26:34Speaker 1: When they're with their bros, they're just like all the
- 26:37Speaker 1: other guys. Yeah, this is what it is. It's like
- 26:41Speaker 1: with people like him and Josh, like you can be
- 26:44Speaker 1: like they're funny like and they're gonna be smart and
- 26:46Speaker 1: they're going to enjoy if you are like I would be.
- 26:49Speaker 1: I would talk to them and socially, but like there's
- 26:52Speaker 1: here's all They're They're fine, but they're their energy is
- 26:54Speaker 1: similar and that energy in life, so like you know whatever,
- 26:57Speaker 1: God bless, I'm talking about that energy in life, like
- 26:59Speaker 1: when you're I'm that kind of like charming but like
- 27:02Speaker 1: slithery energy. All you can do is just be as
- 27:07Speaker 1: charming as they are to you back and then have
- 27:09Speaker 1: the guard of like you never can really fuck with me.
- 27:11Speaker 1: I know you, like I see you.
- 27:15Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying, like all right, buddy
- 27:17Speaker 4: with other people fine, you know, but like I'm always
- 27:20Speaker 4: saying that if you're in that kind of energy, I mean, Jamal,
- 27:23Speaker 4: you know Josh, you know, I'm happy they found each
- 27:26Speaker 4: other and Rob's them there too, So if.
- 27:27Speaker 1: Like you know they you know, they literally call themselves
- 27:30Speaker 1: the bad Boys of fiance. They're not not doing they're
- 27:34Speaker 1: not calling themselves like the soft sensitive listeners that want
- 27:39Speaker 1: to show you how to be loved, you know, like,
- 27:45Speaker 1: which is fine. I don't have to you know, sexy. Yeah, okay,
- 27:50Speaker 1: this is what I mean. I don't know. I'm trying
- 27:51Speaker 1: to if if Dave fiance people are my age and women,
- 27:56Speaker 1: and they are because I know my audience, I would
- 27:58Speaker 1: say that like mostly yeah, like women want someone who
- 28:03Speaker 1: is like, you're hot, you're beautiful. I only see you
- 28:06Speaker 1: and for some reason I want to financially provide and
- 28:10Speaker 1: take care of you and protect you from the elements.
- 28:13Speaker 1: Is that okay with you? And you're like yes, and
- 28:14Speaker 1: and then like and you're just like and I will
- 28:16Speaker 1: also give you all the money I possibly can from
- 28:19Speaker 1: my own job, and I will, you know, like do
- 28:22Speaker 1: my possible due diligence to like clean up definitely for
- 28:25Speaker 1: me and as like much as I can for you.
- 28:27Speaker 1: But also you fucking do your work and let's have sex,
- 28:30Speaker 1: like that's all I want, you know. And their parents
- 28:32Speaker 1: are dead right, well that's they that you know. Either
- 28:35Speaker 1: If I like their mom, great, If I don't, then
- 28:37Speaker 1: you're not gonna like his money. Look far away. They
- 28:40Speaker 1: should like me. She should I know how to tablescape.
- 28:46Speaker 2: You know what, that's great. I'm telling you a lot
- 28:50Speaker 2: of moms. If you get a good mother in law,
- 28:52Speaker 2: you lucked out right. Uh, it's just there. And and
- 28:58Speaker 2: also it's just another thing to have to worry about.
- 29:01Speaker 2: You're already we're already dealing with your boyfriend or your husband.
- 29:04Speaker 2: You have to deal with his fucking mother and no,
- 29:07Speaker 2: his fucking father.
- 29:08Speaker 1: I know. I mean, like, listen, I can deal with
- 29:11Speaker 1: like maybe one niece. That's it. Oh, give me, give
- 29:14Speaker 1: me a single niece.
- 29:16Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, believe she's an adult so you could
- 29:19Speaker 2: be friends.
- 29:20Speaker 1: Yeah, but if she's a little girl and she's cute too,
- 29:21Speaker 1: God bless. Yeah, it's fine. Let's talk about this date
- 29:25Speaker 1: real quick. So you know, obviously she puts on this
- 29:27Speaker 1: teddy dress, the googly googlely dress where she's gonna go
- 29:29Speaker 1: meet Joe. We met Joe Wish. Everyone's like short King,
- 29:31Speaker 1: short King. She pulls up. Joe's fully waiting for her
- 29:35Speaker 1: in like a bike trolley. Uh in San Diego. Yeah.
- 29:39Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, you clock this fit. She's like,
- 29:43Speaker 1: are you from Nigeria?
- 29:45Speaker 2: I was like, no, Uh, Matt noticed this. I did
- 29:51Speaker 2: not notice this. He had on a necklace with the
- 29:54Speaker 2: prince symbol like when Prince changed his h Yes.
- 29:58Speaker 1: Of course, when they alreadyst were you know, no, Prince
- 30:01Speaker 1: was like that thing, that's a choice erotic city you
- 30:06Speaker 1: and me.
- 30:08Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, what did you think about this date? I
- 30:12Speaker 2: both of us thought it was not great, you know.
- 30:18Speaker 1: Yeah, immediately I was like, she's not into him. Yeah,
- 30:21Speaker 1: no chemistry at all. Yeah.
- 30:25Speaker 2: The other thing is, did you think it was weird
- 30:28Speaker 2: to take pictures of each other on a date?
- 30:31Speaker 1: Yes?
- 30:32Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I just thought it was a weird thing
- 30:34Speaker 2: to do because who gets copies of the picture afterwards?
- 30:38Speaker 1: Do you just like give it to each other and
- 30:41Speaker 1: put in a drawer somewhere. Well, yeah, it's like you
- 30:45Speaker 1: don't know each other at all, Like, you know, it's
- 30:50Speaker 1: so funny because I literally just had my dad's seventy
- 30:52Speaker 1: fifth birthday where one of the things I did, it's
- 30:54Speaker 1: just like it's a long table I did help a
- 30:55Speaker 1: Polaroid camera and just like had different pictures taken. I
- 30:58Speaker 1: was already believed there for the whole time, the whole
- 31:00Speaker 1: I think, known each other or whatever, and it's like, yeah,
- 31:02Speaker 1: like this is the time in which you literally just
- 31:04Speaker 1: sit across and is like who are you? Who are you?
- 31:07Speaker 1: It's too hard to have a camera on your face,
- 31:08Speaker 1: by the way, guess what, there's already a camera in
- 31:10Speaker 1: your face. There's now how many cameras do you need?
- 31:12Speaker 1: It's a party, not.
- 31:14Speaker 2: A one on one date where you're taking where he says,
- 31:17Speaker 2: take a sexy, be sexy, and she's like, no, not
- 31:20Speaker 2: right now, and the and the and she's like, She's like,
- 31:26Speaker 2: he seems great.
- 31:27Speaker 1: And sweet, but they all start out great and sweet.
- 31:28Speaker 1: Bospin did.
- 31:30Speaker 2: And I just gotta say, he even said he felt
- 31:33Speaker 2: a spark. But like she says, I need sexual tension,
- 31:37Speaker 2: I agree. I wish she would have said chemistry, because
- 31:39Speaker 2: I think what she's used to getting from guys is
- 31:43Speaker 2: straight up like flirting when they're talking about her body,
- 31:47Speaker 2: and I don't think she's used to actual sexual tension
- 31:53Speaker 2: where or chemistry where there you can feel between some
- 31:56Speaker 2: without without having to talk sexually, If that makes any sense.
- 32:00Speaker 1: I totally totally know what you mean. It's like almost
- 32:02Speaker 1: like having had extremes and not really being able to
- 32:05Speaker 1: feel what's real, which is like someone who just wants
- 32:08Speaker 1: to get to know you, but is being respectful instead
- 32:10Speaker 1: of being like you know, yes, however, did you also
- 32:14Speaker 1: clock this? Which is also why I knew she didn't
- 32:16Speaker 1: like him at all, so they take the pictures and
- 32:18Speaker 1: they're going over the pictures and she's like, Nah, not
- 32:20Speaker 1: that one. Oh, this one, this one's better because this
- 32:22Speaker 1: one's you're smiling. You should never not smile. Creepy as fuck,
- 32:26Speaker 1: you're Yeah, it' said, Oh, this one's good. This one's
- 32:29Speaker 1: a keeper. That one is just one picture of her.
- 32:33Speaker 2: Could I have that one? I'm gonna put on the refrigerator. Yeah,
- 32:37Speaker 2: it's yeah. This poor Mike or John whatever. Joe, Joe, Joe,
- 32:43Speaker 2: we hardly knew you. We'll never see you again.
- 32:45Speaker 1: No, no, yea. I wish you the best, Joe, because
- 32:49Speaker 1: you know what, if that's your personality, if you come
- 32:52Speaker 1: with that much love and vulnerability, then some person's going
- 32:55Speaker 1: to be very lucky to have a Joe in their life. Yeah,
- 32:59Speaker 1: someone's gonna be very lucky to have a Joe in
- 33:02Speaker 1: their You know, he loves San Diego, he loves Michael
- 33:08Speaker 1: Jackson and Prince. Yeah, he's from an era, honey, it's
- 33:12Speaker 1: like she He's like I if it's he loves yeah,
- 33:15Speaker 1: like a certain era, and that's it, you know. Yeah,
- 33:19Speaker 1: I just I love Sheena Easton. I don't know, Yeah,
- 33:23Speaker 1: Sheena Easton my baby takes the moon and train. He
- 33:29Speaker 1: works from nine to five, and so basically then that happens. Okay,
- 33:37Speaker 1: so obviously you know it's a it's a no go.
- 33:41Speaker 1: And let's go into the best part of the episode,
- 33:47Speaker 1: which is court Oh my god. Okay, so let me
- 33:51Speaker 1: just can I just preference this by we say by
- 33:53Speaker 1: saying this, you and I and the others when some
- 33:56Speaker 1: of the podcasters course went to the holiday party, but
- 33:59Speaker 1: before then, and we went to the Hunt for Love
- 34:03Speaker 1: premiere party. And I need to bring this up because
- 34:05Speaker 1: I have thought about this ever since. At that party,
- 34:09Speaker 1: Courtney and Coltie were not talking. They were not they
- 34:15Speaker 1: were not talking, they were not spending any time ago.
- 34:17Speaker 1: They were not obvious. Like so the minute that that happened,
- 34:21Speaker 1: we've now watched it all and now we're watching them
- 34:23Speaker 1: there and they're best friends, and I'm like, I don't
- 34:26Speaker 1: even know, Like you guys do have chemistry, Like you
- 34:29Speaker 1: guys are like talking and chatting, like you were all
- 34:31Speaker 1: at the same event and you ignored it to go
- 34:33Speaker 1: like the plague, like you didn't know each other. So I, okay,
- 34:37Speaker 1: did you experience that too, and have you thought of that?
- 34:39Speaker 2: I was thinking the same thing yeah, and I think
- 34:41Speaker 2: it was all film before that party.
- 34:43Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. That's crazy. How cool was that party?
- 34:46Speaker 1: This is like it's three years ago. No, No, like
- 34:48Speaker 1: a year ago.
- 34:49Speaker 2: No. But I do say we saw we asked about
- 34:53Speaker 2: the clips and I'm like, we saw clips of cult
- 34:56Speaker 2: and uh, Courtney living together and she said, we said,
- 35:00Speaker 2: are you guys still living together? And She's like, stay tuned.
- 35:03Speaker 2: And you could tell that was that at that night too.
- 35:06Speaker 2: She her nerves were kind of getting away from her.
- 35:10Speaker 2: I noticed she seemed really nervous and she had a
- 35:13Speaker 2: handler the whole time. She had, like either Nicole or
- 35:19Speaker 2: one of the other TLC people she would work. Was
- 35:22Speaker 2: kind of her handler to.
- 35:23Speaker 1: Make sure she doesn't say anything. Uh.
- 35:25Speaker 2: I think it was just to keep her where where
- 35:28Speaker 2: because I think she just wasn't in a good place.
- 35:30Speaker 1: She was very nervous. Yeah, yeah, I thought, but I
- 35:36Speaker 1: thought about that too. Yeah, okay, So you know, and
- 35:40Speaker 1: obviously other things like we're like, I mean, in my
- 35:42Speaker 1: heart of hearts, I was like, how could this be real?
- 35:44Speaker 1: Like why would you like this man?
- 35:45Speaker 2: You know?
- 35:46Speaker 1: Like only because let's just I'm not I don't. I
- 35:49Speaker 1: don't know Courtney very well. But we know her, even
- 35:51Speaker 1: just from what we know from her on the show.
- 35:53Speaker 1: She's always with a lot of crap men. Yeah, she's
- 35:55Speaker 1: been with a lot of crap men. She's been with
- 35:56Speaker 1: a lot of crap men. And she always feels like
- 35:58Speaker 1: she's like, I want this for myself. I want someone
- 36:01Speaker 1: who's like going to be a protector, provider. She's like
- 36:02Speaker 1: almost like I want him to be at some points
- 36:04Speaker 1: like rich or whatever, like or made money. She's always
- 36:07Speaker 1: like she's kind of been that kind of girl, like
- 36:08Speaker 1: you should pay for this or whatever. And then she
- 36:11Speaker 1: went and then just got like someone who is literally
- 36:14Speaker 1: a sponge, like who is a suckubist? Like this person
- 36:17Speaker 1: is a barnacle and a known barnacle, Like you got
- 36:21Speaker 1: a cheating barnacle, like a known cheating barnacle that is.
- 36:29Speaker 1: And we've seen his penis already with artists and it's
- 36:33Speaker 1: not good. It's not good. What it says micro cheating.
- 36:36Speaker 1: The name of this episode is the art of micro cheating,
- 36:38Speaker 1: and it's about him, and the micro part of it
- 36:40Speaker 1: is microist.
- 36:42Speaker 2: What what Here's what I theorized? Mm hm. Colt has
- 36:46Speaker 2: this weird authenticity that's not really vulnerability. He kind of
- 36:55Speaker 2: shows you who he is, but it's really fucked up,
- 36:59Speaker 2: and and but you feel like you're getting a little insight.
- 37:04Speaker 2: And uh, here's the other thing you he is he
- 37:11Speaker 2: seems genuinely interested to talk to you, and he's he listens.
- 37:18Speaker 2: That's how low the bar is, ladies, that cult listens.
- 37:25Speaker 2: He actually might not recall anything, but he's actually listening.
- 37:31Speaker 1: This is this is so hard. So basically, can we
- 37:35Speaker 1: just okay, this is what let me just this is
- 37:36Speaker 1: so basically this type happens. So Courtney is like, I'll
- 37:39Speaker 1: tell you what. I always send something as hiding and
- 37:41Speaker 1: to get a long monologue that Courtney says, and at
- 37:43Speaker 1: first it is one of the funniest monologues I've ever read.
- 37:46Speaker 1: And it's so I read it all down, Okay, so
- 37:48Speaker 1: this is what it is. It's so funny. And then
- 37:50Speaker 1: it gets later on. Now I'm gonna tell you right now.
- 37:52Speaker 1: When she first was the first part of the monologue,
- 37:54Speaker 1: I've paused it and I immediately m turned. I'm like,
- 37:56Speaker 1: it's one of the I'm so sorry that happened to
- 37:57Speaker 1: He was one of the funniest things I ever fucking heard. Now,
- 37:59Speaker 1: the delivery was in the delivery was so good. I
- 38:01Speaker 1: do have some pictures. I went out with my friends.
- 38:04Speaker 1: They were putting a lot of doubts in my head.
- 38:07Speaker 1: They're like, Court, you need to go through his phone.
- 38:09Speaker 1: I know he's cheating on you, and you need to
- 38:12Speaker 1: see the proof for yourself. So by the time I
- 38:14Speaker 1: got home, I was in full detective mode. I went
- 38:16Speaker 1: into Colt's room. I opened the door. He's sleeping. His
- 38:19Speaker 1: phone was on the bed next to him. So I'm like, clearly,
- 38:22Speaker 1: this is a gift from God. So I thought I
- 38:25Speaker 1: knew the code because I've been watching him enter the code.
- 38:29Speaker 1: But then I'm like, crap, I got it wrong. I
- 38:31Speaker 1: got it wrong so many times I locked out its phone,
- 38:34Speaker 1: but then I hit it again and it locked. And
- 38:39Speaker 1: first of all, really I'm like what. I'm like, oh
- 38:41Speaker 1: my god, you did I was like, I okay. So
- 38:44Speaker 1: it was incredible. I know, I know, Okay. I was like,
- 38:46Speaker 1: this is looking like CSI. So she was like, I
- 38:48Speaker 1: was like, oh my god. So I'm going through it
- 38:50Speaker 1: and I'm like, he's messaging all these other women on
- 38:55Speaker 1: social media and oh my god, I put it. Oh
- 38:59Speaker 1: my love. Okay, okay, I'm missing the phone on social
- 39:02Speaker 1: media and then he's like to this other girl, I
- 39:05Speaker 1: love you, I want you, and they're like planning to
- 39:07Speaker 1: meet each other. Like you're homeless, you're jobless, like you
- 39:10Speaker 1: have a rectile, this fun, you have a broken leg.
- 39:13Speaker 1: I'm your caregiver, I'm your best friend, Like I'm loving you.
- 39:15Speaker 1: But you're telling them a girl you love her, and like, yeah,
- 39:17Speaker 1: the audacity, the audacity, Oh my god, it's like the
- 39:21Speaker 1: most I mean beautiful monologue of being like fuck you
- 39:27Speaker 1: while I'm putting on makeup and she looks gorgeous, and
- 39:30Speaker 1: he's disgusting. Look at her doing all her skin care,
- 39:33Speaker 1: look at her cute bathroom with her nice, beautiful parents.
- 39:36Speaker 1: I hate him. I'm just like I'm watching this and
- 39:37Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, Courtney, this is crazy.
- 39:40Speaker 2: Uh did you notice that is the same headband that
- 39:43Speaker 2: Whitney wore I believe from Sacret Lives and Warm and
- 39:46Speaker 2: Wives for season two and three, Whitney wore that headband
- 39:51Speaker 2: a lot.
- 39:52Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean it looks like, well, it
- 39:55Speaker 1: looks almost, yes, like the poverty headbands from Like It's like, I.
- 39:59Speaker 2: Think it is the headband you use for like your
- 40:01Speaker 2: hair and makeup. I think it's one of those. But
- 40:03Speaker 2: Whitney wore a headman like that for a lot.
- 40:06Speaker 1: Oh my god.
- 40:07Speaker 2: But she's a fucking superstar and I'm a I hate
- 40:10Speaker 2: her the first season and I the second season, I
- 40:12Speaker 2: was like, what is she doing when she's walked over
- 40:15Speaker 2: Demi's dead body to get back? And in the third season,
- 40:18Speaker 2: I'm like, you're brilliant, You're a star. I want to
- 40:21Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with you.
- 40:22Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to watch you, just like Buffalo Step
- 40:25Speaker 1: all over these I want to watch you here, okay,
- 40:30Speaker 1: but I want to watch your take over the world. Yes, truly,
- 40:32Speaker 1: but I would go see her totally, totally. The vocals
- 40:36Speaker 1: I heard were not great. I don't care. You don't
- 40:39Speaker 1: have to be great to be a Roxy Heart. Yeah,
- 40:41Speaker 1: you certainly don't. I mean you don't have to be Yes,
- 40:44Speaker 1: that's true.
- 40:46Speaker 2: You have to be a decent actress to be Sally
- 40:48Speaker 2: Bulls truly, and you have it.
- 40:50Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that you have to. I mean, I
- 40:51Speaker 1: guess you can really turn a lot of belts and
- 40:52Speaker 1: a head voices, which I guess is you can, yeah
- 40:55Speaker 1: for Roxy for some people, and you know, not me.
- 40:58Speaker 1: I turned every I turned every head boy to you
- 41:00Speaker 1: about that's.
- 41:00Speaker 2: About that's your luck, that's my problem, my toxic traits.
- 41:05Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so anyway, so okay. Then it cuts to hit. Okay,
- 41:08Speaker 1: god bless so that's her. We're like, oh my god, girl.
- 41:11Speaker 1: And then it cuts to cold and he's like, well, uh, Courtney,
- 41:16Speaker 1: uh with her my phone. I woke up. My phone
- 41:18Speaker 1: wasn't buy me. So I hobbled over to her room
- 41:22Speaker 1: and I found her there with her phone and she
- 41:23Speaker 1: was like, get out. She graciously kicked me out. All
- 41:26Speaker 1: my stuff was but the side of the road, and
- 41:27Speaker 1: she called me a nuber. I'm like, she had the
- 41:29Speaker 1: grace to call you a fucking uber. And the way
- 41:32Speaker 1: that he set this up was almost like, are you
- 41:34Speaker 1: trying to make us kind of yeah, feel bad for you?
- 41:41Speaker 1: He was.
- 41:42Speaker 2: He he changed a little bit more when he was
- 41:44Speaker 2: talking about how he's ashamed of things, but the beginning
- 41:47Speaker 2: was something I said on our show that I don't
- 41:51Speaker 2: think he's trying to change, but I think this might
- 41:54Speaker 2: have been the first time Colt has felt a little shame.
- 42:00Speaker 2: In other words, Oh, you're like, nope, no, I think
- 42:03Speaker 2: I think that he's certifiable something.
- 42:05Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Matt. Matt didn't agree with me. So
- 42:08Speaker 1: I think that's totally What did he say, Well, I
- 42:12Speaker 1: guess he said he said he said around. I don't
- 42:14Speaker 1: think so. This was all just the same thing, same
- 42:17Speaker 1: same old, same old, and he's doing the exact same thing. Cold.
- 42:20Speaker 2: He's gonna coltie, He's always gonna do this.
- 42:24Speaker 1: He needs the women like blow up dolls. He needs
- 42:27Speaker 1: to find a rich Brazilian woman that likes him. He
- 42:31Speaker 1: needs to find he needs to find a sugar mama.
- 42:33Speaker 1: That's hard.
- 42:34Speaker 2: Yeah, and also probably in two episodes he's going to
- 42:37Speaker 2: go to Brazil after this, and really because that woman,
- 42:41Speaker 2: we've seen that woman's face, which means she's probably signed
- 42:44Speaker 2: a release.
- 42:45Speaker 1: Huh oh okay, thank you. That was a professional opinion. Basically,
- 42:52Speaker 1: after this, what happens is then we get to sit
- 42:54Speaker 1: down and sit down. So we're gonna pick it up
- 42:56Speaker 1: on probably in the next episode, but it starts with
- 42:58Speaker 1: you know, he's at a hotel, right, and then obviously
- 43:01Speaker 1: Courtney goes to talk to her parents and and her
- 43:03Speaker 1: her parents have been so almost they're they're like comically
- 43:07Speaker 1: too nice, right, Like they are comically too lovely to
- 43:10Speaker 1: have dealt with this so much so that they're her sweet, angelic,
- 43:15Speaker 1: purest heart. Mom is like, well, it was just you know, time,
- 43:20Speaker 1: because he had overstayed his way to overstate his welcome.
- 43:23Speaker 2: One of our listeners said that she reminds them of
- 43:27Speaker 2: the woman from Shoebox Greetings.
- 43:29Speaker 1: And it's and it's all uh and that's all I
- 43:33Speaker 1: can see now, Oh my god, Yes, yes, yes, it's
- 43:41Speaker 1: all I can see. She looks like a teacher that
- 43:44Speaker 1: I had. She almost like, I was like, you look
- 43:47Speaker 1: like I had you as like a teacher when I
- 43:49Speaker 1: was like seven.
- 43:50Speaker 2: You know, it's so benign and wonderful. She's yes, but
- 43:53Speaker 2: both the parents are like, just hi, Courtney, I know
- 43:56Speaker 2: it didn't work out.
- 43:58Speaker 1: It's time you weren't but not because you honeys, because
- 44:00Speaker 1: there's a lot of bad people, but we certainly tried
- 44:03Speaker 1: all of it. You're just like you were so beautiful.
- 44:05Speaker 1: So then Courtney has to go talk to him, and
- 44:07Speaker 1: like you know, she puts on all her makeup, sews
- 44:08Speaker 1: fucking great. Like I said, she goes to him. Now, weed,
- 44:11Speaker 1: my lash is on. My lashes keep alling off because
- 44:14Speaker 1: I'm crying. I know. See. The thing about is Courtney
- 44:17Speaker 1: is like giving us like a lot of emotion like
- 44:19Speaker 1: when she's she is vulnerably crying and she's really upset.
- 44:22Speaker 1: I am mad.
- 44:23Speaker 2: He hasn't done this a lot. Actually, she doesn't do
- 44:25Speaker 2: emotion I know it. Yeah, and she she did it
- 44:28Speaker 2: on Hunt for Love and she did it here. She
- 44:32Speaker 2: is very overcold because y'all, here's the thing. She was
- 44:38Speaker 2: really in love with him, and you cannot fake this.
- 44:42Speaker 2: She was in love with the guy.
- 44:44Speaker 1: I think that she was just like we found each
- 44:47Speaker 1: other in a crazy place where and she like they're
- 44:49Speaker 1: not also saying this, Like to my mind, I'm like,
- 44:52Speaker 1: they're both on the show. They're both been on the
- 44:54Speaker 1: show for the past like ten years. So like, let's
- 44:56Speaker 1: just save all the things in the world. Let's just
- 44:58Speaker 1: say that you were on some sort of weird micro
- 45:00Speaker 1: then you thought maybe you were falling in love with
- 45:02Speaker 1: someone who had had a very similar experience on this
- 45:04Speaker 1: weird show than you, and so what how to extand
- 45:07Speaker 1: you're understanding the world in a weird way where you're
- 45:09Speaker 1: working together. Like they can't talk about that, but that's
- 45:11Speaker 1: probably another like huge defining moment for them, but okay,
- 45:14Speaker 1: just want to get to this, and so basically he
- 45:16Speaker 1: comes over. Now we get a shot of him. Honey,
- 45:18Speaker 1: he has to roll himself down this dark hallway and
- 45:21Speaker 1: he looks like dead man rolling. I mean he knows
- 45:23Speaker 1: that something. I can't even believe it. I saw those
- 45:25Speaker 1: hallway I'm like, and then he's like upset about it.
- 45:27Speaker 1: He's just like, it looks like the motel is under construction.
- 45:30Speaker 1: At the same time, why did someone just aside to like,
- 45:34Speaker 1: did someone just mop that floor? Is it a bad
- 45:36Speaker 1: friend to go down that hallway? There's a like, if
- 45:38Speaker 1: you don't see the picture I put up, there's literally
- 45:40Speaker 1: like a yellow oh god janitor sign. Honey, I mean
- 45:43Speaker 1: freshly white floor yeap, smells like vinegar. Yeah, not good.
- 45:50Speaker 1: So the worst thing ever happens happens, which is that
- 45:53Speaker 1: again Colt. He destrives to make him the victim, and
- 45:56Speaker 1: the way he does it is like, look, I just
- 45:58Speaker 1: I never thought that Courtney saw me as a man.
- 46:00Speaker 1: I mean I just wasn't, like, you know, because I
- 46:02Speaker 1: broke my leg and I was living with her and
- 46:04Speaker 1: I was feeding off, you know, everything that her parents
- 46:05Speaker 1: are give me. I'm just sponging off of her. Because
- 46:07Speaker 1: of all of that, I was never looked at like
- 46:10Speaker 1: a man. And there Diana was just letting me pretend
- 46:13Speaker 1: to be whoever the fuck I wanted to be, not
- 46:15Speaker 1: a real person in a way in a different which.
- 46:17Speaker 2: Is a way that something I need, which is something
- 46:20Speaker 2: I need to feel like the man. I need this
- 46:24Speaker 2: this woman, this unknoble woman who I can treat like
- 46:27Speaker 2: a blow up doll because as soon as I get
- 46:29Speaker 2: to know her then I can't fuck her anymore.
- 46:34Speaker 1: When is he going to see his pattern? Never?
- 46:37Speaker 2: Actually he kind of can, that's the that's the craziest thing.
- 46:42Speaker 1: But he can't break out of it. So I like,
- 46:44Speaker 1: you know, Gino can't see his pattern? Coltie kind of can.
- 46:49Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you don't. Off the top of your head.
- 46:50Speaker 1: What did his ex wife say, the one that he
- 46:52Speaker 1: married after Jessica Vanessa? Like, what did she say that?
- 46:56Speaker 1: What did she say that she left him for? Because
- 46:58Speaker 1: she He's like, she broke up me and left me
- 47:00Speaker 1: and what he cheated on her? Oh? Is that? Yeah? Okay,
- 47:03Speaker 1: all right? So it's on all of them. Yeah, he's
- 47:06Speaker 1: a nightmare. Literally, Courtney gives us the last moment of
- 47:08Speaker 1: like her vulnerable heart. She goes, I showed him unconditional
- 47:10Speaker 1: love and he showed me. I'm naive. Oh did that
- 47:14Speaker 1: break your heart?
- 47:15Speaker 2: Yeah? I think she she does deserve happiness.
- 47:21Speaker 1: She needs she needs to work on her own self
- 47:24Speaker 1: worth a little more. We all do. But she needs
- 47:28Speaker 1: to believe.
- 47:28Speaker 2: I don't know if she believes she's worthy of love,
- 47:31Speaker 2: and that that's really important because to believe you're worthy
- 47:35Speaker 2: of love means you won't take shit like this.
- 47:38Speaker 1: Yes, I think it must be hard though, to see
- 47:40Speaker 1: your beautiful parents who just like go hand in hand
- 47:43Speaker 1: or like you know, and you're just like, well, you
- 47:44Speaker 1: guys just were so easy for you, and she feels
- 47:45Speaker 1: like it's not. I just want to also say, like
- 47:48Speaker 1: there's two parts of this, which is that the act
- 47:51Speaker 1: of dating means that you have to open up your
- 47:53Speaker 1: heart and you're going to be hurt and people that
- 47:55Speaker 1: are going to like not treat you. Well, it's just
- 47:58Speaker 1: the part of it. It's just like how when you
- 48:00Speaker 1: work out, literally like you today you are tearing apart
- 48:03Speaker 1: your muscle fibers right, and you're rebuild that. It's the
- 48:05Speaker 1: act of paint that is like, that's the part of it.
- 48:08Speaker 1: Like you just like you can't just be like, well,
- 48:09Speaker 1: I'm tearing my muscle fibers now, it's like, well, we're
- 48:11Speaker 1: gonna get stronger. I love it how you went. You
- 48:13Speaker 1: did a callback. I try improv training, improv training. I
- 48:18Speaker 1: love you. We did the entire episode. This was so great.
- 48:22Speaker 2: I actually I think the single I was kind of
- 48:25Speaker 2: like himah Hammada on the single Life. Now I'm I'm
- 48:28Speaker 2: getting I think this is I want Vanya to date
- 48:31Speaker 2: a better guy m and I think if we could
- 48:36Speaker 2: get four more dates for Kim and we could see Larry,
- 48:42Speaker 2: I uh and the other one and the other woman,
- 48:45Speaker 2: the other girl, I have to be interesting. I'm a
- 48:49Speaker 2: little worried about how they're gonna do twenty episodes because
- 48:52Speaker 2: I guess I think we're gonna go.
- 48:53Speaker 1: Awhile I'm are we gonna get more people? I don't
- 48:57Speaker 1: think so.
- 48:58Speaker 2: I think we just were gonna get yeah.
- 49:01Speaker 1: Because just in life, I want Tyree back really bad
- 49:04Speaker 1: and at the end of wherever we are in but
- 49:07Speaker 1: before the ninety days, I've realized after this episode from
- 49:09Speaker 1: last night, I want Emma. I need Emma to be
- 49:12Speaker 1: a part of Single Life too, because I want to say, oh,
- 49:14Speaker 1: the one, the one who was on B ninety Yes,
- 49:17Speaker 1: oh that's obviously Bran New Fresh obviously. Yeah, I know,
- 49:20Speaker 1: I just I fell in love with her the last episode.
- 49:22Speaker 2: I'm not Oh, I just think she's just I just
- 49:26Speaker 2: think she's just not interesting. But I would I would
- 49:29Speaker 2: enjoy seeing her day in Los Angeles because it'd be ridiculous.
- 49:33Speaker 1: Yeah, Like Natalie, do you think they'll have Natalie back
- 49:35Speaker 1: on Natalie is Especial?
- 49:37Speaker 2: Natalie is going to be hunt for Love. I think
- 49:39Speaker 2: we're going to get Natalie on a new season to
- 49:41Speaker 2: Hunt for Love.
- 49:42Speaker 1: I want a child. Oh, I know, just being nuts.
- 49:48Speaker 1: Oh from your lips of God's ears. Okay, I love
- 49:51Speaker 1: you so much. Obviously beautiful podcast is called reality Gaze. Now,
- 49:56Speaker 1: just go ahead and tell us a little bit of like,
- 49:57Speaker 1: what everything you're following? Obviously do ninety day fiance? What
- 49:59Speaker 1: fun thing are you following right now? What fun things?
- 50:02Speaker 2: We just finished Suddenly Amish on our Reality Gaze RGI plus.
- 50:08Speaker 2: We kind of hated it by the end, but it
- 50:12Speaker 2: was interesting. Love is Blind is coming. We just finished
- 50:16Speaker 2: Lost Blind. Also Secret Lives and Mormon Wives season four.
- 50:19Speaker 2: We're putting that on our YouTube. That's a big thing
- 50:21Speaker 2: right now, is our YouTube. We're starting to drop that.
- 50:24Speaker 1: On March twelfth.
- 50:26Speaker 2: So I would say, if you haven't watched Secret Lives
- 50:28Speaker 2: and Mormon Wives, what are you doing with your life?
- 50:30Speaker 1: It is a fantastic series. It's so good. It's it's
- 50:35Speaker 1: like kind of like what Real Housewives wanted to be,
- 50:38Speaker 1: which is like authentic relationships, you know. Like that's interesting. Yeah,
- 50:43Speaker 1: and like, yeah, this will be a collab video on
- 50:44Speaker 1: YouTube as well, so it'll be great.
- 50:47Speaker 2: We're going all in on YouTube in twenty twenty six.
- 50:50Speaker 1: You can't even talking about it. I've heard of it. Yeah. Yeah,
- 50:56Speaker 1: of course is everyone follow Reality Gaze, Reality Gaze pod
- 51:01Speaker 1: on install, Reality Gaze podcast on TikTok, and you can
- 51:07Speaker 1: find me at jacob or fake it. Yeah, and of
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- 51:18Speaker 1: I love you guys so much, and I love you
- 51:19Speaker 1: so much. Thank you so much for coming on. You know.
- 51:22Speaker 2: I love this idea for I love this idea for
- 51:24Speaker 2: you of doing the fits and doing the clothes.
- 51:27Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I love the fact that you like love
- 51:29Speaker 1: this headband. That makes me so happy. Oh it's so great. Also,
- 51:33Speaker 1: like look at her like is it was it? Uh ola?
- 51:36Speaker 1: Back there? I love looking at protests her products back there, and.
- 51:39Speaker 2: She's got in her she's got the kind of the
- 51:41Speaker 2: smoky eye kind of still going on, but she kind
- 51:43Speaker 2: of looks like a little bit like a gelfling right
- 51:47Speaker 2: there in the dark crystal, because the makeup's not done.
- 51:50Speaker 1: Yes, right, we're talking about Courtney right now when she's
- 51:52Speaker 1: her doing her back in monologue. Yes, Courty. Also, I
- 51:54Speaker 1: loves Courney loves like a coral three eye shadow. She
- 51:58Speaker 1: loves that it actually works for it looks so beautiful.
- 52:00Speaker 1: I have her blue eyes. Yeah, I agree. I agree
- 52:03Speaker 1: with the color theory, Kimberly. Okay. Anyway, other than that,
- 52:06Speaker 1: you can of course follow me. I'm at and me
- 52:08Speaker 1: let you go. I love you so much. I will. Okay,
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- 52:33Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for listening. Redo two quick breaths,
- 52:37Speaker 1: just to like kind of ground everyone. This is just
- 52:39Speaker 1: a little moment of somaticness. And the good thing about
- 52:42Speaker 1: this is the more and more you can get in
- 52:44Speaker 1: touch with how you are feeling in the moment, then
- 52:46Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about how other people are
- 52:48Speaker 1: feeling about you. It's kind of like we're talking about,
- 52:50Speaker 1: is getting in touch with yourself so that you don't feel,
- 52:52Speaker 1: you know, worry so much about it. It's those stupid men, honey,
- 52:56Speaker 1: those bad men out there. Okay, two out? That was good.
- 53:09Speaker 1: Want more. Oh, thank you for being the evening tunny thing.
- 53:19Speaker 1: You're being present in the moment and letting it all go.
- 53:22Speaker 1: Take care of yourselves and one another. They never will
- 53:25Speaker 1: you believe in make art. We'll talk to you by everybody.