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Flip or Flop: A Bedtime Scrub · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. It is Monday, Holy Monday.
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  Speaker 2: Monday Funday.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. How you doing?
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  Speaker 3: Doing? Good?
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  Speaker 1: Hey doing I'm good. We're podcasting close to bedtime tonight.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's three thirty, is it really? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we're nearing dinner time.
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  Speaker 1: You're marrying dinner time.
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  Speaker 2: You know what.
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  Speaker 1: It's all good.
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  Speaker 2: I posted about this, and I feel like I know
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  Speaker 2: the answer based on just your regular schedule programming. But
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  Speaker 2: I posted about leftovers and how I don't like leftovers.
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  Speaker 2: And it's kind of a problem because you know, the
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  Speaker 2: portion sizes here in America are large, so and and
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  Speaker 2: Hayley has allergy, so we can never share things, so
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  Speaker 2: it's like I don't get to have a split meal.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I'll try to order off the kids menu if possible,
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  Speaker 2: because I know I need smaller portions.
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  Speaker 1: But anyways, I.
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  Speaker 2: Don't like leftovers, so I hate wasting food. I normally,
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  Speaker 2: if we go out to eat, I'll box it up
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  Speaker 2: and try to give it to someone. If I'm in
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  Speaker 2: an area where that's possible, but a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: relate it to me and said they also don't eat leftovers.
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  Speaker 2: But a lot of people are like, that's a very
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  Speaker 2: privileged take. You wasting so much food, And I'm like, totally,
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  Speaker 2: but what am I supposed to do?
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  Speaker 1: I can't the leftovers, but I don't. I live in leftover.
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  Speaker 2: I know you love leftovers and you love food prepping,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm also.
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  Speaker 1: I love batching. If I have enough of a meal,
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  Speaker 1: if I go out to dinner and I don't eat
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  Speaker 1: the whole thing, which is not common, but if I don't,
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  Speaker 1: I take it home. I'm so happy to have lunch
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  Speaker 1: for the next day. Yeah, I wish so happy? Did
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  Speaker 1: you that? I guess crazy and.
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  Speaker 2: Leftovers my parents didn't like that wasn't something that we
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  Speaker 2: had to do. It wasn't like you have deat leftovers.
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  Speaker 2: I would eat my mom's roast as long as we
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  Speaker 2: had it. That's the one thing I would do with leftovers.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm like, Shad bought dinners. Like when
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  Speaker 1: they make all the food and they like pack me
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  Speaker 1: stuff to take home for the weekend. I'm so happy,
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  Speaker 1: so jealous.
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  Speaker 2: I get so icked by food when it's not fresh
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  Speaker 2: and warm and hot.
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  Speaker 1: But there are food I can.
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  Speaker 2: Do, privileget over there I can do. I can do pizza,
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  Speaker 2: and I can do Chinese food all heat up, but
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  Speaker 2: that's maybe a pasta but very rare.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, passover my aunt like just had shoes
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  Speaker 1: had so, I mean, you know, they make so much food.
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  Speaker 1: I had leftovers for three days and I was stoked.
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  Speaker 2: The same food though, Yeah, and you.
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  Speaker 1: Just ate it three days in a row, yeah, for
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  Speaker 1: different meals. So I had like lunch the next day,
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  Speaker 1: then I had it for dinner.
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  Speaker 2: Well me, you know, I'm already just freaked out by
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  Speaker 2: specific meat. So like getting it down for one meal
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  Speaker 2: is an achievement. The thought of reheating it, I just
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  Speaker 2: it's a mental block and I can't. It's I it's
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  Speaker 2: not I want to like them.
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  Speaker 1: We actually weat food prep on Sundays and like I
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  Speaker 1: have like my all my food, like basically all leftovers
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  Speaker 1: all week. But we didn't food prep yesterday because Robbie
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  Speaker 1: took me on like a tour de France and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. So we didn't meal prep and I was
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  Speaker 1: like lost in my refrigerator this morning. I was like
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  Speaker 1: what do I eat Wow? Do you eat leftovers Eastern? Yes?
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  Speaker 4: Not that often. Yeah, Alison likes to think she's a
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  Speaker 4: leftovers and she's not so our our fridge.
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  Speaker 1: Is full of yes.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm like, you're not going to eat this? Like,
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  Speaker 4: who are we fool in here?
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  Speaker 1: So that's pot continue over there. Yeah, so we'll take it.
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  Speaker 2: And Hayley's like, I will eat this for lunch the
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  Speaker 2: next day and then just.
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  Speaker 1: A week later, I'm like, hey, you eating this?
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  Speaker 2: So anyways, it was a debate, but a lot. I
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  Speaker 2: would say eighty percent, maybe eighty five percent. We're the same.
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  Speaker 2: I can't Yeah, I can't read them. I feel so seen.
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  Speaker 2: I get so mentally grossed out.
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  Speaker 4: I used to be like grossed out by it, but
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  Speaker 4: then I found like other ways of heating it up
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  Speaker 4: because the microwave was not good to me, right, you know.
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  Speaker 4: And then I found like putting it in a skillet
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  Speaker 4: with like a water.
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  Speaker 1: I just find cooking every meal that's so much work.
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  Speaker 1: Then what do you do? I order food for breakfast, lunch,
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  Speaker 1: and dinner.
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  Speaker 2: Well, no, like breakfast, I make my own food, okay,
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  Speaker 2: but you will only make just enough for you to
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  Speaker 2: eat in that moment Yeah, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know people do breakfast leftovers.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's pretty normal to make breakfast.
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  Speaker 1: Yees, sure, scramble two eggs with these toes. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, when I think of leftovers, I'm more so considering
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  Speaker 2: going to eat and taking what I have left as
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  Speaker 2: opposed to what we make at home. We normally make
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  Speaker 2: enough for the two of us. We don't make a
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  Speaker 2: batch of food.
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  Speaker 1: Because we won't need any dang.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, anyways, that was a little bit about me and you.
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  Speaker 1: Went to the Gold galas? Oh, yeah, leftover as while
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  Speaker 1: she's like on the record with Brianka Chopra Jonas over here. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we went to the Gold Gala.
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  Speaker 2: It's it celebrates Asian Americans in the industry, and I
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  Speaker 2: love getting to celebrate Hailey's well, Haley's half Japanese. I
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  Speaker 2: love getting to celebrate her Japanese in Asian culture. It's
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  Speaker 2: like the most beautiful people. And I've gotten to go
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  Speaker 2: to a few things, but the Gold This year, it
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  Speaker 2: was my first time going to the Gold Gala. And
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  Speaker 2: she actually performed Girls Like Girls an orchestral version, and I.
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  Speaker 1: Love an orchestral version.
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  Speaker 2: It's so beautiful. And by the way, that's what her
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  Speaker 2: manager said, we should her.
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  Speaker 1: Style like the quartet doing girls like Girls. I'm like
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  Speaker 1: me thinking about that.
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  Speaker 2: I've heard that song one million times, it is, but
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  Speaker 2: even still watching her performance, I had tears in my
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  Speaker 2: eyes the whole time. Like you, It's just has that impact.
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  Speaker 2: And they showed the trailer for the movie before she
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  Speaker 2: came out, and I'm just so proud of her. She
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  Speaker 2: just no one works harder than Haley. It's the most
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  Speaker 2: impressive thing I've ever seen. And I obviously am her
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  Speaker 2: partner and I get to witness it very closely. But
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  Speaker 2: I don't even think people realize that in and outs
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  Speaker 2: of her day, it's just to create and to make
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  Speaker 2: things because she she wants to have. She wants people
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  Speaker 2: like her to have content to look at and to
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  Speaker 2: see themselves in. And I think it's amazing because obviously
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  Speaker 2: she's done so much for the LGBTQ plus community, but
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  Speaker 2: now it's like she's really wanting to celebrate her Asian
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  Speaker 2: culture and like where she comes from, and like, I
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  Speaker 2: just think it's amazing. She's incredible. So anyways, we did
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  Speaker 2: that and she was flawless and looked incredible, and we
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  Speaker 2: got to do as did you.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: I loved my dress.
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  Speaker 1: You looked at giving devil wors Prada.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, thank you. Yeah, it was really fun to
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  Speaker 2: get dressed up and go out where we both felt
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  Speaker 2: good about her. You know how sometimes you get ready
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  Speaker 2: for an event and you're like, oh, I just the
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  Speaker 2: time comes and you're like, I don't even want to
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  Speaker 2: take pictures. And sometimes those events are just so draining
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  Speaker 2: and you get there and you're feeling total imposter syndrome.
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  Speaker 2: But I also think being the plus one of your
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  Speaker 2: if you want me to say pictures, I'll be there.
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  Speaker 2: And then they were like, let's get pictures of you
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  Speaker 2: by yourself, so I didn't have to do anything. I
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  Speaker 2: was simply a a accessory.
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  Speaker 1: Accessory and very pretty accessory. Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: So it was really fun.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, Beca's so chill about this. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, Like I was like hi, I was
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  Speaker 1: just like trying to like chit chat with you, and
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  Speaker 1: then I like checked your occation. I was like, where
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  Speaker 1: the hell is she? And then I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: saw a photo and I was like where are you
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  Speaker 1: and She's like I'm at the gold Gala. I'm like mix, kay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like you don't like flow up a flare gum, Like,
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  Speaker 1: let me know these like big events in your life.
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  Speaker 1: I will do that.
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  Speaker 2: If you care, If you'd like to know, I'm happy.
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  Speaker 1: I'd love to know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy to tell you every move I made.
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  Speaker 1: Were you hob not being with Prianca Jonas Joe bra No,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. Okay, So Prianca Joe bratonas we are.
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  Speaker 2: We got there early because since Hailey is performing, we
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  Speaker 2: had to do the carpet and pressed stuff earlier. And
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  Speaker 2: then I think the celebrity like Prianca and it was
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  Speaker 2: like Mindy Kayling and Chrissy Tigan and John Legend. They
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  Speaker 2: all came I think later because we were walking to
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  Speaker 2: Haley's green room and they were just arriving to the carpet.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but still, oh, you're like, once you're in the event,
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  Speaker 1: did you see them?
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't in the event really because we went back
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  Speaker 2: to them.
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  Speaker 1: No, we well, we met a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Of people after, but I didn't see any of them
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  Speaker 2: at the after party, so I don't know if they were.
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  Speaker 2: We we like went to the after party and then
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  Speaker 2: did a little loop and then said it's bad time.
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  Speaker 1: Uh uh naturally, so but it.
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  Speaker 2: Was really fun, and I was like, that's so cool
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  Speaker 2: that Hailey gets to perform and everyone, all those people
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  Speaker 2: get her trailer and then listen to her, you know, perform.
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  Speaker 2: So it was really fun. And the lead of her movie, Maya,
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  Speaker 2: she presented Haley with Sherry Cola, who's one of our friends,
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  Speaker 2: and it was really special because it was Maya's first
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  Speaker 2: She's up and coming.
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  Speaker 1: And coming, and she looks just like Haley. No, that's Mayra.
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  Speaker 2: It's Maya and Myra, and I just feel like everyone's
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  Speaker 2: gonna fall in love with them. They're just so cute
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  Speaker 2: and special and they're amazing.
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  Speaker 1: In the movie. One of them looks just like Haley,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like freaky, Yeah she talked.
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  Speaker 2: About because she's Yeah Maya, Mayra is beauty.
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  Speaker 1: They're both so beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: But anyways, it was really fun and I love getting
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  Speaker 2: to celebrate Haley and I love that she's getting the
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  Speaker 2: recognition that she deserves.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you do this weekend? I did a
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  Speaker 1: lot this weekend. Your girl was booked and busy. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like you're always booked and busy. It's the life
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  Speaker 1: of show girl. Baby, what were you booked?
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  Speaker 2: And I knew you did something Sunday, But what did
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  Speaker 2: you do? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: We'd had a Shabbat on Friday night and then it
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  Speaker 1: was so it was Mother's Day weekend, so we celebrated
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  Speaker 1: my mom last weekend, which she loved, Like she was
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  Speaker 1: so happy with the time, like it was like perfect,
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  Speaker 1: It's all she wanted. And then this on Saturday, I
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  Speaker 1: took up. We took out my mother in law. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so we did like a really nice lunch, like sat
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  Speaker 1: down favorite restaurant, like spent a lot of time. So
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  Speaker 1: that was like perfect chef's kiss. And then Sunday was
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  Speaker 1: Mother's Day, and because we'd already celebrated my mom, we'd
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  Speaker 1: celebrated my mother in law, Sunday was like open and
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  Speaker 1: I was kind of like dreading it a little bit
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  Speaker 1: just because of like everything that I've been going through.
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  Speaker 1: I was like preparing Robbie. I was like, I'm scared,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like emotional on this day. Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: just like preparing you, like da da da da. This
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  Speaker 1: man like when I tell you, so, he makes me
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  Speaker 1: breakfast in bed.
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  Speaker 2: Like five star Michelin restaurant breakfast.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think you understand. So like I there are
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  Speaker 1: these lemon ricotta pancakes at this Santa Barbara hotel that
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  Speaker 1: we go to. They are the best. They're gluten free.
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  Speaker 1: They are the best gluten free pancakes I've ever had
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  Speaker 1: my life. I get them every time we go there,
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  Speaker 1: and I just don't stop talking about them because I'm
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  Speaker 1: like don't understand how gluten free pancake can be this
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  Speaker 1: fluffy and delicious, like it is so good. So he
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  Speaker 1: recreated this gluten free lemon ricotta pancake for me. It
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  Speaker 1: looked amazing and like tasted even better. Wow. And that
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  Speaker 1: was like supposed to be like the like tip off
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  Speaker 1: to what we were doing for the day. Oh, I see,
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  Speaker 1: because it was like the pancakes from Santa Barbara. Huh.
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  Speaker 1: And so his plan was just to like keep me
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  Speaker 1: like busy the whole day, just so I didn't really
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  Speaker 1: like get into my emotions as I like tend to
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  Speaker 1: do and like go south. So it made me breakfast
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  Speaker 1: in bed. The kids wrote me cards like that was
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  Speaker 1: really really sweet, and then they went to do their
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  Speaker 1: Mother's Day and then Robbie took me to Santa Barbara.
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  Speaker 1: We had this like beautiful lunch and we sat there
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  Speaker 1: for a little bit and then we went to this
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  Speaker 1: hotel and we just played cards all afternoon, like we
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  Speaker 1: were gone the whole day. I had the best day. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Robbie's really just one of a kind guy.
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  Speaker 1: I think I think he because I was talking him
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  Speaker 1: about it when we were like driving home, and I
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  Speaker 1: was like, even just like the being in the car
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  Speaker 1: for an hour and a half, Like I loved like
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  Speaker 1: having that time, and like I was so worried and
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  Speaker 1: I was so scared, and he was like, I just
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  Speaker 1: wanted to keep you occupied, and I also want you
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  Speaker 1: to know, like how much your role in my kids'
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  Speaker 1: lives means to me and it means to them, and
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  Speaker 1: I just like want.
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  Speaker 3: You to know that.
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  Speaker 1: And it was just really nice.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm Monica and Rachel are talking to an environment.
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  Speaker 1: I've been saying.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's like the feeling of being seen and
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  Speaker 2: like known, knowing what you needed that day without you
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  Speaker 2: having to ask for the distraction, you know, him planning
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  Speaker 2: something that he knew that you loved, but also was
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  Speaker 2: going to keep your mind busy.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, like if we'd stay at home and like
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  Speaker 1: watched barbecue bral or like no, now we're done with
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  Speaker 1: barbecue bra or watching Bobby Flay. There are thirty eight
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  Speaker 1: seasons of.
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  Speaker 3: Or more.
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  Speaker 1: I think there's like forty two. Yeah, you would have
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  Speaker 1: been in your head. Yeah, I would have been like
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  Speaker 1: I would have I would have gone south quick.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's kind of an interesting holiday because everyone's posting
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  Speaker 2: about it, like you can't keep it.
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  Speaker 1: And I even.
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  Speaker 2: Found myself being like do I need to have kids?
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  Speaker 1: Like I found myself being like do I need this?
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  Speaker 2: And it's because it's like you're it's just infiltrating into
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  Speaker 2: and you're getting to see people celebrating and it's like
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  Speaker 2: so joyful and beautiful, and you're like you feel like
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  Speaker 2: you don't have kids. You're kind of like am I
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  Speaker 2: supposed to be doing this? Or what's happening? You know,
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  Speaker 2: it's kind of a thing you can't escape unless you
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  Speaker 2: just turn off your phone. It's a beautiful thing. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: it's like such a beautiful day and getting to celebrate
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  Speaker 2: women and moms and and.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's been fun.
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  Speaker 2: Our so many of our friends are new moms and
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  Speaker 2: them getting to have their first Mother's Day. Jordan's option
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  Speaker 2: to Jojo I was like, oh my god, I just
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  Speaker 2: I just have to say the men that are close
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  Speaker 2: to me in my life and that are my friends
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  Speaker 2: are married to and Easton and Mark, like the guys
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  Speaker 2: in my life. I just feel I'm so lucky because
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  Speaker 2: there's a lot of shitty guys out there, and I
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  Speaker 2: feel like the ones that I get to witness they
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  Speaker 2: have restored my faith. And seriously, I mean there's so
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  Speaker 2: much bad and there's horrible women too, but I'm just
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  Speaker 2: saying like there's like cream of the crop men that
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  Speaker 2: I get to witness and that I get to experience
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  Speaker 2: as a friend, but also that my friends get to experience,
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  Speaker 2: and it's wonderful.
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  Speaker 1: But you're so right. It is like psychological warfare on
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  Speaker 1: the day because it's like you're right. Your feet is
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  Speaker 1: like inundated with it when you're in when you're like
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  Speaker 1: trying to conceive. I do feel like pregnancy announcements have
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  Speaker 1: been all I see on my social media, and it's like,
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  Speaker 1: what is it. It's like that there's term for all. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Mother's Day, Like it's just like hit, it just hits different.
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  Speaker 4: Whatever can go wrong will go wrong.
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  Speaker 5: Oh okay, what everything think about you attract Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: FRUGI Frudians Freudian, there's no fruge Prugin's.
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  Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 2: Though, It's like you talk about something, especially now, I
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  Speaker 2: do think when you talk about something, your algorithm Taylor's
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  Speaker 2: there like.
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  Speaker 1: A baby boom right now, Like every day there's a
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  Speaker 1: new pregnancy announcement.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I think we're at that age though too.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, especially in a realm, yes, it is a lot.
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  Speaker 1: And so I was like, I think I was just
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: like I was planning for the psychological warfare and so
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: I was like kind of working myself up for it. Yeah,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: And it's so crazy because I'm reading this book it's
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: called May Cause Miracles by Gabrielle Bernstein, and it's like
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: a forty day workbook basically, and I started it on
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: the day before Mother's Day, and I honestly feel like
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: that helped me like switch my perspective, do you know
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: what I mean? Because I'm like, at least, like a
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: lot of people don't have a relationship with their mothers,
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: or their mothers have passed away, or do you know
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: what I mean. So I'm like, at least I have that,
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: and I have a beautiful mother in law, and I
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: have all these amazing people in my life, and I
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: was just like focusing on the like love in my
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: life versus the thing that I don't have, right, And
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: it really like changed my day, changed my mood completely.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I love that. Like, I think I expected to be
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: just like crying all day yesterday and I was not.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I was like so happy.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Well, I think that's the beauty of the mind and
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: the power of the mind of you know, we can
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: focus so much on what we don't have, and we
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: kind of forget about the things that we do have.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: And I think it's obviously easier said than done. But
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: if you can shift your mindset and be able to
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: look at the love and the people and the things
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: that you do have that you're surrounded by that make
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: life so beautiful, you can hold space.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: For both of those things, holding space because you can.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: You can you can have that feeling of yearning or
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: wanting or you know, being sad or whatever, and also
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: acknowledge the beautiful life you do have, yeah, and things
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: you do have. Yeah, I'm glad you had.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Such a lovely day.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I did.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: That.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Those pancakes were gonna Everybody kept hitting me up, like,
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: what's the recipe and I'm like, I'll get it, and
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I'm such a chef. Robbie is, Yeah, I know, I
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: have to get him something. I'm thinking for Father's Day.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I have to get him something like cooking related. But
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: he's like so into all that stuff that I'm like,
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: I can't get the wrong thing, you know what I mean? Yeah,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I do some research.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Did you see this?
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Uh?
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Switching gears majorly? Did you see that? Chad Michael Murray
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: liked our Real and Scrubbing in with James Lafferty.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: We do have to like have a little bit of
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: a debrief of our interview with them, but maybe we'll
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: do it after we take a break.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: Perfect we're back.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: We're back. Stephen COLLETTI and James Lafferty love them. I
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: do want to tell everybody. Before they came in and
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: they sat down, I was like, who in your lives
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: is a scrubber? Like I literally thought somebody in their
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: life was a scrubber because they weren't doing interviews with
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: anybody else really, they had like two other podcasts that
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: they were doing, so like, surely somebody on their team
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: is a scrubber.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: So they like, we our community and Tanya Easton Mark
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: and I we refer like our listeners are scrubbers.
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: But beyond that world, no one knows what the scrubber is, right,
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: And so Tanya goes, so I have to ask, who
• 19:53
  Speaker 6: in your life is a scrubber?
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: And Stephen looks and goes and looks over James scrubber.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: That wasn't on the prep. Yeah, they're like scrubber.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, you, guys, I'm so sorry.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: Tanya is thinking she shocked that you're here. It did
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: not go the way I expected. So for future, I
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: will never ask that question again. Yeah.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: These two men who were just like here because their
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: team sent them here, They're like, yeah, scrubber, scrubber, scrubber, scrubber,
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: scrubbers a scrubber.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: They were so nice and so kind and we'd love
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: to have them back. But afterwards we were kind of
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: rushed because they did have an interview right after us.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: And normally after we'll do like a tick. If we
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: have a plan to do a TikTok or photos, we
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: do it after we record.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but we always take photos. Photos are a must.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we always take a photo and then I always
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: try to find a TikTok that we can do if
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: they're willing to do it. And so we were rush
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: and we took photos and I was like, oh, shoot,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: we don't have time to do a TikTok and they
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: were like, oh darn, like they were definitely thrilled to
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: have missed my proposition of.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Doing at So the best part is they come back
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: into this room to like do whatever else they were doing.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: And here's some other interviews interviews. Beck and I fully
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: let go. We do like a full dance recital. We
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: have like a whole thing.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Well no, because we asked, we go, oh, is this
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: a long interview they're doing? And and Sam was like,
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: so we were waiting for that. Sam goes, they should be.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: They should finish soon if you want to do it.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: So I go, okay, Tanya, I'm going to teach you
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: a dance and we'll do a dance thing and then
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: if if they're done when we finish, I'll ask them.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: So then I go to we go, We start walking.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: We see that they're done, and I'm like, the door's open.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: We can't ask them. We can't ask it's so embarrassing,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: like it's been an hour, like this is so awkward.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: We kept waiting for this.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: This is so awkward, and I'm like, honestly, what what
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: am I trying? I'm not trying to be best friends
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: with them? You know when am I going to see
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: them again?
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: There's no night.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: And you know what Becca did said if not me,
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: who and if not here?
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Never wait?
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no truly, And so I just set herself.
• 22:08
  Speaker 6: In here and said, I said, I know y'all thought
• 22:11
  Speaker 6: y'all got away with it, not without doing a TikTok,
• 22:14
  Speaker 6: but I'm bad.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: And I showed them the video and they were totally down.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: It was easy enough. They didn't have to do anything.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: And I will say I give you full credit for that.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I never ever would have asked them to do it.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: I would not have done it myself. Had it not
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: been for you, we wouldn't have gotten it. It was epic.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: But I'm trying to I still want to get my
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: photo with James. I really wanted a photo with like
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: me and my boyfriend. And Betho was like, Kwandi one
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: one of the two of you, and I was like,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I can't, I can't, I can't. Yeah, now the time
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: is gone and it's like why not. I know, you know,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: it passed and poof, I don't have my photo.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: Well maybe we can have them back on and we
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: can get you a photo with him.
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: I'm so jealous that I was not here for that.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: I was on assignment out of the country. Yeah. I
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: was such a big Laguna Beach fan. And like we
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: they came on with Jana like in twenty eighteen or
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: something like right when we all started the podcast talking
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: about this project that they're it's finally out, Like it's like, oh,
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: it's been so you know that that series they're working
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: on has been so long in the making. And when
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: I saw it was kind of on screaming in. I
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: got all excited and I'm so sad I wasn't here. Yeah,
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: great episode though, it.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Was pretty epic. He was.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: They were both so nice.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: They were so nice, and you know what's interesting, I'm
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: like really starting to like look at men differently now.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: Interesting.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it is interesting because I think I'm like,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: maybe it's my age, I'm not really sure, but I
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: think a lot of men are creeps can be creeps, amen,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: And so when they're not and they I don't get
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: creep energy from them, like it really like blows my mind.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I didn't get creep energy Zerau creep energy from either
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: of them times a million. Like they are loyal, loving
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: family men that like are in this weird, crazy industry,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Like no creep at all. Yeah, yeah, I feel like
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: they're amazing.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Do you have any other like got people from that
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: era of television that you'd love to have on the
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: podcast right off the top of your head?
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, anybody from Vampire Diaries, anybody from Gossip Girl? Yeah,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: but it's different with women. Oh you're about men?
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh okay, so yeah.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Paul Wesley, uh who Gossip Girl, Penn Badge, le.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Penn Badge, he has a podcast. We could maybe get
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: him on.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: The Stars.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: No, you're all about like we can get Patrick Dempsey
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And then it's someone that like feels
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: relatively possible, and you're like, I laugh.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't laugh at that snicker maybe a little snicker.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: But you're you're like, we need Emmy Award winning Sandra, Oh,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: like we can get her, and then it's like we
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: can't get Penn Bachelor.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I feel like we can get Pitt and Bachelor. Would
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: do you have anybody like that? Chad Michael Murray. You
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: love Chad Michael Murray.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'd be happy to have John Michael Murray.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: But i'd love like Hillary Duff or someone like I
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: would love some just you know, I'm thinking millennial.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: M that's tough for me.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: Adam Brody, Oh.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: I'd like to have Adam Brody.
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: Yes to only talk about the yes.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: No, no, Yeah, I'll think on it. Shoot for the Stars,
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: I was, I thought, because Haley met Sandra at the
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Gold Gallo last year, and so I I just knew
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: she was gonna be there and it was gonna be
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: my moment, but she wasn't there two next time. So
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: speaking of men, I speaking of there's a little bit
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: of discourse right now about I feel like we've probably
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: touched on this before, but men wearing flip flops, and
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I feel like I used to have it maybe a
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: different opinion on this than I do now, And I
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: wanted to get your opinion, which I think I know
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: because you're like you're having an aversion to feet in.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: General, major foot version.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but do you feel that way about Robbie's feet?
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: So I love Robbie's feet, like I think his feet
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: are gorgeous. I think that he could like model his feet,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Like if you think the hands are good, waits to
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: those feet.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: However, only I should see his feet. Oh interesting, His
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: feet do not need to be out prancing around town.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: But I'm so grateful because he's the same way as me,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Like he would never have the dogs out like walking
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: around town, so you would not catch him in a
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: flip flop unless he's like at the beach.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: I used to feel very strongly I think about men
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: showing their feet and just being one against it, But
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: I've changed my tune on it. What Yeah, because I
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: think if you have well groomed and manicured feet, which.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Which all men do.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I'm that I'm saying there are specifics here, okay,
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: But I feel that way about women too, Like I
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: don't want to see your feet if they're not manicured
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: and like taking care of in general just people. But
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: I'm like, we're I think we're being a little too
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: hard about men and their footwear. I think if they
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: take care of their feet, they should be able to
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: If they have a linen shirt and pants on, what
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: are they supposed to wear like a clover?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: A low fer, like a like a like, I don't
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: know what they're called.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: But like a beach town a Tom.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: A Tom, Robbie's gonna wear Tom's in the sand.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: I'd rather see a man with nice feet in a
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: flop than a Tom. Yeah, you heard it here from
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: Wow hot tag. I just think that they should be
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: able to express I like wearing a flip flop. I
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: think it looks cute with a like linen flowy pant,
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: and I feel like a man should be able to
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: express himself and a flop wow. Yeah, but you do have.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: To take care of the feet, yeah, and many men
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: don't and some women don't.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Correct and if you're and also if you're brave enough
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: and you feel emboldened to go out there with your ungroomed,
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: manicured feet, more power to you.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Tom gets a nightmare. I will never get over the
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: image when we're flying back from the Bahamas and I
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: was next to that girl on the airplane and her
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: dogs were out on the plane. No, it's a totally
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: different situation though. I was just like totally shook when
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: I see people flip flopping around at the airport on
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: the plane.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: Actually, I'm against a thousand percent any gender, you have.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: To wear clothed tod on a plane. You can't go
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: on rides at Disneyland with your toes out, Like why
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: would you get on an airplane with your toes? It's
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: dangerous machinery. Yes, you're around heavy machinery that could fall
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: on your toes.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Like you know what, like enters through your feet.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: The feet are like the epicenter of the body.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know if that's scientifically correct, but I do think.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Do you must start doing what I've been seeing this
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: on Instagram. But basically, you like step you you get
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: like a like you know, like the silver platters in
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: the kitchen, like a silver platter you like put in
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: the oven or whatever. Yeah, you put you're talking about
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: like a baking sheet, sure, like a big one that
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: can step on, and you put salt on it and
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: you put your bare feet in it for ten minutes
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: the salt and apparently supposed to have like amazing benefits
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: deeper sleep, better digestion.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Because you just to grab some salt. Bath.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: So I'm also having like a little bit of a
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: bath version right now. Oh my gosh, are you good?
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: What's happening?
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: You're you're taking in too much content on social media
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: or do you think, well, yeah, who told you that
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: was bad or something?
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Every time I was bad. It's just like my preference
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: right now, Like I just like don't enjoy being submerged
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: in water. I don't really enjoy swimming right now.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Is it because your feet are out too vulnerable having
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: to look at your feet? And I don't know what
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: it is, to be honest, I think it's like cold.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I guess the bath is warm, yeah, same with a shower. Yeah,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm gonna try this this foot thing.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: We were in the like pool, hot dog whatever yesterday
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: and we were like doing holding your breath contest and
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: handstand contest, and Hailey's like, you're literally a child. I
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: was like, time me, I'm gonna go under and see
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: how I can hold my breath.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not being submerged in water, you do. I love it.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: It's so.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know me scorp Yeah, no, I love it.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: So I'm very I'm on a very opposite journey, you
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: know I was.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: I'm in the water.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: I'm pro flip flops for men, I'm pro bath, I'm
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: pro submersion of water.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tough living in this head. Try living.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: Keep her busy, otherwise she'll go on these these journeys.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: You wait till you see me after this forty day
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: workbook that I'm doing this. I love that.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: We'll do anything but start the Artist Way.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Why can I tell you something about this feels like
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: a really good entry into the Artist Way for me
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: because it's forty days. The Artist Way is seven weeks.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: How many days is that? Sometimes seven forty nine, sometimes seven.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: It's not that much different.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I don't know why we're maybe because
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: we know it's going to be life changing.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: So I'm not ready for the life change, like I've
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: had a lot of like change in my life. He's
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: up on the change.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: My brain, though, for some reason, is like you can't
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: start it on any day but Monday.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Oh so I was on a Sunday.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: Oh interesting, because I keep going every Sunday. I'm like,
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: I'm going to start the Artist Way tomorrow, and then
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: I don't do it, and then I'm like, well, next week,
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: I'll do it.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: So maybe this will be the springboard to get us
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: in because I started it on Saturday, and this book
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: is like very digestible. It's like maybe like two or
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: three pages a day, and you have like exercises every day.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: But it's very like doable and I'm very enjoying it.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I've only done it two days now, Saturday, Sunday, Monday,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: three days. Yeah, but I'm loving it.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's good, good momentum. Yeah. Did you see
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: in the video of Lisa Kudro talking about how horrible
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: of a boyfriend Ross.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Was to Rachel? No? She did.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I think she was on a talk show or something,
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: and she basically was saying, like he was a horrible
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: boyfriend and like he they were.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: I think she her her take.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: Is that they were not on a break, like they
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: were just having a fight because he was upset that
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: she was working and he was horrible to her and
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: then tried to like turn it on her. And this
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: argument kills me because I love Rachel and Ross together.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: They were like one of my I watched edits of them.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I love and Rachel together. Did you watch video edits?
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Did she see my post about that? I don't watch
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: video edits. My algorithm is very different. Serrie Fields on
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Survivor doing with her eyelash. They're staying on for forty.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Days I'm talking about like when you were younger and
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: loved TV shows and we didn't have social media. You
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: do YouTube edits.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Interesting.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: I saw your post about that, and because to me
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: that that's a fairly occurrence the edits, Like I was not,
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: They did not come across my desk until like, oh.
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: My god, Derek and Meredith edits on YouTube to a
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: gut wrenching song. I would watch over and over again.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: No.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: I did the same with Rosse and Rachel.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I would.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: I would exclusively watch the seasons when they were together,
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: only of friends for a long time.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Did you see the news about Moura Higgins leaving after
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: some you don't care.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: I don't not care, but I didn't see it. So
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: she's leaving, Sierah Miller and Kelly are joining. Yes, yeh,
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: they're the new hosts.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: But do you know what that means that Maura is No,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: it means that in a new season of Love Island
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: is upon us June second.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, didn't they release a trailer or something they did?
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I thought I saw someone.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Say there was a trailer, or like maybe just Ariano
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Maddox like talking about it coming out, or.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I haven't seen a trailer. I would be.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: I don't think they showed any contestants, but there's rumors
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: that uh Jana Jana Janney from Yes Janey, that she's
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: coming back or something. That's a speculation, but that's what
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I saw. I don't think i'd like that.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: No, I think it needs to be all new and
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: it needs power dynamic.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: I tried to watch season five of Love isolind Uk
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: again and.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: I couldn't get through it. Again.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: There's no way because the people tell you talk about,
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: like Molly and Tommy aren't even in the original cast.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course you have to like it. Watch you
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: have to watch the season, but no one at the
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: beginning it strikes me as like, interesting, who's that in
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: the beginning, I couldn't tell you. Oh my gosh, the
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: whole season was amazing, top to bottom.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: You can't force it, is what I've realized. Dang Haley
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: is caught up on Survivor by the way, She's.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Caught up goodness, someone I have.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so she's more than willing to talk sol I'm
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: barely paying attention, by the way, and she's like, this
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: is the craziest episode.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: No.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Also she doesn't understand. So spoiler alert if you are
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: not caught up on Survivor, You're about to get a
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: major spoiler. But Ozzie was voted out this last week.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: And if you don't understand the lore with Ozzy, like
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: he has played many times and he is like known
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: as the guy who went home from a Survivor with
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: an idol in his pocket, So that was like his legacy.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: So the fact that he's not playing on Survivor fifty
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: and he went home again with an idol in his
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: pocket is just like so devastating. Why do wait?
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I thought an idol blocks you from being able to becase,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: but you have to play it.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Oh, So they're like, why would you not play the
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: idol if you have any sniff that you're going home
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: that night? Why would you not play your idol? And
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: then also like, okay, shame on me once. I did
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: it once back in two thousand and eight. Surely on
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: season fifty, I learned my lesson. Yeah he did not.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: It's like it's like in baseball when you let three
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: strikes go by without swinging because you're scared you're gonna miss.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to hold onto it because you think like, oh,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I'm good this round, and you want to hold onto it.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: So who are you rooting for? Well, Ozzie was my
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: number one and now he's gone. Yeah that was devastating.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I mean my heart was shattered. So who are you?
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Who?
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: Who are you?
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I'm rooting for Sorie. She likes yeah, and she's played.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: She's we got to get her on the podcast. She
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: has magical powers. Like the way she can sway people
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: and how they haven't voted her out like right away
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: is crazy to me.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: She's calm, she's respected, and there's a likability to her
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: that doesn't feel like she's too forced or anything. Yeah,
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: and I think that's what it is. And there's a
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: very specific personality type that you have to be in
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: Survivor to get people to not vote you out.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: People were saying, so Serene and Ozzie were like in
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: an alliance together, and this last episode they split the
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: tribe into two and they did two vote offs, and
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Ozzie and Siri were split into two different tribes. And
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: people were like, the one minute that Ozzie's away from Syria,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: he can't he just set up for himself. I'm like,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: it's true.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: So what happens?
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: What happens when you don't have the power around. Yeah,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: ain't that the truth? My friend? Is that not the truth?
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: We're back. Have you listened to Noah Cullen's new album?
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: Have you listened to Megan Trainers album? No?
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: But I cannot stress enough to you how much you
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: need to listen to this album.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: It's I can't stress you enough. How good this Megan Trainer? Although,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: do you know what's interesting? But I haven't seen so
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: many Megan Trainer haters.
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: It's like weird like singing her songs.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about how much I like them. So I'm like,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: why is my algorithm feeding me Megan Trainer hate when
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: I'm like clearly a fan.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: Okay, So I I cannot figure this out because it's
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: one thing to not like someone's music. There's so many
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: people where I don't listen to their music just because
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: it's not my style or whatever. I just choose not
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: to listen to it. But I don't need to hate
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: that artist for it. It's just that's not my style.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: For whatever reason, people have gotten so comfortable hating her
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: and bullying her, and she doesn't In my mind, I'm like,
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: she doesn't do anything to anybody. Yeah, unless I miss something.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: I'm like, why does she get so much unsolicited hate?
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, my entire algorithm is like so much
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: hate from like her outfits, trying to be Sabrina Carpenter,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: to her weight loss, her body's yeah, the music, how
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: she can't make it. I'm like, you're actually like it's
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: actually inaccurate, Like she's made like a lot of amazing hits.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: But my thing is if it's not your style or
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: she's not your your favorite artist, that's fine.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy. I just find it so
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: insane that our world is so crazy that you could
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: go on TikTok and you could see five hundred reviews
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: of the Devil Wars Prada two and how horrible it is,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: And then if you're on a different algorithm, you can
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: see five hundred reviews of the Devil Wors product too
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: and how amazing it was. It's like, it just depends
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: on what side of the algorithm you're on and what
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: you're getting.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: Like fat, I don't want to be on someone getting
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: hated on unless it's a bad person. I don't want
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: to be on the algorithm. So I always am just like,
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: why are people so comfortable being so mean to someone who,
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: from what I've gathered and know about Megan Trainers just
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: put like positivity and fun and try to make fun
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: music out.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like so what she maybe sounds a little doo woppy?
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I get good?
• 40:44
  Speaker 5: Yes, ye, no good for you to get gone, Get
• 40:48
  Speaker 5: gone and tell that boy too to lou.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Whoa nice yeah.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: But what I will say about Noha Khan speaking, I
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: watched this documentary too. Oh while you're deep in Oh
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: my god, I I love him. We're going to see
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: him this summer. I'm like, where are you seeing him
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: in San Diego?
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Where?
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: What?
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: Theater at pat Co Park?
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: He is doing stadiums. We've moved on from theaters. But
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: he does such a great job. He sings about things
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: that I would find so difficult to talk about, like
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: the challenges of family dynamics and relationships and your parents
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: dynamic and it's so real and I always am so
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: impressed that he has found a way to sing about
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: it and write about it in a way that's just
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: makes people feel seen. And it must be challenging for
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: his parents to hear it. You know, I always think
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: about how I don't talk about any of anything about
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: my family as much as possible, because in my mind,
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I chose this life where I share
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: my life, but they didn't choose it. So I try
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: to be respectful of like talking about my family and stuff,
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: because I think that's challenging and very nuanced and how
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: you do it. But I just stay away from it because,
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: like I said, I chose this lifestyle, they didn't. But
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: he puts it all out there and he writes about
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: it so beautifully.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: What does he say about it?
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: Just like the thing he talks about, like just this complication,
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: the lyrics about his dad and like some of his
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: I mean, even in Stick Season he talks about like
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: cancel out the the bad parts from my dad and
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: stuff like he just talks about things that are so like.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: Tell me, I need you to listen to the album
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, but you can.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: He has a song called Orbiter, and I thought it
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: was a romance, like a love song, and I actually
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: posted a video of me and Haley to it, but
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: I've been seeing videos talking about how it's about his
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: mom and how he views her and it's this beautiful song.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: What's the song about about?
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: The lyric is like I'm an Astronaut, You're the Moon,
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: like I stare at you, I see to you. And
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: it's about them going to the Grammys and him losing
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: his first Grammy and like her being there with him
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: and him getting to basically sing her through his eyes.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: It's just beautiful. But anyways, his music's amazing.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: I love him. That is one of those people where
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: you're like I love lyrics, No, and you're like, tell
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: me about the movie. You're like, you just have to
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: see it. I'm like, no, just tell me. I will
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: go see the movie. Even if you tell me the
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: ending of the movie. I will still see the movie.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: Well, I just gave you lyrics.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: You just have to listen. You just have to try it.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's this other song called like Downfall, and it's
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: basically about like praying for someone's downfall, but in a
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: way of like I hope You're like, I can't remember
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: the exactly, it's kind of like I hope that like
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: traffic's bad, or I hope your pillows warm, you know,
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: like that kind of stuff.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: It's so funny you say that, because Megan Tranner has
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: a song like that well parallels. It's called Chef's Kiss
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: and the lyrics are literally, I hope you get a
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: little a little bit of choke on your food, a
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: little bit you'll lose an any bitty rock in your shoes,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about, a little bit of she
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: cheats on you, a little bit of iceberg on your cruise,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: a little bit of salt in your wounds.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Well, his is more like a poetic like, Yeah, it's
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: basically like I hope this street lights bleed into your bedroom,
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: you know, like when you can't sleep because the street
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: lights are coming into your curtains and you can't sleep,
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: and it's not too deep for you. But also Chapel
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Rone has her song My Kink is Karma. That's what
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: she talks about. It's basically like Kara's going to catch you.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: You know. Did you see all the discourse about Jake
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: Shane and his interview with Kazy Musgraves.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he asked about so when he asked.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: About the lyric from Shooting Hole.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: She's basically like, I'm in Tennessee and people are waking up.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: And ad I'm gonna find it because it's just too
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: It's a very straightforward lyrics.
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah about time zones, Yes, And he's like, I love
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: the lyric, What did you mean by that?
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: He's like, thus slow burn and the lyric is in Tennessee,
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: the sun's going down, but in Beijing they're heading out
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: to work. Yes, yes, I love to hate on Jake Shane.
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: Let me just say I do.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: I find him to be an awful interviewer. However, I
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: want to stick up for him here because I think
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: he was looking for a deeper meaning in that lyric.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: There's like something else going on, like why those two
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: specific places? Why did she choose that? And she did
• 45:42
  Speaker 4: not have an answer for him, which I'd go back
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: because he's like he looks really he's you know, everyone's
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: like roasting him, just mercilessly, like, oh, this is a
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: pretty straightforward lyric. Why are you so confused by it?
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: I would have looked I would have done a similar thing.
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: So I think it's fine.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: I actually love Jake Shane and his interview where he
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: is interviewing have you seen this interview with Ed sheeran no,
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: and he goes yeah, when you're like, don't work like
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: they used to before? And he like laughs out loud
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: and then Ed goes, yeah, it was about my grandma
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: when she couldn't walk anymore, and Jake's like, oh, I
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: love him so I but I love that she she
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: didn't even try to give him a deeper meaning.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, just means what it says time zones
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: and like people are just ripping him apart, and I'm like,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: I'm with you. I thought, I mean, I thought the
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: lyric was very straightforward. I've never once wondered like, what
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: does she mean by this? But I feel like when
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: you're talking to musicians like and super serious musicians, like
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I've never interviewed Casey Musgraves, but I feel like I
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: would take it very seriously, you know what I mean?
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: Like I would ask her all like the deep meetings
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: behind things.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: And so I think she's an artist who writes pretty
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: straightforward lyrics. I don't think she's you don't. I don't
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: think you really have to decode things from her.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Well, I feel like that's art is the hands of
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: the beholder, do you know what I mean? Like I
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: decode the out of her stuff, and that's that's how
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: I like take all music. But I feel like you
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: sometimes when you're interviewing somebody that's like a super serious musician,
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: like they like to be asked that stuff about like
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: what's the meaning behind this, and like they like you
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: pulling apart their lyrics, And so I love to interview
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: a coon, then I would love to interview a con Yeah,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: but I do. I also to feel bad of all
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: the hate that he's getting from it, because people are going.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: In once you get though, like once you he's so
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: popular and if our podcast was that popular and people
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: watch our interviews, we would get roasted.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: It's just the facts. Sometimes I'm grateful that we're not available.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel grateful for loyal.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: Yes, interviews really depend on the person that you're interviewing,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, if you're interviewing
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: someone that's super serious and not playful and you're a
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: playful person, like that's going to be such a tough
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: interview for you to do. Yeah. I agree. Yeah, I've
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: had some red carpets where I'm like, oh, like, I know,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: I can't be like my goofy add just like stick
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: to like the music, you know what I mean?
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, some people are down to just start.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: Reading the room.
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: Not everybody can do it.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: It's totally true. Sometimes I can, and sometimes I don't.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I just am like panicking, wondering what my next
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: question is going to be. It's a really bad feeling.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: And I don't think people who if you if you're
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: only if you haven't been in the position where you're
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: interviewing someone and the conversation gets cut and you're trying
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: to think of what do I ask next? If they're
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: not in the mood to chit chat. I get panicky
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: internally personally, yeah, and then I ask something that probably
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: makes no sense, and it's like why was that my?
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Why was that? What came? Why did that come to
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: the front of mine?
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: What?
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: Also, I feel like there's like a fine like dance right,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: So it's like everybody that comes in, they're coming out
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: to promote something, right, So it's like they're coming on
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: to promote something, so that's what they want to talk about,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: but that's not necessarily what you want to talk about.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: So it's like this dance right of how do I
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: talk about what you are coming on to promote? But
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: also like what our listeners care about exactly. It's tough,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: it's not for the faint of heart.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: No, we're doing hard hitting journalism here people, so well,
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: that is all for now, but we do have a
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: Thursday episode.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: That's right. We have Bill and Juliana Ransick, that's right,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: which is epic.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I love them. I love their relationship. I love Juliana.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I feel like I when I was working for Ryan
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: for the first I think five or six years, we
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: were in the E building because he was doing E
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: News with Juliana, so I saw her in the hallways
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: all the time. And she's just an icon. Yeah.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: She I feel like the led the way for the
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: red carpet journalists, interviewer, celebrity interviewers.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: She was the trailblazer, trailblazer, she was the shooting star.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: Well, she'll be on the podcast on Thursday, so you
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: can hear our interview with them. And hope you have
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: a wonderful week.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: Love you, love you so much.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: Bye,