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The Divine Delay: When the Universe Says "Not Yet" · Our Soul Whisper™ with Cathi Belmont Self Discovery ~ Empowerment ~ Inspired Action

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Our Soul Whisper with Kathy Belmont and co
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  Speaker 1: host Doctor Pat, a sacred space for self discovery, healing,
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  Speaker 1: and transformation. At the heart of our Soul Whisper is
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  Speaker 1: the sacred truth. When we pause and listen inward, the
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  Speaker 1: soul always speaks. This show offers a safe, empowering space
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  Speaker 1: where those whispers are heard, honored, and lovingly guided into
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  Speaker 1: full expression. Each episode invites you to be curious about
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  Speaker 1: yourself and the reality you're in, while gently reminding you
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  Speaker 1: that you are exactly where you need to be. Let
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  Speaker 1: today's message settle in your heart, maybe even journal about it,
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  Speaker 1: and if something resonates peace, clarity, or insight, pass it
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  Speaker 1: along to someone whose soul might be calling for the same.
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  Speaker 1: Keep listening inward. Your soul knows the way Our Soul
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  Speaker 1: Whisper starts. Now. Hi everyone, I'm doctor Pat and I
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  Speaker 1: get to take this amazing journey and today this is
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, this is the story of my life
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  Speaker 1: in the life of many, the divine delay when the
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  Speaker 1: universe says not yet. Kathy's going to walk us through this.
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  Speaker 1: But you should know a little bit about Kathy Belmont
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  Speaker 1: first of all. Throughout the show. You're going to hear
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  Speaker 1: some wisdom, You're going to hear some insight. But I
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  Speaker 1: want you to also know that Katy is a person
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  Speaker 1: you could reach out to to help you move things along.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter where you are, She'll meet you there.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she is a certified soul integration.
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  Speaker 2: Coach.
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  Speaker 1: She's also a certified life and spiritual coach and a
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  Speaker 1: lifetime of experience. And when you bring this all together,
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  Speaker 1: what you see is someone dedicated to understanding, healing, coaching,
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  Speaker 1: and transformation. And today's show topic, Kathy is perfect the
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  Speaker 1: divine delay when the universe says not yet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thanks doctor Patten. Hey everyone, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: wanted to talk about this because, yeah, it's perfect. And
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  Speaker 2: I've had times in my life where you know, I
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  Speaker 2: put my intention out there, I prayed, I did my
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  Speaker 2: envisioning and all the things, and yet nothing was happening.
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  Speaker 2: And so I just really wanted to talk about that
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  Speaker 2: and where we sometimes think it to know or maybe
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  Speaker 2: we're doing something wrong, or we begin to doubt ourselves.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe we can look at that from a different perspective,
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  Speaker 2: and so just really want to look at, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: how we can look at it differently. And so you know,
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  Speaker 2: a lot of times when we get this inspection to
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  Speaker 2: do something right, you know, our mind captures something or
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  Speaker 2: we get this spiritual download of oh my gosh, I
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  Speaker 2: just this is something that I really want to do,
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  Speaker 2: and we kind of do the things and all of
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  Speaker 2: a sudden there's a pause and there's a stop, and
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  Speaker 2: I think one thing that can happen is we can
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  Speaker 2: get this kind of high vibrational idea, but our body,
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  Speaker 2: our nervous system isn't quite ready yet. And so it's
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  Speaker 2: really kind of understanding maybe from a spiritual biological aspect
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  Speaker 2: that I think it's wonderful that we have this idea,
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  Speaker 2: and it's that idea of giving our bodies in our
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  Speaker 2: nervous system time to just digest it a little bit,
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  Speaker 2: time to take it in. And it's also you know,
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  Speaker 2: looking at where are we vibrationally. You know, we want
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  Speaker 2: the job, the relationship, that abundance, whatever that is for you,
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  Speaker 2: and yet we may still be holding on to beliefs
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  Speaker 2: of scarcity or fear or not enoughness. And so those
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  Speaker 2: are considerations too to look at. You know, why why
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  Speaker 2: why there's the not yet? And there's also just letting
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  Speaker 2: go of some of the baggage. You know, it's making
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  Speaker 2: room for I had a I may have shared this before.
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  Speaker 2: I had a my very best friend a long time ago,
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  Speaker 2: and I remember I was talking to her about some
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  Speaker 2: dating and relationships and all that, and she said, well, Kathy,
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  Speaker 2: if you want something new to come in, you got
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  Speaker 2: to let the other one go. And I've just always
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  Speaker 2: taken that in other areas of my life. And so
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  Speaker 2: that's really you know what we're talking about, Where in
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  Speaker 2: your life can you release something to let that new in?
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  Speaker 2: And so different perspectives on the not yet and it's
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  Speaker 2: it's not a no. And then this is, you know,
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  Speaker 2: where life coaching can really assist. And what's what's in
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  Speaker 2: the way getting clear? What is it clear that you want?
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  Speaker 2: And then what's there to let go of, what's maybe
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  Speaker 2: a limiting belief that's keeping you from realizing because it's
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  Speaker 2: already there for us. The pot luck is right there.
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  Speaker 2: We just have to realize it. We just have to
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  Speaker 2: clear our senses so we can see and smell it
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  Speaker 2: and taste it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I will tell you this though. I love what
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  Speaker 1: you said because one of the things I'm struck by
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  Speaker 1: which we don't talk about enough is when two of
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  Speaker 1: more are gathered. And you know, I went through a
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  Speaker 1: large part of my life thinking I could do it
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  Speaker 1: all by myself everything, And then I was reflecting on
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  Speaker 1: an article I was writing today and I listed all
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  Speaker 1: the people that supported me along the way. So what's
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  Speaker 1: the realization, you know, could I have done it on
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  Speaker 1: my own? I don't think that's the way it works,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't think there are many people that can
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  Speaker 1: do that. But what we don't realize we all have
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  Speaker 1: these blind spots and sometimes and I know this when
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  Speaker 1: I work with my coaches, they will point something out
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  Speaker 1: to me and I'll look at them like what, and
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  Speaker 1: then I'll have the realization, oh, yeah, that thing. But
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  Speaker 1: you know, part of this is getting a hook on
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  Speaker 1: what you're going to talk about this alignment situation, right.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I had a vision for this network in
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  Speaker 1: two thousand and one. I bought the domain, but I
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  Speaker 1: didn't start out with the network. I started out something different.
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  Speaker 1: So can you walk us through this idea of how
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  Speaker 1: do we close the alignment gap? And what role does
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  Speaker 1: fear play?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, I think something I want to
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  Speaker 2: mention too is a lot of times you know, when
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  Speaker 2: we have these limiting beliefs where we have something in
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  Speaker 2: the way, you know, it's it's teaching. It's teaching our
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  Speaker 2: nervous sys and its nurturing ourselves again that it's safe
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  Speaker 2: to do something. And so you know, we hear about
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  Speaker 2: you know, neurons that wire together, fire together, and really
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  Speaker 2: allowing ourselves to make repeated actions to really help us
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  Speaker 2: feel safe. And so when fear takes the wheel, what
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  Speaker 2: happens is our ego gets uncomfortable. You know, the ego
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  Speaker 2: wants to know what's happening, and it wants to be
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  Speaker 2: in control. And I think there's a lot of stuff
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  Speaker 2: out there about the ego. I like to think of
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  Speaker 2: it as it protecting us, as it's saying, Okay, remember
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  Speaker 2: this experience, and we I think we can appreciate that,
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  Speaker 2: and then we can also say yes, however, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we can do something differently here. And so so it's
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  Speaker 2: an opportunity to really look at that. And so you know,
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  Speaker 2: it comes from a place and when we try to
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  Speaker 2: start to force things, we try to push things before
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  Speaker 2: they're ready to be opened. You know, we want to
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  Speaker 2: force that door open. And because we're not, because we're
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  Speaker 2: afraid there's not going to be another one there. We're
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  Speaker 2: afraid that there's not going to be another opportunity before us.
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  Speaker 2: And that's so far from my truth as far as
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  Speaker 2: the belief that there's an abundant universe and that we
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  Speaker 2: always have another opportunity. It may look a little bit differently,
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  Speaker 2: it may come through a different person or another sign
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  Speaker 2: or whatever, but it's always going to be there. And
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  Speaker 2: it's really keeping ourselves open to that that we can
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  Speaker 2: see that. And so it's not a matter of falling
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  Speaker 2: behind or something's wrong, it's really just seeing the signs
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  Speaker 2: of again, where are we coming from? Do we want
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  Speaker 2: to come from that? Do we want to come from
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  Speaker 2: someplace else? And that can make a difference to whether
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  Speaker 2: we want to just kind of knock on the door
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  Speaker 2: and see if it's anyone's there yet, versus trying to
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  Speaker 2: push it open.
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  Speaker 1: I tell you I remember a child a quick quick
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  Speaker 1: stir a childhood story. I'm a Christmas I love Christmas.
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  Speaker 1: I've always loved Christmas. We always went to Rockepella Center.
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  Speaker 1: But I remember one Christmas in particular, I wanted something
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  Speaker 1: I really did, and I asked Santa for it, and
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  Speaker 1: I remember getting up one night to go to the
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  Speaker 1: bathroom a little kid, and I went under the tree
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  Speaker 1: and I saw all the packages. They were already there.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember pulling the tape back on the big
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  Speaker 1: one because I asked for a big one that was big.
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  Speaker 1: I remember, you know how you carefully peel the tape
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  Speaker 1: back while I was a kid. I didn't work, but
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  Speaker 1: I pulled it back and in there wasn't what I wanted.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't there yet, and I went to bed so disappointment.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, this may not be relatable to a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people, but it wasn't there yet. And my experience
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  Speaker 1: waking up the next day and not experienced a joy
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  Speaker 1: that I always had experience and the reality was it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't there yet, and what I got in its place
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  Speaker 1: was a little card because what I wanted was delayed
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  Speaker 1: due to a storm. And Santa wrote me a note. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we know it's not Santra, right, but that's how you
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  Speaker 1: let something destroy something you show and joy and the
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  Speaker 1: stories we make up and the fear Santa doesn't like me,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, but this is how we carry it forward.
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  Speaker 1: And it could happen in a job. It could happen
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  Speaker 1: any point a relationship, like you said, a loved one. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but it takes its toll on our body and our
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  Speaker 1: nervous system, doesn't it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it does. And that story really brings up
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  Speaker 2: a lot. And thanks for sharing that, doctor, Pat, because
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  Speaker 2: it's really we come from this place of wanting something,
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  Speaker 2: this attachment, especially to how we think it should look.
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  Speaker 2: And you know, I recently had a an interaction with
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  Speaker 2: someone where I had some communication and something was okay,
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  Speaker 2: let's let's get this rolling. And then there was nothing
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  Speaker 2: and I actually made a call and it hung up,
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  Speaker 2: and so I made a story around that, and next
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  Speaker 2: time I saw this person, I said to myself, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: well I can go along and pretend it didn't happen,
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  Speaker 2: or make up these stories or somehow like we think
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  Speaker 2: we talked in the last episode, there's going to be
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  Speaker 2: this little thing there that's not nothing quite complete or clear.
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  Speaker 2: And so I actually just went up to the person
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  Speaker 2: and said, hey, I reached out, this is what happened,
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  Speaker 2: anything that we need to clear up or talk about,
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  Speaker 2: And it was a totally clearing conversation. No, Kathy, I
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  Speaker 2: was just in a really tough spot and I apologize
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  Speaker 2: and everything. Since then it has been very smooth. Communication
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  Speaker 2: has been great. So you know, my sisters shared with
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  Speaker 2: me a long time ago, Kathy, you don't have all
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  Speaker 2: the information. We're only coming from where we are, our
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  Speaker 2: perspectives are, and those I go back to beliefs and
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  Speaker 2: those filters, Oh my gosh, oh my goodness. We come
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  Speaker 2: from filters. And when we can look at where those
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  Speaker 2: are limiting us, where we're holding on to things, that's
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  Speaker 2: where we make our next choices. And that's why we
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  Speaker 2: wonder why, well, why is my tomorrow the same as
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  Speaker 2: today or yesterday? Because we're coming from that same place.
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  Speaker 2: And so that's why the importance of those conversations and
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  Speaker 2: a lot of these topics I think can come down
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  Speaker 2: to the same thing. What's inside there to be looked at,
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  Speaker 2: and if you really want to have your life be differently,
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  Speaker 2: if you want to be different, let's look what's in
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  Speaker 2: there and filtering how you're responding, how you're reacting, how
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  Speaker 2: you're seeing people. You know, are you really seeing the
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  Speaker 2: person for who they are or from how you experienced
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  Speaker 2: them yesterday?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know this little child under the tree
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  Speaker 1: pulling back the tape, there was a cost to that.
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  Speaker 1: There was a cost to me personally, right, and it
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  Speaker 1: took me a really long time as a child. Now
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  Speaker 1: I'm older, I see it through a different lens. But
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  Speaker 1: what it did for me is gave me a different
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  Speaker 1: view about Santa Claus. Santa Claus. Could I trust Santa
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  Speaker 1: Claus next year? I mean, I'm kind of making a
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  Speaker 1: thing about it. But remember I'm a kid, Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: seven years old, right, And we don't stop forming opinions.
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  Speaker 1: We don't stop and say I'm going to wait till
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  Speaker 1: i'm older, Oh, until I don't trust something. No, we
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  Speaker 1: start to form these things. The ego is twenty four seven.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't care what age you are, it doesn't care
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  Speaker 1: where you come from. It is always with us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think doctor Patt at age seven, actually,
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  Speaker 2: I think that's I heard that. That's when we really
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  Speaker 2: start forming our getting into our limiting beliefs, and starting
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  Speaker 2: to really make society and others more important. Because up
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  Speaker 2: to the age we're born, up to seven, we're we're
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  Speaker 2: still in spirit, we're still learning, and we're, as children were,
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  Speaker 2: soaking everything up and and on up. Is when we
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  Speaker 2: start things start happening, things start changing. There's a beautiful
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  Speaker 2: you talked about the cost doctor Baton. There's a story
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  Speaker 2: that I loved to share and also hear and be
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  Speaker 2: reminded of. And that's, you know, this transformation from you know,
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  Speaker 2: a caterpillar to a butterfly. And there's this stage, the
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  Speaker 2: crystalis stage. And when you watch the butterfly emerge from
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  Speaker 2: its cocoon, it looks like it's struggling, it looks like
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  Speaker 2: got it's having a hard time there, and really what's
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  Speaker 2: happening is it's building the strength so it can fly.
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  Speaker 2: The very purpose of it emerging from the cocoon is
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  Speaker 2: that it can strengthen its wings to fly. And I
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  Speaker 2: actually watched a video because I really wanted to visualize that.
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  Speaker 2: And what was really beautiful, which can add to what
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  Speaker 2: we're talking about today, is when the butterfly emerges, there's
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  Speaker 2: other steps. It fills its wings from fluid from its abdomen.
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  Speaker 2: Its wings are small when it comes out, it needs
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  Speaker 2: that step to build its wings to expand, and then
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  Speaker 2: it takes another few hours for its wings to dry.
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  Speaker 2: And so when we have something that we want, something
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  Speaker 2: we want to happen in our life, whatever that is,
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  Speaker 2: it's that process. It's the clearing out, and then it's
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  Speaker 2: allowing our wings to be puffed up, and it's allowing
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  Speaker 2: the universe to carry us as we dry, as we prepare.
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  Speaker 2: So there's a preparation and I think that's the not yet,
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  Speaker 2: it's the clearing out, and it's the preparation for and
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  Speaker 2: if we can really be with and appreciate and know
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  Speaker 2: that that in patience, there's nothing wrong. Reminded in one
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  Speaker 2: of my peer coaching sessions just earlier this week, you know,
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  Speaker 2: there's there's nothing wrong. You know, I always want to
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  Speaker 2: try to okay, what is that, what's in my way?
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  Speaker 2: What's not? What am I not doing? Let me read
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  Speaker 2: another book? And it's really just it's all right, you know,
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  Speaker 2: let go and go have some ice cream. You know.
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  Speaker 2: It's just knowing that it's okay, there's nothing wrong. We
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  Speaker 2: have eternity here, there's no train station to get to,
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  Speaker 2: and so it's a it's a beautiful reminder in mine
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  Speaker 2: not yet to say there's nothing wrong and trust that
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  Speaker 2: the universe is going to reveal it to you, that
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  Speaker 2: you're going to You're going to see it if you're
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  Speaker 2: looking for it.
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  Speaker 1: It is just so funny because in that I just
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  Speaker 1: did a show earlier today and I shared a silly story.
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  Speaker 1: Well it's not silly, but it's silly when you say it.
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  Speaker 1: Last night was the first time in close to forty
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  Speaker 1: years that I wore a pair of shorts to play
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  Speaker 1: table tennis in competition. Now, look, I got you smiling already,
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  Speaker 1: don't I right?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, But yes it's true because I realized and I
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  Speaker 1: had to ask myself, it's ninety degrees at this place,
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  Speaker 1: they have bad air conditioning. Are you really gonna wear
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  Speaker 1: those long I don't know. I mean people are wearing
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  Speaker 1: wick shorts. And I really had to have a conversation
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  Speaker 1: with myself, what are you afraid of? What are you
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  Speaker 1: afraid of? Are you afraid somebody's not going to like
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  Speaker 1: your legs? And so it went back to a cellular memory,
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  Speaker 1: which I would love for you to talk about, because
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  Speaker 1: in the end, I always come back to spirit, but
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  Speaker 1: it may take a while. I went back to being
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  Speaker 1: bullied as a kid because of the way I looked.
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  Speaker 1: I was the ugly duckling with two other sisters. And
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  Speaker 1: then I go get two knee replacements during COVID. Do
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  Speaker 1: you have any idea what nees look like after you
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  Speaker 1: get them replaced, Well, nobody has ever said anything about them.
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  Speaker 1: But I carried that childhood. What do you want to
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  Speaker 1: call it? I don't know what to call it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I carried that until I decided not to anymore.
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  Speaker 1: What you do is help people not wait forty years
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  Speaker 1: to wear those shorts, right, Because we can do some things,
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  Speaker 1: but the most important thing is focusing on the spiritual law,
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  Speaker 1: which you're going to talk about now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And it's and really to your point, pad
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  Speaker 2: it doctor Patt, it's it's one you had an awareness
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  Speaker 2: in that moment and you asked yourself the question what
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  Speaker 2: am I afraid of? It can be that simple, and
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  Speaker 2: I think a lot of times we want to make
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  Speaker 2: it more complicated. But that's that's the starting point. And
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  Speaker 2: then and coaching where we go is let's explore that. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 2: you felt this, How do you want to feel now?
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  Speaker 2: How do you want to feel as you wear your
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  Speaker 2: shorts playing table tennis? How do you want it to be?
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  Speaker 2: And what's in the way of that? And so that's
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  Speaker 2: very a high level process of what we do. But
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  Speaker 2: you know, when you look at when we ask for something,
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  Speaker 2: you know, there was a some beautiful information I came
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  Speaker 2: upon and it was if we received what we wanted,
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  Speaker 2: like right now, whether it be that relationship or that
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  Speaker 2: abundance or whatever it is, that change in our life,
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  Speaker 2: would we be able to handle it right now? And
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  Speaker 2: I think that's a fair question, you know, if we
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  Speaker 2: want to move or if we want this new beginning,
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  Speaker 2: you know, energetically or as you share, doctor Pat, tied
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  Speaker 2: to the past past experience, is can we can we
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  Speaker 2: handle it? I think it's a fair question, and it's
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  Speaker 2: a question to ask ourselves, Okay, could I really accept
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  Speaker 2: this right now in my life? And that can give
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  Speaker 2: us a different perspective on this pause, on this not yet.
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  Speaker 2: Well maybe I'm grateful. You know, a lot of the
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  Speaker 2: metaphysical books I read are you know, it's it's really
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  Speaker 2: a nice safety net down here in this place called earth,
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  Speaker 2: that there's a there is a pause, there's a delay
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  Speaker 2: in our manifestations because of we thought something and that manifested. Boy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know about anybody else, but I'd probably be
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  Speaker 2: in a pickle sometimes. So you know, it's so it's again,
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  Speaker 2: it's reframing, and that's a lot of where the coaching
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  Speaker 2: comes in reframing how can we look at this differently
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  Speaker 2: to where all of a sudden you're feeling heavy and
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  Speaker 2: hunched over. How can I feel a little free or
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  Speaker 2: a little lighter. Oh my gosh, just that little switch
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  Speaker 2: and perspective, and so you know, it's really you know,
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  Speaker 2: when we get to like the action part in support
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  Speaker 2: of coaching is what brings you back to your center?
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  Speaker 2: What can what can support you as you're changing these neurons,
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  Speaker 2: as you're training your retraining your nervous system to say
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  Speaker 2: it's okay, it's safe to receive what you want.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, yesterday, okay, going to table tennis.
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  Speaker 1: There's no mistakes. I got like my little preacher guy
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  Speaker 1: that comes on my serious radio, I you know serious.
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  Speaker 1: I listened to everybody on there, but what do you
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  Speaker 1: think he talked about? He talked about the divine blessing,
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  Speaker 1: and he went on to talk about stories which I'm
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  Speaker 1: familiar with, but I hear them in a very positive
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  Speaker 1: way right from this person. Actually the only people I
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  Speaker 1: listened to. But there's a spiritual law and spiritual capacity.
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  Speaker 1: And I got in the car and I didn't bring
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  Speaker 1: another pair of capris to put on the other day,
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  Speaker 1: in practice, I did and I didn't wear the shorts.
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  Speaker 1: I changed my clothes. But this day was different, and
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  Speaker 1: there is a blessing in the gap. There is a
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  Speaker 1: blessing in the delay. Please talk about how faith not religion,
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  Speaker 1: How faith will always defeat fear.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's the belief. It's having that belief and
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  Speaker 2: it's faith. It's trust. Do you trust that you're taking
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  Speaker 2: care of Do you trust that when you let something
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  Speaker 2: go and there's that gap to where maybe you need
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  Speaker 2: to make that little jump, do you trust that you're
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  Speaker 2: going to be carried through that? And that's a question.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I know trust can be tough when you
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  Speaker 2: really want something and it's not coming and that fear
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  Speaker 2: comes in, and that ego comes in. Okay, where are
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  Speaker 2: you going to get that next paycheck? Are you going
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  Speaker 2: to be by yourself? You're going to stay in the
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  Speaker 2: house one more day? You need it now? And what
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  Speaker 2: comes up? This fear comes up, and then we do
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  Speaker 2: all these things. It's getting back to that center and
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  Speaker 2: saying do I have the faith in that next step?
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  Speaker 2: Ask yourself, if you don't know what to do, ask
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  Speaker 2: yourself source whatever that sources to you. What is my
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  Speaker 2: next step? Could be going to the grocery store, it
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  Speaker 2: could be something, but it's significant if we look at
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  Speaker 2: the significance. It's not, oh, let me get this right
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  Speaker 2: of not. It's not I'll believe it when I see it.
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  Speaker 2: It's I will see it when I believe it. And
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  Speaker 2: I think that sums up having that faith. It's going
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  Speaker 2: to happen. We're the ones doing this. It's our mindset
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  Speaker 2: and it's our how we want to approach it, and
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  Speaker 2: that's our power. That's our superpower. And when we can
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  Speaker 2: keep it clean and centered, it can take us amazing places.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you this, I don't take this journey alone.
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  Speaker 1: There isn't a single thing I've done that I haven't
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  Speaker 1: done with the God of my understanding and some great
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  Speaker 1: coaches and mentors. So, Kathy, how do people find you
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  Speaker 1: for mentorship for coaching? Please share that with people today?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, please visit my website at oursowhisper dot com. Ours
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  Speaker 2: whisper at gmail dot com is my email address. I
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  Speaker 2: would love to hear from you your thoughts on this
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  Speaker 2: topic today, thoughts on other topics we talked about, and
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  Speaker 2: if there's something that really you're like, gosh, I want
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  Speaker 2: to know more about or we haven't explored this. Let
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  Speaker 2: me know. I'm happy to talk about what would support
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  Speaker 2: you the most, and so I would love the opportunity
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  Speaker 2: to coach you and to really see what's there to
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  Speaker 2: be clear, so you can really just create a beautiful
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  Speaker 2: life for yourself, whatever that looks like for you. So
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  Speaker 2: thank you for this conversation today.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Katy. This was awesome. I wish
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  Speaker 1: we had more time because there is another part of
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  Speaker 1: the story which I'm yet to learn, and that is
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  Speaker 1: how to hold steadfast in your belief while you're in
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  Speaker 1: the gap. And I'm sure you will cover that at
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  Speaker 1: some point. Kathy Bellmont, everybody please spiritual coach. She helps
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  Speaker 1: people and supports our clients go through these in between
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  Speaker 1: places sometimes we don't even know we're in them. Katy,
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  Speaker 1: thank you so much, grand for you.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks everyone, and we'll see you all next time.
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