168 What's Really Keeping You Single? Hint: it's not the apps...

Violet Lange's Pleasure Path · Jul 11, 2026 · 56m

You've worked on yourself. You've tried the apps. You've manifested. You've prayed. You've even "put yourself out there."

So why does love still feel harder than it should?

In this episode, I explore how fear—not lack of worthiness—is often the invisible force shaping our love lives. We unpack the four nervous system survival responses (flight, fight, freeze, and fawn), how they quietly influence dating and relationships, and what it takes to move from survival into genuine connection.

If you're tired of swiping, overthinking, or feeling like you're always repeating the same patterns…