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The #1 trait that puts people off you · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist their policy
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  Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Shut podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Today on the show, we talked about the dates that
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  Speaker 3: One of them especially massive day for the need and
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  Speaker 3: today I would argue it's a huge day for New
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  Speaker 3: Zealand because today Monopoly launches the Dunedin version. Okay, how
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  Speaker 3: Monopoly board. All these dannedan iconic landmarks are going to
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  Speaker 3: be there and hopefully will a hold lot of money.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah all right, So what's what's going to make the cut?
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  Speaker 3: Jason igo Castle streets on there? Yeah, the iconic Uni streets.
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  Speaker 5: I reckon.
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  Speaker 4: It needs to be a little low sig than that.
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  Speaker 3: I reckon.
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  Speaker 4: I reckon it needs to include some of the great bars.
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  Speaker 4: We freak with them back in the day, didn't we.
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  Speaker 4: Oh that's what there's the gardis didn't mark all, let's get.
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  Speaker 3: A share in that somebody. We tried to keep it
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  Speaker 3: alive or something like that. That was a place where
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  Speaker 3: Captain Cook.
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  Speaker 4: Ye, the bog, the bog that needs to be on
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  Speaker 4: the monopoly board.
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  Speaker 3: It's not explaining that, because what's the ball. Let me
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  Speaker 3: explain that. So Lana Castle is going to be on
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  Speaker 3: their great Baldwin Street. You got a Balden Street, the
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  Speaker 3: sleep the street in the world that's going to be there,
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  Speaker 3: Aneeden railway station, that beautiful building. And by the way,
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  Speaker 3: there's a huge launch party there at tea this morning.
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  Speaker 3: What about the street that.
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  Speaker 4: They doing down on the couches, Yeah, good, just making sure.
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  Speaker 3: So it's gonna be pretty coose and I think clear
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  Speaker 3: Beach is going to be there surely.
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  Speaker 4: And instead of passing going getting a hundred bucks, you
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  Speaker 4: have to do a yardie or a funnel.
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  Speaker 3: Now we're making it. Yes, it's gonna be a team
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  Speaker 3: this morning and a big buddy five meter game. You
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  Speaker 3: actually play live on the street there to watch the
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  Speaker 3: news tonight. It'll be all over the things for the
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  Speaker 3: congratulations literally injuring the game on the man. Cost of
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  Speaker 3: living is huge at the moment, and it's still squeezing
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  Speaker 3: so many kiwis. So instead of getting takeaways, fake aways
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  Speaker 3: are on the menu now. A lot of people making
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  Speaker 3: homemade takeaways.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, especially that there's a few slips from the
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  Speaker 4: giant takeaway companies on there.
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  Speaker 3: Like a lot of people have utilized the fact that.
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  Speaker 4: You can get a very comprehensive McDonald's big mac sauce, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, Oh that's right exactly. Yeah, you know, they do
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  Speaker 3: a pretty good job with that.
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  Speaker 4: But there is that old Eddie Murphy skid about, you know,
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  Speaker 4: copying the McDonald's begin It's very hard to do.
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  Speaker 3: We got burgers at home.
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  Speaker 6: We don't normal mcgarnald's burger. It's just toast bread mum
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  Speaker 6: before we know of. But fake aways are on the
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  Speaker 6: rise when you think about it. I mean, I don't
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  Speaker 6: know if you do this your place. We did a
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  Speaker 6: little homemade sushi.
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  Speaker 4: We do homemade sashe my my wife dresses that up.
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  Speaker 4: So she has bought the plastic containers. Oh, he's she
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  Speaker 4: And we've got the little so sauces, little rollers. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and she'll cellistate the box down and put a staple
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  Speaker 4: in it.
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  Speaker 3: Really sushi, Yeah, that's really good news. Level, that's great.
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  Speaker 3: It works a tree.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you pay them up for school.
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  Speaker 3: Look, we've got kids anyway. Actually on that though, because
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  Speaker 3: obviously they're saying that takeaways are more and more expensive
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  Speaker 3: now and it's starting to decline aly, But but as
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  Speaker 3: that is it actually true the like, how often do
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  Speaker 3: you reckon you guys eating takeaways? Look, not often.
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  Speaker 4: Our kids they're a little bit young, younger than takeaways,
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  Speaker 4: but they do like sushi, and we we would do
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  Speaker 4: that probably too often because you can. You can bring
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  Speaker 4: sixty bucks on a set of sushi for a family.
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  Speaker 3: Oh easily. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And if you even consider getting drinks, it's going higher,
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  Speaker 4: you know, and that kind of that a burn, isn't it?
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  Speaker 3: Just for sushi? So the least go a monthly on
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  Speaker 3: average across the month, Right, how often do you reckon
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  Speaker 3: you get takeaways? We're probably, honestly, probably maybe once a month.
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  Speaker 3: And that's only caused McDonald's open near us. And because
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  Speaker 3: them again, yeah, we go.
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  Speaker 4: On at the end of our road. And I don't
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  Speaker 4: blame McDonald's because it's damn good.
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  Speaker 3: That's what it is. They know what they're doing. What
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  Speaker 3: you across a month? You reckon how often are you
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  Speaker 3: getting takeaways? Love to hear your story. It's like a
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  Speaker 3: text to two six nine nine becives the buzz on
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  Speaker 3: our eight hundred double O four coast And when you
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  Speaker 3: go for the takeaways? What is your go to on
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  Speaker 3: the text on two six nine nine Jill see as
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  Speaker 3: we have fish and chips every Friday. It's a tradition Friday,
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  Speaker 3: that's right.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we say that at school, Viren's Primary on the
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  Speaker 4: North Sure Friday.
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  Speaker 3: I think it was.
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  Speaker 4: I think it was only once a month though, but
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  Speaker 4: the school would go and pick up your fish and
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  Speaker 4: chips and you'd have to you'd have.
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  Speaker 3: To ask Mama, dad, oh can we do the vision
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  Speaker 3: chips thing this week? And then you know, you get
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  Speaker 3: three bucks, you get a piece of fashion.
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  Speaker 4: Some chips manage that are coaching nineteen bucks, you know.
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  Speaker 3: And I thought, here is booking maybe three times a
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  Speaker 3: year and it's on Carla KFC would have had a
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  Speaker 3: big night. Thank you for Carla. Ok, he's good too though,
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  Speaker 3: it's good. Peter Hallo, what are you doing for your
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  Speaker 3: takeaways or fake aways?
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  Speaker 7: Well?
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  Speaker 3: Takeaways. Okay, how often are you doing the takeaways? That
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  Speaker 3: maybe twice some months? But we do see is dangerous,
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  Speaker 3: isn't it?
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  Speaker 5: Beat?
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  Speaker 4: He just said, full access to the full menu of takeaways.
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  Speaker 4: You know you have to look, you know, he has
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  Speaker 4: to stand up.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's just the basic fish and chips or
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  Speaker 3: maybe pizzas. Do you Uber eats fish and chips. I've
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  Speaker 3: never considered that al jas l jas Oh yeah LJ.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah that's good.
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  Speaker 3: And is it a special occasion just whenever you feel
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  Speaker 3: like it. Yeah, it's like a threat. Actually said, we
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  Speaker 3: don't mind it. No, life's about that. I treat yourself.
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  Speaker 3: You treat yourself. You have a little balance, I Peter,
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  Speaker 3: thank you very much. That again, according to the text
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  Speaker 3: on two six nine nine, it seems to takeaways aren't
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  Speaker 3: really fading off, although fake ways, they're reconally getting bigger
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  Speaker 3: and bigger, and I think people are still doing it.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta be careful the old homemade stuff. I like
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  Speaker 3: the homemade burgers and things.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, because you remember Eddie Murphy he battled as
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  Speaker 4: a young lad with the McDonald's burger.
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  Speaker 3: Are you standing there looking at it and you trying
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  Speaker 3: to make it look like McDonald's.
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  Speaker 7: So you rip the edges off around and make it
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  Speaker 7: round and you got green peppers and grease running down
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  Speaker 7: your hand.
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  Speaker 3: Your momsey, now go on outside and play. And the
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  Speaker 3: other kids got McDonald's. They out there. God, we got
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  Speaker 3: that done.
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  Speaker 7: No are you standing there with this big house burger
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  Speaker 7: Cure's the nis is there where you get that big
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  Speaker 7: green pepperberger?
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  Speaker 3: My mother made it.
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  Speaker 4: Have you noticed that no one really answers their phone anymore.
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  Speaker 4: It's always on silence or they're doing People much prefer
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  Speaker 4: a text message. So when you have to make a
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  Speaker 4: call or a couple of calls, it comes with a
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  Speaker 4: certain well you have to you have to think it through.
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  Speaker 4: So I went into my call windows in the car.
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  Speaker 4: That's when I like to make my phone calls because
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  Speaker 4: it's nice and quiet, there's no kid screaming in the background.
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  Speaker 4: And I had two people to call. I made the
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  Speaker 4: first call and that person didn't pick up the phone.
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  Speaker 4: So then what do you do at that point? Do
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  Speaker 4: you then go on to make the next call or
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  Speaker 4: you know that the chances are the person that you
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  Speaker 4: run first is going to eventually call you back, but
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  Speaker 4: it's going to take them a couple of minutes, and
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  Speaker 4: then they're going to call back when you're making your
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  Speaker 4: second call the second person's answered.
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  Speaker 3: Or worse, as you're pulling in the driveway.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely, because I think that you have to once you
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  Speaker 4: make the first call, you have to leave a window.
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  Speaker 3: You have to.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's a three or four minute window, because
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  Speaker 4: the chance of them after four minutes starts to run off.
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  Speaker 3: They're going to call you later. Do you reckon? See?
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I'll play phone tag, although I'll make that
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  Speaker 3: first phone call. If I don't pick up, fine, I'll
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  Speaker 3: move straight to my second call, but then they'll call back. Well,
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  Speaker 3: then we play phone tag. Then then I'll call them
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  Speaker 3: back at some stage as well.
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  Speaker 4: I don't I leave a delay. I leave a minute delay.
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  Speaker 4: And if they don't call it all, if you haven't
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  Speaker 4: even made your second call, then yeah, well, and then
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  Speaker 4: I'll often forget to make the second call. Yeah, I'll
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  Speaker 4: put on coast and a song will come on. I'll
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  Speaker 4: be singing in the car and then I'll get home like, damn, mate,
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  Speaker 4: I haven't called them back. But I think I think
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  Speaker 4: it's a weird scenario that we're in right now that
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  Speaker 4: you have to kind of think through your call plan
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  Speaker 4: to make a call.
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  Speaker 3: I'll say that a step further. I don't just think
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  Speaker 3: about my call plan. I'll even rehearse what I say
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  Speaker 3: in the call. No, I will. I'll say that's the
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  Speaker 3: man my father were talking about takeaways early this morning.
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  Speaker 3: I will rehearse when I say it the takeaway as well.
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  Speaker 3: Do you. I want to make sure you get that right.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so you rehearse as you're like for the counter
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  Speaker 4: to make an order.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, in my mind, don't know what a house warm
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  Speaker 3: and thinks of you. I'll have that you clean out.
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  Speaker 3: But then if someone has the phone, oh no, because
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to be intrusive.
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  Speaker 4: So so I know you're busy. I don't want to
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  Speaker 4: keep you long. But this is what I'm ringing for.
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  Speaker 4: As you do it, you're like thanking the police and
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  Speaker 4: the fireman and the teachers as well, just because you're
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  Speaker 4: the nicest guy. It's like to make an order, But
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  Speaker 4: before I do, I just want to think you through
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  Speaker 4: your hard work.
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  Speaker 3: You're working late tonight and I don't know you'd rather
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  Speaker 3: be for your family.
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  Speaker 4: So I'd like to thank you the firebrigage.
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  Speaker 3: If you love your PIDs and know you do right,
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  Speaker 3: because we all do. Of course you're gonna love the story.
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  Speaker 3: This has warmed the coppers of my heart this morning, Sam,
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  Speaker 3: I love this beautiful man. You're a boy called Bryson.
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  Speaker 3: Bryce's got a little puppy and he called us puppy Bruce,
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  Speaker 3: and Bruce got quite sick. Bruce got pave virus begin
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  Speaker 3: the deadly disease and dogs and so what he wanted
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  Speaker 3: to do he talked to the and the events that
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  Speaker 3: are going six hundred and fifty dollars to try and
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  Speaker 3: treat Bruce. So now Bryson's like, oh, you know, he's family. Like,
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  Speaker 3: there's quite a lot of money. So Bryson set up
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  Speaker 3: a little stand and he sold his Pokemon cards. He's
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  Speaker 3: been collecting Pokemon cards for years and he had some nice,
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  Speaker 3: rare ones. He decide to try and sell as many
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  Speaker 3: Pokemon cards as he could to try and raise as
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  Speaker 3: much money as he could to try and go There
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  Speaker 3: was a six hundred and fifty dollars vet bill.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, priorities all in the right place there, Yeah, I.
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  Speaker 3: Think were great parents. And so what they did is
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  Speaker 3: as mum and Dad set up a go fund me
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  Speaker 3: page as well to try and help him out. This
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  Speaker 3: went viral and the neighborhood found out. In the community
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  Speaker 3: found out, and what they did is he ended up
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  Speaker 3: raising nineteen and a half thousand dollars and he saved
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  Speaker 3: Bruce's life. Oh that is that is so good, what
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  Speaker 3: a great story. It gets better though, so the people
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  Speaker 3: from Pokemon find out of it this, they send Bryson
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  Speaker 3: an entire pack of really rare addition Pokemon cards. So
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  Speaker 3: he knows because Collections Back has Collections Back, He's got
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  Speaker 3: the great cards.
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  Speaker 4: He's winning.
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  Speaker 3: He saved the dog's life and with the extra money
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  Speaker 3: with the other like the nineteen greend or something. What
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  Speaker 3: Bryson has started to do is paying other people's VIT
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  Speaker 3: bills to try and save other dogs lives. It's a
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  Speaker 3: good curse. What a beautiful boy eight years old. She
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  Speaker 3: should have been tenting for young Bryson, wouldn't it.
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  Speaker 4: You know? You know, I could save the other dogs,
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  Speaker 4: or I could have a remote control car.
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  Speaker 1: And go to.
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  Speaker 2: Your daily feel good breakfast catch up podcast with Coasts,
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  Speaker 2: Tony Jason, Sam.
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  Speaker 3: Tony wait for Friday. But when you talk about Tony Street,
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  Speaker 3: everyone loves Tony Street, right, Yeah, she walks into the room,
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  Speaker 3: she lights it up. You know, you've seen her on TV,
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  Speaker 3: you've read about it in her magazines, you've heard her
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  Speaker 3: on the radio.
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  Speaker 4: You know Tony Street, right, and annoyingly, she's actually like
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  Speaker 4: that too. She's quite Nice's exactly. I've been working with
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  Speaker 4: her for fifteen years.
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  Speaker 3: I'm yet to find a fault. That's right. So how
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  Speaker 3: do you people to love you? It's really simple, and
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  Speaker 3: chances are you were already doing this because you're a
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  Speaker 3: well liked person. So the top three things, apparently this
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  Speaker 3: according to psychologists around the world, the things you need
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  Speaker 3: to do the authentic sorry, exciting, and be your true self,
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  Speaker 3: be you, and you're well liked.
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  Speaker 4: It's such an airy, fairy answer from the psychologist.
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  Speaker 3: You say that, but you think about it, like you
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  Speaker 3: look at the social media. Social media can be real
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  Speaker 3: sat but sometimes but you see the ones that stand out,
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  Speaker 3: the people who are real. Feel fen itself like that
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  Speaker 3: and you don't want to be too authentic though in
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  Speaker 3: some cases if you've missed when you shine through a
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  Speaker 3: whole little bit of it. Depending on who you are,
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  Speaker 3: maybe maybe be an active listener. Yeah, that's so good.
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  Speaker 3: I love that. I reckon.
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  Speaker 4: The best example of that is if you can remember
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  Speaker 4: the name of someone's kids, the name of their why
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  Speaker 4: for things about them? Yes, I think it just goes
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  Speaker 4: so far. And you know, this is an old tip
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  Speaker 4: I learned from a great friend, Cook Penny, the basketballer.
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  Speaker 4: He takes notes on people, so he always put their
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  Speaker 4: name into his notes on his phone and just write
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  Speaker 4: a few things down, so when he goes to re
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  Speaker 4: meet with that person, he can recall things.
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  Speaker 3: And it's like it goes so fast. And you notice
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  Speaker 3: when politicians do that, But when politicians remember a little
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  Speaker 3: thing about you, Wow. So being active listener also positive
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  Speaker 3: body language like be open listening, your arms cross or yeah,
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  Speaker 3: let's try making eye content all that sort of stuff.
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  Speaker 7: Right.
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  Speaker 3: So those are the three things that make you instantly likable.
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  Speaker 3: Be authentic, be an active listener, positive body language. But
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  Speaker 3: these psychologists are also one other thing, the thing that
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  Speaker 3: makes people turn off you instantly walk wangonn not for me?
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  Speaker 3: Why do I feel this is directed at me? It's
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  Speaker 3: not necessarily diricted at you, but it is the one
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  Speaker 3: thing that will instantly put people off you. What do
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  Speaker 3: you think it is? Don't great? Honestly, if you had
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  Speaker 3: to break this down, right, What do you think is
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  Speaker 3: the number one trait or quality where people will instantly
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  Speaker 3: be put off by you? What is it? Sent a
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  Speaker 3: text to two six nine nine, We give us a
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  Speaker 3: vas our eight hundred double O four Coast November on Friday.
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  Speaker 3: It's crazy. If you want to get into the spirit
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  Speaker 3: of things though. On iHeartRadio right now, which is the
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  Speaker 3: free app you can download, there a Halloween playlist and
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  Speaker 3: it's perfect if you want to get into the mood
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  Speaker 3: for this. So if you go to iHeartRadio and just
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  Speaker 3: search Coast Halloween, you'll find everything just there. So three
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  Speaker 3: psychologists have got together and they said the way to
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  Speaker 3: get people to like you is be authentic, being active, listener,
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  Speaker 3: and have positive body language. Yeah. I like those. Yeah
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  Speaker 3: fail safe, right, you can say, become attractive to people
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  Speaker 3: like you. We all want to know the one that's
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  Speaker 3: putting people off Jason. Well, they've also agreed on the
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  Speaker 3: one thing that how not to be liked. What do
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  Speaker 3: you think it is, Helen, the one thing you can
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  Speaker 3: do The trait that makes people turn off you. I
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  Speaker 3: think it could be lateness. Yeah, this isn't that old
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  Speaker 3: saying if you're five minutes early. You're already late.
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  Speaker 4: You were that saying, yeah, I can't send them when
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  Speaker 4: people are late, so they value that, you know, they're
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  Speaker 4: not valuing your time like their own.
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  Speaker 3: So I find it so disrespectful. But it can't be
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  Speaker 3: that one, surely, Helen, that's a good one. And I
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  Speaker 3: agree that doesn't make pretty. It's an unattractive thing. But
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  Speaker 3: it's not there, No, Nick, what do you think it is?
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  Speaker 7: I think it's where people talk a lot about themselves
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  Speaker 7: and just don't stop about what they've been doing and
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  Speaker 7: about their lives and not actually engaging with the other person.
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: You know what, Nick, You're absolutely right, that's what I'm saying.
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: Talking too much about yourself without engaging in the conversation.
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: It's just me, me, me, me, me, the whole time thing.
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: And you know you've talked to people like that, right.
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: It's a two way street there, that wasn't it, You
• 14:20
  Speaker 3: know what I mean? Like hearing about yourself? Go there, cool,
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: got there, cool Jackson.
• 14:28
  Speaker 4: I think you know, at some point though, when you
• 14:31
  Speaker 4: talk to someone that's not not partaking in the conversation,
• 14:34
  Speaker 4: it's it's going to naturally gravitate towards yourself.
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: The person that you loves. Maybe I'm just taking myself
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: a hole. No, no, I think no, shut up and
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: listening to Sam. It's hard to shut up and listen
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: when you're on the radio, though, isn't it to a degree?
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: Why does it always come back to me? I think
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: we all do it though, nick right, like you want
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: to make yourself a little bit relatable. So it's like, yeah,
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: I hear you say I've done this, this, this and
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: this as well, Like you make them feel a bit.
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: I don't know, They're not the only person in the
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: room who've done that thing. I don't know. Was it
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: just me and I talked about myself again? There's a
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: lovely and on that.
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: There's a lovely saying to be both interesting and interested.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: That's exactly it.
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: And if you find that balance, tell me how kidding it?
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: I'm taking it on board, taking it. It's not just Wednesdays,
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: the last Wednesday of the month, can you believe? But
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: with Jenny with Nicky read from Milford Asset Management to
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: drill down on investing by the decades. So Nicky's here
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: to answer a couple of questions. But remember this is
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: only information to help you understand more, and it's not
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: financial advice, So NICKI thank you for joining us. What
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: is the best? What is best for younger people as
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: who work through the decades.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Well, I think when you're in your twenties, you know,
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: it's really a foundational sort of decade, isn't it. You're
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: maybe out of UNI, or in your first job or jobs,
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: you know, maybe a couple of jobs in depending and
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: I think there's sort of three main things that people
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: in their twenties should think about. Firstly, investing, if you're
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: not in KB saver, join KB saver of course, make
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: sure you're in the right KB sab funds. Start an
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: emergency fund as well. A lot of people in their
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: forties and fifties don't even do this, but it's a
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: really great thing when you're starting off and you've got
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: a lot of unexpected expenses because frankly, you're just learning
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: what life's all about, right, you know, bills will come
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: from nowhere, So ideally you want three to six months
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: of your expense is sort of set aside somewhere, you know,
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: and not so you don't have to rely on credit
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: card debt, which you know, if you're in your first jobs,
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: you know you're not earning a heap of money, so
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: you're not saving necessarily a heap of money to be
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: able to pay off credit card debt in a timely manner,
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: which leads me into your third thing, avoid consumer debt
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: at all costs if you can.
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: There's things to buy when you're twenty though. There you know,
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: there's bar tabs to there's a boom box for the
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: back of Jason's hold in Taranta.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: You know. So.
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, But the actual commitment to setting up a fund,
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: even outside of key we save a second fine where
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: you can access it maybe around that house purchase or
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: later in life, is a cognitive shift that is very
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: hard to explain to a twenty year old. But it's
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: the biggest regret that I have that I didn't make that.
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: But because compounding interest, Jase, Oh, you know, you're twenty
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: bucks a week and then you're twenty years down the track.
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: Now this mass is not checked out.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: You're a millionaire. There are tools on your website, yeah,
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: there are.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: There's some really great work books on financial well being
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: so you can work through, you know, some suggestions from
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: us about what you should be doing at different stages
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: of your life. And just because you're in your thirties
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean you tick off. You assume that the stuff
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: in your twenties has been done. So where we all
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: need to go back in time and give ourselves do
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: a bit of a financial warrant of fitness. Know, there's
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: some really great tools in our website, and.
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: I think so many people they're so quick, you know,
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: the young people especially, they follow their financial advice off
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: the old TikTok, don't they all of a sudden they've
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: got bitcoins and you're investing here, and they're investing there
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: and along. On the short of it is, you can't really,
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: I can't do a better job than someone like Milford
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: Assets over time. And I think that's what we need
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: to kind of teach our young people.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: Just slow and stea when's the race? If you're so
• 18:15
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• 18:17
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• 18:23
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• 18:25
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• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Asset dot com. Summer can't come soon enough, roll on
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: summer two months tomorrow and it's New Year's Eve. We
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: got two months left of twenty twenty four. How crazy
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: is there?
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: And then we're back on holiday, which I think.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: It's the words of the week. It was a work trip.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: It was a work trip.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: So two weeks we spent knocking around New York State
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: and it was magnificent. But when you leave on a
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: work trip like that, and it is hard to sell
• 18:52
  Speaker 4: it's a work trip when you're making videos the entire
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: time of just how amazing and great it is. But
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: we were, we were working. We did ten radio shows
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: and we made a lot of videos.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. And we were hanging out with a
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: lot of people from I Love in Why in New
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Zealand obviously Theresa, our big spin to Winter and who
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: daughter Grace. Yeah.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: And with that comes great communication because you know there's
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: other people picking up the pieces for our famili as
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: while we're away.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, especially in my place.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: We've got three young kids and my you know, you
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: leave your wife and the lurch, don't you. It's a
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: big job young kids.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: It's a year. A couple of weeks.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: So before the trip left, I sent through the schedule
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: of what we were doing, so that Sarah was across
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: the dates that I was leaving and coming back, because
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: you know, you know, you look forward to it when
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: the date that your husband comes home and can pick
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: up the slack. And it was about four days before
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: we were about to come home, I got a text
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: message from my wife like awesome, babe, almost done. Can't
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: wait to see tomorrow.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: At that point I realized something was terribly wrong in
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: the way that I had set things up. It turns
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: out that sitting up for New York was a bit
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: of a working beast, and that schedule kind of continues
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: to change. How long will we be there when we're
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: coming home? What flight are we taking on? And I
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: had sent her a shoe jill very late in the piece,
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: but I'd sent her the wrong schedule the early draft.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: The early draft, I had to explain that the restaurant
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: and the activities is going to last for another four
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: days and I'm not coming home on the Thursday.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: I'm coming home on the Saturday. Likely she did have
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: to deal with anything major, like my teacher only day
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: was it that that was on the Friday. It was
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: directly the day after I was meant to be home,
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: so they didn't deal with like athletics night and things
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: like that, you know, have to deal all three kids.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: No, no, it was the day before. Yeah, so yeah,
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: that that was what I've been dealing with this week.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: So what I always dealt with when I got back
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: from New York is a tennis tournament. And boy, my
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: wife soaked that up.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: She really she she really knew she played today? Was
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: she played in the tour? Who got knocked out the
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: first round? But spin was being served.
• 20:55
  Speaker 8: On Coast.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: Chicken diary. All right with us in the diary right now,
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: the phone numbers I eight hundred double o fore coast
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  Speaker 3: and don't wait all tomorrow, bring us right now because
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: we're rather to play the Chasers game. We're gonna roll
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: the dice, fight out who has to play, and the
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: net person has to leave the studio. They can't hear
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: what's about to happen. You're gonna get five questions though,
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: five general knowledge questions. It doesn't matter what you get though,
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: because if we can't met your score, you will win
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: eight hundred dollars. Right now on the dice, you be
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: clapping a cheering for that one. Yeah, I tell you why.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: I've done some parenting since they got back. All right,
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: I wait hundred double oh four. Coast just be called
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: the team right now. You take it on Sam for
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: eight hundred dollars on the Chases.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the Feel Good Breakfast catch Up
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: podcast with Coast, Tony Street, Jase Reeves, and Sam Wallas
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: The Chases.
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: On Coast.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Him.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: My name is Dan bur and I'm from crash Hitch.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Today I'm taking on Sam and I hope to take
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: them down and be able to spend the money and
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: that's something for my family.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: Oh, very nice dinner somewhere these options with that one
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: hundred dollars.
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: Amber, absolutely all right, Mane, you're going to wish you
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: all the luck in the world.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: I would say that just because I've been away, I
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: am not across the kind of.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: The topical stuff as much as I normally would be,
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: so advantage you.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Maybe maybe, Okay, Amber, So what's going to happen? Now
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: Sam's leaving the studio. Now you cannot hear what's about
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: to happen. We're going to start a clock with thirty
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: seconds on their clock. Five questions to get through our
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: producer Rosie, who has written the questions, is going to
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: ask the questions to you. Doesn't really meanter what you
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: need out of five though in those thirty seconds, because
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: if Sam can't manage you in eight hundred bucks to
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: go to shot your family anything you want? Are you ready? Okay?
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: But here we go Rose? Are you ready?
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: I'm ready to go?
• 22:44
  Speaker 7: Oh right?
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: Your time starts now?
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: Beijing is the capital of what country?
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: China? Yes?
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: Who played Maverick and Top Gun.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Tom?
• 22:57
  Speaker 5: Yes? What is editor bred to make it swell?
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: What celebrity crashes own lookalike contest? What the opposite faces
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: of a die always add up to?
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Got you there? That's right, it's a solid three now.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: That may well be enough in Sam Matchell, eight hundred
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: bucks is all your zamba hold.
• 23:24
  Speaker 7: On for us?
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: It was a three.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Para?
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Is I think that three?
• 23:34
  Speaker 5: Ixctly?
• 23:35
  Speaker 7: Okay?
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: Okay? Are you ready?
• 23:36
  Speaker 7: Yep?
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Ready? Is here we go? Your time trying to fend eight?
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: I'm going to go backwards by the way.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: All right, your time starts now?
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: What the opposite faces of a die always add up to?
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Seven? Yes?
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: What celebrity crash his own lookalike contest?
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Buss.
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: What is added to bread to make it swell?
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Yeast? Yes?
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: Who played Maverick and Top Gun Cruise.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: Yes, he's done with everybody.
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: Beijing is the capital of what country?
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: Yep?
• 24:09
  Speaker 5: The celebrity that crashes on lookalike contest, it's hilarious. I
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: don't know it was Timothy Schamelott shallow plays.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Will he wonk her?
• 24:21
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah, the manner in the new movie. Did he win?
• 24:25
  Speaker 7: No?
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: You know, the price was only fifty bucks, but he
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: showed don't win his own lookalike contest, Judge. He showed
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: up because he found out that they're having in Manhattan
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: the other day and he shows up and everyone just
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: went crazy. It's actually him, but he.
• 24:38
  Speaker 5: Almost looked the least like him. He's kind of dressed
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: in just just a jumper.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's amazing.
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: When Cold Pay Cold Play sung at the Karaoka contests
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: and didn't do very well in his own songs.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: I think Jolly Parton came second with a Dolly parton
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: whatever You're falling nobody anyway, you've done it, Sam, Congratulations,
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: We now play for nine hundred dollars tomorrow morning on Halloween.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: Maake it a Halloween theme because security, movies and things.
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: Sounds good.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: So we've just gone back from a couple of weeks
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: in New York. We took Teresa and her daughter Grace
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: for Tony Streets. Bok's been a gat in ten thousand
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: dollars cash.
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: It'spin.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: It took them shopping across New York State. One of
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: the things we learn though in New York is the
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: team The term vacation comes from New York. It means
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: to vacate because in the weekends they vacate the city
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: and they've been doing that for years and years and years.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: They've had this train system there. Jump on the train,
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: head out to the Hampton's, head up to the West Village,
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: just get away from the city.
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and it kind of makes the ultimate sense over
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: there because the contrasts between Manhattan and the Hampton's and
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: the beaches in the townships that surround the main city.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah. It's a little place called Rhinebeck. Yeah, it's a
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: small little town, beautiful little town. You think maybe Arrowtown,
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: maybe across an Arrowtown and Cambridge.
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: I thought, yeah, I mean those Arrowtown trees, you know,
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: the autumn foliage. We saw that while we drove for
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: six hours it just kept on going, didn't it. Yeah,
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: kind of embodied by lakes and rivers.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: It was just gorgeous. We did what a lot of
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: New Yorkers do. They get out. They vacate the city
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: and the weekends and the holidays. That's when they do.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: They don't really hang around in the city. So I
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: thought that's interesting. That's what they do when they need
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: time out. What do you do? Like, how would you
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: finish the sentence? When I need time out? I dot
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: dot dot God, this might sound lame, I think, because
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: I think it's going to the gym. It's a lame. Yeah,
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: well yeah, it's not really. It's not really like a
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: holiday though, was it. But for you, that's that's that's
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: a mental reset. That's what you need to do. But
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: I think your answer is much clear. It would be
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: why he wouldn't it? Oh, beach, I love you? When
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: I need White Beach even just going to the beach,
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: like middle White Beach is not too far from out.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: Just going to the beach is good. Give the sand
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: between your ties is good for that. Such a quey
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: thing is that that you kind of have to feel grounded.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: It's kind of like we kind of like little electric
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: batteries that need to be earthed so to see. But
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: for you, it might be when you need time out,
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: you just run yourself a nice bath and sit there
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: with a candle and just just chill out in the
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: barth y. Okay, it might be that sort of stuff.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: So it might it might be just going for a drive,
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: going for a walk around the neighborhood. They's just teaching me.
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: I don't think I'm very good at relaxing, you know
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: what I mean. So I think this is where you
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: come into it this morning.
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: We would love to hear your suggestions of what you
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: do when you need time out? Yeah, how would you
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: finish that sentence? When I need TIMEOUTI dot dot dot
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: takes the rest of that sentence to two six nine nine.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: All gives the buzz. Oh eight hundred double O four
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: Coast girls just want to have fun at Syndey Lau
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: bron Coast Quarterfast State with Tony Jason Sam. It's you
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: feel good breakfast and I'll see what the girls look like.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: They're having fun at the Mamonavor Silver Ferns. Yeah, they've
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: they've beaten Australia three times in a row and tonight
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: they're going for the four peep. They're going for the
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: whitewash to wipe the floor with them hopefully.
• 27:32
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: They've been up and down though, haven't they. They're in
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: great form now. Yeah, I'm coming right, they're coming wrong.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: And we've got the Constellation couple the game to spare
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: and that game is tonight. So it's hope we're imaginally
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: going four in a row. I'd love that. Yeah, so
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: we let it. We're in New York that the term
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: vacation actually comes from New York to vacate the city.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: That's what they do on the weekends and in the
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: holidays and things, and for years and years and years
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: they've been doing this, taking the trains to the outer
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: areas around New York State. So we thought to ourselves again,
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: what about you in New Zealand when you need time out?
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: What do you do? Seeing that text to two six
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: nine nine will call us on the eight hundred doum
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: or low fore Coast, Debby, what do you do?
• 28:07
  Speaker 8: Pack on my back and I head for the hills?
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: Do you what do you do the hills? Well?
• 28:15
  Speaker 8: No, I mean it's a really long walk. I'm living
• 28:17
  Speaker 8: in the Milton region. We can recently we did like
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  Speaker 8: a walk up to Mountain Roadstone, across the Mount aus
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  Speaker 8: A Hut and then back down to the Flora car park,
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  Speaker 8: which is a seven hour walk during the day and
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  Speaker 8: you just feel totally exhilarated.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, that's amazing. Do you have a walking group? Are
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  Speaker 3: you a member of a group that you just do
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  Speaker 3: by yourself.
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  Speaker 8: And a Look, we have a group that we walk
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  Speaker 8: with on a Thursday and do probably between say three to.
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  Speaker 3: Four hours walk.
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  Speaker 8: But then I belong to what they call the Wymeir
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  Speaker 8: Tramping group, which is really long walk so you can
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  Speaker 8: do up to seven hours a day walking.
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  Speaker 3: Good heavens, you must be as f as a federal.
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  Speaker 8: It's wonderful where you just feel you come home and
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  Speaker 8: have a nice touch ower and you really feel like
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  Speaker 8: you've just done something that's an exhilarating feeling.
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  Speaker 3: I love that.
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  Speaker 4: And you're very connected with the environment at that point too,
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  Speaker 4: And they say, you know that's it's a really important
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  Speaker 4: part of kind of regenerative health, that's.
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  Speaker 3: Grounding yourself and you can hear the sparkling five good morning. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: when I want to relax, when a one time out,
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: I dot dot dot, what do you do, or something
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  Speaker 3: that's instantly accessible. Just pop into the garden. Okay, tell
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  Speaker 3: us about your garden. Is it comprehensive?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I've got a big garden and favorite things tomatoes, roses, strawberries,
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  Speaker 7: lists endless. It's just a happy place.
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  Speaker 3: I love that. Over the last long weekend a couple
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: of days ago, we did you do a lot of
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  Speaker 3: planting for new vegi's going in? You new fruit going in?
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Have you done that sort of stuff?
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  Speaker 1: No?
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: No, because another favorite thing to do was head to
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: the beach, so it was a diving fishing weekend.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: You're living life. What part of the country you are?
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: I'm in the Yeah, you see Yeah, I love that.
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  Speaker 3: That's good. Sounds good.
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  Speaker 4: Us back Jason the big smoke, exactly right.
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  Speaker 3: I'll think one more. Hello, hell are how are you good?
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: Thank you? What do you like to do to relax?
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: I like to either go to a yoga class or
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: to reform a pilates, or sometimes I like to just
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: have a bath with a good book, coconut water and a.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: Piece of chocolate.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: It's like I have a twin, but you guys probably
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: wear the same pants. It's warm as your salt, doesn't it?
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: It sure does. What's your chocolate the choice?
• 30:26
  Speaker 8: I like Solomon's Gold chocolate.
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  Speaker 3: It's the best.
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  Speaker 2: What what?
• 30:29
  Speaker 8: What?
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: What kind of yoga do you do? I was always
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: a big fan of ainger yoga I do.
• 30:33
  Speaker 8: I love young yoga personally, but I also do a
• 30:36
  Speaker 8: bit of vanasa.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: I love love a bit of a vine slip to
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: the sun. You guys talking yoga, im straight from the chocolate.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Either way, we love that. Thank you very much. A
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: really nice day.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: I'm taking those as tips, so I think we've learned
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: something today.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: Jayson.
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: I'm going to get out of my because I live
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: in Auckland, my four square foot garden.
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: You shove there on the shelf of my window. It's
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: got a parzil in it, and go for a walk.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: Tony Way. But she's back on Friday. She's making the
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: most of her leave. You see. That's the thing you
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: gotta do.
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: And if Tony was here, she sheould be ready to
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: climb into you on this break. Because you know two
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: things Jason loves more than anything in this world.
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: One is lot of results. There's million good luck to Loto.
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: The second is planning leave. And boy, you love to
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: really dive deep on the days.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: I'd like to try and help people maximize the leave
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: you head like, you're entitled to so much leave a year, right,
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: so therefore these are ways you can really, really really
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: like squeeze the introduced out of it. For example, you
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: squeezed a couple of weeks out of it last week
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: in New York. Sure was not a hot day. He's
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: only talking about leave now, how what is is? Literally? Like,
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: are these guys ever at work? That's what they think?
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: You know, you're right? So and this is not for me,
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: for say, this is for you. If you leave, you
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: can use it like this. For example, I'm going to
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: tell you how to get sixteen days off using only
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: six days of your leave. All right, are you ready
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: for this? Okay? The end of this year, so it's
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: now less than two months away on Christmas. These are
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: the dates you want to take off December twenty three,
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: twenty four, twenty seven, because you know where what the
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: stats thirty and thirty one. Then you also take off
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: January the third ever Roun's taken off Christmas, but not
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: the twenty third, twenty fourth, Right, you get those days. No,
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: if you don't get those days, take them off And
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: that way you're gonna get sixteen days Friday six days
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: of leave. Now, let's work our way into twenty twenty five.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: Why Tonguey Day is going to fall on a Thursday
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: next year, So if you take Friday the seventh off,
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: you're gonna get a four day weekend using one day leave.
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: Not a bad start to the year, all right. Then
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: we work our way into Easter. Another change. You can
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: get sixteen days off using just seven days leave. And
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: those dates are the fourteenth to the seventeenth of April
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: and the twenty second to the twenty fourth of April.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Because you got an ends act day, they're too right,
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: so you get more than two weeks off work. Okay, easy,
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: just using a couple of days, yeah, y, it's nice. Okay,
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: if you put those fourteen days, you get thirty six days.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: I'm just using fourteen days of your leave. There's only
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: two weeks. If you'll leave, you gonna get thirty six
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: days off. This is a lot to take in.
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: Can you draw a charge or something easier?
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: If you follow us on Instagram or Facebook. If you've
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: got it at Coast Breakfast right now, you'll see a
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: little chart there with exactly the dates or if you
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: make any really in if you just tixt the woods
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: Jason's Holiday heck to two six ninety nine, I will
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: text you back a link. You love this, so make
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: it really. If you teach Jason's Holiday heck to two
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: six ninety set up your word reply, I will text
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: you back the link of what dates you can put
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: on your phone to take off. No, don't don't question it.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: It's easy. And again, I know that some people have
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: got to work public holidays and we respect that. We're massive,
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: but you know, thank you very much for what you do.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: But truly, if you want to take the time off
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: and really maximize the leave, just do that. Everything you
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: need to know is right there. You are, You're a
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: unique human people texting is You're welcome.
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: Thanking everyone that's six in Jason's Holiday hecks, keep those ticks.
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: I mean, she's just coming into two six ninety nine.
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: And also when Jason does sin through the holiday hecks,
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: just reply, have a conversation. And yes, I love that
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: striking up six hundred and forty conversations on our TIS
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: machine this morning.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: And I appreciate that these are the dates you need
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: to take off to really maximize you'll leave in twenty
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: twenty five, even Christmas coming up in a couple of
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: months as well. So if you taxt it, well, if
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: you if you're on Instagram or Facebook, look for at
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: Coast briefists, you'll find it just there as well.
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: Okay, and leave is even more important as you grow older,
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: because you become more tired and disengage with your work.
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: So I have a list of the signs that you
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: have struck middle age. It's not the traditional list, this one,
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: but I think if you know, you know, okay, okay,
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: number number five on the list, as you've developed leaks,
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: and you do, don't you honestly as leaks. Well, you're
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: a little bit more careful about jumping on a trampoline
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: as you get older.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: I see, and I think men you know. Also the.
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: Dribble is the things, So number four you develop its
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: number four on this You can nearly misplace your keys.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I am the worse for that. Yeah, what
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: is that? I don't know. It's keys, wallet, phone for me?
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: It's the triumphant is all three? It is? Yeah?
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: And you often pat you pat yourself down to try
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: and make sure everything there, but so often you don't
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: find things, and I think that's I think it's two things.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: I think mental capacity our computer RAM is decreasing, but
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: I think it's also the load we put on ourselves.
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: There's a lot to think about, isn't there. Someone has
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: told me you should have a max me with four
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: keys on your key ring. Simplify your life. Four keys,
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: that's what you.
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: Need unless you've got five doors. To number number three,
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: I love this one. You have a stick for stirring paint.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: That is a middle age thing right now.
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: You keep it in the same and you try and
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: basically turn it into some like a toffee apple.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: Number two on the list you label the boxes in
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: your garage.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: Oh you do do that? I should, You'll get there.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I've got three too, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: And the number one sign that you have definitely middle age.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: As you've adjusted the font on your phone, you're no
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: longer just on the original font.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: I'm just close to having to do that me too.
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: Do you know what really sucks?
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: As I am both death and now having to adjust
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: the phone on my phone, and you have.
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