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- 0:13Speaker 1: Talk to them.
- 0:16Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
- 0:20Speaker 2: talk back.
- 0:24Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
- 0:26Speaker 3: new episode of We Talk Back. And we brand new
- 0:29Speaker 3: as hell this week. Okay, this is your co-host AJ
- 0:33Speaker 3: Holiday 2.0 on Instagram. What's up, Tam?
- 0:37Speaker 1: Rip me out the plastic.
- 0:38Speaker 3: I've been acting brand new. We know y'all tired of
- 0:41Speaker 3: saying congratulations to us.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Keep it going though. I know y'all are so exhausted
- 0:46Speaker 1: from saying congratulations. Goodness.
- 0:49Speaker 2: Do I have to celebrate this bitch again today?
- 0:53Speaker 1: Why does she keep being so great?
- 0:55Speaker 3: Why does she keep winning? Nepotism and all.
- 0:59Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:03Speaker 3: So, y'all, this past week, y'all saw us. Okay, we
- 1:05Speaker 3: were on The Breakfast Club, which also aired on BET. So,
- 1:08Speaker 3: your girls was on TV.
- 1:11Speaker 1: Looking fine. Let's be clear.
- 1:12Speaker 3: Yes. Waist was snatched.
- 1:14Speaker 2: Bitch.
- 1:15Speaker 1: You can see our waist, though. My waist.
- 1:17Speaker 2: It was snatched when I stand up, but when I
- 1:19Speaker 2: was sitting at that desk, it was folding over. Roly-poly.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. I know somebody like it.
- 1:29Speaker 3: I hate it, man. I hate when I'm sitting and
- 1:31Speaker 3: somebody come poke at it, though, yo.
- 1:32Speaker 1: I'm fighting.
- 1:33Speaker 3: And niggas like to poke at you.
- 1:35Speaker 1: I don't mind. Whatever.
- 1:37Speaker 3: Don't poke my thing, man. Don't touch my thing.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Don't poke my thing.
- 1:43Speaker 3: Look, we were also in Essence, okay?
- 1:45Speaker 2: Yes.
- 1:46Speaker 3: We had a very nice article come out in essence
- 1:49Speaker 3: is we talk back, host AJ and Tam Bam speak
- 1:53Speaker 3: on the different perspectives, perspectives of black women and podcasting
- 1:58Speaker 3: because we are all necessary. Okay.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Yes. And we're with girls, girls for sure.
- 2:04Speaker 3: And women, women's. Does that make sense?
- 2:06Speaker 2: Yep.
- 2:07Speaker 3: So what'd you do this weekend?
- 2:08Speaker 2: Besides be excellent, uh, When I came back, y'all, I
- 2:14Speaker 2: just got a puppy. I know I mentioned it to y'all.
- 2:17Speaker 2: That puppy been taking me through hell, y'all. I ain't
- 2:19Speaker 2: combed my hair since I got back from New York.
- 2:22Speaker 2: That dog don't stop hollering. I bought one of those collars,
- 2:25Speaker 2: the bark collars, to keep her from barking at night,
- 2:28Speaker 2: but I don't have the heart to put it on
- 2:30Speaker 2: the dog.
- 2:32Speaker 3: Don't do that to her. That's like silencing her, and
- 2:34Speaker 3: we talk back.
- 2:36Speaker 2: I talk back we bark back I also pay rent
- 2:40Speaker 2: and that dog don't pay shit so she gonna have
- 2:42Speaker 2: to either shut up or get this bark.
- 2:44Speaker 3: Calling y'all Tam trying to hide that dog cause she
- 2:46Speaker 3: pay rent but she ain't paying that goddamn dog fee
- 2:48Speaker 3: girl shut up or what who knows who listen to
- 2:51Speaker 3: this show bitch tell them people at their front desk
- 2:55Speaker 3: concierge the money got their business.
- 2:57Speaker 2: I'm dog sitting, okay? This is not my dog. I'm
- 3:01Speaker 2: dog sitting. But if she don't tighten up, she going
- 3:04Speaker 2: to pound town, fucking with your round.
- 3:06Speaker 1: She going to pound town.
- 3:07Speaker 3: Don't you?
- 3:08Speaker 1: Your ass be getting rid of dogs, boy. Yes. Don't you?
- 3:13Speaker 2: The ones that stand on two feet and the ones
- 3:15Speaker 2: that stand on four. Play with me if you want to.
- 3:17Speaker 2: I'll get rid of you.
- 3:19Speaker 3: What about you?
- 3:19Speaker 1: Listen, we all.
- 3:20Speaker 3: Oh, I was about to say, we also did a
- 3:22Speaker 3: See The Thing Is podcast.
- 3:24Speaker 1: Oh, we did. Last week as well.
- 3:25Speaker 3: It was a very fun time with Mandy and Bridget Kelly.
- 3:29Speaker 3: I'm actually a fan of Bridget Kelly, music-wise.
- 3:32Speaker 1: Yeah. It was a good time. I really enjoyed that show.
- 3:36Speaker 2: Y'all go tune into that if y'all have some extra
- 3:38Speaker 2: time after you finish listening to us.
- 3:40Speaker 3: No, I don't appreciate that fucking thumbnail with me and Trump.
- 3:43Speaker 3: I know we both Germanized. Right. So I was to
- 3:46Speaker 3: my two personalities on the goddamn screen. That was not
- 3:49Speaker 3: the gist of the conversation. It was actually what a
- 3:52Speaker 3: two minute conversation possibly.
- 3:54Speaker 1: But it was. I can see why they chose that. Yeah.
- 3:57Speaker 3: It was kind of shady. You know, I don't think
- 4:00Speaker 3: it's kind of kind of shady. I appreciate it nonetheless.
- 4:06Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 4:06Speaker 3: But what I'm not about to do is argue with
- 4:08Speaker 3: some fools.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Why don't you just make another video oh.
- 4:11Speaker 3: I am I plan on doing that and I plan
- 4:14Speaker 3: on actually offering a lot of just information I feel
- 4:19Speaker 3: like people they just be talking based on some shit
- 4:24Speaker 3: somebody else told them did you actually do your own
- 4:26Speaker 3: primary research because I do that's the difference between me
- 4:29Speaker 3: and you not you I'm talking about listeners often times
- 4:32Speaker 3: like yeah I don't I don't talk about shit I
- 4:36Speaker 3: don't fucking know I don't I don't like sometimes it
- 4:39Speaker 3: might be opinion based. And I feel like my conversation
- 4:41Speaker 3: with them about who I voted for was opinion based.
- 4:45Speaker 3: It wasn't fact based.
- 4:46Speaker 1: Right.
- 4:47Speaker 3: So it was no actual misinformation being spewed. I feel
- 4:51Speaker 3: like that's like a new word for the 20th century
- 4:54Speaker 3: law that people throw out there to try to discredit
- 4:57Speaker 3: somebody else. But I did not be out here spewing misinformation.
- 5:01Speaker 3: And I definitely what's the word I'm looking for? I
- 5:05Speaker 3: resent that. How dare you? How dare you?
- 5:10Speaker 2: Why I ought to?
- 5:12Speaker 3: Yeah, stop playing with me. Stop fucking playing with me.
- 5:15Speaker 2: But your opinion is your opinion, and fuck who got
- 5:18Speaker 2: a problem with it.
- 5:19Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:20Speaker 3: The people, the internets is weird, but yeah, my weekend,
- 5:23Speaker 3: I just fucking, you know, I didn't come back until... Yeah,
- 5:27Speaker 3: you stayed.
- 5:27Speaker 1: In New York.
- 5:27Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't come back until Sunday, so I stayed...
- 5:31Speaker 3: in New York a couple days. I really slept Friday,
- 5:34Speaker 3: and Saturday I did get out. I went to go
- 5:37Speaker 3: check out the Hove exhibit at the Brooklyn Library, which
- 5:42Speaker 3: is really, really nice. Took a lot of pictures, y'all. Again,
- 5:46Speaker 3: I was on a research project.
- 5:48Speaker 2: I might fly back on Sunday just to go to that.
- 5:50Speaker 3: Yeah, so October, I think October 1st is when it's
- 5:55Speaker 3: going away, so you better hurry up. So the whole
- 5:57Speaker 3: museum is right now dedicated to to Jay-Z I didn't
- 6:01Speaker 3: get to see all exhibits because there were lines and
- 6:04Speaker 3: I really should have woke up like 9 o'clock that
- 6:06Speaker 3: morning and go but we didn't get there till like
- 6:10Speaker 3: 3 or 4 o'clock or something like that but it was.
- 6:14Speaker 5: Real nice I met my Instagram homegirl Sean G y'all
- 6:18Speaker 5: follow Sean G she's a phenomenal artist she makes these
- 6:22Speaker 5: products and she actually got some merchandise for you too
- 6:24Speaker 5: Sam good pussy oh.
- 6:27Speaker 1: Yeah that's for me.
- 6:30Speaker 3: She got these little sacks where you put your tampons
- 6:33Speaker 3: in and shit like that. And it's like nice little thing.
- 6:36Speaker 3: She does a lot of dope shit, right? So I
- 6:39Speaker 3: met her for the first time. So that's who I
- 6:40Speaker 3: was hanging out with on Saturday. And then we also
- 6:44Speaker 3: went over to the Brooklyn Museum, which is also amazing.
- 6:47Speaker 3: They had an Egyptian display there. They had mummies in there,
- 6:51Speaker 3: like for real. I took a lot, a lot, a
- 6:54Speaker 3: lot of pictures because I'm doing a research project now.
- 6:57Speaker 3: Now I got to see... What I did notice is
- 6:58Speaker 3: that all the fucking mummies' nose is blown off. And
- 7:01Speaker 3: you know they say they've been doing that over in Egypt?
- 7:04Speaker 3: Because they don't want us to know who them people was.
- 7:06Speaker 3: Their fucking nigga nose going to tell you every time.
- 7:09Speaker 3: Jack to five nostrils going to tell you every time. Yeah,
- 7:15Speaker 3: so what I read was is that the vandalism didn't
- 7:19Speaker 3: happen like in our recent times. It's like maybe in
- 7:23Speaker 3: the past where a new ruler... intentionally deface the images,
- 7:28Speaker 3: you know, deface the statues of the previous ruler. But
- 7:30Speaker 3: I don't know how true that is. I'm more inclined
- 7:33Speaker 3: to believe that is some shit that was done in
- 7:36Speaker 3: the 80s, maybe. Right.
- 7:38Speaker 1: And they have like some block party.
- 7:40Speaker 3: It's a big ass party at the Brooklyn Museum every
- 7:43Speaker 3: first Saturday. So if you live in New York, that
- 7:45Speaker 3: shit was lit. They had food vendors out there, food trucks.
- 7:52Speaker 3: And live music, you know, live performances and shit like that, free.
- 7:57Speaker 2: Well, I'm jealous because I had to come back home
- 8:00Speaker 2: as soon as I got off the plane. I was
- 8:02Speaker 2: back in the bitch head, sewing and gluing in tracks.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Y'all.
- 8:07Speaker 2: I didn't get to have no fun after that. But
- 8:09Speaker 2: that sounds lit. I want to go back. I might
- 8:12Speaker 2: hop on a plane Sunday. Is it open on Sundays?
- 8:15Speaker 3: Yeah, it's open on Sundays. I think 1 to 6
- 8:17Speaker 3: or something like that. So, yeah, it's open on Sundays.
- 8:20Speaker 3: Other days it's like 9 to 6. That would be cool.
- 8:24Speaker 1: Let's get into some stupid internet news. What's the sins
- 8:27Speaker 1: of the week? Wild, wild. Hi, child.
- 8:30Speaker 3: We had a time last week. Okay? Niggas was brawling.
- 8:36Speaker 3: And I loved every moment of it. The big mistake
- 8:40Speaker 3: at the lake. Was that a lake or the Mississippi River?
- 8:44Speaker 1: It was a river. Oh, it was a river.
- 8:45Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 8:46Speaker 1: It was a riverboat. Yeah. So.
- 8:49Speaker 3: There was a big brawl, y'all, in Montgomery, Alabama. And
- 8:52Speaker 3: it's so crazy, right? We got the civil rights movement.
- 8:56Speaker 3: It started in Montgomery, Alabama. And I did see a
- 9:01Speaker 3: post online where this woman was saying they had just
- 9:04Speaker 3: done like a little ritual, you know, like a water ritual,
- 9:07Speaker 3: Mami Wata. A couple hours before this brawl happened, so
- 9:12Speaker 3: the ancestors was active is what I'm saying.
- 9:15Speaker 1: Okay?
- 9:16Speaker 3: And them crackers was out there crackling. and yeah listen
- 9:22Speaker 3: we are because we know those are crackers okay there's
- 9:25Speaker 3: a difference between niggas and black people and there's a
- 9:28Speaker 3: difference between crackers and white people okay okay i'm gonna
- 9:32Speaker 3: do a strong yarn crackers we know there's a difference
- 9:36Speaker 3: because not all white people are bad right absolutely not
- 9:39Speaker 3: nobody's putting that out there but there are some you
- 9:42Speaker 3: know like in a small town where you got to
- 9:44Speaker 3: be real careful.
- 9:45Speaker 1: At right Well, that shit, how many times did you
- 9:48Speaker 1: watch that video? Honestly, if you could guess.
- 9:51Speaker 3: It's a meme online.
- 9:52Speaker 1: It's a girl.
- 9:52Speaker 3: She like doing random shit, taking a shower, doing her hair.
- 9:56Speaker 1: She in the kitchen.
- 9:56Speaker 3: She just looking at that shit, laughing over and over.
- 9:59Speaker 2: And i saw something different every time and baby that
- 10:02Speaker 2: shit was funny when that he walked over to that
- 10:05Speaker 2: lady and hit her in the head with.
- 10:07Speaker 3: That i was like damn no that was excessive That
- 10:10Speaker 3: was excessive force. She was already down and overweight. Like
- 10:15Speaker 3: she couldn't get back up on her own. She looked
- 10:17Speaker 3: like an older lady, right? That's the only part I
- 10:19Speaker 3: felt bad about.
- 10:21Speaker 1: That was one of they mamas. Like, oh, no, not
- 10:23Speaker 1: my baby boy.
- 10:27Speaker 3: That was really the only part I had a teeny
- 10:30Speaker 3: bit of remorse for and empathy for. The rest of
- 10:34Speaker 3: that shit, man, listen, when you see grown black men skipping,
- 10:37Speaker 3: you know you about to get your ass whipped. Without
- 10:40Speaker 3: the audio, I can hear them saying, what's up, nigga,
- 10:42Speaker 3: what's up? That's all I can hear.
- 10:44Speaker 1: Without audio.
- 10:45Speaker 2: When they skipped off that boat, I was like, ooh.
- 10:48Speaker 2: y'all in trouble y'all better start that engine and get
- 10:51Speaker 2: the fucking moving y'all need to get up out of
- 10:53Speaker 2: there cause a nigga is skipping towards you a grown
- 10:56Speaker 2: man and he ain't gay he a straight nigga skipping towards.
- 11:00Speaker 3: Your ass with no shirt on and pulling they pants
- 11:03Speaker 3: up with dreads is on you about to get molly
- 11:06Speaker 3: whopped out there so all I heard without audio was
- 11:11Speaker 3: try that shit now nigga that's all I heard.
- 11:14Speaker 2: No audio somebody definitely said that what's up What's up now?
- 11:19Speaker 3: Yeah, because if I were on that boat, I would
- 11:23Speaker 3: have been stressed out watching him attack that white man. Yeah.
- 11:26Speaker 3: I was so stressed out watching like, yo, like, why
- 11:29Speaker 3: is this happening?
- 11:30Speaker 1: Right. They literally jumped him. It was awful. It was awful.
- 11:35Speaker 3: They was on him like ants.
- 11:37Speaker 2: If I ever get in a fight, even if I
- 11:40Speaker 2: don't have a hat, I'm going to throw somebody else's
- 11:42Speaker 2: hat up in the air.
- 11:43Speaker 1: I'm throwing my.
- 11:47Speaker 3: Wig.
- 11:49Speaker 1: I'm throwing my wig, bitch.
- 11:51Speaker 3: Somebody better come to my rescue.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Wakanda ancestry call for everybody to come inside and be
- 11:59Speaker 2: some ass. I was talking to my sisters. I was like,
- 12:02Speaker 2: if you was there, would you have gotten a licking
- 12:04Speaker 2: or would you... Would you have recorded? My older sister
- 12:07Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I would have recorded. My little sister
- 12:10Speaker 2: didn't say nothing.
- 12:11Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 12:12Speaker 2: If I was like close enough, I might have been
- 12:14Speaker 2: hit her with a one-two and then kept on going.
- 12:16Speaker 2: I don't know if I would have like been in it,
- 12:19Speaker 2: in it. Y'all know I'm a whole Black Panther. I'm
- 12:23Speaker 2: a whole Black Panther out here.
- 12:24Speaker 3: Listen, I'm ready for all my people to get together
- 12:27Speaker 3: and buck the system. I can't do it by myself.
- 12:30Speaker 3: If I see some shit like that popping off, I
- 12:33Speaker 3: am definitely jumping in. Guaranteed. tag me in it's happening
- 12:37Speaker 3: yes for sure so if y'all been living underneath a
- 12:40Speaker 3: rock you don't know what the fuck we talking about
- 12:42Speaker 3: so according to witnesses this is the alabama riverboat brawl
- 12:46Speaker 3: that took place on august the 5th okay this is
- 12:51Speaker 3: a national black holiday at this point okay so the
- 12:55Speaker 3: brawl started when a pontoon boat stopped at the riverfront
- 12:58Speaker 3: preventing a riverboat from docking there In footage shared to
- 13:01Speaker 3: social media, several white people who were on board the
- 13:05Speaker 3: pontoon boat are seen attacking a single black man who
- 13:09Speaker 3: was allegedly a dock worker and just doing his job.
- 13:13Speaker 3: So we are getting jumped on for just existing. So
- 13:16Speaker 3: imagine what would have happened to his ass on a
- 13:18Speaker 3: damn back road. Right.
- 13:21Speaker 1: With no cameras.
- 13:22Speaker 3: And that's why that song, In a Small Town, is
- 13:26Speaker 3: so offensive to black people because We just had the
- 13:29Speaker 3: Emmett Till anti-lynching bill passed in 2022 because niggas is
- 13:35Speaker 3: still being lynched. And 2023 is still happening. So if
- 13:41Speaker 3: they are now emboldened to do that shit, broad daylight
- 13:46Speaker 3: in front of black people, in front of white people,
- 13:48Speaker 3: they don't give a shit no more.
- 13:50Speaker 1: Right.
- 13:50Speaker 3: And we got alcohol involved. It's a recipe for disaster.
- 13:55Speaker 2: Niggas made a song already. Niggas had t-shirts made.
- 13:58Speaker 3: I love the song.
- 14:00Speaker 2: I see earrings with little folding chairs hanging off the bottom.
- 14:05Speaker 1: I want the earrings.
- 14:08Speaker 3: I'm not wearing a damn folding chair earrings. That little
- 14:11Speaker 3: pocketbook I see now, a little crystal pocketbook, I want that.
- 14:14Speaker 1: Put your hair up in a ball with some little
- 14:16Speaker 1: folding chairs? Yeah, don't play with me.
- 14:20Speaker 3: The funniest is like the Mortal Kombat videos where people
- 14:24Speaker 3: swinging in chairs and shit like they practicing you even
- 14:27Speaker 3: got the white people making fun man they like practicing
- 14:30Speaker 3: ducking from chairs and shit like that it's a good
- 14:34Speaker 3: time did you.
- 14:34Speaker 2: See the reenactment at the pool and the niggas jumped
- 14:37Speaker 2: in the pool and swam across the pool oh.
- 14:39Speaker 3: My god people was doing a lot hilarious y'all we
- 14:44Speaker 3: do not condone violence Pam does not condone violence. I
- 14:48Speaker 3: think violence is necessary in some instances. Okay. Everything is necessary.
- 14:53Speaker 3: We need the peacemakers and we need the ass beaters.
- 14:56Speaker 3: It's just a thing. Okay.
- 14:57Speaker 1: And you know what?
- 14:58Speaker 2: We just need, we as black people need to come
- 15:00Speaker 2: together like that in all.
- 15:02Speaker 1: Facets of life. You know, seriously.
- 15:06Speaker 3: Not just when it's time to throw hands. And so
- 15:07Speaker 3: Marlon Wayne, he's receiving a lot of backlash for condemning
- 15:11Speaker 3: the fight. He just feels like it shouldn't have happened. Essentially. Like,
- 15:16Speaker 3: some things are just unavoidable. You know what I'm saying? Well,
- 15:20Speaker 3: it shouldn't happen.
- 15:21Speaker 2: Those white people should have not put their hands on
- 15:23Speaker 2: that black man doing his job. So, yeah, it should
- 15:25Speaker 2: not have happened. But the aftermath was the consequences of that.
- 15:31Speaker 3: He said, how about we not try that in a
- 15:33Speaker 3: small town? Shit's silly, bro.
- 15:35Speaker 1: They jumped on him first. They tagged us in.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Okay, well, he's trying to backtrack now on that statement.
- 15:43Speaker 3: I don't think he's really trying to backtrack. He's trying
- 15:45Speaker 3: to offer clarity, maybe, saying it was sarcasm, but nigga,
- 15:49Speaker 3: I read it how I read it.
- 15:51Speaker 1: Okay?
- 15:52Speaker 3: You were condemning the people for getting into the fight,
- 15:55Speaker 3: as far as I'm concerned.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Oh, so he's trying to say it was a joke. Okay. Okay, Marlon.
- 16:02Speaker 3: Joke these, my nigga.
- 16:04Speaker 1: Every joke ain't funny. Okay.
- 16:07Speaker 3: Them ass whoopers is funny, though.
- 16:09Speaker 1: Anyway. Anyway. All right, y'all.
- 16:12Speaker 3: Listen, we've been waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting. We waited, like, what,
- 16:15Speaker 3: about a year and a half for the trial to
- 16:17Speaker 3: come up. And then the trial came up. And now
- 16:23Speaker 3: on Tory Lanez, I think he was convicted, what, in January?
- 16:28Speaker 3: Was it January Tory was convicted.
- 16:31Speaker 1: For the shooting? December. Yeah. Yeah.
- 16:35Speaker 3: So he was convicted on three felony charges in December,
- 16:38Speaker 3: assault with an auto... with a semi-automatic firearm, carrying a
- 16:41Speaker 3: loaded unregistered firearm in a vehicle, and discharging a firearm
- 16:46Speaker 3: with gross negligence. Those were his three felony charges. And
- 16:50Speaker 3: unfortunately for Mr. Lings, okay, he has been tried, convicted,
- 16:55Speaker 3: and now sentenced to 10 years in prison for shooting
- 17:02Speaker 3: at Meg Thee Stallion. Sam, how do you feel about this?
- 17:05Speaker 3: How do you feel about his sentence? Any feelings about it?
- 17:10Speaker 1: I'm conflicted, honestly.
- 17:12Speaker 2: If I'm going to be honest, I'm conflicted because I
- 17:15Speaker 2: don't believe that anybody should, it's okay to hurt any
- 17:19Speaker 2: black woman in any form, right? But then I also
- 17:22Speaker 2: feel like, all right, he's 31, 41, that nigga going
- 17:25Speaker 2: to be 41 when he get out.
- 17:26Speaker 3: He's coming home in the future.
- 17:29Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 17:30Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 17:32Speaker 1: So I just, I am conflicted.
- 17:33Speaker 2: 10 years is a long time, but shooting somebody's foot
- 17:37Speaker 2: is also bad, so.
- 17:40Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 17:40Speaker 2: And then I just, I still don't feel like I
- 17:44Speaker 2: have a hundred percent evidence that he did it because
- 17:49Speaker 2: I feel weird about the best friend not talking to
- 17:51Speaker 2: her anymore. And I feel weird about the immunity that
- 17:55Speaker 2: she got. Like, why does she need immunity? You know,
- 17:58Speaker 2: like it's just a lot of things that just don't
- 18:00Speaker 2: sit right with my spirit.
- 18:02Speaker 1: And I just wish all of it never.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Happened because he, he did make good music, you know,
- 18:07Speaker 2: and I'm a, I'm a miss his music.
- 18:09Speaker 1: So, It's bad.
- 18:11Speaker 2: But if he, I mean, if he did that shit,
- 18:13Speaker 2: then I guess you do the crime, you serve the time.
- 18:15Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 18:17Speaker 3: So we know in America for sure, the judicial system
- 18:21Speaker 3: is your religion. It is the Bible. They have the
- 18:25Speaker 3: legal right to create murders, to create robbers, like even
- 18:29Speaker 3: if you didn't do it, right? There is enough evidence
- 18:32Speaker 3: that I saw before the actual trial that would suggest
- 18:36Speaker 3: that he did this thing and then tried to coerce
- 18:38Speaker 3: the homegirl into acting like it was her. His lawyer
- 18:44Speaker 3: even advised against him trying to do that when he
- 18:48Speaker 3: did it. I think that Tori, this might be a
- 18:51Speaker 3: situation where he would have benefited from taking a plea
- 18:54Speaker 3: as opposed to taking it to trial, but he was
- 18:56Speaker 3: adamant that he didn't do these things, right? He didn't
- 18:59Speaker 3: do this thing, but he actually was taunting her after
- 19:02Speaker 3: the shooting. He had a music video come out where
- 19:05Speaker 3: he was eating or pretending to eat or had a
- 19:09Speaker 3: horse leg On a plate. Who eats horse? And we
- 19:12Speaker 3: know it's Meg the Stallion. OK, Megan Pete, her real name,
- 19:16Speaker 3: but her stage name is Meg the Stallion. Nobody eats
- 19:19Speaker 3: horse in America. So where do you why are you
- 19:23Speaker 3: taunting somebody who you just abused? That's what we have
- 19:25Speaker 3: to look at. So I don't think this is a
- 19:28Speaker 3: situation where he was falsely accused of something. I think
- 19:32Speaker 3: he did it. I think they were all drinking. I
- 19:34Speaker 3: think that's also why Magda Sayan tried to save him initially.
- 19:40Speaker 3: She didn't want to talk about it. She wasn't trying
- 19:42Speaker 3: to put that shit out in the media. But his
- 19:44Speaker 3: people was running a smear campaign on her when he
- 19:47Speaker 3: actually did these things. right so she was initially like
- 19:50Speaker 3: all the shootings and shit that was going on amongst
- 19:51Speaker 3: black men she actually said that she didn't want another
- 19:55Speaker 3: black man to get hurt by the police that's why
- 19:56Speaker 3: she lied when they came out there she probably knew
- 19:58Speaker 3: she played a part in what happened beasting out on
- 20:02Speaker 3: him she's damn near six foot he's a shorter guy
- 20:05Speaker 3: he's like what five four something like that like my
- 20:07Speaker 3: height um she tried to once the state picks some
- 20:14Speaker 3: shit up ain't nothing you can do about.
- 20:15Speaker 1: It I.
- 20:18Speaker 2: Don't like how people are coming for her still I'm
- 20:22Speaker 2: not gonna listen to her music this is the state
- 20:27Speaker 2: against Tory Lanez this is not Meg against.
- 20:29Speaker 3: Tory Lanez she's a victim and often times black women
- 20:36Speaker 3: the people who do the assaults towards us are black
- 20:38Speaker 3: men Like, come on. It's not like we just getting
- 20:41Speaker 3: beat up and raped and murdered by other races. Oftentimes
- 20:45Speaker 3: it's by our partners and people we know. And the
- 20:48Speaker 3: reason why the homegirl wasn't talking her ass no more,
- 20:51Speaker 3: because she was shady fucking with that boy behind her back.
- 20:55Speaker 3: That happened. So she really was on some, I read
- 20:58Speaker 3: like the court documents. Chelsea really was on some fuck
- 21:02Speaker 3: both of y'all. I'm not confirming or denying shit. And
- 21:06Speaker 3: her immunity, and I think we talked about it back
- 21:08Speaker 3: then when the trial was going on. I can't remember
- 21:09Speaker 3: the actual, I can't remember the term that was used
- 21:12Speaker 3: for the type of immunity she got. But the type
- 21:15Speaker 3: of immunity she got did not explicitly strike her out
- 21:22Speaker 3: from being able to be prosecuted for something in the future.
- 21:26Speaker 3: It wasn't like full immunity. So even if she was
- 21:29Speaker 3: guilty of something, the state still can come back and
- 21:31Speaker 3: charge her about some shit because she didn't have full immunity. So, yeah,
- 21:37Speaker 3: I think I know plenty of men. My ex just
- 21:39Speaker 3: got out of prison. He spent almost 20 years of
- 21:41Speaker 3: his life in and out of jail. He has two
- 21:43Speaker 3: actual charges, two felony charges that he's done. Neither one
- 21:46Speaker 3: of them was shooting somebody. And he spent 10 years.
- 21:50Speaker 3: I mean, excuse me, eight years just recently for drugs.
- 21:52Speaker 3: Niggas go to jail for less. He's a celebrity. So
- 21:55Speaker 3: we think that they're supposed to be exempt. But there
- 21:57Speaker 3: are a lot of men, young boys sitting in prison
- 22:01Speaker 3: for a bunch of dumb shit who didn't shoot at somebody. Yeah.
- 22:06Speaker 3: What if he had killed her? That's what we needed
- 22:08Speaker 3: to see. We needed to see Magdalene murdered. What he
- 22:11Speaker 3: did was unprecedented. One rapper shooting another one. That is weird.
- 22:15Speaker 1: Like a woman. No, it's not unprecedented. That has happened.
- 22:18Speaker 3: A woman, though. That's what I'm talking about. Like a
- 22:20Speaker 3: male rapper shooting a female rapper. And then we also
- 22:23Speaker 3: got to take into consideration that she is the motherfucking competition. Also.
- 22:28Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 22:29Speaker 3: At that time. So, I don't know. I don't like
- 22:31Speaker 3: to get in other people's court cases. We got to
- 22:33Speaker 3: report it on the ship. But, like, regular people I
- 22:35Speaker 3: know in real life, I don't be... Listen, I don't
- 22:38Speaker 3: have my own problems.
- 22:39Speaker 2: Because I love to make the stallion, but I also
- 22:43Speaker 2: was a fan of Tory Lanez. I'm not going to
- 22:45Speaker 2: sit here and lie. I was a fan of his, so.
- 22:49Speaker 3: I liked his music.
- 22:50Speaker 1: I liked his music.
- 22:51Speaker 3: He was kind of a chameleon, though. Sometimes you'd hear
- 22:53Speaker 3: Tory Lanez on an album, and you're like, who that is?
- 22:55Speaker 3: You would think it's Lil Wayne or... Or somebody else.
- 22:58Speaker 3: He's such a chameleon, he can change his voice. So
- 23:00Speaker 3: imagine what type of mind he has. Consider that. So
- 23:05Speaker 3: I don't know. Hopefully he appeals. He does have, you know,
- 23:08Speaker 3: he could do that and get a lighter sentence. Ten
- 23:13Speaker 3: years for anybody to meet is excessive if you didn't
- 23:16Speaker 3: murder or rape somebody. You got men going to jail
- 23:20Speaker 3: for ten years for drugs in America. So it's just
- 23:24Speaker 3: still prison reform all over again. But I do not
- 23:28Speaker 3: condone the abuse of women.
- 23:30Speaker 1: Me neither.
- 23:31Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 23:32Speaker 1: In any form.
- 23:33Speaker 3: Sorry, Tori Lane. Sorry to this man.
- 23:35Speaker 1: Sorry, Meg, that that happened to you. Yeah, absolutely. So
- 23:41Speaker 1: this is some real stupid Internet news.
- 23:45Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all saw this, but there's a
- 23:48Speaker 2: sluggish sprinter that went viral over the weekend. The runner
- 23:51Speaker 2: is actually a Somali runner, and they were competing in
- 23:55Speaker 2: the 100-meter race.
- 23:56Speaker 1: And baby, this.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Lady got the record for being the slowest time of anybody.
- 24:01Speaker 2: And if y'all ever see, if y'all see this video,
- 24:04Speaker 2: this look like she didn't know what she was doing.
- 24:08Speaker 2: Like this, even her setup was like, oh shit, we
- 24:11Speaker 2: getting down.
- 24:12Speaker 3: Oh, we getting down.
- 24:15Speaker 1: I didn't know we had to get down to run.
- 24:17Speaker 3: Yeah, that was me because I be running like that
- 24:20Speaker 3: with them black leggings on. Like, she got on black leggings.
- 24:23Speaker 3: She don't even have on running attire.
- 24:24Speaker 1: Running shorts. And a big t-shirt.
- 24:27Speaker 2: And she's just running, taking her time to get across
- 24:31Speaker 2: the deadline. I want to go, see, I want to
- 24:34Speaker 2: be in the Olympics now. I want to do, like,
- 24:35Speaker 2: the long jump.
- 24:37Speaker 1: At this point. Yeah, so.
- 24:41Speaker 3: So it's a competition that happened in China, right? With
- 24:44Speaker 3: the Somali athletics official suspended now. And the sports minister
- 24:48Speaker 3: forced to apologize after video went viral across social media.
- 24:54Speaker 3: And apparently they know this person, right? So they put
- 24:57Speaker 3: them in place. A little bit of nepotism.
- 24:59Speaker 1: It's always good.
- 25:00Speaker 3: I mean, that's what black people actually are missing in America.
- 25:04Speaker 3: We don't have enough niggas in place to put us on.
- 25:08Speaker 3: We got accused recently of nepotism.
- 25:10Speaker 1: Them niggas was like, Nazra, you want to go to
- 25:13Speaker 1: the Olympics? The Olympics? Shit, when is it? I'll go
- 25:19Speaker 1: when I ain't doing shit.
- 25:22Speaker 3: What's that girl on Instagram who be doing Harriet Tubman
- 25:25Speaker 3: videos and shit? You know what I'm talking about? Not
- 25:28Speaker 3: nobody but her ass.
- 25:32Speaker 1: I'll go when I got to do. You got to run. Oh, shit.
- 25:37Speaker 1: I mean, can you get me some sneakers?
- 25:40Speaker 2: I go like for real. It had to be something
- 25:42Speaker 2: like that. Cause this, I would have beat this girl.
- 25:45Speaker 2: I would have beat this girl in this race.
- 25:48Speaker 3: It says the video shows a woman far outclassed and
- 25:52Speaker 3: not even in the frame with the other runners. Almost
- 25:55Speaker 3: immediately after the a hundred meter race began, the woman
- 25:59Speaker 3: finished about 10 seconds behind the winner finishing in about
- 26:03Speaker 3: 21 seconds. She did pretty good. My slew foot ass
- 26:08Speaker 3: would have fell to the finish line.
- 26:10Speaker 1: Crawl. A hundred meters is not that far. I know.
- 26:15Speaker 1: You would have made it. You would have made it.
- 26:21Speaker 2: Y'all, so we have a guest on today. We're talking fibroids.
- 26:26Speaker 2: I know you know somebody who has them or you
- 26:28Speaker 2: have them. You really want to stay tuned for this information.
- 26:31Speaker 1: It's really good. We'll be right back after this commercial.
- 26:41Speaker 3: All right, y'all, and we're back. Y'all, there's a lot
- 26:47Speaker 3: of things going on with women today, okay, in our bodies.
- 26:51Speaker 3: Tam and I personally know a few women having real-life
- 26:55Speaker 3: health crises at the moment, from cancer to fertility issues.
- 27:02Speaker 3: I had a homegirl just freeze their eggs last week.
- 27:06Speaker 3: So I want to talk about holistic health. So we
- 27:09Speaker 3: have a friend of the show on, Sasha Rosa.
- 27:14Speaker 1: Hey, girl.
- 27:17Speaker 4: Thank you guys for having me on. I'm really excited
- 27:19Speaker 4: to talk about this conversation.
- 27:20Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for coming. This is a big topic,
- 27:23Speaker 1: especially in the black community.
- 27:25Speaker 4: Absolutely, yes.
- 27:26Speaker 3: Yep, so Sasha is a holistic womb and wellness specialist.
- 27:31Speaker 3: Tell our listeners a little bit about what you do, well,
- 27:34Speaker 3: about yourself and what you do, Sasha.
- 27:36Speaker 7: Yeah, so what I do is I, a little bit
- 27:39Speaker 7: about me. I've had fibroids. I've been overweight. I've had
- 27:42Speaker 7: a lot of health issues tied to my hormones and
- 27:45Speaker 7: pretty much a lot of things that women are going
- 27:47Speaker 7: through today. Years ago, I was able to lose weight,
- 27:52Speaker 7: get healthy, and also shrink my fibroids and get rid
- 27:56Speaker 7: of them. This was after I got fibroids the second time.
- 27:59Speaker 7: That's a story. Pretty much what I learned after my experience,
- 28:04Speaker 7: I saw so many women suffering with fibroids, with their hormones,
- 28:09Speaker 7: with things related to the uterus with, you know, um.
- 28:12Speaker 4: Heavy cycles, things I suffered from for years.
- 28:15Speaker 2: And I, you know, I was equipped at the time
- 28:17Speaker 2: with the knowledge that, okay, we can heal ourselves. So
- 28:20Speaker 2: it went from, you know, kind of like teaching women
- 28:22Speaker 2: at my job, you know, I'm telling them what to
- 28:25Speaker 2: do and then, you know, to, to make things better.
- 28:27Speaker 2: And then it went from that to more women wanting
- 28:30Speaker 2: to seek my services.
- 28:31Speaker 4: And then here we are.
- 28:33Speaker 7: So then, you know, I was like, okay, so this
- 28:36Speaker 7: is how, you know, I created my platform, my business
- 28:38Speaker 7: and everything like that.
- 28:39Speaker 3: So, yeah.
- 28:40Speaker 7: And it's been, you know, it's been a blessing to
- 28:43Speaker 7: be able to help so many women get healthy, lose weight,
- 28:46Speaker 7: get rid of fibroids, you know, become pregnant after years
- 28:49Speaker 7: of infertility.
- 28:50Speaker 4: It's been an absolute blessing. So, yes, that's a little bit.
- 28:54Speaker 2: So now I did see that you said after having
- 28:57Speaker 2: fibroids the second time.
- 28:59Speaker 1: So what was the first time like?
- 29:02Speaker 4: The first time, the first time was horrible.
- 29:04Speaker 7: So the first time I did have the surgery because
- 29:07Speaker 7: I did not know at that time that My fibroids
- 29:10Speaker 7: can really shrink. I've heard, I heard people say it,
- 29:12Speaker 7: but you know, the doctors, you know how they influence you.
- 29:14Speaker 7: They're like, look, you have to have the surgery.
- 29:16Speaker 4: There's nothing else you can do.
- 29:17Speaker 7: So went to have the surgery, which I deeply regret
- 29:21Speaker 7: because it was the healing process was horrible and it
- 29:24Speaker 7: was complications.
- 29:24Speaker 4: It was horrible. It was a horrible experience.
- 29:26Speaker 7: So shortly after having the surgery, not that long, a
- 29:30Speaker 7: few months after, you know, noticed that, you know, I
- 29:32Speaker 7: was having issues with my cycle and I was like,
- 29:35Speaker 7: what's going on? And, you know, our, you know, what's
- 29:37Speaker 7: going on? These issues should have been cleared up after
- 29:40Speaker 7: the removal.
- 29:41Speaker 3: Girl, that's how I feel.
- 29:42Speaker 1: That's exactly how I feel.
- 29:43Speaker 2: I had 14 fibroids removed in March.
- 29:47Speaker 1: And here it is August.
- 29:49Speaker 2: And I feel like I'm starting to feel the same
- 29:52Speaker 2: things I was feeling before the surgery.
- 29:55Speaker 4: After, yeah.
- 29:56Speaker 7: So when I went back, I found out I had,
- 29:58Speaker 7: I had a fibroid. It was like at that time,
- 30:00Speaker 7: seven to eight centimeters. I was like, are you kidding me?
- 30:02Speaker 7: I broke down. I was like, I just had surgery
- 30:04Speaker 7: for this a few months ago. Like it went through
- 30:07Speaker 7: all this stuff, found out I had another fibroid. So
- 30:10Speaker 7: after that point, I said, there's no way I'm going
- 30:11Speaker 7: through surgery again. Cause they was trying to coerce me
- 30:13Speaker 7: to go through surgery again. I'm like, I just had
- 30:14Speaker 7: surgery a few months ago. I said, no, I have
- 30:18Speaker 7: to get rid of this on my own. Like, you know, after,
- 30:20Speaker 7: by that time I had started doing some reading and
- 30:22Speaker 7: some research, but you know, started hearing stories about women,
- 30:25Speaker 7: you know, doing something on their own string and their
- 30:27Speaker 7: fibroids and getting rid of them.
- 30:28Speaker 4: But then, you know, that.
- 30:30Speaker 2: Gave me like the push to, no, you have to
- 30:32Speaker 2: change your entire lifestyle.
- 30:33Speaker 4: You have to get serious.
- 30:34Speaker 7: And really at that time, I gave up meat, but I,
- 30:38Speaker 7: you know, I still was eating dairy, you know, other
- 30:40Speaker 7: things that I still wasn't a hundred percent healthy.
- 30:42Speaker 4: That caused me to get my crap together.
- 30:45Speaker 2: And then after, shortly after I noticed that my period
- 30:48Speaker 2: issues cleared up and I was starting to get regular
- 30:51Speaker 2: cycles again. I switched doctors because the doctor before was
- 30:53Speaker 2: trying to force me to have surgery. So then after
- 30:56Speaker 2: switching doctors, um, After about a year and a half,
- 31:01Speaker 2: when I went back to get checked out, my fibroids
- 31:03Speaker 2: checked out, it went from seven to eight centimeters to three.
- 31:06Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, my God, it shrunk.
- 31:07Speaker 1: Yay.
- 31:08Speaker 7: So all I was doing was working. And I could
- 31:10Speaker 7: tell that what I was doing was working because I
- 31:12Speaker 7: was feeling better. My cycles were better. I felt healthier.
- 31:15Speaker 7: I just felt the healthiest I've ever been. I was
- 31:17Speaker 7: losing weight. So I was like, what I'm doing is working.
- 31:20Speaker 7: I'm just keep doing it. and pray that this works out.
- 31:23Speaker 1: And it did.
- 31:24Speaker 7: Were there times when I was skeptical? Like, oh my God,
- 31:27Speaker 7: could it really happen?
- 31:27Speaker 4: Could it really shrink? Are they going to get bigger?
- 31:29Speaker 2: Yeah, but after seeing that, that was confirmation. And then
- 31:32Speaker 2: I just continued on my journey. And then when I
- 31:35Speaker 2: went back, I think a year after that, they saw
- 31:37Speaker 2: that it was complete.
- 31:38Speaker 4: It was like, there's nothing.
- 31:39Speaker 7: So it's just a regular healthy uterus.
- 31:41Speaker 4: So I was like, oh my God, thank God.
- 31:43Speaker 7: So when people, of course, heard the story, like people
- 31:46Speaker 7: like friends, family, just people that I know, they want
- 31:51Speaker 7: to get more information and also too about my weight
- 31:53Speaker 7: loss journey. And then I created like a group on
- 31:55Speaker 7: Facebook years ago. And then all of a sudden people
- 31:58Speaker 7: wanted to seek out my services. So I actually, that, that,
- 32:01Speaker 7: that made me, that pushed me to actually create a
- 32:03Speaker 7: business out of this to help, you know, help women
- 32:06Speaker 7: get healthy, balance the hormones, which makes it easier to
- 32:09Speaker 7: release the weight once your.
- 32:10Speaker 4: Hormones are balanced.
- 32:12Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 32:12Speaker 3: For any of our listeners who do not know what, uh,
- 32:15Speaker 3: uterine fibroids are, or, you know, you may not have
- 32:18Speaker 3: ever been diagnosed with them. So you, you never even
- 32:20Speaker 3: think about them right until you go to the doctor
- 32:22Speaker 3: and they tell you you have some fibroids. Or you
- 32:24Speaker 3: get pregnant and you have a fibroid bigger than your
- 32:26Speaker 3: kid in your uterus, right?
- 32:29Speaker 1: So you just never know.
- 32:29Speaker 3: So fibroids are growths made of muscle and tissue that
- 32:33Speaker 3: form in or on.
- 32:34Speaker 1: The wall of the uterus.
- 32:35Speaker 3: These growths can usually not, excuse me, these growths are
- 32:38Speaker 3: usually not cancerous, benign, and are the most common non-cancerous
- 32:44Speaker 3: tumors in women, but they cause um fertility issues not
- 32:48Speaker 3: infertility but they can cause problems when trying to conceive
- 32:52Speaker 3: um yeah so a lot of this stuff is is
- 32:55Speaker 3: tied to your diet talk about um like what was
- 32:59Speaker 3: your starting weight if you don't mind us asking and
- 33:02Speaker 3: because you're fine as hell now child okay y'all check
- 33:06Speaker 3: out Sasha's Instagram she's gonna give y'all that shit at
- 33:08Speaker 3: the end of the uh episode thank.
- 33:10Speaker 7: You um my start was I think I was about
- 33:14Speaker 7: 215 so yeah I was yeah I was, and I
- 33:17Speaker 7: felt it. Like, you know, I felt that weight. That
- 33:20Speaker 7: was not a comfortable weight for me. So that was
- 33:23Speaker 7: my highest weight.
- 33:24Speaker 4: And after that, I was like, I mean, I don't
- 33:26Speaker 4: even think I took pictures like that at my highest weight.
- 33:28Speaker 1: Fat max is what I call it.
- 33:30Speaker 2: Yes.
- 33:31Speaker 1: I didn't, you know, I had, I.
- 33:32Speaker 7: Used to wear big sweaters, big cardigans. I didn't want
- 33:35Speaker 7: nobody to see me. I didn't go out like that
- 33:36Speaker 7: when I was at my highest weight. Because I was
- 33:38Speaker 7: just like, uh-uh. So, yes, that was my highest weight.
- 33:41Speaker 1: And then.
- 33:43Speaker 7: I actually started my weight loss training before I had
- 33:46Speaker 7: the fibroid surgery. So I started slowly losing the weight.
- 33:49Speaker 7: And I was slowly getting healthy before that. But this
- 33:52Speaker 7: caused me to really get serious and go all in.
- 33:56Speaker 7: And go just give up certain, you know, dairy, meat,
- 34:00Speaker 7: and seafood.
- 34:02Speaker 4: And just really go all in.
- 34:03Speaker 1: So, girl, what the fuck you be eating? Because you're
- 34:06Speaker 1: giving up dairy, meat, seafood.
- 34:11Speaker 2: I'm just trying to figure out how you're still a
- 34:13Speaker 2: nice person because you seem like such a nice person.
- 34:16Speaker 1: You know what?
- 34:18Speaker 4: You know what's so funny? When I was eating the
- 34:20Speaker 4: meat and all that other stuff, I was not nice.
- 34:22Speaker 7: I'm much nicer now because you have to understand that stuff.
- 34:28Speaker 4: Sits in you.
- 34:33Speaker 7: When it sits in you like that, you're accumulating toxins
- 34:37Speaker 7: in the body. You're accumulating excess estrogen. And then, like,
- 34:40Speaker 7: it makes your hormones out of balance. So that's when
- 34:42Speaker 7: you get the irritability and, like.
- 34:44Speaker 4: You know.
- 34:45Speaker 3: The mind.
- 34:46Speaker 7: Yes, the anxiety, all that stuff. So I eat a
- 34:49Speaker 7: lot of fruit, eat a lot of vegetables. I eat, like,
- 34:51Speaker 7: you know, I do still eat things like pasta, but
- 34:54Speaker 7: I'll do, like, chickpea pasta. I'll use mushrooms instead of meat.
- 34:59Speaker 7: I try to eat a lot of, like, kale, vegetables.
- 35:02Speaker 4: And fruits. And, you know, pasta.
- 35:04Speaker 1: That's it.
- 35:04Speaker 4: Quinoa.
- 35:06Speaker 1: Kale, vegetables, and fruit. God damn. That's not all.
- 35:11Speaker 4: That's not all.
- 35:12Speaker 7: I can still eat a pizza without the cheese and
- 35:15Speaker 7: then just the vegetables on.
- 35:16Speaker 4: Top and then just make sure it's gluten-free. I eat
- 35:19Speaker 4: different things.
- 35:19Speaker 7: I might do a vegan burger sometimes and things like that.
- 35:23Speaker 4: It's not like my diet is.
- 35:26Speaker 1: A pizza without cheese?
- 35:28Speaker 2: That ain't nothing but a piece of bread with some
- 35:30Speaker 2: motherfucking vegetables on top.
- 35:34Speaker 4: But you know what? You get used to it after
- 35:37Speaker 4: a while.
- 35:37Speaker 7: I know how you feel because when I first even
- 35:41Speaker 7: thought about going vegan, somebody even told me about what
- 35:44Speaker 7: vegan was. I remember laughing and said, there's no way
- 35:46Speaker 7: in hell I could do that because I love meat.
- 35:48Speaker 4: I love chicken.
- 35:49Speaker 7: I love steaks. I love red meat. I used to
- 35:52Speaker 7: eat that stuff every single day. So I understand what
- 35:55Speaker 7: you mean.
- 35:55Speaker 4: I understand why. because I was that person too.
- 35:58Speaker 7: But no, like once you're on the other side, I
- 36:00Speaker 7: say give it like a couple months of getting used
- 36:03Speaker 7: to it. Your body gets used to it and you
- 36:05Speaker 7: see how you feel as opposed to how you felt before.
- 36:08Speaker 4: It's a huge difference.
- 36:09Speaker 7: Like you feel lighter, you know, not just physically, but
- 36:12Speaker 7: also mentally as well. So you just feel a lot
- 36:15Speaker 7: lighter and.
- 36:16Speaker 4: Just like you're not weighed down by all this heavy,
- 36:18Speaker 4: heavy food.
- 36:20Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:21Speaker 3: Yeah. In a black community, a lot of things we
- 36:23Speaker 3: say are hereditary. Like I, I was, you know, while
- 36:27Speaker 3: researching like PCOS and fibroids, I was finding things like, oh,
- 36:32Speaker 3: it could be hereditary. It's not the condition that's hereditary.
- 36:36Speaker 3: It's the diet. Like we grew up on all bullshit.
- 36:40Speaker 3: So now here you are, an adult trying to make
- 36:42Speaker 3: a conscious, self-aware decision. Look, I need to change my diet.
- 36:46Speaker 3: It's fucking hard as hell.
- 36:48Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:49Speaker 3: And from the studies I've read, it says 40 to 80%
- 36:53Speaker 3: of people who have a uterus, women, okay, have fibroids.
- 36:58Speaker 3: Black women are three times more likely to be diagnosed
- 37:04Speaker 3: with fibroids than our white counterparts.
- 37:06Speaker 1: I really think it's the Laurie's seasoned salt.
- 37:11Speaker 3: Or Accent MSG. Like in Charleston, they put Accent in everything.
- 37:16Speaker 3: And I didn't realize Accent was actually MSG until maybe
- 37:20Speaker 3: like 2016 when I started changing my diet. Like, it's
- 37:23Speaker 3: wild the shit that we consume in America because we
- 37:26Speaker 3: might can eat the same shit in another country and
- 37:28Speaker 3: it'd be all right.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 37:29Speaker 7: And it'll be, the ingredients will be totally different. It
- 37:32Speaker 7: will not be the same toxic ingredients that we have
- 37:34Speaker 7: in America.
- 37:34Speaker 1: Yep. It's so hard though.
- 37:36Speaker 2: Like I've been in this little pocket of weight for
- 37:41Speaker 2: at least seven to eight years.
- 37:43Speaker 1: Yes, girl.
- 37:44Speaker 2: I can't seem to get out of to say I
- 37:46Speaker 2: will go hard. I'll be Billy blanks in it for
- 37:48Speaker 2: about a couple months and I'll lose. Let's say I'll
- 37:51Speaker 2: get outside of that pocket. But I go right back.
- 37:54Speaker 2: I go right back every time. Yeah, I got an
- 37:57Speaker 2: appointment with because I'm not doing like, you know, the
- 37:59Speaker 2: people that are doing like the ozone pack and all
- 38:01Speaker 2: the diabetes needles in their body and all this stuff
- 38:04Speaker 2: and like phentermine. I'm not doing all of that. It's
- 38:07Speaker 2: just not good for me, especially with me having MS.
- 38:12Speaker 1: But I am. Yeah, I made an appointment with a hypnotist.
- 38:17Speaker 3: Did you find him a groupon yeah you're so crazy that's.
- 38:22Speaker 2: Interesting a weight loss hypnotist we gonna try it they
- 38:27Speaker 2: say it works though people do it for cigarette smoking
- 38:30Speaker 2: and alcoholism so i'm gonna try and see what this
- 38:33Speaker 2: white lady gonna do that.
- 38:36Speaker 3: Actually sounds fun okay what you think about the uh
- 38:39Speaker 3: the diabetes shots.
- 38:41Speaker 4: Oh, absolutely not.
- 38:42Speaker 2: Like, I actually heard, like, it could cause something, like,
- 38:46Speaker 2: stomach something.
- 38:47Speaker 4: I don't know if it's cancer or whatever, but I heard, like,
- 38:50Speaker 4: absolutely not.
- 38:51Speaker 3: There's a few things.
- 38:52Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely not.
- 38:53Speaker 2: Like, and you have to understand, like, as soon as
- 38:56Speaker 2: they stop taking it, they'll gain the weight back.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Double.
- 38:59Speaker 2: Do they plan to take that for the rest of
- 39:00Speaker 2: their lives? Like, it's just not worth it. Just do
- 39:03Speaker 2: it the natural way.
- 39:04Speaker 4: It's not worth it. It's not worth it.
- 39:06Speaker 2: That's what I was telling my friend who's taking that, um,
- 39:10Speaker 2: diabetes medicine and she just had to go to the
- 39:12Speaker 2: emergency room yesterday because she was like so violently ill
- 39:16Speaker 2: throwing up and all these different things happening to her
- 39:20Speaker 2: and lethargic after putting that shit in her body.
- 39:24Speaker 3: And a lot of people a lot of people are
- 39:27Speaker 3: getting the um prescriptions via the internet you know i'm
- 39:30Speaker 3: saying so you do like these online um questionnaires somebody
- 39:33Speaker 3: might call you like a nurse or something like that
- 39:36Speaker 3: from these online doctors or online doctors offices and they
- 39:38Speaker 3: put the prescription in for you so now you got
- 39:40Speaker 3: people who have diabetes can't even get their fucking medicine
- 39:43Speaker 3: at this point and it's not um a long-term fix, right?
- 39:48Speaker 3: You can't just keep taking it. So it starts off
- 39:51Speaker 3: as a small dosage from what I know, because I
- 39:53Speaker 3: have a few friends walking around here snatched, okay, off
- 39:58Speaker 3: that Wagovi and Ozen Peak. But they start off at
- 40:02Speaker 3: a small dose and then it gets like a bigger dose.
- 40:05Speaker 3: So one girl I know is she has alcoholism, essentially.
- 40:11Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? So, that's a lot of
- 40:13Speaker 3: sugar right there. If you stop drinking, you probably can
- 40:15Speaker 3: lose that same 20 pounds.
- 40:17Speaker 4: Absolutely. Absolutely. That's crazy.
- 40:21Speaker 2: And people will go at any length, like, instead of
- 40:23Speaker 2: doing the actual work to lose the weight.
- 40:25Speaker 4: We all know, like, people will.
- 40:26Speaker 1: Go any length. It's hard, girl. It's hard, girl. I know.
- 40:31Speaker 2: I can understand why taking a shot every day and
- 40:34Speaker 2: I start losing weight, why that would be, like, you know, ideal.
- 40:38Speaker 2: You know, like, it's easy. I don't have to do
- 40:40Speaker 2: anything but, like, get a quick prick in my buttocks.
- 40:44Speaker 1: I don't like shots.
- 40:47Speaker 2: That seemed like easy, you know, like, and now I'm just,
- 40:50Speaker 2: I wake up three days later, I've already lost six pounds. Like,
- 40:53Speaker 2: you know, something crazy like that. I could understand why
- 40:55Speaker 2: somebody would, you know, want to try that because the, the,
- 41:00Speaker 2: the best way, you know, diet and exercise and lifestyle
- 41:04Speaker 2: change is, is so difficult.
- 41:06Speaker 1: And I feel like the older you get, the more
- 41:09Speaker 1: difficult it is. Yeah.
- 41:11Speaker 7: I think the reason why it gets more difficult when
- 41:14Speaker 7: you get harder, because I know exactly what you're talking about.
- 41:15Speaker 7: It gets more difficult when you get older, I meant
- 41:17Speaker 7: to say, is because we're stuck in our habits, our
- 41:20Speaker 7: bad habits. We're too stuck in our bad habits.
- 41:25Speaker 4: And when that happens, it is harder to make changes.
- 41:27Speaker 4: Change is hard. Change is hard. But I feel like
- 41:31Speaker 4: people should look long-term.
- 41:32Speaker 2: Okay, 10 years from now, do I want to be
- 41:36Speaker 2: a healthy weight?
- 41:37Speaker 4: Do I want to be healthy in 10 years?
- 41:39Speaker 7: Do I think taking this diabetes medicine every single day
- 41:41Speaker 7: is going to make me healthy in 10 years?
- 41:43Speaker 4: No.
- 41:43Speaker 2: But if I start incorporating, even slowly, you know, start
- 41:47Speaker 2: incorporating healthy habits.
- 41:48Speaker 4: Let's start slow.
- 41:49Speaker 7: Like, for example, okay, my breakfast. How about I have
- 41:51Speaker 7: my breakfast be all fruit instead of, like, pancakes, eggs,
- 41:54Speaker 7: and all this other stuff?
- 41:55Speaker 1: Cinnamon Toast Crunch. I ate some Cinnamon Toast Crunch.
- 41:59Speaker 3: I love Cinnamon Toast Crunch. You know what I look
- 42:02Speaker 3: out for now, y'all? And I don't know if this
- 42:04Speaker 3: is the one thing I think Obama did do for
- 42:06Speaker 3: the country. He made it to where companies had to
- 42:09Speaker 3: put on packaging whether or not the item is bioengineered.
- 42:13Speaker 3: And if you look on your cereal, it says this
- 42:17Speaker 3: product has bioengineered ingredients. Yesterday I was about to buy
- 42:22Speaker 3: some Pringles, the barbecue one. I love them shit. I'll
- 42:24Speaker 3: eat a whole. But it deters me from buying certain shit.
- 42:28Speaker 3: And I love calorie counts at the fast food restaurants
- 42:31Speaker 3: now because you can just make a better meal. healthy
- 42:34Speaker 3: choice decision on what the fuck you about to eat.
- 42:35Speaker 3: I got a new Fat Max. My Fat Max used
- 42:38Speaker 3: to be 217. My Fat Max now, I'm not telling y'all.
- 42:42Speaker 3: I could talk about the old Fat Max, but I'm
- 42:44Speaker 3: not about to tell you what my new Fat Max
- 42:45Speaker 3: is because then I'm telling y'all my current weight and
- 42:47Speaker 3: I'm not doing it. But this boy ain't 217 no more.
- 42:51Speaker 1: Okay, my current.
- 42:52Speaker 3: Fat Max is 202. Okay, I waver in between like
- 42:56Speaker 3: 195 and 202. And my healthy weight, like, who I
- 43:00Speaker 3: feel the best at is, like, 175, 180, really.
- 43:04Speaker 2: And I'm not that damn tall. Neither one of us,
- 43:06Speaker 2: for real. That's my healthy weight. I'm happy, like, I'm
- 43:10Speaker 2: probably still thick at 175, but just in.
- 43:13Speaker 1: The right places. That's how I feel like.
- 43:15Speaker 3: Right.
- 43:16Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. My doctor is, like, 150, right?
- 43:20Speaker 3: No, we black girls skinny, okay?
- 43:23Speaker 2: I'm like, boy, get out of here. I wasn't that
- 43:26Speaker 2: size in the third grade, my nigga.
- 43:28Speaker 4: Not the third grade.
- 43:30Speaker 3: For real. I want to replace some of that fat
- 43:33Speaker 3: with muscle. So, you know, muscle weighs more. So even
- 43:36Speaker 3: at the 175, you have more muscle mass, depending on
- 43:39Speaker 3: what type of workouts you'd be doing.
- 43:41Speaker 1: So let's talk about what causes fibroids.
- 43:43Speaker 3: And it may be similar to what a fibroid is,
- 43:46Speaker 3: but there's an actual cause, right? All right, so uterine
- 43:49Speaker 3: fibroids are extremely common, are an extremely common condition in
- 43:53Speaker 3: which solid tumors develop in the uterus. Fibroids are not cancerous.
- 43:57Speaker 3: We talked about that before, right? And they do not
- 43:59Speaker 3: increase the risk of uterine fibroids. But studies suggest genetics
- 44:03Speaker 3: and prolonged exposure to estrogen may increase your risk of
- 44:06Speaker 3: developing fibroids. Okay, so once I read that, right, I
- 44:11Speaker 3: went to go look up the ingredients for birth control.
- 44:15Speaker 3: Because a lot of black women... We are on birth control.
- 44:18Speaker 4: Yes.
- 44:19Speaker 3: Before we even start having sex for real. Like, your
- 44:21Speaker 3: mom will be like, ah, let me put your ass up.
- 44:23Speaker 3: I've never been on birth control. My mom felt like
- 44:26Speaker 3: putting me on birth control is an open invitation for
- 44:30Speaker 3: unprotected sex, right? Because people are just worried about the babies.
- 44:33Speaker 3: You're not worried about the STDs, right? So I was
- 44:36Speaker 3: never on birth control. But most of my friends have
- 44:38Speaker 3: been on birth control since they were, like, 13. And
- 44:41Speaker 3: most of my friends have had fibroids.
- 44:44Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
- 44:45Speaker 1: Yep.
- 44:47Speaker 2: I did a lot of things on birth control. Not
- 44:50Speaker 2: as a teenager, as a grown woman. I put myself
- 44:53Speaker 2: on that shit in my arm, the Implanon, where they
- 44:57Speaker 2: put an implant in my fucking arm. Yeah, that was
- 45:01Speaker 2: a mistake because the next month, I had a regular period.
- 45:06Speaker 2: The following month, my period came on. It did not
- 45:08Speaker 2: go off for three months straight.
- 45:10Speaker 1: Wow. I was on a period, bleeding every single day
- 45:14Speaker 1: for three months.
- 45:15Speaker 6: Wow.
- 45:16Speaker 1: That shit was crazy.
- 45:17Speaker 2: And then I was like, I was trying to get
- 45:18Speaker 2: my boyfriend to run a red light. He's like, hell no, man.
- 45:21Speaker 2: You ain't got nothing about that pussy. I know you
- 45:23Speaker 2: wanted to fight.
- 45:24Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 45:25Speaker 3: The horniest hell. Boy, you better run this red light.
- 45:29Speaker 3: If you can walk through mud, you can through blood. Okay,
- 45:31Speaker 3: let's be clear.
- 45:32Speaker 4: I'm surprised because usually guys don't care, but.
- 45:37Speaker 2: he was not that he was like we tried it
- 45:39Speaker 2: he said his dick looked like a murder weapon so
- 45:41Speaker 2: he didn't want to do that no.
- 45:43Speaker 1: More throw up.
- 45:48Speaker 3: We be most horny when the period on man it's
- 45:50Speaker 3: terrible he's actually a scorpio.
- 45:54Speaker 1: Really yeah he was interesting.
- 45:56Speaker 3: Scorpios be down for whatever DTF he was not with
- 45:59Speaker 3: it but.
- 46:00Speaker 2: So listen so I was going to the doctor about
- 46:02Speaker 2: it like I need, my period needs to come off.
- 46:05Speaker 1: Like, they was like, okay, well, let's just wait. Let's
- 46:07Speaker 1: see what happens.
- 46:09Speaker 2: Then they went to, we're going to give you a
- 46:11Speaker 2: oral birth control on top of the one that's in
- 46:14Speaker 2: your arm. And I was like, take this shit out
- 46:16Speaker 2: of my arm. Take this shit out of my arm
- 46:18Speaker 2: right now. Because why do I need to take an
- 46:20Speaker 2: oral on top of the shit that's already put in?
- 46:22Speaker 1: Drugs in my body already. No, take it out. So
- 46:26Speaker 1: they go to take it out.
- 46:28Speaker 2: And I'm swear this lady, it's a hole in my
- 46:30Speaker 2: arm right now from this lady digging in my arm
- 46:32Speaker 2: with a knife trying to get.
- 46:34Speaker 1: It out and couldn't get it out.
- 46:35Speaker 4: Oh my God.
- 46:37Speaker 1: Yeah. That is wild.
- 46:39Speaker 4: That's crazy.
- 46:41Speaker 3: So the two main ingredients for birth control is estrogen.
- 46:44Speaker 3: And didn't they say like the estrogen or too much
- 46:47Speaker 3: estrogen causes fibroids down the uterus. It said that the
- 46:51Speaker 3: uterus is, naturally makes estrogen and the other ingredient in
- 46:55Speaker 3: birth control is progestin. But it's not the same as
- 47:00Speaker 3: the one that we make.
- 47:01Speaker 1: It's artificial.
- 47:03Speaker 3: It's an artificial chemical that your body already produces naturally.
- 47:07Speaker 3: You put that on top of what your uterus is
- 47:09Speaker 3: already doing, it causes the fibroids. They say they don't
- 47:14Speaker 3: know what causes the fibroids. That's nine times out of
- 47:18Speaker 3: ten what's causing the fibroids.
- 47:20Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 47:20Speaker 7: That's one of the many things that cause fibroids.
- 47:23Speaker 2: Definitely birth control. Birth control causes can cause so many
- 47:25Speaker 2: issues in the body. So many issues.
- 47:28Speaker 7: And people don't relate like a lot of health issues
- 47:30Speaker 7: to birth control. But when you flood your body with
- 47:33Speaker 7: synthetic hormones, I mean, anything can happen because you're overloading
- 47:38Speaker 7: your organs, the liver, how your liver going to filter
- 47:41Speaker 7: out your, your liver is struggling filtering out your natural
- 47:44Speaker 7: excess hormones because of all the junk we put in
- 47:46Speaker 7: our bodies. And then put on top of that all
- 47:48Speaker 7: these synthetic hormones from the birth control.
- 47:51Speaker 4: Like, that's going to overload the body. And you have
- 47:54Speaker 4: to think about it.
- 47:55Speaker 7: When you're on birth control, that's not really a real
- 47:57Speaker 7: period because they're suppressing your own natural hormones so you
- 47:59Speaker 7: can't ovulate.
- 48:00Speaker 4: That's a fake period when you're on birth control.
- 48:07Speaker 3: Damn, you remember we did a random sex fact. Well,
- 48:09Speaker 3: I did a random sex fact. I don't know. It
- 48:11Speaker 3: had to have been a year before last at this point.
- 48:13Speaker 3: You know, people love to say I be spreading misinformation law,
- 48:16Speaker 3: but I want y'all to know, I don't talk about
- 48:17Speaker 3: shit I don't know, or haven't researched at least, right?
- 48:21Speaker 3: But it was an article reading about how birth control
- 48:24Speaker 3: could possibly be causing people to turn into men, essentially.
- 48:35Speaker 1: Like, you know what I'm saying? Lesbians. That birth control
- 48:42Speaker 1: will make a woman desire another woman? Yeah.
- 48:45Speaker 2: That or what it can do is make, because when
- 48:48Speaker 2: you're on birth control, like, you know, okay, so women
- 48:50Speaker 2: naturally without birth control, we desire opposite, right? So you
- 48:55Speaker 2: look for something that's more masculine and feminine. But when
- 48:57Speaker 2: you're on birth control, you look for somebody with the
- 48:59Speaker 2: traits like you. So it may not be another woman.
- 49:02Speaker 2: It could be a feminine man.
- 49:04Speaker 4: I don't want to say feminine man, but it could
- 49:06Speaker 4: be like a man that's not masculine.
- 49:08Speaker 3: Yes.
- 49:09Speaker 2: Yeah, because studies have shown women that have gotten off
- 49:12Speaker 2: birth control, the rate of divorce is high with that
- 49:17Speaker 2: because it's like, wait a minute, who is this person?
- 49:19Speaker 2: I'm not attracted to this anymore because you're not you
- 49:21Speaker 2: lose attraction to that person it's like you want somebody
- 49:24Speaker 2: more masculine when you get off birth control so that's
- 49:26Speaker 2: what because remember we're talking about something that asks what's
- 49:29Speaker 2: your hormones so damn that's crazy.
- 49:32Speaker 3: Yeah look if y'all want the article I sent it
- 49:35Speaker 3: to y'all not y'all the listeners I want the article
- 49:39Speaker 3: too And.
- 49:40Speaker 7: Some women have even said, like, the men they're attracted
- 49:42Speaker 7: to now off birth control is so different than the
- 49:44Speaker 7: men they were attracted to on birth control.
- 49:47Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
- 49:49Speaker 2: I just feel like all this shit that they have
- 49:51Speaker 2: us putting in our body is just bad for us. Even, like,
- 49:54Speaker 2: half the time, the fruits and the vegetables don't even
- 49:57Speaker 2: be good in this country.
- 49:58Speaker 3: I know, man. Strawberries taste horrible. Okay? They don't taste
- 50:02Speaker 3: like anything. They actually taste like cardboard. It's so... it's
- 50:06Speaker 3: so hard to get like good fresh fruits you know
- 50:09Speaker 3: I'm about to start returning shit and I don't give
- 50:11Speaker 3: a fuck like I.
- 50:15Speaker 2: Will I've already been doing that I will come in
- 50:18Speaker 2: the store with a half eaten peach in a bag
- 50:21Speaker 2: this ain't it I would like another peaches are expensive
- 50:26Speaker 2: for me to not for it not to be good
- 50:29Speaker 2: if a watermelon is not sweet I will take it
- 50:31Speaker 2: back cut I had to, like, go through.
- 50:35Speaker 4: All this stuff to find a seeded watermelon. A seeded,
- 50:38Speaker 4: you know, it's crazy.
- 50:40Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 50:40Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 50:41Speaker 2: So, all right, back to these fibroids, girl, because I
- 50:47Speaker 2: feel like, all right, they were like, oh, your abdomen
- 50:50Speaker 2: is going to shrink.
- 50:51Speaker 1: And I feel like it did for a month. And now.
- 50:57Speaker 2: it's getting bigger again. I feel like it is. And
- 51:00Speaker 2: it has like a weird cut in it. Now I
- 51:02Speaker 2: got this little ledge in my shit that I didn't
- 51:04Speaker 2: have before. So it's like, why my, my stomach is
- 51:07Speaker 2: starting to look back as big as it was with
- 51:10Speaker 2: a cut.
- 51:11Speaker 1: So now I'm mad.
- 51:12Speaker 2: I want to fight the surgeon kind of, you know,
- 51:14Speaker 2: if I see him in the street, it might be smoking.
- 51:16Speaker 1: If I've been drinking, I'm not lying.
- 51:18Speaker 2: But what would you say is a good, like, was
- 51:22Speaker 2: it specific things that you put in your diet? to
- 51:26Speaker 2: shrink fibroids, or it was just like, I'm not eating
- 51:28Speaker 2: meat or dairy? Or was it like a specific, like, okay,
- 51:31Speaker 2: I'm going to drink this.
- 51:34Speaker 4: It wasn't specific.
- 51:36Speaker 7: It was just, I made sure that I was eating
- 51:38Speaker 7: a diet that was filled with hydration, so my body
- 51:41Speaker 7: was cleansing itself every single day. So you know how
- 51:43Speaker 7: people say I'm going on detox? I tell people, your
- 51:46Speaker 7: body needs to be detoxifying itself every single day. You
- 51:49Speaker 7: need to be using the bathroom, moving your bowels a
- 51:51Speaker 7: couple times a day every time you eat. So you
- 51:53Speaker 7: have to think about it like this. Fibroids come from
- 51:56Speaker 7: excess estrogen, estrogen dominance, right? So our bodies, when we
- 52:00Speaker 7: have fibroids, when we're prone to fibroids, that means we're
- 52:04Speaker 7: estrogen dominant, right? And when we talk about the symptoms
- 52:07Speaker 7: of estrogen dominance, it's from heavy periods to fibroids to PCOS.
- 52:11Speaker 4: There's so many.
- 52:12Speaker 7: Things that could occur in the body when you were
- 52:13Speaker 7: estrogen dominant. So in order for your body to detoxify
- 52:17Speaker 7: the excess estrogen, you have to help your body do that.
- 52:19Speaker 7: So by, for example, working out. Eating, drinking more water,
- 52:23Speaker 7: you know, at least a gallon of water a day.
- 52:25Speaker 7: Making sure you're eating a lot of fruits and vegetables
- 52:28Speaker 7: in your diet so your body can, you know, because
- 52:30Speaker 7: they digest fast.
- 52:30Speaker 4: Your body can, again, you know.
- 52:33Speaker 3: Break it down quicker.
- 52:34Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 52:35Speaker 3: As opposed to the meat eating, yeah. Break it down quicker.
- 52:37Speaker 7: Your body can release waste because when your body holds
- 52:39Speaker 7: that waste, that's the issue.
- 52:41Speaker 4: Because, you know, that's what creates the fibroids, you know.
- 52:44Speaker 7: So you have to really think about cleansing your body
- 52:47Speaker 7: in the sense of, And we, you know.
- 52:49Speaker 3: What I mean?
- 52:49Speaker 2: We're, we're, you have to think about like, we're like 80%
- 52:52Speaker 2: of water. So every, we should be eating foods that
- 52:54Speaker 2: hold water in it. So when you eat things that
- 52:56Speaker 2: are dehydrating, that are heavy on the body, it's pulling
- 52:59Speaker 2: water from the body, dehydrating you even further. A lot
- 53:02Speaker 2: of women that, women that have fibroids are dehydrated on
- 53:04Speaker 2: a cellular level. So you have to just, yeah.
- 53:07Speaker 1: So.
- 53:09Speaker 2: That's pretty much what you, when your mindset's like that,
- 53:11Speaker 2: you start using the bathroom.
- 53:12Speaker 4: More, you're cleansing the body. The bloating will go down.
- 53:15Speaker 4: You'll feel better.
- 53:16Speaker 7: And, you know, and also, too, with sweating as well.
- 53:19Speaker 4: So that means working out.
- 53:20Speaker 7: But I tell women, don't work out so hard, especially
- 53:24Speaker 7: around your period time. You know, try to, like, give
- 53:27Speaker 7: your body time to compress or do lighter workouts because
- 53:31Speaker 7: that's really hard for women, our hormones, you know.
- 53:34Speaker 4: So.
- 53:35Speaker 3: I saw this video on Instagram. It was a room
- 53:39Speaker 3: full of women. I don't know what it was. It
- 53:41Speaker 3: was some type of conference or something. I think I
- 53:42Speaker 3: sent it to you, Tam. It was a bigger black woman.
- 53:45Speaker 3: And she was talking about how it's hard for black
- 53:47Speaker 3: women to lose weight because we are having to take
- 53:49Speaker 3: care of kids and all these things. And it was like,
- 53:52Speaker 3: crack a bullshit a little bit. You know what I'm saying?
- 53:54Speaker 3: Because I know we can all do better. And we're
- 53:56Speaker 3: not the only women that take care of kids. You
- 53:59Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? I don't like that strong black
- 54:01Speaker 3: woman thing. thing and all that because it's just strong
- 54:04Speaker 3: women there's strong women in every ethnicity as far as
- 54:07Speaker 3: I'm concerned you know what I'm saying tell us about
- 54:10Speaker 3: I saw a post on your page and it was
- 54:11Speaker 3: talking about spirituality and fibroids let's talk about that a
- 54:16Speaker 3: little bit.
- 54:17Speaker 6: Fibroids have a spiritual root just like every other disease
- 54:20Speaker 6: the spiritual root for fibroids is one of two things
- 54:23Speaker 6: it's trauma from the past it could be sexual trauma
- 54:26Speaker 6: it could be just you know relationship trauma like extreme
- 54:30Speaker 6: amounts of trauma most women that realize they have five boys,
- 54:33Speaker 6: like when they see that it gets really bad, when
- 54:34Speaker 6: they really think about it, it's after a traumatic event.
- 54:37Speaker 7: It could be a death in the family. It could
- 54:39Speaker 7: be a really bad relationship. It could be a divorce.
- 54:41Speaker 7: It could be a really toxic work situation. So there's
- 54:44Speaker 7: that piece. And then another piece is, um, when you're,
- 54:47Speaker 7: we're talking about the womb, right? The womb is not
- 54:49Speaker 7: only for creating babies as part of it, right. But
- 54:52Speaker 7: it's also for creation, creating ideas, creating, you know, you're
- 54:56Speaker 7: birthing ideas, you're birthing, um, your passions. And as women, um,
- 55:00Speaker 7: we're supposed to have creative outlets, right? And a lot
- 55:02Speaker 7: of women are living life on autopilot. Work, kids, you know,
- 55:06Speaker 7: cook dinner, go to bed, work. So if you're living.
- 55:08Speaker 4: A purposeless life where you're not.
- 55:11Speaker 7: being able to delve into your creativity at all, you know,
- 55:14Speaker 7: you're living a life that's not really your own, that
- 55:16Speaker 7: you didn't really want, but maybe somebody else wanted for you.
- 55:19Speaker 7: You know how people influence us, right? To make us
- 55:21Speaker 7: think what we want is what we want. So you
- 55:23Speaker 7: kind of live a purposeless life and you're just going
- 55:26Speaker 7: through the motions. You're living, you're not really existing, excuse me,
- 55:30Speaker 7: you're not really living. So this is where a lot
- 55:32Speaker 7: of women that are in this, you know, are in
- 55:36Speaker 7: this mindset have five boys as well. They're not happy.
- 55:39Speaker 7: Or women that still, again, you know, the trauma, whether
- 55:42Speaker 7: it's anger from the past, they just haven't dealt with
- 55:44Speaker 7: what they've been through before. So the body holds memory.
- 55:47Speaker 7: Like our wombs are, we're incubators as women. So that
- 55:50Speaker 7: womb space holds, you know, the anger, you know, the pain,
- 55:54Speaker 7: you know, you, again, be, because when you're purposeless, you
- 55:59Speaker 7: don't have creative hobbies. You're going to be like, you're
- 56:02Speaker 7: not going to be happy inside. You're not, you're not
- 56:04Speaker 7: going to be really fulfilled and that your body recognizes that.
- 56:07Speaker 4: So, yeah. So that's the spiritual part of fibroids.
- 56:12Speaker 1: Y'all hear that, ladies?
- 56:13Speaker 2: So y'all need to get a hobby besides eating meat,
- 56:15Speaker 2: sucking dick, and smoking.
- 56:19Speaker 1: Weed. I'm talking to myself.
- 56:21Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
- 56:29Speaker 1: Shame.
- 56:30Speaker 3: Yeah, because, I mean, I guess that's where manifestation comes from, too.
- 56:35Speaker 1: What chakra is that? Like your root chakra?
- 56:39Speaker 4: That's one thing. I'm not really familiar with the chakras, honestly.
- 56:42Speaker 1: So I'm not sure. Yeah.
- 56:44Speaker 3: So I had a nigga eat my pussy so good
- 56:46Speaker 3: one day and he went to work and he got
- 56:48Speaker 3: a raise. I literally was like complaining about, I'm just
- 56:53Speaker 3: telling y'all about my womb. Okay. What it be doing,
- 56:55Speaker 3: you know, for people's lives and shit. I was literally
- 56:59Speaker 3: complaining about him not like having enough time off from work. Like,
- 57:03Speaker 3: this is not healthy. Like, this is not living. Like,
- 57:05Speaker 3: life is for living. Like, you literally be at work
- 57:07Speaker 3: all day long. You don't have time to live. You
- 57:10Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? You're giving these people your whole shit.
- 57:14Speaker 3: He literally went to work after, you know, eat my
- 57:17Speaker 3: pussy and we talking about, I'm complaining about his job
- 57:20Speaker 3: and all this shit. He went to work, got a
- 57:21Speaker 3: raise and a new shift. Because second shift literally takes
- 57:24Speaker 3: off a certain time, like amount of time off your life.
- 57:26Speaker 3: And then you go on a third shift, you really
- 57:29Speaker 3: dying at work. Mm-hmm. My woman's magical. I don't know
- 57:33Speaker 3: about y'all bitches.
- 57:38Speaker 2: Your pussy ain't never got me no raise.
- 57:40Speaker 3: I don't know how.
- 57:42Speaker 1: I'll save it to you.
- 57:43Speaker 2: Stop worrying about my pussy.
- 57:45Speaker 1: I'm confused.
- 57:46Speaker 3: All right. Worry about your pussy.
- 57:52Speaker 7: Women are definitely magical for sure.
- 57:55Speaker 3: We didn't get into PCOS because that's another thing a
- 57:57Speaker 3: lot of black women.
- 57:58Speaker 1: Are dealing with, right? Please define that for women.
- 58:01Speaker 3: It's polycystic ovary syndrome is what PCOS is. And I
- 58:07Speaker 3: think that's also still stemmed to the birth control. So
- 58:12Speaker 3: it says, hold on. The main cause of PCOS, the
- 58:16Speaker 3: exact cause, again, is unknown. because it ain't affecting them enough, right?
- 58:21Speaker 3: Because they'll figure it out if it was affecting them.
- 58:22Speaker 4: They know.
- 58:23Speaker 1: They know.
- 58:24Speaker 4: They know.
- 58:26Speaker 3: There's evidence that genetics play a role. Several other factors,
- 58:32Speaker 3: most importantly, obesity. So now we're back to the diet, right?
- 58:37Speaker 3: Also play a role in causing PCOS. Higher levels of
- 58:42Speaker 3: male hormones called androgens High androgen levels prevent your ovaries
- 58:48Speaker 3: from releasing eggs, which causes irregular menstrual cycles. So again,
- 58:53Speaker 3: that's going into the birth control and the synthetic hormones
- 58:57Speaker 3: that you've been pumping in your body for the last
- 58:59Speaker 3: 20 years. And now here you are, an adult, probably
- 59:02Speaker 3: trying to procreate, right? And you're unable to because of
- 59:06Speaker 3: this thing you've been doing on top of the diet,
- 59:08Speaker 3: on top of the food. that we've been conditioned to eat.
- 59:13Speaker 3: The nigga food, the slave food, the oxtails. Y'all love
- 59:17Speaker 3: so much. That's right by the cow booty.
- 59:21Speaker 1: Yes, I do love them. It's going to be hard.
- 59:27Speaker 2: It's It's hard for me to give up meat, but
- 59:29Speaker 2: just because even I remember as a kid, back when kids'
- 59:33Speaker 2: birthday parties were like just hot dogs.
- 59:36Speaker 1: Burgers, and a juice.
- 59:37Speaker 3: You like birthday party food?
- 59:38Speaker 1: Yeah. Once they cut the cake, they'd be like, everybody
- 59:42Speaker 1: want a piece of cake? And I'd be like, shit,
- 59:44Speaker 1: give me another one of them hot dogs. I ain't
- 59:46Speaker 1: even want no motherfucking cake.
- 59:48Speaker 3: Yo, I remember when my niece was young. We're standing
- 59:52Speaker 3: in a line at the grocery store, and she wanted
- 59:54Speaker 3: candy and pork skins. Like the, what is it? It's
- 59:57Speaker 3: like the pork rinds? Yeah, pork rinds.
- 59:59Speaker 1: I said, you can't have both.
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: Don't you know this little girl put that candy back
- 1:00:03Speaker 3: for them pork rinds?
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: Your niece is me.
- 1:00:07Speaker 4: Your niece is me.
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: But that explains why I had 14 fibroids by the
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: time I was 30-something, you know? Like, I've been pumping
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: myself full of pork rinds and shit like that since a.
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: Little girl, you know?
- 1:00:20Speaker 2: So I think giving up meat is just going to
- 1:00:23Speaker 2: be very, very, very, very difficult for me.
- 1:00:25Speaker 7: Well, you don't have to give it up a hundred percent,
- 1:00:27Speaker 7: especially at first. So with me, um, it's okay. So
- 1:00:32Speaker 7: I had, I had some clients like that.
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: They like, look, Sasha, me. Okay. You can kind of
- 1:00:38Speaker 4: sneak it in. However, what the, the, um, the healthy,
- 1:00:42Speaker 4: you have to eat the healthy stuff more than the meat.
- 1:00:43Speaker 4: The meat gotta be a little bit. I tell people
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: like maybe in the middle of the day, just eat
- 1:00:47Speaker 4: a little bit of meat. Don't eat it at night.
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: Don't eat it.
- 1:00:48Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
- 1:00:49Speaker 7: Eat it in the middle of the day, but make
- 1:00:51Speaker 7: sure you're eating lots of vegetables with it to cleanse
- 1:00:53Speaker 7: it out. You're eating lots of fruits that day. You're
- 1:00:55Speaker 7: working out to cleanse it out. So it's not just
- 1:00:58Speaker 7: sitting there.
- 1:00:58Speaker 4: Don't eat it every day. So I said, a couple
- 1:01:00Speaker 4: times a week, you want to eat a little piece,
- 1:01:01Speaker 4: that's fine.
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: But just make sure that the rest of your meal
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: is bigger than the meat. And what we do here,
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: the meat is the main part, you know, for the
- 1:01:08Speaker 2: most part.
- 1:01:08Speaker 4: So, yes.
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: I think when I stopped eating meat, like 20... Okay, so...
- 1:01:15Speaker 3: I would say 2011, 2012, I stopped with pork and beef.
- 1:01:19Speaker 3: I remember cooking a rack of ribs when I was
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: living in St.
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: Louis.
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: And I'm like, this shit don't taste good. Like it
- 1:01:23Speaker 3: just didn't taste the same anymore. So it turned me
- 1:01:27Speaker 3: off in that way. So I just stopped making it, right?
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: You must say you ain't making it right. That is
- 1:01:33Speaker 1: so offensive.
- 1:01:36Speaker 3: You know how I feel about my cooking. Don't do me, okay?
- 1:01:40Speaker 3: We're out here challenging people, mama and grandmama, these niggas. Like,
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: I know I cook better than your mama and your
- 1:01:45Speaker 3: big mama. But it wasn't tasty. I actually cooked for
- 1:01:50Speaker 3: my friends and they loved it, right? So we had
- 1:01:52Speaker 3: like a little Thanksgiving dinner at my house when I
- 1:01:54Speaker 3: was in St. Louis and they loved the food. But
- 1:01:56Speaker 3: I was like, this meat does not taste good anymore.
- 1:01:59Speaker 3: So it just kind of turned me off. And then
- 1:02:01Speaker 3: it wasn't until I got into a relationship. My last
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: relationship in, I think maybe 2016, we started doing vegan together.
- 1:02:10Speaker 3: Like we did vegan. We started doing vegan for a month.
- 1:02:13Speaker 3: I added seafood back in my diet. He continued on
- 1:02:17Speaker 3: with vegan. I don't even like the term vegan for real.
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:02:20Speaker 3: I like plant-based or alternative diet or whatever. Because vegan,
- 1:02:24Speaker 3: like I still wear leather shoes and shit. Like I'm
- 1:02:26Speaker 3: not a vegan. And I do eat the seafood, right?
- 1:02:29Speaker 3: I try to eat it as less as possible, but girl,
- 1:02:32Speaker 3: I'm a whole mermaid out here. I need my damn
- 1:02:34Speaker 3: fish and shrimp. But you just got to start small.
- 1:02:38Speaker 3: You got to start small. Because now I can't even
- 1:02:40Speaker 3: stand the smell of chicken, even if it's cooked with
- 1:02:43Speaker 3: sauce on it. It smells raw.
- 1:02:45Speaker 4: And when I see people cooking, I'm just like, ugh.
- 1:02:48Speaker 7: And I try not to because I'm like, this is
- 1:02:50Speaker 7: the stuff I used to love.
- 1:02:51Speaker 4: But once you're out of it, you're like, ugh.
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: I'm trying to get me 10 lemon pepper after we finish.
- 1:02:57Speaker 3: You and this damn lemon pepper.
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: Call Rick Ross, please.
- 1:03:00Speaker 3: He can get you in a commercial. You a lemon
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: pepper stepper at this point.
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: You look at certain foods different after you haven't had
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: it in a long time.
- 1:03:11Speaker 4: You look at it different. It's like, I don't know
- 1:03:13Speaker 4: about that.
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: Yeah. That's the thing, because I tried to do the
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: autoimmune diet, right?
- 1:03:19Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: Which, it did include some meats a little bit, like
- 1:03:23Speaker 2: organ meats and things like.
- 1:03:24Speaker 3: That, but... What, like liver and stuff?
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: Yeah, liver and tongue and all that stuff. But spices...
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: Spices were.
- 1:03:36Speaker 2: Completely eliminated from the diet. A lot of different spices
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: like black pepper.
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: Black people need those things.
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: It was just hard.
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: I remember literally taking my forearm and knocking everything off
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: the kitchen counter because I.
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: Was so upset about what I was allowed.
- 1:03:53Speaker 4: The restrictions.
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: It just made me crave all the things that I
- 1:03:58Speaker 2: enjoyed so much more. Then I went ham. I went
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: crazy after I stopped the diet. And I think that's
- 1:04:05Speaker 2: supposed to be my problem. That's why I'm going to
- 1:04:07Speaker 2: this hypnotist, because maybe it's a mental block that I have.
- 1:04:10Speaker 7: Or maybe it's, okay, maybe it's you shouldn't do restrictions,
- 1:04:13Speaker 7: especially at first. Maybe just start adding in healthier habits.
- 1:04:17Speaker 4: Like, you know what I mean?
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: Just changing some things and making some replacements, not restricting yourself.
- 1:04:22Speaker 4: Because most people, again, they can't do restrictions. Like, it's hard.
- 1:04:26Speaker 4: It's hard. So maybe.
- 1:04:31Speaker 4: Maybe like five and then do.
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: Like a salad and share one and share one but
- 1:04:36Speaker 3: the calories nobody else and then do like a big
- 1:04:40Speaker 3: old salad or something like that yeah.
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: So I'll do that like I'll get the salad instead
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: of the fries I'll do that.
- 1:04:46Speaker 7: Okay you see doing stuff like that you don't have
- 1:04:49Speaker 7: to like dive in it too crazy the reason I
- 1:04:51Speaker 7: did was because I wanted to heal the fibers I
- 1:04:53Speaker 7: was like I was so desperate at that point but
- 1:04:55Speaker 7: some people again they.
- 1:04:57Speaker 4: Do it a little bit slowly they slowly start transitioning So, yeah.
- 1:05:02Speaker 3: So I know you're part of your business is, you know,
- 1:05:06Speaker 3: you help women heal their womb.
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: Right.
- 1:05:08Speaker 3: And without telling us exactly what's in your packages or whatever, because, y'all,
- 1:05:11Speaker 3: she has a whole business surrounding your womb. OK, so
- 1:05:16Speaker 3: tell our listeners a little bit about your services that
- 1:05:20Speaker 3: you offer.
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: So my probably my most popular one is my program
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: where I work with you for three months.
- 1:05:26Speaker 4: It's called my Toxify Your Womb Program.
- 1:05:28Speaker 7: And it's amazing because I work with you literally for
- 1:05:30Speaker 7: three months in rebalancing your hormones, cleansing your organs, and
- 1:05:36Speaker 7: we detox and everything in that.
- 1:05:38Speaker 4: We detox in seven days. We do two detoxes in that.
- 1:05:42Speaker 7: And also, I help you flood your body with nutrients because, again,
- 1:05:46Speaker 7: when we're dealing with fibroids, the body's lacking minerals and
- 1:05:49Speaker 7: nutrients and iron and all sorts of things.
- 1:05:51Speaker 4: And then as we do that, we're starving off the fibroid.
- 1:05:55Speaker 4: And women.
- 1:05:57Speaker 7: told me, like, within a month, they feel better. The
- 1:05:58Speaker 7: bloating has gone down significantly. Like, the periods start getting better.
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: That's my problem.
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: That bloat is wild once.
- 1:06:04Speaker 4: In a while. And the periods start getting better. And then... Because,
- 1:06:09Speaker 4: you know, when we're dealing with.
- 1:06:10Speaker 7: I always tell people when we're dealing with heavy periods
- 1:06:14Speaker 7: or periods with a lot of symptoms, that's a reflection
- 1:06:16Speaker 7: of your current health status.
- 1:06:17Speaker 4: So the periods start getting better. They start feeling better.
- 1:06:20Speaker 4: They start... And it started.
- 1:06:21Speaker 7: Glowing because, you know, when you're dealing with heavy periods,
- 1:06:23Speaker 7: you're pulling iron from your body, right?
- 1:06:25Speaker 4: So you're looking all pale and, you know.
- 1:06:27Speaker 7: So as some women, like I said, to shrink the fibroids,
- 1:06:31Speaker 7: excuse me, to get rid of the fibroids, some women,
- 1:06:33Speaker 7: it may take six months. Some women may take three months.
- 1:06:35Speaker 7: Some women, it may take a year. It depends on
- 1:06:37Speaker 7: the person. But within 30 to 60 days, you'll feel better.
- 1:06:41Speaker 7: Your periods will be better. The fibroid symptoms will go
- 1:06:44Speaker 7: away if you're consistent within 30 to 60 days. So
- 1:06:46Speaker 7: I help them with that.
- 1:06:47Speaker 4: I help them.
- 1:06:48Speaker 7: And it's more of a customized thing. that's what some people,
- 1:06:50Speaker 7: if you really need something that's customized to your lifestyle,
- 1:06:53Speaker 7: to you, you might've touched why your wound program is
- 1:06:55Speaker 7: the best because I'm working with you and, um, to
- 1:06:58Speaker 7: customize it to your liking, you know, to your, um,
- 1:07:01Speaker 7: to your needs, to your schedule. Cause some people are,
- 1:07:03Speaker 7: you know, they travel. I've had people that travel nurses.
- 1:07:06Speaker 7: I've had people that they just, they just have a busy, crazy,
- 1:07:09Speaker 7: chaotic lifestyle.
- 1:07:10Speaker 4: So, um, you know, it, you know, they're able to,
- 1:07:14Speaker 4: to still succeed in the program with that. So yeah.
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: And even with the detoxifying, right, they're going to automatically
- 1:07:20Speaker 3: lose weight oftentimes, right?
- 1:07:22Speaker 4: There we go.
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: Yes.
- 1:07:23Speaker 4: And so, but the thing is, if there's been women that.
- 1:07:25Speaker 7: Came in my program, like they're very, very slim and
- 1:07:28Speaker 7: they still have fibroids and endometriosis and things like that.
- 1:07:31Speaker 7: And what I do, I work a little with them
- 1:07:33Speaker 7: a little differently than I would with somebody that was,
- 1:07:36Speaker 7: you know, you know, normal weight or overweight. So, yeah,
- 1:07:41Speaker 7: because we work on building healthier weight, you know. But
- 1:07:45Speaker 7: still at the same time, shrinking the fibroids and rebalancing
- 1:07:47Speaker 7: the hormones.
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:07:50Speaker 4: So that's one of them. And then I have my
- 1:07:52Speaker 4: 12 steps on how to shrink your fibroids, full bundle course.
- 1:07:54Speaker 7: And that one is self-study course that you can go
- 1:07:57Speaker 7: at your own pace. And so, you know, me telling
- 1:08:00Speaker 7: you all of the steps I did to get rid
- 1:08:02Speaker 7: of my fibroids, plus the bonus step, plus I have
- 1:08:04Speaker 7: a training on how anemia, how to reverse anemia, how
- 1:08:07Speaker 7: to cleanse your lymphatic system, liver detoxification, which is important
- 1:08:10Speaker 7: because if you are dealing with fibroids, that means that
- 1:08:12Speaker 7: we have a backed up liver system. and also how
- 1:08:15Speaker 7: to eliminate heavy bleeding when you have fibroids.
- 1:08:17Speaker 4: So I have all.
- 1:08:18Speaker 7: Those trainings in there, a meal plan in there, also
- 1:08:20Speaker 7: a grocery shopping list that's fibroid-friendly. So that's a course
- 1:08:25Speaker 7: that people get to that. They want to go at
- 1:08:27Speaker 7: their own pace. That course is for that.
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: So, yeah.
- 1:08:30Speaker 4: And I have other stuff available, but those are, like,
- 1:08:31Speaker 4: my two main ones.
- 1:08:34Speaker 3: How fast do y'all think the fibroids grow? So, Tam,
- 1:08:36Speaker 3: you just had fibroid surgery in March, and you're already
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: feeling like some type of way, right? You're not 100%. Yeah,
- 1:08:41Speaker 3: by August. Yeah, I feel like. So would you have
- 1:08:45Speaker 3: to then go back for another... What do they do,
- 1:08:48Speaker 3: like a CT scan, an MRI, something like that?
- 1:08:51Speaker 4: Yeah, you can do an MRI, ultrasound, sonogram.
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:08:56Speaker 3: So is there protocol to recheck it in a certain
- 1:08:59Speaker 3: amount of time to see if there's new growth? Or
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: you just got to wait until you got symptoms?
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: They don't.
- 1:09:05Speaker 4: They're not going to check it unless you tell them, yeah.
- 1:09:08Speaker 4: Because they're so.
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: I feel like fibroids are so prevalent now that they
- 1:09:12Speaker 2: should probably check on it every time you go to
- 1:09:14Speaker 2: the doctor.
- 1:09:15Speaker 4: But they don't. So you have to ask, hey, I
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: have these signals. That's what I had to do. Because.
- 1:09:19Speaker 7: I'm like, well, why is this fibroid so big? When
- 1:09:21Speaker 7: I first found out I had fibroids, like, why didn't
- 1:09:23Speaker 7: y'all know before? But fibroids can grow pretty fast, especially
- 1:09:27Speaker 7: if you're prone to them. They can, unfortunately. So, and
- 1:09:31Speaker 7: even doing things that's triggering the fibroid to grow, they grow.
- 1:09:34Speaker 7: There's people that's had, it's like, look, I had fibroids,
- 1:09:37Speaker 7: my fibroids were two centimeters, and then in a year,
- 1:09:39Speaker 7: they're like 10 centimeters.
- 1:09:40Speaker 3: What happened?
- 1:09:41Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, fibroids can grow pretty fast. They can,
- 1:09:43Speaker 4: especially with black women.
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: Especially, especially.
- 1:09:47Speaker 4: That's one thing I've seen.
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: It's the greases.
- 1:09:49Speaker 2: I'm inclined to believe that mine are growing back. I haven't, like,
- 1:09:52Speaker 2: gone to check, but I'm inclined.
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: To believe that. Because I feel like this last period
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: I had was, like, as painful.
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: As the ones before the surgery. So I'm upset about that.
- 1:10:04Speaker 2: Because what was the point? What was the point of
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: the surgery if I'm just, like, just a couple months later,
- 1:10:09Speaker 2: I'm right back at square one?
- 1:10:11Speaker 7: That's exactly what I said when that happened to me.
- 1:10:14Speaker 7: I said, what the hell was the point? Had a
- 1:10:16Speaker 7: woman who was, who follows me on, excuse me, Facebook.
- 1:10:20Speaker 7: She got, she got the surgery. I was trying to
- 1:10:22Speaker 7: talk her out of it. Got the surgery last December.
- 1:10:24Speaker 7: And I was like, don't do it. You know, we can,
- 1:10:26Speaker 7: you know, I can work with you.
- 1:10:27Speaker 4: We can do it. She was like, yeah, I'll just
- 1:10:29Speaker 4: get the surgery. And then afterwards I'll work on that.
- 1:10:31Speaker 4: It never works out like that.
- 1:10:33Speaker 1: I was like, girl, okay.
- 1:10:34Speaker 4: And she's already had surgery before. That's why I was like,
- 1:10:36Speaker 4: don't do it.
- 1:10:37Speaker 3: So she had two fibroid surgeries?
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:10:39Speaker 4: You keep cutting to you.
- 1:10:39Speaker 7: Well, that's what it calls uterine scarring. And then you
- 1:10:42Speaker 7: want to have children later. Like you're, you know. So
- 1:10:45Speaker 7: then she had it again by May. She was like, girl,
- 1:10:49Speaker 7: they just found a five centimeter fibroid.
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: I was like, no.
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: Wow.
- 1:10:52Speaker 7: So then she got my, one of my courses, 12
- 1:10:53Speaker 7: sets of 100 figure fibroids course.
- 1:10:55Speaker 4: So hopefully I can check on her and see how
- 1:10:56Speaker 4: she's doing with that. Yeah.
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: She was like, I just, I can't believe it. I
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: was like, that's how, unfortunately they can grow that fast. Unfortunately,
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: especially with black women.
- 1:11:05Speaker 1: So, yeah.
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: So Tam, would you do a second surgery if you
- 1:11:08Speaker 3: did have a new fibroid?
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: Hell no. I'm not going through that pain again.
- 1:11:13Speaker 7: And they make it seem like it's so easy don't
- 1:11:15Speaker 7: they like the surgeries it's horrible.
- 1:11:18Speaker 3: Because they cut your stomach open so now you got
- 1:11:20Speaker 3: to heal for that and i really feel like they
- 1:11:22Speaker 3: just like scarring black women's bodies exactly you know what
- 1:11:25Speaker 3: i'm saying because i've had two tubal pregnancies so that's
- 1:11:27Speaker 3: the issues i i won't say that i have fertility
- 1:11:29Speaker 3: issues per se you know because i could carry a
- 1:11:33Speaker 3: baby um but maintaining the or not maintaining the pregnancy
- 1:11:39Speaker 3: but I guess getting to the uterus might be a
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: problem for me, right? So if I were to have
- 1:11:46Speaker 3: a kid, I'd probably do in vitro to skip, to
- 1:11:50Speaker 3: bypass the initial process, right? But I feel like the
- 1:11:55Speaker 3: first time when I had a tubal pregnancy, like this guy,
- 1:11:58Speaker 3: he cut me open, you know? So I have a
- 1:12:01Speaker 3: C-section scar with no baby. And it bothers me. That's
- 1:12:05Speaker 3: what I was telling Tam before she got the surgery.
- 1:12:07Speaker 3: I'm like, that fucking... That stomach sits on top of
- 1:12:10Speaker 3: that goddamn scar too.
- 1:12:11Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to massage it.
- 1:12:13Speaker 7: It's hard, but you got to really massage that area.
- 1:12:16Speaker 7: I know exactly what you're talking about because I have
- 1:12:18Speaker 7: that same scar too, but you got to really massage it.
- 1:12:21Speaker 3: Three women with C-section. Do you have kids, Sasha?
- 1:12:23Speaker 4: No, no kids.
- 1:12:25Speaker 3: This shit is fucking wild.
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: You know what?
- 1:12:27Speaker 7: When I was rolling out of the surgery, you know
- 1:12:30Speaker 7: when they push you out? I saw a woman that
- 1:12:32Speaker 7: was sitting there, and I was in a wheelchair, right?
- 1:12:34Speaker 7: My mom was, like, wheeling me out of the surgery room.
- 1:12:36Speaker 2: I mean, not the surgery room, but after, like, I
- 1:12:37Speaker 2: was leaving the hospital, the woman that's sitting next to me, like, that.
- 1:12:41Speaker 4: Also was in wheelchairs, they all had babies. I'm like, wow.
- 1:12:44Speaker 4: I felt so horrible. And I'm over here, like, just
- 1:12:47Speaker 4: in pain for no reason. Yeah.
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: A fibroid baby removed. I know. Yeah.
- 1:12:53Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:12:55Speaker 3: We didn't get into hysterectomies and all that.
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: There's a little cliff right there above the scar where
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: it's just, like, this little hump. They just won't fucking
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: go away. So now I just tell the niggas to
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: lick the hump.
- 1:13:08Speaker 4: I'm done.
- 1:13:09Speaker 1: Lick the hump to gain entry.
- 1:13:16Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
- 1:13:18Speaker 4: Lots of lower ab workouts, lots of massaging.
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: It's hard.
- 1:13:21Speaker 4: Yeah, that area, I know exactly. It's, yeah, it's a
- 1:13:24Speaker 4: difficult area.
- 1:13:24Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:13:25Speaker 7: I feel like it never, it's very hard for it
- 1:13:27Speaker 7: to go all the way back. It's just, I'm like, damn,
- 1:13:30Speaker 7: I just, it's like I had a baby and I
- 1:13:31Speaker 7: don't even have a baby.
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: Right, nothing to show for it.
- 1:13:34Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:13:35Speaker 3: Yeah, so at our age, I guess now going forward,
- 1:13:38Speaker 3: I want to try to talk about a little bit
- 1:13:39Speaker 3: more meaningful things pertaining to women of our age, whether
- 1:13:43Speaker 3: you want to acknowledge it or not, bitch.
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: Okay, we here. And there's a lot of us, okay?
- 1:13:48Speaker 3: And we just need to inform people about these things.
- 1:13:51Speaker 3: You got women, late 30s, going into their 40s that
- 1:13:53Speaker 3: are trying to have kids now, having fertility issues. Like
- 1:13:56Speaker 3: I said at the start of the show, my homegirl
- 1:13:58Speaker 3: just froze her eggs. She'll be 40 in December. So
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: picking the right partners, okay?
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: It's crucial.
- 1:14:07Speaker 3: Don't be letting anybody just run up in your damn womb,
- 1:14:09Speaker 3: fucking your shit up, swapping between me, Sasha, and Tam. Okay,
- 1:14:14Speaker 3: all our pussies is different. And now you're trying to
- 1:14:18Speaker 3: figure out why you got lifelong BV. All of these
- 1:14:21Speaker 3: things causes issues with your fucking womb. We didn't get
- 1:14:26Speaker 3: into the uterus talk that I saw a post on
- 1:14:29Speaker 3: your page where you were referencing a video about how
- 1:14:33Speaker 3: in the year 2025, which a lot of shit's supposed
- 1:14:36Speaker 3: to be happening between now and 2030, right? about these
- 1:14:40Speaker 3: men getting these wombs transferred. Where are they getting the
- 1:14:44Speaker 3: healthy wombs while they're out here suggesting women to get
- 1:14:49Speaker 3: hysterectomies because of fibroids? Or get a hysterectomy because of
- 1:14:53Speaker 3: random shit that could be.
- 1:14:54Speaker 4: Heavy bleeding. Get a hysterectomy.
- 1:14:57Speaker 3: Yes.
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: Right?
- 1:14:58Speaker 3: So they're after our wombs. We got to be real careful, man.
- 1:15:01Speaker 3: They're after us. We're going to attack y'all.
- 1:15:04Speaker 4: Yeah. War on the womb is so... It's real. I'm
- 1:15:07Speaker 4: telling you, it's real. They're making... I see 22-year-olds these
- 1:15:10Speaker 4: days getting hysterectomy.
- 1:15:11Speaker 2: Between the age 15 and 25, for black women, 25%
- 1:15:14Speaker 2: of them have fibroids.
- 1:15:16Speaker 4: Yeah. It's getting younger and younger.
- 1:15:17Speaker 3: Or do we have fibroids?
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: You just never know. Yeah.
- 1:15:22Speaker 3: Y'all ask for them to film when they do these
- 1:15:25Speaker 3: CT scans and MRIs. Ask for the film so you
- 1:15:28Speaker 3: can see it for yourself. They might give you somebody
- 1:15:30Speaker 3: else shit. You just never know. I suggest people to
- 1:15:34Speaker 3: get a black female doctor. Anytime I look, like, move
- 1:15:38Speaker 3: to a different area and I'm looking for a doctor,
- 1:15:40Speaker 3: you know, you can go in and put your filtering
- 1:15:42Speaker 3: underneath your, on your healthcare website.
- 1:15:44Speaker 1: You can put your filters in. I always look for
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: a black.
- 1:15:47Speaker 3: Female doctor or a foreign female doctor. So Indian, Asian, like,
- 1:15:55Speaker 3: that's it. These people don't take care of us in
- 1:15:58Speaker 3: the hospitals, man. We're under attack every which way.
- 1:16:01Speaker 4: Ain't always got a second opinion, so.
- 1:16:03Speaker 3: Absolutely. But we really, really appreciate you, Sasha, for coming on.
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: So we talk back. Yeah.
- 1:16:11Speaker 3: Drop all your socials. Let everybody know what you got
- 1:16:13Speaker 3: going on and where they can find you.
- 1:16:15Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 1:16:15Speaker 7: So Instagram, my name is just Sasha Rosa Health Coach. No, no,
- 1:16:20Speaker 7: I'm just going to just straight up Sasha Rosa Health Coach.
- 1:16:23Speaker 7: I'm on Facebook as well, just as Sasha Rosa. I'm
- 1:16:26Speaker 7: on TikTok, Sasha Rosa Health Coach.
- 1:16:29Speaker 4: You know, no underscore. And I'm even on YouTube as
- 1:16:32Speaker 4: well as Sasha Rosa. So yeah.
- 1:16:34Speaker 2: You can find me there. I'm most active, I would say,
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Yeah, I'm most active on those.
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: So definitely find me. Would love to connect with you ladies,
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: especially if you're dealing with womb health issues. Definitely, you know,
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: find me. I have so much content going.
- 1:16:51Speaker 4: On for years. You can, you know, go through my stuff.
- 1:16:53Speaker 4: You can message me.
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: And yeah.
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: I'm going to definitely reach out to you because I
- 1:16:57Speaker 2: feel like I need to, like, revisit what I need
- 1:17:00Speaker 2: to do because I feel like these fibroids have come back, honestly. Like,
- 1:17:03Speaker 2: maybe not And with the vengeance they had the first time,
- 1:17:07Speaker 2: but they're on their way.
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: You know, they keep growing.
- 1:17:10Speaker 7: And the earlier you address it, the better.
- 1:17:13Speaker 4: Because you don't want it to get bad.
- 1:17:16Speaker 3: And even with your MS, Tam, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:17:18Speaker 3: Because it's probably the same regimen.
- 1:17:20Speaker 4: It's the same thing. The same thing.
- 1:17:22Speaker 2: You know what?
- 1:17:22Speaker 7: The same thing that causes any type of autoimmune disorders
- 1:17:25Speaker 7: cause fibroids.
- 1:17:26Speaker 4: Because estrogen dominance. Same thing.
- 1:17:28Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 1:17:28Speaker 4: It's the same thing.
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: All right. So, yeah, I'll definitely be in touch.
- 1:17:32Speaker 2: But I might be a mean-ass bitch, y'all, if I
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: can't live in Pebble Wings.
- 1:17:37Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but after a while, you'll feel better.
- 1:17:41Speaker 3: You'll live.
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: For real.
- 1:17:43Speaker 3: Literally. Thank you so much, Sasha. And stay on, okay? Y'all, listen.
- 1:17:50Speaker 3: If you enjoyed this episode, it was very informational, okay?
- 1:17:53Speaker 3: Tune in every Thursday on your IHOP radio app, wherever
- 1:17:56Speaker 3: the fuck you get your podcast at. This is your
- 1:17:58Speaker 3: co-host AJ Holiday. Y'all 2.0 on Instagram if you want
- 1:18:02Speaker 3: to follow me. We got wetalkbackent.com. We Talk Back TV
- 1:18:09Speaker 3: on YouTube. Uploading new videos every Friday. What you got, Tam?
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: Y'all, I'm official with Tam Bam on Instagram. Y'all follow me.
- 1:18:16Speaker 2: Send us your dumb bitch stories. Don't forget to do that.
- 1:18:19Speaker 2: We love you dumb bitches out there every week.
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: We would love to hear from you. Y'all remember to
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: speak now.
- 1:18:25Speaker 3: And never hold your peace.
- 1:18:27Speaker 1: Or your fibroids. Period. Oh, well.