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What Stephen King Teaches Us About Communication, Writing & Success - Part 2 · How To Talk To Humans

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  Larry Wilson: Hi, this is Larry Wilson, and this is How to Talk to Humans.
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  Larry Wilson: King's first successful novel was Carrie, which was made into a hugely successful movie, of course.
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  Larry Wilson: You know, starring Sissy Spacek made her into a big star.
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  Larry Wilson: Brian De Palma was a director, kind of kind of brought him into the mainstream, made him hugely successful.
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  Larry Wilson: And uh Carolyn Bix was saying she was surprised that in one of the first drafts, uh the story of Carrie, if you don't know it, it's very simple.
• 1:43
  Larry Wilson: It's just sort of an outcast girl in high school who's sort of a nobody, and uh she seems to have some telekinetic powers.
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  Larry Wilson: She's not even sure if that's what they really are, and she doesn't know how to control them.
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  Larry Wilson: And we, the reader, realize oh, when she gets upset about something, she's able to affect things that are around her.
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  Larry Wilson: Anyway, some cruel teenagers, as teenagers can be, uh decide to play a terrible prank on her, and it goes horribly awry and stimulates her telekinetic powers in revenge.
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  Larry Wilson: It's very scary.
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  Larry Wilson: Uh, but it's he it's about, you know, teenagers.
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  Larry Wilson: Uh a lot of King's stuff is about young people.
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  Larry Wilson: I think some of his most powerful characters, Danny, the main character in The Shining, also made into a hugely successful movie, uh, is a little boy, eight, nine, ten years old.
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  Larry Wilson: The main characters in Salem's Law are kids ranging from eight to thirteen.
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  Larry Wilson: Um, Carrie, she's I don't know, 15, 16, I guess.
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  Larry Wilson: Um, you know, this again, hugely successful novel.
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  Larry Wilson: Oh, suddenly I can't think of what the name of uh the book was or the movie, but you know, it's with this hideous clown who's hiding in the sewers and looks at kids from the uh sewer runoff under the street.
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  Larry Wilson: Um sorry, I can't think of the name of the book.
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  Larry Wilson: But a lot of his books are about kids, and I think uh it may reflect uh King's feelings uh when he was a kid.
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  Larry Wilson: And in fact, in some of the books, the kids reflect on how uh adults don't believe them when they say, oh, there's a boogeyman under the bed or whatever it is.
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  Larry Wilson: And of course, in King's stories, we see there really is a boogeyman.
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  Larry Wilson: There is a horrible boogeyman.
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  Larry Wilson: So um, but in Carrie, it's really just about those feelings of teenage alienation.
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  Larry Wilson: But Carolyn Bix has looking through the original draft of Carrie, she uh uh she undergoes all these incredibly weird physical things where she grows horns and uh horrifying her skull kind of elongates, and you know, one way of describing it, of course, I guess is uh physically manifests what she feels inside.
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  Larry Wilson: And what's interesting is that Carolyn Bix, the author of this book, immediately realizes oh, nobody can relate to that.
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  Larry Wilson: And of course, whether it was an editor who said to King, I don't think so.
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  Larry Wilson: I think he figured out on his own, that he didn't need to have these physical manifestations happen.
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  Larry Wilson: He just needed to write about what she was feeling.
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  Larry Wilson: And when he does that, every young person or person, anybody who remembers being young now can identify with her, now can empathize with Carrie.
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  Larry Wilson: Doesn't mean we're prepared to do some of the horrible things she does, but the things are also sort of presented as being out of her control, that these powers she has are unleashed because of something uh dreadful and cruel and embarrassing that these other kids do for no reason except that teenagers sometimes can be that way.
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  Larry Wilson: So uh Karen Bix points out how uh brilliant it is that he saw that and changed it.
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  Larry Wilson: And well, I said I'm gonna I'm gonna include a link in the uh in the uh replay notes so that you can look at this article because it's it's fascinating.
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  Larry Wilson: It is truly fascinating.
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  Larry Wilson: Um and she also feels like um she kind of feels like the Vietnam era when King was writing a lot of stuff.
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  Larry Wilson: Some of the feelings people had about that era King has incorporated, it doesn't reference Vietnam, but the feelings about that are infused some of the word.
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  Larry Wilson: And uh I thought one of the most interesting parts was uh in the book the book The Shining, which is I think much scarier than the movie, kind of makes sense because some of the things he describes we're picturing in our head.
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  Larry Wilson: Anytime you can get people to imagine something, they're gonna do a much better job than anything you could write or show them.
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  Larry Wilson: Great directors can sometimes show incredibly scary things.
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  Larry Wilson: Uh incredibly scary things.
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  Larry Wilson: And I think uh Stanley Kubrick does that in the movie version of uh The Shining, but the book is a towering achievement and really terrifying.
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  Larry Wilson: And uh there's a scene where the little boy, I keep saying, I don't know how six years old, maybe six, he and his parents, his father takes a job as a caretaker in this hotel in Rockies in Colorado, because the hotel is snowed in every winter.
• 8:13
  Larry Wilson: It doesn't have any customers.
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  Larry Wilson: So they have to hire a caretaker just to make sure the place, you know, is still standing in the spring when they open for spring and summer.
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  Larry Wilson: And terrible things happen.
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  Larry Wilson: That it holds the terrible energy or vibrations of horrific things that have taken place there.
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  Larry Wilson: It's uh at one point, this little kid, Danny, you know, has free reign, is wanders loose in the place, and he sees a lot of things.
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  Larry Wilson: Now, we were told that he has some kind of psychic ability, or he's sensitive to certain energy or things, but he sees things that adults are not seeing.
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  Larry Wilson: And the way kids are, and I think this is true, it doesn't even occur to him to think, oh, that's weird or that's impossible, because kids are quick to believe, oh, yeah, it's entirely possible.
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  Larry Wilson: And the one thing that he keeps being warned about by some of his psychic visions, and then by he makes a friend with a man who has similar psychic abilities, says, Whatever you do, do not go into room 217.
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  Larry Wilson: He won't tell him why, just says, Whatever you do, do not so of course you know he's at some point he's gonna go into 217.
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  Larry Wilson: And what he sees in 217 is horrific.
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  Larry Wilson: Now I won't spoil this by telling you, but what uh King uh shares with uh Catherine Biggs is that he either he'd outlined things or he knew this scene was coming up where uh when Danny opens the door, it's um I guess he goes oh, he can hear the shower going in the bathroom.
• 10:38
  Larry Wilson: And he's terrified and wants to leave, but can't make himself leave.
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  Larry Wilson: He wants to see what's in the tub, and when he goes in, there's something in the tub, but the curtain is drawn, and you know, this is scary just talking about it here.
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  Larry Wilson: But uh she says that King uh said in an interview, he said when he was rewriting, and that's the word he uses, he said he knew that he was gonna come to that scene with the tub.
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  Larry Wilson: And as he got closer to that point, he said, I would say to myself, eight days to the tub.
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  Larry Wilson: Then six days to the tub.
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  Larry Wilson: And then one day it was the tub today.
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  Larry Wilson: When I went down to the typewriter that day, I felt frightened, and my heart was beating too fast.
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  Larry Wilson: What does this mean?
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  Larry Wilson: Surely you know what it means.
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  Larry Wilson: What it means is that he's writing about things that he genuinely feels.
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  Larry Wilson: And God, what a great place to be.
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  Larry Wilson: It doesn't mean that King thinks these fantasy books he writes are real.
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  Larry Wilson: I don't think he does.
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  Larry Wilson: But he understands that when he's telling a story, he can make that story real by writing about real feelings.
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  Larry Wilson: Am I hitting this too hard for you?
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  Larry Wilson: Writing about things that really mean something to you.
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  Larry Wilson: It could be a work of fiction, could be a work of nonfiction, it could be something for your business, it could be your story.
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  Larry Wilson: This is you know, the Larry Wilson story.
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  Larry Wilson: I grew up here, I want to do this, this is what happened, and then you know, I I won't go into a big deal about this, but I'll tell you this much.
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  Larry Wilson: I always, since I was really small, was of course in love with film.
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  Larry Wilson: And I wanted to make films when I grew up.
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  Larry Wilson: And I went to the University of California and I studied film and television production and made films there.
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  Larry Wilson: And when I graduated, as I say, it's funny.
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  Larry Wilson: Uh I certainly don't want anyone to feel sorry for me.
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  Larry Wilson: It just when I graduated, everybody had just graduated from film school.
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  Larry Wilson: And I grew up in Los Angeles.
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  Larry Wilson: I knew a lot of people, didn't matter.
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  Larry Wilson: Everyone I knew was scrambling trying to find work, any kind of work in the filmmaking business.
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  Larry Wilson: And people I know who are much more talented than I was as filmmakers were taking terrible jobs for no pay.
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  Larry Wilson: And I thought, this is crazy.
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  Larry Wilson: How can you support yourself on no pay?
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  Larry Wilson: And it's not like they had a clever plan, they just they want to do anything.
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  Larry Wilson: I guess they thought if I my name is in there or someone knows me, they may, if they see I'm a hard work, I don't know what they thought, but I thought I can't do that.
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  Larry Wilson: And I managed to get a job on a low budget, very, very low, some people might argue, no budget film, uh as a sound recorder, which is usually a very high-paying job if you're good at it.
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  Larry Wilson: And I was good at it, but I wasn't getting high pay.
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  Larry Wilson: But I was being paid$175 a week, six days a week, 18 hours a day, and I felt like I was on top of the world because I had all these friends who weren't getting paid anything.
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  Larry Wilson: And after a few weeks, I was like a zombie because I was getting no sleep, and some of the actors on this uh low-budget film had no real training, and so uh I'm not criticizing their acting ability, but they could not deliver a consistent performance.
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  Larry Wilson: Every time they would do a take, it would be different.
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  Larry Wilson: And as a sound recorder, I was it's probably totally different in jazz, but in those days, I was using a NAGRA 4 recorder, and I had to try to adjust the levels of recording so that I could get the optimum sound.
• 16:02
  Larry Wilson: And I remember one time, really politely, I said to the leading lady, I said, you know, uh, the reason I ask you to give me a level before we shoot the scenes, I'm trying to get an idea of how loud or soft you're gonna be.
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  Larry Wilson: And she said, Well, I can't.
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  Larry Wilson: And I thought, ugh.
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  Larry Wilson: And she said, Do you think Meryl Streep does the exact same performance every take?
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  Larry Wilson: And I foolishly said, Yeah, I do.
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  Larry Wilson: Because Meryl Streep is clearly, besides being enormously talented, is also highly trained.
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  Larry Wilson: She's professional.
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  Larry Wilson: So I've met a number of people, uh, I've become really good friends with a number of people who have incredible acting ability.
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  Larry Wilson: They could do the exact same performance 30 takes in a row.
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  Larry Wilson: Now, they may play certain emotions differently, their facial affect, all these things may be different, but by God, it'll sound the same.
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  Larry Wilson: This has been Larry Wilson.
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  Larry Wilson: I want to thank you for spending this time with me, and I hope you found this information useful.
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