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The One Where Lala Talks About The #PumpRules Reunion · Untraditionally Lala

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Speaker 1: Hello, my little sexy Angels, it's your best friend Laala
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Speaker 1: Kent with Jessica. Hello. Everyone. Okay, before we talk about
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Speaker 1: the reunion, we have to talk about the most important
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Speaker 1: thing on my mind right now.
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Speaker 2: Wait, tell me what.
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Speaker 1: You know, Julie Fox, he's dating Kanye West. Julia Fox.
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Speaker 2: Julia, Julie Oh, Julia Fox.
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Speaker 1: Yes, yes they do. Okay, I just can't help but
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Speaker 1: look at everything that's posted online and want to crawl
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Speaker 1: under a table.
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Speaker 2: Tell us, why tell us what you think about this relationship?
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Speaker 1: All right, this is what I'm gonna say. If Kanye
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Speaker 1: West rolled up on me and said I want to
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Speaker 1: date you, I'd be like, fuck, No, you dated Kim Kardashian. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'm never gonna date you. Yeah. Kim Kardashian was your wife,
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Speaker 1: right and the mother of your babies. Yeah, you just
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Speaker 1: can't compete. So when I see this Julia Julia right,
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Speaker 1: Julia Fox, and she's like got her stomach out and
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Speaker 1: her like pant shoes that Kim k wears, and I
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Speaker 1: just wanted to I want to tell her like stop, stop,
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Speaker 1: no more.
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Speaker 2: Do you think they're in a real relationship?
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Speaker 1: I haven't, Like, really, I'm not one of those people
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Speaker 1: that like deep dives, right, you know, like I see
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Speaker 1: them like touching each other and like holding hands. But
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Speaker 1: I did see one video of Kanye West, and by
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Speaker 1: the way, I do not condone this. I don't like
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Speaker 1: when men walk in front of women at all. It
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Speaker 1: drives me crazy. But this just kind of solidified how
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Speaker 1: I felt about the relation their relationship. If it is
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Speaker 1: one like Kim and Kanye was like Kanye okay, and
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Speaker 1: then it was like, that's Kim fucking Kardashian, Like she
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Speaker 1: just steals every single show. She's fucking Kim Kardashian. But
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Speaker 1: it's Kanye West at the airport and he's like doing
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Speaker 1: something talking to this guy and he's like hauling ass
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Speaker 1: and Julie Fox or Julia Fox was like trying so
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Speaker 1: hard to want to like not run.
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Speaker 3: To keep it sexy, but like speed walk, and I
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Speaker 3: was like, no, this is so bad.
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Speaker 1: When I have to look that up because it was
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Speaker 1: like I think the video was Kanye was trying to
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Speaker 1: stop a paparazzi's car from being towed or something, oh.
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Speaker 3: Which doesn't sound like him at all. I feel like
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Speaker 3: he would get the paparazzi car toad.
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Speaker 1: Well no, right now, I mean, right now, all he
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Speaker 1: wants to do is get photographed with Julia Fox and
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Speaker 1: threaten Pete Davidson. All he wants to do. I love
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Speaker 1: Kanye West. By the way.
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Speaker 3: Oh my, well, there we go. It's gonna be the
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Speaker 3: first time I ever disagree with La La on her podcasts.
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Speaker 3: Everyone I despise Connie West. I used to be obsessed
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Speaker 3: with him back in the day, but at this point,
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Speaker 3: I'm like, ugh, like no more, give me a oh
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Speaker 3: my god, everything about him, I'm like, ugh, give me break.
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Speaker 1: I think I'm not like that because you know me,
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Speaker 1: I'm kind of only in the Real housewives world, right
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Speaker 1: unless you're a housewife, Like, yeah, I really don't know
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Speaker 1: much about you. I'm gonna be totally honest. Like even
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Speaker 1: Larsa Pippen, I was like, Larsa Pippen and then she's
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Speaker 1: on Real house Eves in Miami, I was like, motherfucker,
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Speaker 1: Laarsa Pippin, you know right right? So I just I
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Speaker 1: want Julia Fox to just not.
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Speaker 3: It's really funny. I think it's a I don't think
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Speaker 3: it's real. I think it's a mutually beneficial relationship. I
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Speaker 3: think she needed.
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Speaker 1: More, how was he benefiting from it?
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Speaker 3: Well, I think she needed more eyes on her. She wanted,
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Speaker 3: I mean, anyone will do for the press. So she
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Speaker 3: was in the movie. I'm sure she was in a
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Speaker 3: lot of things, but she was in the movie Most
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Speaker 3: Notable Uncut Gems.
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Speaker 1: I never see it, No, I never saw it was
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Speaker 1: good and she was good, But she was the role.
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Speaker 2: The best way I can put it, she was the
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Speaker 2: role you would think she would be.
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Speaker 1: She's this hot annoy.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, her like accent, like she's all of it.
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Speaker 1: She has an accent where she's from.
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Speaker 3: Well now, I'm thinking, right in my mind she is
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Speaker 3: a like a New York like Brooklyn accent in the movie.
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Speaker 2: But that might be totally wrong. And I'm not even
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Speaker 2: gonna google it.
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Speaker 1: It's kind of hot. Maybe I should maybe I should
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Speaker 1: watch her in that to be less annoyed. Yeah, because
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Speaker 1: right now she's just some girl that like popped up
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Speaker 1: that I desperately want to put self tanner all over
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Speaker 1: her body. See, I like, if you're going to expose
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Speaker 1: that much of your stomach, we need to put some
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Speaker 1: sanchope on there, tan yourself up.
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Speaker 3: No, I think that she Yeah, she gets the the
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Speaker 3: exposure she gets I think I'm like a conspiracy theorist
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Speaker 3: on this.
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Speaker 2: I think she's getting paid for it.
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Speaker 3: I think that Kanye West is getting look at him,
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Speaker 3: he's getting the press. Right when he lost Kim, he
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Speaker 3: kind of He's still got a lot of press, but
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Speaker 3: like Kim gets photographed everywhere everywhere, and then he lost Kim,
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Speaker 3: and I think now he's getting like the amount at
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Speaker 3: Paris Fashion Week, the amount of press coverage that they
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Speaker 3: got was insane.
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Speaker 1: That's true. He's definitely everywhere, like even when he was
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Speaker 1: when you're with Kim Kardashian, which I love because it's
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Speaker 1: here I am dragging Julie or Julia Fox to it,
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Speaker 1: and then I'm like fame all empowerment. I love that
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Speaker 1: Kim Kai gets all the spotlight all the time. I
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Speaker 1: definitely the last two podcasts, I'm literally making no sense.
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Speaker 1: That's okay though, the guy that's okay. No, Definitely, they're
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Speaker 1: getting a ton of coverage from what I've seen.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's doing his weird moon boots wearing those
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Speaker 3: bad boys everywhere.
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Speaker 1: It's like, uh, it's almost like he's watching Napoleon Dynamite
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Speaker 1: and being like my new and icon.
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Speaker 2: Right, Yes, And I just think I can't stand him.
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Speaker 1: Fair enough, Yeah, fair enough.
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Speaker 3: So and you know what if I Julia Fox when
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Speaker 3: I saw her in the movie Uncut Gems, I'm like, Oh,
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Speaker 3: this woman's awesome, badass. And then now that she's with Kanye,
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Speaker 3: I've lost.
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Speaker 1: A lot of respect.
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Speaker 2: Not that she gives a shit, but.
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Speaker 1: You know, she's like Jessica Walters doesn't have respect. Oh,
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Speaker 1: doesn't have any respect for me anymore. I've got to
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Speaker 1: break up with Kanye.
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Speaker 4: Way.
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Speaker 1: I cannot sleep at night.
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Speaker 2: Sorry.
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Speaker 1: Okay, So that was the most important thing I wanted
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Speaker 1: to talk about. Okay, the next thing is the reunion.
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Speaker 1: It aired back to back, which that was crazy. I
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Speaker 1: didn't realize they were going to do like Monday or
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Speaker 1: Tuesday Wednesday.
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Speaker 2: I know I didn't either, But how'd you feel about it?
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Speaker 1: You know? It was really funny for me to watch
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Speaker 1: because people say would say things, and then I would
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Speaker 1: like go to say something, and then I'd fall back
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Speaker 1: and be like, om, littie, I should know you were
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Speaker 1: over it before it started. I was over it. But
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Speaker 1: I've seen like a couple of memes that are like
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Speaker 1: Tom Santaval and Ariana taking out their ear pieces to
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Speaker 1: ignore Lalla. It was funny. Hold on ear pieces? What
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Speaker 1: do you mean? Because I was virtual, so they had
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Speaker 1: earbuds listening to me.
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Speaker 2: Oh that's how it works.
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I got it. Which like whenever whenever they
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Speaker 1: don't like something that someone's saying, like, it was perfect
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Speaker 1: that I wasn't there because they could remove their ear pieces.
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Speaker 1: That was like the one little piece of power that
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Speaker 1: they had, which was cute to watch. I actually loved it.
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I like how powerful you want?
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Speaker 1: Oh like throw your ear piece? Yeah, you're mad, You're mad.
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Speaker 1: And then and then there was another meme that this
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Speaker 1: one made me laugh. It says, like my quote saying
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Speaker 1: someone should have told me about being you know, creeped on. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and then it has four images of me like clapping
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Speaker 1: at Raquel calling her a bambiad bitch me, saying you
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Speaker 1: try to get popped, And then and then it says
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Speaker 1: on what planet is Laala can approach? It killed me? Granted,
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Speaker 1: like all of those pictures that they use were from
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Speaker 1: like my drinking days, you know, and I definitely I've
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Speaker 1: also matured a lot, Like I'm thirty one years old
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Speaker 1: and I don't get it popping as much as I
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Speaker 1: used to. Like I said, I'm retired.
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Speaker 3: That so you think you think overall? What are your
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Speaker 3: overall thoughts about Part one and two?
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Speaker 1: My overall thoughts on the reunion Brock was, I was
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Speaker 1: embarrassed for him. I was very embarrassed for him the
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Speaker 1: way that he was handling things on the reunion. With
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Speaker 1: that being said, With that being said, he sent me
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Speaker 1: a very sweet message and said, you know I had
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Speaker 1: hurt him this season and he apologizes it was it
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Speaker 1: was very sweet, and you know, I just I texted
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Speaker 1: him back and just said, like if anyone gets it,
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Speaker 1: like I get it, I react off of being hurt
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Speaker 1: and like we're all good over here, Like I let
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Speaker 1: things go. I can shake things off pretty quickly. I
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Speaker 1: don't hold on too much.
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Speaker 5: You know.
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Speaker 1: I'll sit here and someone does something to me and
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Speaker 1: I'll yap, yap, yap in the second they say like
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm like, what even happened? Let's paint each
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Speaker 1: other's tone nails, like I like forgive and forget. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: But other than that, like I thought, I thought James
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Speaker 1: was hilarious, really funny. James is the most brilliant reality
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Speaker 1: TV personality ever because you watch him and you literally
9:36
Speaker 1: like it's like a camera isn't even on him right,
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Speaker 1: the way he moves, the way he is talking, and
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Speaker 1: it's like he really doesn't see the camera at.
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Speaker 2: All, which is like everything you want, everything you want
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Speaker 2: to start.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you watch him and you see the veins
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Speaker 1: you see you know for me, like, yes, I maneuver
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Speaker 1: with filming and whatever, but like I'm aware of my angles. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: not all the time. This season, I was like laying
10:02
Speaker 1: on the couch while Santaval got his makeup done. I
10:04
Speaker 1: was like, Lala, up, you got a lot of chance happening.
10:09
Speaker 1: You're not looking your best. That's what happens when I
10:14
Speaker 1: get too comfortable and I'm like it's reality TV whatever. Yeah,
10:17
Speaker 1: and then I watch it back and I'm like, geez no,
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Speaker 1: why did you decide to stuff yourself into that Dunham
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Speaker 1: Lug loved the Dunhim Lug. I remember you being like,
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Speaker 1: oh the dnim look. And then I saw it and
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what is this girl talking about? I was like,
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Speaker 1: she's working it now, that's my own insecurity. But whatever.
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Speaker 1: I mean, the the reunion I thought was great.
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Speaker 3: Wait, I have a question about James and Raquel because
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Speaker 3: you brought up James. Did you guys know that that
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Speaker 3: everything had kind of gone south before? And you were
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Speaker 3: just acting like.
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Speaker 1: Not even a little bit, really, not even a little bit.
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Speaker 1: I was texting Sheena and I was like, I'm freaking out,
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Speaker 1: like I'm not allowed to come to the reunion because
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Speaker 1: I had a COVID exposure. I didn't never get COVID,
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Speaker 1: by the way, And she was like James and Raquel,
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Speaker 1: like James is on ten and Raquel seems very down.
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Speaker 1: And I was like, that's weird. But no one told
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Speaker 1: us anything, and they certainly didn't tell us until they
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Speaker 1: were on camera, and.
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Speaker 3: You guys all found out because okay, because I'm like
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Speaker 3: looking at your reactions and I was like, if they
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Speaker 3: all knew before, they're like brilliant actors.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think so. The people who were actually
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Speaker 1: in studio knew before, and they weren't allowed to tell
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Speaker 1: us because they had started they had started filming. I
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Speaker 1: mean literally, I found out that I had been exposed
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Speaker 1: to COVID Friday morning. The car was in my driveway
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Speaker 1: ready to pick me up, I remember, and they just
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Speaker 1: sat there for hours waiting for me to come down.
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Speaker 1: That was probably eight am, yeah, eight am.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you were up just I'm just saying that
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Speaker 3: because I was like, Lalla had the longest day that
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Speaker 3: day because Lalla was up by like five.
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Speaker 1: Well, I was doing my own GLAMs yeah, and like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I didn't like it. I wanted to have time to
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Speaker 1: switch it up. Yeah, you know. And then at three
12:14
Speaker 1: o'clock is when we started, they were like, you absolutely
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Speaker 1: can't come, so we're having a crew come and drop
12:22
Speaker 1: things off and then you had to set everything up.
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Speaker 1: They dropped it off in front of the door.
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Speaker 3: You guys, I'm the least technologically savvy person ever, and
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Speaker 3: I set up the whole thing. Granted it was it
12:34
Speaker 3: was like a laptop and like a microphone, but I
12:36
Speaker 3: did it.
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Speaker 1: You did it. I couldn't have done it. There were
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Speaker 1: chords everywhere. And we started at three. So by the
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Speaker 1: time they told us, like on the virtual end, that
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Speaker 1: they had broken up, Like, yes, I was shocked. I
12:48
Speaker 1: was also exhausted. I had been dealing with so much. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I was ready to like share my truth and I
12:56
Speaker 1: was like this is so sad, yeah, but also kind
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Speaker 1: of amazing. I mean, one are the fucking chances of
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Speaker 1: James and I being the most buckwhild together like we
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Speaker 1: were so fun, yeah, settling down and then we're like,
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Speaker 1: we don't feel like doing this anymore. Bad bitch. You know,
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Speaker 1: what are the odds? Why here we are? And he
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Speaker 1: posted something of him like holding hands with a girl
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Speaker 1: on his Instagram. It popped up on my breaking news break.
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Speaker 3: No La la, I screenshotted it stuff. Yeah, well I
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Speaker 3: screen shot at it because I'm like, I'm gonna show
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Speaker 3: this slala tomorrow and then I forgot.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry, my mom has breaking news and that
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Speaker 1: was on there. I texted him. I was like, yo, yo, kid,
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Speaker 1: who is this? Who is this? And he told me, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you guys. That's my boy,
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Speaker 1: just like it. And when I tell him who I'm
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Speaker 1: doing fun stuff, yeah, he's not gonna tell anybody either.
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Speaker 1: I love it, you know, probably because there's gonna be
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Speaker 1: too many names to remember that I'm doing fun stuff with.
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Speaker 1: I love that. Rock them up, Jess.
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Speaker 3: If Bander Pump Rolls is picked up for another season,
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Speaker 3: now the season's over, yeah, what do you foresee next season?
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Speaker 3: Being like you and come on, I'm tuning in to
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Speaker 3: see what Lala and James are doing James.
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Speaker 1: And Lalla's dating show. Obviously, I'm going to parade these
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Speaker 1: fine men onto this show like little show ponies. I'm
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Speaker 1: just kidding. I'm totally not like that. I say that
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Speaker 1: I am, and I'm like, no, I really like him.
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Speaker 1: I'm protecting him.
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Speaker 2: Oh that'll be good, that'll be good. I guess we'll
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Speaker 2: have to wait and see.
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Speaker 1: No, James and I are gonna get buck wild. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: with our sparkling water, our fine little people that we're
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Speaker 1: going to bring in and out even if they're not
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Speaker 1: on camera. It's like this summer is going to be
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Speaker 1: the goat, right. I just know it.
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Speaker 2: I know it too, I can feel it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. So the reunion I thought was great from what
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Speaker 1: I can remember, well good, you know.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: With that being said, do we have voicemails? We have voicemails.
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Speaker 1: I want this episode to be the voicemail episode.
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Speaker 2: That's fun because we have a good amount.
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Speaker 1: All right, So when we come back, I'm going to
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Speaker 1: grace you guys with these amazing voicemails, and I want
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Speaker 1: you to remember to call me at one eight sixty
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Speaker 1: six La La Pod to share all of your thoughts,
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Speaker 1: your hopes, your dreams. Let's talk about it. We'll be
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Speaker 1: right back.
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Speaker 3: Weird Bed.
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Speaker 1: Can you just landed from outer space? We give them
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Speaker 1: a LA podcast The voicemail episode Jess, can we roll
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Speaker 1: the first one? Please? Rolling the voicemails?
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Speaker 6: Hi, La La, I'm calling all the way from Canada.
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Speaker 6: My name's Alana and I'm a huge kind of yours
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Speaker 6: love the podcast. We have a lot in common. We're
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Speaker 6: the same age, we are both newly single mama, and
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Speaker 6: my question for you is what is the best advice
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Speaker 6: you can give me and all the other women currently
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Speaker 6: going through this for how the best ways you are
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Speaker 6: helping yourself to move on, to move forward, to be productive.
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Speaker 6: As you know, this is such a hard process and
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Speaker 6: I am trying to navigate myself the best way possible.
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Speaker 6: But some extra tips and tricks of anything that's worked
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Speaker 6: for you would be greatly appreciated.
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Oh my love, I mean, cheers
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Speaker 1: to the single moms. Cheers right yeah.
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Speaker 2: Superheroes, literal superheroes.
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Speaker 1: We're out in these streets representing and I am proud
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Speaker 1: of us. I think the most important thing is practicing
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Speaker 1: self care. You know. I I like my days to
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Speaker 1: be productive. I don't like to sleep in obviously, I
17:03
Speaker 1: can't sleep in because I have a baby, and having
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Speaker 1: a to do list, you know, I didn't really have
17:11
Speaker 1: much time to kind of sit and wallow in what
17:13
Speaker 1: was going on. Like I had to keep moving, you know,
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Speaker 1: I have bills to pay. I was moving, like my
17:20
Speaker 1: life was flipped upside down in a matter of seconds,
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Speaker 1: you know. So for me, I think that was extremely
17:28
Speaker 1: helpful to know, like I have to work. If you
17:32
Speaker 1: aren't a working mom, then getting outside planning walks like
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Speaker 1: the other day, I was feeling like I just wanted
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Speaker 1: to stay in bed that day. You know, we're allowed
17:41
Speaker 1: to have those moments, and I didn't allow myself to.
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Speaker 1: I said, I'm going on a freaking hike. Yeah, and
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Speaker 1: it snapped me right out of it. So I think
17:50
Speaker 1: going outside, having a to do list, making time for
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Speaker 1: your girlfriends, and just getting out of like the shit
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Speaker 1: that we're in. My biggest thing is the mind is
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Speaker 1: a very powerful thing, and if you allow your mind
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Speaker 1: to take you to a dark place, you have to
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Speaker 1: know if your mind is powerful enough to do that,
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Speaker 1: your mind is also powerful enough to bring you out
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Speaker 1: of it. No one ever focuses on that side of it.
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Speaker 1: You know, it's like the mind is a powerful thing.
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Speaker 1: It can put you in a hole. Well, if it's
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Speaker 1: powerful enough to put me in a hole, then it's
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Speaker 1: sure it's a powerful enough to pull me on out right.
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Speaker 1: So yes, So when I get into those zones, I'm
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Speaker 1: trying very hard to shift my mindset, like, no, you
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Speaker 1: will not break today. We're going to keep it moving
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Speaker 1: because for me, it's not so much about the loss
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Speaker 1: of that person, like I feel free, I feel liberated,
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Speaker 1: I'm happy. It's the shift in things. Yeah, you know,
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Speaker 1: people get comfortable and even if you're not happy. It's
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Speaker 1: kind of like a job. You're unhappy at a job,
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Speaker 1: but you're nervous to leave because it's all you know.
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Speaker 1: And then once you're out, you're like, oh my god,
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Speaker 1: I'm so free with yeah you know what I mean. Yeah, free, but.
19:05
Speaker 3: Change, it's changed, and it might be holy shit, like
19:09
Speaker 3: especially if you were in that job for a long time, yes,
19:12
Speaker 3: and you had like you know all you were comfortable, right,
19:15
Speaker 3: unhappy and you.
19:16
Speaker 2: Leave and then it's like, oh my.
19:17
Speaker 1: God, yes, yeah, that's exactly what it's like, Oh my god,
19:21
Speaker 1: because you're used to doing the same thing all the time,
19:23
Speaker 1: and when you venture out into something new, new challenges
19:26
Speaker 1: present themselves, and sometimes new challenges are scarier than you
19:32
Speaker 1: just being unhappy every day, but you were used to that,
19:35
Speaker 1: so it was like something that became normal. Yeah. Yeah,
19:38
Speaker 1: So remember give your mind some credit. We're much stronger
19:41
Speaker 1: than we think. Like, talk yourself out of that hole.
19:45
Speaker 1: Your mind can talk you out of it, just like
19:47
Speaker 1: it can talk you into it. Your mind is so powerful,
19:51
Speaker 1: mind over matter. My grandmama always said, well, thank God
19:54
Speaker 1: for Grandmama, because you feel sick, pretend like you don't
19:58
Speaker 1: feel sick. And I was like, oh shit, I don't
20:00
Speaker 1: I feel sick anymore.
20:01
Speaker 3: It's actually crazy. You know, you can think yourself into
20:04
Speaker 3: being sick. Can you do it a lot?
20:06
Speaker 1: I did it all the time in school. I was like,
20:08
Speaker 1: I need myself to get a headache right now, let's
20:10
Speaker 1: just skip this toast. What's the next day? All right?
20:15
Speaker 2: Next one?
20:16
Speaker 7: Hi, Lala, My name is Becca from Fana Barbara, California,
20:20
Speaker 7: and your podcast is entertaining his buck and I want
20:24
Speaker 7: to thank you for giving me something new to listen
20:26
Speaker 7: to every week, and not only that, but something that's
20:30
Speaker 7: insightful and something that I can relate to. I'm sure
20:32
Speaker 7: everyone appreciates that as well. My question just has been
20:38
Speaker 7: living rent free in my mind for so long. You
20:41
Speaker 7: mentioned in an interview that you broke through a hurricane
20:44
Speaker 7: proof window, and I'm just really really curious about how
20:49
Speaker 7: the hell that happens. Explain how a small, beautiful woman
20:54
Speaker 7: like you can do that. I really like to know.
20:58
Speaker 7: Thank you, and yeah, maybe I'll I'll hear the answer eventually.
21:03
Speaker 1: Well, thank you, Becca. I love this question, and I
21:06
Speaker 1: actually talk about this in my book. I'm still very
21:09
Speaker 1: confused how I did that. You have to remember, like
21:13
Speaker 1: I talk about, I talk about my my drunken days often.
21:17
Speaker 1: I feel like they're important to talk about because so
21:21
Speaker 1: many people around me when I diagnosed myself as an
21:26
Speaker 1: alcoholic and came out as that that were like, you
21:28
Speaker 1: don't have a drinking problem, what are you talking about?
21:30
Speaker 1: And it was like, well, let me share some stories
21:32
Speaker 1: with you, because these stories led up to my rock bottom,
21:37
Speaker 1: which ultimately led me to being sober for over three
21:40
Speaker 1: years now. All right, So I have to pay respect
21:45
Speaker 1: to my messy days because without them, I wouldn't be
21:48
Speaker 1: here right now. The hurricane proof glass window. I just remember,
21:57
Speaker 1: I have very strong legs. Yes, obviously, And I don't
22:02
Speaker 1: know if it was where the heel hit the glass window,
22:06
Speaker 1: but it hit like where, like the frame of the
22:10
Speaker 1: door and then the glass. Does that make sense? So
22:12
Speaker 1: it wasn't It wasn't a window. It was like a door,
22:15
Speaker 1: like a glass door, and where they meet that's where
22:20
Speaker 1: the crack started. And it did not shatter. It was
22:23
Speaker 1: a perfect circle. Stop.
22:26
Speaker 2: Wait, the glass just blew out.
22:28
Speaker 1: It didn't blow out at all. It was just a crack,
22:32
Speaker 1: but it didn't shatter. It just had a perfect like break,
22:35
Speaker 1: a perfect circular brake. But the window was still there.
22:39
Speaker 1: It needed to be replaced. Oh but like they have
22:43
Speaker 1: those windows for hurricanes.
22:47
Speaker 3: When I read it in your book, No, Lie, I
22:49
Speaker 3: pictured you. I pictured this window getting smashed out and
22:53
Speaker 3: then you just gracefully like stepping through the part that
22:55
Speaker 3: you smashed.
22:56
Speaker 1: Oh, that would be so much more entertaining. No, unfortunate.
23:00
Speaker 1: It was just like I kicked it and I didn't
23:02
Speaker 1: go through it. There was no shattering, there was no
23:05
Speaker 1: big bang from the glass. It was just like a
23:08
Speaker 1: perfect hairline circular crack. Okay, so you must have hit
23:13
Speaker 1: it just right, just right with my black Christian Leubitan
23:17
Speaker 1: and I was fully naked.
23:20
Speaker 2: That's what they're made for.
23:21
Speaker 1: That's what they're made for. I mean, can I tell
23:25
Speaker 1: you now though in my sober state of mind in
23:28
Speaker 1: thirty one and with a baby, like I would never
23:33
Speaker 1: do that. I had no shit.
23:36
Speaker 2: There's so much that I like, background that I've done.
23:39
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I can't even process it. No, Like
23:43
Speaker 1: back in the Day season four, I like push Kristen Dody,
23:47
Speaker 1: huh and that's I was like, I cannot even fathom
23:53
Speaker 1: walking up to someone I'm shoving them, Like what the fuck?
23:58
Speaker 7: See?
23:58
Speaker 1: But that's what happened. You're sober. Now you're a different person.
24:03
Speaker 1: I'm a different person and thankfully, like I'm happy about
24:07
Speaker 1: my evolution. Yeah, I'm all about it. And I mean
24:11
Speaker 1: it made for great television.
24:13
Speaker 7: You know.
24:14
Speaker 2: Wait, was the hurricane proof glass smash on Vanderpunk.
24:18
Speaker 1: No, that was not smashed on vander p That was
24:21
Speaker 1: on our off season. Okay in Florida.
24:25
Speaker 3: Did you have a moment though where you you saw
24:28
Speaker 3: that you did that?
24:29
Speaker 2: Because I would and be like, oh, I'm kind of
24:31
Speaker 2: bad ass, Like.
24:32
Speaker 1: No, but I looked at my these like scrawny legs,
24:35
Speaker 1: and I was like what the fuck you know, how
24:42
Speaker 1: did you do that? Did you do that? Yes?
24:45
Speaker 3: Oh that's funny.
24:47
Speaker 1: Why? Okay? I have straw legged like my mother. You guys.
24:53
Speaker 3: The past like four days, Lalla has had this energy
24:58
Speaker 3: that I don't know.
24:58
Speaker 1: It's like it's like just a little euphoric.
25:01
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like happy and quirky, and she's like a
25:04
Speaker 3: stand up comedian all of a sudden, and I'm like,
25:06
Speaker 3: who are you?
25:07
Speaker 1: I want to bottle it up. It's probably called delirium.
25:11
Speaker 1: Is that the word delirium where you're like so tired
25:14
Speaker 1: and you get no sleep at night? Yes, dealirium. Yeah, okay, okay, okay,
25:19
Speaker 1: next voice me, Kaula.
25:22
Speaker 8: It's Caroline from North Carolina. Here. I just wanted to
25:26
Speaker 8: see if you would ever start doing maybe an advice
25:29
Speaker 8: segment on your podcast where people could write in with
25:33
Speaker 8: their problems. I feel like you would give some really
25:35
Speaker 8: woke advice, and I know I could sure use it sometimes. Anyway.
25:40
Speaker 8: I hope you're doing well with everything. You and Ocean
25:43
Speaker 8: are the cutest. I love you though so much.
25:45
Speaker 1: All right, nice Caroline from North Carolina. I love that
25:49
Speaker 1: she's that you said woke advice. I know not necessarily good,
25:53
Speaker 1: but woke. That's what cool kids say. Now I know,
25:57
Speaker 1: do they still say that woke?
25:59
Speaker 4: Yeah?
26:00
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.
26:00
Speaker 1: I don't know who knows. For so long everyone was like, yolo,
26:03
Speaker 1: I'm so woke, and I was like, what what, Like
26:08
Speaker 1: a ninety year old, that's actually a great idea. I mean,
26:12
Speaker 1: my advice just comes from what I've personally been through,
26:16
Speaker 1: and just like the mindset that I try to stay
26:19
Speaker 1: in because I'm I'm not always great at practicing what
26:24
Speaker 1: I preach. Great at preaching, not so great at the practicing.
26:29
Speaker 4: You know.
26:29
Speaker 1: It's kind of like do your homework and then like
26:33
Speaker 1: you never did your homework when you were a kid,
26:35
Speaker 1: you know, like when you're a mom and you're like
26:36
Speaker 1: telling you, like, read the book that your teacher told
26:39
Speaker 1: you to read, and you know, good and goddamn well,
26:41
Speaker 1: like you didn't read? You didn't you? Cliff know? At best?
26:43
Speaker 1: At best? At best, walk me into Barnes and Noble
26:47
Speaker 1: and find me that like little thing that translates Shakespeare
26:51
Speaker 1: into layman's terms. And then when you go to test,
26:55
Speaker 1: it's all Shakespeare and you're like, I might aop right,
27:03
Speaker 1: let's yeah, So that's what I the equivalent to what
27:06
Speaker 1: I do. I guess No, that's a great idea. We
27:09
Speaker 1: should have like a section of the podcast like every
27:11
Speaker 1: so often where it's like, ride in with your problems
27:13
Speaker 1: and let me try to teach you the ways. I mean,
27:18
Speaker 1: I kind of.
27:18
Speaker 2: Feel like that's a little bit what the voicemail thing is.
27:21
Speaker 1: But voicemails are the voicemails are bombed because yes, that
27:25
Speaker 1: is thank you, Justine. It's actually literally what I'm doing?
27:32
Speaker 2: What are we doing here?
27:33
Speaker 3: What's going on?
27:35
Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard for me because, like during the reunion,
27:39
Speaker 1: even Andy was asking me, like what red Flags did
27:44
Speaker 1: Brock show to you? And I was like, I think
27:47
Speaker 1: we can all agree that I'm not an expert at
27:50
Speaker 1: red Flags, So I am going to plead the fifth
27:54
Speaker 1: on this one. Can we move on like tortureus? Yeah?
27:58
Speaker 2: Yeah, but now you are you're an expert.
28:01
Speaker 1: I know, too much of an expert. Because now when
28:04
Speaker 1: people ride in with their relationship problems or call into
28:06
Speaker 1: the podcast right as they say anything, I'm like, leave
28:10
Speaker 1: him right, run you might be a little too quick.
28:13
Speaker 2: You'll find a happy medium.
28:14
Speaker 1: I'll find a happy medium. I'm going to find like
28:16
Speaker 1: the best dude ever where like there's little things he
28:19
Speaker 1: does where it's like, Okay, that's annoying. Not necessarily a
28:22
Speaker 1: red flag. Right now, I'm like, everything is a red flag? Right,
28:27
Speaker 1: run away? Right, you don't, Lala?
28:29
Speaker 2: My husband burned the chicken.
28:31
Speaker 1: Leave him? Leave him? What was he doing? Was he
28:34
Speaker 1: on his phone? Was he on his phone when it burned?
28:37
Speaker 1: What is he doing on his phone? Red flag? Get out?
28:42
Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is. So we'll give me some
28:44
Speaker 1: time to simmern down smart. All right, We're gonna take
28:48
Speaker 1: a short break, and then I want to come back
28:51
Speaker 1: with more voicemails, because this is the voicemail episode. So
28:54
Speaker 1: remember to call me at one eight six six la
28:57
Speaker 1: la pad. We'll be right back. We're back in Perrie,
29:09
Speaker 1: especially passed and giving me all the fizz, all the feels.
29:17
Speaker 1: Sorry fizz made sense that that's so funny? All right, Jessica,
29:20
Speaker 1: what's the next voice? Melville?
29:22
Speaker 4: Okay, Hi, Lala, this is a tissuy. I'm calling from Atlanta.
29:26
Speaker 4: I love you. Love how strong you are and how
29:30
Speaker 4: you take every punch, whether to the chint or to
29:33
Speaker 4: the gut, as a learning opportunity and a reason to
29:38
Speaker 4: get stronger. And so I've noticed this every time and
29:41
Speaker 4: listen to the podcast. You're always giving so much to us,
29:45
Speaker 4: to your listeners and to your followers and fans. And
29:49
Speaker 4: my question for you is, with your upcoming tour, a
29:53
Speaker 4: lot of us are coming to see you and meet
29:55
Speaker 4: you like I am, and I would love to know
29:58
Speaker 4: what can we do to support you and give back
30:02
Speaker 4: to you and help you feel just that extra rush
30:05
Speaker 4: of love and support because you've gone through so much
30:08
Speaker 4: and know a lot of us would just love to
30:11
Speaker 4: help give back to you as well. Love you your amazing,
30:15
Speaker 4: Give Ocean my love and see you soon.
30:19
Speaker 1: Bye. That was like the sweetest voicemail I've ever heard ever. No,
30:26
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I have been the through it the
30:31
Speaker 1: past few months, but I feel like on this tour,
30:37
Speaker 1: just people showing up is going to be enough for me.
30:42
Speaker 1: You know, I've I've always been the type of person
30:45
Speaker 1: where it's like I'm just looking for like quality time.
30:48
Speaker 1: I'm looking for you to share your experiences for us
30:51
Speaker 1: to bond over and talk about, and that for me
30:54
Speaker 1: is like the ultimate support system.
30:57
Speaker 4: You know.
30:58
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could also me a burken back. I'm just kidding.
31:04
Speaker 1: I'm totally kidding. I just want this night to have
31:07
Speaker 1: like an impact on people, right, you know, And that
31:10
Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily mean like I want you to leave feeling
31:13
Speaker 1: like you just went to church or went to a
31:16
Speaker 1: what's that guy's name? What you get stuck on the
31:19
Speaker 1: elevator with shallow? How have you seen the movie Wants
31:26
Speaker 1: a Gal?
31:26
Speaker 9: Yes?
31:28
Speaker 1: What's the toy? Tony Robbins Robbins, Yes, yes, Okay, Like
31:33
Speaker 1: that's not what I mean by it being impactful, like
31:35
Speaker 1: you coming in and I just performed at Tony Robbins
31:39
Speaker 1: ceremony ceremony, you know, but like I want you to
31:43
Speaker 1: come in. I want you to have a drink. I
31:45
Speaker 1: want you to bring a book if you want it signed.
31:48
Speaker 1: I want to like get you a good buzz. I
31:51
Speaker 1: want you to laugh your ass off. I want you
31:54
Speaker 1: to sit here and like you want me to call
31:57
Speaker 1: somebody like did someone do you dirty? And they need
31:59
Speaker 1: to get a phone call from Lalla, Like have them
32:01
Speaker 1: on speed dial, motherfucker, because we're calling them up.
32:05
Speaker 2: How fun is that? Laala just teased the segment that
32:08
Speaker 2: she came.
32:08
Speaker 1: Up with you guys, Was I supposed to do that? Jess?
32:11
Speaker 2: No, But let's keep it in because that is spicy.
32:15
Speaker 1: That's yeah, you can.
32:17
Speaker 7: You can.
32:17
Speaker 2: You don't have to go into details, but you guys.
32:20
Speaker 1: No, that's what I want to do. I wanted to
32:23
Speaker 1: be like, oh my gosh, that was the best night ever.
32:25
Speaker 1: I feel so good and like, I also feel like
32:28
Speaker 1: tomorrow at work, my boss could roll up on me
32:30
Speaker 1: and be like you need.
32:31
Speaker 3: To do this and be like, fuck you, Lala's gonna
32:35
Speaker 3: get everyone losing their jobs.
32:36
Speaker 1: Everyone. I don't want that. No, I don't want that
32:39
Speaker 1: at all, but you know what I mean, like, I
32:41
Speaker 1: want you to leave feeling you for it how I've
32:45
Speaker 1: been feeling and confident I know. So that's what they
32:49
Speaker 1: could give to me. They could show up, they can
32:52
Speaker 1: catch a good buzz and like I need them to.
32:57
Speaker 1: I need them to be on fire, on fire. This
33:00
Speaker 1: is not a tour for the week, right. I need
33:05
Speaker 1: you to show up. I need you to make that
33:06
Speaker 1: eye contact, I need you to laugh, I need you
33:09
Speaker 1: to put your two cents in. You better come ready
33:12
Speaker 1: to participate, because this isn't where you're sitting back to
33:15
Speaker 1: enjoy a show, like, yes, that's what we're gonna do,
33:18
Speaker 1: but like we're hanging out yep.
33:22
Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be awesome, it's you're gonna I mean,
33:26
Speaker 3: she's like down to like She's like, I'm gonna be
33:29
Speaker 3: talking to them and like like, Lala, this isn't this
33:34
Speaker 3: is like your show.
33:35
Speaker 1: She's like, no, no, no, it's our show. It's our show,
33:38
Speaker 1: me and my people. Yes, I need people to come
33:40
Speaker 1: unfiltered because we're gonna talk about it. Yeah, it's going
33:47
Speaker 1: to be the best time ever, I know. Should we
33:50
Speaker 1: tell people where we're going first, let's do it all right.
33:53
Speaker 1: We are starting to give them Lalla brand new tour
33:56
Speaker 1: in Irvine, California. Then we will be in Fort lauder Day, Clearwater, Orlando, Hotlanta, Nashville, Tennessee.
34:05
Speaker 1: Ye huh, Houston, Austin, and Dallas. Yes when I hit
34:11
Speaker 1: these places up. If you think I'm not going to
34:12
Speaker 1: be patrolling for some points, oh I am all right.
34:19
Speaker 1: Next place smail.
34:20
Speaker 9: Okay, Hey Lala, my name is Joe. I listen to
34:23
Speaker 9: your podcast every Wednesday and I love it. I was
34:27
Speaker 9: wondering if during a time that's really difficult, like the
34:31
Speaker 9: one you're going through now, how many of your quote
34:35
Speaker 9: friends have you had to stop being friends with? How
34:40
Speaker 9: many of them have showed their true colors? And how
34:43
Speaker 9: do you deal with the loss of a relationship and
34:47
Speaker 9: potentially the loss of some of your friends.
34:50
Speaker 8: I hope you guys are having a great time and.
34:52
Speaker 4: I love the podcast.
34:53
Speaker 8: Keep up the good work, say.
34:55
Speaker 1: I love this question. I don't know if I've a
35:00
Speaker 1: dressed this on the podcast before on this podcast, I
35:02
Speaker 1: know I have addressed it, but we did a podcast
35:05
Speaker 1: after we filmed the reunion and I said, no one
35:10
Speaker 1: reached out to me, only Raquel did, and I like
35:13
Speaker 1: fixated on this like one point in time, which was
35:15
Speaker 1: after the reunion, and I did address this on Watch
35:19
Speaker 1: Wrappins Live. But I want to say this, My group
35:23
Speaker 1: of friends that are on the show, so they're my
35:25
Speaker 1: cast members and my friends have been very supportive, beyond,
35:33
Speaker 1: like extremely And I feel badly that during that moment
35:37
Speaker 1: doing that podcast after the reunion that I fixated on
35:40
Speaker 1: like just like my emotions were running so high. I
35:43
Speaker 1: probably should have taken a step back. But now we
35:46
Speaker 1: all know we saw you. You were very emotion very emotions.
35:50
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, beyond that group has been absolutely incredible. I
35:56
Speaker 1: mean Tom has yet to acknowledge what I'm going through.
36:02
Speaker 1: Tom Sandival, but I wouldn't expect anything less. I just
36:04
Speaker 1: I take him for who he is. I ask him
36:06
Speaker 1: about his bar, we talk about him a lot. It's
36:10
Speaker 1: fine whatever. And then Ariana, you know, I sometimes don't
36:14
Speaker 1: think she knows how to approach me, and maybe that's
36:16
Speaker 1: my faults. But the rest of the group, they've been
36:21
Speaker 1: like all hands on deck, what do you need, I'll
36:23
Speaker 1: drop everything for you. That's important to say this point
36:27
Speaker 1: in time. Also, like I look forward to people showing
36:31
Speaker 1: their true colors. I look forward to burning the bridge
36:36
Speaker 1: with people who do not deserve to be in my presence.
36:38
Speaker 1: Have I had to do that? Not really, I've actually
36:42
Speaker 1: gained I have. I have more friends around me now
36:45
Speaker 1: than I had before all of this happened. Yeh, Like
36:49
Speaker 1: people have just like really stepped up for me. And
36:53
Speaker 1: you know, showing true colors can come in both forms.
36:57
Speaker 1: It can be like I've seen your true colors and
36:59
Speaker 1: you're a shitty person, or like, holy shit, you really
37:03
Speaker 1: are at ten and I need you around. And I've
37:06
Speaker 1: had a lot of that. So I think when you
37:10
Speaker 1: go through a difficult time like this for me, I
37:14
Speaker 1: don't have time. Yeah, if you are displaying like you're
37:19
Speaker 1: torn in between the two, I'll make it easy for
37:21
Speaker 1: you goodbye. Yeah, because this is actually real easy, you know,
37:28
Speaker 1: like there's two sides. You can come over here or
37:33
Speaker 1: you choose otherwise. And if that's the case, then your
37:36
Speaker 1: true colors have shown. And I don't want you anywhere
37:39
Speaker 1: near me. Don't call me, don't talk about me, leave
37:44
Speaker 1: my name at your mouth, go away.
37:48
Speaker 2: Yeah.
37:49
Speaker 1: I thoroughly enjoy burning bridges right now. Yeah, very productive.
37:53
Speaker 1: I also thoroughly enjoy building them. So we're on both sides, yes, exactly. Yeah,
38:01
Speaker 1: And maybe that's why I feel that way, is because
38:03
Speaker 1: like my support system is strong, Like I don't have
38:07
Speaker 1: new people around me, right like I have the soldiers
38:11
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, who've been with me for a long time,
38:14
Speaker 1: tried and true. Yes, correct. Yeah, So then answer the question.
38:22
Speaker 1: I think you did.
38:23
Speaker 2: No, I think you definitely did.
38:24
Speaker 3: I'm curious because so you're blessed, you've had a lot
38:28
Speaker 3: of people, like you just said, your soldiers, tried and true.
38:32
Speaker 3: You haven't really had to say bye bye to anyone.
38:35
Speaker 3: But I am curious, have you ever been in a
38:38
Speaker 3: situation just for people who have gone through this, because
38:40
Speaker 3: I've I've been in that situation. I have a boyfriend,
38:44
Speaker 3: I you know, I dated a guy for four years
38:46
Speaker 3: and we all had like.
38:47
Speaker 2: This isn't the guy I'm with now?
38:49
Speaker 1: This is different guy? Yeah, but same friends. We all
38:52
Speaker 1: ended up.
38:52
Speaker 3: I made friends with his friends, he made friends with
38:54
Speaker 3: my friends, and when we broke up, it was a
38:57
Speaker 3: difficult breakup. It wasn't one of these was like, oh,
39:00
Speaker 3: we've just mutually.
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Speaker 1: It was bad. It was dramatic.
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Speaker 3: And then I was in this weird position where I'm like, well,
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Speaker 3: can I reach out to his friends?
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Speaker 4: No?
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Speaker 3: If they see me that, like some of them would
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Speaker 3: see me at the bar and turn around, like what
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Speaker 3: do you feel about that?
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Speaker 2: Like friends, I mean, are you in the same boat?
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Speaker 3: It's like yeah, bye, if you don't want to talk
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Speaker 3: to me, and or is it something you should reach
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Speaker 3: out to those people? Hey, I know it's weird we
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Speaker 3: broke up, but I really still want to be your friend.
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Speaker 1: If they were people that we met with each other then,
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Speaker 1: which which was rare, Like I don't I don't think
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Speaker 1: that we had any friends that we like met together
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Speaker 1: and we were coupled up together, right, it was either
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Speaker 1: like my group of friends or his. I I couldn't
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Speaker 1: even name one of his friends to be honest, like
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Speaker 1: there's not really any so that was easy. It was ain't.
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Speaker 1: Nobody reached out too, is what it is. And then
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Speaker 1: with my friends, you know, if they if they felt
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Speaker 1: like they wanted to communicate with him, then then I
40:10
Speaker 1: don't need to talk to you anymore. Yeah, you know, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'm very transparent, right, Like, whether it's this situation or
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Speaker 1: past situations. I let you know what I need from
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Speaker 1: you as a friend. If you can't provide that, there
40:28
Speaker 1: there are gonna be times where it's like I've accepted
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Speaker 1: you for exactly who you are, now you have to
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Speaker 1: do the same for me. If we can both do that,
40:34
Speaker 1: then we move on as a friend group. But when
40:36
Speaker 1: it gets deep like this, like I'll be honest, let's
40:40
Speaker 1: say Jackson britt broke up, but I'm picking Brittany. I
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Speaker 1: think they all are right, they're not gonna break up,
40:48
Speaker 1: but let's just say they did. Yeah, Britney.
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Speaker 3: Is there a world though, where you stay friends with
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Speaker 3: both of them if they're both okay with it?
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Speaker 2: Are you staying or is it?
40:58
Speaker 3: Does it feel weird to you person and you're like,
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Speaker 3: you know what, No, I just don't want to I'd
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Speaker 3: rather pick a side.
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Speaker 2: Or is there a world where you're like, we're all friends.
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Speaker 1: Is there a world where people break up and it's
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Speaker 1: like we still love each other letting out? Because if
41:12
Speaker 1: that's the case, then then you guys gonna be broken up,
41:15
Speaker 1: but we're still all hanging out together, right right? Yeah,
41:18
Speaker 1: this is like an episode of front Yeah, where like
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Speaker 1: Ross and Rachel break up, they still all hang out together. Yeah,
41:24
Speaker 1: but in the real world, that's not how it works. Right,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna assume that it's not a great breakup and
41:31
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see Britny Okay, Yeah, and I choose Brittany.
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Speaker 1: So why here's that? Yeah, you know that makes sense? Yeah,
41:38
Speaker 1: these are my girlfriends. We have babies. Yeah, again, Jacks
41:43
Speaker 1: and Brittany are not breaking up. That was just an
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Speaker 1: example of picking even Jacksons, We've all told him, like
41:52
Speaker 1: we're always gonna pick Brittany.
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Speaker 2: Well, she's great.
41:56
Speaker 3: If you do have a story, a very interesting like
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Speaker 3: story like that, who do they.
42:02
Speaker 1: Call la la?
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Speaker 5: Oh?
42:04
Speaker 1: They call one aces six la lapad. Yes, I want
42:06
Speaker 1: to know, like, have you ever gone through a breakup
42:09
Speaker 1: and then you've been whether it's you've had other people
42:12
Speaker 1: have to pick sides or you've had to pick sides. Yeah,
42:16
Speaker 1: because what if the two people, like in my situation,
42:18
Speaker 1: it's pretty fucking easy, who saide, You're gonna pick right,
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Speaker 1: like no brain nerve, right, But what if the two
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Speaker 1: people are like really dope, which in most cases I'm
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Speaker 1: sure that it's like, oh, but I like both of
42:31
Speaker 1: them are really great people.
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Speaker 3: Well, it happens a lot. It happened to a friend
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Speaker 3: of mine and she it was awkward for a little bit.
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Speaker 3: I was friends with both of them, and she would say,
42:40
Speaker 3: this is weird. But they would text and say are
42:42
Speaker 3: you going to this party? They would text me, is
42:44
Speaker 3: blah blah blah going, And then if they were, they
42:46
Speaker 3: would just avoid it. Whoever, yes she's here or yes
42:49
Speaker 3: she's coming, Okay, well I'm not going.
42:51
Speaker 1: And it was just.
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Speaker 3: Until they felt cool. It was like a year and
42:54
Speaker 3: a half and they could be around each other. But yeah,
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Speaker 3: it was just kind of like avoiding each other.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes. I think that's the healthier way to go. It's
43:03
Speaker 1: all depends.
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Speaker 2: It's all relative. There's no healthier not healthier. There's just
43:09
Speaker 2: your experience, you know, perspective, perspective, and you know what,
43:14
Speaker 2: I think we should end this on a positive note.
43:17
Speaker 1: La la tell me how to do that.
43:21
Speaker 2: I want to know two things.
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Speaker 3: I want to know first, how you're currently feeling in
43:26
Speaker 3: this moment, and second, what you're thankful for in this
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Speaker 3: very moment.
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Speaker 1: I'm like so happy right now, which is weird because
43:38
Speaker 1: I've had the longest day ever. Yeah, but I'm like
43:43
Speaker 1: very happy. Mostly probably, actually I know for sure is
43:47
Speaker 1: because my little brother comes into town tonight. Want to
43:50
Speaker 1: go swoop him from the airport. Gonna hit up an
43:52
Speaker 1: AA meeting on zoom ya my most favorite meeting on
43:56
Speaker 1: zoom because it's Thursday. Yeay, just today Wednesday, my most
44:02
Speaker 1: favorite zoom meeting that I go to all week. And
44:06
Speaker 1: then I'm just gonna like enjoy my kid. What I'm
44:09
Speaker 1: thankful for. I am thankful for you, my mama, oh,
44:14
Speaker 1: my family, my friend group. But I'm also very thankful
44:18
Speaker 1: for my strength, my mind, all of that, because there
44:27
Speaker 1: are moments that I wake up and I start questioning,
44:30
Speaker 1: like how am I not drowning? Like you know, how
44:33
Speaker 1: am I feeling like I'm not drowning? Like I feel
44:38
Speaker 1: so great?
44:39
Speaker 7: Yeah?
44:40
Speaker 1: So I even though I question it, I have to
44:42
Speaker 1: remind myself don't question this bat like just relish in
44:46
Speaker 1: these moments because wherever the strength is coming from, and
44:49
Speaker 1: I have to remember the strength is coming from within me,
44:52
Speaker 1: Like why do I question that shit as if it's
44:54
Speaker 1: coming from anywhere else. Yeah, strength is coming from me
44:58
Speaker 1: and what I'm trying to do during my day, whether
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Speaker 1: I'm pulling from the universe, my higher power, my kid
45:05
Speaker 1: right in front of me, like I'm good, dude, I'm healthy,
45:07
Speaker 1: I'm happy, I'm strong, like I'm going to take on
45:10
Speaker 1: the motherfucking world. You are and so are you guys.
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Speaker 2: There see that was the positive note.
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Speaker 1: We were lit, period, point blank. I love you guys
45:22
Speaker 1: so freaking march like I do. This podcast is so fun.
45:27
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Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this episode. I promise I'll come
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Speaker 1: back from out of space soon. We will catch you
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Speaker 1: next week.
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Speaker 5: Hi, mama, This is Brittany from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. No question really,
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Speaker 5: I just really wanted to call to say how much
46:00
Speaker 5: you inspire young women like me, and I really appreciate
46:04
Speaker 5: everything you put out there and just your realness on
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Speaker 5: the show and everything that you have no trouble discussing
46:13
Speaker 5: with your viewers. I appreciate your strength and your vulnerability,
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Speaker 5: and I'm just such a huge fan. I just wanted
46:21
Speaker 5: to give you a quick shout out and some love
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Speaker 5: and I'm just happy to know you as a fan
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Speaker 5: and just wanted to say that hope all as well,
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Speaker 5: and thank you for all you too.
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