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- 0:06Speaker 1: I met a man who well name is John on Tinder.
- 0:10Speaker 1: He was kind and well spoken, and we had gone
- 0:12Speaker 1: in four or five dates before he invited me over
- 0:14Speaker 1: to his home. I'd known him for almost a month
- 0:18Speaker 1: and was ready for this next step to start dating
- 0:20Speaker 1: outside of the public scene. I drove over to his
- 0:24Speaker 1: house at six point thirty, where he said he would
- 0:26Speaker 1: have a nice homemade dinner ready for us. Driving up
- 0:29Speaker 1: to his house, there were two cars in the driveway.
- 0:33Speaker 1: I never asked if he had roommates or anything, so
- 0:35Speaker 1: I thought maybe that's what this was. I didn't see
- 0:38Speaker 1: it as a bad thing, but just something that he
- 0:41Speaker 1: should have told me before coming over. I drove back
- 0:45Speaker 1: around and parked on the curb in front of his house.
- 0:48Speaker 1: I walked up to the door and rang the doorbell.
- 0:52Speaker 1: John opened the door quickly with a big smile and
- 0:55Speaker 1: invited me in. Upon first look, the appearance of his
- 0:59Speaker 1: home home really put me off. I'm not some girl
- 1:03Speaker 1: looking for a rich guy to be my sugar daddy
- 1:05Speaker 1: or anything, but I do like a well put together man.
- 1:09Speaker 1: This house almost looked like a hoarder's house, Trash everywhere,
- 1:14Speaker 1: random things tossed on the furniture, and barely any room
- 1:17Speaker 1: to walk. I faked a smile and followed him into
- 1:21Speaker 1: the kitchen, trying not to let him notice my disgust.
- 1:26Speaker 1: By now, I'd already decided in my mind that this
- 1:29Speaker 1: probably isn't the right guy for me, but I didn't
- 1:31Speaker 1: want to be disrespectful and fully commit to ending things.
- 1:34Speaker 1: After just seeing his house for the first time, the
- 1:38Speaker 1: kitchen was less messy, seeming like it had been cleaned
- 1:40Speaker 1: up recently. On the table were two plates of food,
- 1:45Speaker 1: but after seeing the place I didn't have an appetite anymore.
- 1:49Speaker 1: I kindly told him that my stomach wasn't feeling well
- 1:51Speaker 1: today and that I tried to eat it later. His reaction, though,
- 1:56Speaker 1: was off putting. He just looked at me as if
- 1:59Speaker 1: he was shocked by my answer and was in deep
- 2:01Speaker 1: thought about what to say. I couldn't look him in
- 2:05Speaker 1: the eyes for more than a few seconds before it
- 2:08Speaker 1: just got weird. When I looked away, I think he
- 2:11Speaker 1: snapped out of it. Oh, okay, it's cool. Then he
- 2:16Speaker 1: took my plate and put it in the fridge. I
- 2:19Speaker 1: started up a conversation, asking how his day was and
- 2:22Speaker 1: if anything new was going on with him. He answered normally,
- 2:26Speaker 1: but it seemed like something else was on his mind.
- 2:29Speaker 1: He was looking around, trying to be sneaky about it,
- 2:32Speaker 1: and seemed almost nervous. Him looking around reminded me about
- 2:37Speaker 1: the cars in the driveway. Hey, I saw you had
- 2:41Speaker 1: a bunch of cars in the driveway. Do you have roommates,
- 2:45Speaker 1: I asked politely. Uh. Yeah, they're away for the weekend, though,
- 2:51Speaker 1: he said. Then he got up and excused himself, saying
- 2:55Speaker 1: he had to take a call, and walked back toward
- 2:58Speaker 1: the living room. The way he was acting was nothing
- 3:02Speaker 1: like before. I didn't like it at all. I heard
- 3:06Speaker 1: him softly talking on the phone for thirty seconds. Then
- 3:10Speaker 1: he came back and set his phone down on the table. Sorry,
- 3:14Speaker 1: he said, sitting down. I smiled, but it was getting
- 3:18Speaker 1: hard to fake it. I didn't really feel safe for
- 3:22Speaker 1: comfortable in his house, so I knew I needed to leave.
- 3:25Speaker 1: He was looking around again, and I was just trying
- 3:28Speaker 1: to get the courage to tell him that I was
- 3:29Speaker 1: going to go, until a thump came from upstairs. Right
- 3:36Speaker 1: when it sounded, John looked directly at me, as if
- 3:40Speaker 1: checking whether or not I heard it. Give me a second,
- 3:45Speaker 1: He got up and quickly walked up the stairs, and
- 3:48Speaker 1: just a moment later, his phone that was still sitting
- 3:50Speaker 1: on the table lit up. Normally I wouldn't snoop on
- 3:54Speaker 1: someone's business like that, but I felt justified given this
- 3:58Speaker 1: whole ordeal. I stood up and leaned over, seeing it
- 4:02Speaker 1: was a text from a number that wasn't saved as
- 4:05Speaker 1: a name. The text was short reading do you have
- 4:10Speaker 1: her yet? I stood there in a panic for a second,
- 4:14Speaker 1: trying to wrap my head around the text, before I
- 4:16Speaker 1: heard footsteps coming back down the stairs. I sprinted out
- 4:21Speaker 1: the front door as footsteps were quickly coming behind me
- 4:24Speaker 1: from inside the house. I got in my car and
- 4:27Speaker 1: floorted out of the neighborhood. I took some time to
- 4:33Speaker 1: calm down as I sat in my car in my driveway.
- 4:36Speaker 1: Then I called the police. I didn't know if there
- 4:39Speaker 1: was something going on or not, but I don't feel
- 4:42Speaker 1: like I was in the wrong for believing there was.
- 4:45Speaker 1: Why would he lie about nobody being home? And what
- 4:48Speaker 1: was that text supposed to mean? It all added up
- 4:52Speaker 1: in my mind. But the police questioned John along with
- 4:56Speaker 1: his roommate that was upstairs. They even allowed the off
- 5:00Speaker 1: officers to do a quick search of the home but
- 5:02Speaker 1: they found nothing pointing to any bad intentions. The officer sympathized,
- 5:08Speaker 1: saying they understood my concerns and that they would have
- 5:11Speaker 1: felt the same, but there just wasn't anything else they
- 5:14Speaker 1: could do. So now I'm left to just hope that
- 5:17Speaker 1: I took it all the wrong way and there was
- 5:20Speaker 1: nothing else going on. Just a simple lie, he told,
- 5:24Speaker 1: and a strange message that meant nothing. I'm a twenty
- 5:35Speaker 1: six year old female, and at the time I was
- 5:37Speaker 1: twenty three and in college. I used Tinder throughout the
- 5:42Speaker 1: second half of my college years. I wasn't exactly looking
- 5:45Speaker 1: for a long term relationship, but I also wasn't entirely
- 5:49Speaker 1: avoiding it either. If things seemed more serious, then I'd try.
- 5:54Speaker 1: Otherwise we'd just have some fun and move on. After
- 5:58Speaker 1: school on Friday, I went back to my dorm and
- 6:01Speaker 1: sat in bed, swiping left and right on the app.
- 6:04Speaker 1: I was hoping to have something to do over the weekend.
- 6:08Speaker 1: After some time, one of the guys responded. We talked
- 6:12Speaker 1: it up for an hour or so, then he asked
- 6:15Speaker 1: me out on a date for Sunday night. I agreed,
- 6:19Speaker 1: though it was rather quick to ask me out. We
- 6:23Speaker 1: texted for a while longer, mostly about school and hobbies.
- 6:27Speaker 1: He said he went to the same school as me,
- 6:30Speaker 1: but was in the dorm building on the opposite side
- 6:32Speaker 1: of the campus. Anyway, on Saturday we texted back and
- 6:36Speaker 1: forth a few more times, and come Sunday, I met
- 6:39Speaker 1: him at a popular restaurant not far from the campus
- 6:43Speaker 1: over dinner. He didn't strike me as anything but a
- 6:46Speaker 1: normal person, so normal that he was almost a little boring.
- 6:51Speaker 1: I found him attractive, though, and thought he was maybe
- 6:54Speaker 1: holding back on a lot due to just meeting me.
- 6:57Speaker 1: Once we finished, we went outside and said no date
- 7:00Speaker 1: for the next week. As I said goodbye and started
- 7:03Speaker 1: walking away, he asked me if I needed a ride home.
- 7:08Speaker 1: Living in the dorms at the campus, I didn't have
- 7:10Speaker 1: a car, so I just walked everywhere, including the restaurant.
- 7:14Speaker 1: I was surprised he even had a car, since he
- 7:17Speaker 1: lived at the school as well, but I was even
- 7:20Speaker 1: more surprised that he offered me a ride. It seemed
- 7:23Speaker 1: like he was trying to make his move for tonight,
- 7:25Speaker 1: which I wasn't expecting. But seeing as I enjoyed my
- 7:29Speaker 1: time with him and he was just like any other guy,
- 7:32Speaker 1: I took him up on the offer. The campus was
- 7:35Speaker 1: a twenty five minute walk away, so if nothing else,
- 7:38Speaker 1: at least i'd be back sooner. He showed me over
- 7:42Speaker 1: to his car, which was just an older black Honda Suv.
- 7:46Speaker 1: I got into the passenger seat and he started driving.
- 7:50Speaker 1: As soon as we were on the road, things started
- 7:53Speaker 1: to get awkward. I tried making small talk, but he
- 7:57Speaker 1: wasn't really responding, so I sat back and neither of
- 8:00Speaker 1: us talked. After a few minutes, he took a left turn.
- 8:06Speaker 1: The campus was to the right, in the complete opposite direction.
- 8:11Speaker 1: I felt a lump in my throat and my body
- 8:13Speaker 1: got stiff. That feeling of something awful about to happen
- 8:17Speaker 1: had fallen over me. Hey, I think you missed the turn,
- 8:22Speaker 1: I said, nicely, trying to hide any hint of fear
- 8:25Speaker 1: in my voice. No, he muttered. I was looking over
- 8:30Speaker 1: at him, but his gaze was locked on the road.
- 8:34Speaker 1: Where are you taking me? He didn't respond. I didn't
- 8:39Speaker 1: know what else to ask. I told him to let
- 8:42Speaker 1: me out of the car, in one last effort to
- 8:45Speaker 1: get out of the situation without anything escalating. He still
- 8:50Speaker 1: didn't respond. The further out he drove, the more remote
- 8:54Speaker 1: the area became My head was aching from the fear
- 8:59Speaker 1: of getting too far to be able to find any
- 9:01Speaker 1: way out of this. I still have my phone in
- 9:05Speaker 1: my pocket, which I knew he was going to take
- 9:07Speaker 1: as soon as we stopped wherever he was taking me.
- 9:11Speaker 1: My plan, and really my only plan, was to try
- 9:15Speaker 1: to take out my phone as quickly as possible and
- 9:17Speaker 1: dial nine one one before he would have time to react.
- 9:22Speaker 1: I waited until he started making a turn, and right
- 9:25Speaker 1: when he looked the other way, I pulled my phone
- 9:28Speaker 1: out and with shaky hands, dial nine one one. He
- 9:32Speaker 1: noticed immediately trying to grab my phone mid turn and
- 9:36Speaker 1: jerking the car. I was able to keep myself away
- 9:39Speaker 1: from grasp while the phone rang, and as soon as
- 9:42Speaker 1: I heard a voice on the other side, I yelled
- 9:45Speaker 1: for help, saying the street names and direction we were going.
- 9:49Speaker 1: The man was still fighting me from my phone, hitting
- 9:51Speaker 1: me and pulling me toward him. In the midst of
- 9:54Speaker 1: the fight, he lost control of the car and ran
- 9:58Speaker 1: off the road straight into a speed limit sign. I
- 10:04Speaker 1: was dizzy and my vision was blurry, probably from a concussion,
- 10:08Speaker 1: but I could hear the operator on the phone talking
- 10:11Speaker 1: from somewhere under my seat. I almost forgot the situation
- 10:15Speaker 1: I was in, but once it came back to me,
- 10:17Speaker 1: I immediately looked over. The windshield was shattered and the
- 10:22Speaker 1: air bags were out, but the man I was with
- 10:25Speaker 1: was gone. I tried to see out the windows, but
- 10:29Speaker 1: he was nowhere. I didn't even remember seeing the windshield
- 10:33Speaker 1: shatter or the airbags go off, so I might have
- 10:37Speaker 1: even been unconscious for a few seconds or minutes without
- 10:40Speaker 1: knowing it. I searched for my phone, telling the operator
- 10:45Speaker 1: what happened and that I was okay. Officers came soon after.
- 10:52Speaker 1: I had no lasting injuries, just some pains around my body.
- 10:56Speaker 1: But what hurts the most is that I was so
- 10:58Speaker 1: sure they would catch the man, having his name, description,
- 11:03Speaker 1: and license plate, but I was wrong. The car was
- 11:07Speaker 1: stolen the day before, which was probably why he abandoned
- 11:10Speaker 1: it after the crash. His name was likely fake, although
- 11:15Speaker 1: it was a really generic name anyway, and his tender
- 11:19Speaker 1: account was removed, so all they have is a description
- 11:24Speaker 1: of what he looked like. I should have been more careful,
- 11:28Speaker 1: and I definitely have been ever since. What he planned
- 11:32Speaker 1: on doing with me is something too awful for me
- 11:35Speaker 1: to even think about. I just really hope that he's
- 11:39Speaker 1: not out there trying to do the same thing to
- 11:42Speaker 1: someone else. My girlfriend left me two weeks before this.
- 11:55Speaker 1: I know two weeks is not long enough to fully
- 11:57Speaker 1: process a breakup and start using Tinder, but I was desperate.
- 12:02Speaker 1: Within a few days, I had two girls I was
- 12:04Speaker 1: talking too regularly. I asked them both out on a
- 12:07Speaker 1: date for separate days, hoping one of them would be
- 12:10Speaker 1: a good match for me. Unfortunately, the first one ghosted me, though,
- 12:14Speaker 1: so I was left with just the one, making me
- 12:16Speaker 1: even more desperate. In her picture, she seemed like my
- 12:21Speaker 1: perfect type, blonde hair, blue eyes, and just really attractive.
- 12:25Speaker 1: Her personality, however, left much to be desired, at least
- 12:30Speaker 1: over text. She was bland and bad at conversation, but
- 12:34Speaker 1: some people are just better in person, so I figured
- 12:36Speaker 1: I'd give it a shot and continue with the date.
- 12:40Speaker 1: I decided on a cheap restaurant that she agreed was
- 12:42Speaker 1: close enough to her. On the night of the date,
- 12:46Speaker 1: I got ready and drove down, then texted her that
- 12:48Speaker 1: I was there and stood out in front of the restaurant.
- 12:51Speaker 1: I was five minutes early, so I wasn't expecting her
- 12:54Speaker 1: to show up right away, but after waiting for twenty minutes,
- 12:58Speaker 1: I tried calling her. The phone rang for a few
- 13:01Speaker 1: then she answered, Hey, where are you. I'm right outside
- 13:06Speaker 1: the place, I said. I waited a few seconds Hello.
- 13:13Speaker 1: She hung up without saying a word. Great, another girl
- 13:18Speaker 1: ghosted me. I was embarrassed and annoyed. I got back
- 13:22Speaker 1: in my car and drove home. I made myself a
- 13:25Speaker 1: bowl of cereal, then chilled on the couch and tried
- 13:27Speaker 1: to forget about life for a while. I passed out
- 13:31Speaker 1: around eight, still on the couch. When I woke up,
- 13:36Speaker 1: I reached for my phone to check the time, but
- 13:39Speaker 1: I couldn't find it. I opened my eyes a bit
- 13:42Speaker 1: wider and sat up, still searching for my phone. During
- 13:46Speaker 1: my search, I caught something in the corner of my eye.
- 13:50Speaker 1: My back door was slightly open, just barely, not even
- 13:54Speaker 1: enough to see through the crack between the door, but
- 13:57Speaker 1: opened slightly enough so that it wasn't even with the wall,
- 14:01Speaker 1: kind of like someone had pulled it partially closed so
- 14:04Speaker 1: that it wouldn't make the click sound. I stood still,
- 14:09Speaker 1: looking around. Everything felt like it became so quiet. I
- 14:14Speaker 1: took one last quick search for my phone, then gave
- 14:17Speaker 1: up and walked over to the back door. It was
- 14:20Speaker 1: just as I'd said, barely not closed. I always kept
- 14:25Speaker 1: every door locked, so this was a terrifying thing to
- 14:28Speaker 1: see after napping just a few feet away. I thought
- 14:32Speaker 1: maybe when the intruder saw me on the couch, they
- 14:34Speaker 1: must have just left. But then I started thinking about
- 14:37Speaker 1: my phone being gone. What if they'd stolen my phone,
- 14:42Speaker 1: they would have had to be right in front of me,
- 14:45Speaker 1: just inches away, probably watching me sleep. A shiver ran
- 14:50Speaker 1: through my body. These thoughts were just making me more scared.
- 14:55Speaker 1: I pushed the door shut and locked it, praying that
- 14:58Speaker 1: whoever it was had all already left. I then walked
- 15:02Speaker 1: around the first floor, checking the rooms, but not finding
- 15:05Speaker 1: anything worth noting. Then I went upstairs, which for some
- 15:10Speaker 1: reason had me more scared. I walked down the hallway,
- 15:14Speaker 1: looking in each room. Before I got to my bedroom,
- 15:18Speaker 1: I looked around the room, under the bed, everywhere, no
- 15:22Speaker 1: signs of anyone. I stepped back into the hall, closing
- 15:27Speaker 1: the door. I just thought to myself how creepy this was,
- 15:32Speaker 1: and tried to think of the best way to contact
- 15:34Speaker 1: the police without my phone. But then I heard something quiet,
- 15:43Speaker 1: soft breathing at going inside the closet behind me. I froze.
- 15:49Speaker 1: The longer I stood there, the more horrified I was.
- 15:53Speaker 1: I ran for the stairs and went out the front door.
- 15:57Speaker 1: There was a gas station at the end of the block,
- 15:59Speaker 1: so all the way there and got them to call
- 16:01Speaker 1: the police. By the time everything was settled, nobody was
- 16:06Speaker 1: in my home anymore. My phone was still missing, but
- 16:10Speaker 1: that was the only thing that was gone. My account
- 16:13Speaker 1: was backed up, though, so it wasn't too hard to
- 16:15Speaker 1: get a new phone and transfer all my apps and data.
- 16:19Speaker 1: A few weeks later, though, I went back on Tinder,
- 16:22Speaker 1: and that's when I started putting pieces together. The girl
- 16:26Speaker 1: that ghosted me and creepily answered my phone call no
- 16:29Speaker 1: longer existed. I thought that it would actually be possible
- 16:34Speaker 1: for them to have gone to the restaurant, but instead
- 16:36Speaker 1: of meeting me, followed me home. As for why they
- 16:40Speaker 1: took my phone, I'm not sure. The only reason I
- 16:44Speaker 1: can really think of is so that I couldn't call
- 16:46Speaker 1: the police or show them their account. There's still a
- 16:50Speaker 1: lot that doesn't make sense, though, like why they only
- 16:54Speaker 1: took my phone and what they were doing in my
- 16:56Speaker 1: house while I was sleeping