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Engineer of Autonomy Hypnosis - Build a Business Identity That Creates Freedom and Value · The Hypnotist

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  Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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  access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing
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  genuine. Issues.
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  Brought to you by The Hypnotherapist, demanded by
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  celebrities CE OS and even royalty Adam Cox, these
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  recordings took place live from Evans Clinic in London's world
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  famous Harley Street. So get yourself comfortable and
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  enjoy today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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  Hi, it's Adam here, and you're about to listen to a hypnosis
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  session that I created for a client that is in the helping
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  profession. They wanted to help individuals
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  to become empowered and independent.
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  So you can have people that are fiercely independent but
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  actually not really aligned in that independence.
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  They just become a solitary and detached from people.
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  When people are independent in an empowered way, it just means
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  they're not reliant or dependent on other people or other
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  structures and systems. It means they get to thrive even
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  when they're working by themself.
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  And this client really was passionate about that.
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  The problem that they had is that the way in which they were
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  helping people seemed quite a complex, confusing premise.
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  And when you have to explain what you do in too many words,
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  people get lost. And what's really helpful is to
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  have a phrase that becomes a catalyst to help explain what
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  you do. In the same way that I help
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  people in lots of different areas.
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  But I'm known as a hypnotist, and that hypnotist word becomes
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  an easy way for people to think, OK, this person can help me
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  change. This client was not a therapist,
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  They weren't a coach, but they did want to help people to make
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  changes. So it does overlap with some of
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  those modalities. But that's not who they are.
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  It's not what they identified with.
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  So I created a metaphor with them so that they could be the
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  engineer of autonomy. And what that really means is
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  that they are the one that can help design the blueprints and
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  the structures and the systems to help someone go from being
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  either entirely dependent on other people or feeling like
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  they can't do what they want to do in the world to feel a sense
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  of autonomy. And autonomy for me just means
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  high agency. People live life on their
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  values, on their terms and have a positive impact on the world.
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  And that client wanted that. So this uses this metaphor of
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  the engineer of autonomy to create an identity level change,
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  but also links to this idea of congruency.
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  And congruency is simply walking your talk.
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  And unfortunately in the helping professions, there are a lot of
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  people that do not believe what they're doing.
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  They don't really walk their talk.
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  I've, I've worked with nutritionists that eat very
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  unhealthy. I've worked with relationship
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  therapists that, you know, haven't had a, a good
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  relationship and they're always single or they're always kind of
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  jumping out of toxic relationships.
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  So unfortunately there is this huge incongruency in a lot of
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  the helping professions. And generally that comes because
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  quite often the people are learning about a particular
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  thing because they want to fix themself, but before fixing
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  themselves, because they've got all that knowledge, they end up
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  helping other people before they've actually figured it out
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  for themself. So it also has congruent
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  congruency built into this. And I think most people connect
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  with the idea of congruency in the hypnosis session itself.
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  I use the example of a personal trainer.
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  You can have a very knowledgeable personal trainer
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  that knows a lot about nutrition and the form of, let's say,
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  exercises and not be living that themselves.
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  But most people would see that person and think, if they're
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  such a good personal trainer, why are they not in good shape?
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  And that's a very valid question to ask.
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  It's not all about knowledge. Sometimes it's about living the
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  very thing that you represent or to use the Gandhi quote, to be
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  the change that you want to see in the world.
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  And there's so much value in that.
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  So it's two key things. One, accessing an identity that
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  is empowering. And secondly, holding yourself
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  to the standard of concurrency. Now it's very unlikely that you
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  want to be an engineer of autonomy.
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  That's probably not the niche for you.
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  But the overall premise of this is that you get to step into the
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  identity that you want. So I would encourage you to
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  think of what would be the best metaphor or the best label to
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  represent what you would be doing if you were having the
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  biggest and most significant impact in the world and whatever
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  that is. I want you to think of that
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  rather than the term engineer of autonomy.
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  I want you to think of whatever that word that just came up for
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  you or as a placeholder living life at your most congruent.
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  Just think of that term and you'll still get a lot of value
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  from that session. Now, it was created for an
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  individual. Not all of the suggestions are
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  going to be relevant to you. Ignore anything that isn't quite
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  relevant. And if you like the idea of
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  working with me directly, having something built and calibrated
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  exactly to you, you can either check out my website
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  whichisadamcox.co.uk, or you can have a look in the description
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  of this episode and there'll be lots of links to resources and
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  ways for you to find out how to work with me directly.
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  For now, though, find a quiet, comfortable place where you
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  won't be distracted or disturbed.
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  Relax and enjoy the session. Take a deep breath in, and as
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  you breathe in, breathe in that resourceful feeling of calm and
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  relaxation. And as you exhale, allow
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  yourself to relax, to position your body in such a way where
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  you can feel even more comfortable, and to give
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  permission to just let go of any thoughts, expectations.
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  Because here, in this moment, breathing in and breathing out,
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  there is nothing you need to do. Just allow new thoughts, new
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  connections, new ways of thinking to take place, enabling
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  you to dissolve any blocks and unlock any doors that are
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  impeding you from a lovely situation where by you helping
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  the world, you have more fuel for the mission.
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  And sometimes that fuel will be enthusiasm, but sometimes that
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  fuel will be financial resources.
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  That's all. Money is fuel.
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  Where that fuel takes you is down to you.
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  So as you breathe in and breathe out, I wonder if you can use the
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  power of your imagination to imagine a 1000 piece puzzle.
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  I want you to imagine a picture on the front of a box of a
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  cottage by the ocean and just stare at the picture.
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  Maybe it's of a cottage window, or the sky, or the sea or a tree
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  or a fence or the grass or the path and focus on it so intently
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  that just like when you read a good book, you could imagine
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  being within it. That's what art is, after all.
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  It allows the individual to make it their own.
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  And I wonder if you could imagine walking up a pathway to
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  the front door of a cottage by the sea and imagine it's a sunny
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  day, blue skies. And I wonder if you could
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  imagine what it would feel like to be standing right in front of
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  the door. Maybe you can hear that, see in
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  the distance or feel a breeze on your skin.
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  And as you stand in front of the door to that cottage, I want you
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  to imagine that you are holding the key that unlocks that front
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  door. And as I countdown from 5 to 1,
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  you will imagine unlocking the door, opening the door and
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  walking into the cottage, 5 Putting the key in the lock and
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  turning it, 4 hearing it Click to signify that the front door
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  is now unlocked, three turning the handle and pulling the door
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  open, 2 walking through the doorway, and one closing the
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  door behind you. And I want you to find somewhere
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  in that cottage that would be cozy and comfortable, the kind
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  of place that you could drift off into a dreamlike sleep,
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  maybe a sofa or a chair or a bed or somewhere else.
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  And just imagine placing you there, in that place by the sea.
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  Not just a quiet cottage, but your cottage positioned exactly
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  where it needs to be. As you drift into that dreamlike
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  sleep, imagine hearing the waves.
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  Steady, consistent, never rushing, never forcing, just
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  doing what they do naturally, and just feel how at home you
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  feel there in that cottage. There is no urgency here, no
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  pressure, although there is a direction and everything in the
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  cottage exists by design. It almost feels like a space
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  that reflects you. Simple, intentional, aligned.
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  Everything you need and nothing you don't.
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  And as you connect to that space, I want you to imagine,
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  what if this isn't just a cottage?
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  What if it's your own fortress? A control room?
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  A place where strategic decisions are made, A place
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  where direction is chosen, A place where life itself is
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  engineered. I want you to imagine drifting
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  into a dream within a dream, but still in the cottage, seeing you
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  fast asleep in that place. And I wonder if you can discover
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  a set of blueprints, detailed, precise, not of a building, but
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  of a future life. And you realize that most people
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  live inside structures they didn't design borrowed beliefs,
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  unconscious patterns, external systems, dependency on others.
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  And because of that, they wait perhaps for permission, maybe
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  they wait for clarity, maybe they wait for certainty.
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  But in this cottage that is not you, you're connecting to an
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  idea much more deeper and profound.
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  That autonomy is not something you are given.
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  It is engineered. And I wonder what that word
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  means to you, to engineer autonomy.
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  Imagine staring into those blueprints for your future life
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  and begin to recognise the signature.
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  Your name. Your name is there on the
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  blueprints, and they don't have to be architectural blueprints.
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  These might be engineering blueprints.
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  Every machine, every model is planned before it is built, and
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  I want you to connect with an idea that you are the engineer
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  of autonomy and not someone who waits.
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  You're someone who builds, designs, refines what you can do
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  for yourself, you can do for others.
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  You are capable of designing and implementing independence, and I
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  wonder if you can feel what that means.
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  I want you to imagine how many people in the world are
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  dependent, are paralyzed, are stuck.
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  And what if you, as the engineer of autonomy, can free them from
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  their own shackles, change the way they think, believe and
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  connect? I want you to connect with an
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  idea. But if you impact just one
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  person to fully unleash their autonomy, the world is a better
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  place because that one person that was stuck, dependent, held
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  hostage to their childhood, their situations, their
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  environment, by liberating them, they themselves will have a
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  positive impact on the world. What if every person you help
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  ends up helping 100 people or more through the ripple effect?
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  Connect with the idea that when you help people take full
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  ownership of their thoughts, their decisions, their lives
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  without them needing external validation, external permission,
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  external systems, What level of impact that could have on the
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  world. Because deep down, there was
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  always a mission to leave the world better than you found it,
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  to leave a lasting legacy of wonderful things that create
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  more wonderful things, to really step into that identity of being
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  the engineer of autonomy. And that means congruency.
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  That means being the change you want to see in the world.
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  By living autonomy, you are the evidence that your ideas work.
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  And the moment you fully embrace that identity for you feel
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  something shift, knowing that when identity changes, beliefs
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  and behaviours follow naturally, effortlessly.
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  And if your mission is to help other people, to liberate them
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  from dependency to independency to autonomy, you begin to see
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  money differently. Not as something to value and
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  not as something to chase, but as something that is a
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  reflection of value. The tide follows the moon, not
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  the other way round. Money follows value and impact.
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  It's inevitable because when value is created, money responds
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  automatically, and you realize the more autonomy you create in
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  others, the more valuable you become.
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  And the more valuable you become, the less you need to
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  think about money at all, because money becomes a
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  byproduct, not a goal. Notice something important, That
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  part within you that used to hesitate, that over analysed the
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  delay, that was waiting for the right time.
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  I want you to imagine that part dissolving or shifting.
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  Maybe it was built on a false assumption.
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  The clarity and certainty is a prerequisite for actions and
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  decision, but that itself means you are dependent on something
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  outside of your control. What if true autonomy is knowing
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  you have the resources to make decisions without needing to
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  know everything? Because with it comes a belief
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  that you can handle any situation as it arises.
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  What if the clarity comes from the action?
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  And what if conflict is not a signal to stop, it's a signal to
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  move, to decide, to adapt and refine.
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  Because movement feedback and refinement creates alignment.
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  Your intuition will let you know if you're on the wrong path, but
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  you never know if you're on the wrong path.
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  If you never take a path, you do the thing, your intuition
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  responds, and you become more wise and more valuable, more
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  autonomous. Every time you learn, I want you
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  to imagine a simple pattern starts to install itself within
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  you automatically and without effort.
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  That whenever you notice hesitation, allow yourself a
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  moment to reflect but not to paralyze so that you can respond
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  with action. Whenever you notice uncertainty,
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  you can respond with creation, and whenever you notice delay,
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  you can respond with ownership. Doing so means you'll be the
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  win. Or you learn, but the
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  willingness to do, to test, to check and refine autonomy is a
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  self learning machine. Autonomy doesn't mean you have
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  to get it exactly right on the very first attempt.
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  Every computer you use, every piece of technology, became
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  better by being refined from everything that came before it.
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  If that occurs in products, it can also occur within a person.
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  The idea that you have to perfectly design the perfect
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  system on the first attempt is based on a false idea.
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  Evolution is based on refinement, adaptation, not
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  based on getting it exactly right.
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  And I want you to connect. Connect with an idea that you
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  within yourself are engineering autonomy until that autonomy is
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  automatic. Like breathing, like walking,
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  like the waves. And maybe an upcoming
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  anniversary of when a business was formed becomes a key date to
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  do something symbolic, significant, a statement of
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  intent to express an internal identity projecting outwards to
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  the world. Maybe a moment of a launch,
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  becoming more visible, communicating, something that
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  aligns with this engineer of autonomy, and you see yourself
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  not waiting, not second guessing, but moving, doing,
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  deciding. This business is not something
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  you're trying to build. The structure already exists.
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  It's an extension of who you are.
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  The business is simply an entity that enables you to amplify your
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  impact because you are the engineer of autonomy.
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  And I want you to imagine the people find you not because you
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  chase them, but because they recognise something.
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  You are evidence of the very value that you are offering and
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  they want that. The more aligned, the more
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  congruent, the more impactful you are as an individual, the
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  more those that also want that will seek you out.
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  In the same way that you can have a personal trainer that is
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  unhealthy overweight, but something communicates
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  incongruency. People seek out the fit, strong,
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  credible personal trainers because they are seeking someone
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  that walks their talk. Allow your imagination to return
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  you to the cottage, and I want you to connect to an idea.
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  What if this is not just imagination, but it feels like
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  inevitability? By you living your message and
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  your value, you attract the very future that you desire.
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  And if it's true for you, it's true for the people that work
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  with you. And the foundation of this
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  cottage is not concrete, It's alignment.
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  And alignment always compounds. I want you to imagine leaving
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  the back door of this cottage, looking at the horizon over the
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  sea, and start to feel that this is not a destination but an
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  internal standard. Connect with that frequency.
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  You are the engineer of autonomy, and the more you live
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  and be autonomous, the more congruent you will be working
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  with clients. And then you return back into
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  the cottage. See that version of you in that
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  dreamlike sleep? Step into them.
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  Connect with that version of you, enabling the future, the
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  present and the past to collide in a fusion of possibility.
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  And as you leave that place, you go through the front door, close
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  it, lock the door, still seeing the key in your hand, and allow
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  yourself to float back to the here and the now as you take a
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  deep breath in through your nose and out through your nose.
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  Wiggle your fingers, wiggle your toes, connect and calibrate into
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  the here and the now. That's it.
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  Starting to count to fully align. 123 waking up 456 more
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  alerts 7-8. That's it.
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  Open your eyes, Open your eyes. 910 Wide awake, Wide awake, wide
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  awake. Thank you so much for joining me
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  on today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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