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Do Rich Men Date Broke Women For Control? · Earn Your Leisure

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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
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  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
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  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
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  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
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  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
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  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
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  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
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  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
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  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
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  Speaker 1: are here illegally your next you will be fined nearly
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  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
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  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
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  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
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  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 3: I've been known for a controversial take or two of
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  Speaker 3: my day when you say that I won't dat a
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  Speaker 3: bus driver like, are you doing it to be solatious
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  Speaker 3: to drive your other points home? Because I think a
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  Speaker 3: lot of the other points that you make that are
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  Speaker 3: incredibly valid get looked over because of social media. Are
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  Speaker 3: you doing that to have a moment to make the
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  Speaker 3: message go further or are you just speaking freely because
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  Speaker 3: you're in a financially free space.
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  Speaker 4: It's the latter. I'm speaking freely because God is good
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  Speaker 4: all the time, and I've earned the right to be
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  Speaker 4: able to just say and help I mean it. And
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  Speaker 4: that's one of the reasons that you know, owning is
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  Speaker 4: so important to me. Like I really fucked with this
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  Speaker 4: ownership thing. I think people, maybe now more so, can
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  Speaker 4: really understand that because I've had the ability like I'm
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  Speaker 4: having right now to expand on the point of why
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  Speaker 4: I am in such a love affair with ownership. And
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  Speaker 4: by no means is that for everybody, By no means,
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  Speaker 4: does everybody go out tomorrow put your job by LLC
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  Speaker 4: and start a company. Absolutely not. But for me, it's
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  Speaker 4: in my bloodstream. My mother was an entrepreneur. Like like
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  Speaker 4: I'm saying, she drove the bus. She drove the school
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  Speaker 4: bus in the mornings at five o'clock so she could
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  Speaker 4: put her at least would get off the bus and
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  Speaker 4: she would go to beauty school, and eventually she opened salons,
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  Speaker 4: and eventually she opened childcare centers, and eventually she bought
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  Speaker 4: eighteen wheelers use ones for at that time ten twelve
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  Speaker 4: thousand dollars outright cash and put men in them to
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  Speaker 4: transport goods dry and refrigerated. And she did that and
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  Speaker 4: made a substantial living for herself for many years. So ownership,
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  Speaker 4: and before that, my grandfather was an entrepreneur. He cut hair,
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  Speaker 4: he sold moonshine, he worked a job at a feed
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  Speaker 4: mill in Louisiana. So that's just that's in my bloodstream,
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  Speaker 4: hustle and ownership owing only things. So when I say
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  Speaker 4: I'm not dating a bus driver, it's number one because
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  Speaker 4: let's get you out of driving the bus for somebody else,
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  Speaker 4: and let's just figure out what it would take for
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  Speaker 4: us to buy you a bus, because you can actually
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  Speaker 4: buy a bus, and.
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  Speaker 5: That's not.
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  Speaker 4: Out of scope. You know, if we do this, if
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  Speaker 4: you're my partner, it's certainly not out of scope. So
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  Speaker 4: now we need to talk about with that, and then
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  Speaker 4: that can get dice. See again, I saw this in
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  Speaker 4: my family growing up because sometimes when the income gap
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  Speaker 4: is so significant, and see, this is why I don't
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  Speaker 4: recommend trying to close substantial income gaps in the confines
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  Speaker 4: of romantic relationships because things start not making sense. Like
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  Speaker 4: I said, somebody the other day was talking to me
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  Speaker 4: about like, well, how would you advise a woman who
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  Speaker 4: made five hundred thousand dollars to go house hunting with
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  Speaker 4: her husband who makes seventy five thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 3: You don't, I wouldn't and other way too.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was just gonna say, and the other
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  Speaker 4: way too, which is why if you start talking to
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  Speaker 4: a lot of these like you guys, and a lot
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  Speaker 4: of wealthy men and men in that one percent and up,
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  Speaker 4: because we know it's levels. You know they're not partnering
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  Speaker 4: with those women. And if they are, and some of
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  Speaker 4: them are, right because I hear that I'd said, well
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  Speaker 4: he dates girls that wait tables and do this, there's
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  Speaker 4: a why there, Okay, And I'm not judging because again
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  Speaker 4: that's a man who said I went to law school,
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  Speaker 4: I went and got my MBA. I did these things
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  Speaker 4: so I could earn seven hundred thousand and one point
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  Speaker 4: two million, three million a year, so I can be
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  Speaker 4: in exclusive full control. And she's going to go on vacation.
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  Speaker 4: Where the fuck I tell her we're go on a vacation.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think. I don't think. Let me interject, let
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  Speaker 5: me interject as a moment, I got no I got
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  Speaker 5: no arm in the race. I don't think. I don't think.
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  Speaker 6: I don't think that that's that's a fair way to
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  Speaker 6: characterize the situation, because it's it's it's not so much
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  Speaker 6: of saying you're going on vacation.
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  Speaker 5: Where if I tell you to go on vacation.
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  Speaker 6: I think a man's role traditionally has always been to provide,
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  Speaker 6: right and and a woman's work. So a man to
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  Speaker 6: protected and a provider, and a woman has always been a.
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  Speaker 5: Nurturer and an educator.
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  Speaker 6: Right now, we live in a society where roles have
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  Speaker 6: changed a lot, and women have been able to provide
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  Speaker 6: sometimes for men, and men have been able to nurture.
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  Speaker 5: But traditionally, right, so.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, as a provider and as somebody who is a protector,
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  Speaker 6: I think that it's actually, you know, beneficial for both parties.
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  Speaker 6: If somebody was like, okay, like you know, this is
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  Speaker 6: what we're doing, it's not so much it's a bad thing.
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  Speaker 4: So it's important right that when we have this conversation
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  Speaker 4: that we take the at least when I speak, because
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  Speaker 4: and I do get critique about this a lot. It's
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  Speaker 4: my delivery, right, So you probably heard the way I
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  Speaker 4: said it and presumed I meant something negative.
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  Speaker 5: I did not, ernest what's up?
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 7:19
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 7:23
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 7:32
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals. Caught because of President
• 7:35
  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
• 7:44
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 7:47
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
• 7:55
  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
• 7:59
  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
• 8:02
  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: Do what's right.
• 8:07
  Speaker 4: Leave now.
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  Speaker 1: Under President Trump, America's laws, border and families will be protected.
• 8:14
  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 4: I did not because it's probably likely that the young
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  Speaker 4: lady who's in that we'll just call it more relaxed
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  Speaker 4: income bracket where this man is the clear provider, probably
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  Speaker 4: don't have the skills to go and plan, you know,
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  Speaker 4: a very nice, high end luxurious I'm just telling you
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  Speaker 4: what I've lived, y'all.
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  Speaker 6: I'm telling you when you they don't have the skills,
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  Speaker 6: what do you what do you mean like as not
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  Speaker 6: accustomed to that?
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  Speaker 4: Is that what you're saying familiar doesn't have the resource
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  Speaker 4: like you know, y'all, let's say we're going to Africa. Like,
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  Speaker 4: let's just say a plane, since y'all act like y'all
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  Speaker 4: confuse and y'all don't know what the No, y'all know
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  Speaker 4: what I'm talking about. But we're going to Africa. And uh,
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  Speaker 4: it's Africa for twelve days. Okay, So this is not
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  Speaker 4: Vegas on Miami for two nights. Okay, this is Africa
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  Speaker 4: for twelve days. What is involved with that? Well, we
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  Speaker 4: of course want to do a safari. Okay, Well, we
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  Speaker 4: want to do we want to tour wine Country for
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  Speaker 4: going to South Africa. We want to go to Fresh Hook,
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  Speaker 4: we want to You probably need a driver because you've
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  Speaker 4: probably not written something from enterprise driving around Johannesburg. That's
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  Speaker 4: what I'm talking about, That's what I'm talking I'm talking
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  Speaker 4: about having the lived experience, the access to know what
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  Speaker 4: goes into a certain cultural experience at that luxurious level.
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  Speaker 5: But is it not? Is it not the beauty of
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  Speaker 5: it not knowing? And she loves that.
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  Speaker 4: Woman loves that. That's what I'm saying. It's not negative,
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  Speaker 4: it's at all.
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  Speaker 5: It's it's comfortability. I just want to add to what
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  Speaker 5: But I.
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  Speaker 6: Just want to say, you said that woman, but isn't
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  Speaker 6: in most women love it.
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  Speaker 4: But but here's here's here's back to the conflict that
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  Speaker 4: YouTube specifically named earlier. The man that can provide that
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  Speaker 4: for a woman like myself or many of the women
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  Speaker 4: your former clients, that man, I'm just gonna take a
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  Speaker 4: shot in the dark and say that man is not
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  Speaker 4: chiefly desirous of a woman like us. He is preferring
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  Speaker 4: that twenty eight year old that you talked about earlier.
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  Speaker 4: And that twenty eight year old not because she's a
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  Speaker 4: ditch or dumb or lacking in any way. I couldn't
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  Speaker 4: have planned those experiences at twenty eight. And I'm smart
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  Speaker 4: as a motherfucker. Okay, I've been practicing law since I
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  Speaker 4: was twenty three years old. It's lived experience.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, there's a part of it that even at that level, right,
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  Speaker 7: if it's the twenty eight, there's that level of comfortability
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  Speaker 7: of spending that much, right, because you know.
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  Speaker 4: That this is a thirty five forty thousand dollars at least.
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  Speaker 7: Your income is sixty thousand, and this vacation is going
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  Speaker 7: to cost thirty thousand.
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  Speaker 5: You're talking about half of your year in salary.
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  Speaker 7: So the mindset is a little bit different because you're
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  Speaker 7: not accustomed to that.
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  Speaker 5: I hear what you saying.
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  Speaker 4: That's all I'm saying. I'm saying you've not been exposed
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  Speaker 4: to it yet. Likely unless you come from wealth. That's
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  Speaker 4: the only caveat I think that we can add to this.
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  Speaker 4: You were born in a wealth class, and there are
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  Speaker 4: black people born in wealth. We don't talk about that
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  Speaker 4: enough either, I think. But if you were born in that,
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  Speaker 4: then yes, you can task that young lady with executing
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  Speaker 4: this type of experience. But other than that, you know,
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  Speaker 4: this is a curation. You know, who's the ability to
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  Speaker 4: curate that comes from somewhere. That's all I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, lived experience mostly. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: You know again, I've because I've been I've kind of
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  Speaker 4: played a lot in a lot of these spaces. I've
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  Speaker 4: been the younger educated, but not so my former fiance
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  Speaker 4: this was a very wealthy man, like New York wealthy man.
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  Speaker 4: So now you're talking about, you know, seventy five million
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  Speaker 4: in up right, And I was I thought I was
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  Speaker 4: doing it big at that time, three p fifty I
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  Speaker 4: think I was making working for a news network, which
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  Speaker 4: was good money. I mean I was thirty four years old,
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  Speaker 4: but the power dynamic inside of that relationship, because I
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  Speaker 4: lived it, looked a certain way.
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  Speaker 5: It's different. It did.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, So when he would say we're going to so
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  Speaker 4: and so, you know what, am I gonna say like,
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  Speaker 4: oh well why or ying? You know? And unless I
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  Speaker 4: can step up and really say nah, fuck all that
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  Speaker 4: we're doing this and here's to your point, here's my
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  Speaker 4: sixty k on it. And damn, now my little three
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  Speaker 4: fifty look as small because that this is the reality. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: I think it's very easy to have generalized thoughts and
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  Speaker 4: opinions and ways in which theoretically these things go. But
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  Speaker 4: when you get in it, and you're in these trenches
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  Speaker 4: and you're live in it every day, this is really
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  Speaker 4: what it starts to look like.
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from El Salvador
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: and Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: States Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: border crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: over one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: you are here illegally, your next you will be fine
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: will never return. But if you register using our CBP
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: home app and leave now, you could be allowed to
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: return legally. Do what's right, leave now. Under President Trump,
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: America's laws, border and families will be protected.
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,