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Dear Banya: Blonde But Not Natural · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Radd, an iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two-time People's Choice Award-winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, everybody. You have to turn your mic on.
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  Speaker 1: We are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 2: Girl goes to Thailand for 10 days, comes back, and
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  Speaker 2: she's a little rusty.
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  Speaker 1: I am.
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  Speaker 2: Jet lagged oh still um you got back thursday yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I know that's crazy yeah yeah no it just.
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  Speaker 2: Hit late i guess perk up buttercup because we got
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  Speaker 2: a show to do today we.
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  Speaker 1: Do have a show um we well i saw that
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  Speaker 1: you posted about earl meets world yeah and we started
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  Speaker 1: as well i think we're on episode.
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  Speaker 2: Four i think i'm on like six.
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  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on them? Well, did you know
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  Speaker 1: about their family before?
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  Speaker 2: Zero. Zero. So I came in blind. I follow Alex Earl,
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  Speaker 2: but like barely. Like when I tell you I see
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  Speaker 2: maybe I've seen how many videos does she post a day?
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  Speaker 2: A lot. Yeah. I've seen like 10 to 20 videos
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  Speaker 2: of hers in my life. Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: She's not in my algorithm. So I don't, but I
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  Speaker 2: like know of her and like, I think she's cute
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  Speaker 2: and fun and whatever, but like, I don't know her
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  Speaker 2: family dynamic. I don't know. Like, I didn't know anything.
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  Speaker 2: So I went in like super blind.
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  Speaker 1: Whoa. So what are your initial thoughts?
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  Speaker 2: Um, my initial thoughts were, I, I loved seeing a
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  Speaker 2: blended family, like really blend and do it. So well,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like, obviously I know that they have issues
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  Speaker 2: and they like talk them through, but like seeing them
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  Speaker 2: all at the dinner table. Seeing so Alex Earl has
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  Speaker 2: her sister's Ashton. The two of them have a mom
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  Speaker 2: named Alyssa. And then they have other siblings with their
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  Speaker 2: stepmom and their dad. They have three kids. So they
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  Speaker 2: have like blended kids, blended parents. They're all having dinner together.
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  Speaker 2: Their mom, Alyssa, has like a beautiful relationship with their
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  Speaker 2: half siblings.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I just thought I just to me, like, I just
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  Speaker 2: think that that's so cool. And I thought that was awesome.
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  Speaker 2: So it's cool for me to see that. I also
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  Speaker 2: had no idea that Alex had a sister that she
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  Speaker 2: was best friends with. I think she's like so cool
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  Speaker 2: and so cute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I think that their relationships with their siblings is
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  Speaker 2: just like, I don't know. I just really enjoy their
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  Speaker 2: family dynamic.
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  Speaker 1: So I just following Alex know, you know, the dynamic
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  Speaker 1: of their family and everything. But I was just blown
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  Speaker 1: away at the strength of their mom to go and
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  Speaker 1: have those dinners and sit there and be so involved.
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  Speaker 1: Because it wasn't like they just split up, the parents. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: He had an affair and married the woman he was with.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So the strength to show up and be a part,
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  Speaker 1: and when they made the comment about her going on
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  Speaker 1: The Golden Bachelor, I was like, no one needs to
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  Speaker 1: say anything that could even be taken out of context
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  Speaker 1: in a bad way.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. To her. Yes, correct. I... That also, I forget that.
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  Speaker 2: So I also wasn't familiar with like their stepmom. I
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  Speaker 2: might need somebody to look this up.
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  Speaker 1: She was an escort.
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  Speaker 2: Escort. Paid escort.
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  Speaker 1: For a politician. She was in the news. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. And. Mark's nodding like he knows the story.
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  Speaker 3: I remember the story. Oh, you do? The Spencer story.
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  Speaker 1: No, I remember it too.
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  Speaker 2: I like vaguely remember. And I actually have been meaning
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  Speaker 2: to since I've been watching the show to freshen up
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  Speaker 2: on like her details. Um, so I, again, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: so familiar with her, but I did know that she
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  Speaker 2: had an affair with the dad.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Um, which is crazy. But I think when you're, when
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  Speaker 2: you have kids, you put your kids, you should put
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  Speaker 2: your kids wellbeing above your own, um, uncomfortableness and I
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  Speaker 2: think also too like they said it was uncomfortable for
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  Speaker 2: a little bit and then it became less uncomfortable and
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  Speaker 2: then less uncomfortable and now they have like an actual
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  Speaker 2: relationship which is like so yeah beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Well it takes every single person well all the adults
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  Speaker 1: to say okay let's let's prioritize making sure the kids
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  Speaker 1: are at uncomfortable you know yeah and make the adults
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  Speaker 1: step up yeah but still I was like well totally
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  Speaker 1: Really a lot of strength.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of strength.
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 2: She's a hero. But I like the stepmom too. And
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  Speaker 2: I think because I am a stepmom, I like when
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  Speaker 2: she was saying that it was like really hard for
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  Speaker 2: her in the beginning, like the girls would like put
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  Speaker 2: toothpaste in her shoes and stuff. I'm like, that's so crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Like I could not imagine. I did not have that situation.
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  Speaker 2: And that would be really tough.
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  Speaker 1: And I almost feel like. The dynamic of having two
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  Speaker 1: teenage girls or young girls who have strong personalities would
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  Speaker 1: be really challenging as a woman to come into that situation.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: As opposed to you have boy step sons who are
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  Speaker 1: so sweet and like chill.
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  Speaker 2: So cute. Like literally, I could not imagine if they
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  Speaker 2: like had done anything like that. It would have sent me.
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  Speaker 1: What would you have done if they put toothpaste in
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  Speaker 1: your shoes?
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, it would have made me so, it would make
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  Speaker 2: me spiral. I don't know if I could handle, I
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  Speaker 2: don't even think I have the, because there's challenges that
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  Speaker 2: come with all of this. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: But the kids were not ever a part of that.
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  Speaker 2: Like they were always like so sweet to me.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Yeah. I know those.
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  Speaker 2: When they said that, when she said that they put
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  Speaker 2: toothpaste in her shoes, I was like, dang.
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  Speaker 1: I'm seeing all these Kardashian comparisons where they're saying Alex
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  Speaker 1: is Kim. Ashton is kind of a mix of Khloe
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  Speaker 1: and Kourtney. And then the two younger girls are.
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  Speaker 2: Kylie and Kendall.
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  Speaker 1: And then the dad is Kris.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that. That's a pretty good comparison. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I actually feel like, I think it's hard with
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  Speaker 1: reality TV now because I do think when it was
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  Speaker 1: the hills and Laguna Beach and there it didn't feel
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  Speaker 1: so produced and staged. And I feel like it's been
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  Speaker 1: hard for reality TV to get back to that where
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  Speaker 1: you don't feel like everything's set up. In the first
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  Speaker 1: few episodes, I could feel that everyone's adjusting to having
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  Speaker 1: cameras around, you know?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, really? See, to me, it felt like they were
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  Speaker 2: just living their lives and like the cameras were there.
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  Speaker 2: Aside from the one they're like, can I pull you
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  Speaker 2: for a chat? I'm like, okay. This conversation needed to
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  Speaker 2: happen on camera. Right. But I'm fine with it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Have you gotten, do they talk about the Alex
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  Speaker 1: Cooper stuff at all?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Have you gotten to that? I haven't gotten in that yet.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, they talked loosely about.
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  Speaker 2: That's it. Oh.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's all you get.
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  Speaker 1: But did it, I don't know if I missed a part,
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  Speaker 1: did it show where Alex Cooper called Alex out?
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  Speaker 2: They didn't show it? I don't even think that they can.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's happened yet.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, really? Because it happened at Coachella. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: think Coachella's happened yet, depending on what season you're on.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay. Okay, then maybe I still have it to come,
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  Speaker 2: which is exciting. They did mention it briefly, like within
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  Speaker 2: the first episode or two.
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  Speaker 1: About her doing the podcast, starting the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. So I saw that, but
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  Speaker 2: I haven't seen anything else. Oh, I'm excited.
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  Speaker 1: And then a lot of people are like, I just
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  Speaker 1: feel like this whole thing is about Braxton. And it's
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  Speaker 1: interesting because when someone's dating someone and they're famous on
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  Speaker 1: social media, so many people, that's all they do care
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  Speaker 1: about is their relationships. And then, of course, they break
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  Speaker 1: up and she's navigating. We're watching her go through the breakup.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And people are like, all she's talking about is Braxton.
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  Speaker 1: But that is what happens.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, when you go through a breakup, that's all you
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  Speaker 2: talk about. But I also think I never realized about
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  Speaker 2: her that she's like a serial dater. Like, she's never
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  Speaker 2: been alone.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know that either.
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  Speaker 2: Which is also, like, that's probably why it's so hard
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  Speaker 2: for her to go through all these big life moments
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  Speaker 2: and not have a partner to, like, you know, bounce
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  Speaker 2: off of or support her. So it's probably, like, even
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  Speaker 2: more traumatic. And also filming a reality show is probably...
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  Speaker 2: just crazy in and of itself.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: I know. Yeah. But I, I like, I am an
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  Speaker 1: Alex Earl fan and I feel like they've, everything they've
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  Speaker 1: done has felt very well thought out.
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  Speaker 2: I'm much more of an Alex Earl fan than I
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  Speaker 2: was ever before. Um, I also was very disappointed in
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  Speaker 2: all the Alex Cooper stuff. I never really realized that
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  Speaker 2: Alex Earl looked up to Alex Cooper because And she
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  Speaker 2: was like a role model to her. And just like the,
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  Speaker 2: I get it that Alex Cooper's podcast is like a
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  Speaker 2: sex podcast and they ask uncomfortable questions. But like when
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  Speaker 2: you have a girl that's like 10 years younger than
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  Speaker 2: you asking you if you can edit out where she's
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  Speaker 2: like talking about her favorite sex position or like whatever
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  Speaker 2: it is and you say no, like it just, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. It's not giving modern woman energy. Like it
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  Speaker 2: just didn't feel like if you're seasoned in this industry,
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  Speaker 2: like you should be helping the younger generation or like
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  Speaker 2: not even, I don't know how to explain it. It just,
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't even, she wasn't even not helping. She was
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  Speaker 2: like using her and, um, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I think it's, I think as podcast hosts, even
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  Speaker 1: when if we say something and we're like, hey, can
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  Speaker 1: we edit that out? I don't I don't think I
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  Speaker 1: want that out there. If a guest comes on and
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  Speaker 1: they want something edited out, we would never be like, no, literally,
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  Speaker 1: you know, can you imagine? No, there's been so many
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  Speaker 1: times where, you know, there's been things that it's like, well,
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  Speaker 1: can you cut that? Yeah, of course.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Also, like people don't know when they're a guest. She
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  Speaker 2: didn't have her own podcast at the time.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: A guest, you're put on the spot. Like, sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: say things that you don't necessarily want to. You get nervous.
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  Speaker 1: But I also think Alex Cooper, that's why she's so
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  Speaker 1: good at what she does, because she makes people feel
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  Speaker 1: comfortable enough to just talk freely. But as a guest...
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  Speaker 1: you talk freely and then you leave the comfort of
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  Speaker 1: that room and you're like, what did I just talk about?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's going to be broadcast to millions of people. It's,
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  Speaker 1: it's a vulnerable place.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, I think that they both just should
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  Speaker 1: have never gotten into a working relationship together personally.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, I don't know. That whole thing just
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  Speaker 2: made me, um, really sad. Um, Cause I too, I
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  Speaker 2: think looked up to Alex Cooper for a really long time.
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  Speaker 2: And then I started like seeing all these tech talks
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  Speaker 2: and stuff about like Alex Cooper's only time giving back
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  Speaker 2: has been this like baby registry thing that she's been
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  Speaker 2: doing now. But everybody's saying that she's just doing it
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  Speaker 2: to like mask all the noise, all the hate that's
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  Speaker 2: happening online about her. And I'm like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: It's just making me like sad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. That's the only time she's given back, you're saying? Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like, Alex Earle, when she started getting famous, she did, like,
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  Speaker 2: a lot to give back to, like, the community and stuff. And, like,
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  Speaker 2: they were saying how Alex Cooper, this is, like, the
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  Speaker 2: first thing that she's done now with the baby registries.
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  Speaker 1: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: And it's just to, like, mask all this noise.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's just one of those things where it's,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the need to pick a side. Or you
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  Speaker 1: can just say they're both... They both are humans and flawed.
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  Speaker 1: And I think maybe... I agree. I think Alex Cooper did.
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  Speaker 1: She could have gone about how she handled Alex's podcast
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  Speaker 1: episode and what she shared. She could have handled that
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  Speaker 1: differently just to set an example. And she didn't. She
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  Speaker 1: chose to probably have a more popular and talked about
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  Speaker 1: podcast episode. And I don't think either of them are bad.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's like a bad person situation. I
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  Speaker 1: just think how you sometimes you make decisions that don't
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  Speaker 1: set a good example. That's my opinion. I just think
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  Speaker 1: there's like a... The internet for me, it bugs me
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  Speaker 1: because it's such a dog pile. Everything's just like an
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  Speaker 1: extreme dog pile reaction. One person says this, the other
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  Speaker 1: person says this. Someone picks a side and you just
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  Speaker 1: get bashed. And I don't think it's always that black
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  Speaker 1: and white.
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  Speaker 2: I agree with you. I don't think it's that black
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  Speaker 2: and white. But seeing a little bit more... of it
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  Speaker 2: and just understanding this industry, I'm disappointed in the way
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  Speaker 2: Alex Cooper handled all of this.
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  Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying, I don't know if, if
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  Speaker 1: Alex Cooper did a reality show and told her side,
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  Speaker 1: if it would be, different. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: Well, maybe she should.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe she will.
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  Speaker 2: She should, honestly, because you're right. Like if she explained
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  Speaker 2: her side, I maybe I would see it a little
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  Speaker 2: bit more clearly. But like right now, I'm definitely team
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  Speaker 2: Alex Earl.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's just how life is, though. You hear
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  Speaker 1: one version of a story and And then you hear
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  Speaker 1: it from another side and it's like, both people can
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  Speaker 1: have their truth. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: But then there are some stories you hear from one
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  Speaker 2: side and the other, and you're still very much like, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So it's not always gray. There is some black and
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  Speaker 2: white out there.
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  Speaker 1: There are, there are, there is good and there is wrong.
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  Speaker 1: There is right. And there is wrong. Correct.
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  Speaker 2: Um, also like the dad kind of gives me like
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  Speaker 2: weird vibes. I'm not going to lie. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 2: get he's the dadager and like cute, but I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: Well, like, Like, talking about her boob job and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Like, I'm just not, like, can
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  Speaker 2: we not with, like, that? You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like, I'm all about the mom, the stepmom, all
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  Speaker 2: the kids, but the dad was giving me weird vibes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited to finish it.
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  Speaker 2: Me too. I'm ready for a season two.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, wow. Well, give the people some time to live,
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  Speaker 1: to film and live. Are we going to watch Dancing
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  Speaker 1: with the Stars this year?
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  Speaker 2: We are going to watch Dancing with the Stars this year.
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  Speaker 1: I watched it last year.
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  Speaker 2: I watched clips.
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  Speaker 1: But you're going to sit down and watch episodes?
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  Speaker 2: I think so. Whoa. Because we've got a horse in
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  Speaker 2: the race.
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  Speaker 1: Who?
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  Speaker 2: Ezra Frech.
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  Speaker 1: How?
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  Speaker 2: Paralympian.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. That's so cool. Who's his partner again?
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  Speaker 2: Daniela.
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  Speaker 1: She's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So are y'all going to do like family viewing parties?
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  Speaker 2: On Tuesday nights? Tuesdays are tough. Taco Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh. Perfect.
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  Speaker 2: How am I going to watch?
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  Speaker 1: Well, you can do tacos.
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  Speaker 2: And then after.
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  Speaker 1: Or what? You could put it on outside or something.
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  Speaker 1: Get a blow-up screen. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because I need another task.
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  Speaker 1: A blow-up screen. Okay. So you're rooting for Ezra and Daniela.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. What about you? Oh, and Maura and Mark.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. You're really torn there.
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  Speaker 2: I am torn. It's a good cast.
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  Speaker 1: It's a great cast. I'm really excited. There's some really good, like,
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  Speaker 1: already good dancers on there. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like, Harry Shum Jr. is, like, a legit dancer.
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  Speaker 1: So is Jenna Dewan. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Those two, it's like dancing with the pro and the pro.
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  Speaker 1: I know. And I also feel like Jenna being with
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  Speaker 1: Val is crazy. Val is crazy.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy, but maybe they felt bad because like last year,
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  Speaker 2: a lot of people were saying he was robbed. Like
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  Speaker 2: Alex Earl and him should have won. So they're like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: we'll give you a really good partner so you can
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  Speaker 2: win this year. They're going to win it.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Alex's follow. I mean, it's all kind
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  Speaker 1: of based on the public and people's followings and their fans, right? No,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, Alex had one of the biggest, has one
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  Speaker 1: of the biggest fandoms out there.
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  Speaker 2: She didn't win.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: I know, but Robert Irwin has a bigger fan.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: He does not.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. He's like global.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know what that means.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: He's international. Oh. He's internationally loved. Globally loved.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: Is he, though?
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: I had never heard of him until Dancing with the Stars.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: Tanya, what?
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: I knew his dad.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: But you didn't know Bendy or Robert?
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Nope.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Wow. What's it like under that rock?
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: It's quite nice. You should try it over here.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: I would love to.
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: But I know the rest of the cast.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, so you're going Maura and.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: Maura and Mark or Ezra and Daniela.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: What about you?
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Who else is out there?
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Well, I'm just thinking of the people. It's a big cast.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: It's 18 people, I think.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: I know. That's large.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: Hold on.
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: I am excited.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: Jenna Johnson and Harry Shum.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I am excited to watch Val and Jenna dance. And
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I also think the judges are going to be very
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: hard on her. So I think she might have a
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: slight disadvantage because I think their standards for her are
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: going to be very high. Don't you agree?
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: Sierra Miller. And I'm just going to name the celebrities
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: because I'm not sure of all the partner pairings.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Brandon Armstrong is with Sierra.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: Sarah Jane Nader.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: I'm excited to watch them too. The girl Haley and
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Sarah Jane duo. I'm very excited about that.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: Julia Stiles.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Very excited about Julia Stiles.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: Tatiana Ali.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Very excited.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Tyler Cameron.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: He'll be great.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: The guy from Hanson Brothers.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Taylor.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Taylor Hanson. Is it Taylor Hanson? Yeah.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: Guillermo.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Very excited to watch Whitney and Guillermo.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: Uh-huh. Giada De Laurentiis.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: She's a chef.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: And there's some others.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: Okay. There's some others, she says. Well, I think it's
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: going to be a great season.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Jackson Olsen from the Savannah Bananas. Oh, yes.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: And his partner is Emma. And I love Emma. I
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: would love to watch Emma win.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, and Conor Lievitt. Leave it. Oh, yeah.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: That's Whitney's husband.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: Well, it's stacked. I think they're stacked.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Very stacked.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: And I think the standards are going to be really high.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: And I kind of feel like Guillermo is really at
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: a disadvantage for this season.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Because I think all these people have enough rhythm to learn.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: And I think normally there's more of a cast where
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: it's kind of split half and half where people have
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: good rhythm already and they just need the technical lessons.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: And then I think there's half that are not as
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: skilled in their rhythm. And I unfortunately think most of
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: the cast this season is, has rhythm and they can
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: do TikTok dances and stuff. And I think, you know,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: just doesn't have it, but if anyone can do it,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: bring it out. It's Whitney Carson.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: And I love that she's pregnant and dancing. Like that's
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: going to be so didn't think about that. you won't
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: even know i know but i do love that she's
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: gonna be working and displaying her body being pregnant like
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: i think that's like such a beautiful thing yeah you
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: know and i i don't know i just think it's
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: gonna be really cool is.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: That we don't know if you'll make it to the
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: final finale but we're.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: Happy to have you but we're gonna watch you dance
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: i love her.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: So much me too um shall we get into some
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: dear banias uh.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: I think we should take a break and then come
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: back okay okay We are B-A-C-K for the B-A-N-Y-A.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: Whoa, oh my gosh.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Wow, we're back.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Yep. So we have a.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Couple of dear Banias together. into, shall we?
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh, wait. Mark can't read. Mark's voice is still out.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: So which one do you want to start?
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Which one do we want to start with? The
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: fun one? Oh, yeah.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: The episode titles? The Snapchatting?
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: The episode titles?
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: It's just like not so rough. Okay. Friends episode titles
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: from Julie. Like you, I am a diehard Friends fan
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: and I am. Thanks, Julie.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Julie.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: I have thought about this so many times, but I
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: think I thought about it around your like five or
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: six of the podcast. And then I was like, we're
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: so far gone that we can't go back for like
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: five years and retitle all of our episodes. But I
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: thought about the idea of the one with or the
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: one where is like so perfect for Not coming up
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: with anything super like, it doesn't need to be anything
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: super crazy. It's just like the one where Becca gets engaged.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: The one where Tanya farts at the nail salon. The
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: one where we got nominated for a People's Choice Award.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: The one where... We have nine years and I can't
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: think of any other stories. The one where Tanya meets
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: someone in Whole Foods.
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: The one with Whole Foods guy.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: The one with what was the guy's name or what
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: was the what was the nickname of the butterfly? No. Oh,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: my God. So I always forget about him.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: And he he left. He did a number on.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: He left a mark. He really left a mark. But
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: I always forget about a big mark on this.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: We know where he is these days.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: I think he's married with kids. I know. I know
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: he's married and I definitely know he has a kid.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: I don't know if multiple.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: I'm shook.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Well, he didn't seem like he was looking for that.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: No, he was looking for that. He just was a
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: couple steps behind me.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: I see.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: I see.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: And then what was the name of the guy who
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: came out and stayed with you? Oh, my God. Dr.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Screen time.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: The one where I got the ick.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: You getting the ick was crazy.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Crazy. I was obsessed with this guy for like three months,
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: FaceTiming every single day, like literally obsessed with this guy.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: He comes to stay with me in my apartment for
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: five days. By day four, I was so icked out.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: I didn't even want to get in bed the last night,
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: just like sleep in my own. I made Becca, remember
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: I made you go to dinner with me? And then, remember?
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we did a long walk because you didn't want
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: to go home.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah. how sad is that? I know. And I didn't
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: like want to kick him out. All involved. Really, really sad.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: And then it was like his last night and he
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: was out getting drinks with a friend. He was like,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: do you and Becca want to meet, meet us? We're,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: you know, like literally we're there like two minutes from
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: my apartment. I was like, no, we're on the other
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: side of town. Late night for me.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I literally thought you were going to say we wouldn't
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: met up. And I was like, I have no memory
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: of this.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: We did not.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, we're on the other side of town.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Whoa.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: I don't even know. Oh, I do remember what I think. Yeah.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: What ended it?
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: That probably.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: No, but what I'm saying is like, it's so crazy.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: You'd think physical is such like an important aspect. And
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: I thought because we had so much chemistry and there
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: was like so much attraction and so much like that,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: that once I saw him, it was just going to
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: be like, Electric. Hearts on fire. You know what I mean?
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: And it just was so not the case.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Wait, but the chemistry and physical attraction was just via
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: screen time?
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: And then when you saw each other, there was just nothing?
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: We met once before. So I met him once at IRL.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: And then it was, yeah. But like, you know when
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: you're flirting and like, you're like, oh, you know, like.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: If I could just get my hands on you.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it was crazy.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Was it a pheromone thing?
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: No, I don't think so, because I don't remember the smell.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: It was crazy. I've never been icked out that much, like,
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: that quick, too. It was quick. It was like a quick,
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: it was like.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: It was instant. Instant. Wish him the best.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, truly.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we had a lot of, it could have been
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: fun to do that name, but it also.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: It was so fun.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: It's already been done, so I wonder if we could
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: have done a twist on it.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Nah.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Too much work.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Well, you can't do a twist on that. How do
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: you do a twist on that? I'm just saying, like,
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: where it's... It's the uno wear?
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: No. No. Maybe, like, that time when something, you know
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Oh. The scrub wear.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Maybe for our 10th year. I got Haley riled up
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: about Mark. This is on you because you remember how
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: we were talking about how, when you have a birthday,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: when you have a birthday, you're celebrating that number of
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: years that you've. Oh, you know what I'm saying? Like
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I'm turning 38, but I'm, when I turned 38, I'm
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: it's I'm, I'm celebrating that I've had 38 years alive
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: and I'm starting my 39th year.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: Correct.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Don't go there with me right now. Don't. Go there
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: with me right now.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: But it's not. It doesn't change what's happening. It does.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: No, it literally does.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Yes, it does. When you're looking at eggs and follicles,
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: there is a big difference between 39 and 40.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: I know, but you're not.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: That doesn't change. You're not 40. You're 39. But you
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: are enjoying your 40th year on this planet.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: Haley got so mad and she's like, stop talking about it.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, but it doesn't change what it is.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: And she goes, but I'm not 36 yet. And I go, no,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: but you're in your 36th year. Like when we get
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: to the next birthday, you'll be celebrating your 36th year.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: But that's been your whole life.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: I'm with Haley on this one. You two can.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Go celebrate elsewhere. When you're six weeks old, you're in
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: your first year of life. You're not one.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Maybe you were. I don't know what you were doing
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: in your sixth week of life.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: But you were six weeks to years old.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Exactly.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Haley said the other day she was seven months to
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: years old. And I go, so she was seven months?
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: She goes, yeah, seven months to years old. And I go,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: she's not a year though. She hasn't had a year.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of conversations about dates and times over there. Yeah.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: But thanks for bringing that up. Way to kick a
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: girl and kick a gal when she's down.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to kick a girl when she's down.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I was bringing it up about Haley. But I'm sorry
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: for just talking about the truth. Life. Do you want
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: to talk about husband Snapchatting another woman from Anonymous?
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I'll read it.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: Needing advice, please. I just got married three weeks ago.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: We've been together over six years. Last weekend, a day
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: before we left for our honeymoon, I found out he's
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: been Snapchatting a girl he worked with in the past
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: and was deleting the messages. But she was his number
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: one best friend. Huh?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: What does that mean?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Like on Snapchat, his number one... Probably the person he
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: talks to the most. Ew. He seems remorseful and says
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: he'll do whatever it takes to get my trust back,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: but I'm having such a hard time getting over it.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: This is supposed to be the happiest time of our life,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and I feel like it's all tainted now. He says
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: he never physically or emotionally cheated, which I believe, but
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: it still feels so disrespectful and dishonest. Please give me
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: advice on how I can move on and get past
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: this three weeks into our marriage.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: I personally... When you, when he, she says Snapchatting a girl,
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: what does that mean? Like sending her pictures or like
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: inappropriate pictures, sexual innuendos. No, no. You can just like text. No,
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: but yes, it is pictures. But like I sent Robbie
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: and I sent pictures back and forth with like the weird,
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: ugly filters and like have a filter of a man.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: I'm like, do you know what I mean?
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Like, why is he doing that with another woman?
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: Is this someone that he just met on Snapchat?
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: No, it's someone he used to work with in the past.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: And he was deleting the messages.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: Was he deleting the messages or did they just go
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: away on Snapchat?
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: They just go away. They just go away on Snapchat.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: I hate Snapchat.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I fear that we're all a little too elderly
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: to be giving advice on.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: In our 40th year.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: In our 40th years giving advice on Snapchat. However, we're
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: going to give our advice based on our assumption of
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Snapchat heretofore.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I think that if he... She didn't say how she
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: found out. She just said, I found out. But she
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: didn't say, like, did she go through his phone and
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: see it? Did he tell her?
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, there's a difference.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: There is a difference. Because if you found it without
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: him telling you or showing you, then I definitely... feel
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: like you should be having deeper conversations about his character
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: and what else he's not honest about.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: And were these just Snapchats or did it cross over
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: into a physical? I'm assuming it didn't cross over into
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: a physical affair. This was just like a Snapchat affair.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: So here's the thing. You need to decide if this,
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: because you're married now, that's a different level of commitment.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: You need to decide if this is something that you
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: are willing to move on from.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: If this is something that you are able to move
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: on from, meaning like stay in this relationship.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Thank you for clarifying what that means.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: This isn't something that you can hold over his head
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: and like you have to just get back into the relationship.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: And like, because I do think if you keep bringing
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: this back in and you keep saying blah, blah, blah,
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: it's going to wear and tear on your relationship. And
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: over the next however long, it's going to end up
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: breaking you guys up. You have to make a clear decision.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Are you going to forgive him or are you not?
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Well, I think she needs to get all the information.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I think she needs to say what kind of photos
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: were you sent? What kind of all these messages that
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: are deleted? If she's your top friend, what were you
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: sending to each other? And if he can't be honest
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: about that, then I think you do need to decide
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: if this is the person you want to spend your
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: life with, because that sounds like a horrible existence, being
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: with someone that you have to wonder if they're lying
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: to you about things.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Yes, and I do think it makes a difference if...
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: He came to you and said, but it doesn't sound
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: like that's what happened.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. Best friend on Snapchat,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: not that I know much about Snapchat anymore, but they
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: haven't just been talking for three weeks. This has been
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: going on before he married you. So I think you
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: need to have him tell you the truth. Maybe go
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: to couples therapy and have a third party who can
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: navigate this with you because... Three weeks is new and
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: it's fresh and this should be the happiest time of
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: your life. But it's also you have the rest of
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: your life. And this might not be the person you
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: need to be spending it with.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And think about it. If you're going to be
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: questioning everything that he's doing, if you're going to be
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: worrying about it, like that's not the life you want
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: to live.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: But if that's what you choose.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: If that's what you choose, you have to get past it,
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: and you can't just keep this in the back of
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: your head because it will eat at you.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to be miserable for both of you. Yeah.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: So I think you just need to get the truth
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: and then move from there. Yeah. I'm really sorry.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: I'm really sorry.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: That's social media. I love social media, but also it's just.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: No, it's not social media. It's her dude. Okay, let's
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: not blame social media for her husband.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying. The access people have on social media
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: gives people a chance to be the sneakiest little liars.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: I don't blame social media. I blame the man.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: I don't blame social media.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Blame the man. Not the AI.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Not all men, but always a man. Always. Respectfully, Mark. Yeah,
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: not you, Mark, because you're quiet. You can't even speak
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: right now. Just how we like.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: It.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, we're going to play the game because Tanya is
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: on a high from winning against Robbie last week.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I don't really want to play the game because I'm
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: on such a high from winning. I didn't just win.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: I demolished last week.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Did Robbie think it was going to be easy? Did
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: he think he was going to win?
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: Yes. And he actually felt for me. He's like, it's
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: very frustrating when you really have no idea. And I
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: was like, this is how I feel every single week.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: And then he thought I cheated. Or that we were
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: like in cahoots.
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: That's sad. That was not the case.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: He thought that for like a second.
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: I just tried to find two people that I knew
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: Robbie would know for sure. That was really my only
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: motivation for those games.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard to do.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we're going to take a break and we'll
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: be right back to start that game.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: We're back.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: All right, it's time.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: I'll let you go first since I won.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, I was going to let you go first.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, fine.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Are we doing... It's just like you ask all your
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: questions and I ask all mine?
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: No, I think we just ping pong.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: Am I a woman?
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Woman. Am I a man? Nope. Am I a singer?
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Yes. Am I an actress?
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: Am I.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Over 40.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: No.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Below 40.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Am I over 50?
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: Yes. Am I a current pop star?
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: Am I currently in a movie out right now?
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: No. So I'm a current pop star below 40. Am
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I married?
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Yes. Is that right? Yes?
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Double checking. Okay.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: So not very known married.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Am I?
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: Wait, hello? Mark's still checking.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Oh. No.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: I'm not married.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Am I a TV actress?
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: I am not married. Am I a TV actress?
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm not married, but you thought I was married.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: That's interesting. Why did you think I was married? Am
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: I over... Am I below 30?
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: No.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Have I won an Oscar? No.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, so this is where it gets tough because I'm
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: a woman singer between 30 and 40. Not married, but
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Becca thought I was married. And I'm a current pop star.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: Becca thought I was married. I'm not. Are we currently
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: playing Me on Kiss FM in Los Angeles?
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Yes. Am I white?
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: You are. Am I white? No. Not white.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Am I married to a celebrity? Yes.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, you are indeed. Do I sing a song named
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: called Folded?
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: No. Have I been in the industry my whole life?
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Yes. Okay.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: So currently playing me on Kiss FM in Los Angeles.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: Am I of Asian descent? No.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Oh. Am I a comedy actress? Yeah, yeah. Do you
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: know this person?
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Yes, very well. I've met this person. Oh, that's right.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Is this person like, would my dad know this person?
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I would think so. Really? I don't know Bronco's knowledge
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: of pop culture, but I think so.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: Is this person like famous enough to where my dad
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: would know?
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: I think so. Yes? Yeah, I would think so.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I just wrote my dad knows me.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: Do I have kids?
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, you sure do. I've met them as well.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Yes. Okay.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Does my name have three letters?
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: No. I mean, I guess. Yeah, it has three, but
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: it has more than three.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Just three letters. Oh, no, no, no.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: So I'm not SZA.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: They're very funny. Are my kids in the industry? No.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Is my last name a one letter? No.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Was I on a hit TV show?
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: Major.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: Is my name have four letters? No.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Am I on a drama hit show?
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: Define drama. Mark, look it up.
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: Well, are you saying currently?
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah. No.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: No.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: Very frustrating.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: I'm in the same boat.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: I'm... My brain.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: Yours is very easy.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I got one brain cell firing off right now.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Yours is very easy. Really? Yeah. Easier than, I'm sure, mine.
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: I disagree, but I'm neutral.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm a singer. I'm a woman singer, but...
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: Between 30 and 40, current pop star. I'm not married.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: I'm not white. I'm not Kehlani. I'm not Asian. My
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: dad knows me. I'm not SZA. I'm not Carol G.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: And I'm not Tyler.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: My dad knows me. So funny.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: That's where I'm at right now. Can I get a hint?
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: You can have any hint you want. You just have
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: to ask the right questions. You have a million questions
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: to ask.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Do I have more than one hit? Yes.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm a white woman actress. I'm over 50. I'm
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: not currently on TV, but I've been on a hit
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: TV show. I haven't won an Oscar. I'm married to
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: a celebrity. I'm a comedy actress, kind of. And I
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: have kids, but they're not in the industry. Am I blonde?
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah?
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: I think so.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say so, but....
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: That's confusing. Okay.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: She is not naturally blonde, but she has certainly been
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: blonde on screen.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: Sure.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Blonde, but not natural.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: Somebody help me!
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: Mark.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: Yes, Tanya.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Mark, it's me. What do you want to know?
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: Do we play this in the morning show? Do we
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: play me in the morning show?
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: He said yes.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Oh, no. Morning is different than nighttime.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, fine.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes, we play me on the morning show.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: Okay. So I'm not a natural blonde, but I have
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: been blonde. And I'm married to a celebrity. And I've
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: been on a hit TV show. Am I younger than 70? Yes.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Have I opened up for Sabrina Carpenter on tour before?
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: No.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh. Not Raven Linnaeus.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Younger than 70, older than 50. I have kids. I'm married.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: I'm blonde. Was my hit TV show in the early 2000s?
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: Yes. Oh, my gosh. Does my name have a double,
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: the same letter in the first name and the last name? Oh,
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: my gosh.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Was I in 90210?
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: No. I need a hint.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: The hint is the game.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: What else is there to ask? Have I been to
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: my own concert before? Have I been to her concert?
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I would think so, but don't be
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: looking over there.
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: No, stop looking over there.
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: We don't know your life.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: You don't know my life.
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you've seen this person in concert.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, you don't know if I've seen me. That gives
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: me nothing. Thanks for that answer.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. I literally cannot think of.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: Oh, here we go.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: Oh, no, she's not older than 50. I can't even
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: think of. I can't think of.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: Yours is so easy.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Yours is so easy, too. Yours is so easy. Oh, really?
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: I think I might know who I am. I think
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: I might know who I am.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: As iconic as it gets, is that true? Yeah.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think I agree with that.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: Oh my God.
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: It's crazy.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: And you've met, I'm really, I think you meeting the
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: person has really thrown me off.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know because.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I've talked about it on the podcast.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: I know. That's what I'm thinking about.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: My experience with this icon. Yeah. You have a question
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: or can I go?
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Am I known for being friendly?
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Yes. Did I just celebrate a birthday?
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: Well, let's have a look.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: No. No.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: I mean, in the past year.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: No, like in the last two weeks.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Did I have a love interest that was iconic on
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: this show? Yes.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: Feels like you're getting warmer.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: Am I from Barbados?
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: All right, this is it.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: I just have to go for it.
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: You gotta go for it now.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: I'm over 50.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: This took me a whole page.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: Me too. I'm over 50.
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: If this is who I think it is, you've led
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: me down a dark path.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: If I.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Who is married? Not a natural blonde, but has been blonde.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: As iconic as it gets on TV.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: As iconic. Think about the most iconic show. Like iconic
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: show and the most iconic character from that show.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: What I consider to be the most iconic show?
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: And like worldly people is like the most iconic show.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Am I going to agree with that?
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: You will.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: The most iconic show.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Yes. Is what?
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Well, I think for me, it's Friends. Okay.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: What's next after that?
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Grey's Anatomy.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: And after that?
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: What would Easton say if he were here?
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Seinfeld?
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Just zip it now. We've given her
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: too much. No, no. We've given her way too much.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: Okay. You do yours.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: Am I Rihanna?
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Why did we leave you down the path?
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: She's not a current pop star.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: Look, I mean.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: She is not.
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: Hold on.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: Because my brain went to Kehlani. It went to SZA, Tyler,
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: King Panther.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: But if you ask the average human, they're going to
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: say it's a current pop star.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: She is a current billionaire.
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: She's not Backstreet Boys. She's Rihanna. She's iconic. She's currently iconic. Look, sorry.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: If we led you down a primrose path, we apologize.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, primrose is the path you led me down. Exactly, primrose.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Michaela agrees.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: Who am I?
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: My mind went to like.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: We still play her in the morning on Kiss.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Oh my God.
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: We played her this morning.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: I didn't know y'all played her this morning. I didn't
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: know y'all were playing her.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: So I went through all, like everything we play in
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: the morning and that's when I was like, there's just,
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: it's just not, it's just not... So then I went
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: not current. And then I went back in the room.
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: Don't stop the music at 620 this morning.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: So then I thought it was Beyonce.
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: We played only girl in the world at 755. So
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: then I.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: Went back to like old school music. And then I
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: thought I was Beyonce. And then when you said I
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: didn't have a birthday recently, I went to Rihanna.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: That's what I just need you to get. I'm not
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: telling you that.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: You're not telling me the TV show?
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: No, you have to guess it. What's the most iconic
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: show outside of Friends and Grey's Anatomy? Iconic in the 2000s.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: We loved them. We were them.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Sex and the City.
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Sarah Jessica Parker.
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Damn. That was crazy.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Crazy.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Crazy. Crazy.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: But I guess I never watched that show live. I
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: watched it after it was off the air. So I
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: think my brain was like thinking shows I used to
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: watch on like network TV.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: But that was painful.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I met her. I forgot. Yeah, you were like her handler.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: I was her handler and she was so sweet. And
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: at the end of the night, she asked if I
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: wanted to take a picture with her. And I said no,
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: because I was trying to be professional. I regret it
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: every single day.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: I still think that.
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: Well, it was not the right call. She offered. It's
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: not like I said, Hey, before you leave, can we
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: take a selfie? She literally offered. And I said, no,
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: thank you so much. Like just this memory is like
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: enough in my.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: Heart, which is probably so nice. But also if I
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: offered someone a photo and they're like, no, I.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Feel like, no, I didn't say no. Like I was
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: just like, no, thank you so much. Like, I love you.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: This was such a good treat. I'll remember it for like,
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: I didn't say just like, no, I was like very
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: like fangirling. She knew I loved her. So it wasn't
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: like I was, like a dick about it.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: But I regret it every day. I don't have many
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: regrets in life, but that's one of them.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: SJP, next time she'll take the selfie.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: And I think her kid was at Jingle Ball with her,
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: and he was a big fan of Sam Smith, and
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: I think I made that meeting happen.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Nice.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: Her son, who's probably like, what, like 15 now? I
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: don't even want to know.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: Oh, probably older.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: He was little.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: At the time.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: Crazy. Yeah, those are very good equally... He's 24.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: I was going to.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Say, that's crazy. He's 24.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: How old was he when I met him?
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: Well, that was like 10 years ago.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: No, way more than 10. It was like close to
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: 16 years ago.
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: He was born in 02.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Which does nothing for me.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: Well, but when you started, you started here in like 10, 11.
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: So it would have been around there, right?
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably like nine. Nine, yeah. That's tracked.
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: That's like.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah height wise that makes sense 24 um congrats two
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: weeks in a row.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: Two weeks in a row we should just call this
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: game tanya's game.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah we should call it next time we're gonna play
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: we're gonna say it's not who's guess the slot what
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: what was it who am i.
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: Who am i it's tanya's game tanya we're gonna play
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: tanya's game yeah sounds good it has a nice ring to.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: It We will be back on Monday.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Yes, we will.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: And we love you so much.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: Love you.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Bye. Bye.