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Did Abby Find a Plus One to Her Brother's Wedding?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best Music is nine and welcome to another
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  Speaker 1: episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered. There are some updates
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  Speaker 1: to get to today, and that's why I literally needed
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  Speaker 1: to get a cup of tea for the studio because
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  Speaker 1: I feel like we're all about to have a tea
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  Speaker 1: session just to come together moment because we need some updates.
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  Speaker 1: And I think the first thing we needed to address.
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  Speaker 2: Is you boy wait, first of all, huns your tea.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's hot right now, piping hot. It's delicious. But
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  Speaker 1: I feel like what you're about to serve up is
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  Speaker 1: going to be better.
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  Speaker 2: We're on boyfriend watch with me.
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  Speaker 1: It really is. It's like once a week. Okay, you
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  Speaker 1: know what, let me I always find the positive. The
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  Speaker 1: positive here is that there's been an increase in interest.
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  Speaker 2: There's been a four hundred percent increase in men asking
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  Speaker 2: me out, but a negative three hundred percent increase. And
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  Speaker 2: then following through.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of like I would say fishing,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm not a fisherman, but this has to be
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  Speaker 1: the equivalent of you throw your line in and then
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  Speaker 1: you get a and you're like, oh sweet, like there's
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  Speaker 1: fish here. Yeah, but you just can't never get that
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  Speaker 1: fish to the top of your pole. You can't get
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  Speaker 1: one in the boat.
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  Speaker 2: The fish doesn't want to have dinner with me.
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  Speaker 1: The fish doesn't want to be your dinner.
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  Speaker 2: So our coworker Alexia has this new whiteboard and studio,
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  Speaker 2: and I feel like I need to put on there
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  Speaker 2: days since we've heard from what we need a nickname
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  Speaker 2: for this guy that's not identifying.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's not identifying, I would say, I mean he
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  Speaker 1: does have great hair.
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  Speaker 2: Sales set up because of our friend in sales setting
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  Speaker 2: me up with this guy.
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  Speaker 1: The sales king, sales set up guy. Yeah, okay, sales
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  Speaker 1: set up guy.
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  Speaker 2: We should put on the whiteboard days since sales set
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  Speaker 2: up guys. Text to Abby because right now the counter
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  Speaker 2: would be one, two, three days, three days now almost
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  Speaker 2: three days. I guess by the time you're listening to
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  Speaker 2: this a little bit more than three days.
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  Speaker 1: And I was telling Abby because we're talking about this,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we have these meetings after work sometimes, and
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  Speaker 1: you know, we're supposed to be talking about serious like
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  Speaker 1: work stuff like how we're going to grow the show
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  Speaker 1: and numbers, and we're like, no, no, no, how many
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  Speaker 1: days has it been? Sindabi had to reply it with
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  Speaker 1: the reasons of why.
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  Speaker 2: It's been like Threeay, watch him actually be listening to this.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, how long can I drag this out? Will
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  Speaker 2: they keep talking about me? If I just don't text
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  Speaker 2: this girl?
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  Speaker 1: And I was saying, like he could just be really busy,
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  Speaker 1: And there are people like this now, I always say
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  Speaker 1: three days. There's a lot but that like are just
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  Speaker 1: horrible textures, And there's always that cliche if you're a
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  Speaker 1: horrible texture, then you're great in person.
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  Speaker 2: Well, there's a difference between being a horrible texture and
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  Speaker 2: an absent minded texture. And don't get me wrong, like
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  Speaker 2: I am the queen of an appse. I will open
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  Speaker 2: your text and then I will forget about it for
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  Speaker 2: three weeks, and that I will say that is my
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  Speaker 2: worst trade as a friend is I will open up
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  Speaker 2: your text and then want to respond to it later,
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  Speaker 2: so then I just forget about it.
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  Speaker 1: I do that now a lot as an adult, Like
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  Speaker 1: I'll go back and I have unread messages from like
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  Speaker 1: weeks ago, yeah, and I'm like, I'm so sorry, But
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  Speaker 1: if you're truly interested in someone, like, I'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 1: Like I have never missed a message from a lady.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I mean is when a guy's really
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  Speaker 2: into you, they're they're not playing games. They're responding to
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  Speaker 2: you immediately. They're not a count three hours to respond
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  Speaker 2: to you. And so I'm like, either this guy like
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  Speaker 2: just really does not care, or he has a horrible
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  Speaker 2: communication style, or let's.
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  Speaker 1: Go down worst case scenario when he's dead.
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  Speaker 2: He's dead, Hey, god, he's an actual ghost.
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  Speaker 1: No, he actually maybe I had a friend that asked
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  Speaker 1: this girl out, and like she literally gave him his
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  Speaker 1: number at the place that we were at. She was
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  Speaker 1: so excited to go on this date. He texted her,
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  Speaker 1: never got a reply. We all go to like the
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  Speaker 1: same like let's just call it a gym together, and
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  Speaker 1: so he finally gets the courage and just to ask her, like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: like what happened, and she's like, well, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: was out and I lost my phone, and then for
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  Speaker 1: some reason she had to throw in the extra anecdote
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  Speaker 1: of and on my backup phone I also lost, and
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  Speaker 1: we're like, we didn't even know you had two phones.
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  Speaker 2: He has a.
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  Speaker 1: Backup phone other than drug dealers, And that's why we
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  Speaker 1: were like, Okay, you could have just said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you weren't interested. You didn't have to give us this
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  Speaker 1: whole story that you lost both phones. But maybe he
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  Speaker 1: lost his phone here God, and he just hasn't needed
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  Speaker 1: one in three days.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I've gotten to the point where I'm
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  Speaker 2: bargaining with the universe where I'm like, you don't you
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  Speaker 2: know what? Maybe I don't be extraordinary. Maybe I don't
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  Speaker 2: need a husband. Maybe I don't need to love my life.
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  Speaker 2: Can I just have like a fling for like a
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  Speaker 2: month that.
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  Speaker 1: Was fun, something to spice things up, something to spice
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  Speaker 1: things on, to pay for a drink? I know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm really old, and it's been a really
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  Speaker 2: long time. It's been ninety nine years. Like the last
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  Speaker 2: time I had like an enjoyable romantic experience. I mean
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  Speaker 2: it's been a bit.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, hear me out. This is the home. Maybe I
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  Speaker 1: don't always like this method, uh huh. But what if
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  Speaker 1: you just follow it up on the past text?
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to I okay, you want to know why?
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  Speaker 1: It's it's giving desperate.
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  Speaker 2: It's giving desperate for one and it doesn't feel aligned
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  Speaker 2: with my spirit.
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  Speaker 1: It does, and you wouldn't want that anyway, even if
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  Speaker 1: it turned into something. You're like, really, you made me
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  Speaker 1: text twice?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, And I like a guy who has a strong
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  Speaker 2: sense of integrity and initiative, and this just feels like
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  Speaker 2: none of those things.
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  Speaker 1: And again, he could be I don't know what he
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  Speaker 1: does for work. He could be very busy with work.
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  Speaker 2: You know what he does for work?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, in his line of work, they do do
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  Speaker 1: long shifts, long long.
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  Speaker 2: Sh They also have long shifts off.
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  Speaker 1: That's true. Actually, gotta go to sleep. And what do
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  Speaker 1: we do before sleep? We scroll? You text, you have
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  Speaker 1: Instagram or anything.
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  Speaker 2: I think he just has a bunch of other girls
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  Speaker 2: in his phone, if I'm being honest with you, all
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  Speaker 2: these hoes, all these hoes, and I'm just I'm not
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  Speaker 2: interested in, I don't know, competing for some man's attention.
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  Speaker 2: And he is younger, so I'm like, I think I'm
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  Speaker 2: just playing with boy boyfire and I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 1: A man man fire. Yeah, man, that's gonna text me back,
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  Speaker 1: take me to their sapphire. Well, okay, I guess that's
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  Speaker 1: a dead cause. Then unless he gets back at the
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  Speaker 1: end of this week, which I don't think that's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 2: It is just comical. At this point, like how many
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  Speaker 2: times have I been asked out in the last month
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  Speaker 2: and they all just gope.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's like, honestly, it's impressive because it's been like
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  Speaker 1: four or five guys.
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  Speaker 2: This is like guy number four.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's amazing again, and that's my optimism. I'm like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I mean we're getting bites. We know the water is
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  Speaker 1: good as in Tampa Bay. Tampa Bay water is good.
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  Speaker 1: Now eventually you're gonna land one in the fish or
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  Speaker 1: in the boat, okay, you know, or going the right direction.
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  Speaker 1: These guys are just they're not the right fit. They're
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  Speaker 1: not the right fish. So we're also talking about hopefully.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if this did work out, it could have
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  Speaker 1: been a situation for the wedding that you're going to
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  Speaker 1: to bring them as a plus one.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I did tell my sister in law
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  Speaker 2: I was going to bring a plus one to the
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  Speaker 2: wedding because I had this whole thing in my head.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna be engaged by brother's wedding
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  Speaker 2: and I'm going to make it happen.
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  Speaker 1: I love the optimism. I love a good manifestation moment.
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  Speaker 2: Shoot for the moon. You might reach the stars.
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  Speaker 1: It's a hell of a shot though, because that was
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  Speaker 1: a year ago.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still on Earth, I do Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Tangent, I'm still on Earth. I do like those stories though,
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes it feels like what you got to engage
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  Speaker 1: within a year. I don't think that's crazy. You find
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  Speaker 1: the right person.
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  Speaker 2: I think when you know you know, and I think
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  Speaker 2: once I meet my person, it'll be a pretty quick engagement,
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  Speaker 2: not like a two month situation, but it'll be like
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  Speaker 2: it won't be much longer than a year.
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  Speaker 1: But do you think you would have to live with
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  Speaker 1: them first to really know?
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm a big believer in when you know, you know,
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  Speaker 2: you know what.
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  Speaker 1: I like that.
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  Speaker 2: Why ruin it with a don't responsibilities? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean it kind of gives you a sense
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  Speaker 1: of what they're like. But I think if they are
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  Speaker 1: truly the person like you will be able to handle
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  Speaker 1: living together.
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  Speaker 2: Controversial opinion. I think it's kind of lame to live
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  Speaker 2: with somebody before, like you get engaged and get married.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that is kind of controversial. Why it is.
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  Speaker 2: Controversial because I think it I think when you move
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  Speaker 2: in with someone, it's basically a marriage. Well, when you
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  Speaker 2: move out with someone it's literally divorce, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean, Like you have to think about what with
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  Speaker 2: furniture is yours, which furniture is mine? And you don't
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  Speaker 2: have a prenup for that, like you have no, It's it's.
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  Speaker 1: Going based off of like I hope we're on the
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  Speaker 1: same playing field and we're still good hearted people.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're essentially just raw dog and marriage. Like you're
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  Speaker 2: not married, but like you're essentially married.
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  Speaker 1: I mean a lot of us have done that. We've
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  Speaker 1: been in relationships, we've moved in together and the breakup.
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  Speaker 1: That is a huge part of what makes it hard.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you like don't want marriage or whatever, that's
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  Speaker 2: totally fine then just like no, you're getting into that
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  Speaker 2: level of commitment. But for me, I'm like, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: gonna move in with someone that I don't have legal
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  Speaker 2: protections against.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the intent is when you move and
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  Speaker 1: you have an idea that it might go that like
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  Speaker 1: that distance. Yeah, maybe's the might, that's true.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I mean. I don't fuck with might. I
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  Speaker 2: don't be fucking with night.
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  Speaker 1: But also the sad thing right now is it's also
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  Speaker 1: like for many people it's also a way to save money.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're together and you're like, we've been together
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  Speaker 1: for your let's just move in. But that also is
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  Speaker 1: where people decide like once they move in together. It's
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  Speaker 1: why it's good to do before mariage. You see, wait
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  Speaker 1: a second, now that we're together all the time, now
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  Speaker 1: that we have very different living styles, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: we could be together for life. Yeah, because it's easy
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  Speaker 1: when you have a little like okay, like we hang
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  Speaker 1: out every now and then, because then I efter hangout.
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  Speaker 1: It's kind of like a highlight. But then you get
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  Speaker 1: in those close quarters and you're like, wait, oh you're
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  Speaker 1: you're like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, But I think that thought process cheapens the importance
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  Speaker 2: of the relationship. Where if just because someone's a little messy,
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  Speaker 2: you think that's gonna like that's a deal breaker for you,
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  Speaker 2: then I think it doesn't incentivize you to work on
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  Speaker 2: that because there's things I can improve on as a roommate.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm a horrible roommate. I'm honest with you.
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  Speaker 2: I know that when I move in with someone there
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  Speaker 2: will be things I have to work What is.
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  Speaker 1: The thing that your future husband's gonna be like, Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, Abby again, I'm just messy.
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  Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, I think mess just doesn't really bother me. Well,
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  Speaker 2: not that it doesn't bother me, but it's the least
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  Speaker 2: of my priorities.
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  Speaker 1: That's valid.
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  Speaker 2: But I understand when I move in with someone, they
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  Speaker 2: it will need to be more of a priority.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll have to care about their space because now
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  Speaker 1: it's a shared space. Yes, and it could get on
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  Speaker 1: their nerves like it would for me. In a sense,
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  Speaker 1: it just depends as long as it's like taking care
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  Speaker 1: of equally, Like if we're both coming to the table
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  Speaker 1: of like, look, i know I'm messy, but I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna let you be the only one that's always picking up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think you just have to have those conversations.
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  Speaker 2: And I think that's why I'm I don't really take
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  Speaker 2: moving in with someone lightly. And it's not a judgment
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  Speaker 2: like if you live with someone you around my airship, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, shame on you. Centers, center center. It's
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  Speaker 2: more of like I think moving in with someone is
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  Speaker 2: it's literally like you're married. It is, I accept without
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  Speaker 2: the commitment for the rest of your life. But I
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  Speaker 2: think the responsibilities you should go into as serious as like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: this is someone who's a partner now, I think it
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  Speaker 2: that's the difference between just dating someone or being engaged
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  Speaker 2: to someone. When you move in with someone, that's really
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  Speaker 2: when you become someone's partner, and it.
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  Speaker 1: Is a very special moment. I will say, like, if
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  Speaker 1: that's the case, like it's something to look forward to
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  Speaker 1: as a married couple. I think for me, the equivalent
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  Speaker 1: is like buying a house together. Yeah, like we might
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  Speaker 1: live together beforehand, but then once we're married, it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: let's let's go truly build our life. Let's go find
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  Speaker 1: our dream home or at least our first starter dream home,
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  Speaker 1: and let's do it together. That to me, that gets
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  Speaker 1: me excited.
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  Speaker 2: I knew it's beautiful. And so for example, my brother
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  Speaker 2: and his fiance moved in together before they got engaged,
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  Speaker 2: but they were going towards engagement.
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  Speaker 1: That was gonna happen.
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  Speaker 2: They knew they were going to get engaged. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: could have something blown it up, sure, But my brother
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  Speaker 2: bought a house, he moved his fiance into it, and
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  Speaker 2: then they got engaged like a couple months later. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: so as long as well, I get that, But they
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  Speaker 2: were prepared to be partners they're like, Okay, we're we're
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  Speaker 2: prepared to do this. They knew.
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  Speaker 1: And that's very interesting because some people wait a long
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  Speaker 1: time till after marriage. Some people are like, I were together,
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  Speaker 1: let's move in right now, let's get together right now.
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  Speaker 2: But also, I think, just naturally, with the way a
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  Speaker 2: lot of relationships go, when you find that person, you're
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  Speaker 2: with them so much that it's kind of basically like
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  Speaker 2: you're living with them.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but also it could Yeah, but I see that
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  Speaker 1: that also could be a double edged sword, because if
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  Speaker 1: you're with each other all the time, that's where couples
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  Speaker 1: usually get so irritated with each other because you can't
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  Speaker 1: even feel like you could breathe anymore. You're always here,
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  Speaker 1: You're always in my space, and it's like I thought
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  Speaker 1: you loved me. Well, you still have to find that
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  Speaker 1: balance of your own friend group, your own activities, spending
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  Speaker 1: a little time without each other. Now that is not
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  Speaker 1: like this is what's cool about relationships. It's like, maybe
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  Speaker 1: that is your case, and you love it. You love
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  Speaker 1: doing everything with your partner.
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  Speaker 2: I think most people who are with the right person,
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  Speaker 2: at least in the first couple of years, feel that way. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: oh yeah, five years in Okay, different story, but which
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  Speaker 2: have kids. Different story. But I feel like the first
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  Speaker 2: couple of years, it's when you're like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with this person. I never want to be
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  Speaker 2: without this person, this greast person ever.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what are your thoughts about? I saw this get
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  Speaker 1: shared up on Instagram by me No. I saw a
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  Speaker 1: couple other people liked it, and it was the idea
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  Speaker 1: that your partner shouldn't be your best friend.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I did see this girl talking about it. It maybe
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  Speaker 2: kind of sad. If I'm honest with you, me too,
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  Speaker 2: because I'm like, God, if you're going to spend every
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  Speaker 2: day for the rest of your life with this person,
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  Speaker 2: I would kind of hope they're your best friend.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I thought. I was like, this is your partner, Like,
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  Speaker 1: this is the person that you lay in bed with
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  Speaker 1: and you share your deepest, darkest secrets, you share everything
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  Speaker 1: that's happening in your life, like I and again, you
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  Speaker 1: don't have to want that. But when I saw that,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, uh, like, I do want my partner
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  Speaker 1: to be my best friend. Like and when I get
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  Speaker 1: up there and say my vows, like I want to
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  Speaker 1: truly mean it to say like, no, you are my
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  Speaker 1: best friend. Like, yes, I have other best friends in
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  Speaker 1: my life, but like this is different. This is the
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  Speaker 1: person I literally want to live with and I want
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  Speaker 1: to die with. Like you make life truly worth living.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the bare minimum, they should be your best friend
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: kind of I thought too. So there's this specific niche
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: brand of woman that is almost so girl's girl that
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, now you're just not even really making
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: sense because I've seen girls on TikTok who are engaged
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: in getting married who and this is beautiful And maybe
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: because I have struggled with female friendships in the past
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: that maybe I just don't relate to it and that's
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: why I have this opinion. But they like it's almost
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: like they value their female friendships so much more that
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: they're like, oh, I don't even need my fiance. I
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: don't I like find so much more fulfillment in my
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: female friendships. I'm like, then, I don't know, why are
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: you getting married to this guy? Like why are you
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: even messing around with marriage if you're if you seem
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: to value your female friendship so much more, which is
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: beautiful and great, and like I'm so envious that you
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: have relationships that you care so much about that you
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: have this opinion, but it's almost sort of like they
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: pooh pooh on their their fiance. I'm like, dude, I'm like,
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: you know, you're gonna spend every day of your life
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: with this guy, like I would hope that you almost
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: like him a little bit more.
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: It's kind of sad because I don't feel like it
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: needs to be like an either or situation.
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: You need both.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: You do need both if it's gonna be your partner.
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: And that's again, we were just talking about this off
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: the air, Like I think a big thing, at least
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: for myself, is like I want that person that I'm
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: truly just so excited to be around, like a lot
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: of people, and it's sad, but like if you settle
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: and you're like, well, it's just good enough, and the
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: back of my head is like I knew there was
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: something there. I knew that there is this I don't know,
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: like the shine of there's that relationship that's going to
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: just knock your socks off. I know it's out there.
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: And then when you finally get a taste to be
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: like I.
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: Forging knew it, I believed in it.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: I'm glad I didn't listen to the na The naysayers
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: are like, oh, man, like what are you complaining about?
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: You got so much good stuff, And you're like, no, no, no, no.
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: I want to be in that relationship where it's like
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: you're truly excited to talk, you're excited to do things
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: together and build a life together, and you don't feel
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: like you have to hold anything back. That's exciting.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: Some people used to call me naive for that.
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: People call me naive for that.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's naive. Why would you hold yourself
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: back from something that could truly be that magical?
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: This is the frustrating you think about being as single
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: as long as I've been single, is you constantly and
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: any social gathering situation somehow get cornered into the conversation
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: of how your standards are too high or you're too picky,
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: or you're expecting perfection, And it's so condescending because I'm like,
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: why am I getting berated for having a standard for
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: my life or a high standard for my life? Because like,
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: the alternative is me being with some guy that I'm
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: just complaining about all the time. I'm like, would you
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: rather me be like oh, chasing fucking sucks.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I rather you go and just like be
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: patient and then if it doesn't really hit up to
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: the marks, it's like, Okay, that's fine, Like that's what
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: the things are for. Let that be a situation to
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: grow and learn from. But what I've learned is like
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: with every situation, what you should be doing is like
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: taking the qualities. And me and my buddy used to
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: talk about this all the time growing up. It's like
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: you're just taking the qualities that you like from all
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: these different people, and the goal is to find the
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: person that has all of them, and.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: Of course, or at least a majority of a majority
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: of them, there's no to like build a girlfriend out there, Yeah,
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: or maybe there is, maybe maybe Scott's really found the
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Holy Grail.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: Well then it's like, of course they're also going to
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: have flaws too, but it's like their flaws also make
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: them beautiful to you. Yeah, So you're like taking all
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: these qualities and you're like, oh, wow, I'm looking for
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: somebody that contains, like you said, a majority.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: Of them, or they're flaws that you can handle exactly,
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Can I ask you a question?
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Sure?
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: So, I don't know if other girls do this. This
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: is very college of me. But whenever I have a
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: small crush on someone or a big crush on someone,
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: I always look up their astrology to see if our
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: stars are aligned, because I really do think there's something
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: to the astrological bs that can tell you who's right
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: for you. Because every guy I've every dated, I'll put
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: my chart in and then his chart in, and I'll
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: be like, tell me what a relationship between would be like,
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: and it's always spot on. So I always am like, so,
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: what's this guy's birthday? And then I go do do do?
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: Do? Do? Do do?
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: I would really like to look up you and your
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: lady's astrology right now. Yeah I won't. I won't put
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: your birthdays or her birthday on blast?
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: But can we?
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: Can we do it?
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean I'm I already know what it's gonna say.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: But have you looked it up already?
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: No? I just know what do you mean? It's gonna
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: be good?
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Okay? Oh that's I love the confidence. Okay, first I
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: need I'm not going to cut this out. By the way,
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: what is your birthday time in your location? Like, where
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: were you born? What time?
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: And what day I was born? October eighteenth, nineteen ninety six.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, and do you know what at least her birthday is.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I believe it's like, see I got this wrong though
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: that I think I have it in my notes. I
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: think it's July twenty first.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, as long as it's like within a day or two.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, you're ready. I'm ready.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: So you're a Libra. I think she's a cancer.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Dated a cancer once. Ever, again he was too emotional
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: for me.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: I think she's on the cusp. She's like a spur. Yeah.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: See, I'm a cusper too.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Oh then that's a good thing.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, you literally knew because that's the
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: first thing that Chatchibichi just said. So you're a Libra.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: And then it said she's a cancer right on the
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: cancer leo cusp, but still cancer. So this is a
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: air and water pairing.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: This pairing tends to feel deeply romantic at first, emotionally
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: intense but sometimes confusing. Libra charming, social idealistic about love.
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: Fuck fuck, it's right about read what's harmony? Beauty in
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: connection can avoid conflict or be indecisive. I feel like
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: you're indecisive.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I've grown past that. I will say that was accurate
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: in my past. Okay, I have now grown from those moments.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: I can now be very decisive and I don't avoid conflict.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I could head on now.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Okay. So cancer emotional, intuitive, protective, crave, security and closeness
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: can get moody or withdrawn would hurt translation. Libra creates
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: the magic.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Any more nice, that's right.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Cancer feels the depth. Oh what works really well? Strong
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: emotional and romantic chemistrye Libra brings flirtation and lightness, where
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: cancer brings emotional depth together can feel like a movie
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: relationship that is so funny. Oh my god, do you
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: say that it feels sometimes?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my god?
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: What both our relationship oriented? Neither is casual about love.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Both want something meaningful, and they both have nurturing energy.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Cancer takes care of Libra emotionally. Where Libra helps cancer
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: feel admired and desired. Oh my god, where it gets ricky.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Here's a little red flag. Hear communication mismatch. Libra talks
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: things out but avoids tension. Where cancer feels things deeply
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: but may shut down. Problems can go unresolved but still felt.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I think that's actually pretty accurate and based off of
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: what we've talked about in our pasts. But I think
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: because we've talked about it, we've understood, like we understand
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: those sides, So I could like now say that we've
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: already grown past that and there are going to be
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: challenges and tests. What makes me excited though?
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: About that emotional intensity gap cancer? Why don't you feel
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: this as deeply as I do, Libra? Why is everything
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: so intense your conflict style Libra avoids conflict where cancer
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: internalizes and then explodes later. This is the biggest issue
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: in this pairing attraction level? Very real? Oh yeah, this
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: combo often has strong emotional pull a sense of this
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: matters early on, a kind of soft intimate chemistry rather
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: than fiery chaos. Based on the exact birth detail you gave.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Because you included a precise time and location for the Libra,
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: they likely have a strong rising sign influence, which could
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: change everything about how they come across. Depending on that
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: rising and moon sign, they might be more emotional than
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: the typical Debra.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm more emotional. I mean, I'm
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: definitely more emotionally intelligent.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: I would say that, okay, or more detached, which could
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: make cancer feel insecure. If you want, I can calculate
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: their full chart and get way more specific.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Nah, you're good chat. Thanks.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: The bottom line, the potential is very high emotional and
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: romantic compatibility. The reality is that it works only if
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: they handle emotions maturely. This is the kind of relationship
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: that feels really special when it's good and really confusing
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: when it's not. And that's it.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: There you go. I think that's actually very spot on.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: See, I'm telling you there's something to it.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: There is something to it, and I love that it
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: brings up the things to look out for. But what
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: I really love about it is like these are things
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: that we've literally talked about, where it's like we know
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: those things about ourselves because of the chapter of life
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: that we're in. It's like we talked about like every
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: chapter before this, I had to learn those things about myself.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Was I indecisive in the past? Absolutely void? Conflict in
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: the past, one hundred percent? Not no more? Though I'm
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: a man now, baby, let me come out now. I
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: grew already, so that makes me really excited. A good
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I told you I was gonna work out. I did.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Come on now, written in the stars.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: It is literally written in the stars. So going back
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: a second, now that we're trying to find your matching star,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: what is the going to be the deal with the
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: plus one? Since since we had this, you know.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how did I get on this?
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Well, we were hoping that this uh what do we say,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: sales set up?
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Sales setup was gonna work out.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: It could have been like it would have been a
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: month in a little bit, a half lit, fun, fun
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: little date.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: So literally we talked about this on Monday, where I
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: was telling you that my sister in law asked me
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: for a plus one or what the name of my
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: or if I was going to have a plus one?
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: And I said, yeah, just just put put it down.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: His blank put it out is John Smith. So literally
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I left the office that day and a couple hours
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: later she texted me she said, so about this plus
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: one and I was like, yeah, I just get rid
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: of it. Oh, just get this plus one. I know.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: So I've kind of I've just resigned, and you know what,
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: you know, what's really messed up is now that I've
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: res I'm going to meet somebody.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: That is actually, honestly it is, You're gonna be like,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: oh my god, this would have been so perfect. But
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: can't you just sneak them in? It's literally your family.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: No, literally, if I met someone and I was like,
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: oh my god, like I love this guy, they would.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Figure it out. Yeah, they figure it out, get it together.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's the right thing. Let it not be even
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: an option. Yeah, and then mister Wright will come walking
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: in the door. Maybe right now what happened, Oh, somebody
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: did to walk by. I was hoping somebody is going
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: to walk in as mister Wright.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Oh no, wouldn't that be great. It's like summary though
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: from like hello, a new guy.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: It's like a Hallmark movie. I was just I was
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: looking for the Farmer's market station.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know how I ended up here between all
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: these the layers of security, and how did I get
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: this programming badge?
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I guess I'm supposed to be here. Okay, so nobody's
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I think it'll still be a great time though. I mean,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: it's you on a beautiful place, a beautiful resort.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Yep, we're seeing an Amelia Island at a really nice resort.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Get a nice little lot of bubbles. Anybody in your
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: family you really like vibe with?
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: I love my cousins. There you go. My cousins are fun.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: I feel like me and my girl, my girl cousin,
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: my girl cousin, Aliy and I have gotten some good
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: bonding time recently because of the Bachelorette, and we're also
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: doing pilates together on Thursday.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: See that'd be fun. What are the men you looking
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: like for this wedding?
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: Like beef tenderloin or like an almond crusted chicken.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: I know. I was really excited for the cake. Here's
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: what I'm really upset about. They're not taking the cake
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: as seriously as I take the cake.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: Here's the tough thing about the cake.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: I'm a big cake out.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I get it. But here's where, like, I've gone to
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: so many weddings now and I still say that, not
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: because I've been invited, because I've worked them, But you
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: do this whole thing for a cake, and then everyone
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: forgets about the cake and you're like, oh my god,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: it's the cake song. Everyone cuts the cake song, and
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: then you never see the cake again. Like you either,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: if you're a guest, you forget to go get a piece.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: If you're the couple. Half the time and more than
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: half you won't even get a piece of your cake
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: because you're just so busy doing other things. So you
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: do you spend one hundreds of dollars on this damn
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: sweet treat to never see it again, I.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Know, But then you save it and it's a moment
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: for your anniversary next. But I get it. So people
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: don't love cake as much as I do. But from
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: my cousin's wedding last year or not last year, two
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: years ago, literally the only thing I remember eating other
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: than the steak, which I just remember, was being like
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: a wedding steak. I remember that cake so vividly. I
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: remember the cake and the sauvignon blanc. It was a
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: red velvet cake and it was so good. It was
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: it had no business being that good, because you know,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: wedding cake typically isn't that good because they have to
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: freeze it. They put the fond in on it. Their
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: cake was delicious.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: See. I like the idea of doing something different than
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: a cake, like, well, you get I've gone to when
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: we have a place here, nothing butN cake? Is that commercial?
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Is that like around the country?
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a franchise.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well that I've had people do like the little
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: ones of that that's amazing. I've had people do like
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: little pieces of like Tara Masou incredible, like where it's
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: a bunch of different options instead of one gigantic cake.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I get that because that's hard to nail. So what
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: is the deal with their cake?
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: So they are getting theirs? And you know what I do?
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: You have to say I love a Public's caake, me too,
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: But they have surprised me recently where it's like I've
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: gotten what Maybe it was the last wedding I went
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: to where it's like took a bitle that.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: I was like, Holy, public stake is great, You're not
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: effing around. They have a really good banana pudding cake.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Have you had their banana pudding cake.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not usually a fan of banana pudding, but I
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: out f it up.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: I love banana pudding. Bana putting is my favorite dessert
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: other than ice cream. But they weren't as enthusiastic about
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: the cake as I wanted them to be.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Really.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: I was like, so what flavor are you getting tears?
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: And they're like, oh, We're just gonna like go to
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: PUBLICX and try some. I was like, okay, that's that's great.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: But like what flavors? What did you decide? I think
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: they just cho just like vanilla or something you like.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: When people do like the they do interesting parents, Like
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I've had like lavender cake.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love a fancy cake, so you have fun
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: with it. Yeah, I like a little freaky with egg.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Can you like a raspberry coolie?
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: See if I was to Oh see, I love raspberry
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: filling in.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: There with a little chocolate cake. Come.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good stuff. See, I like it. If if
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I could have my dream cake would either be like
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: a Tara Masou or a carrot cake.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: Oh, I love a carrot ca I do love a
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: carrot cake.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: But that is controversial, Like seventy five percent of the
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: guests would not like it. Yeah, even though it's not
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: meant for.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Them, it's who cares, It's it's your wedding cake.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Maybe I'll just have a side one on the piece.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I'm planning my wedding even though I'm not even engaged,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Like I just I want that lit one else kut
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: of the public cake. I want the carrot cake.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: How does your lady feel about the carrot cake?
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I a fan?
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, she didn't care.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, indifferent. I'm the one obsessed with it.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: I'm the one that actually I am in charge of
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: the groom's cake though, so I will say cake. Yeah,
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: the groom gets a cake for the rehearsal dinner. So
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: my mom and I are tagged teaming the rehearsal dinner.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: What have you guys decided what it's going to be?
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: So we have not decided on a flavor. I want
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: to do like a whole tasting situation, but then that
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: means I have to go up to like Florida or whatever,
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: or up to Jacksonville.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: So just gonna but then you get to try cakes.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: I love to try cake.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: See that looks. I love hearing the stories when couples
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: are doing all their not even just the cake testing,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: but like they're going out to like where they're gonna
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: get married, and they get the tasting for the foods.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that sounds so fun. And they give
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: you like the bubbles and they get to try all
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: the dishes and you decide what ones you're going to have,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: and then it's like the day of and you barely
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: eat any of your meal because you're talking to everyone
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: in your guests. But that seems so fun.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: I know, it's like a BONDI moment you're like, which
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: one do you like? I love watching those videos on
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: TikTok where they're like, we're trying our cake box to
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: see which one we want to have for a weddy.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: See. I don't have that on my TikTok. I mean
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: that is not on my algorithm yet.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: You kind of boost your FYP.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I need to get a little I'm not really in
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: the looking at weddings right now. It's a little a
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: little soon. Couldn't be me.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: My mom called me yesterday. She's like, I'm concerned you're
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: not sending me any photos of wedding dresses anymore, because
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: that's how me and my mom bond. So my parents
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: and I communicate like we're in college and at Snapchat,
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: like we just send each other photos back and forth
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: or memes or tiktoks. So my dad and I communicate
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: purely through food that we eat. So my dad, I
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: won't hear from him for like three weeks, and then
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, he'll send me a photo of
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: an omelet. I'm like, yeah, I hear your god. Dad,
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: and my mom and I communicate by sharing photos of
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: wedding dresses that we both like, Oh.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: That would be fun. So that's like a really cool
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: moment that you get to look forward to wed.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: I gotta get a boyfriend first, guy, I.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Mean, it's gonna be you know what do we say?
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: It could be in a year? Who knows?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Six months?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: That sounds fun. That seems fun too. Like I'm trying
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: to think, what do guys have the equivalent of? Like
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: the bride and the bride'smaids get through a lot of
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: cool stuff, Like you go and you do the wedding
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: shop or the dress shopping, and then you know, you
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: do the little like I don't know, flower shopping like
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: guys like I literally got a link sent for the
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: tucks that I'm wearing in a month and it's like,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: all right, just click order and they'll just show up.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: I'm like, do you want a big hoopla? Because the
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: hooplah's fun once.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: That's just like the idea of getting everyone together. Yeah,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Like that's the fun for it because you think about
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: it and you only have so many times. This is
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: so sad, but where everybody comes together, Like I've seen
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: this so many time where people talk about the wedding.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: That's like the last time like all of your friends,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: all of your family are all together in one time.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: I know, it's beautiful. It's a big moment.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: It is a big moment.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: I'm excited for it. But I mean we did something
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: like that for my brother. We went to Hyde Park
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: and we went to suit supply. Oh my god, that
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: was a hoopla we I made plans for them to
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: go to Leila afterwards. So I was like, Okay, I'll
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: meet you guys in like an hour and then we'll
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: uber do Ulelea together. And so I go down thinking
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: I missed the appointment. I'm like, oh my god, I'm
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: so late, like a camp life. It took me way
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: longer than I expected to come down here. And I
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: get there and they're like picking out buttons. They're looking
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: at seven different shades of a crew to figure crazy,
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: I know, because my brother's doing a custom suit and
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: he's doing a blue suits. That's the color scheme, blah
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And I'm like, they're the amount of
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: options on this freaking suit. I'm like, we've been here
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: for three hours, what are we doing?
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: And I've had friends that are like, you need to
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: go to suit supply, you need to get a custom suit.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that seems too much.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: But if it's your wedding, if it's your wedding, then
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: I think it's you know, because guys don't really get anything.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: Like you said, when you're a girl, you go to
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: fifteen different bridal salons, you trou on seventeen dresses that
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: all look exactly the same, but they have a different fabric,
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: and you get to have that moment and it is
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: it is a fun moment. I will say, after like
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: the third salon, you're like, Okay, let's wrap this shit up.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: But it is fun.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: I would like, Okay, if I was going to get
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: something as the groom like, I would like that, like
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: get together. I'd like everyone getting fitted together. I want
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: everyone to looks sharp, and I hope I'm at a place.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: This is definitely manifesting that I could just like pay
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: for everyone's suits. I could bring them out, get them fitted,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: get them something that they truly like that they could wear. Again,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: that is the advantage that we have versus women and
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: wedding dress wear. That again, it's.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Annoyed because you buy this dress and you do it
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: because you love the bride and you want to execute
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: her vision. But it is a lo lot of money
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: for address that you're literally gonna maybe sell on Poshmark
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: one time.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Where unless this is gonna be my style, I'm not
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: even joking like I'm going to have brand like maybe
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: every anniverse. I don't know. You act like you get
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: married again and you go around town such I know,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: I freaking love it. I am a sign. And here's
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: the thing in a little tangent here we've been talking
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: about off campus. I know how much of them a
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: romantic I am because I watched that show and I'm
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: like tearing up at scenes. I'm like, I love this.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: That's been what's been the most romantic scene that you've
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: loved so far?
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Well? Okay, spoiler alert, spoiler alert when she's playing piano
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: in the ice rink.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, their song.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I save that song on my phone. I've listened to
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: it probably like eighty times already.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: That's my favorite thing about finding a show that I
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: love is it introduces me to new music that I
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: now have memories attached to. Like I probably could have
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: heard these songs and been like whatever, I don't really
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: care about the song, But now when I hear it,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: I think about how I felt watching those scenes, like
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: the g Flips, the g Flip song bet on Fire.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: It's the sexy montage scene. Oh yeah, but I'm like,
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: oh my god, I remember seeing that scene and being
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: so excited that they got together that every time I
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: hear that song now, I'm.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, like that, Like literally that scene, I was like,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: oh my god, Like I love the idea of just love.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Like I watch romantic movies just because I'm like, I
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: love the like the story of it, the passion of it,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: And people are like, that's just the movies, and I'm like,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: here's my thought. It technically doesn't have to be if
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: you don't let it. Yes, there's gonna be real life
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: things that pop up if we're I sound like such
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: a hopeless romantic. But for me, the thing I say
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: to myself is like, you have to keep that intention
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: behind it. There's no reason why you can't do some
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: of those things in the movies. Yes they're corny, Yes
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: they're a little silly, maybe they're a little outlandish, but
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: why the hell not that I love doing that crap?
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Catch me outside with the guitar throwing a rock out
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: the window, catch.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Me outside being romantic. I'm on that.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I will. I will straight up do all that crap.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: But I that show has been very fun for me
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: because it's very predictable. But at the same time, I'm like,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I love it.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's predictable in the sense that it doesn't like.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Your Cortisol, Yes, and I like that. I just want
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: there to be loved, like that's it, Like that'd be
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: a cool love story that you're like, yes, I love that.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: Happy for you guys. So if you want to live
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: like the movies, I say, go for it.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So anyway, find a good suit for your for
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: your guys, it is very expensive. The suits are expensive.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Well, hopefully I don't have Like, I don't plan on
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: getting married anytime soon.
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: What is your timeline? Like, do you want to be
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: like dating for a while, because I feel like you're
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: so head over heels for this curly that I'm like,
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: oh my god, they could be engaged next year.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: This is such a public conversation. Oh my god.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: Should we not be having this conversation publicly?
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: No, I would say it's I mean, it's definitely a
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: two way street. That's how it would be like, obviously
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: there's we're in the beginning of a relationship. Yeah, there's
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff to talk about. There's a lot
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: of stuff to grow through. I'm at the point now, though,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: where I used to Okay, I'll speak on my old beliefs.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: I used to think that I wanted to kind of
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: recreate what my parents did. They dated for three years,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: you got engaged, and then got married.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: Damn.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: So in my head growing up, I always just thought
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: that was the casey date for three years, you get
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: engaged and get As I've gotten older, I realized, Wait,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: it's like I don't have to live on that timeline.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: I think that's how old were your parents when they
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: dated and not engaged.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Kind of fun brown this age. So I think my
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: mom was twenty seven, my dad was twenty eight.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, a little bit younger though, because your lady's a
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: little bit older. Because I was about to say, I'm like,
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: things do speed up once you hit like thirty Yeah,
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, way, haint got sam to waste.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Well, that's what I think is really cool about the relationship.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: You get to this part where it's when you're with
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: somebody you know you're not wasting time. Yeah, you're like,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I know that you're looking for something and I'm looking
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: for something, and we both know that if this is
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: not the right fit, we will call it quits. We
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: will go ahead and say that this is not going
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: to be the right the right person for this time.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: And we both looked at each other. We're like, that
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: is not the case. Definitely not the case. When you know,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, I know exactly.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, my brother met his lady two years ago.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: When they're getting married. Like literally, think about your first
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: day with someone in two years you could be getting
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: married to them.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: See, I think that's very realistic. Especially like again, like
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: what I said, it's like, there doesn't need to be
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: a certain amount of time that goes by. It's what
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I think I think will be the cases. You just
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: have that feeling of like, Yep, we're going to move
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: forward with this. Yeah, do your due diligence and talk
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: to everybody and kind of make sure everybody's like on agreeance.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: But like you said, it doesn't necessarily mean you got
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: to live together beforehand. You don't have to have all
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: those boxes checked.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: But again, like you know, don't take my blanket statement
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: as you know this how you live your life again,
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: I'm done controlling how to live, how to tell people
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: how to live their lives.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Well that's kind of like okay, well that, but also
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I think I'm done trying to control a certain timeline.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: That's where I've come into this. I'm like, you know,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: some people if they heard the situation, like if you
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: heard the podcast in January versus the podcast now, like
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: what the hell, Scott, what do you do? I'm letting
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: life show me how this journey is supposed to go.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: It's beautiful, that's literally it. Instead of fighting it because
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I had a certain timeline in my head, No, just
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: let go and when it feels right, go for it.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: One of the things we talked about before we even
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: hopped on this was I like this idea of the
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: things that you find that you're insecure about no one
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: knows about. Oh yeah, I made a note about this,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: and I do want to talk about more off campus
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: stuff because we still need to talk about the scenes
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: that are like what are the scenes that especially for
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: a woman mind, They're like, that is it.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: I guess we have to finish. You have to finish
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: the series. I've watched it like four times already, I'm
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: like lapping you.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I'm very close to being I'm on episode six. What
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: is there eight episodes?
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: There's eight episodes. Episode six is really fun. Episode seven
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: and eight are a little bit heavier. And then in
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: the beginning of episode eight, Oh my god, I need you.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: When you start episode eight, I just want you to
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: set up your iPhone camera for like the first five minutes,
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: so I just want to get your live reaction.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Oh boy, Okay, So we'll get to those things. And
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: also this is a good like if you somebody who's
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: messaging me on Instagram, they're like, what's that show off
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: campus Amazon Prime? That's one we're talking about probably tomorrow.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: So I feel like I'm going to finish it today.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: But I do want to go back to the topic
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: of the things that no one knows that we're insecured about,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: and I'm very curious of because Abby brought this up.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Why did you bring this up?
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I made a note of this in my
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: phone because when Scott and I sit down to the podcast,
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: I think I just find it so easy to just
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: get in a conversation with you that I don't really
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: think about topics specifically. But I've started making notes where
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like last year we were trying
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: to figure out what we wanted to or now last
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: year last week we wanted to we were trying to
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: figure out what to talk about. So I'm like, when
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: I have something that I think would be interesting to
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: bring up, I'm like, let me just make a note
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: of it. And so all my notes app just has
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: unfiltered notes, and it just has the dumbest headlines. My
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: first one platismal bands, second one abduction story, third secret
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: Tampa club, like all these dumb things that I'm like, oh,
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: these are things I should bring up. And so I
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: was watching one of our Instagram videos that we posted
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: for Beatbox, because you know how we're giving away that Bonnaroo. Yes,
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: that we're giving away a Bonnaroo pass for four people
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: to be able to go to the music festival. You
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: will give you one thousand dollars five hundred dollars to
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: drive there for a guest gift card. So shout out Beatbox,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: thank you for everything you've done for us.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and sign up for that mymagic ninety four to
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: nine dot com if you want that trip.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: And so on Instagram, our sales team was like, Hey,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: we really need you guys to be pushing this Beatbox
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: because they were one of our new clients. We're like, yeah, absolutely,
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: So we put like fifteen videos out all in one day,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: and one of them was a video that it was
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: shut and directed by me ex kidding. It's the one
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: where I'm talking about Beatbox for the best Summer Ever.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: You know that video? Yeah, like the office kind of themed.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: I would love for you to watch that video, and
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: I've seen it so many times because I always do
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: that when I create something. I'm like, how are people
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: perceiving this? Watch this video, and I would love for
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: you to pinpoint what you think I'm insecure about from
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: this video?
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: You want me to pinpoint your insecurity? Okay, now that's
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: this could get messy. That could get very messy because
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: I have definitely there's things in my life that I
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: think I've grown to be able to handle, but I
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: still don't want somebody to point it out. That's okay.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: So it's something that I have plans on fixing. So
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: that's why I'm comfortable talking about it.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: You have plans on fixing, h it is.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: A part of It's on me. There's something I'm insecure
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: about that. I'm ready to handle.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, let me go.
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: Ahead and call me ugly in fifteen different languages.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call you. I'm watching the video right now.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: This is tough because I didn't see anything. Oh what,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know. This feels really rough. I don't like
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: to I don't like this.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Be gentle, That's what I'm saying.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: You told me to call out your insecurity. Is it
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: your is it your fingernails? Oh?
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: Because I was talking about the manicure thing. Yeah, no, okay,
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: that I do need to start getting weekly manicures after
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: that interview, because I'm like, I realize they're.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: Looking honestly, I might be doing the same thing. What
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: is it?
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: It's my plaitismal bands.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: What does that even mean?
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: So? Your platismal bands are the muscles that connect your
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: neck to your chest. I think I'm probably getting this
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: wrong anatomically, but when I'm talking, I have these really
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: thick plaitismal bands and my neck that are like pulling
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: down on my face and you can fix them with botox.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: And the whole time I'm watching this, I'm like, oh
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: my god, my platismal bands are I look like. I'm like,
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: you know that meme of the guy with the vein
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: popping out of his forehead, and he's like, that's what
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: I look like when I talk about because my plotitismal
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: bands are so strong, I'm like, gee.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: I would have never have guessed that.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: But that's what's so funny is I'm watching this and
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: it's the only thing I can see in this video
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: is my fucking platismal bands go like like screaming out
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: of my neck that I'm like, I need to go
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: to my talks lady immediately see.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: I like the intensity of it, but I didn't know
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: you could actually do anything to fix it.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can do botox in it. It's supposed to
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: snatch your jawl in a little bit.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: You know what, if that's what makes you feel, If
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: it makes you feel better than who am I to
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: say that you don't need it? But you know what,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I get it because I have like videos of me
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: speaking and I have a vein on the side of
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: my neck that looks like the Grand Canyon.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know that you can fix your.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: Vein that I can't fix, but I have noticed it.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: But I'm like, watching this video, I'm like, okay, I mean,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: but you're supposed to have that intention.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: I don't say that you notice every kidding.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: No, I don't see anything.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: But the thing is, I'm not even being that intense.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: I'm just kind of like getting into it. But my
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: platismal bands are so strong that it looks like I'm
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: having an aneurysm every time I open my mouth. I'm like,
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: do I look like that all the time?
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Gosh, well, you know what, then I guess get that
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: botox girl.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: I'm not even arguing with you on that.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I would never have noted. I literally didn't
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: think that one time. It's so funny, but I do understand.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: I think something that let's see something that I get
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: insecure about that nobody would ever notice. And I wrote
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: this down, I said, I hate and this is I
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: talked to Abby about this because I learned this hack
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: way too late in life that my lips get way
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: too dry, like all of a sudden, they get like
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: cracked up, and I'm like, ew, I okay.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: The thing is, I wouldn't notice that because I'm not
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: over here with a microscoping, like I wonder how much
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: dead skin Scott he has on his lips.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Well, what it does make me wonder if like people
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: are looking at it like the corner of my mouth, like,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: oh my god, like bro get some chaffstick, and I'm
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: like I do. But I was telling Abby, I was like,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: what the big hack I learned is I went on
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: CHATCHBT and I was like, I want to fix this.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: I want to make sure, especially when I kiss my lady,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: that is really nice, it's always enjoyable. And it was like,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: get this thing of vacoline, do a whole bunch of
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: it before you go to bed, wake up, put more on.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: So I'm a vacalline fiend right now.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: I remember how you're calling it a hack, and it's
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: just a basics of hygiene.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Skill because I feel like there are things that, especially
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: as you grow up as a woman, that like it's
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: like a whole skin care routine. I didn't start wearing
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: face moisturizer until I was like twenty three.
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: Well, you're way ahead of most guys, because most duds
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: aren't even wearing face moisturizer until they're like in their eighties. Well,
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: they're like, oh, maybe I should do something about this.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: They're like halfway in the grave. They're like, maybe I
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: should moisturizein could I get that there's a couple of
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: age spots showing. Let me get some vitamin C.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Well, that's something that's definitely come to my attention over
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: the past year. And the other thing is, and I've
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: did this for a long time, like I don't like
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: my feet, so like your feet. With your feet, I
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: don't know, I just don't like them.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: I'm just looking at your feet.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know. But if we were at a pool
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: or we were at a pool party on Sunday, what
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: was I wearing? I was wearing shoes. No, I wasn't
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: wearing flip flops.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Oh you did have sneakers on.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: You didn't catch me. I've gotten better about this, but
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: for a majority of my life I was not a
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: big fan of like having my open toes out.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, men with their toes out is a little iky.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I think so too, And I don't want to be
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: that guy with his toes out. Now I don't have
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: bad looking feet, yeah, but for the most part, I'm like,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let these, especially if the talents are out.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: I just assumed you weren't get them away for free.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I'll now, no, I have had somebody offer
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: to pay, and so they are you did and how much?
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Well I told them five hundred dollars and they said,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: oh I gotta get is this Oh this is years ago.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Five hundred dollars is cheap as hell?
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, if you're gonna get one picture of
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: my foot five hundred bucks, that's all I gotta do
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: is go click said I'll take a five hundred dollars
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: little payment, and venmo Hell yeah, not anymore. I don't
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: know who's gonna hear this and say like, oh I
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: want to get that. I'd have to talk to that
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: with my partner. I'm not And that was when I
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: was a producer and barely making anything. I was like,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I will take a little chatter if it goes that distance,
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: but those would be like the two things. I don't
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: know if I'm necessarily. I was insecure about my teeth
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: for a while and then I got in VISI line
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: and thanks to the radio station, that kind of fixed
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: that problem.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, your tee look great, thank you.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: And whenever I go to the dentist, that kind of
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: fix Like every now and then I get like coffee
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: stains and then the dentist just takes care of it immediately,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: and that insecurity goes right out the door. But I
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: don't know if anybody notices those things. Those are little things.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: I mean, maybe your lady because she's uplose and personal
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: with you.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: M yeah, I guess, but that makes it even worse.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I'm like, now I really want to fix it. I'le
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: go me go ahead and call my dentist and get
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: that appointment moved up. That's in a couple of weeks.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: But those are like usually the only things. Is there
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: any other el Is there any other things that you've
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: noticed that nobody else would notice.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Well, I just remember watching that video over and over
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: again and being like, oh my god, my polotismal bands
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: are like going insane. And I do realize I have
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: started to notice. I like, I pulled down on the
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: lower half of my face a lot. I'm like, I
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: really do need to get that handled with some talks.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: I didn't know talks could do that. I guess ToxS
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: could handle everything.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: Talks can do a lot of things, Like I'm finally
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: settling into the bowtox I got in my forehead because
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: I didn't like it at first. Actually told my therapist,
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I think it's making me dumber the bowtox. Yeah,
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: because it freezes your forehead. That I felt like it
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: was making me feel less expressive and therefore like more
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: emotionally numb. Oh, and so I was like, I don't
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: think I like it, but I'm starting to get a
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: little bit more movement to where I think I do
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: like it, because I will say I do love not
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: having the elevens. I had really aggressive elevens.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: Now, are you going to do it again?
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: I will have to know. I probably will in August,
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: right before I go to Italy.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: M okay, and yeah, nobody has four headlines in Italy. Yeah,
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: they're all just perfect. It's all a oil thing over there.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I was trying to what is the other thing that
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: I had that was insecure about, as like it was
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: something with my head or something with my face. Now
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: it just completely left my brain. It's gone. So is
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: there something you see in me that you should?
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: Well? Sorry? Chapter one. It's just funny the dys morphia
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: that we had with ourselves because I remember going on
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: my sister in law's bachelorette party and feeling so just
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: like gross and icky, and then someone showed me a
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: photo of me and a bikini. I was like, I'm hot, yeah,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: but like you would never know from the photo that
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I posted that I hadn't like shat in seven days.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: I was like, Oh my god, I'm a gonna look pregnant.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: And I also just kind of feel a little ichy
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: and gross and my diet hasn't been on point. And
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: then someone took a photo of me. I was like, oh,
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: I look amazing. I actually get that like every time,
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: all the time. Body just morphia is crazy.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: It is crazy. But then it's like I think what
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: I had I have to I remind myself of is
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: like the bodies that we're in right now, we're gonna
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: get like ten years older and be like, the hell
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: were you complaining about it?
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: I know, but ten years from now, I'm not in
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: this body because it is I think it's less about
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: how you look and more of how you feel in
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: your body. That's it, And it's just like are you
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: doing the things you know you need to do to
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: feel good? And I think a lot of times when
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: I feel ichy my body, it's because I know I'm
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: not being as disciplined as I could be. I get that,
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: and I don't mean that like an eedy type way,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: like I need to be more stricter, but just like
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: you know, if I'm if I'm not like eating the
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: right foods, I'm gonna feel gross.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: Correct, that's literally just because the food of quality. Like
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I do the same thing if like I'm not sleeping,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: which I haven't been great really recently, or like getting
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: consistent workouts in, or if I'm eating kind of all
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: over the place, Like it's a feeling. It's not even
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: a look, Like the look is one thing. I felt
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: that way. It's so stupid, but I got it. Like
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: at the pool party, I was like, hmmm, I'm not
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: feeling my best. You didn't, no, not really, I mean
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I I don't know. I didn't feel like it was
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: my best kind of deal. I kind of felt like
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: I was like just all over the place. My consistency
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: has been all over the place. I get that in
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: my life. But I was like I saw like some
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: pictures and like videos, I was like, okay, you're in
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: your head.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: It was a feeling, yeah, Because it's hard when you
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: feel that way because then you just don't think that
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: everything is tinted by that, you start seeing your body
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: through the lens of oh I feel icky. Yeah, whereas
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: then like you look back in two weeks and you go, oh,
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: I look fine.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like, oh wait, that's what I was complaining about,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: Like I'm good.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: You take those glasses off and you're like, oh, I
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: actually look fine. Yeah. Except for these plaitismal bands, My
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: political bands still look bad.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: The one thing I could think of myself is I
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: don't like when people make comments about my lips. That's
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: the one.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: Who's making comments about your lips.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: I've been told I got little lips, and I'm like.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: Who told you that? Multiple people, like girlfriends uh in
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: the past, Like you have normal sized lips for your face?
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: I think so too. Imagine if they were gigantic, you're
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: gonna get lip filler. No, I'm not gonna get it.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: I can't think of anything more unattractive than a man
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: would lip filler.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Could you imagine I come in here with big, old,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: perfect lips? Yeah? I didn't know even has it that?
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: And then friends would make like little comments, I'm like
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: what I'm I think they're fine. I've grown to love them.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: But it is one of those things where I'm like, oh.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: That's crazy that someone would say that to you.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: People have said the craziest things to me, like what
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: else the other one?
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: Wow, this is fun. Let's see. Growing up, I had
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: multiple skin problems and so friends would call me like Rudolph,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: that was fun.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: That's pretty messed up.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: That was pretty messed up. That one sucked because that
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: one I couldn't do anything about. My face is just
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: constantly read all the time, and people would be like,
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: what's wrong with your face? I'm like, I don't. I
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: don't know what do you want me to do? I
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: have no idea? All right, well do you think I
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: was gonna say it and fix it? That sucked? You know?
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: That led into acne problems. That sucked. But we grown
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: past those things. Mm hm Now I don't really care now.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm kind of pretty happy with how it
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: turned out.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think most women are cognizant enough to
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: not say something and be like, hey, have you thought
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: about blah blah blah blah blah, which is nice. I
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: do get a lot of comments. People are very opinionated
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: about my hair in a good way. I mean in
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: like they have strong opinions. About it, like, some people
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: want me to chop it. Some people don't like my bag,
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: some people don't think I style my bang's right, and listen,
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: here's hard. If you ever true style it before, it's tough.
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: And sometimes your hair looks great, sometimes it doesn't.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: M I feel like I'm in that chapter right now.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: Like as we talked about the float thing, I was
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: just in the mirror in the bathroom. I was like, oh,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: this is gonna be a rough chapter as like trying
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: to grow it out. But then you got to like
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: go through the phase of like in between.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: So worth that hockey hair is so big right now
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: with off campus, I.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: Just it's kind of one of those things. It's like
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: a gamble. Does it end up like that? I don't know.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. You can cut it off and
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: then you'll have that memory of, oh, remember when I
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: was trying to get hockey flow.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well that's why I want to see what your
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: girl says about the I needed you to go see her.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna first shoot her a message and say, hey,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: I'm a dude. Do you think you could like see me?
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: And is this a possibility?
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: And she's like absolutely, like come in, or she can refer.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: You to somebody at her salon and be like.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Hey, this person would be able to get it right. Yeah. Yeah,
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: because I have no idea about the first steps of
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: being like layers.
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: No, it's not layers. I think it's just letting it grow,
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: like not cutting it so much, like you know, really
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: being chill with the scissors and the buzzer or whatever,
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: the razor, and but just cutting it in a certain
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: way that when it grows out, it doesn't look weird,
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: like she'll probably have to like trim the sides a
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, but maybe it's a trimming of the
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: sides rather than a full on like biz.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. Because I looked at the mirror,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I was like, God, I'm sorry to get a little
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: poofy headed. Yeah, I don't want that.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: But I wasn't aware this was something every man could accomplish.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: I thought you were just born, like, oh, you came
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: out the womb with hockey.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Hair or not.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: I didn't realize like guys like you could grow it out.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I literally don't. I have no idea.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: That's why we're going on this adventure.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: But I love it. I love that hockey hair is
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: taking off because that's my that's my style.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: And I love that. And that's what I was telling
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: my lady. I was like, if I have it right now,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to grow it. I'm gonna see because
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: this might be the last chance. I don't know, it
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: might be the last chance.
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: So you have a very healthy hairline for now.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: I'm about to be thirty this year.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it could go south or real quick.
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: You don't just keep keep up with the rosemary oil.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: I don't even know that's the thing they stimulate. Sure,
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: hair follicles that in the vasoline. You gotta do that.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: You just drop the oil in your head.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: I gotta get the wrestling for the lips, rosemary oil
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: for the hair stimulated with some red light therapy.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to look like Prince Charming and Shrek. If
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: my hair could do that.
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: It can't. You're not that far from the Shrek. Look,
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: you're very very Shrek adjacent. I'm took like Shrek Shrek
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: too adjacent. No, very handsome Shrek adjacent. Are we talking, okay,
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: like human Trek, human Shrek, not Shrek Shrek. Yeah, that's
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: Trek too, right, Yeah, that's even Shrek right now, don't
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: say I look like Shrek.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Shrek, God bless it. Then we definitely need to go
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: do a whole new fix up. All right, well let's
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: get back to it. So, okay, tomorrow if this comes out,
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: what day is it?
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: We don't come out Thursday?
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, then the next episode after this we'll do
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: a deep dive into off campus. You have some time
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: to catch up on the show, because I really do
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: want to know, like from your perspective versus my perspective,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: the things that were truly like that's hot.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: So you'd be done by tomorrow.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be done by tomorrow. I'll be able to
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: talk about it. I hope. I think all I got
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: today is like moving stuff. That's it. All right, Well again,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: let's hit on that Beatbox thing. If you want to
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: be on that Bonaroo trip, Beatbox is going to send you.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: So you win three other people and they're going to
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: give you one thousand dollars and a five hundred dollars
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: gas gift card.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: That's a lot and so festival season, Noah con Kesha,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: who's the other one?
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: Kesha? Nobody on Teddy Swims. Those are the three that
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: we're most excited about.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: So there's a whole bunch of others, but that is
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: up on our website currently, so just Mymagic ninety four
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: nine dot com to get in on that. Thank you
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: for Beatbox being a part of this podcast. Now let's
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: dive into off campus tomorrow. Catch up Abby, what's your
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: social media at the Abbe Murphy and mine is at
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Scott Tavlin and for all the station stuff at Magic
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: ninety four nine.