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Single Ladies Praying For Husbands & Faith Testing Wedding Gown With chacha Eke Faani · DidiLawren

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  Hello, and welcome back to another episode of Banter
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  into this episode. Because he social media is on
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  fire. Some ladies group themselves
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  where wedding down. To pray for husbands now.
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  This is not the first time. Last year, there were.
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  The current Media Group was my. House group of people.
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  Who went for a crusade and their prayer.
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  Was for God to carry them to their husband's house that went.
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  Viral because people couldn't believe that in this day and
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  age. People will go to church to pray
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  for U.S. banks. Like, I don't know.
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  But anyway, so the organisers of this show, one of the
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  organisers. Who is Nollywood actress Chacha
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  Eke Fanny now? I think the major.
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  The issue that people have with this whole thing is because of.
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  Chacha has been in. One of the most documented
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  challenging marriages in. Hollywood Every year UK market
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  day Cha Cha will come out and blame my husband.
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  Like medically abusing her because she said the man is
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  trying to get her into psychiatric saying she's.
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  Bipolar and all that. For you know, 3-3 years in a
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  row, Chacha was coming out. Every year to accuse her husband
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  of wanting or the other. Even the family was involved
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  and. Later, she kind of when.
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  She settled with the husband. She kind of broke ties with the
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  family and moved on, claiming now.
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  That she's bipolar, so people are surprised that it is this
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  same Cha Cha that is now bringing young ladies.
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  Together. To pray for marriage like.
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  Are they trying to pray to get into Chacha kind of marriage?
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  I don't. Know he because of the church
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  events organised by Warm bridal shop.
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  Which is a very genius marketing strategy.
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  Because he yeah, I'm happy. To tap into it to get partner
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  with one church gay young ladies.
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  Where we can say this is the we got, we're in heaven, you can
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  imagine. Now that will go viral, any
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  church that is out there that want to partner with me.
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  Hallelujah. Getting sorted now and this is
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  not something to laugh about. Because.
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  He affects people in a very long run.
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  Maybe for the rest of their life, because this is a life
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  partner decision. I can't over emphasise on um,
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  what's that you want to cool? Because she met somebody in the
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  church, she married a person, and we all know how that ended.
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  So the church in its body, I think should stay away from.
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  Marriage. Like, just get people to
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  salvation. Don't stress people about
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  marriage. Don't bring.
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  People together to pray about, you know, husbands because you
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  would not see a church organising men looking.
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  For wives men, the men will not go answer them like.
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  They know. That's right.
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  If they want to marry, they know.
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  They have about 5 different girls they can choose from.
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  But you see that is this vulnerable, these vulnerable
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  women that they're able to get into this kind of situation.
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  Now you see these. People.
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  Maybe they pray and after praying let's.
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  Say after this there are events, they are going out and the next
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  man that sees them on the street and.
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  Say hello. They believe that God has
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  answered their prayer. Now they will not take their
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  time to actually look. Into the person because you know
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  when the black God answer my. Prayer.
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  I don't need to, even if he's showing some.
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  Red flags. Go to fix it, or I will take you
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  to God in prayer. I had a friend who.
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  She went to church for prayers, so there was an event they went
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  during the church programme. They called out Single Ladies.
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  Every single lady come out. They came out.
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  If you want to pray for husband you have.
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  To sue a seed with the number of in 1000.
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  So we did a number. Of your age.
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  She should see the She came back.
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  She sold more than 1000, so she told me that she invited me to
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  come with, you know, Good. I see what happened.
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  She she she's blessed already that even as she was going home,
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  this has not happened. To her before a guy walked up to
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  her normally on a normal. Day.
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  I think she would have ignored the person.
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  But because she has prayed that prayer, she has so that seed,
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  she decided to entertain whoever was asking her out.
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  They started talking. The guy was like, I'm.
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  Very seriously. You know, scoop now before you
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  know, they got married. I attended Virginia.
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  Yeah, when I eat. Rice.
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  They looked happy together. I visited them a couple of
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  months later and they seemed, you know, happy.
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  Couple they move she because she was living in a one bedroom.
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  They moved to another one bedroom, but a much bigger
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  accommodation. So later, she kind of.
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  Dropped out of circulation. I was like, maybe you know, some
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  married people once they are married and you're single.
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  They would just kind of. Give you red card.
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  So I thought that was what happened.
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  So me too. I kind of withdrew myself.
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  Because I was like before you fire me.
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  I will fire myself now, later. She like months later.
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  She asked. To this, you know, hang out.
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  We went out, sat down. She broke down.
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  I started hearing. Stories.
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  This guy was squatting with people.
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  He like he was actually jobless. He he did not want to.
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  Walk. He was all these benefits kind
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  of people. Even cost wedding he refused
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  them to do because. He was like, he's getting money,
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  hey, before, you know, this guy was the one doing everything,
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  paying it and. He had credit card loan and
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  debt. So any little change that he has
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  is paying off all this that he actually now goes a job in a
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  small. Job after that marriage, but all
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  that money was going into paying off credit card and.
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  This was a lady that she's, she's a hustler.
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  She's the kind of person that I believe.
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  In process, she will start something from the scratch and
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  before you know you'll be, now would.
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  You just start this thing. She is that kind of person, so I
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  haven't heard from her for a very long time.
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  I was. Thinking maybe she's doing
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  something else and I don't know about.
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  It she said she has not done. In fact, even her capital went
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  down. Because she was not taking so
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  much responsibility. This guy was demanding.
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  Because he thought she had money.
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  So regardless of how much? She brings to the.
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  Table. He will always think that.
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  I have credit card loan. I had debts.
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  I need to pay off this thing before I can bring anything.
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  When they ask, you know cost of living when.
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  High rent went by everything, so it became too much.
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  Because she's basically feeding 2.
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  People, you know, and he was not even trying to contribute.
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  He was not even trying to. Help.
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  He cried. I I couldn't believe if you see
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  this guy walking on these. Streets, you would think.
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  He's walking like he's he has shares in Gucci, you know, But
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  it was so sad and the singular. Reason why she entertained him
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  and even married him was because.
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  She had so seed. She had prayed for God to give
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  her husband and when she came out she saw this.
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  Guy and she felt. This is got sense.
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  So regardless of OK, he does not have money now since.
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  God, I send it to me. We can work something out, even
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  if he's not working now I. Will be his blessing.
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  You know this. See Why Church Brainwash?
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  You every reasoning will disappear from your head.
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  I couldn't believe what my friend was telling me.
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  I. Couldn't believe what she had
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  gone through, but at the same time I couldn't.
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  The worst thing you can do to a friend.
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  Is to tell the person I told you.
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  So I couldn't say anything. Because the solution, I couldn't
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  tell her. Solution was simple.
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  Give him an ultimatum, he said. He start paying bills or he
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  bounce, but I couldn't say. That to her because as far as
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  she's concerned. This is her God sends husband.
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  This is her prayer answered. This is just a trying time.
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  The devil is trying them. He would, you know, get
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  something doing. Like even after.
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  Everything you say ohh, but he's a good man.
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  Who is this? Who is that?
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  And I'm like, I cannot command and tell you my church, mine do,
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  because I don't want to be like the devil that is trying to
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  wedge something. So the the point here is I
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  understand that. People pray for what they want
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  and the Nigerian system has made it almost impossible.
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  For people to sit down and. For young ladies, especially the
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  ones in their. 30s. Those, they have expired because
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  they will only tell them if you're not married.
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  You're not complete if you're not this I knew of somebody.
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  Who refused to take a job promotion because she didn't
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  want to. Appear too successful because
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  she was looking for husband. I knew somebody who did not want
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  to buy a car. Because maybe if her husband
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  does not have car now, he will feel intimidated.
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  I would rather wait when I get. Married, to start, like so many
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  women hold themselves. Back because they believe that
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  if they do certain things. It will chase certain see.
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  If you hold yourself back and then you get into that marriage
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  and you start doing all those things.
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  You are selling yourself shorts because they anybody that see
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  you at your level and marry. You maybe for the ones there are
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  some people. Who believe we can grow
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  together. There are some.
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  People who believe this is what I signed up for.
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  I don't want any stress. I want somebody.
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  Men are very intentional. Because you see, if you ask me
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  what do you want to get married, some of them will tell you.
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  I'm tired of cooking. Some of them will tell you I
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  want to come back home and see somebody.
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  Some of them will tell you I want to have children.
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  Some of them will tell you, I just need somebody to like.
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  They want some of them wants house girl that.
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  Plays wifely rule, so they are very intentional.
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  About it or women. When women want to get married
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  or when you talk about husband. It's about Godwin, that status
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  thing. I want the society to see me as
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  a married woman, regardless of. The situation as long as they.
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  Said this is the wife of. Whatever, they are happy with
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  that title and the society has made it so important, even more
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  important than individual happiness.
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  That is the problem we have and that is why we're always going
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  to see people gathering in churches, praying with wedding
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  gown. Forgot to answer them.
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  I have not seen a woman carrying a house picture and say God.
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  Give me this house or. Is it that they are holding
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  twins? Or they are holding.
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  Stop it. Ohh listen, it's not even funny,
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  but. We should think like this is
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  20/23/2023 people are going to the moon.
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  People, rockets, people are going to outer space and we are
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  still. Praying for Us Banned Ah who?
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  Does this thing. Who was this team Pray for what
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  you want to pray? For what you want, if you're
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  going to wear Wedding down for God to be.
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  Because, you know, some people are saying is this fate or is?
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  This just foolishness, because don't forget the organiser of
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  that show is. Cha cha and we all know.
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  Very documented. Abusive marriage that she's in
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  Like every market day chatter is coming online to cry about her
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  marriage. To cry.
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  About her husband to cry about, you know, and then she's the one
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  organising people to bear. With it like the last person
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  that will tell me about marriage is Chacha.
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  If you actually think about. It the last person that should.
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  Ohh. Cha Cha should be the last
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  person that organised this thing.
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  But they paid her to endorse wedding dress and she partnered
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  with a church. Because she knew she needed
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  ladies. Vulnerable ladies who are going.
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  To wear these clothes and display.
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  And we're sitting there talking about it.
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  The bridal shop is catching catching out cha.
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  Cha has cashed out. We are now.
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  She's not talking about the church and the pastor and the
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  pastor missus. So everybody wins both.
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  The actual model, the models, the.
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  Bridal. You know models.
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  These are people that will go out there now and accept any man
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  because they've prayed for husband and they might not end
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  well. But I wish them all the best.
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  You know, life is all about what you believe in.
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  If you believe that it's going to work for you, believe.
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  But also shine your eyes open your eyes don't wanna marry.
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  A deadbeat just because you pray to God and that was the first
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  person that told. You about or ask you to marry
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  them, shine eyes. Anyway, thank you very much for
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  watching. Today's episode, I'm not saying
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