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- 0:31Diva Mears, today we're going to talk about HRT. What's HRT?
- 0:36It's hormone repressment therapy. I think I knew that.
- 0:39Yes, I know you do. If anybody would know, you will be the one who consult me
- 0:44about everything about hormones. Oh, I know.
- 0:46I've been on them for a while. I know. You have.
- 0:49Well, you know, it's funny because HRT is in the news a lot more than it used
- 0:54to be. There was a lot of bad press a while ago with HRT for women as it,
- 1:00you know, if you don't do it right, you can have problems.
- 1:02Hormones can lead to other, you know, complications. So you really have to make
- 1:07sure you're doing the right level of hormones.
- 1:10Some medical doctors won't even prescribe them. Some doctors prefer to,
- 1:14like, functional doctors tend to be the ones or hormone specialists tend to
- 1:17be the ones that prescribe them nowadays.
- 1:19I thought it would be a good subject to dive into.
- 1:21I think so. do you really need to reach out to like
- 1:24for my my example my primary physician he
- 1:28will not take care of my hormones i have to actually seek out another clinic
- 1:31to reach out for my hormone and then again you have to like notice yourself
- 1:36what you used to have and all of a sudden you don't have and all of a sudden
- 1:40it disappears you know let's just drive into your vagina used to be nice and
- 1:44lubricated and now it's just dry like a desert
- 1:48Well, so we'll get into this a little bit further, but I actually went to the
- 1:51doctor because I'm having some problems.
- 1:54And it was one of the things that my doctor said that you should not be prescribed
- 1:59hormones based off of a number.
- 2:01You should be prescribed hormones based off of a symptom.
- 2:04Basically, no one's the same. So no one should be giving you advice regarding
- 2:09your hormones except for, you know, a professional that's used to it.
- 2:13And people start hormones as young as 16 years old if they want a gender-affirming
- 2:18hormone, and we're not going to go into it today.
- 2:20But women, between the age of 45 and 60 is when they tend to start.
- 2:24Did you know that? Yes, I do.
- 2:26I experience this myself. And men tend to start it in the early 40s. Is it really?
- 2:31Yeah, because men's testosterone starts to decline in their early 40s.
- 2:35You know, the funny thing is, I know it's how personal, but,
- 2:37you know, we talk about personal.
- 2:39My husband and I actually had a conversation about it. And he knows that he's
- 2:44ceased to strut around this low. But you know what he said?
- 2:47Once you be on, you have to be on for good, which is not always true, I don't think.
- 2:52Well, it depends because sometimes people's, you know, testosterone ebbs and flows.
- 2:58But here's the other thing, and we'll talk about this in more length.
- 3:02And I do mean length. If a man is not on testosterone, their penis size tends to become smaller.
- 3:08Definitely. And men don't realize that, that they lose size,
- 3:11width, and length as they get older because of a lack of testosterone.
- 3:15See, that's another thing.
- 3:17So talk to them about that one. Right. They don't realize it,
- 3:20and they don't understand. And then it's so hard.
- 3:23That's why another thing is, sometimes it's just a conversation.
- 3:26The conversation, like you and I talk about it, this is a part of girls' therapy.
- 3:30Yeah. Yeah, you know? So people always...
- 3:34The description of the word therapy wrong like
- 3:38you go out with your friend for the coffee also therapy you
- 3:41go out shopping also therapy so when it come up
- 3:44when the word therapy come up do not be scared that's
- 3:47another thing yes yes well let's talk about
- 3:50why men go on trt or trt
- 3:53is also known as testosterone replacement therapy why
- 3:56men go on it so let me know if your husband has any
- 3:59of these low energy is one of the reasons like they're
- 4:02just tired all the time or they fatigue their libido
- 4:06or sexual performance goes down now i know personally that
- 4:09if a guy's in their 50s and they're not
- 4:12on trt then they're on viagra because there's well
- 4:16some of the guys are okay i'm not saying all guys but it's common that if a
- 4:20man's in his 50s they're either going to be on viagra or they're going to be
- 4:23on testosterone replacement therapy the thing about testosterone replacement
- 4:26therapy It's going to help them maintain their muscle mass as well as their libido and size as well.
- 4:33Does your husband have any of that? Does that replace my echo?
- 4:36Well, not necessarily because there can be other issues related to erection
- 4:41besides just testosterone because there can be blood flow issues.
- 4:46And I'm not a medical professional, obviously, but there can be other things related to erections.
- 4:51The number one reason is blood flow. But testosterone also helps a man keep
- 4:55an erection longer. and harder. He has no problem with that one.
- 5:00That's good. You just told everybody.
- 5:04But he's fatigued all the time, but mainly I think because he's just overtired on himself.
- 5:09Well, you know, if he finds that he gets more tired than he used to,
- 5:13it's probably a hormone thing.
- 5:15And I was listening to a podcast the other day, and they said that we're living longer than we used to.
- 5:20The thing is, is our hormones, they don't just, they don't keep going.
- 5:24So it's one of those things that gives out For men, it's early 40s.
- 5:27For women, it's, you know, 45 to 60.
- 5:30Some women go through menopause and certain hormones trigger more so than others.
- 5:35Yes, it is. We have a friend that, they went through menopause at the age of
- 5:3843. Yeah. Yeah, she did. A lot of people don't accept,
- 5:43part. You know, they don't believe in hormone therapy. They don't.
- 5:46She says she's too young. She came out. She came a long way. Now she's 52.
- 5:52You know, in our community, you know, we don't talk openly about all this stuff.
- 5:56Oh, yeah. Yeah. So you probably don't even talk about testosterone.
- 5:59No, they don't know what it is. It's becoming more and more of a thing.
- 6:02And I know that a lot of men, if they want to maintain their muscle mass,
- 6:06are taking it all the way up until their 80s.
- 6:08So maybe even longer. I don't know. It's definitely becoming a hot,
- 6:12hot topic. I think it's going to grow into the future.
- 6:15And then there's the hormones that women are on.
- 6:18And women are on, well, men may be on other hormones as well.
- 6:22Men may be on DHEA, but there's different types of hormones that men can be on.
- 6:26But women, we got a whole slew of hormones.
- 6:30We've got estrogen replacement. We've got progesterone. We've got testosterone.
- 6:35We've got DHEA. And women take testosterone now, which is most people are like,
- 6:40what? Women are taking testosterone? Because yeah, it helps with your libido too.
- 6:43Yes, we do. We also take pregnenolone.
- 6:46There's just a slew of hormones.
- 6:49And again, you have to talk to your functional doctor to find out the right amount.
- 6:54You definitely see. So bottom line, do you think after, especially men at the
- 7:00age of 45, They need to start looking into this.
- 7:04They probably should. They probably should. And they probably.
- 7:06Especially if they don't feel well. Right.
- 7:08You know, exercise and diet helps too. So if somebody is physically fit,
- 7:13they're going to have, you know.
- 7:15Yeah. And they lift weights, they're going to have probably more natural.
- 7:18I think so. I think you really need to pay attention to your symptoms.
- 7:22Yes. Yeah. So like you said, your hormone and my numbers and your numbers.
- 7:26It's going to be completely different. Completely different.
- 7:29And you have to go by home. you feel and pay attention to your symptoms.
- 7:33You do. Women are often taking estrogen and progesterone. I think those are
- 7:38the two big ones that women take.
- 7:40Yeah. Some take testosterone. I take testosterone.
- 7:42You know what thing you notice very quickly?
- 7:45Once you start losing your hair, since I've been on the therapy, my hair grew back.
- 7:49Did it? Yeah. See all this baby hair? I wonder if testosterone would help with male balding as well.
- 7:55Balding as. Do your research, Diva Mills. I shall.
- 7:58Yes. Yeah, I noticed my hair grew back. See all this baby hair. Wow.
- 8:02From the back. Well, I don't, I think there's other things with male testosterone,
- 8:06but so like for instance, estrogen, estrogen can come in a pill,
- 8:09a patch or a cream. I actually do the cream.
- 8:11You can also get these little pellets now too.
- 8:14Yes. And the pellets, they get injected in your hip and they last for a month
- 8:17or two or three, depending on the pellet.
- 8:19But you have to be careful with, with estrogen because it can increase your
- 8:23risk of cancer. Is that really?
- 8:25Euterine cancer. Yeah. And I, and I'll tell you about that in a second.
- 8:27And it's usually prescribed in a, in a combination with progesterone.
- 8:31So when you're taking estrogen, you're often taking progesterone,
- 8:34too, and they've got to balance each other out.
- 8:37Progesterone, does it make your soreness and your boobs?
- 8:42Yep. I had, I'll just go ahead and, you know, hit on this now.
- 8:45I had a problem. I haven't had my period in about three years.
- 8:50Menopausal, perimenopausal, whatever you want to call it. My LH hormone is still
- 8:53high enough that it's very, very unlikely that I would get pregnant at this age.
- 8:57But I started my period again after three years. Oh, my God.
- 9:01I had some cramping due to, you know, I did an IV and I, it's a long story,
- 9:05but anyway, I had some cramping and I ended up starting my period again.
- 9:08Well, how long does it last? My period's gone on for three and a half weeks. So I went to the doctor.
- 9:13I have to go in for a biopsy of my uterus. Oh, wow. Yeah.
- 9:18In about three weeks, four weeks, maybe, I told the woman that I had just started
- 9:23hormone therapy and she's like, oh, okay.
- 9:25And what happens is if you take too much estrogen, the estrogen will increase
- 9:30the thickness of your lining with, well, progesterone and estrogen both do that.
- 9:34Anyway, your uterus gets thicker and then it starts to shed with the estrogen.
- 9:37So I've been on my period for three weeks, almost four weeks.
- 9:42Is it heavy bleeding or normal bleeding? It's been heavy.
- 9:44Yeah, it's been heavy. Oh, wow. And it just took me a while to get into the
- 9:47doctor. That's a whole nother story, right?
- 9:50You just make an appointment. It takes you two weeks to get in.
- 9:52But anyway, so I have to go in for a biopsy of my uterus.
- 9:56And my boobs hurt. And I'm just sharing this because, you know,
- 9:59other women may be going through this. The same thing, yeah.
- 10:01Since I don't think I was balanced right on my hormones.
- 10:05So this is a word to the cautionary tale. And I have a feeling,
- 10:09don't worry, I think it's going to be just the fact that I've been on hormones.
- 10:12And the doctor said she sees it all the time, that women go on hormones and
- 10:16people that haven't had their period, all of a sudden their period starts again.
- 10:20And it does thicken the lining. However, because they have to make sure I don't
- 10:24have any cancer cells in my uterus, I'm going in for a biopsy,
- 10:29which is supposed to be painful, by the way.
- 10:30And they're going to take a little part of my uterus out and they're going to
- 10:33cut it out and test it. And you're going to bleed again while that heals.
- 10:37I'll definitely bleed again. Word to the wise is make sure that whenever you're
- 10:42getting your hormones, you definitely need to make sure your progesterone is balanced.
- 10:46Yeah. Do you have to like set the time? Remember how to take all this?
- 10:50I mean, when is the best time you should take your hormones?
- 10:52Well, the progesterone is best at night.
- 10:53At night. So I take the cream at night. And now I'm also on a progesterone pill.
- 10:58I don't do any more estrogen. The estrogen, I've shut down the estrogen completely.
- 11:01Because we're trying to rebalance my hormones. Again, each person's individual.
- 11:06So I'm estrogen dominant. I'm estrogen-dominant naturally, so when they put
- 11:10me on estrogen, it set my hormones off. Does it make you gain weight?
- 11:14Yeah, it can. Too much estrogen, yeah. Oh, wow. But progesterone should help with weight loss.
- 11:18It's anti-inflammatory as well. So there's a lot of health benefits to progesterone.
- 11:23Does it bother your joints? Like for me? Inflammation does, yeah. Right?
- 11:27So for me, ever since I've been on this therapy, I noticed myself,
- 11:32I don't know if it's in my head or not, but I felt like my knees doesn't bother
- 11:35me as much like it used to. And the therapy is...
- 11:39What's in it? But what's in it? Do you know? No.
- 11:42You know, I see her this Saturday. I'm going to get the whole list. You should.
- 11:46Everybody should know what their doctors are prescribing them.
- 11:49You know, make sure you're balanced out.
- 11:51So there's a saliva test. It's by ZRT Laboratory.
- 11:55I've got my test results here. And my Estrodol is high.
- 11:59My progesterone's low. And my
- 12:01testosterone's a little low. And you can see how last time it went down.
- 12:05My estrogen went up. But my progesterone went from 2,400 down to 36.
- 12:10So something's going on there.
- 12:11So and then my DHEA is low as well. I've got a low DHEA.
- 12:16But progesterone, I believe in DHEA, they balance each other out.
- 12:19So as DHEA goes up, progesterone goes up as well. Interesting, huh?
- 12:23Yeah. So I think our body just like hard as the day goes on. You need to tune up.
- 12:28I need more testosterone and I need more progesterone. Yeah.
- 12:31You really need to look at your symptoms.
- 12:33And if you're having symptoms, you got to talk to your doctor about it.
- 12:36Yeah, what about like some people don't believe in any of this.
- 12:39They would love to go through naturally.
- 12:41They can, but you know, your bone strength gets lower. So you're going to more
- 12:45likely to osteoporosis.
- 12:47So remember that you might be hunched over because you're not on hormone therapy.
- 12:50Yeah, I actually have my bone density test too. Did you? Yeah.
- 12:54And is it good? It's good, yeah.
- 12:55Well, I think I need to revisit again because I had a test like five years ago.
- 12:59Yeah, you're supposed to get them every five years, I believe.
- 13:02Oh, is it? Maybe sooner if you had a problem. But lifestyle affects lifestyle,
- 13:06like diet, exercise, sleep. All that impacts your testosterone levels, too.
- 13:09So if you're not sleeping enough, your testosterone is going down.
- 13:12And the thing is, a lot of men in their 40s and 50s are stressed out and they're not sleeping well.
- 13:16They're not sleeping enough. So that's going to decrease their testosterone.
- 13:19So then they lose muscle mass because everybody's losing muscle mass, right?
- 13:22So every year you're losing muscle mass unless you're doing something about it. You have to.
- 13:27Once you lose muscle mass, if you notice your bicep smaller,
- 13:30chances are your thing gets smaller.
- 13:33And you don't want that little thing to shrink. You don't want that to get shrink.
- 13:35Yes, you do not want that.
- 13:37You know what the old say? The thing didn't break. Don't fix it.
- 13:40Maybe they're in the nose. Maybe they don't know. They don't accept the two.
- 13:43Well, here's the thing. If it ain't broke, you should still check to see if
- 13:47you can do a tune-up. Just be extra careful.
- 13:50I'm a perfect example. And your progesterone levels may be messed up.
- 13:54And mine are messed up right now. Yeah.
- 13:56I tell you the truth, though. I just started paying attention to my symptom.
- 14:00I got it two years ago. That's it. Well, you know what? Sometimes we're so busy
- 14:04working, we don't take care of our health.
- 14:06Yeah, I just think I'm in the nows. I was just like, oh, I'm an old age.
- 14:09But do you believe it or not? If you have 50 people, most women think you're old already.
- 14:14No, it's not. Right now, 60 is a new 30s.
- 14:17You really need to look at yourself and pay attention to your symptoms,
- 14:22get yourself checked, if you're
- 14:24fatigued, or maybe you need to do a diet change. Here's the other thing.
- 14:29Hormones affect your skin. Your skin. So if you put estrogen on your face,
- 14:34the estrogen cream, it's supposed to help with wrinkles.
- 14:37Did you know that? Really? Because estrogen is good for skin. Skin.
- 14:41And I probably should have talked to my doctor about that one.
- 14:43I forgot to tell her that I have used a little bit of estrogen cream once a week, not a lot.
- 14:48I had already had my period up when I started doing this.
- 14:50I think, well, I'm a 60-year-old woman. I think the prevention of the wrinkles
- 14:56should start way earlier than this.
- 14:58I don't know. I think a lot of it is hereditary because I hardly did anything. I don't wrinkle.
- 15:03I don't use sunscreen. I barely moisturize. Think about it. If you eat a lot
- 15:07of soy, what does that do? Do you know? It increases your estrogen.
- 15:10So if you're eating a lot of soy sauce, your estrogen levels are going up already. Huh.
- 15:14So you have to be careful with that, too. There's foods that we can eat that affect us as well.
- 15:19I definitely know the food that you could eat affected because when I first
- 15:23start testing it, she make me do the food diary for seven days.
- 15:28I'm basically right now on no dairies, no butter, no cheese, no milk.
- 15:33If I would think so, I would be like almond milk. And, you know,
- 15:36I noticed myself, too, for these past two years, everything I changed.
- 15:40Yeah. I feel I have more energy. Another reason why people go on HRT for women is hot flashes.
- 15:47And you said you had those, right? I already had those between.
- 15:50I had hot flashes. I had night sweats between age 50 to 55.
- 15:55Believe me or not, it lasted me for a long time. And you know why?
- 15:59Because I refused to go get this therapy.
- 16:02I should have done this sooner. I should have because it can reduce the intensity
- 16:05and frequency. Where were you all this time? I never had hot flashes.
- 16:09I went through menopause without having hot flashes. I barely had hardly anything
- 16:13except for a little dryness.
- 16:15I barely had any problems going through menopause. I mean, it was like,
- 16:18I was like, okay, I'm done. My period's over. I'm done.
- 16:20It was like turning off a light switch. It was nothing. Oh, I had like hot flashes.
- 16:24I'm not like every day. You know, it comes like.
- 16:27It comes and goes for like five years. Yeah. Five years. I've never had a single hot flash.
- 16:33You don't? I've never had a single hot flash. You never experienced hot flashes?
- 16:36Never. You get like, all of a sudden your class gets foggy.
- 16:40And then next minute you get that chill.
- 16:44Never had it. You're very lucky. I know. They said there's a percentage of women
- 16:48that just don't have them, and I'm one of those women.
- 16:50It's okay. I get all the other crap that other women don't.
- 16:53That's okay. You can't. So did
- 16:56you have the night sweats? I have a nice sweat, but it's not a lot. No.
- 17:00The nice sweat, maybe once or twice a week. But it lasts me for a good five
- 17:05years to be like completely done, done.
- 17:07But I also have my period like, oh, yeah, once a year for a while, too.
- 17:13But it's only like, it's just like a little span. Yeah, mine was spotty before
- 17:17it stopped. But, you know, I had a child late, too.
- 17:19My second, I was 44 years old. Same, yeah. I had my kid, 43.
- 17:23Yeah. My first one. Yeah. So the reality is, is that everybody's a little different.
- 17:29Did you have dryness and discomfort down there? No, I do. Did sex hurt at all? Well, we use cream.
- 17:34Okay. It hurts. You know what's great actually is coconut oil.
- 17:38Is it? It's kind of all natural and it's smelled of coconut. I like coconut oil.
- 17:43Did you get pissy, like have mood swings? Like I know a lot of women get mad
- 17:47and have mood swings. I don't get mood swings, but I get emotional.
- 17:51Emotional. I cry over the commotion.
- 17:54You know what? I did too, but I was going through a divorce during it.
- 17:56So I don't know if I was crying from the divorce or crying from menopause.
- 17:59Who knows? It's a menopause. You think so?
- 18:02Because I was not typically an emotional person before menopause.
- 18:06When I cried, I was like, this is so not like me. No, I cry over dirty dancing.
- 18:12I thought about Patrick Swayze.
- 18:14Well, Patrick Swayze is pretty nice. He's really hot. I know.
- 18:17I had a thing for him for the longest time. I cried over commercial.
- 18:21Like, you know, up in the commercial, the army husband come home and see the
- 18:25wife in the house. Yeah, I cried over commercial.
- 18:28Did you ever have the insomnia or fatigue from your menopause? Yes.
- 18:32I used to stay up all night and I'd do all the shopping. Oh,
- 18:34you'd do all the shopping in the middle of the night? In the middle of the night, yes.
- 18:37Like I would go to, I would pass out like nightclub and woke up in the middle
- 18:42of the night like 2 a.m. and couldn't fall back to sleep.
- 18:44And me, I never had problems sleeping.
- 18:47I had problems getting up during that period of time. So if you have a problem
- 18:51getting up, that might be related to cortisol.
- 18:54Is it? Yeah. So your cortisol fluctuates over the course of the evening.
- 18:58And it's supposed to spike in the morning so that you get out of bed.
- 19:02And if your cortisol is too low in the morning, you're going to have a difficult
- 19:05time getting out of bed. part of that is related to insulin resistance.
- 19:09So if you have insulin resistance, it's going to mess up your cortisol hormones.
- 19:13So that they can check as well.
- 19:15People think that when you go to a hormone doctor that all they're checking
- 19:18is your sex hormones, but they're going to check your cortisol levels too.
- 19:22Cortisol helps with osteoporosis. That's one huge benefit I think that people
- 19:27don't think of is like your bone density.
- 19:30And I know you said you got tested. I got tested too. Mine was fine.
- 19:33I'm going to have to retest it again because I tested
- 19:35But that's what they did, like, five years ago. But then again,
- 19:38you're supposed to do 175 years, right, unless they find a problem.
- 19:41It's just like colonoscopy.
- 19:42So here's the other thing. Do you have high cholesterol? Yes.
- 19:45So hormone replacement therapy helps with your cholesterol.
- 19:48That's another thing, too. I have high blood pressure. I have high cholesterol.
- 19:52Well, it helps with circulation, so it should help with that. I don't know.
- 19:55But the high cholesterol, if you have hormone replacement therapy, it'll help that, too.
- 19:59So it's a longevity type of thing. People think that, you know,
- 20:03it's all about, you know, having sex drive and getting wetter or whatever.
- 20:08But it's about living longer.
- 20:10People on hormone replacement therapy may live longer as long as you don't screw
- 20:14up like mine. But just when they live longer, healthy longer.
- 20:18Yeah. And here's the thing. If you have a side effect to any type of hormone
- 20:23replacement therapy that you're going on like me, you need to talk to your doctor right away.
- 20:27I could have let it go and it could have continued. And you don't want to let it continue it. all.
- 20:33So if you have side effects, if anything's out of the ordinary,
- 20:36you do need to speak to your doctor to get something rebalanced, something's off.
- 20:40Yeah. Remember, do not compare you to the others. You have your own symptoms.
- 20:44Okay. So here's another one that people don't realize. It helps with staving
- 20:47off dementia and Alzheimer's disease. That I agree.
- 20:51My mom actually starts her dementias right now.
- 20:56And one of the things they did to her, it's a hormone therapy.
- 20:59To help with her dementia? To help with her dementia.
- 21:01Well, it's better if you start before you get the dementia. Yeah.
- 21:04So my mom, you know how in our Asian community, we don't open up about this.
- 21:08And my mom never really go through any of this.
- 21:10Everything is natural, natural, natural.
- 21:13So now when she go to, we finally move her to assisted living when she start her dementias.
- 21:19And one of the things they did, that is actually the first thing they did to
- 21:22her is they get her tested or completely.
- 21:25And they put her in hormone therapy. Hormone therapy. There you go.
- 21:30It helps with your memory and focus as well.
- 21:34So it's not just for your sex drive. No, it makes you happier too. Yeah, definitely.
- 21:39Yeah, especially if you're going through like you went through with your menopause
- 21:43and crying all the time. I wish I talked to you. Well, we don't know each other back then.
- 21:47Yeah, so yeah, I went through it all by myself. I cried.
- 21:52It's just like crying. You know how I can sleep and wake up at 2 o'clock in the morning?
- 21:57Yeah, I know. I get up at 2 o'clock in the morning, turn on TV,
- 22:00and then put on, you know, start doing the shopping. and then all of a sudden
- 22:03the commercial comes on.
- 22:04I was like, whoa. I didn't know what's going on.
- 22:08She cries, dirty dancing.
- 22:11Cracks me up. All right, so then we talked about this a little bit, but your hair.
- 22:15If anything, it's the first, to me anyway, it's my first side.
- 22:18It's the first thing you noticed? Yes.
- 22:20And your skin elasticity is supposed to help with that. And hydration. I do get dry.
- 22:24My skin does get dry. I don't moisturize enough, but... And you know what else?
- 22:29My finger will get stuck. Like, I will hold this like this and stuck like this. Really?
- 22:33And when I talked to my doctor, she just said, oh, you have to hydrate yourself.
- 22:37Because I also practiced my heated yoga for the past seven years.
- 22:40They said, I sweat a lot. I didn't put back enough water. Yeah.
- 22:44Yeah. I noticed that, too. Well, progesterone is also supposed to help your sex drive.
- 22:51So both of those are supposed to drive sex drive as well as help you with vaginal dryness.
- 22:56And estrogen helps with vaginal dryness, too. So I think I'm just right now
- 23:00I don't have any vaginal dryness and it's obvious that I have too much estrogen.
- 23:05We have to make sure that we're getting the right dosage for women as well as for men.
- 23:10I mean, I know this this podcast is more about women, but, you know,
- 23:14a lot of women have men out there and it's important to make sure that we take
- 23:18care of our husbands and boyfriends, etc.
- 23:21Yeah. Does men have the same hormones like we do, you know?
- 23:24Men still have estrogen, but they shouldn't be supplementing with it,
- 23:28no, unless they're wanting to be a woman.
- 23:30They have a little bit, but the main hormone that men take is just TRT,
- 23:34testosterone replacement therapy. It helps them get more energy.
- 23:37It helps with physical and mental activities throughout the day.
- 23:41So it's a positive for men, too, to focus on, you know, and muscle mass, for sure, muscle mass.
- 23:47I mean, years ago, it's not open day about it, but right now,
- 23:51it's so, it becomes very common and common. Honestly, I meet a lot of men on
- 23:55testosterone replacement therapy once they hit 40. Even if it hits 40? Yeah.
- 24:00Well, maybe early 40s. A lot of men are.
- 24:03And I think it's good for their overall health as well as sexual health.
- 24:08I think a lot of men get on it for sexual health.
- 24:10It enhances their libido. It gives them better erectile function.
- 24:14So they're going to maintain an erection longer.
- 24:16They're going to have less vascular issues. They're going to go limp less.
- 24:20So that's a problem that men in their 50s and 60s start to have.
- 24:24I just think you have healthy sex drive. You have a healthy sex drive.
- 24:28Your Johnson down there, whatever you want to call it, works a little bit better.
- 24:32Everything in your household, you will be happy.
- 24:35All of those are follow-up. Now, I have seen people get on too much and they
- 24:38get a little bit too jacked and then they get a little too aggressive.
- 24:41So men have to balance their TRT. Don't just overdo it. It's also going to help
- 24:45them keep their lean muscle mass. They're going to lift weights and they're
- 24:48going to be able to keep their muscle mass.
- 24:50Here's the thing. If you've got a man, a husband that's not been on TRT and
- 24:54they get on TRT, they're probably going to increase their fat metabolism and
- 24:58they're going to lose some weight.
- 24:59So they might even lean up a little bit. But then again, there's some guys on
- 25:02TRT that still have a big old belly.
- 25:04The belly in the way of a lot of things. It gets in the way of everything.
- 25:09Ladies, if they have that belly, you better be prepared to do all the work on your own.
- 25:14No, I'm serious because a close friend of mine, you know, we talked about everything.
- 25:22We are divas, right? We are divas. We are divas. We talk about everything.
- 25:25They had an issue with their husband, like the belly.
- 25:28They said, no, I had to do all the work. Well, if they get on TRT,
- 25:32hopefully that'll decrease their fat accumulation, especially in the middle area.
- 25:36So if you get a little muff top there and you're trying to get rid of your stomach,
- 25:39it helps women as well. Now, again, it needs to be balanced,
- 25:43and everyone's different. Everyone's different, yes.
- 25:46You know, so now if you've got a guy that's depressed or irritable,
- 25:50has anxiety, and always frustrated or sad, that's a sign.
- 25:55Those are kind of the symptoms for men that have low testosterone.
- 25:58If you're not happy in your home, I think that's a start, too.
- 26:02That's the first symptom. Don't they say happy husband, happy life? Happy life?
- 26:06I think it's happy wife, happy life. I know, but I think it's happy husband,
- 26:10happy life lately, ladies.
- 26:12Because if your husband's pissy, I'm telling you, you're not having a happy life. No.
- 26:16And you can cover it up all you want, but it's not a happy life. No.
- 26:19And men, okay, not to knock the men, but I will say a lot of men in their 50s
- 26:25have a lot of brain fog. They do.
- 26:2750s, 60s, 70s, they start to get, you know, brain fog and lack of clarity.
- 26:32I think I don't want to blame on my culture. You know, I'm Asian, right? I'm Laos.
- 26:36In our community, especially men, they do not want to accept any of these talks.
- 26:41Oh, I know. Well, and here's the thing.
- 26:44Sometimes you can just send them a link to our podcast. That is so true.
- 26:47And say, you know what, maybe listen to this and you'll hear that,
- 26:51you know, there's men starting in their 40s that are getting on testosterone
- 26:55replacement therapy. So if they need to, I would have them talk to a medical professional.
- 27:01And here's the thing. The doctor that I talked to, she says a lot of doctors
- 27:06won't prescribe hormone replacement therapy because it is a lot to maintain.
- 27:12You've got to constantly check up on the client.
- 27:14You've got to constantly check to make sure everything's balanced.
- 27:17And so you have to meet with them often.
- 27:18So a lot of the Western medicine has stopped doing hormone replacement.
- 27:22So you really have to find someone specializing, a medical doctor that specializes,
- 27:27probably a functional medicine that specializes in medicine.
- 27:31Hormone therapy that's the best way to go now the other problem
- 27:34with that is a lot of them don't take insurance so if
- 27:37you're trying to you know go you know the cheap route you're
- 27:40going to pay cash for this mine doesn't take insurance my
- 27:43hormone doctor yeah so a lot of the hormones is not something
- 27:46that you're going to be able to get off on your insurance so there
- 27:49you know this is kind of the treatment or the therapy
- 27:52if you will of the wealthy or the middle class and
- 27:55up because if you're it's not it's not cheap now
- 27:58no but she did try to put in with my
- 28:01my insurance and my insurance denied it well sometimes
- 28:04the insurance will cover the the the therapy
- 28:07or they'll give you a discount but they won't cover
- 28:10the the doctor's visits although so my
- 28:13creams aren't covered but my the estradiol those
- 28:17are covered and any pills i have are covered
- 28:19but they won't cover the cream so it depends on what the
- 28:22the medicine is depend on your my insurance only
- 28:25cover blood tests does it well so yeah it depends
- 28:28every every insurance company is different so talk to your insurance company
- 28:31i mean if you have a cadillac policy they may cover that too but you know it's
- 28:36so funny that they don't and then people end up having all these health problems
- 28:40later that could have been avoided if they were on right therapy you know this
- 28:44is like just the prevention.
- 28:46This is a prevention, yes. It is.
- 28:48If you want to live long, healthy life, you have to really looking at this.
- 28:53Let's face it, 50 is a half centuries, right? Mm-hmm.
- 28:56So if anything, you have to pay attention to yourself, take a look at your symptoms.
- 29:01If you want to have an active, healthy life.
- 29:05And I want to live to at least 150, so I'm shooting for 150.
- 29:09So I need to have an active life all the way up to 150.
- 29:12You mean sex drive too? Oh, hell yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, hell yeah.
- 29:16So sex drive is part of health to me. That is true.
- 29:19So you definitely need to keep your sex drive going forward.
- 29:22So that is crucial and important.
- 29:25And then men have the same issue, too. They get, you know, it helps their heart.
- 29:28And there's a lot of women and men both that have cardiovascular issues.
- 29:32So like, you know, you want to keep your heart healthy, too. And the hormones help.
- 29:36It decreases your cholesterol, your triglycerides, all that stuff.
- 29:40Quality of life, though, physical stamina, vitality, all those things are hormone related.
- 29:45It's not just a sexual stamina. It's a physical stamina. You know what I mean?
- 29:49That the man just will have a better posture.
- 29:51They'll have stronger muscles. They'll be more mentally able to have discussions
- 29:56because, you know, testosterone helps with that.
- 29:59But you know, as you get older, you get shorter. You're shrinking.
- 30:01Not as much if you're on hormones, though, because your bone density stands better.
- 30:05You also, your libido stays. You're not as tired. You're not as tired. You're not hunching.
- 30:11You know what? You are correct. But here's the thing. It's not the fountain of youth.
- 30:16I think a lot of people look at hormones and they think, oh,
- 30:18my gosh, that's all I have to do is drop in some hormones.
- 30:21It's not going to make you that much younger. It's just going to keep you active longer.
- 30:25Yeah, I think it has to balance it out, I think.
- 30:29But then again, your hormone therapy is not all about sex. It's all about your health.
- 30:33And here's the thing. If you're healthy, if you're working out all the time,
- 30:37if you're lifting weights, you're going to have, your testosterone is going
- 30:40to ebb and flow too for men and women. So you have to constantly get blood work
- 30:44done too. Blood work or saliva tests like I did.
- 30:47Does come out from saliva? Yeah, this was a saliva test.
- 30:50Yeah, I had blood work this Saturday morning. Yeah, there's blood work.
- 30:55There's saliva tests. These you have to send in. It's your saliva throughout
- 30:58the day. It does really well with the cortisol. So it tests the cortisol through
- 31:01multiple times of the day.
- 31:03My cortisol levels have actually come way down. They were really high before.
- 31:06So my cortisol is doing well. And DHEA, I think, balances that out as well.
- 31:12What's your energy level, though? My energy level seems to be pretty good. It's awesome.
- 31:17Yeah, it was worse. But I think it's, you know, I have other health issues, too, like liver issues.
- 31:22But energy level seems to be pretty good. So, yeah, and then,
- 31:25like, you fill out this questionnaire of, I have these problems,
- 31:29and they kind of tell you, well, low cortisol will relate to this, et cetera.
- 31:33So, it's kind of a neat little report to get on top of all the other,
- 31:37you know, blood work you get.
- 31:38That's so true, too. Talk about losing hormone, though. There's some men start
- 31:41losing their hair at their very, very early age.
- 31:44It's not just testosterone, though, that affects hair.
- 31:47There's a lot of hereditary stuff, though, too.
- 31:50So, but for women, I think it's harder for a doctor to balance our hormones than anything.
- 31:55For me, that's the only reason I know this because I lose a lot of hair like a trunk.
- 31:59For women, yeah, it's, it's for women more so than men. It's,
- 32:03it's a lot of hormone stuff.
- 32:05Yeah, yeah. I agree. I, I am kind of intrigued with AI and women and I'm hoping
- 32:13that, you know, not to go too techie, but I'm hoping that they can help us balance
- 32:17our hormones to a more specific level.
- 32:20Because right now, it feels like the doctors are kind of just,
- 32:23we're an experiment, honestly.
- 32:25I feel like, you know, they balance us, but then, oh, shucks,
- 32:30our estrogen's too high.
- 32:31So now let's go stick you in for a, you know, a biopsy and you're having your period.
- 32:36Whereas that maybe with a blood test could have been identified earlier.
- 32:41Oh, we need to up your progesterone more. We need to up it to this specific amount.
- 32:46I think with AI, they're going to know over time, because they'll have enough
- 32:49data collected, that they'll be able to say, okay, we can up it to this amount,
- 32:52and this should give you this result.
- 32:55As long as people follow it, too, right? Right. Well, you know,
- 32:58it's data. It's data input. But
- 33:00I think for me, the biggest thing is that I think hormones will help you look younger a little bit.
- 33:05And hormones will keep you more sexually active and keep you healthier.
- 33:09Your energy level, definitely.
- 33:12Healthy hormone is definitely keep up your energy level. That's the first thing, your symptom.
- 33:17You fatigue, tired all the time, and you do everything right.
- 33:21That's another thing you need to look at.
- 33:23What about pain during sex? Have you ever had that? No, I'm very loving.
- 33:27I don't have pain during sex. Yeah, I've had that because of the vaginal dryness,
- 33:30so it can be painful. Yeah.
- 33:32Yeah, and that's a hormone thing too. That's a hormone thing.
- 33:34And people don't realize that that's a hormone thing.
- 33:36Huh. And here's the thing. Hormones have changed quite a bit from where they
- 33:40were before. So people think, oh, it's the old hormone stuff.
- 33:44And really, hormones have changed so much, and they're so different than they
- 33:48used to be, that people are now learning that, you know, it's kind of safer.
- 33:53It's not safe. Nothing's safe with, you know, medications.
- 33:57It has been so many studies about the hormone, about all the cells in your body.
- 34:02I think nowadays we're very, very advanced on that part, I think.
- 34:07Yeah, I mean, I can honestly say a few years ago, I don't think I heard of any
- 34:10women on testosterone. And now I hear of women all the time on testosterone.
- 34:14I just see all these testosterone clinics all over the place.
- 34:17Yeah, well. But I didn't realize that me, myself, need to look at themselves.
- 34:22Yeah, every single, you can't just do a pill like a vitamin.
- 34:25And I think a lot of people think it's just a pill. And they're bioidentical
- 34:29hormones now, too, whereas before a lot of times they did different types of
- 34:32hormones, but these are all bioidentical.
- 34:35So that should help, too.
- 34:36And then I do like the idea of the, you know, the under the skin.
- 34:40I do like the idea that keep your skin young.
- 34:42I like that, too. But I like the idea of the little pods where they stick it in. You don't have to.
- 34:47They stick it in your hip and you don't have to think about it for a couple months. Yeah.
- 34:51So how often do you do that? Two, three months? Every couple months,
- 34:54yeah. Every couple months. Yeah, it's a little pellet they inject under your skin.
- 34:59So before they inject, like in a couple months, you get yourself tested again?
- 35:03You get your blood work tested again.
- 35:05And they say, okay, do we need to up this? Do we need to up that?
- 35:08And then they determine what they need to up. And a lot of times they find,
- 35:11you know, there's problems.
- 35:13And then between now and then, from this time to next time, you kind of have
- 35:17to pay attention to your symptoms, see how you feel.
- 35:19Yeah. So, and I think, I will say that the libido has definitely gone up for me.
- 35:25My libido has, and I don't know if it's because I went through menopause.
- 35:28Like a lot of premenopausal women, a lot of premenopausal women will find that
- 35:34their libido dips. The dips.
- 35:36Right before menopause. And I will say that mine did.
- 35:40And I guess that's my symptom, right? I had a vaginal dryness,
- 35:43a little bit of pain during sex and my libido drip, probably because of the
- 35:46pain. But after I went through menopause, my sex drive went through the roof.
- 35:51I'm not saying that you're going to go home and try to pick on your husband,
- 35:53ladies. Yeah, do not pick on your husband. Do not do that.
- 35:56Yeah, but here's the thing is a lot of women at our age, you know,
- 35:59the libido either goes through the roof or it goes one of two directions.
- 36:04Ladies really does. It goes way up or it goes way down. And for me, it went way up.
- 36:09That's healthy, though. It is healthy. I have a healthy sex life when I have sex.
- 36:13That's what I'm saying. So that is very healthy for this age,
- 36:16especially your premenopause. Yes.
- 36:18This is something new. The whole period thing is brand new.
- 36:21Yeah. No, I was done. That's the thing. And the hormones turned it back on.
- 36:25That means you have to restart it again.
- 36:27If I get hot flashes now, I'll be very upset.
- 36:31I'm like, I haven't been there and done that. Yeah. Yeah. Oh,
- 36:35yeah. I would be. It's not pleasant for sure.
- 36:38Progesterone is so nice, too, because it helps you sleep. So that's why they
- 36:41want you to take it at night. How about your thyroid hormone?
- 36:44Oh, well, thyroid's a whole nother thing. So there's hypothyroidism and that
- 36:49people a lot of people have to and thyroids, your thyroid gland can actually
- 36:53affect all your hormones.
- 36:54So your liver affects your hormones. Yeah. And your thyroid affects your hormones.
- 36:58They say thyroids control pretty much everything.
- 37:01Your thyroid is like the gateway. So you've got to make sure that you have, you know, T4 and T3.
- 37:06And I don't really know, honestly, you'd have to talk to your doctor.
- 37:10There's a free T3 and a free T4 test that tests for your thyroid.
- 37:14Now, here's the thing. I'm not going to say that thyroid is in charge of your metabolism.
- 37:18It does regulate metabolism rate, but so many people say, oh,
- 37:23I have a bad thyroid, or bad metabolism because of my thyroid.
- 37:27That's not true. It's not usually true, guys.
- 37:28So it can help your calorie burn, but also eating a thing of donuts is probably
- 37:34not so good for you either. Yeah.
- 37:35But thyroid does help with your hormones, your metabolism. It also helps your heart.
- 37:41Yeah. Because see, every time I have physical, they always test for my thyroid.
- 37:45Yeah. And here's the other thing. It helps with cortisol.
- 37:48And cortisol is controlled by the hormone insulin.
- 37:52So this isn't related to sex, although, you know, if you get stressed,
- 37:56you might not have as much sex. Or if you get stressed, you might have more. Who knows?
- 37:58But insulin is, you know, regulates, you know, how much fat you put on your
- 38:03body. So if you have a lot of cortisol, you're going to have a lot more insulin.
- 38:07Some people use sex as a stress reliever. They do. And that is a fun stress reliever.
- 38:14I love sex as a stress reliever. I prefer shopping.
- 38:18Oh, do you? Oh, I prefer sex. I don't like shopping. Shopping stresses me.
- 38:22I will take sex any day over shopping. I love shopping.
- 38:27So let's talk about the thyroid for just two minutes since we're kind of on the thyroid.
- 38:31Yeah. So here's some signs that you have high levels of thyroid hormone. You ready?
- 38:37You're nervous. You have increased heart rate.
- 38:40If you have palpitations in your heart or maybe a lot of anxiety attacks,
- 38:44it might be your thyroid. So talk to your doctor.
- 38:47Yeah. Sweating at night. So maybe your night sweats were actually thyroid and
- 38:52not... Maybe because during that time, they always test my thyroid. There you go.
- 38:57Unintentional weight loss. Please let me have too much thyroid hormone.
- 39:03You go to the bathroom more often. You want to have, like, healthy weight loss,
- 39:07too, don't you? You do, you do.
- 39:08And because you can also get greater and weak nails. I do have weak nails,
- 39:12though. Weak nails and thinning hair is also a thyroid.
- 39:15So, yeah, if you have skin discolorations. How about your underactive thyroid?
- 39:19If you're underactive, that's a whole different thing.
- 39:21Like, here's the thing. Those age spots can also be thyroid.
- 39:24Thyroid, yeah. And so if you've got a low thyroid hormone, you might get tired.
- 39:30I know a lot of people think, is it menopause? Is it age? I honestly don't think
- 39:35age is a thing anymore, guys.
- 39:37Yeah, but I tell you, though, yeah, I don't think it's an age anymore.
- 39:40Because everything I pay attention to myself, I'm actually, I'm 60 now.
- 39:44This is the best health year I have. Yeah? Yeah.
- 39:48Because you're taking care of you. Yes. Got to do self-love,
- 39:50self-care. It's very important.
- 39:52I have to say, this is my best year.
- 39:55Well, I don't know. I doubt yours has got, I don't, thyroid treatment is usually
- 39:59something separate from hormone treatment. Hormone treatment.
- 40:02They, they, they, they tend to do thyroid, it's a hormone, but they tend to
- 40:06do it separate from like a sexual hormone treatment.
- 40:08If you're gaining a lot of weight, that could be you have low thyroid hormones.
- 40:13If you're very sensitive to the cold, I know I am. Dry skin,
- 40:16brittle nails like I have, brittle hair.
- 40:19Actually, I think I have all these symptoms. Yeah, but you seem to have it.
- 40:22Muscle aches. I don't have depression. I'm too happy of a person for that.
- 40:26A slower heart rate. I have a slow heart rate.
- 40:28And difficulty concentrating. I don't have that one either, though.
- 40:31I do pretty good with focus.
- 40:33Yeah. But all those things can be related to thyroid.
- 40:38So if you're sluggish and you're tired, if you get a puffy face,
- 40:41like swollen hands, it causes inflammation, too, when you have low thyroid hormones
- 40:46because you just fill up with liquid.
- 40:48Your eyebrows get thinner. And that's followed with your kidney,
- 40:51too, once it starts. It can it can probably affect your kidneys.
- 40:54I mean, here's the thing. I think in our country, we think of all the different
- 40:58organs as separate. Yeah.
- 41:01Like a car. You could just take out the alternator and stick a new one in or
- 41:05you could just take out the the I don't know, take off the windshield wiper, stick new ones on.
- 41:10The reality, it's all tied together. They're tied together. It doesn't work
- 41:13that way. It doesn't work that way.
- 41:15You take out a person's gallbladder, well, that affects liver bile, right? Yeah.
- 41:19You know, they used to think, oh, it's no big deal, you don't need it, but it does.
- 41:23And everything in your body is there for a reason. So if you have a bad liver,
- 41:29okay, it's going to affect your thyroid hormones.
- 41:31If your thyroid hormones are not working, it might affect your liver.
- 41:34Your liver. And it's a flow.
- 41:35It's all tied up together. That's kind of why I like Chinese medicine.
- 41:39Yeah. Not to go too alternative, but I really do like acupuncture and Chinese medicine.
- 41:44And, you know, here's the thing. There's alternatives to hormone replacement
- 41:47therapy that a lot of people are starting to get into with acupuncture and other
- 41:51types of herbs and natural foods. Agree.
- 41:54And a lot of people, like, for instance, soy. If you eat too much soy,
- 41:57you're going to have high estrogen levels. So cut out the soy.
- 42:01So there's other ways to... The thing is, is that with natural,
- 42:05it's hard to judge, right?
- 42:07But the Chinese medicine is not quick. fixed, though. It's a lifestyle. It's not.
- 42:11It's a lifestyle. So I go for acupuncture because it helps just overall.
- 42:14How often do you do that? I do that twice a week. Twice a week.
- 42:17I'll probably be slowing down about once a week, but I do it twice a week.
- 42:20I just don't like the feel of the needle sticking in.
- 42:23Oh, well, then you need to go to my guy because he's very good. But...
- 42:26Yeah, it's not that painful at all. I don't find it painful at all,
- 42:30personally. I think a deep tissue massage is way more painful than an acupuncture.
- 42:34But that's a funny thing, how you bring it up. I recently just had my foot massage.
- 42:39They did acupressure? Yeah, and this guy, the way he pressed certain spots of
- 42:44your foot, you felt all the way up to your temple.
- 42:49Yes, because it's all tied together.
- 42:52Yeah, so our hormones can react with that too.
- 42:56And, you know, like you get your thyroid, they can put pressure on certain parts
- 43:00to help with your thyroid.
- 43:01So, yeah, acupuncture is definitely a thing. And I think I've done that as well.
- 43:06I do that once in a while, probably every other week at the acupuncture place, I do cupping.
- 43:11So that also helps circulation, not so much with hormones. But yeah,
- 43:16there's different alternative methods.
- 43:20And then there's lifestyle changes, right? If you just exercise more,
- 43:23like we talked about. If you get more sleep, seven to eight hours is like a minimum.
- 43:27But then some people sleep on like four or five hours. Four or five hours.
- 43:30I know my cousin sleeps two hours. She's like, okay, I'm ready.
- 43:33Yoga and meditation helps your hormones, believe it or not.
- 43:37Walking outside in nature, even grounding is supposed to affect,
- 43:41you know, there's a big grounding movement where you go outside barefoot and
- 43:44step in the grass for 15 minutes a day.
- 43:47That's supposed to affect hormones. It's like freezing outside.
- 43:50He takes up first thing in the morning in barefoot.
- 43:53Yeah, because it changes the pH of your body. So there's lots of things that
- 43:59can help with your hormones.
- 44:00Alcohol and smoking actually hurt your hormone balance. That definitely.
- 44:04Yeah, so that's... We all know that. It really hurts testosterone.
- 44:09So for all the men out there that are women that are drinking a glass of wine
- 44:12or a drink every night...
- 44:13It's impacting your muscle growth. So I know a lot of men like,
- 44:17oh, it's just I work out enough, so I'm okay. But, you know,
- 44:20it's decreasing your testosterone.
- 44:22So if you want to decrease your muscle mass, then be all with it.
- 44:26You have to reduce your alcohol intake. How about caffeine?
- 44:28Caffeine can mess with your thyroid for sure and your stress hormones.
- 44:33Let's talk about supplements. So zinc is big.
- 44:37Okay, so zinc is big as far as hormones go.
- 44:40So like oysters, beef, nuts, those things have zinc in them.
- 44:43So if you take zinc, a vitamin D is really good as well. The eggs,
- 44:47eggs are such a good food for people.
- 44:49As long as you don't have a sensitivity to them, eggs are really good.
- 44:52Fish and sometimes different types of milk, but I'm not a big dairy person. Me either.
- 44:57And then fruits and vegetables, all the antioxidants help with your hormones,
- 45:01especially your thyroid and your cortisol.
- 45:03But you get too much sugar, that's not good for you either.
- 45:05Vitaminizing everything in moderation, is that what you're saying?
- 45:08No, I don't believe in that.
- 45:10Yeah. No, everything based off of what you specifically need.
- 45:13Yes. Yeah. I totally don't agree with that either.
- 45:16Well, and then there's some supplements that are Chinese medicine that people
- 45:20have been taking. Venugreek. Now, this was one I actually took when I was getting
- 45:23pregnant. What is it again?
- 45:24Venugreek. F-E-N-U-G-R-E-E-K. It's a supplement that can help with progesterone
- 45:30and balancing hormones there. And fertility.
- 45:33So there's just different, and I'm not going to go through the whole list.
- 45:36Yeah, I know. But there's just different hormones. Excess fat takes your testosterone.
- 45:41So if you've got a lot of fat around the middle, if you're fat,
- 45:43and everybody, I'm not going to call you fat if you know if you're overweight or not.
- 45:47But if you have extra fat, especially in the middle, it's going to take the
- 45:51testosterone that you have and it converts it into estrogen.
- 45:54They also said, well, if you are rounded, you know, in the middle.
- 45:59You're estrogen dominant. Yes. And chances are your future is tattooed that
- 46:03better. Yes. So you got a lot of health issues.
- 46:06Yeah. So we're just trying to, you know, start you on a journey with one possible
- 46:11solution to help your health journey.
- 46:13We're going to, you know, talk more about some of these health journeys as we go through this.
- 46:17But, you know, we're just trying to show you that there are ways.
- 46:20And I think it used to be such a bad word to talk about hormone replacement therapy.
- 46:26Nobody talks about it. Yeah. But now a lot of people are. A lot of people are. They weren't before.
- 46:31Because they've seen the benefit of it. Mm-hmm. You know, chances,
- 46:34you just have to admit it. But this is not something you should self-medicate.
- 46:38You have to find someone and find someone good, not just, you know,
- 46:42a run-of-the-mill doctor.
- 46:43Find someone really good because it's, as I can tell you, you have to be very
- 46:47careful. You have to see specialists.
- 46:49Yes. And now the big thing is Ozempic. Ozempic. Oh, God.
- 46:55Ozempic and some mycrotides are huge right now. Yes.
- 46:58And what you know what that does. So that slows down the it's for type two diabetes.
- 47:03Right. So it's for insulin control.
- 47:05And so it suppresses your blood sugar. So it also slows down how how fast your stomach empties.
- 47:11So it makes you feel full longer. But they also eat up your,
- 47:14you might lose your muscle mass too.
- 47:16Well, if you're not lifting weight, you better be lifting weight when you're on Ozempic.
- 47:20But there's a lot of people talking Ozempic and Zep bound and there's different,
- 47:25there's different types out there.
- 47:27Manjaro, there's, yeah, there's all different kinds. And you'd have to talk
- 47:30to your doctor about this as well, because here's the thing.
- 47:33There's so many med spas now prescribing Ozempic. You can go to a med spa and
- 47:37a nurse practitioner prescribes it. It's like everywhere. were.
- 47:40I was on it. Were you? And how was that? I was on it. I lost 30 pounds.
- 47:44Really? Yes. And how was that for you though?
- 47:47You know what? I started in August when we came back from Italy.
- 47:52Okay. I started in August and I would go once a week. She'd give me a shot once
- 47:56a week and I just noted my symptoms. I don't have any appetite.
- 48:00The first month I lost 15 pounds. All right. Yeah, but I never stopped doing
- 48:05my yoga. I'm a true believer in yoga and meditation.
- 48:08I never stopped doing my yoga i never stopped doing my workout but
- 48:11i do know this though my cardio i get
- 48:14tired because the because the food intake i didn't have
- 48:17enough food so once you're on that even when
- 48:20when i on she was telling me too like if you're gonna do cardio you have to
- 48:23reduce you just have to walk when you walk it just you have to be able to talk
- 48:27to your not like breathless so it might affect your cardio cardio yes and then
- 48:33i lost my most of my weight the first two months i was on right now I'm just maintaining it.
- 48:38So here's the thing with Ozempic too. It can change your menstrual cycle.
- 48:42A lot of people don't realize that. Yeah.
- 48:44Ozempic can have an effect on your menstrual cycle and changes some of your
- 48:48other hormones. It can also lead to hypothyroidism or hyperthyroidism.
- 48:52Yeah. So when you're on Ozempic, you need to make sure you're getting your hormones checked.
- 48:56Yeah. And you just be aware that your menstrual cycle might change.
- 49:00Well, you know, if you're not getting enough calories, if you fast,
- 49:03you know, I have heard that if you're on Ozempic, if you do intermittent fasting
- 49:06like every other day, that it also helps add to that. But I love to fast.
- 49:12The, yeah, Ozempic can affect all your hormones. So be careful when you're on
- 49:17this. And then when you come off, you better come off slow.
- 49:19Slowly, yeah. Because it could definitely send you into a tailspin and people don't realize.
- 49:24You know, so there's the Ozempic crowd, which is like a semi-glutide.
- 49:28And now there's this trizepatide or terzepatide.
- 49:32It's like a monjaro is one of them.
- 49:36And my neighbor was on for a whole year. And did they like it?
- 49:40Well, she was on because of her type 2 diabetic.
- 49:43Okay. So I think she had to continue on, but she lost 75 pounds.
- 49:47On which one? Monjaro. Monjaro.
- 49:50Yeah. Well, that's interesting. Yeah. And then, you know, with type 2 diabetic,
- 49:56when you lose weight, obviously, you know, you're A1C gone down. Yes.
- 50:00But I'm not sure the maintenance phase, what that's going to look like.
- 50:05Right now, I'm on maintenance.
- 50:08Of your Ozempic? on my ozimbain. I'm on a menstrual program.
- 50:12I do a shot every 21 days now.
- 50:16So first it was every seven days. And then when I reached my target,
- 50:20when I lost my first 20 pounds, then she spaced me out every 10 days.
- 50:26And then every 14 days now, I'm on every 21 days. Gotcha.
- 50:30So you can't just like completely stop. Yeah, don't do cold turkey.
- 50:33Again, follow your doctor's recommendation. You have to see MedSpa.
- 50:38And it's sad to say they don't take insurance, but money or help,
- 50:43that's something you have to look at. You know what I mean? Yeah. You know, it's funny.
- 50:46We spend our younger years focused so much on making money.
- 50:50And then we spend our older years trying to catch up on the damage we did to
- 50:53our bodies in our younger years.
- 50:56I was like, if I pay attention to myself in my younger years,
- 51:00I might not have this issue. When you were young, you know, you graduate college,
- 51:05you just want to work, make as much as you can. Oh, yeah.
- 51:07So right now, when you pass 50, now you start looking at yourselves.
- 51:12Some of it might be too late. Some of it might be. But it's not too late.
- 51:16It's not too late. No. Did you realize that melatonin is a hormone, too?
- 51:20Melatonin is a hormone? It's a hormone that affects your sleep. Huh. Yeah.
- 51:23And melatonin changes as well as you age. So a lot of people need more melatonin.
- 51:28So and here's the other thing.
- 51:31Not to go all natural on you but if you go outside in the morning,
- 51:35soon as the sun comes up and you walk around for 15 minutes and
- 51:38then you turn off all the lights in the house like an hour
- 51:41before you want to go to bed and just have like just a few like light lights
- 51:45it affects your melatonin levels too so you'll sleep better if you decrease
- 51:50the amount of lights at night and you'll get on a better cycle if first thing
- 51:54in the morning you go outside and expose your skin to as much sun as possible.
- 51:59Right now it's a little cold, but
- 52:00In other times, yes, it works. So let's talk longevity and living longer.
- 52:05Okay. And we're going to finish up with this. So there's different hormones
- 52:09that, you know, really affect longevity and estrogen is one of them.
- 52:15It decreases as we age. So even though I'm a little high on it right now,
- 52:18I know as I decrease the estrogen, because it helps with bone and muscle mass too.
- 52:23Everybody thinks it's only testosterone, but it's not. And then testosterone
- 52:26is good for men and women.
- 52:27I I don't know why they always think it's just for men, but it's not. We have it too, ladies.
- 52:33And then our thyroid hormone. So that one's a longevity hormone.
- 52:36You've got to, it helps with getting rid of, you know, oxidation and oxidative
- 52:40stress in your body. You've got to keep your thyroid functioning well.
- 52:43And that means you've got to keep your liver functioning well because they play off of each other.
- 52:47Yeah, they said you fast every once in a while to actually help flush your body
- 52:51and detox every couple months.
- 52:53And I've done long-term fasting, so that helps me.
- 52:57And then growth hormones. So, you know, the growth hormone is linked to lifespan too.
- 53:02I know there's been a lot of talk about steroids and growth hormone and things like that.
- 53:06But here's the thing. When you fast, like a two to three day fast increases
- 53:10your growth, your natural growth hormone. You don't have to do an injection.
- 53:13What do you do when you fast? Just water fast? I water fast. Yes.
- 53:17So water fasting, that's a whole nother topic that we can cover,
- 53:21but water fasting will help all these hormones.
- 53:24It helps your melatonin. It helps your insulin. helps your
- 53:27cortisol it helps your thyroid it helps your
- 53:29growth hormone another one you just reset your body
- 53:33and it resets for longevity and it helps with natural autophagy and that's a
- 53:37whole nother topic we should definitely get into maybe not this time but that's
- 53:42going to help reset all your hormones so going forward you know if you want
- 53:45to live longer you're going to have to probably incorporate some fasting longer
- 53:49term too i mean i know a lot of people oh i fasted for,
- 53:52bedtime till noon. I'm like, really? Okay, good on you.
- 53:58That's all you can do. That's all you can do. I'm not going to make too much
- 54:00fun. But honestly, if you're going to want, you're going to have to do at least
- 54:0324, 48 hour fast just to really get the benefits of growth hormone.
- 54:07Yeah, I did that intermittent fasting and I eat everything in the refrigerator.
- 54:11Here's the reaction. You did after you got home. You went nuts.
- 54:14So here's the thing. After two days of long-term fasting, two to three days,
- 54:18you feel amazing on prolonged fasting.
- 54:21So you feel really good. In fact, I'm about to start another long-term fast
- 54:25for at least 30 days. I'll let you know how it goes.
- 54:28I'll keep you up to date. Water only for 30 days? Water only.
- 54:30I've done a 40-day water fast.
- 54:32So I love water. Talk about inflammation. It's gone. It's just gone.
- 54:37So I love water fasting. It's my favorite thing in the world for longevity and
- 54:41health and just rebalancing your hormones and without all this other crap that everybody gives you.
- 54:47I mean, it's the best thing for you. You don't get headache any day?
- 54:49You do for the first couple days.
- 54:51Yeah. And after about five days,
- 54:53I take electrolytes too, because your electrolytes are going to fly off.
- 54:56So four to five days when I start feeling, you know, a little,
- 54:59and then I get a lot of blood work done with the doctor. So I do keep in touch
- 55:02with my doctor when I'm doing this too.
- 55:04So I do have medically supervised fasting, but yeah. So I'll let you know how
- 55:08it goes. I'll, I'll keep you informed.
- 55:10But I'm, I'm dying to know. Yeah. Cause they always say fasting is good for your information.
- 55:15Fasting is good for every part of your body. And I think more and more,
- 55:18I think, I mean, religions have done it forever.
- 55:21Jesus did it for 40 days. I mean, I think that more and more people will find that you can cure.
- 55:28I mean, there was a study out there with a 21-day water fast and type 2 diabetes.
- 55:32And something like 90% of the people were cured of their type 2 diabetes on a 21-day water fast.
- 55:37Now, not type 1, but type 2. So, I mean, there's cures. I mean, it.
- 55:41Eats away at cancer cells. It's very good for autophagy. So that's the thing.
- 55:45I think fasting is something that, you know, we should totally talk about on
- 55:49a whole podcast, all of its own, but it will help with your hormones.
- 55:54Yeah. The Hindu for the past 100, 100 years, they fast at least twice a day. I mean, twice a week.
- 56:01Yeah. Like nothing but water. Yeah. Well, I think that if everybody could do
- 56:07a three to five day fast once a quarter, I think people would feel better and
- 56:11live longer and be healthier.
- 56:12That's it. You don't have to do long terms like me. I do long terms for other
- 56:15reasons, for other health benefits.
- 56:16But a three to five day, it would be amazing. Because by day three,
- 56:21you're actually getting your autophagy benefits.
- 56:23And if you can make it to day five, good on you. If not, then,
- 56:26you know. Listen, your energy is coming back after day three.
- 56:29Yeah. And, you know, it also depends because there's like type one diabetics
- 56:32that you shouldn't be doing it at all. And you might have different health concerns.
- 56:36So you You always have to talk to your doctor about fasting,
- 56:38too, if you can even do it.
- 56:40But I think it's very beneficial for people.
- 56:43And I think people need to do the research, do their own research and look into
- 56:46it, especially if you have hormone issues.
- 56:48Hormones are a big thing. Yeah. It affects everything. It does.
- 56:52It does. Well, let's wrap this up. Do you have any final thoughts?
- 56:56My final thought is you have to pay attention to your symptom. That's only concern.
- 57:02Pay attention to your symptom. Take a note of what you eat. if you felt that
- 57:06way, because that's the first thing they're going to see.
- 57:09They're going to tell you what to do. But and then another thing is,
- 57:12I think you should visit your specialist if you felt that way.
- 57:18Yes, I agree. And remember, this is just our conversation, share our personal experience. Yep.
- 57:23But you do definitely need, if you feel what we just talked about,
- 57:27I think you should visit your specialist. Yep.
- 57:30All right. Well, you guys have a wonderful week. Make it productive.
- 57:32And we'll talk to you next week.
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