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PRODUCER PICKS: Are you being too real to your kids? · Flava Breakfast

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  Speaker 1: The Flavor Podcast Network, Flavor Breakfast Producer.
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  Speaker 2: Picks Jonathana and welcome to another episode of Producer Picks
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  Speaker 2: with Anna and also a happy start to your long
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  Speaker 2: weekend after it was my favorite moments for the past
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  Speaker 2: week of stacy'serone Charlie and put them all the one
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  Speaker 2: place for you to enjoy. This week has always we
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  Speaker 2: had a bit of a variety from shitting on your
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  Speaker 2: own kids to stay speeder Woo woo witch doctor. But
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  Speaker 2: we're going to start off the episode with a bit
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  Speaker 2: of a heartfelt moment that was shared between Charlie's kids,
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  Speaker 2: which might make you tear up.
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  Speaker 3: And we can all admit that, you know, siblings, they
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  Speaker 3: can fight. I mean me and my brother we were
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  Speaker 3: only eighteen months apart. Let me tell you the fights were.
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  Speaker 1: Pretty bad, like ending and blood and screaming and swearing
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  Speaker 1: and pulling button knives on each other. We were only
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  Speaker 1: a button knife.
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  Speaker 3: That's pretty good, yeah, you know, and my brother was like,
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  Speaker 3: don't kiss me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: But you know that I think about those moments and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, what was wrong with us? You know?
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  Speaker 3: And I think we always talk here at Flavor about
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  Speaker 3: you know, all of those sort of times your sibling
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  Speaker 3: did this or said this. But but sometimes they can
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  Speaker 3: surprise us.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, they used to come through and beautiful for each
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  Speaker 4: other and the closest ways, and they you know, it's
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  Speaker 4: a bond like with your sibling, you've known them for
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  Speaker 4: your whole life, and so yeah, sometimes when they come
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  Speaker 4: through and they say really beautiful things, like you caught
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  Speaker 4: your kids saying.
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  Speaker 1: I know I the other night. You know, I overheard
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  Speaker 1: my kids complimenting each other. This is like the wrap up.
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  Speaker 1: I feel that when they are in bed and they're
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  Speaker 1: about to go to bed, this is when they're like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I can't go to sleep without letting
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  Speaker 1: my brother know that. You know, he is the best
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  Speaker 1: big brother. And I overheard this, and I was thinking
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  Speaker 1: to himself, I'm really clocking it, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: my brother, my son PELI apologizes older brother, you know,
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  Speaker 1: for they're always talking back and just being silly. You know,
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  Speaker 1: as you do as a younger sibling, you really test
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  Speaker 1: your older siblings, right, And then I hear my son
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  Speaker 1: Rob go to him. That's all right, it's it's okay.
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  Speaker 1: He forgives them and all this stuff, and you know
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  Speaker 1: they have like nice little conversations and my brother, and
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  Speaker 1: then Pelie goes to Rob, you know, just expresses the
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  Speaker 1: way he feels about his older brother, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: and to wrap things up, he goes, should we say
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  Speaker 1: a little prayer? And then they get up and they
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  Speaker 1: say a prayer, and you know, I starts like to
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  Speaker 1: class and like honestly listening to their prayers and it
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  Speaker 1: was just like them just like it was just a
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  Speaker 1: free prayer, like they were like it wasn't forced or anything,
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  Speaker 1: and they were just blessing each other, blessing their mom
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  Speaker 1: and dad and just just grateful to have a roof
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  Speaker 1: over the head to close on. And honestly, for me
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  Speaker 1: as as a dad, nothing else matters that the very moment,
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  Speaker 1: you know, when you hear your kids doing that without
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  Speaker 1: being told, I'm just like, whoa, yeah, that's them, that's them.
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  Speaker 1: And then honestly, the little tears just started falling, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like, I love these kids, you know, it's
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  Speaker 1: just that everything and they.
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  Speaker 5: Love each other, they love each other bond. It's so beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: Going to bed and apologizing to each other is very
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  Speaker 3: sweet and saying you know, I've got you and you've
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  Speaker 3: got me and if I give you for today and
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  Speaker 3: let's say prayer, I'm like, oh my gosh, it's me
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  Speaker 3: and my brother couldn't ever.
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  Speaker 5: Oh no, you must have had heart felt moments like that.
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  Speaker 3: When Yeah, there are times we would look at each
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  Speaker 3: other and it's like we knew what each other was thinking.
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  Speaker 3: Those are those moments where I felt really connected to
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  Speaker 3: my brother.
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  Speaker 4: That you're the one who knows me through, that're the
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  Speaker 4: only one who gets it.
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  Speaker 3: And you know, we could also almost feel it felt
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  Speaker 3: like we could predict the future sometimes, you know, you
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  Speaker 3: give each other that look and it's like here, we
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  Speaker 3: know what's coming next morn.
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  Speaker 1: We know.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't until you know, we were actually, i'd say
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  Speaker 3: pretty much adults where we really sat down and and
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  Speaker 3: had that like you know, it's just me and you,
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  Speaker 3: like I've got you forever. Let's stop bickering like how
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  Speaker 3: we used to when movie younger, because I don't know
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  Speaker 3: why we just oh, you.
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  Speaker 4: Just get into that dynamic, but you've gotta change it out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: No, I've heard that, my son said to me because
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  Speaker 4: I said, Oh, your sister thinks that you know when
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  Speaker 4: you move away, that you won't be very close. And
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  Speaker 4: he said, So I'm at a concert and I'm getting
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  Speaker 4: all the feelings that I'm texting my sister.
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  Speaker 3: Go no, it's us forever, And I'm guessing I'm gussing
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  Speaker 3: your daughter didn't know that you had told him that.
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  Speaker 1: She was Oh, siblings, they're special.
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  Speaker 2: Stay shared that she rolls through life thinking in movie quotes.
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  Speaker 2: So we got Zarah and Charlie to also think about
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  Speaker 2: the movie quotes that they refer back to. Not gonna lie,
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  Speaker 2: all the movies that refer to We're a bit too
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  Speaker 2: old for me and I didn't really get it, but
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  Speaker 2: they seem to enjoy it.
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  Speaker 3: Yesterday are pretty well. I sort of knew this about
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  Speaker 3: your stace, but I didn't realize how often it was
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  Speaker 3: happening in your mind. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I have this filing system in my brain and it
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  Speaker 4: just stores any beloved movie quote or maybe line from
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  Speaker 4: I don't know content I've consumed in my lifetime. The
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  Speaker 4: hardcore ones probably the ones that I referred to all
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  Speaker 4: the time. For instance, like Zuelander quotes.
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  Speaker 3: Has to be at least three times bigger than this.
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  Speaker 5: As in my real life.
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  Speaker 4: You know, like I gave my brother in law some
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  Speaker 4: forks that you use to put marshmallows in the fire
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  Speaker 4: right cute for summer, and it's retractable. So it was
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  Speaker 4: tiny and we all looked at it and we go
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  Speaker 4: before we figured out that you could make it bigger.
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  Speaker 4: We're like, it needs to be.
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  Speaker 1: To be at least three times bigger than this. But
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  Speaker 1: did you say it like that out loud? Yeah? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: But even as you learn the head there, what is this?
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  Speaker 1: This is forceful?
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  Speaker 4: Like this is this a learning school for ads? It's
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  Speaker 4: the little model because he's really really good looking, but
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  Speaker 4: he's not very clever. But then the princess bride. You know,
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  Speaker 4: like if anyone sees to me I mean it, I
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  Speaker 4: want to say, no, I mean it. Anybody he likes,
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  Speaker 4: he likes hyme, does anybody want a peanut?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 4: He likes rhymes? Okay, fine, you don't get it, that's fine.
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  Speaker 4: What about I think you've done this one before, Like
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  Speaker 4: say someone pretends that that you know they're all part
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  Speaker 4: of a group or they know what they're doing. You know,
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  Speaker 4: like when Charlie pretends that he knew that salt water
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  Speaker 4: was buoyant, then you can say.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't even go here.
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  Speaker 5: From me, girls, she doesn't even go there.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't want to take this all over guys,
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  Speaker 4: but I mean this is my fourth one. It's just
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  Speaker 4: so easy for me. Anytime that you know, someone goes, oh,
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  Speaker 4: do you want to go out to dinner?
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  Speaker 3: And you go, no, help me, I'm poor, Please help me.
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  Speaker 3: See it's funny because you know, you think in movie quotes.
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  Speaker 3: I think in TikTok, you know, and and a lot
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  Speaker 3: of the time I will not say my quote out
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  Speaker 3: loud or like repeat the TikTok out loud, but I
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  Speaker 3: will sort of finish it in my head. Like. But
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  Speaker 3: there is one that I feel it was quite universal
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  Speaker 3: between me and my friends. And it is the like,
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  Speaker 3: you know when you just want someone like, oh, just
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  Speaker 3: like you know, shut up.
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  Speaker 1: Your mouth is moving a lot like a rats shut
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  Speaker 1: took place?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you shut. We always go we always just go shenise,
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  Speaker 3: shut that. And then someone someone will always yep, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So that's a vine, is it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not even sure.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta know your references.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's from a vine. But it's all over
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  Speaker 3: TikTok again. But yeah, very universal.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well my is you know, sometimes when somebody's feeling
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  Speaker 1: down and they're just not really feeling themselves. I'll refer
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  Speaker 1: it to this. I see pride, I see power, I
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  Speaker 1: see a badassma, little crap, little buddy, Junior telling me
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  Speaker 1: what you see, Junior. That's from cool running. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's in the mirror. And then you just like feel
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  Speaker 1: yourself all of a sudden. I'm just like, like your
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  Speaker 1: brain now, I feel power. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like, Bro,
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  Speaker 1: when I'm feeling down and I'm like not really feeling it,
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  Speaker 1: I look in the mirror, Charlie, tell me what you see. Sorry?
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  Speaker 3: They do they help you through life sometimes, you know,
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  Speaker 3: you need to be having those sort of internal conversations just.
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  Speaker 1: To get by.
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  Speaker 4: And if someone knows it as well, then you have
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  Speaker 4: to be friends exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, that's a good point here. Do you guys have
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  Speaker 3: anything you sort of said to yourself, say a loud
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  Speaker 3: a to double o hundred full flavors.
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  Speaker 1: Say hello to my little friend. That's a good one,
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  Speaker 1: stays Azora and Charlie.
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  Speaker 6: Let's just say a Zora is not ready to be
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  Speaker 6: a parent.
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  Speaker 2: There are supportive parents and then there are the pearents
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  Speaker 2: that may be a little bit too real. And if
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  Speaker 2: Zura was to become a parent, now she would be
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  Speaker 2: a little bit too real with her kids.
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  Speaker 4: So you are saying the other day or you know,
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  Speaker 4: there's there's different types of pearance and this will resonate
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  Speaker 4: with some people. Some parents, no matter what you do,
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  Speaker 4: they go, how great, you're awesome. My kids gread at this,
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  Speaker 4: you know, yeah, like wow, wow, aren't they really good?
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  Speaker 4: Some parents opposite, very real, maybe too real. I feel
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  Speaker 4: like I'll be a realistic parent.
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  Speaker 3: You know, my kid's not good at something, probably wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: be mean about it, but I would definitely maybe steer
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  Speaker 3: them away.
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  Speaker 4: Does that mean oh no, no, no, I'm meaning parents
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  Speaker 4: who go they say things like, oh, my kid is
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  Speaker 4: terrible like this watching this game as torture.
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  Speaker 1: And we'll just say it to their face as well
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  Speaker 1: and also in front of them.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, well maybe maybe. Or you just go along
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  Speaker 4: and watch and and you know, you go along watching
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  Speaker 4: and be saying to.
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  Speaker 3: Each other on the side like this is freaking parents
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  Speaker 3: do that, like do they chalk with other parents and
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  Speaker 3: they're honest about the kid going my kid is actually
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  Speaker 3: pretty trashed.
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  Speaker 4: One of my friends, I won't say who she goes
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  Speaker 4: the world's slowest winger.
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  Speaker 1: Said about it, Oh, my goodness.
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  Speaker 4: And they did something good and I said, must go
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  Speaker 4: there go yeah, amazing, Like wow, I'm surprised.
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  Speaker 1: My dad was like a real parent. Like see in
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  Speaker 1: this day and age, parenting is a little bit different.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to be more like because because a freighter,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so you got to be.
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  Speaker 5: Just keep it real real, hit me up.
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  Speaker 1: But like my dad was ruthless to a point where
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  Speaker 1: like like and if you know, this is like close.
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  Speaker 1: And we had a tournament there and I had the
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  Speaker 1: most I would say that the worst game of the
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  Speaker 1: worst and my dad was my only right home. Tell
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  Speaker 1: me why. When we got into the huddle, I see
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  Speaker 1: in my little blue band my dad's little Nissan driving
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  Speaker 1: past on the on the motorway, hitting south, going going
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  Speaker 1: back home. At that point I knew, oh yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: go north. Sorry. At that point I knew, bro, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have this. He lift you. He left me and
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  Speaker 1: I had to catch right home with my mate's parents.
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  Speaker 1: Lift you, and you know what the thing is like
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  Speaker 1: my hey wents. But I know, so my my mate
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  Speaker 1: had a mean game. He had a mean game. So
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  Speaker 1: like all the way home, that's what the game was like.
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  Speaker 1: The conversations like Sony Man, I'm just just this and
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  Speaker 1: that I'm so proud of.
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  Speaker 3: You're like, oh, this is what it's supposed to be like,
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  Speaker 3: because it's the thing. Kids weren't aren't more fragile now,
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  Speaker 3: it's appearents were more real and honest kids the same
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  Speaker 3: amount of fragile.
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  Speaker 4: We just head it was a'n act. I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 4: say it was great. It was that wasn't great, right, Charlie.
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  Speaker 4: And and it's opposed to just brutally like oh for god, Psachie,
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  Speaker 4: useless cat chat Like.
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  Speaker 1: You see my dad, it'll be like you'll set up
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  Speaker 1: a try or you'll get like the most tackles. But
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  Speaker 1: then my dad will be like, but did you get
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  Speaker 1: a try? Oh mate, come on, it's all about getting
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  Speaker 1: a try here, dad, come on.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we're in the team here, a team if it.
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  Speaker 1: But then I got a good friend of mine, finnick
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  Speaker 1: out and her son plays off my son as well,
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  Speaker 1: like Rob and PILLI. She is the most I'm telling
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  Speaker 1: you like you know, and she's a parent. We're the
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  Speaker 1: same age we're parenting in this era. Oh mate, her
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  Speaker 1: son is an absolute legend on the field, Sammy, But
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  Speaker 1: I feel sorry for sometimes the dad doesn't really the
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  Speaker 1: dad and the man that really give him the credit.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm saying this because phineas my she's a real
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  Speaker 1: good friend of mine. Sidney, he's a good friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine as well. But come here, you two, you need
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  Speaker 1: to do better.
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  Speaker 5: Action, Okay. Right somewhere in.
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  Speaker 3: Between, someone has already texted on our poor Charlie sadly
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  Speaker 3: that was coming back in the days.
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  Speaker 1: It was yep, stephen Rico's encouraging good, it's good, you
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  Speaker 1: should try another sports.
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  Speaker 2: During the week, Stace saw a shooting start which turned
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  Speaker 2: it into a woo woo witch doctor and able to
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  Speaker 2: tell a Zora's future. Zora shared her dreams and Stace
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  Speaker 2: was able to unfold them and let's just say, reality
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  Speaker 2: really hit Zorra.
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  Speaker 1: It's time to take it to.
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  Speaker 3: A place, okay, because the moon's in alon energy to
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  Speaker 3: go to rest and drink lots of water. But I
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  Speaker 3: need help, okay, because we've come to learn, Charlie and
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  Speaker 3: I that Stace is really good at dissecting dreams and
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  Speaker 3: what do they mean? We have our very own woo
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  Speaker 3: woo witch doctor with us.
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  Speaker 4: Bro It's not what we call our in the Bizo
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  Speaker 4: but yeah, okay, okay, so I am I am an
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  Speaker 4: amateur at the stage, but I do like to read into, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: of your dreams. I just hope that I'm not going
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  Speaker 4: to say something that's too revealing about your true thoughts
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  Speaker 4: and feelings.
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  Speaker 3: Well, the thing is is, Stace actually does this for
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  Speaker 3: me off you and I thought, you know, since Stay
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  Speaker 3: saw a shooting star last night, this is pof and
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  Speaker 3: the moon's in a yeah, a phase. I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: just hit her with some of the dreams I've been having.
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  Speaker 3: I've had to write them down because obviously you forget them.
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  Speaker 3: Tell me about the one I had last night, actually, Stace,
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  Speaker 3: where I had conjunctivitis in my dream, but it was
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  Speaker 3: like I just couldn't get my eyes clear.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't see it.
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  Speaker 3: It was like bluery, and I was like, oh, it's
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  Speaker 3: always true streams for me, nothing really changes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what does that mean?
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  Speaker 4: So the conjunctivitis as a manifestation of you feeling like
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  Speaker 4: you're finding it difficult to see into the future and
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  Speaker 4: see what you should do and have clarity.
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  Speaker 1: So what you're saying, Stace is that something's blocking of view.
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  Speaker 1: She knows that, Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 4: She knows that she knows that she is not.
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  Speaker 3: Are all looking at each other like because we know,
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  Speaker 3: we know that is genuinely what's happening favor funding. There's
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot of things that don't get shipped on here,
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  Speaker 3: but I cannot see clearly you are right? And how
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  Speaker 3: about I had this really weird one where I was volunteering.
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  Speaker 3: And I do volunteer in my own time, but in
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  Speaker 3: my dream, I was volunteering and then my friends came
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  Speaker 3: and grabbed me and they're like, Azreah.
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  Speaker 1: We've got the math test. And I was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: I had to take the person that I was, you know,
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  Speaker 3: spinning the day with volunteering with to this math test
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  Speaker 3: and everyone.
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  Speaker 1: Knows I'm not very good at math, but I really
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  Speaker 1: just couldn't do it.
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  Speaker 3: And everyone was finishing their test before me, and then
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  Speaker 3: all my friends were leaving and everyone in the classroom
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  Speaker 3: was leaving to just go to the next thing, which
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  Speaker 3: was a party, and I couldn't get this this test
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  Speaker 3: done to go with them. I missed out on the
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  Speaker 3: ride there and I was, oh my gosh. So it
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  Speaker 3: was stressed out about.
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  Speaker 4: That You've mentioned volunteering, what you do do your friends
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  Speaker 4: and math, which you say not got it, but see,
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  Speaker 4: all of those different things are lining up, so you
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  Speaker 4: you're getting pulled in lots of different directions and you
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  Speaker 4: feel like you can't do some of it, and that
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  Speaker 4: you're not maybe not keeping up with what your friends
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  Speaker 4: are doing. So your friends are like, you know, having
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  Speaker 4: babies and.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Kind oh gosh, and married.
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: One of the one in the dream is married, got
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: married last year.
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so you're not keeping up with her, and you
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: feel like there's something that's stopping you qualifying to be
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: able to go off.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: And do holiday, see, because you're not finishing the mass
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: test and you're not qualified to do what your friends
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: and that are doing.
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: Hey, sorry I did say I'm going to have to
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: be truthful here.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: What about what about the dream where I was you
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: got to start paying now, but you got to start pray.
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: You're taking this you're more about your little fantasies.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, I feel clear. I feel clarity. Maybe you've
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: had a dreamtick through it and turned out a load.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Stace, Azora and Charlie.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: The team believes that Blue Parade should be in a
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: medical journal. But what are the other remedies you guys
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: use for those hangovers. They put it to Facebook and
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: there was definitely a variety of responses. The rogus but
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: very common response was to eat raw fish when hungover
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: to apparently help your hangovers, which as a vegetarian, doesn't
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: sit too well with me. But even when I used
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: to eat fish, just the smell of it, I just
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: don't think that's gonna sit well being hungover.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: We're just gonna go out and say Blue Power Aide
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: should be in a medical journal. It has saved my
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: life many times actually from what ah, dehydration stace, No,
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: it's hangover.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Do you know sometimes when I know that I've got,
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: you know, a gig or a festival, I will go
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: and pre buy Blue Powerade and them in the fridge
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: ready for me, like I know the kind of night
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: I'm going to have, and I think that that's really smart.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: But sometimes you know, you've got to pull up somewhere
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: and you've got to get a blue parade. But usually
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: you know, they go hand in hand with other things
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: on the blue parade isn't what you reach for. But
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: there's so many good combinations and cures remedies if you will.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that are listed on our Flavor Radio Facebook status
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: because you said this.
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: Okay, I'm just going to.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: Say under a medical journal, you know, peer reviewed and
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: all that should say blue parade fixes you when you've
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: had a hangover. I'm wondering why it's blue, especially that flavor.
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, electrolytes, hydration, carbohydrates, all of that's got
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: that in there, sugar, But why blue? Why, Like you
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: don't see people rolling around with the other colors so
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: much because here on the Facebook posts, immediately I see
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: a post that says blue parade and a mcdee's hash brown.
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: All the nipple mums know when they see me on
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: the sidelines early Saturday morning with that combo I've had
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: a rough night.
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: And some of the crazy comments that we've got for
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: your hangover cures on our Facebook status is for raw seafood.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah I can't. I'm so sorry, but I can't get
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: behind it.
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: That sends sister knowledge right there.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: Your body is going, you know, back in the day,
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: this DNA wanted seafood and.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: A blue powerade, though like this one says parade in
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: a side of raw fish and muscles.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: And then back on the bears in the art.
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: Oh gosh, Kylie says, two eurofin fifty miles of water
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: before I sleep. Well, yeah, that's you're built different. There
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: a blue parade and Vigi might vogel when I wake up.
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: Vid you might apparently is very good.
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: It's got vitamin B.
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: That's one of the things you've depleted yourself of. That's
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: my friend who's a nurse, said.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: I could see that.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: I could see that this one is actually perfect and
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: it's not consuming anything. It's a cold swim at the beach. Casey,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: I completely agree with you. That's actually where you'll see
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: me on.
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: How it is though, is a sauna Sish.
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: Nar Bro nah bro Chris Moore is probably the one
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: that I relasonate with the most, he said, Fish and chips,
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: blue Powerade, sprite and water boom, add a nap in there.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: You are fine by the time the evening rolls around.
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: Although Beth says blue parad KFC and raw fish.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: I feel like that's risky business.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: I can't do eggs on a hangover to like George said,
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: bacon eggs, hash browns, baked beans washed down with a coffee.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: I can't do coffee because I've probably already got anxiety,
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: so the heart rate cannot and should not go up
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: and eggs. That's all one way ticket to the bathroom
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: for me.
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: Oh what about this one?
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: Chas a nice cold ass strawberry thick shake, my partner shake.
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: I just think that is really tempting fate.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: He goes straight to me. Do you know the other
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: day actually he was hungover.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: He went and just got a banana milkshake from McDonald's,
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: thick shake from McDonald That was it.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, Now I.
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: Don't see that, not see that.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: The one thing that I will say about a hangover
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: is they have you out here doing and eating the
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: weirdest things, Like I'm not kidding. At nine in the morning,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: I have ordered from Mount Albert Barbecue noodle House, like
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: a big fat wanton soup and I end dumplings. And
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: I sat down at nine to thirty in the morning,
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: like as.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: If it was going to save my life.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to eat it in my bed, so
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: I actually put a towe down on my floor and
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: sat on the floor and ate the wanton noodle.
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: Sep, do you just feel really elegant and demure?
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: No, I feel like the piece of crap. I am really,
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: which is sort of what I like to do. I'm like,
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: close those shutters. I'm not let someone say, go for
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: a run. The beach is the closest thing, closest. Other
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: people are saying, you know, just don't drink to that state.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: That's a really good call. No other says just stay drunk. Look,
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: we're all on the spectrum.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Here hibout mystery This week features l cool J and
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: the beginning of def Jam Records. It's really impressive to
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: me that alll cool J started off as just a
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: sixteen year old. But stay she is a little bit
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: more insight into this.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Mysteries and.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: They say he's the d and Deaf Jam Records, it's
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: ll cool J. We go back to the beginning when
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: alur cool J basically launched Deaf Jam Records. So in
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: the early days of deaf Jam we are talking nineteen
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: eighty four, ll cool J was sixteen years old. There
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: were only a handful of groups being managed by the
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: founder at the time and owner Rick Rubin and the
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: Beastie Boys were one of those initial deaf Jam groups.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: So ad Rock from Beastie Boys it was his job
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: to listen to demos and he just happened upon this
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: teenager called l caol J.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: But I got one round eighty five from Ken who
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: called himself ll cool J, and I said, Man, this
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: is really good, Rick, can you go to check it out?
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: So lur COOLJ remembers it like that too. That ad
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: Rock had to convince Rick Rubin to listen to his demo,
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: and he.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Convinced Rick to listen to it because they would get
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: like box loads and demo drapes at that time because
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: of the record label.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: So they really hadn't had their own release rec Wubin
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: had put deaf Jam the name on another recording, but
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: they didn't really have deaf Jam records. This is the
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: genesis though, and the starting of deaf Jam Records. He
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: explains why he called it that, Reck Rubin says, and
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: also that his university.
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: Dorm was where he started it.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: So that had to be where they called the Deaf
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: Jam headquarters. Kimmy Jimmy, that's the first release that he did,
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: I Need a Beat, and so that came out in
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: nineteen eighty five, and in terms of Deaf Jam and
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: All COOLJ, he had twelve albums with them Huge until
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: two thousand and eight. Then he broke up with him
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: for a bit, but he later re signed and is
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: making his fourteen album out in twenty twenty four, including
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: a collaboration with eminem At Murder Graham Doun Apologetic and
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: was going to cost a heading billion, so that she's
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: pretty good. In twenty twenty four. Diff Jam currently on
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: their roster Kanye Whist, Justin Bieber, DJ Khaled, Frank Ocean,
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: Big Sean, and Alo cool J Public Enemy. They're all back,
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: so Al cool J an epic beginning and really you'd
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: have to say without Al call J Waters dift Jam.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: So he was the guy that started everything pretty much
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: a long he was sign when he started stay.
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah and has know that his first contract fifty thousand dollars.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: A lot of money. Back then they took in like
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: nineteen eighty five, they were saying just.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: In so and in the end he made a lot
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: of money and the min into acting of course, so
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: it all worked out pretty good. But let's go to
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: one of those Deft Jam recordings from nineteen ninety five
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: doing it, Oh, I'll cool Jay, because that.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Is your hep my mystery.
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: If you don't know.
• 25:06
  Speaker 6: Now you know.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Lastly, for the week, Stace and Azora came up with
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: some conversational tidbits to make your conversation a bit more exciting.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'd never heard the word tidbit
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: until this week, and one of the tidbits that they
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: came up with was the notes to me, I'm sorry,
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: but who the heck is ever going to use that
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: in a conversation. I don't think I've ever heard anyone
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: say that, and I still am really unsure what that means.
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: Maybe you want.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: To make this change in your conversation so you know,
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: as you know radio announces, radio host, we kind of
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: have to, you know, try and make a story sound
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: quite interesting.
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, sometimes we can all have conversation cratches that means,
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: like you something you always say, mine is actually. If
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to fill a gap, I'll say actually, and
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: it's annoying to me and I'm trying to stop it.
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: So you need new words? What do you put in
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: the yes?
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: And it makes the story good, especially when you're halfway through.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: You might even know someone in your life and you're like, damn,
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: they tell a good story. Maybe they're using conversational tidbits.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: I saw this online and thought, well, you know what,
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: this is perfect. Listen to this guy this then okay,
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: so what unbeknownst to me?
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: I'll tell my story? Sure, okay, see that riddle me?
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: This long story short unbeknownst to me. And this is
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: also unexpected. If you look at this young man, well,
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: I didn't expect an unbeknownst to me to come out there.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: How much more intrigued are you in that story?
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: If someone whips that out.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: So I'm thinking, you know, flavor Fano, we'll pass on
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: some some conversational tidbits that we think will help your
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: Your story has just really come to life. If you see,
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: you know, you're looking around the group, people are sort
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: of losing interest.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: Hit them with a you do the myth, and here's
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: the kicker everyone's got. Wait, I was about to tune.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Out, but here's the k come to find out.
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: Be that as it may.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Now granted, I love and behold contrary to popular belief,
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you this for free, and this I use
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: all the time. No offense, but that's just.
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: What you say before you say something offensive like I'm
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: not racist, but.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: No, the same thing, A yeah it is people, I'm
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: not about to say something racist when I say no,
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: because you don't say no, no, no racist, no no
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: no if you say I'm not racist, but people will
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: always a racist thing after that.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: If someone says that weird, weird, run if someone's but
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: it's so.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Good going hmmm, no offense, but I've got one.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: Of Mardi till you go madawaki next minute, okay, or.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Make that make sense or make it make sense, like
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: make it make sense, you know what I mean for
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: what it's worth.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Is another good one.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: And this is perfect, someone said on a two double
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: Oh just now, haha. My sister always says long story
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: short and then she tells, you're novel.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: This is I'm not gonna lie. We used to say
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: to be frank or to be honest. Yeah, yeah, to
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: be honest. It's the same as no offense.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah, to be honest, and that's to kind of give
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: you a lead into something that.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Is way story is going. Yeah.
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: Another one says She.
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: Notes that the young generations say not gonna lie.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, not gonna lie.
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: Also allegedly no cap But I don't think anyone says
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: that in real life.
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: To be honest.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Nah, I don't think so either.
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: Maybe maybe you know, for a minute, thirteen year old,
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: for a second, they did no cap Imagine if we
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: started saying.
• 28:53
  Speaker 6: That, yep, that's how to get printmired level and that
• 28:58
  Speaker 6: wraps up another week or we always go through a
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: bit of a roller coaster with the different conversations that
• 29:04
  Speaker 6: the team have.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: But if you've missed anything from the week, be sure
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: to check out the full show pods. And if you
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: want to make a bit more juicy that Stacy's or
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: and Charlie cannot share on you, be sure to check
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: out Off the Record. Enjoy the rest of your long weekend,
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: and if you're traveling, be sure to stay safe. Stace
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: is there and Charlie we back six am on Tuesday morning.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: See yat thanks for listening to our Flavor Breakfast producer
• 29:26
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• 29:30
  Speaker 1: from six am on Flavor