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- 0:00Can I go on in Philippians 4? Just go ahead and turn there, Philippians 4.
- 0:05I hope you've enjoyed studying through Philippians. We're pretty much on our way to being done with Philippians.
- 0:20It was one of the first books that we talked through about six years ago in Wes's old apartment, I think, something like that.
- 0:28So, tonight we're going to pick up in verse 10 of chapter 4.
- 0:35And, as always, I definitely feel the weight of life. This is like one of those coffee mug versus t-shirt, Christian t-shirt versus.
- 0:45And so, I understand just the weightiness of what I'm about to speak on tonight, and I pray the Lord really works.
- 0:53So, verse 10, chapter 4.
- 0:57I rejoice in the Lord greatly, that now at length you have revived your concern for me.
- 1:04You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity.
- 1:08Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.
- 1:15I know to be brought low. I know how to abound.
- 1:20In any and every circumstance, I've learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.
- 1:28I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
- 1:34So, let's pray for me for a minute.
- 1:35Lord, I just give you praise for these words.
- 1:40And, Lord, I recognize that even for those of us who are born again, who have you in our lives,
- 1:51it is a daily fight to believe these words in a way that affects how we live.
- 1:58Even up until 15 minutes ago, I was battling, trying to believe these words.
- 2:05And, Lord, can just so easily be attacked.
- 2:09And so, Father, I pray that you would enable us to truly come around this idea tonight of contentment and joy in you.
- 2:20I just give you the praise.
- 2:22In Christ's name, amen.
- 2:23So, just a little bit of introduction.
- 2:28Verse 10, where he says,
- 2:30I've rejoiced in the Lord greatly, but now at length you have revived your concern for me.
- 2:35You were indeed concerned for me, but had no opportunity.
- 2:39And so you know what he's just mentioning here in this first verse.
- 2:43Ten years prior to this, Paul had been in Philippi.
- 2:47And he had received the generous gift from the Philippians church, a financial gift to kind of support his ministry when he arrived in Thessalonica.
- 2:57So they supported him financially.
- 3:00And their giving came from an overflow of joy in Christ.
- 3:04It wasn't something they did under compulsion or something that they thought they had to do.
- 3:08They did it out of the overflow of their hearts in Christ.
- 3:12And even as someone who lives on, you know, financial support myself to do ministry,
- 3:21I realize that a lot of times some of the most cheerful givers and people that even support me in what I do
- 3:28are those who have really been touched by Christ, who really have been satisfied in Christ.
- 3:35And in some way have been ministered to by someone at some point who told them the gospel.
- 3:42And they know the power of the gospel and they want to support those who are, you know, continually ministering to people.
- 3:52So it was out of gratitude they supported Paul financially, but lately they haven't really had an opportunity to support him.
- 3:59So he's talking about that and kind of addressing that.
- 4:02And so a major theme, the major theme that we're going to talk about tonight is the word contentment.
- 4:13And it's what we're going to be unpacking.
- 4:17And so, but where it says it right here in verse, let's see.
- 4:22Yeah.
- 4:25In verse 11, we said, I've learned, you know, whatever situation I'm to be content.
- 4:31And that word for content, it just means having enough.
- 4:36It actually means even to be self-sufficient.
- 4:38It means to be, to be pleased with or to be satisfied with something.
- 4:43You're not looking to something else.
- 4:44You're not dependent on something else.
- 4:46It's contentment.
- 4:48It's what really what the word kind of comes from to.
- 4:51So to possess contentment is really to possess joy and peace.
- 4:55If you have those things kind of, they all kind of connect together.
- 4:58Joy, peace, contentment.
- 5:00They're all, we use those a lot in the Christian life, kind of almost as just different substitute words for the same thing.
- 5:08So contentment is what we're going after tonight.
- 5:10And I'm saying that joy, contentment is a fight for even those who have Christ and an impossible fight for those who are without Christ.
- 5:20And so I have just three things to focus on tonight out of this.
- 5:24But the first one is true contentment is not circumstantial.
- 5:30True contentment is not circumstantial.
- 5:33And that's seen in verses 11 through 12.
- 5:36Now I'm not speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I'm to be content.
- 5:43I know how to be brought low and know how to abound.
- 5:47In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.
- 5:55So you see here that he's like in any situation, in any circumstance.
- 6:00That's his language he's using.
- 6:02And so he's kind of like been all over the spectrum.
- 6:07He's had an abundance.
- 6:10He's had like wealth.
- 6:11He's actually been like in poverty and in great need.
- 6:14He's been all over the map with that.
- 6:16He hasn't just lived a certain way his entire life.
- 6:20And so the point kind of is this teaches us that contentment is something not found in the current situation.
- 6:29Because he says, I have contentment.
- 6:31I've found it.
- 6:32I've learned it.
- 6:34And I've learned it in every circumstance.
- 6:36And it's not in a particular circumstance that you actually find contentment.
- 6:40And that's really a, we're going to kind of go after here.
- 6:43It's not circumstantial.
- 6:46And so in other words, it's not something that we can attain that's outside of us.
- 6:49That's what we constantly tell ourselves.
- 6:52Because what we've got to understand is that the problem is internal.
- 6:58The problem is something not outside that we need.
- 7:01It's something that's like wrong with us.
- 7:04Something that is internal.
- 7:07So kind of go here with me.
- 7:09This will be a question later.
- 7:10Many think if only I had or if only I could fill in the blank, I would be content.
- 7:18If I had good health, if I had good looks, good grades, millions of dollars, a nice house, you know, a husband or wife or family.
- 7:28Then these things, if I had these things, then I would be content.
- 7:32I mean, I just came straight from the gym to here.
- 7:35And like, I go to the Delano Catholic Center.
- 7:38And it's just, it just really breaks my heart.
- 7:40I was even thinking about it while I was there.
- 7:41Just how, man, so many of those guys particularly just think that, man, if I can just look like I had to rip somebody's head off, like I'll be content.
- 7:49And just see them in there just fighting for that.
- 7:53And that one thing day after day.
- 7:56And spend their lives trying to attain these things.
- 8:00All these things that we mentioned, which are not bad things.
- 8:03But we spend so much time and energy, whatever the cost, to attain them.
- 8:09And so we fail to see that discontentment is a bitter fruit of like an inward condition that we have.
- 8:17And that condition is indwelling sin.
- 8:20Even for the believer, we have indwelling sin.
- 8:23Sin that's a part of us.
- 8:27An inward condition.
- 8:27And so even as believers, we still have like the fallen flesh that we are kind of cloaked in.
- 8:34And this flesh is under the sentence of death.
- 8:37Like what you see right here and what you are will eventually die.
- 8:41It's not going to live forever.
- 8:44It's not what's eternal.
- 8:46And so that's why even Paul calls it, Paul, being a believer, he says this body of death.
- 8:51And he says, even when I want to do good, evil is like ever present with me.
- 8:57Like it's like right there with me.
- 8:59Like trying to pull me away and to make me draw to it.
- 9:06So the things that are outside of us, you know, we battle.
- 9:10It says in Scripture we battle that.
- 9:11We battle the devil.
- 9:13We battle the world.
- 9:14And a lot of times we stop there.
- 9:17Like in reality, we think it's the devil who's making me feel this way.
- 9:20Or it's just the stuff in the world.
- 9:23But to be honest, like those things just kind of encourage you to act according to what's already inside of you.
- 9:31Like which is your sinful, your indwelling sin.
- 9:35And so it encourages you to sin.
- 9:36It doesn't make you sin.
- 9:38As a believer, we're talking about.
- 9:40And so it kind of draws from us.
- 9:43And so turn to, you know, as always, keep your hand in Philippians.
- 9:47But turn to Mark 7 real fast.
- 9:49And let's just read something that Jesus himself says about this.
- 9:57So for the believer, you can't ever say the devil made me do it.
- 10:02Or my circumstances were just so terrible that I just had to sin.
- 10:07I had to go this way.
- 10:09You can't say that.
- 10:10Not if you have Christ abiding in you.
- 10:14And so look at Mark 7 verse 19.
- 10:18And we'll see that it's not what's outside of somebody, but what's in somebody.
- 10:22Verse 20.
- 10:23He said,
- 10:23Wow.
- 10:48So our enemy, really, a lot of the time is ourselves.
- 10:54We're our own worst problem.
- 10:57And so we have so many things that pull us into that state.
- 11:05And so we see that, like, contentment and joy are not the things that just naturally flow out of us.
- 11:13It's something that, what flows out of us is the natural soil of our flesh is grumbling, covetousness.
- 11:20I'm always thinking, if I just had this, this contentment.
- 11:23That's what kind of naturally comes.
- 11:25We have to battle for contentment.
- 11:28And a book that I'm going to refer to quite a bit throughout the night, I do recommend it.
- 11:37If you want, like, a reading recommendation, it's called The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment.
- 11:44And it was written by a Puritan back in the day in the 1600s named Jeremiah Burroughs.
- 11:50And he, that's the focus of this book.
- 11:52He just talks about contentment.
- 11:53And it's so good.
- 11:55It's a book that Nathan West and I read while we were in school a few years ago.
- 12:00So it's so good.
- 12:03But something he said was,
- 12:04The mystery of contentment consists not in bringing anything from outside to make my condition more comfortable,
- 12:11but in purging out something that is within.
- 12:15And so it's something that we have to deal with.
- 12:17It's inside of us.
- 12:20Let's see.
- 12:22Turn over to 1 Timothy 6 real fast and go to verse 6.
- 12:281 Timothy 6, verse 6.
- 12:29And so we have warnings all throughout Scripture saying,
- 12:36Don't look for this outside of, in the world.
- 12:40Don't look for, this isn't an external thing that you need.
- 12:44The problem is inside of you.
- 12:46It's a battle for contentment.
- 12:48And so we're warned about that.
- 12:50And so look at 1 Timothy 6 and go to verse 6.
- 12:55He says,
- 12:56Now there is a great gain in godliness with contentment.
- 13:00For we brought nothing into this world and we can take nothing out of the world.
- 13:05But if we have food and clothing with these, we'll be content.
- 13:09But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation,
- 13:12into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires
- 13:16that plunge people into ruin and destruction.
- 13:19For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.
- 13:22So it is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith
- 13:29and have pierced themselves with many pains.
- 13:32And so he's saying like a immoderate love for money.
- 13:40And money is not a bad thing,
- 13:43but he just understands, as Jesus does,
- 13:45that money can be used to do great evil or do great good.
- 13:49And he's saying that if you love money, if that's your goal to attain,
- 13:53then it will bring great harm upon you.
- 13:57But he says like godliness, like being like God,
- 14:01like pursuing Him, knowing Him, becoming like Him,
- 14:04there's great contentment.
- 14:05And so there's all these warnings about this.
- 14:10So something else, Jeremiah Burroughs says,
- 14:12that the Christian, this is one of those little nuggets,
- 14:15a Christian comes through contentment,
- 14:18not so much by way of addition as by way of subtraction.
- 14:23We don't think if I just had this,
- 14:25if I just could add this to my life, I would be content.
- 14:28And he was saying that true satisfaction in Christ,
- 14:33you actually might be able to subtract things from your life.
- 14:36Like that's what it really looks like,
- 14:38to have something of great value
- 14:41to where you don't really need all these other things.
- 14:44So if you're saying,
- 14:47if I had a little more,
- 14:48if I just had a little more of this,
- 14:49a little more of that,
- 14:52like seriously mistaken,
- 14:54and I know I've been in this position so many times.
- 14:59So if you're not satisfied with what you have now,
- 15:01you won't be satisfied when that portion is doubled or tripled.
- 15:04It's like you have to,
- 15:06it's something to be possessed now.
- 15:08And it's the fruit of indwelling sin.
- 15:10Just remember that.
- 15:11Like discontentment is the fruit of indwelling sin.
- 15:15Even for the believer,
- 15:16even at our best,
- 15:17sin is always there trying to make us drowsy and lazy
- 15:21and tries to prevent us from doing any good thing before God.
- 15:26So there's something on this inside.
- 15:30So that's the first point.
- 15:31True contentment is not circumstantial.
- 15:33The second point is true contentment is found only in Christ.
- 15:41Go back to Philippians again.
- 15:45True contentment is found only in Christ.
- 15:48And this is found in verse 13 where he says,
- 15:52I can do all things through him,
- 15:55Christ.
- 15:57Okay.
- 15:58And so flip to back one chapter in Philippians to chapter three.
- 16:03Something that we covered a few weeks ago.
- 16:08But Philippians three and go to verse seven.
- 16:12He says,
- 16:16but whatever gain I had,
- 16:18I counted as loss for the sake of Christ.
- 16:21Indeed,
- 16:21I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus,
- 16:27my Lord.
- 16:28For his sake,
- 16:29I've suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish in order that I
- 16:33might gain Christ.
- 16:36So what does that,
- 16:37what does that look like?
- 16:38Does it sound like he's trying to add stuff for,
- 16:41for joy,
- 16:42trying to add stuff to his life for contentment?
- 16:44He's like,
- 16:45no,
- 16:45like I've lost everything to possess Christ,
- 16:50the one eternal treasure that will satisfy and bring me contentment.
- 16:54And he's like,
- 16:56that's,
- 16:56that's what he said right here.
- 16:57The surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus,
- 17:01my Lord.
- 17:02And the Greek word for knowing right there,
- 17:06we've,
- 17:06we've mentioned this before.
- 17:08It's an experiential personal involvement.
- 17:10No,
- 17:11it's something that you've actually laid hold of.
- 17:14And,
- 17:14and to the Greeks,
- 17:16this meant like a mystical secret union with a God.
- 17:20Like when they use this,
- 17:21when they use this phrase,
- 17:23like a,
- 17:23a secret mystical union with a God.
- 17:26And like a,
- 17:26a transcendent knowledge that goes beyond just like the mundane,
- 17:30everyday things of life.
- 17:32And so that's what they were saying.
- 17:34And the same word in Hebrew,
- 17:36the equivalent of knowing in Hebrew means like an intimate knowledge of
- 17:40something,
- 17:41a love bond,
- 17:43a union,
- 17:44the way,
- 17:44like a,
- 17:44way a husband would know his wife.
- 17:47And so this is like a,
- 17:49a warming theological concept of like knowing Christ.
- 17:52And,
- 17:53and so he's not just saying no about Christ.
- 17:57I know so many people,
- 17:59and even myself,
- 18:00when I was a teenager,
- 18:02I could tell you like a lot of correct theology about who Jesus was.
- 18:06I didn't know him.
- 18:07Like I had not like encountered him at all.
- 18:10I wasn't really experientially walking with him and knowing him.
- 18:15So,
- 18:15and then in Hebrews 13,
- 18:18I'll just read you this.
- 18:19It says,
- 18:20verses four and six,
- 18:21it says,
- 18:22keep your life free from the love of money.
- 18:26Be content with what you have.
- 18:27For Christ has said,
- 18:30I will never leave you nor forsake you.
- 18:32So we can confidently say the Lord is my helper.
- 18:35I will not fear.
- 18:37What can man do to me?
- 18:38So he,
- 18:39he's saying like,
- 18:40I can be content because Christ has told me he'll never leave me or forsake me.
- 18:46And like,
- 18:46he is my helper.
- 18:47He is the one that I need.
- 18:49It's not found in what I can attain outside.
- 18:53And,
- 18:53uh,
- 18:54so,
- 18:55so,
- 18:56um,
- 18:56just a warning though,
- 18:58about satisfaction in Christ and contentment in Christ.
- 19:01Um,
- 19:03I've even heard some very dear brothers of mine share the gospel this way before.
- 19:11And,
- 19:12and I've also seen the devastating effects of sharing the gospel this way.
- 19:16So if you're,
- 19:17if you're aware that,
- 19:19um,
- 19:19that you are sharing this way,
- 19:21you can just kind of keep that yourself and just ask the Lord,
- 19:24uh,
- 19:25to help you not share the gospel this way.
- 19:27But I'm going to tell you like a tale of two plane passengers.
- 19:32Okay.
- 19:33And I hope this really alters how you think a little bit,
- 19:37but two well-traveled men are on an airplane together and a flight attendant goes up to the first man.
- 19:45And he says,
- 19:47and offers this man a parachute.
- 19:49And he says,
- 19:49put this parachute on.
- 19:51If you put this parachute on,
- 19:53it's going to make your,
- 19:54your flight a lot more comfortable,
- 19:55a lot more enjoyable.
- 19:58um,
- 19:58just do this.
- 19:59And,
- 19:59um,
- 20:00she,
- 20:01and even she's wearing one,
- 20:02the flight attendant is wearing a parachute.
- 20:04She's like,
- 20:04I promise like it will bring you joy on this flight.
- 20:08It'll make your flight a lot better.
- 20:09It'll improve it.
- 20:11And so he just kind of like,
- 20:12okay.
- 20:13And that sounds good.
- 20:14And so he,
- 20:15he tries it on,
- 20:16he puts it on.
- 20:17And immediately he feels like how heavy it is,
- 20:20how cumbersome it is.
- 20:21And,
- 20:22and like,
- 20:23he tries to sit down in his seat and he's just so like thrown off.
- 20:27And uncomfortable.
- 20:28And he's thinking in his mind,
- 20:30this is not what she said,
- 20:31but I'm going to give it a chance.
- 20:33I just put it on.
- 20:34I'm just going to wait it out for a while.
- 20:37And he's just sitting there getting hot and his clothes are getting all
- 20:40wrinkled.
- 20:41And then he hears people across the aisle laughing at him.
- 20:45They're like,
- 20:45what is that guy doing?
- 20:47Look,
- 20:47what an idiot.
- 20:48And so then like,
- 20:50not only is he uncomfortable,
- 20:51but he's feeling like humiliation,
- 20:53like some kind of like persecution from the people on the plane.
- 20:57And so he,
- 20:59he said,
- 21:00you know,
- 21:01he,
- 21:01he keeps it on just for a little while longer because the flight attendant did
- 21:04promise him,
- 21:05this will make your flight more enjoyable.
- 21:07But finally he had a,
- 21:08and he like took the parachute off and he threw it down the aisle.
- 21:11And he's like,
- 21:11this is,
- 21:12this is stupid.
- 21:13What was I thinking?
- 21:16And he actually gets angry and bitter at the attendant that told him that.
- 21:20so that's the,
- 21:22that's the first man.
- 21:23The second man is also offered a parachute from a flight attendant.
- 21:28Who's wearing a parachute herself,
- 21:31very kind lady.
- 21:33And she just says,
- 21:34put this parachute on because in two minutes,
- 21:39the plane's going down.
- 21:41Like we're having some serious malfunctioning problems.
- 21:44Put this parachute on and it'll save your life.
- 21:50And so he quickly traps the parachute on with delight and takes no notice of how
- 21:58like uncomfortable it is at all.
- 22:00And then when people start laughing at him,
- 22:02he really doesn't care.
- 22:03Like he's like,
- 22:03that's,
- 22:04that's all right.
- 22:05And he,
- 22:05he thinks only about how awful that jump would be without the parachute.
- 22:11And actually having that parachute does bring him like some comfort and peace
- 22:16while he has it on.
- 22:17Cause he knows that he knows what's about to happen.
- 22:20So consider like the motive and the result of each,
- 22:24each passenger.
- 22:25The first man,
- 22:27he was offered by the attendant who was well-meaning,
- 22:29you know,
- 22:30like put this parachute on and it'll bring you comfort and enjoyment.
- 22:34It'll improve your flight.
- 22:36And the result was anger,
- 22:39bitterness,
- 22:40and frustration.
- 22:41That's like how this guy,
- 22:42the first man felt.
- 22:42The second man,
- 22:44not so much.
- 22:46Um,
- 22:46he did to escape the danger of jumping out of the plane at 2000 feet.
- 22:50And so he feels joy and peace and,
- 22:53and delight.
- 22:54Um,
- 22:55and he's actually very thankful to the attendant that told him that.
- 22:58Actually,
- 22:58the other guy is embittered and angry with the attendant.
- 23:01All right.
- 23:03So,
- 23:03so here's the deal.
- 23:05The gospel message is not come and be joyful and happy in Jesus.
- 23:13God loves you and has a great plan for your life.
- 23:16That's not,
- 23:17it's not the gospel message.
- 23:18If you tell anybody that,
- 23:20they'd be a fool to be like,
- 23:22I don't,
- 23:23I don't want that.
- 23:24I don't want joy.
- 23:25I don't want fulfillment.
- 23:26Um,
- 23:27they would,
- 23:28they'd be like,
- 23:28okay,
- 23:29sounds good.
- 23:30And so they buy that message.
- 23:32And then like later on,
- 23:34life doesn't get better.
- 23:35Like life gets harder.
- 23:36People start laughing at them.
- 23:38They realize how hard things are.
- 23:41They,
- 23:42they usually,
- 23:44people that I've met that have experienced this,
- 23:46like they're,
- 23:47they're,
- 23:48they're pretty cool for a while.
- 23:49They're kind of experiencing a new thing.
- 23:50And then like the talk I have with them later is,
- 23:53I was a Christian until this.
- 23:55This happened.
- 23:56Fill in the blank.
- 23:57I lost my girlfriend.
- 23:59My mom got sick.
- 24:00I broke,
- 24:01you know,
- 24:02something in my body where I can't do this anymore.
- 24:04I lost my job.
- 24:06And so I just concluded that Christ is just a big hoax.
- 24:09And I'm actually angry with the person that told me that Jesus would give me
- 24:12fulfillment and happiness.
- 24:15So,
- 24:16so here's the gospel message.
- 24:18The gospel is out of the words of Jesus,
- 24:21Mark one,
- 24:22repent and believe the gospel.
- 24:24For the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
- 24:28And like the gospel is like you are condemned before God and that you're an
- 24:32enemy of God.
- 24:33Unless you turn from your sin and come to Christ,
- 24:35you'll perish.
- 24:37And so is it true that Jesus does give us contentment and does give us joy and
- 24:44give us satisfaction?
- 24:46Yes.
- 24:46But that comes only by repentance of sin,
- 24:51taking up your cross and following Christ.
- 24:53There's no other way.
- 24:54Like that's just it.
- 24:56And so,
- 24:56because your joy is not in the present world,
- 24:58but in the life to come and found in Christ.
- 25:01So,
- 25:01so just,
- 25:03just kind of keep that in mind.
- 25:05You know,
- 25:06like we don't want to,
- 25:07like we have Christ and we repent of our sins and those things are the result of
- 25:13having Christ.
- 25:13And so you got to be careful with the gospel message.
- 25:17So,
- 25:17uh,
- 25:18he says,
- 25:18knowing Christ Jesus,
- 25:20my Lord,
- 25:20Paul says in Philippians,
- 25:22knowing Christ,
- 25:23that word,
- 25:23Christ,
- 25:24Messiah,
- 25:25savior,
- 25:26anointed one.
- 25:28Where is he saving you from?
- 25:29He's saving you from sin and judgment,
- 25:30um,
- 25:31and eternal death.
- 25:33My Lord,
- 25:34he's your sovereign.
- 25:36He's your master.
- 25:36You will follow him.
- 25:38Like you can't like neglect those words.
- 25:40And so the peace and joy and contentment are the result of,
- 25:44of having Christ truly possessing Christ.
- 25:48Um,
- 25:48Thomas Brooks,
- 25:49another Puritan guy said,
- 25:51God has in himself,
- 25:53all goodness to supply you,
- 25:55all happiness to crown you.
- 25:57God is an all satisfying good,
- 26:00a good that fills the heart and quiets the soul.
- 26:02He says,
- 26:03in him,
- 26:04in him,
- 26:05I have all comforts and all delights,
- 26:08all contentments,
- 26:10no good below him.
- 26:12Who is the greatest good and can only satisfy the soul.
- 26:15A good wife,
- 26:16a good child,
- 26:16a good name,
- 26:18a good estate,
- 26:18a good friend cannot satisfy the soul.
- 26:21These may please,
- 26:22but they cannot satisfy.
- 26:24It's like what he said.
- 26:25And so the secret is having knowing Christ and having Christ dwell in us.
- 26:30If you were here last week,
- 26:33um,
- 26:34you remember the analogy that I gave you from,
- 26:36from,
- 26:37uh,
- 26:37that Burroughs used in his book.
- 26:39He was saying that if you're sick,
- 26:42like,
- 26:42you naturally actually get cold,
- 26:44like pretty easy.
- 26:45So you get cold anyway.
- 26:47Like,
- 26:48if you really are sick,
- 26:49you have to search from some kind of outside source,
- 26:51outside source,
- 26:52to make yourself warm.
- 26:54A fire,
- 26:55a warm coat,
- 26:56and like,
- 26:56you need those external things to make you warm,
- 26:59because your body's sick.
- 27:00Like,
- 27:00but if your body is healthy,
- 27:03like,
- 27:03you can actually put cold clothes on,
- 27:05and it warms the clothes up,
- 27:06right?
- 27:06It's like an inside out kind of thing.
- 27:09And he's saying that if you really are healthy in Christ,
- 27:12like,
- 27:12you don't need these external things to make you joyful,
- 27:16to make you content.
- 27:17It's something that kind of happens from,
- 27:19from within.
- 27:20And so,
- 27:21knowing Christ Jesus,
- 27:23only in Christ is our true contentment found.
- 27:27Um,
- 27:27and even for the believer,
- 27:28it's a battle.
- 27:29But,
- 27:30but we've experienced this.
- 27:32So,
- 27:33this leads us to the third point,
- 27:36which is,
- 27:38true contentment is sustained by God's power.
- 27:42True contentment is sustained by God's power.
- 27:46And then,
- 27:46um,
- 27:47verse 13,
- 27:48back in chapter 4,
- 27:50I can do all things through Him,
- 27:53through Christ,
- 27:54who strengthens me.
- 27:56All right?
- 27:56And this is that.
- 27:58This is the coffee mug.
- 27:59verse.
- 28:00Um,
- 28:00I've actually been to,
- 28:02like,
- 28:02a baseball game before,
- 28:03where I saw,
- 28:04like,
- 28:04one guy had this verse,
- 28:06this verse written,
- 28:07like,
- 28:09like,
- 28:09on his,
- 28:10on his,
- 28:10you know,
- 28:11with the paint they put on.
- 28:13And,
- 28:13it's just saying,
- 28:15like,
- 28:15I can win this baseball game
- 28:16with the strength that Christ gives me
- 28:18to win this baseball game.
- 28:19And then,
- 28:21I saw another guy on the team
- 28:22that had painted,
- 28:23like,
- 28:24Romans,
- 28:24Romans 8,
- 28:25forgot the verse,
- 28:26Romans 8,
- 28:28if God is for me,
- 28:29who can be against me?
- 28:30Someone's gonna lose.
- 28:32Like,
- 28:32both can't win.
- 28:34So,
- 28:35and I've actually been around,
- 28:37like,
- 28:37seeing in Christian bookstores,
- 28:38like,
- 28:39the stuff plastered all over,
- 28:40sports equipment and everything.
- 28:41I'm just saying,
- 28:43oh,
- 28:43no,
- 28:44like,
- 28:44this verse is for the single mom
- 28:47who works two jobs
- 28:48and has three kids at home
- 28:51and who feels like she's going to die
- 28:53under the weight of what she's going through.
- 28:56She can say,
- 28:57I can do all things through Christ
- 28:59who strengthens me.
- 29:00That's for her,
- 29:01not for these athletes
- 29:03who want to swell their pride up
- 29:04like Jesus is a means for me
- 29:05to be winning glory in some sport.
- 29:09It's not,
- 29:09not a means.
- 29:11So,
- 29:12so,
- 29:13um,
- 29:14back to the verse.
- 29:16That was what the verse doesn't mean.
- 29:18Um,
- 29:19so,
- 29:20strength for lasting joy
- 29:21and contentment
- 29:22is found only in Christ.
- 29:24The strength for lasting joy
- 29:26and contentment.
- 29:27So,
- 29:28this same Greek word
- 29:29for,
- 29:30for contentment
- 29:31is used by,
- 29:32like,
- 29:33the Greek Stoics,
- 29:34the Roman Stoics,
- 29:35but the philosophers,
- 29:36I don't know if you know
- 29:36anything about that,
- 29:38but Stoics are people
- 29:39who just say,
- 29:40come what may,
- 29:41no matter what happens,
- 29:42I'm undaunted.
- 29:44I'm going to continue
- 29:45pursuing my whatever.
- 29:47Like,
- 29:48I'm this way.
- 29:49And nothing can alter that.
- 29:50It's kind of like a,
- 29:52kind of like,
- 29:53whatever comes,
- 29:54I'm going to be that way.
- 29:55And they would say that,
- 29:56like,
- 29:56I'm content.
- 29:57I'm content.
- 29:58But,
- 29:59Paul is saying,
- 30:00like,
- 30:02eh,
- 30:02not really the same way.
- 30:03He's using this term
- 30:04completely differently.
- 30:06He says,
- 30:06I can do all things
- 30:07with Christ
- 30:07who strengthens me.
- 30:10So,
- 30:10contentment in Christ
- 30:11is going to be the result
- 30:12of His strengthening you,
- 30:14even as a believer.
- 30:16So,
- 30:16yeah.
- 30:18So,
- 30:19he's like,
- 30:19I know what it's like
- 30:20to be in financial poverty,
- 30:22to be in unhealthiness,
- 30:23loneliness,
- 30:24whatever.
- 30:25Christ will strengthen you.
- 30:26He'll grant you
- 30:27what you need
- 30:28to have contentment and joy.
- 30:30So,
- 30:32let me see.
- 30:32Sorry.
- 30:33And this is something else
- 30:34that Burroughs wrote,
- 30:36just follow me.
- 30:37He said,
- 30:37a Christian finds satisfaction
- 30:39in every circumstance
- 30:41by getting strength
- 30:42from another,
- 30:44by going outside
- 30:45of himself
- 30:46to Christ Jesus.
- 30:48By his faith
- 30:49and acting upon Christ
- 30:50and bringing the strength
- 30:52of Christ
- 30:52into his soul,
- 30:54he is thereby
- 30:54enabled to bear
- 30:56whatever God lays on him
- 30:57by the strength
- 30:58that he finds
- 30:59from Christ.
- 31:01There is strength in Christ,
- 31:02not only to sanctify
- 31:03and save us,
- 31:04but strength to support us
- 31:06under all our burdens
- 31:07and afflictions.
- 31:09And Christ expects
- 31:10that when
- 31:11we are under any burden,
- 31:13we should act
- 31:13our faith upon him
- 31:15to draw virtue
- 31:16and strength.
- 31:17Really good.
- 31:18Like,
- 31:19in Christ,
- 31:20acting upon him
- 31:21in faith
- 31:21results in satisfaction
- 31:24and contentment
- 31:24no matter what.
- 31:26And it comes from him.
- 31:27It's something
- 31:27that he supplies.
- 31:30So,
- 31:31application,
- 31:32real fast.
- 31:34And,
- 31:34man,
- 31:35there was so much
- 31:36to say in this.
- 31:37And so,
- 31:37I was just trying to,
- 31:37like,
- 31:37I can't say that,
- 31:38I can't say that,
- 31:38I don't have time.
- 31:39So,
- 31:40getting into
- 31:41a little bit
- 31:42of application,
- 31:44look back at the text
- 31:45again in Philippians 4,
- 31:46and you see Paul
- 31:47uses a phrase twice.
- 31:49He's like,
- 31:51I've learned.
- 31:52I've learned.
- 31:53And,
- 31:55he says that twice.
- 31:56I've learned this.
- 31:58I've learned to be content.
- 32:00And he says,
- 32:02learning something
- 32:04does not come easy.
- 32:05Like,
- 32:05learning contentment
- 32:06is not something
- 32:07you can just read a book on
- 32:08and you're squared.
- 32:09Like,
- 32:10it's something
- 32:11that you've got to learn
- 32:12through experience
- 32:13that these other things
- 32:15don't content,
- 32:15so by letting down
- 32:17by things,
- 32:18but also actually
- 32:19being able to find
- 32:20contentment in Christ.
- 32:21So,
- 32:23so Paul,
- 32:24you know,
- 32:24he's not getting contentment
- 32:25being in a dungeon cell.
- 32:27Like,
- 32:27he's not getting all this
- 32:28stuff,
- 32:29you know?
- 32:29Like,
- 32:29he,
- 32:30he realizes that contentment
- 32:31is something that he,
- 32:33that has to come from within,
- 32:34with Christ inside of him.
- 32:36And so,
- 32:37learning this is a discipline,
- 32:38like learning contentment.
- 32:40And,
- 32:41so,
- 32:42something else that will,
- 32:44we'll talk about this
- 32:44in the groups,
- 32:46but,
- 32:47cultivate thankfulness
- 32:49in your life.
- 32:50Like,
- 32:51I mean,
- 32:51I can talk for an hour
- 32:52on thankfulness.
- 32:53Like,
- 32:53just cultivate thankfulness
- 32:55in your life.
- 32:57Charles Spurgeon said,
- 32:59very simply,
- 33:01he that deserves nothing
- 33:02should be content
- 33:04with anything.
- 33:06It's pretty good.
- 33:07And like,
- 33:08all of us,
- 33:10being like sinners
- 33:11and rebels against God,
- 33:12we don't deserve
- 33:13one good thing.
- 33:15Like,
- 33:16like that's the weight
- 33:16of your sin.
- 33:17Like,
- 33:17someone asked me,
- 33:19one of my best friends,
- 33:20actually,
- 33:20who doesn't know the Lord.
- 33:22He's my oldest friend.
- 33:24I literally had pictures of like,
- 33:25he and I as like babies together.
- 33:28He says,
- 33:29how,
- 33:29how in the world
- 33:30can you still love Christ
- 33:32after all the stuff
- 33:33that he's allowed
- 33:34to happen to you?
- 33:36And that's like,
- 33:36what his response.
- 33:37And this is,
- 33:38this was kind of my response.
- 33:40Like,
- 33:40a true understanding
- 33:41of the gospel
- 33:42means like,
- 33:42you don't deserve anything.
- 33:43Not the air you breathe,
- 33:44the food you eat,
- 33:46the clothes you have,
- 33:47nothing.
- 33:48And,
- 33:48it all is grace.
- 33:50Like,
- 33:51the unmerited,
- 33:52undeserved
- 33:53blessing
- 33:54and favor of God.
- 33:56And so,
- 33:57like that's the very
- 33:58foundational principle
- 33:59of the gospel
- 33:59is that you don't deserve anything.
- 34:02And grace is getting something
- 34:04that you don't deserve.
- 34:06So,
- 34:07learn to cultivate
- 34:08thankfulness.
- 34:09I think that
- 34:09when we're dealing with
- 34:11discontentment,
- 34:14I think that often
- 34:15is at the heart of it.
- 34:16We've forgotten,
- 34:17like,
- 34:18who God is,
- 34:19who we were,
- 34:21and how much
- 34:21he is like,
- 34:22so richly lavished upon us.
- 34:25Keep that in your mind.
- 34:26Like,
- 34:26learn to cultivate
- 34:27thankfulness.
- 34:28And,
- 34:29just a little personal note
- 34:31before we
- 34:31break up
- 34:33in the groups
- 34:35that discuss some things.
- 34:37So,
- 34:38I'm just going to share
- 34:39with you a little bit
- 34:40about my
- 34:40quest,
- 34:42my search for
- 34:43contentment
- 34:44throughout my life.
- 34:46And,
- 34:47but if you had asked me
- 34:48when I was 18,
- 34:50what would make you content?
- 34:52Like,
- 34:53what would make you satisfied?
- 34:54Like,
- 34:55if only I had,
- 34:56right,
- 34:57question,
- 34:59I would have probably
- 34:59put two things in there.
- 35:00I would have said,
- 35:01good health
- 35:02and
- 35:03a wife.
- 35:05That's probably
- 35:05what I would have said.
- 35:06Good health
- 35:07and a wife,
- 35:07a family.
- 35:09And,
- 35:09so,
- 35:10then I'll be satisfied.
- 35:12I would have said that
- 35:12to you without hesitation.
- 35:14So,
- 35:15so,
- 35:15if you don't know,
- 35:16I have a,
- 35:17a disease
- 35:19called cystic fibrosis.
- 35:20It's a,
- 35:21a lung disease
- 35:22that like,
- 35:23produces abnormally thick
- 35:24mucus in the lungs.
- 35:26And,
- 35:27around 30,000 people
- 35:29in the U.S.
- 35:29are infected with it.
- 35:30and it kills
- 35:31half of those
- 35:33by age 30.
- 35:35And so,
- 35:36like,
- 35:37I lost the ability
- 35:39as I got older.
- 35:39Like,
- 35:40I lost the ability.
- 35:40By the time I was
- 35:41probably 16,
- 35:42I hardly could do,
- 35:43like,
- 35:44a lot of the big
- 35:45physical activities
- 35:46that I,
- 35:46I once did.
- 35:47And,
- 35:47but,
- 35:49but,
- 35:50playing sports,
- 35:52lost that ability.
- 35:55Like,
- 35:55I didn't have the endurance
- 35:56to keep playing things.
- 35:58Although,
- 35:58I was a pretty
- 35:59decent,
- 36:00maybe a little better
- 36:01than average baseball player.
- 36:02Like,
- 36:03I couldn't,
- 36:03like,
- 36:03I didn't have the stamina
- 36:04to do it.
- 36:05Had the skill,
- 36:06just not the stamina.
- 36:08And,
- 36:09I couldn't get out
- 36:10and really go,
- 36:11like,
- 36:11hiking and do the things
- 36:12I really enjoy,
- 36:13like,
- 36:13out in the mountains.
- 36:14And so,
- 36:15you know,
- 36:17you just want to,
- 36:17you just want to feel good
- 36:18in life so you can,
- 36:19so you can do a lot,
- 36:20right?
- 36:21And so,
- 36:21like I really said,
- 36:22if I only had good health,
- 36:24like,
- 36:24I would be content.
- 36:26That's something I would,
- 36:27I would say at that point.
- 36:29And then the other one was,
- 36:30you know,
- 36:31a wife,
- 36:31marriage.
- 36:32It was a true desire
- 36:33for companionship.
- 36:35And I was,
- 36:36so,
- 36:37it was a real desire.
- 36:39Still is,
- 36:39but,
- 36:40it's like,
- 36:42the world told me,
- 36:44you have to be married
- 36:45to be a man.
- 36:46That's like what I kind of
- 36:47gathered.
- 36:48And then I also learned
- 36:49that sometimes,
- 36:51you know,
- 36:52well-intentioned people,
- 36:53even in the church,
- 36:54can almost indirectly
- 36:55make you feel that way.
- 36:56And,
- 36:57I kind of grew up
- 36:58in my big brother's shadow.
- 36:59I have an older brother
- 37:00named Lee,
- 37:01and he's one of my
- 37:02best friends.
- 37:03He doesn't know the Lord.
- 37:06And,
- 37:06he was like the cool
- 37:09older brother.
- 37:10Like,
- 37:10let me do everything
- 37:11with him.
- 37:12And if I ever had,
- 37:13like,
- 37:13an older guy
- 37:14that was,
- 37:15like,
- 37:15picking on me,
- 37:16I'd always be like,
- 37:17bring it on,
- 37:17man.
- 37:18But,
- 37:18like,
- 37:19my brother would be like,
- 37:20come and knock the guy out
- 37:21kind of guy.
- 37:21Like,
- 37:22let my little brother alone.
- 37:23You know,
- 37:24he was,
- 37:25we were pretty tight.
- 37:26We did everything together.
- 37:28And,
- 37:28you know,
- 37:30but my brother was also,
- 37:31like,
- 37:33a good looking dude.
- 37:34He always got,
- 37:34like,
- 37:35the best looking girls.
- 37:36Always was dating somebody.
- 37:39He was a star athlete.
- 37:40He got Gwinnett County
- 37:41Pitcher of the Year
- 37:42in baseball.
- 37:43That's,
- 37:43if you know anything
- 37:44about Gwinnett County
- 37:44baseball,
- 37:45that's a pretty big achievement.
- 37:48He got one,
- 37:49one offer
- 37:49for,
- 37:51like,
- 37:51minors,
- 37:52but just didn't take it.
- 37:54He started having
- 37:55some throwing problems.
- 37:57And,
- 37:57and so,
- 37:57like,
- 37:58I just thought,
- 37:59if I could
- 38:00just get like that,
- 38:02you know,
- 38:02like,
- 38:02if I could just have
- 38:03these things,
- 38:05like,
- 38:05I'll be a man
- 38:06and I'll have contentment.
- 38:08And,
- 38:08so,
- 38:11guess what?
- 38:14Since then,
- 38:15like,
- 38:16God has granted me
- 38:17one of those things,
- 38:19right?
- 38:20He gave me
- 38:21a lung transplant
- 38:22almost five years ago.
- 38:24So,
- 38:24although my health
- 38:25isn't,
- 38:26probably not really
- 38:27great compared
- 38:27to a lot of you
- 38:28in here,
- 38:28like,
- 38:29it's still,
- 38:29like,
- 38:29loads better
- 38:30than it used to be.
- 38:31Like,
- 38:32I can do a lot now,
- 38:34you know,
- 38:36still with difficulty,
- 38:36but I can get out
- 38:37and do most things.
- 38:39And,
- 38:39so,
- 38:40I have that.
- 38:41Guess what?
- 38:42I still struggle
- 38:43with discontentment.
- 38:45Like,
- 38:46I'm still not
- 38:46satisfied
- 38:48with,
- 38:48with just being able
- 38:50to feel a little better.
- 38:52So,
- 38:52if that's true,
- 38:54why in the world
- 38:55would I think
- 38:55that a wife
- 38:56would bring me
- 38:57contentment?
- 38:58Like,
- 38:58if that's,
- 38:59if this is,
- 38:59if I'm struggling now,
- 39:00like,
- 39:01what about this later?
- 39:02And those of you
- 39:02who are in here
- 39:03who are single
- 39:03and do desire
- 39:05to be married
- 39:05and that's like
- 39:06you're filling
- 39:06the blank thing,
- 39:08like,
- 39:08discontented single people
- 39:09make discontented
- 39:10married people.
- 39:10Like,
- 39:11you drag that,
- 39:11like,
- 39:11right into
- 39:12your marriage.
- 39:15So,
- 39:16unless we have
- 39:17Christ himself,
- 39:18we'll remain that way.
- 39:19Like,
- 39:20he is what we
- 39:21must battle
- 39:23to be content in.
- 39:25And when I say battle,
- 39:26because there's all these
- 39:26other voices telling you
- 39:27that he's not what you need.
- 39:28You need this.
- 39:30And,
- 39:30so,
- 39:32it is a battle.
- 39:34Jeremiah Burroughs,
- 39:35I'm just going to start
- 39:36calling him JB.
- 39:37JB wrote,
- 39:38it is not so much
- 39:40the removing
- 39:41of the affliction
- 39:42that is upon us
- 39:43as the changing
- 39:45of the affliction,
- 39:47okay,
- 39:47so you got like
- 39:47a present thing
- 39:48bothering you,
- 39:49it's not so much
- 39:50like removing
- 39:51that affliction,
- 39:52but the metamorphosizing,
- 39:54that's a big word for you,
- 39:57of that affliction
- 39:57so that
- 39:59it is turned
- 40:01and changed
- 40:01into something else.
- 40:03So,
- 40:03you have some kind
- 40:04of issue going on.
- 40:06The,
- 40:06the key to contentment
- 40:07is not to,
- 40:08to just remove it.
- 40:09We just think,
- 40:10if I just could get rid
- 40:11of this
- 40:11or just get this,
- 40:14I'd be content.
- 40:15But he's saying that
- 40:16what you need to do
- 40:17is take that same affliction
- 40:18and like change it
- 40:19into something else.
- 40:20Like,
- 40:21allow it to like
- 40:22work for you
- 40:23and not against you,
- 40:24idea,
- 40:25that,
- 40:25that particular affliction
- 40:26you've got.
- 40:28And,
- 40:28he actually talks about,
- 40:29he quotes Martin Luther
- 40:31in this book
- 40:31and Martin Luther said
- 40:32that Christians
- 40:33have been given
- 40:35an ability
- 40:37by God
- 40:40to create
- 40:40as their,
- 40:42their God
- 40:42as their creator
- 40:43so that,
- 40:44now they can create
- 40:46like light
- 40:47out of darkness,
- 40:49healing out of brokenness.
- 40:50They can like
- 40:51do things
- 40:51with what they've been given
- 40:52and create something
- 40:54out of it.
- 40:55So,
- 40:56that's what he's saying.
- 40:58So,
- 40:58I'm not,
- 40:59not,
- 40:59not perfect at this,
- 41:01but,
- 41:03but I can honestly
- 41:04say before you
- 41:05without a lie
- 41:05that I feel like
- 41:06I've learned
- 41:06to be content.
- 41:08It's still a battle.
- 41:09I still really,
- 41:10really suck at it
- 41:11sometimes,
- 41:12but,
- 41:12but I do think
- 41:13that it's something
- 41:13I've learned.
- 41:14I've learned these
- 41:15other things,
- 41:15don't,
- 41:15don't cut it.
- 41:17And,
- 41:17for instance though,
- 41:19just,
- 41:20I made a little list here.
- 41:22Um,
- 41:23in my sickness
- 41:24and suffering,
- 41:25I'm going to give you
- 41:25like a list
- 41:26of things I learned
- 41:27in that present
- 41:29circumstance
- 41:30that I had
- 41:31in my sickness
- 41:32and suffering,
- 41:33it made me thankful
- 41:33for what help
- 41:34I do have.
- 41:36Um,
- 41:37sickness and suffering,
- 41:38um,
- 41:39allowed me
- 41:40to comfort others
- 41:43with the comfort
- 41:43that I've received
- 41:44from Christ
- 41:44in those hard situations.
- 41:47And in my sickness
- 41:48and suffering,
- 41:49God has made me long
- 41:50for eternity more
- 41:51to be in heaven
- 41:53with Him.
- 41:54Like,
- 41:54I'm sick of,
- 41:55like when you're in pain,
- 41:56like you're just like,
- 41:57just get me out of here.
- 41:58Like,
- 41:58even when I got my transplant,
- 41:59the guys in the back
- 42:01can tell you,
- 42:01like,
- 42:02I remember telling them,
- 42:03like,
- 42:04death is great
- 42:05because it takes us
- 42:06to be with Christ,
- 42:07but dying sucks.
- 42:08That's what I told
- 42:08Wes when I was like,
- 42:10coming out of a surgery
- 42:11and like,
- 42:13but I gotta go through
- 42:14dying twice now.
- 42:15It's not fun.
- 42:16So,
- 42:17so my sickness
- 42:18and suffering
- 42:18taught me
- 42:19to long more
- 42:20for eternity.
- 42:21In my sickness
- 42:22and suffering also,
- 42:24it really allowed me
- 42:25to like read
- 42:26and study doctrine
- 42:27and scripture
- 42:28like never before.
- 42:29Like,
- 42:30what was my seminary?
- 42:31Being in the hospital.
- 42:33Like,
- 42:33when I got feeling better,
- 42:35what would I do
- 42:35in my time?
- 42:36Like,
- 42:36I would,
- 42:36I would study.
- 42:37Like,
- 42:37I would read.
- 42:38That's,
- 42:38that's where I,
- 42:39so it was a blessing.
- 42:40That's where I had friends
- 42:40that had like hardly
- 42:41any time for that.
- 42:42Like,
- 42:42I already have 10 minutes
- 42:43to read the word.
- 42:44I'm like,
- 42:44I had like three hours a day
- 42:46to read the word
- 42:46while I was in the hospital.
- 42:48And so,
- 42:49that's where I,
- 42:51and there's no better place
- 42:52to learn theology
- 42:53than when you're suffering
- 42:53because it has like
- 42:54immediate application.
- 42:56You know,
- 42:57tell me about God's sovereignty.
- 42:58Oh yeah,
- 42:59tell me that.
- 43:00Bam.
- 43:00You know,
- 43:00like right there
- 43:01in,
- 43:02in the heart.
- 43:03So also,
- 43:04in my sickness and suffering,
- 43:06God taught me that
- 43:08he's all I need
- 43:09when I'm facing death.
- 43:11It's real.
- 43:12In sickness and suffering,
- 43:14also,
- 43:15when I lost control of myself
- 43:16and I got angry with my friends
- 43:19and my parents
- 43:19who were trying to like
- 43:20help me
- 43:21and my weakness,
- 43:23like his grace was sufficient
- 43:24in those times.
- 43:28In my sickness and suffering,
- 43:30like,
- 43:31I just learned
- 43:32all these things.
- 43:33So,
- 43:33that was what I was dealt with,
- 43:34right?
- 43:35Like,
- 43:35and through Christ in me,
- 43:37I was able to like
- 43:38create that
- 43:38into something else
- 43:40and use it for
- 43:41something else.
- 43:43So,
- 43:45now,
- 43:45like,
- 43:46now,
- 43:47talking about,
- 43:48like,
- 43:48singleness,
- 43:49and my singleness
- 43:50has taught me
- 43:51that Christ
- 43:52is the most kind,
- 43:54faithful,
- 43:55companion,
- 43:55and friend
- 43:55that anybody could have.
- 44:00Let's see.
- 44:01Also,
- 44:02in singleness,
- 44:02this allowed me
- 44:05to mature
- 44:05and be prepared,
- 44:08mature as a man
- 44:09in general.
- 44:10As were before,
- 44:11like,
- 44:11I was nowhere near
- 44:12ready to be married.
- 44:13I almost
- 44:14came close
- 44:15to being engaged
- 44:16to a girl
- 44:17when I was 20.
- 44:19And,
- 44:20like,
- 44:20I look back on that now
- 44:21and I would have been like,
- 44:22that would have been a disaster.
- 44:23Like,
- 44:24not just because the girl
- 44:25was not the,
- 44:27not the right girl,
- 44:28but,
- 44:28but also because
- 44:30I had a lot
- 44:31of growing up to do.
- 44:31Like,
- 44:32I had a lot of things
- 44:32to learn.
- 44:33It's about
- 44:33being responsible
- 44:35and being a man
- 44:36that God has taught me.
- 44:37And now,
- 44:38if the Lord ever does
- 44:39bring a wife,
- 44:40I feel like I'm far ready,
- 44:41far more ready now
- 44:42than ever before.
- 44:44Also,
- 44:44in my singleness,
- 44:45it's allowed me
- 44:46to develop myself
- 44:47to more study.
- 44:48Like,
- 44:48it's allowed me to,
- 44:50like,
- 44:50even the guys in the back
- 44:51can tell you the families.
- 44:52Like,
- 44:52they do study,
- 44:53but they have to,
- 44:53like,
- 44:53really fight for that time
- 44:55because they have so many other,
- 44:57they have to,
- 44:57like,
- 44:58honorable duties
- 44:58attending their family.
- 45:01Also,
- 45:01in my singleness,
- 45:02it's allowed me
- 45:04more and more time
- 45:04to minister
- 45:05and serve others
- 45:06that probably
- 45:07I wouldn't have
- 45:08if I was married.
- 45:10So,
- 45:11like,
- 45:11until,
- 45:12you know,
- 45:13there's still a desire
- 45:14I have,
- 45:15but, like,
- 45:16there's still a crisis
- 45:17enough.
- 45:18Like,
- 45:19that's not going to make me
- 45:19satisfied and content
- 45:20at the end.
- 45:22Flip to,
- 45:23last place you're going to look,
- 45:25flip to Psalm 73
- 45:27real fast.
- 45:27the bomb-diggity psalm
- 45:30on contentment.
- 45:35Psalm 73,
- 45:36you can go to
- 45:37verse 25.
- 45:43Excuse me.
- 45:46A little context.
- 45:47This is not a psalm of David,
- 45:49it's a psalm of Asaph,
- 45:51one of David's chief musicians,
- 45:52and,
- 45:53and,
- 45:55at the beginning,
- 45:55he's like,
- 45:56surely God has been good
- 45:57to Israel.
- 45:59He kind of mentions that.
- 46:01So,
- 46:01at the outset of the psalm,
- 46:02he tells you that
- 46:03God is good.
- 46:05And then he says that,
- 46:06but as for me,
- 46:06like,
- 46:07my feet had
- 46:07nearly slipped,
- 46:09I had nearly fallen.
- 46:10He kind of tells you,
- 46:11like,
- 46:11he went through an experience
- 46:13where he almost,
- 46:14like,
- 46:15wasn't able to confess
- 46:16that God was good.
- 46:17Like,
- 46:17he was struggling.
- 46:18So then he tells you
- 46:19his situation.
- 46:22And the situation was,
- 46:23basically,
- 46:24Lord,
- 46:25why do I,
- 46:26as a man who loves you
- 46:27and has you in his life,
- 46:29why does life just suck for me?
- 46:31Like,
- 46:32I have nothing I want.
- 46:35Like,
- 46:35I,
- 46:36I,
- 46:36I'm the one who,
- 46:37like,
- 46:37deals with all this hardship.
- 46:38And then I look around,
- 46:40and I see the wicked,
- 46:41the people who hate you.
- 46:42They're living,
- 46:43like,
- 46:43high on the hall.
- 46:44They have all these things that,
- 46:45that I want.
- 46:47And,
- 46:48what is going on with that?
- 46:49Like,
- 46:50why aren't you punishing them
- 46:51and giving me what I want?
- 46:54And so that's kind of his,
- 46:55his attitude.
- 46:56But then it says,
- 46:57this is a little bit before,
- 46:58verse 25,
- 47:00like,
- 47:00he,
- 47:01that's what he believed
- 47:02until,
- 47:02like,
- 47:03he went into the house of God,
- 47:04until he went to worship the Lord
- 47:07and put his mind on the Lord.
- 47:10And then he said,
- 47:11wow,
- 47:12guess what?
- 47:12The evil,
- 47:13the wicked don't have anything.
- 47:14Like,
- 47:15they,
- 47:16they're going to perish.
- 47:17They're going to be judged.
- 47:18Like,
- 47:19like,
- 47:20so they don't really have anything.
- 47:21They're enjoying it now,
- 47:22but,
- 47:22like,
- 47:22later on,
- 47:23not so much.
- 47:24And,
- 47:25and don't let this fool you,
- 47:26even though,
- 47:26like,
- 47:27some of your unbelieving friends
- 47:29who constantly may even persecute you
- 47:30or whatever,
- 47:32and they,
- 47:33they appear after they're really living
- 47:34high on the hog.
- 47:36Not really.
- 47:37Like,
- 47:37deep down,
- 47:38they're like,
- 47:39they don't,
- 47:40they're not happy.
- 47:40They're not,
- 47:41they're not joyful.
- 47:42They're not content.
- 47:43They just try to,
- 47:43like,
- 47:44put on the show
- 47:44as if they are
- 47:45in those things.
- 47:47And,
- 47:47so,
- 47:49so after he realized
- 47:50that the wicked have nothing,
- 47:52he realizes on the other side
- 47:54that he has everything
- 47:55in God.
- 47:58And,
- 47:58and this is like the overflow
- 48:00of that.
- 48:01Verse 25,
- 48:03it says,
- 48:03who am I in heaven
- 48:05but you?
- 48:06And there is nothing
- 48:07on the earth
- 48:08that I desire
- 48:09besides you.
- 48:11My flesh
- 48:12and my heart
- 48:13may fail.
- 48:14So,
- 48:15in other words,
- 48:15he's going to struggle with this.
- 48:17He's still going to be a battle for him.
- 48:19But,
- 48:20God is the strength
- 48:21of my heart
- 48:22and my portion
- 48:23forever.
- 48:25Portion means,
- 48:26like,
- 48:27what fills you
- 48:27completely.
- 48:28Not like a,
- 48:28a portion of pizza
- 48:30or a portion of pie.
- 48:31It means,
- 48:32like,
- 48:32what fills you
- 48:33completely,
- 48:34your portion
- 48:34forever.
- 48:37For behold,
- 48:38those who are far from you
- 48:40shall perish.
- 48:42You put an end
- 48:43to everyone
- 48:44who is unfaithful to you.
- 48:47But for me,
- 48:47it is good
- 48:48to be nearer to God.
- 48:50I have made the Lord
- 48:51my God,
- 48:52my refuge,
- 48:54that I may tell
- 48:54of all your works.
- 48:57So,
- 48:57a picture of,
- 48:58like,
- 48:59contentment there,
- 48:59like the Lord
- 49:00is my portion.
- 49:02I need nothing else.
- 49:03And so,
- 49:04so God,
- 49:05yeah,
- 49:05like,
- 49:05help us believe
- 49:06that Christ is enough.
- 49:08He is.
- 49:09And,
- 49:10and you know,
- 49:10like,
- 49:10just even look in your life
- 49:11and you'll be able to,
- 49:12like,
- 49:12just trace all the evidence
- 49:13that none of this junk
- 49:14lines up.
- 49:15It's not what satisfies.
- 49:18It doesn't bring contentment.
- 49:19Only found in Christ alone.
- 49:23And so,
- 49:23let me pray for us
- 49:24and,
- 49:26I don't know where Wes is,
- 49:27but,
- 49:27oh,
- 49:27let's get his head down.
- 49:28Wes can come up
- 49:29and play a song.
- 49:33Father,
- 49:33we just want to
- 49:34come before you
- 49:36and confess that
- 49:37even as
- 49:38people who know you,
- 49:42people that you brought
- 49:43salvation to,
- 49:45we still battle
- 49:47with,
- 49:47um,
- 49:48with being content.
- 49:50And,
- 49:50we believe the lies
- 49:52or we believe
- 49:54if we just had
- 49:55whatever
- 49:56that we'd be content.
- 49:58And,
- 49:59but that's the lie.
- 50:01It's,
- 50:02contentment's only found
- 50:03in what we've been given
- 50:05in Christ,
- 50:05in Him.
- 50:06Nothing outside
- 50:07of Christ.
- 50:09Not something that Christ
- 50:09even gives us.
- 50:11Not even a good thing.
- 50:12It's only found in Him.
- 50:14One place
- 50:15with a capital P
- 50:16and it's Jesus.
- 50:17And,
- 50:19God,
- 50:19I pray that we would just
- 50:20believe that,
- 50:22help us,
- 50:23strengthen us
- 50:24to believe that
- 50:24we can do all things
- 50:26through Him
- 50:26who gives us strength.
- 50:28And,
- 50:29so,
- 50:29Father,
- 50:30may that be true of us
- 50:32and may You work
- 50:34in our hearts
- 50:35and as we respond
- 50:36just in singing,
- 50:37may it be a way
- 50:38just to further
- 50:40draw near to You,
- 50:43Lord,
- 50:43and in our discussion
- 50:44groups later.
- 50:45I pray all this
- 50:47in Christ's name.
- 50:49Amen.