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Season Break Nugget 3: Cross-Pollinating · Dear Chelsea

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  Speaker 1: Hey there. We're looking for couples to write into Dear
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  Speaker 1: Chelsea for a very special episode that's coming up next season.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're a couple or a throuble who wanted
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  Speaker 1: to call in and get advice together, go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: write into Dear Chelsea Project at gmail dot com to
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  Speaker 1: get your questions answered. Hi there, Hi guys. We're on hiatus,
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  Speaker 1: but we're back with little nuggets many episodes. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: people have followed up with us about stuff we talked
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  Speaker 1: to them about and it's very exciting and we will
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  Speaker 1: be back with season three May. Yes, we have an
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  Speaker 1: update from Alex from the UK, who was He called
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  Speaker 1: in on our Shawn Hayes episode. He was feeling sort
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  Speaker 1: of depressed and unmotivated and he said, since speaking with
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  Speaker 1: Chelsea and Shawn Hayes, have taken their advice and found
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  Speaker 1: it really helpful. Sean recommended that I write a list
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  Speaker 1: of goals and tuck it away somewhere, and Chelsea recommended
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  Speaker 1: that I prioritize myself care a little more and started
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  Speaker 1: by downloading head Space, which is Have you used that, Chelsea? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I have used it too. It's fantastic. Ye, it's good.
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  Speaker 1: It's good to meanitation app especially for beginners. Yes, starting
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  Speaker 1: to do both of these things has really helped me
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  Speaker 1: focus on work when I needed to and take much
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  Speaker 1: needed time away as well, and has led me to
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  Speaker 1: making some pretty big life decisions. I'm quitting my job
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  Speaker 1: next month and moving across the country to move in
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  Speaker 1: with my boyfriend. It's time for me to stop waiting
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  Speaker 1: for the right opportunity and just go for it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: really excited by these changes, and I'm really thankful to
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  Speaker 1: you guys for helping me start thinking about my life
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  Speaker 1: and positive changes I can make. So thank you, Alexow Alex.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to take full credit for that, Alex, because
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  Speaker 1: I remember Shawn Hayes being here and he was fucking useless.
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  Speaker 1: His advice was some of the worst advice I've ever heard.
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  Speaker 1: I love that, I mean talk about I don't remember
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  Speaker 1: him saying he had a boyfriend. He neglected to tell
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  Speaker 1: us that part I might be gay. Good for you,
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  Speaker 1: Good for you for taking your life, taking control of
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  Speaker 1: your life. Yes, absolutely. And our next update comes from Sarah.
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  Speaker 1: She was the one who had had like any boyfriend,
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  Speaker 1: got pregnant, had an abortion, and he was really horrible
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  Speaker 1: to her about it. It was on our Amy Schumer episode,
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  Speaker 1: so Sarah says, thanks for checking in. Things have been
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  Speaker 1: going really well since talking to Chelsea, and I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: be more grateful for our conversation. After the podcast aired,
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  Speaker 1: I had friends from literally all over reach out to
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  Speaker 1: me and share their own stories of toxic relationships, finding
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  Speaker 1: love after, and even offering to put me in touch
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  Speaker 1: with friends of theirs who had gone through their own
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  Speaker 1: abortion experiences. Long story short, Chelsea truly helped me realize
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  Speaker 1: that I don't have to go through this process alone
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  Speaker 1: and that it is okay to take my time and
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  Speaker 1: not put this weird pressure on myself to heal and
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  Speaker 1: move on. It was also very validating to hear her
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  Speaker 1: give me credit for the hard steps I've already taken
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  Speaker 1: and I've been working on also giving myself that same credit. Again,
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  Speaker 1: Thank you and Amy Schumer for the advice. I'm learning
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  Speaker 1: something from every episode that airs, so thanks for also
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  Speaker 1: being my weekly therapy. Wishing you all the best. Sarah. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: that's awesome. I love about Sarah. Thanks for giving us
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  Speaker 1: an up date. Updates are the best yea. And because
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  Speaker 1: we don't get bad ones, because why would they I
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  Speaker 1: took Chelsea's advice, and now my life has ended in ruins.
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  Speaker 1: So far have not gotten any of my life is
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  Speaker 1: in tramples. Okay, good, good, good, good good vibes. This
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  Speaker 1: is Good Vibe podcast Good Vibes on me um. I
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  Speaker 1: have standing updates that I want to promote you guys.
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  Speaker 1: This weekend May five, I will be in Los Angeles
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  Speaker 1: at the Wiltern. I have two shows. Oh you guys
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  Speaker 1: have coming, Oh you are already coming. You have your tickets? Great?
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  Speaker 1: And then Friday night, San Francisco the Masonic. There are
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  Speaker 1: still tickets available for the second show. There's two shows
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  Speaker 1: early and late. And I will be having a very
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  Speaker 1: special guest at my San Francisco show, somebody who also
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  Speaker 1: has shows in San Francisco that weekend. We will be
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  Speaker 1: cross pollinating our stages. Okay, excellent, all right. We'll see
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  Speaker 1: you guys on May twelve. Bye bye,