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- 0:04People. And when I talked to so many people and people are interested on
- 0:15me talking more about selfishness. And I remind people that that there are three
- 0:26types of selfishness. And the first type of selfishness is positive selfishness and positive
- 0:45selfishness. It's almost the same thing as selflessness. So positive of selfishness is
- 1:03when the human being takes him or herself away from others those they love,
- 1:18the kids of children and wife her husband of family two occupy their time and
- 1:34life to do something that is productive and positive and beneficial mount to the outside
- 2:00world, giving the beneficiary to the person itself. So positive selfishness is something
- 2:19like sacrifice. Sacrifice right you fargo the things you love or certain things in
- 2:36order to achieve certain things. You know, there is the perception that the
- 2:52human being is a journey. But I write in my philosop it that is
- 3:00true. But the human being is more of an experience, an experiment,
- 3:14and an expectation than a journey, because the journey entails a destination. But
- 3:31the human being is difficult to tell the destination where we are going. You
- 3:37know. It's a human being wakes up every day and with many things to
- 3:44do. There is always something to do on the to do list of the
- 3:52human being. There is no end there is There is not a point in
- 4:02time or life when the human being says I've done or I am dombe.
- 4:14The thing that takes away their life is death. And the death itself is
- 4:19not a destination because the human being doesn't actually know when it dies. Destination
- 4:35can be physical, like I pay the plane ticket to fly from the United
- 4:44States to Europe or to Asia, or to Africa or somewhere that it's physically
- 4:59there, that can be measured in terms of time or distance or space,
- 5:12and that can appeal to the senses, that can be confirmed, and it
- 5:18is logical and reasonable and quantify or qualify to human intelligence that point A to
- 5:30point B. It's a beginning, and an n means starting from somewhere and
- 5:40ended somewhere. The human being is not that type of being. Life is
- 5:48not that way. Even though the human being lives in a physical world,
- 6:00the world in itself is not that physical. The physicality of the world,
- 6:12it's as equal or less than the abstractness or the intangibility of life. So
- 6:26to accurately define the human being, it would be what I call it three
- 6:31E effect, the three e's effect that the human being is an experiment.
- 6:41It's an experience and an expectation. We experience the life we live by carry
- 6:56on experiments, try and errors with certain observable expectations. So the human being
- 7:09is an experience, an experiment, and an expectation. So within this experiment,
- 7:23experience, and expectation, selfishness comes in. If the human being is
- 7:36not selfish, it would be difficult to experience, experiment or be expected to
- 7:47do or not to do something. So again, when we talk about selfishness,
- 7:59there are three types of selfishness. We have the positive selfishness that has
- 8:05started by talking about the selfishness, and a human being foregoes so many things
- 8:13to develop itself in order to be the good of itself and be good to
- 8:20others at a point in life. To make life worthy, meaningful, purposeful,
- 8:33fulfeeling driven, happy, joyous, attainable, enriched or wished or wealthy
- 8:50or satisfactory or respectful or dignify or honored or vener or indelible or to be
- 9:03remembered at a point in time, that life must be selfish. The human
- 9:18being in itself as a selfish man, we came to this world by ourselves.
- 9:28We pushed ourselves to be here. And even in our conception, it
- 9:39took a selfish sperm fighting with many others sperms to survive while the egg was
- 9:52there just waiting and watching how one sperm or two in terms of twins or
- 10:01more or dependominic kids not finally succeed or armony sperms that became kid that succeeded.
- 10:11What's the point in the beginning, the human beaning selfish, The sperm
- 10:16itself its surface, and that being becomes that sperm, the essence becomes a
- 10:24being in the womb, and it selfishly gets out of the womb, and
- 10:31that being sick for itself, wants everything for itself, cries and wines,
- 10:37and the human beinginess surfish being. That's natural. Remember that nothing wrong in
- 10:48being selfish, because a human being, by its design is surface. It's
- 10:56a good thing. It all depends on the type of selfishness. Positive selfishness
- 11:07is good. It's our identity. That's who we are. The good that
- 11:16we are is of our positive selfishness. Who want to be number one,
- 11:20want to be the best in school, want to get the best job,
- 11:22who want to be liked, want to be loved, want to look good,
- 11:26want to stand tall, to be the most attractive thing. As selfishness
- 11:33positive selfishness, it means we need to do certain things that attracts other people
- 11:43to us, and it's a good things. Our talent, our intelligence,
- 11:52our creativity, our skills, our gifts. Positive selfishness because to question,
- 12:05to think and doubt who we are. Positive selfishness give us pride, sometimes
- 12:15arrogance, sometimes shame, sometimes guilled that we are not enough, that we
- 12:24didn't do enough, that we're not at our best. It pushes us to
- 12:33inspire, to motivate ourselves, to have drive. It pushes us to be
- 12:41creative, to be inventive, to explore the experiment. It gives us expectation,
- 12:52obligations, commitments, investments. Positive selfishness is good. That's what makes
- 13:09you to be who you are. It takes away your laziness and puts you
- 13:18to work, takes away your negativity and gives you drive of purpose. Your
- 13:30positive selfishness. It's your intrinsic individuality, the self, the being of the
- 13:39being itself, your intrinsic self. We talk about individuality, self determination,
- 13:48self help, self sufficiency, self drive, the freedom, the liberty as
- 14:00the self. The positive serf cannot be taken away. You take away the
- 14:07positive serf, their communism and the human doesn't matter. But the community does
- 14:24take away the serf. A positive serf, a positive self is serf.
- 14:35The human being becomes something weak, something insufficient, something inadequate, something insecured,
- 14:50something that comes with iniquities, inequalities, and inferiority. That pride of
- 14:58being, boldness and courage to be that thing that can make you fight,
- 15:07that can make you go to war or sacrifice yourself for greater good. Nothing
- 15:16in you that can make you create something new. It takes a positive surface,
- 15:26Hamstinin for us to have the blessings of his mind. I take a
- 15:37positive selfish as a Newton, a positive selfish, Nicola Tesla, a positive
- 15:45surface in landmask to talk about the people for our time, our positive surface,
- 15:54you name it, Steve Jobs, to take their time to get the
- 16:04things that we have today. And take a positive surface as a Newton,
- 16:11a positive surface Edison for us to have the light or the light bulb we
- 16:18have today. Think about all the number law rates, the scientists, engineers,
- 16:26inventors. That's positive surfacens. It means they take themselvesselves away from the
- 16:37world and see in their factory or in their lapse on that desk, to
- 16:51isolate themselves from the world, believing in themselves truly they have something to offer
- 17:03to the world. They might not be there for the ballgame. They might
- 17:11not be there for the concert or the music or the parade. They might
- 17:21not be there with you. They might not be there to answer the calls
- 17:26or texts or go to the movies with you. They might not be there
- 17:33to tie the diapers. They might not even be there with you in the
- 17:41hospital. They might not even be there for your funeral. They might names
- 17:52be there to have a loved one, to be loved, or to get
- 17:56married or have kids m hm. Because they believe in something are willing to
- 18:07sacrifice their lives from something. It might be in the battle, fair,
- 18:12may be the truth. Somewhere. They might be on the shape, They
- 18:19might be in space, they might be in the deepsy. There might be
- 18:29somewhere that's something that they are doing. It's so important, so necessary,
- 18:40so vital, so essential, so valued, so rich, so enlightening.
- 18:56That is sacrifice, that time a life for it. That's how we had
- 19:06medicine, our roads, or the cellphone, or the engine, the locomotive.
- 19:17As I have a keyboard or the chips or the computers and the robots.
- 19:25That's how I have AI. That's how we have a plane or a
- 19:30car to drive, or a bed or an architectural design. As I have
- 19:37leaders, technocrats, engineers. That's how I have the best of the best.
- 19:48Positive selfishness those who can forgot something, sacrifice something, lose something in
- 20:04order to gain themselves for the good of humanity is positive selfishness. A human
- 20:12being in itself must be positively selfish in order to develop itself, else it
- 20:22becomes a burden, a drug, leakage, or a liability to itself and
- 20:32to society. If you cannot selfishly positively develop yourself, you be a drug
- 20:42unto others. You need other people to take care of you because your laziness
- 20:52will lead to idleness, and your idleness will lead to loneliness. Your loneliness
- 21:00will lead to sadness and negativity and bitterness and height. If you don't positively
- 21:17develop yourself, it means positively surface and to develop you, you not be
- 21:29able to evolve from the wealth of the womb into the poverty of the universe
- 21:36to evolve yourself to sick riches and sick wealth and sick enlightenment. In order
- 21:45to give back to society and make the world a better place, you must
- 21:52promote positive selfishness. I call that self development human personal development h p D
- 22:11or human personal investment h p I, or human personal intelligence h p I,
- 22:22or human personal creativity h p C, or human personal invention innovation h
- 22:37p I, or human personal ingenuity h p E, or human personal sacrifice
- 22:51h p S. You can name it. The point is that positive selfishness
- 23:07is necessary. In order to develop the individual. True positive selfishness, you
- 23:18get to know your intrinsic individuality. What makes you different from others. It's
- 23:25a good thing. You must seek to know why you are different from others.
- 23:30That difference is something positive. That is the thing in you that you
- 23:36can offer to the universe. There is something that makes you different. That
- 23:45is a gift, and that positive gift in you is an ip intellectual property.
- 23:56It's something that you can license, something that you can copyright. It's
- 24:03something that you can treademark. That thing must be original, authentic, and
- 24:10organic. That thing must be the you in you. There is nothing else
- 24:17or anybody else but you. That's the pride of your being. That's the
- 24:26freedom of being. You cannot compromise that, you cannot give that away.
- 24:36You cannot be ashamed of being positively surfaced, because that's the thing in you
- 24:44that make you to create jobs or have a good job that you want,
- 24:47have a home, buy the house you want, or the car you want
- 24:51to drive on the property you like. That's the thing in you that make
- 24:56you to separate yourself apart. It's not a good thing to be a collective
- 25:07unless that collectivity is to do a noble good. But for the collective to
- 25:12be useful and its individuals selfish individuals to build that collective, that collective shouldn't
- 25:23be. The people can be, a church can be, a university can
- 25:30be, a nation can be an organization that people collectively come together in the
- 25:37individuality to play their individual role in the name of that collective and go back
- 25:45into their individualities. So the collective is not a people, it's a goal,
- 25:56and after that goal is achieved, the human being goes back into its
- 26:00individuality. Be proud to be a selfish, positive individual. When a human
- 26:12being is positively selfishly individualistic, they become the best of things or the best
- 26:21of things, because they believe in an idea and they do everything to prove
- 26:27the idea, even when nobody believes in them. They believe in themselves.
- 26:36They are selfishently positive with that idea, and they don't give it up.
- 26:41They work on it. That's what I call confidence. They are willing to
- 26:48take the risk because they are positively selfish enough to not give up. I
- 27:00call them autistic or whatever name you call them, so might call them type
- 27:04of personalities. So I give them all type of stigmas. Some I haven't
- 27:11call them crazy, Some might call them psychopath some might call them whatever.
- 27:18Antisocial, so might call them introvert or whatever that is. But if you're
- 27:25doing no harm, if you're causing or hurt, people call you all all
- 27:33those names. It's because you're trying to develop yourself. Be happy with it,
- 27:45be happy to be different. You're bound to be different because you are
- 27:52different. It's just one mind. There are no two minds. Minds always
- 27:57only come together in the color you to do greater good. At the end
- 28:02of the day, if you go to the Congress or the parliament, or
- 28:06anywhere in life, you see a different humans say it. They disagree to
- 28:11agree. They disagree because of their individuality, because of projection, perception,
- 28:18perspective, and not the sign. Because the way they think is not the
- 28:22same, the way they doubt is not the same, and the way they
- 28:26ask questions may not be the sign. Their measurement, proportionality and balance and
- 28:33be subjective. What is beauty, oh, satisfactory or happy may not be
- 28:40the signed. They don't seek to be equal. They just want to be
- 28:48fair. Let me say it again. They don't seek to be equal.
- 28:52They just want to be fair because you are equal to nothing else. But
- 28:59you can only be fair to people. Things can be equal, but humans
- 29:08cannot be equal because humans are the unquantified, still undetermined, humans are still
- 29:18don't know. It cannot be equal to that wish you don't now. It
- 29:26cannot be equal to that which doesn't know itself one plus one equal to because
- 29:34you can factor that in well. One human being cannot be equal to that
- 29:44human being because the human being is not a number. It's not a quantity.
- 29:52The human being is an essence and energy, a light wave, an
- 30:00attraction, a thing in itself that is something beyond the physicality of itself.
- 30:10I can be equal. That thing can only treat others fairly, because if
- 30:18it doesn't treat others fairly fairly, it's gonna disturb or infringe on its own
- 30:25self, its own being. It is on purpose, it's on drives,
- 30:30it's on ambition, it's on freedoms. An intrinsic, individualistic human being should
- 30:45be different, not equal. It should only be fair. No human being
- 30:57is equal to any other human The human being is equal to nothing by itself,
- 31:04but call upon to be fair to one another, to be part of
- 31:11a society. Because the human being is not an island by the community,
- 31:21being an island in itself, it's not sufficient unnecessary to be human being.
- 31:32An individual is not a physical thing. Sometimes get confused that it doesn't mean
- 31:41one is not measurable in terms of numbers. Being an individual is seeking to
- 31:48be you, seeking to know you, the essence that is within you,
- 31:53that energy, that thing in you, that is you without your physicality,
- 32:00what is it that's your individuality? The individual is the mind M I N
- 32:08D that mine that develops soul, that soul of mine or mine of soul.
- 32:17There is nothing else by itself. I still trying to figure out itself
- 32:24how can he be equal to anything. It can only be equal to what
- 32:30he knows of itself. But it's all upon again, to be fair to
- 32:35one another. It cannot force an individual a mind that is defining itself to
- 32:46be equal to other human beings. He does not make sense. It's not
- 32:53possible. See it suspiciously authoritarian or dictatorian. Oh oppressive, positive selfishness.
- 33:15It's good should be taught in schools. The human be need to know itself
- 33:22to be itself. Once you know yourself, to be yourself and develop yourself,
- 33:30find happiness in being. You find all the reasons in a word,
- 33:35to love you, to like you, to trust you, and to say
- 33:42to yourself, I am there, I am, I am me, I
- 33:45am myself. Once you accept that that I am myself, different from other
- 33:55selves, but called upon to be your other selves because I'm not an island
- 34:00in the community. Once you as accept that security of being, you are
- 34:07who you are and always be who you are, but change changeable in what
- 34:15you do, having a changeable mind based on your knowledge you're learning, your
- 34:22enlightenment, your experiences, your experiment and your expectations. Then you are yourself
- 34:35as an individual. Once you establish this positive selfishness. Your life will be
- 34:47an example for others because your proud self now must be developed. You cannot
- 34:58spend all these energy and all these I'm claiming to be you, to be
- 35:01an individual, to be an intrinsic being that can to be different. No
- 35:07one need to be anybody else without developing that you now. You therefore not
- 35:13become a shining star in everything you do. You want to be the best
- 35:22because that you therefore now is competing with other individuals, other minds. That's
- 35:31positive competition, positive serfs competing, just positive selfishness. If I create a
- 35:45phone, you create a better phone. If I make a car, you
- 35:49make a plane. If I make a plane, you make a jet.
- 35:52If I make a jet, you make a spacecraft. If I make a
- 35:55spacecraft. It goes on and on. A competition. It's good. It's
- 36:09positive individuals competing with their minds, their intelligence, their creativity. That's who
- 36:16you are. Positive selfishness. It makes you to take care of your home,
- 36:30take care of your family. As a parent, You develop your kids,
- 36:37You provide their needs. You make your kids to be the best,
- 36:40to look good. You live a good life, good health, You treat
- 36:46yourself well through measurement, proportionarity, imbalance. Because you want to live,
- 36:55you want to be You want yourself to be here, a positive self.
- 37:00You want people to know it. Want to be remembered not forgotten. HM.
- 37:10That's why make American to the number one. That's American number one again
- 37:19because of individuals. Everything about self, self determination, self reliance, self
- 37:28help, self indulgence, self extension, self sacrifice, self endeavor, other
- 37:40self, self self, that's what makes American, makes American to the number
- 37:45one. That's positive selfishness. That we owe this truth to be self self
- 37:54evident, that all humans are created equal in themselves to the equal in themselves
- 38:07to develop themselves and treat others fairly. That's my philosophy. Intrinsic individuality in
- 38:22it, a developed self to develop the community in it, a successful human
- 38:30in order to create success in others. In it, a human that is
- 38:37very successful for others to emulate in its role models. People that can beat
- 38:45their records, I can excel, I can push the envelope, that can
- 38:53defy gravity, I can defy space. In it, those selfish human beings,
- 39:05and we must tell them too. Everything you've seen in this world comes
- 39:10from positive selfishness. Somebody somewhere said I can do it. It is to
- 39:20say that the Lord says, what shall I send, and somebody says,
- 39:23send me. Let me go. Let me die to save others. Let
- 39:34me sacrifice my life for others to live. It may be the one that
- 39:40goes first. Let me try, let me risk it. May be the
- 39:52first to flyou on that plane. It may be the first to try that
- 39:57new thing. It's all on me for the sake of God. Let me
- 40:07be the first to buy that new thing. Let me be the first to
- 40:14try that new thing. Let me be the first, to be the richest,
- 40:20to be the greatest, to be number one. Or be the first
- 40:24doctor that discovered cure for cancer, or be the first doctor that cures HIV.
- 40:34Or be the first economist that fights poverty or or eliminate poverty if that
- 40:42is possible. Or be the first to create a new art or any philosophy
- 40:49or a new way. I'll be the first positive fishness that's good for you.
- 41:07That's the first selfishness. The second selfishness is distructive selfishness. Destructive selfishness
- 41:29MHM unlike positive selfishness. It's a human being destroying itself when you when you
- 41:47hear somebody say it is my life. It's not my life. I can
- 41:53do what I want to do with my life, and the person destroys our
- 41:58life. The negative selfishness. The person claims their life not to construct it,
- 42:10but to build it, but to destroy it with sloth or laziness,
- 42:19entitlement, victimhood, whining, complaining love, refusing to do work, dragging
- 42:30others down, just unwilling to be productive as negative selfishness. They don't want
- 42:40to contribute, They don't want to do anything that benefits anybody. They will
- 42:50prefer not to do something that benefit themselves if it benefits somebody. M m
- 43:00hmm. Negativeness. Selfishness comes from destructive selfishness. Negative selfishness is the third
- 43:15type of selfishness. Positive selfishness, destructive selfishness, and negative selfishness. To
- 43:30elaborate more destructive selfishness. Those are the people that good at destroying stuff,
- 43:37that good are blowing things are You build a bridge, they destroy their bridge,
- 43:46You build relationships, they break it. Remember every destruction, they are
- 43:54part of it. They destroy themselves too. Or I find pleasure destroying others
- 44:01and they find happiness in it. Sadism psychopathy. You know, criminals from
- 44:12this state of mind. They know something's wrong. They do things that hurt
- 44:16others, that will shoot people, that will kill people, that will hurt
- 44:22others. They would like to destroy others with them. They don't build things,
- 44:30they don't build societies, they don't innov it, they don't create,
- 44:34they don't invent. If they do, it is some things that is destructive.
- 44:39If they do create, its destructive creation. Those are the minds that
- 44:47we are worried about AI. When people are worried about AI being destructive,
- 44:53it's gonna come from selfish, destructive humans. That part of selfishness that is
- 45:07destructive. You don't need to be that. You don't need to have that.
- 45:17And now we talk about the third negative selfishness, negative selfishness. They
- 45:27choose to be lonely. I do just be down themselves. I'm not good
- 45:37enough, I'm not handsome, I'm not prairie, I'm not smart, I'm
- 45:45dumb. Nobody likes me. Nothing good I do. I'm not enough,
- 45:54I'm poor, I'm pitiful at me? Why me? Sorrow, misery,
- 46:07depression, boredom, stress. You don't want to be that, at least
- 46:23to envy jealousy, right, negativity. Negative selfishness are people that are very
- 46:43negative. They see their glasses empty. You sit by them, they suck
- 46:47away your energy. You motivate them, you inspire them. Once you leave,
- 46:53they get worse because they don't believe in themselves. They're suffering negative selfish
- 47:07Then are suffering from the six eyes, insufficiency, inadequacy, insecurities, their
- 47:16complain of iniquity, their complaign of inequality and inferiority. Because the people I
- 47:25will talk about race and black why they're constantly not feeling adequate. Something's always
- 47:37lacking in there. I wish I was this, And when you give that
- 47:43to them, they're not. Those are the people will tell them that if
- 47:46little things cannot make you happy, if I give the whole world, you
- 47:51still not be happy. They make people feel discouraged. Negative selfishness or be
- 48:09happy if everybody is down. They like others to fail because they see themselves
- 48:19like feelings. They become like a leech into society. They are predicomments.
- 48:30Self inflicted predicomments soon become the predecoment of society. There's self inflicted poverty soon
- 48:38becomes a poverty of society. There are self inflicted in literacy or ignorance soon
- 48:47becomes the predecoment of society. They are quick to blame others and be the
- 48:55victims. They don't work for what they want. Are negative to contribute.
- 49:13They don't like to work. They don't like to contribute. They just like
- 49:17to take care of them. Negative selfishness always sad, quick to anger,
- 49:30and staying anger. They refuse to be part of the whole. That's the
- 49:38difference with positive selfishness. When a positive selfish person takes themselves out of society,
- 49:47they come back with an invention, something new. When a negative person
- 49:55takes themselves out of society, they suicide. It leads to destructive self A
- 50:07negatively selfish person is highly a destructively selfish person. It goes together. A
- 50:22negative person we like to destroy, So negative selfishness leads to destructive selfishness.
- 50:36You wonder who we go to school and kill innocent kids. Yes, it's
- 50:45a negatively selfish person that became a destructive, destructive, destructively selfish person,
- 50:57not a positive selfish person. A positive person, A positive selfish person.
- 51:02About that school, bout that class gave birth to those kids, nurture them,
- 51:15educated and brought them to school with a tender care and love and a
- 51:21positively selfish human widow for a negatively selface destructive human to destroy society is bought
- 51:32by positively selfish people, and demoralize by negatively selfish people, and destroyed by
- 51:55destructive selfish people. Three types of people. Those who create problems that they
- 52:10cannot solve listend to negatively selfish people or destructively selfish people. They destroy the
- 52:30things they can affect, or they create the negative energy and walk away or
- 52:37become victims. Because are the people that create problems they cannot solve. They
- 52:46have those who solve the problems that they create. Those are people in the
- 52:53middle. Those are the swing group. At least they solve their problems that
- 53:01they create. They choose to be negative. They don't cost you travel,
- 53:09They seek to be lonely. They don't destroy anything. There's your sad people
- 53:15or miserable people that take care of their misery. They put themselves in difficult
- 53:22situations, they try to get out of it. They are their own problems.
- 53:29At least they solve their problems. They can't choose to be positive or
- 53:34negative. But they are not a drug to anybody. There you have those
- 53:42who solve problems that they didn't create. Those are the creators, the movers,
- 53:47the makers. Those are the positively selfish humans, Which are you?
- 54:00My voice, I'd like you to be there positively Head to your pickup at twenty