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Ben’s Baby Shower with Courtney Robertson and Humberto Preciado · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: This is the almost Famous podcast.
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  Speaker 3: We are here at the baby shower with Bachelor Nation
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  Speaker 3: Royalty Courtney and then her husband. And she was just
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  Speaker 3: mentioning what she calls him outside of Umberto, and I
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  Speaker 3: would love to hear what you call.
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  Speaker 4: I'd love to hear that too. I love Umberto.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like it can't get sexier.
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  Speaker 4: I will be changing. I'm starting to get like I
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  Speaker 4: got a pegleg in.
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  Speaker 5: Depends on the day.
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  Speaker 6: You usually a good day. What do you call h
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  Speaker 6: or honey?
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  Speaker 7: It's pretty ten h I.
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  Speaker 5: Just call him age because it's eight. It's h U
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  Speaker 5: M b E R t O.
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  Speaker 6: And I took his last name, which is Presciotto, which
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  Speaker 6: gets butchered. People call us Bob Guinea.
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  Speaker 3: There's no chance you When he showed up to dinner
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  Speaker 3: the first time, Bertha Pressiato, You're like, all right, well, Coney,
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  Speaker 3: no kind of what happened?
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  Speaker 4: I know this.
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  Speaker 6: It's like, should we get a fish both sized? Marguerite,
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, yes, let's get that.
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  Speaker 2: How many months later did you have your first child?
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  Speaker 4: Three?
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  Speaker 7: How many months later would have.
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  Speaker 3: Been fourteen months later? After the first day your first
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  Speaker 3: child was born.
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  Speaker 2: We're here, this is this is a great experience.
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  Speaker 5: Late we met on Instagram, like you and Chess.
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  Speaker 3: That's what we were talking about tonight, and I wanted
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  Speaker 3: to dive into that right away. Is I asked in Berto,
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  Speaker 3: how did you two met meet? And he said Instagram?
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  Speaker 3: And I said, that's how my wife and I met,
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  Speaker 3: Which is such an incredible thing that you hear it
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  Speaker 3: more and more, I guess, but I would love for
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  Speaker 3: you to just repeat because Courtney's obviously from this franchise.
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  Speaker 3: People out there freaking out that they get the meet
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  Speaker 3: her in person. You are not familiar with this franchise
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  Speaker 3: and you weren't familiar with the friendranchise.
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  Speaker 2: When you message each other, he doesn't care at all.
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  Speaker 4: But when you why did.
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  Speaker 2: You why did you message her? And how did this
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  Speaker 2: even come about?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: No, no, no, we talked about a little bit. I I
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  Speaker 8: I knew who she was, knew of her sort of,
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  Speaker 8: you know, because we're both from Phoenix. I feel like
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  Speaker 8: she was, you know, on the news or TV or something.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't. I didn't watch the batch, so I didn't
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  Speaker 7: follow anything.
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  Speaker 8: I had no real idea of you know, how it
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  Speaker 8: all work for the most part. But I knew who
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  Speaker 8: she was and she was on Instagram. I was new
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  Speaker 8: to social media, you know.
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  Speaker 7: I looked her up.
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  Speaker 8: I saw her and uh, you know, I was telling
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  Speaker 8: you to one of the things, like she was just
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  Speaker 8: a cool girl. Like there wasn't a lot of like
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  Speaker 8: risky photos you know she was.
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  Speaker 7: It wasn't like, you know, it was just cool stuff.
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  Speaker 4: She was cools put it out there.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, it wasn't like she wasn't like it just wasn't that.
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  Speaker 8: You know, she has seemed very cool, very chill, right
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  Speaker 8: down to earth.
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  Speaker 7: You know. So I liked a few photos.
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  Speaker 8: Sure enough, she ends up responding and sends me a
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  Speaker 8: DM like do we know each other?
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  Speaker 7: Have we ever met? And I'm like, no, I'm pretty
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  Speaker 7: sure I remembered you.
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  Speaker 4: Hold on, hold on. So this is interesting. So Courtney
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  Speaker 4: actually theoretically like a lot of pictures I like bowling photos, basketball,
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  Speaker 4: and no one's following me.
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  Speaker 6: I had seen you had been like my photos for
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  Speaker 6: two years.
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  Speaker 2: But how did you know?
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  Speaker 5: I just saw him.
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  Speaker 6: You know how our feets can get a little crazy,
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  Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, I've seen this guy, like
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  Speaker 6: maybe you know in real estate you meet people, And
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  Speaker 6: I was like, or you meet somebody and then they
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  Speaker 6: follow you and then like you didn't.
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  Speaker 5: Follow them back.
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  Speaker 6: That's what I truly did think, like maybe we met before,
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  Speaker 6: because I keep seeing his name in my feet like
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  Speaker 6: as a like and then I to.
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  Speaker 4: Be fair, it's not like John Smith. No, it's a
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  Speaker 4: Bertha Press.
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  Speaker 7: You gotta stand you.
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  Speaker 5: That's and he never commented.
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  Speaker 6: So I looked at his patures like phoenix looks like
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  Speaker 6: it comes from a good family, not posting like weird stuff.
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  Speaker 6: Like it was like all family oriented, which is like
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  Speaker 6: my love language.
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  Speaker 5: So I messaged him.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, I'm just I kind of thought maybe
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  Speaker 6: we met, but long story short, you wrote back right away.
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  Speaker 6: We went on a date three days later. We lived
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  Speaker 6: five blocks from each other on.
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  Speaker 5: This same on the same street, on the same street.
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  Speaker 6: And I was just like spent on dating. Like I
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  Speaker 6: was like kind of at that, like you know, I
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  Speaker 6: need to put myself out there more.
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  Speaker 5: I'm my homebody.
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  Speaker 6: And on that like first date, like he was like
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  Speaker 6: with intention, like we had like a you actually liked
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  Speaker 6: that I got up to check the sun's game.
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  Speaker 8: I liked a lot of things I've told people I've
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  Speaker 8: told what what's the One of the funniest parts of
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  Speaker 8: that night was. I remember like it was yesterday, so
• 4:42
  Speaker 8: it was Friday. I don't Diamondbacks versus Red Sox opening day.
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  Speaker 7: It was like a three.
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  Speaker 5: Thirty first link too.
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  Speaker 8: I go with one of my best friends, so i'd
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  Speaker 8: lived with at the time, and we were We get
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  Speaker 8: absolutely obliterated. We're like, met friends from his from work.
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  Speaker 8: I knew another attorney who's there. She's a big Red
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  Speaker 8: Sox fan. We're getting drinks. We end up doing shots
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  Speaker 8: and I think Hennessey or something whatever.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, it was. It was bad.
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  Speaker 7: It was all bad. I called her.
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  Speaker 8: We hadn't met yet, and I called her and I
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  Speaker 8: was like, listen, I want to meet up. I still
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  Speaker 8: want to be help with you, but I got to
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  Speaker 8: tell you something I'm not.
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  Speaker 6: I was already in an uber to meet it because
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  Speaker 6: guys picked me up to meet this night.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: I was like, I'm in bad shape, Like just so
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  Speaker 8: you tonight and I said maybe not tonight, Like I'm
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  Speaker 8: not trying to I'm not trying to flake on you,
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  Speaker 8: Like I'm just trying to be like, don't hold it
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  Speaker 8: against the kind of best version and She's like, no, no.
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  Speaker 7: We're good, Like I'm gonna I'll be right there.
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  Speaker 8: I remember like running down the stream in Phoenix to
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  Speaker 8: catch my uber. Like I remember like I saw someone
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  Speaker 8: that I knew was like yelling at me.
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  Speaker 7: Like what are you doing. I was like, I got
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  Speaker 7: to catch an.
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  Speaker 8: Uber because yeah, so it might have been like he
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  Speaker 8: was going to a son's game.
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  Speaker 7: So he was in a parking street person.
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  Speaker 6: Jeans and John Taylor's and I was like, I'm not
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  Speaker 6: putting much into this.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, so over dating.
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  Speaker 2: So I mean, this is where it comes to you.
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  Speaker 3: Then you obviously come off the show and like attention
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  Speaker 3: was not something that maybe you wanted, but you were getting.
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  Speaker 4: Well, you were a lightning rod I d right. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: you're the only one I've ever seen a meme. It's like,
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  Speaker 4: you know, it was so good.
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  Speaker 6: Now they would have just just tortured me, and with
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  Speaker 6: the memes and the.
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  Speaker 4: Tetok I felt like they kind of did then in
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  Speaker 4: a weird way. But you came off as in this
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  Speaker 4: way that you were just kind of like double guns
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  Speaker 4: in it every step of the way. But it's not you.
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  Speaker 4: You're such a your version of the person that we
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  Speaker 4: saw on that show, and I mean that is a
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  Speaker 4: very big compent.
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  Speaker 5: By the way, You're not kind of you to say, well,
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  Speaker 5: I honestly.
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  Speaker 9: You're such a great word for he literally watch watch
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  Speaker 9: you know that you like practiced eight times.
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  Speaker 7: Using the perfect I'm using the perfect tak.
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  Speaker 5: The thing that I loved you.
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  Speaker 6: I mean to take it back to like put a
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  Speaker 6: bow on that story was like I remember that night.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't want to lead with the show stuff. He
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  Speaker 6: didn't care about it. And it was hard to date
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  Speaker 6: after the show because people saw me and they're like, oh,
• 7:26
  Speaker 6: she's this girl who went skinny topping and this and that,
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  Speaker 6: and like I attracted a lot of like.
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  Speaker 5: The wrong type of people.
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  Speaker 6: Sure, but like when I met you, he just like
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  Speaker 6: you said, doesn't care and he's like the least cool
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  Speaker 6: thing about you is that you after you got to
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  Speaker 6: know me a little bit, is that you went on
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  Speaker 6: The Bachelor, And I was like, thank you, like whereas
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  Speaker 6: when I will.
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  Speaker 4: Don't all hope that's what our partners. I watch the
• 7:48
  Speaker 4: show either, so.
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  Speaker 2: And I think Jessica and I have talked about the show.
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  Speaker 5: Did she did she watch her season? He's not watched mine.
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  Speaker 3: Goodness, we've talked about the show and like intimacy and
• 7:58
  Speaker 3: not just like passing, oh there's a or whatever. Five
• 8:01
  Speaker 3: times in our relationship. I think most of those were
• 8:03
  Speaker 3: within the first few months, like it's not a thing,
• 8:07
  Speaker 3: and it was yeah, it's refreshing, I guess. But like
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  Speaker 3: here's my question for you. There wasn't like a moment
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  Speaker 3: where I was like, oh, it's so nice not to
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  Speaker 3: have this a part of my life or talk about
• 8:19
  Speaker 3: it or whatever, because it is something I'm you know,
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  Speaker 3: it's a big part of my life.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, you're still in it, you do a podcast.
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  Speaker 3: It's different with my wife, like it's I know when
• 8:28
  Speaker 3: I'm with her.
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  Speaker 2: There was never that idea.
• 8:33
  Speaker 3: Or never that baggage or never that those questions and so.
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  Speaker 4: Expectation, expectations.
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  Speaker 3: So what about this relationship made you go this is
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  Speaker 3: what I actually want to commit to?
• 8:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, oh gosh, so many things. I mean, I mean
• 8:47
  Speaker 5: you look at like.
• 8:48
  Speaker 6: Going on a first date, like core values like family
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  Speaker 6: and the way he talked about his mom even on
• 8:53
  Speaker 6: the first date and he went to law school in
• 8:55
  Speaker 6: New York and then it's not his mom this, No,
• 8:59
  Speaker 6: he didn't we talked about like on our first date,
• 9:06
  Speaker 6: like I I believe it or not, this is a
• 9:08
  Speaker 6: kind of an interesting story. On our first date that morning,
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  Speaker 6: I went because I was thirty six, and I went
• 9:12
  Speaker 6: into look into freezing my eggs because I was like,
• 9:15
  Speaker 6: I'm ready to like really actively date here. I remember
• 9:18
  Speaker 6: you texted me that morning and you were like, what
• 9:20
  Speaker 6: are you doing today? I was like, I have a meeting.
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  Speaker 6: I'm actually going to Like, look, I think I just
• 9:24
  Speaker 6: told you. I was like, I was like I want
• 9:26
  Speaker 6: to meet people and be like I'm like thirty six,
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  Speaker 6: Like I knew I wanted a family, and you told
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  Speaker 6: me that night. You're like if I met somebody who
• 9:33
  Speaker 6: didn't want a family, that would be a non starter.
• 9:35
  Speaker 5: Like we talked like like I knew, Like you know.
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  Speaker 6: When you go on a date when you're single and
• 9:39
  Speaker 6: you're like, is this a date? Like we just met
• 9:41
  Speaker 6: on Instagram friends. Yeah, but like we talked about like
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  Speaker 6: it felt like an old school date, like core values.
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  Speaker 6: He talked about going to law school, his mom got
• 9:50
  Speaker 6: diagnosed with breast cancer right before he left, and should
• 9:52
  Speaker 6: I go, and like just the way he talked about
• 9:54
  Speaker 6: his family and he met my family like right away,
• 9:58
  Speaker 6: which I never do. Yeah, I mean, and they loved him.
• 10:02
  Speaker 6: But like, apart from the show, I mean, that's a
• 10:04
  Speaker 6: tough question. I just yard saled. Sorry, guys, I met
• 10:08
  Speaker 6: the bridal shower, the baby shower.
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  Speaker 7: There would have been guilt, that was the thought.
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  Speaker 8: But I talked to my mom and you know, my
• 10:16
  Speaker 8: sister and family, and there would have at the end
• 10:19
  Speaker 8: of the day, there would have been more guilt not
• 10:21
  Speaker 8: to go. I don't stay. You can't do anything if
• 10:26
  Speaker 8: you If you stay for her, she's going to be
• 10:29
  Speaker 8: miserable and she's going to think she kept you, she.
• 10:31
  Speaker 4: Kept you back from right.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but we did have some growing pains in the
• 10:35
  Speaker 6: beginning of our relationship. Everybody everybody does, so like I
• 10:40
  Speaker 6: don't think he really I was like, well, you didn't
• 10:42
  Speaker 6: do your homework because he was like once we started
• 10:45
  Speaker 6: getting serious, I mean we met in April and then
• 10:48
  Speaker 6: he moved in in July because I wouldn't like I knew.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, this is the person for me.
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  Speaker 6: But then like the book stuff started, Like I think
• 10:56
  Speaker 6: he kind of like started hearing stuff and like that,
• 10:58
  Speaker 6: you know the clickbait ben oh, yeah, the clickbait and
• 11:01
  Speaker 6: like how headlines are I'm like, you gotta like, you
• 11:03
  Speaker 6: don't you're not getting context about my book. Like if
• 11:06
  Speaker 6: you read like the you know when you go on
• 11:08
  Speaker 6: a podcast, they don't do their due diligence and it's like, oh,
• 11:10
  Speaker 6: I just read the cliffs notes, like yeah, there's more
• 11:12
  Speaker 6: to make.
• 11:13
  Speaker 4: Friends, and you did this and you did that.
• 11:15
  Speaker 6: It's like it's like that's just a headline, but like
• 11:17
  Speaker 6: you didn't read and Ben wrote a book, like you know,
• 11:20
  Speaker 6: there's more to the story.
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  Speaker 5: But it was it was you were like, what if
• 11:25
  Speaker 5: we have kids.
• 11:25
  Speaker 6: Someday and they're like, I'm you know, your mom would
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  Speaker 6: like what are his friends going to say? And I
• 11:30
  Speaker 6: was like, they're gonna say, my mom wrote a New
• 11:32
  Speaker 6: York Times bestseller, right, and that she's a strong, independent woman,
• 11:37
  Speaker 6: and and we little stuff like that, but then we
• 11:40
  Speaker 6: got through it.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: No, So that's that's what defines not just relationships with friendships, right,
• 11:45
  Speaker 4: You go through adversity and you come out the other
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  Speaker 4: end stronger.
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  Speaker 7: No.
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  Speaker 4: I think it says a lot about all relationships, like
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  Speaker 4: you go through your things and you come out on
• 11:53
  Speaker 4: the other side. If you don't have any challenges, then
• 11:55
  Speaker 4: you never know what you're made of.
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  Speaker 8: I just think for me, personally, I think it was
• 11:58
  Speaker 8: just something obviously new to me.
• 12:00
  Speaker 7: I was not in the public eye.
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  Speaker 8: I'd never had anybody talk to me or take pictures
• 12:04
  Speaker 8: of me or anything, you know.
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  Speaker 7: I I think that the timing was for the most.
• 12:09
  Speaker 8: Part, when we announced Joaquin, you know, the pregnancy was
• 12:15
  Speaker 8: hard for him, and I was like, well, you know,
• 12:17
  Speaker 8: I felt like Joaquin's like the pregnancy and our baby
• 12:21
  Speaker 8: was kind of second fiddle to like anything they could
• 12:25
  Speaker 8: say negative about Courtney, like she was this, she was
• 12:29
  Speaker 8: that she was the villain. It was like pictures of
• 12:32
  Speaker 8: the Bachelor instead of like I was like, well, it's
• 12:35
  Speaker 8: something nice for us to announce, like we were in
• 12:37
  Speaker 8: New York, you know, we pictures from New York that
• 12:40
  Speaker 8: we you know, the magazine.
• 12:41
  Speaker 5: Guy I love New York one.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, And it was like everything was tailored towards like
• 12:46
  Speaker 8: ridiculing her and like bringing up old stuff with her
• 12:49
  Speaker 8: rather than like, oh, yeah.
• 12:50
  Speaker 7: We're gonna have a baby. Guys, Like it's kind of it's.
• 12:52
  Speaker 4: The dark side of of what we've all been blessed with, Right,
• 12:56
  Speaker 4: you get this opportunity. There's great things that come with it,
• 12:59
  Speaker 4: but there's also that ship that comes with it too.
• 13:01
  Speaker 4: That that is exactly what you're talking about, where they're
• 13:04
  Speaker 4: they're almost unearthing stuff to not let you celebrate that moment,
• 13:07
  Speaker 4: right just to point out, you know. And it's she.
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  Speaker 6: And she's like, it's like, we're not going to send
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  Speaker 6: these articles to Like he's like, I don't want to
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  Speaker 6: send this to my parents.
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  Speaker 4: Like it stills.
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  Speaker 3: This day, like you, oh, yeah, we announced that we
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  Speaker 3: got pregnant. And then at the end of the article
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  Speaker 3: is like Ben Higgins and Lorne Bushnell in season whatever
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  Speaker 3: broke up, and it's like, well, that's a wild ending
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  Speaker 3: too for us.
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  Speaker 4: Or for us our kids will do something and they'll say,
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  Speaker 4: Bob was previously married to actress and it's like.
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  Speaker 2: They still have.
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  Speaker 4: Her own family too, and we like each other and
• 13:46
  Speaker 4: we're fine, Like you don't have to tell me. You
• 13:48
  Speaker 4: have to remind everyone that you know.
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  Speaker 2: But here is the point to it all.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm Bertha, this is a question for you like history,
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: and I think it's a good lesson for any of
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: it listens to us who has been on the show,
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  Speaker 3: Like that was a really terrible moment history. That's that's brutal,
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  Speaker 3: that that was the way that existed, and that the
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: way that people handled it. But looking back now, like
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: those negative stories are no longer really they hold no
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: weight in your life.
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  Speaker 2: I'm assuming, right, zero.
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  Speaker 7: Zero, I care less, Like, yeah, it means nothing anymore.
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  Speaker 8: Like I said, time heels life.
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  Speaker 3: For anybody is when they're sitting in these moments of despair,
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: no matter where you're at, if you've been on the
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: show or you're just maybe you have a bad rumor
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: in high school.
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: Right, we have a lot of high schoolers.
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: That listen to this thing, sure, and they're sitting there
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: like this is the world's falling down around me.
• 14:46
  Speaker 7: Everybody hates me, and I get it.
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: It's not an that's that's not a feeling that you
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: should feel a shame about or that nobody else has
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: felt that way. We've all probably room could have those
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: time and and some some length will look back and
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: you'll be like, that was a moment I had some growth.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: It's understanding I saw things maybe a little more clearly.
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: It's a perspective.
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I mean that time heals all wounds, and
• 15:10
  Speaker 7: time is obviously it's you know cyclical.
• 15:14
  Speaker 8: Yeah, like and time like I don't have time to
• 15:18
  Speaker 8: deal with it. I mean like, yeah, three kids, like
• 15:25
  Speaker 8: three kids, Like for me to go read articles now,
• 15:27
  Speaker 8: I can guarantee you that's not happening, Like I don't care,
• 15:30
  Speaker 8: Like honestly, at this point, they.
• 15:31
  Speaker 7: Can write whatever they want, like, you know, person, I
• 15:34
  Speaker 7: don't care.
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: Person. It's like it doesn't matter what I did.
• 15:38
  Speaker 7: Then, Like that's not any different.
• 15:41
  Speaker 8: You know, the love was there, it's just the fact
• 15:43
  Speaker 8: that like I think I was annoyed.
• 15:46
  Speaker 7: That's like you know, you're.
• 15:47
  Speaker 8: Yeah, you're like you're taking away from our stuff, like
• 15:51
  Speaker 8: you're attacking her.
• 15:53
  Speaker 7: Well or maybe not attacking, but like I remember one
• 15:55
  Speaker 7: of the articles or the like.
• 15:57
  Speaker 8: The clickbaits or the you know, the the links was
• 15:59
  Speaker 8: like the ending of it was like the proposal for
• 16:02
  Speaker 8: her and the Bachelor. Yeah, like you know like if
• 16:08
  Speaker 8: I send this to my sisters, they're gonna like watch
• 16:11
  Speaker 8: the proposal, like they're not going to see like because
• 16:13
  Speaker 8: it'd be cool, right, Like not everybody has People magazine
• 16:17
  Speaker 8: for their kids.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: You're going to have that in Touch or whatever it is.
• 16:20
  Speaker 8: You know, it's like it's cool if they're they're on
• 16:23
  Speaker 8: this and there's an article about them, Like they'll all
• 16:25
  Speaker 8: get to see an article about them someday, right, but
• 16:28
  Speaker 8: it's like the stuff with walking, especially Joaquin, like it's
• 16:32
  Speaker 8: fizzled out as you get to baby number three. Yeah, Joaquin,
• 16:35
  Speaker 8: like every article was like Courtney's first child.
• 16:39
  Speaker 7: You know, she was the villain, she was a little.
• 16:45
  Speaker 8: And then it was like the end was like the proposal,
• 16:48
  Speaker 8: and I was like, you know.
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: It really went for it. But I sure just has
• 16:53
  Speaker 5: dealt with that.
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: So I had I look out for Canyon my wife
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: a lot with those moments when we had all her
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: name's Jessica also, but yeah, I call her Candy as long. Sorry,
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: but I remember saying I was like, thank you. I
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: remember saying to them. I was like, guys, like I
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: get it when you walk like, well, my mom walks
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: into the grocery store and sees me on the cover
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: of magazine with the split down the middle and all
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: this kind of shit, and it's conjecture. I'm not Brad Pitt,
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: Like I'm not getting twenty million a movie, right, I'm
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: a real show guy who's going back to his day gig,
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: so leave me alone. Yeah, and I saw get it
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: on Bertha. I really do, like I get it, Like
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: there comes a point where you're like the you know,
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: then for me, you know, and like, what the hell
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: you know? So I I do totally get that, and
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: I get what you're saying. I think there are moments
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: when you're kind of like, you know, and back then
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: it was actual, real magazines. Now it's all online. Yeah,
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: hur'st way worse, I think, because anyone can say whatever
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: they want, you know, online and you know, you know,
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: no one, I.
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: Don't go there. It's the dark, you know.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: But back then it was like I'd see it on
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: the cover of magazine when I'm at Farmer Jack's with
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: my mom and it's like this really sucks, you know,
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: because I didn't know that was coming out this yeah
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: or whatever. So okay, guys, I love first of all,
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: I love your guys relationship. I know we both courtey
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: I have. I've always adored you, and I love on
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: birth the Press. I think it's so cool to have
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: you guys in the show. But it is time to
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: play a game that, you know, because Ben is a
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: new dad to be and I don't think that Ben
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: really understands what goes into this whole game. Right now,
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: he gets it, like he's got to say, for college,
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: right he gets in this stuff, but does Ben understand
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: how much certain things cost at this stage in the game.
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: So what we're gonna do is, we're gonna play a
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: game called the Price is Right, which I've always wanted
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: to do. We're gonna guess the price of these common
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: baby items. I'm gonna go to my two experienced resources
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: after Ben has already answered the question. Okay, so Ben,
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: you may or may not know this, but a baby
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: bathtub is a necessity, right, So you can't just show
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: your kid in a real time game. We're gonna play
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: this game. You gotta throw him at a to that you know.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: Not only does it show you the temperature, which you
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: may gauge with your elbow, now is going to show
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: us the weight of this child when the water weight
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: is dispersed. There are several items that go into digital display,
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: items that go into this bathtub.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: So this is a digital bathtub.
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: It is a well, it's a standard baby bathtub. Actually
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: that you would get a bad bathroom beyond it, I
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: still exist it or some other.
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: Child they go, they gone.
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: So Ben, in your mind, what would a baby bathtub cost?
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: And is someone keeping track of these items? Or five
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: forty five dollars? I think okay, I feel like you cheated.
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: First of all, can I interject here, Yes, I don't
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: think we have a digital bathtub.
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: I think we need to clarify digital baths.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Experience.
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: We are not good parents, I guess I think that you.
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: Guys are a little bit more old school.
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: If you have a digital one or a plastic one,
• 19:57
  Speaker 6: that could be a big just for you.
• 20:00
  Speaker 8: Put plastic ones in the bath so that the baby
• 20:03
  Speaker 8: can fit. But if there is but I would say thirty,
• 20:06
  Speaker 8: I would say thirty.
• 20:08
  Speaker 6: I'd say nineteen ninety nine ninety nine, all right, nineteen
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: ninety nine thirty and ben, I would say forty nine
• 20:15
  Speaker 6: ninety nine one dollar.
• 20:18
  Speaker 7: No, I would think you would think way more. Dig
• 20:22
  Speaker 7: it's temperature temperature, gage temperature gauging.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: Way bottles.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: This way, Let's run through all the items, and then
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: we'll run through all the items with them so they
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: have a chance to think about this.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: Because I gotta be honest, I want that answer of
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: Courtney's to be her.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Okay, fair, that's fair. I'm running down.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: Forget what on Berto said, doesn't need the family shop. Yeah, okay, guys,
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: now we're onto a package of baby socks. I'm gonna
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: go to Ben first Ben package.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Of baby socks twelve dollars.
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: Twelve dollars. Guys, I'm guessing you did buy socks for
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: your children. I'm getting you.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: To seven ninety nine, eight books.
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: Seven Wow, your youngest right now?
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: Seven months? It doesn't wear, So he.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: Doesn't wear Socking's good enough.
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: We live in Phoenix, the hottest place on the planet.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: Flip flops.
• 21:14
  Speaker 8: If we put him in diapers, he sweats, all right.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: A sleep sack do we use? Oh? Yeah, okay, to
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: a bench first? Then what's the cost of a sleep sack?
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: Seventeen ninety nine?
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: Okay, oh my god, you guys, I'm nailing these costs
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: in my head, so clearly I'm way too obsessed with
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: this stuff.
• 21:34
  Speaker 7: Courtney is about eight different options, which.
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: Not thermal, more of a jersey for speed speed.
• 21:46
  Speaker 6: I don't know why I go with the ninety nineteen.
• 21:49
  Speaker 6: What do you say, that's how they get you to
• 21:50
  Speaker 6: buy him?
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: No, I like it.
• 21:53
  Speaker 8: I would say the cheaper and yeah, forty to fifty bucks,
• 21:56
  Speaker 8: let's go, we'll go forty.
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, a package of twenty five diapers. We're going minimal absorption.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: Thirteen dollars, thirteen dollars I'm.
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: Gonna go to Umberto next, and then I'm gonna Courtney last.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: It feels like a lot.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: That's like fifty cents a.
• 22:15
  Speaker 7: Diaper, Yeah, twenty twenty five diapers.
• 22:18
  Speaker 8: I'm guessing twenty bucks twenty yeah.
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: For twenty five diapers.
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: Twenty five diapers a lot more.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: This podcast you.
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: Share with your same absorbs. There's not like a plus.
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: I know, I was thinking of Sorry, I's going with
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: tampons an eleven years, eleven year guy.
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: I would say twelve ninety.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Nine for twelve twelve nine nine thirteen bucks, same as me.
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: She said twelve nine nine though is at thirteen. Yeah,
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: there's a difference. There's a difference, a difference high chair
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: ben high chairs not magnetic, which they do exist, by
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: the way, I'm just talking standard issue high chair thirty
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: five dollars fifty.
• 23:10
  Speaker 8: Bucks for me fifty I'll go fifty yeah, same as
• 23:13
  Speaker 8: quarantine fifty.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: Wow. Welcome to the new world.
• 23:16
  Speaker 6: What would your guest be, I would say, hot mic
• 23:19
  Speaker 6: over there.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like, do you have the answer? But
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: I can say kids are expensive, gang kids are expensive.
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: I think we were selling a lot of generous coffee
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: to get to this high chair.
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: I need a cup of coffee.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: Now, a bottle drying rack. This is plastic, ugly.
• 23:38
  Speaker 8: Doctor bronze, Doctor Brown's, Doctor Brown's.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: Okay, Ben, where's your head? Bottle drying rack?
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Bottle drying rack? Like, it's not any different than when
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: I put my.
• 23:49
  Speaker 7: Six bottles, six bottles.
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: Let's go Britel's correct.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Uh, forty bucks?
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm bertil.
• 23:56
  Speaker 7: Actually I was going a little cheaper. I was gonna
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: go thirty.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: Okay, I was going to go twenty five.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Oh my twenty let's go in the middle of twenty
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: seven for you guys.
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: Sorry, if I'm making a gang.
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: A bascinet. It's the thing that you put next to
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: the bed. They don't they rock with some music? For
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: I think that.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Why did I immediately think of that to be the
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: thing that the women put on that like tightens their
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: bodies up and puts their boobs up higher.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: Of course, that's a course, of course.
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I was thinking of when they said I.
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: Like it, that's of course.
• 24:30
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: I watched the Empress. I know.
• 24:32
  Speaker 7: Okay, bacinet.
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: Then where's your head? What's your price?
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: One hundred and twenty four dollars?
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: Okay, I was gonna say one fifty excellent.
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: Two.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: So for you guys, yes, oh you're killing them together.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I get all the things.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: That's okay, all right, Kendall's got them.
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: So because I'm feeling like I'm no, I.
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: Think you're killing the game right now, killing the game. Okay,
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: all right, all right, guys, only four more items to go,
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: three more ms ago baby swing, oh two dollars. I
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: like your style.
• 25:09
  Speaker 7: Okay, I was gonna gets two fifty fifty.
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: I would I'm with you of two hundred.
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: Two hundred, okay, two hundred activity Matt. Now, I want
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: to take this one step further because some act well
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: one might think a rug, but some activity mats include water,
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: they include gelatin items, they include little stars that move around.
• 25:30
  Speaker 8: And there's also no and better than a rug because
• 25:34
  Speaker 8: you don't smack your head on it.
• 25:36
  Speaker 7: We've learned. We've learned, I would say from.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: The Amazon, you smack your head on a rug.
• 25:42
  Speaker 7: No, I'm talking about the babies. The baby to keep.
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: Them from.
• 25:49
  Speaker 7: The rug has like a little thump though they had it.
• 25:52
  Speaker 8: The mat is like, yeah, there's watertime if I fire
• 25:59
  Speaker 8: remember correctly, it's one fifty okay, and you're talking about
• 26:03
  Speaker 8: like the size of a queen or king bed or something.
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, we're going much smarter than that. We're
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: gonna say just a single.
• 26:10
  Speaker 6: Oh oh the time, mat time we had our handed
• 26:14
  Speaker 6: down to fifty.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: All right, forty forty, maybe even thirty.
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: All right, guys, this is our last option. I'm not
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: gonna specify what capabilities. I'm not going to specify talkable
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: back and forth capabilities, but those are.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: You're doing this because Jessica and I have had these
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: conversations about if we get Wi Fi or not.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: I know exactly where you're going.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: Baby Monitor. You can hard wire these things, or you
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: can WiFi them. You can have talk to and talk
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: back features, you can have all sorts of good stuff
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: going on. Let's go basic function, baby Monitor, ninety dollars.
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: You still your game, He's still your game. Where you're at,
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: where you're fifty See.
• 26:57
  Speaker 6: I would I would say, yeah, base, very valuable. What
• 27:01
  Speaker 6: are you saying, well, basic, I would say two hundred.
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: Okay, all right, so two hundred. There we go. All right, guys,
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: So here we go. Price.
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: I can be wrong.
• 27:10
  Speaker 6: We haven't shopped since the Dark Ages forty seven months.
• 27:14
  Speaker 6: You know, because we've used everything for the first one.
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: You don't need to buy again.
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: Getting a fresh baby monitor for junior.
• 27:20
  Speaker 10: Baby like cracked and broken and yeah.
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: All right, here we go. We're gonna recap baby.
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: Bathtop Ben Win. I feel like he needs a win.
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: Baby bathtub Ben. Ben said forty five. Mberto said thirty. Actually,
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: I think in this one we went the opposite way.
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: I think Forty said thirty. I think Amberto said nineteen.
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: Winner the win, we.
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: Can we can love us together.
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: Winner Ben fifty fifty bucks. Ben was closest without going
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: over guys. I gotta be honestly, I'm a little challenged here.
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: I don't like seeing this next one either. Socks Ben
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: said twelve, and Berto said eight Courtney seven ninety nine
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: guys eighteen bucks for socks. Ben wins again. No new
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: dad crushing experience parents sleep set.
• 28:26
  Speaker 7: He's probably been shopping more.
• 28:27
  Speaker 11: Than sleep Seck seventeen ninety nine for Ben, way Off
• 28:33
  Speaker 11: fifty nine ninety nine coming from Courtney Mother ninety nine
• 28:36
  Speaker 11: ninety nine, and Umberto at forty.
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: Courtney wins at thirty five.
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: Well, I kind of slipped the babe third with.
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: Forty, all right, diapers, thirteen for Ben, twenty for rom
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: Virgil I don't know what the hell's going on here
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: twelve ninety nine. Courtney wins with ten. I like I
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: like the I like the science, I like the math.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: Al right, I love to be cheaper than I guess.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: High chairs thirty five for Ben, hold On, fifty for Courtney,
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: and fifty for Romberto. They win two hundred on the
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: high Yes, guys, yes chairs crazy.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: I think I could.
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: If you do it well, you will because you're a handyman.
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: But if you go magnetic style, which they do also have,
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: which is kind of nice for the bulls and the
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: cups because your kids are disasters, you're at two fifty
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: easy bottle drying rack, forty for Ben, thirty on Berto
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: twenty five Courtney twenty is the accurate one for Courtney.
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: Good job, Bascinet.
• 29:40
  Speaker 7: This into the.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: Sick of It one five for Ben, fifty for on Berto,
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: two hundred for Courtney. The winner Courtney three hundred.
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: Holy ours was two hundred when we got.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: Twenty hours of podcasting.
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: Have to do for the Buddy books at least seven
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: minutes three or four months Baby Swing two twenty five.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: You guys, you guys all went over the baby swing
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: by the way to twenty five five on Berto two
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: fifty Courtney level off at two hundred, guys, it's one twenty.
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: No, I'm cheating Guyst's baby Matt.
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: I tried to help here because you guys were get
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: you were talking about one. I believe Ben said nineteen
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: ninety nine for a baby Matt. I think Berto came
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: in strong at one fifty. I changed my answer though
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: he did. He changed like thirty. He said forty. I'm
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: giving it to on Berto at eighty eighty.
• 30:41
  Speaker 7: You gotta no, that's not cheap.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: You guys where we're at right now? If you're keeping
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: score at home and I'm making all this up, Courtney's
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: at three completely a lot.
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: Fund Me for Ben.
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: Baby Ben is four four, poor old baby monitor. This
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: is scary. So many options. Ben ninety nine dollars umberto
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: two fifty Courtney two hundred. The winner of the entire
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: series and the one who I think knows what's up
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: when it comes to baby stuff. Lady and gentlemen, Coy
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: Courtney Robinson, guys, total cost baby bats up back into
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: baby sox, sleepsack, diapers, high chair, trying rack et cetera.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: The whole eighty three dollars, I don't know.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: Diapers.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: You multiply that by three, that's a twenty hundred dollars
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: starting kit.
• 31:46
  Speaker 5: I'll sign it to you.
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: I can take as many hand me downs as you can.
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: That's what we do, and.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Diaper sponsorships, Bobby. One last question I do.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: I thank you for letting me ask it. So, guys,
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: Ben Higgins easily the most sensitive of the Bachelor's I
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  Speaker 4: love him so much. I love this guy. He didn't
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  Speaker 4: think he was worthy of love when you went on
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  Speaker 4: the show, and now he is this guy who's in
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  Speaker 4: this incredibly loving relationship. They are expecting a child. We
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  Speaker 4: are here for the baby shower, the two of you.
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  Speaker 4: Let's give him a little bit of advice. Okay, what
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  Speaker 4: is the best piece of advice you can give to
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  Speaker 4: my dear friend Ben Higgins about having a child, being
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  Speaker 4: a father, being a father in Berto? Go ahead?
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  Speaker 6: Well, first of all, I would say, do you want advice,
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  Speaker 6: because I don't think you need any want. I truly
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  Speaker 6: don't think you need advice.
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  Speaker 4: He doesn't need it. He's a genius, this kid.
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  Speaker 6: Everybody knows, Harret, you're having a girl, right I would
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  Speaker 6: just give you a cup. I thought about this on
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  Speaker 6: our way out here. First of all, you're gonna have
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  Speaker 6: unconditional love your heart. It's like the Grinch. Your heart's
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  Speaker 6: gonna grow exponentially. Like it's that feeling is I wish
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  Speaker 6: you could bottle up and sell it. And your love
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  Speaker 6: for your wife is going to be even that much stronger.
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  Speaker 6: As I speak for you, but like for my husband,
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  Speaker 6: it is like it's just it bonds you that much
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  Speaker 6: better and like we're closer.
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  Speaker 5: Also, wipe front to back.
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  Speaker 4: Right, because it's a girl.
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  Speaker 5: It's a girl front to back.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, you know, whatever you want with the boys.
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  Speaker 4: Those kids, tell them, just to make sure it's clean.
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  Speaker 4: You go front to back for obvious reasons.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 6: Now take a lot of phoes and take a lot
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  Speaker 6: of photos of you of Jess with the baby, because
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  Speaker 6: I have so many in my cameras, all the babies
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  Speaker 6: and him. But take pictures of Jess too, like candids.
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  Speaker 6: That's my advice to you, and just enjoy it. I mean,
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  Speaker 6: you're going to be amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Front to back.
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  Speaker 5: And also don't let her sit in.
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  Speaker 6: You know, with girl the parts are different, so you know,
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  Speaker 6: if she's wet. Like with boys, you can kind of
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  Speaker 6: let them and their we diapers longer. Just change her
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  Speaker 6: now you know the price of diapers.
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  Speaker 8: So yeah, I think a couple of things I would
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  Speaker 8: say is be present, literally and figuratively, like your kids
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  Speaker 8: want to be around you. You know, we're leaving today
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  Speaker 8: this morning to fly out here. You know, they're saying,
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  Speaker 8: you know, our girl Plomb was like, Daddy, you know.
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  Speaker 7: Stay home.
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  Speaker 8: I want you to stay home, like, don't leave, don't
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  Speaker 8: have like you'll be fine, You'll be fine.
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  Speaker 7: Like they want you either to be present. My mom
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  Speaker 7: my mom watches them, so she's.
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  Speaker 8: Shout out to Nana. She's spending the night with them.
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  Speaker 8: The present literally with them figuratively like, you know, be.
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  Speaker 7: In the moment, you know when they're around, you.
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  Speaker 8: Know, be you know obviously we all have cell phones,
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  Speaker 8: will have things to do. We got food to make
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  Speaker 8: and chores and everything else.
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  Speaker 7: But you know, be present. The other thing is we
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  Speaker 7: got a lot of butts to clean right now. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 7: The other thing is I think you have to try,
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  Speaker 7: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 8: Like I'm a big sports guy, and you know, I
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  Speaker 8: don't think you picked the athlete. You don't get to
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  Speaker 8: be good at something by sitting on your ass and
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  Speaker 8: doing nothing.
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  Speaker 4: You got to try. Kobe Bryant like the black Man, right, Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: I'm a I'm a Lakers fan like mama isn't sitting
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  Speaker 8: around every day eating Bond bonds, watching TV shows like
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  Speaker 8: he's working at it. And that's saying like I go
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  Speaker 8: to bed at night, we go to bed and we're tired,
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  Speaker 8: like I busted my ass all day, either I'm at
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  Speaker 8: work or I'm at home and I'm doing stuff and
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  Speaker 8: I'm trying, like I'm trying to take care of my kids.
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  Speaker 7: Like that's the deal. I might not be good at it,
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  Speaker 7: like I might not be.
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  Speaker 8: I have a feeling I'm trying, like I was saying,
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  Speaker 8: like every night I go to bed, I'm tired.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 8: I'm like, you gotta try.
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  Speaker 4: I think you hit the jackpot. Honestly, God with this guy,
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  Speaker 4: I really do, because i've for years. What a pleasure
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  Speaker 4: to meet you, man, And it's not easy to be
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  Speaker 4: it's not easy to be someone who's who's married to
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  Speaker 4: someone from this franchise.
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  Speaker 6: It's just not today's I'm gonna send her a gift, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: please do. And I want to send you a little
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  Speaker 6: snuggy like little things that like, there are certain things
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  Speaker 6: that you you will use like constantly, and they're not
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  Speaker 6: the big ticket items. They're like little things like the
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  Speaker 6: sug that smells like you that we.
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  Speaker 5: Like, I wouldn't send you just random and that makes
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  Speaker 5: you happy.
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  Speaker 8: Like the stuff that we use and end up using,
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  Speaker 8: the things that people bought a lot about is the excess, dude,
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  Speaker 8: we had. If you have diapers, if you have formula,
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  Speaker 8: and if you have like we use these little white
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  Speaker 8: T shirts you snap on.
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  Speaker 6: Because it would have these little umbilical cords, so like
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  Speaker 6: you want to address.
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  Speaker 7: Them, like, we had so many clothes that they never wore.
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  Speaker 7: We had so many things they never played with. The
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  Speaker 7: first the first Christmas.
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  Speaker 8: With walking, all you want to do is play with
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  Speaker 8: the wrapping paper like you didn't care about anything like it.
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  Speaker 7: They're so simple.
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  Speaker 8: Break it down, get them a cardboard box and they'll
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  Speaker 8: play in it for an hour. And then when they
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  Speaker 8: learn how to write and draw the drawn at for
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  Speaker 8: hours like.
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  Speaker 6: It's and then Dad breaks down the boxes and that
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  Speaker 6: goes does just do that?
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  Speaker 2: No, I break down the boxes.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I just throw them outside and I see him
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  Speaker 5: out there.
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  Speaker 4: Like.
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  Speaker 3: She has this step in the garage. She just kind
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  Speaker 3: of tosses them off. They all into this pile. And
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  Speaker 3: then about every two days I walk down Amazon.
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  Speaker 2: It is my.
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  Speaker 3: Worst night's double Ben, my headphones on and my knife
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  Speaker 3: and I just slice, slice and.
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  Speaker 2: Spice and dice back them as we go.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, this has been the Almost Famous podcast with two
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  Speaker 3: incredible people, Courtney and Umberta. Thank you for joining us today.
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  Speaker 3: It means so much anytime, thanks for coming. I hope
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  Speaker 3: you have a great night. It means so much. Until
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  Speaker 3: next time, I've been Ben, Bob.
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  Speaker 5: I've been Courtney.
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  Speaker 7: Glad to be here.
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