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Ep. 24 "What The Hell Do Men Want?!" · We Talk Back

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Speaker 1: Talk we're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion.
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Speaker 1: Who talks back? Hey, it's your girl, Hey j Welcome
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Speaker 1: to a new episode of We Talk Back. We appreciate
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Speaker 1: you tuning in. And it's tam maam I missed y'all. Oh,
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Speaker 1: thank you. So apparently we have some guests on this week, right,
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Speaker 1: we have some guests, some some of the other species.
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Speaker 1: So we mentioned us not knowing what the funk these
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Speaker 1: guys want, So we decided we would bring some gentlemen
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Speaker 1: on and talk to them about what they really want
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Speaker 1: and see if they can be honest and vulnerable with
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Speaker 1: us enough to explain what they expect out of women. So, gentlemen,
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Speaker 1: tell us who you are, tell us a little about themselves. Um,
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Speaker 1: let's see where do I start. I need to be cooking. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'm kidding. I'm originally from South Carolina, been in Charlotte
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Speaker 1: since what two thousand seven? Promoter chef, Um, it's pretty
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Speaker 1: much what I do. I just laid back in, chill
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Speaker 1: in my life. That's what I like. And then tell
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Speaker 1: us about yourself, sir, your name and where are you from?
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Speaker 1: What you did? This red wine is exquisite. You got
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Speaker 1: your painting up like, oh my bo I forgot sported
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Speaker 1: at Mr Movie Time from gonna do a lot, serial
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Speaker 1: entrepreneur promote clothing line, real estate, um a lot. I
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Speaker 1: just I can't even remember. I always forget something j
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Speaker 1: all of that. Now I just do a lot. I'm
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Speaker 1: I'm a serial entrepreneur, brand and and and well known
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Speaker 1: throughout the Southeast um region of the United States of America.
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Speaker 1: Went I went to Jamaica and they recognized me to
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Speaker 1: got booked in dubaiole Okay, so worldwide sport went to Africa,
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Speaker 1: had to do a party exactly. So that's pretty dope.
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Speaker 1: So okay, both of y'all are pretty good. How much
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Speaker 1: I got to do to be good? She said? Dope?
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Speaker 1: First of all? Okay, sorry they are so we want
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Speaker 1: to ask you all some questions about relationships in your
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Speaker 1: dynamics with women. Are both of you single or any
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Speaker 1: of you in relationships aship? Okay? Really? How long we've
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Speaker 1: been for like twelve years but officially recently it's been
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Speaker 1: consistent for last ten months. Okay, congratulations to that. I'm
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Speaker 1: single as of January newly single. How long were you
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Speaker 1: in a relationship? About about two of them? Things about
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Speaker 1: two years at two different people. Noify, Yes, you have
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Speaker 1: to be real specific with these dudes. Man, about two
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Speaker 1: and a half except for two and a half years, Kenneth,
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Speaker 1: What makes these ten months different from the last twelve years?
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Speaker 1: Good questions. Um, Honestly, I feel like I was. I'm
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Speaker 1: in a more mature space and I was over that time,
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Speaker 1: just a little bit more set up, kind of knowing
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Speaker 1: who I am or what I want, you know what
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Speaker 1: I mean. So I think I could actually have given
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Speaker 1: the relationship at this point in time what it needed
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Speaker 1: versus you know, little ship didn't playing around over of
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Speaker 1: course at that time. So you guys have any kids?
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Speaker 1: I don't, no kids? They want no kids? All right?
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Speaker 1: For what? You got to have two beautiful young young lads,
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Speaker 1: a boy and a girl. She's six, mirror he's eleven.
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Speaker 1: They're both beautiful. They're so beautiful. I love him, Thank
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Speaker 1: you so much. As long as they're newborns, you're good. No.
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Speaker 1: They The big question is what do men want? Sloppy yo, man, Okay,
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Speaker 1: I just had to answer store. I know some people
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Speaker 1: who don't like a lot of spin on their dick,
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Speaker 1: so you can only speak for itself. Wow, right. I
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Speaker 1: mean they don't know, right, right. He told me that
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Speaker 1: some like that, and I'm like, I didn't even know
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Speaker 1: Nick has existed like that. They don't like they don't
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Speaker 1: like it sloppy. So that's all that's all you can get.
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Speaker 1: Like this is such a layer. It's just such a
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Speaker 1: layer question. I feel like there's so many angles to it,
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Speaker 1: like so just talk to speak to one. You can't
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Speaker 1: what do we want in what aspect from what you
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Speaker 1: know from from from my wife, she knowed, she that
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Speaker 1: was that's why men want somebody that's solid. Got to
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Speaker 1: be solid. You gotta be trustworthy, you have to be um.
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Speaker 1: We don't got we We can't have to worry about y'all.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like she gonna hold it
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Speaker 1: down for me. Like if I lived in this building
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Speaker 1: and you was coming to see me, I got to
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Speaker 1: feel comfortable that it might be fucking Cam Newton, baby
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Speaker 1: Jesus and whoever else in this built on elevated with
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Speaker 1: you and you not. It's just whatever that's big for
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Speaker 1: me because of the circles that I play in and
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Speaker 1: the stuff that I do. And I say, solid, trustworthy
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Speaker 1: gott to be disgusting if you're not disgusting, it's not
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Speaker 1: gonna last. Like when you can't be like learning disgusting
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Speaker 1: this because we're grown. We don't feel like going through that.
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Speaker 1: So you can't teach a woman what you like at
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Speaker 1: this point. I don't know. I beg they're different on that.
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Speaker 1: I feel like you can't in that aspect. In that aspect,
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Speaker 1: like in a sexual aspect, you can teach uh without it.
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Speaker 1: You definitely can cheat them. Yeah, but you don't want
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Speaker 1: to teach. You want them to come with the general knowledge, right,
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Speaker 1: you don't. I have a problem. I want them to
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Speaker 1: come nasty. But in my mind, in my mind, you
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Speaker 1: never did it before right to say so you want
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Speaker 1: her to have her nat You might have had sex
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Speaker 1: after your prom, but after that between that time like that,
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Speaker 1: I don't think you su nobody. I'm a realist. I
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Speaker 1: know what time it is is what it is. Everybody
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Speaker 1: to somebody, that's that's just the reality. And everybody got close.
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Speaker 1: But you didn't give him. Everybody somebody I've been set
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Speaker 1: and you didn't get nobody. I ever realist. I ain't
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Speaker 1: ain't eve about to trick myself like that. That don't
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Speaker 1: like your fifth grade boyfriend, like I think a fifth
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Speaker 1: grade man that nigga, Bro, I'm the nigger that don't
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Speaker 1: give us about him. So you are. So you're territorial
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Speaker 1: over your woman like almost like she's a possession versus
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Speaker 1: a person. I own her and that's say, no, she
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Speaker 1: owns me too. We know you don't own anyone. Why anyone?
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Speaker 1: What do you mean she is my possession? No she
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Speaker 1: is not. She is a human persons, not to be possessed. No,
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Speaker 1: she possessed. And because look watch this, everybody wants to
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Speaker 1: think I'm crazy. How you treat a rental car terrible?
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Speaker 1: How you treat your car rental cars, dogging them out
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Speaker 1: with no dope gas, nothing you can talk about like
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Speaker 1: from the words I've treating up the great from example,
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Speaker 1: see how you treat a rental car terrible, But the
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Speaker 1: one that you own, you don't treat them like this.
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Speaker 1: But are we comparing significant others two cars? Tangible things?
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Speaker 1: Were comparing it to whatever you're gonna take care of
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Speaker 1: and it's not ownership like like like like I own
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Speaker 1: you like I'm your master. But now like this is
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Speaker 1: your dick, bro, this is you own it like you
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Speaker 1: and I own and that's my pussy and I own
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Speaker 1: it and I own you. But but but it's not
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Speaker 1: controlling like it's hard. If you don't know me, then
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Speaker 1: you may not understand what I'm saying. And at that
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Speaker 1: point I really don't. So you don't cheat in relationships,
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm hearing. No, No, I'm cheating. M hm.
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Speaker 1: I have we listen. We only can be as good
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Speaker 1: as our last last ship, my last laship. I didn't cheat,
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Speaker 1: did that? So what caused that relationship to dissolve? It
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Speaker 1: wasn't know she was a dumb fuck. She was a
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Speaker 1: dumb clock it out. I mean, just be honest, so
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Speaker 1: we can we can say that intelligence and we can
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Speaker 1: say that men do want to tell you very tough.
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Speaker 1: It's not dumb and it is unintelligence. There'll be more clear.
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Speaker 1: Just didn't work out, two different levels. It just didn't
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Speaker 1: work out. Let me. I'm just for listening. Much younger
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Speaker 1: than yes, she was. She was okay, listeners, I'm I'm joking.
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Speaker 1: Please understand. I love you all, I respect everyone. Just
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Speaker 1: do not think. Do not take this too serious. But
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Speaker 1: but no, it was just it was just bad time.
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Speaker 1: I don't I don't I don't have a you know,
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Speaker 1: when you just kind of broke up. You don't got
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Speaker 1: that good dressed up answer yet you only got the
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Speaker 1: real one you ain't really got. I feel like I
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Speaker 1: feel like, oh, then we're gonna with the dump. Then
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Speaker 1: I don't feel like y'all would just y'all would just
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Speaker 1: y'all were in two different places. How old? Okay? How
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Speaker 1: old was she in comparison to you? How many years apart?
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Speaker 1: How young was she? Mmm? I don't know. Oh you
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Speaker 1: remember a long time ago, man? Okay, okay, so you're
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Speaker 1: about ten years ten plus years older, I mean give
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Speaker 1: it take maybe seven to ten, you know, but so
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Speaker 1: many maturity To be honest, I think it was that.
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Speaker 1: I think. I think I think a lot of it
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Speaker 1: stems from father. Like father figures man man like if
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Speaker 1: you don't, it's about trusting in the man. If you
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Speaker 1: didn't grow up trusting in the man, then you're starting
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Speaker 1: way behind the curve of trusting the man. And to
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Speaker 1: get to get the best out of out of a man,
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Speaker 1: he got to feel like you're relying on him, not monetarily,
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Speaker 1: but like if I sunk up, I'm sucking her life
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Speaker 1: up to like she put her trust in me, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And if you if a dude
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Speaker 1: don't get that, then he can't operate. You know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying in my opinion, sense of responsibility. Yeah, it's
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Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's just it's all about just trust.
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Speaker 1: So I just think that that's you know, that was
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Speaker 1: a major thing that was missing and just her not
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Speaker 1: trusting you or you're not trusting her. No, just trusting
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Speaker 1: in men period. I don't think she's trusting the men.
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Speaker 1: And then also just social media or it's just a
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Speaker 1: it's a travesty. Yeah. Yeah, if you don't stop talking
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Speaker 1: like that would beat your ass. It's such a travesty
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Speaker 1: that thing, that thing, like I really like that. Shu
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Speaker 1: made me want to start a whole initiative like going
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Speaker 1: to the elementary schools and and and like and you
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Speaker 1: know how we had there because crack took over. Like
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Speaker 1: social media is really the new Crackly, we need a
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Speaker 1: program to go around and speak to young boys and
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Speaker 1: young girls and so that they understand like this is
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Speaker 1: all bullshit. It's like it's like fake reality TV. It's
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Speaker 1: like also the music, now, we got to add the
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Speaker 1: music in there too. I really feel like I feel
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Speaker 1: like young men don't fall in love because it rap
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Speaker 1: music tells you don't have to, and then it just
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Speaker 1: tell you girls the bust of wide open for a
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Speaker 1: real nigga, and and it tells young girls to to
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Speaker 1: make them, make them, make guys spend money on them
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Speaker 1: eating then it makes it makes men not even feel
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Speaker 1: worthy if they if they don't hand them like who
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Speaker 1: nobody's gonna start off broke together no more. That's like
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Speaker 1: a thing of the past that was in the nineties.
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Speaker 1: Like people are sharning off broke together. They still are.
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Speaker 1: They ain't got no choice, But what do you get
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Speaker 1: on in relationships? And they ain't got ship But but
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Speaker 1: it's not up front. It's not like it's not like
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Speaker 1: like Timmy, I don't got it, like I got these dreams,
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Speaker 1: I got this this ambition, but right now I'm just
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Speaker 1: trying to go get it. And you like, I mean,
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Speaker 1: I support that, like you know, as long as you
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Speaker 1: know we're gonna do it. It It ain't none of that.
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Speaker 1: This nigga acting like he got it, but he don't
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Speaker 1: got it. He doesn't spend his laugh on him the oars.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. His last, and she and
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Speaker 1: taking out he don't got pregnant, and now she's like
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Speaker 1: damn here And then dudes, you got dudes like money
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Speaker 1: bag yo, who they just openly be like, I know
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Speaker 1: she wouldn't sunk with me if I don't have bread.
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Speaker 1: He's talking about his girlfriend, bro, Like like you like
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Speaker 1: you you said, you're saying, like, I know I'm ugly.
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Speaker 1: I know that she wouldn't poke with me unless I
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Speaker 1: was rich, And you're comfortable with that? Like, but they
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Speaker 1: really fucked up, bro, Well you have to be comfortable
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Speaker 1: with women being attracted to resources. No woman wants any
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Speaker 1: man who doesn't have anything to bring to the table.
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Speaker 1: And right now women are bringing a lot. We're coming
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Speaker 1: with a lot right now. I disagree. Would you be
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Speaker 1: comfortable with somebody was only attracted to your ass, Like
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Speaker 1: if you didn't have your ass, then they didn't wuldn't
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Speaker 1: I feel like that is very real? Like men are
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Speaker 1: attracted to ask men are men? Men love aesthetically, they
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Speaker 1: love visually, right, So men are way more shallow than women.
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Speaker 1: So true, y'all all right, but but you've been had
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Speaker 1: to deal with that. I don't think some of the
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Speaker 1: men that I attracted, and then I attract men who
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Speaker 1: like nice smiles as well. Then you put the smile
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Speaker 1: and ask together. It's a smiley ass. But now I
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Speaker 1: feel what you're saying. I just feel like it's just bad.
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Speaker 1: I think. I don't know. I disagree with you, Sammy.
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry about men being comfortable with women being attracted resources. Don't.
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Speaker 1: Don't be attracted to my resources because these ships can
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Speaker 1: go and they're gonna go like every like it could
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Speaker 1: be up and then it could be down. So if
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Speaker 1: you just attracted to my resources, you ain't. So what
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Speaker 1: I'm hearing is you want a woman as loyal right,
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Speaker 1: what I'm hearing Okay, didn't want to provide her? No,
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Speaker 1: she just needs a man that she loved and then
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Speaker 1: he would provide. Yeah, but not every man is a provider.
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Speaker 1: Well I don't know them. Okay. So you have a daughter, right,
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Speaker 1: your daughter? What kind of standards would you like for
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Speaker 1: your daughter to have? I will, I would want my
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Speaker 1: daughter to marry a man. They could be broke and
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Speaker 1: living in the worst can due to the house. Yes,
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Speaker 1: if this nigga really love her, like like if if
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Speaker 1: they don't got no food, he's going to find it
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Speaker 1: like he gonna go like no matter what, I'd rather
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Speaker 1: that over rich nigga who who don't really love her
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Speaker 1: like that, like he just sucking with her conda and
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Speaker 1: and I don't see the love like I don't really
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Speaker 1: man all I watched my mama die. I don't like,
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Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about nothing material because you
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Speaker 1: don't take none of it, which is when you die,
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Speaker 1: you don't even know where you left it. The resources
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Speaker 1: is like they're just like because because we like, your
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Speaker 1: ass gonna drop one day, you know what I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: you you're gonna you're gonna keep it uplifted, but you
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Speaker 1: know one day it's gonna drop and U and teeth
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Speaker 1: you know, and whatever I go, I don't know, you
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Speaker 1: just never know. So I need that real love. What
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Speaker 1: are deal breakers for y'all? Like, like completely deal breaker
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Speaker 1: if they fuck somebody that isn't the second day I
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Speaker 1: watched on TV off somebody from the Lakers man the time.
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Speaker 1: You know what my my deal breaker is. My deal
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Speaker 1: breaker is not being straight up. That is my biggest
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Speaker 1: deal breaker. Be straight with me, Like, let me know
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Speaker 1: what the funk you got going on? So I know
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Speaker 1: what I'm dealing with, like if you don't somebody from
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Speaker 1: the leggers tell me that, so I know if I
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Speaker 1: want to deal with that, when you tell me after that,
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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna hear. You know what I'm saying, But
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Speaker 1: I'm a very straight sex with the girl and then
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Speaker 1: leave her alone. Let her know that that's that's the
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Speaker 1: only thing you're after. You're gonna make her feel like
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Speaker 1: it's more no way. So what I'm hearing is, let's
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Speaker 1: because I like, I had a real good therapy session
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Speaker 1: last week and we did mirroring, right, So what I'm
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Speaker 1: hearing is is that y'all niggas don't want to funk
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Speaker 1: behind rich niggas were just as rich. But it's not
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Speaker 1: about that. It's about that we got to sit on
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Speaker 1: the couch and I got to watch the nigga that
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Speaker 1: you that you might have sucked, Okay, but you don't
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Speaker 1: have nothing to do with the bread. Okay, I shouldn't
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Speaker 1: have said TV. Let me say, if it's anybody that
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Speaker 1: we got to see too much, like somebody basically not
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Speaker 1: even somebody I know. I'm trying to think of what's
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Speaker 1: another way of doing it. You would I feel like
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Speaker 1: you would have been a radio personality if I got
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Speaker 1: to hear his voice every day. Yeah, but I feel
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Speaker 1: like you every time. Everybody don't gotta be sucking dead
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Speaker 1: had sexual experience. Yeah, but especially as promoters. I'm sure
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Speaker 1: you guys we keep it separate. We do business, we
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Speaker 1: get and we do the party, we go home exactly. No,
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Speaker 1: no lucky young ladies. None, no talking about yes, Okay,
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Speaker 1: I don't believe that. But see, like I said, mine
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Speaker 1: is being straight as long as you keep it straight
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Speaker 1: with me and just be like my shallow you know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, when would you keep it straight
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Speaker 1: with me and be like, yo, I gotta tell you,
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Speaker 1: I such I used to sledge. All right, let me
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Speaker 1: rationalize that. Let me let me rest on that, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that that I know the change
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Speaker 1: that you might not be able to rest on it. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that could be a change. Okay, so you kind of
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Speaker 1: just like but no, but but it's it's it's it's
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Speaker 1: if you don't tell me this and I got to
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Speaker 1: find out, like on some sideway ship, you know, if
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Speaker 1: somebody had a conversation and makes what like you know,
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be in Coloch quarters with this nigger.
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Speaker 1: You ain't tell me that's a deal breaking for me.
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Speaker 1: So would you be okay if the girl was just
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Speaker 1: sucking with some bumbass niggers because I've I've experienced that relationships.
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Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, Like, now you now you
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Speaker 1: could go in on Now you can go in on
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Speaker 1: me because I'm not used to your caliber of man, right, nigger,
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Speaker 1: but you're holding the heat on me because upgraded the
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Speaker 1: woman at that point. Now I'm joking, Um no, let
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Speaker 1: me tell you. Let me be honest. I'm playing too
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Speaker 1: much and I feel like everybody is going to get
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Speaker 1: a false from this. So for clarity, I was serious
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Speaker 1: about to shoot on TV. I'm not comfortable with that.
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Speaker 1: I had to learn that, Like I don't because it's
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Speaker 1: the caliber of type of girl out track. She probably
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Speaker 1: don't work with the NFL, NBA. Somebody ended up. Happened
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Speaker 1: a couple of times, and I'm uncomfortable. I don't even
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Speaker 1: like watching the game. The more I wouldn't watch the
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Speaker 1: whole season, then I don't. I don't. I don't give
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Speaker 1: it because then it's like if we're both watching the game,
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Speaker 1: think about it, though he don't not even if he don't,
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Speaker 1: he could just be running down the court. You can
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Speaker 1: have a quick day dream you right beside me. That's
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Speaker 1: just that's what I don't think. Extra. Nobody wants somebody,
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Speaker 1: So y'all don't care if y'all have a man, and
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Speaker 1: y'all have to be around a person, and this is
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Speaker 1: your exactly like we used to these pass around that's
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Speaker 1: not possessive. First of all, I'm the type of person
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Speaker 1: I want to experience people. I don't try to possess anybody.
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Speaker 1: I will let you do what you want to do
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Speaker 1: so I can see what you rather do. Make me
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Speaker 1: feel like answers was wrong, and your answers are absolutely wrong.
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Speaker 1: But what I was trying to say was you may
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Speaker 1: feel more comfortable with a woman who has not dude
19:28
Speaker 1: does not know successful men, because then that that will
19:31
Speaker 1: be the problem, right, It won't be that I know
19:33
Speaker 1: successful men and now you're you're insecure because I know
19:37
Speaker 1: other successful men outside of you. No, I don't. I
19:41
Speaker 1: don't like that word. I don't. I don't because it's
19:45
Speaker 1: it's not an insecurity, it's just what I like. What
19:48
Speaker 1: I don't like, Like I think we are to control
19:50
Speaker 1: that you want ain't never dealt with nobody like I
19:54
Speaker 1: can't control successful. I can't. I can't control it. It's
19:59
Speaker 1: just if I find it or not. So then you
20:01
Speaker 1: would want her to not tell you know, you gotta
20:03
Speaker 1: tell me. So what I'm hearing is you would like
20:07
Speaker 1: a woman to write a list out of all the
20:09
Speaker 1: men she's been with so that you can Is that
20:14
Speaker 1: what you would like when you do that? In turn,
20:16
Speaker 1: for her write a list of every woman that you
20:18
Speaker 1: nigga can't remember that they've Let's not be my list.
20:22
Speaker 1: On one hand, it's you find this liar at girl,
20:28
Speaker 1: no one hand, go ahead, but cut it up? No,
20:36
Speaker 1: but no, okay, son want okay being honest, No, I
20:40
Speaker 1: don't want to list. I would just prefer that. But honestly,
20:44
Speaker 1: like it's all about when you tell the nigga too
20:48
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because like, if you tell
20:50
Speaker 1: me too early, I'm already gonna be like, well this
20:52
Speaker 1: is how I'm a handle her. You know what I'm saying. Oh,
20:54
Speaker 1: I just don't even want no parts. But if you
20:56
Speaker 1: kind of wait, like maybe third or fourth date, we
20:59
Speaker 1: already got some great chemistry. And then you say, well, hey,
21:01
Speaker 1: I see where this is going. I just want to
21:02
Speaker 1: let then it might be a little more difficult from
21:04
Speaker 1: because I gonna start liking you, you know what I'm saying.
21:06
Speaker 1: So I probably could deal with it, you know what
21:09
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But it really depends on who it is like.
21:12
Speaker 1: It can't be like Puff, like somebody that I just
21:16
Speaker 1: really really like. So so it's not about the success
21:20
Speaker 1: of the man the better man. Yeah, if a woman
21:23
Speaker 1: were to funk with a bunch of bum maass niggers,
21:25
Speaker 1: you'd be looking at her sideways, right, But if she
21:28
Speaker 1: were to funk with a bunch of successful men, you're
21:30
Speaker 1: now looking internally. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, I
21:36
Speaker 1: think that makes sense for some people, but I think
21:38
Speaker 1: for me it's not. It's not about that. It's more
21:40
Speaker 1: so I just don't want to have to look at
21:43
Speaker 1: somebody that you sucked his dick. It's not like I
21:52
Speaker 1: don't want to have to look at him. See, Honestly,
21:55
Speaker 1: did I just say it could be a fifth grade boyfriend.
21:57
Speaker 1: I don't give a I shouldn't have said TV. That's
21:58
Speaker 1: why I funked up wind. The truth is it could
22:02
Speaker 1: be a nigger at work right at CVS. I'm not
22:05
Speaker 1: going in that CVS. No more, I don't want to
22:07
Speaker 1: have to look his eyes so that he could have
22:11
Speaker 1: done it on your face and something like because I
22:14
Speaker 1: know how you because we have sex, so I know
22:17
Speaker 1: I'll be saying I know what you'd be doing. I
22:19
Speaker 1: know exactly what happens. So I'm not going to that CVS. Well,
22:23
Speaker 1: he different, Let's talk, Kenneth, Go ahead, Kenneth. Like I said,
22:28
Speaker 1: I'm a realist, right, he knows this because I'm like
22:30
Speaker 1: a very I'm a very straight shooter, very very real
22:35
Speaker 1: I know that if you if you didn't talk to
22:36
Speaker 1: a nigger, there's probably a good ch answer to you.
22:39
Speaker 1: And stuff to Dick is what it is. That's what
22:41
Speaker 1: But you see how even though he's a realist, it's
22:44
Speaker 1: something about the dick suck that you know. I wasn't
22:47
Speaker 1: I was saying. I was saying that because we have
22:49
Speaker 1: been I'm saying telling me before that like you'd be like,
22:52
Speaker 1: I mean, she probably she probably did something about the
22:55
Speaker 1: dick sucks like that. But that's the reality of the situation.
23:00
Speaker 1: Guess what, I hae a bit, you know what I'm saying.
23:03
Speaker 1: So it's just an age. I mean, honestly, it just
23:06
Speaker 1: is what it is. It's like I can't change that.
23:08
Speaker 1: You can't change it. Everybody and did ship you know
23:10
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It is what it is. I'm I'm
23:12
Speaker 1: just saying, like I said, my thing, my number one
23:16
Speaker 1: thing is this, As long as you keep it straight
23:18
Speaker 1: with me, don't shoot me, no bullshit, none of that,
23:21
Speaker 1: because then that's when I cut you out. Look, let's
23:24
Speaker 1: move on to the next question. Y'all, y'all, I'm gonna
23:26
Speaker 1: tell you, sportio d you insecure. We're gonna that's what
23:30
Speaker 1: it is. And we didn't like that, won't bring that
23:32
Speaker 1: right back, and we can bring it back up just
23:36
Speaker 1: what it is, just what is, and then I'll be fine.
23:40
Speaker 1: It's about how much I like head and how with
23:44
Speaker 1: my girlfriend, how I feel when she gives me head,
23:48
Speaker 1: like if I had a girlfriend. But it's about how
23:51
Speaker 1: it makes me feel, right, that feeling that I have.
23:55
Speaker 1: You don't want the other man if I don't know know,
23:57
Speaker 1: I know, I know, like we know it happened, but
24:01
Speaker 1: I don't want to look nobody in their eyes if
24:04
Speaker 1: they had that same feeling that this is an exception,
24:07
Speaker 1: just gonna sun your luck. It's so weird. But unless
24:11
Speaker 1: y'all hair kids, I have no problem being cool with
24:15
Speaker 1: the baby daddy because something came out of it. To
24:17
Speaker 1: judge me, I don't give a funk. But and she
24:19
Speaker 1: probably sucked this more than anybody else, but something came
24:22
Speaker 1: out of it. It was for real, if he was
24:25
Speaker 1: if it was a person, he was just sliding you off.
24:27
Speaker 1: And y'alln't even had a relationship. What if she got
24:29
Speaker 1: a house out of it? What if she got a
24:31
Speaker 1: house out the head? Oh god, children, no, it could
24:36
Speaker 1: be a not so look, before we move on to
24:45
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24:53
Speaker 1: So does a woman's body count matter to you? Guys?
24:56
Speaker 1: I don't ask that question. I don't want to know
24:57
Speaker 1: what your body count. If you're a real nick tell me.
25:01
Speaker 1: I do not want to fucking no, because you do
25:03
Speaker 1: not want to know my that's weird. I'm like, don't
25:06
Speaker 1: ask me, don't ask. He want to want he want
25:09
Speaker 1: to beat you suck dick on the handstand when he
25:11
Speaker 1: snatched nobody else after prom that one time after that,
25:16
Speaker 1: it's weird. It's weird. I don't know. I don't think
25:19
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find it, But no, um, the body count.
25:24
Speaker 1: I don't ask the body count. I had one girl
25:26
Speaker 1: that told me, like when I was younger, she told me,
25:29
Speaker 1: and she was just trying to be honest, being open.
25:32
Speaker 1: We was talking and they just totally turned me off. Yeah,
25:36
Speaker 1: so I just I don't even want to know it,
25:38
Speaker 1: because you remember, the number got to stick insisted out
25:42
Speaker 1: of head situation with numbers kept fluctuating, humber going up
25:49
Speaker 1: or was it going But you know you got a
25:50
Speaker 1: motherly motherply by three. Yeah, women don't tell you the
25:55
Speaker 1: real number. I don't think any woman they do. Y'all
25:57
Speaker 1: want to know that real number? Why that's a question
26:01
Speaker 1: for you. I think that is the dumbest ship in
26:03
Speaker 1: the world. First off, So how much does looks matter?
26:06
Speaker 1: We already kind of talked about that, right, So I
26:08
Speaker 1: don't think it looks that much. That's whatever. Not that seriously,
26:11
Speaker 1: don't we got to be pretty? I like regular women.
26:16
Speaker 1: I don't want no team, give me no team. So
26:19
Speaker 1: you don't want you want regular women? What is regular men?
26:24
Speaker 1: Don't I don't want to Instagram model. I don't know
26:25
Speaker 1: that she give me a regular degular chick. She might
26:28
Speaker 1: not have might not have a big old but she
26:30
Speaker 1: might not have big old t You need a big,
26:32
Speaker 1: regular degular chick. I don't want so she wouldn't be you.
26:37
Speaker 1: You would call her a teen or you would be
26:38
Speaker 1: like my ladies and my ladies soulidfied for the beginning.
26:45
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like like like a solid, a solid saying
26:48
Speaker 1: she put on makeup that, but but you will still
26:52
Speaker 1: tell her she's a ten though, right, you're my team,
26:55
Speaker 1: so what you so Basically what I'm hearing is absolutely
27:04
Speaker 1: sound worse. No no, no, because what I'm hearing is
27:08
Speaker 1: let me Yeah, other things can make her a tend
27:12
Speaker 1: like her? Is she resourceful? You know? It's just to
27:15
Speaker 1: show empathy things like that, like aside from I feel
27:19
Speaker 1: like I feel like the looked thing like hopefully you
27:22
Speaker 1: kind of get away from that the more mature you get,
27:25
Speaker 1: because everybody, everybody's gonna give you the best initiative. You
27:28
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. First date, she gonna get you,
27:30
Speaker 1: She's gonna get her team, get your twil What the
27:32
Speaker 1: fun you look like when you take this makeup? You
27:34
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I'm getting the team. As
27:37
Speaker 1: soon as I meet you, I meet you, I'm getting
27:39
Speaker 1: a tin. You know what I'm saying, We're going the
27:40
Speaker 1: first thing. I'm getting a version of a team. All right,
27:43
Speaker 1: so this is your best What the rest look like?
27:46
Speaker 1: Let me know if I need to know if I
27:47
Speaker 1: can deal with that. Okay, you might come home, you
27:51
Speaker 1: might come home from work and you look like a six. Cool,
27:54
Speaker 1: but I know we get ready to go out, you're
27:56
Speaker 1: gonna pop out looking like a tin. So I'm cool.
28:00
Speaker 1: Okay with that? Cool? Got backed me a little bit.
28:03
Speaker 1: Just be good. Let's go figure that out. Okay, I
28:05
Speaker 1: like that. I don't be tri How about some finances.
28:09
Speaker 1: What the finances got to be? Like a woman? I
28:13
Speaker 1: ain't did it with no broke, no brokey brokey. My
28:16
Speaker 1: thing with my thing with finances? This show some effort
28:20
Speaker 1: that if you if your money sucked up and you're
28:21
Speaker 1: working on get your money fixed. Cool. I get that.
28:24
Speaker 1: What do you deal with a brokey brokey? Because you
28:27
Speaker 1: said women should deal with a brokey brokey? Right? I
28:30
Speaker 1: really don't good? You got money now nothing? So woman
28:33
Speaker 1: doesn't have to bring any money to what? So after
28:36
Speaker 1: my last relationship, I've been like learning what I liked
28:39
Speaker 1: and being honest with myself. And I said this to
28:42
Speaker 1: myself yesterday, like literally yesterday. Um, I really don't because
28:47
Speaker 1: like I like to be of use. I like to
28:51
Speaker 1: feel like you need Yeah, if you needed like so
28:56
Speaker 1: I would love like if you meet them all the
29:00
Speaker 1: other troubled criteria that I have. If you do, you
29:04
Speaker 1: ain't got no you ain't got no money. That's cool.
29:06
Speaker 1: We could got a way to make some money, you
29:09
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I could figure that out,
29:12
Speaker 1: So I don't really trip on the money looks, I don't.
29:16
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. You Like, there's certain things
29:18
Speaker 1: like you got you got to you got to have
29:21
Speaker 1: some type of order your finance, you got, you got.
29:23
Speaker 1: You just got to have the want. If you got
29:25
Speaker 1: the ambition, I'm gonna get you to know. What I'm
29:27
Speaker 1: saying is like like you can't have a job and
29:30
Speaker 1: then be sucking your money off fucking dumb ship. You
29:33
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It can't maintain your money because
29:35
Speaker 1: you miss handling your money. You know what I'm saying.
29:36
Speaker 1: If you're not regular nine to five, you make it,
29:39
Speaker 1: you come on your checko weeks and you ain't paying
29:43
Speaker 1: your bills and you're blowing the money on dumb ship.
29:45
Speaker 1: Then okay, no, I I don't. I don't care about that.
29:48
Speaker 1: But if you if you come on for work, you
29:50
Speaker 1: pay your bills up and you broke, ain't chilling about
29:53
Speaker 1: that because you're handling your money. We'll see. I don't.
29:55
Speaker 1: I don't, I ain't never had experienced that. But but
29:58
Speaker 1: my thing is like when I like when I first,
30:01
Speaker 1: when I started liking you for real, I'm gonna actually,
30:04
Speaker 1: what's your dreams? Like? What is your what is your
30:06
Speaker 1: dream anything? Because then because then when you tell me that,
30:13
Speaker 1: I can see where you're at, and I can see
30:14
Speaker 1: where you want to be, and I could see if
30:15
Speaker 1: I could be. And if you say I don't know,
30:20
Speaker 1: and you broke and you're like I don't know, then
30:24
Speaker 1: it's a dog like because you don't, you're gonna be
30:27
Speaker 1: stuck where you at for a long time. So what
30:29
Speaker 1: I'm hearing is you want a woman with ambition. Yeah,
30:33
Speaker 1: she got having, but looks I didn't like. I'm opposite
30:38
Speaker 1: of Kenny on that. I know what I like. There's
30:41
Speaker 1: certain things I like, um like you have to have
30:44
Speaker 1: full lips, like I can't get full lips. Like I
30:49
Speaker 1: think God was like cold when he made women. So
30:52
Speaker 1: like my pretty is different. Like you, I point out
30:55
Speaker 1: one and you'll be like, you think she's pretty, Like
30:58
Speaker 1: she's pretty as hell to me, Like because it's so,
31:01
Speaker 1: it's gonna be something that God just made about her.
31:03
Speaker 1: That's very pretty. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, that
31:06
Speaker 1: made me feel good. What the fun? So what I'm
31:11
Speaker 1: hearing is, y'all want intelligence, you want pretty because pretty
31:18
Speaker 1: is in the eyes of the beholder ambition. Y'all want
31:24
Speaker 1: a woman with confidence. Didn't funk Ellen Iverson, So we
31:30
Speaker 1: got to an example hopefully doesn't or money bag, money bag,
31:39
Speaker 1: And like I got a whole thing about niggas who
31:41
Speaker 1: only can get women when they got money. It's like,
31:43
Speaker 1: you know, like when you're making like some instant I
31:46
Speaker 1: don't know, gravy, you add water for gravy, you get
31:50
Speaker 1: the little powder bag of gravy. Yeah, so some of
31:53
Speaker 1: these niggas be the packets of gravy. So you add water,
31:56
Speaker 1: you add money for instant swag. You see what I'm saying.
32:00
Speaker 1: Because I feel like men should get the women, they
32:02
Speaker 1: should have the women that they were able to get
32:05
Speaker 1: before they got the money. Yeah, you see what I'm saying.
32:08
Speaker 1: I agree, it is good. That's that's that's a great theory.
32:10
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I agree with that. Before we
32:13
Speaker 1: get into anything else, let's pay some bills real quick.
32:20
Speaker 1: So a woman who's too independent to you is dealing?
32:26
Speaker 1: Oh really, so both of you. I don't like women
32:28
Speaker 1: who are independent, too independent. Excuse me? What does that mean?
32:33
Speaker 1: What's too independent? Too independents? Acting like you don't need
32:36
Speaker 1: a man? Like you can't do like what ship? I
32:40
Speaker 1: don't know. You can't got damn handle TV. Can't hug yourself.
32:43
Speaker 1: You can't hug yourself, you can you need a minute
32:47
Speaker 1: for some ship. So you you've been kind of women
32:50
Speaker 1: who say I don't need you to hug me. I
32:53
Speaker 1: have experienced that. I think a lot of women want
32:57
Speaker 1: you to know that they want you, but they don't
33:00
Speaker 1: need you, you know, And that's and that's is that
33:03
Speaker 1: a problem now? It's like it's like, like he was
33:07
Speaker 1: saying about kind of responsibility as a man, It's like,
33:10
Speaker 1: there are certain ships that you can rely on me for.
33:14
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's part of the part of the
33:16
Speaker 1: point of being in a relationship, and so some of
33:17
Speaker 1: the weight gets taken off. You want certain ships vice versa.
33:20
Speaker 1: So for example, if if your clod break that you
33:25
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, it is my job as a man.
33:28
Speaker 1: I might not know what the funk wrong, but I'm
33:30
Speaker 1: gonna look upon it hood just to see that's my responsibility.
33:34
Speaker 1: And if you know that I'm doing it, don't don't
33:36
Speaker 1: go behind Like women, I feel like the more and
33:39
Speaker 1: more often, I don't think I've talked about the type
33:41
Speaker 1: of women I like openly, and I'm starting to judge myself.
33:44
Speaker 1: But I don't give because I know what I like.
33:46
Speaker 1: If I am trying to fix your car and and
33:50
Speaker 1: I'm doing it wrong, as long as they're gonna fucking
33:54
Speaker 1: all the way up, just like, let me go, just
33:57
Speaker 1: let me not if its gonna just if it's gonna
34:02
Speaker 1: like do some some damage, damn to be like babe,
34:04
Speaker 1: hold on. But if I'm trying, don't shoot me it,
34:07
Speaker 1: don't have no nothing, nigga, come behind me and fix it.
34:09
Speaker 1: Like don't call your daddy, basically no, don't call your daddy.
34:13
Speaker 1: Of course, call your daddy. I'm talking about like a
34:15
Speaker 1: whole nother nigga. He be my homeboy, and I got
34:18
Speaker 1: to look him. No, you don't. Might have stuffed this
34:20
Speaker 1: dick now you don't it too, because how she knew him,
34:23
Speaker 1: how she knew him. I know a guy who didn't
34:26
Speaker 1: like his girl calling her dad to do nothing. That's sick,
34:29
Speaker 1: that's weird. Like I come home and he outside cutting
34:32
Speaker 1: the grass. Why is he cutting the grass? Why didn't
34:36
Speaker 1: you cut the grass? Niggas? Yeah, I see it now,
34:39
Speaker 1: I'm I'm interjected on that one. That's I feel like
34:42
Speaker 1: as a man, that's how we're so different. If he's
34:45
Speaker 1: cutting the grass, I feel like that to handle it's
34:49
Speaker 1: certain ship that maybe it's because I was raised, I
34:52
Speaker 1: make money. He's gonna cuts it's certain ship. That's that's
34:56
Speaker 1: my responsibility to handle at the crib. You know what
34:58
Speaker 1: I'm saying, cutting the gir getting the grass cut and
35:01
Speaker 1: taking the trash out ship like that. Where you are
35:05
Speaker 1: you are a great man, very traditional man. South Carolinia
35:12
Speaker 1: Kenneth is in touch with his feminine and masculine side.
35:16
Speaker 1: You see. The thing is that scourtiority. If I'm treated properly,
35:23
Speaker 1: you may be more in touched with just like I mean,
35:27
Speaker 1: we have a yeah masculine and I feel like we
35:29
Speaker 1: have like a distorted vision or idea of what a
35:34
Speaker 1: masculine and feminine should be knda, you know what I'm saying.
35:38
Speaker 1: So it's the whole thing. In a black community, nobody
35:40
Speaker 1: wants this masculine woman, right, But why are we associating
35:44
Speaker 1: masculine with like aggression. Do you want a woman that
35:48
Speaker 1: you could tell the sky is purple knowing down well
35:50
Speaker 1: it's blue, where she's like, yeah, baby, it is purple.
35:52
Speaker 1: Is that the type of woman you want, Dannie, that's
35:55
Speaker 1: what you want? You know? I don't like no. I
36:04
Speaker 1: think that I'm very in touch with my femin so
36:06
Speaker 1: I think I'm very honest. I think being macho would
36:09
Speaker 1: have been don't like she didn't know. That's not the truth.
36:15
Speaker 1: Is I care about you are being vulnerable and telling
36:18
Speaker 1: what you like like like, I am not comfortable with that.
36:22
Speaker 1: I don't have to like this is our only life
36:25
Speaker 1: we live like. I love y'all beautiful black women, y'all
36:28
Speaker 1: laughing me talk at this was listening to talk. I
36:31
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. It's my life. I'm not gonna
36:34
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. Come not watching the god them NBA finals
36:37
Speaker 1: and yourself. I've been in two situations like this in
36:42
Speaker 1: my life. I was never comfortable. I stopped watching them niggas. Bro.
36:45
Speaker 1: The reason that I am the way way I am
36:47
Speaker 1: is because there's a very good chance you could be
36:49
Speaker 1: in the same situation. She could be in the same situation.
36:52
Speaker 1: She could be, we could be. But it may be
36:55
Speaker 1: a waitress that goddamn but you but you just hit her. See, Okay,
37:02
Speaker 1: this is another thing like so just like A J said,
37:04
Speaker 1: they're not sucking very dick. So if they that's that
37:08
Speaker 1: said too. If they don't suck this dick. But how
37:12
Speaker 1: do you know my mind? You don't know you That's
37:17
Speaker 1: how women paint the picture. That's why I don't rest
37:19
Speaker 1: on it. If we are, if we are here and
37:21
Speaker 1: and this bit sucking my dick or I fucked her
37:25
Speaker 1: say this? Yeah, and this girls woman, I don't I
37:31
Speaker 1: don't give a funk about her, Like I never cared
37:34
Speaker 1: about her, but I just hit her for I'm more
37:37
Speaker 1: concerned if you've gave this bitch money? Did you? Did
37:40
Speaker 1: you give this bit some money? You cancer? So I
37:50
Speaker 1: think that I think that that's the thing is like women,
37:54
Speaker 1: and this is the old this is old too. So
37:56
Speaker 1: like young girls, they sucked it way faster than than
38:00
Speaker 1: something before they do anything before anything, So now my
38:03
Speaker 1: theory is probably stated, but if you don't suck this
38:06
Speaker 1: man dick, then it was deeper. So that's why I
38:10
Speaker 1: ain't really comes definitely outdated. Yeah, but if if if,
38:14
Speaker 1: if it's a girl in the vicinity that I funked
38:16
Speaker 1: with men, we don't really funk with feelings like that
38:20
Speaker 1: in all situations, true, So it's like you ain't even
38:22
Speaker 1: got nothing to worry about, like like I'll tell I, like,
38:28
Speaker 1: fuck her. You know what I'm saying, Like what y'all
38:30
Speaker 1: probably feel the same way, but in my head, it
38:33
Speaker 1: just ain't clicked like that. Let's be honest, all right,
38:36
Speaker 1: So what if if it was it was feeling you
38:39
Speaker 1: ask is up there? What it was asid like, yeah,
38:49
Speaker 1: they have the chance, you ain't this? There was excuse
38:52
Speaker 1: this woman, then there was I think it's the same thing.
38:59
Speaker 1: I think if you don't ate some masks, then you
39:01
Speaker 1: really funk with that person. Everybody, every dog and hair
39:04
Speaker 1: of that day had the moment I'm gonna think about
39:07
Speaker 1: this and I'm gonna actually contact y'all again, because because
39:10
Speaker 1: after after this, y'all had this on my mind for
39:12
Speaker 1: the rest of my day. No, lie, let me thinking
39:13
Speaker 1: like damn do I really care? Could I get past it?
39:16
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you. You should be able to get
39:18
Speaker 1: pants at especially at your age. The age don't don't
39:21
Speaker 1: do nothing. It does. It's just because you're gonna continuously,
39:25
Speaker 1: especially then your age range. Yeah, they have life experiences,
39:30
Speaker 1: so I know they Suth did. The fact that you're
39:35
Speaker 1: su Dick is cool, but it's about I don't like,
39:39
Speaker 1: I do not want to be in close proximity habitually
39:44
Speaker 1: with somebody who did yourself. That's fair, but see I wanted,
39:50
Speaker 1: like I want, I want to know that you did it,
39:54
Speaker 1: so that I know when I'm walking into the situation
39:56
Speaker 1: I ain't walking in, I ain't walking in blind, and
39:58
Speaker 1: I could that may make it easier. I ain't walking
40:01
Speaker 1: in blind, I ain't walking in. And then and then
40:03
Speaker 1: you walk up and be like, then now I got
40:06
Speaker 1: the process all this in this nick face. I think, now,
40:08
Speaker 1: how would we know? Like, how would I know? You
40:11
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you that? I mean there's a
40:13
Speaker 1: possibility like if the person you know that you know
40:15
Speaker 1: what type of circles the nigga used to mess with
40:16
Speaker 1: movie then so if a woman likes you, then she'd
40:19
Speaker 1: have to lie to you. If a woman really likes
40:21
Speaker 1: you and wants your relationships advance, she you're not because
40:24
Speaker 1: when when when somebody's not If you're not putting somebody
40:27
Speaker 1: in the position to be comfortable to tell you the truth,
40:29
Speaker 1: what you're doing is putting them in the position to
40:30
Speaker 1: lie to you. We like each other. You you, you're
40:34
Speaker 1: we're investing in each other emotionally, physically, maybe financially, gifts
40:38
Speaker 1: and ship like that. And now like damn, I did
40:41
Speaker 1: used to work with this person all right, Like like yo,
40:43
Speaker 1: I saw him that up in the club. Like at
40:46
Speaker 1: one point, I ain't gonna say nothing. I ain't see it.
40:49
Speaker 1: I think that, um, you should be comfortable. I feel
40:54
Speaker 1: like if you don't, if you if you don't tell
40:56
Speaker 1: the nigga, you don't, I feel like, if you can't
40:58
Speaker 1: be honest with that nigga, you don't really fuck like that.
41:01
Speaker 1: But when you have a judge, guy, it makes it
41:04
Speaker 1: hard because I mean, but I'm not just saying you.
41:08
Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad that you that's the chance
41:10
Speaker 1: you take this. I don't think you're a bad person.
41:13
Speaker 1: It's just a woman for you. No, No, you're a
41:15
Speaker 1: great woman. You're still a queen. You're a beautiful I
41:18
Speaker 1: wish your best. It's not I wish you the best.
41:23
Speaker 1: It's not comfortable for me. It really has nothing to
41:26
Speaker 1: do with the woman. I'm glad you brought it up
41:28
Speaker 1: so I could be clear for the listeners. It really
41:31
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with the woman. The woman is
41:33
Speaker 1: still golden and she is somebody's queen to be. For me,
41:37
Speaker 1: I am not comfort it's what I don't fight what
41:40
Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with. I'm not the person that's gonna
41:42
Speaker 1: come to your house for your function, and I feel
41:44
Speaker 1: like I got to stay at least an hour. If
41:46
Speaker 1: I'm ready to leave in ten minutes, I'm out. I
41:47
Speaker 1: don't do nothing all yeah, like yeah, And if you
41:52
Speaker 1: ain't like it, don't fighting back. I don't. I don't
41:54
Speaker 1: live uncomfortable in no situation because life is just too
41:57
Speaker 1: too beautiful. So if I'm gonna be uncomfortable, then no,
42:01
Speaker 1: I want to feel like I know everything about the woman.
42:05
Speaker 1: That look, if I really funk with you, because I
42:06
Speaker 1: gonna be honest, like I don't overlook some ship before that.
42:09
Speaker 1: I'm saying right now that I wouldn't. So if I
42:11
Speaker 1: really fun with you, I'm gonna overlook it. I just
42:13
Speaker 1: got to note, like Kenny saying, so that whenever that
42:16
Speaker 1: ship come up, he's like, it should don't matter to me,
42:20
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But it's like if you're
42:25
Speaker 1: like solid as hell, it's like it's like a balanced being.
42:29
Speaker 1: Like if you solid as ship, you're loyal and ambitious
42:31
Speaker 1: as hell. But I'm be honest. You know, you know
42:36
Speaker 1: DJ Song, so that you might funck with or whatever.
42:38
Speaker 1: I used to fun with him, then I ain't gonna
42:40
Speaker 1: give a funk because the other ship is outweighed. That
42:43
Speaker 1: makes sense. So you're wiping up somebody you on the
42:46
Speaker 1: first date? Yeah, because I think I'm so sexy that
42:52
Speaker 1: it wasn't their fault that they sucked me. It was mine.
42:55
Speaker 1: It was my cologne, it was how I walked. I'm
42:59
Speaker 1: just I'm being honest, Bro, I don't blame you. I
43:04
Speaker 1: would me too. The first thing you're talking about, Yeah,
43:08
Speaker 1: it wasn't her fault. She tried, she didn't want to,
43:11
Speaker 1: but it was just something that was too much. So
43:13
Speaker 1: a lot of your rules are surrounded by sex. It
43:16
Speaker 1: seems like, Yeah, like these folks. The very first thing
43:29
Speaker 1: he said where she got to have sloppy head. So
43:33
Speaker 1: we got to get back to that. So that's important,
43:36
Speaker 1: very important. Head is important. Yes, I don't want to dry.
43:40
Speaker 1: I don't want to te tefe tee explain to our listeners.
43:50
Speaker 1: I just made up. But no, yeah, um, not a
43:53
Speaker 1: lot of teeth like you got to you got to
43:56
Speaker 1: be you know good. I don't even like I watched porn.
43:59
Speaker 1: I don't even watch fucking parts. I only watch slop
44:03
Speaker 1: your head. So if you met a woman that check
44:07
Speaker 1: your boxes, you met a woman who checked all your
44:10
Speaker 1: boxes in every single capacity. Oh no, don't say it,
44:14
Speaker 1: except except what head is as her mouth just naturally dry?
44:19
Speaker 1: Or does she know the technique, because then if she
44:28
Speaker 1: her mouth is not dry, Oh, it's not if he
44:32
Speaker 1: just doesn't know how. Because let's say a woman, a
44:37
Speaker 1: woman is probably going to give your head the way
44:39
Speaker 1: she gave the last niggerhead how he liked it, until
44:42
Speaker 1: you teach her what you like. Oh my god, you're
44:44
Speaker 1: just scarding me. I never thought about that. I know,
44:50
Speaker 1: I've never thought of that in my life. Oh I
44:53
Speaker 1: can't do this no more. Man, I mean I am hurt,
45:00
Speaker 1: oh a lot, I'm stressed. I never thought about that.
45:05
Speaker 1: I don't agree that before, I don't always agree with you.
45:09
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I've heard from girls
45:12
Speaker 1: that like if they'll ask the big sisters or other cases,
45:16
Speaker 1: they'll give each other advice and exactly, but the man
45:20
Speaker 1: is going to determine exactly what is good to him.
45:23
Speaker 1: So I feel like, and she's gonna take what she
45:25
Speaker 1: learned between her man into her next But every man
45:33
Speaker 1: don't like the same thing. So like if she do
45:35
Speaker 1: it in the circles, then a lot of spit, then
45:42
Speaker 1: all that was like, but no, but no, but nah.
45:55
Speaker 1: But most women ask how you like it? They're gonna
45:59
Speaker 1: ask that, like I like to, I just need to
46:04
Speaker 1: be quiet. No, just say it. You already said everything.
46:10
Speaker 1: I'd like to talk to sex, so I want to
46:11
Speaker 1: know what I'm getting into. Fight and waste my time,
46:14
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So you got to talk
46:17
Speaker 1: about it. You don't feel like a woman can talk.
46:19
Speaker 1: You can talk to the game and be like some
46:21
Speaker 1: being on some bullshut. Some women have that. That's why
46:25
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. You might catch me on the off day.
46:27
Speaker 1: Their mouth don't produce salava. You gotta choke him, you
46:31
Speaker 1: gotta stick all that. We know that trick, but all
46:37
Speaker 1: of them, some of them just don't have it. It
46:39
Speaker 1: ain't in there, and then the ones I stay away from.
46:42
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out. Y'all have like such
46:44
Speaker 1: huge requirements from here, but what is your head? Like?
46:47
Speaker 1: You know, are you providing the same things that you require?
46:50
Speaker 1: We call it router to the tutor, And like that
46:56
Speaker 1: made me want to poon a little bit. I don't
46:58
Speaker 1: really like them to that. You want the agent, Yes,
47:04
Speaker 1: it's like, please don't no, but no, I mean you
47:12
Speaker 1: got to match it nasty. Would you guys date strippers? Seriously?
47:16
Speaker 1: No one Nigga said no, No, I'm not doing that.
47:22
Speaker 1: She did. I just feel like, I don't know if
47:26
Speaker 1: I got a problem with that. So you won't date
47:30
Speaker 1: a girl who knows but she can show her asking
47:33
Speaker 1: the pole every day. She can't know. She can't strip
47:37
Speaker 1: up until she meet me, and then I got to
47:39
Speaker 1: change her life. What. I don't care if you'll click.
47:45
Speaker 1: I don't care if nobody understands me. There is the
47:49
Speaker 1: bottom line. You don't understand you. I'm telling you. I
47:55
Speaker 1: get exactly what I'm saying. He knows me. I get exactly. Yeah,
48:03
Speaker 1: you can meet together, take her number and like date
48:09
Speaker 1: her serious, like like if I took her number. We
48:11
Speaker 1: go out and she's like, you know, I've been dancing,
48:13
Speaker 1: you know, you know. But really what I want to
48:15
Speaker 1: do is I have this whole line of kinds of
48:17
Speaker 1: process and I want to travel. You're gonna tell the quick,
48:19
Speaker 1: You're gonna tell the quarter quick. We're about about to
48:21
Speaker 1: do this talk about have ambition. He was like, what. Now,
48:26
Speaker 1: here's the thing how I feel about women who was stripped.
48:28
Speaker 1: I feel like the most promiscuous women are not the
48:31
Speaker 1: ones that be stripping anything standards and the bottle girls.
48:36
Speaker 1: It's the bottle girls exactly. The bitches on the pole
48:39
Speaker 1: be having hell of standards. All right, you gott at
48:42
Speaker 1: least how that check something A right? So we have
48:45
Speaker 1: this um segment called dumb Bitch. Stories are SIMP series
48:50
Speaker 1: and it's where a woman or a man shares to
48:53
Speaker 1: tell with us of them being played by the opposite
48:57
Speaker 1: sex in some type of way. Can y'all share story
49:00
Speaker 1: with us that has happened, because everybody has been played
49:03
Speaker 1: in some way before SI series? How was you a
49:10
Speaker 1: sent one time? Sporty? What's your story? Um? So I
49:15
Speaker 1: think this is what like made me a little colder.
49:18
Speaker 1: It made me just like really tap into what I wanted.
49:21
Speaker 1: It wasn't It was in the eighth grade. In the
49:24
Speaker 1: eight grade. It was a girl. I asked you to
49:27
Speaker 1: go to the eighth grade social with me, and she
49:29
Speaker 1: said yes, and I was on cloud nine and so
49:33
Speaker 1: she says, We're going to the social. We go to
49:34
Speaker 1: the social. Everything was fine. I wasn't really like fast
49:38
Speaker 1: back there. You know, some niggas was like fucking get
49:40
Speaker 1: hit and ship. So it was like, I think it
49:42
Speaker 1: was a perfect time where I could have fucked I
49:45
Speaker 1: got some head, but I just didn't you know what
49:47
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We was like locked out the house and
49:49
Speaker 1: we sat outside of my house for like an hour,
49:51
Speaker 1: so we could have like snuck off this some ship,
49:53
Speaker 1: but I just wasn't advanced like that, right. So um,
49:58
Speaker 1: we get back to school, boom. I just feel I'm
50:00
Speaker 1: such that nigga for taking to the to the social
50:03
Speaker 1: and then we get to my nigga. I go to
50:05
Speaker 1: my nigga house afterwards and he's like, man, we've been
50:07
Speaker 1: talking ship, but she's been trying to play you. I'm like,
50:09
Speaker 1: what you mean? He So he calls her on on
50:12
Speaker 1: three way and I'm listening and he was like, yeah,
50:16
Speaker 1: so I know you went to the social with my
50:18
Speaker 1: nigga's sports. She was like, oh, I just went to
50:20
Speaker 1: the social with him because I felt bad for him
50:22
Speaker 1: for asking me and I didn't want to tell him though,
50:24
Speaker 1: and it broke my heart. It's funked up after that.
50:28
Speaker 1: Fuck you girl, you know when it's nigga for all
50:30
Speaker 1: these other women. Right, I'm better now though you've healed. Yeah,
50:37
Speaker 1: I'm really a great guy, y'all. Story, No, I was
50:42
Speaker 1: cold that now now, y'all not paying for this, But
50:46
Speaker 1: them girls in high school, they paid every bit of
50:49
Speaker 1: that ship. I have such a better story. Let's hear it,
50:53
Speaker 1: all right, So go back in my high school days.
50:56
Speaker 1: I was an all TC. So that just shows you
50:58
Speaker 1: my live what I would I had back one of
51:02
Speaker 1: the baddest in school in high school, Cloud nine. She
51:05
Speaker 1: was a home and anybody till this is bad. This
51:08
Speaker 1: is what timed to cold I school after that, and
51:11
Speaker 1: it might tell me. So he was kicking. We're on
51:15
Speaker 1: the phone and like I'm getting ready to go over there.
51:18
Speaker 1: Her sister comes in the room and she's like I
51:21
Speaker 1: want the phone. She's like, no, I'm not getting off
51:22
Speaker 1: the phone. She was like, if you don't give me
51:26
Speaker 1: the phone, I'm gonna tell mama you had that boy
51:28
Speaker 1: over here that I was at home. No, my girlfriend,
51:34
Speaker 1: I was at home. After that, After that, I school, Yo,
51:43
Speaker 1: let you go out last night? No, I ain't go
51:45
Speaker 1: no one. I'm gonna tell mom you had that blow
51:47
Speaker 1: over here last night. I'm like, what I dropped? Huh?
51:54
Speaker 1: Then I started to five out. Then I start No,
51:57
Speaker 1: Niga tried to fight me over that girl, like Nick
52:00
Speaker 1: that lived down the street. Try to fight me with
52:01
Speaker 1: the girl. It was both of your girlfriend, man, he
52:03
Speaker 1: could have she she was nasty that early. Another thing,
52:10
Speaker 1: remember when I told you this too in high school
52:12
Speaker 1: whenever I accidentally had two girlfriends because I didn't want
52:15
Speaker 1: to break up with the one girl. But she went. Now,
52:18
Speaker 1: I promise it was. It's a long time ago. I
52:21
Speaker 1: would tell y'a if I was trying to be a player.
52:23
Speaker 1: So then my girl, my girlfriend that I really really
52:26
Speaker 1: liked that within school with me, she found out. So
52:29
Speaker 1: then I spent the whole year trying to get him back,
52:30
Speaker 1: trying to get it back and get it back. We
52:32
Speaker 1: go to the prom right after prim I'm thinking, I'm
52:36
Speaker 1: gonna fuck. Do you know what she said to me? Or?
52:39
Speaker 1: Can you drop me off with my boyfriend? Do you
52:43
Speaker 1: know what I did? You know what I did? I
52:46
Speaker 1: dropped off? I mean what else could you do? Y'all
52:50
Speaker 1: wonder why I got all of these guys there at Nigger.
52:56
Speaker 1: That's a real step story, so dumb. Really, I dropped off.
53:04
Speaker 1: I don't remember we said by not because that would
53:06
Speaker 1: be weird, but I think she might have just got
53:09
Speaker 1: out the car. You remember they all listen to say,
53:12
Speaker 1: you know, they all come back, and any girl to
53:16
Speaker 1: ever disrespect that they all come back in college. All right, guys,
53:21
Speaker 1: I feel like we got a whole lot of you
53:27
Speaker 1: don't feel like we're coming anything anything. This is this
53:32
Speaker 1: is one we could have said in five minutes, but
53:33
Speaker 1: he was having fun. Guys just want somebody solid. They
53:37
Speaker 1: want somebody that they feel it just for them, and
53:40
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna hold it down for them, no matter what
53:43
Speaker 1: they got, no matter if we up, were down, if
53:45
Speaker 1: we're down, you're gonna help help me, help us get
53:48
Speaker 1: back up. And if we up, you can help me
53:50
Speaker 1: spend it. And that's just it. That's it. Don't really
53:54
Speaker 1: end she got to have full lips, and and you
53:57
Speaker 1: got to get your head and look look at me
54:00
Speaker 1: in my eyes while you do it. And they're gonna
54:04
Speaker 1: handstand never full. And I were sending money back, yo,
54:08
Speaker 1: just those two though. It's just those two. You know.
54:15
Speaker 1: That's also all right? Ladies, there you have it. That's
54:19
Speaker 1: your list, So do what you will with that information.
54:23
Speaker 1: I don't know. And just as lost as that was,
54:30
Speaker 1: I feel like it was so clear. Listen. So the
54:33
Speaker 1: bottom line is men are just as complicated as the word,
54:39
Speaker 1: the really common word, but you cannot tell anybody what
54:45
Speaker 1: the definition is unless you use Google. These niggas are complex.
54:49
Speaker 1: I think that's why I've been talking in circles. I
54:52
Speaker 1: don't know what I want to the calm everything I said,
54:56
Speaker 1: and listen. And also this is what men also do.
54:59
Speaker 1: And I talked to him about this earlier. The women
55:02
Speaker 1: that got away, right, y'all want to take small fragments
55:06
Speaker 1: of them, and y'all want that and one person it's impossible,
55:09
Speaker 1: but like women, you can't do it. You're gonna have
55:13
Speaker 1: to have some things that you don't like, including in
55:17
Speaker 1: the person that you do. So twenties, what you're saying yes, Yes,
55:21
Speaker 1: where's Kevin Samans when you need him? Women, thank y'all
55:29
Speaker 1: for coming on. Really appreciate it, very very fun. Definitely
55:33
Speaker 1: enjoyed myself. Two women are wonderful your queens and you
55:36
Speaker 1: are a brilli paving a way for the future of
55:38
Speaker 1: the woman. Thank you so much. No problem at all.
55:42
Speaker 1: I love all rappers and NBA players. Yeah, book y'all
55:50
Speaker 1: come to a party. Y'all acting extra sticey towards him, right.
55:54
Speaker 1: I love you guys. You guys, your job is hard,
55:56
Speaker 1: and I understand that. We appreciate you so much. I
55:59
Speaker 1: have no problem with anyway. A real quick uh Sporty
56:02
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56:08
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56:11
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56:21
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56:23
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56:31
Speaker 1: behind presidential movement, entertainment, who's throwing some of the biggest
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56:57
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Speaker 1: That's all I got. I really enjoyed you guys. I
57:27
Speaker 1: love to get the black man perspective because you know,
57:31
Speaker 1: we got a lot of funk up ship going on
57:32
Speaker 1: in the black community. Man. The bottom line is, how
57:35
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57:43
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