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QVC’s Mally Roncal on Beyoncé, Boogers and Why Every Minute Is an 'I Choose Me' Moment · I Choose Me with Jennie Garth

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  Speaker 1: You're listening to I Choose Me with Jenny Garland. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to I Choose Me. Okay, I am buzzing today. Such
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  Speaker 1: a fun friend of mine is on the show, Mally Roncal,
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  Speaker 1: a QVC sister, celebrity makeup artist, author, designer, and just
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  Speaker 1: an all-around beautiful human being. She is going to knock
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  Speaker 1: your socks off with her inspiration and competence building encouragement.
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  Speaker 1: You will love my chat with Mally. How long have
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  Speaker 1: we known each other now? Because I came to the
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  Speaker 1: Q in 2023, but did we know each other before that?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think we did. I think I thought that
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  Speaker 2: we did and I pretended that we did. And then
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  Speaker 2: I would send you emails like we did so I
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  Speaker 2: could get you on Over 50 and Fabulous. But then,
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  Speaker 2: but we didn't really. And then I was like, just kidding.
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  Speaker 2: We just met, but we're best friends already. We are. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of love that way of meeting someone when
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  Speaker 1: you meet someone and they just act like they are
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  Speaker 1: your best friend already. Then you just wait, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you don't. You save all that time.
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  Speaker 2: Actually getting to know each other.
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  Speaker 1: You just jump right in.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you have that, Jenny. You have that thing.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's just because we've all known
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  Speaker 2: you our whole lives, but it's also just the fact
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  Speaker 2: that you have this heart that's so beautiful and delicious
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  Speaker 2: and real that maybe the whole world just wants to
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  Speaker 2: think that they already knew you, even though we didn't.
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  Speaker 2: Did you get your makeup done?
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  Speaker 1: No, I did it myself, Mally Roncal. Do you like it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I did it. I tried extra hard for you today.
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  Speaker 2: You killed it, girlfriend. Wait, you know what, though? I
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  Speaker 2: do have to say I do not think I've ever
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  Speaker 2: done your makeup, which I think is a little bit
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  Speaker 2: of an insult to me on your part.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. I've just never wanted to bother you
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  Speaker 1: and say, can you do it? You're a busy lady.
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  Speaker 2: I know, but look at that face I'm looking at.
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  Speaker 2: Although when we come rolling into the queue sometimes, we're
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  Speaker 2: both just kind of like those dogs that didn't want
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  Speaker 2: to die.
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  Speaker 1: Puffy and just asleep.
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  Speaker 2: How is that for you with all your traveling? Have
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  Speaker 2: you figured out a good routine? I went to QVC
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  Speaker 2: UK for I think 18 years, I went back and
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  Speaker 2: forth to London every other month.
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  Speaker 1: For Mally Beauty?
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  Speaker 2: For Mally Beauty, yeah. And it got to the point
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  Speaker 2: where it was almost like autopilot, which was in a
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  Speaker 2: weird way, as hard as it was, it was almost comforting.
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  Speaker 2: Like it was like, we take this plane, we go
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  Speaker 2: to this place, we go, I eat this breakfast. It's
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  Speaker 2: like this, you know, it's a little ground huggy day,
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  Speaker 2: but it makes you feel like, It's okay that you're
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  Speaker 2: doing this crazy life.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it is very taxing, you know, physically, mentally, emotionally,
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  Speaker 1: all the things. Because you stop your life every couple
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  Speaker 1: weeks and go into a bubble, a QVC bubble, where
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  Speaker 1: it is the same routine and wacky hours. Yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: you just get off your like wellness routine.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So it's challenging for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. And that's the thing you just, I guess it's
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  Speaker 2: those little things that you can do for yourself. I
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  Speaker 2: guess health wise, mental health wise, right? That will help you.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously you have your Dottie and your Lola and you
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  Speaker 2: have this like little love tribe that travels with you.
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  Speaker 2: I imagine that that's, Like a non-negotiable for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is because it keeps me, you know,
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  Speaker 1: in my own body.
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  Speaker 2: It keeps me grounded. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You want to know.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. Sorry. I'm interviewing you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Do you want to know one of
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  Speaker 1: the things that I adore about you is that you
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  Speaker 1: wear all of your jewelry at once.
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  Speaker 2: I knew that was coming. I will tell you I'm
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  Speaker 2: embarrassed because you have two bare fingers. embarrassing and a pinky. However,
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  Speaker 2: I did go extra on the necklaces and extra large earrings.
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  Speaker 2: You look great.
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  Speaker 1: Do you ever take it all off?
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  Speaker 2: I do. I take it all off every night.
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  Speaker 1: Every night? How long does that take?
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  Speaker 2: So the secret is I have a couple of secrets.
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  Speaker 2: Number one, I have a few ring piles. So little
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  Speaker 2: bowls at the bathroom sink that I just rip off
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  Speaker 2: the rings and throw them in. Like there's no like
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  Speaker 2: putting it away. Right, right, right. There's none of that.
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  Speaker 2: It's like off. The bracelets, the whole idea is you
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  Speaker 2: peel them off. You don't have to do, you know, clasping.
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  Speaker 2: And the necklaces, the secret to the necklaces are magnets, right?
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  Speaker 2: So this, okay, okay. Let me show you a trick.
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  Speaker 1: What? Oh my God. Okay. I imagine them all individual.
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  Speaker 2: No, they're all held together by a magnet, as you
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  Speaker 2: can see. So we have three necklaces and they're all
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  Speaker 2: together by one magnet. If you're not watching this, they're
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  Speaker 2: all together. And then they just go like that. So
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  Speaker 2: three off at one time.
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  Speaker 1: My mind is blown. How many do you have on
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  Speaker 1: right now?
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  Speaker 2: Two sets of three? Well, these are all individual magnets
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  Speaker 2: because you can do that too. So yeah, technically two
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  Speaker 2: sets of three.
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  Speaker 1: Where do you get the magnets? Give us a little.
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  Speaker 2: I got them on Amazon.
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  Speaker 1: And they are good.
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  Speaker 2: And they're great. And they're strong because, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 2: a beast. Like I don't, when I come to hug you,
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  Speaker 2: it is an attack of all bodies and hair flying
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  Speaker 2: and All of it. So they hang on there. They're on.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh. You just gave the best tip.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks. Listen, I'm a non-gatekeeper girl's girl to the core.
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  Speaker 2: To the core. I will tell you everything. Hello, girl moms.
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  Speaker 1: You have three girls.
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  Speaker 2: So, yeah. I know.
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  Speaker 1: Beautiful girls.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the thing. Thank you. You have three. obviously
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  Speaker 2: beautiful daughters. And it's just the greatest thing in the world.
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  Speaker 2: But that's why I think God gave me daughters because
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  Speaker 2: I've always been that person. Like number one, okay, two things.
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  Speaker 2: I've always been extra, worn every bit of jewelry all
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  Speaker 2: at the same time every day. Like even when I
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  Speaker 2: was like seven, right?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 2: So I was like a little drag queen in fourth grade.
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  Speaker 2: I would just go to school with all my stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Some people found it a little off-putting, but I honestly
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  Speaker 2: never cared. And I think it took me to get
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  Speaker 2: to 50, not that I'm just kind of jumping around,
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  Speaker 2: but to finally realize that it is okay and I
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  Speaker 2: don't have to be ashamed of it. It's you.
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  Speaker 1: It's Mally.
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  Speaker 2: It is. And whether you like it or not, this
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  Speaker 2: is what we get.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. You're the best about talking about the
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  Speaker 1: reality of I've seen this on your socials and we've
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  Speaker 1: talked about it in person. The haters, you know, the
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  Speaker 1: negative people that like to chime in for whatever reason.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Because you have them, but you talk about them. You
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  Speaker 1: say enough people. And you also talk about ways to
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  Speaker 1: like not let it affect us. Yeah. How do you
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  Speaker 1: do that?
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  Speaker 2: So look, it's impossible to, to be immune, you know,
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  Speaker 2: at a certain point, sure, it hurts to have someone
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  Speaker 2: who especially doesn't know you, right, say things about you.
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  Speaker 2: I just saw a fabulous quote from our one and
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  Speaker 2: only Dolly Parton. There are people who don't like me
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  Speaker 2: or people who don't, you know, like I guess you
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  Speaker 2: would just call them haters. And does it bother me?
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't bother me with the people who don't know me.
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  Speaker 2: That's the thing. If you know me and there's something
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  Speaker 2: that that bothers me. But for people who don't know
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  Speaker 2: who I really am, who don't know my heart and
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  Speaker 2: think it doesn't bother me at all. And here's the
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  Speaker 2: thing about you don't have to be on. This is
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  Speaker 2: the sad part of the world. You don't have to
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  Speaker 2: be on TV. You don't have to be, you know,
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  Speaker 2: out there or whatever. Everybody's got a hater. And that's
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  Speaker 2: I started to notice now, like it could be, you know. Paulina,
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  Speaker 2: who works at the grocery store, for whatever reason, she
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  Speaker 2: just does not know you. She does not like you.
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  Speaker 2: When you come in, she's going to roll her eyes.
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  Speaker 2: She's going to be like, oh, here she comes again.
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  Speaker 2: Because they see something in you that for whatever reason
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  Speaker 2: they're missing and they don't understand it. And they don't
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  Speaker 2: understand it. And so for those people, yes, it can
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  Speaker 2: be hurtful at times. But I'm really over that now. Honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I do not care. If anything, I kind
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  Speaker 2: of giggle a little bit because they say just such
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  Speaker 2: awful things. And sometimes they're quite creative. And I'm kind
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  Speaker 2: of like, okay, that was a good one. But it's
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  Speaker 2: because for whatever reason, they're hurting. And We all know
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  Speaker 2: hurt people hurt people. And, you know, so I just
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  Speaker 2: pray for them because that's all I can really.
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  Speaker 1: That's all you can do. Your mission has always been
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  Speaker 1: to help women feel confident.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Right. And just uplift them. What's the biggest thing in
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  Speaker 1: your mind that is holding women back from believing in
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  Speaker 1: themselves or loving themselves?
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  Speaker 2: I think actually there's a few things. Um, I think
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  Speaker 2: that this is not really answering your question.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry.
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  Speaker 2: But I think the number one thing that stops women
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  Speaker 2: from stepping into their own power, which will then help
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  Speaker 2: them believe in themselves and live their best life, is
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  Speaker 2: that fear of what are people going to say? You know,
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  Speaker 2: that's why, again, I love every year, every day I
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  Speaker 2: get older, I give less Fs about what somebody thinks.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't that the best? Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I love it so much.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard to get there, but it's weird. Like when
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  Speaker 1: you turn 50, all of a sudden that starts happening naturally. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It's almost like God's little gift. He's like, I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to sag your boobs, but I'm going to give you
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  Speaker 2: so much confidence. I'm going to give you so much confidence.
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  Speaker 1: I think maybe we have to have more confidence just
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  Speaker 1: to kind of balance the drooping aspect. That gravity is
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  Speaker 1: having with us.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm confident. Yes. But it's true, right? I think
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  Speaker 2: that is what it is, is we just have earned that.
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  Speaker 2: And I think when we stop worrying so much about
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  Speaker 2: what people think and then realizing too that they're really
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  Speaker 2: not looking at us. They're looking, they've got their own
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  Speaker 2: things that they're worried about. I think that's what... doesn't
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  Speaker 2: really allow women to feel as powerful and as strong.
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  Speaker 2: And that's another thing. I think we also spend our
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  Speaker 2: whole lives, for the most part, being people pleasers and servers, right?
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  Speaker 2: Like you're taking care of your significant other, your best friend,
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  Speaker 2: your kids.
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  Speaker 1: It's unfortunately just like a societal normal.
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  Speaker 2: Correct.
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  Speaker 1: No matter what, that's kind of ingrained in us as women.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. It's like that's what you're put on this
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  Speaker 2: earth to do and put yourself not even second or third,
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  Speaker 2: but like all the way at the end of the list.
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  Speaker 1: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: And I think that that's what as we get older
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  Speaker 2: and we realize that we have less summers, as we say,
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  Speaker 2: than we had. before, which when I even say that,
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  Speaker 2: I start to get tears in my eyes because I just,
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  Speaker 2: I don't, there's so much more I want to do.
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  Speaker 2: And there's so much more I want to see. And
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  Speaker 2: I want to, you know, and Bill's, you know, 10
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  Speaker 2: years older than I am. And there's all of that
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  Speaker 2: other stuff, which again, just kind of starts to like
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  Speaker 2: make me feel. But that's also the other thing that
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  Speaker 2: makes me say yes to everything and be a maniac
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  Speaker 2: about living life.
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  Speaker 1: You are a maniac about living life. I love that
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  Speaker 1: about you.
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  Speaker 2: It's very true. I do. I think that that's something that,
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  Speaker 2: you know, not to, you know, I always talk about
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  Speaker 2: my mom because she was an inspiration to me and
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  Speaker 2: the fact that she, well, because she was sick with
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  Speaker 2: cancer my entire life from one to 17, and technically
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  Speaker 2: she was supposed to pass away before I even turned
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  Speaker 2: one or right after I turned one. And she lived
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  Speaker 2: all those years. She was the inspiration of, yes, let's
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  Speaker 2: do it now. Yes, let's not wait because we don't
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  Speaker 2: have much time. We don't know how much time we have.
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  Speaker 1: That's how you grew up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Which was a blessing and a curse.
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  Speaker 1: Why is it a curse?
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  Speaker 2: Because there's always a little bit of fear attached to
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  Speaker 2: that adventure. You know, like, was this going to be
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  Speaker 2: the last vacation? Was this going to be the last
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  Speaker 2: shopping spree? Was this going to be the last, you know,
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  Speaker 2: drive through the country to look at the trees and
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  Speaker 2: the leaves? You know, there was always that feeling. So.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I've realized, too, now getting older and my
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  Speaker 2: dad's a psychiatrist. So we're always he's always analyzing me,
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  Speaker 2: which is.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I love that.
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  Speaker 2: I know. So it's great. But it's because of the
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  Speaker 2: fact that, you know, I was never I never knew
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  Speaker 2: what the last day was going to be. So I
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  Speaker 2: had to make sure that she was happy all the time.
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  Speaker 2: which then led to the people pleasing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it's a cycle. I see. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Do you feel like, because with your three girls, do
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you've been able to change that sort
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  Speaker 1: of that fear-based thinking for them with them?
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  Speaker 2: Yes and no. I definitely have, you know, I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if you see on the Instagram. That Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: That's what we call it.
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  Speaker 2: The Facebook, the Instagram. I don't know. Those funny videos
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  Speaker 2: like where the mom is like. don't go there. You'll
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  Speaker 2: be raped. Or, you know, like if you walk into
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  Speaker 2: that store or whatever, they're going to drop a roofie
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  Speaker 2: in your Coca-Cola. And then, you know, you know, that
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  Speaker 2: is definitely me. Yeah. And that's, I know it's, it's so,
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  Speaker 2: it is not good because they're, you know, but, but
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  Speaker 2: luckily I will on the other side, I always say like,
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  Speaker 2: But live your life and have adventures.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, that's like the ultimate when the kids
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  Speaker 1: getting out of the car at school drop off. You're like,
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  Speaker 1: make smart choices. But I'm the same kind of parent.
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  Speaker 2: Are you?
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  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I've been told I've poisoned the well
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  Speaker 1: by giving them fears that they don't need to have.
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  Speaker 1: But personally, I feel like they need to be in
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  Speaker 1: this world with their eyes wide open. And they need
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  Speaker 1: to know how to protect themselves and see things all
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  Speaker 1: around them.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes. A thousand percent. I mean, our world, not
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  Speaker 2: to be a total Debbie Downer, but our world has really, like,
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  Speaker 2: in a weird way, it's just opened doors to all
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  Speaker 2: kinds of new and exciting crimes that Like, oh, you know,
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  Speaker 2: you hear about things and you're like, wow, I never
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  Speaker 2: really thought about that. But then in the same breath,
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  Speaker 2: some psycho might be out there going, hey, I never
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  Speaker 2: really thought about that. And all of a sudden now
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  Speaker 2: we're just feeding this. So it is hard. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I think what I've done for them is I've at
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  Speaker 2: least to your point, like you say, you've opened up
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  Speaker 2: their eyes. Maybe we call it a little poison the well,
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  Speaker 2: but also. I think in a funny way, they want
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  Speaker 2: to prove to me that, yes, the world is a
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  Speaker 2: little crazy, but I'm also going to be smart. You
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: I'm equipped.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes. So I'm hoping that that's the way it works.
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  Speaker 2: Because I don't know about you. Well, you had a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of a different, you know, life growing up
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  Speaker 2: the way, you know, your life. But I was fearless.
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  Speaker 2: I was like out there. And, well, you know, nothing's
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  Speaker 2: going to happen to me kind of a thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's what we all think. Until something happens, unfortunately.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: You, okay, I'm going to tell our listeners, you've worked
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  Speaker 1: with some of the most iconic women in the world,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm just going to name drop a few for you.
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  Speaker 1: Celine Dion, Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce.
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  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay. That's an experience that regular old people don't
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  Speaker 1: get to have, you know, being even in the room
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  Speaker 1: with these kind of superstars. What have they taught you
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  Speaker 1: about confidence and how has that surprised you?
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  Speaker 2: First of all, yes, I have had the most blessed
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  Speaker 2: and incredible career ever. And being able to, yes, not
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  Speaker 2: only be in the room, but to be physically, you know,
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  Speaker 2: you've had your makeup done 10 billion times. When someone's
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  Speaker 2: doing your face, you're literally inches away from someone else's eyeballs.
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  Speaker 1: And you're seeing them in a way that no one
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  Speaker 1: sees them. That close up.
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  Speaker 2: That close up. Yeah. Flaws and all, usually at the
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  Speaker 2: butt crack of dawn or they've even had a minute to,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: you know, to organize their thoughts.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: And I've always found it such a privilege to be
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: able to be in somebody's space like that. whether they
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: were a superstar or not, just to be able to
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: share that kind of love and space with another human being.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: I don't ever take that for granted, not even for
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: one minute, because gosh, what a gift that is. But
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: to your point, to be in that space with a
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: person who is either, has already either conquered the world
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: and what they do, but then also even just starting
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: to conquer the world and what they do. When I
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: met Beyonce, she was maybe just 20, which crazy to
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: me right now yeah and already had you know destiny's
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: child or whatever but was about to embark on this
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: beyonce like the world takeover basically and what i've learned
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: is you know to sound corny stars they're just like us.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: I love that though because it's so true but it
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: is true i mean we're humans hello yes you're all
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: dealing with the same things.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Correct And that's the thing, you know, it's like, I'm
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: sure when people meet you, Jenny, they're like, oh, you're
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Jenny Garth or whatever. And you're like, I cried in
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: my coffee this morning, just so you know. Okay. Yeah.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: And that's the thing. And everybody has insecurities. Everybody has
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: worries and fears that they're not really sure how they're
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: going to navigate around. Everybody has boogers. Okay. Yeah. And
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: I can tell you right now, I've picked the best
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: of them.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. I love it. Now, I'm going to
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: look at you so differently now. Every time I see you,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I'm actually going to be like, can you check my boogers?
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, honey, I'll get up in there. I love nothing
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: more than any kind of pulling out any kind of thing.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: I have no gag reflex left. I'm like, oh, what
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: is that? Let's get it out.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I love that. I love that so much. We say
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: at QVC that our 50s are the age of possibility
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: and that they're fabulous. Yes. What does that mean? Wait,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: hold on. Ooh, there it is. Over 50 and fabulous people.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Look at that.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: That was the over 50 and fabulous fan. That was
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: not a toot.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: That is you whipping open your fan as you're known
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: to do.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes. Thank you. Yeah.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: And how do you feel about that, Jenny Garth? Do
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: you think that's true?
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Yes, 100%. I mean, I've talked about it before. When
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I started working with the women at QVC, my life
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: opened up just to this big, vast community of supportive, encouraging, kind,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: and loving women that I had never experienced until I
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: was 50. And I was nervous.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I was like, are these people for real?
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Were you nervous?
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Did they drink some sort of Kool-Aid around here that
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: makes everybody nice and positive and want success for everyone? Yeah, yeah.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: But it's true. Yeah, it's weird. You think about QVC
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: as a whole, and it is really a very, very
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: strange place. That you take technically a bunch of people
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: that are all, I mean, for all intents and purposes, competitors.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Right. Well, yeah.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, you know, everyone's kind of vying for
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: that dollar or whatever, right? Or that make that sale.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Or that like time slot.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: And QVC puts them all in basically one room together
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: and like just goes. Okay, have at it.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, figure it out.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: Figure it out. But this is the thing that I
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: think that is so interesting and why we have such
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: an amazing connection. And I don't know how this will
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: resonate with someone listening and saying, well, what does that
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: mean for me? But I do think that people who
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: experience the same thing, meaning like have the same job
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: or go through the same journey together, have a bond
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: that no one else can really understand. It's like nobody
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: gets what it's like, Jenny, for you or me or
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Alina or Kim Gravel. You're standing there waiting to go
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: on live TV. To present something that you maybe have
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: never presented before, right? And there's people running around, and
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: you've got a thing in your ear, and somebody's talking
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: to you, and they're telling you what's happening next, and
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: they're telling you where you need to stand. And you're
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: looking at one monitor, which is live, and then you're
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: looking at another monitor, which is what's coming up. So
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: you have to be prepared to talk about that.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: It is a skill set. Right? Yeah.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: And you are a master at it.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Well... Thank you. I don't know if that's the ADD
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: or the fact that I have been doing it for
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: 22 years, which just is weird to me to think
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: that that's been what I've done. And also I love
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: it so much. I really, really, really love it. And
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: I love the community aspect of it, right? Like having
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: that eight minutes to stand there or one hour or
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: whatever you have. And you have the floor. Like, what
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: are you going to do with it? You know, are
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: you going to share positivity and joy and love and
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: lift each other up? Or are you going to? It
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: makes me so mad when I see people at QVC
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: that show up and they don't take that time Do
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, they don't use it. Like,
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: that's a free moment to make somebody feel amazing or
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: educate somebody on something. Like, don't waste it.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: No, because our customers, our family members are wanting connection. Yes.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: And I think that they get that through, you know,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: really getting to know the hosts and also the vendors.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: that have been there for years.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: What you have to tell everybody, what's the difference between
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: a host and a vendor?
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: A host is a person that facilitates the selling of something.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: They host the hour. They're like the master of ceremonies.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: And then the vendor is somebody who brings something in
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: to show on QVC, sell on QVC. Did I do
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: a good job?
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: You're perfect. You're perfect. That's exactly right. And it's two
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: totally different jobs. And it's two completely different. Again, it
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: makes me so mad when people poo poo QVC and
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: they're just like, oh, whatever. Shopping on television. That's so funny.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Or like, you know, look, I don't mind the SNL stuff.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: I don't mind any of I think it's hilarious. Like,
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: if anything, I think it's great because it just brings
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: more awareness to what we do. But when people say
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: it's easy, that's when I get.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Who says that?
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Oh, there's people that are like, how hard can it be?
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: You're just standing there talking about products, you know, whatever.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: And again, they don't realize that there's a hundred other
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: things happening and you're spinning this plate over here and
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: you're spinning that plate over there. And then you're getting
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: back and you and you look great while doing it, too. Because, again,
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: if you got a booger, someone's going to see it.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: You got to make sure that everything's put where it
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: needs to be. And I think that that to me,
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: that's what makes me mad. And I will say, I
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: did have a friend who said that QVC is the
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Olympics of live TV. And it absolutely is.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: It really is. That's so true.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: It's a marathon.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: It is a marathon.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: It's not a sprint.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: No, it's not. And add that at 2 a.m. and baby,
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: you're really.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's a wild world that we work in.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Have you ever had a moment where you're like, I'm
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: going to pass out or something?
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: No, I think once you get into your time, once
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: you're live, there's something that kind of takes over and
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: you feel that more and more as I do it.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: I feel that connection with the people that are watching. Yeah.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: And that makes me feel good.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: And you bring such a special energy, a little angelic dear.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Like when I watch you, I always like, I feel
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: like my head goes this way. Like you just want
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: to do that when I'm watching you.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I think that's a good thing.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: It's a great thing. It's a great thing. And that's
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: what I also love about what QVC has done about
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: bringing the kinds of, everybody's got their own.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Brand, their own identity, their own personality.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: You know, and I think there's something for everybody, which
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: I think that that's such a gift and why they're
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: so smart.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: Well, you bring like just the ray of sunshine, all
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: the rays of the sunshine. You get everybody up and
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: going and involved and happy. You've been called a positivity preacher.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: What is that?
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Well, I made it up.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Of course you did.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: One day I was driving in the car and, you know,
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: something had happened. I don't know why. God always puts me,
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: puts my eyeballs in a place sometimes to see like
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: injustice and things where people are just not being nice
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: to each other. And then I get scared because something
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: takes over my body and then I have to say something. And, um,
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: like even just the other day I was at the
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: store and there was this woman and you know, you
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: could see him coming. Like she was standing in line
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: and she was like, like phase the face was already
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: mad and she had the products in her hands and
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: she wanted to go exchange something and she came trudging
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: up to that cashier and she slammed her things down
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: and this poor woman had did not know what was
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: coming and in my mind i thought oh dear lord
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: jesus please hold me back because i'm gonna say because
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: i already knew it was coming and she was just
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: like I want to return this and I used points
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: and I'm going to buy this and I'm going to
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: use the points and you're going to do it. And
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: it was just no hello. It was no how are you.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: It was none of this like normal common decency that
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: for a reason we don't have anymore. Right. We bark
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: at each other. Yeah. And I'm standing there, and I
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: feel my armpits start to sweat. And I'm like, oh,
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: my God. I can't take it. What did you do?
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Did you do anything? Yeah.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: So the lady behind the counter who was doing the thing,
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: and she was like our age. Like maybe, I don't know,
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: maybe like even a little older. I could see her
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: hands started shaking. And I was, oh, no. This woman
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: is real. And I'm sorry. This is a long story.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: But anyway, I'll get cut to the chase. She was like,
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: call your manager, call your manager, like screaming in her face. Well, anyway,
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: the manager comes. The manager is like, you know, 22.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: And she's like, whatever, I'll just get it done with her.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: And I said, I'm so sorry. Excuse me. And she
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: was like, what do you want? Like looked at me
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, you're going to come for
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: me now. And I just said to her, I said, listen,
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know what you're going through.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Obviously, for you to show up with this kind of energy,
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: there's something going on in your life. But I just
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: want to say that the way you spoke to her,
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: with all respect, was so unnecessary. I said, listen, we
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: all love you. We're here.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: We love you.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: We all... you need to act with more empathy. You
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: need to act with more love because that's what we
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: want to do for you. Wait, what did she say?
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: How does she react to that?
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: She said, you shut up. She did.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, I was getting sweaty armpits just hearing you
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: tell that story of you talking to her.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Because we always want to say something or like, you know,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: fix the injustice. But You look at the big picture
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: and you're like, ooh, that's going to get too messy.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: I want to know, how did she take it?
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: Well, she said, I didn't ask you. I said, fair.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I said, however, you are in our orbit. And I said,
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: and no one is angry at you, but I just
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: feel like maybe you should take this experience that you
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: had and just maybe see what you can do on
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: the other side of it to like maybe, you know.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: If you don't want to apologize to her, maybe do
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: something right.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, so being a positivity preacher is, you have to
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: be very brave. I see that.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: And then, listen, you know, being a positivity preacher is,
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: and also not being positive and happy all the time.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Or toxic positivity.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: Like unrealistic. Yes. I hate that.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: It is not that. I hate that too. Because to me,
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: that's actually spreading false news.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Truth.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: And making everybody feel bad. Right. Because nobody is positive
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: all the time.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: No.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: No.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: You can't be. You can choose.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: There might be some people, but they're far between.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And like, yes. But I mean, but I do
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: try to, and I know you feel this also, try
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: to choose joy when I can in these moments. You know,
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: I try to choose... gratitude and moments that maybe you're
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: not so thankful for. And it's, you know, it's a muscle.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: It's like everything else. Just like though, Jenny, just like
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: though the people that you know them that are like,
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: everything is wrong, right? Like everything is wrong and you
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: can find the, oh, it's hot in here. This coffee
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: is just, why is it like, you know those people.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: I run from those people, girl.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Sometimes though, I'm like that. And I'll catch myself and
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: I'll be like, whoa, we are complaining about everything right now.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: That's when you have to return to gratitude.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Correct. And I have a fix for that. And it
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: just works so great in the universe because Before you
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: want to say something that is technically a complaint, you
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: can go, not complaining, just explaining. And then you say, oh, okay,
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: so you're not complaining.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I like that, though. It makes it feel a little better.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: It does make it feel a little better.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, so if someone looks in the mirror today and
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: doesn't like what they see, what would you tell them?
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: Well, obviously, I would tell them that they're beautiful already. Okay.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: And then I would tell them, that's great because we
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: have something for you. And it just depends. I mean, obviously,
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: for me, the whole reason I went to QVC in
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: the first place 22 years ago was because we didn't
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: have these. Cell phones.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Smart phones.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I held up my phone. We didn't have YouTube.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: We didn't have Instagram, TikTok, none of that. The only
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: way for me to teach you how to make you
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: look like you've had eight hours of sleep, how to
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: get that perfect smoky eye, how to make your lips
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: look bigger, how to contour your cheekbones, it all had
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: to be on television. And that's why I was so
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: excited and honored and so passionate about selling Mally Beauty
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: on QVC.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: It's education. You know, it's not really necessarily about how
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: you look, right? It's about how you feel. But how
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: you feel can affect the way you look. How you
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: look can affect the way you feel.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: And vice versa.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Right. Exactly.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: If you're sad and going through, you know, grief and
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: all that, it really does physically appear.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: External. Absolutely. So just like you would say, oh, I
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: want to really learn how to make chicken cacciatore, which
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what that is. But is it
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: like tomato? I don't know. Anyway, you would go to
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: a chef and say, how do I make this? You
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: would come to me and say. I think I don't
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: like the way my eyes are getting more hooded as
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: I'm getting older. I think that's what I don't want.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: And I would say, OK, let's do this and let's
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: try that. That's something I love to do more than
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: anything in the world. And then teaching you how to
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: fish so that you can do that every day. That's
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: my that's always my goal.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: What do you mean fish?
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, what is that term? Like you can't
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: fish for them. You teach, you don't get them the fish.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: You teach them how to fish and then they can
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: eat forever. Yeah.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Oh my God. You are the best.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: I want to know what's next for you because I
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: know you had huge success.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: With Mally Beauty, but you've, Stepped away from that. And
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: now you're opening up to doing other areas, other collections,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: other divisions. What's going on?
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Everything.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: You are on fuego, lady.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Listen, I, I, okay. So here's another thing
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: that I love about being a woman and also don't
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  Speaker 2: love about being a woman. is people love to put
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: you in a box, right? Jenny Garth is an actor
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  Speaker 2: and that's it. That's what she does. She's not an author.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: She's not a life speaker. She's not a fashion designer.
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  Speaker 2: She's not a home designer. She can't be all those things.
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  Speaker 2: And a mom and a wife too, or a daughter
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  Speaker 2: and a friend.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: You can't be all those things. Bullshit. Yeah. can be
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  Speaker 2: anything and we can but when you're a makeup artist
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  Speaker 2: and in beauty for as long as I have been
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: I definitely got categorized in that world and while that
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: is such a huge part of who I am and
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: what I love I also love a hundred other things
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  Speaker 2: you know I love jewelry I love clothing I love
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  Speaker 2: home I love handbags so guess what let's do all
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: of it you know and the real important thing about
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: first of all QVC giving me the opportunity to do that.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Like, and aside from that being QVC's
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: number one hype girl and cheerleader and screamer from the rooftops, right?
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Because I love what QVC represents, which is community, right?
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: The first OG kind of community. So I'm so grateful
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: that I get to try all that. And the thing
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: about the Mally Roncal brand, I guess, which was always
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: with beauty, it was always... about, you know, being your
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: best self, not being afraid to step forward. And that's what,
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: you know, the clothing, the home, the bags, the jewelry,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: all of that is also, it's like kind of being
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: okay with being a little extra, you know.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: If that's you. Just being comfortable in your own skin.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Right?
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  Speaker 1: No matter what.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: And that's what I think my message mostly to the
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: world I wanted to be is just be extra. If
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: not every day, sometimes. Sometimes. Does Jenny Garth ever want
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: to be like a little extra? Like you're extra in
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: your own way, just so you know. Yeah. You're like
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: soft and sweet and beautiful and all that. But you
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: have a little extra fierceness in you. I see it.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: You do.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: I feel it for sure. But I never had tapped
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: into it until I got older.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: And that's why I love QVC too, because we're giving
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: them permission to say, look, we can all do this together.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Right. I can take chances in my life too. Yeah.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Risks. Risks. What is life without risks? How many summers
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: do we have left?
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I was just talking about that with someone about when
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: you look at life and you realize when you have
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: a kid, especially, you realize as an infant, you have
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: one summer. And then as a toddler, you have three
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: or four summers. Oh, God. Five summers. And then- as a,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: you know, teen, a young teen and the teenage years,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: you have that many summers and you, it just kind
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: of puts things in perspective as to how fast life moves.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: It's, it's, it's, it's so, it's almost scary. And that's
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: why I, I just encourage everybody who's listening to just
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: not waste a moment, you know, because you don't know.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: You don't know. You don't know what you don't know. Okay.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I want to wrap this up on a quote that
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: I pulled from your Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: That is so beautiful. As women, we are like diamonds
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: full of different facets, each one shining in its own way.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: So don't be afraid to explore all the sides of
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: your diamond, my loves. You're never done dreaming. You are
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: just such a ray of light and goodness and kindness.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: And I know you, so I know that it's not
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: toxic because you're also a real human being. And that's
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: one of the things that I love the most about you.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Thank you just for being you, first of all, and
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: sharing your story with me and everyone. You can find
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: Mally on QVC, pretty much everywhere on QVC. And also,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: be sure to follow her on Instagram because... You give
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: out the most beautiful, positive messages like the one I
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: just read. So you will be very happy if you
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: follow her. Trust me. Before I let you go though,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Mally Roncal, what was your last I choose me moment?
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: I wanted to say every minute is an I choose
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: me moment. Like making a cup of coffee right before
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: I came on with you. I was standing in front
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: of this coffee machine and it was percolating and I
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: was dancing because I was like, I'm making coffee. I'm
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: going to talk to my buddy. We're going to have
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: fun and we're going to laugh. And I looked and
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: Kashi was looking at me and her tail was wagging.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: And I was like, man, I have the best life.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: And I'm just so incredibly happy. blessed and honored and
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: that I get to know you and I get to
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: talk to you and I get to call you my friend.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Ditto lady. Thank you. I love you.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Love you more.