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Your Personality's Relationship Blind Spot: From Red Flags to Real Growth · A Capture Deep Vibs A Positive Space For Inspiration And Embracing Of Heart

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  Speaker 1: Have you noticed there's been a lot of talk circulating
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  Speaker 1: around social media about watching out for red flags and
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  Speaker 1: cutting off toxic people from your life lately? The cancel
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  Speaker 1: culture of today has made us all more accountable than
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  Speaker 1: ever for how we act online and in real life.
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  Speaker 1: The problem with being toxic, however, is that you can
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  Speaker 1: be toxic without even knowing it or doing it intentionally.
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  Speaker 1: That's why it's important for all of us to check
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  Speaker 1: ourselves from time to time and take a good honest
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  Speaker 1: look at how our actions impact those around us. Because
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  Speaker 1: no one's perfect. And while it might be a painful
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  Speaker 1: truth to admit, sometimes we even hurt the ones we
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  Speaker 1: love without meaning to. With that said, here's your worst
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  Speaker 1: personality trait based on your personality type. ISTP, the virtuoso.
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  Speaker 1: Because of their spontaneous and relaxed nature, sometimes ISTPs get
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  Speaker 1: into trouble with their friends and family for being unreliable.
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  Speaker 1: They can be unapologetically stubborn about things and can easily
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  Speaker 1: come off as insensitive to others with their use of
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  Speaker 1: logic and rationality. They also tend to dislike commitment because
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  Speaker 1: they focus too much on the moment and are prone
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  Speaker 1: to risky, antagonistic behaviors when bored. ISFP, the adventurer. Similar
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  Speaker 1: to the ISTP, ISFPs dislike for long-term commitments and plans
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  Speaker 1: make them too unpredictable to be dependable. They love to
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  Speaker 1: live in the moment, so they're not very adept at
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  Speaker 1: planning their futures or reflecting on their past. Thus, the
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  Speaker 1: ISFP's worst trait is that they struggle to learn from
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  Speaker 1: their mistakes. ESTP, the entrepreneur. ESTPs are the life of
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  Speaker 1: the party because of their bold, fun-loving, spontaneous personality. That
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  Speaker 1: being said, they can sometimes be spontaneous to a fault
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  Speaker 1: and put themselves at risk in unfamiliar places or with
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  Speaker 1: unfamiliar people. Because once an ESTP sees an opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: fix a problem, to advance, to have fun, all rules
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  Speaker 1: and expectations fly out the window. ESFP, the entertainer. Next,
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  Speaker 1: the ESFP has somewhat of the opposite problem with the ESTP.
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  Speaker 1: That is, they think about other people too much and
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  Speaker 1: not enough about themselves. They can become compulsive people-pleasers because
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  Speaker 1: of their emotionally sensitive and conflict-averse nature. ESTJ, the executive,
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  Speaker 1: dedicated and strong-willed. ESTJ's main strengths lie in their direct, logical,
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  Speaker 1: and reliable nature. But this can also be their downfall
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  Speaker 1: if they run with it too far and become too inflexible, close-minded,
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  Speaker 1: and judgmental. They're also notorious for being workaholics who find
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  Speaker 1: it difficult to relax and express their true feelings. ISFJ,
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  Speaker 1: the defender, warm and protective. ISFJs are all about making
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  Speaker 1: people happy and keeping the peace. They value harmony and tradition,
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  Speaker 1: but at their worst, they can become extremely rigid in
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  Speaker 1: their views and their support for authority figures and the
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  Speaker 1: status quo. Reluctant to change and too altruistic, ISFJs struggle
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  Speaker 1: to break tradition and rock the boat, even when things
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  Speaker 1: clearly aren't working anymore. ISTJ, the logistician, responsible. dutiful, organized,
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  Speaker 1: and practical. ISTJs love to create and enforce order, so
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  Speaker 1: much so that their worst personality trait is being too
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  Speaker 1: much by the book. Their factual decision-making process makes them
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  Speaker 1: resistant to new ideas. If it ain't broke, why fix it?
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  Speaker 1: And usually do not respect people who are either willfully
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  Speaker 1: ignorant or too clouded by their own emotions to separate
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  Speaker 1: facts from opinions. ESFJ, the console. The ultimate people person,
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  Speaker 1: an ESFJ feels best when they have strong relationships with others,
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  Speaker 1: which makes them empathetic leaders and compassionate communicators. At their worst, however,
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  Speaker 1: ESFJs can use their keen sense of awareness of other
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  Speaker 1: people's emotions to manipulate or bully them. They're also notorious
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  Speaker 1: for caring too much about their social status and influence
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  Speaker 1: and rarely stepping out of their own comfort zones for
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  Speaker 1: fear of being too different. ENFP, the campaigner. ENFPs are
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  Speaker 1: known as true free spirits because of how outgoing, open-minded,
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  Speaker 1: and enthusiastic they are about life. But these strengths can
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  Speaker 1: also be weaknesses as it makes them unfocused and disorganized.
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  Speaker 1: Their adventurous and idealistic nature also makes them restless at
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  Speaker 1: times and easily dissatisfied with their life. INFP, the mediator.
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  Speaker 1: What makes INFPs unique is also their most fatal flaw,
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  Speaker 1: their strong sense of idealism Quiet and unassuming on the outside,
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  Speaker 1: INFPs have a vibrant imagination, deep feelings, and a strong
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  Speaker 1: sense of passion. So much so that they often lose
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  Speaker 1: themselves in daydreams most of the time and tend to
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  Speaker 1: have too unrealistic of standards for themselves and others. In
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  Speaker 1: this way, INFPs are constantly setting themselves up for disappointment
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  Speaker 1: and self-criticism. ENFJ, the Protagonist. One of the best things
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  Speaker 1: about ENFJs is how empathetic and nurturing they are. Often
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  Speaker 1: our favorite mom friends, they have a natural talent for
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  Speaker 1: inspiring people and helping them reach their potential. But at
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  Speaker 1: their worst, ENFJs may hurt others in unintentional ways just
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  Speaker 1: to keep the harmony, like ignoring important issues or pressuring
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  Speaker 1: others to live up to their overly idealistic standards. INFJ,
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  Speaker 1: the advocate. Similar to the ENFJ, INFJs always strive for perfection,
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  Speaker 1: but their efforts are more directed inwards with themselves than outwards.
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  Speaker 1: So it's no surprise then that their worst personality trait
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  Speaker 1: is their toxic perfectionism and overthinking. Most INFJs struggle with
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  Speaker 1: analysis paralysis, meaning that they get in their heads too much,
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  Speaker 1: that it often makes them get in their own way.
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  Speaker 1: They become indecisive and struggle to leave room for the
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  Speaker 1: beautiful messiness and spontaneity of real life and imperfect people. INTJ,
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  Speaker 1: the architect. Although rational, self-sufficient and extremely determined, INTJs who
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  Speaker 1: are too in touch with their thinking side and not
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  Speaker 1: enough with their feeling side often come across to others
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  Speaker 1: as arrogant, insensitive, overly critical and dismissive of others. Unhealthy
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  Speaker 1: INTJs believe that they are superior to others and become aloof,
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  Speaker 1: selfish and harsh because they think they have better things
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  Speaker 1: to do than care about other people's feelings all the time. ENTJ,
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  Speaker 1: the commander. ENTJs are nicknamed the commander because they're natural-born leaders.
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  Speaker 1: Although efficient, strong-willed, and strategic thinkers, ENTJs who aren't careful
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  Speaker 1: can become domineering, intolerant, cold, and ruthless. That's because unhealthy
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  Speaker 1: ENTJs no longer care about how their words or decisions
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  Speaker 1: affect those around them as long as it's in pursuit
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  Speaker 1: of their own goals and their obsession with efficiency. ENTP,
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  Speaker 1: the debater. At their best, ENTPs balance a logical, rational
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  Speaker 1: mentality with an awareness of the needs of others. Enterprising, witty,
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  Speaker 1: and argumentative, ENTPs need to be careful not to seem
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  Speaker 1: like they're uncaring and just arguing for the sake of it.
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  Speaker 1: They can also be unabashedly critical towards others for being
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  Speaker 1: inefficient and incompetent, and in times of emotional crisis, will
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  Speaker 1: give unsolicited advice instead of comfort. INTP, the logician. Because
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  Speaker 1: INTPs are so intellectual and independent, they're often difficult to
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  Speaker 1: get close to and may struggle to connect with others
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  Speaker 1: on a deep emotional level. Their worst personality trait is
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  Speaker 1: that they have a tendency to get so caught up
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  Speaker 1: in their own logic that they fail to show others
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  Speaker 1: emotional consideration. Because of this, social interactions aren't really their forte,
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  Speaker 1: as they can often seem sarcastic and condescending to those
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  Speaker 1: who don't understand them. So, do you agree with the
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  Speaker 1: things we've mentioned here? What are some strengths and weaknesses
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  Speaker 1: to your personality type? Let us know in the comments below.
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