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DLHS Hour 2 | What Had Happened was Friday · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: Uh, so tuesa would have happened once. A woman tells
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  Speaker 1: the most of the story by she fought her father.
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  Speaker 1: She thought her father abandoned her, but later on I found
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  Speaker 1: out was a mother that kept him away.
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  Speaker 2: Listened to a little bit of this.
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  Speaker 3: So I literally had to grow up without a father.
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  Speaker 4: Thinking that my father didn't love me. So I would
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  Speaker 4: go on dating.
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  Speaker 2: These men who were amazing to me.
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  Speaker 5: I've had wonderful relationships, and I would literally feel like
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  Speaker 5: the love was never.
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  Speaker 2: At us because my father didn't love me. How could
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  Speaker 2: another man love me?
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  Speaker 4: That broke my heart?
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  Speaker 1: Which is the consequences when one parents and this intenseally
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  Speaker 1: keep your child from there should there be a consequence.
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  Speaker 4: We asked you that you said.
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  Speaker 6: I feel very sad for the young lady that this
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  Speaker 6: happened to. I can't imagine not knowing my father.
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  Speaker 7: I couldn't imagine it.
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  Speaker 6: I knew both my parents, they raised me and all
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  Speaker 6: my siblings, and I just couldn't imagine being in that situation.
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  Speaker 6: But I do have wanted I didn't want to say that.
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  Speaker 7: I learned a very long.
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  Speaker 6: Time go not to get involved in that revenge game
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  Speaker 6: because it feels like that's what happened with her parents.
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  Speaker 6: They are playing some kind of revenge game or you know,
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  Speaker 6: or whether they meant to do it or not. It
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  Speaker 6: affected her in a very negative way. And I feel
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  Speaker 6: like what should happen is what is already happening, which
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  Speaker 6: is that now the other living parent is going to
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  Speaker 6: have to deal with how this child feels about what
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  Speaker 6: they did, what about what both of them did. Now
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  Speaker 6: both of them can't confront it. Now it's just one
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  Speaker 6: parent that has to confront what has happened. I hope
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  Speaker 6: that this young lady does confront the other parent. I
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  Speaker 6: hope that she finds, you know, peace and all that.
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  Speaker 6: But I learned a long time ago, you don't play
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  Speaker 6: this revenge game. I'm a Christian, so I believe vengeance
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  Speaker 6: is the lords.
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  Speaker 7: So I just got in my car and I heard
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  Speaker 7: the conversation, and I can resonate with that because I
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  Speaker 7: have two daughters who are one is in her latter
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  Speaker 7: thirties thirties and the other ones in their younger thirties,
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  Speaker 7: and both of their mothers withheld them me for thirty
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  Speaker 7: plus years, and he both came to me. One came
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  Speaker 7: to me about five years ago and said, my mom
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  Speaker 7: finally admitted that she lied about you and she kept
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  Speaker 7: me away from you. And the other one did the
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  Speaker 7: same thing, said, my mom admitted that she lied about
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  Speaker 7: you and kept me away from you. So I'm going
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  Speaker 7: through the same thing that you know, most of me
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  Speaker 7: hadn't going through in that situation. And I understand. I
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  Speaker 7: heard the girls, the young lady's pain who was speaking
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  Speaker 7: out on it, so I understand, and uh yeah, so
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  Speaker 7: it's bit's wrong. And right now I'm trying to bridge
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  Speaker 7: the gap with my daughters and develop a relationship after
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  Speaker 7: thirty years.
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  Speaker 3: My husband is actually going through something similar to that.
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  Speaker 3: When we got together, he linger everything to me and
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  Speaker 3: the house his child's mother has him on child support,
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  Speaker 3: and how the arrayars and everything, and how he was
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  Speaker 3: in He was in his child's life for the first
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  Speaker 3: little bit of her life, and then the mother just
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  Speaker 3: up and left and pretty much told the courts that
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  Speaker 3: she was scared for her life and made everything private.
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  Speaker 8: And he didn't know he's right up until I mean, honestly,
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  Speaker 8: when we.
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  Speaker 3: Got together and we started doing research and we found
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  Speaker 3: out what you know, he actually made his right word,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, they've got him on a false alligate
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  Speaker 3: or are they not false allegations? He can He wanted
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  Speaker 3: to take her to court for false allegations for a
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  Speaker 3: child alienation his child to fix some me sixteen years
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  Speaker 3: old and he hasn't got to see her that she
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  Speaker 3: was Bob. We did our research and we found out
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  Speaker 3: what we can do. We can't do court, and it's
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  Speaker 3: it's just a whole lot of mess that's going on.
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  Speaker 3: When you all were talking about already, I was like, dang, Like,
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  Speaker 3: that's exactly.
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  Speaker 7: What my husband's going through right now.
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  Speaker 4: So when is it? What it happened?
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  Speaker 1: A man talks about how he won't let his transender
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  Speaker 1: brother in law take care of his kids.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, people, so apparently I'm sleeping in the gush room
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  Speaker 5: and I'm divorced because I won't allow my wife's brother
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  Speaker 5: who's a trans to watch our kids. So let me
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  Speaker 5: give you a little backstory. He hasn't been seen in
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  Speaker 5: this family for about ten years. Right, he finally comes
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  Speaker 5: back around as Brianna. His name was Brandon, now his Brianna.
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  Speaker 4: No big deal?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, do you but the first thing you do when
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  Speaker 5: you get back is not to offer to watch our
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  Speaker 5: kids overnight. Look Brianna. Brianna, I'm just now meeting this
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  Speaker 5: new person. When I met you, it was Brandon two
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  Speaker 5: my religious purposes. It's not going to allow me to
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  Speaker 5: let a transsexual man woman to be out of town
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  Speaker 5: with our kids and Disneyland. It just doesn't look good.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to confuse my two boys. We have
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  Speaker 5: two boys and the little girl. Why would you want
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  Speaker 5: that around on me? One is ten, one is eight.
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  Speaker 5: The little girls are life it. They asked the most
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  Speaker 5: craziest questions. You don't think they're going to ask me,
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  Speaker 5: who is this person? Why his uncle went to dress?
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  Speaker 5: Turned to a big uproar, got into a big argument.
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  Speaker 5: So yeah, I went into the guest room. And not
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  Speaker 5: to mention she's talking about she can't be with somebody
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  Speaker 5: who doesn't allow her family members to be active with
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  Speaker 5: in our kids' lives. I have no problem with them,
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  Speaker 5: with your whatever, being active, just not alone with them.
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  Speaker 5: He's not taking them out of town, he's not spending
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  Speaker 5: the night with them. About when it us being there,
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  Speaker 5: And I don't agree with his lifestyle, So I don't
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  Speaker 5: know what he's going to do with talking about a
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  Speaker 5: friend of the kids. We haven't seen him her in
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  Speaker 5: ten years, the man I met had a clean shaved head,
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  Speaker 5: had a fiance. This new person now has addressed awake
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  Speaker 5: and fingernails. Maybe we need to discuss on how this
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  Speaker 5: came about before we let him take our kids. What
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  Speaker 5: you got thought on that? Am I being an asshole
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  Speaker 5: and I being pay headed stubborn?
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  Speaker 8: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 5: This new work today, but it does not happening here.
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  Speaker 4: You said, I agree with him.
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  Speaker 8: I don't. I don't. I don't think that's a smart
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  Speaker 8: thing to do. I mean, I understand that her brothers,
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  Speaker 8: but I mean ten years you haven't heard from him.
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  Speaker 8: He's done a complete three sixty. You don't know what
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  Speaker 8: this man has been exposed to. You know, it's I
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  Speaker 8: think it's it's smart to be cautious with your children,
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  Speaker 8: with anyone.
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  Speaker 9: I think people already throw religious beliefs in the things,
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  Speaker 9: but religious. To be religious, you got to love one another.
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  Speaker 9: For you to divorce your wife because of her brother's situation,
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  Speaker 9: it means you you causing more hating division in the
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  Speaker 9: world that are loved. The Bible says love each other,
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  Speaker 9: not judge each other.
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  Speaker 1: Uh So, and today, yesterday we asked a woman asked,
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  Speaker 1: turned over custody to their father and she doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: to pay. Well, let me let you hear a little
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  Speaker 1: bit that.
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  Speaker 10: He told me now that he is caring for the
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  Speaker 10: boys full time, but to move, he obviously stops the
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  Speaker 10: child maintenance payments to me, which is what we had agreed.
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  Speaker 10: I didn't want to be in receipt of anything because
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  Speaker 10: I don't have the children.
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  Speaker 2: And that money was court.
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  Speaker 10: Ordered at the time of our divorce for our boys activities.
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  Speaker 10: So their extracurriple activities, their breakfast, club, after school club, tutoring, athletics, football,
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  Speaker 10: you name it, they do it.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what that money was called.
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  Speaker 10: So it's not a substantial amount, but it was in
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  Speaker 10: line with his salary at the time and it was
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  Speaker 10: enough to cover those outgoings. Here's a bit that from
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  Speaker 10: he is saying that I need to pay him child support,
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  Speaker 10: he said, and I was like.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, what exactly do you mean?
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  Speaker 10: He literally repeated himself and said that now that he
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  Speaker 10: has the boys, I have to pay him child support.
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  Speaker 10: And you know what it's like when you're starting a business.
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  Speaker 10: It's not like I have the financial securities or the
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  Speaker 10: financial pulling power as I did while I was in EA,
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  Speaker 10: So I'm like, where exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think I'm going to get money from to
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  Speaker 2: pay you? Lo and behold.
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  Speaker 10: I received an email this week from a mediation service
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  Speaker 10: saying that he has instructed them to start mediation with me.
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  Speaker 10: I would have to cover all of my costs, and
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  Speaker 10: they were inviting me to a meeting with them.
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  Speaker 2: I declined it because.
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  Speaker 10: I'm not mediating over me paying you child, PATXT, can
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  Speaker 10: you explain to me, like the men of this generation,
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  Speaker 10: I have not heard anything like this before.
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  Speaker 2: Men can't get money off women. That'solu what we put
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  Speaker 2: the pull to them.
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  Speaker 4: You said, it.
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  Speaker 11: Sounds like her husband was paying before when she had
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  Speaker 11: full custodies, So why wouldn't she have to pay. It
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  Speaker 11: shouldn't matter about her circumstances because she's a woman or whatever.
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  Speaker 11: It shouldn't matter. At the end of the day, the
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  Speaker 11: children are going to be the ones to suffer, and
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  Speaker 11: if they're going to go through the court, whoever has
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  Speaker 11: custody is the one who gets the money, So that
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  Speaker 11: it's only fair that she should have to pay, just
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  Speaker 11: like her husband did when he had when she had
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  Speaker 11: full cousty as a kid.
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  Speaker 12: You know I think that women should pay child support.
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  Speaker 12: And the reason being is the law is not just
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  Speaker 12: a specific If you look at any child sports statuteed
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  Speaker 12: states custodio versus non custodial parent, she's clearly the non
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  Speaker 12: custodial parent. Now, so the father who is now the
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  Speaker 12: the studio parent, deserves to receive ch houseport.
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  Speaker 1: Now it's time to give it deserving someone the Shoebooty
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  Speaker 1: of the Week award.
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  Speaker 4: And now it's time for the shoe Booty of the
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  Speaker 4: Week award. Did I look at this? I start having
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  Speaker 4: an anxiety attack. Missy Roberts is the former mayor of
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  Speaker 4: De Ritter, Louisiana. She was first selected in twenty eighteen.
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  Speaker 4: On July twenty seventh, twenty twenty four, she abruptly resigned
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  Speaker 4: from her mayoral position. Don't you want to meddle? So
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  Speaker 4: why is Mayor Misty this week's recipient of the shoe
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  Speaker 4: Booty of the Week award. You're hurting the kids, Misty.
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  Speaker 4: The milk gets the shoe booty because, just like the movie,
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  Speaker 4: she's a bad mom, She's the devil. The music was playing,
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  Speaker 4: the booze was going down, and so was the mayor.
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  Speaker 2: I'm forever and clean.
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  Speaker 4: She was getting down with her son's underage friend. It
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  Speaker 4: was like she was Stifler's mom in the movie American Pine.
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  Speaker 2: That last.
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  Speaker 4: On August first, she was arrested on charges of third
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  Speaker 4: degree rape and contributing to the delinquency of a juvenile
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  Speaker 4: right to jan right away. She was released from jail
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  Speaker 4: after posting a seventy five thousand dollars bond. At first,
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  Speaker 4: she tried to deny, but the same way she is stacked,
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  Speaker 4: the evidence was stacked against her. You should be like guilty.
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  Speaker 4: Her son testified in court. He peeped through a bedroom
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  Speaker 4: window and saw his mom and his best friend ten
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  Speaker 4: toes up and ten toes down. No, God, please, no no.
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  Speaker 4: Let's pause for a minute and just imagine what it
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  Speaker 4: would be like if you were fit fifteen years old
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  Speaker 4: and saw your mom hooking up with your best friend.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to be sick.
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  Speaker 4: It would be like realizing the only thing getting passed
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  Speaker 4: around faster than the joint is your mom's location. Send
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  Speaker 4: me okay. It's like watching a guy who said Brothers
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  Speaker 4: for Life audition to become your stepdad. How could this
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  Speaker 4: have happened? Yes, the plan b Mayor couldn't hide because
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  Speaker 4: later that night she ordered Plan B to be delivered
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  Speaker 4: to her house from door Dash. These people are perverts.
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  Speaker 4: We know this because the door Dash driver took the stand.
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  Speaker 4: That's like having your weed man on the stand, going yep,
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  Speaker 4: she got the weed for me. Just fly in a position.
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  Speaker 4: When a mother throws a party for her son, it
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  Speaker 4: should be the party all the kids talk about on Monday.
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  Speaker 4: Now she's the only one that kids are talking about.
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  Speaker 4: She put the hole in host.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I see what you did there, and that's.
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  Speaker 4: Why the shoe Booty of the Week award goes too.
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  Speaker 4: Misty Roberts, now here's a swift kick in the ass.