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DA CREW PODCAST SEASON 1_ EPISODE #71_HOST TRIVEDA HARRIS_(SHOW #10) · DA CREW Podcast

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O o o o o o O I clean, queen, I want sweet,
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sweet sweet, I'm not it was sweet. Hello, and welcome to
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Believe in the Journey Podcast, where I am your host, Travida Harrison.
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This is episode number ten, so welcome, Welcome, Welcome once again to
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Believe in the Journey Podcast. I am grateful that you are here with me
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tonight. My guest is miss Masha Henderson, and I'm going to give a
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brief introduction of her. She was born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia.
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She is the founder of Sister's Empowerment Movement. She's the owner of Explicit monet
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Kature. She has a love for passion and uplifting and encouraging women, which
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is what made her have the natural transition to becoming a certified life coach.
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There are other other accolades that my sister, my friend Masha and Henderson has,
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so as soon as she is here, we will welcome her and get
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started with our conversation. However, as I said, welcome, and we're
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gonna begin this podcast with a prayer. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for
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this moment. Thank you for the strength that you have given me over these
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past few weeks. It has been a true test of endurance and a true
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test of faith. This day last week, I lost my mom. So
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this show is dedicated to her. Please give me the strength to make it
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through this show because I am missing her, dearly. I love you,
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and I honor you and thank you for this moment, because without you,
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I am nothing, and with you, I am everything. So I thank
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you for the endurance of being with my mom and being able to share this
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moment with her. Even though she's not here in the physicals, she's here
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in spirit, and she would want me to continue and not be over here
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whining like a little baby about the fact that she's no longer here. So
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I honor you, and I thank you, and in Jesus name, I
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pray Amen. Lord, y'all listen, I am gonna try my best to
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keep it together, but I am missing my mommy. But I know she
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don't have time for me to be having these tears out here. So let's
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just talk about her in general, and you'll understand why I'm just disturbing and
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as hard headed as she is, my mom lived life on her own terms,
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and she lived life according to how she saw fit for herself. And
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it wasn't a perfect role for anyone looking from the outside, but it was
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the role and how she wanted to live her life. She made the decisions
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that she wanted to make, and she made no apologies for it, and
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so it was. It was a definite honor to be her daughter. It
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was an honor to be her friend. It was an honor to be her
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joking partner. It was just an honor to love her conditionally. And I
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can't think of a better person to have been my mom. Um. I'm
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gonna bring my mentor up, miss Angela Thomas, and I'll talk about the
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moment that I introduced my mom to her um while my mom was up in
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the hospital. Um. It was an interesting um moment, to say the
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least, because my mom never thought she would live to see the day,
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UM where I interacted with other people besides myself. All right, miss miss
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Angela, Yes, you remember the very first day I introduced you to my
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mom and she trouble, She said, yeah, she said that one right
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there looks like she up to something. I can't figure it out just yet,
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but she up to something. And every time every time we would come
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on the what's her name? If I had my camera off like I just
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came on. She I was. She wanted to see me. She would
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not she didn't want no, she did not want no blank space, no
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blank nothing. She wants to see your face because she don't believe in you
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just hearing your voice. She got to see your face to see exactly what
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you do. And she, Um, she asked to lead us in prayer.
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And do you remember that prayer that she I'm so grateful for the time
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that we had with her, and even though it was short, I tell
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you, Um, that was my purple lip friend. M We have some
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memories and I'm glad that we were able to create those memories. Um.
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She would always be a part of the Crew podcast. Um, she was
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able to come on and host her own show. Yeah, forever hold that
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memory. Um, I mean, that is just something special that we will
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always carry with us. And I'm just I'm grateful to you for allowing us
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in your space and allowing us that time because you could have you could have
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just said no, but yeah, I could have listen. I could have
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kept my mama to myself because there were many times that I wanted to I
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did not want to share her with anybody, but it would not have been
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um, it wouldn't have been fair. You guys needed to um. You
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guys needed to see her as much as I needed to see her in that
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prayer. Oh my god, I'm I'm getting ready to share this prayer with
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you guys, because it was her hilarious and these are my mama's words,
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they're not mine, and it went like this, they're heavenly Father, thank
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you for the opportunity that I never thought I would see for my daughter to
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have friends, because I swear I never believe that this child of mine would
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have friends in this lifetime that I would live to see. God, that's
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it, thank you. And I mean there was a couple of cuss words
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in there too, but I'm trying to sense to that because we got I
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think we got it on video, don't we. I think so, because
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she was off the chain that day and I was like, Mama, you
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can't do that, and she was like, well shit, God knows my
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heart. She was like, and this is the truth. And I'm like,
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Mama, no, don't do that. But the love of this woman,
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the goofiness that she had was always contagious. If she laughed, you
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were gonna laugh to you. Didn't know what you was laughing at half the
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time, but you were gonna laugh with her. Well, you guys,
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I'm gonna bring my guests up, miss Myisha Henderson, and I gave you,
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guys her brief introduction, and I will give it to you once again.
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Hello her, how are you? I'm doing good girl. I'm trying
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to scream yard this to my Facebook page. I hope exactly. Well,
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if it doesn't, we're always able to share it afterwards. But I gave
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a brief introduction of you before you got on, and I'll do that again
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so that you'll know what was said. This is my friend and my sister,
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Miss Myisha Henderson. She was born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia.
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She is the founder of Sisters Empowerment Movement. She is the owner of Explicit
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Moneque Coutour. She has a passion for fashion and uplifting and encouraging women,
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which made it a natural transition for her to become a certified life coach.
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There are many other accolades that my sister and my friend has, but we're
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gonna talk about those during this conversation. So yes, is there anything else
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that you might want to add to that introduction. I mean, you did
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such an amazing job at presenting me her knee. Um, I'd like to
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say it's yes, Um, I'm in a Plum collaboration book where we are
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a number one international best spelling author. Um actually clean now my own my
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book as well as to the Moon, which we have treats just uplift and
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empower one another all the time. Yes, and see, that is how
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I met you. I posted a poem on my page and it's it was
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entitled black Woman, and you reached out to me and asked me to share
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it in the group, and then you asked me to speak. Now,
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I'm gonna be honest with you. When you asked me to speak, I
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was so terrified, and honestly, I was in the middle of replying and
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saying no, but before I realized that yes, I am so serious.
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I was in the middle of me mentally saying no, I'm not gonna do
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it, but before I realized that I had already typed yes, I will
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do this. So every day I was like, oh my god, I
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agreed to do something I've never done before in my life, is speak in
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public, and everybody's like, well, it's virtual, it'll be fun.
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You don't have to worry about anything. And I was like, y'all don't
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understand this right here. Public speaking is not something I do. Rather it's
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behind a computer or whatever. It's just not something I do. So I'm
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gonna say you now, honey, look at this like three years later,
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this is yes later, and you are doing an amazing job. Okay,
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like proud of you. You step that on, say actually get it,
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you are doing it, Like I'm proud of you. Well, I thank
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you, and I have to say thank you for believing in me and seeing
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something in me that I did not seeing myself, because had it not been
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for you, I don't think I would be here now because I was really
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about to like I said, I was going to say no, and you
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were like, you got this, you can do it. And I was
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like, okay, if you say so. But you saw something in me
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that has left me into this position and to do all of these things.
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And so I I am grateful for you for seeing what I did not see.
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Absolutely, I'm I just still can't believe it. Like you are on
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top of the world right now. I'm on top of the world because I'm
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like, I'm look what I helped do. Like you never know what you're
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doing, you know, So I mean, yeah, this was starting you.
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I love the poem and it spoke to me, so I was like,
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I just have to reach out to you. You just have to do
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this conference with me, like it's gonna be amazing, like and look at
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you. And it was truly truly amazing. And I love to be virtual.
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Yes, yes, yes, clying everything. Yes, it was amazing.
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I was so blessed and honor to be in the midst of everybody.
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So that trueness of who you are, that genline of uplifting and every woman
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there had an uplifting story to share. It wasn't anything to be shameful about
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or anything of that nature. And it was like for you to pull all
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of these people together, different backgrounds, different personalities and all of that,
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and it just kept going. If you'd left there unfulfilled that day, I
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don't know what you were doing, because there was no way for you to
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not leave there and be full of appreciation, encouragement. Everybody who came in
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there, if their cup was empty when they got there, it was overflowing
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when they left. So I am grateful to you for that moment and allowing
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me to share that space with you and everyone else. And I built other
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friendships off of that as well, because that openings for the virtual monologue that
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I did what I and I was like, I don't even know anything about
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that. And see the crazy part about that was the part that I played,
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which was mismotivation, had no speaking parts. I had to improvise that
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whole speaking part for myself. So you opened up a door that I never
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knew needed to be open. I'm just grateful. So I'm grateful that you're
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here to share this moment with me. So we're gonna talk about you following
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your passion. Let me shut up so that we could talk about it Me
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following my passion from the beginning. Oh yeah, I've always hood. I
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don't want to say it's a gift, but I have where I'm able to
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move a room. And with me being able to move a room, sometimes
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my cup get empty, and with my cup being is like, who do
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I turn to when I need help? When I need my cup to be
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field back up? Who do I come? Who do I run to?
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You know, everybody doesn't have therapists, right, right, especially with us
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being entrepreneurs sometimes, I mean entrepreneurs don't even have health insurance anything, you
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know. So so I wanted to build a safe space that we can talk
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about our trials and tribulations and what maybe going on us, get somebody back
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into give something back to you, you know. So I needed that for
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myself. So I said, hey, I got like nine to clients at
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my house and say hey, y'all, like, everybody's going through something,
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but I'm the person and that everybody comes to. But you know, I
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have this friend that it's going through. This is that same thing that you
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may be going through. But I'm not a person though. I'm not trying
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to tell nobody business. I want you to tell your own business, right
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child in the room together so that you guys can share each other's stories,
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so that you guys can feel your cup back up from each other. Yeah,
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that's how it started. And my leaving room in twoy eighteen. Okay,
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okay, So from there, I was like, well, you know
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what, we do this again and house, I'm trying to get everybody out
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like and like when I say again, were laughing, we're crying, we're
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sharing stories, We're you know, everybody is leaving so much better then they
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came. Yea. So from there it's like a it's a healing session,
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you know. So from there, yeah, I said, well, you
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know what if I do this again and bring it to the public, would
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you guys have liked some friends? Yes, everybody say is I had a
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confluence and there was seventy with some people there from ten and oh wow,
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you know, and that's when I saw this was my calling, you know.
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I was like, Okay, I have to I have to continue doing
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this. We're at a press circle, you know, were praying. We're
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praying off of our ladies, you know, everybody. It's fed spiritually and
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right now we got a Facebook group now that's like two thousand people in the
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exactly. It's so wonderful to see that I have members in different State's gonna
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be nationwide listen, and I'm waiting for it because it is happening. You
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know, that small group in the living room always had the intention to be
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bigger and be greater, and you follow that. You basically were obedient to
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what God was telling you to do. It started out with the need to
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fulfill yourself and to fulfiel what you needed. Your cup was empty, but
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afterwards you have people that poured into that cup, so you didn't leave empty
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anymore. And so the overflow that has come from that has continued to overflow
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over and over and over, and that is why it keeps building. And
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that is the most beautiful part about it is that the overflow is touching everybody
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that needs to be touched, and you can always come into that group to
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get something from that day because somebody has an uplifting poem, an uplifting scripture,
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and uplifting whatever. Whatever you're going through, you can always check in
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and get what you need from that that space, and it's a safe space.
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It's a welcoming space, and it's just it's that space. If your
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cup is running on e you can go there to be refilled and then you
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have some overflow exactly. And when you have that, I will flow.
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You give it to somebody else. You feel somebody else cup with me?
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Yeah, yep, And that's great. You know. Now you your passion
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for fashion, like I have seen your clothes and lore have mercy. I
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love them. However, like with the dresses and things like that, I'm
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so short. It's it's like our end up having to cut it and have
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two dresses because I'm social. I am five two. I don't want to
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hear that I'm for AIDS. I'm for AIDS. I got some many stuff
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I'll help for you. Okay, we'll see that's what I need, because
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that'd be my thing. Because being for eights, it's a struggle to find
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stuff that I don't have to cut off, that I don't have to him
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that I don't have to move the adjustments too, because it is a struggle
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being curvy and being sure. So I struggle a lot with that. But
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the clothes that you have are just wonderful because they fit the full figured woman,
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you know, and the small women too. I ain't ain't leaving them
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out. But it's always harder to to style a plus size woman who has
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curves, and we get frustrated sometimes because we look at it on the little
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skinny version and then they'd be like, okay, well I want to wear
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that, and then people be like, you got too many curves and guys,
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you can't put that on. Yes we can when we do it with
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grace. You have to just find stuff for your body. Fight because when
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when I'm picking these clothes out for explicing on aperture, I am putting it
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with me and I I have a little tummy, you know what I'm saying.
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I got these brands, you know, I got to have something that's
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gonna look flattering on me. Yes, you know. And I'm like again,
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it's like who else is like me? You know, just having these
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problems? You know, Yeah, we have these problems. I need to
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find calls that pick us and yeah, good when how you give me that
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topic? The pressure? Okay, pressure? Why wasn't the pressure though?
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Because I mean it's but oh my god, because that's basically what you did.
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You started all of this because it was the passion that you had,
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and it led you into all of that. It was like a gradual transition
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into this space. So it was like okay, because I sat there and
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I was like, okay, what can we talk about? Because and then
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I read your bio and so I was like, Okay, this is what
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we're gonna talk about. Like whenever I read anybody's bio, this is how
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I come up with my topics for the show. Because I'm like, nobody
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ever wants to give me a topic of what they want to talk about.
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So this is this is why I made the topic, but because I'm like,
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Okay, what would you like to talk about? Oh I don't know,
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Well I could do this or I could do that, but I don't
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know. You'd let me know. So I was reading a bio and I
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was like, Okay, she has a true passion for fashion. She started
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all of these, so this is entrepreneurship. So and she's a life coach.
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All of this is her passion, whether she realizes it was a passion
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from the fashion was just the main one that was her number one thing,
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and then she started the Sister's Empowerment movement. Then she started the fashion line,
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and then the life coaching and being able to motivate people and all of
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that kind of stuff. Oh yeah, we're gonna talk about this passion because
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there's so many passions that lead up to this. So that's what we're gonna
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do. And you started all of this from the heart and that's why it's
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it's growing and then it's building and you put or into people. I can
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attest to that because I was one of those cups that you poured into.
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You share with me, So your passion is just what that is. It
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is your passion, it is your your thing. So when you got started,
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I know you probably and you probably still have these moments where you're unsure
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of the next step. What is that's all the time today? Today?
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You know, like that is today. It's not just one time, it's
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it's all the stuff, you know, Like where do we go from here?
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Like with the with the fashion and the clothes and things like that.
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Like even when I was in school, I like dressing up. I like
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dressing. I was in seventh grade with a dress zone with a tip around
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my neck like I was in Paris. Oh my gosh, Like I was
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always dressing you know how I like to look good near It's like when I
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start gaining weight and not going to the store, it's like, oh,
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you're a hand that for me to wear. You don't have no clothes for
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me to wear. And I'm young, So if I'm young, I may
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not want to dress a certain style that this person is wearing. You know,
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like nothing in a mall. Nothing was in a mall but actually Stewart,
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Yeah that was you know, side sports teams, you know, and
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it was all people clothes, yes, all people closed exactly. So you
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gotta think about me in my twenties and I'm like, I had this baby,
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you know, I gained this weight. I'm not you know, I
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can't put on this anymore. It doesn't fit you know, what am I
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going to do? And I don't want to dress like exactly I'm sure.
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So the stuff is actually Stuart's a tall yeah, yeah, so it's not
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fit me the way I wanted to be to fit so back, So in
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two thousand and sixteen, I stepped out on't say they By the end,
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I got my degree in everything, but I didn't get my degree in fashion
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like I got excepted the Clark for fashion Merchandise and I ended up not going
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on and going into the Air Force, but it still was in the back
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of my head, right. So in two thousand and sixteen and I'm like,
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I'm gonna sell my own clothes, and about my own clothes, I'm
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gonna find the vendors. I'm about to stud these clothes. And it took
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off. You hear me, yes off, And I was like, oh,
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I didn't know. It's a need. You have to find a need.
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It was a need, you know, And even them, I want
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my breaking Border store because even them when you're going to them all what you
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gotta um and what else that Charlotte Ruth Store or Forever twenty one. But
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that's for you, that's for the young and hip. I guess you can
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call them always steel basic. Yeah it is, and it ain't nothing that
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would appeal to it. Don't appeal to me because I don't. I don't
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be knowing half that stuff that's in there. And I'll be like, okay,
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you know what, I'm ready to go. I ain't seen nothing in
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here that I like or that I want exactly exactly, so Neil, so
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Neil, it's like you want to go. And so it's cool to get
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stuff online, you know online, but how long it is gonna take the
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shield? That's the other said. Yeah, yeah, you know it's fast.
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My shipping is real fast. I ship out the next day, so
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yes, and you're gonna get your stuff, you know, and you're gonna
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have something trendy. You want to have something flirty. I feel clothes that
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are for women that's going out to brunch womens and seen them, yes,
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those little typophost that I fell. You know, it's always been a passion
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for me. So I actually had someone, um, I actually stout someone
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and I was giving them encouragement, giving them confidence as I was selling them
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m and I was like, oh dang. You know, she was like,
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I can't stop looking at these pictures and I look so good. I
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love what I have one And you know that that also goes hand in the
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hands empowered me. Yes, it's the experience all the way around. Yes,
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yes, you get the whole thing. And if you you're not experiencing
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it, you missing out because it's the whole experience, everything about what you
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do, down to starting these businesses because that's what they are, from the
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passion that you had that led to all of this. It's the experience of
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the more you pour in, the more you receive back. And you stepped
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out on faith and you started them and that's where it began. And yeah,
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it's entrepreneurship, especially for black women. It's not always the easiest thing
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to do because you have so many You have that self doubt talk with yourself
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every day because I know I have it with myself. You know, are
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people gonna pay attention to what I gotta say? Are people going to allow
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me to service them and the way that I want to be able to service
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them, you know, like with my publishing company, my goal is to
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allow people people to tell their story without me editing it and changing it to
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sensationalize their story, because that's not what it's about. Because you work with
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some editors, they want to tell you to tell to tell its story so
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that it's sensationalized for the money. It's not for the money. It's for
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them to be able to heal from whatever they need to share and they get
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to tell the authentic story of who they are and see within themselves what it
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is that other people saw or see in them, which is basically what you
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did for me. You saw something for me that has opened this door,
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and that's what I want for my clients when I work with them on publishing
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their books. And that has been the gift of service for me to give
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to them because I'm fulfilled just by working with them, and they don't understand
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how much for fulfillment that I get from being in the space with them as
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well. Yoff, you're helping someone being to get their dreams out there.
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You know. It's a lot of people that want to become authors need one
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of them. As far as like me having my own book. You know.
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Yeah, I'm gonna talk to you soon. You know, you help
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make people dreams come true. Yes, Like, I'm working with a client
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now and she had an idea and I'm like, okay, well we can
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go with that. You know, just let me know when you're ready to
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get started. However you want to tell your story, that's how we're gonna
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tell it. Don't be thinking that. I'm gonna tell you no, don't
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put that in there because I didn't go through the experience. So since I
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didn't go through that experience, I don't want you to change it because you
32:45
feel like it's gonna bother me. That's your experience. I don't get to
32:49
tell you you didn't experience you didn't feel that at all, because what you
32:52
felt is genuine. That's your experience. You put it down on paper and
32:58
we will make sure that it is structure, really sound so that your story
33:01
flows. But I'm not changing anything like that. I might change the spelling
33:06
of a word because it's misspelled, but other than that, I'm not changing
33:09
anything because that is the authentic version of yourself. And whatever happened. If
33:15
you the villain in somebody's story, so be it. You the villain in
33:19
that story. That's the role you played at that time. And that's why
33:22
I tell people. I know, I'm the villain in somebody's story, and
33:24
that's okay because that's what I meant to them at that time. Now have
33:29
I grown from that time in that space, yes, of course, But
33:31
that's what I played in their story, and I want them to tell it
33:35
how I played that role, because that's what I did for them. I
33:38
was the villain in their story. Whether they said something that I didn't agree
33:43
with, or they did something that I didn't agree with. Whatever, that's
33:47
the story. We're gonna roll with it, you know. But you know,
33:52
your gift, your power, your passion, your love for everything thing,
34:00
it's truly connected to the core of who you are. And I am
34:04
honored and grateful that I get to share the space with you. You know,
34:09
we missed each other when I was down in Myrtle Beach, you know,
34:14
because we were in passing. But you know, I still am honored
34:19
for the time in the space and the opportunity because just that small thing that
34:24
you open that door for me to share that space, and I truly,
34:30
truly was terrified to even be part of that because I'm like, these women
34:36
are truly established, they know where they're going, they know what they got
34:39
going on. Whether it was true or not, it was the way that
34:44
it was presented, you know, And it was like, Okay, do
34:46
I even belong in this space? And yeah, I know, you tell
34:52
me like that's that's how I was because I had never ever done anything like
34:58
that, and so it was like, Okay, guy, I don't know
35:00
if I'm even supposed to be in this space, because I'm telling you I
35:04
was literally and you own the room. I don't care who in the space,
35:08
okay, because I don't you own the room like it was meant to
35:14
be there. And so I was like, after it was all said and
35:19
done, I was like, Lord, I thank you for that moment.
35:22
I thank you for that opportunity. And I want to make sure that whatever
35:29
is extended to me, I extended to somebody else. And I also want
35:34
you to know, like I'm gonna keep saying it and it's probably gonna get
35:37
on your nerves. However, I'm still so so grateful, and I tell
35:40
people, like, even before we had this conversation, I would mention how
35:45
I got started with speaking in public and stuff like this, because had it
35:49
not been for you, I would not have tried out for that virtual monologue.
35:53
I was not gonna do that. That monologue had no speaking parts for
35:58
me, and so I had to come up with the skit because it had
36:01
to be five minutes. So I'm like, lord, I don't know.
36:06
You got me doing something else that's outside of my comfort body good and see
36:12
you you got his podcast, Like I ain't even started the podcast. I'm
36:16
just sending up here and I'm like, oh my gosh, you've just started
36:21
the pocas. That is amazing. Girl. Yes, to know where you've
36:30
met me at three years ago to now, it is a true transformation.
36:37
So you've been there from step one to where I am now, so you've
36:40
seen my growth and I can only hope that I have made you proud as
36:46
a little sister, big sister, because I know I'm older than you,
36:50
but I'm still small. So therefore, big little sister, Yes, I
36:54
love you see things like this. I just love you. Know it's and
37:01
it's not just you that told me this, Like I hear this all the
37:07
time even with the women that I'm coaching. Whether I started off as a
37:13
confidence coach, and I'm a personal development coach. Yes, Like it's it's
37:20
crazy. I have to thank God all the time, you know, because
37:25
if it's if it wasn't for me being obedient to him, you know,
37:30
like I wouldn't be touching as many people as I'm touching, right, And
37:37
even I get to a place that because it was like, do you ever
37:42
feel I have an impossible syndrome all the time? You know, all the
37:47
time, Like it was just more what am I about to do? What's
37:55
next? You know, like he was saying what's next? Yea, And
38:00
I just got something for camp camp but Rebels something this morning and I was
38:05
like, oh day. But it's like I don't be knowing, but you
38:10
never know who's looking at you exactly, You never looking at you, and
38:17
I don't inspire exactly. Yes, So well remain consistent, Yes, yep,
38:31
forward, that's what we do. And can you tell the guests that
38:37
are watching and listening how they can purchase your clothing, how they can get
38:43
in contact with you for coaching, how they can be part of the Sisters
38:47
empowerment movement like all of this stuff. What can they do that? Well,
38:53
it's a lot of different links, like a lot of different things.
38:57
Okay, So, if you purchase clothing, it's it's splicit money dot com.
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It's splicit MONEE m O n ae dot com. And if you want
39:13
to join Sisters Empowerment Movement, it's Sisters Empowerment Movement dot org. Sisters Empowerment
39:21
Movement dot org. We are a nonprofit organization. We do have membership programs
39:28
that are available. It includes coaching if you cannot afford coaching. You know,
39:34
if you can't afford coaching, this is the easiest way to get coaching.
39:39
By paying that forty five dollars package. Forty five dollars a month,
39:44
you get personal coaching with me for only forty five thous a month. You
39:47
can't beat it, you know, I can't beat it exactly So, and
39:53
then if you do want to pay for the hourly coaching without becoming a member,
39:58
you can just send me a take or zoro four six one eight three
40:02
one six six. Okay, I'm oh, I am so like down to
40:08
earth and I am so like, Yes, I'm gonna give my personal number.
40:14
You want to join a Facebook group, It's Sister's Empowerment Movement on Facebook.
40:21
Um, it's Sister's empowerment movement, sister's empowerment movements empowerment dot org.
40:29
Not that one, not that one, SIS empowerment movement movement. You gotta
40:32
add the movement on the Yep, you gotta gotta add the movement. And
40:37
hey girl, see I mean hub when I was in Myrtle Beach. Yeah,
40:45
yes, that is my sister, my mentor. I would not be
40:50
anything without her as well. That's why I say it has been a true
40:54
pleasure to meet these women and be in these spaces because I have been filed
41:04
more than once, and anytime I run on empty, I know where I
41:07
can go to be fieled. You know, I lost my mom last Thursday.
41:15
It's been a week today, and we buried her yesterday and what we
41:19
had her services today. So I'm here to do this show today because my
41:25
mama loved the podcast, honey. She she had her all. We did
41:30
her honorary show and so she talked about telepathy and everything. But she loved
41:37
this show. She loved the podcast, and so anytime I'd be like Mommy
41:42
and I gotta do my podcast, she would be like, Okay, We'll
41:45
bring your laptop of that thing you got, so that I can watch it,
41:49
you know, And so it's like I made sure today I had a
41:53
little moment before we really began missing my mom today. But it's an honor
42:00
to still be able to honor her and and live um through her, because
42:07
this is it. I'm wearing my blue today for her because blue is her
42:10
favorite color. So I wanted to make sure that I did this today.
42:15
Now, probably when I get off of here, I'm probably gonna go have
42:19
me a moment of crying and just you know, being there because yeah,
42:25
instead of doing this, I challenge you to journal your spiritual person. I
42:37
would tell you to journal and pray, you know, yeah, that's what
42:40
I Yes, Um, I know what crying I mean. You know,
42:45
I just went to a phonel with to a fram pass and she was my
42:49
age. Okay, yeah, so I definitely get it. But the thing
42:53
about it is they would want you to continue to move on and do when
42:59
you're supposed to be doing, like yeah, continue to make her proud,
43:04
like definitely, and you're doing an amazing job. Well thank you, even
43:08
for you too. I didn't even think that we were still gonna do this
43:12
when I saw that you posted that she passed away. I'm just gonna be
43:15
honest, because you know, sometimes we may need that time to have a
43:21
moment, you know. So so definitely I get it. And I thought
43:28
about not doing the show today, but I knew my mama was gonna be
43:34
somewhere. Said if you don't get your butt up and go do that podcast,
43:37
you can think about me after it's over. End up, but you
43:40
gonna get up. But I do definitely journal. I do pray, you
43:45
know, and I pray for the endurance to make sure that I was there
43:49
with her through her final moments and her final breath. And I did that,
43:53
and I'm grateful for that moment. I'm grateful for these these memories that
43:59
I created with her, um and so I'm I'm dedicating this show today to
44:05
her memory and everything. Yes, so you, I'm grateful that you shared
44:09
this moment with me. And then you got your your turk cards nails,
44:14
but they still go in the family of Blue Blue, Yes, you know,
44:21
Yes, so she is with us, and I'm grateful for that.
44:25
You know, you definitely have to come back again to be on the show.
44:30
I don't know what we'll talk about then, but I always come up
44:32
with a good topic and you want to talk aboutneurship. Okay, okay,
44:40
okay, because that's no joke. You got to be all willed to and
44:47
if you ain't ready to put in the work, you will quit within the
44:52
first thirty days, I promise you, if you're not determined to make it
44:57
what you set forth to do, because it's it's not for the week and
45:00
it's not for the faint of heart to be in an entrepreneur And most people
45:05
quit after even the first year when they don't see they go into it.
45:08
I think a lot of them go into it because they want that money,
45:12
but they don't go into it the gift of service, because that's what you
45:15
are offering to people, is a service. And if you're not willing to
45:20
set aside to give good customer service, good merchandise, good you know whatever,
45:27
your business ain't gonna last anyway. But if you are, yes,
45:31
I'm gonna do. I am about to do a business etiquette class. Oh
45:37
please do. I am doing it in August. I am getting okay up
45:42
right now? Okay, we need okay, when I say that us us
45:50
we yeah, people, yes, I'm a bus are not good at business
45:57
and we need that changed, you know, Yes, we have to come
46:04
correct with our other people, with our people. Yes, you cannot be
46:08
in money, but you're giving mediocre service exactly. No, you got an
46:15
attitude because I'm asking you questions about what it is that you are offering.
46:20
Just because you thinking that it's good and feel that it's good doesn't mean that
46:22
I'm gonna feel that way. You gotta be able to offer it in a
46:28
way that I'm gonna think just as much about it as anything. And if
46:31
you're not able to provide that for me, then I'm not gonna be willing
46:35
to do business with you. And if you make a mistake, own up
46:37
to your mistake and correct. But don't be like, well, you ain't
46:42
even got a shot with me, You ain't even got I. Don't do
46:45
that. Don't do that, because then you mad because people don't say,
46:47
oh, well you don't do no business with her because she got a nasty
46:52
attitude. But you're mad because that's what you presented to them. You know
46:57
you presented that, and that's the feedback that you got. So you're gonna
47:01
have to adjust yourself, adjust your attitude and fix it and deliver what you
47:07
want people to deliver to you and we want to do that. Don't be
47:10
coming over here trying to get nobody money exactly, and you have to like,
47:15
let's say you made a mistake. You like you said, you gotta
47:17
own up to it. You know, people make mistakes all the time.
47:22
Like if I say it's something about some shipping or what I'm gonna eat it.
47:25
You know I'm going to eat it. You have to own up to
47:29
what happened, you know, if you you got to do what you're supposed
47:32
to do and the follow up, yes, you get your item, it's
47:37
your item the way you wanted it to look exactly, you know, like
47:40
I want to see it, you know, like exactly where's the customer service
47:45
said, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go shop with harle I'm gonna make
47:47
sac It's not that complicated, but I swear we sometimes make it hard for
47:57
people to want to do business with us because we have that nasty attitude that
48:04
you gotta you I can't give you no discount you got and I'm like you
48:09
ain't gotta be like dad, like stop that you the price? If I
48:15
don't check on my website, what like I'm asking the posts exactly, you
48:22
know, like they've be doing the most of nothing, and then they want
48:25
to like if you if I'm asking you how much that T shirt is?
48:29
Oh, well, inbox me. I don't want the T shirt no more
48:32
because I gotta inbox you. When you could have told me it was ten
48:35
dollars or if it's fifteen dollars, you could have told me that the price
48:37
ain't gonna change, no different if you posted on the comments or you posted
48:43
in the messenger, it's the same price. So why we gotta go there
48:45
exactly? Like, I don't know, but you know we look, we
48:51
already don't started talking about this business. And no, no, we got
48:53
to do a whole other series. I'm on the look. Look next time,
48:59
next time. On believement of John Aycounticle. Yes, yes, yes,
49:04
we definitely gonna have to do that. But I am so grateful that
49:07
you shared this moment with me. Um, you definitely have to come back
49:13
and under this video once it does go lit, because it's gonna end.
49:16
We're gonna share and I'll make sure that we add your contacts and your links
49:22
and everything to where people can contact you. And you're gonna come back because
49:29
it's necessary, it is, and we just had so much fun, like
49:34
this was good? Did John have a good time? Listen? They love
49:38
us and it was just amazing, So did it yes? So as I
49:45
always end all of my shows like this man Joe business and stay out of
49:51
guys. The only thing he needs you to do is be obedient to what
49:53
he's called you to do. He don't need you to do nothing else but
49:57
that. And as always, I love you guys and think thank you for
50:00
tuning in. My next show is gonna be July the Night, so make
50:05
sure you tune in because you definitely don't want to miss Believe in the Journey
50:07
podcast. Love you fine, que I Wonder