Performer vs Yes But | Episode 258
This podcast episode, titled "Performer vs. Yes But," discusses the emotional dynamics between parents and adult children, specifically focusing on relational games where one party (often the parent) expresses needs in ways that can't be met ("Yes But"), while the other party (often the child) tries hard to meet these needs ("Performer"). The key issue is that the real emotional needs are often unspoken or veiled, leading to frustration and unfulfilled expectations.
Key points:
* "Yes But" Dynamic: The "Yes But" person expresses a need but creates obstacles when the other party tries to meet…
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