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He Left Her Walking Alone?! · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us on.
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  Speaker 3: Air with the Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 1: All right, it's good even let's check it.
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  Speaker 2: Where do you stand on this holding a spot in
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  Speaker 2: line at the grocery store? I have asked, I've been
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  Speaker 2: with people that.
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  Speaker 1: I do this.
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  Speaker 2: We have to go back and get one more thing right?
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  Speaker 2: Is it rude or is it okay? And what's the
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  Speaker 2: grace period? So here's the story. There's a there's a
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  Speaker 2: guy at the grocery store with his parents and it
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  Speaker 2: was very busy. The lines for the checkout were very long,
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  Speaker 2: so his parents asked them to hold their spot in line. Well,
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  Speaker 2: they grabbed the last few items, so, in other words,
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  Speaker 2: they weren't finished yet and they wanted him to start
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  Speaker 2: moving through the line. He gets to the front and
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  Speaker 2: his parents are still not back yet, and another customer
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  Speaker 2: spoke up, much like Sophia did with Skeletor in Primate
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  Speaker 2: with the loud people in front of it at the
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  Speaker 2: movie theater, but spoke up and said, hey, it's unfair
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  Speaker 2: and disrespectful. You can only wait in line once you've
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  Speaker 2: got your stuff. So where do you stand on that?
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  Speaker 4: Sisiny depends on how much stuff you're coming back with.
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  Speaker 4: If like you're already there with your shopping cart, then
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  Speaker 4: you're holding your stuff. If you're there just your body,
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  Speaker 4: and then all of a sudden here come as his
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  Speaker 4: parents with a ginormous shopping cart. Then the person behind
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  Speaker 4: him is like, I wouldn't have gone in line behind.
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  Speaker 1: You, So I think you run a risk.
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  Speaker 2: If you can hold the spot, go you know whoever else,
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  Speaker 2: go run and get all the things and get back
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  Speaker 2: in time before your spot is up in line.
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  Speaker 1: You ran the risk and you won.
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  Speaker 2: But if you aren't back and your son or your
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  Speaker 2: kid is up to the place at the check out
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  Speaker 2: and you're not back yet, they cannot hold up the
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  Speaker 2: line and wait for you to come back while other
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  Speaker 2: customers behind you. You cannot do that, so you run
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  Speaker 2: a risk of having to go to the back of
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  Speaker 2: the line if you do this.
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  Speaker 1: That's where I stay on this very clearly. I think
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  Speaker 1: so too.
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  Speaker 4: And also people do this at Disneyland and amusement parks,
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  Speaker 4: and this is why people get in fights now.
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  Speaker 1: We're seeing because they'll roll up.
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  Speaker 4: With like four people.
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  Speaker 1: Oh on, my mom's there.
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  Speaker 2: To get remind yourself you're not supposed to fight at
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  Speaker 2: Disneyland's the happiest place on earth. Remind yourselves all right?
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  Speaker 2: Coming up next, I get your five hund bucks and
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  Speaker 2: back to school cash. Let's get going this morning on
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  Speaker 2: kiss FM it now, do you measure the amount of
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  Speaker 2: time Do you calculate the amount of time it takes
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  Speaker 2: somebody to respond to a text that you send out?
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  Speaker 1: Do you do that? Are you that person or not? Sisney?
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  Speaker 1: Is that person?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 2: If she texts us and we don't text her back
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  Speaker 2: within a certain amount of time and she sees us
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  Speaker 2: texting someone else for example, Oh, in a group chat
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  Speaker 2: that Rially text me and I were to respond to
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  Speaker 2: the group or respond to Tanya in the group before
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  Speaker 2: siciny she I wouldn't say she'd ald a grudge.
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  Speaker 5: But.
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  Speaker 4: Not in I don't care about the order of you
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  Speaker 4: responding in a group chat. I'm just saying if if
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  Speaker 4: I text you separately, that.
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  Speaker 1: I know that. That's what I said.
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  Speaker 2: If you text me and I don't respond to you,
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  Speaker 2: but I respond to the group.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like noted if that's a grudge.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Anyway, in case in point, there's a friend of
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  Speaker 2: minor that's watching your IG stories but didn't text you
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  Speaker 2: back and you're holding.
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  Speaker 1: Across I know.
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  Speaker 4: So I texted Tanya, I'm just kidding. It's notna, Tanya, I.
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  Speaker 1: Have a friend that I just you know.
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  Speaker 4: It was one of those things where I was like,
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  Speaker 4: oh my gosh, she was told me about this restaurant
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  Speaker 4: that she went to, and so I was trying to
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  Speaker 4: figure out what it was and I couldn't think of
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  Speaker 4: the name.
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  Speaker 1: So I texted her like, hey, what was the name
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  Speaker 1: of that? D D D D nothing?
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  Speaker 4: And then I went on with life and I forgot
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  Speaker 4: about it too. And then that night I was laying
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  Speaker 4: on the couch and I see that she's responded, like
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  Speaker 4: she actually like saw my stories and like responded in
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  Speaker 4: a group chat that we're in, And I was like,
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  Speaker 4: wait a minute, and so like, either she forgot about
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  Speaker 4: me and it's not that big of a deal, But
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  Speaker 4: then do I say something?
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  Speaker 1: And now, how do you care? Why do you care?
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't there a therapy session.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't clearly want to respond to whatever it was
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  Speaker 2: you were talking about, whether she forgot about you, whether
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  Speaker 2: she doesn't want to talk about the topic, but don't
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  Speaker 2: let that navigate any of your emotion.
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  Speaker 1: That's the problem.
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  Speaker 4: Fine, and you're right, and I won't let that navigate
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  Speaker 4: my emotions. But what it made me realize is that
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  Speaker 4: I also do this, and so now I'm hyper aware
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  Speaker 4: of when someone texts me and I haven't responded to them,
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  Speaker 4: and then if I see their story, then that reminds me.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my gosh, I need to go respond
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  Speaker 4: to the text before I.
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  Speaker 1: Like their story. Yes, so you okay, So all this
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  Speaker 1: stuff is a calculation. To you. What I do sometimes
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  Speaker 1: is if you don't respond.
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  Speaker 2: I think it seems very Now when I actually get
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  Speaker 2: it sent to me, it seems really harsh and rude.
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  Speaker 2: But I'll just send boop question mark boop one line
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  Speaker 2: question mark.
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  Speaker 1: But it's harsh. I didn't know it was so harsh.
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  Speaker 1: I think you can do that's a little bit cuter.
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  Speaker 4: Is the eyeballs like the two eyes just looking like?
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  Speaker 6: So I use the microphone emoji and I say, is
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  Speaker 6: this thing on much better?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: The question mark is harsh.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, m Elsie, good morning, good mom, Thank you for calling.
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  Speaker 1: How can we help you.
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  Speaker 7: My brother and sister in law just recently had a baby,
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  Speaker 7: which is awesome, and we're you know, all exce about it.
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  Speaker 7: I totally get that they want to be, like you,
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  Speaker 7: extremely careful, protective right now. But I just said out
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  Speaker 7: something that just doesn't sit well with me at all,
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  Speaker 7: kind of weird. So my husband and I work full time,
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  Speaker 7: and so our daughter she goes to daycare, you know,
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  Speaker 7: a few times a week, and all the days that
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  Speaker 7: she's not in daycare, my mom and dad you know,
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  Speaker 7: watch her, and that's been a huge help and everything.
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  Speaker 7: But recently our daughter had already nose major nothing major
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  Speaker 7: or anything, you know, usual daycare stuff. You know, they
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  Speaker 7: come home with us, nanny knows, not a big deal.
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  Speaker 7: So we decided to you know, add a caution and
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  Speaker 7: respect you know, withhold friend, you know, visiting the new
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  Speaker 7: baby for a bit, because we don't want to risk anything.
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  Speaker 7: You know, totally understand, I'm a mom, But I thought
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  Speaker 7: from my mom that my brother told my parents that
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  Speaker 7: they shouldn't be around my daughter because they shouldn't be
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  Speaker 7: visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter, and
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  Speaker 7: they wanted them to.
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  Speaker 3: Wait like a few days after just as like a period,
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  Speaker 3: because my daughter goes to daycare, like she's some kind
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  Speaker 3: of weird walking.
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  Speaker 2: Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs
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  Speaker 2: that's where we are, right.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, Like, I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going
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  Speaker 7: to have more cold than ready noses and everything.
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  Speaker 3: How old is the baby it's a newborn, like like
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  Speaker 3: a month.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let's let's flip the rolls.
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  Speaker 2: If you just had your daughter, would you feel the
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  Speaker 2: same way about their kids?
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  Speaker 1: There was it daycare?
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  Speaker 7: I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are
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  Speaker 7: trying to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to
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  Speaker 7: because I understand, you know, but their daughter.
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  Speaker 4: Right, Oh, so they don't even want your parents around.
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  Speaker 4: It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because
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  Speaker 4: your parents, your.
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  Speaker 2: Parents were around your right yes yeah, yes, okay, so
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  Speaker 2: they're thinking, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: If they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really care.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I don't think it's judgmental.
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  Speaker 4: They're trying to protect their baby.
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  Speaker 1: That's their prerogative. That's I think I would take it
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  Speaker 1: personally at all.
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  Speaker 4: A month is young, But if baby's like six months
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  Speaker 4: old at this point they're still kind of doing this stuff,
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  Speaker 4: then that's just annoying.
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  Speaker 2: I think Sisney's got a good point. Let's see how
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  Speaker 2: how long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment,
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  Speaker 2: because they just have this new baby and let them
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  Speaker 2: be overprotective. But let's ride this out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you respect it.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I get it.
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  Speaker 4: By the third kid, they're not going to care because
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  Speaker 4: I was the same way with the twins. I mean
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  Speaker 4: I was like, hands in his eyes, wash your hands,
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  Speaker 4: but oh, do you put a.
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  Speaker 1: Rag over your shoulder. Don't let it touch your actual clothes.
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  Speaker 1: And then by Sevilla was just like, hey, you want
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  Speaker 1: to hold her. So it's just time, Elsie, good luck,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for calling.
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  Speaker 7: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Don't like it under your skin. It's not worth letting
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  Speaker 2: it be personal. I think they're just being over protected.
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  Speaker 1: His FM.
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  Speaker 2: When you go to the doctor's office, they always give
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  Speaker 2: me a clipboard and they say fill all the stuff out,
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  Speaker 2: and I you know, have filled out right, yeah, check
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  Speaker 2: check chuck check check sign. So the dirtiest place in
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  Speaker 2: the doctor's office is that clipboard. It's the clip yeah,
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  Speaker 2: id it has more than forty six thousand times more
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  Speaker 2: germs than a toilet seat.
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  Speaker 1: Questionnaire in the clip pad. That's crazy. I never have
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  Speaker 1: to about that. Tell your friends that that's crazy. Today's quote, what.
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  Speaker 2: Is not started today is never finished by tomorrow. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: you get a jump on it, So Tanya, doctor next week?
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  Speaker 1: No, no clipboard please? Yeah, your own gloves.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I'm gonna look so instant And they got him.
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  Speaker 1: There, use their gloves morning.
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  Speaker 2: FM Headlines with Tanya red Well.
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  Speaker 6: A pack of coyotes has taken over and abandoned construction
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  Speaker 2: Why don't two point seven It's Kiss FM. If a
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  Speaker 2: guy on a date doesn't walk you back to your car.
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  Speaker 2: Is that a red flag?
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  Speaker 1: Did Skeletor Sophia when he first started dating you? How
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  Speaker 1: old Skeletor He's twenty four, so twenty.
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  Speaker 2: Four year old Skeletor walk you back to your car
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  Speaker 2: at the beginning.
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  Speaker 8: Well, he actually picked me up, so it's more of.
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  Speaker 2: Like, did he open the door or lean over to
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  Speaker 2: open the door from inside?
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  Speaker 8: No, he got out, he was waiting for me. He
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  Speaker 8: opened the car door, and then he actually walked me
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  Speaker 8: to my apartment door when he dropped me off.
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  Speaker 1: But go back to the car.
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  Speaker 2: When he stood there on guard for your arrival, put
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  Speaker 2: you in the car, did you then lean over the
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  Speaker 2: center console and pop his door open?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 2: Cool, that's the response. That's the considered response. Guy is
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  Speaker 2: standing there opens your door, then you just from the
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  Speaker 2: inside lean over and just try and pop his door.
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  Speaker 1: Just open the latch so it's unlatched.
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  Speaker 2: Guys, this is what you do if you if you
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  Speaker 2: think about it.
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  Speaker 1: It's nice, isn't it. Okay, Well, let me talk to Megan. Megan.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Megan, I'm good. So the guy I didn't
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  Speaker 2: walk you back to your car?
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  Speaker 5: Right, Yes, we went on our first date and it
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  Speaker 5: was in downtown LA and I had to park in
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  Speaker 5: a parking garage like about a block away, and after
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  Speaker 5: the date, he didn't even offer to walk into my car.
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  Speaker 5: So now I'm like, is that a red flag? Like?
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  Speaker 5: Can I go out with him again?
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  Speaker 1: No? No, it's rude.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, he should be mindful of getting you
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  Speaker 2: safely to your car.
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  Speaker 1: Number one.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's just a polite thing to do, right, He
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  Speaker 2: gets more time with you, he has the peace of
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  Speaker 2: mind and knowing that you got to your car and
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  Speaker 2: you're on your way home, like all those things should
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  Speaker 2: be in Yeah. The fact that they're not, I think
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  Speaker 2: it is a red flag. And I really think that
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  Speaker 2: traits like that from the beginning can only get worse.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree, No, definitely.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I was thinking it's a safety thing too.
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  Speaker 4: It's like the parking garage late at night.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you should be walked downtown too, Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: I was a little nervous, but when he said he
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  Speaker 5: got in the car.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, whatever, this guy is not deserving
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  Speaker 1: more time or attention.
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  Speaker 5: Perfect, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, what's his name? Should we out him? No?
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  Speaker 2: He knows who he is now if he doesn't think
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  Speaker 2: about things like that.
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  Speaker 1: He's just not going to be considerate as we go on.
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  Speaker 1: It's true.
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  Speaker 2: Come on in for this one time for a second
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  Speaker 2: date update. I got Alex on the phone. Let me
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  Speaker 2: jump into Alex. Alex, good morning, bro, how are you.
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  Speaker 9: I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: I'm all right.
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  Speaker 2: So this is what's always fascinating about these second date
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  Speaker 2: update stories. You think one thing, the woman you think
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  Speaker 2: you were totally connected with, thinks the opposite and just
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  Speaker 2: stops you, like she just closes the shop.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't get it exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Something I don't need to happen something us that. But
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  Speaker 2: let me get some backtory. So you met her at
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  Speaker 2: an after party. Is anything good ever happen at the
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  Speaker 2: after party?
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  Speaker 1: No? Yeah, lots of good fun happens to Alex. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: you met it the after party. What happened?
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  Speaker 2: Uh?
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  Speaker 9: You know I saw her at the party, like from
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  Speaker 9: across the room, and uh, you know, and she's super
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  Speaker 9: hot and uh so you know, I went over and
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  Speaker 9: a bought our drink and we talked and it was
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  Speaker 9: cool and we exchanged instas and you know, we dmmed
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  Speaker 9: a little bit. Uh, nothing too exciting. But then I
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  Speaker 9: was at Toppy in lest Hollywood like the next week,
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  Speaker 9: and and she was there and uh so we talked
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  Speaker 9: more and I went ahead and I asked her out
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  Speaker 9: and she said yes, and you know, we went on
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  Speaker 9: to like great dates. We went back to my place
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  Speaker 9: and it was super fun and and then, I mean
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  Speaker 9: I thought it was great, and I asked her to
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  Speaker 9: hang out again and she said, I don't think it's
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  Speaker 9: going to work out, but thanks for fun dates.
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, okay, so you went to what happened like,
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  Speaker 2: we'll get like, can you imagine anything that you saw all, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's a smell something, it's it's.
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  Speaker 1: A no, no, no, it's a habit they see anything.
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  Speaker 9: I got a great apartment, it's immaculate. I got a job.
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  Speaker 9: I'm you know, I mean, I'm you know, I'm a
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  Speaker 9: little older than she is. I don't know. Maybe that
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  Speaker 9: bo you know how many years afferent, like I don't know,
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  Speaker 9: a dozen maybe or a dozen ish twelve It.
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  Speaker 2: Says a dozen for years right there, and maybe how
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  Speaker 2: you calculate time.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know.
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  Speaker 9: I thought it. I got along great.
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  Speaker 1: I understand, I understand. I understand. Matthew McConaughey. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: there's somebody who sounds like and I can't play it.
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  Speaker 1: It's like it's like Matthew McConaughey. It's like I'm on
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  Speaker 1: a roller coast. You're going up and down.
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  Speaker 2: Click click, whoa.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it was I get older and the nobody was charming.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's charming. Hold on, what is it? A
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  Speaker 1: dozen ish years? Was it? Does it for a dozen
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  Speaker 1: or so? And it's not. He's definitely more than twelve first,
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  Speaker 1: I mean it might be twenty. You say a dozen ish,
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  Speaker 1: Who says a does you.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely have a different generation if you say a dozen ish? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: let's come back. It's a second D update. This is
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  Speaker 2: why we come together to figure this out for Alex.
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  Speaker 2: Second D update kids, f M. The whole point of
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  Speaker 2: this is to try and get to the bottom of it.
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  Speaker 2: It's the same thing with Ryan's roses. You just want
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  Speaker 2: peace of mine, the same concept, I guess. But this
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: is when you're not in the deep relationship. So Alex
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: reached his eyes, like, okay, dude, I met this girl
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: at an after party and we ran into each other
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: on the wild meant to be, meant to be. We
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: went out on several dates then all of a sudden,
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: she comes back to my place. Didn't he say she
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: came back to my place?
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: He did?
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: He said, it went back to my place.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: At that one problem too.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: We got a few situations where someone goes back to
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: his place and what they see, smell, or encounter is
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: the problem.
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: But he said, my my apartment is immaculate and it's nice.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: He did. Right, that's like me saying I'm six too. Well,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: we don't know that.
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it could be that he should be,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: but I don't think he also, he did say, he
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: did say. Maybe.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: I said, can you say anything, bro go deep with me,
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: anything you can think of that might be the problem.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Oh well, maybe it's our age gap. What's the age gap?
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: He said, a dozen ish or more? A dozen ish,
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: It could be twenty years when you say something like that.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm thinking. All right, So Alex, hold on, Alex.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: We got her to come on the line. You're gonna
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: listen in to everything. Don't say anything. We wanna try
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: and find out. Okay, okay, Hey Liz, thanks for joining.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Us this morning.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: You're on erics writing seacrest TONI in siciny. How you
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: doing I'm all right, we're great. So we're calling you
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: about this guy named Alex. Remember going out with Alex Alix?
• 16:57
  Speaker 10: Oh okay, yeah, really?
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: How is Alex? How was Alex? What'd you think of Alex?
• 17:04
  Speaker 10: He was, he was really nice, But it was just
• 17:09
  Speaker 10: the dates we went on. We're just a reminder not
• 17:12
  Speaker 10: to date divorced guys.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: But then why go out with him a few tures?
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Like why keep going on dates with him?
• 17:19
  Speaker 10: Well, he was, he was really nice. I was having
• 17:22
  Speaker 10: fun with him, but the time, the date when we
• 17:25
  Speaker 10: went back to his place, that kind of became more clear.
• 17:30
  Speaker 10: But like I've been out with divorced guys before, I've
• 17:32
  Speaker 10: been out with guys who have never been married, guys
• 17:34
  Speaker 10: have never been married, who are older than me, Like,
• 17:37
  Speaker 10: they definitely have their issues too, but the energy with
• 17:40
  Speaker 10: divorced guys is really different. Like I feel like they're
• 17:43
  Speaker 10: just like they're just trying to replace their wife in
• 17:47
  Speaker 10: a way.
• 17:48
  Speaker 6: Talk to us about dating older guys who never been
• 17:51
  Speaker 6: married before?
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: What are those what are those flags?
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: Well, just like.
• 18:05
  Speaker 10: Are they older? Are they still like in college? That's
• 18:08
  Speaker 10: kind of the vibe. It's like they they haven't grown up?
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: Is the vibe? That.
• 18:13
  Speaker 10: But then but then some divorced guys are too are
• 18:15
  Speaker 10: too grown, and it's hard to find the right balance.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: So why older guys? Then sounds like the older guy's
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: path is not your path?
• 18:24
  Speaker 10: Yes, well no, no, I mean, I mean I older guys.
• 18:29
  Speaker 10: I don't know. I'm just open to whoever is like
• 18:32
  Speaker 10: nice and cool and and Alex seems really nice and cool.
• 18:35
  Speaker 10: Like there's there's nothing, so they're bad.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: So just trying to wrap my head around for our
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: own benefit here just to understand. So there are little
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: signs Alex not the guy for you. Then you go
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: home with him and you realize he's definitely not the guy.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: What was it that made you decide that when you
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: went back to his good question?
• 18:54
  Speaker 10: Okay, well there weren't even that many times that he
• 18:56
  Speaker 10: wasn't the guy for me before going back to his house.
• 18:59
  Speaker 10: So like, I go back to his house and it's
• 19:03
  Speaker 10: totally it's not like messy, it's not bad, it's just.
• 19:06
  Speaker 7: He was like.
• 19:08
  Speaker 10: He would be like, oh, what do you what do
• 19:11
  Speaker 10: you think of? Like my outfits in my closet or
• 19:14
  Speaker 10: like what should what clothes should I put together? Like
• 19:16
  Speaker 10: what curtains in this living room?
• 19:19
  Speaker 9: Would look good. Like it was weird.
• 19:20
  Speaker 10: I was like auditioning to become his wife or something.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 19:24
  Speaker 10: He was like asking me about like my you know,
• 19:28
  Speaker 10: like my advice about his life and like how he lives.
• 19:32
  Speaker 10: And that's just like I'm not trying to do that.
• 19:34
  Speaker 10: I'm twenty four. Like I'm just trying to have fun.
• 19:37
  Speaker 10: I'm not trying to take on the role of someone's wife.
• 19:40
  Speaker 10: I felt bad though, because like it's definitely clear he's lonely.
• 19:44
  Speaker 10: But I mean, yeah, I'm just like not up for
• 19:47
  Speaker 10: all that right now at my age.
• 19:49
  Speaker 9: That's all.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear you.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we have Alex on the phone and I
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: want to bring him in Alis. Does this make any
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: sense to you?
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 19:57
  Speaker 9: A whole ouch number one? I mean is that really?
• 20:02
  Speaker 9: Oh how I come off? It's a bummer.
• 20:08
  Speaker 10: Okay, I did not know you on the line.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: But that's good because we may not have gotten the truth.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: And I think everybody's happy.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Alex. This is very constructive, Christian.
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the most constructive you have done, crystal
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: clear position on this, So this is actually really good.
• 20:25
  Speaker 10: Yeah, Like I just like being more interested in me
• 20:28
  Speaker 10: as opposed to like how I would help benefit, your life,
• 20:32
  Speaker 10: your apartment, your your look, whatever it might be. But anyway,
• 20:38
  Speaker 10: you're really nice.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but this is the best kind of it
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: didn't work out scenario. Everybody gets everybody, and everybody's a
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: nice person. It's just that it's not for me. And
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: I like you, and you're a good person. You're a
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: good guy, and you're a good wiz.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: You know. So Look, that's what we knew. We learned.
• 20:58
  Speaker 9: I didn't know. I can't. I didn't know. I can't
• 20:59
  Speaker 9: even off that way, you know. I guess I appreciate
• 21:03
  Speaker 9: hearing it. I am divorced, and I thought maybe I'm
• 21:06
  Speaker 9: less over that than I thought. But you know, it's
• 21:09
  Speaker 9: good to hear it. Good here and she rocks and
• 21:11
  Speaker 9: I'm sorry, you know whatever. I think she's really cool
• 21:13
  Speaker 9: and thank you you good good, good to hear, good
• 21:17
  Speaker 9: and bad to hear at the same times.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: What's your age gap between the two of you.
• 21:23
  Speaker 10: Well, I'm twenty four.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: And he got the legs.
• 21:29
  Speaker 9: I'm thirty seven.
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: I can't about thirteen.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was right, he was not wrong.
• 21:37
  Speaker 9: All right.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: Well, hey, guys, thank you, We appreciate both of you,
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: and good luck on your search for the right person.
• 21:42
  Speaker 9: All right, thanks guys, thank you.
• 21:47
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacret.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: All right, this is Kiss FM. Now some of the
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: things that social media can be good, some of them
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: not so good. This is actually deductive. This one here
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: a productive trend on social media. It's called the admin night.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: Admin is something that is a word. Admin is a
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: word that makes I get afraid of admin. Yeah, it
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: makes me nervous, it gives me anxiety. But admin night
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: is something where you make social and admin project right exactly.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: So think about all the admin stuff that we have
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: to do sometimes maybe it's our to do list. I mean,
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: it's like those emails that you need to respond to,
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: dentist appointments, all the stuff that you're just like, I'll
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: get to it eventually. Well, they're saying, have like an
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: admin night party with your friends. So everyone comes over
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: and everyone kind of kind of like handles that to
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: do list together. But you're like drinking, eating, having fun.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: No, it doesn't work, You're not going to get it done.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: The admin is you want to get all those tasks
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: like cleaning up my closet, cleaning up the clutter my
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: glove compartment, cleaning up my desk, Stroyers. You want to
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: get all of that done as fast and as efficiently
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: as possible by having people over, It's only going to
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: distract me. I'm a not going to do a good job.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I'm be not going to get through it. And see,
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to be focused. So I think it's
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: actually a terrible idea.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: No, it is not a terrible idea at all. Think
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: about like all the random emails that you want to
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: unsubscribe to.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: It's just I need to focus.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I can't do that and also listen to you talk
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: about whatever you're talking about. It's not I can't do that,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: And I don't want to mix the two, like admin
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: needs to be torture and social needs to be pleasure.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: Like otherwise I wouldn't know what's pleasure what's torture.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Sometimes you have so much stuff on your to do
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: list that you don't get to have the social fund.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: So why not just on a Sunday, Git.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: Get up early on a Saturday, get this stuff done
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: in the morning with coffee.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: It's the best way to do it.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: Well, this is taking over for twenty twenty six. You'll
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: see you're going to be invited to my admin night
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: and you better come.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: No kiss FM Sophia.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Here, the situation is you're you're kind of seeing the
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: sky skeletor I don't kind of, but you haven't made
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: it official yet.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: So but you've been seeing him.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Regularly skeletor wow three years your senior the scout or
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: an older guy. Yes, and your friend has asked you
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: to wing with her and you don't know if you can.
• 24:08
  Speaker 8: Yeah, so she wants to go out and actually, like
• 24:12
  Speaker 8: run a two man. And when you run a two man,
• 24:14
  Speaker 8: it's basically that you and your best friend you go
• 24:17
  Speaker 8: after two best friends. So you go, fine, two like
• 24:21
  Speaker 8: guys who are together as friends, and your friend takes
• 24:24
  Speaker 8: one and you take the other one.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: Well, hold, hold, hold, but who takes one for the
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: team if you're not into one? Do you have to
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: take one for the team? Or they have vice versa?
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Like what if the guys aren't equally as attractive? Like
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: do you go into the two men saying, okay, whoever
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: gets a cute one gets a cute one, and the
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: other one's got to take one for the two man team?
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 24:45
  Speaker 8: You just sometimes you got to suck it up. But thankfully,
• 24:48
  Speaker 8: my best friend and I have opposite tastes, so usually
• 24:51
  Speaker 8: it works out in our favor.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Well, my opinion is, you can't run a two man
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: and go out with another man of the two men. Why,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: you've got a boyfriend a boyfriend, but she wants it
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: to be and if you do this, it's gonna for
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: sure screwed up if he finds out.
• 25:04
  Speaker 8: That's what I'm thinking, Like, I feel like it's so disrespectful.
• 25:07
  Speaker 8: But then my friend she's like, well, you guys aren't
• 25:09
  Speaker 8: in a relationship and you're not official, and he hasn't
• 25:12
  Speaker 8: asked you, and this and that.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: So, but your friend has the motive to want to
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: get you to do this because she wants to meet
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: the other man of the two man, so she's got
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: an agenda here.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: This could really screw up your situation.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: And your intention is probably to go out and kind
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: of pretend to be after this OA, but not really.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: So I think it's a bad idea.
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: No, I say, keep your options open. This guy is
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: not making an official with you, and you know what,
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: it's fair game.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: And to you, skeletor if you're listening, she's being offered
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: to go out and have a run.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: A two man, so get on it. Bro get on.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: It sounds intense.
• 25:46
  Speaker 8: He is listening, Thank you, Ryan.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Clock is ticking turned twenty one too. Things are going
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: to change.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Skeletor m sweating during this show. I actually perspire now,
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's kiss FM. Yeah. I have those moments
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: where you have they call egg on your face. You
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: don't like get egg on your face. It's a moment
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: where you you ask somebody something and they don't answer
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: you back, or it's a form of rejection in a way. Actually,
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I went to extend my hand to shake my hand
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: to somebody just yesterday, and they didn't see it, and
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: so I tried to slowly, casually bring it back down
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: to my hip pocket as if I didn't extend it.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: But third party people saw me extend it knew that
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: I was blown off. Now, they didn't bring it up
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: and make it awkward. I didn't bring it up and
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: make it awkward, but we all knew it happened. Bekayla,
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: This is what you can relate to, right, this just
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: happened to you. What was the moment you had egg?
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: The expression egg on your face?
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: What happened?
• 26:40
  Speaker 11: So I was at a friend's birthday party, and so
• 26:42
  Speaker 11: we had a lot of mutual friends there and he
• 26:45
  Speaker 11: waved at me, or so I thought, and I waved back,
• 26:49
  Speaker 11: and he was waving at the person that was next
• 26:51
  Speaker 11: to me, and I was so embarrassed because he walked
• 26:54
  Speaker 11: over and he walked over to the other person.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: No matter what it.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Says about you, is your polite person waving to strangers.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, you're a good person.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: How about you at the restaurant and they say, enjoy
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: your meal before they can finish, you go you two?
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: I say, have a nice day, you too. Anyway, it's
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: egg on our face. We've all had it happen. But
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: it says you're a good person. You're polite, you're courteous.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: You know what. You went out of your way not
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: to have that person feel bad. You didn't know who
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: they were waving to you, that's true, but out of
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: being kind and generous, you waved back and they didn't care.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Way I look at it.
• 27:33
  Speaker 10: Thank you.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: One on two point seven kiss FM. I was gonna
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: do it for us this morning. One more thing before
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: we go. What's your favorite piece of equipment at the playground, Tanya?
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I like a swing, me too. Because I pumped my legs. Yeah,
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I'm going to pump. What about you?
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: Isn't he the slide? You guys have a favorite playground
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: piece of equipment. Mikayla in the back.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Room, being too, How about Druby. I like the teeter totter,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: of course you do. My kids always get hurt on
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: that thing. Be careful of the teeter totter.
• 28:07
  Speaker 6: But you can't do teeter totter alone.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I thought it was called a seesaw.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Is it not.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: We're out of time this teater it's a sea saw
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: the same thing? Is it the same thing?
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: With me?
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: We'll come back tomorrow. I always called it a teeter totter.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: But stay too, you guys confused, she said y