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From Office Negativity to Nostalgic Joy: Work, Disney, and Aging · All About The Joy

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Carmen Lezeth: She won't buy it In more ways than one.
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Carmen Lezeth: Oh, now you're fine.
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Carmen Lezeth: Now you're fine.
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Carmen Lezeth: Hey everyone, Welcome to All About the Joy.
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Carmen Lezeth: And as soon as I said that, you froze for half a second, Now you're back.
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Carmen Lezeth: We're always going to have technical difficulties.
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Carmen Lezeth: I think it's just every show.
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Carmen Lezeth: I think every show is just going to be this kind of thing where we have technical difficulties.
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Carmen Lezeth: Andrea said she might show up, or she said she was going to hope she does.
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Carmen Lezeth: I haven't talked to her in a long time.
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Carmen Lezeth: She's so busy.
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Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so I everyone knows I have I actually have four clients, but I consider two of them one at this point because they're a family, like it's just crazy.
0:34
Carmen Lezeth: But anyways, so I have four clients.
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Carmen Lezeth: I am having really tough time doing my work because I'm just tired of the negativity in these offices.
0:43
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just tired of the negativity in these offices.
0:49
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, Tony, it's so funny because people will say that I'm mean or I'm yelling or whatever I'm like.
0:52
Carmen Lezeth: Yes, I'm yelling, yes, I'm glad you noticed what is happening right now.
0:56
Carmen Lezeth: Do you know what I mean?
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Carmen Lezeth: But today at my other the saintly job I call it the saintly job it it's just my client flew in people that some of we haven't met.
1:06
Carmen Lezeth: I've met most of them, but some people have met because they're in other countries.
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Carmen Lezeth: So he flew everybody in because they're all going to Disney crap.
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Rick Costa: I honestly like oh, that's right.
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Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, billy's here too, so I will see Billy.
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Carmen Lezeth: This week.
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Carmen Lezeth: I'm not going to Disney, I know y'all.
1:19
Carmen Lezeth: I will not be at Disney.
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Carmen Lezeth: I will not be live streaming from Disney.
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Carmen Lezeth: I am not.
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Carmen Lezeth: I respect Disney.
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Carmen Lezeth: I care that Disney is a good company that supports the things I support, or whatever, but I just don't care.
1:32
Carmen Lezeth: I don't care.
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Rick Costa: Live from the house of mouse.
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Rick Costa: I don't.
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Carmen Lezeth: I mean, the best thing I love about Disney is that they acquired Marvel.
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Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
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Carmen Lezeth: But all that other stuff beforehand, I just never Look.
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Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia wants to hit me, because if you don't know, cynthia, why don't you tell everyone, on a scale of one to 10, what kind of Disney fan you are At 20.
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Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah, hey Melanie.
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Carmen Lezeth: Hey Melanie, how are you, how are you doing?
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Rick Costa: She's a Disney fan as much as I'm a Marvel fan.
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Carmen Lezeth: Yes, yeah, you guys are nuts, yeah, but you like, if marvel went elsewhere, you'd go with marvel, you're not stuck on disney.
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Carmen Lezeth: Oh no, yeah, see, yeah, okay, let me just finish.
2:15
Carmen Lezeth: I just want to give a shout out because I know some of these people are listening today.
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Carmen Lezeth: So we met a lot of people that we work with, usually on slack and zoom and it's all internet online, whatever, and they whatever, and they were flown in and so it's part of a gift that he gave them was to fly them all in to go to Disney, blah, blah, blah, whatever.
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Carmen Lezeth: But it doesn't matter.
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Carmen Lezeth: I just want to say that working with these people, we work so seamlessly together, almost because we have to, because we're like we're taking care of a huge company, but from different parts of the world, and then when you meet people and you're like, oh my God, and you feel the connection, it's so cool, it's so cool and they're just so, everybody's so respectful and I don't know.
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Carmen Lezeth: I'm sure I would like people would get on my nerves, but it's just a different vibe.
2:56
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if you guys have that at your work.
2:58
Carmen Lezeth: Like, have you ever experienced that?
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Carmen Lezeth: There's one part of maybe your office where the vibe is different from.
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Carmen Lezeth: I just have this in different companies and I can keep doing my work, if I can work with people who are positive, and even when something bad happens, it's not like you dig the hole deeper.
3:12
Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
3:13
Carmen Lezeth: It's like let's figure out a way to oh my God, you know everybody's.
3:16
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, there's a problem, let's try to work together and fix it, whereas the other place there's a problem and everyone's like I didn't do it, that's not my job.
3:24
Carmen Lezeth: I was like walking around and this past weekend I was like I really don't want to.
3:28
Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to work for these people anymore.
3:29
Carmen Lezeth: It's so bad.
3:30
Carmen Lezeth: Look at Melanie say will the Avengers take over Disney?
3:32
Carmen Lezeth: I don't think so.
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Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
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Carmen Lezeth: Rick, have you seen Deadpool yet?
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Carmen Lezeth: Yes, okay, we'll talk about it later.
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Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia, did you see Deadpool yet?
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Carmen Lezeth: Not yet.
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Carmen Lezeth: No, anyways, work-wise, just oh, we lost him.
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Carmen Lezeth: He just popped back on and popped back out again.
3:53
Carmen Lezeth: Uh-oh, wow.
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Carmen Lezeth: What is happening, dude?
3:58
Carmen Lezeth: What are you doing?
3:59
Rick Costa: My stupid VPN.
4:00
Rick Costa: I just turned it off.
4:01
Rick Costa: I don't know why that does that.
4:02
Rick Costa: It's so weird.
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Carmen Lezeth: I was like you need to get all upset about Marvel and Disney.
4:09
Rick Costa: They're listening and they cut me off.
4:10
Rick Costa: Tony's going, you're right.
4:15
Carmen Lezeth: Oh look who's here, Big Marvel fan coming on.
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Cynthia Ruiz: The biggest.
4:23
Carmen Lezeth: Hey Andrea, how are you?
4:25
Andrea: I'm good.
4:26
Andrea: Sorry I'm late, I was having video issues.
4:28
Carmen Lezeth: Okay.
4:28
Carmen Lezeth: So I sent your daughter a message to make sure that she went to you to get the money I sent her for her birthday.
4:34
Carmen Lezeth: She didn't even text me back, Dang.
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Andrea: I said I'll check in with her.
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Andrea: I know she's been napping, but I don't know.
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Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm not going to say since what time, but okay, she's a teenager.
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Rick Costa: I was going to text you back, but I fell asleep.
4:49
Andrea: She's getting all the sleep in.
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Carmen Lezeth: All right, anyways, happy birthday to her.
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Andrea: It's early, I know.
4:55
Carmen Lezeth: How are you?
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Andrea: Enjoy it.
4:56
Andrea: Good, I'm good, I'm good, same old.
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Carmen Lezeth: Same old.
5:00
Carmen Lezeth: All right, we were just talking about work and I already went through my kind of work week, so I was asking Rick and Cynthia if they've experienced the same thing I've experienced this past week, which has been clients from hell and then other clients who I just love and think are amazing.
5:13
Carmen Lezeth: So, rick, did you have any experience with that at all?
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Rick Costa: With clients from hell or talking about working.
5:18
Carmen Lezeth: Just in general, whatever floats your boat.
5:21
Rick Costa: There's always people that are annoying.
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Rick Costa: Like just today somebody goes you sent me something overnight and it was the wrong thing.
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Rick Costa: And I was like did I screw up?
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Rick Costa: So I looked at the purchase order she sent and I'm like, no, that's the perk, that's what you put on the purchase order and that's what we sent.
5:33
Rick Costa: Oh, but down there at the bottom I said it's supposed to be a roll, not a pack.
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Rick Costa: I was like I'm looking at every little detail, that I'm looking at the code that you put in and that's the code I put in.
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Carmen Lezeth: And so you know you just did it like that.
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Carmen Lezeth: I know you did because I hope you did.
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Carmen Lezeth: I hope you went into that ghetto.
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Carmen Lezeth: Five, I know you did with that I was much nicer yeah, yeah, but do you like what you do, uh?
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Cynthia Ruiz: yeah, I'm all right.
6:02
Cynthia Ruiz: Okay, that's a no all right.
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Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia was telling us that she was happy about her new job and yes, oh yes I am I'm definitely happy that I left my other job.
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Cynthia Ruiz: I do miss the people because, really, though, because I miss some of them, they won't say all.
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Cynthia Ruiz: I do miss some of them because we were like a family and and, just like you said, when there was a problem we all did work together.
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Cynthia Ruiz: And then there were others that were just like that's not my job or stuff like that.
6:29
Cynthia Ruiz: Hey.
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Carmen Lezeth: Darcy Happy belated birthday.
6:32
Carmen Lezeth: Her birthday was yesterday and she also just had her book come out on Tuesday, called Scapegoat.
6:39
Carmen Lezeth: Mine is on the way, can't wait to read it.
6:41
Carmen Lezeth: What's it about I forgot?
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Carmen Lezeth: Oh, can't wait to read it.
6:49
Carmen Lezeth: Um, what's I forgot?
6:49
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, darcyhafercom, it's called.
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Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, so go to her website if you want to check it out, darcyhafercom, nice to see you here, darcy.
6:53
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you for stopping by.
6:54
Carmen Lezeth: So, andrea, how's work for you?
6:55
Carmen Lezeth: Are you still traveling and loving kansas or wherever it is?
7:00
Andrea: it's iowa.
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Andrea: I haven't been there since may, so that all fine.
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Andrea: I've had a pretty good work week.
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Andrea: I've got a couple of new clients, so we're in the honeymoon phase.
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Carmen Lezeth: I was just going to say, okay, you get excited when you get a new client, but I just did the sigh and I'm like, yeah, no, because I now realize I don't want any more clients, I want to get rid of my clients, I just want the money.
7:28
Andrea: Don't we all any more clients?
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Andrea: I want to get rid of my clients.
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Andrea: I just want the money.
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Andrea: This has been our conversation for how many decades?
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Andrea: When you figure out how to do that, you let me know.
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Carmen Lezeth: I really don't want to work for people anymore because they're all ridiculous and high maintenance.
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Carmen Lezeth: And I only have one client that is not high maintenance at all, just one.
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Carmen Lezeth: And yeah, I won't say anything, but I'm just saying, yeah, you know what?
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Carmen Lezeth: I think I'm tired of negative people and I'm tired of people like one, one client.
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Carmen Lezeth: Everyone does the bare minimum, everyone.
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Carmen Lezeth: And like people don't want to file, they don't want to, they don't want to, they don't want to go to the bank, they don't want to go to the post office, they don't want to do.
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Carmen Lezeth: And I'm the kind of person like, okay, we got to do something with everybody, do it.
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Carmen Lezeth: And then I'm like, wait what?
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Carmen Lezeth: Hello, I'm your boss, bitches, if I'm going to the bank, you're going to the bank.
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Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean?
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Carmen Lezeth: Like I had to back and then I realized it's also my fault because I give people too much.
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Carmen Lezeth: Like I help too much.
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Carmen Lezeth: I should just be doing what I know I should be doing, just delegating that motherfucking information.
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Carmen Lezeth: Do you know what I mean?
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Carmen Lezeth: Like you do this, you do that.
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Carmen Lezeth: But I'm always trying to be helpful and it's hard to always just sit there and tell people what to do, especially when it's a small office Like I'm going to be, like you need to file those three bins and to file those three bins and I'm going to what?
8:47
Carmen Lezeth: Sit here and do my nails.
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Carmen Lezeth: It's weird.
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Carmen Lezeth: But then what they do is they like they don't file and then they don't do stuff and I'm just done.
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Carmen Lezeth: I'm just, I'm done, I really am done, I'm done, yeah, yeah.
8:56
Rick Costa: A pet peeve of mine is.
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Rick Costa: So, for example, at my job we have a website and you can order stuff on the website.
9:02
Rick Costa: So somebody will be like, oh, this isn't on the website, so they'll put it up there.
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Rick Costa: But I'm like but then you didn't put it in our system so that in the future when somebody goes to order it, it automatically comes up.
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Rick Costa: I'm like follow the whole thing through to the end.
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Rick Costa: Stop doing the bare minimum.
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Rick Costa: That takes me off, yeah.
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Carmen Lezeth: I hate those websites, though.
9:22
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just being honest.
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Carmen Lezeth: I, yeah, I hate those websites, though.
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Carmen Lezeth: I'm just being I know, like what you're saying from your point of view like I.
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Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so this is a great example.
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Carmen Lezeth: I went to pay a bill.
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Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I can't even talk about this cause I shouldn't be paying this bill, but this is the fucking point.
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Carmen Lezeth: Like, as I'm saying it, I'm like I got the bookkeeper.
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Carmen Lezeth: I tried to go onto this website to pay this stupid bill and it kept going like right, and you need this and you need this, and I have all this information that you probably shouldn't have about a person.
9:48
Carmen Lezeth: What school did they go to?
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Carmen Lezeth: My security question?
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Carmen Lezeth: Oh, my god, whatever.
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Carmen Lezeth: And then it does the.
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Carmen Lezeth: We're gonna send you a text to your phone number and I'm like oh my god, like, and the number isn't even my clients, who I'd be like.
10:02
Carmen Lezeth: Can you just send me the code?
10:02
Carmen Lezeth: Like?
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Carmen Lezeth: He would know.
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Carmen Lezeth: He would just say he's like are you looking for this?
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Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean Like, but it's to the person we fired.
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Carmen Lezeth: So the way, like we, so we can't even get in to change anything.
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Carmen Lezeth: Do you know what I mean?
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Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, so the whole website thing drives me up a wall, although I know what you're saying, I'm just throwing it from my point of view Like it's yeah.
10:20
Andrea: I'm just going to say it in case someone hears me.
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Andrea: Everything is so freaking hard to do.
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Andrea: Now I am trying to give you money.
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Andrea: Just take my money.
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Andrea: Don't ask me a bunch of fucking questions.
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Andrea: Just take my money and send me my thing.
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Andrea: We don't need to have an ongoing relationship.
10:37
Andrea: I'm purchasing a thing.
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Andrea: Here's my money.
10:42
Carmen Lezeth: And can you take a moment to do a survey?
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Rick Costa: Oh, that's the worst.
10:46
Rick Costa: I hate that.
10:49
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, bitch, I'm going to do a fucking survey right now, give me a later.
10:52
Andrea: Before you even have the thing, can you do a review, wow?
10:59
Carmen Lezeth: It drives me insane and I can't stand it.
11:02
Carmen Lezeth: But you brought up the old people thing, which is what the show is going to be about today.
11:05
Carmen Lezeth: No, I'm just kidding.
11:08
Carmen Lezeth: Look, I did send out some things because I was having.
11:10
Carmen Lezeth: I was just.
11:11
Carmen Lezeth: You can already imagine I was stressing about just dropping three clients in one day and wondering how that would go, and then moving into Andrea's house would only last for about a month or two.
11:23
Carmen Lezeth: It's hot up here, girl.
11:24
Carmen Lezeth: You know what?
11:25
Carmen Lezeth: It's hot here too.
11:26
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, I'm sweating right now and I have the windows open, and you know I don't like to do that because my neighbors can hear me.
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Carmen Lezeth: But now, like you said, those kinds of websites make me want to go to the actual store to buy something.
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Carmen Lezeth: You know what?
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Carmen Lezeth: It's true, I try not to buy stuff on Amazon too, because I like to go into the store.
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Carmen Lezeth: We're missing some of that that's old people thing, though.
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Carmen Lezeth: That's us.
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Carmen Lezeth: That's us being old school.
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Carmen Lezeth: What did I write here?
11:51
Carmen Lezeth: Let me just see here.
11:51
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just having a moment.
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Carmen Lezeth: If you could go back in time right, that was like my first question in your life, age, wise, how old would you be and why?
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Carmen Lezeth: Now you can't go back with the wisdom you have now, cause we'd all want that, that come on, but is there a time in your life that you would want to go back and maybe try again?
12:12
Andrea: no about try again, but I think, what did you say?
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Andrea: Something like what you're nostalgic about or something like I can't?
12:19
Carmen Lezeth: remember the exact words you used, which I have a whole bunch of questions.
12:22
Carmen Lezeth: Which one are you talking about?
12:23
Rick Costa: yeah, I don't remember, I just but if we don't have any of our current knowledge, then how are you gonna not just do the same thing again?
12:29
Carmen Lezeth: anyway, okay, I'll tell, I'll give you a good example what I'm talking about.
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Carmen Lezeth: I never felt more joy in my life and and this came up because we were talking about break dancing in the olympics, which I think starts tomorrow or whatever and I I don't know how I feel about break dancing in the Olympics I'm just gonna be honest with you, but as a former break dancer and a person who danced a lot as a kid, there was nothing that gave me more pure joy than performing on the street, hanging out with people, like on Forbes streets that day.
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Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
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Carmen Lezeth: Remember when the cars would all be you were really young but they didn't have all the cars lined up and all the windows would be open, the doors would be open, they'd all have on the same radio station or something and it would just be this cool conversation and dancing block party.
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Carmen Lezeth: It wasn't a planned one, it just happened.
13:15
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, novak, is there an issue with age?
13:18
Carmen Lezeth: If you're blessed, then your dear heart will get older and old.
13:21
Carmen Lezeth: Oh wiser, maybe you meant melanie said can we change something or make different decisions?
13:28
Carmen Lezeth: Of course you can, but I'm talking about for me.
13:30
Carmen Lezeth: I remember feeling like loving that, and even in my neighborhood.
13:34
Carmen Lezeth: I used to get this cardboard.
13:35
Carmen Lezeth: I was talking to billy about this.
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Carmen Lezeth: Like we, we would take out this cardboard box and cut it up and put it on the street and then we would all like jam and fight with each other, but dancing wise.
13:44
Cynthia Ruiz: I know it sounds like a movie, but because it was fun and I was a sucky break dancer but I wasn't gonna let no one show me up it was our own like version of the movie break it, break, dance or breaking that was before, that's after, so it's more like flash dance fame.
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Carmen Lezeth: See, you're much younger.
14:02
Cynthia Ruiz: You're much younger than me let's not share that with everyone.
14:04
Carmen Lezeth: We're the same age.
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Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, yeah, whatever movie you're just saying, chris Novak just said no, I'm saying you will be old if you're fortunate.
14:12
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, you will become old if you're lucky.
14:15
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, absolutely, my mom's actually 49.
14:17
Andrea: Trust me, I'm just saying that's my get off my lawn complaint.
14:21
Andrea: What's your complaint?
14:22
Andrea: I missed it About the websites and the you know.
14:28
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, but do you?
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Andrea: guys have like I would love to have that kind of joy.
14:33
Carmen Lezeth: Now, how old were you during that time?
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Carmen Lezeth: I was like 13 to 17, maybe Cynthia's thinking, I think.
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Carmen Lezeth: So I was like because that's when I was hanging out on Forbes and going to rehearsals and then practicing on Rosemary, so it was after my mom died and yeah, we would just hang out on the street.
14:55
Carmen Lezeth: We were like I guess other people would see us as hoodlums or something, but it was like this is the thing people don't understand is like like what Cause?
15:03
Carmen Lezeth: People would talk about us badly because everybody would be dressed up, everybody would look all cute.
15:08
Carmen Lezeth: You know you didn't just come after work and hang out.
15:10
Carmen Lezeth: You know, you got dressed up.
15:13
Carmen Lezeth: You never know who you're going to see.
15:15
Carmen Lezeth: You know, yeah, and it was like you would just hang out in the street and all the guys would come up with their cars and souped up and the music.
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Carmen Lezeth: And it was like old school Soul, sonic 4, grandmaster, flash, like just old school music.
15:28
Carmen Lezeth: Sugar Hill Gang Like I remember all that.
15:31
Carmen Lezeth: Like just, yeah, oh, what happened to my life?
15:38
Carmen Lezeth: Actually, this is a horrible show, I got to go, but do you guys have a time in your life that you just revere like that?
15:49
Cynthia Ruiz: I would say probably between 17 and 19.
15:52
Cynthia Ruiz: Like probably, like right before I met Juan, but I was already out of high school.
15:56
Cynthia Ruiz: Like that time I was just like so carefree, didn't have any bills, didn't have no kids, no grand grandkids, nothing to worry about, just party and just have fun with my friends, and that was the best partied.
16:11
Cynthia Ruiz: I don't remember you when you say party you mean I used to go to, even though it was like the 18 plus type clubs, but from Thursday to Sunday I would be every night at the club.
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Carmen Lezeth: Wait, did.
16:23
Carmen Lezeth: Did you go to spinoffs with us?
16:25
Carmen Lezeth: Do you remember spinoffs?
16:26
Carmen Lezeth: It was a roller skating place.
16:28
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, we thought we were so cool.
16:31
Carmen Lezeth: We were, though we were fucking cool.
16:33
Carmen Lezeth: There was a place called spinoffs.
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Carmen Lezeth: So the club, which was called Boston or Lansdowne Street, which is right near Fenway, was like the club that everybody would go to, like the adults and everything.
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Carmen Lezeth: We would always sneak in and we would jam there, but around the corner was like 18 and up or sometimes, and it was roller skating, but with music and a disco ball.
16:53
Carmen Lezeth: It was awesome.
16:54
Carmen Lezeth: People would go off on and people could really like jam on them skates.
16:59
Carmen Lezeth: It's a nostalgic thing here in LA right now.
17:02
Cynthia Ruiz: So, Cynthia, did you go there?
17:05
Cynthia Ruiz: I never went to spinoffs.
17:07
Cynthia Ruiz: No, Any go to spinoffs.
17:10
Carmen Lezeth: Chris said, chris Novak said was a great time when we were not mature enough and had no responsibility.
17:15
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I love that too, but I don't ever remember thinking that I had no responsibility, like I always remember being like dramatic about something.
17:22
Carmen Lezeth: No, nothing changed All right, I walked so head into that.
17:32
Andrea: As it came out of my mouth.
17:33
Andrea: That was exciting.
17:34
Andrea: Somebody had to do it.
17:36
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, andrea, and it was nice to have you on tonight.
17:40
Cynthia Ruiz: Thank you Bye.
17:40
Carmen Lezeth: Bye Rick.
17:45
Cynthia Ruiz: Rick, what about you?
17:49
Rick Costa: I guess, if I had to pick a time period, maybe 20s, I guess because you know you're independent, you know you're still youthful, you have energy, you know then, once you start hitting, 30, I have all of those things, but I hear you so in your 20s.
18:07
Carmen Lezeth: I love how, cynthia, I didn't let that go by, I recorded it.
18:10
Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
18:10
Carmen Lezeth: And you were like before one.
18:12
Carmen Lezeth: That's all I heard christia said no, of course I went, so tied down.
18:20
Carmen Lezeth: Oh wait, her, her thing went out.
18:24
Carmen Lezeth: Did you guys hear her?
18:26
Tony D.: Whose what.
18:26
Cynthia Ruiz: Cynthia said something I didn't hear that I said I didn't feel so tied down then.
18:32
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, your video's going in and out, not in and out, but you're delayed again.
18:35
Rick Costa: It's like that song I heard the other day.
18:36
Rick Costa: I just want to party all the time.
18:39
Rick Costa: Oh my God, that was.
18:40
Carmen Lezeth: Rick James.
18:43
Rick Costa: Didn't you say him Eddie?
18:44
Carmen Lezeth: Murphy, eddie Murphy, even worse.
18:46
Carmen Lezeth: I love Eddie Murphy, but even that was a bad song.
18:49
Andrea: I love that song.
18:50
Andrea: I would still listen to that song, of course you would.
18:54
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, eddie Murphy, though, was the jam back then, not the song, but when he did, because I remember we all watched Raw.
19:01
Carmen Lezeth: Do you remember that?
19:02
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, there's so many skits that were so relevant to all of us.
19:06
Carmen Lezeth: Like, I remember the ice cream.
19:07
Carmen Lezeth: Remember I got some ice cream.
19:11
Carmen Lezeth: Do you want a lick?
19:12
Carmen Lezeth: No, whatever.
19:16
Carmen Lezeth: I remember that one, and then the other one that really hit me hard was when he did, because this was true.
19:22
Carmen Lezeth: I don't remember a lot about my mother, but there are moments I remember cynthia's gonna get this too.
19:30
Carmen Lezeth: Remember when you would cry and you'd be like, and then your mother would be like go ahead, cry some more, cry some more.
19:33
Carmen Lezeth: Remember he does that whole one with what his mother's like gonna throw the shoe or whatever, and it's so funny.
19:37
Carmen Lezeth: I'm not a comedian, but he's so funny.
19:41
Rick Costa: why is tony saying Because of the song I just sang probably.
19:44
Cynthia Ruiz: You know, what's so funny is that I saw a TikTok the other day and it was talking about people in their 40s and how now we listen to all the oldies as if it just came out like it's brand new.
19:56
Cynthia Ruiz: We'll blast it in our cars and stuff like that.
19:59
Carmen Lezeth: But they're not oldies.
19:59
Carmen Lezeth: I guess they are oldies.
20:01
Andrea: They are oldies girl.
20:02
Andrea: Yeah, they are.
20:03
Andrea: They're not oldies like our parents, though.
20:09
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, here's my thing, though.
20:09
Carmen Lezeth: Why is it when gen z listens to our music, it's cool, but if we listen to our music, it's it's old music.
20:17
Carmen Lezeth: Have you figured that out yet?
20:18
Rick Costa: like, if they discover something, it's cool, but if it's our music, I'm just saying yeah, I've seen a lot of youtube reaction videos where these it's young, younger people and they're like listening for the first time.
20:29
Rick Costa: The bgs are like do you hear that harmony?
20:31
Carmen Lezeth: and I'm like that's so old like, with no synthesizer, with no, yeah, come on andrea.
20:38
Andrea: What did you say?
20:39
Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry I said been hearing that harmony for 40 years kids I think it's weird, because a lot of singers today I'm not saying all of them they really use the synthesizer.
20:49
Carmen Lezeth: I can fucking sing beautifully with that.
20:52
Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
20:54
Andrea: Autotune yeah.
20:55
Carmen Lezeth: Autotune.
20:55
Carmen Lezeth: Is that what it is?
20:56
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, the autotune crap.
20:57
Carmen Lezeth: I can't stand it, and you can hear it so easily every time someone uses it.
21:00
Carmen Lezeth: But I'm not a singer.
21:02
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just saying we grew up with people actually singing on stage for real.
21:08
Carmen Lezeth: And I think that's why Taylor Swift is good you know what I mean and that's why Beyonce is good, cause they actually can sing.
21:13
Carmen Lezeth: They are actually talented people.
21:16
Cynthia Ruiz: She was actually doing a concert and she actually forgot the lyrics to one of her song and she's like wait, let's start over.
21:21
Carmen Lezeth: She goes at least I'm not lip syncing- there was one thing where she what's the song that actually made her a big deal?
21:26
Carmen Lezeth: There's that.
21:27
Carmen Lezeth: You remember that one song.
21:28
Carmen Lezeth: I remember the video.
21:28
Carmen Lezeth: She's sitting like at the piano in an apartment, whatever, but every time she goes to sing that song she gets really emotional or something.
21:34
Carmen Lezeth: Have you seen those TikToks?
21:40
Carmen Lezeth: And then the audience sang it to her instead, because life it's a good one yeah, this gets really emotional who are we talking about?
21:46
Carmen Lezeth: I missed adele, oh yeah, so it's the song.
21:49
Carmen Lezeth: We all know the song because it's the song that made her.
21:52
Carmen Lezeth: We all rolling in the deep.
21:53
Carmen Lezeth: No, I don't know.
21:55
Carmen Lezeth: Rolling in the deep, was that the song?
21:56
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know what her first song was.
22:00
Cynthia Ruiz: It might have been Chasing Pavements.
22:02
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know, I'd have to hear it.
22:03
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know every Adele song.
22:05
Carmen Lezeth: I love Adele, but I don't.
22:06
Carmen Lezeth: I love Sting too.
22:09
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
22:09
Carmen Lezeth: I do know every Sting song Because, again, that's my generation.
22:14
Carmen Lezeth: Is Adele our generation?
22:19
Andrea: No, she's like millennials yeah.
22:22
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah.
22:23
Andrea: Whatever?
22:25
Rick Costa: Oh, I sent you a funny video.
22:26
Carmen Lezeth: I think I sent you, carmen, no, you didn't because you and Mario stopped sending me videos.
22:32
Rick Costa: I'm very selective when I send you because I know whatever, but you responded to it.
22:36
Rick Costa: It was Jamie Foxx and that was a good video.
22:39
Carmen Lezeth: Jamie Foxx is one of the most talented people on the planet, and he is so under.
22:42
Carmen Lezeth: Bye Darcy, bye Darcy.
22:44
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you for stopping by.
22:46
Carmen Lezeth: Bye.
22:48
Rick Costa: He made the Brady Bunch song sound amazing.
22:50
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, jamie Foxx is amazing.
22:52
Carmen Lezeth: No, the thing about video clips.
22:54
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just kidding.
22:55
Carmen Lezeth: I had to tell Mario too.
22:56
Carmen Lezeth: I appreciate it.
22:57
Carmen Lezeth: But you guys send them to me all the time, so don appreciate it.
23:05
Carmen Lezeth: But you guys send them to me all the time, so don't other people.
23:07
Carmen Lezeth: And then, on top of it, you're sending them to me at work.
23:08
Carmen Lezeth: So I go to look and I'm like, oh my god, it's a video.
23:09
Carmen Lezeth: It's not like a message, it's like I know.
23:10
Rick Costa: I mean, it's okay for me to send you guys videos, but it's not okay.
23:11
Rick Costa: Okay, that's how that works.
23:13
Carmen Lezeth: That's what I'm saying.
23:14
Carmen Lezeth: I don't send them on instagram, I only send them on tiktok, because I know you guys aren't on t.
23:18
Carmen Lezeth: You're on TikTok but you don't get the notifications.
23:22
Carmen Lezeth: But you and I communicate on Instagram.
23:24
Carmen Lezeth: So I always think when you send me something, you're sending me a message, but it's.
23:28
Carmen Lezeth: You see the difference?
23:29
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, yeah, these are the rules of my life and I don't know why you think I'm high maintenance.
23:35
Rick Costa: I'll find it on TikTok and send it that way.
23:37
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, if you send it ticket, I can look at it whenever I want.
23:38
Carmen Lezeth: I don't have to, I don't get, but I keep thinking you're sending me a message, because that's how you and I communicate, right, right, okay, are there things you could do as a teenager that you can't do now?
23:48
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'll tell you.
23:49
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just going to go through this right now for me.
23:50
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just going to tell you I can't do a split anymore.
23:57
Carmen Lezeth: I'm very mad about it.
23:57
Carmen Lezeth: Not as flexible as I used to be.
24:00
Carmen Lezeth: I feel like I oh, andrea, because you and I haven't spoken because you're so busy.
24:04
Carmen Lezeth: I went and saw the hand surgeon again yesterday, so my hand is still not.
24:08
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if I told people, but I've been having major issues with this hand.
24:11
Carmen Lezeth: Did I mention that?
24:13
Carmen Lezeth: Um, what happened?
24:14
Carmen Lezeth: I don't think so okay for the podcast viewers.
24:17
Carmen Lezeth: Really, I didn't tell people, andrea, did I tell you I?
24:21
Andrea: don't know what you're gonna go into.
24:23
Andrea: So I don't know.
24:24
Andrea: I knew I guess I did it so I hit my hand, okay.
24:27
Carmen Lezeth: So I was walking and I remember exactly what it was around thanksgiving and I was walking and I hit the corner, the corner desk.
24:36
Carmen Lezeth: I hit with the back of my hand, like this area right here and I don't know people always stub their toe or it was that kind of thing Like it happened.
24:45
Carmen Lezeth: I didn't think anything of it and I moved on.
24:47
Carmen Lezeth: It was painful as all hell and I moved on.
24:49
Carmen Lezeth: I thought nothing of it.
24:50
Carmen Lezeth: So that was last November.
24:52
Carmen Lezeth: In January I was like what is going on with my hand?
24:55
Carmen Lezeth: Like it just kept.
24:56
Carmen Lezeth: I kept having so much pain.
24:57
Carmen Lezeth: I was wearing a splint, I was wearing a and I forgot that I had hurt my hand.
25:01
Carmen Lezeth: So I met with this oh, andrea, I know, I told you because it's in Dr Gearhart's office.
25:11
Andrea: Yes, I didn't know if this was beyond that but, yes, we love my hip surgeon.
25:14
Carmen Lezeth: It is the stage right next door, so I'm always like I have to get there a little early, hang out a little bit.
25:19
Carmen Lezeth: Haven't seen him once, but he is fine.
25:21
Carmen Lezeth: Anyways, we've been trying to deal with it and it's still bad.
25:24
Carmen Lezeth: So now I have to go get another MRI and we don't know what it is, cause it should have healed by now.
25:28
Carmen Lezeth: But all these bones in here, like when we talk, we use our hands.
25:32
Carmen Lezeth: We use our hands all the time and even though I'm not a lefty, we still use it all the time, all the time.
25:38
Carmen Lezeth: So I've been wearing a splint at night, wrapping it.
25:40
Carmen Lezeth: But he today was like, yeah, no, because it's really.
25:45
Carmen Lezeth: You guys can't really see it, but it's really.
25:47
Carmen Lezeth: I have a huge bump here.
25:47
Carmen Lezeth: That's see it.
25:47
Carmen Lezeth: There's a huge bump there that's never there.
25:48
Carmen Lezeth: And then this is just all really painful and it's really swollen here which you can't tell.
25:52
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, my God, my hands are like man hands.
25:54
Carmen Lezeth: Look at that.
25:54
Carmen Lezeth: I have a man hand, I do.
25:59
Carmen Lezeth: Let's compare.
26:00
Carmen Lezeth: Wait, let's compare.
26:02
Carmen Lezeth: Look at how manly my hands are.
26:03
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, do that again.
26:04
Carmen Lezeth: You have girly hands.
26:07
Rick Costa: Oh, thanks, charlie, get my back.
26:11
Rick Costa: Charlie, help me out.
26:14
Carmen Lezeth: Charlie, you just had an MRI for your back.
26:16
Carmen Lezeth: Oh dude, so wrong.
26:18
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm not going to complain, it's just my hand.
26:20
Carmen Lezeth: It's fine, it's just my head.
26:22
Carmen Lezeth: Cut it off at this point.
26:23
Carmen Lezeth: But anyways, I just feel as you get older and this was getting me really sad, was you get all the wisdom Like?
26:31
Carmen Lezeth: I would never go back to any other time in my life because I want to see how this motherfucking ends.
26:36
Carmen Lezeth: That's how I look at the journey of my life.
26:37
Carmen Lezeth: I'm like I have invested, I've done too much.
26:40
Carmen Lezeth: I have put in my heart and soul and being the best person I can be and do the best I can to get out of the crap I was in, and I just want to see how it ends.
26:48
Carmen Lezeth: However, I didn't realize that as you get older I know people used to tell us this all the time, but it does start to break down a bit.
27:04
Andrea: Like I'm complaining about my motherfucking hand not healing.
27:05
Andrea: That was my first thought when I saw that question today.
27:06
Andrea: What could you do when you were a teenager that can't do now?
27:08
Andrea: In my head I was like wake up without pain yeah, charlie just said he had to be put out out of bed charlie, you had to be put out.
27:18
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, you know what, though?
27:19
Carmen Lezeth: The mri is a hard thing.
27:20
Carmen Lezeth: It's a hard thing.
27:21
Carmen Lezeth: I had an mri for hip and I had to go in all the way and I was like it's like you're in a tomb.
27:27
Carmen Lezeth: But they didn't have to put me out, though, yeah, because I kept wondering why they couldn't put me in the other way.
27:34
Carmen Lezeth: But you have to go in, yeah, okay, I'm hoping I don't have to do anything, because the other one wasn't.
27:41
Carmen Lezeth: They did an ultrasound before.
27:43
Carmen Lezeth: That was easy, and then they did an x-ray.
27:47
Rick Costa: Okay, wow, In the sarcophagus 45 minutes.
27:49
Carmen Lezeth: In the sarcophagus.
27:50
Carmen Lezeth: An MRI takes a long time and it has all that noise.
27:59
Carmen Lezeth: They're like just relax, fuck you.
28:01
Carmen Lezeth: It's like pop'm sorry, charlie, but I hope they figure out what's going on and I hope you don't need surgery though.
28:07
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, Although every person I know who's had back surgery like Juan is fine.
28:11
Carmen Lezeth: Juan had back surgery, right, yeah, it's going to be a year.
28:18
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, wow, that went by fast and I accomplished nothing.
28:25
Carmen Lezeth: Really, what have I done in a year?
28:26
Carmen Lezeth: What?
28:27
Rick Costa: I had metal rods in my back.
28:28
Rick Costa: I had back surgery when I was 15.
28:30
Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, when you were 15.
28:31
Carmen Lezeth: How are you feeling now, rick?
28:33
Rick Costa: Feeling old Really Does it bother you.
28:36
Rick Costa: This knee still hasn't healed.
28:37
Rick Costa: I'm like good lord, why is this taking so long?
28:40
Carmen Lezeth: Are we talking about the wasp incident now?
28:42
Carmen Lezeth: Yes, drea doesn't know what happened Do you want me to do the fast version, if you?
28:49
Rick Costa: want to go ahead.
28:51
Carmen Lezeth: So we're just driving around.
28:52
Rick Costa: Charlie just said something.
28:53
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, charlie just said I'm not letting them dig around in my back.
28:56
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, let's just see what the MRI says, and then we will go from there, because if you're in this much pain that you need this, and then I'm going to put you in touch with Juan, because he just had the same thing.
29:07
Carmen Lezeth: Look at me diagnosing Charlie from a fucking trap.
29:10
Carmen Lezeth: Let me just tell you it's going to be fine, baby.
29:12
Carmen Lezeth: Whatever you want to do, Dr Carmen said.
29:15
Carmen Lezeth: Dr Carmen said it's going to be fine baby, so it's going gonna be okay uh wait, what was I saying?
29:28
Cynthia Ruiz: I was yelling at andrea.
29:29
Carmen Lezeth: You're gonna tell the short version of the wasp, and so, oh, oh fuck, I should not have sent him a link.
29:34
Tony D.: Hey, tony, how you doing, how you doing, andrea, how you doing, cynthia, how you doing?
29:39
Carmen Lezeth: you know I didn't have to.
29:40
Carmen Lezeth: I saw you come up.
29:41
Carmen Lezeth: I could have just left it, but I'm a kind person, a kind, okay, quick wasp story.
29:46
Carmen Lezeth: Rick was in his car with his mother taking her somewhere.
29:48
Carmen Lezeth: He went to get.
29:50
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, a wasp or a bug is flying around.
29:52
Carmen Lezeth: He goes to get out of the car?
29:53
Cynthia Ruiz: no, you found out later I was surrounded by wasps later there was a wasp.
29:58
Rick Costa: I was surrounded by wasps.
30:01
Carmen Lezeth: How did you know, later there was a nest.
30:03
Carmen Lezeth: If you were surrounded by that many, how did you figure it out?
30:07
Rick Costa: There was like a can of soda in there and I'm like maybe the smell attracted them and they were in there.
30:11
Rick Costa: I don't know.
30:11
Rick Costa: I didn't know where they came from.
30:12
Rick Costa: But then I saw they had put it inside between the two doors on my side and I I saw this little thing.
30:17
Rick Costa: I was like holy crap, it's a nest.
30:20
Carmen Lezeth: But you found that out later.
30:21
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, go ahead.
30:23
Andrea: Go ahead.
30:23
Andrea: You're in the car.
30:24
Andrea: You're driving with your mother.
30:26
Rick Costa: No, I wasn't even driving yet.
30:27
Andrea: Oh, you were just sitting there.
30:29
Rick Costa: I was getting ready to put the key in the ignition and all of a sudden, and there are how many wasps Roughly?
30:34
Rick Costa: There had to be at least 10.
30:37
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, that took.
30:37
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my god, how did you do that In a small, enclosed place?
30:41
Cynthia Ruiz: Oh my god.
30:41
Cynthia Ruiz: He jumped out of the car.
30:42
Cynthia Ruiz: It was raining and he slipped and fell on his knee.
30:47
Rick Costa: It wasn't even on my knee.
30:48
Andrea: I twisted it, cynthia's like, let me end this now.
30:51
Rick Costa: Rip off the band-aid.
30:52
Carmen Lezeth: Because it's in another episode.
30:54
Carmen Lezeth: Like twice we talked about it twice and he's been walking around with a cane and then again you got in the car and that's when you found the nest.
31:01
Carmen Lezeth: It wasn't like that day you found the nest, it was like a week later it was the second time I got the car.
31:05
Andrea: Yeah, that's when I realized do you not use your car very often?
31:08
Rick Costa: I'm not really, I really don't okay, here's what we've learned people.
31:14
Carmen Lezeth: Very important if there's more than one bug flying around in your car and in closed space, there's probably a nest somewhere.
31:23
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, usually this.
31:25
Carmen Lezeth: I thought there was just one and you freaked out and you jumped out the car and you slipped and fell.
31:29
Carmen Lezeth: That sound better.
31:30
Rick Costa: Also, the freaked out part was because my mom, when I was a kid, said you're allergic.
31:33
Rick Costa: So I was like I ain't trying to die from a bug now.
31:35
Rick Costa: What the heck.
31:37
Carmen Lezeth: How did you not know you were?
31:39
Carmen Lezeth: Oh you, oh you.
31:39
Rick Costa: But I'm here.
31:40
Rick Costa: No, I'm not allergic now.
31:42
Carmen Lezeth: No, but allergic.
31:42
Carmen Lezeth: In what way?
31:44
Rick Costa: Because I got stung by something and we went to the hospital and she said the doctor said I was allergic and I'm like I never got an EpiPen or nothing, but it's still stuck in my head because she said I'm allergic to fear.
31:53
Andrea: You fell down, but did you also get stung?
31:56
Rick Costa: I did.
31:56
Andrea: Okay.
31:59
Carmen Lezeth: Andrea wants to detail.
32:00
Carmen Lezeth: Andrea wants to detail.
32:01
Carmen Lezeth: I should have let you just tell the story again.
32:05
Andrea: I appreciate.
32:06
Rick Costa: Cynthia jumping in and taking that mess and move on.
32:09
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, that's so funny.
32:11
Rick Costa: Because that's part of the aging thing.
32:13
Rick Costa: I think if I was younger I would have been fine by now, but it's taking forever for this knee to heal.
32:16
Rick Costa: Good lord.
32:18
Cynthia Ruiz: And you probably wouldn't have fallen, maybe not?
32:21
Carmen Lezeth: You probably would have investigated and been like, oh my God, I think there's a nest.
32:26
Tony D.: I don't need Cynthia Kosan on you being old.
32:31
Carmen Lezeth: I'm just messing with you.
32:32
Carmen Lezeth: Come on, that was funny.
32:33
Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry I'm hurting.
32:34
Carmen Lezeth: Let me apologize.
32:35
Rick Costa: No, you're fine.
32:36
Carmen Lezeth: I am so sorry.
32:38
Rick Costa: I'm used to the abuse.
32:40
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, the sorry, I'm used to the abuse.
32:43
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my god, the abuse.
32:44
Carmen Lezeth: Wow, okay, that's not dramatic.
32:46
Carmen Lezeth: So yeah, I guess healing is a thing.
32:49
Carmen Lezeth: I guess it does take it takes longer, yeah does it, or are we just getting hurt more?
32:55
Cynthia Ruiz: no it does, it does it does it oh yeah, we're getting hurt faster and it's taking longer to heal is that it okay.
33:05
Carmen Lezeth: I've just never.
33:06
Carmen Lezeth: I have never been to the doctors this many times in a year, just never.
33:12
Carmen Lezeth: Uh, and like, when I think about the hip surgery, that was one specific thing it felt like major whatever.
33:17
Carmen Lezeth: And I see my doctors, maybe once a year, maybe because I go for my hand thing once a year, my health fitness thing, and then that's it.
33:24
Carmen Lezeth: But no, like I'm constantly visiting.
33:27
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, what's up you?
33:30
Carmen Lezeth: open the door carmen's back, because then I had this thyroid thing and that was out of nowhere and yeah.
33:36
Carmen Lezeth: So I'm sad but it's okay.
33:38
Carmen Lezeth: We're getting older.
33:38
Carmen Lezeth: But do you feel wiser and smarter?
33:40
Carmen Lezeth: Do you feel like there's a balance?
33:49
Tony D.: I think we all do.
33:49
Tony D.: I would say oh, tony said, no, you're not wiser, no, I don't feel the balance.
33:52
Tony D.: I am wiser, but the recovery time taken I don't feel a balance off of that when I have an illness, I don't?
33:59
Carmen Lezeth: Do you have a time in your life that?
34:00
Tony D.: you wish you could go back to.
34:01
Tony D.: Yeah, I remember you asked this question.
34:02
Tony D.: I saw it already in the email.
34:03
Tony D.: You actually had asked me this question before and I actually was going to know it because a lot of decisions that I made got me where I am now.
34:08
Tony D.: Had I done a couple of the mistakes I avoided younger, I probably would have told you yeah, some things I probably didn't want to do.
34:14
Tony D.: I didn't want to go to this fight.
34:22
Rick Costa: I probably train Probably was trying to help.
34:23
Rick Costa: Wait, wait, wait Race a train, I don't know.
34:24
Rick Costa: Yeah, I raced a train Was a wasp chasing you.
34:29
Tony D.: You're not going to believe me.
34:30
Tony D.: You're not going to believe me on this, but one time I was young and crazy and I saw a train.
34:33
Tony D.: There was an intersection.
34:34
Tony D.: I figured I was going to beat the train.
34:36
Tony D.: So I actually tried to beat it at the intersection.
34:37
Tony D.: I did win.
34:38
Tony D.: But I'm not going to do that anymore In a car or running In a car.
34:42
Rick Costa: Do I look like Superman?
34:47
Tony D.: I was going to say I was in a car.
34:49
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, okay, so I lived on the street called Rosemary and in the back in the past there was all these old trains, all the old Amtrak train.
34:56
Carmen Lezeth: There were rails and we would wait for the trains to come and then cross.
35:00
Carmen Lezeth: It was so stupid, it there were rails and we would wait for the trains to come and then cross like it.
35:04
Tony D.: It was so stupid it was so stupid, but we would do that all the time.
35:06
Tony D.: The train was going the same direction I was.
35:08
Tony D.: I'm like I'm gonna beat this, I will be to the intersection and I actually matched the speed, although 45.
35:12
Tony D.: I said, okay, I can do 55 or 60, and I'm on the back road by myself.
35:15
Tony D.: Actually, I wasn't by myself.
35:16
Tony D.: I was trying to press this woman.
35:17
Tony D.: I scared the hell of her.
35:18
Tony D.: She don't talk to me no more.
35:21
Rick Costa: Shocking, shocking.
35:27
Carmen Lezeth: We weren't in a car, we were just crossing the track.
35:28
Carmen Lezeth: It was stupid.
35:28
Carmen Lezeth: You know what I'm talking about.
35:30
Carmen Lezeth: Cynthia, I think the orange line goes back there now.
35:32
Carmen Lezeth: Right, those used to be the Amtrak trains.
35:35
Carmen Lezeth: We would go up there in the snow.
35:40
Cynthia Ruiz: I think we all are missing stamina in order to one there and we would in the snow.
35:42
Cynthia Ruiz: And that's another thing I think we all are missing is probably stamina in order to like one speed and two to stay awake longer.
35:50
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, stamina, I don't have any, I can't.
35:54
Carmen Lezeth: I went today.
35:55
Carmen Lezeth: This morning I went out for a run, a three mile run.
35:58
Carmen Lezeth: I walked it.
35:59
Carmen Lezeth: But I don't because I didn't run, I used to run.
36:01
Cynthia Ruiz: I walked it but I don't.
36:02
Carmen Lezeth: Because I didn't run.
36:03
Carmen Lezeth: I used to.
36:03
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, first of all, I've done three marathons, don't mess with me, I'm just trying to get back on track.
36:07
Carmen Lezeth: But it was like I didn't run, I didn't even jog.
36:10
Carmen Lezeth: It was like I did the walk Speed walking.
36:13
Cynthia Ruiz: You know, speed walking is an Olympic sport now it wasn't break dancing.
36:22
Carmen Lezeth: I know, yeah, but speed walking is hard, Listen.
36:24
Tony D.: I did my three marathons and there were people who walked, who went faster than me, hey Ted.
36:26
Carmen Lezeth: Hicks.
36:26
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, what's going on?
36:26
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, your hands are great.
36:28
Andrea: Ted.
36:28
Carmen Lezeth: I sent you an invite.
36:29
Carmen Lezeth: If you want to stop by quick and say hi before your show.
36:32
Cynthia Ruiz: I sent it to you in your email that you never answer.
36:34
Carmen Lezeth: Huh, I feel I wouldn't trade anything.
36:38
Carmen Lezeth: I do want to get back to running.
36:40
Carmen Lezeth: I hate not being able to run and I've tried everything.
36:43
Carmen Lezeth: I have a treadmill, I have a bike.
36:45
Carmen Lezeth: I've tried all these things.
36:46
Carmen Lezeth: I just want to run.
36:48
Carmen Lezeth: What did the doctor say you mean the love of my life, Dr Gearhart.
36:53
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, Dr Gearhart.
36:54
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, let's just be honest, I'm not going to run.
36:58
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, he said no running, but he doesn't know me, Like it doesn't.
37:03
Carmen Lezeth: Like you know what I mean.
37:04
Carmen Lezeth: He doesn't understand.
37:05
Carmen Lezeth: It's not.
37:06
Carmen Lezeth: I'm not running a marathon, I'm just saying to exercise.
37:10
Carmen Lezeth: What makes me, what gives me joy, is either dancing a lot, which is cool I can do that but I need a studio and stuff.
37:16
Carmen Lezeth: I need something different than my little apartment.
37:19
Carmen Lezeth: But running was the other thing that gave me joy and I like feeling that sweatiness when you're done and I like feeling like your legs feel stronger.
37:28
Carmen Lezeth: And I don't get that from the bike.
37:30
Carmen Lezeth: I don't get.
37:31
Carmen Lezeth: I know what you mean it's just running.
37:34
Tony D.: I agree, riding the bike does not compare to running at all.
37:37
Carmen Lezeth: I agree with that yeah, so I just want to be able to run five miles.
37:41
Andrea: Go ahead I didn't know he had said no running.
37:44
Carmen Lezeth: I didn't know running that like ever.
37:46
Carmen Lezeth: Um well, so he was like you know you could swim.
37:49
Carmen Lezeth: I'm like you don't know black women.
37:50
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm talking about hair.
37:51
Carmen Lezeth: I'm not black.
37:52
Carmen Lezeth: Women do swim.
37:56
Carmen Lezeth: That's not what I mean.
37:57
Carmen Lezeth: But he was acting like you know.
37:59
Carmen Lezeth: Go in your neighborhood pool or my pool in my house or something, just go swimming.
38:03
Carmen Lezeth: I didn't say that to him.
38:05
Andrea: You should ask him if he has a pool.
38:06
Andrea: I know right Would your wife mind.
38:11
Carmen Lezeth: I know, right, he was fucking married.
38:13
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, Andrea was there, so she knows who he is.
38:17
Carmen Lezeth: We were both a little stunned Because I didn't know he was that good looking.
38:23
Carmen Lezeth: I've only seen the pictures.
38:25
Carmen Lezeth: What, he does not look good in pictures.
38:27
Carmen Lezeth: You saw the pictures of his wife.
38:28
Carmen Lezeth: I saw the pictures.
38:29
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, it doesn't do him justice, but I had been seeing him as a patient don't get it twisted for like six months.
38:36
Carmen Lezeth: Right, I had been seeing him for six months regularly during this whole process, because I had been seeing him for six months regularly during the soul process because I had to go physical.
38:43
Carmen Lezeth: But I'd never seen him because it was during COVID and he was wearing a mask and he always had on that scrubby hat thing or whatever.
38:51
Carmen Lezeth: So all I saw was his eyes.
38:53
Carmen Lezeth: So Andrea was with me when I had surgery and afterwards, in the what is it?
38:58
Carmen Lezeth: In the recovery room, I was a little groggy, but I wasn't.
39:02
Carmen Lezeth: I wasn't, I wasn't that groggy.
39:04
Carmen Lezeth: But he walked in and, Andrea, you said to me I think that's your doctor and I was like I wouldn't know who the fuck he is because I've never seen his face.
39:11
Carmen Lezeth: You asked him to take his mask off and then I asked him to take his.
39:15
Rick Costa: I know, but I said that to you and then I asked him to take his mask off, did he do it in slow motion?
39:23
Carmen Lezeth: No, you know what, though?
39:25
Carmen Lezeth: It must happen to him all the time, because he was adorable about it.
39:28
Carmen Lezeth: He was like laughing and smiling, yeah, but both Andrea and I were like, oh my God, oh, you were up all in this.
39:36
Tony D.: I never knew Andrea had cheekbones like that until she just started smiling Because he's only 6'2".
39:44
Carmen Lezeth: He's fine, he's a good looking man.
39:48
Carmen Lezeth: Me, I had no idea I would have been so different.
39:49
Carmen Lezeth: I would have been like, but I was in so much pain I couldn't even try to hustle that about because I was so much limping and shit where does it hurt?
40:00
Rick Costa: car Carmen, it hurts everywhere.
40:02
Rick Costa: Just feel around, feel me everywhere.
40:09
Carmen Lezeth: Actually, I would never be that disrespectful.
40:11
Carmen Lezeth: I don't mind doing it on my show now, like now, I'd be funny with him.
40:14
Carmen Lezeth: But he's a good man, it was just so funny.
40:15
Carmen Lezeth: But yeah, I'm crying, laughing because it is a moment, andrea, that you and I will always share, because we usually don't have the same taste in men, because you could see me doing that, you could totally see me being ridiculous, but André and I usually have to.
40:30
Carmen Lezeth: But that's how I knew he was fine, because we both were in a little bit of a weird moment and he knew it.
40:36
Carmen Lezeth: He knew that.
40:37
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, okay, let's stop talking about Dr Michael B Gerhard.
40:40
Carmen Lezeth: You can all go look him up, gerhard, you can all go look him up.
40:44
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, he's also a great doctor because I have no pain.
40:46
Carmen Lezeth: He's an amazing doctor.
40:48
Carmen Lezeth: Great staff Cheated me well.
40:49
Carmen Lezeth: I recommend him highly if you ever need a sports orthopedic surgeon.
40:55
Carmen Lezeth: He's amazing In all seriousness and he's fine as fuck.
41:00
Tony D.: Alma, damn, don't give her no more Alma.
41:04
Carmen Lezeth: If a doctor tells me no running, I'm okay with that.
41:07
Carmen Lezeth: He just thinks it'd be better if I did the cycling or other things, because it is hard on your knees and stuff, and since it's not really my thing, it was something I took on after not being able to really dance.
41:18
Carmen Lezeth: It was like my way of trying to stay fit and now it's just weird.
41:22
Carmen Lezeth: I think that's another thing about getting old.
41:24
Carmen Lezeth: It's hard to try again and learn something new.
41:28
Carmen Lezeth: It's hard to.
41:29
Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to learn how to cycle and do the bike thing and I hate, I don't like it spinning, I don't like it.
41:36
Tony D.: Do you miss having the old rhythm that you used to have when you was younger?
41:39
Tony D.: There's a pace we always have, we want to exercise and there's a rhythm to doing it.
41:42
Tony D.: Is that what you miss, would be my question.
41:44
Tony D.: A pace we always have, we want to exercise and there's a rhythm to doing it?
41:46
Carmen Lezeth: is that what you miss?
41:46
Carmen Lezeth: Would be my question.
41:46
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
41:47
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if that's if it's the rhythm.
41:50
Carmen Lezeth: I just like running.
41:51
Carmen Lezeth: You put the headset on and you no.
41:54
Carmen Lezeth: I don't think it's a rhythm thing, because I listen to music and I run to music or I walk to music, and so I don't know if it's a rhythm thing.
42:01
Carmen Lezeth: I think it's more about I know he's right, andrea the reason why he said no running is because you don't want to have hip surgery again.
42:09
Carmen Lezeth: Exactly so he's.
42:10
Carmen Lezeth: We want this to last another 40 years.
42:12
Carmen Lezeth: And I remember laughing and being like you think I'm going to die at 80?
42:15
Carmen Lezeth: What's wrong with you?
42:15
Carmen Lezeth: I was totally like you know what I'm saying, but he was just saying of surgery again.
42:27
Carmen Lezeth: So there's other ways to exercise.
42:28
Carmen Lezeth: I get it.
42:28
Tony D.: I've been running for so long with the pain, Now I want to run without it.
42:30
Tony D.: When I first met you, you were talking about this and we were harping on you about your recovery time.
42:32
Tony D.: You were like I don't need a medical advice, You're not a medical professional.
42:34
Tony D.: I said okay, fine, he's saying exactly the same thing.
42:42
Tony D.: I was saying your recovery.
42:43
Tony D.: You can still do all the exercise and moving all the parts of your body without putting so much pressure on it.
42:48
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, tony.
42:49
Carmen Lezeth: You know what You've changed my mind.
42:51
Carmen Lezeth: I give up, carmen the mermaid, I'm going to go swimming right after the show.
42:58
Carmen Lezeth: Go right into the ocean, go right into the cold water in the ocean, right, listen, first of all, when I went to Aruba, I did go in an ocean and I enjoyed it, or whatever, and I know how to swim.
43:10
Carmen Lezeth: I learned how to swim in JP and I went to camp and so I'm a pretty decent swimmer.
43:14
Carmen Lezeth: But unless I were to cut off all my hair, I'm just not doing it and that's why I said it's a black thing, right?
43:21
Carmen Lezeth: It might be vanity but I don't care, I cannot deal with.
43:25
Carmen Lezeth: I don't want my hair wet every single day.
43:27
Carmen Lezeth: I'd have to have my hair short and andrea and I know that is an absolute no, no, there's a tiktok video of the golden girls.
43:36
Carmen Lezeth: What was it, andrea?
43:38
Carmen Lezeth: It was like the golden girls with.
43:39
Andrea: It was like the golden girls hairstyles, but like with j-Lo's face and other people who are like the same age in their face, and so you see how much older they look with a short hair.
43:50
Carmen Lezeth: Right, because they were all the kind they were in their 50s.
43:54
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, that's so weird.
43:55
Carmen Lezeth: The Golden Girls were in their 50s, so there's a TikTok of women in their 50s.
44:02
Carmen Lezeth: Who was it?
44:02
Cynthia Ruiz: JLo.
44:04
Carmen Lezeth: No, it's like J-Lo and what's the other one?
44:07
Carmen Lezeth: Julia Roberts was one of them and they all have the same hair.
44:10
Carmen Lezeth: They place the hairdos and you're like, oh my God, they look so old.
44:13
Carmen Lezeth: And then they did the opposite.
44:15
Carmen Lezeth: They put the nice new hairdos with longer hair on the golden girls and you see how much younger they look.
44:20
Carmen Lezeth: And J-Lo and I were like never cutting our hair, never cutting our hair, but I've been thinking about it.
44:26
Carmen Lezeth: I've been thinking about shaving it all off.
44:28
Carmen Lezeth: I did it when I first came out.
44:29
Carmen Lezeth: Why is Cynthia saying no, if I cut my hair, really that would matter.
44:35
Carmen Lezeth: Yes, I'm so going to do it just because of that.
44:39
Carmen Lezeth: I know why would it matter.
44:41
Tony D.: She would look so much more different.
44:42
Tony D.: I'm used to her having the hair.
44:43
Tony D.: She would look so much more different.
44:44
Tony D.: I'm used to her having the hair.
44:45
Tony D.: I don't even know if I can get used to it.
44:46
Tony D.: I'll be honest about you.
44:46
Tony D.: I'll be honest.
44:46
Tony D.: I wouldn't want to see you cut your hair now.
44:51
Carmen Lezeth: I wouldn't want to see it.
44:52
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God.
44:54
Andrea: Y'all know, next week I'm coming with a haircut, right, I was like that is not the way to go about this.
45:06
Carmen Lezeth: When I first moved to LA, I shaved shaved off all my hair.
45:07
Carmen Lezeth: 30 years ago I moved out here, I didn't know anybody, I quit smoking and I shaved off all my hair and the best thing I did because my hair was so damaged and then it grew in like that because, growing up as a black woman, you straighten your hair, you put rollers, you do all this damage and I'd had enough and I figured you know what, I don't care, I'm cutting it all off.
45:18
Carmen Lezeth: I was sick of it.
45:18
Carmen Lezeth: It was the best thing I ever did.
45:19
Carmen Lezeth: I'm not gonna lie.
45:20
Carmen Lezeth: I've been thinking about it.
45:21
Carmen Lezeth: Everyone's like no.
45:25
Cynthia Ruiz: You know what.
45:25
Cynthia Ruiz: You would have to deal with it.
45:26
Cynthia Ruiz: What Speaking of age read Melaniza?
45:34
Carmen Lezeth: I put the cassette player in the basket on my bike and rode for hours.
45:37
Rick Costa: What's that?
45:37
Rick Costa: What's a cassette player, a Walkman, a Sony Walkman?
45:41
Rick Costa: Sandy Knight.
45:42
Carmen Lezeth: Sandy Knight.
45:43
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, sandy is.
45:45
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, sandy is one of my best friends from back in the day.
45:49
Carmen Lezeth: Girl, how are you Okay?
45:51
Carmen Lezeth: What she's talking about is I used to try to do the curling because we would go out dancing together.
45:56
Carmen Lezeth: Sandy and I would go out clubbing at night, okay, and I would try to do my hair and I would curl it and I'd have burns here because it would be so hot and it would slip because you'd have so much oil or grease on it, so I would have marks on.
46:09
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, sandy, for bringing that up.
46:12
Carmen Lezeth: I appreciate it.
46:13
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you for chiming in on that, but I would have these marks because I would have so many burns from the flat iron.
46:20
Carmen Lezeth: It's true, oh man, yeah, so I shaved off all my hair when I came here.
46:24
Carmen Lezeth: And, sandy, thank you for stopping by.
46:26
Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, I love my people.
46:29
Carmen Lezeth: My people are so cool.
46:30
Carmen Lezeth: I love them, so awesome, yeah.
46:33
Carmen Lezeth: That's what I'm here for.
46:34
Carmen Lezeth: I love you, girl, thank you, thank you.
46:36
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, man, we used to go dancing, remember?
46:38
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, here the thing.
46:46
Carmen Lezeth: So everybody knows I've always been early, early sleeper.
46:47
Carmen Lezeth: I go to bed like 9 30, don't fucking call me my phone has been turned off.
46:49
Carmen Lezeth: It's true.
46:49
Carmen Lezeth: It's true because I'm up at 4, 35 o'clock.
46:51
Carmen Lezeth: Sandy and I would go dancing.
46:53
Carmen Lezeth: I don't know we start getting dressed in like tan.
46:57
Carmen Lezeth: I'd be so tired 10 o'clock at night or whatever, and then we'd go out, yeah oh man, and then we would come home like we'd go out dancing whatever and hanging out and drinking or whatever we'd go out.
47:05
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, oh man, and then we would come home like we'd go out dancing whatever and hanging out and drinking whatever.
47:07
Carmen Lezeth: We'd come home and her mom always had the best wait you know what she would have the best deli meats.
47:17
Carmen Lezeth: remember your mom would always have all these deli meats and she's, and we would come back from dancing like all night and we would just make these amazing sandwiches.
47:25
Carmen Lezeth: That's what I remember about being at your house, sandy.
47:28
Carmen Lezeth: Sorry, having a moment.
47:31
Carmen Lezeth: I love when my penis show up out of nowhere.
47:33
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you, sandy, you just made my motherfucking night.
47:36
Rick Costa: I'm curious about these stories.
47:37
Rick Costa: Might have to have a private lounge, Nah she wouldn't.
47:41
Carmen Lezeth: She wouldn't because she knows she's part of them stories.
47:43
Carmen Lezeth: Baby girl, she's part of them stories.
47:47
Carmen Lezeth: I mean we could share them if you want.
47:48
Carmen Lezeth: But I come up a little bit more innocent than she does.
47:51
Carmen Lezeth: A little bit, a little bit.
47:52
Carmen Lezeth: My comment section is going to go oh man, I had some great times with Sandy.
47:58
Carmen Lezeth: We had a great time.
47:59
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that's so cool.
48:00
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, we're going to be finishing up soon.
48:02
Carmen Lezeth: Anything else you guys want to add?
48:07
Tony D.: Oh wait, wait out till the sun came up and then sleep till 2 pm.
48:11
Carmen Lezeth: That was the best.
48:12
Carmen Lezeth: It was the best, though it was the best.
48:17
Carmen Lezeth: Oh see, reminiscing, you guys have stories like that.
48:20
Carmen Lezeth: Did you guys go out clubbing when you were younger?
48:25
Andrea: Leslie and I moved to Los Angeles to go out.
48:28
Andrea: That's literally why we moved here together.
48:31
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but in Los Angeles I didn't find 30 years ago there wasn't.
48:35
Carmen Lezeth: There's not really a big nightlife here in California.
48:38
Andrea: We were really into the music scene so we had like all of the little clubs out in Hollywood had like different nights, right.
48:46
Andrea: You'd have whatever goth night and metal night, and then you'd have like free hamburger night and whatever at all the different clubs.
48:50
Andrea: So it was.
48:52
Andrea: We were probably out five to seven nights a week the first two months we lived here.
48:57
Andrea: Okay, that's hardcore.
48:59
Carmen Lezeth: Is that after, is that during college or is that before college?
49:03
Andrea: It was like I guess it was college age.
49:05
Andrea: I was in like community college at the time.
49:06
Andrea: I was like 22, 23.
49:08
Andrea: We were just yeah, we were just going for it completely because we used to drive.
49:12
Andrea: We lived in, I lived in san diego, she lived in orange county.
49:15
Andrea: We would drive up here, wow, go out, drive back home, go to work and come back wow.
49:23
Cynthia Ruiz: Wow, see we were like we just gotta move we just gotta go up there.
49:26
Cynthia Ruiz: I just said stamina, he's right, I did the same thing we hosted a club night and it was from 7 pm till 7 am and I had to be at work at 9 am.
49:37
Cynthia Ruiz: The next morning I worked the door that whole 12 hours and then went straight to work for an eight hour shift.
49:43
Andrea: I can barely go to the grocery store in Target now and then I'm like so, sandy, don't be putting my stuff out on.
49:55
Carmen Lezeth: Here's the thing.
49:56
Carmen Lezeth: You know who my real friends are Cause they call me Carm, right, the old school people, carmen, I would go.
50:04
Rick Costa: I'll leave that there.
50:05
Rick Costa: Wow, sandy, you may be getting some friend requests on Facebook.
50:10
Tony D.: I think it's also an investigation.
50:13
Carmen Lezeth: Oh man, you're too funny.
50:14
Carmen Lezeth: Alma just said the way my family party.
50:16
Carmen Lezeth: I had no need.
50:17
Carmen Lezeth: My family would literally rent out the nightclubs.
50:19
Carmen Lezeth: I was 14 in the club, oh my.
50:21
Cynthia Ruiz: God, oh, my God.
50:24
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that would be weird con la familia, but could you really have fun.
50:28
Carmen Lezeth: That would be fun, but could you have fun.
50:31
Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
50:31
Cynthia Ruiz: Like I'm sure you get all the adults drinking and all the kids are doing whatever.
50:36
Carmen Lezeth: Look, sandy, sandy is okay.
50:38
Carmen Lezeth: I'm going to say this Sandy, do not, don't be putting them on Sandy is the friend that I hung out with, where we did bad things and I was a good kid.
50:48
Carmen Lezeth: But when I hung out, sandy and I man, it was fun.
50:54
Carmen Lezeth: Facebookcom, yeah.
50:54
Carmen Lezeth: Sandy we have you on the show, girl, but I don't know.
51:02
Carmen Lezeth: That scares me.
51:03
Carmen Lezeth: I don't want you on the me.
51:05
Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to.
51:06
Carmen Lezeth: You're like one of those people who knows all my secrets.
51:12
Tony D.: Is Ted going on tonight?
51:13
Tony D.: I'm not sure.
51:13
Tony D.: I haven't received a notification yet.
51:15
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, Let me see.
51:15
Carmen Lezeth: Melanie said I want to be home before it gets dark.
51:18
Cynthia Ruiz: Yeah.
51:20
Carmen Lezeth: I'm with Melanie now.
51:21
Carmen Lezeth: I mean now I still go to bed early.
51:23
Carmen Lezeth: I've always been an early person, but I really start winding down like eight o'clock.
51:26
Carmen Lezeth: I'm like winding down, you know, and I'm reading by like 930 and probably, in REM stage, by 10.
51:33
Carmen Lezeth: She said reading I read before I go to bed.
51:37
Carmen Lezeth: You guys don't read before you go to bed.
51:39
Tony D.: Hell.
51:39
Tony D.: No, I don't do that shit, no more.
51:40
Tony D.: I used to have to go when I was grounded.
51:41
Tony D.: No, what do you guys do when you read?
51:46
Tony D.: What do you do before you go to bed?
51:46
Tony D.: Watch a video or watch TV?
51:48
Andrea: I fall asleep on the news.
51:49
Andrea: All that bad stuff seeping into your brain.
51:51
Andrea: Yes, do you watch TV when you go to bed Sometimes, but I will usually read, or I watch TV a little bit before and then I turn it off and I do all of my stuff.
52:04
Andrea: I don't fall asleep watching tv.
52:07
Carmen Lezeth: Rick, do you read before?
52:09
Carmen Lezeth: Nobody reads before they go to sleep no, I literally.
52:12
Rick Costa: When I lay down, I'm out like, and I never used to be that way you know what I forgot.
52:16
Carmen Lezeth: You're the one who's like carmen, I'm taking a nap.
52:18
Rick Costa: I'll call you in a little bit but when I was young I had horrible insomnia.
52:21
Rick Costa: I would have bad insomnia when I was young, so that doesn't make up for it because you take naps now, like nothing.
52:25
Carmen Lezeth: You're like I take 20 minute naps every day.
52:27
Carmen Lezeth: He's taking naps for a lot of time.
52:29
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, I hate him.
52:30
Carmen Lezeth: It's called jealousy.
52:31
Carmen Lezeth: I'm jealous of you.
52:32
Carmen Lezeth: Wow, oh, that was such a good laugh.
52:34
Andrea: That was so much fun.
52:35
Carmen Lezeth: Hey, so I'm going to wrap it up because we're gonna have a conversation, melanie.
52:37
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you so much, alma.
52:47
Carmen Lezeth: No, you guys are not getting in touch with sandy.
52:49
Carmen Lezeth: Do not accept any of their friends.
52:50
Carmen Lezeth: No, um, who did we have?
52:56
Carmen Lezeth: We had some other people today that actually charlie was on um.
53:00
Carmen Lezeth: Darcy, who else?
53:02
Carmen Lezeth: Chrisak?
53:04
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you for stopping by.
53:05
Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, yeah, that's one of my peeps Thank you so much and if I missed anyone I'm so sorry.
53:09
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you for everyone who's still listening on the show.
53:12
Carmen Lezeth: I appreciate it a lot.
53:13
Carmen Lezeth: This has been a really cool thing.
53:15
Carmen Lezeth: If you can, please keep following the show, follow the podcast, share, do all that good fun stuff, and we'll be back here again next week on Thursday night, 6 pm Pacific.
53:25
Rick Costa: With special guest Sandy.
53:26
Rick Costa: Just kidding Okay.
53:29
Cynthia Ruiz: I got a question.
53:30
Carmen Lezeth: I got a question.
53:32
Cynthia Ruiz: Sandy night stop.
53:34
Cynthia Ruiz: Can I ask a question?
53:35
Cynthia Ruiz: Cut this off right now.
53:36
Cynthia Ruiz: Cut it off.
53:41
Andrea: Cut it off Can.
53:42
Cynthia Ruiz: I ask a question.
53:44
Tony D.: Wait, watch what happened to Debbie Dukes in black shorts your club uniform.
53:50
Carmen Lezeth: I'll tell everyone what I used to wear.
53:54
Andrea: I used to Sandy send the pics to her For the next show I used to wear we're all finding you on every social media.
54:03
Rick Costa: We won't put it on TMZ.
54:04
Rick Costa: Wait, wait, wait.
54:04
Rick Costa: I used to wear the same thing all the time.
54:04
Rick Costa: We are all finding you on every social media.
54:05
Rick Costa: We won't put it on TMZ.
54:07
Carmen Lezeth: I used to wear the same thing all the time.
54:09
Carmen Lezeth: I used to wear black shorts.
54:11
Carmen Lezeth: Remember, debbie Gibson used to wear black shorts.
54:13
Carmen Lezeth: I used to wear black tights.
54:16
Tony D.: It was a hat Wow.
54:19
Cynthia Ruiz: I know that.
54:19
Cynthia Ruiz: I know that, oh my God, I know that I was fucking awesome.
54:30
Cynthia Ruiz: No, that's true.
54:31
Carmen Lezeth: You know, I'm not saying what you were wearing.
54:33
Carmen Lezeth: Okay, Because I'm not wearing it Alma.
54:35
Tony D.: I need you to get to work on this, please, ma'am.
54:37
Tony D.: Wait, I wouldn't wear shorts.
54:39
Carmen Lezeth: Wait, the best part wasn't the shorts, though.
54:42
Tony D.: You had a black jacket.
54:43
Carmen Lezeth: Oh wow, and then I would wear like a little.
54:46
Carmen Lezeth: I had a little bolero short.
54:47
Carmen Lezeth: It was like a dark purple bolero jacket.
54:49
Carmen Lezeth: I thought I was the shit man.
54:51
Carmen Lezeth: It was awesome.
54:52
Tony D.: You had a black cardigan with a gold shirt looking like salt and pepper, okay Word.
54:56
Carmen Lezeth: You know what it?
54:56
Cynthia Ruiz: was the Jen.
54:57
Tony D.: Brady.
55:00
Cynthia Ruiz: That was not me, it was you.
55:07
Tony D.: We on your ass.
55:08
Rick Costa: next week I'm going to show you my cheeks are smiling too much.
55:12
Tony D.: This will be a Sandy Knight-less week, ladies and gentlemen, especially this.
55:16
Cynthia Ruiz: Sandy Knight is not coming on this motherfucking show.
55:20
Carmen Lezeth: She was the one Jan Reade.
55:21
Carmen Lezeth: Let me just say this we were bad-ass for the time.
55:26
Carmen Lezeth: Let me just say we were.
55:28
Carmen Lezeth: It was.
55:28
Carmen Lezeth: We had so much fun and I will say that it was the freest time when I was at Sandy.
55:34
Carmen Lezeth: The freest time Cause her parents were cool as fuck and I would stay with her and I would just go and we would hang out and it was like there was no judgment, there was no cause.
55:46
Carmen Lezeth: I lived in those two worlds, but with sandy it was just she was cool as fuck and good people and I love you, sandy, I do, I do, even though you're embarrassing me right now, but I love you.
55:53
Carmen Lezeth: We were cool back then.
55:54
Carmen Lezeth: We were awesome.
55:55
Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, all right everyone.
55:57
Carmen Lezeth: Oh, my god, I'm dying.
55:58
Carmen Lezeth: Good night everyone.
56:00
Carmen Lezeth: Thank you again.
56:00
Carmen Lezeth: Remember it really is all about the joy.
56:03
Carmen Lezeth: Bye everyone.
56:04
Carmen Lezeth: Thanks for stopping by.
56:14
Carmen Lezeth: All about the joy.
56:16
Carmen Lezeth: Be better and stay beautiful folks, have a sweet day.