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- 0:00Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace after urgent warnings issued about
- 0:09Speaker 1: a sextortion gang targeting US teens, a major break in
- 0:17Speaker 1: the case. I'm Nancy Grace, this is Crime Stories. Thank
- 0:21Speaker 1: you for being with us. In the last hours. Two
- 0:25Speaker 1: members of a sextortion gang sentenced to hard time behind bars.
- 0:33Speaker 1: This sextortion gang, these Nigerian nationals working hand in hand
- 0:40Speaker 1: with American citizens to torture and sex stort American teens.
- 0:48Speaker 1: It all came to light when an incredible young man,
- 0:54Speaker 1: a high schooler scrubbed in Sunshine. Seventeen year old Jordan
- 0:59Speaker 1: de May was caught up in a six stortion scam
- 1:03Speaker 1: and committed suicide. What happened.
- 1:07Speaker 2: A Michigan high school football star receives a mysterious Instagram
- 1:12Speaker 2: message from a girl claiming they have friends in common. Soon,
- 1:17Speaker 2: their conversation becomes flirtatious.
- 1:22Speaker 1: This kid, this boy to me, this little boy a teen,
- 1:28Speaker 1: had no idea who he was really dealing with. This girl, Danny,
- 1:36Speaker 1: this beautiful young girl flirting with him online. Started on Insta,
- 1:40Speaker 1: then she moved it to a Google chat room. It
- 1:44Speaker 1: wasn't a beautiful young girl at all. And now this
- 1:50Speaker 1: boy is gone listen.
- 1:53Speaker 3: I saw Jordan for the last time. He came home
- 1:57Speaker 3: at ten fifteen, and I believe that's when he opened
- 2:00Speaker 3: up his phone and saw the first messages rate when
- 2:02Speaker 3: he pulled in our driveway, and I was just about
- 2:07Speaker 3: ready to go to bed because we had a long
- 2:08Speaker 3: day the next morning traveling. Our other two kids were
- 2:12Speaker 3: already asleep, My wife was finishing up laundry and getting
- 2:16Speaker 3: ready final packing for our vacation. But I ran into
- 2:19Speaker 3: Jordan outside on our patio for a brief moment as
- 2:24Speaker 3: he was walking in. I was heading to the garage quick,
- 2:27Speaker 3: and that was the last time I'd seen him. But
- 2:30Speaker 3: looking back, that was literally minutes after he received his
- 2:33Speaker 3: first message, and within ten minutes I was in bed
- 2:36Speaker 3: sleeping and I never saw him again. I woke up
- 2:40Speaker 3: to finding him in his bedroom.
- 2:42Speaker 1: You are hearing Dad Jehan de May speaking to me earlier.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Joining me is Jean de May, Jordan's dad and his mother,
- 2:53Speaker 1: Jennifer Beauta to both of you, thank you for being
- 2:58Speaker 1: with us. And John. Let me tell you why we
- 3:03Speaker 1: were playing sound of when you spoke to me before,
- 3:08Speaker 1: because I was worried that you and Jennifer would be
- 3:15Speaker 1: so distraught that you wouldn't be able to speak, So
- 3:20Speaker 1: I was going to use your prior words in case
- 3:25Speaker 1: that happened, because when I work on this case, I
- 3:31Speaker 1: sometimes when I don't know the right words. Can you
- 3:36Speaker 1: and Jennifer, starting with you, John, tell us what happened
- 3:41Speaker 1: that evening?
- 3:42Speaker 4: Well, first of all, thank you for having us again
- 3:44Speaker 4: and sharing our story. And you know, appreciate the thought
- 3:49Speaker 4: of the speaking. But I know I can speak for
- 3:51Speaker 4: myself and probably Jennifer as well, but we're very vocal.
- 3:55Speaker 4: This is a very important issue and we're getting your
- 3:58Speaker 4: voice as far and why as we can to tell
- 4:01Speaker 4: Jordan's story and what happened to him and keep this
- 4:03Speaker 4: as this legacy. Jordan was, you know, as you can see,
- 4:07Speaker 4: an all American young man who was six two hundred
- 4:10Speaker 4: and eighty five pounds of you know, handsome young young
- 4:13Speaker 4: man getting ready to start his own life. He was
- 4:15Speaker 4: two months away from his eighteenth birthday, just getting ready
- 4:17Speaker 4: to graduate high school. And you know, this tragic thing happened.
- 4:22Speaker 4: As you know we heard earlier. The first message came
- 4:25Speaker 4: in late evening on Thursday night, and the messages were
- 4:31Speaker 4: flirtatious and kind of meaningless in the beginning, but it
- 4:36Speaker 4: kind of changed and as it progress into more sexual nature,
- 4:42Speaker 4: pictures were exchanged and Jordan had sent a compromising photo
- 4:45Speaker 4: of himself just after midnight.
- 4:47Speaker 5: And when he did that.
- 4:48Speaker 4: He figured out real quick that these this young lady
- 4:51Speaker 4: named Beanie Roberts was not a young lady. She was
- 4:54Speaker 4: they were extortionists trying to extort them for money. And
- 4:57Speaker 4: he spent the next three to four hours and extruciating, hard,
- 5:04Speaker 4: fast paced extortion and trying to pay the money and
- 5:08Speaker 4: trying to figure.
- 5:08Speaker 5: His way out of it. And he ultimately.
- 5:13Speaker 4: Told these extortions that he was going to kill himself
- 5:15Speaker 4: because of them, and their response was, good, you better
- 5:19Speaker 4: do it faster. We're going to make you do it,
- 5:22Speaker 4: and he did.
- 5:22Speaker 1: Mister Jamay, I am so sorry. I know those words
- 5:26Speaker 1: are hollow, are they? I just hate it for you,
- 5:29Speaker 1: I hate it for him. And if there is a
- 5:32Speaker 1: way to get this message to one team tonight, to
- 5:38Speaker 1: one team, it will be worth everything that we're doing
- 5:43Speaker 1: right now. Everything. And here's the thing. We'll never know.
- 5:47Speaker 1: We'll never know if we had any effect, if we
- 5:51Speaker 1: saved anybody, But I know this, we'll know if we
- 5:54Speaker 1: don't even try. Jennifer thank you for being with us.
- 5:58Speaker 1: What is your recollect of those critical hours?
- 6:02Speaker 6: When I woke up to get ready for work, I
- 6:05Speaker 6: saw a text that came through from Jordan at three
- 6:07Speaker 6: p forty one in the morning, and it said mother,
- 6:10Speaker 6: I love you, And I just texted him back and
- 6:14Speaker 6: said I love you too.
- 6:16Speaker 1: I hope you got some.
- 6:17Speaker 6: Sleep, and I started to get ready to take my
- 6:20Speaker 6: kids to school. Once I got them to school, I
- 6:24Speaker 6: knew Jordan should be awake, so I sent him another
- 6:27Speaker 6: message saying are you okay? And he didn't respond. So
- 6:31Speaker 6: I drove to work, sat down, and I was like,
- 6:35Speaker 6: something's not right. He should be responding to me. I
- 6:38Speaker 6: sent him a third text, just Jordan, and I gave
- 6:42Speaker 6: it a minute, and I reached out to Jordan's girlfriend
- 6:46Speaker 6: at school and said, is Jordan at school? And she
- 6:48Speaker 6: said no, And in that moment I knew something was very,
- 6:53Speaker 6: very wrong, and I reached out to John to see
- 6:55Speaker 6: if he was still at his house. John called me
- 7:00Speaker 6: about nine minutes later and said he's gone. He's gone,
- 7:07Speaker 6: and that Marning was just chaos trying to figure out
- 7:11Speaker 6: what happened or why he would do this because he
- 7:16Speaker 6: was ready to go on vacation. There were literally no
- 7:18Speaker 6: signs that he was in a place to take his
- 7:21Speaker 6: own life.
- 7:22Speaker 1: The investigation that started with the death of this incredible
- 7:30Speaker 1: young man, a boy, a boy, Jordan DeMay, a boy,
- 7:36Speaker 1: has led to the uncovering of a vast network, a
- 7:44Speaker 1: gang all around the world extorting sex, storting teens. Joining
- 7:52Speaker 1: me is Rich Wstak, a former detective cyber crimes detective
- 7:57Speaker 1: president of be Sure Cyber Training. Rich, thank you for
- 8:03Speaker 1: being with us. And you know, I'm just a trial lawyer.
- 8:06Speaker 7: I know how to try a murder case and I
- 8:09Speaker 7: know how to work a cross pot, and that's about it.
- 8:11Speaker 1: You have got to explain to everyone in understandable terms,
- 8:16Speaker 1: what is happening, How is this happening, Why is Jordan dead?
- 8:22Speaker 1: How did it happen?
- 8:23Speaker 8: Well, Nancy, my heart goes out to these parents, and
- 8:27Speaker 8: it's happening all over the world, actually where these warlords
- 8:32Speaker 8: have these cyber cafes, and they are all sextortionists, specifically
- 8:35Speaker 8: the Yahoo Boys in Nigeria who are doing this to
- 8:39Speaker 8: our kids across the country. What we need to do.
- 8:43Speaker 8: I train about three hundred thousand students a year. Last year,
- 8:46Speaker 8: out of those three hundred thousand. I have had thirty
- 8:49Speaker 8: five students come to me and telling me that's happening
- 8:52Speaker 8: to me right now, and we have to It starts
- 8:57Speaker 8: with education of the parents, and then it's to the education.
- 9:00Speaker 1: Okay, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa. Explain what happens
- 9:06Speaker 1: in simple terms. Okay, So here we see Jordan.
- 9:11Speaker 7: Everything's fine, and all of a sudden, this girl pops
- 9:14Speaker 7: up on Insta. I believe, wasn't it originally on Insta?
- 9:19Speaker 7: John and Jennifer correct, Yes, And she's cute.
- 9:23Speaker 1: And there's a picture of her and she's got a.
- 9:26Speaker 7: Profile and a background. I'm sixteen, I go to so
- 9:30Speaker 7: and so high school and I'm a cheerleader and I
- 9:33Speaker 7: live and so and so.
- 9:35Speaker 8: What happens then, Well, our boys get so involved and
- 9:38Speaker 8: when they're by themselves, you know, in their bedrooms at
- 9:42Speaker 8: night with their devices, and they're like, what's the harm.
- 9:47Speaker 8: It's just another girl on the internet. What they don't
- 9:50Speaker 8: understand is that if they don't know who they are,
- 9:53Speaker 8: where they come from, or can't see them on a webcam,
- 9:56Speaker 8: it's probably a liar, probably a sextortion case. So for girls,
- 10:00Speaker 8: it's about more pictures and videos.
- 10:02Speaker 1: So what you're saying, you need to be able to
- 10:05Speaker 1: either know the person in real life or be able
- 10:08Speaker 1: to see them on a webcam. And to you, John,
- 10:12Speaker 1: to May, it just started out so innocently. She sends
- 10:15Speaker 1: a picture, maybe a yearbook picture or I don't know,
- 10:19Speaker 1: a picture, a cute picture, and they start flirting and
- 10:23Speaker 1: talking online. He doesn't know her, she doesn't know him,
- 10:25Speaker 1: and they're having a good time and this goes on
- 10:27Speaker 1: for you know, twenty minutes. How does that go so sideways?
- 10:33Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to figure out. John.
- 10:35Speaker 4: You know, I'm certainly not a professional at this yet,
- 10:37Speaker 4: but I'm trying to be.
- 10:39Speaker 5: And you know, from all the law enforcement professionals from.
- 10:41Speaker 4: All the world that I'm meeting and talking with and
- 10:43Speaker 4: learning from, the majority of the same cases is the
- 10:48Speaker 4: same type of situation.
- 10:49Speaker 5: It's a slow boil.
- 10:52Speaker 4: Building rapport with hacked accounts mostly, and so a lot
- 10:57Speaker 4: of these accounts that are hacked have users and follow
- 11:00Speaker 4: so when you accept the friend request, they oftentimes have
- 11:03Speaker 4: mutual related friends, so they feel comfortable accepting their cross
- 11:07Speaker 4: rate in the beginning.
- 11:08Speaker 5: So that's the first step. And then as.
- 11:10Speaker 4: A detective state of the Yahoo boys is a particular
- 11:13Speaker 4: group that was very well connected and basically put together
- 11:17Speaker 4: a training platform that was all over the internet for
- 11:20Speaker 4: years for these extortions to learn how to do it effectively.
- 11:24Speaker 1: Oh, dear lord, So they have a training program how
- 11:28Speaker 1: to six stort teens American teens. Okay, this is how
- 11:35Speaker 1: I think it went down. Jump in and correct me
- 11:38Speaker 1: to John and Jennifer and witchress s doockey? Hold on,
- 11:41Speaker 1: Doctor Moroney, Elizabeth Peterson, I'm coming right to you. Listen.
- 11:44Speaker 9: Social media has become a regular part of daily life
- 11:47Speaker 9: for millions, and seventeen year old Jordan to May is
- 11:50Speaker 9: no exception. On Twitter, Jordan receives a message from a
- 11:53Speaker 9: beautiful team. Her name is Danny Roberts, and she's pretty
- 11:56Speaker 9: and very suggestive. Danny asked Jordan to send some naughty
- 11:59Speaker 9: photo of himself, but Jordan box and asks if she's
- 12:03Speaker 9: scamming him. Danny convinces Jordan she is in a scammer
- 12:06Speaker 9: and sends a nude photo of herself. Convinced, Jordan sends
- 12:09Speaker 9: a nude photo of himself.
- 12:11Speaker 1: And that is how it starts.
- 12:13Speaker 10: Listen the minute Jordan de May is convinced by a
- 12:15Speaker 10: new friend on Twitter to send a naughty photo. He
- 12:18Speaker 10: knows he has been had right away, he knows he
- 12:21Speaker 10: is being blackmailed. The so called Twitter friend tells Jordan
- 12:24Speaker 10: he needs to send money right now or the naughty
- 12:27Speaker 10: photo he just sent is going to be sent to
- 12:29Speaker 10: his family and all his friends at school. The blackmailer
- 12:32Speaker 10: tells Jordan to send one thousand dollars. He tells the
- 12:35Speaker 10: scammers he doesn't have that much. He tells them he
- 12:37Speaker 10: has three hundred dollars, and they agree. If Jordan de
- 12:40Speaker 10: May sends the three hundred dollars, they will get rid
- 12:42Speaker 10: of everything.
- 12:43Speaker 5: He sends the.
- 12:44Speaker 7: Money crime stories with Nancy Grace.
- 12:57Speaker 1: This is not just a story. This is rare. Jordan
- 13:02Speaker 1: is dead. And you just heard one of our guests
- 13:06Speaker 1: talking about training online. How these sex storationists are trained online.
- 13:12Speaker 1: They even have a script. This is part of the
- 13:15Speaker 1: script that we've obtained from court filings. Quote. Hey, I
- 13:19Speaker 1: have screenshots of all your followers and tags and those
- 13:22Speaker 1: that comment on your posts. I can send this new
- 13:25Speaker 1: to everyone and also send your nudes until it goes viral.
- 13:30Speaker 1: All you've got to do is cooperate with me, and
- 13:32Speaker 1: I will not expose you. Can you imagine John de May,
- 13:39Speaker 1: your boy alone up in his room, thinking, oh, my girlfriend,
- 13:46Speaker 1: my high school girlfriends gonna get a picture of my
- 13:49Speaker 1: private parts, and no, I send it to some girl
- 13:52Speaker 1: I've never even met. My parents are going to see this,
- 13:56Speaker 1: and the turmoil he was going through, and.
- 14:00Speaker 5: They were even taking it a step further.
- 14:01Speaker 4: They were they were pretending like they were already sending that,
- 14:05Speaker 4: and they were building content to try to show that
- 14:07Speaker 4: they were sending this already. So they were putting that
- 14:09Speaker 4: maximum pressure campaign on him to really stress them out.
- 14:12Speaker 4: And remember this is at you know, one, two, three
- 14:15Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning. He's spiraling out of control. He
- 14:19Speaker 4: doesn't know what to do.
- 14:20Speaker 7: Why did it take the suicide of this young boy,
- 14:25Speaker 7: literally all Americans scrubbed in sunshine, never been in trouble.
- 14:29Speaker 1: A day in his life. Why did it take that
- 14:33Speaker 1: for sextortion to be investigated? His death and the investigation
- 14:40Speaker 1: into its circumstances has led to the uncovering of a
- 14:44Speaker 1: far flung sextortion plot, leading to the arrest of multiple
- 14:49Speaker 1: grown men and uncovering a Nigerian gang with US counterparts.
- 14:58Speaker 7: Praying on our our children joining me. Jordan's mom and
- 15:04Speaker 7: dad Jennifer and John. What happened that night that John
- 15:10Speaker 7: and Jennifer are describing.
- 15:12Speaker 1: Listen.
- 15:13Speaker 9: Danny Roberts begin sending more threats to Jordan, putting his
- 15:16Speaker 9: naughty photos into collages with other family members and friends
- 15:19Speaker 9: and threatening to send those photos out, giving up the
- 15:22Speaker 9: pressure on Jordan, not giving him a moment's rest from
- 15:25Speaker 9: the threats. Jordan tells Danny he's thinking of killing himself
- 15:28Speaker 9: and writes, because of you. Danny responds, good, do that fast.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Let me understand what I'm hearing. Jennifer Buda joining us
- 15:38Speaker 1: Jordan's mom. So this extortionist, this gang praying, predating upon
- 15:45Speaker 1: our children, can actually go into their account and she Danny,
- 15:52Speaker 1: it's not as she is, American grown men teamed up
- 15:57Speaker 1: with Nigerian grown men. They get pictures of his friends
- 16:02Speaker 1: and family and they put the as we're calling it,
- 16:06Speaker 1: naughty photos of him naked in the middle, and he
- 16:10Speaker 1: puts all of his friends around it, proving to Jordan,
- 16:16Speaker 1: I can reach all of your friends, your mother, and
- 16:19Speaker 1: your father with this photo. I cannot imagine how Jordan
- 16:22Speaker 1: would have reacted seeing that, yeah, they were building the collages.
- 16:26Speaker 6: Jordan might have even believed that they were sent out
- 16:29Speaker 6: to some of his friends, his friend's parents, or to us.
- 16:35Speaker 1: It was very convincing.
- 16:36Speaker 6: I can't imagine the panic he was in, being tired
- 16:40Speaker 6: alone in the middle of the night. They basically tortured
- 16:43Speaker 6: my son for hours before they forced him to take
- 16:46Speaker 6: his own life.
- 16:47Speaker 11: Listen, it has only been six hours since Jordan de
- 16:50Speaker 11: May and Danny Roberts exchanged nude photos at seventeen years old,
- 16:54Speaker 11: the homecoming king, popular, well liked, Jordan de May sees
- 16:58Speaker 11: no way out when he threatened to end his own wife.
- 17:01Speaker 11: He isn't met with compassion, He's met with an evil challenge.
- 17:05Speaker 11: Do it he does? In his bedroom, on his bed,
- 17:08Speaker 11: Jordan de Maay fatally shoots himself.
- 17:10Speaker 1: This sextortion plot, and if you're a parent, if you're
- 17:16Speaker 1: an older brother or sister, an aunt, this matters. This
- 17:20Speaker 1: sextortion plot may never have been uncovered, and we may
- 17:24Speaker 1: never have known why Jordan did this. With the world
- 17:29Speaker 1: at his fingertips, his life in front of him, a
- 17:33Speaker 1: football star heading to vacation, loving loving, loving parents, a
- 17:38Speaker 1: beautiful girlfriend, good grades, everything why it would never have been.
- 17:44Speaker 9: Uncovered but for this news of Jordan de May's death
- 17:48Speaker 9: spreads fast. Jordan's girlfriend, Kyla gets messages online from people
- 17:52Speaker 9: expressing their condolences, but there is one message from a
- 17:56Speaker 9: user she doesn't recognize. This person is not offering condolences.
- 18:00Speaker 9: The message is from a user with explicit photos of Jordan,
- 18:03Speaker 9: threatening to send the photos to her friends and family.
- 18:06Speaker 9: Kyla tells her parents about the message and they go
- 18:09Speaker 9: to the police.
- 18:10Speaker 1: John to May is with us, Jordan's dad along with
- 18:13Speaker 1: Jordan's mom. John explain the significance of his Jordan's little
- 18:19Speaker 1: girlfriend getting a message from the sextortionist.
- 18:24Speaker 4: Well, it's really the most important piece of this entire
- 18:27Speaker 4: investigation in resulting in almost eleven or well, I believe
- 18:31Speaker 4: it's eleven arrests now at this point in American Nigeria.
- 18:34Speaker 5: But the picture was the catalyst.
- 18:37Speaker 4: And when we talk about the number of children that
- 18:40Speaker 4: are affected by sextortion specifically, it's literally everyone to some
- 18:45Speaker 4: degree at one level to another. But this picture was
- 18:48Speaker 4: important because it allowed law enforcement to be able to
- 18:51Speaker 4: get search warrants and preservation warrants into social media companies
- 18:54Speaker 4: Instagram or Meta at this point in our case, Otherwise
- 18:58Speaker 4: we would have never known Jordan White his phone clean
- 19:01Speaker 4: He deleted all the messages on Instagram, so at face value,
- 19:06Speaker 4: we really wouldn't have had the knowledge of what we
- 19:09Speaker 4: have today. So that one picture, which is actually a
- 19:11Speaker 4: little bit unlike most of the extortionists in sextortion cases,
- 19:15Speaker 4: the majority of the time, these extortionists do not send
- 19:18Speaker 4: the photos.
- 19:19Speaker 5: They have no reason to.
- 19:21Speaker 4: This was a little bit of a difference in a
- 19:23Speaker 4: lot of the other sextortion cases that I've been that
- 19:26Speaker 4: have been following and meeting with parents and investigators on
- 19:29Speaker 4: So we're very, very lucky that that happened because a
- 19:31Speaker 4: lot of parents know that they're with some fishy stuff
- 19:35Speaker 4: going on by some of the message they're on their phone,
- 19:36Speaker 4: but they don't have enough evidence to go to a
- 19:38Speaker 4: court to get a warrant to go to Meta because
- 19:41Speaker 4: Meta is just not going to release the back end
- 19:43Speaker 4: data and provide parents or investigators with information without evidence.
- 19:49Speaker 4: So that one piece is what would blew this all
- 19:52Speaker 4: up for us, So extremely important.
- 19:54Speaker 11: In Michigan, the Marquette County Sheriff has his detectives work
- 19:57Speaker 11: with the FBI and subpoena Jordan's social media investigators track
- 20:01Speaker 11: Danny Roberts ip address to Nigeria, where many online sextortion
- 20:05Speaker 11: scams originate. Three Nigerian men, Ezekiel Roberts and brothers Samuel
- 20:10Speaker 11: and Sampson Negoti are linked to Jordan Demaz's case, along
- 20:14Speaker 11: with more than one hundred other victims.
- 20:17Speaker 1: Joining me now, Elizabeth Peterson morning news anchor and reporter
- 20:22Speaker 1: WLUCTV six uppermichiganssource dot Com. Elizabeth, thank you for being
- 20:29Speaker 1: with us. Now we hear the US attorney speaking out. Now,
- 20:34Speaker 1: just then we heard about a Nigerian gang, but there
- 20:39Speaker 1: were American men, us citizens part of this gang, part
- 20:46Speaker 1: of this plot. How did it work? Elizabeth?
- 20:50Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 20:50Speaker 12: As this continues to unfold, we keep learning more and
- 20:53Speaker 12: more about exactly what happened, and there were five American
- 20:57Speaker 12: men arrested, charged in this this scheme, and essentially through that,
- 21:05Speaker 12: we learned that when Jordan sent the money, he didn't
- 21:08Speaker 12: send it to Nigeria. He sent it to one of
- 21:10Speaker 12: these men, who then sent it to another they call
- 21:14Speaker 12: him the Plug, another man in Nigeria who then sent
- 21:18Speaker 12: it to the three defendants. And I think when you
- 21:23Speaker 12: really look at what happened, started with three hundred dollars.
- 21:28Speaker 12: The first man here in the United States took his
- 21:31Speaker 12: cut of say twenty percent, then the plug takes his cut,
- 21:35Speaker 12: and so by the time you go down the line,
- 21:38Speaker 12: this was over fifty dollars, sixty dollars. And so as
- 21:43Speaker 12: we start to learn those details, just how unnecessary this.
- 21:48Speaker 1: Entire, this entire thing was. Oh, Elizabeth Peterson, hold on
- 21:52Speaker 1: just a moment, sure, Elizabeth, he mean some of these
- 21:56Speaker 1: people their cut, did you say it was fifty dollars.
- 21:59Speaker 1: Jordan isn't dead and their cut was fifty dollars, So pointless, Jennifer,
- 22:04Speaker 1: did you have any idea that some of these six
- 22:08Speaker 1: stortionists get fifty dollars and Jordan is dead.
- 22:14Speaker 6: When they share that information at the last press conference,
- 22:18Speaker 6: and I did the math in my head. I thought,
- 22:19Speaker 6: this is absolutely disgusting that I lost my son over
- 22:23Speaker 6: someone getting fifty or sixty dollars. Completely unnecessary, and my
- 22:30Speaker 6: son could be alive. I would have paid a million
- 22:32Speaker 6: times that to have him here, and all they wanted
- 22:34Speaker 6: was fifty bucks.
- 22:36Speaker 1: I didn't know that, but my stomach is just clenched
- 22:40Speaker 1: thinking that they would go along with this. And it's
- 22:44Speaker 1: easy to say, Oh, Nigeria so far away, you can't relate.
- 22:49Speaker 7: To someone in a different country who are they. We
- 22:51Speaker 7: don't know them.
- 22:53Speaker 1: US citizens are praying on our children, our Jordan listen.
- 23:02Speaker 13: Over the course of a short conversation, Samuel Ogashi, pretending
- 23:07Speaker 13: to be this young woman, persuaded Jordan to send a
- 23:11Speaker 13: sexually explicit image of himself. Once Samuel Ogashi had that
- 23:16Speaker 13: sexually ex explicit image in his hand, he then turned
- 23:21Speaker 13: to extort Jordan de May for money, threatening to reveal
- 23:25Speaker 13: the image to Jordan's family and friends if he did
- 23:29Speaker 13: not comply.
- 23:30Speaker 1: So let me understand rich with Stokey joining US cybercrimes detective,
- 23:35Speaker 1: how was it? In a nutshell? In simple terms for me,
- 23:40Speaker 1: how were these texts and messages some of them on Insta,
- 23:47Speaker 1: some of them in a Google chat room?
- 23:49Speaker 7: How were they traced back all the way to Nigeria?
- 23:52Speaker 7: And how were the US counterpart the gang in the US?
- 23:57Speaker 1: How were they traced?
- 23:58Speaker 8: So what happens is when these happened, we have to
- 24:01Speaker 8: we have to have five pieces of evidence. One of
- 24:03Speaker 8: those pieces of evidents are as screen captors. We have
- 24:06Speaker 8: to do what's called in the first step the preservation order,
- 24:09Speaker 8: which holds the information for ninety days. Then we go
- 24:12Speaker 8: on to subpoena or search warrant. Part of that, we
- 24:15Speaker 8: ask for the history of IPS for as long as
- 24:18Speaker 8: the account existed, and what you're going to see not
- 24:21Speaker 8: only in the social media accounts. How do they send
- 24:23Speaker 8: the money? Was at Zel? Was it PayPal? How is it?
- 24:28Speaker 8: So when we get every every single social media or
- 24:32Speaker 8: banking system that they're using, we get the user ID
- 24:35Speaker 8: and we get all the IPS that are connected to it.
- 24:38Speaker 8: So when you have all the players connecting with their
- 24:41Speaker 8: IPS into these accounts, that is traceable. When I teach
- 24:45Speaker 8: in the schools and tell the kids, there is no
- 24:48Speaker 8: one online is anonymous when it comes to social networking
- 24:51Speaker 8: and gaming, and no one has the right to make
- 24:53Speaker 8: you do something you know you're not supposed to be doing,
- 24:56Speaker 8: and we can make your pain stop because we can
- 25:00Speaker 8: trace it.
- 25:00Speaker 1: Which with Stocky is talking about how this case was
- 25:03Speaker 1: cracked wide open John to May, Jennifer, but to the
- 25:07Speaker 1: mom and dad of Jordan, most of these transactions were
- 25:11Speaker 1: through Apple pay or zell. Was that how it was
- 25:15Speaker 1: traced in Jordan's case?
- 25:17Speaker 5: Correct?
- 25:19Speaker 4: In Jordan's case, it was an Apple Pay to a
- 25:22Speaker 4: United States bank account. And then unfortunately, these extortionists need
- 25:27Speaker 4: players in the United States because you can't just send
- 25:29Speaker 4: American currency to Nigeria.
- 25:31Speaker 5: It has to be converted.
- 25:32Speaker 4: So typically what's happening is the money's coming in through
- 25:34Speaker 4: Apple pay Zel and then it goes into a bank account.
- 25:38Speaker 4: The bank account then uploads it into a crypto wallet
- 25:41Speaker 4: through a crypto exchange United States Exchange, and then it's
- 25:44Speaker 4: converted into a Bitcoin or some sort of cryptocurrency. Then
- 25:47Speaker 4: it's easily transferred into any wallet on the planet, and
- 25:50Speaker 4: then the receiving end of that crypto wallet our case
- 25:54Speaker 4: in Nigeria, they were able to run it through an
- 25:56Speaker 4: exchange in Nigeria and convert that cryptocurrency back into their
- 26:00Speaker 4: own home currency.
- 26:02Speaker 14: Today, I'm announcing a separate but related case charging five individuals,
- 26:08Speaker 14: all US citizens, located in the United States now and
- 26:13Speaker 14: at the time of the alleged criminal activity. These individuals
- 26:17Speaker 14: we alleged facilitated this sextortion scheme by receiving payments from
- 26:23Speaker 14: the victims and transferring the money to Nigeria, ultimately to
- 26:29Speaker 14: those carrying out the scheme that resulted in the death
- 26:32Speaker 14: of Jordan DeMay and victimized many others.
- 26:36Speaker 1: That is, the US Attorney for the Western District of Michigan,
- 26:40Speaker 1: Mark taught in speaking about the arrests in the last
- 26:45Speaker 1: hours part of a Nigerian sextortion gang sentenced to hard
- 26:53Speaker 1: jail time nearly twenty years behind bars in the US
- 26:58Speaker 1: federal prison, guilty to sexually extorting teen boys all across
- 27:06Speaker 1: the US, including a teen boy just seventeen years old,
- 27:12Speaker 1: Jordan de May from Michigan. Hard jail time for two
- 27:17Speaker 1: of the men part of a bigger conspiracy including American citizens,
- 27:25Speaker 1: to extort sexually extort teen boys and girls across the
- 27:32Speaker 1: country nearly twenty years. Frankly, I'm glad they caught them,
- 27:38Speaker 1: but I don't think twenty years is enough. But can
- 27:42Speaker 1: I talk about the reality to John and Jennifer, All
- 27:47Speaker 1: of this happened in just six hours from the time
- 27:53Speaker 1: your baby got this message, the first message from Danny.
- 27:59Speaker 1: Six hours later later, he was gone. He was God
- 28:03Speaker 1: from this earth and in heaven to six hours. John,
- 28:07Speaker 1: that's right.
- 28:09Speaker 5: And there's two dozen parents and families that I know.
- 28:12Speaker 4: That I speak with that have lost their children to sextortion,
- 28:17Speaker 4: and a lot of their stories are very similar to these.
- 28:19Speaker 4: All these young boys and some girls. We could put
- 28:21Speaker 4: them all in the same room together and they could
- 28:24Speaker 4: all be brothers and sisters and the feet on them,
- 28:28Speaker 4: and you know, it's a tragedy.
- 28:31Speaker 1: Jennifer, it is so hard to take in that all
- 28:34Speaker 1: you've raised him for years, eighteen years, and in six
- 28:40Speaker 1: hours you lose.
- 28:42Speaker 6: They took one of the most precious things to me,
- 28:45Speaker 6: and on that day, part of me left this earth too,
- 28:49Speaker 6: And there's always going to be an emptiness and a
- 28:52Speaker 6: heaviness not having Jordan here with me.
- 28:55Speaker 1: To Elizabeth Peterson joining us WLUC TV, it's so difficult
- 29:04Speaker 1: to hear John and Jennifer talk about how much they
- 29:08Speaker 1: love Jordan and how everything changed in just a few hours.
- 29:14Speaker 1: This investigation turned on its ear and it got to
- 29:18Speaker 1: be very extensive and much bigger than anyone imagined.
- 29:23Speaker 12: Yeah, it really, you know, as I've been covering this
- 29:26Speaker 12: for a couple of years now and I've gotten to
- 29:28Speaker 12: know Jennifer and John, and I've listened to the community
- 29:31Speaker 12: to talk about who Jordan was. Everyone explains him as
- 29:34Speaker 12: this big, big presence, this big spirit. And I think
- 29:38Speaker 12: as we look at this investigation and see how big
- 29:41Speaker 12: it's gotten, the reach that it's gotten, his story is
- 29:44Speaker 12: being told not just here in Michigan, but across the country,
- 29:47Speaker 12: across the world, and every time it's told, there's an
- 29:50Speaker 12: opportunity there for us as parents, for us as the community,
- 29:53Speaker 12: for us as legislator's law enforcement across the board, to
- 29:57Speaker 12: do better, to do right by Jordan, his family.
- 30:01Speaker 1: And I think that's exactly what's happening.
- 30:03Speaker 12: And I can't help but think that. You know, it's
- 30:05Speaker 12: hard for us as adults sometimes, I think, to relate
- 30:08Speaker 12: to a sixteen year old and what they're thinking, what
- 30:10Speaker 12: they're feeling. But they haven't lived life yet, they haven't
- 30:14Speaker 12: matured yet. They don't have that wherewithal to say, you
- 30:16Speaker 12: know what, in a year, I'm going to look back
- 30:19Speaker 12: at on this and laugh. And so as adults we
- 30:22Speaker 12: can't understand, but we can open that open space.
- 30:24Speaker 1: Now what That's a really good point, Elizabeth, as is
- 30:28Speaker 1: true in so many suicides to you, Jennifer, Butta Jordan's mother.
- 30:36Speaker 1: If they could just get through that one dark moment, yeah,
- 30:42Speaker 1: if he had just made it through the night, the
- 30:45Speaker 1: next morning, everything is different. Explain absolutely.
- 30:51Speaker 6: You know, their brains aren't developed enough to see past
- 30:54Speaker 6: that very moment. They're just seeing what's in front of
- 30:57Speaker 6: them right now, and how devastating this is how they
- 31:00Speaker 6: might have hurt someone or disappointed someone. I actually had
- 31:05Speaker 6: a teenager reach out to me yesterday and say, this
- 31:09Speaker 6: is happening to me, and because of Jordan's story, I
- 31:12Speaker 6: know that this is going to pass. And that brought
- 31:16Speaker 6: tears to me, knowing that sharing Jordan's story is helping
- 31:20Speaker 6: others and it is saving lives.
- 31:22Speaker 1: Jordan de may Attain, literally just king of the world,
- 31:28Speaker 1: his life in front of him, commits suicide because of
- 31:33Speaker 1: a sextortion plot against him, and it's happening to teens
- 31:37Speaker 1: all over our country. I want you to hear what Danny,
- 31:43Speaker 1: the cute girl he thought he was talking to said. Dude,
- 31:47Speaker 1: now goodbye, enjoy your miserable life. And victim too says
- 31:54Speaker 1: why and Danny, I'll make this goat vibe. I'll make
- 32:01Speaker 1: you regret your life. I'll make you commit suicide. I
- 32:05Speaker 1: promise you, I swear. That is what these teens are
- 32:09Speaker 1: up against. They think they're going to get ridiculed, shamed, shunned, bullied, mistreated,
- 32:17Speaker 1: grounded by parents, friends, family, and they feel they have
- 32:22Speaker 1: no other choice very quickly. Doctor William Maroney has conducted
- 32:27Speaker 1: so many autopsies on teen suicide victims. Your message.
- 32:33Speaker 15: My message is that we need to have resilience coming
- 32:39Speaker 15: from the parents, but we also need the taxpayers to
- 32:42Speaker 15: hear that message in the schools because the kids spend
- 32:45Speaker 15: so much time in school that the schools should redirect
- 32:50Speaker 15: children back to their parents for questions, and there should
- 32:54Speaker 15: be early education about feeling insecure and suicide and downplay
- 33:00Speaker 15: those messages in the media and refer children back to
- 33:05Speaker 15: communication with their parents.
- 33:07Speaker 7: That's exactly what you do Rich with Stocky train in schools.
- 33:11Speaker 8: Yeah, we need to be teaching parents how to have
- 33:14Speaker 8: that technology talk because so many times parents say, if
- 33:18Speaker 8: you do this, if you do that, we're going to
- 33:19Speaker 8: do this year, We're going to do that to you,
- 33:21Speaker 8: and that shuts down the communications. Instead, I teach something
- 33:24Speaker 8: called the golden ticket, and we need to have parents
- 33:27Speaker 8: give that kid a pass because parents are responsible for
- 33:30Speaker 8: their kids technology and we need to do a better
- 33:33Speaker 8: job allowing no matter what you do, we are here
- 33:36Speaker 8: for you and we will fix it for you. You
- 33:38Speaker 8: don't have to suffer in silence.
- 33:40Speaker 1: And what is so ironic to Jennifer and John Jordan's
- 33:43Speaker 1: mom and dad, Jordan was not under any threat like
- 33:48Speaker 1: you hear parents saying Hey, I'm going to take away
- 33:50Speaker 1: your car keys, I'm going to take away your cell
- 33:52Speaker 1: phone if you fill in the blank. This boy, Jordan,
- 33:58Speaker 1: this was a prison of his own making out of
- 34:01Speaker 1: fear embarrassment, not because you had disciplined him or fussed
- 34:06Speaker 1: him about being online, but because of what the defendants did,
- 34:11Speaker 1: grown men in the US and Nigeria targeting this teen
- 34:17Speaker 1: boy in the middle of the night. Jennifer, you guys
- 34:21Speaker 1: did everything right and parents need to know that too.
- 34:25Speaker 1: You can do everything right and you still have a
- 34:29Speaker 1: hard time protecting your child online.
- 34:31Speaker 6: Yeah, Jordan had a loving family, he had a great life,
- 34:36Speaker 6: a huge support system within his friends in this community,
- 34:40Speaker 6: and he was just the target that night, and they
- 34:43Speaker 6: were relentless and did not give up until Jordan finally
- 34:48Speaker 6: took his own life because he couldn't take the pressure.
- 34:51Speaker 6: And I think it's so important for parents to hear
- 34:54Speaker 6: Jordan's story and sit down with their families and have
- 34:57Speaker 6: open conversations about what happened in the There's absolutely nothing
- 35:02Speaker 6: that they can't come to you with for help, because
- 35:04Speaker 6: people want to help you. If you see yourself going
- 35:07Speaker 6: down that tunnel.
- 35:08Speaker 1: John to May, Jordan's dead, I want to tell you
- 35:11Speaker 1: how you've affected my family, you and Jennifer and Jordan.
- 35:17Speaker 1: When you first told me about Jordan, I pulled up
- 35:20Speaker 1: Jordan's picture online on my iPad and I blew it up,
- 35:25Speaker 1: and I waited for the twins, my children, to come
- 35:27Speaker 1: home from school. They sat down, we had no conversation,
- 35:31Speaker 1: which we normally do, and I held up the picture.
- 35:34Speaker 1: I said, you see this boy, he's a star football player,
- 35:37Speaker 1: he was going to go to college. He's dead, and
- 35:40Speaker 1: this is what happened. This is what happened, and now
- 35:43Speaker 1: his mom and dad don't have him any more. And
- 35:47Speaker 1: I told him point blank, what happened. Please help us, John,
- 35:53Speaker 1: help all the parents listening right now.
- 35:55Speaker 16: What is your message?
- 35:57Speaker 4: I think the most important thing really is kind of elementary,
- 36:00Speaker 4: but it just boils down. So we have to really
- 36:03Speaker 4: watch what kids are doing on devices and specifically social media.
- 36:07Speaker 4: One thing that I think is really important, as a detective,
- 36:10Speaker 4: touched on it was having a device in their bedrooms
- 36:12Speaker 4: in secluded areas at night without other people around. I
- 36:16Speaker 4: think that's a really bad recipe, especially when something like
- 36:19Speaker 4: this goes down. There's no way for anybody to intervene.
- 36:21Speaker 4: So I think parents need to be really, really cognizant
- 36:24Speaker 4: about that. Keep the devices in open areas, keep them
- 36:26Speaker 4: out of their bedrooms, put them on the phone chargers,
- 36:27Speaker 4: put them away at night, and then speaking to their
- 36:30Speaker 4: kids and having the conversation. This is stuff that's really happening.
- 36:33Speaker 4: To look at Jordan's story, this thing is real. There's
- 36:36Speaker 4: people from other parts of the world that came into
- 36:38Speaker 4: my house and murdered my son that night, and there's
- 36:40Speaker 4: eleven people in custody right now because of it. So
- 36:43Speaker 4: this isn't something that just as a whim. There's two
- 36:46Speaker 4: dozen other families, and there's probably thousands, if not tens
- 36:49Speaker 4: of thousands, maybe even millions of kids that.
- 36:50Speaker 5: Are being affected by this to some level.
- 36:54Speaker 4: So we have to be diligent parents and pay attention
- 36:57Speaker 4: to what's happening and be a little bit more strict
- 37:00Speaker 4: and fours coming with the phone.
- 37:03Speaker 7: Usage crime stories with Nancy Grace Nearly twenty years hard
- 37:18Speaker 7: prison time for two Nigerian brothers after the suicide of
- 37:24Speaker 7: an incredible young man, a teen boy, Jordan de May.
- 37:29Speaker 16: John de Maay is with me. This is Jordan's dad.
- 37:34Speaker 1: What is your recollection of that night and the following morning?
- 37:39Speaker 16: When Jordan lost his life.
- 37:40Speaker 3: Well, the night before was a pretty normal, chaotic trying
- 37:45Speaker 3: to get everything ready to leave on vacation for two
- 37:47Speaker 3: weeks kind of night, as any buddy with three kids
- 37:50Speaker 3: and two dogs is trying to do. So it was
- 37:54Speaker 3: a pretty normal leaving in that sense. Obviously. In the morning,
- 37:58Speaker 3: I woke up, My two younger girls were getting up,
- 38:01Speaker 3: and my wife had gotten up, and we were just
- 38:03Speaker 3: kind of milling around trying to get ready for the day.
- 38:06Speaker 3: And Jennifer, Jordan's mother, had sent me a text message
- 38:11Speaker 3: and asked me if Jordan was, you know, if he
- 38:16Speaker 3: was still home. And at that point, it was like
- 38:18Speaker 3: seven point thirty in the morning, which was really strained,
- 38:22Speaker 3: and I looked out the window and I saw I
- 38:29Speaker 3: saw it was Carston in the driveway, and I thought
- 38:32Speaker 3: that was awfully strange because he never missed his school ever.
- 38:36Speaker 3: So at that point I went downstairs to his bedroom.
- 38:41Speaker 3: I opened up the door, and I found him in
- 38:43Speaker 3: his bedroom.
- 38:44Speaker 16: I guess when you first saw him, you couldn't believe it.
- 38:50Speaker 3: I was stunned, shocked, numb, every my whole body was
- 38:59Speaker 3: just failing me. I could barely stand up.
- 39:03Speaker 16: Oh, mister to May I'm so sorry, just imagining. I
- 39:08Speaker 16: guess every person listening to your voice right now is
- 39:12Speaker 16: thinking of that moment.
- 39:13Speaker 1: They go in and my daughter sixs o'clock and I
- 39:18Speaker 1: can hear it. It sounds like some kind of a
- 39:20Speaker 1: sitar ding ding ding ding playing some kind of song,
- 39:24Speaker 1: something ungodly.
- 39:25Speaker 8: Early hour.
- 39:26Speaker 1: She gets up and I always go in and check
- 39:28Speaker 1: on her in case she goes back to sleep. Then
- 39:32Speaker 1: my son could sleep through a mac truck coming through
- 39:35Speaker 1: his window and I have to go literally get him up,
- 39:42Speaker 1: and I've done it a million times. I'm just thinking
- 39:47Speaker 1: about that moment when you open the door and you
- 39:53Speaker 1: see him. What did you do?
- 39:57Speaker 3: I just stood at his feet and started shaking, and
- 40:03Speaker 3: I think I wasn't even trying to talk to him,
- 40:06Speaker 3: like why, Jordan, you know why what happened? And I
- 40:12Speaker 3: remember I just slowly turned around and slowly walked back upstairs,
- 40:17Speaker 3: and my wife and my two and my one daughter
- 40:19Speaker 3: was sitting on the couch, and I told my wife
- 40:23Speaker 3: that Jordan shot himself, and and my youngest daughter freaked out,
- 40:28Speaker 3: and my wife freaked out and everything started to happen
- 40:34Speaker 3: from there. Life changed that morning.
- 40:36Speaker 16: Mister de May, what do you make life changed that morning.
- 40:40Speaker 3: I mean, obviously, losing the child is the worst thing
- 40:44Speaker 3: that can one of the worst things that can happen
- 40:45Speaker 3: to anybody, but it sent a lot of It's well,
- 40:51Speaker 3: it started, it started a lot of different things in
- 40:53Speaker 3: our life personally, outside from learning about sex stortion and
- 40:58Speaker 3: going public and doing all those great things. But you know,
- 41:01Speaker 3: we we lived in a home that was going to
- 41:04Speaker 3: be our forever home that we never went back to
- 41:06Speaker 3: that night. After that date, we went back to finish things,
- 41:11Speaker 3: but we ended up putting on the market Charlie after
- 41:13Speaker 3: sold it and now we're building a new home. So
- 41:17Speaker 3: just things like that and the way we interact with
- 41:20Speaker 3: our kids and the way that we you know, just
- 41:22Speaker 3: go about daily life. There's it's just it's just a
- 41:26Speaker 3: different it's a different world for us. And you know,
- 41:28Speaker 3: Jordan's always in our in our thoughts and how we
- 41:31Speaker 3: and how we navigate the world. And and it's even
- 41:35Speaker 3: heightened more now with with being able to come forward
- 41:39Speaker 3: with with what happened and share the story and and
- 41:43Speaker 3: really create this message that that Jordan would be proud
- 41:47Speaker 3: of as well.
- 41:49Speaker 16: Mister Tomy, what is your message?
- 41:52Speaker 3: Our message is? There are a lot of folks. And
- 41:56Speaker 3: you know, we talked a little bit here with some
- 41:58Speaker 3: very professional people about the suit side and the rates,
- 42:00Speaker 3: and it's it's actually absolutely tragic to see to hear
- 42:04Speaker 3: that those numbers are so high. But you know, let's
- 42:08Speaker 3: be honest. You know, social media is not doing any
- 42:10Speaker 3: favors for anyone, not children certainly, and not adults. And
- 42:14Speaker 3: I think the message needs to be that for parents,
- 42:18Speaker 3: it needs to be we need to pay more attention
- 42:20Speaker 3: to what's happening online and start understanding a little bit more.
- 42:23Speaker 3: And for for kids that need. Younger people I shouldn't
- 42:26Speaker 3: say kids, young young and young people and young adults
- 42:29Speaker 3: even need to understand that the the nature of what
- 42:34Speaker 3: social media is doing to you mentally, just in our
- 42:36Speaker 3: story is so so left field. I mean, it's it
- 42:41Speaker 3: doesn't happen to everybody, right, But let's boil it down
- 42:43Speaker 3: into simple things. And I'm sure you've had a lot
- 42:45Speaker 3: of podcasts about bullying and body shaming these young ladies
- 42:50Speaker 3: and trying to get likes and feel goods and all
- 42:52Speaker 3: the things. I mean, all that stuff is not healthy.
- 42:54Speaker 3: It's just not healthy for people at all. So I
- 42:57Speaker 3: think the message needs to be we need to slow
- 42:59Speaker 3: down that stuff. I think we need to go back
- 43:01Speaker 3: to having real relationships with people, having real conversations, trying
- 43:06Speaker 3: to get young people away from sending pictures and messages
- 43:10Speaker 3: as you know, sexual content. You know, have real relationships
- 43:15Speaker 3: with people, Be out and about, be alive, enjoy the air,
- 43:19Speaker 3: you know, look around. But at the end of the day,
- 43:23Speaker 3: we have to tell people that if things happen, you know,
- 43:26Speaker 3: it's not the end of the world either. You know,
- 43:29Speaker 3: Jordan's story is so tragic, and this is something that
- 43:33Speaker 3: probably would would have been laughing about in ten or
- 43:35Speaker 3: fifteen years after he's graduated college and gotten married and
- 43:38Speaker 3: had kids and bought his first home and you know,
- 43:41Speaker 3: got a career job and did all the things. You'd
- 43:42Speaker 3: look back and kind of like that was stupid, right,
- 43:45Speaker 3: But in that moment, you can't. They're not old enough
- 43:48Speaker 3: to understand that. They're not developed enough to understand that
- 43:51Speaker 3: what their life as they know it, in that moment,
- 43:53Speaker 3: that may be over.
- 43:56Speaker 1: In their world. They don't understand that all row, you're
- 44:01Speaker 1: going to feel better. And when you just said, mister
- 44:04Speaker 1: de may that one day when he you know, graduated
- 44:07Speaker 1: and gets married, he's buying his first house that you
- 44:09Speaker 1: would laugh about a newty that he took when he
- 44:13Speaker 1: was seventeen. Just I know you talk to him. I
- 44:17Speaker 1: know you talk to him because I talked to my
- 44:19Speaker 1: dad all the time. What do you say to Jordan now?
- 44:25Speaker 3: I try to talk to Jordan just about the daily
- 44:29Speaker 3: stuff past sisters are doing and what we're up to,
- 44:33Speaker 3: and things that we've done that we wish he would
- 44:36Speaker 3: have been part of, you know it. Just it helps
- 44:40Speaker 3: keep the keep the message alive, and keep Jordan alive
- 44:45Speaker 3: and helps us heal, helps us move on.
- 44:50Speaker 16: Do you ever feel that he answers you in some way?
- 44:55Speaker 3: I do. I think I think that's natural for those feelings.
- 44:59Speaker 3: A Oftentimes great things happen, and you know, you'll get
- 45:04Speaker 3: a rush of wind, or the rain will just suddenly
- 45:08Speaker 3: stop and it'll be a beautiful rainbow, or you know,
- 45:10Speaker 3: those those weird things that just happen. In those moments,
- 45:14Speaker 3: sometimes you just feel that presence. It's it's hard, it's
- 45:22Speaker 3: it's good, it's it's refreshing. But I think those are
- 45:25Speaker 3: the I think those are the winds that those are
- 45:27Speaker 3: the good feels that we need to hold on to
- 45:29Speaker 3: to keep us strong and keep our head up and
- 45:32Speaker 3: keep pushing forward with everything.
- 45:34Speaker 16: I hope and pray that your message is furthered today.
- 45:41Speaker 1: If you or someone you.
- 45:43Speaker 16: Know believe that you are, or have been.
- 45:48Speaker 1: Or currently a victim of sextortion, toll free eight hundred
- 45:55Speaker 1: two two five four three two four repeat eight hundred
- 46:01Speaker 1: two two five four three two four that's one eight
- 46:05Speaker 1: hundred call FBI, and if you are considering or thinking
- 46:12Speaker 1: about committing suicide, please text nine eight eight just text
- 46:20Speaker 1: nine eight eight or dial toll free eight hundred two
- 46:25Speaker 1: seven three eight two five five nine eight eight text
- 46:31Speaker 1: or eight hundred twenty seven three eight two five five,
- 46:36Speaker 1: because I promise you, if you can get through that
- 46:40Speaker 1: dark hour and see the sunrise the next morning, you'll
- 46:45Speaker 1: change your mind. Twenty years behind bars, some consolation, our
- 46:54Speaker 1: prayers for the family of Jordan to.
- 46:58Speaker 7: May Itzy Grace crime story. Signing off, goodbye friend,