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• Olivia: Welcome back to Really Minds Question Mark Rabbit Trail. Woohoo! You okay? Andrea: My seat is wet. Olivia: Mm We love moist cushions, but Andrea: I'm so sweaty. Olivia: Gross. Sorry. Andrea: Ugh. Yeah. My mom used to have this song when it was hot outside. I don't know why this is coming up in my brain. Where if we were really sweaty, she would go sweaty in my butt. Sweaty in my butt. And we would just sing that for like five minutes straight. Olivia: I'd rather go with the classic it's getting hot in here, so take off all your clothes. Andrea: You don't like sweaty in my butt? Sweaty in my butt. Olivia: I I I don't generally feel like I need to state the obvious. So no, I don't Andrea: It's fair. It's fair. Anyways. Olivia: d' you okay, so two things that I have to talk about. First Andrea: Coming in hot. huh. Olivia: thing, my daughter you know how we're talking about campsongs? Like Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: whatever rabbit trail episode ago? My daughter is officially into Baby Shark. The song. Okay. Then somehow she found a Baby Shark playlist where there's like multiple versions of Baby Shark on it. Okay, so continue to have your neurons fry. Do you know what her favorite baby shark version is on this playlist? It is the most ADHD thing I've ever ever heard of. Just just can you guess what her favourite version of Baby Shark is? Andrea: I don't know because there's so many things swirling in my brain. The only thing that I can think of when you say bring up Baby Shark is the German version because that's just now playing in my head. Olivia: Weirdly enough, it's not the German version. It's the version that's at one and a half times speed. Andrea: Okay, that was my second guess. I should have gone with it. That sucks. Olivia: Bro, I know. You know how many times I've heard Baby Shark at one and a half times speed? She thinks it's the best. It's her favorite version. I'm like, you could not Andrea: God. That's like Olivia: be more ADHD to me. Andrea: Like I can my heart, like cause I can hear it in my head, and my heart is like Yikes. Olivia: Yeah. instead of baby shark it might as well be called Baby Adderall because what the hell Andrea: just also feel very sorry for you that there is an entire playlist of just different versions of Baby Shark. Olivia: Yeah, well yeah. Yeah. It it it it's worse than last year's playlist because she decided Jingle Bells was her favorite song and then my h my loving husband decided to find a Jingle Bells only playlist, so it's like everyone's different version of Jingle Bells. Thankfully that one didn't stick because she decided th there was only one version that she liked, so she didn't want to hear that version. Andrea: Okay. Olivia: But the Baby Shark playlist, there's Halloween Baby Shark, there's Valentine's Day Baby Shark, there's Be Happy Baby Shark, there's Andrea: What? Olivia: Baby Shark Nursery, which is basically like Baby Shark without the words, there's Baby Shark one and half times speed. There's Baby Shark Pirate version. Th it's a lot. Andrea: Okay question Olivia: It's a lot. Andrea: Are the words changing or is it the like type of music? Like Valentine's I don't know, like pirate is like our Olivia: It depends. The pirate version, the words are different. The words are different. But like the Christmas baby shark is just like Andrea: With bells. Olivia: Basically, yeah. So it's like just music. Andrea: And Halloween I'm guessing there's like ooh in the background, like Olivia: Yeah. Andrea: baby shark, woo. Olivia: Yeah. But one and a half times speed? What? Andrea: I'm so anxious for you, purely thinking about this. Olivia: It she goes bananas for it. It is so funny to me. I like the ne the series of events that have happened in the house in such a short period of time between like being into Baby Shark and being like, Dear God, who got you onto this? Playing it all the time, and then somehow finding a Baby Shark playlist. I didn't find it. My husband didn't find it. She found it. And then happening Andrea: No, no. Olivia: on that specific version, and then that being like, that's the one I want. Andrea: Okay, so question when Baby Shark at one and a half times speed is on, what is she doing? Olivia: I Andrea: Is it Tasmanian Devil? Is it laying down? Olivia: It's anything and everything. Andrea: Okay. Okay. Olivia: it's it's anything and everything. It's bouncing around, it's sitting and listening to it, it's trying to like keep up with it. It's normally if Andrea: no. Olivia: she's like just listening to it by the time it's like run away, then she's like Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: running in place. Okay. Andrea: Okay, so trying to flip this, is it tiring Olivia: Okay. Andrea: her out at all? Olivia: There's no way to tire her out. My my positive reframe is Andrea: I know, I was hoping. Olivia: that because it's at one and a half times speed, it's over faster. Andrea: Okay, so you don't let her repeat it. Olivia: I'm working on that part. I'm working on that Andrea: Okay. Okay. Olivia: part. Andrea: It's now gonna be like a treat where it's like, if you do this, you can listen to Pippy Shark at one and a half times speed. Olivia: Okay. Also keep in mind, the other song that she like decided to get into was on some random like Disney playlist. And she was like, What are they doing? And Michael's like, they're like they're yodeling. It's the Lonely Goat herd song from Sound of Music. So she's literally she's literally going from baby shark at one and a half times speed to the lonely goat herd. Andrea: Do-do-do-doe-lee y'o Yeah, unfortunately I could probably sing the whole song. Olivia: Yeah. And she Yeah, I prbably could too. Probably. but it's so funny because she doesn't know it as a lonely goat herd song. She'll be like, Can Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: I have a Yodole Lehi Who song? It's like the cutest thing. I was like, Yeah, anything anything but baby shrink. Andrea: my gosh. Sound and music is one of my favorite movies. Olivia: really? Like of all time? Andrea: Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah. It's like Olivia: Wow Is it the German? Andrea: No, because the Germans are actually terrible in that movie. They're Austrian. So Olivia: I that was the that was the joke. Yeah. Like Andrea: I got it. Olivia: you like the Germans, like the Nazis, the bad people in the movie and also in life and history of events generally. Andrea: No. No, not at all. I just have a major crest on crush on Julie Andrews at the time. Olivia: Mm. She rubbed short hair. I mean, power Andrea: Right? Olivia: to her. Absolutely. Yeah. Hmm. So true. Andrea: it's amazing. Olivia: the other thing I was gonna tell you is I think I've realized that I I might be like psychologically unwell based off of my first twenty four hours back from a trip. Andrea: Okay. Olivia: Because I don't think that I process being back from a trip like other people process being back from a trip. Andrea: What do you mean? Olivia: I unpack within like an hour of being home. Andrea: Mm. Olivia: But like Andrea: That's Olivia: to an obscene level. Like ev like Andrea: How how Olivia: everything has to be unpacked. Like my kids stuff Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: is unpacked, my stuff is unpacked, the laundry is started, Andrea: Mm. Olivia: the like the groceries have been ordered, the like ev everything has to be done on like right away when we get home. Period. Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: End of story. Andrea: My husband's like that. Olivia: I I can't help it. Andrea: Yeah. Yeah. I live with someone that's like that. I'm not I'm not a like leave the pet luggage there for a couple days person. Like I will get it done within twenty four hours or thirty six hours, two days? No, two days is too long. It's not immediately, but it's not like past two days. But my husband is like that. Olivia: Yep. Andrea: He'll start he'll start laundry, he'll like We also have to have the house clean before we leave, too. Which like I Olivia: Yes. Mm-hmm. Andrea: actually really like and that's totally fine. But yeah. Yeah. That's not unsurprising to me for you. Olivia: Yes, I'm a hundred percent on board with this. Yes. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah. But like it's Well anyone that knows me, I feel like could guess that. But then when I think about like how anyone gets back from a trip is they're just like lay things everywhere, like whatever, I'm just gonna chill. And I'm literally like I don't know. I I don't know what it I just it's it's a lot. Thankfully Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: my spouse is kinda the same way or like he's adapted to how I do it. So we're both like going everywhere, Andrea: Right. Olivia: plugging things in and like doing everything and like all this stuff. Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: but yeah, th I I realized on Monday I was like getting back from a trip and doing all the things and I was just like what Why am I like this and like most people can't be like this, right? Like most people are not are not that, right? Andrea: I mean that's what I grew up with, so I'm not I don't know if I am a good Olivia: I didn't even grow up with that. Andrea: say see, I grew up with it, so that's why I'm like it s doesn't seem totally out of the ordinary for me. Olivia: I mean I grew up with like leaving the house clean so when you come back it's clean. Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: But I it was not like you have to unpack all your stuff. Like it wasn't Andrea: Interesting. Olivia: like that at all. Andrea: Now, are you someone that when you like get to where you're going, do you unpack your stuff or do you like live out of your suitcase? That one okay, Olivia: I love out of my suitcase. Andrea: same. That one is really interesting to me. Like people who put stuff in like hotel drawers or like Airbnb drawers, that weirds me out for some reason. Olivia: No no no I think I think w w Andrea: Like like even when I stayed at your house for a week I didn't unpack my stuff and put it in the drawers. Olivia: Yeah. you can't. They're jerry rigged clothes. I'm just kidding. Andrea: It's a fake dresser. Olivia: Yeah, it's just for show. I was gonna say I think part of the reason why I don't do that, because most of the time I'm taking like road trips, right? Most of the time I Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: wouldn't do that and like unpack my stuff, is then like I wouldn't know where to put my empty bag. That's literally the reason. Which seems silly, but Andrea: That's a good thought. Olivia: but I wouldn't know where to put my empty bag. Andrea: Yeah. Yeah. Olivia: So then like what's the point? Just leave it all in the back. Andrea: That makes sense. The only thing Olivia: You know? Andrea: I will do is like like on my last trip back to Washington, I brought two dresses for weddings and I like hung those up or like draped them over things so that they wouldn't like be too crinkly. Olivia: Wrinkle, yeah, yeah. Andrea: or like coats I'll take out, but like I think it's weird to like take out your socks and underwear and like stick them in a dr like that's weird. Olivia: Okay, do you pack like this? I pack per outfit. Andrea: Yes, I do. Olivia: Cause if I don't, none of it makes sense. Andrea: No. Now if any of you listeners out there pack another way, let us know because I want to know how you make that work. Olivia: No, it doesn't work. I we don't need anyone to comment. I Andrea: Can't, right? Olivia: already know. It doesn't work. I literally will put like my socks and underwear in with the outfit, like the shirt and Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: the pants, and then I'll like roll it all up. So then every outfit's a roll. Andrea: that's smart. I don't do that. But like I I put everything out on the bed in its outfit and then and then I pack them separately. Yeah. Olivia: Yes. Then I yeah, I roll it. Andrea: That's smart. I like that actually. Yeah. But like sometimes you have certain underwear for certain pants. And you have to have Olivia: Exactly. Andrea: cer certain bras for certain shirts. That one's a no-brainer for many of us. But like underwear. And then I always pack Probably twice as much underwear as I need because it's me. Olivia: Okay, so I was just gonna talk about that. So there was a trend for a while going around of like it was like a girl's trip and then they're like going around like how many like we're here for five days, like how many underwear do like each person pack or whatever. Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: So I used to completely overpack underwear back when I was very willy nilly about this whole outfit situation when I packed, where I just be Well, I like these shirts and I like like these pants and like I'm sure like fifty pairs of underwear will get me through a weekend. Andrea: Mm. Olivia: Cause if all this fails, I can just staple all the underwear that I brought together and make an all new outfit because nothing will. Andrea: Exactly. Who knew? Olivia: But in the outfit system I don't overpack underwear, generally speaking. Andrea: Yeah. I mean Olivia: Unless I'm you. Apparently. Andrea: Yeah. I feel like any of my friends will know this about me, that there is a risk every time I go anywhere, so Olivia: No, I think everyone knows that about you. Andrea: Yeah, that's true. It's like I have an open book for the most part. There's a couple hidden chapters. Olivia: There you go. Okay, the question that I was gonna ask you that came up in my mind in the last episode, I was like, suck it in. Andrea: yeah, yeah. Suck it in. Olivia: Okay, now I can let it out. Okay. I don't know if we talked about this directly before. Have have you experienced anyone being weird about either A having a business partner or B that your best friend is your business partner? Andrea: besides my husband's jokes. For context here, for those of you who don't know, my husband loves to say that Olivia is my boss and that I have to ask her for a raise. Olivia: Which is funny because I told my husband that joke and he immediately was like, Well yeah, of course Olivia's the boss Andrea: Thank you. No. Olivia: That's a joke. It's just a joke. Andrea: That's just as bad. I know. It was good though. It was good though. Man, if we got them two together, it'd be rough on me. I'd get roasted. Olivia: Well I'd stand up for you. The thing is is only I can roast you. When other people roast you, Andrea: I was Olivia: absolutely cannot cannot take place. That's no, not happening. But you haven't like had anyone be Andrea: I get rested a lot. Olivia: like weird about it? Andrea: I at least not that I've picked up on. Olivia: Hmm. Andrea: I mean, I d I guess I don't I don't know if I've mentioned it to enough people in a way that's like, my business partner is my best friend. Like I think if I'm telling I Olivia: Okay, that's fair. Andrea: think I'm telling people if about my business is it is in a professional setting. So I'm not really gonna say that necessarily. Like I'll say, like s somebody I used to work with, we got really close, like not omitting it in any way, like not on purpose. I think it's just out of like a professional mindset that doesn't necessarily come up. I think for the most part, when I have mentioned it to people or it's caught been brought up, it's been met with a lot of support and like that's really cool. Like, how do you manage that? I think I've gotten a lot of questions like, how did you make that work? Like, do you enjoy that? Like why did you choose that person? I think I've gotten those questions, but not anybody like being weird, I guess. Have you? Olivia: I mean I feel like people have been a little bit weird in how they've asked me questions. Andrea: Ooh, tell me more. What do you mean? Olivia: Like w I'd someone be like, like well, do you feel like that's going well? Andrea: People have said that to you? Olivia: And it was like, Yeah, like Yeah. So like they like so th this specific person Andrea: What? Olivia: like had a lot of questions of like, like do like do you think that's going well? And I like, Yeah, like it works and he was like, like do you think this is like long term something you wanna continue with? And I was like, Yeah, I wouldn't have done this if I didn't want to do it long term and and he was like he's like, Do you guys have like a formal like business agreement and like I was like, yeah, I'm not stupid. Andrea: Yes. Olivia: It was just it was interesting. Andrea: I do think people don't realize that. I think people don't realize how serious we took that. Olivia: I mean Okay, yeah, that makes sense. Andrea: Cause I have to and it wasn't like my friends were being weird about it, but like there was a few times where my friends were asking about like how the business was going and I had like offhandedly mentioned like how we set up or I was talking to someone, I don't remember, but where I was like, Yeah, we like had a formal agreement. We like had a really kind of deep discussion at the very beginning around like this is what we want, this is how we wanna like create this. Are you actually in for this? Like I think we like. Ask that. And I think some of the people's reactions to that is like, you are serious about this. Like that this is very professional and real. Yeah. That's interesting though. Olivia: Yeah. Yeah. Maybe we've even had the conversation of like what would happen if one of us died. Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: So like Andrea: Yeah. Ye we have had to have the will conversation. Olivia: Yeah. So it's like Yeah, it's pretty serious. So I don't know, I just think it's Andrea: Yes. We are basically married. Olivia: professionally and every Andrea: Professionally. Olivia: professionally married. Yeah. So I I just had this thought of like I just I feel like there's been some weirdness around like the business partnership piece of like Andrea: yeah. Olivia: like she's also a friend, you know? Andrea: Yeah, interesting. Olivia: Yeah. I don't know. I like we even were talking about earlier today, like I feel so protective of that. Like incre like incredibly protective of that. Andrea: Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah. Olivia: So to me it's just like, why would you even qu like what do you what do you what are you questioning for? Like I've already we've already played out all those scenarios. We've already had all those conversations. Like, what are you talking about? I don't know, I just Andrea: Right. Yeah. Olivia: it was funny. I was like I realize I've never asked you if you've gotten any like weird feedback. Andrea: Yeah, that's that's so interesting. At least not that I've picked up on, because who knows? I could just be like so in it and so protective and Olivia: Oblivious. Andrea: so oblivious all at the same time. I mean, I know that there's so many people out there that are like have heard of stories of best friends getting into job businesses together and it not working Olivia: Totally. Andrea: and all of that, but I think I also think the space that we work in, like as therapists, is so different than like if we opened a boutique or a restaurant together. You know, like Olivia: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a yeah, totally yeah, totally different. Yeah, it's like the trope Andrea: Yeah. That's interesting. Olivia: yeah. Have you heard the trope or like experiences too where like you don't want to live with your best friend? Andrea: Yes, yeah. Olivia: Yeah. That Andrea: yeah. Olivia: like that's a ki a little bit like what it can remind me of. You know. But Andrea: Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah, that's so true. Like I've I've talked to some of my best friends before about like, would you ever live with me? And like a lot of our answers are like, when we're old and retired and want to have a ranch of animals, yeah, 100%. But like when we think about, you know, would we have done it in college? I'd be like, no, I would have hated you. Like But Olivia: I like how the two contacts are either retirement or in college. Like two vastly different situations. That's funny. Andrea: Yeah, yeah. But like it does it definitely does take like a a special kind of friendship to be able to work as a team like we do. Olivia: Yeah. And I think that's the part that almost feels near impossible for me to describe to somebody who hasn't met you. Andrea: Yes. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. I would agree with that. Olivia: is like how well we work together and like how how good of a team we make. Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: It would be really hard like it's just it's i yeah, it's hard for me to describe that to somebody else or like try to quantify it, especially like someone who doesn't really know you. Andrea: Yeah. Yeah. Like we've n we've never avoided an awkward conversation. Nor have I d think we've had had to have an awkward conversation. Olivia: No. 'Cause any time I've been like, yo, this thing you're like, Yeah. I'm like, okay Andrea: Right. It's all normal. Olivia: Yeah, I don't there's no like confrontation really. It's just it's one of my old classic sayings, Andrea: Yeah. And I think we we know how Olivia: it it's not confrontation, it's communication. Andrea: Snaps. Wow, I'm about to pivot so hard. Olivia: Do it. Make me Andrea: I am really curious if you've heard the new term cake topper. Olivia: No please enlighten me. Andrea: What do you think it means? And it's not the literal translation. What do you think a cake topper could be? Olivia: I'm having absolutely no contact at all. somebody Andrea: Huh? Olivia: that's trying to I know if could come up with so many things. somebody Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: that's doing something to keep up appearances, somebody that is trying to like my god, I'm so off. Trying to like make the best of a sh crappy situation. Andrea: Yeah. I love those so much more, but you are s so in the wrong field. Are you ready? Olivia: So far off. Okay, alright. No but tell me. Andrea: It is a lower back tattoo, aka a tramp stamp. They are now calling Olivia: That's a k Andrea: a cake topper. Olivia: I mean I like it better, so I love the rebrand. I'm not mad about it. I'm not Andrea: Can't stop laughing at it because I think it's so funny. Olivia: You know, honestly, now that we're gonna call it a cake topper, I feel like it could it could become like a thing again. Andrea: It's way less derogatory, number one. It is Olivia: Yeah. Andrea: it's a self esteem booster because if you're calling my ass a cake, you better be looking good then. Cake Topper. Olivia: Was there was there a name that we collectively decided for the like under b under boob tattoo that was like became really popular? Andrea: I don't not that I am fully aware of. I'm sh there's gotta be one. I know multiple people with them, so maybe I can ask. Olivia: Hmm. Andrea: Yeah. But I just have bit like ever since I saw Cake Topper come across my like feed, I can't stop giggling about it. And it just keeps coming up. Then I was like, I've been holding this in for Olivia: Are you gonna get one? Andrea: weeks. No. No. Olivia: Why not? Andrea: That does not sound like my vibe. Olivia: A lower back tattoo? Andrea: Yeah, that's not my vibe. Olivia: Hmm. I don't know. I feel like I'm just kidding. It's true, like ever since it became a tram stamp, like nobody gets them. Andrea: I know. Yeah, but it's cake. Olivia: It's either like they get their whole back tattooed or like nothing. That's why I'm saying like I think Andrea: Yep, but they're coming back. Olivia: the I think the like underboob tattoo became the like millennial Andrea: Mm. Olivia: tramp stamp. Andrea: yeah, I could see that. Olivia: Do you know what I mean? Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: But yeah, lower back tattoo. Also, like, Andrea: It's just so funny. Duh. Olivia: have both of us having gotten tattoos, that'd be kind of like hard to do after care on. Andrea: Yeah. Ugh. I just it would feel so uncomfortable, I feel like. I'm like trying to think. I haven't had any tattoos that felt uncomfortable, so at least not we're in a place that was like c uncomfortable for aftercare. They've all been so easy. Olivia: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like your lower back you have to like use both hands and Andrea: Yeah. Ugh. Or get someone else to do it. Olivia: No Andrea: We know how I feel about lotiony type stuff. Olivia: I was gonna say, you know how I feel about people helping me. Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: I'm impressed that you held that in for that long. Andrea: Same. Well, I started a notes app on my phone of all the things that I think could be really interesting to talk about in Rabbit Trails, which is much harder for me to handle and not tell you than I thought it was gonna be. Olivia: Do you wanna pull something else off the list? Andrea: talk to you about a flavor that I recently had because it's kind of hurting my brain and annoying me. I had a black raspberry flavored drink. Olivia: Okay. Andrea: Is a black raspberry a thing? Isn't it isn't that a blackberry? Olivia: I think that's branding. Andrea: Okay. Really? That's Olivia: I think that's branding. Andrea: so dumb. Because the color of the drink was raspberry colored. Olivia: But so would a raspberry drink? Andrea: Well why wouldn't it why wasn't it just called a raspberry drink? It was called a black raspberry drink. Olivia: Marketing. Did you look it up? Andrea: No, I didn't. I should have. But I was just like, is that just a black why why can't you just be a blackberry? Olivia: Wait. What? Andrea: Is black raspberry a thing? Olivia: my god, yes. Andrea: No. This is real time. Olivia: What? Yes, black raspberries, also called black caps. What the hell? Andrea: What? Olivia: Are are real distinct fruits native to North America. They're often confused with blackberries, but black raspberries have a hollow cap like center, just like red raspberries when picked. Whereas blackberries have a solid core. Andrea: Okay, well now I feel so dumb because I sent a voice memo to Tuesday and I was like, tell me what the fuck a black raspberry is. And we both were like, what the fuck is a black raspberry? Olivia: That's okay, you're both dumb. the Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: flavour is apparently sweeter and more delicate. What? I honestly, you could have fooled me. If we hadn't looked this up, we would have just talked so much shit about black raspberries. Andrea: Just like the time that I kept saying Brene Brown instead of Mel Robbins, but now we're sitting on rasp black raspberry. Olivia: Well, okay, to be fair, one of my favorite flavors is blue raspberry, but like Andrea: Yes. Olivia: Blue raspberry isn't a thing, so it's like we're just coming Andrea: I know. Olivia: up with colors of raspberries. Like I I think it's totally valid to be like black raspberries aren't a thing. Andrea: Right? I was I think I was so thrown that it was because it wasn't blue raspberry, 'cause that's what we're used to seeing, and it wasn't raspberry, Olivia: Right. Andrea: it was black raspberry, and I was like, There's no way this is a thing. Olivia: Okay, sorry. I just I had this flash of like, my god, what if blue raspberries are an actual thing? They're not. Okay. I had I just I'm sorry. I had to look that up because all of a sudden I started doubting my entire existence. My bad. Andrea: my gosh, could you imagine if we looked up in real time if a blue raspberry was real and it was, and we were just like. We'd be dead. I would decease right now. Olivia: Done. Andrea: Well, now I feel stupid, but Olivia: my have you have you heard the term rumpus room? Andrea: Yes, but I don't know if I know what it means. Olivia: Okay, I don't know if I'm actually gonna be able to help you with that. Andrea: were you hoping I would know? Olivia: Well, no, I was more saying like I don't know if I'll necessarily be able to help you define it. But family they have like a basement of their house and they're gonna redo it and I was like, Andrea: Mm-hmm. Olivia: are you guys gonna be do redoing the basement? And they're like, yeah, we have like some plans for the Rumpus room And they're like, that like that term really dates us And I was like I have never heard that term so I don't even think it Day two because I've never heard it. And they're like, that's what we used to call like basements, kinda like back in the day that were kind of like more for like kids basically, or like geared towards like kids, kinda like playroom basement. Andrea: Like rec room? Olivia: Yeah, kind of. But they called it r the rumpus room. And I like kinda love that. Andrea: Two except for growing up, a rumpus was a butt in my family. Olivia: A rumpus is technically like a dance. Andrea: No it's not. Olivia: Have you ever my I literally okay, this is what I was gonna lead to. D have you not read Where the Wild Things Are? The kids book? Let the Wild Rumpus Begin? Andrea: I mean Olivia: It's like Andrea: my god. Olivia: it's a Andrea: It's been years since I've read that. A rumpus is a noise loud confused commotion or uproar or disturbance. Therefore a rumpus r I get it! Olivia: It's like yeah, it's like a yeah, it's like a commotion or like a thing, yeah. A dance probably wasn't like the best term, but I was thinking about it in context of where the wild things are, when Max is like Andrea: Right, 'cause they kinda yeah. Olivia: yeah, let the wild rumpus begin. Andrea: Then why did we use that term to just to say but? Olivia: Because sometimes people refer to a butt as like a rump. Andrea: that's stupid. I hate Olivia: It's either that or a German thing, but I don't know. Andrea: I don't think so. Olivia: We're having to like fact check ourselves in our own rabbit trail episode. It's not even on in our like normal episodes. Well, I guess it's this is a normal episode but. Andrea: No. There's nothing specific. It's the same thing. Olivia: It may be just like a slang term basically then. Andrea: Yeah. Yeah, we used to be like, you just got my rumpus bumpus. Well now I have a bone to pick with my mother. Olivia: yeah, like the butt sweat song. Andrea: Whoa, we have a problem. Again, maybe this is a reason for me to go to therapy. Olivia: There's so many full circles happening in this episode. Absolutely mind blown. Well Andrea: Call back. Call back. We're so good at what we do, you guys. It's like we're professionals. Olivia: Totally planned. Give us the money. Andrea: my lanta. Well, the last thing that we need to Olivia: Yes. Andrea: address is that I have never told you what a haboob is. Olivia: Immediately I can't say this out loud. Okay, go ahead. What is the what? What? Andrea: Just I'm still really surprised that I've never used that I hadn't ever used that word. So context, I texted Olivia and said we have a haboob. And Olivia was like, What? And I was like, Well, we're holding this for the podcast. A haboob is just a dust storm. That's what they're called. Olivia: Who calls them that? White white Andrea: It it's Olivia: people? Andrea: ever no, it's everyone. That's literally what it's called. It's like tsunami or hurricane, it's called a haboob. I'm pretty sure it's a Middle Eastern term, like tsunami is like a Asian term or Japanese term, I think. but it's Haboob is a dust storm. Olivia: The things we take from other cultures make no sense to me. Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: The things we take and leave. Just like what okay, pretty sure we took Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: that because there's boob in it. But okay, fine. Andrea: Who who there's a there's a brewery that we like to go to and they have a beer called the Side Haboob. It's actually really good. It was also really Olivia: I'm not a beer pers I'm not a beer person, but that's the first beer I'm getting. Andrea: Right? It was so funny. My mom's husband ordered one when we were out with them at the brewery. And it was just hearing side a boob come out of Olivia: Mm. Andrea: an older gentleman. It's just so funny to me. For some I'm such a child. I'm such a child. But it's so funny. Yeah. Yeah. Olivia: It is funny. That's the point of the name. It's hilarious. I mean The applications are endless. I fully support. Andrea: But it is a real it's a real serious term. Olivia: It's not serious but it's i it is a term. I'll give you that. It's not a serious one, but it is a term. That's so weird. Andrea: Yeah. Yeah. And we've had we it when I got home we had three in a row. Back to back. And they're like super dangerous too. Olivia: He is Andrea: Mm-hmm. Yeah. And there was I think there was one the other night, like in the middle of the night. And they usually come with like thunder and lightning and there's like yeah. My car was just covered in dust. It's gross. Yeah. Olivia: Wow. It's like something out of a movie. Andrea: Yeah. It's like Dune when it happens. Like it literally feels like Dune or Mad Max. Like, yeah. And the whole sky turns orange. So like we were I think when I texted you that, I think we were out at a restaurant and we were eating and ev like the whole you get alerts on your phone that says like those amber alert type things. So it's like meh Olivia: Mm-hmm. Andrea: meh meh and it's like ha boob is coming. Ha ha Yeah. We were stuck at the restaurant for like an extra hour or two because there was a haboob coming. Olivia: can't imagine getting Jesus. I can't imagine getting a lure on my At that Jesus Christ. Andrea: Yeah. It was the most chaotic restaurant experience I've ever had because we were there and we found out that they Yeah, they took the Olivia: I remember this Yes Andrea: they took my favorite thing off the menu and then a lady like passed out a couple booths away and the paramedics had to come and then the haboob happened. It was rough. I will I Olivia: shit. Andrea: will add a picture of a haboob for all of y'all to see. Olivia: Yeah, that I I I'm so glad I don't have to deal with that. my gosh. Andrea: Yes. So that was the last thing I I needed to provide to you tonight. Olivia: I'm so glad you told me about that. I'd totally forgotten about I totally forgot about that. So it's also perfect. I was like, yeah. I was like, what the hell is that? And you're like, I'm gonna save it. And I was like, What do you Andrea: Mm-hmm. Yep. Olivia: mean? Andrea: Aren't you glad? Olivia: That is absolutely wild. Andrea: It is really hard to hold things from you. Olivia: That's probably because we just talk swamped. Andrea: We do, but I will say it is kind of fun to have like a list of things I haven't told you to like get your actual like in-person reaction. That's what I Olivia: Yes. Andrea: really like about these rabbit trail episodes is that I actually get to see your face react to these things where like Olivia: Yeah. Andrea: I don't get to see your face when we're voice memoing back and forth. Like I can hear it in your voice, but like Olivia: Literally that's why I like I was gonna call you the other day. Cause I was like I just wanna like see your face when I tell you. Andrea: Yeah. Olivia: I know, yeah. I feel the same way. Absolutely. well Andrea: Yeah. Always good. Olivia: thanks everyone coming along the ride of the latest rabbit trail. we hit on so many different things and always, of course, close the loop somehow miraculously. I don't know how we do that every episode. I weird. Andrea: Always. Look at us go. Talent. Olivia: Strange. And on that yeah. Unadulterated. And on that note, be sure to follow along, like, comment, subscribe, and we will catch you all on the next episode. Bye. Andrea: Bye. Olivia: This podcast is for entertainment, informational, educational purposes only. Although the hosts are licensed therapists, this podcast is not a substitute for professional mental health services. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship. Andrea: If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional in your area. If you are in crisis, call or text a suicide prevention line in your country immediately. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 or use online chat at 988lifeline.org.