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Bullying, Big Emotions & Being Naked | Tony Baker x Joy Taylor · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: No old man wants to be seen on the soft
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna argu with you.
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  Speaker 2: Dick's are disgusting. They were a mistake and that's why
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  Speaker 2: God made women.
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  Speaker 1: If you call me out the blue list invasive, I
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  Speaker 1: will watch that phone, call die off on the flatline
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  Speaker 1: and text him right after.
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  Speaker 2: I don't really like showering with people either though, who's
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  Speaker 2: it good for it?
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  Speaker 1: I really like scrubbing somebody. That's a good time for me.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to Personal. I'm Joy Taylor. Thanks for
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  Speaker 2: hanging out with us today. If you haven't already, make
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  Speaker 2: sure that you hit subscribe and follow us on our
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  Speaker 2: social media's at two Personal show, very exciting show today.
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  Speaker 2: My friend Tony Baker, comedian, actor, writer. He is hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: We have a great conversation. He is joining us today
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  Speaker 2: on too Personal. You have to go and check him
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  Speaker 2: out if he's in your city, and of course follow
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  Speaker 2: him on his social media and his shows as well.
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  Speaker 2: A great conversation with him. But before we get to
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  Speaker 2: Tony Baker, of course, this week in the Regime, it
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  Speaker 2: just came down that we are once again having a
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  Speaker 2: conversation about same sex marriage. So the Supreme Court has
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  Speaker 2: been formally asked to overturn the same sex marriage ruling.
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  Speaker 2: I don't remember if you recall this troll Kim Davis,
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  Speaker 2: who was a former Kentucky County clerk. She was in
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  Speaker 2: jail for six days because she refused to issue marriage
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  Speaker 2: license to a gay couple on religious grounds. This was
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  Speaker 2: back in twenty fifteen. So now the Supreme Court is
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  Speaker 2: going to be petitioned to review the ruling and potentially,
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  Speaker 2: of course reverse it. I want to know where the
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  Speaker 2: cheap eggs are? Where are the cheap eggs? Where are
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  Speaker 2: the affordable grosses? Where is the affordable housing? Where is
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  Speaker 2: the affordable housing? Where is the Epstein list? We just
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  Speaker 2: want the Epstein list. Can we get a budget for
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  Speaker 2: infrastructure in this country? Can we get Can we get
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  Speaker 2: a budget to pay teachers? Why are we always worried
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  Speaker 2: about other people's business. I'm very exhausted with the evangelicals. Guys,
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  Speaker 2: y'all will spend so much time and energy concerned about
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  Speaker 2: what other consenting adults are doing with their lives that
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  Speaker 2: you have no time and energy for the adults who
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  Speaker 2: are in office who are participating in non consensual relationships
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  Speaker 2: with miners can you please pick a struggle that makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: We are living as a society that makes absolutely no
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  Speaker 2: sense to me. What would happen if white evangelicals just
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  Speaker 2: were to mine their business for five minutes with the
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  Speaker 2: world heal, just for five minutes, Let's just start with five.
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  Speaker 2: For five minutes of your day, don't worry about what
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  Speaker 2: other people are doing with their lives. It is crazy
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  Speaker 2: to me that with everything that is going on in
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  Speaker 2: the world, all of the suffering that is happening, we
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  Speaker 2: are once again talking about gay marriage. Be so fucking
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  Speaker 2: for real. Can the government do anything that actually helps
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  Speaker 2: better society from a non religious, non oppressive, non reversing
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  Speaker 2: back to the nineteen fifties ruling, where is the Epstein list?
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  Speaker 2: Where is the affordable housing? Where is the ability for
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  Speaker 2: me to go and buy a home and then go
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  Speaker 2: to work and live a realistic life. Why is it
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  Speaker 2: so expensive to raise children? Why can't we get paid
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  Speaker 2: maternity leave? Y'all will give us anything but maternity leave.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you worried about gay marriage? It is crazy
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  Speaker 2: to me. Now, obviously the Supreme Court has not heard
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  Speaker 2: this yet. I am projecting the chaos that is to
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  Speaker 2: come by this request in the first place. But I
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  Speaker 2: am just I'm so tired of hearing about anything but
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  Speaker 2: the shit that matters to everyday Americans. Why are we
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  Speaker 2: talking about this? We can't agree on anything, but can
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  Speaker 2: we just pretend to have a conversation where we hold
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  Speaker 2: the government accountable for what we pay taxes for them
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  Speaker 2: to do. I don't want to hear about God. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to hear about your moral high grounds. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to hear about your preferences. I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to hear about what God designed men and women for.
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  Speaker 2: Kiss my ass from the back, please while on your knees.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care about that. That is not what the
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  Speaker 2: government is for. The government is to provide services and
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  Speaker 2: serve the people. Give us an environment and a society
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  Speaker 2: where we can go to work and pay for groceries
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  Speaker 2: and be able to be at our kids' soccer games
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  Speaker 2: and go to college and better our lives. That's what
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  Speaker 2: this is the fucking about. I don't want to hear
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  Speaker 2: about gay marriage. I don't want to hear about this.
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  Speaker 2: Let one motherfucker bring up gay marriage to me this week.
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  Speaker 2: You might this might be the week, This might be
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  Speaker 2: my crash out week. It's possible, it is on the board.
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  Speaker 2: This is the week. What are we talking about? Please
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  Speaker 2: bring me the price of eggs. They will do anything
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  Speaker 2: but do anything but make life livable for everyday Americans.
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  Speaker 2: I'm tired of hearing about this. It is so crazy
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  Speaker 2: to me. I can't believe we're talking about gay marriage again.
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  Speaker 2: That being said, let's get to Tony Baker. All right,
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  Speaker 2: this is this is legendary. I'm very excited to have
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  Speaker 2: my friend Tony Baker, amazing stand up comedian who I
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  Speaker 2: can I can say that because I've seen one of
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  Speaker 2: his shows, actor, social media personality. He is your favorite
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  Speaker 2: comedian's favorite comedian. Oh wow, welcome to supersonal Tony. Thanks
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  Speaker 2: for having me. I've been willing to come here. Well,
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  Speaker 2: I've been wanting you to come here as well. And
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  Speaker 2: we were having a little conversation before the show. People
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  Speaker 2: who know me, well you included, know that I'm not
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a big hugger. Yeah, I'm not super into hugs.
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  Speaker 2: I have my reason, but you are. You are a
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  Speaker 2: really good hugger.
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  Speaker 1: I'm hugs McGee. It's a time to get here, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm hugs McGee. I wasn't always a good hugger.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, but let's get into this because people think
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  Speaker 2: it's very I think it's strange. People think it's strange
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  Speaker 2: that I don't like hugs. But I think the thing
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  Speaker 2: about hugging is LA made me hate hugs. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: I'm sort of a I'm sort of like a cranky
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  Speaker 2: cat in general, which you have cat, you're a cat person,
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  Speaker 2: So you know, you know what I'm saying. You know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean. I don't always want affection. When I do,
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  Speaker 2: I demanded immediately or else, I mean, what are you
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  Speaker 2: here for? Okay, but you know, if you have a cat,
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  Speaker 2: then you understand that that is that's a thing that's true. Right,
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  Speaker 2: But hugging in LA is confusing because how to properly
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  Speaker 2: say hello to people in LA is a confusing endeavor.
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  Speaker 2: Like some people just walk right up and hug you.
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  Speaker 2: Some people you got to shake hands. Some people you
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  Speaker 2: don't touch it all. You're just like hello, it's nice
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  Speaker 2: to me. And I came from my AMMI where there's
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  Speaker 2: there's only one way to say hello Miami, and that's
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  Speaker 2: like the sort of hug, air kiss or you do
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  Speaker 2: touch cheeks if you actually know the person, and then
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  Speaker 2: you do that with everybody, business, new person, someone else's husband.
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  Speaker 2: That's if if you're greeting someone, yeah, sure that gets
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  Speaker 2: It's there's only one way to say hello, let's get it.
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  Speaker 2: But have you I'm sure you've had a creepy hug before?
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  Speaker 1: Creepy hug? Yeah, I've been squeezed up only cheeks. Squeeze
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  Speaker 1: your cheeks, squeeze you know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not talking about about God's creepy. Got's so weird.
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  Speaker 2: That's not creepy. That's the salt. Someone grabs your ass
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  Speaker 2: without your consent. It's yeah, but no, it's not. There's
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  Speaker 2: there's awkward. There's no, that's not awkward either. A creepy hug?
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  Speaker 1: What's a creepy huge.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you've had a creepy hug. It
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  Speaker 2: seems like you jumped straight to this.
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  Speaker 1: I went straight to you know, z Okay, what's a
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  Speaker 1: creepy hug?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you've had a creepy hug? Then, Like
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  Speaker 2: a creepy hug is somebody like you don't really want
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  Speaker 2: to touch, who's like insisting on hugging you. Like there
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  Speaker 2: are hugger guys who are like can I get a
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  Speaker 2: hug I had that? Okay, good, that's great for you.
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  Speaker 2: But you do know that there are like these men
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  Speaker 2: who are like, can I get a.
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  Speaker 1: Hug at where my hug at?
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  Speaker 2: For sure, they're the fucking worst where my hug at at?
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  Speaker 2: Men are the worst. You're the worst. Everyone hates you.
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  Speaker 2: Men hate you, and especially women. Men hate you because
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  Speaker 2: you ruin good hugging experiences, and women for the obvious reasons.
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  Speaker 2: You're not trying to be touched by you where my
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  Speaker 2: hug at? Man?
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  Speaker 1: I wonder, I always wonder I was I ever that
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  Speaker 1: guy to somebody.
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  Speaker 2: That's a horrible thought, is it is?
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  Speaker 1: I could have been like where my hug at? To
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  Speaker 1: this day they can see me and be like, oh him,
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  Speaker 1: I could be where my hug at to somebody right now?
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  Speaker 2: Do you think Do you think that you are? Because
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  Speaker 2: I have this thought a lot. There are certain conversations
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  Speaker 2: that can never be had about me in earnest, Like
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  Speaker 2: someone could be lying about me somewhere, but there's no
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  Speaker 2: like group of people that are having this conversation about
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  Speaker 2: me anywhere in the world about this particular thing. Like,
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  Speaker 2: for example, no one, no, not one of my exes
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  Speaker 2: is having a conversation about me being obsessed with them.
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  Speaker 2: If you're having that conversation with somebody to day, to me,
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  Speaker 2: they're lying, You're lying. They're lying to you, escape run,
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  Speaker 2: They're not telling you the truths. It is an un
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  Speaker 2: obsessed no, no, and especially not currently like those was lies.
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  Speaker 2: So like, are you do you have any fear of
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  Speaker 2: being like where my hug at guy? Or like you
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  Speaker 2: ever been in a group like a bad conversation where
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  Speaker 2: like some you're in a group of people you're having
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  Speaker 2: a bad conversation about somebody. That is my fear.
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  Speaker 1: Where you're you're the source of the bad conversation somewhere
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  Speaker 1: in the world. Man, because Tony Man, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you about it. Yeah, just go in. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: people talk about me like that in regards to phone calls,
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  Speaker 1: really because it really pisses people off that I hate
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  Speaker 1: talking on the phone.
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  Speaker 2: They be in they feeling as.
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  Speaker 1: They call, they get mad, they start acting funny.
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  Speaker 2: Do you do you fade people when they call you,
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  Speaker 2: like you just see them calling and you don't.
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  Speaker 1: I will watch that phone call die off on the
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  Speaker 1: flat line. I would just watch it die and text
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  Speaker 1: them right after.
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  Speaker 2: Why don't you text them. Yes, No, come on, that's
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  Speaker 2: why don't you like talking on the phone Because it's invasive.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: If you call me out the blue, it's invasive.
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  Speaker 2: I ever talk to you on the phone now? Yeah? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: After the comedy show, we was trying to we was
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  Speaker 1: trying to get our feet together on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: That that was it though, because you was like, don't
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  Speaker 1: go over there.
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  Speaker 2: You called me like, don't go home. That's right. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I was trying to save your life and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you crazy, Joey, you crazy? And then I hung up.
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  Speaker 2: I won't even tell you what. It's so outrageous, Like Tony,
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  Speaker 2: Tony is like a very wholesome guy, but he's he
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  Speaker 2: lives on the edge. Am I wholesome? I think you're wholesome?
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  Speaker 1: I watch out man? Am my wholesome? Behind the camera
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  Speaker 1: when y'all first met me, was that who?
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  Speaker 2: You don't think you're wholesome? Man? Yeah? Come on, I'm edgy.
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  Speaker 2: You don't think you're a whole I think you're so.
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  Speaker 1: Wholesome because let me be talking about sex. I'm out
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  Speaker 1: here about racism.
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  Speaker 2: That doesn't make you not wholesome. Why wait, wait, wait,
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  Speaker 2: what am I offending you? Is wholesome? A bad I
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  Speaker 2: think that's a lovely compliment. No, you're a good person,
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  Speaker 2: you have good energy, your kind of.
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  Speaker 1: Batteries from Walmart, I broke hards.
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  Speaker 2: You need it before you know what I'm saying. No,
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  Speaker 2: it's something in your your tone of voice. Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: won't give you this label. You know you don't like
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  Speaker 2: the wholesome l like if someone said that that about me,
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  Speaker 2: it would legitimately, So I'm ridiculous that you were. Yeah, nobody,
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  Speaker 2: that's smile. That is it wholesomer as a debus.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's pretty wholesome. If they freeze your smile up,
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  Speaker 1: pause it.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't hear my voice or hear anything i'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: But your eyes are very non wholesome. Your eyes are
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  Speaker 1: serious business. But the smile is wholesome. But then when
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  Speaker 1: you're not smiling, you'd be like, no, I'm not feeling
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  Speaker 1: none of this. No, I have a very that's your face.
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  Speaker 2: On the natural, very very intense, resting, bitch face.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not feeling y'all or this that's the face you have.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, wait, this is actually a good segue because I've
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  Speaker 2: been wanting to ask you about this because I think
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  Speaker 2: it's a fascinating topic. And since you're not you're not.
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  Speaker 2: I know you're open to talking about this because I
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  Speaker 2: saw it during your show.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the streets here.
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  Speaker 2: In the streets. Yes, yes, Actually, you know what now
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  Speaker 2: that I think about it, considering what I was warning
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  Speaker 2: you not to do, maybe you aren't wholesome what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Aded you gave me the warning don't.
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  Speaker 2: Go over this, and he didn't listen to me. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, that's crazy, joy and then went straight there
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  Speaker 2: and went straight there. I like to go to the
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  Speaker 2: hood in every city I go to now Tony. That's okay.
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  Speaker 2: If we're going to tell the story, are you going
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  Speaker 2: to tell the whole story? So you were just going
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  Speaker 2: to the hood, and you were just going to We was.
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  Speaker 1: Going to the strip club in the hood, as you
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  Speaker 1: called it, and that's where we went.
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  Speaker 2: Marcus, you're from the city of Miami. I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: tell you after this is over, where he went at
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  Speaker 2: like two in the morning, it might have been one
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  Speaker 2: forty five. It was past wholesome hours actually, talking out
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  Speaker 2: of it, you're not wholesome at all. Can we say there? No,
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  Speaker 2: it was. It was not an area I would I
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  Speaker 2: obviously recommend anyone not from the city of Miami go
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  Speaker 2: to it.
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  Speaker 1: Two o'clock look mad regular over there though, And then
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  Speaker 1: there was small, the venue was small.
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  Speaker 2: It was cool. You know what I'm saying, This is
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  Speaker 2: what we do, Okay, never bride scratch the wholes of
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna take that out. Yeah, you talked about having
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  Speaker 2: a vasectomy, and I feel like you've talked about this
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  Speaker 2: pretty openly before. And I think it's an interesting topic
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  Speaker 2: because generally it is placed on women to carry the
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  Speaker 2: burden of birds control and the sectams have I mean,
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  Speaker 2: at least from from my perspective. I don't like to
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  Speaker 2: speak on men's business, but from the conversations that I
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  Speaker 2: have observed and having it has a bit of a
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  Speaker 2: taboo to it, a stereotype. So like walk U from
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  Speaker 2: the beginning of it, what was like step one of
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  Speaker 2: you like even thinking about doing it?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So you know I've had some fumbles in my
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  Speaker 1: life in terms of pregnancies.
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  Speaker 2: Meaning you had unplanned pregnancies.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, okay, So with that, he's like, you know, because
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  Speaker 1: I know we don't like to take the blame for
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  Speaker 1: getting a woman pregnant.
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  Speaker 2: But come on, we're the shooters.
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  Speaker 1: You do participate in it and shot We shot the
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  Speaker 1: club up, so you know, without that, hey, we wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be in this situation.
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  Speaker 2: You do buy our significant role in the creation.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so you got to own that first of all.
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  Speaker 1: And so then you start thinking about like the birth
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  Speaker 1: control side effects that women go through.
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  Speaker 2: It's always decided men don't men don't give a fuck
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  Speaker 2: about that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so, but I'll be thinking about it.
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  Speaker 2: So you, because you're wholesome, think about not wholesome though,
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  Speaker 2: I just be thinking about that, all right.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the streets thinking about that with a cigarette
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  Speaker 1: in my hand, eyepatch, scarf my face, and a gun.
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  Speaker 2: Thinking about what women's body.
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  Speaker 1: Think about's bodies. But they go through the control with
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  Speaker 1: the pistol and the liquor.
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  Speaker 2: Body of course, you know, on the corner.
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  Speaker 1: So all the side effects, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: And then it's just like then you start to do
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  Speaker 1: research on vasseectomies and it's like the side effects are
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  Speaker 1: very limited, if any.
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  Speaker 2: So I was just like, you know what, I'm the
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  Speaker 2: one shooting the club up, you know, I don't want
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  Speaker 2: any more children, So let.
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  Speaker 1: Me just get my balls clipped, and then you going there,
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  Speaker 1: you you you.
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  Speaker 2: Get okay, but all right, hold on, hold on, hold on,
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  Speaker 2: because I feel like this is part of the reason
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  Speaker 2: why more men don't do this, because of the way
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  Speaker 2: that you're describing it. What what is that?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Selling the good getting your balls clips?
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  Speaker 1: It's not a balls clip. My balls are still very
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  Speaker 1: much around.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: They just going there and they pretty much they rewire
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  Speaker 1: the circuitry down there, still up still way. They don't
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  Speaker 1: put you to sleep, and I'm the area. I felt
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  Speaker 1: a slight tug, you know, I'm just watching them down
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  Speaker 1: there doing stuff, grabbing the stuff. And then were you nervous, yes,
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  Speaker 1: anything medically I'm nervous every time, every single time.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but this is like this is a specific thing, yes,
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  Speaker 2: like can there what are the side effects that can
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  Speaker 2: things go wrong? Not?
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  Speaker 1: To my knowledge, they didn't warn me of any like
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  Speaker 1: side effects of what could go wrong.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't ask.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, so what, so what did the
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: side effects? He was like, it'll be smooth sailing that
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: you have to come back and make sure that you are.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Now shooting blanks essentially.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: So I didn't get to do that because you know,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: I lost my son shortly after that, so I was
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: never able to go back and re up. But I've
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: been active since then, shortly thereafter.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: So you don't really have confirmation that this is all
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: work still, No, not medically confirmed, but you know, but
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: in practice.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was in a relationship at that time,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: so you know, we were active and you know, everything
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: was fine. So I was like, all right, I guess
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: uh it did work.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: What was the downtime?
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, so after it was it was going one day.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Going there probably took maybe forty five minutes. They tell
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: you put frozen vegetables on it. Then you get the
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: community of other men reaching out to you. Hey, domb man,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: welcome to the club. They in the bushes. I don't
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: know why I see you out there, and hey man,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: get you the green peace. The green peas are the
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: best ones to put on your balls, man.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: And so this is like, okay, well, this is this
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: is what we do right here. Is it your like,
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: is it your balls that hurt? Yeah?
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: So so they made two incisions on each side, and
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: so they go in there and they rewire and then
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: they fuse it backshut. And so you have two incisions
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: on east side, and so it's just a natural healing
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: of like a scar.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: And so do you have to like have inactive time.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: They didn't really, they didn't really push for that. I
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: naturally was just like, you know, get.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Off me until, yeah, until you feel better, until I'm
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: fully healed down there.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: There wasn't a lot of pain. I don't even remember
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: taking like medicine for it. I just kept the frozen
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: vegetables on there. I was monitoring the visuals of it
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: make sure it wasn't all toxic.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Avenger now no funny business, yeah exactly.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: And then healed up quite nicely. I don't even know
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: what the scars are now. Yeah, this is very personal.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: We talked about my balls, but it was smooth, though,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: it was smooth.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, right, okay, But I'm not just randomly asking
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: you about your balls, Tony, like you talked about this
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: during your self. Sure, I don't want to be accused
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: of this. We can talk colon as well. I think
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: we should talk. I think more men should feel comfortable,
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: actually black men, in taking care of themselves in preventative
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: preventative measures.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Gets your bootyhole looked in.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: See, but you're not. You're not. You're doing it too aggressive.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: All you're like, get your balls clips, get your booty
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: hoole examined, like bootyhole looked in. That's what's going on now.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: We can't save the This is why we can't save
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: the planet because scientists were like global warming and everyone
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: was like, what the fuck does that mean? And then
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: nobody you know, is going to get colonoscopies because you're
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: ranting about bootyhole, get your bootyhood. But that's what it is.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: We grow, are we not grown? We are grown. But
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: there's like a more there's a more comfortable way of
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: like like I'm gonna have to start getting mammograms.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Soon, okay, and your move smashed.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not looking like I'm dreading it. Yeah I
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: haven't yet, No, no, but I'm going to. They usually
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: generally recommend you start at forty. My doctors hasn't hasn't
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: recommended it for me.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I always saying earlier than they say.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with that too, but like I don't. I
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: haven't had it done, and I'm not looking forward to
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: having my boob smashed into a pancake. Also, I know
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: it hurts, so that's the thing.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because at least with the Kolonosky, there was no pain.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I was out of here. So another thing, fella is
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: there's no there's no pain, like you know. The hardest
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: part is the prep. You got to drink the solution.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: You got to clean yourself out. They want you to
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: pee out your booty hole. That's what they want. They
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: want it clear.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: My bad, My bad.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm trying to come on, I'm a bracist.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: So they want you peeing out your booty They want
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: it clear because I had mishats because I was telling them.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: I was like, it's not really clear yet. It's like,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: we can't go in there until it's clear.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: So I had clear what like clear fluid.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: They wanted a clear fluid coming out the booty hole.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: So I had to I had to do the third
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: time before they finally oh no.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: You had to drink that shit three times.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, and the third the third time. For the third time,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: I had.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: To drink two of the things and do two days
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: and stuff. And they're like ghost right, yeah, pretty much. Yeah, Yeah,
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: I can't eat, I'll be I'm always hungry and you're
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: vegan or vegetarian. I'm vegetarian one hundred percent mostly vegan
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: mostly so you don't eat fish or anything. How long
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: have you been vegetarian? About since? Uh, it's been eight years.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Do you ever miss Do you ever miss meat? Pause?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Not really honestly, Like occasionally, like if I go in
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: a place and I smell like fried fish, I'll be like, man,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: some good times, and then I just keep it moving.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: What are you one of the vegetarians that like pushes
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: that type of food on people that don't eat it? Like,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: why did you become vegetarian?
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I feel sorry for animals, Like I always wanted to
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: do it, but I always felt like but I was
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: in the streets when I said it. I was like, man,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: I feel sorry for these animals out here. I had
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: a pistol in my hand and it chainedaw.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Like, so you're concerned about women's health and animals.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: But that's not wholesome. I'll be cussing. I said, booty
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: hole balls, get your boob smashed.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, So you feel bad for animals.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: I feel bad for animals. So that's always been a
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: thing with me. But I was always like, I need chicken.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I need, you know, beef, I can't give it up.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: And so.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: I gave up pork in ninety one because I was
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: going to convert to Islam. But then I built out
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: on that and so I was like, man, is a girl.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I know a friend of mine named Meg Scoop from
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: All Death, and she was like she was always doing something.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: She was always like.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I was like, Meg, what you doing right now? She's like,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not eating meat until Valentine's Day And this was
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: January twenty seventeen. I was like, I'll do it with you,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: and then I never went back.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: I feel like I would. I mean I have no desire,
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: but I feel like I would not be able to
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: do it. Why. Well, because I like meat so balls?
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, well you could paws for me?
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: No pause, unpossible. Yeah, But I mean I do get.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I get if you have, like like the caring for
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: animals things. Man, you don't like food. I don't like food.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: What do you mean? I don't like food? I had
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: three tacos today that I made for myself just because
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: I felt like having tacos. You have proof of it
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: to my stomach. Man, watch out, joy, don't be eating
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: What do you mean I don't eat.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: You don't be eating, but i'd be like, what you eat, Joe,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I just had some juice.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Well, look, in the last six months, I've had some
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: days where food has not been the most appealing to me.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: I've had a rough go. I don't know if you
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: know this or not. So that's probably why maybe you
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: came on about yeah, I love food.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Because you're in a bad error. You're saying because there
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: has been more than just days.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: No, yes, there are some times. Well, look like you
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: feel a little sad. You don't eat? I don't. I
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: don't know you do you? Are you a comfort eater?
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I've eaten through sadness.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: You're like, I'll have seventeen pineapples.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Nothing can stop my appetite.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Not yet, Okay, So what is your what is your
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: favorite I'm kind of making fun of you, but like,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: what is your favorite food?
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I love tacos. I love uh I used to love
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: street tacos.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: So do you eat? Like, what are those things like jackfruit?
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I don't really be doing a lot of jackfruit tacos.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: They're cool, but like, I'm not passionate about it. So
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: since I don't do a lot of the impossible meats
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: and the beyond meats and stuff like that. I kind
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: of just I don't eat as many tacos as I
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: used to.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Oh, so what do you do for.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Like salt, like a savory dish?
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do like a lot of tofu.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Tofoo is what I mainly eat that gives me that
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: like I guess, meaty vibe or whatever. So it's mainly
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: that mushrooms. A lot mushrooms. They can be There's so
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: much variety the way you can prepare mushrooms. It's a
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: friend of mine named Ice. His mom makes these amazing
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: like mushroom burgers for me, but she won't give me
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the recipe. I'd be like, tell your mom wants some
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: water because she give me the recipes. She's like, no,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: but she can make you some. But those are fire.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Those are fire. But I love breakfast. Breakfast is my
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: my goat though. Waffles, pancakes, French toasts, that's biscuitsscits, bilskits
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: with the al in there.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: I love it. Why didn't you convert to Islam?
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Because I was like, so my oldest brother converted and
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: then so I was around him and I was like, hey,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I can give up. Poor too, and I was a
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: teen at this time, so I was like, and I
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: was just watching the lifestyle and I was like, all
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: kind of extreme because they was on the extreme side
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: at first. It's like, so all white people are the
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: devil and he was like yeah, And I was like,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know what about grandmother. Grandmother was white woman,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: It's like everybody. And I was like, well, mom's half white,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: is well she half to I was like, all right, man,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I need to chill out. So it was that going on.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: So I was just like whoa. But then you know,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: then when you start expanding into Islam proper, like the
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Malcolm XX experience, you find out that you know, it's
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: way more than that. It encompasses everybody. So I was like, Okay,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I can get with this. And then it was the
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: praying five times a day, the rituals, and I was
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: just like I couldn't keep up.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: And then I just kind of faded out. Are you
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: a religious person?
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: No, because I don't trust people, and religion is people.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: So I believe in God one hundred percent, but religion,
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: I got the side out every time.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get I get in a lot of trouble
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: for my I'm sure you've seen my opinions are religion.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: But I agree with you. I think when people try
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: to push back on me on it, I think it's
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: the fundamental of anything, right, Like you have an idea
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: that's meant for good. Yeah, and then human gets humans
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: get involved, and then then they suck it up.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Every time, one thousand percent of the time they gonna
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: suck it up. They're gonna start putting in their little
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: ulterior motives, what they want, how they wanted to be editing,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: let's change this, let's do the old and the new.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: It's just so I'll just be like, so, you're you're
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: a spiritual person. Yes, what did you grow up as?
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: We grew up as a Christians, so especially my dad,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: he was going to church every Sunday, Methodist church, so
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: we were in church every Sunday. And I was just like, man,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: it's boring in here. And then we went to vacation
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Bible school and everything that was fun, but it just
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: never I never got real passionate about it. It just
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: felt more like we gotta go to church. The stories
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: were cool, you know what I'm saying. Then I saw
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: the Prince of Egypt and I was like, yo, this
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: is Fire, and I was like, this is dope.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: I love Prince of Egypt. What a great movie. Yeah.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: I was listening to deliver Us earlier today while I
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: was planning my house. Ye banger, it's so good man,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: it's tragic.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: They made it tragic the way they presented that story.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: It's a great story. I love the.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Story and so and the music was incredible.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: So it's a really underrated film. Yeah, for sure, I'm
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: sure I did movies. I'm not you know, I'm not
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: a big crier. Well, no, I think I just have
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: a I have a lot of issues with emotions. I
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: don't like experiencing them, unless at least not in fullness.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: You want to be an android kind of that that
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: was possible, I would probably opt for that. Be just
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: weird science over there, well, because I think that I
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: think I have the potential to. Well, first of all,
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: I'm a very dark person, so experiencing certain emotions is
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: very painful for me, and so my preference is to
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: just not dabble in things that will make me experience
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: those and that's just not how life works. So it's
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: just a little easier to just kind of, you know,
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: kind of like rock skip over the emotions.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: What's your favorite emotion? The experience?
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: My favorite emotion. We're most comfortable in the emotion I
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: mean comfortable in I don't know, but like it is
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: feeling peaceful and emotion like serenity. Yeah, that's what I
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: hope for.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: That's what I strive for as well.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't. I saw an interview the other day and
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: the man was talking about being happy and he was like,
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I don't try to be happy. I try to have peace,
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: And that is what I hope for, very rarely achieve
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: because happiness, to me is like all emotions are temporary, yeah,
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: for sure, and we like to emphasize the bad emotions
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: more and sort of think that when we're in a
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: bad state that that's going to be longer than in
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: a happy state. But I think peace is something that
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: can move you through all emotions.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like once you come down from each
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: of those emotions, you find that little peaceful pocket before
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: the next emotion.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: Right pulls up, Like where do you land? Yeah exactly.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: You seem like a big emotor though.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah I wasn't always like this, but yet. Actually, so
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: when I was a kid, I was like a crier
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: in terms of angry. Okay, I'd be crying like I
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: would fight you, tears in my eyes, like mid beat down.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: And then and then I remember watching the Fox and Hound,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: the Disney cartoon.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: It's crazy. Someone brought that up to me the other day.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Have you seen it? Yeah, I mean I haven't seen
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: it in a long time, but yeah, that's just wild.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: So Foxinghound, Foxing Houn first movie that tore me up.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: So I was crying, and I'm the youngest of three boys.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: So they just roasted me questions, they cried, I was
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I could help it.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: And so.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I was just like, all right, man, I can't be
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: going through this. So I locked away the emotions, those emotions,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I was still crying if
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I got mad, if I'm fighting or whatever, but like
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: as far as movie watching, I was like, man, I'm
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: tucking that back. And so I was taking all kind
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: of sad movies on the chest. I'm just like, I'm
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: not crying. Boys in the Hood, the Lion King, I
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: just ate them up. I made it through that. I
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: don't know how I did it. Interesting now I can't
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: even fathom the move faster seen. But I was just like, man,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: you know, listen. But then when I became a father,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: that lifted and I started crying again and just becoming
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: but let me, let me, let me rewind again. And
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: so we grew up in the household. We weren't like
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: lovey dovey in terms of the emotions. We weren't like
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I love you, I love you too, hugs and stuff
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: like that. So that wasn't how we were at that time.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Because I remember when I told my mom I loved
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: her for the first time where I could really know
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: what I was saying. It was a big deal for
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: me to say it, you know, and I was just like, oh,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: that was work. But I loved my mom like Crazyah,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: that's why I even said it. And then I was
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: just like But then as we got older, we started
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: being more expressive in that regard.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: So well, I feel like the generation before us, unless
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: you really grew up in a house that was like
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: full of love. Yeah, we just like weren't. We weren't
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: doing that. We weren't doing like, of course we love you,
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: We're taking care of like you have a roof over
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: your head, Why do you need to hear it? It's
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: big love right there. And so yeah, we just didn't
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: do it, and that is not actually respectfully love.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the roof over there. Yeah, we definitely need
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: more than.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: That, like the fucking bare minimum one have us. If
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: you can't do that, that's senses.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: That's the movie Fences. I put a roof over your head,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: don't it.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah boom so, And it's tough to argue with at
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: the time, Oh yeah, because you are definitely not capable
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: of housing yourself.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: It was like, I guess he do love me, man,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: I got a roof over my head. I got one outfit,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: you know. So then when I became a father, it
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: was love central.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: So you you are very you encourage your kids to be.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Yes for sure, but not forcing it, like not like saying.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: You got to make sure you say I love you.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: It was just natural, like every time we part ways,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: I love you, I love you too, just a natural
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: knee jerk reaction. Because I noticed what your kids do
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: most of all is watch their parents.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: You can say.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Whatever you like, be like this and this, like yeah,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: but they look at you more. And so you know,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: my sons were always just watching me more so than anything.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: And so you know, when you find out from other
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: people that are around your children.
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: Like Yo, Seraine was a gentleman. He opened the door
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: for me. You know what I'm saying. It's like it
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: was paying attention, you.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: Know, and so so hopefully that just you know, pushed
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: into my sons that you know, express love. Since here
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: he has a girlfriend, you know, he'd be openly loving
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: on her.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: So I'd be like, all right, okay, his wholesome father.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: But it's not wholesome. Though I was in the street,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: though I had a cigar chainsaw, I had a sword,
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: flaming sword in the backslash.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, How do you how do
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: you decide what personal things you're going to say in
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: your sets?
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Usually I just talk about my life, So I just
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: go up there and just start talking. That's how I
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: develop a new set. So it's like when I do
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: my Tony Baker and Friends show. That was like a
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: monthly thing. I was riding on stage, so I would
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: just go up there, this happened to me, this, this, this, this,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: and whatever it sticks, I'm like, all right, I can
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: work with this developed that Because I don't like to
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: sit and write the jokes.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: I like to just get it. You just freestyle it.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: I freestyl it at first, and then I do it again.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I memorize so it'd be like, all right, that work,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: that hit, and then I write down bullet points, you know,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: being scared of being in the house by myself, you
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, not being found dead on the
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: soft like you know, these these different things, these different things.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: And then I'm memorized and I'm always adding and.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: Change because I forgot about that bit you out that
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: how are you gonna of course you're gonna like if
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: you were found dead, you would be found on the soft, but.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be naked on the soft.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: So you just like, never naked.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: I'm really naked. I take a shower.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: I am always naked. I get my clothes off the
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: second I'm in my house. If you would be naked, right,
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: I mean I don't. I'm not looking at me. I'm
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: not like running in the house. I just don't, like,
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: how do you get us all the time? How do
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: you get comfortable in the nudity though? Because I'm uncomfortable.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Why so like you're just in your house fully clothed.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Well, you know, I got on like hoop shorts, you know,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: the tank top to the shoulders, elbows.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: I meant, at best I have I'll have underwear on. Okay,
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: what I mean what the house is the temperature I
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: wanted to be and it's my home and it's you
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: and it's just you.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know, man like, uh, well, i'll tell you
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: an origin store.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: Well if you so you wear all these clothes in
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: case something, they don't come and find you naked. If
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: they find me, I'm likely naked.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: If if if I drop dead because I live alone, Okay,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: they're gonna do a welfare check, they're gonna pull up
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: and be.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: Like this fully closed man.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, find me like that because if you find me,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: but you're gonna all go grab the get the covert
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: you got to cover him up or whatever.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: And you're just worried about being booty up on the floor.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Well not really.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: It's more than that, Like I'm naturally uncomfortable naked, and
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: I think I think that stems from I used to
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: get roasted for my size when I was younger. That was,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: you know, I was a big kid, and so you know,
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: kids was brutal in Chicago. They was just like you
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: got roasted for everything. So I was either fighting or
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: roasting back, but on the underneath, you're feeling bad about yourself,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: and so I would just be uncomfortable shirtless for the longest, Like,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: well into my teens, I'm in the pool with a
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: shirt on, chilling.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we were, We were bad to each other, yeah,
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: when we were young, because the being in the pool
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: with the shirt thing was a surefire a notice that
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: you did not want to be seen in the pool.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: But it was tough for everybody, Like I was really skinny.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: I mean if you read my comments, then you you
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: already know that people have a lot of opinions about
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: my body anyway. Still, but yeah, like I would get
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: absolutely cooked for being skinny, so win. Yeah, but I
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: mean at some point, I mean, I guess it's like
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: it's different because in society it's more accepted to be
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: skinny than it is to be to be overweight. So
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: it's not it's not exactly the same, right, So you know,
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: I obviously respect that, not speaking from a complete place
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: of lack of awareness, but you know, I think everybody
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: has like opinions about their bodies. But for me, I'm
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: just like just more comfortable, like nobody's seeing me. I'm
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: not like walking around like, look how look how these
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: workouts are helping? Right, Like I was. I was doing
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: this when I wasn't feeling good about my body too. Right.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: See that's that's what I need to get to it.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I never got to that comfortable naked place.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: Do you So you sleep in pajamas? Yeah? Every night?
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Joy, every night I'm in the thes.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: Like a full well hold on, not the fool like
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: you like a set like this? I call this a
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: fancy fancy my going out pajamas, right, because this is
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: like these are this is like a real outfit, but
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: they're kind of also pajamas. They're not really but.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: You could definitely come downstairs and open some gifts in
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: that outfit.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: But when I say pajamas, like, you're not you don't
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: have like a set.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: No, I don't like pajama sets, all right. I'm from
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: the streets. Pajama say it's a wholesome.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: All right? Never that so you are, but you are
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: sleeping in like.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: I got on whose shore is to say? Chicago socks?
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Sometimes it socks socks. Sometimes there's so many clothes
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: to sleep And don't you get hot?
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I mean I'm high regardless, man, that little the little
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: flimsy ankle size ain't gonna make a difference.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: Barefoot, I'm so much cooler your boxers on under the shorts. Yes,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: I always got draws on. Always give five pieces of
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: clothing on one to three, three and then all you
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: count each individual sock, yeah, the pair? Okay, fine, all right.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: I just disagree with this lifestyle.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: But I've never I've never been a comfortable naked, even sexually.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I'll get naked for the sex we be like, man,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: that's a good time. I gotta get dressed immediately.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: You know what a lot of men do that. A
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: lot of men are uncomfortable, Like they won't get dressed immediately,
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: but they're they're not comfortable being out of their boxers,
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: which I think is really strange, as obsessed as men
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: are with their activities, like they don't really ever want
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: to have it out. But it's probably the soft thing.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, we don't want to be on the soft chilling.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: No man, no man wants to be seen on the soft.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not gonna argue with you. Dicks are disgusting.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: They were a mistake and that's why God made women.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: But I just think it's a little ironic because this
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: like society's obsession with for sure with it, and then
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: you guys are very shy about it.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: Absolutely one thousand percent. Like when you look at the
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: statues of David, David was on.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: The soft his balls was killing.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: This is shaft, the balls was the balls had top
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: building and the shaft was just like in featuring shaft
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: And so you walking.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Around the greatest it is considered one of the greatest
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: species of art. But when you look at that crotch, well,
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: I mean the crotches. There's a lot of sculpted crotches
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: that are nothing to write home about. Yeah, that's you know,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: we don't want to be you know what. You don't
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: want to be consideredation with David. Absolutely not. You know.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: One of my favorite insults is, though, since you're mentioning this,
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: and I can't wait to say this to someone in
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: real life, it's going to be uh but telling them
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: that they pissed on their balls in the morning is
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: going to be a tremendous line when I get to
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: drop that, I can wait.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: You're gonna piss on your balls in the morning, and
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: that's what David was doing in the statue.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Have to argue, but I just do. I think that
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: you guys need to get more comfortable with your bodies.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I can't argue with that. I'm definitely uncomfortable with my
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: body hands down for sure.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: You know, I think I get talk to you about
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: this a lot, because every time I post a workout video,
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: there are hundreds or maybe even thousands of men that
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: have something to say about an ass that will never
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: get anywhere near But and look, I I won't pretend
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: that over the years and even you know, it's still
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: in moments that I don't have insecurities about my body.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: I think we all do. We're all very critical of ourselves.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: We look at ourselves all day if we're front facing
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: or constantly watching like videos of ourselves and taking pictures,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: and like, we almost look at ourselves so much that
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: we become we develop an extra version of body dysmorphia.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Like I'll do. I'll take a picture like, oh, it's
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: an awful picture, and then go back and look at
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: it in two months, like, oh, fucking great in this picture. Yeah.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know what's wrong with me, but I do
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: think I'm reaching a place where maybe it's because I'm
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: getting older. I just don't. I don't care.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, good, that's the older place.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: Like you're gonna get whatever body I feel like giving you.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's where I want to be, right where you at.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how to help you get there. Yeah,
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: I want that, But I think it's just I just
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: decided that though.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, when I don't, I mean maybe like a not
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: too long ago.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: But it's just like you're never going to please everybody
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: with your aesthetic. No, right, like there are there's just
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: people that are always going to think I have an
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: ugly body, and you know I don't. I don't fuck
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: those people. I don't care what they think. And they're
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: still doing me the favor of giving me engagement on
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: my page, which I appreciate it. Yeah, to keep running
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: that back, keep talking. All comments count the same, absolutely.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: But you know what it is or so than that,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: it's more so for me, it's it's not even about
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: the outside. It's really me for some reason. Is it's
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: me that it feels like I'm not feeling this is
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: there to compliment me a lot when they see me,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you know, they be like, you look great. I'd be like, man,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: watch out, man, you're just trying to get some so I.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: Just brush it off. What are they trying to get?
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: You're trying to get through you know, m yeah.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: Is there a different well, what is there a different
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: way they should go about trying to get that?
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: But it's like, even though they complimented me, I'm still
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: just like yeah, but you know it's something I feeling this.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: Wait. Wait, there's like two different paths we have to
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: go down here. One, you don't think that women should
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: compliment you if they're trying to get with you.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: No, no, I've never said that. What I do is
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: I brush off the compliment because I'm still like knocking myself.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: Also, oh okay, I'm so confused. Are women not supposed
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: to try to get with you? Yeah? They can, So
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: what should they do if they shouldn't? They can't compliment
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: how you look.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: I'll never tell them don't compliment me, okay, But what
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: it is is like if I say, man, I'm trying
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: to get rid of these love handles, you look fine
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: to me, I'll be like, man, watch y'all.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: That's what I dismissed. What they say, Well, I will
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: tell you, like, there's a large contingency of women myself included.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: You know, I don't like at you know, you need
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: a little oh y'all like that, Yeah, okay, little girth,
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: you know, little something, the handles, anything, anything. I just
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: like a perfectly sculpted man, Like I know what you
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: have to do to maintain that. I don't want to
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: participate in that one and two. Like I'm a cuddler,
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: so I want to like, you know, you want to
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: be up in the folds. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: y'all say. No, it's very true, it's very true. I
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: can't there's something like very manly about like man ship,
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: like the man bod thing. Some people find it controversial
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: because women are expected to like look perfect. There's no
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: such thing as like a mom mod like that is
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: not perpetuate in society as a positive thing. So it's
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: like another loophole for men to like not take care
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: of themselves and get away with ship. But there is
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: also something too like a man. So I don't think
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: they're lying to you. You know what. I also don't
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: think you have love handles. But that's a whole other conversation. Okay, yeah,
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: telling hands. But what it is I've never well, I mean,
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: I'll clearly never see naked. I won't be able to
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: confirm this if anyone has ever seen Tony naked naked?
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: Do you do like you leave the pants on and
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: like pull through time you enjoy your So okay, they
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: wanted to see I'll be serious.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: But I've always done well with women. Okay, even when
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: I was at two seventy two, my weight was two
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: seventy two, I still had a woman. So it was
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: just like, so I've never really struggled in that department
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: once I you know, once I got older, it's just
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: me because the women, the women have always given me attention,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: but it's it's always been me.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's like a psychological thing then, because striving
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: for perfection can be exhausting, and at some point I
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: think you have to just decide to and not even
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: just really like love your body. For me, it was
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: also like I'm healthy, so I don't want to take
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: that for granted in constantly not just like physically abusing
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: my body, but also mentally like telling myself that my
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: body isn't good enough, like my body is keeping me
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: alive and like here, so whether it is the perfect
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: version of what people want or even what I want
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: like it's it served me really well. And you know,
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: I don't like to get super philosophical about things, but
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: I do think at some point you manifest things and
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: you know you've got to like can't be like and
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: I'm hard on myself. So I I just had to
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: pick something that I wasn't going to be hard on
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: myself about.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, and that worked. Once you made that decision, it
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: was like, all right.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's not I'm not saying like every
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: time I look in the mirror, I'm like, yeah, that's
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: that's that's exactly what I want. But it's it works
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: for me, and as somebody who like constantly gets picked
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: apart physically, whether you like pay attention to that or
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: feed into that or not, it pours over into you eventually,
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: like it is just a thing. And then you know,
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: obviously we recently talked about, you know, the stupid fucking
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: Sydney Sweeney thing and and all that, and then there's
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: this there's just this movement of a plastic being almost
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: better for women. So you know, I don't I think
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: people should do whatever they want with their bodies holistically,
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: like start to finish, but if it's constantly something that
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: is like weighing on you. It's almost for me, it
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: was just like a decision.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, maybe I just need to make the decision. I'm like, enough, Tom,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: did you say it out loud? Did you verbally say?
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: All right? Joy? It is? Do you talk to yourself
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: every day, all day really constantly all day long? Yeah?
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: I have whole conversations. I walk through the whole like
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: a future conversation, like I know I'm going to see someone.
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I play the characters. Well yeah, yeah, full lunatic. Wow. Okay, yeah,
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: you don't talk to yourself but not like not like
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: the full but wow, like I do the same thing.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: You don't play that other character. No, I just be like, man,
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: why did I do that?
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: It's like stuff like that, like quick comments here and there,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: but the fool.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: Like you don't know a big conversation is coming up
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: that you're going to have to have and you don't
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: like I do that mentally. Okay, you don't say it
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: out loud for you. Yeah, strategy, I mean sometimes the
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: backfires because sometimes you use all your good ship on yourself.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: Oh, but you don't remember to use it to pull
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: it back up.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: Because you already heard George's dying. Yeah, like you got it.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: You can't use all use all your material on yourself.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: I'm a big shower talker, Like I get a lot
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: of I get a lot of thinking done in the shower.
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you something that's the best thought process is
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: the shower. I think there's so much material in there,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: just my my thoughts in the shower.
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: Just everything. I think it's I think it's something about
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: like the solidarity, then the nudity, naked. You know, you
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: got to be naked. I don't know. Maybe Tony doesn't.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: He doesn't want to be on the soft He slips
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: in the shower. It's gonna be bad news. Got to
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: come get in. Soap up the boxers. It's a double watch.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: You're in there in your swim trunk. Yes, with the
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: snork and the and the and the fans full it is.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: It's a good place. It's a good place to think though.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: It is my best thought. Okay, here's here's the question.
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: Because I was having this conversation with my girlfriend a
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: few weeks ago, because we were we were traveling together.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: In the shower in our room was not getting hot enough.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: And I am a lobster shower woman, thank you. I
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: tried to explain this to her. She was like, why
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: are we like this? I was like, I don't. I mean,
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: I want to melt the skin off my body. It's
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: not I don't understand how you don't do that, Like
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: how do you feel clean in a lukewarm shower? You're
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: just in there with lukewarm water, Like, yes, crazy, y'all
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: skin off. Yes, I want to be a different I
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: want to be read yes exactly. Yes. I want the
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: whole entire bathroom mirrors to be steamed up and needs
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: a good fifteen minutes to get like you can even bullsham.
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: Somebody's in there through the steam. Can't find me Why.
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I just I really like it as
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: hot as humanly possible. I can't do it. Yeah, So
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: I was explaining to her because yeah, I was like,
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: I was like, we we are just different than men,
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: like men do not like I think. Also, because you
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: guys sweat more so you don't shower, right, you do
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: get sweat after the shower. Yeah, well it sucks for
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: you because you immediately have to get watch listen, I
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: can be naked for a few minutes to cool down
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: after my lobsters shower. But it's true though, like you you,
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: you guys hold heat, So if you have a super
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: hot shower, it's not it's not it's not a good deal.
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't really like showering with people
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: either though. Okay, that's fair. Yeah, the older I've gotten,
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: the less interested I am, like I used to be, like, okay,
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: like I'll pretend to be cute, like I enjoy this. Hey,
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: I never enjoyed it. Then, Oh it's the worst. Why
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: why did you do all this super formative? It's not good?
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: Who's it good for you? Like shower sex?
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, shower sex is different like showering so much showering.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: With someone either, Like this is my time, you got
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: the room.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: I really like scrubbing somebody. That's a good time for me, y'all.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: Don't get enjoyment out of that man washing woman's here,
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: scrubbles back hair. La.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good time. But the sex is awkward
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: as hell. Yeah, sex is awful.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: It's just you can slip and fall. It's just the positioning.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: It depends on what kind of shower you got. You
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: need a bench in, then you ain't got no bench.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: We're doing it, and then the bench is so unreliable,
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: Like I just I think it's such an it's cool
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: for like a little four play situation and like get
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: the juices just flowing. Fine, I mean I am so
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: against it, Like I'm I make it very clear, it's
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: not like this is going to be a very semiannual thing.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: But yeah, it's not. It's not for me. It's a lot,
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: it's a lot. I'm I'm also a capacorn. Like I don't.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: I just don't like a lot of things, you know,
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: but I do.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I do enjoy like the bathing of one another.
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: That's cool. Yeah I'm not mad at that. Yeah, but
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: that sex it's just too awkward. Also, you have to
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: be the same size, like I'm a short person. Ye yes, yeah.
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: And it's like it's just just creates a lot of
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: logistical issues. I mean, you want to talk about being
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: found dead, slip in the shower. I fell in the
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: shower recently. Oh my god, that's how I knew. I
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: was like I'm cooked, I'm fried, like I'm old now
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: like a full fall. Oh my god. It was a
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: spectacular fall and it was loud and I couldn't believe.
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: I was on a trip with a bunch of friends,
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: and I couldn't believe no one heard me. And I
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: could believe no one checked on me. I was in
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: the shower. I was falled up. I don't even know
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: how it happened. That's the crazy part is like I've
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: always been like, how do people fall in the shower?
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: Like how do you just how are you just standing?
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: And then a second later you're dead? And it happened
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: to me like I was in the shower and I
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: just like moved my foot one bit and then I
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, it's happening, and like I'm
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: pulling at things trying to stop myself from falling. I
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: pulled down the shower curtain. I pull it down. Of
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: course I fall. I'm in I'm like this shower, I'm
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: I was not supposed to get my hair wet. And
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: then the shower is on me. I'm on the floor.
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: I couldn't believe it. It just like it was like
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: someone pushed me. I could not believe I fell in
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: the shower like this. I hit my shoulder. This is
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: fucking cird, so bad. Do not recommend it? So yeah,
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: they came down. The whole rod came down everything my
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: shoulder and it was on top of me, and it
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: was in my face. It was so loud. I can't
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: mother's shower. Like forty five minutes later, I was like,
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: you guys are just gonna let me die in the shower,
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: So you stayed in another forty five minutes. I had
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: to finish showering, but I had to get out. I
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: had to get myself together. I had to put the
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: rod back up. That's some humble ress was humbling, pumbling.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: I've never sd it. You know, my mom always has
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: those weird sticky things that she puts in the shower.
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: They're so uncomfortable to stand on. Yeah, and I've never
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: understood it. And now I'm like, man, that ship's.
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: Going down, clutch because that's taking old people out out
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Like I was like, if I was not the very
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: tender age that I am right now.
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be dead. They could have found you on
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: the saw. Honestly, this trip cover up, Oh man, that
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: would have been. That's a tough way to go. That's
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: funny as hell, though, Oh my god, it's I don't
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: recommend it at.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: Mad humbling though, showering water in the face and the
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: water ain't gonna gonna cut you, no, slack no, and.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: The water was like, I'm not supposed to get my
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: hair wet. Man. Oh, it was so bad. That's fantastic.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: It was so bad. What do you have coming up?
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: What's what's what's what's new? What's happening? So?
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: Uh, we got the Ball Brothers tour coming. Me and
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: Kevin on stage. We're going on the road together. We
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: have a show called the Ball Brothers Show. We're on
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: stage simultaneously and it's very audience interactive.
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: You had a murderer on, huh, you had a murderer on.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: We did well well alleged alleged she went to jail
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: for a murder.
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: But she did get a prisoner jail with a prison
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: I think, But she didn't do we take you have
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: to say alleged after did you give me hear the
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: full story? It's complicate, it's layered. Okay, I'm cool with
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: singing legend, but it's layered. You did go. You did
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: distance yourself after you heard the thirteen years in prison.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: For sure, I disappeared because anybody from the streets, like
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: myself knows and when we're.
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: Talking real crime.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: When you're gritty like me and like non wholesome, when
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: people talk real crime, you disappear.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: Everybody knows. Okay, So Ball Brothers the streets as well.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: You know this.
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: You're from the streets, you got from the street side.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: I'm not claiming any of this.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: You looked like you did some crime.
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: I'm definitely not claiming not you don't.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: Have to claim it, but I see it. But you
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: shouldn't claim it. That's how real criminals do. You know
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Look at George zoom In. Just zoom
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: in right now. That's crime man, theft, extortion, murder, you
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: know what. I'm just all in there. But anyway, So
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: Ball Brothers Tour. We kick it off late September. We
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: go through late November, about sixteen cities, starting with Saint
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Louis and in Los Angeles.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: Oh you are doing Los Angeles. Yeah, that's gonna be
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: the last one. That's exciting.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll be at the Wiltern Theater in Los Angeles.
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be fun.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: We also got the Ball Brothers podcast. I have a
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: solo pop cast called Verbal Cardio, and I shot a
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: movie with Little Real this is a directorial debut.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: I got a role in that. So that's what I
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: got on the horizon. Exciting, yeah, exciting. Well, everyone go
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: check that out before we let you go. We're gonna
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: do We're trying to get this right. We're trying to
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: perfect this. It's it's rapid fire. Oh I love this.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: Now I'm going to do it with you. Okay, So
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: I love this stuff. We're gonna see, but I did it.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: I'm doing a terrible job keeping this rapid fire for
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: the streets. All right. What's the quality all of your
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: friends possessed? Yeah? What is the quality all of your
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: friends possess?
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: Good fathers?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: Ooh yeah, okay, I like that. Very aspirational. Okay, very aspirational.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: Has anyone ever made a joke about you that truly
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: hurt your feelings? Absolutely?
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: That's why I'm in this body state that I'm in.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: They call me cookie Head. They wrote a rap for
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: me called was cooking here and I like to eat.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: I live on the corner seventy fifth Street. I'm fat
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: as hell, and I don't care. I like to have
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: fun and get fresh air. That's what they wrote for
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: me to say about myself. It hurt.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna laugh because that hurt your feelings. Laugh though,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: but it hurt though. Yeah, obviously people hurt my feelings
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: all the time say horrible shit about me. Yeah. Best
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: advice you've been given in the business have fun on stage.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: I feel like that has carried me tremendously far because
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: it taught me to get more loose as I host,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: which has given me tremendous attributes as a comedian hosting
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: a show. I recommend every stand up comedian hosts some
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: type of comedy.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: Show for a while. That really gets the skill set up. Yeah.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: Best advice I've been given in the business is probably
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: to be overly prepared. Okay, that takes the nerves out
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: of things for me when I'm when I'm very, very
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: prepared for something, whether it's an interview or show or
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: anything like that. Panel But just feel better when I'm
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: overly prepared. Not really, only when I'm not prepared. If
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: something's happening that I'm not prepared for, if there's like
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: gonna be questions I don't I'm not gonna be able
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: to have follow ups for if I don't really know
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: who it is I'm interviewing and things like that that'll
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: make me nervous, but not or if it's like the
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: first time, like if it's the first time I'm doing
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: a new show or the first time I'm hosting something,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: I might be a little nervous, but it's not like
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: nervous in a bad way. It's like the anxiety you
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: have about caring about something. You know, what's the nervous
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: joy looking like like what's your nervous? I don't like
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: everybody like like I need a second, you know, I
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: have everybody asking me a bunch of questions and like that, Yeah,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: that I'll get. Could you tell what's a task or hobby?
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: You don't think people would associate with you liking the
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: task or hobby? Astronomy astronomy. I love astronomy, not astrology.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: Not astrology like a kid, I feel like that's mostly entertainment.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: It's fun. But astronomy, I'm a nut.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: Like stars and planets. Yes, I wouldn't. I wouldn't have
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: guessed that. I actually I was really into that as
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: a kid as well. A task people think I wouldn't
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: think of me liking. I don't like a lot of shit.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 2: The shows in the face zoom in zoom into what
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: would I think people that I like? I mean, I
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: think people are always surprised that I and I consider
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: this a hobby. I think a lot of people are
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: surprised that I am an extreme color. Yeah, that's very surprised. Said, yeah. People,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: people are not. They're very shocked by that because and
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: a lot of my friends, like when they're in serious relationships,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: are very adamant, like they don't want to be touched
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: and they sleep and I'm like, if you're in my
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: bed and you're not touching me, why are you? Why
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: are you here?
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: So when you when you cuddling, do you have the
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: serious joy Taylor face mid cuddle.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: Cause you No, I'm an angel baby doll. Yeah you
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: don't have the usual leg No, I'm a very very
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: soft girl, small individual pockets that are earned five many cuddles. No, no, no,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: it's all night, all night. Yes, I need to be smothered,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: like almost to death with the sawt face, Like if
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: you found out I was smothered to death. Okay, that
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: was true, that's true. It happened. It was an accident,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: but it happened all right. Last time you were caught
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: in a lie? Oh uh, that's time I was calling
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: a lie.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: I think it probably had something to do with somebody saying,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: did you get my text?
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: Man? I tried to hit you over by the show,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: and oh you know what I'm saying.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: It had to be something like that because I'm not
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: I'm not known for lyon these days, so it had
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: to be like the.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: One of those like the self awareness of adding the
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: currency to your yeah.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know, back in the day, were just lying.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: But now as a grown man, i'd.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: Be you don't find any value in lying, not in
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: my big age, not like to women.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: But just like what I lie about is maybe I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: didn't get your take. Okay, I didn't get it.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: Last time I was caught in a lie. Mm hmmm,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: probably like probably two weeks ago. I'll just be saying
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: ship sometimes and uh no. But but they knew I
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: was lying, and I was like, all right, I was lying.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: You're right, I was lying about that. I mean I
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: had said I was, I was not doing something that
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 2: I was doing, and I did that. I can't participate
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: in this, so this one is personal question only for you.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: Oh smam, undo your resect me or eat meat again.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: Undo the forsect me.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: Because I actually had like, uh, you know, when I
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: lost my oldest son, I actually had like a change
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: of heart on the prosect me a little bit, not
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: fully because I'm still you know, sealed up, but I.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: Was just like, am I done? You know what I mean?
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: Not to replace him, but it was just like I
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: wasn't as certain as I once was, and now it's
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: just like, I don't know, I'm.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: Forty eight, though people are having children at a much
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: older age.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: Now, i'd be robbed with the near on appaino with
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: the fresh kids eighty something.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, there's a little gap between where you are an eighty.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah facts, But so, you know, so I have thought about,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: like I might be able to get it rewired, but meat,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: I'm not going back.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: I'm done. Would you would you if you had a
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: partner that really wanted the kids? Would you do it
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: for a partner?
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: I thought about that, like I was just like, all right,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: you know, maybe I'll consider it, But I'm old man
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: to start from scratch.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: Fresh babies are as crazy.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: That's tough.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: Fresh babies is crazy. I recently have another fresh baby
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: in my life, my nephew Conrad. He's so brand new,
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: fresh and he is fresh. How old is the baby?
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: The baby is six days or something. Oh, super older fresh,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: he's super brand new.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah he's he is.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and he stayed in the oven for twelve extra days.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: Really yeah, so he's like already paying taxes. Oh wow, yeah. Yeah,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: he's over boy, nine pounds eleven ounces, twenty two inches. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: he's gonna be big. We make big children. The Taylor's
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: sweet beautiful. Your nephew is a big one? Which one?
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: They're all biggest legits. Yes, Mason is. Mason is okay,
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: so this is a big point of contention. But the
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  Speaker 2: thing is, I think my brother has shrunk, which he's
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  Speaker 2: also agreed to sixty six, but Mason's taller than him.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, well Mason must be six seven.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, they measure them now and they're like
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  Speaker 2: these super measurers, so they're saying Mason is six five.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like, well, Jason must have shrunk, but you
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  Speaker 2: shrink like you do shrink.
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  Speaker 1: I thought they fudged the numbers up in athletics. I
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  Speaker 1: thought they kind of is No.
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  Speaker 2: They're like very like they measure like down to like
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  Speaker 2: the super centimeter of your hands and stuff, like they're
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  Speaker 2: very serious. They don't let you do like the lifts
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  Speaker 2: and everything. So yeah, so Mason is allegedly six five wow,
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  Speaker 2: but yeah he's he's he's a big boy. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: shrink and I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Be You're gonna be four to seven. It's coming for you, Joey,
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  Speaker 1: it's coming.
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  Speaker 2: I know we're gonna be so small. It's crazy. I'm
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  Speaker 2: don't have to do like yoga stretches and stuff, so
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  Speaker 2: I don't I don't shrink too much. I know I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to be so little. I'm going to be the littlest,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: meanest old lady. Oh yeah, I can't wait falling in
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  Speaker 2: the show. I better not fall in the shower. That
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: was so bad. Just like the foot was up the thing,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: you know, the little thing that has like you put
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: like the soap on. Yeah, like the foot's on their shoulder.
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  Speaker 2: It's all fucked up. The curtain rod is on top
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  Speaker 2: of me. The water is pouring on my face. Did
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: you know for a second? Did you scramble up? Later?
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: I couldn't believe it happened. It was literally like someone
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: just came like a ghost came behind me and just pushing.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: There was no like you know, the and the cartoons
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: were They're like, who like that all that happens. It's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: It's a crazy experience. I hope it never happens to
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: you because it's very dangerous. But like I get it,
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  Speaker 2: like when people are like I've fallen and I can't
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: get up. Oh for sure, I'm like, oh, I need
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: LFE alert now.
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  Speaker 1: The shower is the serial killer for sure. It definitely
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: needs to be. All those crowds.
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  Speaker 2: I kind of wish there was a video of it.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I could boast it because I'm
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: like you, I'm naked in the shower, so I couldn't.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: Like it is a funny visual of you, like being
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: in the shower, in your in your trunks. I think
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 2: you should just release release the snake. Just just give
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: it a give it a try tonight, right, just walk
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: around the house with no pants for like two minutes
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  Speaker 2: and see how it feels. Two minutes. You got to
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  Speaker 2: ease into it, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Done, two minutes looking for stuff? Okay, so let's I
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: got to come out of the room. But once I
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: see the cats, I'm back in the room, man, because
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: they're gonna be looking at anything dangling and they're.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 2: Not going after it, but they're gonna look.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: They're gonna be like, what's this? You know, anything moving
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: like that? Cats are all in They're.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 2: Like, oh not, you're talking about how much it's moving.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy because it's moving completely derailed. This is a
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: good place to pause. It moves when you walk. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I leave you. I believe you. Okay, Tony oh man
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 2: mm hmm. Follow Follow Tony on social Thank you so
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: much for coming VI absolutely appreciate that and for being
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: for being very personal. I was wondering if you was
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: going to ask me. I was like, man, I want
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: to go hand me on man of course, Yes, gotta
• 1:11:20
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• 1:11:23
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  Speaker 2: It says we got an email this week. Well, I
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• 1:11:56
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• 1:11:59
  Speaker 2: I'm especially close to. She's gorgeous, meaningful to me, and
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: I suspect she might want to make a move real
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: while I'm attracted to her. I don't want a weekend
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 2: fling with someone I could see as a long term partner.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: Am I overthinking this? Or is it reasonable to be cautious?
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  Speaker 2: We love a self aware king, so we'll start with that.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: I think it is very reasonable to be cautious, and
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 2: in this scenario, I would suggest going slow on the
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: physical part of things if you are thinking that there
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 2: could be a long term attachment here. Now that doesn't
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: mean that if you move quickly that there won't be
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: a long term attachment. But in my experience, when you
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 2: want to develop real feelings and build a real future together,
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: especially if it's long distance, you want to establish a routine.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: Long distance relationships really require a lot of communication. They
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: require very specific boundaries. I might even call them rules
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: for how your relationship is going to work. When you're
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: going to communicate, what are you supposed to do to
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: make the other person feel comfortable. It just really requires
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: a lot from both parties in order to sustain it,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: and there has to be a rhythm of when you're
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: going to see each other and when you introduce sex
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: or being physical really early. It heightens the level of intensity, obviously,
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 2: and then it can create a real anxiety from one
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: of the parties or both with the parties because you've
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: now added in extra elements to what is already going
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: to be a stressful situation. Long term, long distance relationships
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: just require a lot. So I think you should communicate
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: with her early, not saying if she makes a move
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: that you should decline, but if you're already feeling this way,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: heed your caution and communicate to her that you like her,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 2: because it sounds like you're already really involved. I love this.
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